5 Signs You're Ready To Date

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
  • In our earlier video, we discussed various mindset shifts that can assist you in effortlessly drawing love into your life. However, what if you're currently unprepared to alter your mindset or engage in dating?
    If you've ever found yourself wondering whether you're truly ready to dive into the world of dating, you're in for a treat.
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Комментарии • 619

  • @ajh.4131
    @ajh.4131 Год назад +750

    Just to add, I think it’s also a good sign you’re ready to start dating when you realize everyone is imperfect and you can accept them anyway. Knowing that relationships require mutual effort and working through those imperfections. Basically, understanding the reality of relationships and not going into it thinking it’ll be like a movie.

    • @UnpopularOpinionSports
      @UnpopularOpinionSports Год назад +2

      Great point

    • @thesingerperson
      @thesingerperson Год назад

      I wish they credited the artist Zipcy ( 집시) for using her art as the thumbnail for this video. I wonder if they even got her permission to use her art.

    • @kerbodynamicx472
      @kerbodynamicx472 Год назад +2

      I understand it well, but that's exactly why I'm not ready to start dating - because I'm not sure whether I'll be a bigot or not

    • @ajh.4131
      @ajh.4131 Год назад +6

      @@kerbodynamicx472 one of the best sayings I’ve ever heard is, “the only way OUT, is THROUGH.”
      It’s perfectly ok if you’re not ready. At least you are aware ❤️

    • @fckaroundandfindout99
      @fckaroundandfindout99 Год назад +2

      Totally agree. Entered the relationship thinking it should be ideal (naive), came to the point it requires a bunch of efforts and sometimes sacrifices for the best. Great point that needs to be mentioned more.

  • @Ads_1001
    @Ads_1001 Год назад +760

    Timestamps 5 signs you're ready to date
    Fresh Start 1:03
    Learning from the Past 1:35
    Honoring ur wants & needs 2:18
    Genuine Curiosity 2:45
    Investing in urself 3:21

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +76

      Holy cow that was fast. Thank you!

    • @CarlosAlola
      @CarlosAlola Год назад +13

      Invest in myself? Should I eat money?

    • @Ads_1001
      @Ads_1001 Год назад +1

      @@CarlosAlola click on the timestamp for it and hear why they're saying it it'll be much clear then

    • @ShikichiAkuma
      @ShikichiAkuma Год назад

      Aye, something I already do.

    • @VVeniceMC
      @VVeniceMC Год назад +1

      ​@@CarlosAlolaretard

  • @URA4748
    @URA4748 Год назад +1136

    The fact that I immediately clicked on this is concerning😂 edit: OH MY GOSH THX FOR ALL THE LIKES THIS MADE MY DAY:3

  • @PatrioticAmerican1776
    @PatrioticAmerican1776 Год назад +425

    Anyone struggling with anything, I salute you for keeping the will to live.👍
    Edit: Wow this blew up, thank you, and never give up! Remember that if you ever feel lonely, there are people that care, and see you.👍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +57

      Thank you. I hope people read your comment and find encouragement they need!

    • @inf1ni7y
      @inf1ni7y Год назад +12

      @@Psych2go unfortunately I found the opposite. And I'm not just being a smart-ass, but thanks psych2go👍

    • @danavixen6274
      @danavixen6274 Год назад +3

      🙏🏾😊

    • @DasHeino2010
      @DasHeino2010 Год назад +2

      ​@@TheNextCatInLineI dont know if you can/should fix that. Take care of yourselfe has top priority! If you are in danger leave! Or at least have a bag with necesseties and be ready to.
      Maybe talk to a therapist what can be done. Or cut them from your life instead of letteng the abuse destroy it. It is yours after all. Good luck and stay strong!

    • @reeses_unicorn
      @reeses_unicorn Год назад +2

      Thank you. ❤️

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n Год назад +356

    Timestamps
    1). A fresh start 1:03
    2). Learning from the past 1:34
    3). Honouring your wants and needs 2:19
    4). Genuine curiosity 2:46
    5). Investing in yourself 3:21
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

    • @sof83011
      @sof83011 Год назад +6

      Haha i can see its still in progress 😂 but tysm

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n Год назад +2

      ​@@sof83011not a problem happy to help

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +23

      🤜🤛

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go 💙💙💙💙💙💙

    • @starfox5352
      @starfox5352 Год назад

      ​@@dhamilton463same:D

  • @konajohnson6182
    @konajohnson6182 Год назад +225

    Currently in a healthy relationship and hoping we are able to continue to make one another happy

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +35

      Congratulations! How's that going so far? :)

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +4

      Congratulations! Cherish your partner. People like me can only dream of having what you have.

    • @konajohnson6182
      @konajohnson6182 Год назад +12

      @@Psych2go we are just living our best lives and supporting one another. That’s my idea of a healthy relationship.

    • @mahdireza5695
      @mahdireza5695 Год назад +2

      Wow that's lovely! This is gonna sound so cheesy but I had a dream a while ago that I was baking sweet treats in the kitchen with a person I've crushed on before. I would love to make that a reality! I mean dreams can come true right? Ideally it would be around Christmas. Also I think I'm mentally stable enough for a good relationship and love myself well!

    • @bratzxrose
      @bratzxrose Год назад +1

      Happy for you🫶🏼

  • @christopherparkin7162
    @christopherparkin7162 Год назад +12

    I think Ive been letting fear block me from starting a romantic relationship. I need to remember there is a difference between "having it together" and "headed in the right direction." I have this idea that I need to solve my issues/fix my broken parts before I date, but that is unreasonable. Its just easier to believe that than confront my fear

    • @jd6331
      @jd6331 5 месяцев назад +2

      That's true, no one is perfect and most of us are a work in progress. I really tried my hardest in my last relationship. I think my ex didn't realize how much effort relationships take, and he expected me and the relationship to be perfect or close to it... But the reality is there are going to be ups and downs throughout, and sometimes external stressors take a toll. I was willing to work through it, because I felt everything we were dealing with was fixable and the relationship was worth working on, but I guess he felt differently. At the moment, I know I'm definitely not ready to date... It's only been ~6 weeks. I'll probably need at least a few more months, maybe by summer. Who knows.... I'm looking for my life partner, but I have a lot of fear now.

  • @GoldMoonGuy
    @GoldMoonGuy Год назад +99

    Got 4 out of 5. I have learned a lot from the past and investing in both myself and my values. Only lack of interest in love hold me away from a new partner now.

    • @niaretta
      @niaretta Год назад +5

      Same. Makes me wonder if this ever changes. Don't want to miss out on anything.

    • @ziggapoopstainpixbee3859
      @ziggapoopstainpixbee3859 11 месяцев назад

      ACTUALLY SAME BRO EXEPT I GOT FIVE OUTA FIVE

  • @JoelDJohnson1986
    @JoelDJohnson1986 Год назад +37

    Dating is scary and exciting at the same time, but it is a sweet experience for you and your partner. ❤️ The first thing you need to do is to know and understand what you want in a romantic partner and secondly, show a lot of love to them, not just through words, but be playful, and just have a nice conversation with them to get to know them.

  • @flamegamer3424
    @flamegamer3424 Год назад +14

    After being rejected by girls so many times, I’ve took some time to reflect. I realized that I’m not ready for a relationship, but I don’t need to worry about it. Because I can take my time to work on myself and build up so I can be in the right mentality.

    • @potatobird52
      @potatobird52 Год назад +1

      right there with you bro
      just gotta keep your head down and better yourself, and maybe someday someone will notice and appreciate you

    • @Skibiddy___Scooter
      @Skibiddy___Scooter 29 дней назад

      No dude you have to actually try.

  • @intercept9510
    @intercept9510 Год назад +41

    I got 0/5 so yeah, I don't think I'm ready for a new relationship. This video was still great, and it has given me more confidence in my assessment of myself. So thank you! And keep doing what you are doing!

  • @asexualpanic_
    @asexualpanic_ Год назад +8

    "Lack of self-awareness is what causes a lot of relationships to end." This. Please learn as much as you can about yourselves. It'll help you so much in the long run. That being said, maybe it's time I let the walls down a little and venture out again..Thanks Pscyh2Go. :3

  • @Masonason5520
    @Masonason5520 Год назад +10

    I can honestly say I relate to pretty much all of these. Over the past year, I have really made progress in my life and I don't feel as lost as I once did. I think I've really grown as a person and I think I might be ready to take on dating.
    Although dating has always been a scary thought for me because I've always been quiet and reserved and never let anyone get that close to me. But I've learned to become more open with the people around me and express myself to the fullest. Who knows? Maybe one day I will meet someone and I hope everyone here does too ✌️

  • @BigFlusteredMess
    @BigFlusteredMess Год назад +335

    I wanna date but nobody loves me

    • @DizzyCaret
      @DizzyCaret Год назад +35

      Relatable 😅

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +153

      We love you! 😭

    • @sof83011
      @sof83011 Год назад +11

      Fr 🥲

    • @yjut-xm8rx
      @yjut-xm8rx Год назад +36

      In due time pieces will aline and fall into their place. "Your world's not falling apart, it's falling into place."
      I have hope love will find its way to you. Who knows maybe it already has and you just don't know it!

    • @realdescubre
      @realdescubre Год назад +4

      ​@@Psych2gofr fr?

  • @Jadyn..S
    @Jadyn..S Год назад +27

    I needed this, I always get into relationships thinking I'm ready, but I never am, ty for this ❤️

  • @normalperson9946
    @normalperson9946 Год назад +27

    I was trying to exist normally and then this pops up 😭💀

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +7

      You can start dating and still exist normally! 😭

    • @normalperson9946
      @normalperson9946 Год назад +6

      @@Psych2go Can’t even exist without Psych2go reading yo thoughts ☠️

    • @DasHeino2010
      @DasHeino2010 Год назад +2

      ​@@Psych2gobut I feel so wierd. Existance is ...

  • @GaryGeat28
    @GaryGeat28 Год назад +63

    This video came at a good time as I have been thinking about pursuing a relationship again. I feel like enough time has passed since my last relationship ended.

    • @matijastefanek6083
      @matijastefanek6083 Год назад +3

      @GrayGeat28 Great! I hope you many successes!

    • @violetraven9440
      @violetraven9440 Год назад

      same my last one was awful so i learned a lot from it and finally feel ready i just need to find the right person though

    • @matijastefanek6083
      @matijastefanek6083 Год назад

      @@violetraven9440 Great! I hope you succeed in finding someone.

    • @itzz_somaxX
      @itzz_somaxX Год назад

      ohh, me too

  • @Tejas05
    @Tejas05 Год назад +11

    The 6th sign : You’ve found someone who is actually available to date

  • @linuxducky
    @linuxducky Год назад +70

    I always find it weird when people congratulate someone for having a partner, like it's not an achievement, it reinforces that having a partner is something we need or need to 'achieve'.

    • @frog6054
      @frog6054 Год назад +5

      But sadly we live in that kind of society (I know this sounds like a meme LOL)
      People in my country would literally bully adults for not having children.

    • @aphreyy
      @aphreyy Год назад +2

      ​@@frog6054which country was it ?

    • @frog6054
      @frog6054 Год назад +2

      @@aphreyy
      Malaysia

    • @nixelyte4136
      @nixelyte4136 Год назад +10

      hmm maybe rather than thinking that way, maybe they're just congratulating the other person for something happy that happened in their life? like happy moments are meant to be celebrated and congratulated? though I get what OP was trying to say

    • @fhantom2115
      @fhantom2115 Год назад +5

      Congratulations doesn't have to be just for achievements right? I think it's fine to congratulate when someone enters into a new relationship because it could be a major milestone in their life, the person they're with now could potentially be their life partner so I don't think congratulations is weird.

  • @DakshSrivastava101
    @DakshSrivastava101 Год назад +5

    I know I'm ready to date, but there is no one who wants go out on a date.

  • @robert2german
    @robert2german Год назад +3

    I honestly never dated, and the most I had were high-school and college crushes that I never took any further.

    • @christopherparkin7162
      @christopherparkin7162 Год назад

      Same. Ive had one brief relationship, but it wasnt one I would have chosen if she hadnt been... insistent. Needless to say, it didnt last long. Other than that, just crushes I let my fear second guess myself into ineptitude.

  • @LTono-iu9mg
    @LTono-iu9mg Год назад +15

    In this time of my life, this is your most relatable video I've seen so far! I'm looking forward to starting a relationship and I feel ready for it. Always keeping an eye out for new opportunities!
    Thank you

  • @genere5183
    @genere5183 Год назад +2

    It's a leap of faith. You'll never know when u will be ready.

  • @ExilesRevenge
    @ExilesRevenge Год назад +9

    Why is your voice so calming

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +5

      Amanda's voice has that effect on people 🤭🤭

  • @TeflonSoul
    @TeflonSoul Год назад +2

    Now for the difficult part: finding an eligible person who I actually connect with

  • @melodium10
    @melodium10 Год назад +3

    So no one's gonna talk about the cute and beautiful animation, Naphia did a great job!!!

  • @RealityBricksStudios66
    @RealityBricksStudios66 Год назад +2

    I sat down on my bed, ready to sleep, saw my iPad get a notification and saw it’s a new vid. All 5 match up with me, I didn’t know if I was fully ready to date but I just watched the vid and feel more ready to date. Can’t believe all 5 match up with me lol

  • @sparklingdiamondkiwis4390
    @sparklingdiamondkiwis4390 Год назад +5

    Honestly, I come to this for advice more than my therapist. Thank youuu ❤

  • @chadashley2026
    @chadashley2026 Год назад +2

    I have been single for 2 years and dating still is scary. Its crazy how long it takes to recover from your past.

  • @nezbs5407
    @nezbs5407 Год назад +8

    Yea I relate to all of them but I still think am not ready yet to start another relationship ,all I need to do now is to continue to love myself and learn from the past
    Thanks the vid really helped me to see that I am making progress ❤

  • @Scorchard
    @Scorchard 4 месяца назад +1

    I believe I'm almost ready to start dating, I have most of the signs down quite well, and am currently exploring ways to take better care and spend more time on myself. the only one I haven't fully gotten through is getting over the previous relationship, she is a close friend of mine now, which is why I think it's harder to get over, but I'm slowing moving towards being through it.

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 4 месяца назад

    Self care is the one that helps me as well as learning from the past because you gotta check yourself

  • @joshtheviolinist
    @joshtheviolinist Год назад +1

    I just want to say thank you to you guys. I was watching these videos because i had a crush on this girl and i didnt really know what to do. Next thing i know, we've been dating for a few months now. Time really does fly by...

  • @Rage_n_Romance
    @Rage_n_Romance Год назад +1

    Recently, I realized its been a long time since I talk to someone new & its true. I’ve been putting in a lot of work for self care & self love, most of what I never prioritize whenever my head’s off the ground trying to tend to the needs of others; I really want somebody to make that time for me, to give me effort back & say the things to be considered or what I need to hear more then what I don’t receive vs what I tell myself with self affirmations. I’m 29, I’ve never dated before, so this is still an uncharted world I haven’t personally discovered on my own yet, other than the feelings & emotions that orbit around two strangers. I’ve been working on having a healthier outlook vs just looking at what it is for what it is & its been showing back to myself someway positively. In terms of dating however, idk. I want a relationship so bad, but I get so frustrated when I can’t decide for myself to wait or go for it, (it’s agony when your friends tell you the one or the other), I’ve just continued to be patient all this time.

  • @fresh.prince7472
    @fresh.prince7472 Год назад +1

    I'm not opposed to dating again but ive been hurt so i guard my heart very carefully right now

  • @jjbotha8218
    @jjbotha8218 Год назад +1

    The genuine curiosity part with mutual knowledge and emotional intimacy rings true for me. The problem is that some people get so smitten after the first few dates and say that they love you even if they don't genuinely know you.

  • @TheSoundofTanay
    @TheSoundofTanay Год назад +1

    I recently sang/played guitar at my college. Few days later, someone told me there’s ‘someone’ who found it quite nice and wanted to get to know me.
    I discovered she’s this gorgeous lady from another class and decided we should meet. She got me flowers when we met (I couldn’t stop blushing). We talked about a lot of things and I feel we connected on some level.
    No clue where it’ll go, but certainly starting to feel that I might be ready to date again.

  • @meagan0609
    @meagan0609 Год назад +2

    Im gonna be honest this channel is legit making me cry all the time

  • @iwove
    @iwove Год назад +18

    I love this channel, it has helped me a lot

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +5

      We're so glad our channel has been helpful for you. What type of content is the most helpful in your opinion?

    • @PlopDeggy
      @PlopDeggy Год назад

      ⁠@@Psych2golove stuff.

  • @matchan3962
    @matchan3962 Год назад +2

    This video comes at the right time. I never had a relationship but was thinking on starting. Got 3/5, sadly I didn't overcome my past (yet;) and accepting everyone is not perfect. Everyone has flaws.

  • @justanordinaryreddeadlover9695
    @justanordinaryreddeadlover9695 Год назад +1

    That thumbnail is GORGEOUS

  • @Crazy_Beep
    @Crazy_Beep Год назад +1

    I was in a relationship with someone once and I think they still want me back. I don’t want to get back withe them. They were a pretty toxic person and made it so I didn’t feel comfortable telling them the truth, they would often push my buttons and get in my personal space when I clearly didn’t want them too, after we broke we were still friends but they would still touch me too much for my personal boundaries, they would constantly sit laying against me and I would very clearly not like it, (get stiff, lean away, stop talking, etc.) and they will always ask me like what triggers me and what I don’t like but everything I don’t like is stuff they do like, be annoying, touch all of my stuff without asking, come over and eat our food without asking, being overly touchy (not in an emotional way), wandering off without me there, (at my house, which gives me a lot of anxiety to what they could be doing.), constantly asking me to call when I really don’t like calling which I’ve tried to make clear but I have a really hard time telling people how I feel, and in public get really desperate for attention (like so we’re kinda the ‘weird’ kids and people will constantly bark at us and call us names and they’ll just be rude to them and start arguments that could be avoided if we just walked away.).

  • @GabeGoesHard
    @GabeGoesHard Год назад +5

    Let us singles cry together 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @kaiwhite1886
    @kaiwhite1886 Год назад +4

    I can now officially, and proudly say that i am ready to date

  • @thelastdaybreathinginetern1385
    @thelastdaybreathinginetern1385 Год назад +6

    I'm 28.. I'm a feminine neutral gay goth and Metalhead guy, I have never dated or been in a relationship... I assume it's because I'm Goth and a Metalhead. I've been a fan of both subcultures for 15 years, I'm not willing to change who I am for some random person, or anyone just so that they will like me.. no can do... I love who I am, I know that I'm a nice, caring, and creative soul who loves nature, painting, drawing, creating music and going to college.. I know that I just want to have friends, or even date, but people see me as a monster, I barely get compliments, many people in my lifetime have said I'm very cute and handsome and I'm a "petite" 5'5 guy... I don't know why I'm not in a relationship, but I do think personally that personality is more impressive and important primarily before looks... I just think that people have high standards for physical appearance and attractiveness.. and sometimes unreasonable ones too... there's a guy who likes me, and likes that I'm feminine, he keeps calling me cute, adorable and beautifully handsome, but my low self esteem won't let me see it because I'm so use to others hating me wherever I go... I've actually told myself to just give up on the thought of finding someone who likes me for me or in general for that matter.. so now if someone does hit on me, I don't feel anything emotionally... I'm just like 🤷‍♂️.. (ok)

  • @KopyErr
    @KopyErr Год назад +1

    I don't want a relationship, I just want a group of friends to muck around with
    And to build upon myself so I feel I have a stable footing of who I am

  • @AtkataffTheAlpha
    @AtkataffTheAlpha 8 месяцев назад +1

    I will say this, some people do not know what that did wrong when they have trouble dating cause to them, they don't see it right away either from brain not processing or from no clear instant answers. Those types of people need an eye-opener by someone explaining what they did wrong so they can learn from it and apologize correctly knowing what mistakes they did.
    I know, it seems unnecessary to tell them and you don't know if they'll brush it off or not even acknowledge your words but some people generally do struggle with finding out what they keep doing wrong so they apologize but don't know what they are apologising for therefore they may not learn and make the same mistakes again not knowing. There's fast-thinkers, neutral thinkers, and then there's the slow processing. The slower may need an eye-opener from a friend or from the partner so they learn.
    I hope I've made anyone aware of this and will openly tell someone who keeps making the same mistakes during friendships and partners to open their eyes directly.
    The power of context vs no context of things.

  • @potterinhe11
    @potterinhe11 Год назад +2

    Three of these things relate to having dated in the past, which I haven't, thanks for the reminder.

  • @CoffeeLaMation
    @CoffeeLaMation Год назад +1

    I've Always Been thinking of either Being in a Relationship or Not, Considering I don't except love or Loving Myself that much.
    I Wasn't sure if I was Ready until I Met a Special Someone!
    It Was Starting off with Flirting Feelings until We Spread Our True Loving Feelings towards each Other and as We Continued and Bonding Together, Eventually We Fall in Love and are Ready to be in a Relationship Together!
    All Points in the video is True:
    Getting to Know the Person and Before Being in a Relationship with Them, Try to Talk things out Firstly if The Person wants to and If they Do, They're also Ready to be in a Relationship with You!
    To those who are in a Relationship, Please Take Care and Hopefully Y'all have a Long, Healthy Relationship till the End!!

  • @user-cybercube1417
    @user-cybercube1417 Год назад +13

    I hope my third relationship is fine, and I hope its ok

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +6

      If you don't mind my asking, how were your first two relationships?

    • @user-cybercube1417
      @user-cybercube1417 Год назад +2

      @@Psych2go not really well my first girlfriend got jelous after see me being more fun with my other friend while I was already being giving her more attention
      My second girlfriend are not really well either because we both are always fighting each other because a small problem, she always say her problem to me and make it like hard
      so yeah I'm broke up with both of them and now I just got my third Girlfriend and I hope it will be well

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +4

      I see.. Thanks for sharing with us. Relationships are never easy but I hope that your third relationship will be more stable and that you'll be happier... It may take a lot of effort but I hope you make it work! :)

    • @user-cybercube1417
      @user-cybercube1417 Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go thx you help a lot

  • @tomascrosson7111
    @tomascrosson7111 Год назад +2

    Great Video as always. If possible, I would love for you guys to make a video about trying to differentiate between going through puberty and legitimately having anxiety or depression.

  • @eljaminlatour6633
    @eljaminlatour6633 Год назад +1

    Good thing, a fresh start is easy for me.

  • @Random29000
    @Random29000 Год назад +4

    The video I’ve been waiting for for forever

  • @danavixen6274
    @danavixen6274 Год назад +2

    My. My. This reflects a current moment in my life.

  • @ViCkYfOrReAl15
    @ViCkYfOrReAl15 Год назад

    I was thinking about this just today…. It took 3 years to move on from the past relationship and I’ve finally had a crush on someone. Although “your crush probably has a crush on you” videos won’t match with what’s going on, this was relatable and now I know that I’m probably ready for this. Thank you!!

  • @YourNickIsTaken
    @YourNickIsTaken 11 месяцев назад

    I had enough from relationships. Never again. Tough my left hand is kinda cute and makes wonderful waffles in the morning, and cleans up, and presses the F key for me every time.

  • @rukiastopfan
    @rukiastopfan Год назад +1

    I think, after years, I'm ready to try again guys.

  • @K3NN3DY_101
    @K3NN3DY_101 Год назад +1

    I'm never gonna be in a relationship fr fr
    Cause of how I look and my quietness. And honestly, I'm having a hard time questioning and I don't seem to be interested in relationships anyways. Happy for those who are happy with their loved one though ❤

  • @DaveAp7
    @DaveAp7 Год назад +1

    I guess I’m not ready. Thank you for saving me the time!! I appreciate it!

  • @bigpurplegrape6916
    @bigpurplegrape6916 Год назад

    I’m not religious or anything, but I think it’s funny how the universe gave me this video as soon as I started my first relationship in 3-4 years. I have gone through an insane amount in the last 3-4 years as well, and I finally have arrived at tranquility. It’s been such a long journey. Little things like this remind me I’m making so much progress. The universe has a funny way of guiding you.

  • @sketchy8227
    @sketchy8227 Год назад

    I like to watch these guys not for like, help or anything, I just like the little guys they draw

  • @Beutimus
    @Beutimus Год назад +1

    I've never had a relationship, so I guess there isn't much baggage, unless we talk about the relationship with myself. That's been a tough one. 😅

  • @coryxk3nshinn191
    @coryxk3nshinn191 Год назад +5

    Crazy how one day I found you and fell in love after two videos

  • @yukihitoshi9827
    @yukihitoshi9827 Год назад +2

    I got I think like 2-3 out of 5. Since a few of them are about past relationships which I've never been in a single one. Hopefully one day! :)

  • @adonishomefitness
    @adonishomefitness Год назад

    add finicancial stability especially for men. many of your dates will be coming out of YOUR pocket, so keep in mind you have to pay to be loved.

  • @sarvaepc
    @sarvaepc Год назад

    Ready for a fresh start
    Ready for romantic excitement
    Being honest about how you can make stuff better
    Knowing your needs

  • @bilgeakaln6335
    @bilgeakaln6335 Год назад

    I really want to take the psych2go’s sudden peek at the “love content” videos as a sign from the universe
    So help me out here universe

  • @Austin_Dale
    @Austin_Dale Год назад

    Everyone tells me I’m ready, and I believe that for the most part. Unfortunately, it takes two to tango.

  • @cervvix
    @cervvix Год назад +1

    honestly i don’t need to date, i want to date.
    but i know i’m not ready to date, because i would only give it a go. as in i probably wouldn’t actually like the person, i’d just be in the relationship because i’m bored.
    and if that was me, i’d feel terrible if i loved someone and they only got with me because there bored. so i’m not ready to date. i wont do that to someone just because i’m bored.

    • @RainaWilkins
      @RainaWilkins Год назад +1

      I feel like i did that once without realizing it till later

  • @Sip_ley
    @Sip_ley Год назад

    As I'm recently out of a break up from a long term relationship I know I'm not ready just yet. But still I can learn from watching this, knowing I'll find my way somehow. Maybe in a few months I'll feel more ready.

  • @thelegendarypancakee
    @thelegendarypancakee Год назад +2

    Not sure if anyone'll see this (and to some this may sound weird cause I don't think this is relatable at all but I could be wrong lol), but: I'm confident Im ready to date people/people of my preference, BUT: I've only ever been liked and approached by those of the same race as me (I'm 18 and black if that matters). Not once my whole life have I been an interest to anyone outside of my own party, and its VERY downgrading and, at times, humiliating.
    I've started to begin thinking I can only bag guys who are my ethnicity, and thats all im ever gonna get. The video helped me out with the past part, but I realize I've done that already, and that the block in front of me is quite different than what i assumed needed to be worked on before trying to date.
    I'm not sure if this can become a video of its own, and even if it can't, I'd just really like to have tips or something to make me feel as if I can still move forward despite this being my only interaction 😞. Thanks for reading.

  • @SuperSaiyanMaster2024
    @SuperSaiyanMaster2024 Год назад +1

    I believe I'm ready. Been single for 8 years now.

  • @CoreyANeal2000
    @CoreyANeal2000 Год назад +6

    Good things to know is there's a difference between relationship problems and monetary making you incapable of continuing a relationship. If you see yourself as the problem instead of the of money making it so your not able to fulfill the needs of a relationship.
    For example if you had money everything about that relationship would have went well. Than you as a person are not the problem.

  • @Blithe979
    @Blithe979 13 дней назад +1

    I like him very much , he even proposed me and i accepted it . But being an indian especially with strict parents .. i cant say if i have taken a good decition or not ..
    The taught of my parents is scaring me..but he loves me😩

  • @PoHeisenberg
    @PoHeisenberg Год назад

    your voice is aall the melody i need in this life

  • @CrAZychicke
    @CrAZychicke Год назад +1

    This was so helpful, thank you. I haven't dated anyone for 20 years, currently working on myself and working through anxiety and depression so not ready to dive in yet, but am curious.

  • @user-bu7dp8zd1d
    @user-bu7dp8zd1d Месяц назад

    Ya there ain't no doubt. The thing is I got my eye on someone right..
    You ain't going anywhere girl but right here..ya hear me 😊..

  • @agon-eery
    @agon-eery 5 месяцев назад

    i knew i was ready to date her when i couldn’t wait to talk to her and learn about her, even if that meant delaying a sexual relationship for a deeper connection

  • @madhumady4828
    @madhumady4828 Год назад

    Thanks, i just confirmed that i am not ready for a relationship. Before i thought i was overthinking.

  • @Lorddominion
    @Lorddominion Год назад +3

    I am in a country where the majority of women I've met are extroverts while I am extremely introverted.
    So yeah, my problem is not finding someone. That is easy. I get plenty of attention somehow. But more finding someone who understands that I am an introvert. And doesn't force me to go out when I need time to recharge and tries to force me to social when I don't feel like socialising. I can be really social when I am recharged and feel like socialising.
    So yeah, I stopped dating like 6 years ago after a toxic relationship and I am happy being single most of the time. Sometimes I miss having a girlfriend but most of the time I am pretty happy.
    I've been considering dating again lately but not sure if I will. Hope I can find someone like me or someone who understands how someone how is open to dating an introvert and underatands the workings of someone who is an introvert 😊

  • @user-vb9wg7yl1s
    @user-vb9wg7yl1s Год назад

    New vid idea “reasons you always get chills down your spine “

  • @RainaWilkins
    @RainaWilkins Год назад

    By this information I should wait till I gave overcome my depression and not expect the person I date to help me with my depression.

  • @danielsac6316
    @danielsac6316 Год назад +1

    Conclusion: yeah, those might not be the best times to be a 26-year-old, autistic man who has generalised anxiety disorder and dysthymia, has always craved for intimacy but has never had a romantic relationship in the past and is only half ready, according to this video, since I can't help but keep being so in love (for five years) with the same friend that almost two years ago told me she was not into me. Am I right?
    😞

  • @CATASTRONAUT-vr8cj
    @CATASTRONAUT-vr8cj Год назад

    I don't think I am ready yet and i am scared to be single. Good luck for all the singles. :3

  • @junglebull2635
    @junglebull2635 Год назад +1

    I still respect my ex and my past but I’ve learned from then and don’t regret the relationship or breaking up with her, I love her but not in that way anymore

  • @xCCflierx
    @xCCflierx Год назад +1

    What if i just want friends? I know dating is too much for me right now, but would love to have more friends so im not as lonesome

  • @twistedfellow7041
    @twistedfellow7041 Год назад

    Resonated with the things here, but I know my dating chances won't improve. The things that are "red flags" about me won't change. So, that's that. Which is fine. I knew this before hand. I just enjoyed learning more on this subject. Thanks for the info psych2go.

  • @sammythestrawberryofficial
    @sammythestrawberryofficial Год назад

    The fact that this video popped up, a day after I start talking to this guy that told me he has had a crush on me for a while and we got each-other’s phone numbers and now we have just been talking occasionally, THE FACT THAT THIS VIDEO WAS SO PERFECTLY TIMED- (I met him 2 days ago) help- WHAT

    • @Sentient-potato
      @Sentient-potato Год назад

      As someone who a demiromantic and Demisexual… that seems too fast for it to not just be the plot of frozen. (I have no experience)

    • @sammythestrawberryofficial
      @sammythestrawberryofficial Год назад +1

      @@Sentient-potato I’ve dated before, I was cheated on 2021 of September and I’m finally ready to start dating again and I related to literally all of these things😭 I mean me and this guy are just some high school kids so what do we really know about dating🤷🏻‍♀️ but he asked me so I assume he is ready to date since he has been having a crush on me for a while, and I have been ready to date for a while too so it seems like a perfect time, if it doesn’t work out, the it won’t. But if it does, then that’s great👍

  • @8_bug094
    @8_bug094 Год назад

    One thing I'm gonna accept I don't like when people who are really really close to me change..

  • @michaelawilliams6127
    @michaelawilliams6127 Год назад +1

    1:05 Me who's been single my whole life👀:
    I See this as an absolutely win😊

  • @genetic2202
    @genetic2202 Год назад

    I’ve always wanted to date somebody, but being single for the entirety of highschool has allowed me to realise that I’m not who I want to be, and I need to work on myself before getting out there. When I think about it I always ask myself: “Could I see myself in a relationship in this current moment?” If the answer’s no then I’ve gotta keep pushing, or I could be completely delusional and just be an unlovable person😭

    • @christopherparkin7162
      @christopherparkin7162 Год назад

      Im glad youve decided to work on yourself! we all have broken parts, but sharing those broken parts can bring healing! God bless you!

  • @lilybrickton
    @lilybrickton Год назад

    Hey! I really wanted to say thank you for posting these videos. You really made it easy for me to find out who I am, and just help me in general just a big thank you for helping everyone. Thank you *virtual hugs*

  • @pinkroses135
    @pinkroses135 2 дня назад

    Unpopular opinion: No one is perfect (obviously 🙄) but if you can't regulate your own emotions, respect boundaries, have your stuff sorted out in your other interpersonal relationships so that it doesn't cause problems for your romantic relationship, feed yourself right, have a job/income/hobby/school etc just generally having your shit together for your own self you don't need to be dating.

  • @kiwiwooq
    @kiwiwooq Год назад +2

    5/5😭
    I made it y’all and it only took 3 years lol

  • @zuhachan
    @zuhachan 7 месяцев назад

    i check all the boxes 5/5. i'm ready 😭😭🥺

  • @rennysartst
    @rennysartst Год назад +2

    I'm not sure if I'm ready since I'm always hesitant to open up to others. I've never been in a relationship, and I never had a crush on anyone.
    Many guys asked me out and I rejected them. But I accepted one of them because I wondered if with time I would feel something. But can't say we were really dating, it didn't feel like a romantic relationship, I didn't feel comfortable.

    • @mmaaaaaxxx
      @mmaaaaaxxx Год назад

      I feel this so much. I've honestly never understood crushes and how it feels to have a crush. Every time that I get into a relationship (which isn't many tbh) it never feels right and then it just ends before anything happens.
      Maybe it's just difficult finding the people right for you...

    • @baronvonlimbourgh1716
      @baronvonlimbourgh1716 Год назад

      Being in a relationship isn't some obligation or something that must be a goal.
      Stop worying about it is the best thing i ever did. Time and energy is better spent on other things.
      If/when those feelings change you can start pick it up from there.

    • @brett4379
      @brett4379 11 месяцев назад

      Maybe you're aromantic?

  • @JUUST_.b0red
    @JUUST_.b0red Год назад +11

    Early matured 10 year old me though 9 years ago said “I know my first kiss will be a girl, all men are too picky!”😊

  • @drewpocernich2540
    @drewpocernich2540 Год назад

    I don’t know. I’ve been single for so long that I don’t know where I’m at in terms of my emotional maturity.

  • @bilgeakaln6335
    @bilgeakaln6335 Год назад

    Genuine curiosity is a very valid point

  • @Random.732
    @Random.732 Год назад

    is this ASMR? is this ASMR?
    her voice is so peaceful