Hi I am Filipina live in Cagayan de Oro. I joined dating sites 2 years ago. I talked to a lot of man getting to know them. Some are rude, some are scammers, some make promises that they will come, some are not serious. I met this one particular guy. I talked to him for 2 months then he said he would come so I was like yeah. Till one day he flew over met him in Laguindingan Airport at that time he met my family spend time with him for two weeks. We just celebrating our first year engagement anniversary. 👋🙂
I recently read on a headstone titled FIVE RULES FOR MEN TO FOLLOW FOR A HAPPY LIFE! 1 it’s important to have a woman who helps at home, cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job 2 it’s important to have a woman who can make you laugh 3 it’s important to have a woman who you can trust and doesn’t lie to you. 4 it’s important to have a woman who is good in bed and likes to be with you 5 it’s very very important that these four women do not know each other or you could end up dead like me.
1&2 meaning less or should be both way 3&4 absolute for both man&w 5 is hilarious: strong man is the king of earth😎, until 1/2 niites ear lobes/ sp.membrane all missing or house🌋😅
As a Filipina, it's painful to read comments about their perspective to us. However I do understand that some Filipina are really taking advantage specially with foreigners. But I hope that will change, and not all Filipinas are like that. Personally I'll be more contented marrying someone who really loves me instead of marrying a rich man and will just abuse me later on. Thanks for the video Tim! I'm a new subscriber.
Welcome! I would say in most cases Filipina's are very trustworthy... the problem is that girls with bad intentions are probably scamming 10 guys at one time which makes it seem like there are a lot of them, when there is really just a few
Its so easy to judge people. Every one want a better life whats so ever. Have anyone heard a president, royal, primeminister what ever, who doesnt seek indeed for wellness.
Thashz07 - don't feel bad... there are lots of Western girls (and guys) like that to. The important thing is to be a good person yourself and to look for someone who mirrors those qualities. Good luck - and stay safe! :)
Interesting video Tim. You hit on an interesting dilemma. You mentioned a number of times that you sent money twice earlier on in your relationship. You also said that you did it for the sake of your relationship, meaning that if you hadn't done that retrospectively, then there may not have been a future relationship. Guys need to know when dating a Filipina that money or lack of it is a major stumbling block at some point. It is possible that the Filipina may be asking for money to see if the guy is financially worthy, as most will be expecting long term financial support, not just for her but for her family too.
Tim, everything you listed was on point. I spent 6 months my first visit to the Philippines. I met alot of nice filipina's. But the key is take your time. I finally found the right woman, we dated for a year and now we have been married 15 years with two kids. She came to the US on a K-1 Visa. Best decision I have ever made.
I agree with all of what Tim says. I dated a number of Filipinas, found one that was a good fit, and eventually brought her to the US on a fiance visa. I was able to travel to the Philippines every 3 months and stay for about 16 days each visit so my wife and I dated long distance for two years. We are very happy. I cannot say enough good things about having a Filipina wife. We now spend the winters in the Philippines and the other seasons in the US. In addition to what Tim said about taking your time, dating a number of women and not giving in to requests for money until you meet them, expect to help her family out financially when your relationship becomes serious. It’s part of the culture, however, you are the head of the house. You are in charge. That’s part of the culture too. Feel free to say no to unreasonable/questionable requests. With regard to how much you give, set boundaries you find comfortable. You do not have to respond to every request and you can limit the amount you give.
Great advice Tim! You need to know the family and observe how your girl interacts with them. You need to stay long term or live in the Phils to truly understand your girl and the Filipino culture. I have know my filipina fiance for 10 years now and she has never changed. Never asked for money, great family, kind, compassionate, God loving, mature, smart, and beautiful inside and out! We recently had a baby girl together. Waiting to bring her home to the USA,
i send my girl money but she didnt know or ask, till she got a sms to pick up, didnt want to pick it up but did after 4 days, told me dont do that, i love you for who you are.
Yeah, same here... Mine was actually pretty pissed off when she found out what I had done, and it was only some load that I put directly onto her phone. It's like any other country... Some girls are gold diggers and others are gold. Filipino pride can run DEEP.
Married my wife the second week after meeting her. Things have worked out great. Been here in the US 3 years now. Took her back to the Philippines a year after being here n planning to go back this year for Christmas and new year.
If I leave a forwarding address will you buy me a lottery ticket?... You put all the money in on a losing bet and came out a winner. =) Congrats and good luck.
@@TimKyoutube hello Tim I have been subscribed to your network on RUclips for a while now and my interest in following your stories came when I also decided to date a philipina. I have been to the Philippines ones last year on my birthday and meet the woman I am currently engaged to. I had known her for 8 months before the engagement and we are getting married this October, but with the virus that is going on now we are just looking to see if things are going to get better and we will decide whether we keep it. Everything is already paid for and I love her very much. I am excited I would love to get the opportunity to meet you in person I live in Florida and I should be coming to the Philippines in September. I would love for you to give me an email address for when the time comes I would also love for you to come to the wedding when it takes place. Thanks for giving me something to watch I miss my fiancee and the Philippines ❤️ much love
Dude where is Hanna? Good educational video for first timers.my wife has been living with me for 4 years now in new york and she is still the same filipina i originally met.understanding the cultural differences is important. Christan is a great catch tim and dale is getting big.stay safe
Great post Tim! I chatted with Jhoanna for 8 months then went to see her after feeling like she may be the one I want to spend my life with. We are 20 years apart in age so I was a bit apprehensive. She never once during our chats ask for money which was a pleasant surprise. I stayed a month with her and by the end of the month I knew for sure she was the one. I went back a few months later and ended up staying 8 months and eventually married her there then petitioned her back to the US. Living in the US now we are planning to move back in a couple of years. We have been married now 14 years. Hope you're still there so we can get together. By the way...we are connected on Instagram. We just chatted about the oil industry earlier. Take care my brother. You have an awesome wife and son.
I feel you Tim I spent 2 years in the island of Mindoro as south of the island you can go but because of a antiquated mentality had to go every 5 months away to a different country for a month just to feel a westernish culture and recover before embarking a sometimes quantum leap of emertion again. Go Away and chill brother change is good as a rest.
Love is love it's either there or not no matter wat nationality .....so much talk if you LOVE SOMEONE YOU JUST KNOW DO THE RIGHT THING ....NO MATTER WAT NATIONALITY WERE ALK HUMAN💓💓❤️😘👍💃
Rule 1: NEVER send or give money. Rule 2: Don’t buy land or have a home built for your dream girl (you wont be the one living in it). Rule 3: You are not the exception to rule 1 or rule 2. Rule 4: Don’t bring her back to the western world unless what you want is a western woman.
I have dated filipinas in USA and i have done online dating. Both can be good and both can be bad. Like you said, best advice is to date alot and never jump into a romance right away or marriage. I have horror stories I have heard and I have seen stories that will melt your heart. Filipinas can be the best woman in the world or they can be a nightmare.
My girl refused help even when I knew it ras really needed. I thought I'd get tricky one day and "anonymously" I put $22.00 of load on her phone to offset our conversations... Not knowing that the service I used would list my email in a notification to her phone... That's when I learned about Filipina pride, and TAMPO!... Almost two weeks of little or no contact from her until she let it go. That was three years ago and I'll never try THAT again! =)
Find a nurse and there are plenty due to it is a job that pays well when she is abroad and the nursing schools there are next to none. My wife is a nurse, my sister in law is a nurse both make great money and happy here in the USA. Hang around nursing schools and meet a girl there.
Oh Tinman you hit it right on the head of the nail. My girlfriend and I had our ups and downs can’t have a relationship without it we were together a long time. Almost 4 years. Before I even thought about marriage.
I do love the ocean views that you have shown in your vis, it reminds me of Cyprus and the Mediterranean. So beautiful when you can go out in a boat 50 ft from shore looh through that emerald green water and did see the bottom.
You’re honest person Tim you’re helping the foriegners not to be a victims of Filipina scammers asking money and spent the money for drugs and to a Filipino boyfriends. Beware to a Filipina gold diggers.
Same here, hahaha.. "She" refused to videocall because both front and back cameras in the phone was broken. When I asked if "she" could borrow from a friend, then "she" said ALL her friends either had an old keypad phone or their cameras was broken too. Then I asked if "she" didn't want to see me, because my camera was working just fine. After a lot of blah blah blah "she" finally agreed to a videocall. It was hilarious. It was easy to see that she was just covering the camera with her finger. But the voice was not as easy to hide, hehehe.. Dude...
Lol spot on the only other one I would add is it’s never the same girl twice on a phone call ! Video chats are better! Don’t waste your time just go there and head out to the provinces forget the cities
Wow I miss Hannah so much, just fell in love with the smile and unsure confidence she she shows just being her ! Maybe I am not reading her well ! But I just love her truth that she has to be in your videos ! Please tell her I am so in love with who she portrays herself to be in this messed up world. Thank you Tim, Chrisey and Your boy ! For Hannah ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Good sound advice spoken well and shows some thought, from an experienced point of view. Not everyone thinks rationally when dealing with affairs of the heart!
Bro thanks for the great info. I’m thinking of bringing her back to SoCal but also start a business there to help family avoid issues financially and make good money. Either a pig farm or rentals of apartments or both.
I throw my girl money It could be a mistake But 100 dollars isnt shit to me. And I know it's a lot for her. I believe in my girl. She wants opportunities and she knows shes nothing without me. I think the number one mistake is moving to the Philippines. Take her back home and give her opportunities she never dreamed of. Support her family..
If you find out how to get rid of those damn biting ants let me know . They are driving me nuts . Being married to a marine is alot like that they are home 18 gone 6 mos .just about time you get everything under control they are home again . Then gone again.. Murphy's law...
Let’s face it guys ... most of us are not exactly Brad Pitt 😅... we might be short on the age / looks 😅... sometimes we can make it up with an extra dollar/ euro ... the attention that can be found in the Philippines won’t be found in America/ Europe ... unless your Brad Pitt ... fact. ... love to all from Ireland 🇮🇪❤️🇵🇭 ...
#2 starting a relationship and asking a girl to get married on Facebook LOL. The guys that think they can know a girl by only knowing her a short time. You said it straight, know your girl before you get serious. Don’t fall for the first girl that smiles at you and talks to you LOL. Definitely don’t get overwhelmed or delusional “calibrate yourself” great saying Tim!
When I met my wife there were no cell phones but internet cafes. It cost 1 or 2 dollars per session. Talking everyday would cost $15 a week. That is a fortune to a girl in the Philippines.
Hi Tim and Krissy, I really feel that that most Filipina women have pure intentions and really looking for love. Just as most foreigners have pure intentions and looking for love. It is just important to look for all signs that you are not being scammed. However, there are those men that have a negative view of all Filipina women and that is so incredibly sad because they are going to miss a chance to have a relationship with the most beautiful and loving women in the world.
my gf never ask me for money but when you hear they dont have food or a roof on there house how can you care about them and do nothiig ? i look at it like this even if we dont work out its the right thing to do pandimic times makes things a bit diff imo
very true Tim! maybe you can get a filipinas view on this too... not really meaning your wifes either! but there are a few locals that may shed some light on cultural expectations that we white foreigners have no idea about! Ive noticed how quickly they use terms of endearment! honey, dear, babe, etc..... they use these FAST! they say they love you FAST! on FC its like 8 out of 10 want $$$$$ and its sad on both sides. most foreigners dont understand LOAD (data) for the philippines either! or how much they want to use skype, viber, whatsapp, hangouts..... nice video but you can probably do a 3 or 4 part series on this!
@@TimKyoutube its really a great topic tho for all of us westerners! I spent a month there and found it really different in some things and very much alike in others! but I do feel for ya on the Bro thing.... i felt it during my month there too.... makes ya feel like an outsider even though theres english used.
I think that the most important thing for a phl women is her family,if you respect and love her family ,she Will love you alway's! I hope you Will make a video from chrissy's fam too,i love to See that fam,her Mother and father are so Nice! Take care my friend!
yes your are so lucky to have christine in your life, she's simple, pretty and a very cuteee baby dale.... have a nice day and may the good spirits protect you and your family always 🙏
Good vlog Tim. Been married in California, got divorced after that I"ve met a Filipina in the Philippines., And we are now married for 18 years (no regrets, even with the ups and downs). We have 2 handsome sons. One thing though, she doesn't change, she always looks in her 20s, but me, I am aging so fast even if we are 10 years age difference. She is taking away my youth.
Hi Tim, I came across your videos and watched quite a few. Very interesting indeed. I am also married to a Filipina and I saw one of your videos where you interviewed someone from Canada who married a Filipina and had roots in Trinidad and Tobago which is the same as me. I would like to get in touch with him if he is in Canada again and also get in touch with you also to talk about our lives with a Filipina. I have been with my wife since 2008 and we actually met in 2007. I hope to her from you soon..
to be fair not every foreigner have the pure intention of dating a filipina. So for tims suggestion, there will be things that might be applicable, but if you engage to some kind of relationship with women aged around 30+ and have a kid. Most but not all of them would surely be serious about the whole relationship thing, and they probably will not let you date them for a year without even a marriage. These women would most likely think that youre just playing around with them. so give it up.
Hey Tim, how bad do typhoons get over there where you live? How do you get ready for them? Do you think that in the future you might buy a piece of land and just build a Typhoon proof house (round made out of concrete on an elevated piece of land) Can you talk about that in a video? Not that used to hurricanes where I live at... I think the most action I see when it starts raining hard is a few clogged sewers that end up flooding the streets....
I really enjoy your vlog because I feel like I am right in the Philipines. I also like the fact that you involved the family and help them out. I discovered by watch Harald Baldr
Hi Tim always nice to see you. Thank you for your good advice, which is truly an educational lesson for those who reserve to meet the future Asian lady. :-)
I totally agree with number 1. I'm very happy with my fiance now, however, with my ex I had wanted to help her with a few smaller things and in the end looking back I really regret that. Was a waste of my money and time cuz she had a boyfriend already that she didn't tell me about, even when I went to see her.
Been there now after so many years of studying their ways I'm much more careful for now I only have a few friends and that's it till I'm ready for a relationship....
Tim K, you are right, but when I see where you are living, the first thing that comes to mind is a chicken farm, pork farm, small vegetable farm, and opening a small restaurant/small grocery store, the first year of operation in minus, there after a plus, like a relationship it takes commitment, but you are right, born and raised in a third world country, not as is easy as it seems
Whoopsie! I understand your point on intelligence and foreign language. But seems like a can of worms lol. I think most filipinas are intelligent and want to work but lack of opportunities in the islands sets them back. I definitely see a difference in women from my last time over there. But I chalk that up to the Internet, cell phones, and the city girls. I would definitely seek a relationship from a province woman that is faith based.
Ron Bauer City or Province doesn’t matter. Depends how we raised up! Married a Woman who is useful not used less. A man’s success depends the woman he married. It takes 2 that love’s grow. 🙏😍🙏
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Hi I am Filipina live in Cagayan de Oro. I joined dating sites 2 years ago. I talked to a lot of man getting to know them. Some are rude, some are scammers, some make promises that they will come, some are not serious. I met this one particular guy. I talked to him for 2 months then he said he would come so I was like yeah. Till one day he flew over met him in Laguindingan Airport at that time he met my family spend time with him for two weeks. We just celebrating our first year engagement anniversary. 👋🙂
I recently read on a headstone titled FIVE RULES FOR MEN TO FOLLOW FOR A HAPPY LIFE!
1 it’s important to have a woman who helps at home, cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job
2 it’s important to have a woman who can make you laugh
3 it’s important to have a woman who you can trust and doesn’t lie to you.
4 it’s important to have a woman who is good in bed and likes to be with you
5 it’s very very important that these four women do not know each other or you could end up dead like me.
lmao!
hi JB
J B what are you like man , that's a brilliant one.
1&2 meaning less or should be both way 3&4 absolute for both man&w 5 is hilarious: strong man is the king of earth😎, until 1/2 niites ear lobes/ sp.membrane all missing or house🌋😅
Funny bro
As a Filipina, it's painful to read comments about their perspective to us. However I do understand that some Filipina are really taking advantage specially with foreigners. But I hope that will change, and not all Filipinas are like that. Personally I'll be more contented marrying someone who really loves me instead of marrying a rich man and will just abuse me later on. Thanks for the video Tim! I'm a new subscriber.
Welcome! I would say in most cases Filipina's are very trustworthy... the problem is that girls with bad intentions are probably scamming 10 guys at one time which makes it seem like there are a lot of them, when there is really just a few
Hello ❤
@Thashz07 you deserve that good comment
Its so easy to judge people. Every one want a better life whats so ever. Have anyone heard a president, royal, primeminister what ever, who doesnt seek indeed for wellness.
Thashz07 - don't feel bad... there are lots of Western girls (and guys) like that to. The important thing is to be a good person yourself and to look for someone who mirrors those qualities. Good luck - and stay safe! :)
Interesting video Tim. You hit on an interesting dilemma. You mentioned a number of times that you sent money twice earlier on in your relationship. You also said that you did it for the sake of your relationship, meaning that if you hadn't done that retrospectively, then there may not have been a future relationship. Guys need to know when dating a Filipina that money or lack of it is a major stumbling block at some point. It is possible that the Filipina may be asking for money to see if the guy is financially worthy, as most will be expecting long term financial support, not just for her but for her family too.
Tim, everything you listed was on point. I spent 6 months my first visit to the Philippines. I met alot of nice filipina's. But the key is take your time. I finally found the right woman, we dated for a year and now we have been married 15 years with two kids. She came to the US on a K-1 Visa. Best decision I have ever made.
Thanks Bro. Well done sir.
How did she handle the different culture? Did she pick it up?
I agree with all of what Tim says. I dated a number of Filipinas, found one that was a good fit, and eventually brought her to the US on a fiance visa. I was able to travel to the Philippines every 3 months and stay for about 16 days each visit so my wife and I dated long distance for two years. We are very happy. I cannot say enough good things about having a Filipina wife. We now spend the winters in the Philippines and the other seasons in the US. In addition to what Tim said about taking your time, dating a number of women and not giving in to requests for money until you meet them, expect to help her family out financially when your relationship becomes serious. It’s part of the culture, however, you are the head of the house. You are in charge. That’s part of the culture too. Feel free to say no to unreasonable/questionable requests. With regard to how much you give, set boundaries you find comfortable. You do not have to respond to every request and you can limit the amount you give.
Date a woman for at least a year to find out who she really is.
Yeah and put your pants on 1 leg at a time. Hey grass is green and the sky is blue ssshhhhhhh dont tell anyone . . . It's top secret
Great advice Tim! You need to know the family and observe how your girl interacts with them. You need to stay long term or live in the Phils to truly understand your girl and the Filipino culture. I have know my filipina fiance for 10 years now and she has never changed. Never asked for money, great family, kind, compassionate, God loving, mature, smart, and beautiful inside and out! We recently had a baby girl together. Waiting to bring her home to the USA,
i send my girl money but she didnt know or ask, till she got a sms to pick up, didnt want to pick it up but did after 4 days, told me dont do that, i love you for who you are.
Cool story
Yeah, same here... Mine was actually pretty pissed off when she found out what I had done, and it was only some load that I put directly onto her phone. It's like any other country... Some girls are gold diggers and others are gold. Filipino pride can run DEEP.
LOL, you are kidding right?
Lucky you - you've got yourself a keeper! Take good care of her.
@@pauls4742 I will........ lmao
Married my wife the second week after meeting her. Things have worked out great. Been here in the US 3 years now. Took her back to the Philippines a year after being here n planning to go back this year for Christmas and new year.
If I leave a forwarding address will you buy me a lottery ticket?... You put all the money in on a losing bet and came out a winner. =)
Congrats and good luck.
I'm happy for you - congrats! :)
Mistake 4 don’t date one with Adam’s apple 🍏
that's not a mistake.... that's a disaster
😂😂😂😂
I must crush you.
Lol that doesn't always work.. If you go too thailand stay away from the too hot too be true "women".They are masters of disguise..😂😂😂
@@TimKyoutube hello Tim I have been subscribed to your network on RUclips for a while now and my interest in following your stories came when I also decided to date a philipina. I have been to the Philippines ones last year on my birthday and meet the woman I am currently engaged to. I had known her for 8 months before the engagement and we are getting married this October, but with the virus that is going on now we are just looking to see if things are going to get better and we will decide whether we keep it. Everything is already paid for and I love her very much. I am excited I would love to get the opportunity to meet you in person I live in Florida and I should be coming to the Philippines in September. I would love for you to give me an email address for when the time comes I would also love for you to come to the wedding when it takes place. Thanks for giving me something to watch I miss my fiancee and the Philippines ❤️ much love
Tim, helping her family is what you do. We do it here with my in-laws who are elderly. Interesting video...thanks.
Tim,
PROVERBS 19:14
House and riches are the inheritance from fathers, but a wise, understanding, and prudent wife is from the Lord.
My filipina wife (29) years hasn't really changed living here in the U.S.
Tim's advice won't let you end up in "Tulfo" a complaint show for failed or scam relationships
thanks.. i was referring to that show in one of my earlier vids... but did not know the name :)
@@TimKyoutube You're welcome. Watching your vlogs since day one with Harald before Chrissy all the way from Huntington Beach, CA 🇺🇸
i used to live on 14th and orange
I married my island girl 35 years ago raised 2 girls and now we are watching you and your life . Lol
memories? :)
Chrissy and you Tim make a nice couple, hope Chrissy is true to you. You seem genuinely supportive in her succes and happiness. Keep vlogging🇨🇦🇹🇹
Rule #4 if they I love you 1st or second chat, run
Good video Tim your a good soul I have been here since 2008 you do need to adjust but in the end its worth it.
Dude where is Hanna?
Good educational video for first timers.my wife has been living with me for 4 years now in new york and she is still the same filipina i originally met.understanding the cultural differences is important.
Christan is a great catch tim and dale is getting big.stay safe
Thanks Tim, I'm very intrigued by Filipino women and I've always had a weak spot for them and now I know why.
Hi Tim was waiting for you and Harold. You guys are on a roll. And I'm loving it.
Rule # 1 Stay away from bar girls. You will never ever find a quality woman there.
Great post Tim! I chatted with Jhoanna for 8 months then went to see her after feeling like she may be the one I want to spend my life with. We are 20 years apart in age so I was a bit apprehensive. She never once during our chats ask for money which was a pleasant surprise. I stayed a month with her and by the end of the month I knew for sure she was the one. I went back a few months later and ended up staying 8 months and eventually married her there then petitioned her back to the US. Living in the US now we are planning to move back in a couple of years. We have been married now 14 years. Hope you're still there so we can get together. By the way...we are connected on Instagram. We just chatted about the oil industry earlier. Take care my brother. You have an awesome wife and son.
I hope Krissy will make another video that talks about mistakes dating foreigners. ☺️
we are working on filming something similar soon
Absolutely correct 👍
On first meet, always check their passport to see if they just came there.. lot's will say they just flew in.. Very common scam..
Ginazel Ginez ha ha ha!
Ginazel Ginez ha ha ha!
I guess the person who own the bench didn't like to share he's toys growing up 😀
I feel you Tim I spent 2 years in the island of Mindoro as south of the island you can go but because of a antiquated mentality had to go every 5 months away to a different country for a month just to feel a westernish culture and recover before embarking a sometimes quantum leap of emertion again. Go Away and chill brother change is good as a rest.
Great advice Tim.
The bench situation sucks. Especially since you offered to repair it.
Thanks for the video.
Love is love it's either there or not no matter wat nationality .....so much talk if you LOVE SOMEONE YOU JUST KNOW DO THE RIGHT THING ....NO MATTER WAT NATIONALITY WERE ALK HUMAN💓💓❤️😘👍💃
You are so right man. I hope the guys will listen to you. I also hear Provence girls are more loyal vs city girls like Manila
Were living in this crazy world but you follow your heart Tim.much love to you and your family from NZ.
Rule 1: NEVER send or give money.
Rule 2: Don’t buy land or have a home built for your dream girl (you wont be the one living in it).
Rule 3: You are not the exception to rule 1 or rule 2.
Rule 4: Don’t bring her back to the western world unless what you want is a western woman.
Agee with 2, and 4.
I have dated filipinas in USA and i have done online dating. Both can be good and both can be bad. Like you said, best advice is to date alot and never jump into a romance right away or marriage. I have horror stories I have heard and I have seen stories that will melt your heart. Filipinas can be the best woman in the world or they can be a nightmare.
My girl refused help even when I knew it ras really needed. I thought I'd get tricky one day and "anonymously" I put $22.00 of load on her phone to offset our conversations... Not knowing that the service I used would list my email in a notification to her phone... That's when I learned about Filipina pride, and TAMPO!... Almost two weeks of little or no contact from her until she let it go. That was three years ago and I'll never try THAT again! =)
I am Filipina and I’m agree with you Tim 100%
thank you elsa :)
Find a nurse and there are plenty due to it is a job that pays well when she is abroad and the nursing schools there are next to none. My wife is a nurse, my sister in law is a nurse both make great money and happy here in the USA. Hang around nursing schools and meet a girl there.
She did not get much money while you were dating but now she holds the wallet 😊
Oh Tinman you hit it right on the head of the nail. My girlfriend and I had our ups and downs can’t have a relationship without it we were together a long time. Almost 4 years. Before I even thought about marriage.
You are right Tim.. good advice ..Be careful guys to choose don't jump quickly!. :)
When the Lonely meets the Needy its a Recipe for Mass Distraction. Married a Person who Love Jesus! 😍❤️😍
Haha
Yolly B plenty of “needy” women in the states, but none I would be interested in.
Team Jesus says no!
I do love the ocean views that you have shown in your vis, it reminds me of Cyprus and the Mediterranean. So beautiful when you can go out in a boat 50 ft from shore looh through that emerald green water and did see the bottom.
U have a lot of great points brother.
You’re honest person Tim you’re helping the foriegners not to be a victims of Filipina scammers asking money and spent the money for drugs and to a Filipino boyfriends. Beware to a Filipina gold diggers.
I left Cupid. Too many scammers, fake profiles, can you buy me a phone, need money for nursing school. Someone called me ,sounded like a dude.
WOW
Wow I didn't have that experience at all. Met some really nice girls on there who didn't want money or even asked about it.
Same here, hahaha.. "She" refused to videocall because both front and back cameras in the phone was broken. When I asked if "she" could borrow from a friend, then "she" said ALL her friends either had an old keypad phone or their cameras was broken too. Then I asked if "she" didn't want to see me, because my camera was working just fine. After a lot of blah blah blah "she" finally agreed to a videocall.
It was hilarious. It was easy to see that she was just covering the camera with her finger. But the voice was not as easy to hide, hehehe.. Dude...
Lol spot on the only other one I would add is it’s never the same girl twice on a phone call ! Video chats are better! Don’t waste your time just go there and head out to the provinces forget the cities
Hahhaha the man just tickled me
Tim that’s very good advice ,and that’s true not all filipina are scammers. I’m praying that your wife will love you as who you are and not for money.
we are generous and hospitable people
Wow I miss Hannah so much, just fell in love with the smile and unsure confidence she she shows just being her !
Maybe I am not reading her well ! But I just love her truth that she has to be in your videos !
Please tell her I am so in love with who she portrays herself to be in this messed up world.
Thank you Tim, Chrisey and Your boy !
For Hannah ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Good sound advice spoken well and shows some thought, from an experienced point of view. Not everyone thinks rationally when dealing with affairs of the heart!
Bro thanks for the great info. I’m thinking of bringing her back to SoCal but also start a business there to help family avoid issues financially and make good money. Either a pig farm or rentals of apartments or both.
Godbless you tim. Regards to your handsome kid and pretty wife krissy. ❤️
I throw my girl money
It could be a mistake
But 100 dollars isnt shit to me.
And I know it's a lot for her.
I believe in my girl.
She wants opportunities and she knows shes nothing without me.
I think the number one mistake is moving to the Philippines.
Take her back home and give her opportunities she never dreamed of.
Support her family..
Jay sometimes a girl gets home sick and throws the opportunity away .I passed up and wasn't even from another country.
If you find out how to get rid of those damn biting ants let me know . They are driving me nuts .
Being married to a marine is alot like that they are home 18 gone 6 mos .just about time you get everything under control they are home again . Then gone again.. Murphy's law...
Let’s face it guys ... most of us are not exactly Brad Pitt 😅... we might be short on the age / looks 😅... sometimes we can make it up with an extra dollar/ euro ... the attention that can be found in the Philippines won’t be found in America/ Europe ... unless your Brad Pitt ... fact. ... love to all from Ireland 🇮🇪❤️🇵🇭 ...
#2 starting a relationship and asking a girl to get married on Facebook LOL. The guys that think they can know a girl by only knowing her a short time. You said it straight, know your girl before you get serious. Don’t fall for the first girl that smiles at you and talks to you LOL. Definitely don’t get overwhelmed or delusional “calibrate yourself” great saying Tim!
How about 3 mistakes dating foriegner it would be fair 😁👍
I have been there 6 times and almost moved there! I had the best time working there and have some many friends there!
Money is part of our life... But not All Fiipina are asking for money.take care
When I met my wife there were no cell phones but internet cafes. It cost 1 or 2 dollars per session. Talking everyday would cost $15 a week. That is a fortune to a girl in the Philippines.
Hi Tim and Krissy, I really feel that that most Filipina women have pure intentions and really looking for love. Just as most foreigners have pure intentions and looking for love. It is just important to look for all signs that you are not being scammed. However, there are those men that have a negative view of all Filipina women and that is so incredibly sad because they are going to miss a chance to have a relationship with the most beautiful and loving women in the world.
my gf never ask me for money but when you hear they dont have food or a roof on there house how can you care about them and do nothiig ? i look at it like this even if we dont work out its the right thing to do pandimic times makes things a bit diff imo
"3 Mistakes Dating a Filipina" (love the thumbnail btw) :'-D
Hello Tim. Can you make a video about medical system in the Philippines and how much it would cost for medical insurance? Have a great day.
very true Tim! maybe you can get a filipinas view on this too... not really meaning your wifes either! but there are a few locals that may shed some light on cultural expectations that we white foreigners have no idea about! Ive noticed how quickly they use terms of endearment! honey, dear, babe, etc..... they use these FAST! they say they love you FAST! on FC its like 8 out of 10 want $$$$$ and its sad on both sides. most foreigners dont understand LOAD (data) for the philippines either! or how much they want to use skype, viber, whatsapp, hangouts..... nice video but you can probably do a 3 or 4 part series on this!
thanks for the input. I'm trying to get chrissy's input from her side... hopefully we will get a vid from her.
@@TimKyoutube its really a great topic tho for all of us westerners! I spent a month there and found it really different in some things and very much alike in others! but I do feel for ya on the Bro thing.... i felt it during my month there too.... makes ya feel like an outsider even though theres english used.
I think that the most important thing for a phl women is her family,if you respect and love her family ,she Will love you alway's! I hope you Will make a video from chrissy's fam too,i love to See that fam,her Mother and father are so Nice! Take care my friend!
Hi Bro you are right. Depends how. You how you chose! Thanks! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼👍👍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼👍👍👍👍👍🙏🏼
Build your own bench ?
Problem solved and you can skip the DRAMA !
We only have social distancing here, sun is shining and the temperatures are good.
Finding work is tough though
yes your are so lucky to have christine in your life, she's simple, pretty and a very cuteee baby dale.... have a nice day and may the good spirits protect you and your family always 🙏
Tim, I can't believe you fell for the treasurer stolen tshirt money scam!!! 😅😅😅😅😅
Sometimes you roll the dice and Tim obviously has a good girl.
So he rolled the dice and rolled a winner.
Great advice.
As always, thanks for sharing.
Tim, Good information, may i add do some due diligence to learn their language...
working on your girl's mastery of english is 1,000x times more productive than learning her dialect.
If you know the vowels, it is not hard to learn
I learn Spanish in Highschool, Tagalog shortly after, some Ilongo (ilo ilo) and Visayan Thanks to my Pinay Wife
Good vlog Tim. Been married in California, got divorced after that I"ve met a Filipina in the Philippines., And we are now married for 18 years (no regrets, even with the ups and downs). We have 2 handsome sons. One thing though, she doesn't change, she always looks in her 20s, but me, I am aging so fast even if we are 10 years age difference. She is taking away my youth.
Island madness setting in huh..? I suppose even paradise has its limitations...
Hi Tim, I came across your videos and watched quite a few. Very interesting indeed. I am also married to a Filipina and I saw one of your videos where you interviewed someone from Canada who married a Filipina and had roots in Trinidad and Tobago which is the same as me. I would like to get in touch with him if he is in Canada again and also get in touch with you also to talk about our lives with a Filipina. I have been with my wife since 2008 and we actually met in 2007. I hope to her from you soon..
thanks... leave a comment on the YT channel of "filipina destiny" that's his wife's channel
Hey Tim.
Thanks for the advice.
But I'm curious what state does that jerk that owns the covered bench is from.
( live in the U.S. too).
Cotton Cox
Looks like leyte
Cotton Cox
Let's go
Me too, lol
Tim, Set up your own bench on the beach with a "Private Property" sign.
Not every filipina has a pure intention dating foreigners and you got the purest tim. Crissy really loves you❤️
to be fair not every foreigner have the pure intention of dating a filipina. So for tims suggestion, there will be things that might be applicable, but if you engage to some kind of relationship with women aged around 30+ and have a kid. Most but not all of them would surely be serious about the whole relationship thing, and they probably will not let you date them for a year without even a marriage. These women would most likely think that youre just playing around with them. so give it up.
Hey Tim, how bad do typhoons get over there where you live? How do you get ready for them? Do you think that in the future you might buy a piece of land and just build a Typhoon proof house (round made out of concrete on an elevated piece of land) Can you talk about that in a video? Not that used to hurricanes where I live at... I think the most action I see when it starts raining hard is a few clogged sewers that end up flooding the streets....
Beautiful backdrop in your vlog!
"No money, no honey!"
Ants will not cross a chalk line
Good advice Tim. Thank you!
I wanna marry a Filipina and live in the Philippines in the future. I'm from Dublin, Ireland.
Any takers? Lol
Fires happen by accident, bamboo is flammable, thanks for the info Tim, great vlog.
Hey that's Cheating... What a thumbnail. You just made me jump the vids I had lined up to watch.
lol
Hi Chiis
I really enjoy your vlog because I feel like I am right in the Philipines. I also like the fact that you involved the family and help them out. I discovered by watch Harald Baldr
I met a girl online and she never asks for money. I even offered and she said no.
that's not uncommon actually
Hi Tim always nice to see you. Thank you for your good advice, which is truly an educational lesson for those who reserve to meet the future Asian lady. :-)
I totally agree with number 1. I'm very happy with my fiance now, however, with my ex I had wanted to help her with a few smaller things and in the end looking back I really regret that. Was a waste of my money and time cuz she had a boyfriend already that she didn't tell me about, even when I went to see her.
Been there now after so many years of studying their ways I'm much more careful for now I only have a few friends and that's it till I'm ready for a relationship....
Great advice for every single guy in every country.
don't let your little head do your thinking ! lol great post Tim.
Noooo you should of titled this 3 things I love about Filipina marriage. 😝❣️
Tim K, you are right, but when I see where you are living, the first thing that comes to mind is a chicken farm, pork farm, small vegetable farm, and opening a small restaurant/small grocery store, the first year of operation in minus, there after a plus, like a relationship it takes commitment, but you are right, born and raised in a third world country, not as is easy as it seems
Tim K you are obviously beginning to felt frustrated where you are now ?
Hahaha! “Allot or them are seamen...eh, the ocean type”. Hahaha!
Whoopsie! I understand your point on intelligence and foreign language.
But seems like a can of worms lol.
I think most filipinas are intelligent and want to work but lack of opportunities in the islands sets them back.
I definitely see a difference in women from my last time over there.
But I chalk that up to the Internet, cell phones, and the city girls.
I would definitely seek a relationship from a province woman that is faith based.
Ron Bauer City or Province doesn’t matter. Depends how we raised up! Married a Woman who is useful not used less. A man’s success depends the woman he married. It takes 2 that love’s grow. 🙏😍🙏
very reasonable hints. Thanks for sharing!
Hard to meet people right now because of the virus situation
I agree with you Mr Tim 100%
So true Tim, When I was here in the 90’s. still has not changed. lol
Very informative. Great job, Tim. Frm Msia.