@@user-ro8et5sy9x wow. This might be one of the dumbest things I’ve heard today. There are a whole bunch of people that don’t like weddings. I’m a feminist and don’t like wedding but hot because I’m a feminist, because I don’t like events.
Omg Adrienne! Girl I love you, but there are often times these segments that they have to explain to her what common sense topics are lol. This was such a waste of time and for the life of me, I don’t understand why she isn’t catching on after they took the time to break it down. Aren’t they briefed on the topic beforehand?
My TAEsty Life *I know, half of the topic is just trying to explain to her what the topic is actually about instead of being able to discuss it, I can’t with her sometimes ahaa*
Im with Amanda, I dont really like weddings. When I see weddings, all I can think is how expensive this gonna cost me one day and if it will drain my lifetime savings in the blink of an eye. Id rather invest on a marriage than a wedding. Idk weddings give me stress and anxiety a bit
Rachel Rae *they did understand her but that wasn’t the point, Adrienne misunderstood what the point of the discussion was actually about for example the bridesgroom situation- Adrienne was only thinking about the aesthetic and “look” of the wedding when that’s not the point it’s about men and women being able to stand on opposite sides and avoiding traditions. And it was so hard for them to explain to her because she was fixated on LOOK and wasn’t looking at it in a different perspective*
It was a cultural misunderstanding. She didn't know bride and grooms have separate wedding parties. I didn't either. We usually have 1 wedding party, the men stand together and the women stand together. Doesn't matter whose family or friend they are. So she's talking from that perspective which is how it is in Puerto Rican weddings. Why would you have 2 separate wedding parties anyway? Also, do American women not have their brothers or male cousins in their weddings just bc they're guys? It's very confusing. They can just stand with the guys.
@@ashleyconeys4644 no I also missed the point they mean if you have friends that are both guy and girl they would be on your side not making the guy stand with the guy breaking the tradition
Adrienne is so dramatic and passionate when she talks. Girl i love you ever since i was growing from cheater girls. you are a role model and will like to meet you before the rapture. Tamara's principles and knowledge gets me always.
I get what Adrienne was saying, but that wasn’t the question. Ray is obviously closer to Adrienne, so the idea is for him to be in Adrienne’s wedding party (rather than Israel’s just because he’s a guy).
I think people are having cultural misunderstanding. In latin weddings we don't see it as 2 separate wedding parties. It's just 1 wedding party. The men stand on the side of the groom, and the women stand on the side of the bride. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. Has nothing to do with which one of us he knew longer.
@@gaila.9852 I didn't say you did, but it seems like people think that there are 2 separate wedding parties and you go with the one of the person you knew longer/are closer to. Adrienne and Israel wouldn't have separate wedding parties. They have 1 wedding party and any guys in the party stand with Israel. It doesn't matter who "Ray is closer to". There is no such thing as Israel having his own wedding party and Adrienne having her own.
@@gaila.9852 yes, and I am saying maybe Adrienne doesn't know that bc it's not her culture. I didn't realize that people had 2 wedding parties. I thought it was 1 party and they just had the men stand together and the women stand together. Like usually your siblings are in your wedding, right? A bride doesn't have her brother in bc he's not a girl? Or a groom doesn't have his sister? The question is based on an assumption that everyone knows that or thinks like that.
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It was funny to watch Adrienne keep saying the same thing waiting for applause😄😄I don't have close male friends that I would put in my wedding but I have brothers...they would be on my husband's side tho..but I have a close person who is a lesbian and she is a stud she would be on my side and she would be in a suit..so I don't see an issue🤷🏾♀️
I feel like Adrienne be playing dumb when she don’t agree, like this is a easy concept to grasp. And if it was once or twice, I’d say she was having a day, but she keeps on doing it
I feel like I’m the only one who gets Ade!! Like if I have a male best friend and he’s in my wedding he’s there not only for me but for my husband. So why not have coordination and have females on my side and males on the other? Like it just looks nicer. Plus I wouldn’t want my male friend there if he doesn’t support or have a relationship with my husband because I don’t need those vibes at OUR wedding.
I get what she said, but that wasn't the question. The tradition is for the woman to invite women to stand on her side and the man to invite men to stand on his side. The topic they discussed is a woman inviting a man who will stand on her side because he is closer to her and in her party (and vice versa). You and your husband probably have mutual friends, but you also have your own friends. The idea is for your male best friend to stand on your side because he is YOUR best friend.
I do too. I think it's a Latin thing honestly. We don't have 2 separate wedding parties, we have one wedding party and they stand on the side of their gender. Not the side of the person they've known longest. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. It's not that hard.
people who say "it cd b worse" "it is what it is" life isn't fair" hate life and have no motivation ... like let me hop off the this log with this frog....
I know adrinne is grown up now🤣🤣 but no where close to these ladies. Talking like she has equal experience as these women at the table lol. I wrote on her (all things adrinne) damn u dont let others talk or she talks over ppl or just too much or just too loud 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is interesting and definitely situational. I’m currently engaged and my only criteria with this is I want both wedding parties to be even number for the aesthetics. With that being said, I will have 8 bridesmaids (females), my fiancé will have 8 groomsmen (males). I also have two male best friends who are super cool with my fiancé but I don’t think it’s fair for me to tell him that he has to make them his groomsmen as much as I would love to have them in the wedding. Even if my fiancé only had 6, and needed 2 more he’d probably want to find 2 of his own.
She just takes things way to personally when it comes to marriage conversation now. She isn't getting that just because It's not for her doesn't mean it is an attack on her.
Yeah that's another thing you need to know up front if they want children because they will leave you stuck if they're not that into you I refuse to make that mistake and just speaking for myself, he got to put a ring on my finger and we be married before I move in with him
When I vent to my mom about how tired and overwhelmed I am about my kids she always says ”well you decided to have them and stay at home with them” 🙄🙄🙄🙄 so annoying
Full truth when this episode was uploaded the first time I checked myself and ever since have made a bigger effort to then switch and ask my friend. Like pretty sure I always did ask but make a bigger point to make sure I do if I vent
@@gabbypetty7291 I feel like she vents a lot more now. Like I did ask before but because I made it a conscious effort I now find it's second nature and as a result she opens up a lot more so instead of just saying everything is fine I actually know what's going on with her!
If it’s his mortgage, he can pay for it himself. Same story if it was the female. Don’t take something you can’t afford. Married, two Individuals on the mortgage then that’s different . Split. Or someone take over other things. Just make it work but don’t take advantage of one another.
I am with Adrienne 💯 my people become your people when we get married so it doesn't matter which side they stand. But I'mma need my pictures looking good.
Adrienne completely missed the point. She was getting her self worked up for no reason. If you don’t understand it let someone explain to you. Calm down jeeze
I think people are having cultural misunderstanding. In Puerto Rican weddings we don't see it as 2 separate wedding parties. It's just 1 wedding party. The men stand on the side of the groom, and the women stand on the side of the bride. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. Has nothing to do with which one of us he knew longer.
Adrienne just needed to calm down on this one, your volume doesn’t need to be that amplified to get a point across, especially when you’re quite off topic at times. Listening=understanding= a better response.
What I've learned this past year is making sure you ask the person you're planing on venting to if they are emotional available or present enough to handle you venting to them. Because lots of people just vent to me and it really gets exhausting especially when u have problems of your own.
I could be self absorbed but it’s usually about something not important. If I’m going through something I usually don’t vent. I always know when my friends are going through something and always there. So I believe it’s all about understanding each other.
I was my dads best man! I wore the same style of dress as the bridesmaids but the color was the color of the ties on the grooms side. I stood on my fathers side because I am here for him and he choose me to be by his side, for him. I’m coming with him to unite with the bride and her family. ❤️
Adrienne.. Adrienne 🤦🏻♀️. Completely didn’t understand the topic because she was legit confused lol. Had she got it, she could have just said her personal preference is aesthetics for the photos. Wasted time.
I think people are having cultural misunderstanding. In Puerto Rican weddings we don't see it as 2 separate wedding parties. It's just 1 wedding party. The men stand on the side of the groom, and the women stand on the side of the bride. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. Has nothing to do with which one of us he knew longer.
I will observe someone is not doing well and they dont want to talk about it, and I´ll be trying to open up about something hoping it will help them relate and open up but then I´m there talking talking waiting for them to open up and I feel lonely eventually I´ll shut the conversation off
Yessss I have a best friend who I’ve known for a long time. She tells me how sad she is but doesn’t realllyyy tell me the true reason why. I always tell her about my problems and personal issues hoping she would break and we would have that bond, but she never did. I eventually gave up and decided to no longer talk about my personal issues cause if she doesn’t trust me enough with hers then I shouldn’t either. Even though she is the only person I like venting and relating to when it comes to our social life. My mom said to give up and it’s her private life. But it still hurts knowing I don’t have someone I could talk to and have a special bond with at the same time.
That's just way to much info to process. Venting is the best way to find you own way to process you own stuff also to test people that have a inherit disposition to cast Judgement on people that they really probably do not really know in the intimate way that God knows the faithful servant.
@@gaila.9852 I would say not to do that because that's what the 🐺 🐺 wild 🐈 🐈 🐈 🐈 cats and 🐦 🐦 🐦 birds are for. See animal kingdom is nothing to play around with because; The gifts from the Heavens above are not as of good worth because of the fact humans are something that have major issues and habits die hard. The value of these words come from real need for assistance, from the divine lines not bizarre behavior of things.
Can you madams do some chit chats over being human? What is means to be human? What does it mean to you to be alive on our Earth? What does life mean to you? I would love to see a discussion between you ladies about these questions.
Chatise Smith well, if you have to ask that, you should try to answer those questions for yourself and see why I’m asking it based off of your own experience. Go deep, if you think on the surface level, you won’t get it.
The audience was silent as the grave when Adrienne was taking 😂 I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thought that was wack. I am on MOH for my best friend’s wedding and I know her future husband a little bit, but it would definitely be weird if I wasn’t standing by her side, and instead standing over by her man... I see what Adrienne is getting at but the reality is that not all friend groups integrate to that point. I think her POV was just a bit gendered... why can’t my male/female/non-binary friend stand at my side? Who cares if we’re mixing up the genders?
Why wouldn't you stand on your friend's side if you're HER friend? The whole point is that if you were her husband's friend, you should stand on his side and not hers just because you're a woman.
@@gaila.9852 exactly, that's what I am saying. It's probably a bad example because my friend and I both identity as women, but I agree with you. The groom/bridal parties should be able to stand next to the person they are at the wedding for, regardless of gender. If I was close with the groom and not so much the bride, and he wanted me in his party, I would hope he'd let me stand up with him even though I'm not a man. Its just a super gendered idea that the sexes must be separated; the point is to stand up with the person who you know and love, and be there with them on this journey of their union.
Eleni Gast Thanks for explaining. The part where you said it would be weird for you to stand on her husband’s side threw me off. I just thought that didn’t apply since you’re the bride’s friend. Anyway, I agree with you. I get what Adrienne was saying and that spouses have mutual friends, but the truth is that Ray is more her friend than Israel’s. Yes, he’s there for the union, but he’s Adrienne’s best friend. Ray standing on Israel’s side since he’s a guy and for all the guys to be together is the outdated idea the hosts were talking about. Adrienne was simply thinking of coordination for pictures.
@@gaila.9852 yeah I did not use a good example there, my bad! XD but yes, I agree I think that's where she was coming from; mostly focused on the aesthetic. That's not my friend's priority during her wedding, ,she would rather be around her people and celebrate the union, as opposed to focusing on pictures. But she's chill and down to earth like that, she doesn't feel the need to put on airs.
My best friend is a gay guy and although I didn't have a wedding, I imagined he would be my "maid" of honor. he couldn't go on the groom's side cuz he's my bestie
@@PHE-nomenon I get that but I don't have a best girl friend so then I wouldn't have a maid of honor if he's a groomsmen, know what I mean. And you don't pick just anybody. Basically I don't have many friends 😞
If I get married, we’re having separate houses lol 🤣🤣🤣 have your own money… if you didn’t work for it, it’s not yours and that goes both ways… I don’t want your money and you don’t worry about mine. I’m not into mixing money or certain things. Keep yours and I’ll keep mine. I don’t feel entitled to a man’s money and he better not come after mine. NDA’s I wouldn’t mind that.
Why is this so difficult for Adrienne to understand. A marriage is also about bringing two lives together. So the people standing on your side is your people and the people on the grooms side is his people. Having them as partners in the bridal party is part of showing the two lives being brought together. Your people becoming his people. Why is she always acting like its difficult to understand certain things.
Whoa, Jeannie sounded so much like Miley Cyrus at 10:00. That’s funny because people think she looks like Brenda Song, who used to date Miley’s brother.
How do people not understand what Adrienne is saying? Maybe it's a Latin thing? We don't have 2 SEPARATE wedding parties. We have 1 wedding party. The men in the party stand next to the groom, the women in the party stand next to the bride. It's not the groom's party and the bride's party. They stand on the side of their gender, not the side of the person they've known the longest. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. It's not that hard. why would he stand next to me??
I get that perspective but your brother is your family not a friend . He is now brother in laws with your husband so it would make more sense for him to be on his side. If you had a male best friend they are just saying it’s now the cool thing to make him your maid of honor.
Hearing Jeanie say that she didn’t sign a prenup when she got married because she didn’t have money then and she wasn’t thinking about what she was going to become I’m thinking about when she was crying on the real and talking about how Freddy has became a different person since they’ve divorced maybe she was crying and stressed about financial reasons during the divorce and how he was possibly trying to get money from her because they did not sign a prenup which sucks if he did turn into a really nasty character like that.
People who are that athletically demanding that you can’t have people of different genders on your side. they stood by you in life but you need it to look right so it has to be girls one side boys other. DUMB. Just coordinate everyone’s outfits with a color scheme and let everyone combine stand up with you. My god.
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Jeannie dropped a gem on us. Protect your future self!!!
They look like they're gonna go to a whole business meeting after the show, I love their outfits today.
Yes! I love how they’re all wearing blazers on either side of Loni.
I know. They should do a theme to their outfits more often.
@Yllom Sik Uh, that's what they dress like for Fri-yay, and it's definitely appropriate.
Literally no one can be able to replace tamera 😭😢😢😢
I agree! I think of it as a different version of the Real
It’s less sad and more exciting
no one ca, but garcelle is a great addition. It would've been cool to both of them on the show at the same time
Ya tamera is definition of beuty!
"Either way, I don't even like weddings, so I don't care" LMAO love it
Best part of the video!
Lyssa J feminists hate weddings
@@user-ro8et5sy9x I'm a feminist, I don't hate weddings. I just thought it was a funny comment lol.
@@user-ro8et5sy9x wow. This might be one of the dumbest things I’ve heard today. There are a whole bunch of people that don’t like weddings. I’m a feminist and don’t like wedding but hot because I’m a feminist, because I don’t like events.
Sometimes, I feel like Adrienne doesn’t get the topic
hahahahahahah
Lmaaoooo
Just sometimes???
That was so tough to watch, girl... 🤦♀️
I do this too and i think she gets it she just disagrees with how the whole dilema is established
Who else saw those two beautiful hijabis🧕🏻 at 9:27?? ❤️
Yaaaaas
I totally get what Jeannie is saying. Some people go on and on about themselves, and it mades me chuckle inside.
Me too
Omg Adrienne! Girl I love you, but there are often times these segments that they have to explain to her what common sense topics are lol. This was such a waste of time and for the life of me, I don’t understand why she isn’t catching on after they took the time to break it down. Aren’t they briefed on the topic beforehand?
My TAEsty Life *I know, half of the topic is just trying to explain to her what the topic is actually about instead of being able to discuss it, I can’t with her sometimes ahaa*
Yes, they definitely prepare for each conversation.
Im with Amanda, I dont really like weddings. When I see weddings, all I can think is how expensive this gonna cost me one day and if it will drain my lifetime savings in the blink of an eye. Id rather invest on a marriage than a wedding. Idk weddings give me stress and anxiety a bit
Haha I hate weddings too 😅
I’m gonna miss tamera soooo much 😭😭😭😭😭
*It’s so draining to see Adrienne not understand sometime ahaa*
Adrienne did understand. The other ladies weren't understanding her until Amanda iterated what she was saying at the very end.
Rachel Rae *they did understand her but that wasn’t the point, Adrienne misunderstood what the point of the discussion was actually about for example the bridesgroom situation- Adrienne was only thinking about the aesthetic and “look” of the wedding when that’s not the point it’s about men and women being able to stand on opposite sides and avoiding traditions. And it was so hard for them to explain to her because she was fixated on LOOK and wasn’t looking at it in a different perspective*
It was a cultural misunderstanding. She didn't know bride and grooms have separate wedding parties. I didn't either. We usually have 1 wedding party, the men stand together and the women stand together. Doesn't matter whose family or friend they are. So she's talking from that perspective which is how it is in Puerto Rican weddings. Why would you have 2 separate wedding parties anyway? Also, do American women not have their brothers or male cousins in their weddings just bc they're guys? It's very confusing. They can just stand with the guys.
@@SoshiStars that’s kind of the point of it being a panel. Not everyone is gonna agree or feel the same way
@@ashleyconeys4644 no I also missed the point they mean if you have friends that are both guy and girl they would be on your side not making the guy stand with the guy breaking the tradition
Amanda saying she didn't even like weddings and hearing tamera say "oh u would've loved ours tho!" has me weak lmao like girl no tf she wouldn't
Trying to hard
Oh my god Adrienne....
All of their outfits are bomb! I love Amanda’s Afro and tams sleek pony.
The only thing I would change is, Jeannies top.
Adrienne is so dramatic and passionate when she talks. Girl i love you ever since i was growing from cheater girls. you are a role model and will like to meet you before the rapture. Tamara's principles and knowledge gets me always.
Lol like a lot Spanish women , they so dramatic. It’s cute
I get what Adrienne was saying, but that wasn’t the question. Ray is obviously closer to Adrienne, so the idea is for him to be in Adrienne’s wedding party (rather than Israel’s just because he’s a guy).
I think people are having cultural misunderstanding. In latin weddings we don't see it as 2 separate wedding parties. It's just 1 wedding party. The men stand on the side of the groom, and the women stand on the side of the bride. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. Has nothing to do with which one of us he knew longer.
Ashley Coneys I know. That’s a different topic. Also, I didn’t mention knowing someone longer.
@@gaila.9852 I didn't say you did, but it seems like people think that there are 2 separate wedding parties and you go with the one of the person you knew longer/are closer to. Adrienne and Israel wouldn't have separate wedding parties. They have 1 wedding party and any guys in the party stand with Israel. It doesn't matter who "Ray is closer to". There is no such thing as Israel having his own wedding party and Adrienne having her own.
@@ashleyconeys4644 That's the tradition that the hosts were discussing. It's very popular. You're talking about something completely different.
@@gaila.9852 yes, and I am saying maybe Adrienne doesn't know that bc it's not her culture. I didn't realize that people had 2 wedding parties. I thought it was 1 party and they just had the men stand together and the women stand together. Like usually your siblings are in your wedding, right? A bride doesn't have her brother in bc he's not a girl? Or a groom doesn't have his sister? The question is based on an assumption that everyone knows that or thinks like that.
Adrienne fighting over something she doesn’t understand 🙄
Lol!!
Adrienne was being difficult
Omg I’m really gonna miss Tamera 😭💖. I love listening to her speak. She’s just so wise.
If he’s gonna throw you to the wind and not be fair if and when you break up that man doesn’t love you or care about your well being
I’m going to miss Tam
To everyone reading this Jesus loves you sm that He died for you! I pray you surrender to Him! Have a blessed day!! You’re so loved 💖💖 He is a God of free will and will only come in if you invite Him! Experience His love today, just say “ Lord Jesus right now i give you my life! Please come into my heart and forgive me of my sins. I want to know you”
Barbie He is real and He loves you.
What does this have to do with the video? Your religious preaching is unsolicited.
God richly bless you!
Tam at the end😂 “you woulda loved ours though”
It was funny to watch Adrienne keep saying the same thing waiting for applause😄😄I don't have close male friends that I would put in my wedding but I have brothers...they would be on my husband's side tho..but I have a close person who is a lesbian and she is a stud she would be on my side and she would be in a suit..so I don't see an issue🤷🏾♀️
I feel like Adrienne be playing dumb when she don’t agree, like this is a easy concept to grasp. And if it was once or twice, I’d say she was having a day, but she keeps on doing it
what is adrienne so confused about stay on topic n stop making it about yourself, not everyone has the same relationship as you and your husband!
Nikki Bella signed one with John Cena...and we all know how that turned out🤷♀️
I'm going to miss Tamara 😭😭😭
I have learned a lot watching this show from all these ladies
My birthday♡♡♡ I'm ready for the real to start back up!
Happy birthday!!!💓 hope you have an amazing day
I feel like I’m the only one who gets Ade!! Like if I have a male best friend and he’s in my wedding he’s there not only for me but for my husband. So why not have coordination and have females on my side and males on the other? Like it just looks nicer. Plus I wouldn’t want my male friend there if he doesn’t support or have a relationship with my husband because I don’t need those vibes at OUR wedding.
I get her too
I get what she said, but that wasn't the question. The tradition is for the woman to invite women to stand on her side and the man to invite men to stand on his side. The topic they discussed is a woman inviting a man who will stand on her side because he is closer to her and in her party (and vice versa). You and your husband probably have mutual friends, but you also have your own friends. The idea is for your male best friend to stand on your side because he is YOUR best friend.
- That’s a lie. Your comments are pathetic.
I do too. I think it's a Latin thing honestly. We don't have 2 separate wedding parties, we have one wedding party and they stand on the side of their gender. Not the side of the person they've known longest. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. It's not that hard.
people who say "it cd b worse" "it is what it is" life isn't fair" hate life and have no motivation ... like let me hop off the this log with this frog....
I know adrinne is grown up now🤣🤣 but no where close to these ladies. Talking like she has equal experience as these women at the table lol. I wrote on her (all things adrinne) damn u dont let others talk or she talks over ppl or just too much or just too loud 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I absolutely agree with Adrienne 🙌🏾 it’s shouldn’t be an issue with where your friends stand for pictures.
I love you Adrian your awsome! I love watching all the girls 😍😍😍😍😍
Ima miss you tam tam 💯❤️
LOVEEE Tamera's look here damn
Dang I really didn’t watch any of the episodes Amanda was in . This current season is really great so far, we all miss Tam though
I remind myself often that some people have it worse, but I would not emphasize that to someone else during their struggle.
This is interesting and definitely situational. I’m currently engaged and my only criteria with this is I want both wedding parties to be even number for the aesthetics. With that being said, I will have 8 bridesmaids (females), my fiancé will have 8 groomsmen (males). I also have two male best friends who are super cool with my fiancé but I don’t think it’s fair for me to tell him that he has to make them his groomsmen as much as I would love to have them in the wedding. Even if my fiancé only had 6, and needed 2 more he’d probably want to find 2 of his own.
Lol I like it👏 different strokes for different folks
You all are getting on Adrienne, but I just think she sees things in a different light lol
Which can be good sometimes 😂
She just takes things way to personally when it comes to marriage conversation now. She isn't getting that just because It's not for her doesn't mean it is an attack on her.
I am not moving in with nobody I'm not married too
Exactly. My co-worker did this, then had to move back in with his mom after his relationship ended.
@@JugglingFinance my mom told me not to put my trust in a man because they will change but I'm single and still learning and stay prayed up
I’m not living under the same roof with a man unless we married 🤷🏽♀️ cause then what’s the point?
Yeah that's another thing you need to know up front if they want children because they will leave you stuck if they're not that into you I refuse to make that mistake and just speaking for myself, he got to put a ring on my finger and we be married before I move in with him
Amen!
This was such a gd talk..can't wait for you guys to come back
When I vent to my mom about how tired and overwhelmed I am about my kids she always says ”well you decided to have them and stay at home with them” 🙄🙄🙄🙄 so annoying
Full truth when this episode was uploaded the first time I checked myself and ever since have made a bigger effort to then switch and ask my friend. Like pretty sure I always did ask but make a bigger point to make sure I do if I vent
That’s awesome! Do you feel like that’s helped your relationships better?
@@gabbypetty7291 I feel like she vents a lot more now. Like I did ask before but because I made it a conscious effort I now find it's second nature and as a result she opens up a lot more so instead of just saying everything is fine I actually know what's going on with her!
All so beautiful...All So formal...Kept it Real always...from South Africa I love the show 👏🤗👋🌻
If it’s his mortgage, he can pay for it himself. Same story if it was the female. Don’t take something you can’t afford. Married, two Individuals on the mortgage then that’s different . Split. Or someone take over other things. Just make it work but don’t take advantage of one another.
They talk over each other too much.. comes across as disrespectful to one’s opinion
Did Tamera tell the audience to shush at 3:13 ? 💀😭
Lol I don’t think she notice that she did😂
I am with Adrienne 💯 my people become your people when we get married so it doesn't matter which side they stand. But I'mma need my pictures looking good.
“Either way I don’t even like weddings” Haha so hilarious
I Love adrienne
Adrienne completely missed the point. She was getting her self worked up for no reason. If you don’t understand it let someone explain to you. Calm down jeeze
I think people are having cultural misunderstanding. In Puerto Rican weddings we don't see it as 2 separate wedding parties. It's just 1 wedding party. The men stand on the side of the groom, and the women stand on the side of the bride. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. Has nothing to do with which one of us he knew longer.
@@ashleyconeys4644 Thank You!! Lol idk about Puerto rican weddings but I get what Adrienne was saying 👌
Adrienne just needed to calm down on this one, your volume doesn’t need to be that amplified to get a point across, especially when you’re quite off topic at times. Listening=understanding= a better response.
adrienne only knows how to listen to respond and react, never to understand. it’s so frustrating.
What I've learned this past year is making sure you ask the person you're planing on venting to if they are emotional available or present enough to handle you venting to them. Because lots of people just vent to me and it really gets exhausting especially when u have problems of your own.
👏🏾 yes , don’t call me and start flapping your gums. Ask me if I have the emotional / mental capacity to handle your issues
You guys are so amazing and funny
I could be self absorbed but it’s usually about something not important. If I’m going through something I usually don’t vent. I always know when my friends are going through something and always there. So I believe it’s all about understanding each other.
I 100% agree with Adrienne like why do we need the confusion really. You at my wedding u are considered our people
Let's all wear blazers abd not tell Loni 🤣😂🤣😂 j/k
I actually like how Loni is in the center and balances it out.
Amanda bingo.. I don't like weddings too 😂😂😂 so I don't care
I heard they replacing Amanda with a man I really hope it’s Gary Owen!!!
loved this episode!! spot on A! i love her!
I was my dads best man! I wore the same style of dress as the bridesmaids but the color was the color of the ties on the grooms side. I stood on my fathers side because I am here for him and he choose me to be by his side, for him. I’m coming with him to unite with the bride and her family. ❤️
Intelligence in the room❤️
I'm so happy Jeanie is in a better place in her life now because man she was hurting for a minute.
Am I the only one who keeps playing back when lonni was out of breath? 😂😂
I'm with Adrienne ❤️
Adrienne.. Adrienne 🤦🏻♀️. Completely didn’t understand the topic because she was legit confused lol. Had she got it, she could have just said her personal preference is aesthetics for the photos. Wasted time.
I think people are having cultural misunderstanding. In Puerto Rican weddings we don't see it as 2 separate wedding parties. It's just 1 wedding party. The men stand on the side of the groom, and the women stand on the side of the bride. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. Has nothing to do with which one of us he knew longer.
I’m glad they touched on this topic. It’s interesting to see their growth on these topics over the years
Which topic?
Part of maturity is knowing what limitations your friends have...
Don't get all feely with the techie & don't get all techie with the feely.
Amanda need to be on a show like the view .... the real isn’t really a fit for her
I will observe someone is not doing well and they dont want to talk about it, and I´ll be trying to open up about something hoping it will help them relate and open up but then I´m there talking talking waiting for them to open up and I feel lonely eventually I´ll shut the conversation off
*as in dont worry this happens to all of us ...
Yessss I have a best friend who I’ve known for a long time. She tells me how sad she is but doesn’t realllyyy tell me the true reason why. I always tell her about my problems and personal issues hoping she would break and we would have that bond, but she never did. I eventually gave up and decided to no longer talk about my personal issues cause if she doesn’t trust me enough with hers then I shouldn’t either. Even though she is the only person I like venting and relating to when it comes to our social life. My mom said to give up and it’s her private life. But it still hurts knowing I don’t have someone I could talk to and have a special bond with at the same time.
@@chickenbaddie318 That doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't trust you. Some people just like to keep their problems to themselves.
Gail A. For 8 years? Maybe
I agree with adrienne
Omg. I enjoy the ladies but Adrienne is so loud. And she is the only one that is that loud. Maybe she ha trouble hearing.
She can hear just fine. Some people are simply loud.
I will not move in with a significant other before marriage.
Then be ready for surprises when you marry.
Name Less I am. You’re not going to know every single thing about someone before you marry them (or ever).
That's just way to much info to process. Venting is the best way to find you own way to process you own stuff also to test people that have a inherit disposition to cast Judgement on people that they really probably do not really know in the intimate way that God knows the faithful servant.
Test people?
@@gaila.9852 I would say not to do that because that's what the 🐺 🐺 wild 🐈 🐈 🐈 🐈 cats and 🐦 🐦 🐦 birds are for. See animal kingdom is nothing to play around with because; The gifts from the Heavens above are not as of good worth because of the fact humans are something that have major issues and habits die hard. The value of these words come from real need for assistance, from the divine lines not bizarre behavior of things.
Terrence Billenstein I was asking why you said “test people” in your original comment.
@@gaila.9852 I didn't say test people that's the comment that came under your name. I was replying with my answer
Terrence Billenstein Reread your comment.
Ummm this isn't a business partnership. It should be a marriage. In a marriage any money coming in shouldn't be "yours" or "mine" it's OURS.
That’s a terrible thing to do to someone who is going through a difficult time… Is tell them my situation was so much worse than yours😢😢
Tamera makes everything about her. You would have loved ours? No, she doesn’t like weddings!!
not a good idea because I feel like you think you are not going to be with me forever
Jeannie hated being at the end lol. She was always leaning in towards the middle and felt that she couldn’t be heard
Can you madams do some chit chats over being human? What is means to be human? What does it mean to you to be alive on our Earth? What does life mean to you?
I would love to see a discussion between you ladies about these questions.
Aren't you a human? Why do you need them to discuss that
Chatise Smith well, if you have to ask that, you should try to answer those questions for yourself and see why I’m asking it based off of your own experience. Go deep, if you think on the surface level, you won’t get it.
The audience was silent as the grave when Adrienne was taking 😂 I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thought that was wack. I am on MOH for my best friend’s wedding and I know her future husband a little bit, but it would definitely be weird if I wasn’t standing by her side, and instead standing over by her man... I see what Adrienne is getting at but the reality is that not all friend groups integrate to that point. I think her POV was just a bit gendered... why can’t my male/female/non-binary friend stand at my side? Who cares if we’re mixing up the genders?
Why wouldn't you stand on your friend's side if you're HER friend? The whole point is that if you were her husband's friend, you should stand on his side and not hers just because you're a woman.
@@gaila.9852 exactly, that's what I am saying. It's probably a bad example because my friend and I both identity as women, but I agree with you. The groom/bridal parties should be able to stand next to the person they are at the wedding for, regardless of gender. If I was close with the groom and not so much the bride, and he wanted me in his party, I would hope he'd let me stand up with him even though I'm not a man. Its just a super gendered idea that the sexes must be separated; the point is to stand up with the person who you know and love, and be there with them on this journey of their union.
Eleni Gast Thanks for explaining. The part where you said it would be weird for you to stand on her husband’s side threw me off. I just thought that didn’t apply since you’re the bride’s friend. Anyway, I agree with you. I get what Adrienne was saying and that spouses have mutual friends, but the truth is that Ray is more her friend than Israel’s. Yes, he’s there for the union, but he’s Adrienne’s best friend. Ray standing on Israel’s side since he’s a guy and for all the guys to be together is the outdated idea the hosts were talking about. Adrienne was simply thinking of coordination for pictures.
@@gaila.9852 yeah I did not use a good example there, my bad! XD but yes, I agree I think that's where she was coming from; mostly focused on the aesthetic. That's not my friend's priority during her wedding, ,she would rather be around her people and celebrate the union, as opposed to focusing on pictures. But she's chill and down to earth like that, she doesn't feel the need to put on airs.
Eleni Gast That’s awesome! I hope all goes well. :)
My best friend is a gay guy and although I didn't have a wedding, I imagined he would be my "maid" of honor. he couldn't go on the groom's side cuz he's my bestie
That's adorable
He can go on the grooms side. It's ok that way too.
@@PHE-nomenon I get that but I don't have a best girl friend so then I wouldn't have a maid of honor if he's a groomsmen, know what I mean. And you don't pick just anybody. Basically I don't have many friends 😞
@@PHE-nomenon The whole point of the topic is that a friend of any gender can be in your wedding party.
@- u know what I'm not sure. Maybe there's no competition in dating guys.
If I get married, we’re having separate houses lol 🤣🤣🤣 have your own money… if you didn’t work for it, it’s not yours and that goes both ways… I don’t want your money and you don’t worry about mine. I’m not into mixing money or certain things. Keep yours and I’ll keep mine. I don’t feel entitled to a man’s money and he better not come after mine. NDA’s I wouldn’t mind that.
Why is this so difficult for Adrienne to understand. A marriage is also about bringing two lives together. So the people standing on your side is your people and the people on the grooms side is his people. Having them as partners in the bridal party is part of showing the two lives being brought together. Your people becoming his people. Why is she always acting like its difficult to understand certain things.
Whoa, Jeannie sounded so much like Miley Cyrus at 10:00. That’s funny because people think she looks like Brenda Song, who used to date Miley’s brother.
I'm here for their earrings!!
How do you run over a mountain Loni?
🤣🤣
I thought I was the only one who caught that, hahaha. We get what she's saying though.
she was using hyperbole to make her point
Omg Adrienne
How do people not understand what Adrienne is saying? Maybe it's a Latin thing? We don't have 2 SEPARATE wedding parties. We have 1 wedding party. The men in the party stand next to the groom, the women in the party stand next to the bride. It's not the groom's party and the bride's party. They stand on the side of their gender, not the side of the person they've known the longest. Like if my brother is in my wedding, he stands next to the groom. It's not that hard. why would he stand next to me??
I get that perspective but your brother is your family not a friend . He is now brother in laws with your husband so it would make more sense for him to be on his side. If you had a male best friend they are just saying it’s now the cool thing to make him your maid of honor.
The women in the audience have that “ when i get home im beating my mans ass” look
Hearing Jeanie say that she didn’t sign a prenup when she got married because she didn’t have money then and she wasn’t thinking about what she was going to become I’m thinking about when she was crying on the real and talking about how Freddy has became a different person since they’ve divorced maybe she was crying and stressed about financial reasons during the divorce and how he was possibly trying to get money from her because they did not sign a prenup which sucks if he did turn into a really nasty character like that.
When are they going to come back w/o Tamera? I honestly wish Amanda was there tbh.
People who are that athletically demanding that you can’t have people of different genders on your side. they stood by you in life but you need it to look right so it has to be girls one side boys other. DUMB. Just coordinate everyone’s outfits with a color scheme and let everyone combine stand up with you. My god.
I miss the episodes with Tamar :( I feel like I haven’t genuinely spit out my food laughing since she was on the show
YESSSS ABD THE SHADE SHE WOULD THROOWWW 🤧 I really wonder how she would’ve been with Jeanie now if she was still there
11:52 damn Ade is confused lol ... she didnt get it at all
Why she so naive A
First
The battle of the struggles 😂 never understood people who do that one up