Thank you. I just lost my 5th child. I'm really in the depth of the depression part right now. Digging on the internet for ways to pull myself out of it. Some of the women at the hospital were so kind. I can't break out of this sadness. I'm just holding on to my other children non stop. I'm so blessed that I have them. I'm praying for all of us. For all of our beautiful babies.
Decades ago, I worked for a publisher. They were floating the idea of a book on miscarriage and stillbirth and handed out outlines to a lot of the women who worked there to get their feedback. I will never forget one older woman who commented that she didn't see the need for such a book because she had had a miscarriage twenty years before and she never talked about it, never grieved, because it just wasn't done then. While she was talking, she choked up. All those years she had never allowed herself to grieve and it was eating her up inside. It wasn't until she read the outline of the book that that wall cracked and she finally began to acknowledge her pain. It was a powerful moment.
We lost a baby boy in the 6th month of pregnancy, many years ago. My wife blamed herself. She grieved but was unable to talk aboutvit for many years. It took more than 25 years for her to tell me that the nursed baptized the baby and that they named him. I grieved too, silently, and it took a long time (years) for my wife to talk with me about this. I had a special gift some years after this sudden fetal death miscarriage: during a prayer group meeting, the priest leading the prayer suddenly sooke up and said that the Virgin has shown him a baby boy and told him that the baby was well. After the mmeting I asked him about his words. He simply said "The baby is your son". Thanks for this video
Thank you Been there I miscarriage my baby boy at 11 weeks even though I didn’t have the chance to know the sex of my baby I have a strong feeling in my heart that was a boy so I named him David he’ll be 15 years old in October I’ll see him in heaven
I had a miscarriage more than forty years ago and I find myself crying as you tell your story. I always wonder how he/she would look like. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your story. We lost our 2nd pregnancy at 5 weeks. I am usually a control freak/planner with my life but this time, I really had full faith in God that this had to happen. We were already blessed with an amazing toddler and knew in our hearts that God will bless us in His time. Lo and behold, we fell pregnant within a few days after I stopped bleeding from the miscarriage. The timing is crazy but again, we leaned on God for his guidance and am excited to welcome our baby in November!
Thank you for sharing your story and your heartache. My husband and I got married in 2017 and were infertile for years. I finally became pregnant and had a positive test on Good Friday 2021. We lost our baby at 7w 5d on April 24th, 2021. We were devastated. We named him Blair Francis Lee Bright. He was our little blueberry. Our hearts were torn, pierced. We got pregnant again but miscarried in August at 6w 3d. Ainslidh Marie Hope Bright, our little sweet pea. She was my hope for a future and a happy life. Since losing her, Ive become so very angry and hateful. I am inconsolable. I feel so lost on a daily basis. I thought I knew what I wanted but I don't anymore. I have post partum depression.. I tell people, but very few seem to care. I feel alone. I continue to grieve daily for our babies. Blair would have been 5 months old. Ainslidh would have been one month old. It's hard to imagine life without them. I only imagined life with them and what a wonderful life it was. I appreciate all the prayers as I cannot find it in me to pray as I ought. I feel so abandoned by faith and I'm having a hard time trusting. I know this shall pass. So I continue to just exist. The Eucharist brings me peace. I still love Jesus, we just don't talk too much anymore. I need to work on that. God bless you both, and your children. I am so very sorry this sorrow is one you must carry too. God love you.
You and your husband are precious and loved by God and others and so are your darling Blair and Ainslidh. I am sorry for your tremendous loss. It can be devastating. I cried for four hours straight after my first miscarriage. When it happened three more times, I had no more tears to cry. I felt like a failure as a woman, even tho I wasn't. I wondered why if I'm open to new life, the babies were not to live. I felt very sad and defeated. But the Lord does love us and we will be with our loved ones in heaven. The Lord blessed us with beautiful children who lived. We will all be together one day with the Lord at the eternal wedding feast. Please consider talking to a NAPRO doctor or NP or PA who can help you with discerning what the problem is, perhaps hormonal, or light at night thru your eyelids from electronics or outside, or a vitamin or mineral deficiency. Our neighbors recently had three miscarriages in a row, consulted with a NAPRO physician who discovered the problem, and our friend is now more than halfway thru the unborn baby's development. Miracles do happen! No matter what happens, sister, God loves you and treasures you. God bless you. I will pray for your healing and blessings for you and your husband.
@@jeanlanz2344 I am currently working with a napro Dr. Slowly but surely we are addressing my health issues. I cannot tell you how long I cried after our first. I am not sure I'm over it even a year later. It has truly been devastating. I do have hope and just trying to take care of myself. It is hard. I've been dealing with postpartum depression and it's unfortunately been winning. But I keep going. I'm not sure why those who want a baby so bad can't have one.. but I do want to say one thing. I've blamed myself a lot too and hardly felt like a woman. I hated myself for a long time. My napro instructor told me something that changed my life.. she told me 'you didn't do anything wrong. Nature failed you.' Nature has failed us. That helped me stop blaming myself. It's not my fault. Truly it isn't any of our faults.
There is so much grief in the world due to miscarriage. This is a subject that very few people have the courage to share. Thank you so much for your testimony of your sorrow and grief. Let that be an example for others to follow at their homes.
Thank you for talking about mental health and miscarriage...this is so so essential. With our culture that ignores the value of unborn life, it felt like there was no place for my grief with miscarriage. I appreciate you video. God bless you and Bobby as you heal after your miscarriages. May you feel the kiss of Jesus who is so close to you.
I am going through miscarriage at 6 weeks right now . The emotional pain is so strong as this pregnancy was long planned . Thank you for sharing your story . It has really touched my heart.
It’s interesting when this video came out. I found out I was 7 weeks pregnant during Holy Weekend and lost the baby a week later. I had to undergo the procedure because the remains of the baby wouldn’t come out of me and I’m recovering from that procedure. My husband and I are still saddened by the loss and too sad to think about what to name our baby. We still pray and surrender our sadness and pain to God. Thank you so much for making this video. This is helping my and my husband with the grief.
Being part of a community that prays together and grieves together is what allows us to not feel so alone. We also have to be able to rejoice and sing together like we were as children.
Thank you so much for sharing this. We have recently suffered 2 early miscarriages in a row, over the last couple months. It's so hard. We've been trying to navigate the grieving process between my husband and I but also with our 6 living children. God bless you.
I’m sorry for your loss. Been there, also, and it hurts your heart something awful. You will have better days, right now give yourself the space to grieve. 😔
Thank for sharing your guys story, really means a lot and helps me better understand . I haven’t experienced a miscarriage yet in my life but I did experience a loss of a newborn his name was Ezekiel . At 19 weeks they told me that he was going to die before being born or be stillborn because he had a bladder blockage that caused him to have double kidney failure. I was 22 weeks when his amniotic fluid ran out but he kept having a strong beat , there was no surgery I could do to help to unblock his bladder. My husband and I chose to keep going with the pregnancy even though it was hard knowing your baby wasn’t going to be able to stay. He was born at 36 weeks and 3 days in November of 2021. He was born alive thanks be to god and we got to kiss/hold him and baptized him before he passed away 45 min later due to his lungs didn’t develop. I can’t imagine but with the grace of god how he survived so long, I can’t even hold my breath for more then 2 minutes. Praying the 54 day rosary novena for his healing but instead my husband and I got healing with so much peace and grace after we put him to rest.
Over the past 21 years I have miscarried 25 babies. All of them were between six weeks and 12 weeks. It definitely makes each pregnancy scary. I have managed to give birth to six wonderful children who range from ages 20 down to two. I know that my babies are in heaven waiting for me and I look forward to being reunited with them.
God bless you, Holly. You have a lot of courage. I am sorry for the losses of your precious children. You will be with them forever at the eternal wedding feast.
Aweee Jackie🥹 I know you’re being strong for the camera but I just want to let you know that it’s ok to cry. Tears are a gift because not everyone is able to be vulnerable
I lost a baby in December and now I'm pregnant again. I feel guilty bc I feel like I'm not allowing myself to properly connect to my unborn baby in the same way that I did with my now toddler son, bc part of me is so scared of losing this child. I don't want to feel this way but it's hard to not be anxious.
Saw you at the Revealed retreat, I wanted to tell you that I enjoy your videos, they are filled with love ❤️ thank you for caring for your neighbor.God bless you and your family abundantly always!
Really sorry for your loss, very brave of you to talk about it. It is hard, I was taking care of my sister when she had a miscarriage and it is painful. May God bless and confort you heart.
The Lord is ALWAYS on time. Thank you so much or this video. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing such a tough situation. You have helped many🙏🏽
I'm so very sorry for your loss. It's been a long time since I lost my two babies. I never named them. When my mother passed away, I felt a comfort knowing they were in her arms. May you have peace in your hearts.
Your kids are very blessed to have you as parents, and we are all blessed to have you as friends. No one gets a free ride in this life. Holy Mary, pray for us
Thank you for sharing your story. May God continue to comfort and strengthen you both. And my heart goes out to the parents who have suffered and suffering the loss of a child. An unimaginable pain, a club no parent wishes to be a part of. May the Holy Spirit the comforter, continue to comfort you all. Amen Lastly, I just want to say, a lot of times there's no underlying issue. Don't let that be another source of pain when you do all the checks and no underlying cause was found and then you blame yourself...again.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Jackie & Bobby. My mom suffered 2 miscarriages (before she had me) but never talks about it. A few years ago, I dreamt that I visited their graves... and found out one of them was a boy (brother) named "Anthony". Now I pray for all my belated family members: all 4 grandparents and my 2 siblings. God bless. +
Thank you both 🩵 I am currently in the process...just found out yesterday. I just keep reminding myself…What more can I want for my baby than Heaven?! I see our children as forever children, so pure and innocent, rejoicing in Heaven, and praying with their whole hearts for us, their family on Earth. They’re so giddy enjoying the planning of the reunion with each one of us when our Good Father calls each one of us home.
I got sent this because an anniversary of my exes Mustain of our twins. I began to question if they were in heaven. It has been a struggle for the last 9 years because my ex expected me to be there for her, and she was never there to be there for me even 9 years later. This year I have finally been able to grieve being on my own away from my 4 kids. Thank you for this video.
I feel your pain I lost my first child 3months I was hurting then I had a childed a year later he is a lessing 2years later had another son he is also a blessing had a baby less then a year after I had my third son he was still born I was in my nineth month o still grive today I never had seen my son I was afraid I had two sons to raise and as much as I would of wantded to see h but I would of not been able to let him go I wantded him my third son Michael has secure problems I do wish today that I would of held h I pray one day I will see both of my children it has been 47years I never got over loosingy babies praying for you both GOD BLESS
I am so sorry for your losses of your precious children, Diane. It must have been devastating. The Lord loves them. "Let the little children come to me." You will all be together with Jesus Christ, Son of the living God, at the eternal wedding feast. And I will be with my family including my four miscarried children. Blessings, sister.
Thank you so much for this video. I miscarried a month ago, it was my first pregnancy. It was the most devastating experience of my life, and I've felt quite lonely through it. I love that you emphasize that any human life is sacred, even when that life is ended through miscarriage. That's a huge consolation, thank you!
My wife and I just found out today of the sad news. This is our 2nd miscarriage. And I personally do not have a child of my own currently but I see my stepson (my wife's son) as my own. Emotions are very raw right now considering we prayed for a Christmas miracle baby and we were blessed with one only for God to call him/her home after only about 8 weeks. We are supporting each other and remaining faithful and prayerful that God will bless us with our first child as a married couple. But this healing will take time and I appreciate the advise given in this video.
Thank you. I just heard your talk at the Eucharistic Congress in Boston (Lowell) and didn't know about your three little ones in heaven until I heard your talk. My first thought was, I wonder if they will do a talk on this, and found this. In my own family my parents had the problem with blood type (O- and A+) that, back in the 60s, was not known so it typically caused problems with pregnancies after the first two or three children. Because of this I have seven brothers and sisters that have gone before us; like you, I like to think of them as little saints in heaven praying for us. (two lived shortly after birth and were named) As a child, when this was happening, I didn't really know about what was going on; just that "Mom had to go to the hospital often" and didn't understand why. Now, looking back, I think of the courage of my parents and their faith in God, that was able to get them through this. (I could tell you more of the story if you want, privately.) Thank you for your ministry, God Bless you both and your family!
This is SO important! Hugs to your family! We had many miscarriages , 2 healthy babies, then a neonatal death before being diagnosed with antiphospholipid syndrome. After treatment had 4 more healthy babies. For a total of 6 kids to raise.
Thank you for sharing. I have four babies that I'm aware of in heaven. I have one baby boy Anthony Gerard and three that I don't know what to name. I am grateful for the three that are here with me. God bless.
Wow, thank you, Jackie and Bobby, for sharing your heartbreak. It brought tears to my eyes to see the sadness in your beautiful faces. You will be with your darling children again on the other side. I have at least four children who miscarried. I know I will be with them forever at the eternal wedding feast and you will be with yours. God bless you and thank you for being vulnerable to help others. You are a blessing to many.
I'm so sorry this happened to you guys. I'm myself non-religious and had 4 kids with my wife without a single miscarriage. When trying for our fifth child, my wife miscarried at 4 weeks. The doctor said that the fetus was nonviable, probably genetically defective, and had no idea why we lost him/her. I never even found out if the child was a boy or a girl. The doctor reassured us that it's typical to have miscarriages after having had many children and that he personally had never had a patient with 5 or more kids without at least one miscarriage. Still, it was a huge shock to me - bigger for me than for my wife. I remember the feeling of utmost devastation. There was a happy ending, however: my wife got pregnant again within 2 months and we had our 5th child. I still do think what the miscarried child would have looked like and how our life would be if we had him/her instead of our currently youngest daughter.
Jackie and Bobby, I developed a ministry for just this purpose, especially to offer help navigating the corporal works of mercy that arise out of miscarriage and infant loss. The link wont post, but the website is called Heart of My Heart in Colorado Springs, CO and it serves family from a purely Catholic view. May God heal your hearts and may His peace blanket you. All of our tiny saints, pray for us.
Me and my gf we had a miscarriage and I am going to the church that I have abandoned during many years because of that. Sometimes I think it's just because I want to find something to get relief. Other times I feel a real faith. Do you really think we are gonna meet our kids someday? I want to see my Luca and speak with him so much.
I am very sorry for your loss. I hope that you and your girlfriend are doing okay. I absolutely would recommend going to church and talking with your priest. You can schedule an appointment to talk with him. He will be able to help give comfort, provide support, and answer any questions you have. God's love and mercy can help you heal and find peace. I'll keep you, your girlfriend, and Luca in my prayers. May God bless you. 🙏
Yes, God loves children and said, "Let the little children come to me." Luca is with the Lord. I count on being with my four children who were miscarried. We'll be at the eternal wedding feast together forever. I agree with the other person. Please talk with your priest for guidance and support, and to also hopefully regularize your situation. God bless you, brother.
It must be believed and never doubted by any that "the souls of those who depart this life in actual mortal sin, or in original sin alone, go straightaway to Hell, but to undergo punishments of different kinds.” (Pope Eugene IV, Council of Florence, “Letentur coeli,” Sess. 6, July 6, 1439, ex cathedra). Believe first and foremost, never question the mercy of God. Believe in order to understand. “For I do not seek to understand that I may believe, but I believe in order to understand. For this also I believe, that unless I believed, I should not understand.” (St. Anselm, Doctor of the Church, Prosologion, Chap. 1).
I miscarried few days ago, it was an unplanned pregnancy, but we practice NFP. My husband's reaction was : "Well, if a parent drives drunk, and crash, of course it is that parents fault that child died." That was a comparison for me getting pregnant unplanned and having a miscarriage. I don't know how to process that.
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Thank you. I just lost my 5th child. I'm really in the depth of the depression part right now. Digging on the internet for ways to pull myself out of it. Some of the women at the hospital were so kind. I can't break out of this sadness. I'm just holding on to my other children non stop. I'm so blessed that I have them.
I'm praying for all of us. For all of our beautiful babies.
Decades ago, I worked for a publisher. They were floating the idea of a book on miscarriage and stillbirth and handed out outlines to a lot of the women who worked there to get their feedback. I will never forget one older woman who commented that she didn't see the need for such a book because she had had a miscarriage twenty years before and she never talked about it, never grieved, because it just wasn't done then. While she was talking, she choked up. All those years she had never allowed herself to grieve and it was eating her up inside. It wasn't until she read the outline of the book that that wall cracked and she finally began to acknowledge her pain. It was a powerful moment.
Wow. Bless her heart 😢
We lost a baby boy in the 6th month of pregnancy, many years ago. My wife blamed herself. She grieved but was unable to talk aboutvit for many years. It took more than 25 years for her to tell me that the nursed baptized the baby and that they named him. I grieved too, silently, and it took a long time (years) for my wife to talk with me about this. I had a special gift some years after this sudden fetal death miscarriage: during a prayer group meeting, the priest leading the prayer suddenly sooke up and said that the Virgin has shown him a baby boy and told him that the baby was well. After the mmeting I asked him about his words. He simply said "The baby is your son".
Thanks for this video
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Been there I miscarriage my baby boy at 11 weeks even though I didn’t have the chance to know the sex of my baby I have a strong feeling in my heart that was a boy so I named him David he’ll be 15 years old in October
I’ll see him in heaven
I had a miscarriage more than forty years ago and I find myself crying as you tell your story. I always wonder how he/she would look like.
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your story. We lost our 2nd pregnancy at 5 weeks. I am usually a control freak/planner with my life but this time, I really had full faith in God that this had to happen. We were already blessed with an amazing toddler and knew in our hearts that God will bless us in His time.
Lo and behold, we fell pregnant within a few days after I stopped bleeding from the miscarriage. The timing is crazy but again, we leaned on God for his guidance and am excited to welcome our baby in November!
I’m not ready to watch this after just having lost my baby but I am grateful you all are sharing your hearts on this subject. 💛
Thank you for sharing your story and your heartache. My husband and I got married in 2017 and were infertile for years. I finally became pregnant and had a positive test on Good Friday 2021. We lost our baby at 7w 5d on April 24th, 2021. We were devastated. We named him Blair Francis Lee Bright. He was our little blueberry. Our hearts were torn, pierced. We got pregnant again but miscarried in August at 6w 3d. Ainslidh Marie Hope Bright, our little sweet pea. She was my hope for a future and a happy life. Since losing her, Ive become so very angry and hateful. I am inconsolable. I feel so lost on a daily basis. I thought I knew what I wanted but I don't anymore. I have post partum depression.. I tell people, but very few seem to care. I feel alone. I continue to grieve daily for our babies. Blair would have been 5 months old. Ainslidh would have been one month old. It's hard to imagine life without them. I only imagined life with them and what a wonderful life it was. I appreciate all the prayers as I cannot find it in me to pray as I ought. I feel so abandoned by faith and I'm having a hard time trusting. I know this shall pass. So I continue to just exist. The Eucharist brings me peace. I still love Jesus, we just don't talk too much anymore. I need to work on that. God bless you both, and your children. I am so very sorry this sorrow is one you must carry too. God love you.
I had many miscarriages and a neonatal death before being diagnosed with antiphospholipid syndrome. Had 6 healthy kids. Hugs!
I am sorry to hear about your pain and losses. You are cared about and will be prayed for 🙏💕 Keep trying! We don't know the plan God has for us!
You and your husband are precious and loved by God and others and so are your darling Blair and Ainslidh. I am sorry for your tremendous loss. It can be devastating. I cried for four hours straight after my first miscarriage. When it happened three more times, I had no more tears to cry. I felt like a failure as a woman, even tho I wasn't. I wondered why if I'm open to new life, the babies were not to live. I felt very sad and defeated. But the Lord does love us and we will be with our loved ones in heaven. The Lord blessed us with beautiful children who lived. We will all be together one day with the Lord at the eternal wedding feast.
Please consider talking to a NAPRO doctor or NP or PA who can help you with discerning what the problem is, perhaps hormonal, or light at night thru your eyelids from electronics or outside, or a vitamin or mineral deficiency. Our neighbors recently had three miscarriages in a row, consulted with a NAPRO physician who discovered the problem, and our friend is now more than halfway thru the unborn baby's development. Miracles do happen! No matter what happens, sister, God loves you and treasures you. God bless you. I will pray for your healing and blessings for you and your husband.
@@jeanlanz2344 I am currently working with a napro Dr. Slowly but surely we are addressing my health issues. I cannot tell you how long I cried after our first. I am not sure I'm over it even a year later. It has truly been devastating. I do have hope and just trying to take care of myself. It is hard. I've been dealing with postpartum depression and it's unfortunately been winning. But I keep going. I'm not sure why those who want a baby so bad can't have one.. but I do want to say one thing. I've blamed myself a lot too and hardly felt like a woman. I hated myself for a long time. My napro instructor told me something that changed my life.. she told me 'you didn't do anything wrong. Nature failed you.' Nature has failed us. That helped me stop blaming myself. It's not my fault. Truly it isn't any of our faults.
There is so much grief in the world due to miscarriage. This is a subject that very few people have the courage to share. Thank you so much for your testimony of your sorrow and grief. Let that be an example for others to follow at their homes.
Thank you for talking about mental health and miscarriage...this is so so essential. With our culture that ignores the value of unborn life, it felt like there was no place for my grief with miscarriage. I appreciate you video. God bless you and Bobby as you heal after your miscarriages. May you feel the kiss of Jesus who is so close to you.
I am going through miscarriage at 6 weeks right now . The emotional pain is so strong as this pregnancy was long planned . Thank you for sharing your story . It has really touched my heart.
It’s interesting when this video came out. I found out I was 7 weeks pregnant during Holy Weekend and lost the baby a week later. I had to undergo the procedure because the remains of the baby wouldn’t come out of me and I’m recovering from that procedure. My husband and I are still saddened by the loss and too sad to think about what to name our baby. We still pray and surrender our sadness and pain to God. Thank you so much for making this video. This is helping my and my husband with the grief.
Being part of a community that prays together and grieves together is what allows us to not feel so alone. We also have to be able to rejoice and sing together like we were as children.
Thank you so much for sharing this. We have recently suffered 2 early miscarriages in a row, over the last couple months. It's so hard. We've been trying to navigate the grieving process between my husband and I but also with our 6 living children. God bless you.
I will pray for everyone who’s going through it
I’m sorry for your loss. Been there, also, and it hurts your heart something awful. You will have better days, right now give yourself the space to grieve. 😔
Thank for sharing your guys story, really means a lot and helps me better understand . I haven’t experienced a miscarriage yet in my life but I did experience a loss of a newborn his name was Ezekiel . At 19 weeks they told me that he was going to die before being born or be stillborn because he had a bladder blockage that caused him to have double kidney failure. I was 22 weeks when his amniotic fluid ran out but he kept having a strong beat , there was no surgery I could do to help to unblock his bladder. My husband and I chose to keep going with the pregnancy even though it was hard knowing your baby wasn’t going to be able to stay. He was born at 36 weeks and 3 days in November of 2021. He was born alive thanks be to god and we got to kiss/hold him and baptized him before he passed away 45 min later due to his lungs didn’t develop. I can’t imagine but with the grace of god how he survived so long, I can’t even hold my breath for more then 2 minutes. Praying the 54 day rosary novena for his healing but instead my husband and I got healing with so much peace and grace after we put him to rest.
So so sorry Steph. May God continue to comfort you and your family and may He bless you with more children. Amen!!
Over the past 21 years I have miscarried 25 babies. All of them were between six weeks and 12 weeks. It definitely makes each pregnancy scary. I have managed to give birth to six wonderful children who range from ages 20 down to two. I know that my babies are in heaven waiting for me and I look forward to being reunited with them.
God bless you, Holly. You have a lot of courage. I am sorry for the losses of your precious children. You will be with them forever at the eternal wedding feast.
Praying for you and all your children.
Aweee Jackie🥹 I know you’re being strong for the camera but I just want to let you know that it’s ok to cry. Tears are a gift because not everyone is able to be vulnerable
I lost a baby in December and now I'm pregnant again. I feel guilty bc I feel like I'm not allowing myself to properly connect to my unborn baby in the same way that I did with my now toddler son, bc part of me is so scared of losing this child. I don't want to feel this way but it's hard to not be anxious.
Saw you at the Revealed retreat, I wanted to tell you that I enjoy your videos, they are filled with love ❤️ thank you for caring for your neighbor.God bless you and your family abundantly always!
God, if it is your will please send Jackie and Bobby all the children you want them to have and good health. They are loving parents and love you!
Really sorry for your loss, very brave of you to talk about it. It is hard, I was taking care of my sister when she had a miscarriage and it is painful. May God bless and confort you heart.
The Lord is ALWAYS on time. Thank you so much or this video. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing such a tough situation. You have helped many🙏🏽
So sorry for your loss but thank you for talking about this! I will share with a few friends that have recently miscarried their little one!
I'm so very sorry for your loss. It's been a long time since I lost my two babies. I never named them. When my mother passed away, I felt a comfort knowing they were in her arms. May you have peace in your hearts.
I am sorry for your loss! Is still time to name them, please give them a name! They are waiting for you to give them a name! God bless you!
God bless you both 🙏❤
I’m sorry for your loss. I love your videos and will be praying for you.
Your kids are very blessed to have you as parents, and we are all blessed to have you as friends. No one gets a free ride in this life. Holy Mary, pray for us
Thank you for sharing your story. May God continue to comfort and strengthen you both. And my heart goes out to the parents who have suffered and suffering the loss of a child. An unimaginable pain, a club no parent wishes to be a part of. May the Holy Spirit the comforter, continue to comfort you all. Amen
Lastly, I just want to say, a lot of times there's no underlying issue. Don't let that be another source of pain when you do all the checks and no underlying cause was found and then you blame yourself...again.
So sorry for your loss… prayers for you guys. 🤗 ❤️ 🙏🏻
I'm so sorry for your loss, Jackie & Bobby. My mom suffered 2 miscarriages (before she had me) but never talks about it. A few years ago, I dreamt that I visited their graves... and found out one of them was a boy (brother) named "Anthony". Now I pray for all my belated family members: all 4 grandparents and my 2 siblings. God bless. +
Thank you both 🩵
I am currently in the process...just found out yesterday.
I just keep reminding myself…What more can I want for my baby than Heaven?!
I see our children as forever children, so pure and innocent, rejoicing in Heaven, and praying with their whole hearts for us, their family on Earth. They’re so giddy enjoying the planning of the reunion with each one of us when our Good Father calls each one of us home.
I got sent this because an anniversary of my exes Mustain of our twins. I began to question if they were in heaven. It has been a struggle for the last 9 years because my ex expected me to be there for her, and she was never there to be there for me even 9 years later. This year I have finally been able to grieve being on my own away from my 4 kids. Thank you for this video.
I feel your pain I lost my first child 3months I was hurting then I had a childed a year later he is a lessing 2years later had another son he is also a blessing had a baby less then a year after I had my third son he was still born I was in my nineth month o still grive today I never had seen my son I was afraid I had two sons to raise and as much as I would of wantded to see h but I would of not been able to let him go I wantded him my third son Michael has secure problems I do wish today that I would of held h I pray one day I will see both of my children it has been 47years I never got over loosingy babies praying for you both GOD BLESS
I am so sorry for your losses of your precious children, Diane. It must have been devastating. The Lord loves them. "Let the little children come to me." You will all be together with Jesus Christ, Son of the living God, at the eternal wedding feast. And I will be with my family including my four miscarried children. Blessings, sister.
Thank you so much for this video. I miscarried a month ago, it was my first pregnancy. It was the most devastating experience of my life, and I've felt quite lonely through it. I love that you emphasize that any human life is sacred, even when that life is ended through miscarriage. That's a huge consolation, thank you!
My wife and I just found out today of the sad news. This is our 2nd miscarriage. And I personally do not have a child of my own currently but I see my stepson (my wife's son) as my own. Emotions are very raw right now considering we prayed for a Christmas miracle baby and we were blessed with one only for God to call him/her home after only about 8 weeks. We are supporting each other and remaining faithful and prayerful that God will bless us with our first child as a married couple. But this healing will take time and I appreciate the advise given in this video.
Thank you for sharing your experience, we love you and pray for you
Sorry for your losses ☹✝
I was able to share this video as a consolation with a friend whose family is experiencing this loss today. Thank you so much. God bless.
Thank you. I just heard your talk at the Eucharistic Congress in Boston (Lowell) and didn't know about your three little ones in heaven until I heard your talk. My first thought was, I wonder if they will do a talk on this, and found this.
In my own family my parents had the problem with blood type (O- and A+) that, back in the 60s, was not known so it typically caused problems with pregnancies after the first two or three children. Because of this I have seven brothers and sisters that have gone before us; like you, I like to think of them as little saints in heaven praying for us. (two lived shortly after birth and were named) As a child, when this was happening, I didn't really know about what was going on; just that "Mom had to go to the hospital often" and didn't understand why. Now, looking back, I think of the courage of my parents and their faith in God, that was able to get them through this.
(I could tell you more of the story if you want, privately.)
Thank you for your ministry,
God Bless you both and your family!
This is SO important! Hugs to your family! We had many miscarriages , 2 healthy babies, then a neonatal death before being diagnosed with antiphospholipid syndrome. After treatment had 4 more healthy babies. For a total of 6 kids to raise.
So sorry for your loss, may our Lord Jesus bless you all.
So very sorry about the loss of your beloved children. Thank you for being selfless enough to share your story so that you can help others. ❤️
Re thyroid issues: investigate the "carnivore" diet. Blessings to you all and your babies are on my prayer list. Doc Phil L.
Thank you for sharing. I have four babies that I'm aware of in heaven. I have one baby boy Anthony Gerard and three that I don't know what to name. I am grateful for the three that are here with me. God bless.
Thank you for this video. God Bless you two and you’re beautiful family ❤️
Wow, thank you, Jackie and Bobby, for sharing your heartbreak. It brought tears to my eyes to see the sadness in your beautiful faces. You will be with your darling children again on the other side. I have at least four children who miscarried. I know I will be with them forever at the eternal wedding feast and you will be with yours. God bless you and thank you for being vulnerable to help others. You are a blessing to many.
🫂🙏 hugs and prayers for those who are grieving.
i just had a miscarriage, and I'm truly ashamed to say that this shaked my faith to the core. I am still very angry at the lord. I'm hurt
I’m sorry for your loss.
Thank you for this powerful testimony!! God bless you both! 🙏
Thank you for this video and for sharing. Another video that I feel was sent to me at a perfect time.🙏 God bless
I’m so sorry 😢
So sorry for your loss. Your sharing is a blessing
So sorry for your loss and God Bless 🙏❤
Thank you for all your videos. I know this one was particularly hard to make and talk about.
I am.so.sorry for your loss..Thank you so much for sharIng your story it encourages others. But i am so sorry you had go through this.
I lost my daughter on 6/27/22. Her name is Leanora. I look forward to meeting her in Heaven one day.
Maybe adopting or fostering an unfortunate baby whose mother doesn’t want him or her would help you find more purpose. 🙏❤️🔥🙏
I'm so sorry this happened to you guys. I'm myself non-religious and had 4 kids with my wife without a single miscarriage. When trying for our fifth child, my wife miscarried at 4 weeks. The doctor said that the fetus was nonviable, probably genetically defective, and had no idea why we lost him/her. I never even found out if the child was a boy or a girl. The doctor reassured us that it's typical to have miscarriages after having had many children and that he personally had never had a patient with 5 or more kids without at least one miscarriage. Still, it was a huge shock to me - bigger for me than for my wife. I remember the feeling of utmost devastation. There was a happy ending, however: my wife got pregnant again within 2 months and we had our 5th child. I still do think what the miscarried child would have looked like and how our life would be if we had him/her instead of our currently youngest daughter.
I am so sorry you have had this experience, especially more than once. God bless you both!
Thank you for sharing! God Bless
We are so glad that you found this video helpful!
Thank you for this ❤
My daughterinlaw had 2 miscarriages and I cried and cried. Grandparents grieve too.
I'm sure you have both seen "Heaven is for Real. The Burpo's daughter was thriving in heaven and hugged her brother who visited heaven in an NDE!
We lost two to miscarriages. It was and is hard, but they are humans to us.
Jackie and Bobby, I developed a ministry for just this purpose, especially to offer help navigating the corporal works of mercy that arise out of miscarriage and infant loss. The link wont post, but the website is called Heart of My Heart in Colorado Springs, CO and it serves family from a purely Catholic view. May God heal your hearts and may His peace blanket you. All of our tiny saints, pray for us.
Me and my gf we had a miscarriage and I am going to the church that I have abandoned during many years because of that. Sometimes I think it's just because I want to find something to get relief. Other times I feel a real faith.
Do you really think we are gonna meet our kids someday? I want to see my Luca and speak with him so much.
I am very sorry for your loss. I hope that you and your girlfriend are doing okay.
I absolutely would recommend going to church and talking with your priest. You can schedule an appointment to talk with him. He will be able to help give comfort, provide support, and answer any questions you have.
God's love and mercy can help you heal and find peace. I'll keep you, your girlfriend, and Luca in my prayers.
May God bless you. 🙏
@@penguinninja4417 thank you very much. God bless you too
Yes, God loves children and said, "Let the little children come to me." Luca is with the Lord. I count on being with my four children who were miscarried. We'll be at the eternal wedding feast together forever. I agree with the other person. Please talk with your priest for guidance and support, and to also hopefully regularize your situation. God bless you, brother.
Thank you for this
I’m going through my second miscarriage in 4 months. I’m scared, sad, angry and doctrinally confused.
Let's pray for all of those women who are willing to kill her own bebés
Amen. Let's pray for them all out of love 🙏🤝
Angel Granados that’s the name I chose for you. You would have been been born 3 weeks ago.
so sorry I feel you
Praying for you
God bless you
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Amen
It must be believed and never doubted by any that "the souls of those who depart this life in actual mortal sin, or in original sin alone, go straightaway to Hell, but to undergo punishments of different kinds.” (Pope Eugene IV, Council of Florence, “Letentur coeli,” Sess. 6, July 6, 1439, ex cathedra). Believe first and foremost, never question the mercy of God. Believe in order to understand. “For I do not seek to understand that I may believe, but I believe in order to understand. For this also I believe, that unless I believed, I should not understand.” (St. Anselm, Doctor of the Church, Prosologion, Chap. 1).
Thank you for bringing up the actual teaching, since the new catechism they quoted sure likes to cover this up.
"First baby?"
She said first baby because she had two miscarriages! They have four children!
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I miscarried few days ago, it was an unplanned pregnancy, but we practice NFP. My husband's reaction was : "Well, if a parent drives drunk, and crash, of course it is that parents fault that child died." That was a comparison for me getting pregnant unplanned and having a miscarriage. I don't know how to process that.
Did you take vaccine e during pregnancy
I know this is touchy, but, did you receive the
Jab???
Anyone else???
Low progesterone maybe.
I feel in my heart, I had a boy. I named him Daniel.
I sang Danny boy alot. It helped.
For any woman wanting to get pregnant it would be wise to avoid a tetanus vaccine.
God, if it is your will please send Jackie and Bobby all the children you want them to have and good health. They are loving parents and love you!