I know a relative with a BPD lady and it is a definite red flag and completely negative. Even on her meds she attacks people around her and goes from normal’ish to completely unhinged and frankly dangerous to others. Her comparisons are ridiculous.
I've dealt with crippling depression since I was eight. Drugs didnt work. Therapy didn't work. Its awful. Its the reason I chose not to have kids, beacuse I didn't want to pass that down to th em nor did I want to be unfair to them and have a father with these issues. Today everyone and their fucking dog is diagnosed with something, mostly for an excuse or attention seeking behavior. Its gross.
Bryan shoulda used that computer. Bipolar is not a personality disorder, its a mood disorder similar to cyclical depression. He's mixing up Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder and the fact she's making such a big deal about it without knowing at least that says everything.
If she's foolish enough to go to a guy like that it's her own fault and nobody should feel bad for her No one feels bad for men when they get what they get whether they deserve it or not let them be strong and independent 💀...
What role does the kid in the background wearing the old soldier uniform? Sorry I mean absolutely no disrespect, it’s just that I’ve only heard him ever speak like once.
Bipolar people have triggers, they days, months and years without an episode!! Even with meds or not it's an illness. Yes, it's a personality disorder!!
Yes Van Gogh had BPD and he cut his ear off, because he was rejected by the woman he loved. Is one of the stories out of many. BPD is never a good thing.
Her admission of violence to others clearly shows her condition is negative, a red flag and dangerous to others. My advice from a personal perspective of interactions with BPD relatives is keep away from them. Same old victim blaming and entitlement. Not judging for no reason, based on facts, not a preference a fact.
BPD is simply a term for a clinical strength A-hole. It means your personality is so bad it needs medication or intervention to alter it so you can somewhat function. Behavioral therapy helps the most, but most people won't do that because it requires work, discipline, and, most critically, the desire to change. Meds are marginally effective at best but much more profitable and easy for practitioners to use. The side effects are a whole other can of worms.
Off topic, but can anyone give some insight on the Asian girl who is in all these videos with the strange hat? I've seen her in most every video, but never seen her say a single word or contribute in any way. Who is she and why is she there? Serious question!
this idiot thinks you cant talk about things on a gradient. All things must be equally weighted before we can ever compare them. OBVIOUSLY a drug dealer is worse than BPD, relatively speaking, but they are both relative negative things so having them in the same list of overall negative things is fine.
My wife is bi-polar and schizoaffective she's medicated and a great mother to our two boys. She's had two episodes and I took care of her and put her in the hospital but she's better now. I'm bipolar as well. Some of the greatest genius is to ever live or bipolar so I think Brian and Andrew got it wrong on this one
Where these douche bags are missing the point cause they only care about “i got you” questions , is all the other red flags listed are traits or situations that came from that persons actions of decisions, mental health while not a positive is out of someones control to be diagnosed with. Judge them by how they deal with it and manage it , everyone will be different and thus should be judged accordingly
I'm sorry, but I have to agree with this woman!! You're essentially saying that because you're bipolar you equal X and therefore that should rule you out of the dating scene or X situation. I have a bad back and my posture doesn't look good, so that means people shouldn't date me and it's a red flag??? You have a bad back sir, so that's a red flag because you don't have a backbone and you won't be a good dating partner. It's a form of discrimination or prejudice!! Not all people with bipolar want to stab people and do crazy shit!! I don't think being bipolar should rule you out of certain things in life, make you be branded in a very negative way, and therefore have a red flag hanging over your head.
Why would I want to be with someone who is unstable? It's literally an undesirable trait.
I know a relative with a BPD lady and it is a definite red flag and completely negative. Even on her meds she attacks people around her and goes from normal’ish to completely unhinged and frankly dangerous to others. Her comparisons are ridiculous.
Mental illness is glorified and quirky nowadays. What’s a shame
I've dealt with crippling depression since I was eight. Drugs didnt work. Therapy didn't work. Its awful. Its the reason I chose not to have kids, beacuse I didn't want to pass that down to th em nor did I want to be unfair to them and have a father with these issues.
Today everyone and their fucking dog is diagnosed with something, mostly for an excuse or attention seeking behavior. Its gross.
When the violent offender wants to be the victim so bad...
I had a buddy that was woken up by his girl trying to choke him cuz of her big polar
She wants to be a victim.
She says "yeah but" she will not let you speak logic. Toss her back.
Bryan shoulda used that computer. Bipolar is not a personality disorder, its a mood disorder similar to cyclical depression. He's mixing up Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder and the fact she's making such a big deal about it without knowing at least that says everything.
as a bipolar person, i do NOT cosign anything that chick is saying. wtf 🤡
BPD is NOT red flag. It is flashing light, loud siren, ABANDON SHIP immediately.
Cope and delusion. She said nothing of substance the whole time
If she's foolish enough to go to a guy like that it's her own fault and nobody should feel bad for her No one feels bad for men when they get what they get whether they deserve it or not let them be strong and independent 💀...
Holy fuck this is hard to watch. Brian hardly ever asks the right questions and when he does, the girl evades and he doesn’t catch on to that.
Bipolar is NOT a personality disorder, it's a mood disorder.
The irony is she demonstrated why it’s a red flag 😂
What role does the kid in the background wearing the old soldier uniform? Sorry I mean absolutely no disrespect, it’s just that I’ve only heard him ever speak like once.
Bipolar people have triggers, they days, months and years without an episode!! Even with meds or not it's an illness. Yes, it's a personality disorder!!
Yes Van Gogh had BPD and he cut his ear off, because he was rejected by the woman he loved. Is one of the stories out of many. BPD is never a good thing.
i cant believe they used kids' gloves on her and spent 20 min on this
"show of hands who would want their partner to be bipolar"
Ok thanks.
the go date one and show us how optimal it is. I'll introduce you to one. have it at 😂
that guy with the green top and glasses on his head is insane,he needs to take his medication
Her admission of violence to others clearly shows her condition is negative, a red flag and dangerous to others. My advice from a personal perspective of interactions with BPD relatives is keep away from them. Same old victim blaming and entitlement. Not judging for no reason, based on facts, not a preference a fact.
BPD is simply a term for a clinical strength A-hole. It means your personality is so bad it needs medication or intervention to alter it so you can somewhat function.
Behavioral therapy helps the most, but most people won't do that because it requires work, discipline, and, most critically, the desire to change. Meds are marginally effective at best but much more profitable and easy for practitioners to use. The side effects are a whole other can of worms.
Off topic, but can anyone give some insight on the Asian girl who is in all these videos with the strange hat? I've seen her in most every video, but never seen her say a single word or contribute in any way. Who is she and why is she there? Serious question!
Is it a bird is its a plane no it's Bi-Polar Schizophrenia Woman.
Suboptimal
Sucking up all the oxygen
Not everyone who is bipolar stabs ppl. The stigma still sucks.
this idiot thinks you cant talk about things on a gradient. All things must be equally weighted before we can ever compare them. OBVIOUSLY a drug dealer is worse than BPD, relatively speaking, but they are both relative negative things so having them in the same list of overall negative things is fine.
Bryan is horrible at debating!
Jojo 😍
A complete dolt most of the time but oh so pleasant on the eyes
My wife is bi-polar and schizoaffective she's medicated and a great mother to our two boys. She's had two episodes and I took care of her and put her in the hospital but she's better now. I'm bipolar as well. Some of the greatest genius is to ever live or bipolar so I think Brian and Andrew got it wrong on this one
Well i wouldnt take that chance!
Kevin James?
Where these douche bags are missing the point cause they only care about “i got you” questions , is all the other red flags listed are traits or situations that came from that persons actions of decisions, mental health while not a positive is out of someones control to be diagnosed with. Judge them by how they deal with it and manage it , everyone will be different and thus should be judged accordingly
I'm sorry, but I have to agree with this woman!! You're essentially saying that because you're bipolar you equal X and therefore that should rule you out of the dating scene or X situation.
I have a bad back and my posture doesn't look good, so that means people shouldn't date me and it's a red flag???
You have a bad back sir, so that's a red flag because you don't have a backbone and you won't be a good dating partner. It's a form of discrimination or prejudice!!
Not all people with bipolar want to stab people and do crazy shit!! I don't think being bipolar should rule you out of certain things in life, make you be branded in a very negative way, and therefore have a red flag hanging over your head.
Chair 4 is a nutcase fosho