Oh and the lake house story has even more of an update. Parents did in fact NOT use all that money for sisters college. The sisters got together and had a really long talk. Turns out the parents were lying to both of them! Saying "oh we can't afford to do x for you because we are using the money for your sister for y." They found out by comparing notes that the parents have done this their whole lives! Lake house sister has gone NC with parents but is unsure if her sister has/will. No mention was made of the wedding money.
So basically this is just a game to the parents; They like seeing their kids fighting with each other, and I bet this beach house fight was meant to be their endgame.
Disagree, Ava gets 5/5. She deliberately destroyed something precious that can’t be repaired or replaced. She thought about it, then acted on it. Bye Felicia, don’t let the door hit you on the way out.
@@Bremend yeah but what do you give a heartless person who destroyed one of the last things you had of your only live in life. That might as well be criminal.
@@Bremend I thought this was an gradual scale like 0/5 is not a butthole, 5/5 is the butthole and the ones in between are, well, the nuances in between
If she wanted to see what was on the phone she should have yelled for it during a moment she was suspecting him, not till after. Then he could just snap it to her showing the spreadsheet, without 'need' to go through his pictures. Nothing to hide is shit, I don't want a government camera in my home/bathroom.
Not to mention all the private information that people put on their phones these days - credit card info, IDs, etc... Nobody has the right to access that. I would have called the police (not that I trust them all that much) and have them examine the phone to prove his innocence.
1st story: So according to OP, her "creep" was another woman that recorded her working out and posted a video on the internet shaming her. Yet, after they got that woman banned from the gym, she has accused several other people of doing the same thing. I get that she's paranoid, but that does NOT excuse her actions. Also, If OP had shown her his phone, she probably would've accused him of quickly deleting the pics so that she couldn't catch him. She should be banned from the gym asap
Yup!! I see the excuse of people saying "well if she was paranoid why was she wearing see thru clothing with no underwear" but imo she might not have known it could be see through when stretched.. The woman is definitely in the fault here but some people are out right admitting to being misogynistic or not caring what women have to say about this..
@@Ash-lm5vq The main problem is she was violated before, and then falsely accused so many other men. She is wearing no underwear and thin fabric yoga pants, of course it is going to be extremely revealing. She is trying to bait guys into looking at her so she can accuse more. That is what most likely has happened, and I have gone through the comments and most people agree. I haven't seen misogynists in the comments though, so I don't know where you are getting that.
@@justinhaymen23 another commenter actually said that the woman has done this multiple times before op so I agree she likely did it on purpose, however unless they saw that comment or checked the post not many people whore commenting know that fact. So I'm going to answer this as if she wasn't doing this on purpose and I didn't know that fact. She might not have known that when stretched those pants could be seen thru to an extent and not wearing underwear might've just been a personal choice for comfort. This is just what I think her pov might've been if I ONLY heard the story from this video. I'm not saying I don't agree with those comments I'm saying that I've seen some people go as far as to REFUSE to see the woman's side whatsoever even when someone points out that detail. I saw someone call a commenter who guessed the woman's pov a man hater JUST for providing another view on the story. I'm not saying the woman isn't in the wrong she 100% is but some of these replies to comments are straight up using this to be misogynistic that's all.. /gen
That last story: dude is a good dad. Hes accepting of and caring for all his kids. That said: "Eva" just sounds like an arrogant brat. If she needs help with getting her solo life on track, I think OP should do what he can to help. But theres no way she should be allowed back into that home unless shes on the absolute verge of poverty and homelessness, or if the dad decides otherwise, And regardless of why, she'd have to do some major, legitimate apologizing, and work on that attitude with a professional.
@@chriscarpenter3370 regardless, it's up to her father. As much as we think he would/should accept an apology, it's up to him, and hes not obligated to forgive her, with or without conditions.
The last story: Eva completely damaged your property that meant a lot to you. Eva seems like a spoiled brat and if I was bee parent I would have been so distraught
I would go even further and say that being able to go that far and with that much malice and expected no consequences and having no regret makes her seem really dangerous...
I think the most important thing was that smug smile when OP first said to get off. Like this "I'll ruin your life and what you gonna do to me. Parents have to always forget, right? I stabbed you right in the heart and you cannot pay me back for this". Cuz even if this was a shot of temper tantrum and a spite of moment but overall loved OP, cared for him and her late mother, etc. she'd be terrified by what she's done, not when it turned out that this time the consequences are real not just for show.
@@TehCookieLoop Yup and sad to say I would have to say she deserved a 5/5 score in my opinion. She went after those letters specifically to hurt her dad after hurting her brothers and was proven she was wrong because OP didn't want his son and GN kid to be disrespected. The fact he learned about LGBTQ terms also shows he really tried as well as therapy for her. But she went above and beyond what is needed. They know why he didn't remarry and why he cares about those letters. She knew there was a camera and that she did what she wanted which was to hurt him. She never expected him to kick her out because she figured he'd get over it right? But not this time because she went so far that this time I don't think she can ever make it up to him. I wonder if she even read the letters as she destroyed them. Just to see the past or not and the worse part is she has no remorse at all for what she did and will need to be homeless for a bit and forced to be humble quick or she will continue to get worse and worse over time.
@@BlueKinTsukiko I agree with you. I think she knew what the letters were about because why grab some random papers and cut them up and throw them around the house? She knew what they were, she knew it would hurt her father, what she didn't know was that that moment was the breaking point. She's a spoiled brat who thinks daddy will forgive me, that because mommy is gone and that is the reason I am acting out. Hell to the *NO* . She knew what she was doing, and for her to become humble is gonna be a while for that to even happen. She'll say that her brothers and father mistreated her to anyone who would listen and give sympathy to her.
My initial reaction was a little torn, that's your child after all. But after I had a moment to reflect, if you really care about that child, then it's important that the learn about consequences as early as possible. In this case it's already quite late, but it could be much worse later on if there's no intervention: lost jobs, divorces, etc. She has a tough long road ahead of her, but it best that it starts now.
Story 3: Dad deserves a giant hug. He’s clearly trying, trying so DAMN hard (as shown with the books and “I’m new to LGBTQ+, tell me if I say something wrong”), and he loves his family. Raising three kids single, including one who has clear behavioral problems… god, I hope his other two kids are as supportive of him as he clearly is of them.
What I don't understand about Balindas story is if she's had a creeper before, why in the world is she deliberately working out in SEE THROUGH LEGGINGS WITH NO UNDERWEAR!!! That seems kind of suspicious to me.
@Chainz Iron what could you possibly mean by "common sense" in this case? Nobody has the right to creep on anyone else, no matter what, if anything, is worn.
@Alakaizer You shouldn't be wearing something possibly see through, with no underwear, that goes for anyone. Especially in public, or a public area. That's common sense.
The second story has another update. Apparently, the two sisters sat down and talked about their lives and they found out that not only they lied about the house, they had been lying throughout their lives. Like they bought the house for 100k and gave her sister only 50k and said sister had to work for her expenses. And the sister had been told that they couldn't give her several things because they had to spent the money on OP, but OP explained that the insurance paid for those procedures. In other words, they had been putting one sister against the other the majority of their lives so OP cut them off
Eva? Whose Eva? I don't have a child by that name. I'd disown her. Like, as much as it hurts to disown her. That was a line that hurt everyone, and she didn't seem to even care until it effected her.
My approach, if that happened: "Eva, you are hereby exiled from this house for TWO WEEKS effective immediately. Grab your living crap and be out within 24 hours. If by the end of that time you have cooled down and properly stewed about the ramifications of what you just did, you MIGHT be allowed back, but I must warn you that a second instance like this is permanent. This is your sole and final warning. You are 20 years old; you should know better by now." I can understand one bad day, but if it continues, I'm going to show a person just how unforgivable such actions can be in certain environments. Once is a mistake, as the old saying goes.
@@seancarroll9849 You You're trying to be harsh but you kinda just coming across as a push over. va in the story rolled her eyes and had a smug look on her face as soon as she saw her dads emotion in his facial expression. That's exactly what she was after. She knew full well what she was doing the first time and your statement kinda treats her like a child, which she clearly isn't. 40 years ago, she would have instantly got a beat down.
@@jamesmurphy7828 I technically have a three strikes rule, but for that behavior? Two. It's about making sure I am clear when making a point; I've had teachers who used the same tactic on me. And I paraphrase Mister Dukas: "I'm only going to tell you once. After that, there is the door. Don't let it hit you on the way out."
The daughter on the last story was so awful. She sounds like she has serious behavioural problems. I really feel for her dad and siblings because growing up with her just have been a nightmare
I almost want to say that she may have some sociopathic traits because OP mentioned that Eva has been acting out even before her mother passed away. Eva definitely deserved to be kicked out and needs some kind of professional help!
For those wondering what the actual argument between Eva and her siblings was over her moving the car. She even said a slur towards the youngest and PURPOSELY looked into the camera while she cut up the letters
she didnt know he was innocent tho, was she supposed to automatically know that the guy behind her checking his phone frequently wasnt taking photos of her? you obviously dont see her side because you dont understand her side, women have to be scared of men because we dont want to get sexually harassed. she was probably filming bc in “he said, she said” scenarios involving sexual harassment, the victim is almost always ignored because they dont want to “ruin a young mans/womans life.
@@whompwhomp7325 And you're just a sexist same as that women. "Hurr durr all men are bad" screw off. Your irrational fear of men does not, has not, and never will excuse such blatant disregard for other people's rights and privacy. Do you even understand the basic 'innocent until PROVEN guilty'? Just because you choose to dress like that and show off the goods to every man around doesn't mean you're entitled to then go and try to ruin their lives because you THINK he's doing something. Imagine if someone did that to you? Have some EMPATHY you absolute vile garbage human being. Imagine you're sitting at Starbucks and some black guy just walks over, phone in hand, and goes "This woman just called me the N-word!", no proof, no nothing, you're just minding your own business. Would you still sit there and defend him because "well black people face racist challenges all the time so that justifies them randomly accusing innocent people"? Something tells me you wouldn't you disgusting hypocrite.
Second story is missing a chunk. Turns out the parents had been pitting the kids against each other since the age of 7, op needed glass and was blamed for the other no going to girls scouts, op needed braces and the sister got pulled out of somthing. The parents also never gave the sister the college money or paid for her life style and just basically stole it.
Actually, you got it a little mixed up. The sister was pulled out of ballet classes because OP needed glasses (or so the parents said), and the sister was pulled out of girl scouts because OP needed braces.
I like how this girl at the gym didnt get banned for trying to violate this guys privacy and also recording him. Not every state is a one person consent state, she should delete her video. Double standard. guys have a right to privacy too.
Its complete bs, op almost got banned for just not wanting his camera roll gone through but *somehow* she can falsely accuse a bunch of innocent men for doing nothing wrong and face no repercussions. Also if she was really that worried she could wear some underwear and non see-through leggings.
If I was OP, when I was on the phone with the owner after he said the tapes showed he was good I would've said "Thank you. Now what are you going to do with her? She recorded me without MY concent while (falsly) accusing me of taking pictures of her without her concent?" Anything less than her being banned & I would tell him "I see this gym believes in double standards and promotes sexism. I am withdrawing my membership immediately and there will be no termination fees."
You don't need anyone's permission to record in a public setting. Even in a private business, all they can do is ask you to leave. This applies in all 50 states
Something like the first story happened before to me. A girl accused me of taking photos of her at a bar a friend worked at. When they asked me to show them the camera roll, i told them "I'll show you, but only if you ban her from this bar. It's unfair that I have to show you my private property because she thinks I'm taking pictures of her." They agreed. First pic was one where I was kissing my boyfriend's cheek. The girl threw a fit, but was kicked out and banned. Serves her right. 🤴
Ehhh i kinda don't agree with banning her. If she's harrassing you over it maybe, but just thinking someone might be taking pictures of you and having a normal reaction of wanting to make sure it didn't happen shouldn't get someone banned. That's just going to make girls scared to confront people who might be taking pictures of them or acting in a creepy way, which is a problem that happens. Girls have to be defensive, this world is extremely dangerous for women. Like, yeah, you got accused and then were proved innocent, what harm was actually caused?
@@lynniewood my privacy was violated, i was yelled at, I was stressed out over a false accusation, I was called a liar and felt like shit for the rest of the night out because some psycho thought that a gay guy was taking pictures of her. I'm sorry it's bad for women out there, but I won't stand for being falsely accused and letting anybody leave free of charge. I value myself enough to not let be ran over people like that.
@@ciram9082 dude don't listen to that guy he is obviously on another planet rn you were 100% right. People can't demand to look at your private property on a hunch, a he said she said should be a draw NOT a situation where the man loses.
OP is a great father, and his 20 year old daughter is acting like a child, she is living in his house, and she disrespected her sibling calling them a slur, and destroyed something OP loved from his dead wife, he's no asshole for kicking her out, he's doing her a favor making her grow up
To me, Belinda handled that very poorly. While I can understand her concerns, she had no right to loudly accuse OP. That has a direct impact on him, and I'm sure the gym manager didn't call everyone else there to let them know OP was indeed not taking photos and was wrongly accussed.
Oh god what Eva did is unforgivable, what did she had in mind? That she would only get more days in her grounded time? She needs to grown the f up, dont take her back
If I were OP I would take her back when I get those letters fixed. 100% must be same no missing part. Oh is it impossible? If so then it's also impossible she can get back. Anyway, what is the argument in the first place. This better be something not stupid.
Just my opinion but the first story the fact that she is recording the whole situation makes it feel like more of she’s trying to record a “gotcha” video. Even after he was proven innocent she could post it and he could have problems from that. I think she needs to apologize and delete her recording. That part of it just kinda felt wrong.
I saw it more as some kind of protection in case he got violent. Without video it would have just been a 'he said she said' type deal, which, despite what a lot of people seem to believe, often doesn't end well for the woman.
1. "If you have nothing to hide, show me," is a bad excuse for violating someone's privacy. 2. Oh, I know what's going to happen: the parents are gonna get theirs! 3. Eva knew exactly what she did; what she didn't know was that there would be consequences.
3. EVA IS *20* they’re an adult, they act like that, they get an adult punishment. Don’t bite the hand that fed you or destroy the most valuable things to them.
Totally insane to not give Belinda at least 4 buttholes. She falsely accused the guy. Insulted him. Called him a pervert in public for everyone to hear, She filmed him while she berated him and tried to shame and pressure him into doing something he didn't want and didn't have to do. She wanted him kicked out of the gym. She should be seriously punished for that. Her psychological problems are not everybody else's fault. Her (alleged - maybe that poor guy was as innocent as OP!) prior victimhood does not excuse this kind of behavior!
Well OP is the AH in that. Belinda recording was wrong but if anyone literally anyone wouldve been in that situation they would've reacted the same way except the recording part. Plus OP just had to show his recent (last 5-10 approx) photos not his entire phone where they would find his uncensored picture. Don't think OP is any less of an idiot, he did all that just to create a scene too.
@@sujithkumar4395 that’s not right at all. He didn’t make a scene. Brenda did. Brenda yelled and got people’s attention. As a person who falsely accused of sexual harassment, this is clearly just an attention seeking moment. She should not have had her phone out to start with. She was probably going to make a video degrading him even IF he was innocent. It could have ruined his life, and she never deleted it. I agree with the 4/5 Butthole rating given by fans
@@Thegamergabe4.0 As I told above the recording part and her making a scene is totally wrong, but her being worried about the pictures is justified in this situation. He just had to show last 3-4 pictures not his entire freaking phone. So OP is also the AH
Not to mention she is 20. I’m 20, who the heck has a reaction that defaces the memories of your dead mother to “get back” at your father. That kind of reaction is something you’d expect from a 5 year old, not a 20 year old woman…
@@ShockingPikachu Not even a five year old, that’s too deliberate, malicious, and intelligent for a five year old. This is the work of an apathetic, evil, immature brat of an adult. Eva is destined to get thrown in jail one day if ‘destruction of property’ is her go to reaction to being scolded and restricted.
@@gaxalee7392 it wasn’t even a major scold it was “You called your sibling a slur so no car for a while” definitely not deserving of that kind of reaction
There was another update on the second story about the house. The parents weren’t fully paying for the sister. She still had to get a job to pay for books and rent and neither sister know what the parents did with the rest of the money from the house sale. The parents weren’t favouring one they were purposely putting them against each other. They told the sister that op was staying for free in the bench house and told op they were paying everything on the sister college. I think the parents are even worse than they originally looked like.
Don't agree with the first one. I can understand how she may feel uncomfortable but her blatant breakdown on top of nearly banning the man out of the gym because of her previous experiences with trauma just doesn't rub off the right way. That on top of the fact that he and many others have been accused of similar crap just shows that she is projecting her past trauma onto other people. She should seek therapy if we're being honest
@@josephnorris4095 agreed! I’m a women and I have to call out the fact that she’s wearing no underwear and see-through leggings. I can’t speak for us all obviously, but I definitely check the mirror before leaving the house and making sure nothing can be seen. I’m of the opinion that she’s doing it on purpose
@@josephnorris4095 what woman just decides to get perved on on purpose? op obviously wasnt, but saying that women are getting mad at people that they suspect are being creeps for attention or whatever isnt right. i cant blame her for being worried about her own privacy, considering the statistics of women being sexually harassed these days. i feel bad for op, he was in a loose/loose situation, but he couldve just shown them his camera role snd it wouldve been done with fast. he mentioned how his girlfriends nudes are in his phone so he didnt want to show them, but its not like they were gonna ask to see her nudes. you have to understand that in these situations when you refuse to do something that would either show your innocence or your guilt, but you swear youre innocent, you look guilty. womens only gyms arent all that common either, plus THOSE types of men get triggered at their mere existence. she also may have not been aware that they were see-through, and although wearing no underwear to a gym is definitely strange. please tell me if i misread or misinterpreted your comment!
@@whompwhomp7325 Sorry, but your wrong on a vey important point, at no point should he ever have to prove his innocence, UNLESS, they had some actually tangible proff of him having done anything in the first place, wich she didn't have obviously.
@@whompwhomp7325 So they have a right to invade his privacy and possibly see what we know are highly inappropriate photos and pictures of a nude woman, who is _not_ Belinda, because of a _blind_ accusation? “It’s not like they were going to ask to see her nudes.” I’m really trying to make sense of that.
For that first story i think you're wrong Even if she's dealt with it before she still over-exaggerated by yelling and screaming while recording him when she couldve asked the manager to be there to back her up if needed when she confronted him. By making a massive scene she made herself look like an idiot and nearly got an innocent man banned because she wanted to make a scene over something that was nothing. There was no "defend against a creeper" there was only "looks like this guy is taking pictures of me, lets act like a child instead of being mature"
We hear about all kinds of entitlement on this channel and the lengths some people go through to get validation and attention. When op mentioned that Belinda was wearing semi translucent shorts and no nickers. Which kinda sounded to me like she may have known what she was doing and op so happened to be on his phone behind her. R/slash may have taken benefit of the doubt, but there could be a bumhole rating for her for maybe instigating things.
@@hair4022 lmao okay it kinda seemed you were but read Skyrats comment, i hadnt thought about it before and she def was making a massive scene concerning that now
"Prove your innocence"? Isn't that the wrong way round? The "if you've got nothing to hide you have nothing to worry about" really peeves me. In this instance, "OK,. lady, so long as you let me go through YOUR phone and check all YOUR pictures. What? Then you must have something to hide"
That first story is bs. Guilty until proven innocent is a screwed up way to operate and I can honestly tell you that his thoughtline on not wanting to work out behind her because he KNEW something like that was going to happen is something every guy has to deal with because that is exactly what happens.
@@kickerkirby6918 exactly! Like it's not ok either way...so why is it a woman does this but nothing happens but God forbid a man does it...then everyone is ready to beat him.
that last one makes me so mad. she had to know how much something like that would mean to him, it was probably one of the worst things she could have done without resorting to violence of arsen.
Swap the genders and it would be seen as funny and harmless because men, and the man would be chuckled out the instant he did that to a girl without management even blinking.
What Eva did in the last story was so absolutely terrible I straight up cried I felt so bad for OP. He has every right to kick her out shes an adult and has no excuse to spout slurs and destroy something you CANT GET BACK I'm actually genuinely pissed I hope OP was able to put them back together or restore them in some way I'm genuinely so distressed at how someone could be so cruel over a car and a petty fight GOD That was hitting too close to home jesus christ
Belinda sounds like a "girl cries sexual harassment" situation. Most people, and I do mean most, don't immediately start recording strangers and accusing them of crimes. Especially in a crowded gym. Especially if you feel threatened. Could he have been a creep? Sure. Men suck, especially aggro men at gyms, and her fears are valid. But if he's doing whatever and checking his phone and never lifts it up enough to take a photo, why assume he's taking photos? How would you know if you're not looking constantly at him? She's devaluing actual sexual harassment claims if she's knowingly doing this consistently. It's disgusting. She needs therapy and a ban from the gym. Actual women get MURDERED for fighting back and she's causing scenes for fun or validation or whatever? It's annoying as fuck, as a woman, too see women acting the fool and making it harder for the rest of us to be taken seriously. Also: sometimes you can't tell if your clothes are see through. My home lighting isn't gym lighting, you know? I personally wear underwear while working out, but I know women who don't due to smell and hygiene reasons. 🤷🏽♀️ Don't slut shame women for being comfortable, shame women for making repeated false accusations.
I have serious issues with that first story. Yes, I get she that she had a problem once upon a time but to assume like that... It's hearing stories like that which tells me to never talk to or even look at random people. They will just as soon attack you and with no proof, you are always assumed to be the bad guy. Humans quite frankly suck.
As a women, I can say for a fact that I know when my clothes are see-through and it is a choice to go commando. I can’t say that all women check their mirror before leaving the house, but many do just to make sure they look right or even just to check themselves out. I personally think she does this on purpose.
For the last story: I hope he's able to put the pieces back together and maybe get them dry mounted for more stability. Eva literally destroyed not only his wife's, but their mother's precious letters wtf
For the lake house story: The sister was manipulated by the parents. The parents not only tried to use their children for guilt-tripping and trying to use OP, they also manipulated the favored child and lied to them. And we don’t even know the full story, it could be even worse. Edit: Recently found out the parents stole from both of their kids. Changed the score to reflect this. Sister - 0/5. OP: 0/5. Parents: 5/5. Doing edit for first story. So yeah, I get that she was likely traumatized from her experience with the actual creep. However, that doesn’t give her the right to randomly start recording and yelling and screaming at the guy behind her simply because his phone was out when he was taking breaks. It’s reasonable if you can tell, “Hey, this dude is definitely taking pictures of me.” Then I’d get that you would do that. But it was very clear here that he wasn’t, as he never angled the phone towards her. Plus, she tried to violate his privacy to validate hers. “If you have nothing to hide, don’t be afraid!” Yes the guy had something to hide, his crotch! Seriously lady, if there’s an alternate way to prove he wasn’t being a creep, then I’d accept it and apologize. Not only that, but it really seemed like she was trying to set a trap or something. Who willingly wears clear pants without underwear? And then she immediately starts recording as soon as she turns around? Like others have said, this seems like she’s trying to ruin the lives of random people. She might have good intentions, but she’s still doing things that could destroy innocent people. Im going to have to give her 1.5/5 for this, because while some of it is understandable, the circumstances were very specific and odd.
Because many people believe (at least in America usa) that getting a free house is the American dream. And manny immigrants have been given homes free and they believe they are entitled to free shit. Not everyone is like that but most are. Even those born in America are given shit free and believe they are entitled to free money.
You're wrong on the first story, RSlash. First, there is no such a thing as "prove your innocence" in situations like these. It is a fallacy to prove the negative: "prove me to me you were not taking pictures of me" is just plain stupid, the accuser should provide proof of the accusation, not the other way round. The girl is paranoid, and she obviously has history of making the same false accusations because of that creeper incident. She was in the wrong to request proof and make a scene. If she couldn't believe OP, she should have just gone to gym management. She didn't, he did. That kind of behaviour is both irresponsible, paranoid and just plain wrong, and she deserves to be faulted at least 1/5. Gym management on the hand is ridiculous. You have a customer who has history of making similar false accusations being dragged into the office by the person she accused. You don't ask to see people personal photos on their phones, you review your cameras and you treat everyone as honest and truthful till then. Gym management should get at least 2/5 for incompetence.
Maybe instead of going commando in translucent yoga pants, wear underwear or get thicker or darker pants. There was another story about someone bringing up the same issue with another woman whose perineal area was on full display through her yoga pants, and she went off on them.
I was thinking the same thing. Wear work out pants that are dark enough/thick enough to hide the fact you are commando if you insist on going as such, if not, then you have no reason to complain that someone can see you. Wear underwear or darker workout gear
@@asmith8692 Like pervs wouldn't take pictures of a woman in opaque tights? Her choice of clothing has no more to do with this situation than it does with rape
@@asmith8692 it’s ridiculous that man can’t wear show clothing but woman can. That should be illegal, because just because she’s a woman doesn’t mean I’m forced to see her vagina. Also, I’m a female, so if it would annoy me imagine how uncomfortable it would be for a man!
Belinda deserves 4/5. This guy proved he was logging stuff and she had view of him in the mirrors probably. IF she does this often it looks like she’s an attention seeker and might be doing it on purpose for some weird power trip on her mind.
She's not on a power trip, she's just scared. Almost every woman I know who has had a history of dealing with creeps tends to be on high alert pretty often (for good reason).
Dude, don't be a dick. She was in the wrong to think OP should be fine with having his privacy invaded because she THINKS he's violating hers, but the problem is a very real one and it doesn't just happen at the gym. If a man takes pictures of a woman without her consent he's the butthole. I don't blame her for being suspicious, I would give her maybe 1/5 for still pushing it.
@@theviewer6889 I completely get be on high alert as I am daily, what I don't do is try to draw attention to myself. I'll move is someone or something makes me uncomfortable at the gym or anywhere. I know I don't or shouldn't have to but I do because it gives me peace of mind and makes me feel safer. I honestly think the girl was attention seeking in this story though...
The first story about the girl in the gym: I would agree with rslash except for the fact that she was filming the whole thing: the first confrontation and the talk with the staff. This was not just the girl being cautious; this was her looking for a confrontation and too embarrass him. I would say she is TA
For the first story, the fact she is recording AND that she is wearing see-through pants with no underwear AND that this is not her first rodeo is really suspicious, like she really tried to bait someone to post it later for clout.
I'm pretty sure this is a "trend" on TikTok. I probably sound like a boomer saying that but TikTok is a trash can that all the human garbage love to congregate. The gross acts they call trends disturb me. Like when it became popular to get large drinks at a drive thru and then throw it at the window worker before driving off, there was worse trend then that but as a former Dunks worker that sticks out to me most.it really wouldn't surprise me if "baiting perverts" was a new TikTok trend.
There's another update to the two sister's stories. Turns out the parents were putting the sister's against each other. I guess they paid for the ones braces by forcing the b other to lose out on activities. Turn out the braces were covered by insurance.
That second story is fine: Ask the parents where they will be staying for those two weeks while OP lives at their house as OP will need a place to live and have "private time" with their girlfriend.
First story: bad call on the no butthole. She was DEFINITELY being a butthole for recording the interaction and yelling/ causing a scene. That is not how reasonable people act unless they are being directly menaced. The proper way to handle that would have been to speak reasonably to him and if he says or does something offensive or menacing then take it to the staff for help. I get she’s had to deal with creeps before; I don’t know any woman who hasn’t. That is no excuse to go nuts and start recording; and what was she going to do with that video next? What DID she do with that footage of her yelling at a wronged man?
“Excuse me sir, I’m a bit worried about you filming me, do you mind if I can see your camera roll for the past little bit? No? Okay, we’ll do you mind if I ask management?” Would have given the same result and less arguments
I cried on the last story... How could she do that to her own father and mother? I wont be able to forgive her if she did that to me. I wouldnt be looking at her as my daughter but as a woman.
It’s honestly more disrespectful toward her mother than her father… she is also 20 ffs. That is such a childish reaction to having car privileges very understandably revoked. Don’t like that they can do that? You’re 20, get your own car! Don’t destroy memories of your mother you absolute sociopath… I’m 20, I live at home with my parents, I don’t own my own car. I could just never ever think about ruining anything that reminds me of a deceased parent. Just what kind of person does that when you were justifiably punished for using slurs… just wow… what a child
@@chriscarpenter3370 I don’t use it too often as it is so I’m not in a position that I’d require my own bought car. I’m just placing context to a similar situation to me, just pointing out how childish such a reaction for a 20 year old is
If OP had said he backhanded Eva, he still would get 0/5 BH's. She could have hidden his keys, given him the silent treatment, something that shows displeasure without being mean. But to destroy irreplaceable things like love letters from his long lost wife, her mother, that crosses a boundary that can never be fixed. He can forgive her, but she can never make it right. To add to it that she was being smug, that just makes it a billion times worse. I would never trust her to be alone in my house around my things ever again.
@@lemonfox8052 and she shouldn’t be. She is an adult and ruined some of her father’s only cherished possessions. Not only that she disrespected her deceased mother and has been an overall asshole to her young nb sibling. They don’t deserve to be called slurs no matter the argument. Eva is an adult, 20, she should know better than to have the reaction of a 5 year old’s tantrum it’s pathetic…
My first impression of the first story was that Belinda (or Brenda?) was deliberately trying to get some kind of scandal going, hoping it would possibly benefit her. She has to be aware of how she dresses in public and the first thing she does is start recording while confronting people, just because "I know you were taking photos! I didn't see you doing it, but I know!"
“She was dressed a certain way, so she was asking for it!” Brenda was clearly wrong and wretched, but come on. Her actions vilified her, not her attire.
The first story when the girl freaks out I mean Its understandable like they said she has had a creep but that makes no sense he could of been doing anything with his phone like texting someone
First one the 4th amendment protects you. Everyone has the right to be safe and secure in their person's, places and papers. No one has the expectation of privacy in public. Op did nothing wrong, the manager and the lady gets 2 outta 5 buttholes, regardless of how you look in PUBLIC you have no privacy in PUBLIC.
The manager didn't violate his 4th amendment rights. He also has every right to implement a code of conduct in his facilities, so... why are you giving him buttholes?
My dad bought a house that was his grandparents with a note that the aunt could come stay there whenever she wanted. Since it is a big house, that wasn't the issue. The problem is that she lent the key to her other family, which staid there and didn't clean after them, they also ate the food etc. Not sure what the exact outcome was, but he changed the locks, or got the key back. There were some drama and much talk about the legality. He now has the house for him self (and his wife). Some day I might get the house and live there, and I don't want any uninvited guests.
WHY IS NO ONE talking about how Belinda was wearing see-thru leggings and no underwear?? And especially to a gym out of all the places! She definely was setting guys up in order to sue them or something
Um excuse me regardless of what she l8r did, her clothing has nothing 2 do w/ it. Ok she might have been a bitch but she can wear whatever tf she likes it’s her body
@@thatmouldyavocado9868 how many sane people go out without underwear to begin with? ESPECIALLY if they're gonna be wearing leggings? And what kind of person do you have to be to be comfortable wearing see-through leggings?? I believe your argument is just willfully ignorant and downplaying how awful some women can be. To me, she really is doing it on purpose.
@@thatmouldyavocado9868 If she's gonna go out in tight leggings and no undies why is she surprised people are looking at her? As a hetero woman myself I'd look too. Yes she can wear what she wants. She could've gone to the gym in a purple dinosaur costume and people would still turn to look at her. No ones going to do anything to her but it's kinda silly that she does something to draw attention to herself then gets mad when people give her attention. There's definitely a double standard here and her behavior is suspicious.
I’m getting tired of the blatant sexism and double standards towards men. People preach equality and yet here we are forcing men to prove their innocence. It enrages me- It’s not socially acceptable to demand a woman to prove her innocence should a man catch her taking pics of him, whether it’s true or not. I get it, she had a stalker for a while, but screaming about it in public while shoving her phone in his face is unacceptable, the harassment is unacceptable. Treat other people the way you want to be treated, show some goddamn respect.
All that talk of equalty, but I ask this. If a guy walked u to a girl and demanded that a guy show me all the pics/vids on their phone to prove that she wasn't taking pictures of her, would the gym try to kick out the guy?
I fucking hate the "girls are always right and boys are just creeps" mentality. Quote from my dad"WOMEN CAN BE CREEPS TOO I had an ex stalk me for months after our breakup."
I agree. I have witnessed groups of girls treating a lone man in a way which would see a man under lock and key for similar behaviour. Women on hen nights, women in gyms, drunk women in general. Sexual harassment is wrong, full stop. Many years ago my then sixteen year old son was targeted by a female teacher. Her behaviour was beyond inappropriate and he was becoming incredibly anxious. The reaction from the school? What is he complaining about?!! They genuinely thought he should just shut up and enjoy it! They backtracked rapidly when I immediately withdrew my three sons and they lost a massive amount in school fees. Too little, too late. Perhaps it would also be a good idea to wear underwear if you don't want people to stare. It makes no sense that a girl who had already had a bad experience would behave in this way. Please don't misunderstand, women have the right to wear whatever they like without fearing for their safety but a line has to be drawn somewhere and I think perhaps knickers are the Rubicon in everyday life.
@@FranciscoGarcia-ns4om This was from the guy's pov and he talks about how she wasn't wearing any underwear. Maybe the girl caught him checking her out or something. I generally believe that most people aren't crazy and don't want to make a scene. Like rslash i totally get both sides.
rSlash, there is an update for the second story. Apparently they didn't tell her sister that they sold the house. Also, they didn't pay her for everything. They only paid the tuition and everything else had to be paid by her sister. They just plotted one against the other. Edit : OP actually made a separate post.
That last story is just really messed up. Eva is just plain evil. Look I have no doubt that some of this was caused by her dealing with her mother's death, but that is not an excuse. She knew about the cameras and she wanted her father to know what she did, this goes beyond a normal temper tantrum, this is just plain malicious behavior plain and simple.
The first story just kind of pisses me off because they seemed like they wouldn't have asked the girl accusing the creeping to show her phone, nor would they have accused her of violating privacy by filming someone else at a gym
Regarding the comments to the first story: can we stop making this a man vs woman thing? Sure we can say its society's fault. But us perpetuating it in the comments doesn't help. We're at that point where lots of us don't even need to hear the whole story. Some just automatically take the side of either men or women. It's tiring.
Yes! Thank you! Got so many comments saying that Belinda was somehow trying to bait OP when it’s just as possible that she’s recording for any potential legal issues. Yes, she was a bit of a butthole, but having lived with someone with PTSD, I can understand her behavior. I just hope she apologized to OP for the misunderstanding.
Thank you bc reading some of the comments on this vid just give me hives bc if you look closer, both of them weren't really in the wrong( bc op wasn't actually taking pics he was charting his progress and he didn't want people going through his phone due to private media, and was innocent and bc Brenda pretty much already went through a scenario where a guy was taking pics of her while doing squats, so it makes sense she'd be on alert so the ppl saying bad stuff about her just grossed me out and it just raises red flags on the fact that ppl keep doing this whenever someone experiences something like this
First story: I agree with what someone else said in the comments. Belinda having a prior incident with someone at the gym doesn't mean she can act like a child throwing a tantrum. The gym manager should've defused the situation a lot better. OP is definitely not wrong if he were to demand an apology. 2nd story: Parents deserve a tongue lashing from all of the kids. Pitting your children against each other is never ok. The children all deserve some sort of explanation from them, and depending on that conversation, they should all consider going low or no contact. They've been lying to their children for years and that's not ok. 3rd story: OP definitely needs to stand his ground. Eva is an adult and she should understand actions have consequences. That she destroyed precious property that didn't belong to her, then acted like she won the war shows she doesn't respect boundaries. When she was told to leave and she started crying, it seems she doesn't actually care about the consequences until they negatively affect and inconvenience her. Eva needs a reality check.
The gym one, I think she set it up Wear transparent leggings, wear nothing underneath Op says there two of the machines she chose the one in front so anyone wanting to use the other one will have to use the one behind her while she's bending over in see through leggings with nothing underneath, I think she set it up looking to accuse someone
Fairly big update to Story 2: Shit went down after my original post and I couldn't find time to make any new edits before I received judgement. Not everything is resolved here so I'm not making a final update yet. It was suggested I save that until I know things are resolved. But here's a comment to update everyone who has been asking for once since my first post. • My sister did confront our parents about them selling the house. They tried playing dumb, asking her what she meant, but went quiet after she told them she knew they did and texted them the picture I sent her of the contract I signed when buying the lake house, proving I owned the place. • Sister was furious and said they lied to her about who owned the house and let her look like a lunatic. They went in circles, saying they definitely told her about it but she must have forgotten since she was so focused on her first year of college, but my sister's adamant that she wouldn't forget about something as big as them selling a whole house. • Sister called me back the next day and asked if we could talk. She said she felt like she didn't know what was the truth anymore (didn't blame her) so we sat and talked for what felt like hours. We hadn't talked that long since we were kids. It was sorta nice at some parts. But it was also upsetting in more parts because it shed some nasty light on a lot of stuff from our childhoods. • She asked how much they sold the house for, I told her (close to 100k), and she said that didn't add up. According to her, all four years of her tuition cost just under 50k. She revealed that she had to get a job and rent an apartment with a friend to be able to afford living by her school. Which shocked me and I told her how our parents told me they paid for everything for her; books, groceries, her apartment, etc. That means there's about $50,000 from the sale of the house that's currently unaccounted for. • She did apologize for being rude to me the other day. She said she hadn't known about me owning my house and wouldn't have acted that way if she'd known I actually bought it. Our parents made it seem like they were just letting me live there for free out of the kindness of their hearts. And she felt jealous that I got to live rent free in a vacation home while she was busting her ass to make a name for herself in her field after 4 years of college on top of having a crappy minimum wage job. She felt bitter because she felt like I always ruined things for her. • I asked her what she meant by that and it turns out our parents were blaming me for stuff behind my back to my sister for... practically our entire lives. Like the time they pulled her out of ballet class when she was 7. They told her it was supposedly because they had to pay for my glasses and couldn't afford the classes on top of that. Or when they wouldn't pay for her to join girl scouts with her friends, they said it was because I needed braces and that was more important than girl scouts. But I told her that dad's insurance had paid for both of those. So it sounds like they just didn't want to pay for her classes/girl scouts. And decided I was a nice clueless patsy to use so their precious baby girl wouldn't hate them. • I've gone NC with parents. Not sure if Sis is as well. I sent them one text saying after this I don't think I can stomach speaking to them for a very long time, if ever again. And if they have any respect for me they'll not try to contact me. Then I blocked their number and also blocked them on everything I could think of. There is so much more but I don't want this comment to get too long. Any questions you guys have I'll try my best to answer them. But things are still happening. tl;dr my parents have been using me as the scapegoat for pretty much everything they did that upset my sister since we were kids.
Holy shit, I will say this, I wouldn't blame them for keeping some of the money from the sale to be used on themselves, but when they've blatently put you guys up against each other and lied about everything.... I hope you and your sister manage to mend your relationship properly :)
Rslash no Belinda more like Karen. I thought you were an expert on Karen’s you should know that Karen’s do this stuff all the time. “If a guy gets behind you starts doing squats and takes out his phone it’s not unreasonable to assume he’s taking photos” uhhh yes it is that’s a HUGE jump to conclusions and the fact that she was making it obvious to everyone showed that she had the intentions of ruining OP’s reputation. False accusations like this can ruin someone’s life. She’s absolutely a Karen.
I don't think it's an unreasonable jump considering she had a creep before that was doing it.. so she's probably a little more paranoid. She went about it all wrong though.
@@sadpotato3386 then again, what if that creep was made up and just an excuse to do this kind of stuff. There weren‘t enough details in the story on that.
I’ve been recorded and photographed without consent numerous times, the problem is, if you can’t take the phone and look at it, they can just be like “no I didn’t,” and then that’s that. So I don’t think this is a total black and white situation, because while I believe OP had the right to privacy, it is also a stressful situation that happens way too often, which might be why she flipped out. That’s why many locker rooms forbid the use of cellphones while in the locker room and gyms should likely have specific rules on it as well, for people to be able to feel comfortable in the space. And for the record, no, I wasn’t wearing see through pants when I got recorded (not that it should really matter, but just saying). One person did sneak a camera under my skirt and another time I was just at work, working...regular work uniform, at a popular sandwich shop. This guy would regularly photograph me and try to sneak and film me and he and his buddy would talk about it, but we couldn’t do anything without proof and I had no way to get the proof. Also have had that happen at bars from a few different creepers....I have had other times I suspect it, but can’t prove it, so I hate having phones pointed at me, but generally feel like I can’t do anything about it. It sucks, it’s a bad feeling. Maybe she didn’t handle it very well, but since phones are also cameras now, it’s uncomfortable to be at a place designated for working out and have a person sitting behind you, not working out and instead using a phone/possible camera. It’s not that she’s flattering herself, it’s likely just years of uncomfortable experiences and situations. I mean, even my school did creepy stuff, like our strength training teacher would let the guys in our class line up behind us and watch me and the only other girl in my gym class do workout videos. If we stopped, we lost our points, but they didn’t. Doesn’t mean every guy is a predator, but there are reasons why she probably felt super guarded, besides that she was trying to be a b. I do think that they should have enforced her to delete her video when they showed he was innocent - if they didn’t watch her delete it, I don’t think that’s fair.
Yeah it hit me weird when the post said that the lady had dealt with a creeper before so why would she then wear nothing under her leggings (or whatever they are-)?
About the first story: That woman is crazy. She basically thinks she’s so hot that that’s the only option for what could be happening, and then, without knowing if your were guilty or not, made a scene in YOUR OWN gym in front of everyone AND recorded you without your permission. You didn’t have to show her anything. This was a public place, where you were doing normal things. Also, it’s a gym! Everyone checks their phones in the gym. Also, she was pretty rude you didn’t own her anything, specially when you were able to prove it in another way. And, again, you are not forced to show your private pics, if not by desire, specially not after this show.
OP apparently ended up going no contact with the parents, because OP and sister got talking and found out parents have been lying to both of them about a lot of things their whole life
Why does that one girl wear clothes that are showy, and then get mad at people looking at her? I mean it’s bad but she can’t exactly do that. Feels like she’s trying to catch people.
First story: Belinda is an attention seeker and is recording for the sake of a 'ha! gotcha!' result. I understand that she had a creeper previously, that doesn't make everyone in the gym one... Also, don't be naked in public? Why is she obsessed with privacy yet is practically naked? Lol. For sure, if this was the other way around... There will be no story.
First story: i hate this "if you dont have anything to hide you can show it" Thats an argument a lot of ppl bring about privacy but its just so wrong in its core. First of all yes i have pictures to hide xd who has no pics on his phone that are private? I kean even a pic to look up whats that on my back i dont want anyone to see xd. Second is more overall and not only this situation but the more info you give out of you the more ppl can abuse you. Myb so they know that you want a product and so they sell it for a higher proce then usuall.
First story: All he needed to say is this "Why would I take pictures of you, you're ugly AF. Go bother someone who cares" . Since she just going assume people look at her for her looks. (Nevertheless use a cellphone for a workout)
2nd story, I think you did really well breaking it down! I might have given the sister .5 buttholes outta 5 mostly for not communicating properly with OP in the first place, "mom and dad said we're honeymooning at the lake house, have you made other arrangements for those 2 weeks yet?" Would have been VERY helpful to OP to nip it in the bud imo Otherwise awesome video RSlash🖤
Well Belinda thinks everyone is watching her probably. Eva screwed up. She's old enough to know what she did was so wrong. She's 20, time for her to work and get her own place, especially after what she did.
Dude, the girl at the gym was a total a hole. Just because someone did something to you once doesn't give you the right to go around making accusations and demanding people to give up their rights for your feelings. Besides, why is she wearing something so revealing that she can't have pictures taken of her in a public place? Do they need to erase the security tapes too?
It's unfortunate that we got the lake house story without further updates. I'd say the sister's silence in the last call is a moment of realization that not only has she unknowingly done something terrible to her sibling, but the blame is 100% on the very same people who are paying for her wedding. She's in an impossible position where her wedding was already hindered and reduced to a fraction of what it was supposed to be, she's likely said horrible things about OP to her family and friends and now understands she must clean OP's name, but that means throwing her parents (and herself, to a degree) under the bus. After this, I don't see how she could hope to get a wholesome non-disappointing toxicity-free wedding, and it doesn't matter if she's spoiled or not; that realization is a lot to take in.
There is more to the sisters and the lake house story. The sisters actually had a sit down without the parents and really talked. Not just about the house and wedding situation but about the school thing and their past. They realized that not only didn't the money thing add up, but the sister had her school paid for and used the school money to pit them against each other. Then after going back they were so hurt to realize that they have been doing it all of their lives.
I would do the same to Belinda the next time she's at the gym, i'd be next to her, doing whatever it is i'm doing and then accuse her of taking pictures of me and demand to see her phone. Let's see those double standards kick in.
I totally disagree with you on that first one rSlash. First of all, the woman in the story shouldn't be harassing other people because she 'thinks' they were taking photos of her. Secondly, she was RECORDING HIM, whilst ACCUSING him of being a creep. Was she made to delete that video of the OP? Was she banned for being an insane woman? Probably not. It's a NTA to OP, YTA for everyone else.
First story: So it's okay for a woman to record a guy without his consent to make false accusations that he was taking pics without her consent. If you don't see the double standard in this, you are part of the problem with society.
@@ne0n564 It may be a comfort thing. Some people just don't wear underwear. That said, with everything else she's done, it's just as likely intentional to try and get sleezed on so she can make a calling out video. This reeks of "I'm looking for attention."
@@ne0n564 "ugh these disgusting men keep perving on me, better go to the gym without underwear and only wearing tight leggings" that combined with the fact that she instantly turned on her phone and started filming points to the fact that she was baiting people so she could gain internet clout once she uploaded the vid.
recording a guy appropriately bc you thought he was perving on you = taking photos of people inappropriately without their consent men surprise me every day
I listen to these videos all the time, and very few things can surprise me anymore, but when a girl who was clearly in the wrong (calling her own sibling a slur) decides to get revenge by destroying the love letters her father's dead wife wrote him...yeah I gasped.
In the second story, sounds like OP's parents love his sister way more than they love OP.
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Oh and the lake house story has even more of an update. Parents did in fact NOT use all that money for sisters college. The sisters got together and had a really long talk. Turns out the parents were lying to both of them! Saying "oh we can't afford to do x for you because we are using the money for your sister for y." They found out by comparing notes that the parents have done this their whole lives! Lake house sister has gone NC with parents but is unsure if her sister has/will. No mention was made of the wedding money.
Holly shit that crazy.
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Some parents are really something
So basically this is just a game to the parents; They like seeing their kids fighting with each other, and I bet this beach house fight was meant to be their endgame.
Holy crap that's insane!
Disagree, Ava gets 5/5. She deliberately destroyed something precious that can’t be repaired or replaced. She thought about it, then acted on it. Bye Felicia, don’t let the door hit you on the way out.
5/5s go to child molesters and abusers. Rslash has mentioned this in the past that he saves 5/5s for these very serious criminal cases types.
@@Bremend yeah but what do you give a heartless person who destroyed one of the last things you had of your only live in life. That might as well be criminal.
@@mr.bombastic413 4.5 / 5 the next highest possible rating.
@@Bremend I thought this was an gradual scale like 0/5 is not a butthole, 5/5 is the butthole and the ones in between are, well, the nuances in between
I think 4.7 because like she deserved a 5.5, but 5.5 are really only for abusers and such but I feel like 4.5 is just still not enough…
The line: “if you have nothing to hide then you can show me your phone” is not a valid excuse to go through someone’s phone. Especially strangers
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Not to mention, I don’t think Brenda offered to show them her phone when she was recording the OP without consent
If she wanted to see what was on the phone she should have yelled for it during a moment she was suspecting him, not till after.
Then he could just snap it to her showing the spreadsheet, without 'need' to go through his pictures.
Nothing to hide is shit, I don't want a government camera in my home/bathroom.
Not to mention all the private information that people put on their phones these days - credit card info, IDs, etc...
Nobody has the right to access that. I would have called the police (not that I trust them all that much) and have them examine the phone to prove his innocence.
@@sirjmo Not o mention he did show the spreadsheet to the employee - with all the times on it.
1st story: So according to OP, her "creep" was another woman that recorded her working out and posted a video on the internet shaming her. Yet, after they got that woman banned from the gym, she has accused several other people of doing the same thing.
I get that she's paranoid, but that does NOT excuse her actions. Also, If OP had shown her his phone, she probably would've accused him of quickly deleting the pics so that she couldn't catch him. She should be banned from the gym asap
Thank you! This is the best comment by far!
I would have thought see through clothing was a no at most gyms anyway. Gross.
Yup!! I see the excuse of people saying "well if she was paranoid why was she wearing see thru clothing with no underwear" but imo she might not have known it could be see through when stretched.. The woman is definitely in the fault here but some people are out right admitting to being misogynistic or not caring what women have to say about this..
@@Ash-lm5vq The main problem is she was violated before, and then falsely accused so many other men. She is wearing no underwear and thin fabric yoga pants, of course it is going to be extremely revealing. She is trying to bait guys into looking at her so she can accuse more. That is what most likely has happened, and I have gone through the comments and most people agree. I haven't seen misogynists in the comments though, so I don't know where you are getting that.
@@justinhaymen23 another commenter actually said that the woman has done this multiple times before op so I agree she likely did it on purpose, however unless they saw that comment or checked the post not many people whore commenting know that fact. So I'm going to answer this as if she wasn't doing this on purpose and I didn't know that fact. She might not have known that when stretched those pants could be seen thru to an extent and not wearing underwear might've just been a personal choice for comfort. This is just what I think her pov might've been if I ONLY heard the story from this video. I'm not saying I don't agree with those comments I'm saying that I've seen some people go as far as to REFUSE to see the woman's side whatsoever even when someone points out that detail. I saw someone call a commenter who guessed the woman's pov a man hater JUST for providing another view on the story. I'm not saying the woman isn't in the wrong she 100% is but some of these replies to comments are straight up using this to be misogynistic that's all.. /gen
That last story: dude is a good dad. Hes accepting of and caring for all his kids. That said: "Eva" just sounds like an arrogant brat. If she needs help with getting her solo life on track, I think OP should do what he can to help. But theres no way she should be allowed back into that home unless shes on the absolute verge of poverty and homelessness, or if the dad decides otherwise, And regardless of why, she'd have to do some major, legitimate apologizing, and work on that attitude with a professional.
or unless she's a big enough person to apologize and admit what she did was very wrong and uncalled for
@@chriscarpenter3370 regardless, it's up to her father. As much as we think he would/should accept an apology, it's up to him, and hes not obligated to forgive her, with or without conditions.
Last story: she's not a freaking child she's a freaking adult and should know bad choice of actions have bad outcomes
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
This! All of this!
A wise child once said "WHEN WILL YOU LEARN... THAT YOUR ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES!!! *
@@matankesselman456 lol
The last story: Eva completely damaged your property that meant a lot to you. Eva seems like a spoiled brat and if I was bee parent I would have been so distraught
I would go even further and say that being able to go that far and with that much malice and expected no consequences and having no regret makes her seem really dangerous...
I think the most important thing was that smug smile when OP first said to get off. Like this "I'll ruin your life and what you gonna do to me. Parents have to always forget, right? I stabbed you right in the heart and you cannot pay me back for this". Cuz even if this was a shot of temper tantrum and a spite of moment but overall loved OP, cared for him and her late mother, etc. she'd be terrified by what she's done, not when it turned out that this time the consequences are real not just for show.
@@TehCookieLoop Yup and sad to say I would have to say she deserved a 5/5 score in my opinion. She went after those letters specifically to hurt her dad after hurting her brothers and was proven she was wrong because OP didn't want his son and GN kid to be disrespected. The fact he learned about LGBTQ terms also shows he really tried as well as therapy for her. But she went above and beyond what is needed.
They know why he didn't remarry and why he cares about those letters. She knew there was a camera and that she did what she wanted which was to hurt him. She never expected him to kick her out because she figured he'd get over it right? But not this time because she went so far that this time I don't think she can ever make it up to him.
I wonder if she even read the letters as she destroyed them. Just to see the past or not and the worse part is she has no remorse at all for what she did and will need to be homeless for a bit and forced to be humble quick or she will continue to get worse and worse over time.
@@BlueKinTsukiko I agree with you. I think she knew what the letters were about because why grab some random papers and cut them up and throw them around the house? She knew what they were, she knew it would hurt her father, what she didn't know was that that moment was the breaking point. She's a spoiled brat who thinks daddy will forgive me, that because mommy is gone and that is the reason I am acting out. Hell to the *NO* . She knew what she was doing, and for her to become humble is gonna be a while for that to even happen. She'll say that her brothers and father mistreated her to anyone who would listen and give sympathy to her.
My initial reaction was a little torn, that's your child after all. But after I had a moment to reflect, if you really care about that child, then it's important that the learn about consequences as early as possible. In this case it's already quite late, but it could be much worse later on if there's no intervention: lost jobs, divorces, etc. She has a tough long road ahead of her, but it best that it starts now.
Who the hell cuts up letters of their dead mother sent to their father? She doesn't even sound drunk to me.
I read “Who the hell cuts up their own dead mother”
@@JustAKomiFan Monty Python…
@@pjrama185 damn
Just, damn.
Story 3: Dad deserves a giant hug. He’s clearly trying, trying so DAMN hard (as shown with the books and “I’m new to LGBTQ+, tell me if I say something wrong”), and he loves his family. Raising three kids single, including one who has clear behavioral problems… god, I hope his other two kids are as supportive of him as he clearly is of them.
What I don't understand about Balindas story is if she's had a creeper before, why in the world is she deliberately working out in SEE THROUGH LEGGINGS WITH NO UNDERWEAR!!! That seems kind of suspicious to me.
Dude thank you! I was wondering the same thing! Like, if you're so paranoid why are you wearing that? It makes no sense
That's victim blaming. Creeps are going to creep no matter what is worn.
@@Alakaizer Fair, but have some common sense
@Chainz Iron what could you possibly mean by "common sense" in this case? Nobody has the right to creep on anyone else, no matter what, if anything, is worn.
@Alakaizer You shouldn't be wearing something possibly see through, with no underwear, that goes for anyone. Especially in public, or a public area. That's common sense.
The second story has another update. Apparently, the two sisters sat down and talked about their lives and they found out that not only they lied about the house, they had been lying throughout their lives. Like they bought the house for 100k and gave her sister only 50k and said sister had to work for her expenses. And the sister had been told that they couldn't give her several things because they had to spent the money on OP, but OP explained that the insurance paid for those procedures.
In other words, they had been putting one sister against the other the majority of their lives so OP cut them off
What the eff?
@@khord2857 welcome to the wacky world of narcissists.
Even worse, they were pitting them against each other for MONEY. Apparently their kids happiness and relationship has a damn price tag.
Holy shit!
So I take it the op and sister are getting along now at least. That's good. Screw the parents
OP did the right thing by kicking Eva out. I would also tell her she’s not welcome back.
Eva? Whose Eva? I don't have a child by that name. I'd disown her. Like, as much as it hurts to disown her. That was a line that hurt everyone, and she didn't seem to even care until it effected her.
My approach, if that happened:
"Eva, you are hereby exiled from this house for TWO WEEKS effective immediately. Grab your living crap and be out within 24 hours. If by the end of that time you have cooled down and properly stewed about the ramifications of what you just did, you MIGHT be allowed back, but I must warn you that a second instance like this is permanent. This is your sole and final warning. You are 20 years old; you should know better by now."
I can understand one bad day, but if it continues, I'm going to show a person just how unforgivable such actions can be in certain environments. Once is a mistake, as the old saying goes.
@@seancarroll9849 You
You're trying to be harsh but you kinda just coming across as a push over.
va in the story rolled her eyes and had a smug look on her face as soon as she saw her dads emotion in his facial expression. That's exactly what she was after. She knew full well what she was doing the first time and your statement kinda treats her like a child, which she clearly isn't. 40 years ago, she would have instantly got a beat down.
@@jamesmurphy7828
I technically have a three strikes rule, but for that behavior? Two.
It's about making sure I am clear when making a point; I've had teachers who used the same tactic on me.
And I paraphrase Mister Dukas:
"I'm only going to tell you once. After that, there is the door. Don't let it hit you on the way out."
@@solidkid5065 no. do this. give her the car on the condition that she must leave.
The daughter on the last story was so awful. She sounds like she has serious behavioural problems. I really feel for her dad and siblings because growing up with her just have been a nightmare
I almost want to say that she may have some sociopathic traits because OP mentioned that Eva has been acting out even before her mother passed away.
Eva definitely deserved to be kicked out and needs some kind of professional help!
The last one was so awful I legitimately had my mouth opened of shock
Wtf is wrong with that brat omg
I would've given her the car privileges back so she could just leave
For those wondering what the actual argument between Eva and her siblings was over her moving the car. She even said a slur towards the youngest and PURPOSELY looked into the camera while she cut up the letters
Filming an innocent dude while accusing him of being a creep in public is okay, because some other dude was a creep to her? No f-ing way.
Yeah, rSlash is weird...
she didnt know he was innocent tho, was she supposed to automatically know that the guy behind her checking his phone frequently wasnt taking photos of her? you obviously dont see her side because you dont understand her side, women have to be scared of men because we dont want to get sexually harassed. she was probably filming bc in “he said, she said” scenarios involving sexual harassment, the victim is almost always ignored because they dont want to “ruin a young mans/womans life.
And she was wearing legging that were see thru and no panty like tf even I a F I would feel uncomfortable
@@whompwhomp7325 And you're just a sexist same as that women. "Hurr durr all men are bad" screw off. Your irrational fear of men does not, has not, and never will excuse such blatant disregard for other people's rights and privacy. Do you even understand the basic 'innocent until PROVEN guilty'? Just because you choose to dress like that and show off the goods to every man around doesn't mean you're entitled to then go and try to ruin their lives because you THINK he's doing something. Imagine if someone did that to you? Have some EMPATHY you absolute vile garbage human being.
Imagine you're sitting at Starbucks and some black guy just walks over, phone in hand, and goes "This woman just called me the N-word!", no proof, no nothing, you're just minding your own business. Would you still sit there and defend him because "well black people face racist challenges all the time so that justifies them randomly accusing innocent people"? Something tells me you wouldn't you disgusting hypocrite.
@@War450 go away meninist.
Second story is missing a chunk. Turns out the parents had been pitting the kids against each other since the age of 7, op needed glass and was blamed for the other no going to girls scouts, op needed braces and the sister got pulled out of somthing. The parents also never gave the sister the college money or paid for her life style and just basically stole it.
Actually, you got it a little mixed up. The sister was pulled out of ballet classes because OP needed glasses (or so the parents said), and the sister was pulled out of girl scouts because OP needed braces.
Well I agree with everything but the stole it part. It was their house so their money. They just lied about where it went.
@@jaegerthedane3245 your correct sorry had that mixed ^^
@@mariposa9506 Which could be seen as fraudulent still.
I like how this girl at the gym didnt get banned for trying to violate this guys privacy and also recording him. Not every state is a one person consent state, she should delete her video. Double standard. guys have a right to privacy too.
Completely agree
Its complete bs, op almost got banned for just not wanting his camera roll gone through but *somehow* she can falsely accuse a bunch of innocent men for doing nothing wrong and face no repercussions. Also if she was really that worried she could wear some underwear and non see-through leggings.
Hard agree.
If I was OP, when I was on the phone with the owner after he said the tapes showed he was good I would've said "Thank you. Now what are you going to do with her? She recorded me without MY concent while (falsly) accusing me of taking pictures of her without her concent?" Anything less than her being banned & I would tell him "I see this gym believes in double standards and promotes sexism. I am withdrawing my membership immediately and there will be no termination fees."
You don't need anyone's permission to record in a public setting. Even in a private business, all they can do is ask you to leave. This applies in all 50 states
Something like the first story happened before to me. A girl accused me of taking photos of her at a bar a friend worked at.
When they asked me to show them the camera roll, i told them "I'll show you, but only if you ban her from this bar. It's unfair that I have to show you my private property because she thinks I'm taking pictures of her." They agreed. First pic was one where I was kissing my boyfriend's cheek. The girl threw a fit, but was kicked out and banned.
Serves her right. 🤴
Ehhh i kinda don't agree with banning her. If she's harrassing you over it maybe, but just thinking someone might be taking pictures of you and having a normal reaction of wanting to make sure it didn't happen shouldn't get someone banned. That's just going to make girls scared to confront people who might be taking pictures of them or acting in a creepy way, which is a problem that happens. Girls have to be defensive, this world is extremely dangerous for women. Like, yeah, you got accused and then were proved innocent, what harm was actually caused?
@@lynniewood my privacy was violated, i was yelled at, I was stressed out over a false accusation, I was called a liar and felt like shit for the rest of the night out because some psycho thought that a gay guy was taking pictures of her. I'm sorry it's bad for women out there, but I won't stand for being falsely accused and letting anybody leave free of charge. I value myself enough to not let be ran over people like that.
@@ciram9082 dude don't listen to that guy he is obviously on another planet rn you were 100% right. People can't demand to look at your private property on a hunch, a he said she said should be a draw NOT a situation where the man loses.
@@lynniewood the ability to speak does not make you intelligent or likeable
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes and she got what she deserved
OP is a great father, and his 20 year old daughter is acting like a child, she is living in his house, and she disrespected her sibling calling them a slur, and destroyed something OP loved from his dead wife, he's no asshole for kicking her out, he's doing her a favor making her grow up
To me, Belinda handled that very poorly. While I can understand her concerns, she had no right to loudly accuse OP. That has a direct impact on him, and I'm sure the gym manager didn't call everyone else there to let them know OP was indeed not taking photos and was wrongly accussed.
Oh god what Eva did is unforgivable, what did she had in mind? That she would only get more days in her grounded time?
She needs to grown the f up, dont take her back
Agreed, this behavior is more than a regular teenage temper tantrum, this is just malicious behavior.
"That she would only get more days in her grounded time?" she got worse but not enough.
It’s even worse considering those letters can never be replaced.
Exactly, like wtf did she expect? Her dad got afraid of her and handed her the car keys? Like come on, grow up
If I were OP I would take her back when I get those letters fixed. 100% must be same no missing part.
Oh is it impossible? If so then it's also impossible she can get back.
Anyway, what is the argument in the first place. This better be something not stupid.
Just my opinion but the first story the fact that she is recording the whole situation makes it feel like more of she’s trying to record a “gotcha” video. Even after he was proven innocent she could post it and he could have problems from that. I think she needs to apologize and delete her recording. That part of it just kinda felt wrong.
I saw it more as some kind of protection in case he got violent. Without video it would have just been a 'he said she said' type deal, which, despite what a lot of people seem to believe, often doesn't end well for the woman.
Very much agreed, this seems to be a cry for attention to me
I think she was looking for her 5 minutes of internet fame (like the others who have done the same thing)
@@theviewer6889 that idea falls apart in the context of a crowded gym though...
I thought it was more of a safety net until the manager thing
Literally gasped at the last story. If anyone ruined anything I have from my late mother on purpose, they would be out of my life. 100%.
1. "If you have nothing to hide, show me," is a bad excuse for violating someone's privacy.
2. Oh, I know what's going to happen: the parents are gonna get theirs!
3. Eva knew exactly what she did; what she didn't know was that there would be consequences.
3. EVA IS *20* they’re an adult, they act like that, they get an adult punishment. Don’t bite the hand that fed you or destroy the most valuable things to them.
Totally insane to not give Belinda at least 4 buttholes. She falsely accused the guy. Insulted him. Called him a pervert in public for everyone to hear, She filmed him while she berated him and tried to shame and pressure him into doing something he didn't want and didn't have to do. She wanted him kicked out of the gym. She should be seriously punished for that. Her psychological problems are not everybody else's fault. Her (alleged - maybe that poor guy was as innocent as OP!) prior victimhood does not excuse this kind of behavior!
Exactly.
Well OP is the AH in that.
Belinda recording was wrong but if anyone literally anyone wouldve been in that situation they would've reacted the same way except the recording part.
Plus OP just had to show his recent (last 5-10 approx) photos not his entire phone where they would find his uncensored picture. Don't think OP is any less of an idiot, he did all that just to create a scene too.
@@sujithkumar4395 that’s not right at all. He didn’t make a scene. Brenda did. Brenda yelled and got people’s attention. As a person who falsely accused of sexual harassment, this is clearly just an attention seeking moment. She should not have had her phone out to start with. She was probably going to make a video degrading him even IF he was innocent. It could have ruined his life, and she never deleted it. I agree with the 4/5 Butthole rating given by fans
@@Thegamergabe4.0 As I told above the recording part and her making a scene is totally wrong, but her being worried about the pictures is justified in this situation. He just had to show last 3-4 pictures not his entire freaking phone. So OP is also the AH
@@Thegamergabe4.0 The OP also wanted to create a scene so he gets 1/5 AHoles She gets 2.5/5
Eva: *Cut up the letters her mother wrote to OP*
OP: *"GET THE F*** OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!"*
Eva: *Surprised Pikachu Face*
Not to mention she is 20. I’m 20, who the heck has a reaction that defaces the memories of your dead mother to “get back” at your father. That kind of reaction is something you’d expect from a 5 year old, not a 20 year old woman…
@@ShockingPikachu Not even a five year old, that’s too deliberate, malicious, and intelligent for a five year old. This is the work of an apathetic, evil, immature brat of an adult. Eva is destined to get thrown in jail one day if ‘destruction of property’ is her go to reaction to being scolded and restricted.
@@gaxalee7392 it wasn’t even a major scold it was “You called your sibling a slur so no car for a while” definitely not deserving of that kind of reaction
@@ShockingPikachu Agreed
There was another update on the second story about the house. The parents weren’t fully paying for the sister. She still had to get a job to pay for books and rent and neither sister know what the parents did with the rest of the money from the house sale.
The parents weren’t favouring one they were purposely putting them against each other. They told the sister that op was staying for free in the bench house and told op they were paying everything on the sister college.
I think the parents are even worse than they originally looked like.
They are horrendous people. I would so go NC with them.
Last story is worth 5 buttholes, you don’t mess with objects that have strong connections to loved ones who have passed
That last story: Oh look, it's the consequences of my own actions!
Don't agree with the first one. I can understand how she may feel uncomfortable but her blatant breakdown on top of nearly banning the man out of the gym because of her previous experiences with trauma just doesn't rub off the right way. That on top of the fact that he and many others have been accused of similar crap just shows that she is projecting her past trauma onto other people. She should seek therapy if we're being honest
@@josephnorris4095 This, yes. I literally yelled that in the car as I listened to it
@@josephnorris4095 agreed! I’m a women and I have to call out the fact that she’s wearing no underwear and see-through leggings. I can’t speak for us all obviously, but I definitely check the mirror before leaving the house and making sure nothing can be seen. I’m of the opinion that she’s doing it on purpose
@@josephnorris4095 what woman just decides to get perved on on purpose? op obviously wasnt, but saying that women are getting mad at people that they suspect are being creeps for attention or whatever isnt right. i cant blame her for being worried about her own privacy, considering the statistics of women being sexually harassed these days. i feel bad for op, he was in a loose/loose situation, but he couldve just shown them his camera role snd it wouldve been done with fast. he mentioned how his girlfriends nudes are in his phone so he didnt want to show them, but its not like they were gonna ask to see her nudes. you have to understand that in these situations when you refuse to do something that would either show your innocence or your guilt, but you swear youre innocent, you look guilty. womens only gyms arent all that common either, plus THOSE types of men get triggered at their mere existence. she also may have not been aware that they were see-through, and although wearing no underwear to a gym is definitely strange. please tell me if i misread or misinterpreted your comment!
@@whompwhomp7325 Sorry, but your wrong on a vey important point, at no point should he ever have to prove his innocence, UNLESS, they had some actually tangible proff of him having done anything in the first place, wich she didn't have obviously.
@@whompwhomp7325 So they have a right to invade his privacy and possibly see what we know are highly inappropriate photos and pictures of a nude woman, who is _not_ Belinda, because of a _blind_ accusation? “It’s not like they were going to ask to see her nudes.” I’m really trying to make sense of that.
For that first story i think you're wrong
Even if she's dealt with it before she still over-exaggerated by yelling and screaming while recording him when she couldve asked the manager to be there to back her up if needed when she confronted him.
By making a massive scene she made herself look like an idiot and nearly got an innocent man banned because she wanted to make a scene over something that was nothing.
There was no "defend against a creeper" there was only "looks like this guy is taking pictures of me, lets act like a child instead of being mature"
No She didn't make the massive scene think she's an idiot. She made them think OP's a pervert
@@hair4022 lmao did you read the whole thing or just comment on massive scene part.
We hear about all kinds of entitlement on this channel and the lengths some people go through to get validation and attention. When op mentioned that Belinda was wearing semi translucent shorts and no nickers. Which kinda sounded to me like she may have known what she was doing and op so happened to be on his phone behind her. R/slash may have taken benefit of the doubt, but there could be a bumhole rating for her for maybe instigating things.
@@ImmaGayPumpkin yea and btw I wasn't trying to come off as aggressive😂
@@hair4022 lmao okay it kinda seemed you were but read Skyrats comment, i hadnt thought about it before and she def was making a massive scene concerning that now
"Prove your innocence"? Isn't that the wrong way round?
The "if you've got nothing to hide you have nothing to worry about" really peeves me. In this instance, "OK,. lady, so long as you let me go through YOUR phone and check all YOUR pictures. What? Then you must have something to hide"
That first story is bs. Guilty until proven innocent is a screwed up way to operate and I can honestly tell you that his thoughtline on not wanting to work out behind her because he KNEW something like that was going to happen is something every guy has to deal with because that is exactly what happens.
I love how Belinda accuses OP of taking pics and vids of her yet while she’s yelling at him she’s FILMING HIM. Like????
My buddy caught a girl actually taking pics of him at the gym and management did literally nothing.
That makes zero sense it's the same invasion of privacy
He would have been banned if he had taken picture of her.
Cause it’s a man complaining 🥲
@@dubious6718 equality means equal punishment and currently punishment is harsher for men than women i hate the human race sometimes
@@kickerkirby6918 exactly! Like it's not ok either way...so why is it a woman does this but nothing happens but God forbid a man does it...then everyone is ready to beat him.
that last one makes me so mad. she had to know how much something like that would mean to him, it was probably one of the worst things she could have done without resorting to violence of arsen.
Over TEMPORARILY losing the privilege of the car. What a bloody child…
I think she knew exactly what they meant to him and that's why she did it. That's why she was smug when he came to her.
@@crina.b and that smugness went away as her ass was out the door xD
@@ShockingPikachu she didn't read the room correctly. 😂
Imagine if a bunch of men demanded a woman show her pictures to them to "prove her innocence". It would be on the evening news. 0/5 BH's.
Apparently it’s completely okay to harass a completely innocent man who’s minding his own business, which is fucked
Yeah, it’s only okay if the one being harassed is a guy. We live in a time where it’s okay to harass men.
Swap the genders and it would be seen as funny and harmless because men, and the man would be chuckled out the instant he did that to a girl without management even blinking.
did you not read the story? She's had creepers harass her before. Granted, I don't think she should have escalated the situation.
Also, since OP almost get banned
This is a classic "guilty until proven innocent." Can we stop with this BS already?
What Eva did in the last story was so absolutely terrible I straight up cried I felt so bad for OP. He has every right to kick her out shes an adult and has no excuse to spout slurs and destroy something you CANT GET BACK I'm actually genuinely pissed
I hope OP was able to put them back together or restore them in some way I'm genuinely so distressed at how someone could be so cruel over a car and a petty fight GOD
That was hitting too close to home jesus christ
Belinda sounds like a "girl cries sexual harassment" situation. Most people, and I do mean most, don't immediately start recording strangers and accusing them of crimes. Especially in a crowded gym. Especially if you feel threatened. Could he have been a creep? Sure. Men suck, especially aggro men at gyms, and her fears are valid. But if he's doing whatever and checking his phone and never lifts it up enough to take a photo, why assume he's taking photos? How would you know if you're not looking constantly at him?
She's devaluing actual sexual harassment claims if she's knowingly doing this consistently. It's disgusting. She needs therapy and a ban from the gym. Actual women get MURDERED for fighting back and she's causing scenes for fun or validation or whatever? It's annoying as fuck, as a woman, too see women acting the fool and making it harder for the rest of us to be taken seriously.
Also: sometimes you can't tell if your clothes are see through. My home lighting isn't gym lighting, you know? I personally wear underwear while working out, but I know women who don't due to smell and hygiene reasons. 🤷🏽♀️ Don't slut shame women for being comfortable, shame women for making repeated false accusations.
Agreed 100%
I love how r slash posts at the same time every single day.
Ain't that the point of a schedule?
You can schedule when it releases I'm pretty sure, I'm to lazy rn to check, it's 6:14 in the morning for me.
It usually notifies me around lunchtime that he has posted so I get my sandwich AND Rslash vids
In my timezone, he posts at about 2pm every day. VL
Normally he posts at 6 am where I am but for some reason like October through March he up loads at 7 am for no apparent reason.
I have serious issues with that first story. Yes, I get she that she had a problem once upon a time but to assume like that... It's hearing stories like that which tells me to never talk to or even look at random people. They will just as soon attack you and with no proof, you are always assumed to be the bad guy. Humans quite frankly suck.
Facts dude I was hoping o find a comment like this.
Can men wear see thru shorts?
@@Annalorraine67 Depends on the fabric and how tight they are I guess.
@@Annalorraine67 yes, men can wear those, rhetorical questions get literal answers.
As a women, I can say for a fact that I know when my clothes are see-through and it is a choice to go commando. I can’t say that all women check their mirror before leaving the house, but many do just to make sure they look right or even just to check themselves out. I personally think she does this on purpose.
They second story has two updates where we find out the parents have been lying to op and ops sister their whole lives, pitting them against eachother
Wow that's just down right evil they're crazy
OH MY GOSH
So...r/raisedbynarcissists then
wait what
Link?
For the last story: I hope he's able to put the pieces back together and maybe get them dry mounted for more stability. Eva literally destroyed not only his wife's, but their mother's precious letters wtf
For the lake house story: The sister was manipulated by the parents. The parents not only tried to use their children for guilt-tripping and trying to use OP, they also manipulated the favored child and lied to them. And we don’t even know the full story, it could be even worse. Edit: Recently found out the parents stole from both of their kids. Changed the score to reflect this. Sister - 0/5. OP: 0/5. Parents: 5/5.
Doing edit for first story.
So yeah, I get that she was likely traumatized from her experience with the actual creep. However, that doesn’t give her the right to randomly start recording and yelling and screaming at the guy behind her simply because his phone was out when he was taking breaks. It’s reasonable if you can tell, “Hey, this dude is definitely taking pictures of me.” Then I’d get that you would do that. But it was very clear here that he wasn’t, as he never angled the phone towards her. Plus, she tried to violate his privacy to validate hers. “If you have nothing to hide, don’t be afraid!” Yes the guy had something to hide, his crotch! Seriously lady, if there’s an alternate way to prove he wasn’t being a creep, then I’d accept it and apologize. Not only that, but it really seemed like she was trying to set a trap or something. Who willingly wears clear pants without underwear? And then she immediately starts recording as soon as she turns around? Like others have said, this seems like she’s trying to ruin the lives of random people. She might have good intentions, but she’s still doing things that could destroy innocent people. Im going to have to give her 1.5/5 for this, because while some of it is understandable, the circumstances were very specific and odd.
Also, in that case who is to say that "creep" Belinda was talking about wasn't just some poor sap that didn't end up being as lucky as OP.
Why do people keep trying to get free houses, it’s not free Real Estate.
Maybe they took the meme to seriously lol
“Free real estate”
But there PREGNAAAAAAAAAAANT and there precious baby needs YOUR house to trash and play in
Because many people believe (at least in America usa) that getting a free house is the American dream. And manny immigrants have been given homes free and they believe they are entitled to free shit. Not everyone is like that but most are. Even those born in America are given shit free and believe they are entitled to free money.
@@amalieshelby yea let’s segregate most people that are entitled are imagrants also most people entitled people are white people
You're wrong on the first story, RSlash. First, there is no such a thing as "prove your innocence" in situations like these. It is a fallacy to prove the negative: "prove me to me you were not taking pictures of me" is just plain stupid, the accuser should provide proof of the accusation, not the other way round. The girl is paranoid, and she obviously has history of making the same false accusations because of that creeper incident. She was in the wrong to request proof and make a scene. If she couldn't believe OP, she should have just gone to gym management. She didn't, he did. That kind of behaviour is both irresponsible, paranoid and just plain wrong, and she deserves to be faulted at least 1/5.
Gym management on the hand is ridiculous. You have a customer who has history of making similar false accusations being dragged into the office by the person she accused. You don't ask to see people personal photos on their phones, you review your cameras and you treat everyone as honest and truthful till then. Gym management should get at least 2/5 for incompetence.
Maybe instead of going commando in translucent yoga pants, wear underwear or get thicker or darker pants. There was another story about someone bringing up the same issue with another woman whose perineal area was on full display through her yoga pants, and she went off on them.
I was thinking the same thing. Wear work out pants that are dark enough/thick enough to hide the fact you are commando if you insist on going as such, if not, then you have no reason to complain that someone can see you. Wear underwear or darker workout gear
@@asmith8692 Like pervs wouldn't take pictures of a woman in opaque tights? Her choice of clothing has no more to do with this situation than it does with rape
@@asmith8692 it’s ridiculous that man can’t wear show clothing but woman can. That should be illegal, because just because she’s a woman doesn’t mean I’m forced to see her vagina. Also, I’m a female, so if it would annoy me imagine how uncomfortable it would be for a man!
SHE should have been banned.
Belinda deserves 4/5. This guy proved he was logging stuff and she had view of him in the mirrors probably. IF she does this often it looks like she’s an attention seeker and might be doing it on purpose for some weird power trip on her mind.
She's not on a power trip, she's just scared. Almost every woman I know who has had a history of dealing with creeps tends to be on high alert pretty often (for good reason).
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@@theviewer6889 which is an explenation for what she did but still no valid excuse
Dude, don't be a dick. She was in the wrong to think OP should be fine with having his privacy invaded because she THINKS he's violating hers, but the problem is a very real one and it doesn't just happen at the gym.
If a man takes pictures of a woman without her consent he's the butthole. I don't blame her for being suspicious, I would give her maybe 1/5 for still pushing it.
@@theviewer6889 I completely get be on high alert as I am daily, what I don't do is try to draw attention to myself. I'll move is someone or something makes me uncomfortable at the gym or anywhere. I know I don't or shouldn't have to but I do because it gives me peace of mind and makes me feel safer. I honestly think the girl was attention seeking in this story though...
The first story about the girl in the gym:
I would agree with rslash except for the fact that she was filming the whole thing: the first confrontation and the talk with the staff. This was not just the girl being cautious; this was her looking for a confrontation and too embarrass him. I would say she is TA
The Eva story really got me hot blooded. I can't even imagine that level spite for no reason. She deserves it
For the first story, the fact she is recording AND that she is wearing see-through pants with no underwear AND that this is not her first rodeo is really suspicious, like she really tried to bait someone to post it later for clout.
I agree I am willing to bet it’s for tik tok
I'm pretty sure this is a "trend" on TikTok. I probably sound like a boomer saying that but TikTok is a trash can that all the human garbage love to congregate. The gross acts they call trends disturb me. Like when it became popular to get large drinks at a drive thru and then throw it at the window worker before driving off, there was worse trend then that but as a former Dunks worker that sticks out to me most.it really wouldn't surprise me if "baiting perverts" was a new TikTok trend.
This was my thought too.
@@RiveroftheWither It is a new trend from what I've seen. I'm on tiktok but I normally stay on my own page and post things, not look at videos
In the first story… why wasn’t the woman banned from the gym for recording the poster without his permission? I mean… fair is fair!
If she wasn’t banned the other times why would she be banned this time…
@@ShockingPikachu the gym smells like sexism!
@@br4inz890 probably more lenient as she was perved on probably pretty badly once
@AriefF4hmy I’ve addressed this in other comments. Everyone agrees that’s a “why” moment
There's another update to the two sister's stories. Turns out the parents were putting the sister's against each other. I guess they paid for the ones braces by forcing the b other to lose out on activities. Turn out the braces were covered by insurance.
Man those parents are evil. Who would do that to their own kids?
Thanks!
That second story is fine: Ask the parents where they will be staying for those two weeks while OP lives at their house as OP will need a place to live and have "private time" with their girlfriend.
First story: bad call on the no butthole. She was DEFINITELY being a butthole for recording the interaction and yelling/ causing a scene. That is not how reasonable people act unless they are being directly menaced. The proper way to handle that would have been to speak reasonably to him and if he says or does something offensive or menacing then take it to the staff for help. I get she’s had to deal with creeps before; I don’t know any woman who hasn’t. That is no excuse to go nuts and start recording; and what was she going to do with that video next? What DID she do with that footage of her yelling at a wronged man?
“Excuse me sir, I’m a bit worried about you filming me, do you mind if I can see your camera roll for the past little bit?
No? Okay, we’ll do you mind if I ask management?”
Would have given the same result and less arguments
@@ShockingPikachu or like even going directly to management if someone is afraid of the confrontation.
@@MrVitoriooo yeah but she clearly wasn’t afraid of confrontation
@@ShockingPikachu hahaaha fair engouh it was more advice for people who are.
I cried on the last story... How could she do that to her own father and mother? I wont be able to forgive her if she did that to me. I wouldnt be looking at her as my daughter but as a woman.
It’s honestly more disrespectful toward her mother than her father… she is also 20 ffs. That is such a childish reaction to having car privileges very understandably revoked. Don’t like that they can do that? You’re 20, get your own car! Don’t destroy memories of your mother you absolute sociopath…
I’m 20, I live at home with my parents, I don’t own my own car. I could just never ever think about ruining anything that reminds me of a deceased parent. Just what kind of person does that when you were justifiably punished for using slurs… just wow… what a child
@@ShockingPikachu do you want your own car?
@@chriscarpenter3370 I don’t use it too often as it is so I’m not in a position that I’d require my own bought car. I’m just placing context to a similar situation to me, just pointing out how childish such a reaction for a 20 year old is
If OP had said he backhanded Eva, he still would get 0/5 BH's. She could have hidden his keys, given him the silent treatment, something that shows displeasure without being mean. But to destroy irreplaceable things like love letters from his long lost wife, her mother, that crosses a boundary that can never be fixed. He can forgive her, but she can never make it right. To add to it that she was being smug, that just makes it a billion times worse. I would never trust her to be alone in my house around my things ever again.
The way it sounds, she won´t be back in the house anyways. she´s out.
@@lemonfox8052 and she shouldn’t be. She is an adult and ruined some of her father’s only cherished possessions. Not only that she disrespected her deceased mother and has been an overall asshole to her young nb sibling. They don’t deserve to be called slurs no matter the argument. Eva is an adult, 20, she should know better than to have the reaction of a 5 year old’s tantrum it’s pathetic…
Other person: Says thing
OP: Says something back
Other person: *surprised pikachu face
For someone with a deceased parent, that last story made my blood boil
Same
My first impression of the first story was that Belinda (or Brenda?) was deliberately trying to get some kind of scandal going, hoping it would possibly benefit her. She has to be aware of how she dresses in public and the first thing she does is start recording while confronting people, just because "I know you were taking photos! I didn't see you doing it, but I know!"
“She was dressed a certain way, so she was asking for it!”
Brenda was clearly wrong and wretched, but come on. Her actions vilified her, not her attire.
The first story when the girl freaks out I mean Its understandable like they said she has had a creep but that makes no sense he could of been doing anything with his phone like texting someone
She should start wearing underwear then…..
@@frostbite3318 True I mean who goes to the gym with no underwear on?
One thing you learn quickly when it comes to creeps is that any man could be a predator. Not every man, but any man.
@@theviewer6889 Not being naked in public helps.
@@frostbite3318 maybe she's more comfortable that way. Ever thought of that?
First one the 4th amendment protects you. Everyone has the right to be safe and secure in their person's, places and papers. No one has the expectation of privacy in public. Op did nothing wrong, the manager and the lady gets 2 outta 5 buttholes, regardless of how you look in PUBLIC you have no privacy in PUBLIC.
unless it's an inspection. An inspection isn't the same as a search. Hence why inspection checkpoints for foreign/invasive species are legal
The manager didn't violate his 4th amendment rights. He also has every right to implement a code of conduct in his facilities, so... why are you giving him buttholes?
@@616Regis We JUST told you
Miss M absolutely 100% incorrect. Without a warrant signed by a judge, you don't have to show anything to anyone, even a cop.
@@missm2925 maybe you should go back to law school hon
My dad bought a house that was his grandparents with a note that the aunt could come stay there whenever she wanted. Since it is a big house, that wasn't the issue.
The problem is that she lent the key to her other family, which staid there and didn't clean after them, they also ate the food etc.
Not sure what the exact outcome was, but he changed the locks, or got the key back.
There were some drama and much talk about the legality.
He now has the house for him self (and his wife).
Some day I might get the house and live there, and I don't want any uninvited guests.
WHY IS NO ONE talking about how Belinda was wearing see-thru leggings and no underwear?? And especially to a gym out of all the places! She definely was setting guys up in order to sue them or something
Um excuse me regardless of what she l8r did, her clothing has nothing 2 do w/ it. Ok she might have been a bitch but she can wear whatever tf she likes it’s her body
@@thatmouldyavocado9868 how many sane people go out without underwear to begin with? ESPECIALLY if they're gonna be wearing leggings? And what kind of person do you have to be to be comfortable wearing see-through leggings?? I believe your argument is just willfully ignorant and downplaying how awful some women can be. To me, she really is doing it on purpose.
@@thatmouldyavocado9868 If she's gonna go out in tight leggings and no undies why is she surprised people are looking at her? As a hetero woman myself I'd look too. Yes she can wear what she wants. She could've gone to the gym in a purple dinosaur costume and people would still turn to look at her. No ones going to do anything to her but it's kinda silly that she does something to draw attention to herself then gets mad when people give her attention. There's definitely a double standard here and her behavior is suspicious.
In the first story, I definitely would have insisted on going through her phone to prove that the recordings she took were deleted.
I’m getting tired of the blatant sexism and double standards towards men. People preach equality and yet here we are forcing men to prove their innocence. It enrages me-
It’s not socially acceptable to demand a woman to prove her innocence should a man catch her taking pics of him, whether it’s true or not. I get it, she had a stalker for a while, but screaming about it in public while shoving her phone in his face is unacceptable, the harassment is unacceptable. Treat other people the way you want to be treated, show some goddamn respect.
All that talk of equalty, but I ask this. If a guy walked u to a girl and demanded that a guy show me all the pics/vids on their phone to prove that she wasn't taking pictures of her, would the gym try to kick out the guy?
I hate how everyone has this "believe girl" mentality.
I fucking hate the "girls are always right and boys are just creeps" mentality.
Quote from my dad"WOMEN CAN BE CREEPS TOO
I had an ex stalk me for months after our breakup."
I agree. I have witnessed groups of girls treating a lone man in a way which would see a man under lock and key for similar behaviour. Women on hen nights, women in gyms, drunk women in general. Sexual harassment is wrong, full stop.
Many years ago my then sixteen year old son was targeted by a female teacher. Her behaviour was beyond inappropriate and he was becoming incredibly anxious. The reaction from the school? What is he complaining about?!! They genuinely thought he should just shut up and enjoy it! They backtracked rapidly when I immediately withdrew my three sons and they lost a massive amount in school fees. Too little, too late.
Perhaps it would also be a good idea to wear underwear if you don't want people to stare. It makes no sense that a girl who had already had a bad experience would behave in this way. Please don't misunderstand, women have the right to wear whatever they like without fearing for their safety but a line has to be drawn somewhere and I think perhaps knickers are the Rubicon in everyday life.
@@FranciscoGarcia-ns4om This was from the guy's pov and he talks about how she wasn't wearing any underwear. Maybe the girl caught him checking her out or something. I generally believe that most people aren't crazy and don't want to make a scene. Like rslash i totally get both sides.
rSlash, there is an update for the second story. Apparently they didn't tell her sister that they sold the house. Also, they didn't pay her for everything. They only paid the tuition and everything else had to be paid by her sister. They just plotted one against the other.
Edit : OP actually made a separate post.
The update was in the vid
@@wintrydolphin36 OP actually made another update today.
That last story is just really messed up. Eva is just plain evil. Look I have no doubt that some of this was caused by her dealing with her mother's death, but that is not an excuse. She knew about the cameras and she wanted her father to know what she did, this goes beyond a normal temper tantrum, this is just plain malicious behavior plain and simple.
Where is op supposed to live for 2 weeks while sister honeymoons?
The first story just kind of pisses me off because they seemed like they wouldn't have asked the girl accusing the creeping to show her phone, nor would they have accused her of violating privacy by filming someone else at a gym
Regarding the comments to the first story: can we stop making this a man vs woman thing? Sure we can say its society's fault. But us perpetuating it in the comments doesn't help. We're at that point where lots of us don't even need to hear the whole story. Some just automatically take the side of either men or women.
It's tiring.
Exactly!!!
Yes! Thank you! Got so many comments saying that Belinda was somehow trying to bait OP when it’s just as possible that she’s recording for any potential legal issues. Yes, she was a bit of a butthole, but having lived with someone with PTSD, I can understand her behavior. I just hope she apologized to OP for the misunderstanding.
Thank you bc reading some of the comments on this vid just give me hives bc if you look closer, both of them weren't really in the wrong( bc op wasn't actually taking pics he was charting his progress and he didn't want people going through his phone due to private media, and was innocent and bc Brenda pretty much already went through a scenario where a guy was taking pics of her while doing squats, so it makes sense she'd be on alert so the ppl saying bad stuff about her just grossed me out and it just raises red flags on the fact that ppl keep doing this whenever someone experiences something like this
This came right when I was about to start an old id of yours. Nice timing
R slash ur the whole reason I wake up in the moring
Lol
Rip
@Dexy Nash no 👀
@Dexy Nash no 👀
@Dexy Nash sHUT
First story: I agree with what someone else said in the comments. Belinda having a prior incident with someone at the gym doesn't mean she can act like a child throwing a tantrum. The gym manager should've defused the situation a lot better. OP is definitely not wrong if he were to demand an apology.
2nd story: Parents deserve a tongue lashing from all of the kids. Pitting your children against each other is never ok. The children all deserve some sort of explanation from them, and depending on that conversation, they should all consider going low or no contact. They've been lying to their children for years and that's not ok.
3rd story: OP definitely needs to stand his ground. Eva is an adult and she should understand actions have consequences. That she destroyed precious property that didn't belong to her, then acted like she won the war shows she doesn't respect boundaries. When she was told to leave and she started crying, it seems she doesn't actually care about the consequences until they negatively affect and inconvenience her. Eva needs a reality check.
The gym one, I think she set it up
Wear transparent leggings, wear nothing underneath
Op says there two of the machines she chose the one in front so anyone wanting to use the other one will have to use the one behind her while she's bending over in see through leggings with nothing underneath, I think she set it up looking to accuse someone
Fairly big update to Story 2:
Shit went down after my original post and I couldn't find time to make any new edits before I received judgement. Not everything is resolved here so I'm not making a final update yet. It was suggested I save that until I know things are resolved. But here's a comment to update everyone who has been asking for once since my first post.
• My sister did confront our parents about them selling the house. They tried playing dumb, asking her what she meant, but went quiet after she told them she knew they did and texted them the picture I sent her of the contract I signed when buying the lake house, proving I owned the place.
• Sister was furious and said they lied to her about who owned the house and let her look like a lunatic. They went in circles, saying they definitely told her about it but she must have forgotten since she was so focused on her first year of college, but my sister's adamant that she wouldn't forget about something as big as them selling a whole house.
• Sister called me back the next day and asked if we could talk. She said she felt like she didn't know what was the truth anymore (didn't blame her) so we sat and talked for what felt like hours. We hadn't talked that long since we were kids. It was sorta nice at some parts. But it was also upsetting in more parts because it shed some nasty light on a lot of stuff from our childhoods.
• She asked how much they sold the house for, I told her (close to 100k), and she said that didn't add up. According to her, all four years of her tuition cost just under 50k. She revealed that she had to get a job and rent an apartment with a friend to be able to afford living by her school. Which shocked me and I told her how our parents told me they paid for everything for her; books, groceries, her apartment, etc. That means there's about $50,000 from the sale of the house that's currently unaccounted for.
• She did apologize for being rude to me the other day. She said she hadn't known about me owning my house and wouldn't have acted that way if she'd known I actually bought it. Our parents made it seem like they were just letting me live there for free out of the kindness of their hearts. And she felt jealous that I got to live rent free in a vacation home while she was busting her ass to make a name for herself in her field after 4 years of college on top of having a crappy minimum wage job. She felt bitter because she felt like I always ruined things for her.
• I asked her what she meant by that and it turns out our parents were blaming me for stuff behind my back to my sister for... practically our entire lives. Like the time they pulled her out of ballet class when she was 7. They told her it was supposedly because they had to pay for my glasses and couldn't afford the classes on top of that. Or when they wouldn't pay for her to join girl scouts with her friends, they said it was because I needed braces and that was more important than girl scouts. But I told her that dad's insurance had paid for both of those. So it sounds like they just didn't want to pay for her classes/girl scouts. And decided I was a nice clueless patsy to use so their precious baby girl wouldn't hate them.
• I've gone NC with parents. Not sure if Sis is as well. I sent them one text saying after this I don't think I can stomach speaking to them for a very long time, if ever again. And if they have any respect for me they'll not try to contact me. Then I blocked their number and also blocked them on everything I could think of.
There is so much more but I don't want this comment to get too long. Any questions you guys have I'll try my best to answer them. But things are still happening.
tl;dr my parents have been using me as the scapegoat for pretty much everything they did that upset my sister since we were kids.
Holy shit, I will say this, I wouldn't blame them for keeping some of the money from the sale to be used on themselves, but when they've blatently put you guys up against each other and lied about everything.... I hope you and your sister manage to mend your relationship properly :)
Rslash no Belinda more like Karen. I thought you were an expert on Karen’s you should know that Karen’s do this stuff all the time. “If a guy gets behind you starts doing squats and takes out his phone it’s not unreasonable to assume he’s taking photos” uhhh yes it is that’s a HUGE jump to conclusions and the fact that she was making it obvious to everyone showed that she had the intentions of ruining OP’s reputation. False accusations like this can ruin someone’s life. She’s absolutely a Karen.
I don't think it's an unreasonable jump considering she had a creep before that was doing it.. so she's probably a little more paranoid.
She went about it all wrong though.
@@sadpotato3386 then again, what if that creep was made up and just an excuse to do this kind of stuff. There weren‘t enough details in the story on that.
I’ve been recorded and photographed without consent numerous times, the problem is, if you can’t take the phone and look at it, they can just be like “no I didn’t,” and then that’s that. So I don’t think this is a total black and white situation, because while I believe OP had the right to privacy, it is also a stressful situation that happens way too often, which might be why she flipped out. That’s why many locker rooms forbid the use of cellphones while in the locker room and gyms should likely have specific rules on it as well, for people to be able to feel comfortable in the space. And for the record, no, I wasn’t wearing see through pants when I got recorded (not that it should really matter, but just saying). One person did sneak a camera under my skirt and another time I was just at work, working...regular work uniform, at a popular sandwich shop. This guy would regularly photograph me and try to sneak and film me and he and his buddy would talk about it, but we couldn’t do anything without proof and I had no way to get the proof. Also have had that happen at bars from a few different creepers....I have had other times I suspect it, but can’t prove it, so I hate having phones pointed at me, but generally feel like I can’t do anything about it. It sucks, it’s a bad feeling. Maybe she didn’t handle it very well, but since phones are also cameras now, it’s uncomfortable to be at a place designated for working out and have a person sitting behind you, not working out and instead using a phone/possible camera. It’s not that she’s flattering herself, it’s likely just years of uncomfortable experiences and situations. I mean, even my school did creepy stuff, like our strength training teacher would let the guys in our class line up behind us and watch me and the only other girl in my gym class do workout videos. If we stopped, we lost our points, but they didn’t. Doesn’t mean every guy is a predator, but there are reasons why she probably felt super guarded, besides that she was trying to be a b. I do think that they should have enforced her to delete her video when they showed he was innocent - if they didn’t watch her delete it, I don’t think that’s fair.
Imagine being so full of yourself that you walk around practically naked in a gym and then think that everybody's looking at you and filming you.
Yeah it hit me weird when the post said that the lady had dealt with a creeper before so why would she then wear nothing under her leggings (or whatever they are-)?
@@kemonono exactly. If you're attracting negative attention to yourself why continue doing that?
About the first story:
That woman is crazy. She basically thinks she’s so hot that that’s the only option for what could be happening, and then, without knowing if your were guilty or not, made a scene in YOUR OWN gym in front of everyone AND recorded you without your permission.
You didn’t have to show her anything. This was a public place, where you were doing normal things. Also, it’s a gym! Everyone checks their phones in the gym.
Also, she was pretty rude you didn’t own her anything, specially when you were able to prove it in another way. And, again, you are not forced to show your private pics, if not by desire, specially not after this show.
I REEEEAAALLY wanna know more about this wedding situation, sounds like the children are gonna have an… “interesting” conversation with their parents.
OP apparently ended up going no contact with the parents, because OP and sister got talking and found out parents have been lying to both of them about a lot of things their whole life
Mr. Slash makes my day easier and I thank him for that.
Why does that one girl wear clothes that are showy, and then get mad at people looking at her?
I mean it’s bad but she can’t exactly do that. Feels like she’s trying to catch people.
its a gym i don't agree with you but i do agree that why was she wearing see threw pants and no patties
First story: Belinda is an attention seeker and is recording for the sake of a 'ha! gotcha!' result. I understand that she had a creeper previously, that doesn't make everyone in the gym one... Also, don't be naked in public? Why is she obsessed with privacy yet is practically naked? Lol. For sure, if this was the other way around... There will be no story.
There would be a story. The guy would be kicked out for wearing something to revealing...
First story: i hate this "if you dont have anything to hide you can show it"
Thats an argument a lot of ppl bring about privacy but its just so wrong in its core.
First of all yes i have pictures to hide xd who has no pics on his phone that are private? I kean even a pic to look up whats that on my back i dont want anyone to see xd.
Second is more overall and not only this situation but the more info you give out of you the more ppl can abuse you. Myb so they know that you want a product and so they sell it for a higher proce then usuall.
First story: All he needed to say is this "Why would I take pictures of you, you're ugly AF. Go bother someone who cares" . Since she just going assume people look at her for her looks. (Nevertheless use a cellphone for a workout)
For the second story, the sister not knowing the house was OP's and saying the parents claimed it was fine... Yeah her reaction was reasonable
2nd story, I think you did really well breaking it down! I might have given the sister .5 buttholes outta 5 mostly for not communicating properly with OP in the first place, "mom and dad said we're honeymooning at the lake house, have you made other arrangements for those 2 weeks yet?" Would have been VERY helpful to OP to nip it in the bud imo
Otherwise awesome video RSlash🖤
Well Belinda thinks everyone is watching her probably. Eva screwed up. She's old enough to know what she did was so wrong. She's 20, time for her to work and get her own place, especially after what she did.
Dude, the girl at the gym was a total a hole. Just because someone did something to you once doesn't give you the right to go around making accusations and demanding people to give up their rights for your feelings. Besides, why is she wearing something so revealing that she can't have pictures taken of her in a public place? Do they need to erase the security tapes too?
It's unfortunate that we got the lake house story without further updates. I'd say the sister's silence in the last call is a moment of realization that not only has she unknowingly done something terrible to her sibling, but the blame is 100% on the very same people who are paying for her wedding. She's in an impossible position where her wedding was already hindered and reduced to a fraction of what it was supposed to be, she's likely said horrible things about OP to her family and friends and now understands she must clean OP's name, but that means throwing her parents (and herself, to a degree) under the bus. After this, I don't see how she could hope to get a wholesome non-disappointing toxicity-free wedding, and it doesn't matter if she's spoiled or not; that realization is a lot to take in.
There is more to the sisters and the lake house story. The sisters actually had a sit down without the parents and really talked. Not just about the house and wedding situation but about the school thing and their past. They realized that not only didn't the money thing add up, but the sister had her school paid for and used the school money to pit them against each other. Then after going back they were so hurt to realize that they have been doing it all of their lives.
Ah, yes, the good old "Guilty until proven otherwise"
consider she's had creeps before....
@@GiordanDiodato i did. That still doesn't turn the situation away from "innocent until proven otherwise"
@@GiordanDiodato jsut because she did does not give her the right to blame people around her
I would do the same to Belinda the next time she's at the gym, i'd be next to her, doing whatever it is i'm doing and then accuse her of taking pictures of me and demand to see her phone. Let's see those double standards kick in.
"Not all men"
You're right. Rslash would NEVER treat women (nay - *anyone* undeserving) poorly. He straight up chugs Respect Women Juice.
The sis in the lake house situation deserves a score for not apologizing properly
In the last story, there was an update saying that Ava cut up the letters while looking at the cameras meaning she wanted OP to see it happen
I totally disagree with you on that first one rSlash. First of all, the woman in the story shouldn't be harassing other people because she 'thinks' they were taking photos of her. Secondly, she was RECORDING HIM, whilst ACCUSING him of being a creep. Was she made to delete that video of the OP? Was she banned for being an insane woman? Probably not.
It's a NTA to OP, YTA for everyone else.
I think she had her reaction because she knew about how her close were as op said at the beginning
@@kickerkirby6918 If that's the case, then she needs to be wearing appropriate clothing the gym, or work out at home.
@@CaitlinIrwin-cd2hh exactly
First story: So it's okay for a woman to record a guy without his consent to make false accusations that he was taking pics without her consent. If you don't see the double standard in this, you are part of the problem with society.
What I still dont understand , who trains in no underwear at a local gym and specifically does a exercise that reveals their private spot
@@ne0n564 It may be a comfort thing. Some people just don't wear underwear. That said, with everything else she's done, it's just as likely intentional to try and get sleezed on so she can make a calling out video. This reeks of "I'm looking for attention."
@@patrickshields6954 a comfort thing? That shit is just unhygienic, they make workout underwear
@@ne0n564 "ugh these disgusting men keep perving on me, better go to the gym without underwear and only wearing tight leggings" that combined with the fact that she instantly turned on her phone and started filming points to the fact that she was baiting people so she could gain internet clout once she uploaded the vid.
recording a guy appropriately bc you thought he was perving on you = taking photos of people inappropriately without their consent
men surprise me every day
“Give me (item) or I’ll leave!!!”
“Please do.”
I listen to these videos all the time, and very few things can surprise me anymore, but when a girl who was clearly in the wrong (calling her own sibling a slur) decides to get revenge by destroying the love letters her father's dead wife wrote him...yeah I gasped.
For once a parent who acknowledges and respects their child's non-binary status
It’s nice to see supportive parents!
i always get so happy when i see parents respecting (and even celebrating) their child's gender identity.