The definition of "excellent" is off. Being top in your class doesn't mean much if you're all thinking essentially the same ways. Competition breeds conformity and kills diversity.
That's plain wrong.. By the same line of thinking you could also say if everyone is fat, no-one is or if everyone is stupid, no-one is. But there are obviously intellectual standards that people can meet or not.. And if everyone meets them, it is a good thing.
I live in HK and don't want my kids to have the pressure so put them in international school. Unfortunately my mother in law was a local school teacher and she put so much expectation on my kids that my son mentioned once that he wants to kill himself. We're moving to Australia, away from the pressure and the bad grandmother.
I don't know if you are from Australia but I am sure that Australia has a huge proportion of Asians and they will not feel like an outsider even If they choose to socialize only with non-Asian people (which is impossible since Asian people in Australia are everywhere)
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@@Evakizzzzz ultimately when you see everyone in government being white , every australian ceo being white , every main character on TV being white you will feel foreign. When you think of an australian you think of a white person not an asian person.
What I mean is China has the highest suicide rate because of the pressure the homework causes them. Many Asian parents expect their child to have the best grades ever and even when their children get a score that’s even higher then they expected . They then say they could have gotten even better grades .Then the kids become severely depressed because they can’t spend any time to de stress and calm down that’s why I said her father expects her best not the best and helps her with the work and doesn’t just force her to do the work.
it took me by surprise as well, but the porter should have asked by are you forcing your daughter to live your dreams , just because he couldn't do piano does not means his daughter has to do it
At least these students understand why they have to be disciplined in life. American students are not disciplined enough. I'm a big believer in the discovery of a child's natural abilities. Some of this can actually be discovered by the time a child is around 5 especially if the very young child is exposed to a great variety of learning opportunities. Toys, stories, play. They will not all be good at math, science, others will be better at history, writing, the arts... caring for others. Or perhaps they have a sense of justice, fairness..etc In short the education systems need to discover where the child's natural abilities lay and not painfully force them into other fields. Help each child to succeed instead of fail... and be ready for surprises. Sometimes great things come with maturity and support. At that time they may expand their interests and abilities.
could u explain why American students aren’t disciplined enough? I just wanna see your POV because I kinda disagree. So do you mean the education system itself or the actual students within their family
A person can have the best education, the best grades, the best extra curricular activities after school, the best of training, check, the best of all. but the first thing a person needs to be and have is financial literacy, financial smarts, with their spending, with their life decisions. it will break you if you make a significant mistake, no matter how high you are in this "I'm better than others" system. I've seen lots of people who already had it made, but made some life decisions that put them back down to the other end.
I fully disagree with the full pressure Rule, a child should have the choice to feel Childhood, I love the motivation part and help them choose by themselves and support them.
Here in France some pupil have almost no purpose and keep asking "why should I learn this or that". They're not wrong somehow, even as a teacher I sometimes wonder why they have so much to learn while I myself barely remember anything I learnt in middle school.
i think the most powerful thing to learn is working with others and have others work with you and sharing and caring and thinking and planning together.
You think these kids have some sort of “drive”, when in fact they were forced by their parents to excel in multiple activities at an extremely young age. (The young girl at around 7:00 is an exception, her father is a mega star/millionaire due to his tutoring there in China, so she has a major advantage over everyone in the world) They were born into that society of being disciplined and hard-working. Here in the West, you don’t need to work that hard to do great things in life, like having a great job. tl;dr: don’t compare different kids from different countries
I don't have kids but it's quite amazing the difference in mindset between the eastern and western kids. The east has the drive and attitude that the west had when they were the industrial powers.
Most parents don't want their kids to attend local schools in Hong Kong, but they simply can't afford international schools which bypass the examinations. And so they (I'd like to add that not every family can even afford tutoring) must use what extra money they have to invest in tutoring and what not which still costs less than international school tuition. It's not always a matter of choice, but of money and circumstances.
Teachers are less responsible on student's failure than students themselves but are still responsible, unfortunately no one is considering that!!! You can't learn from one math teacher but you can learn from another one...
Getting basics right.. knowing how to make the right decisions and ability to think on your feet social skills.. and failure are some of the things that allow for excellent individuals... imagine being afraid to make mistakes.. and then striving for perfection,,, what kind of boring life would that be.. my 2 paise.
If they are the extreme in intense discipline, I think we might be on the opposite end of the continuum. Honestly, America needs more discipline in education. There were quite a few graduates from my high school who shouldn't have graduated for reasons such as not being able to even communicate in English well. An extreme style of upbringing may or may not be good, but steps towards a more disciplined and strict education system would not only be ideal but crucial to this country's future!
THis is wonderful AlJazeera, this was a heart warming story, thank You guys for showing Us this. It's heart warming because there's hope for kids that may be falling through the cracks in society instead of telling them to commit suicide if they're not good enough. Take Care People.
Not all asian parents are like that. I'm a Chinese living in Singapore and my parents give me quite a lot of freedom. Only a few of my friend's parents are actually that bad
I’m Asian-American and thanks to my mother I tried to kill myself 3 times but now I’m on 6 medications to keep me happy and numb forever! Thanks mom for your conditional love, constant criticism and control, and most of all for treating me with such contempt! I love you dearly and do not wish that you would drop dead every day. How incredibly sad it would for me to have my prison warden set me free.
🤣🤣 girl. On a serious note, i hope you forget all bad memories, not necessarily forgive her, but you heal all the trauma and detach yourself from the toxicity. You know a quote, "the good thing about time passing and getting older is you forget stuff" i hope you do.
well these are mainly stereotypes... I live in Singapore, and most of the parents i know don't put that kind of pressure on their kids. Well definitely there are quite a number of my peers that are 'less fortunate' in that sense.. But they all did very well now as an adult. XD
I know this video is old but if you do some research. A classical education is probably one of if not the best way to educate people. It’s time tested and proven to create brilliant minds. A vast majority of our greatest people have had a classical education.
I understand that excellence is not easy. My 23 year old graduated this month, she's an RN. Very proud of her, because as a teacher myself, I know it wasnt easy for her. I have two more, going to 7th and 5 grade, so the first thing I thought when she graduated was "one down, two more to go". As a decendent of once slaves, constantly battling racial injustice. My goal is not for my children to "climb the social ladder". My siblings and cousins are the first generation to get a degree. So our children will be the second. So there is a lot of pressure building a foundation for our bloodline for generations to come. My children make it very hard, because they live around people who are laid back and content, who does not understand why my children cannot go outside to play all day. They are both honor student's, so I try to balance it for them, help them ballance their studies througout the school year. Spending time with them, letting them know how important it is for their future. And that I am very proud of them. So I respect the way Asia focuses on academic, because life is going to get more demending, and I don't want them stuck on the sideline. Take care everyone, ballance your work, studies and spend time together as a family.
I understand what you mean. I always thought that this kind of situation probably happens because their parents money got them there, and not their mind. Some universities knows that. And as long as they get paid, a new wing donated by the parents, they don't care😢😭. And we have to live with those clueless college grads. Making changes with their money and not their minds.
Competition breeds conformity, and kills creativity. Evolutionary biology has proved it over and over. Video games do too: competition creates a 'meta' that everyone has to follow. I feel really bad for all the kids out there who are just trying to be top student in their class, because it'll stop them from ever being the best person they can be in the broader world... Gaia school is awesome.
stress is all in the mind. just accept failure in your studies and move on. Don't blame the elite education system, whether in USA, India, China, Japan, Korea and Singapore. If one cannot compete in the academic arena, just move on. If the parents feel sad, then they are adults and have to accept it sooner or later. so what the media portray the harshness of the education system is purely subjective. many of us, poor or well off students have benefited greatly in this meritocracy system.
5.00 it took me by surprise as well, but the porter should have asked by are you forcing your daughter to live your dreams , just because he couldn't do piano does not means his daughter has to do it
Most of the Chinese parents set their expectation too high causing their children to suffer a lot from studying . Should they lower their reality education standard to give their children the best childhood ?
Stephanie's dad is a super rich ($500,000 USD car) who teaches English for pay, so she goes to special school where she won't have to take exams to go to college. In my opinion, he is a con-man who don't speak English so well himself & only speaks a word of English rarely as he teaches English. Where is Stephanie's Mom?
Seeing the rampant substance abuse and neuroticism in the West, I am not sure what is worse.. I guess, as is true most of the time, a middle ground would be the way to go. But we definitely need more strictness in the West, while there probably is a need for more leniency in the East.
@dharmaatdawn Yeah I am free to do anything I want. They do tell me about the importance of getting good results but it's totally up to me whether I want to work hard or not. I'm born in Singapore :)
I did my best in highschool, knocked it out the park in top 10%, and now I'm here a NEET, living with my mom, because I thought being an artist wasn't a mistake hahahahahahaha gradeschool is so pointless in the US.
@@LeafyGreenDA what I'm saying is pursuing your interest is white privilege, in asian culture you do what you're told , in white culture being useless is an option in asian culture it's not
Go on. Study like people with no life. Where will that get you in 10 years time? Will you find a good job? Probably yes but will you succeed in life? Will you completed your life's desire? And will you be able to communicate well or maintain good physical health?
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So what's your proposal, don't study? Become a musician? Become an actor? Are those chances much better?
this is why Asian people including myself is depressed.
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Don't be, you are witnessing the Asian century where we take control of the global economy and step on Europe and America, I would suggest you try and participate.
l live in Asia, and not in the top countries in terms of education. I had just started middle school and l normally sleep for 4 hours a day. I am still just an average student, not the top tier smart ones.
@ Communist ruling country is kinda robotic. They always force mass people to do something they want! And then a so called competitive culture began to practice
So I wonder how Stephanie is doing now a days seeing that this is a number of years old. Am I the only curious to know how things worked out for her??! 🙂
I wonder how important for 101 East to point out Hong Kong is separated from China.... even though the education system is different, Hong Kong is still part of China. I wonder if you have filmed a video about America... would you separate Hawaii from America?
Ethan Cai because they’re British schools in Hong Kong. I was born there and was enrolled in a British school until I was 5. I’m Indian and I speak amazing English
I cant say abt other provinces but most of us from ON, don't have a proficiency on French. Plus, they use European French for instructions instead of Quebecois/Acadien, when we hit QC and NB, we are lk "WTF! That's like nothing we learned in school"! Complete useless and impractical! Tarbarneck!
The pressure issue aside, why are the sisters conversing in Putonghua instead of CANTONESE!!!??? Cantonese is the de facto language of Hong Kong, no matter what political and lawful rocks thrown at me!
Happiness is overrated, many free spirited people in europe and america have absoulutely no financial stability, because they chose to pursue hapiness.
Sorry but I've seen too much in my experience. 45 years married, I'm caucasian American, my wife Chinese. In college back in the 1970s we met. All Asian students in college I knew studied for lucrative professions, medical, science, business, etc. I never knew any studying history, literature, etc. (I'm sure there are exceptions.) My point is hard to explain and not enough space to write with. But I'll try by saying too many Asians seem to go after success for success' sake. I' ve witnessed an imbalance in other interests. Over-specialisation. Religion is low for many Asian males. And problems manifest as they get into ages 50, 60. Divorce being one. (Although the combination male Caucasian-female Asian I've never known one divorce.) I've known very few I can have a conversation with about subjects outside their professions. Again, imbalance. I write out of concern.
Ignorant??? What do you want? My Chinese wife and I have been married 46 years and I've experienced plenty with Asians. Nearly all I've known do not have balanced interests. My wife got only half way through college by marrying me. Her female relations got college degrees. All - all of them - are now divorced and hurti g for money in their 60s. My wife felt guilty about not getting the all mighty degree. Just a wife and mother to our kids. I never tire of asking her, Ok, who won? She did! She's got far more money in her retirement than they will ever have. We help them with money.
Why did they make a documentary about this? I'm a senior year student in Canada: I'm a DECA international competitor and practice on tuesdays, I have Engineering Club on Wednesdays, Math club on Thursdays, am the president of Sports Analytics Club (on Fridays) and I used to be on the schools senior science olympic team and was on the science club executive team. I've applied to the best business schools in the globe and I live in CANADA. This is just life, it has nothing to do with whether you live in Korea, Hong Kong, Canada, Sweden, where ever. Its a lifestyle that is respectable if you choose it for your own benefit as I have while most people in these documentaries seem to be forced into these lifestyles. I still play video games, play soccer everyday in summers, take naps everyday after school, etc. Its balanceable... WHY IS THERE A DOCUMENTARY ABOUT THIS.
@MoronHunterD yea, Asian parents are quite strict on their children's relationship. Maybe early 20s before they can have relationship. Also, don't use that nerd cant get laid mentality to think about Asian. Having top grade is hotter to girls than being in a soccer team.
Alien Machine tiger moms are one of the stricter kinds of parenting styles, which is the reason why amoral China relaxed the education system recently.
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Would it be better if they were really lenient and let their kids go out party at age 11, smoke weed, get pregnant, skip school?
When everyone is excellent. No one is.
The definition of "excellent" is off. Being top in your class doesn't mean much if you're all thinking essentially the same ways. Competition breeds conformity and kills diversity.
So true !!
That's plain wrong.. By the same line of thinking you could also say if everyone is fat, no-one is or if everyone is stupid, no-one is. But there are obviously intellectual standards that people can meet or not.. And if everyone meets them, it is a good thing.
I live in HK and don't want my kids to have the pressure so put them in international school. Unfortunately my mother in law was a local school teacher and she put so much expectation on my kids that my son mentioned once that he wants to kill himself. We're moving to Australia, away from the pressure and the bad grandmother.
That’s horrible I hope your doing okay
I don't know if you are from Australia but I am sure that Australia has a huge proportion of Asians and they will not feel like an outsider even If they choose to socialize only with non-Asian people (which is impossible since Asian people in Australia are everywhere)
@@Evakizzzzz ultimately when you see everyone in government being white , every australian ceo being white , every main character on TV being white you will feel foreign. When you think of an australian you think of a white person not an asian person.
You are a good parent for doing what you did. Hope your son is doing well today.
Update ?
Stephanie’s father actually cares and loves her and encourages her to get better grades instead of forcing it unlike many other Asian parents.
What I mean is China has the highest suicide rate because of the pressure the homework causes them. Many Asian parents expect their child to have the best grades ever and even when their children get a score that’s even higher then they expected . They then say they could have gotten even better grades .Then the kids become severely depressed because they can’t spend any time to de stress and calm down that’s why I said her father expects her best not the best and helps her with the work and doesn’t just force her to do the work.
thought the dad looks familiar, think he has done similar segment for channel 4 before or something
4:39 I thought the reporter was gonna say "Stephanie's mother" but he said "father" lol
and I oop-
you meant why some asian dudes are so sissy?! lol! thats the style for some!
The father is wearing a Karen hairstyle lol.
it took me by surprise as well, but the porter should have asked by are you forcing your daughter to live your dreams , just because he couldn't do piano does not means his daughter has to do it
Sometimes as human beings we want our children to reflect on what we did not become. Let them be who they are.
At least these students understand why they have to be disciplined in life. American students are not disciplined enough. I'm a big believer in the discovery of a child's natural abilities. Some of this can actually be discovered by the time a child is around 5 especially if the very young child is exposed to a great variety of learning opportunities. Toys, stories, play. They will not all be good at math, science, others will be better at history, writing, the arts... caring for others. Or perhaps they have a sense of justice, fairness..etc In short the education systems need to discover where the child's natural abilities lay and not painfully force them into other fields. Help each child to succeed instead of fail... and be ready for surprises. Sometimes great things come with maturity and support. At that time they may expand their interests and abilities.
could u explain why American students aren’t disciplined enough? I just wanna see your POV because I kinda disagree. So do you mean the education system itself or the actual students within their family
A person can have the best education, the best grades, the best extra curricular activities after school, the best of training, check, the best of all. but the first thing a person needs to be and have is financial literacy, financial smarts, with their spending, with their life decisions. it will break you if you make a significant mistake, no matter how high you are in this "I'm better than others" system. I've seen lots of people who already had it made, but made some life decisions that put them back down to the other end.
I fully disagree with the full pressure Rule, a child should have the choice to feel Childhood, I love the motivation part and help them choose by themselves and support them.
been there, done that. left 5 months of torture n i'm out of this asian hell
Here in France some pupil have almost no purpose and keep asking "why should I learn this or that". They're not wrong somehow, even as a teacher I sometimes wonder why they have so much to learn while I myself barely remember anything I learnt in middle school.
i think the most powerful thing to learn is working with others and have others work with you and sharing and caring and thinking and planning together.
You think these kids have some sort of “drive”, when in fact they were forced by their parents to excel in multiple activities at an extremely young age. (The young girl at around 7:00 is an exception, her father is a mega star/millionaire due to his tutoring there in China, so she has a major advantage over everyone in the world) They were born into that society of being disciplined and hard-working. Here in the West, you don’t need to work that hard to do great things in life, like having a great job.
tl;dr: don’t compare different kids from different countries
I don't have kids but it's quite amazing the difference in mindset between the eastern and western kids. The east has the drive and attitude that the west had when they were the industrial powers.
Most parents don't want their kids to attend local schools in Hong Kong, but they simply can't afford international schools which bypass the examinations. And so they (I'd like to add that not every family can even afford tutoring) must use what extra money they have to invest in tutoring and what not which still costs less than international school tuition. It's not always a matter of choice, but of money and circumstances.
Teachers are less responsible on student's failure than students themselves but are still responsible, unfortunately no one is considering that!!!
You can't learn from one math teacher but you can learn from another one...
4:55 isn't he that teacher with a Lamborghini
Edit: Went further in the vid and he indeed is THAT teacher
Getting basics right.. knowing how to make the right decisions and ability to think on your feet social skills.. and failure are some of the things that allow for excellent individuals... imagine being afraid to make mistakes.. and then striving for perfection,,, what kind of boring life would that be.. my 2 paise.
Stephanie's voice sounds exhausted at this age. At least she has a loving father.
If they are the extreme in intense discipline, I think we might be on the opposite end of the continuum. Honestly, America needs more discipline in education. There were quite a few graduates from my high school who shouldn't have graduated for reasons such as not being able to even communicate in English well. An extreme style of upbringing may or may not be good, but steps towards a more disciplined and strict education system would not only be ideal but crucial to this country's future!
this father-daughter relationship looks strange to me. where is her mother? she's completely out of picture
maybe moms is passed away..or the mom is a hoe and leave them...LOL...
He's daddy and mommy.
single father
Maybe she is shy to be on camera!
THis is wonderful AlJazeera, this was a heart warming story, thank You guys for showing Us this.
It's heart warming because there's hope for kids that may be falling through the cracks in society instead of telling them to commit suicide if they're not good enough.
Take Care People.
Not all asian parents are like that. I'm a Chinese living in Singapore and my parents give me quite a lot of freedom. Only a few of my friend's parents are actually that bad
I’m Asian-American and thanks to my mother I tried to kill myself 3 times but now I’m on 6 medications to keep me happy and numb forever! Thanks mom for your conditional love, constant criticism and control, and most of all for treating me with such contempt! I love you dearly and do not wish that you would drop dead every day. How incredibly sad it would for me to have my prison warden set me free.
🤣🤣 girl. On a serious note, i hope you forget all bad memories, not necessarily forgive her, but you heal all the trauma and detach yourself from the toxicity. You know a quote, "the good thing about time passing and getting older is you forget stuff" i hope you do.
@@_ashmason007 Thank you. :)
well these are mainly stereotypes... I live in Singapore, and most of the parents i know don't put that kind of pressure on their kids. Well definitely there are quite a number of my peers that are 'less fortunate' in that sense.. But they all did very well now as an adult. XD
I know this video is old but if you do some research. A classical education is probably one of if not the best way to educate people. It’s time tested and proven to create brilliant minds. A vast majority of our greatest people have had a classical education.
lol 4:41 I thought that was her mother
jbags84 me too
I understand that excellence is not easy. My 23 year old graduated this month, she's an RN. Very proud of her, because as a teacher myself, I know it wasnt easy for her. I have two more, going to 7th and 5 grade, so the first thing I thought when she graduated was "one down, two more to go". As a decendent of once slaves, constantly battling racial injustice. My goal is not for my children to "climb the social ladder". My siblings and cousins are the first generation to get a degree. So our children will be the second. So there is a lot of pressure building a foundation for our bloodline for generations to come. My children make it very hard, because they live around people who are laid back and content, who does not understand why my children cannot go outside to play all day. They are both honor student's, so I try to balance it for them, help them ballance their studies througout the school year. Spending time with them, letting them know how important it is for their future. And that I am very proud of them. So I respect the way Asia focuses on academic, because life is going to get more demending, and I don't want them stuck on the sideline. Take care everyone, ballance your work, studies and spend time together as a family.
Excellent documentary.
0:33
What’s the cost of our academic success?
*our sanity*
Too bad school doesn't always mean education. I know University graduates who are clueless about most things, how does that make them a better person?
I understand what you mean. I always thought that this kind of situation probably happens because their parents money got them there, and not their mind. Some universities knows that. And as long as they get paid, a new wing donated by the parents, they don't care😢😭. And we have to live with those clueless college grads. Making changes with their money and not their minds.
That father is just fine.....
great mini-documentary
Competition breeds conformity, and kills creativity. Evolutionary biology has proved it over and over. Video games do too: competition creates a 'meta' that everyone has to follow. I feel really bad for all the kids out there who are just trying to be top student in their class, because it'll stop them from ever being the best person they can be in the broader world... Gaia school is awesome.
you're right man, and I hate this gaming "meta" BS...
I took at least 10 extra curricular activities every week from the time I was 6 to 12th grade!!! And I did not turn out to be an evil person!!!
There are things I agree and disagree with but one thing is for sure the education system needs to be polished!
stress is all in the mind. just accept failure in your studies and move on. Don't blame the elite education system, whether in USA, India, China, Japan, Korea and Singapore. If one cannot compete in the academic arena, just move on. If the parents feel sad, then they are adults and have to accept it sooner or later. so what the media portray the harshness of the education system is purely subjective. many of us, poor or well off students have benefited greatly in this meritocracy system.
After 9 years , it's more or less same..
Being tense is fine. It is the really terrible people who did not put in the work (and do not worry) that is the issue.
LOL @The principal's speech ..best interpretation by Russel Peters! :D
Why people don't mention India. We are also under a lot of pressure .. Our parents feel we are faking 🥺🥺🥺
I wish there was a link to the song
5.00 it took me by surprise as well, but the porter should have asked by are you forcing your daughter to live your dreams , just because he couldn't do piano does not means his daughter has to do it
I wonder what Stephanie Ng does now. Probably a huge success now.
3:46 that dog's eyes tho
Most of the Chinese parents set their expectation too high causing their children to suffer a lot from studying . Should they lower their reality education standard to give their children the best childhood ?
I think we all know Ang doesn’t have a wife
Knowledge is essential but the amount of it is optional
Stephanie's dad is a super rich ($500,000 USD car) who teaches English for pay, so she goes to special school where she won't have to take exams to go to college. In my opinion, he is a con-man who don't speak English so well himself & only speaks a word of English rarely as he teaches English. Where is Stephanie's Mom?
Seeing the rampant substance abuse and neuroticism in the West, I am not sure what is worse.. I guess, as is true most of the time, a middle ground would be the way to go. But we definitely need more strictness in the West, while there probably is a need for more leniency in the East.
@dharmaatdawn Yeah I am free to do anything I want. They do tell me about the importance of getting good results but it's totally up to me whether I want to work hard or not. I'm born in Singapore :)
I did my best in highschool, knocked it out the park in top 10%,
and now I'm here
a NEET, living with my mom, because I thought being an artist
wasn't a mistake
hahahahahahaha gradeschool is so pointless in the US.
The alternative is to study something you hate so you can work in a job that you hate, but hey, at least you make money.
@ Oh? I'm pretty interested in what you mean!
@@LeafyGreenDA what I'm saying is pursuing your interest is white privilege, in asian culture you do what you're told , in white culture being useless is an option in asian culture it's not
@ But I'm not white...
@@LeafyGreenDA well then that's your bad for acting white , why do you think immigrants are so hardworking ? Because they're not white
Go on. Study like people with no life. Where will that get you in 10 years time? Will you find a good job? Probably yes but will you succeed in life? Will you completed your life's desire? And will you be able to communicate well or maintain good physical health?
So what's your proposal, don't study? Become a musician? Become an actor? Are those chances much better?
this is why Asian people including myself is depressed.
Don't be, you are witnessing the Asian century where we take control of the global economy and step on Europe and America, I would suggest you try and participate.
l live in Asia, and not in the top countries in terms of education. I had just started middle school and l normally sleep for 4 hours a day. I am still just an average student, not the top tier smart ones.
and now they became full time protesters lol
It's too much. I don’t like such robotic life😥
@ Communist ruling country is kinda robotic. They always force mass people to do something they want! And then a so called competitive culture began to practice
@Abbadon380 I can relate but in the Philippines they wear you khakis
So I wonder how Stephanie is doing now a days seeing that this is a number of years old. Am I the only curious to know how things worked out for her??! 🙂
She has an Instagram! Check it out!
@@GrandisArcanum whats her instagram?
Name of the song of the 2 chinese girls?
TimeKing2 I’m trying to hard to find it, if you found it hook me up lol
@@SuperRobertHayes Found it 謝芊彤 謝芊蕾《媽媽，我壓力好大》
Can cause burnt out for sure
I wonder how important for 101 East to point out Hong Kong is separated from China.... even though the education system is different, Hong Kong is still part of China. I wonder if you have filmed a video about America... would you separate Hawaii from America?
why the girl speaks english like a North American!
Ethan Cai because they’re British schools in Hong Kong. I was born there and was enrolled in a British school until I was 5. I’m Indian and I speak amazing English
@@vaanikhare3825 Good to know! I wish the French education in Anglosphere Canada is as swag, up-to-date and practical lk the English education in HK.
Hmm I’m actually now in Canada and the education isn’t as updated I guess
I cant say abt other provinces but most of us from ON, don't have a proficiency on French. Plus, they use European French for instructions instead of Quebecois/Acadien, when we hit QC and NB, we are lk "WTF! That's like nothing we learned in school"! Complete useless and impractical! Tarbarneck!
@ you are overreacting. I expect her to speak lk a Brit or other HKer, not someone who grew up West/East coast US
I deleted my initial message.... how can we bring up kids to be robots
The pressure issue aside, why are the sisters conversing in Putonghua instead of CANTONESE!!!??? Cantonese is the de facto language of Hong Kong, no matter what political and lawful rocks thrown at me!
... and are you happy... NO!
Happiness is overrated, many free spirited people in europe and america have absoulutely no financial stability, because they chose to pursue hapiness.
The principal sounds so Ghanaian!
Sorry but I've seen too much in my experience. 45 years married, I'm caucasian American, my wife Chinese. In college back in the 1970s we met. All Asian students in college I knew studied for lucrative professions, medical, science, business, etc. I never knew any studying history, literature, etc. (I'm sure there are exceptions.) My point is hard to explain and not enough space to write with. But I'll try by saying too many Asians seem to go after success for success' sake. I' ve witnessed an imbalance in other interests. Over-specialisation. Religion is low for many Asian males. And problems manifest as they get into ages 50, 60. Divorce being one. (Although the combination male Caucasian-female Asian I've never known one divorce.) I've known very few I can have a conversation with about subjects outside their professions. Again, imbalance. I write out of concern.
So what are you trying to prove ignorant white guy ?
Ignorant??? What do you want? My Chinese wife and I have been married 46 years and I've experienced plenty with Asians. Nearly all I've known do not have balanced interests. My wife got only half way through college by marrying me. Her female relations got college degrees. All - all of them - are now divorced and hurti g for money in their 60s. My wife felt guilty about not getting the all mighty degree. Just a wife and mother to our kids. I never tire of asking her, Ok, who won? She did! She's got far more money in her retirement than they will ever have. We help them with money.
@ After 46 years now you tell me!!! I doubt your smartass self is even 46 years old.
So six extra activities beside school is not a lot. I'm so happy to be dutch and I won't go to china
Why did they make a documentary about this? I'm a senior year student in Canada: I'm a DECA international competitor and practice on tuesdays, I have Engineering Club on Wednesdays, Math club on Thursdays, am the president of Sports Analytics Club (on Fridays) and I used to be on the schools senior science olympic team and was on the science club executive team. I've applied to the best business schools in the globe and I live in CANADA. This is just life, it has nothing to do with whether you live in Korea, Hong Kong, Canada, Sweden, where ever. Its a lifestyle that is respectable if you choose it for your own benefit as I have while most people in these documentaries seem to be forced into these lifestyles. I still play video games, play soccer everyday in summers, take naps everyday after school, etc. Its balanceable... WHY IS THERE A DOCUMENTARY ABOUT THIS.
ahh i remember he time i had to wear grey pants a white shirt and how it made be ITCH LIKE HELLL
@MoronHunterD
yea, Asian parents are quite strict on their children's relationship. Maybe early 20s before they can have relationship. Also, don't use that nerd cant get laid mentality to think about Asian. Having top grade is hotter to girls than being in a soccer team.
the girl in the thumbnail looks like maiphammy
Chinese parents are too demanding..looks like as if they are the boss of the kids!!:P
Alien Machine tiger moms are one of the stricter kinds of parenting styles, which is the reason why amoral China relaxed the education system recently.
Would it be better if they were really lenient and let their kids go out party at age 11, smoke weed, get pregnant, skip school?
It's all Greek to me.
This teacher is scamming you!!!
At that age you ahave a huge eye bugs
WTF that was MC Jin propagandizing model teachers.
Creepy.
You can only carry so much for so long. Bottom line
HK Conman.
Hong Kong is a city in China,not a country
@jbags84
lol. Me too. omfg!!
Gaya school is bad!!!
Gaia school is bad
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