How I Went From Shy to Confident (Mini Storytime) | Euodias

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  • Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
  • A super highly requested video and I've finally gotten around to filming it! My house is still under renovation so there might be delays with some of my future videos ಥ‿ಥ
    Anyways, please enjoy this storytime~
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  • @user-ly4wt9xp4i
    @user-ly4wt9xp4i 2 года назад +126

    I was mid breakdown at 3am. Talk about perfect timing

  • @mari-yz9xv
    @mari-yz9xv 2 года назад +111

    yodi you’re honestly the big sis everyone needs 😫 ugh gonna go improve myself rn

  • @awembaweawembawe6116
    @awembaweawembawe6116 2 года назад +144

    Ayy thank u so much. I'm actually a guy, but I really enjoy watching your vids since 2017 in my weeb days when u were uploading the japan school vids. I'm 18 entering university now and u inspired me to be confident and start a business I also started reading now, I started studying Japanese when u uploaded the 5 tips video, I've also gotten into korean lately and have been learning that as well. Thank u somuh

    • @mishteen.164
      @mishteen.164 2 года назад +2

      Heyy if you can, can you please share where do you learn korean? I've also started to learn from some time but idk good resources... Thanks

    • @awembaweawembawe6116
      @awembaweawembawe6116 2 года назад

      @@mishteen.164 I'm using a free website called howtostudykorean.
      The creator of the website is a non korean guy, so he teaches us ways in which an English speaking person can learn korean easily.
      I'm also using naver for vocabularies.
      But I would still recommend you to look for other resources besides the howtostudykorean, it was easy for me to understand since I already speak Japanese, but for a person who starts with 0, it might be quite difficult. Sorry for the late response

    • @luluowq9827
      @luluowq9827 2 года назад

      Do you come from the Netherlands

  • @Lia-zg5qd
    @Lia-zg5qd 2 года назад +36

    This is actually very good advice! it's hard to live your life when you're afraid of everything. That's why I started working, I took up a customer service job (I work as a receptionist at a doctor's office) because I wanted to challenge myself to talk to people. The experience helped a lot. I'm no longer afraid of talking to people or get anxiety when I have to make phone calls. Life has been a lot less scary every since.

    • @karaf.2539
      @karaf.2539 Год назад

      I had the same experience! Talking on the phone and being social was difficult, but becoming a receptionist challenged me and my fear went away! It's so helpful.

  • @34riyarose67
    @34riyarose67 2 года назад +38

    she is so endearing and elegant, I could watch her talk all day long. I could listen to her even if she talks about the randomest topic.

  • @safiibraheem2617
    @safiibraheem2617 2 года назад +24

    "Go be beautiful now Go!!!"
    That was so funny 😂😂😂
    And yes the formula works I tried it too like 2~ 3 years ago and now I'm a totally different person! It is gradual though and you have to push yourself at first, get embarrassed (that happened so many times but I eventually learned not to be hard on myself anymore) make mistakes, learn from them, take ur time and LIFE GETS SWEET!!

  • @whtsxz
    @whtsxz 2 года назад +43

    Thank you for this! One of my goal this 2022 is to improve my social skills and stop being too nervous or anxious with people. I have been like this since forever, lol. But I want to take baby steps so I could improve myself into my better version.

  • @roggenmischbrot
    @roggenmischbrot 2 года назад +18

    As an introvert who had social anxiety I can confirm everything Yodi says :)
    What about a "Books I plan to read in 2022" video next? 🥰

  • @kawaiime4714
    @kawaiime4714 2 года назад +9

    I would like to add one thing, it's that try to avoid negative and evil sort of people who plot bad things just so they can "look" better than you. Limit interaction with them as they will suck up good things from your life which is YOURS!

  • @makedareign8140
    @makedareign8140 2 года назад +37

    Thank you so much Yodi! I really needed this. I’ve been wanting to improve myself lately, but didn’t know where to start. This video really helps with planning my journey. 😭💕

  • @asula2111
    @asula2111 2 года назад +11

    Watching your videos is like talking to a rich, single and independent aunt and I love it ❤️

  • @chuu4847
    @chuu4847 2 года назад +23

    Ahh this is honestly such good timing because I want to improve my social and talking skills this year by a lot. I can’t stand keeping questions to myself when there’s people I want to talk to but I just can’t bring myself to just talk to them so thank you !!!

    • @pakstar9138
      @pakstar9138 2 года назад

      I love japan, i dream everyday about japan, japan is in my blood, i want to work and stay in japan, but i cant do it because​ i dont have the resources to go to japan or get vissa, anybody​ can help please, i m pakistani​

  • @snoopyeverywhere
    @snoopyeverywhere 2 года назад +4

    i love the way you summarize your formula, ur tips, ur solutions to gain more confidence! and i love the way u explain it to us too, its so neat and honest. u keep it simple not too long but also not too short. you started the tips with ur experiences which makes it so cute and heart warming. listening to your past story abt ur experiences with eric is so ;-; it seems like you perceive that memory as a sumn cute and adorable. you do accept and embraces your old self thats so diff with urself now. i personally find it so cool bcs i still had a hard time to aknowledge and embrace the side of myself that i dont really like! im sorry if i wrong but i also can see how much efforts you put to always be so true to yourself. i always find myself take a lot of ss of your words that inspired me sm

  • @LeBeautiful
    @LeBeautiful 2 года назад +7

    confidence is 🔑

  • @hilda9270
    @hilda9270 2 года назад +2

    The tips are useful but what inspiring me most is when you talk about the effort you put, the way you plan for a better self, you are literally shining. This really motivate me to achieve something. Thank you for this vedio. I think it worth rewatch.

  • @Anna-sb7wh
    @Anna-sb7wh 2 года назад +8

    I’ve always respected and loved your approach on these things in life. It’s always a good reminder to get back on track and work for what I want. Thank you for making these and sharing your values :)

  • @dl45649
    @dl45649 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video! And these types of videos🥺I rewatch them every now and then!! It’s a nice reminder🥰

  • @jellyjoystick
    @jellyjoystick 2 года назад +1

    Omg queen is back YOU LOOK GORGEOUS and thank u for sharing this with us 💕💕

  • @ripequetzalcoatyl_08
    @ripequetzalcoatyl_08 2 года назад +2

    This was so much needed ❤️ thanks yodi

  • @haymilkkou4130
    @haymilkkou4130 2 года назад +2

    I´ve been waiting for this video for soo long honestly... love a confident queen!

  • @bbunzz2879
    @bbunzz2879 2 года назад

    this video is such perfect timing! I’ve been struggling so much with confidence in my life and praying for answers and this is just what I need!

  • @saptarsheekshirsagar665
    @saptarsheekshirsagar665 2 года назад +1

    Love u yodi for this!!

  • @kumoluv4011
    @kumoluv4011 2 года назад +4

    thank u so mich for this video. growing up i thought shyness was an automatic quality of mine but as i got older i knew that wasn't it. i've been trying to improve on my self-confidence lately and this video is for sure going to help. it's also nice to get advice from a former shy person to a confident one. it makes me believe that i can do it too. ☺

  • @niji957
    @niji957 2 года назад +14

    Thank you very much for this video, yodi 🥰 I'm an INTP, and the reason I don't have good social skills is that I'm so used to observing others in the room and not talking that I forget to actually talk to them and use my social skills. My social battery drains so quickly that people will no longer hear from me after only a few minutes of conversation. I believe I need to concentrate on extending my social batteries so that I can mingle with them for a little longer and develop my social abilities. I'm also in the process of improving myself. I'm working out (I've been working out for a week and I'm feeling wonderful), reading books, and learning to play the piano. This year, I want to develop myself, and maybe, by the end of the year, I will be more confident than I was at the start. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and inspiration. I may be one of your millions of followers, but you have a special place in my heart. You may not see this message, but I hope you do because you inspired me to break out of my comfort zone. Have a nice day yodi, stay safe and healthy~ 💕😊

  • @america4859
    @america4859 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Yodi, you're such an inspiration for me 💖

  • @suki_tiramisu
    @suki_tiramisu 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for the tips! Always love listening your stories 💕

  • @mgcsm8447
    @mgcsm8447 2 года назад +5

    love you, yodi. i’m an introvert and has a shy/quiet personality. hope i can become like you one day

  • @pinqfriday2490
    @pinqfriday2490 2 года назад

    this is so good omg. especially tip 2!!

  • @cupokat5998
    @cupokat5998 2 года назад +4

    ahhh I really love watching your videos and following you! I'm slowly focusing on improving myself and when feeling down again, you're like an accountability buddy to remind me of what my focus should be and that's loving me and improving myself for me :D

  • @aitamasanada72
    @aitamasanada72 Год назад

    What an amazing wisdom! Thankies sis!

  • @biyo6835
    @biyo6835 2 года назад

    Thank youu, this is so helpful. please. never. remove. this. storytime. Ily!!

  • @user-mo9fw7iw4u
    @user-mo9fw7iw4u 2 года назад +2

    I love this, thank you, Euodi.

  • @siyanroll7238
    @siyanroll7238 2 года назад

    somehow your videos always come at a perfect timing :") love you yodi

  • @OnlyNois
    @OnlyNois 2 года назад +2

    girl how do you manage to post just what i need every time? you are amazing btw

  • @PocketMonst3rs
    @PocketMonst3rs 2 года назад +3

    your such a good story teller!

  • @selos58
    @selos58 2 года назад +3

    perfect timing with the post

  • @haelrys
    @haelrys 2 года назад

    Love you, Yodi! 💕

  • @sandrabeshara8622
    @sandrabeshara8622 2 года назад +1

    I was literally just thinking about how you haven't posted in a while. Always perfectly timed.

  • @onikasian
    @onikasian 2 года назад +1

    Love your videos always 🥺

  • @noirepic4750
    @noirepic4750 2 года назад

    Yay the video is here! Thanks :)

  • @paaavv
    @paaavv 2 года назад +4

    The fact that we have the same personality type just made my day lol

  • @zmax3366
    @zmax3366 2 года назад +2

    That’s very impressive and amazing tbh you really inspiring person 🤩🤩💙

  • @shindouzyukino6962
    @shindouzyukino6962 2 года назад +1

    The tips i neeed😭 thank youu

  • @cozysans
    @cozysans Год назад

    hey yodi :] thanks for posting this... i watched ur vids all the time when you were still studying in japan and i always looked forward to your new vlogs! I've always wanted to go into business and now that I'm 18 and starting college i know that i will have to work on my self-confidence asap lol. you're a big role model to me !! thank you for your vids :]

  • @purpleme2610
    @purpleme2610 2 года назад

    I luv u so much, thanks for this video!

  • @srishtisharma1514
    @srishtisharma1514 2 года назад +1

    This video was worth watching ❤

  • @chessman9022
    @chessman9022 2 года назад +1

    This is actually a really great videos of yoursss i loveee it. I’m an INTJ got the same mindset of yours but im somehow a bit shy and just doesn’t wanna talk to people at all just love mind my own business lol but this srsly has inspired me alot to be a better person of myself!! love you!!

  • @jasminagoza5240
    @jasminagoza5240 2 года назад +1

    I am an introvert yet when I need to step out of my comfort zone and talk to people I do that for my benifit. I don't think a lack confidance but I do lack social skills bc I don't put effort in talking to people when I don¨t need to. plus My social battery runs out easely after just 3h in an social event and when that happens unwilingly become super quiet. I've been told I seem super cold and mean. So to change that image of me I've been acting super friendly and bubbly and smily all the time and tbh it helped people now where telling me I was such a social butterfly and a natural speaker blablabla. But thats not me at all it actually took so much energy out of me tu the poine I didn't want to meet anyone for a month just to recharge my social battery.
    You've now made me realize that all I need to be is my best self to attract the right people in mylife. Your words are encouraging and motivating so thx for that

  • @Nhi-gt2vn
    @Nhi-gt2vn 2 года назад +1

    I needed this postt

  • @submarooo4319
    @submarooo4319 2 года назад

    This was really helpful and motivating. This advice shows great common sense, yet I find myself oftentimes still forgetting the obvious, so thank you. I relate to your story a lot because often times I feel like a failed extrovert rather than an introvert. That I just need better social skills and confidence.

  • @cin_cs
    @cin_cs 2 года назад

    thank you for storytime

  • @maeackerman618
    @maeackerman618 2 года назад

    yeyy new videoooooo

  • @aurora4859
    @aurora4859 2 года назад

    Thank you for this video 🧡🧡🧡

  • @ume_mochi2515
    @ume_mochi2515 2 года назад +2

    🔥🔥🔥thx you for posting this video I feel like you have a positive impact on me (I talked about you in my English class the subject was "inspiring people")

  • @fangirlinglife9085
    @fangirlinglife9085 2 года назад

    Thanks for this 💕

  • @azarazat
    @azarazat 2 года назад +7

    Tip 1 is quite relevant ahh once I left Japan and all my exchange friends were spread across the world I just lost the motivation to make new friends here in Aus since I haven’t found anyone I connect with the same way, I definitely need to work on putting myself out there again 🥺 In terms of tip 2 I’ve been gyming for the last 2yrs and it’s had suuuch a drastic change in my confidence regarding my appearance! Also I recently bought a longboard in hopes that I can become more of a risk taker (I’ve always avoided things like that cause I hate getting hurt) so I’m hoping that helps with my confidence too 🙏🏼 I’ve been observing a lot of people I am jealous of (in a healthy way - being healthily jealous is truly a great motivator) and I can definitely say those 3 tips are the things they abide by!

  • @AndromedaMoon888
    @AndromedaMoon888 Год назад

    As someone who also used to struggle with social anxiety, I would agree with these tips

  • @stay1080
    @stay1080 2 года назад +1

    OMG another Yodi video!!! I have to do math hw right now but I'll be back soon ;-:

  • @voydjumpbloom9438
    @voydjumpbloom9438 2 года назад +1

    I love u 😔❤️❤️

  • @Antbeast23
    @Antbeast23 2 года назад

    Same happen to me when I got to college and studied abroad I stop caring about what people think and just decided to make friends for myself. Now I love meeting and connecting with people especially after joining my international student organization it was the best time of my life. Now as a graduate I tried to talk to people I meet. I have moments where I have trouble talking to certain people and get anxiety with presentations or group discussions but It is a work in progress lol

  • @aljannah9046
    @aljannah9046 2 года назад

    I love youuuuuuuu (for helping humans, especially yourself baeeeee) 💜✨ -From a fellow Scorpio to another 😆

  • @sen-sy2rc
    @sen-sy2rc 2 года назад +1

    In the end where she said "go and be beautiful now" man okay im busy now **working on myself**

  • @reynielee1470
    @reynielee1470 2 года назад

    Thank you!

  • @milkous
    @milkous 2 года назад

    yodi called us cool 🥺

  • @mythlayla566
    @mythlayla566 2 года назад +2

    This is so weird because that is what I am doing. At school Ive been trying to start conversations with people so I can be less shy and gain more confidence

  • @m1lpyy
    @m1lpyy 2 года назад

    i would write you a letter too ngl girl you are very charismatic

  • @reisariouki5346
    @reisariouki5346 2 года назад

    T H I S I S G R E A T ! !💖😍

  • @etoile_filante
    @etoile_filante 2 года назад

    Really good tips! I love your lipstick btw. Which brand is it?

  • @bashooka
    @bashooka 2 года назад +2

    my thought is.. is it too late to change?

    • @Euodias
      @Euodias  2 года назад +5

      Never too late :)

  • @nina.bum24
    @nina.bum24 2 года назад +1

    Yodii it’s been a couple of years (2?) could we get a more intense version of your workout? I remember the one you posted you said it was for beginners, and that you would eventually post a more current workout routine?

  • @casey_fae
    @casey_fae 2 года назад

    Thank you sm for the tips! Also why am I JUST finding out you play violin and sax too??

  • @elijahhale1734
    @elijahhale1734 2 года назад

    i love your videos

  • @z11h33
    @z11h33 2 года назад

    omggggg yassss finally an entj 🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️✨✨, i mean why are entj's so rare ?! maybe we're special ig 👀, your story is so cutee and idk why but i kinda got "mean girls" vibe from it but yeahh nvm, have a good day 😂💗💗

  • @yuuki7565
    @yuuki7565 2 года назад

    Go and be beautiful now (😂love that)
    I'll write that down on my wall for motivation

  • @naletai
    @naletai 2 года назад

    ”Don’t focus so much on making friends”

  • @AndromedaMoon888
    @AndromedaMoon888 Год назад

    As an MBTI nerd, I felt immense satisfaction when she said she was an ENTJ

  • @messylife7577
    @messylife7577 2 года назад

    you're so cool..i also want to change myself

  • @risaoribe3696
    @risaoribe3696 2 года назад

    Why u so cute 🥺❤️

  • @zaima8205
    @zaima8205 2 года назад

    u are so beautiful and intelligent ure my rolemodel

  • @idabjernemose
    @idabjernemose 2 года назад +1

    Im not shy at all, im just veeeeeery awkward.

  • @deanjpegg
    @deanjpegg 2 года назад +2

    yes i skip manga for this

  • @RamsInsider
    @RamsInsider 2 года назад +1

    Early

  • @chloe0452
    @chloe0452 2 года назад

    Can I please ask what is your star sign?

  • @tessajane8830
    @tessajane8830 2 года назад

    This is me huhu

  • @Castiel_Pr
    @Castiel_Pr 2 года назад

    👍🏻

  • @Rei-mn3pl
    @Rei-mn3pl 2 года назад

    As a person who has social anxiety, I always have a hard time connecting with people and building relationships…
    thank you so much for the tips:))

  • @gyanmanmoktan3130
    @gyanmanmoktan3130 2 года назад

    🔥🔥😍😍😘🥰

  • @pakstar9138
    @pakstar9138 2 года назад

    I love japan, i dream everyday about japan, japan is in my blood, i want to work and stay in japan, but i cant do it because​ i dont have the resources to go to japan or get vissa, anybody​ can help please, i m pakistani​

  • @Jay-ck5mj
    @Jay-ck5mj 2 года назад

    Improve yourself including your image.
    I can't stress that what you wear is a huge part of that too. Especially fit for men.
    Also, social skills are SKILLS. And practice makes perfect. Try to talk to people. Even if you fail at first, it'll help you improve.
    Just cross out the people you failed with and move onto the countless other human beings.
    As someone who struggled to even respond to people I grew up with, I know it's insulting to hear someone say, "just talk to people."
    But anything worth having is worth the effort. You should know by now that a social personality and a social life won't fall onto your lap if it hasn't already, right? So if you want it enough, let that drive you to go out and take it.

  • @VVMapleVids
    @VVMapleVids 2 года назад

    I feel like i am comfortable interacting with people on the surface, casual talks like that.
    But when it comes to deeper connections especially towards guys i tend to set a border unconsciously and back off? Sigh

  • @zia-ql8sm
    @zia-ql8sm 2 года назад

    so you're saying you were a shojo protagonist ;-;

  • @zeesi773
    @zeesi773 2 года назад +2

    Is anything different today? She's looking and sounding extra sweet today.. I mean she's super cute all the time but today's vibe is surely something more Idk

  • @maiu4110
    @maiu4110 2 года назад

    I love youu...I wish I could send you a letter