I met Paul back in the late 70’s when they were touring. I was a helper with the catering before their concert. He was polite and gave me a warm greeting. It was a special time for me, as the public did not know what they looked like without their makeup. Also that day while they were rehearsing, I stood silently watching them, and one of them flicked a Kiss-imprinted guitar pick my way. My boss sent me to their hotel rooms to setup a humidifier in each one. I figured maybe that’s important for their singing voice. .
Man Paul has accomplished so much during his 50 years in Kiss and I can honestly say that he’s one of the best singers in rock and roll history no matter what age he is !
Thanks to todays technology we get to see a side of our rock stars we never would've. its so weird to think that I was 14 when I fell in love with Kiss. Now I'm on the other side of life and see things differently.I went thru the who cares about Kiss in college and then the nostalgia phase about 10 years ago. Great respect for these guys and all they've endured. Paul seems the most down to earth. Thanks for the interview and being honest.
Thank God he didn't go the route of Ace. Ace destroyed himself with drugs & alcohol and now I am not sure if Ace could even be Ace anymore if he came back into Kiss. Ace is such a big influence on my gtr playing but I am very disappointed with him. Paul, on the other hand, I am pretty proud of, and I still love his talents and his songs.
PS gives better interviews when Gene is not around. He drops the 'rah, rah, rah' and the sound bites and just speaks his mind. This interview was down to earth and honest.
John L, Gene is a Leo (08/25) so of course he’s all about ego in public but I’ve met him before and while Paul is heart to heart with the fans, Gene’s patience is actually next to off the charts!!!! ❤️
I watched an old interview of the band here on RUclips and Ace was just taking up all the interviews time. I give credit to Gene, he just sat back and watched Ace make an ass of himself. Paul as usual was level headed and gracious, Peter didn't say to much.
@ Metallic Phoenix, Gene is a Virgo, my man. Yes his bday is 8.25.49, but that makes him a VIRGO-not a Leo (don't take my word for it...look it up). If you're 'into' astrology, you should know that. If you're not, well, here's this: Since Gene is only 3 or 4 days past being a Leo, he likely has some Leo somewhere in his astrological chart, which is what were you referring to, I'm guessing. My hippie parents were amateur astrologers in the 70s, doing charts BY HAND (crazy, I know).
I never went for Kiss, but Paul is an interesting person and always gives intelligent interviews. Good that he's not a druggy, death trip, negative, heavy metal, ego tripping has been. He's a nice guy....Good for him...
+Mark Harris he is a total bullshit artist, you cant believe any of it. He just says what he thinks is cool, and what you might think is cool. HE"S A POSER !!!
Mr Stanley is a very astute, honest and caring individual. You sir are a prejudiced, jealous, jerk. I am a retired, union , Musicians local 47, bassist and play classical and jazz guitars for my own enjoyment now... What do you do, schmuck !! ??
Totalwitchface We're all dead soon he means. Human life is very short! Question one... Was WW2 a long time ago?? Wrong. Most of you probably said "yes" no it wasn't, being literal minded, 74 years ago "in years itself" wasn't that long ago! Eg, in Europe every few months bombs are still found, some live, in Berlin where my fiancee lives one was found when i was there about a year ago. In Poland was a big mf found! Google. Enough to kill for 8 miles if it goes off! So in "Human year's yes the war was a long time ago. We like to try everything even wording to make our lives seem and feel longer. "It was a Decade ago" Huh? 10 year's is nothing! But see how we try to make our lives seem longer. Just a example. Our life is very short so enjoy it while your young and try not to think when you're young ahhhh' that's centuries from now. Because one day your on a date with a girl, your 18 and the next you're burying your wife and live alone
Steve White That cheerful outlook is when you habe your health and under 60 not working a job for peanuts breaking you physically. My wife is dead from suicide after 24 years and in a long distance relationship at the moment. "Hey Paul can you help me? Lol
Steve White Sorry if i seem tense if you will, some days the anxiety i guess. I'm 53 and starting to feel the pain from my job. Paul's got it made, he's got more money than me n my kids n grandkids could spend lol
what a lovely guy, I have been in awe of this man for 35 years, read his recent book, one greatly underrated front man, worked very very hard to get where he is, and still manages to stay so down to earth, not many people are like that. Paul Stanley was my first love and he will be my last
Love this interview of Paul Stanley. He's authentic here, no BS, no fluff-and-puff bragging, and even the tiny bit of ego that pops up is addressed in a very honest manner (i.e. being addicted to the flattery he receives when attending his wife's aerobic class). I respect this man's frank honesty. Well done, PS, and the person asking the interview questions.
Agree 100%, I’ve never been a massive Kiss fan they’ve done some quality tunes over the years I’ll give them that and I totally respect the hard work they’ve done to become so successful, I do find Paul very engaging and can listen to him for hours, having listened to Face the Music on audiobook has underlined my utter most respect and admiration for him.
@@crushsatan Yes, I heard him say, "I may be dying, but I gotta keep going!" Like a little boy, still trying to impress the girls that he can keep up. lol This is a man who, despite being married for a long time, has not given up.
@@crushsatan It may be true to say that for some adults, but I wouldn't go so far as to say it's natural (as if to imply it's inherent to all). All we have to do is look around the world and we can see millions of examples of people who either have given up on that, or simply are not interested in that. There are also a minority who are inherently incapable of caring about that (because they're incapable of "caring" at all). If it were as natural as you suggest, the world would not be populated with people who (seemingly?) do not care, or who have stopped caring somewhere along the way. While that isn't exclusive to married individuals, I've heard many wives and husbands complain of that being the case for their spouse. It will come very naturally to most all young children and to those adults who are developmentally arrested in early childhood, especially extroverted, and externally motivated because they have no inner way to regulate any genuine self-worth unless someone outside of them is providing it. Think of how physically fit all of society would be if it were actually "natural'? This is precisely why he talks about the "discipline" it requires.
glenny oc Osteo arthritis aka degenerative joint disease can destroy your knees and hips without much..but Paul did spend alot of time walking around in those 6in platform shoes and running around on stage, the impact of walking in those and running around with that xtra weight will do damage as well. Not to mention that genetics plays a HUGE part, my shoulders and knees went bad in my 40s due to a problem many people of Nordic descent have, a few of my uncles and one parent have it as well.
Are you sure you're not getting confused with Dave Lee Roth? Never seen Stanley Do a above the waste kick ever. He's been pretty agile and fit but not in the maniac league.
***** he is on his 3rd or 4th hip now, both shoulder rotator cuffs, and his knees... still out there. still rocking. and still healthy. Also deaf in right ear.
Stan, I want to thank you and the band for so many great years of music - I was a little kid when I first heard you guys and now I am 56 and still listen - thank you again.
MY mom ate everything , ( Italian) she lived to 87. But, my dad died at 55. So, wtf. Who knows. To add, my dad was an insulin dependent diabetic, and, had it for years. So, he was never fat or ate the ‘bad stuff’, so like I said...maybe not all in our control. We have an ‘end date’.
Death is a high price to pay to give into ice cream. Cholesterol is a mo fo and will drop any human being straight to the sidewalk and laugh at you for being weak..... then and only then ya think why the f did i cave in. How foolish of me. I've seen this happen
Poor in spirit is for sure not good! But lacking wealth is a blessing because if you really want to be healthy not a problem just STOP eating! Fasting is the best thing you can do if you are sick or preventing sickness. Peace and Grace forever!
When Paul was a young man on stage I was a young man on the front row. Wealth has nothing to do with a man at our stage in life, which I consider to be quiet rich in and of itself . All respect from this fan for this video. Rock on Bro......
@@booifojoe .....OK. Then what would explain Keith Richards still being alive after all these years of self abuse, if it isn't sheer good luck? He and others are rock musicians---where stupid just comes with the territory and I'll bet half of them didn't finish high school. These people are not the best and brightest minds ever to be found and they certainly don't make good decisions about their health and finances.
msr111 True; it seems if they made enough $$ and didn't blow it all they could eventually live long enough to wise up and treat their body better. Many HAVE died because they could do none of these. Rush, Queensryche, Iron Maiden, Judas Priest all played into their 50-'s- 60's. They 'made it'. Sometimes $$ can buy an extra leash on life
I am 62 1/2. He has more hair on his head than me. Does sound like he is not druggie which is good to hear. I had one rotator cuff issue, but no surgery at the moment
@@paulstanley323 Why don't you guys please stop touring? When I was 9 years old I heard Kiss for the first time in 1974 and Kiss became like oxygen to me. I couldn't live without Kiss. The band's best years were most definitely 1974 to 1982. I've seen Kiss three times in concert ( including the 2000 so called "Welfare Tour") and after that tour, that's when you guys should have stopped. That should have been it because you have been making fools of yourselves ever since! I never thought I would say that ever! Paul, please stop and just go home because you just look ridiculous.
I love Paul's approach to life, everything being in moderation. Sure, the older you get, the more observant you need to be about your diet and lifestyle. But at the same time, indulging is fine every once in a while - you can't totally deprive yourself of "guilty pleasures," if you will. Life truly is about enjoying it and yourself.
I saw Kiss for the first time not so long ago. My mom saw them in the 70’s lol ..This dude and his band freaking jam! I never thought I would be into there music but they blew me away!! Rock on Paul!
Eri Airlangga Nope ..wrong ..sorry ..never was ..next !! Paul didn't used to talk or be out there like he is today but they are selling the KISS BRand so they stay on tour as much as possible & they are always in the media ,,good or bad (see Gene $immons) its all about promoting there brand ...$$$$KISS$$$
I have no problem with growing old -- I just turned 81. What I fear is the possibility of becoming senile and spending my final years in a wheel chair in a nursing home. A massive heart attack is looking better and better.
I'm 49 and I've had four heart attacks and there is something on the other side trust me I only made it into the light and got booted back to my body serious as a heart attack my grandma is 96 she moved in with us and she can't walk but she can do everything else she's fine
Whatever you do to prepare for old age will not prepare you for the reality. This old age stuff really hurts. NSAIDs and opiates do not fix it. Good thing I already learned to live with pain. Sometimes two fingers of good bourbon helps. Four fingers does not.
I wish Paul would reveal this side of himself more-he’s extremely likeable like this-without the ego and cutting sarcasm/criticism/pettiness he can sometimes exhibit.
I think his discipline shows in his life. He's in his 60's and still can get up and do a cool show every night. His voice is shot but, he still gives it his all.
evidently, his voice comes and goes. I saw them on the last tour and he sounded good. I have seen some video clips and I couldn't believe how badly he sounded. I saw one of him doing Strutter and I don't think he was in key the whole song
Paul, like any singer his age (especially rock/metal) has lost some of his range, but I wouldn't say is voice is 'shot' - some nights he's a little rough, probably from not enough rest between shows - but most nights he's still on, other than not being able to hit the high notes he did twenty years ago. It's hit and miss sometimes, but that's how it goes with live music.
gooogle bites Jewiness, huh? I guess we know what you're all about. Did Ace change his name to hide his "Dutch-iness"? Did Peter change his name to hide his "Italian-iness"? They ALL changed their names to sound cooler - to match their makeup and stage personas. It's been common knowledge for years that Paul and Gene are Jewish; they don't 'hide' their heritage, they're proud of it. Since you don't use your real name, what are you hiding? By the way; capitalization and punctuation help to make your posts readable, try it some time.
According to my computations and analytics run on my Computer that would translate to around 5 or 6 human years. Does that compute with your analytics?
Paul is awesome! All the best to him for bringing us so much entertainment over the past 40+ years. I’m 57 now, and I can relate to what he is now saying about having self discipline in regards to taking care of yourself. -Stephen, Ohio
I saw kiss in 80 , the reson why i saw tghem was because a guy owed me money so he repaid me with 2 kiss tickets and so i trabelled 450 km to the concert and ill never forget the minute paul stanley started simging detroud rock city and he screamed the lyrics and suddenky i realised how brilliant he was and i knew back then he was a nice guy coz i checked into a motel and little did i know kiss was on the top floor ...a real inspiration but sadly like all of us hes aged and hes doing his best to keep healthy ..a great guy
He's looking like he is doing well physically, good for him. I think out of the 70's/80's rock and roll crowd, those who went healthy are doing a lot better, and it's not a mystery as to why. You can't live the crazy life forever, even some don't make it out alive in their younger years, doing that.
@@blacklikethesun Very good point!! I didn't realize that, thank you for being more alert to the full facts than I was. Still looking good for what would have been around 62 years old though :)
Just went to a book signing in Beaverton...Paul seems happy with his life..he was pleasant and looked at me in the eye...said thanks for coming..along with a big smile..I've never ever in my life wanted to follow any band...cept for a few Megadeth ..(one time)..wont be going to any more big concerts..so this was perfect..up close and personal. A great memory!
This is a real neat interview. I really enjoy hearing him talk about all he's been through. Most rock stars always throw out the glam for us and tell us everything is great. YEAH, ok then .. Lets hear about the human stuff. Getting old will always get em.
You hear a lot of things good and bad about celebrities .it’s good to see an interview like this with Paul.Just another guy who has the same ailments as the rest of us.Great interview.
Hey I was listening that kiss at 5 years old I'm 47 years old I grew up with these guys and I'm growing old with these guys ! You know I believe the great spirit takes care of us all and no matter what we go through in life he's always at the end standing there waiting ! And brothers and sisters it seems in 2021 we have a choice to make ! If we want to keep on going living like we used to and negativity and hell and fire and brimstone that's okay ! But you know sometime in your life the party freaking ends and it's just time to settle down and collect your thoughts before you move on to the other side ! You know a lot of us has had near death of experiences and most of us haven't but those who have their lives are changed forever ! Especially if you're in show Business sometimes the things you see in show Business can scare the living hell out of you ! But anyway God bless Paul Stanley and the band and the families and God bless you and thank you! Hey the thing about being old for me is a people come to me now for wisdom !!
@@paulstanley9586 Hi Paul! I love your music and your style. I dressed as you when I went to a KISS concert in Calgary in 1977. Best concert ever. Hugs, Cathy
Maybe the US world. The rest of us just think of them as a sort of eccentric band with no memorable songs such as Free's Alright Now which is fairly contemporary to Kiss but I can't think of any similar evergreen by Kiss.
Greatest musician in the musical industry. Thank you Mr.Stanley for the health information keep up the great work because it's working ...you look great !!!
100+ class act. Paul, thank you for giving the world and myself the best dam front man, performance, song's and the meaning of a real rock star and musician. I love you. Thank you for picking up that first guitar and following through with your dreams.
Thats awesome to be that age and still be in shape and work hard to stay that way, I respect Paul for his healthy attitude but also respect his love for life!
Great interview. Paul it seems has remained grounded after all this time. Life is about learning & doing things that won't harm you. Like the late great Chuck Berry said "You bump your head but not twice." He said this in 1987 in his autobiography concert movie-Hail! Hail! Rock 'n' Roll.
Paul Stanley seems to be such a down to earth person, surprisingly and refreshingly. Don't know much KISS music, but good for him/them. Live a full fair happy life and try to touch those you meet on the way with love and kindness.
Paul Stanley has always seemed like a genuinely nice guy. Like if you forgot about Kiss he'd be a cool guy to kick back with on the deck and drink a few beers.
MechanicalAnimal of the two remaining founders of Kiss I'd much rather interview Paul than Gene. Paul comes across as a genuine person while Gene is always trying to tell you what a good business guy he is and is constantly selling the fucking band. There is nothing Gene can tell me about either because I don't kiss anyone's ass for the length of time that dildo would take to tell me the two aforementioned items.
Flyers 50 It's sad but I have to agree with you 100%. Obviously love Gene's playing and respect him immensely for his music contributions but yeah...I just wish he would shut up sometimes in interviews and such. He comes across as only in it for the money which surely can't be the truth. He's probably realizing right about now that money really isn't what life is all about. In the end money is worthless.
i'd like to forget about kiss for just a moment and nibble gently on his mushroomy little ear while dabbing his 65 year old butt hole with a q-tip slathered in black salve and just wait and see if we can produce a black diamond of our very own. down to earth dude stuff.
Edward Verhoef I don't understand you kiddo. Paul is a nice guy, I talked to him a few times in the early eighties while I was working for Dokken and again while touring with DIO in the early 2000's. Gene was usually nearby and always had a chip on his shoulder acting like an asshole about something or anything. If it hurts your feelings that I've known some famous people and you haven't , live with it.
first of all i,m not a kiddo i,m 48 yrars old and i talked to paul and gene in 1977 and in 1996 and 1988 and in 2010 so i know a lot of both i also have a lot of foto,s with the original members and also the new members come on tell me more hahaha
Dude,,,,,,,,, I'm 53 & HAPPILY admit that KISS has provided the major part of the 'soundtrack of my life' & Y'all have done a freaking great job so far. ♥
Well, consider the fact that he can STILL jump, run and dance around stages tour after tour in those 7 inch boots, at his age....Hell, I could not even walk in those things even if I was 25 again.
Saw you at The Forum in Inglewood in 75 greatest concert I ever been to, "You wanted the Best and you got it the Hottest band in the land KIZZZZZ" and all Hell broke loose, you guys blew the roof completely into the next county that night, all I can say is it was mindblowing. Peace Brother!! looking really good man. Long Live KIZZ!!!
I'm a fan, always have been, always will be. Respect to anyone that has build something out of nothing honorably! Ace and Peter have always been my two favorite members, and they'll always will be. Mr. Stanley, my respects, you did very well for yourself, no doubt, congrats on your accomplishments and may you continue to enjoy a long healthy life.
Thanks Paul for sharing. I’m 60 and sing. Rock n Roll keeps one young😀I think. I still rock out to Kiss earliest songs. Look at the Stones for example! It’s certainly not about the money anymore. Their music keeps them young at heart. Aging is more a mental than physical thing I think though obviously our bodies do wear n tear. But Rock n Roll surely slows down the aging process in my personal opinion folks. So keep rocking people!🤟🏻RobertLackstein from Montreal Quebec Canada 🇨🇦
I met Paul back in the late 70’s when they were touring. I was a helper with the catering before their concert. He was polite and gave me a warm greeting. It was a special time for me, as the public did not know what they looked like without their makeup. Also that day while they were rehearsing, I stood silently watching them, and one of them flicked a Kiss-imprinted guitar pick my way. My boss sent me to their hotel rooms to setup a humidifier in each one. I figured maybe that’s important for their singing voice. .
He's amazingly grounded for someone who has lived the life he has.
He and Gene were never druggies or drinkers...strictly biz. $$$$!!
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I think Paul has always been very grounded, he’s very wise.
Seriously
Man Paul has accomplished so much during his 50 years in Kiss and I can honestly say that he’s one of the best singers in rock and roll history no matter what age he is !
Never been a KISS fan, but there's definitely truth in his words. We're all gonna get there...
I know it’s true, I am there.
@@FredBTs I guess I am too, Fred. Just living in denial. As long as I can.😉
Kiss Sucks ! .
@@dynomike1964 They do now. In the 70's they were the shit.
It's amazing to see a guy like this, in as crazy a business as he's in, looking great in his older age. Hats off to you Paul !
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Thanks to todays technology we get to see a side of our rock stars we never would've. its so weird to think that I was 14 when I fell in love with Kiss. Now I'm on the other side of life and see things differently.I went thru the who cares about Kiss in college and then the nostalgia phase about 10 years ago. Great respect for these guys and all they've endured. Paul seems the most down to earth. Thanks for the interview and being honest.
Thank God he didn't go the route of Ace. Ace destroyed himself with drugs & alcohol and now I am not sure if Ace could even be Ace anymore if he came back into Kiss. Ace is such a big influence on my gtr playing but I am very disappointed with him.
Paul, on the other hand, I am pretty proud of, and I still love his talents and his songs.
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PS gives better interviews when Gene is not around. He drops the 'rah, rah, rah' and the sound bites and just speaks his mind. This interview was down to earth and honest.
Gene is such a huge Alpha, and natural 'center of attention', this is really the best way to interview Paul.
John L Paul has the last word in kiss, I hope you're aware on that.
John L, Gene is a Leo (08/25) so of course he’s all about ego in public but I’ve met him before and while Paul is heart to heart with the fans, Gene’s patience is actually next to off the charts!!!! ❤️
I watched an old interview of the band here on RUclips and Ace was just taking up all the interviews time. I give credit to Gene, he just sat back and watched Ace make an ass of himself. Paul as usual was level headed and gracious, Peter didn't say to much.
@ Metallic Phoenix,
Gene is a Virgo, my man. Yes his bday is 8.25.49, but that makes him a VIRGO-not a Leo (don't take my word for it...look it up). If you're 'into' astrology, you should know that. If you're not, well, here's this: Since Gene is only 3 or 4 days past being a Leo, he likely has some Leo somewhere in his astrological chart, which is what were you referring to, I'm guessing.
My hippie parents were amateur astrologers in the 70s, doing charts BY HAND (crazy, I know).
I never went for Kiss, but Paul is an interesting person and always gives intelligent interviews. Good that he's not a druggy, death trip, negative, heavy metal, ego tripping has been. He's a nice guy....Good for him...
+Mark Harris
Mark, I suggest you to read Paul's book Face the Music. I think you might like it. It is an interesting person indeed.
+Mark Harris he is a total bullshit artist, you cant believe any of it. He just says what he thinks is cool, and what you might think is cool. HE"S A POSER !!!
And you know this how ??? Perhaps you say what's cool and are the poser !!
That is the lamest comeback I have ever heard. You must be a serious GEEK
Mr Stanley is a very astute, honest and caring individual. You sir are a prejudiced, jealous, jerk. I am a retired, union , Musicians local 47, bassist and play classical and jazz guitars for my own enjoyment now... What do you do, schmuck !! ??
Paul is Awesome ❤ Love Kiss Music! Thanks for entertaining me.
"I told my doctor I wanted to stop aging- he gave me a GUN!" -Rodney Dangerfield
A Love Gun
I miss Rodney
Hahaha😅
" My Wife saw me asleep with a cigarette in my mouth, she lit it!" -Rodney Dangerfield
@@waldo2635 yeah , so do I 🙁
I may be dying but I still have to keep going
_ Paul Stanley 💜
Totalwitchface We're all dead soon he means. Human life is very short! Question one... Was WW2 a long time ago?? Wrong. Most of you probably said "yes" no it wasn't, being literal minded, 74 years ago "in years itself" wasn't that long ago! Eg, in Europe every few months bombs are still found, some live, in Berlin where my fiancee lives one was found when i was there about a year ago. In Poland was a big mf found! Google. Enough to kill for 8 miles if it goes off! So in "Human year's yes the war was a long time ago. We like to try everything even wording to make our lives seem and feel longer. "It was a Decade ago" Huh? 10 year's is nothing! But see how we try to make our lives seem longer. Just a example. Our life is very short so enjoy it while your young and try not to think when you're young ahhhh' that's centuries from now. Because one day your on a date with a girl, your 18 and the next you're burying your wife and live alone
@@m42037 There's a cheerful outlook on life, but so very true
Steve White That cheerful outlook is when you habe your health and under 60 not working a job for peanuts breaking you physically. My wife is dead from suicide after 24 years and in a long distance relationship at the moment. "Hey Paul can you help me? Lol
@@m42037 Point taken Sir. No offence intended to you or anyone.
Keep going and be strong.
Steve White Sorry if i seem tense if you will, some days the anxiety i guess. I'm 53 and starting to feel the pain from my job. Paul's got it made, he's got more money than me n my kids n grandkids could spend lol
Down to earth bloke, worked hard his whole life, what an absolute bloody superstar, in every sense. Rock on Paul 🤘
what a lovely guy, I have been in awe of this man for 35 years, read his recent book, one greatly underrated front man, worked very very hard to get where he is, and still manages to stay so down to earth, not many people are like that. Paul Stanley was my first love and he will be my last
Love this interview of Paul Stanley. He's authentic here, no BS, no fluff-and-puff bragging, and even the tiny bit of ego that pops up is addressed in a very honest manner (i.e. being addicted to the flattery he receives when attending his wife's aerobic class).
I respect this man's frank honesty. Well done, PS, and the person asking the interview questions.
Agree 100%, I’ve never been a massive Kiss fan they’ve done some quality tunes over the years I’ll give them that and I totally respect the hard work they’ve done to become so successful, I do find Paul very engaging and can listen to him for hours, having listened to Face the Music on audiobook has underlined my utter most respect and admiration for him.
I don't think he was so much addicted to the flattery; just too embarrassed to tap out in front of a bunch of women.
@@crushsatan Yes, I heard him say, "I may be dying, but I gotta keep going!" Like a little boy, still trying to impress the girls that he can keep up. lol
This is a man who, despite being married for a long time, has not given up.
@@le_th_ it's only natural.
@@crushsatan It may be true to say that for some adults, but I wouldn't go so far as to say it's natural (as if to imply it's inherent to all). All we have to do is look around the world and we can see millions of examples of people who either have given up on that, or simply are not interested in that. There are also a minority who are inherently incapable of caring about that (because they're incapable of "caring" at all).
If it were as natural as you suggest, the world would not be populated with people who (seemingly?) do not care, or who have stopped caring somewhere along the way. While that isn't exclusive to married individuals, I've heard many wives and husbands complain of that being the case for their spouse.
It will come very naturally to most all young children and to those adults who are developmentally arrested in early childhood, especially extroverted, and externally motivated because they have no inner way to regulate any genuine self-worth unless someone outside of them is providing it.
Think of how physically fit all of society would be if it were actually "natural'?
This is precisely why he talks about the "discipline" it requires.
Paul Stanley gives a candid, common sense approach to Life, and, We must " get it together". Stay Disciplined, Focused,and Committed.
Wow! ... Hip and two knees replaced! ... God bless him that he still moves around the stage the way he does!
Hip and knees done at 62!! i know rtadies and ex footballer who haven't had that done. What on earth has him been doing to warrant such major work/
glenny oc Osteo arthritis aka degenerative joint disease can destroy your knees and hips without much..but Paul did spend alot of time walking around in those 6in platform shoes and running around on stage, the impact of walking in those and running around with that xtra weight will do damage as well. Not to mention that genetics plays a HUGE part, my shoulders and knees went bad in my 40s due to a problem many people of Nordic descent have, a few of my uncles and one parent have it as well.
Are you sure you're not getting confused with Dave Lee Roth? Never seen Stanley Do a above the waste kick ever. He's been pretty agile and fit but not in the maniac league.
All I can say is that for a net worth of 150+ million dollars... It's worth the wear and tear.
***** he is on his 3rd or 4th hip now, both shoulder rotator cuffs, and his knees... still out there. still rocking. and still healthy. Also deaf in right ear.
The guy did it ALL
god bless he's still around & has his head together
Not to mention an amazing head of hair!
we love you paul, ty for all the great music. ive been a kiss fan since I was in kindergarden in 1975!!,,,,,, KISS FOREVER!!!!
Some call him the Starchild of Kiss, in reality he's the Brainchild of Kiss
More like a kid diddler from kiss.
He is KISS.
Always has the best lines. Intelligent man
Stan, I want to thank you and the band for so many great years of music - I was a little kid when I first heard you guys and now I am 56 and still listen - thank you again.
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Same here, I'm 58. Love the older bands now that I'm older. We really had some great bands in the 60's 70's. 80's were pretty good also.
I enjoy listening to his life experiences. I get the feeling he likes ice cream. Moderation is the key.
I love seeing this down-to-earth side of Paul that isn't seen very often. It's wonderful!
Paul always gives a good interview. He seems cool when he's not whining about Gene or Peter. He's a legend, respect him.
Despite the draw backs of growing older, it still remains a very popular alternative to an early to death.
That is one kick A$$ response. I'm sure people u know who have passed would wholeheartedly agree.😅🎇
That depends upon how religious you are!
MY mom ate everything , ( Italian) she lived to 87. But, my dad died at 55. So, wtf. Who knows. To add, my dad was an insulin dependent diabetic, and, had it for years. So, he was never fat or ate the ‘bad stuff’, so like I said...maybe not all in our control.
We have an ‘end date’.
Lol!!
@@Melinda8162 Food is important, yes - but it's only part of it.
Paul is very sensible and intelligent man. It's always such a pleasure to listen to him!💋
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And thank you for making my boyhood much more enjoyable. I wore out Kiss Alive! I still break it out now and then.
"You can't ever eat ice cream again" - "You're talking to the wrong person".. Adorable :-)
his doctor is a moron.
Love that NYC attitude. Also one of the reasons I go gaga over Leah Remini ;)
@@soflodoug “I tell ya I got this crazy doctor, you know my doctor, Dr. Vinnie Boombatz”
Death is a high price to pay to give into ice cream. Cholesterol is a mo fo and will drop any human being straight to the sidewalk and laugh at you for being weak..... then and only then ya think why the f did i cave in. How foolish of me.
I've seen this happen
growing old as a wealthy person is much easier than a poor person.
That’s for damn sure.
Poor in spirit is for sure not good! But lacking wealth is a blessing because if you really want to be healthy not a problem just STOP eating! Fasting is the best thing you can do if you are sick or preventing sickness. Peace and Grace forever!
@@mikekmalick so, you’re saying all those people, whom can’t afford food, are actually being healthy?
I like your positive vibe.
@@DougCanney1 Yes! GOD provides. Make a fishing pole! The earth is 70% water!
It could actually be the other way around…. A wealthy person has got sooo much more to lose….
When Paul was a young man on stage I was a young man on the front row. Wealth has nothing to do with a man at our stage in life, which I consider to be quiet rich in and of itself . All respect from this fan for this video. Rock on Bro......
Is always a pleasure listening to Mr Stanley 👍
If you're in the music business and actually get old, you're one of the damn lucky ones.
Plus you're never too old to rock and roll.
No, not lucky, just not stupid.
@@booifojoe .....OK. Then what would explain Keith Richards still being alive after all these years of self abuse, if it isn't sheer good luck? He and others are rock musicians---where stupid just comes with the territory and I'll bet half of them didn't finish high school. These people are not the best and brightest minds ever to be found and they certainly don't make good decisions about their health and finances.
msr111 True; it seems if they made enough $$ and didn't blow it all they could eventually live long enough to wise up and treat their body better. Many HAVE died because they could do none of these. Rush, Queensryche, Iron Maiden, Judas Priest all played into their 50-'s- 60's. They 'made it'. Sometimes $$ can buy an extra leash on life
He stayed away from drugs..........but then again, Ace is still going strong. 😂
He looks pretty good for 62 :)
Yes yes he does
that's what money does
Plastic surgery makes wonders.
I am 62 1/2. He has more hair on his head than me. Does sound like he is not druggie which is good to hear. I had one rotator cuff issue, but no surgery at the moment
@@gk10002000 - This was filmed over 5 years ago.
This bloke's nearing 68 years old.
* *Wake up, before it's too late!* *
"I'm good for another 100 000 years"
Sorry to have taken so long
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@@paulstanley323 Why don't you guys please stop touring? When I was 9 years old I heard Kiss for the first time in 1974 and Kiss became like oxygen to me. I couldn't live without Kiss.
The band's best years were most definitely 1974 to 1982. I've seen Kiss three times in concert ( including the 2000 so called "Welfare Tour") and after that tour, that's when you guys should have stopped. That should have been it because you have been making fools of yourselves ever since! I never thought I would say that ever!
Paul, please stop and just go home because you just look ridiculous.
Yeah I'm like a kid again. Where's my ice cream♥️
@@tobymummert3035 $$ talks Bull crap walks
I love Paul's approach to life, everything being in moderation. Sure, the older you get, the more observant you need to be about your diet and lifestyle. But at the same time, indulging is fine every once in a while - you can't totally deprive yourself of "guilty pleasures," if you will. Life truly is about enjoying it and yourself.
Nothing unusual about his philosophy, of course.
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@@paulstanley9586 somebody's a fraud
@@paulstanley323 oops there's another fraud in the house
I saw Kiss for the first time not so long ago. My mom saw them in the 70’s lol ..This dude and his band freaking jam! I never thought I would be into there music but they blew me away!! Rock on Paul!
I'm so glad he's still the face of KISS!
One of the most beautiful personalities in rock music!
Eri Airlangga Nope ..wrong ..sorry ..never was ..next !! Paul didn't used to talk or be out there like he is today but they are selling the KISS BRand so they stay on tour as much as possible & they are always in the media ,,good or bad (see Gene $immons) its all about promoting there brand ...$$$$KISS$$$
@@naturalbornscorpio929 Shut the fuck up, loser. Most of us live to win...
@@naturalbornscorpio929 He gets it man. Unfortunately, you don’t. Now go be miserable
@@Daswassuphomie Yes he is. Just a miserable guy. Great post
@@Daswassuphomie Ah' suck it up snowflake "LOL"
I have no problem with growing old -- I just turned 81. What I fear is the possibility of becoming senile and spending my final years in a wheel chair in a nursing home. A massive heart attack is looking better and better.
Oh god... Interesting though
I'm 49 and I've had four heart attacks and there is something on the other side trust me I only made it into the light and got booted back to my body serious as a heart attack my grandma is 96 she moved in with us and she can't walk but she can do everything else she's fine
Cap🧢
Makes a lot of sense.
My mom died of a massive heart attack at 51 and my sister same at 39 . I just turned 52 and i am more then ready to leave this planet .
You know your growing old when you can really identify with what your childhood idol is preaching.
Whatever you do to prepare for old age will not prepare you for the reality.
This old age stuff really hurts. NSAIDs and opiates do not fix it.
Good thing I already learned to live with pain. Sometimes two fingers of good bourbon helps. Four fingers does not.
Loved seeing him live in Toronto as the Phantom!
He is honest and real. Seen them in concert 3 times. Amazing shows too.
rock on paul ! you all are bad asss till the end..Don't ever forget that ! grew up listening..thanks
He's right about indulging in life, and I hope Paulie lives forever.
The Starchild is still Rockin it & Looks good for his age!!! :-)
I wish Paul would reveal this side of himself more-he’s extremely likeable like this-without the ego and cutting sarcasm/criticism/pettiness he can sometimes exhibit.
I'm 58 and I started listening to Kiss in 7th grade.(about 14) I' cant believe this guy looks so good. Thanks for all the Great Songs.
Love Paul, met him in Starbucks, took selfie together, classy guy
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@@paulstanley323 best!
@@Cocolocas Yeah I’m pretty sure that’s not really Paul Stanley. 🤦🏻♂️
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Ah krap, he's here, disregard my last comment,
LOL
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I think his discipline shows in his life. He's in his 60's and still can get up and do a cool show every night. His voice is shot but, he still gives it his all.
I saw them in 2012 with Motley Crue, Paul Stanley sounded very good to me and I hadn't seen them since 1984.
evidently, his voice comes and goes. I saw them on the last tour and he sounded good. I have seen some video clips and I couldn't believe how badly he sounded. I saw one of him doing Strutter and I don't think he was in key the whole song
Paul, like any singer his age (especially rock/metal) has lost some of his range, but I wouldn't say is voice is 'shot' - some nights he's a little rough, probably from not enough rest between shows - but most nights he's still on, other than not being able to hit the high notes he did twenty years ago. It's hit and miss sometimes, but that's how it goes with live music.
john finck they change their names to hide the jewiness, aces real names paul
gooogle bites Jewiness, huh? I guess we know what you're all about. Did Ace change his name to hide his "Dutch-iness"? Did Peter change his name to hide his "Italian-iness"? They ALL changed their names to sound cooler - to match their makeup and stage personas. It's been common knowledge for years that Paul and Gene are Jewish; they don't 'hide' their heritage, they're proud of it. Since you don't use your real name, what are you hiding? By the way; capitalization and punctuation help to make your posts readable, try it some time.
Thank you for the hard edged music Paul, 100,000 THOUSAND YEARS!!!
Never a KISS fan, but always a Paul Stanley fan. Very normal and extremely intelligent guy.
I met Paul in NYC once. WONDERFUL fellow who talks to you like a regular Joe. Love ya Paul.
hahaha "I'm good for another 50,000 miles" love it!
According to my computations and analytics run on my Computer that would translate to around 5 or 6 human years. Does that compute with your analytics?
He seems so different when he's relaxed and not playing the "rock dude." Seems like a nice guy here.
Yeah. That might be his “stage persona” he shows every night.
Paul is awesome! All the best to him for bringing us so much entertainment over the past 40+ years. I’m 57 now, and I can relate to what he is now saying about having self discipline in regards to taking care of yourself. -Stephen, Ohio
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I saw kiss in 80 , the reson why i saw tghem was because a guy owed me money so he repaid me with 2 kiss tickets and so i trabelled 450 km to the concert and ill never forget the minute paul stanley started simging detroud rock city and he screamed the lyrics and suddenky i realised how brilliant he was and i knew back then he was a nice guy coz i checked into a motel and little did i know kiss was on the top floor ...a real inspiration but sadly like all of us hes aged and hes doing his best to keep healthy ..a great guy
He's looking like he is doing well physically, good for him. I think out of the 70's/80's rock and roll crowd, those who went healthy are doing a lot better, and it's not a mystery as to why. You can't live the crazy life forever, even some don't make it out alive in their younger years, doing that.
This is 7 years ago haha
@@blacklikethesun Very good point!! I didn't realize that, thank you for being more alert to the full facts than I was. Still looking good for what would have been around 62 years old though :)
He must have not smoked or drank too much like a lot of his peers did.
Just went to a book signing in Beaverton...Paul seems happy with his life..he was pleasant and looked at me in the eye...said thanks for coming..along with a big smile..I've never ever in my life wanted to follow any band...cept for a few Megadeth ..(one time)..wont be going to any more big concerts..so this was perfect..up close and personal. A great memory!
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This is a real neat interview. I really enjoy hearing him talk about all he's been through. Most rock stars always throw out the glam for us and tell us everything is great. YEAH, ok then .. Lets hear about the human stuff. Getting old will always get em.
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What a refreshing interview. He seems like such a normal, grounded guy.
“I brought my own food to Hawaii”
You hear a lot of things good and bad about celebrities .it’s good to see an interview like this with Paul.Just another guy who has the same ailments as the rest of us.Great interview.
Hey I was listening that kiss at 5 years old I'm 47 years old I grew up with these guys and I'm growing old with these guys !
You know I believe the great spirit takes care of us all and no matter what we go through in life he's always at the end standing there waiting !
And brothers and sisters it seems in 2021 we have a choice to make !
If we want to keep on going living like we used to and negativity and hell and fire and brimstone that's okay !
But you know sometime in your life the party freaking ends and it's just time to settle down and collect your thoughts before you move on to the other side !
You know a lot of us has had near death of experiences and most of us haven't but those who have their lives are changed forever !
Especially if you're in show Business sometimes the things you see in show Business can scare the living hell out of you !
But anyway God bless Paul Stanley and the band and the families and God bless you and thank you!
Hey the thing about being old for me is a people come to me now for wisdom !!
"What a drag it is getting old". (The Rolling Stones)
"It ain't no crime to be good to yourself". Paul Stanley. Love you Paul :)
Said the 20 year old jagger
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@@paulstanley9586 Hi Paul! I love your music and your style. I dressed as you when I went to a KISS concert in Calgary in 1977. Best concert ever. Hugs, Cathy
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I was a little young, but I remember Kiss ruled the world at one point in time.
They still do. It might not be the same as it was in the 70s or the 80s, though. But they still do.
Maybe the US world. The rest of us just think of them as a sort of eccentric band with no memorable songs such as Free's Alright Now which is fairly contemporary to Kiss but I can't think of any similar evergreen by Kiss.
I am also Paul Davis!
@@2011littlejohn1 Cold Gin, Strutter, Shock Me(great solo)
@@ShotOfSelf I'll look them up.
Kiss was my 1st concert. He seems like a really nice guy. And everything he is saying is right.
Greatest musician in the musical industry. Thank you Mr.Stanley for the health information keep up the great work because it's working ...you look great !!!
We still love you paul Stanley! No matter how old you get, you will always be the star child🎸🤩
Paul does the "Paul Stanley Workout" that was seen on the KISS Exposed video!
LOL. I think Paul is kind of P-whipped with is new wife. I get the impression she keeps him on a short leash.
Thank God for pre-recorded vocal tracks.
Love Paul, always a straight shooter, here's to many more years Paul!
100+ class act. Paul, thank you for giving the world and myself the best dam front man, performance, song's and the meaning of a real rock star and musician. I love you. Thank you for picking up that first guitar and following through with your dreams.
One of the best, insightful short interviews with a rock icon is filmed out of focus with an iPhone in an all-inclusive resort. Imagine that!
Thats awesome to be that age and still be in shape and work hard to stay that way, I respect Paul for his healthy attitude but also respect his love for life!
It’s great to just hear a “real” conversation from Paul about the realities of life and getting old instead of the typical rock star interview.
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I had a crush on Paul for years.Some faces stay beautiful.His is proof.
I totally agree, despite the fact I think he should have facelifted annd he should have stayed natural. But he is strill good-looking !
Plastic surgery baby. Plastic surgery.
MrJamesLongstreet Yes, but he is still good-looking ! It suits well to him
Paul is gay you know.
This must be news to his wife and x wife....
Great interview. Paul it seems has remained grounded after all this time. Life is about learning & doing things that won't harm you. Like the late great Chuck Berry said "You bump your head but not twice." He said this in 1987 in his autobiography concert movie-Hail! Hail! Rock 'n' Roll.
Paul Stanley seems to be such a down to earth person, surprisingly and refreshingly. Don't know much KISS music, but good for him/them. Live a full fair happy life and try to touch those you meet on the way with love and kindness.
Paul, EVER the gentleman!
Paul Stanley has always seemed like a genuinely nice guy. Like if you forgot about Kiss he'd be a cool guy to kick back with on the deck and drink a few beers.
if you're a new yorker
MechanicalAnimal of the two remaining founders of Kiss I'd much rather interview Paul than Gene. Paul comes across as a genuine person while Gene is always trying to tell you what a good business guy he is and is constantly selling the fucking band. There is nothing Gene can tell me about either because I don't kiss anyone's ass for the length of time that dildo would take to tell me the two aforementioned items.
Flyers 50 It's sad but I have to agree with you 100%. Obviously love Gene's playing and respect him immensely for his music contributions but yeah...I just wish he would shut up sometimes in interviews and such. He comes across as only in it for the money which surely can't be the truth. He's probably realizing right about now that money really isn't what life is all about. In the end money is worthless.
i'd like to forget about kiss for just a moment and nibble gently on his mushroomy little ear while dabbing his 65 year old butt hole with a q-tip slathered in black salve and just wait and see if we can produce a black diamond of our very own. down to earth dude stuff.
Sick...sick...sick....
very nice guy! he would chat with you like you were his neighbor. cant say the same about gene.
is that a fact ??
Edward Verhoef that is a fact and gene's bass playing has always sucked.
i think, no i know that you don,t know what you talking about anyway you have a right to give a opinion
Edward Verhoef I don't understand you kiddo. Paul is a nice guy, I talked to him a few times in the early eighties while I was working for Dokken and again while touring with DIO in the early 2000's. Gene was usually nearby and always had a chip on his shoulder acting like an asshole about something or anything. If it hurts your feelings that I've known some famous people and you haven't , live with it.
first of all i,m not a kiddo i,m 48 yrars old and i talked to paul and gene in 1977 and in 1996 and 1988 and in 2010 so i know a lot of both i also have a lot of foto,s with the original members and also the new members come on tell me more hahaha
It is really refreshing to see regular guy Paul Stanley. I've never seen him outside of the rock star persona.
Dude,,,,,,,,,
I'm 53 & HAPPILY admit that KISS has provided the major part of the 'soundtrack of my life' & Y'all have done a freaking great job so far.
♥
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He has always come across as sensible and in control of himself.
They will never be old to me.
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Wow! "Life is about indulgence from time to time " was one of the most amazing ideas I've heard in a long time. Paul and Ace are my favorites!
I love listening to his sage advice and his audio biography had me hooked from the get-go! KISS concerts were really great shows, going to miss them.
Much respect for this guy!! He’s a real person we should all listen to in my opinion.
Well, consider the fact that he can STILL jump, run and dance around stages tour after tour in those 7 inch boots, at his age....Hell, I could not even walk in those things even if I was 25 again.
Yeah, now if he could do what music is... and sing...
Larga vida Paul Stanley! Eres un Dios del heavy metal Kiss!!!
"I´m good for another 50.000 miles!" ... that´s great!
... hopefully 100.000
Saw you at The Forum in Inglewood in 75 greatest concert I ever been to, "You wanted the Best and you got it the Hottest band in the land KIZZZZZ" and all Hell broke loose, you guys blew the roof completely into the next county that night, all I can say is it was mindblowing. Peace Brother!! looking really good man. Long Live KIZZ!!!
Love Paul, he is so gentle and sincere as far as I can hear from all his vids. Long may he live on and be blessed
my hero... love Paul so much. Rock n Roll
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A very intelligent man.
Or at least a little..😂
How so..? How do you come across the verdict?
I'm not gay but Paul has always been the best looking one...He's my favorite...The best voice and I love him...
You're gay.
You're so gay.
The most honest and truthful words to come out of Paul Stanley’s mouth! 🇨🇦😀
I'm a fan, always have been, always will be. Respect to anyone that has build something out of nothing honorably! Ace and Peter have always been my two favorite members, and they'll always will be. Mr. Stanley, my respects, you did very well for yourself, no doubt, congrats on your accomplishments and may you continue to enjoy a long healthy life.
Whenever I see Paul. His woooaaahhhwooooooooooooooo from Heavens on Fire is in my
head. better range and a higher octave than Maria Carey.
john gault Mariah is a man.
lol young, old whatever hes still sooo fucking cool and funny god bless paul
I love his philosophy, whether you choose to do it in moderation or not, life is about enjoying and indulging. I don't feel so bad now.
Thanks Paul for sharing. I’m 60 and sing. Rock n Roll keeps one young😀I think. I still rock out to Kiss earliest songs. Look at the Stones for example! It’s certainly not about the money anymore. Their music keeps them young at heart. Aging is more a mental than physical thing I think though obviously our bodies do wear n tear. But Rock n Roll surely slows down the aging process in my personal opinion folks. So keep rocking people!🤟🏻RobertLackstein from Montreal Quebec Canada 🇨🇦
He looks perfectly fine to me, he is a great role model for all of us.