It's very Sad to listen to all the True Harsh incidents, but it is the fact and a bitter truth that this is the situation right now in India ! +/- outside also ! Solution of this at Individual level is that as Anuj Rightly said , we should not be the one doing such toxic behaviour, we shouldn't pass this and we should raise a voice if it's wrong ! Respect is to be gained, respect each other , atleast respect your colleagues ! Keep everything aside , Respect atleast Human ! Humanity toh basic haina ! And i always say Collaboration>>Completion, and Anuj always says "We are in this Together!" , The point is stand with each other , stand with what is right ! Let's bring the change ! We can change it ! We are in this together, Right Anuj ! ✨
@@hillboy246 bhaiya , after seeing this toxicity happening do u regret becoming a doctor ? or taking up this course ? like even after knowing this toxicity, do u wish that u could go back in time and change /opt another field?
@@Kiara-nv8re broh/ sis that's not the only thing, you can also see the positive sides of a doctor. In my opinion it still worth it yet isn't better than enginnering with CS.
@@hillboy246 it's better my brother is computer engineer from iit but he is also saying all the toxicity happening in his work place every profession has pros and cons
@@twinklejha2363 yeah things can be vary from place to place and that's my opinion bro..at the end every carrier have pros and cons that's doesn't mean that we should quite.
Use your logic. There should be some reason why the system is like this despite of all doctors being reasonably intelligent people. Regarding the residency I mean.
I worked as a DNB resident in a corporate hospital in hyderabad. Suddenly, the management changed and our previous HOD left the hospital. The person that later became the HOD was now drunk with power. He used to abuse me day and night. Used to blame everything that went wrong on the residents. Threatened me that he would write to the national board about my behaviour and would cancel my course. Complained to the management that I was out of line because I informed my unit head about my leave instead of the HOD. I cried multiple times in the hospital. Cried in the ICU.. in the wards.. spent sleepless nights out of the fear that the course I worked so hard for would be taken away from me.. and for no legitimate reason. There should be an easier access to higher authorities regarding complains and help.. somewhere where there is no threatening.
Hello doctor I know you’re facing immense pressure and challenges right now, and it can feel overwhelming. Remember, your dedication and hard work have made a real difference in the lives of many. If you feel that a change of environment could lead to a better life, don’t hesitate to explore new opportunities. Be strong, and know that you deserve a place where you can thrive and continue your important work without fear. Take care of yourself, and remember that brighter days are ahead. Feel free to adjust it as needed!
@@anonymousj6406 that's not how it works even if one batch resisted the super sr. Will do(rag) it by themselves and jr. Will become toxic eventually. Then They will keep up trend!!
Great analysis Anuj! ❤️ Just want to tell students that PG degree is very necessary in this era so don't get demotivated to take it but it must not be toxic and the students are the ones who have to bring this change! It might take few years but the start will be from today! Let's start it together! 🌟
Yes sir ..... Reality h face to krna pdega ase weak to nhi ho sakte problems bhout h pta h h .. Pr solution to ek hi h ... Tha start will be from today !. Let's start together ❤....
Let's all take oath guys. We say NO to ragging no matter whether it's college or school. Schools are no different from what's happening in colleges. Tbh, schools are the first place where bully and it develop to trauma and we all joke by calling them stop being an introvert. My friend suffered the same but his mom be like " you're an introvert. That's the problem". Like she not even tried to care of it. Guys don't just pass neet and board and directly enter a college. In between the duration, develop self-respect and try your possible limit to speak out. Develop your physique and mental health. And if you're forced by parents to pick a course, remember you will regret it for the rest of your life. So Speak up and speak now wherever it is necessary. And till death, the oath is an oath. 🤞
You are right about bullying starting from the school level cause that's what I faced. In class seven which was literally my puberty/adolescent period, I was bullied by people I though were my best friends . It was so severe I tried self-harm multiple times and this also led me to develop chronic anxiety disorder which I have to bear with for the rest of my life .
I'm in my 3rd year and has opposed ragging culture since my first year. I've seen my classmates getting beaten up, shamed and ridiculed for sadistic pleasure of our seniors. And now I see the same classmates doing the same to our juniors without any shame. Somehow I escaped ragging in first year, but I know how it is to be bullied as I ve been bullied badly before and is scarred for life. The truth is the administration enjoys this primitive practice, teachers laugh and walk away while somebody who entered the college with dreamy eyes has her dreams shattered with tears and reality. The professors bully senior students, they bully their juniors, dumb juniors grow up to do the same - vicious cycle of toxicity
@@Realsun0007 don't know about med college but i was in Central government hostel (boys and girls both) I'm a boy but heard that same thing happens with girls they are told to clean everything even the toilets and the floors regularly and seniors would just sit and order same thing in boys hostel but not the extreme cleaning part but yes I got slapped even hit in my back for a very small mistake of not telling the next person that my duty of filling senior's bottle is over tomorrow is yours and I was shocked that my classmates also said they're going to do the same but many were opposing it thankfully and I even made friends from my junior batch
Thank you so much for this video... Really courageous you are... These days, RUclipsrs are just showing rosy-rosy dreams of Medical College...But when reality hits....the problem starts... And yeah " i'm trying hard to become that kind of senior, the senior I always wanted when i was in 1st year" ❤️
Anuj bhaiya , after seeing this toxicity happening do u regret becoming a doctor ? or taking up this course? like even after knowing this toxicity, do u wish that u could go back in time and change /opt for another field?
@@ALCHEMISTaspirant because he want to be a dr .. when he is preparing for neet not him or any student knows this fact they just have seen one side which shown by their family friends that u earn respect money everything and at that age u think yes this is all i want .. I bet nobody will say i want to become dr one more time if he she get one more chance .. untill they want to become a dr from childhood and love and live to treat another human Cross my points I'm here
Medical students talk about bad behavior done by patients and their relatives, which is justified; but they should also work on their behavior with their juniors and people around them. I'm a medical student and I have heard from my own batchmates "Ab to hmare bhi juniors aanewale h, hm bhi ragging lenge." And I just feel like it's not necessary to continue this toxic cycle for ever, we can be the one to break it and start a healthy senior- junior relationship (like I had in my school years in hostel with my seniors)
I think mainly because they are super stressed I'm not a medical student I am studying business & management But I think our society is super obbsesed with becoming doctor and the stress of study is just alot my cousins are med. student I've seen their struggle with studies
@@khushi-4900what do you mean? They do ragging for releasing their stress that's called sadism. I can't believe how a doctor can do these stuff I mean they're the one who are supposed to aware people about health but they are doing opposite.
Most realistic video and dark facts of medical profession. When I was a JR1 I was told by my senior that " tumhari aukat toilet dhone ki hai , department me jhadu lagane ki hai " even to an extent that infront of my collegue she told " vo samne aai to uska gala daba dungi" these were the words of and MD pass out person which no one could believe, my husband took quick action and with the support of my family I was able to cope up with the situation after long duration of depression. Thoughts like leaving my MD seat were in my mind then . I was lucky enough to have moral support of my family bt I wonder what happens to others who are away and have to deal this alone . The most tough time is residency and this trend needs to be stopped . We need to be the change in this revolution
So, in the end, it all comes back to the most basic human qualities. Today, where studies, technicalities, jobs, money, are practically the ONLY things that matter, we've kind-of forgotten about being simply human. Qualities like kindness and positivity have been repressed, even lost to many. A shame, really.
What ever u spoke is 200% true... I am in 2nd yr MBBS , TOMCH, Bangalore I really loved studying from my school days ... I didn't know a thing about mbbs before experiencing it myself.. I was motivated by a doctor to choose this field.. everyone told doctors field is such a stable field .. once u join mbbs - life settle... these lies ...I feel they are really toxic... I am a first doctor in my family and I had really no idea about anything in mbbs... after entering mbbs reality kicked in ... the pressure, tension is so much .. and getting good marks like we used to get in schools is impossible... I went into depression... I felt it so much from inside that this is not for me .. but I can't quit ... even though mine is a govt seat .. its still a huge amount... and how will everyone look at my family if I quit... I was in soo bad depression... guilt was hurting my heart ... the number hours I cried were more than number of hours I studied... my whole personality changed after suffering depression .. I became a mobile addict ... I beg only one thing... please don't tell lies to the fresh innocent minds of pu students... tell them the harsh reality so that they can prepare from day 1... life will never be easy in any phase of life not after completing 10th not after pu not after degree not after masters .... never .... every phase has its own difficulty.... if u have passion to bare them then only take a step.... please don't be a frog in the well like me... coming out depression is the hardest .. coming out of addiction is more harder... u motivate ur self 100 times and fail 100 times.... guilt, not able to fit in, worthlessness is really horrible ... I have a request ... all the people which ever the field u r in please go back to your pu college and educate ur juniors... tell the pros and cons of ur own field... quiting and returning and restarting takes a lot... really a lot...
..m 3 sal se neet de rhi . Kafi depression me hu...m ye soch rhi ki GMC milne ke bad sb kuch acha ho jayega kya asa hoga??.vha v depression me rhna pdta h?????pls reply
Idk the words that will console u... but thanks for giving us a heads up... I hope u r doing better now... just remember one thing, whatever u r doing however u r doing. This is enough, u may better urself and that's good, but for right now u r enough and u may not be happy, happiness cannot be forced but there will come a day when all ur hardships were worth it. I'll pray for u and all those who are going through such a tough time. Again, thank u since I'm writing neet this yr and hope to get a good govt cllg in my city itself, after this video, I want to stay close to my loved ones after all.
Thank you anuj for not being routine youtuber who just shows glamorous side of medical field but speaking about the harsh reality..!! Residency is all about hierarchy, humiliation, disrespect, bitching, loss of mental health,threats, frustration ..... At the end of the day we shud all remember that there is nothing above humanity..!!!
After seeing the whole video still I want to become a doctor bcz I want to change all these things and I will definitely .. thanku very much Anuj Bhiya 🙂
Meet Patiwala,4th year MBBS student,BJMC Ahmedabad- "I feel i am stuck in life of just study for solving MCQs, i rarely acquire clinical skill after going to ward,its because residents are overburden and professor (forget about lecture) i rarely see them, One part of my brain want to study textbooks thoroughly while the other part want to solve mcq (from notes) ....the Confusion of Next/ Neet destroyed my 3rd and final year....Today i consider myself a skill less medical student hoping for some change in Internship... For now i am having doubt about whether i will be a good doctor , Will i able to provide treatmentsto patient after 1-2 year ?? I am hearing" nope" in my brain Lets hope i can transform myself in internship and focus more on becoming a doctor rather than a Ratta machine
Pardon me I’m not even remotely related to medical field but Try asking your seniors and professors (I hope they are not toxic or bossy or rude) and try contacting few professors online through LinkedIn etc to get actual field training and opinions if possible and please take care of yourself and your own mental and physical health.
This is the sad truth that I think everyone in this field has faced…. Even today I’m not confident enough to look into my seniors eyes and I’m a final year student… it’s just imprinted in my brain now..I hope more people think like us and become the senior they wanted… amazing video btw❤️
Long Post here. I have done my UG from Government medical college (RIMS) in karnataka. I stayed at hostel. In the beginning of first year, yes we were asked to address our seniors as Sir/Ma’am. We were not ragged - it was called an introduction 😂, where our seniors used to call us to their rooms, make us sing or dance or asked to some weird stuff. This went on for a month or two until our freshers day. I’m an introvert, would not easily socialise, Now, when I look back, I think this was a blessing in disguise. I made friends thru these introductions in my batch, and each of us in our batch knew what kind of people others were. We did stand together in tough times when our friends were bullied etc. this brings about a sense of connection, oneness among the batch. Later after the freshers party, our seniors were good to us. No unnecessary head down etc. We still addressed them as Sir/Ma’am. Remember, this was the time before Marrow, prep ladder took over medical education. By the end of 3 months, internals came, we were all clueless on how to go about this time. Again, these very Sirs & Ma’am’s provided us inputs on what to read and how to. This is how the bond got strong. Years passed, I cleared final year and entered Internship. DAMS and Bhatia had started coaching classes. Now time to get to business. We did not have PG trainees, and the whole hospital ran with the interns doing their job. I had to do continuous 24 hrs duties, alternate day in branches like surgery, medicine, paediatrics, obs gyn, orthopaedics etc. I never had time to prepare for PG entrance. I read about the cases that were getting admitted, and that is the way we learn. We see, we read, see again and then we understand. We had light postings too like Ophthal, PSM, Dermat etc. We used to get time for ourselves. We partied during those times. Hustle hard, party harder was the motto then. Anyways, Internship ended finally. Now, I m a clueless doctor. Toxicity was about to begin. I did not research various options after MBBS. I became a sheep in the herd to secure a PG seat. Some of my friends started to work at PHC’s. I joined Bhatia Institute for coaching of NEET PG at Bangalore. From then, my insecurities worsened, seeing all others just answering every damn question which wouldn’t fetch you an ounce of clinical judgement when you have to see a patient. But, I have to admit, I did get many concepts clear. But, the rat race took a toll on me. There were these grand tests, weekly tests, which shredded the confidence that I gained in Internship. It was systematically broken each and everyday. Long class hours, motivational talks etc, all to get a PG seat, which is a mirage created by these so called institutions telling that PG is the ultimate goal. I never scored good marks in those tests. The dreaded NEET PG exam date came. I gave the exam, I thought I would never make it. Probably, the universe had another plan for me. I got a rank and joined Anaesthesia in a Central institute. 3 years of difficulties again, I thought. Seniors and faculties were strict, long working hours. But all this for patient safety. Because at the end it’s you alone between your patient and the death which is ready to engulf them. I hate even small changes in my life, but if I had to this all over again, I would do it. After PG, I realised that everyone has their own pace in life. We can stay content by understanding what we want, than running along the direction of the herd. U can Stop, Breathe and do whatever you want until you know what you really want. By being just an MBBS doctor, u can make a decent living. It’s all up to you. Now, I have a group of friends who stood by me all thru these difficult times, we go on a trip every year, which we have made a thing. I look forward to keep this tradition of us. Being there for each other is the only way, but understanding what you want is the most important thing of all. Lastly, I hate to tell that, a few people who want to enter this difficult yet beautiful journey, are just focusing on gaining a PG seat from day one in medical college letting no space for new experiences. Not their mistake either. It’s failure of the Government, and the ability of these private coaching institutes to milk this situation, worsening the situation Now, as I see this video, I feel how lucky I m to have a different thought process all together. I have beautiful memories, where the patient I gave CPR survived and walked out of the hospital, and sad memories too. Life is a mixed bag isn’t it? It’s all not roses all the time but thorns too. It begins at the end of your comfort zone. Let us wake up to experience life as it is.
No. Not everyone can see this pointless life with "positivity and optimism". It is time for people of this country to stop procreating. Giving an 80-year-long life to someone, especially in this country, is unethical.
@@abhisheksing8379 I ve just explained what I ve been thru. I don't expect anyone to go thru the same either. Also, I questioned myself why I opted for medicine, everytime I was in trouble, or stressed or even when I was happy till the last day of my PG and even now sometimes. So, most of us cant be positive always. This video is Anuj's view on Medical education, let alone, it will not be same for others. Knowing what u are getting into before hand is good. But, its necessary not to run away from challenges, just becoz someone else found it difficult. U can create a better tomorrow by joining and bringing a change in the system. And, moreover humans are inherently optimistic, and if one is not, he/she cannot survive in any other field too.
Guys who are saying that they got demotivated, just sit and think if you enter a Medical College with lots of hopes that this journey is going to be beautiful and suddenly you see your hopes are getting shattered it breaks your mental stability If you enter a medical college knowing that it going to be tough you are prepared for that. you will have some mental stability to face it He is going through that journey and letting us know how it feels and how it is going to be Just understand things and be thankful to him
That eye to eye contact thing is so true , happened with me too, but I never followed it , because it's not the way of gaining respect or giving respect ,to me it's slavery . I tried to being little friendly and helpful whenever my seniors wanted me to , and after that a bond is created between me and them. Sometimes seniors just want to control you so that juniors will not become trouble for them but there are many ways to do that instead of doing ragging 🤬 or harsh intros. It will permanently make some one to lose their self esteem and confidence that will never be restored . I opposed every wrong decisions of my seniors regarding us but in a friendly way or indirectly that they would also not get hurt of that, but used to follow their right orders which will benifit us and all. In short tackle the situation in such a way that the problem get neutralised and non toxic for everyone.
I am a 4th year mbbs student in govt medical college, on my freshers day I was force by my seniors to bow down on my knees just like a dog and eat a whole samosa kept on the floor without using my hand. It’s been 4 years now but that day will always remain as a trauma to my self respect and it depress me every time whenever I think about my experience in med school 😢
can u tell me cities like patna usme koi bond ni show ho rha like 4.5 yrs mbbs ke baad internship krne rhete h na toh fir hee jakr milegi degree woh ni h .. Toh kya yeh sach h ki yeh state wise differ krta h ya sbko krna hota h Aur bond aur intership ek hee chijj hoti h na
@@RajKumar-ib7mwNo bond and internship is not the same, you need to serve the bond after completion of your 5.5 years of MBBS degree which is of 4.5yr + 1year of compulsory internship...
@@ABAddonfromHeLL See my freind sometime you just don't know what is going to happen u cant beat 4 5 grown men this is real life not a movie .. and if u say something to defend u get more bullied and if u try to be oversmart than may be they take on their ego and might bully u everyday my freind this is a hell place u can't do anything if u do fight may be u get tc by College and if not tc then might that seniors break your body parts or even worse ..
I study Medicine abroad and We talk to our seniors like they r our friends. They guide and support us without anything in return. Sad to see that it's not like that in India. But when we know there is a problem then there is always a solution.
I am currently a 2nd yr mbbs student at Government Medical College Bhavnagar. The culture here is so good that there is nothing like ragging ! Yes, Absolutely 0 ragging. So glad to have a college like this. The efforts our seniors made in past is being appreciated by all the junior batches after knowing about culture in different colleges.
This is exactly why I refused to do PG in India !! Heck I even went in tears to my Dean during internship begging her to take my degree back and to just let me go back home!! Ten years later and I still get flashbacks of all this !! I don’t know how I got through it !!
Our medical profession especially seniors(including me to some extent for my junior) fail to teach the life lesson…that we are human being and not machine & we glorify overworking culture. Sleepless night and tireless working is promoted as WORKOHOLIC & praised by the faculty. These toxic workoholic type of working hours are set as standards for others. When junior becomes senior he follows the exact footsteps of his seniors and vicious cycle keeps on repeating. Every damn person forgets what he suffered from when he or she was junior. Anuj you rightly said that EGO RISE TO THE EXTENT THAT OUR FACULTY & SENIORS ITSELF FORGET THAT THEY ARE FROM THE SAME PLANET. And yes Depression is taboo even in medical field that many people doesn’t seek for help.
I’m a first year BDS student , I’m in pvt college i can understand the pain of fee and also there extra charges and sometimes they don’t even listen to u and ur problems just because u r not paying them the money they want and that senior juniors toxicity like“ WE ARE YOUR SENIORS DON’T TALK WITH US BY MAKING EYE CONTACT “ that literally happened with my batchmate. But she refused to do so and they threatened her like we’ll do this, we will do that , but luckily there was some pg students and they saw that and scolded the toxic ones . Well all I want to say is not everyone is good and not everyone is bad there are some seniors who genuinely help us a lot and I really respect them .
I am an aspiring Neet student. When in the beginning you said it can change your silver lining of medicine I was about to leave the video. But then realised I must atleast know what I am getting into. But I don't think this changed anything for me or my dream's of becoming one of the greatest Doctor of All Times but what changed in me is that... When I become a senior in my medical College I would not allow my juniors to go through this kind of ragging and harassment.... That's a promise... Because after all we are the upcoming generation and it will be our actions which will bring Reforms in Medical field...
@neutrino the roamer in Quran its says if you kill one person you kill whole humanity and if you save one person you save whole humanity, guess which field is best for saving a human life. It doesn't matter if I don't earn the same money by putting in the same effort as some other guy. In the end we all die, what does it matter if I die as a rich man or poor man, when there is no amount of money that I can take in after life, but what I can give is life to a human who will eternally be grateful to me for my help in saving him, and when I die they will atleast remember the kindness I showed to them. Money is just a material thing sure it will make your life easy and enjoyable but the satisfaction which you will get after saving someone life is not something that money can give you.
@neutrino the roamer it's ok we are both right in our own ways, what you say is correct we got only one life we must earn large amount of money, and similarly what I say is also right we only have one life we must serve mankind as much as we can after all we are all going to die.
This is something which I always feared. And especially in the surgical field, this happens the most but I'm still aiming my aim which is related to surgery and I will not give up on my dream while listening to this. I will be a good senior, a good resident and a good doctor. To all out there watching this video, if you are a senior, please don't do these to your juniors and if you are a junior, please don't repeat this cycle when you become a senior. It is we juniors who can remove these toxicities and problems by changing the ways and means which are discussed by Anuj Bhaiya. Thank you so much for talking about this topic. This means a lot for the medical students and future medical students✨✨✨
thank you so much for sharing this with us. i'm an aspirant and i'm preparing for my neet-ug. these things did scare me while listening to you but i think it's better to know what i might face in this field beforehand rather than facing it abruptly without any idea. that might shatter my expectations and make me depressed. but now that i know, i'll try my best to have my mental stability, and try to bring a change too. after all, it all starts with us. thank you so much once again!
Anuj bhaiya, I am Supratik. I have been following you since your 2nd yr MBBS... today my whole family has become your fan 😁. Your 'study with me' and 'exam saga' videos have motivated lakhs of students across India. Keep up the good work Sir !! ❤
Very True Sir......I am a first year student......and on my 1st day in my hostel ....I crossed a girl, I asked her aap senior hai kya ?( Because I even don't know my batchmates )....she replied so rudely "aise bat karte hai seniors se ,meri baki ke batchmates ko pta chalne do achhi ragging lenge teri".....and then I go to my room and cried so hard ....because no one is talking here softly plus problem of homesickness is also on top during initial days.........
Heartfelt thank you to you Anuj for bringing the ragging I faced in Yavatmal GMC to light by your video. It has been so mentally draining for me at this point because there have been no consequences for seniors who did all this and on top of that one senior female jr3 has put counter allegations of workplace sexual harrasment and Atrocities on me and this caused me so much mental stress that I got admitted to gmc nagpur for 6 days! Kindly get in touch with me Anuj I have more to tell you and I think you can help me.
How are you doing now buddy ? I want to know what happened next its a very serious issue and this needs to be addressed search Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj. I have shared the screenshot of this comment I hope she sees it, lets connect.
I am a 11th grade student who also want to be a doctor. But after watching this video I realised that what mistake can I do😅 And also that what will happene in colleges🥲 I will try my best to keep myself free from these restrictions and also help my juniors. It's a promise.😊 Thanks for this video, it taught a lot❤
I am a md from AIIMS . Don't take medical field . It was not my mistake as it would have been a mistake only if someone had advised me not to and still I would have pursued. But I dint have RUclips back then . But u are lucky to have RUclips where people like him tell u the reality . Now still if u will opt for medical field it shall be ur mistake as u already have guidance from two of us and I had none. I wish someone had told me all this post my 12 th standard.
@@sky16678 SIR, please can you explain it why not! Because I am at a point where I have to choose a stream. I know you always have a bit of time left in hand after everyday routine. But pleseeee enlighten me . I will be extremely grateful. 🙂
I as a senior in my medical college , never got ragged / never was thought inferior by anyone ( instead they are the best senior ) , Now me being in Final MBBS , Have always entertained Juniors to be more enthusiastic on what they are , why they are upto here . Motivate them to do things that they like , if study yes definitely. Things are learnt from experience! And the Ultimate Truth is ' Be always the one , whom you wanted out of anyone ' , 100 percent truth is do your work , make others work but stop Toxicity !
Something that I read recently that left me shocked is that "Doctors are their own worst enemies". Forget about society understanding our plight if our own colleagues can't. I feel like interdepartmental toxicity is also not talked about much. I dream of a fraternity so united, that disruptive elements will think twice about creating disharmony against doctors like violence. Ragging has to stop. If you won't help me atleast don't go out of your way to make my life miserable. we should be taught about how we should be looking after each other. To quote a line from my favorite show "When the winter comes,the lone wolf dies but the pack survives". If the medical fraternity has to survive or even thrive in the future, time to change things has arrived. NOW.
This toxicity not only exists in medical field but in Veterinary field as well, I'm final year Veterinary student and I am proud to say that I become the senior I always wanted.
They are similar in some aspects like we also study Anatomy, Physiology, Pharmacology, Pathology, Microbiology, Surgery, Medicine, Gynecology and obstetrics etc , but we study about all non- human animals and that's the only difference.
A guy dreams of getting into a GMC, works hell hard which he never ever did in his whole life, cracks NEET and even gets his desired college. What next?! A senior comes into his life and makes sure that he feels inferior, terrified and also tries to impose such changes into his life that'd make him feel like a slave. Respect must be earned and never demanded like this. Being an aspirant sometimes this haunts me!!
I'm a 10 th completed student and dreamed of becoming a doctor ...but now ,i realized that becoming a doctor is very tough even though you studied properly...😏🥺🙃
@@DrAnujPachhel really dr. Anuj pachel ur a topper & ur Father also reputed dr. But so show the reality of Medicine profession... Yes I too realize many times.. How they keep motivated in 10yrs of medicine after MD with PG preparation.. Actually every profession have dark reality even Civil services, govt Engg, PSU, banking.all sector... Expect defence Forces.
Hllo...Anuj Bhaiya....I am currently preparing for NEET-UG. I came across this video of yours..This did not demotivate me but motivated me to do good for others and myself as well......Thank you for spreading awareness and bringing hope.....I will definitely try to follow the right path....May God bless everyone🙏🏻
Talking about harsh truths in medical field is very courageous. You did amazing job .I hope the silent good seniors also have to speak up to bring the change
It's great to see now indian doctors have started to speak about exhaustion and burnout... Earlier I used to watch only American or other country health care worker talk about this issue and I used to think if could feel and see with my own eyes this condition in my country why is nobody talking about it now I feel I'm not alone
Yes! I met a resident doctor today which made me search this video, he too said the same...and honestly its all what is actually happening! Preparing for neet is a horrifying race for me now...but this cycle should break and that is possible if this generation take the initiative. Becoming doctor is saving life...this too will save many lives !
@@Karina_J Are you a CA? What do you know about CA? At least get some information before commenting about random things...I know people who have sacrificed 10-11 years of their life to become a CA. Just because 3/4 people you know became CA does not mean it is easy. They must have worked hard, given their life to achieve it.
It has been 6 months of my 1st year of MBBS. And from the one month of ragging, that I am constantly told was nothing, have taken a good toll upon me till now. This intense phobia of talking to any of my seniors has grown to the roots and I am left out by all of them just because i wasn't so entertaining, or was scared. It's tough to be here, in the environment where you are helpless. And I am. Senior junior relationship is TOXIC. When some seniors try to overcome that toxicity, their batchmates nd seniors don't let them do it. And they, been scared by the same cause, cannot change the tables. Wishing to change this code with my juniors, but i am unfortunately sure, i won't be allowed, or ever let to do so. Cuz that same fear will strike me there again.
This is some hard straight talk.. This is bitter this is reality.. As sad as it made me, I hope this changes one day, and we have knowledge and support being pillars of the growth of the medical industry in india..
I think there is some sort of toxicity in every field not just medicine we need to be strong and tackle this ......and take a pledge to not let our juniors face this......
Hi Anuj hope you are good, I am not a doctor but 2 days back I witness the toxicity and my heart just sank watching the scene. Context: My cousin had a swelling in his arm so he was admitted in the surgical department of Swaroop rani hospital prayagraj and I had to stay with him in the hospital, there was a junior doctor by the name Utkarsh. He was gentle, understanding, hardworking(6 am to 12 am) and most of the patient were happy with him because he was approachable unlike other doctors. one day I saw him abused both verbally and physically by another doctor, literally that mf was slapping and abusing doctor Utkarsh for 5 mins straight and nobody in the room did anything(room was locked otherwise I would have confronted that animal). It has been 3 days since the event happened and I am not able to forget it. Utkarsh sir if you are watching this video, you are great and I hope you would get out of that toxicity and be somewhere better.
I though residency is such bad in Australia ( that’s where I did my medicine & MD) until saw this video. But definitely, we didn’t have anything called junior-senior toxicity. The fear which you mentioned at the latter part of the video is literally every where, I got penalised $40,000 for something that wasn’t even my mistake. Eventually, the decision got revert but the mental torture my family & I went through was so significant. Sometimes I think it’s not worth it, However; I get my driving force when I get blessings from hundreds of other patients & families. Brother I suggest you to purchase an appropriate insurance, if one available in India before hitting the floor even as a residence.
OMG really toxic reality ...😗 Students study hard to clear *neet UG* first ,took so much coachings and drops in hope of getting admission in MBBS Then all of this is waiting for us in future 🙃 If all this is happening to such hardworking and talented students Then where is that dream life we all wanted... Is that life only for actors with no sense of acting , or youtubers who make time wasting vlogging videos ,or for politicians who only think for themselves 😏
You never go for mbbs aiming for a happy life.... Yeah ask any doctor they ll be happy finally at the age of 40 -50 but initial periods are real struggle....
@@adityanrvarier7406 what u are u even saying mtlb 60 saal m woh jii rha h ya katt rha h kitna din bacha h mtlb 40saal mehnat kro aur sirf 2 saal achha feel kro ?? Bhai kya h yeh
I haven’t really commented on any video yet, but this one really compelled me to break the history. People be taking drops after drops, putting in immense efforts, sleepless days and nights, and going through so much already; what for?? Just to be harassed and committing suicides in the end. This is an utter disappointment. The video should be noted, and the concerned authorities are requested to take every needed actions ASAP. Respect to the video creator✨
Ikr. Even I am taking my 2nd drop and no one wish for this..upar se being a girl everyone says ldki h umr horahi .. ghr p baithi h. I know boys have problems like this too. But still I am preparing for the dream which I will fulfill for sure but this reality literally hits hard.. sometimes it feels does it really worth it?
@@shimu36 yes its worth it I have seen doctors drive BMW,AUDIs to hospital These incidents are very few Don't get demotivated it's one of the best profession in india
@@messpice Sorry to say when they drive bmw Audi they are literally a 45 yr old man for some people age matters because at after a certain age we just don't get exicted much about that thing .. And your last point is totally what anuj bhaiya mentioned in video that there are many cases but they don't speak about it as they are scared of their seniors .. He literally said in the starting of the video live with fake stories forever or face the truth.. U can cross my points I'm here
@@shimu36 Sorry to say when they drive bmw Audi they are literally a 45 yr old man for some people age matters because at after a certain age we just don't get exicted much about that thing .. And your last point is totally what anuj bhaiya mentioned in video that there are many cases but they don't speak about it as they are scared of their seniors .. He literally said in the starting of the video live with fake stories forever or face the truth.. U can cross my points I'm here
All this is so true . Its actually very toxic environment , you end up just being depressed . I just completed my internship a few months back i can tell u how i have enjoyed my life since then was never like that in my mbbs Residents bully u Professors bully They have created a rut culture i hate it I feel so bad whenever i see kids giving neet ug that they would have to live a life likethat despite studying so much. 😢
Even after knowing abt all the struggles we would going to face in future, still I dont Wanna give up on my dream. And Change all these things. Thanks anuj bhai for this.😇
I belong to a 2007 batch , at that time it was said that profs/faculty used to tell seniors ki tumhare juniors batch ko tameez nahi hai , tameez means having to wear plain cloths and not to ask questions . Excitement for college shattered , can’t say reality to parents and was getting beaten by seniors during night time .
@@Startstar-u7b I am very much interested in business and management and now I am clear to go with that...now I can work on my soft skills like public speaking and other which I am interested and soon I will be a part of indias best business school.
@@unknownboi3399 which buissness school you are planning to join and I'm also interested in buissness but I'm scared as I took a year drop and didn't get selected and I am also not that much interested in medical but I'm scared right now that how will I face my parents who always trusted me now I have two options Either join normal bsc or bsc nursing
Being a senior GMC student you are bringing the truth to public.... Really doing a great job... Ab NEET ki tayari chod do aur chalo engineering karne... 😵
A close friend of mine did Post grad in the UK… the system under which he studied was too unrealistic true…. He never wanted to come back, it was too good to leave. In India, system is a mash up … teachers are toxic, unsatisfied with their lives, poor personal life, that they screw up their students lives.
In my college everyone has normalized ragging like it's meant to be if you're student And if anybody resist and talk to dean/professor about it They just discriminate that person and isolate him/her. That's very toxic and we must take stand for that I'll never ever rag anyone who's junior than me and will love to help juniors❤️🤟
Thank you Anuj bhyya for this reality check ❤️. I am preparing for neet 2023 even after not clearing it in my 1st somewhat serious attempt. After knowing all the reality of medical college system I don't why but I will still work hard and chase my dream of becoming a real good Dr. My parents always says that beta sirf ek Dr ni ek acchi Dr. Bnna ❤️ When I was not aware of this reality I always thought ki doctors are definition of humanity. In my area there are no multi-speciality hospitals and just one govt. college and honestly people don't give respect to Doctors that they deserve so I thought k bade cities k hospital to qafi acche hote hoge and mai wha jaugi but . even I am not a medical student and just an aspirant I have plans to give USMLE/PLAB instead of NEET PG.this reality hits hard...but anyway we will change this system for sure
Preparing for neet 2024 , I hope we get seniors that would genuinely be helpful so that the juniors learn from them & become the same loving seniors in the future❤.
Even after knowing all this people don't really talk about this . Even if a person is a doctor himself,sometimes he also needs a doctor. During crisis we believe doctor is the one who is going to save him but if he failed to do so we start blaming him, we have to understand that he is a human not a creator not God . it's life and life is always unpredictable And I'm so proud of those doctors even after having so much of mental toxicity, so much of pain they choose to be a doctor and not quiting their job. Hats off🙏 As Anuj bhaiya said "we can change this if we start know " , we can change this world by being those seniors we always wish to have.
I'm a neet aspirant really disappointed to see this negative side of medicine...means for what purpose we are studying day nd night sacrificing our youth to crack neet !!!? To get toxicity nd suicide thoughts 💔 but definitely together we can bring a change ..it always starts from we ourselves making a change ✨
If Current Situation doesn't changes towards a future where we see eachother as a Human first then those days are not far when Result of this Toxicity will take a turn and instead of Junior Ending His Own LIFE because of Toxicity will be so Desperate to End His Senior's . Sab log same nhi hote... Soch Lo.. Faisla apke haath me hai.
This is happening everywhere. Irrespective of age, seniority,gender,intellect one should respect each other. Because not everyone is mentally tough!! Your words and actions can cause irreversible damage to others. It's is a subtle crime. Ragging,Bullying should be reported and action is to be taken immediately.No matter who they are
I promise when i become a doctor,i will cooperate with my juniors and ask them to carry this attitude forward...so that we can together make medicine a much better place!!
@@assasincreed3461 yes we can, definitely we can. Agar tum pehle se hi system ko acha maan chuke ho ya uske samne ghutne tek chuke ho, then it can't be changed. Because change is from within.
from class 6th i had face a lot of ragging by our seniors , not physical but mentally , they used to yell at us without any reasons and make us do there works and no body use to tell those things to there parents as we were too small that time and yes it was always me because i was from another state and now i am preparing for neet 2025 , anuj bhaiya really sacred my old self who was still fighting to come over with those awful days but still i cannot leave my childhood dream . thank you anuj bhaiya for such informatory video
Finally I got this video from Anuj Bhaiyyaa ❤️❤️❤️ We must actually increase the salary.... Put a severe ban on Ragging and strict laws must be implemented on attack on doctors
If you guys can't take the stress it's ok stop everything and take a break and find answers...End of day your family, your lovef ones wants you to live.. life is to thrive not just live.
Hey! I’m a first year student and I can totally relate. from just after my freshers party, I’ve killed my interactions with my seniors to absolute zero. I blend in with the background. Though I’m lucky to have my sister as a pg student somewhere else, she guides me academically but for one’s who don’t have that privilege, I see them embracing the toxic relations. What’s worse is that within first few months the idea that teachers are never gonna help us out was implanted in our minds by seniors and other batchmates who agreed unknowingly. Even though I now know that is not true.
Thank you for being so transparent... I hope some day a Fmg ( Foreign Medical graduate) student's story is also unfolded the same way..being a FMG i feel.. a lot is there not spoken about..
Hi Anuj....i am MD general medicine... whatever u have told is very very true....i want to do super speciality but with the fear of what l have gone through my pg...m not able to motivate my self to get into ss....off course it's not for demotivating but harrassment should be stopped ....plus general public should really know what we r gone through....well said....
hey anuj. I'm not a medical student but your journey and your approach towards things inspire me so much. the way you take leap towards things that most of the people don't. hatsoff to you bro. you're really are one of a kind. i wish you a good health and peace of mind all the time.
I am first year mbbs student at government medical college kottayam,kerala.....In my college there is not a single piece of ragging...seniors are so friendly...After watching this...I think I am so blessed to get admission to my college🤩🤩😇
Oh kollallo ragging onum ille ipo. It was really bad when I was there in 2016. Still pg life is still crap there, As of 2022 . Not due to anyone in particular. It's just that the there isnt enough doctors and pgs and too much patients too.
I am from NHLMMC , AHMEDABAD and in my 5 years I’ve never seen ragging or unwanted toxicity . We follow this rule of earning respect and you can call seniors by names . Everyone’s really helpful to each other and we always try to make way for helping each other out instead of pulling each otehr down . Lucky to be at a place like this .
The syllabus of mbbs few decades ago didn't use to be this vast compared to now ..people use to get residency easily... Competition was less... Now the scenario is changing and we dont know whatll happen in future.. The only way to survive is to be really passionate about this ... So that money or competition won't affect you.. That doesn't mean Compromising and not fighting against injustice and ragging but to be satisfied and be able to balance and adapt and not breathing toxicity everyday
It's very Sad to listen to all the True Harsh incidents, but it is the fact and a bitter truth that this is the situation right now in India ! +/- outside also !
Solution of this at Individual level is that as Anuj Rightly said , we should not be the one doing such toxic behaviour, we shouldn't pass this and we should raise a voice if it's wrong ! Respect is to be gained, respect each other , atleast respect your colleagues ! Keep everything aside , Respect atleast Human ! Humanity toh basic haina ! And i always say Collaboration>>Completion, and Anuj always says "We are in this Together!" , The point is stand with each other , stand with what is right ! Let's bring the change ! We can change it ! We are in this together, Right Anuj ! ✨
+respect
@@hillboy246 bhaiya , after seeing this toxicity happening do u regret becoming a doctor ? or taking up this course ?
like even after knowing this toxicity, do u wish that u could go back in time and change /opt another field?
@@Kiara-nv8re broh/ sis that's not the only thing, you can also see the positive sides of a doctor. In my opinion it still worth it yet isn't better than enginnering with CS.
@@hillboy246 it's better my brother is computer engineer from iit but he is also saying all the toxicity happening in his work place every profession has pros and cons
@@twinklejha2363 yeah things can be vary from place to place and that's my opinion bro..at the end every carrier have pros and cons that's doesn't mean that we should quite.
We can bring a change. We must.
Please spread the message, people need to know this.
Yes....
Sure. 💯
I am leaving neet preparation from now 🥺
We are in this together sir
Yes sir sure💯
I think everyone of us should "BE THE SENIORS WE ALWAYS WANTED"
So true
Easier said than done..There is practical difficulty/impossibility to do so.
Use your logic. There should be some reason why the system is like this despite of all doctors being reasonably intelligent people. Regarding the residency I mean.
@@jobincleetus007 bcoz of their ego...They think that they r seniors nd they hve the right to dominate juniors...which is absolutely wrong
@@neeldev8070 I agree regarding the MBBS Junior- Senior. The case is not same for residency.
I worked as a DNB resident in a corporate hospital in hyderabad. Suddenly, the management changed and our previous HOD left the hospital. The person that later became the HOD was now drunk with power. He used to abuse me day and night. Used to blame everything that went wrong on the residents. Threatened me that he would write to the national board about my behaviour and would cancel my course. Complained to the management that I was out of line because I informed my unit head about my leave instead of the HOD. I cried multiple times in the hospital. Cried in the ICU.. in the wards.. spent sleepless nights out of the fear that the course I worked so hard for would be taken away from me.. and for no legitimate reason.
There should be an easier access to higher authorities regarding complains and help.. somewhere where there is no threatening.
Hello doctor
I know you’re facing immense pressure and challenges right now, and it can feel overwhelming. Remember, your dedication and hard work have made a real difference in the lives of many. If you feel that a change of environment could lead to a better life, don’t hesitate to explore new opportunities.
Be strong, and know that you deserve a place where you can thrive and continue your important work without fear. Take care of yourself, and remember that brighter days are ahead.
Feel free to adjust it as needed!
Change the country you derisive best country in world 🌍
the worst part? it takes ONE BATCH to break this whole cycle of toxicity for years to come and people dont realise it. sed:(
Yeah...no!!it's like chain in system. even if one batch decides to not to rag their senior will rag them and force them to rag their juniors!!
@@ganeshjiwade3454 huh? That one batch should not only 'decide' to not rag their juniors, they should actually not rag them,even under senior pressure
@@anonymousj6406 that's not how it works even if one batch resisted the super sr. Will do(rag) it by themselves and jr. Will become toxic eventually. Then They will keep up trend!!
It is the whole 5yrs batches efforts to break down the chain since the 2nd years are still much dependent on 3rd years and this continues
@@ganeshjiwade3454 ragging is a choice , senior did that to me , I know it's wrong , WON"T DO THAT TO MY JUNIOR - SIMPLE
This video has perfectly potrayed the current situation of medical life ! Great job anuj
Thanks a lot ❤️🙏
Mera 608 marks hai muje ab man ni kar ra jane ka🥺 ya sab sunana ka bad
@@commando3698 bahi isko face karanaaa heaa life
@@commando3698 toh kya kr rhe ho bhai
@@commando3698 Chd do... Mat jana
Watching this 2 months before NEET wasn't really a great idea 😂😭
Edit: I'm getting 661 according to provisional answer key (I fcked up big time 🤓)
Same here dude
I see this one month before
Now a month left :/
Scores bi achhe nhi aa rhe hain mock test mein 💩
1mhina bc
Great analysis Anuj! ❤️
Just want to tell students that PG degree is very necessary in this era so don't get demotivated to take it but it must not be toxic and the students are the ones who have to bring this change! It might take few years but the start will be from today!
Let's start it together! 🌟
🗿apko YT tick kyu nahi mila abhi tak?
Bhai Mai to samjha tha ye duplicate hoga.
Yes sir .....
Reality h face to krna pdega ase weak to nhi ho sakte problems bhout h pta h h ..
Pr solution to ek hi h ...
Tha start will be from today !.
Let's start together ❤....
Kya aiims dehli mein bhi aisa hi hota hai..uff
Sir ,i dont want to do pg,will it be fine?
Let's all take oath guys.
We say NO to ragging no matter whether it's college or school.
Schools are no different from what's happening in colleges. Tbh, schools are the first place where bully and it develop to trauma and we all joke by calling them stop being an introvert. My friend suffered the same but his mom be like " you're an introvert. That's the problem". Like she not even tried to care of it.
Guys don't just pass neet and board and directly enter a college. In between the duration, develop self-respect and try your possible limit to speak out. Develop your physique and mental health. And if you're forced by parents to pick a course, remember you will regret it for the rest of your life. So Speak up and speak now wherever it is necessary.
And till death, the oath is an oath. 🤞
Not related to this video, but I literally just saw your comment like right now! And now I see you here aaaa
Well said friend 🤝
That introvert thing just went through my heart
Or else everything will go down in flames
You are right about bullying starting from the school level cause that's what I faced. In class seven which was literally my puberty/adolescent period, I was bullied by people I though were my best friends . It was so severe I tried self-harm multiple times and this also led me to develop chronic anxiety disorder which I have to bear with for the rest of my life .
'Respect is something that is earned'- exactly ! well said
I'm in my 3rd year and has opposed ragging culture since my first year. I've seen my classmates getting beaten up, shamed and ridiculed for sadistic pleasure of our seniors. And now I see the same classmates doing the same to our juniors without any shame. Somehow I escaped ragging in first year, but I know how it is to be bullied as I ve been bullied badly before and is scarred for life. The truth is the administration enjoys this primitive practice, teachers laugh and walk away while somebody who entered the college with dreamy eyes has her dreams shattered with tears and reality.
The professors bully senior students, they bully their juniors, dumb juniors grow up to do the same - vicious cycle of toxicity
That's such an accurate description of the reality of med colleges!
Ragging of girls is something new
@meera do girls also ragged like boys in medical clg???
@@Realsun0007 don't know about med college but i was in Central government hostel (boys and girls both) I'm a boy but heard that same thing happens with girls they are told to clean everything even the toilets and the floors regularly and seniors would just sit and order same thing in boys hostel but not the extreme cleaning part but yes I got slapped even hit in my back for a very small mistake of not telling the next person that my duty of filling senior's bottle is over tomorrow is yours and I was shocked that my classmates also said they're going to do the same but many were opposing it thankfully and I even made friends from my junior batch
@@astudent63 ohh🤧🙄🤒🤒.... bro you in which medical college?????
There is no warden or maid in clg for cleaning such stuffs????
Thank you so much for this video...
Really courageous you are...
These days, RUclipsrs are just showing rosy-rosy dreams of Medical College...But when reality hits....the problem starts...
And yeah " i'm trying hard to become that kind of senior,
the senior I always wanted when i was in 1st year" ❤️
❤️
Thank god I failed NEET 20,21,22 and now I will get some same seniors 😊
@@yogendrasinghrajput1 😅😅👍
Anuj bhaiya , after seeing this toxicity happening do u regret becoming a doctor ? or taking up this course?
like even after knowing this toxicity, do u wish that u could go back in time and change /opt for another field?
@@ALCHEMISTaspirant because he want to be a dr .. when he is preparing for neet not him or any student knows this fact they just have seen one side which shown by their family friends that u earn respect money everything and at that age u think yes this is all i want ..
I bet nobody will say i want to become dr one more time if he she get one more chance .. untill they want to become a dr from childhood and love and live to treat another human
Cross my points I'm here
Medical students talk about bad behavior done by patients and their relatives, which is justified; but they should also work on their behavior with their juniors and people around them.
I'm a medical student and I have heard from my own batchmates "Ab to hmare bhi juniors aanewale h, hm bhi ragging lenge." And I just feel like it's not necessary to continue this toxic cycle for ever, we can be the one to break it and start a healthy senior- junior relationship (like I had in my school years in hostel with my seniors)
It's like karma hitting them back
I totally satisfied with you bcoz the same statement I also heart with a boy who is now in medical nd my neighbor too
I think mainly because they are super stressed
I'm not a medical student
I am studying business & management
But I think our society is super obbsesed with becoming doctor and the stress of study is just alot my cousins are med. student I've seen their struggle with studies
Trueeeee l agree with u
@@khushi-4900what do you mean? They do ragging for releasing their stress that's called sadism. I can't believe how a doctor can do these stuff I mean they're the one who are supposed to aware people about health but they are doing opposite.
Most realistic video and dark facts of medical profession. When I was a JR1 I was told by my senior that " tumhari aukat toilet dhone ki hai , department me jhadu lagane ki hai " even to an extent that infront of my collegue she told " vo samne aai to uska gala daba dungi" these were the words of and MD pass out person which no one could believe, my husband took quick action and with the support of my family I was able to cope up with the situation after long duration of depression. Thoughts like leaving my MD seat were in my mind then . I was lucky enough to have moral support of my family bt I wonder what happens to others who are away and have to deal this alone . The most tough time is residency and this trend needs to be stopped . We need to be the change in this revolution
Di why didn't you gave plab Or usmle
Y the one who humiliated u is not punished..? Y a case isn't filed???
That's your highness .
@@twinklejha2363 you might want to search about how much these exams cost
@@kates7721 every exam has this much cost
So, in the end, it all comes back to the most basic human qualities. Today, where studies, technicalities, jobs, money, are practically the ONLY things that matter, we've kind-of forgotten about being simply human. Qualities like kindness and positivity have been repressed, even lost to many. A shame, really.
This should be the top comment.
@@jobincleetus007 yeah
@@jobincleetus007 yes
Exactly
What ever u spoke is 200% true...
I am in 2nd yr MBBS , TOMCH, Bangalore
I really loved studying from my school days ... I didn't know a thing about mbbs before experiencing it myself.. I was motivated by a doctor to choose this field.. everyone told doctors field is such a stable field .. once u join mbbs - life settle... these lies ...I feel they are really toxic... I am a first doctor in my family and I had really no idea about anything in mbbs... after entering mbbs reality kicked in ... the pressure, tension is so much .. and getting good marks like we used to get in schools is impossible... I went into depression... I felt it so much from inside that this is not for me .. but I can't quit ... even though mine is a govt seat .. its still a huge amount... and how will everyone look at my family if I quit... I was in soo bad depression... guilt was hurting my heart ... the number hours I cried were more than number of hours I studied... my whole personality changed after suffering depression .. I became a mobile addict ... I beg only one thing... please don't tell lies to the fresh innocent minds of pu students... tell them the harsh reality so that they can prepare from day 1... life will never be easy in any phase of life not after completing 10th not after pu not after degree not after masters .... never .... every phase has its own difficulty.... if u have passion to bare them then only take a step.... please don't be a frog in the well like me... coming out depression is the hardest .. coming out of addiction is more harder... u motivate ur self 100 times and fail 100 times.... guilt, not able to fit in, worthlessness is really horrible ... I have a request ... all the people which ever the field u r in please go back to your pu college and educate ur juniors... tell the pros and cons of ur own field... quiting and returning and restarting takes a lot... really a lot...
Hi can we talk?
Thank you for sharing
..m 3 sal se neet de rhi . Kafi depression me hu...m ye soch rhi ki GMC milne ke bad sb kuch acha ho jayega kya asa hoga??.vha v depression me rhna pdta h?????pls reply
@@multiplevdios3797 hey what r u doing now
Idk the words that will console u... but thanks for giving us a heads up... I hope u r doing better now... just remember one thing, whatever u r doing however u r doing. This is enough, u may better urself and that's good, but for right now u r enough and u may not be happy, happiness cannot be forced but there will come a day when all ur hardships were worth it. I'll pray for u and all those who are going through such a tough time.
Again, thank u since I'm writing neet this yr and hope to get a good govt cllg in my city itself, after this video, I want to stay close to my loved ones after all.
Thank you anuj for not being routine youtuber who just shows glamorous side of medical field but speaking about the harsh reality..!!
Residency is all about hierarchy, humiliation, disrespect, bitching, loss of mental health,threats, frustration .....
At the end of the day we shud all remember that there is nothing above humanity..!!!
After seeing the whole video still I want to become a doctor bcz I want to change all these things and I will definitely
.. thanku very much Anuj Bhiya 🙂
You understood my points very well. Thank you 🙏
Ysss the new generation of us.. have to change the traditional rules...nd yaah we will❣️❣️
You are the real one who should join this field. But please dont change your attitude down the lane.
Same thing I too felt
I also want the same thing.... & I believe that we can change it🙂🙏🙏
Meet Patiwala,4th year MBBS student,BJMC Ahmedabad- "I feel i am stuck in life of just study for solving MCQs, i rarely acquire clinical skill after going to ward,its because residents are overburden and professor (forget about lecture) i rarely see them, One part of my brain want to study textbooks thoroughly while the other part want to solve mcq (from notes) ....the Confusion of Next/ Neet destroyed my 3rd and final year....Today i consider myself a skill less medical student hoping for some change in Internship...
For now i am having doubt about whether i will be a good doctor , Will i able to provide treatmentsto patient after 1-2 year ?? I am hearing" nope" in my brain
Lets hope i can transform myself in internship and focus more on becoming a doctor rather than a Ratta machine
Pardon me I’m not even remotely related to medical field but Try asking your seniors and professors (I hope they are not toxic or bossy or rude) and try contacting few professors online through LinkedIn etc to get actual field training and opinions if possible and please take care of yourself and your own mental and physical health.
This is the sad truth that I think everyone in this field has faced…. Even today I’m not confident enough to look into my seniors eyes and I’m a final year student… it’s just imprinted in my brain now..I hope more people think like us and become the senior they wanted… amazing video btw❤️
So true Aditi
@Saugata Biswas i am from Raipur. Unhone kyo suicide kiya
💜
I have given neet 2022 .. if i do mbbs.. then shall I face next exam?? Please give your honest opinion
@you need some rest 😹 what is the cost of doing pg from private college?
I don't know why.. Even after I know the struggles of being a doctor, I still don't want to give up🤧
Typical cool idoit
You are the real one who should join this field. But please dont become the toxic senior down the lane.
Yes same here😶
Same ✋
All the best ❤️
Long Post here.
I have done my UG from Government medical college (RIMS) in karnataka. I stayed at hostel. In the beginning of first year, yes we were asked to address our seniors as Sir/Ma’am. We were not ragged - it was called an introduction 😂, where our seniors used to call us to their rooms, make us sing or dance or asked to some weird stuff. This went on for a month or two until our freshers day. I’m an introvert, would not easily socialise, Now, when I look back, I think this was a blessing in disguise. I made friends thru these introductions in my batch, and each of us in our batch knew what kind of people others were. We did stand together in tough times when our friends were bullied etc. this brings about a sense of connection, oneness among the batch. Later after the freshers party, our seniors were good to us. No unnecessary head down etc. We still addressed them as Sir/Ma’am.
Remember, this was the time before Marrow, prep ladder took over medical education. By the end of 3 months, internals came, we were all clueless on how to go about this time. Again, these very Sirs & Ma’am’s provided us inputs on what to read and how to. This is how the bond got strong.
Years passed, I cleared final year and entered Internship. DAMS and Bhatia had started coaching classes. Now time to get to business. We did not have PG trainees, and the whole hospital ran with the interns doing their job. I had to do continuous 24 hrs duties, alternate day in branches like surgery, medicine, paediatrics, obs gyn, orthopaedics etc. I never had time to prepare for PG entrance. I read about the cases that were getting admitted, and that is the way we learn. We see, we read, see again and then we understand. We had light postings too like Ophthal, PSM, Dermat etc. We used to get time for ourselves. We partied during those times. Hustle hard, party harder was the motto then. Anyways, Internship ended finally. Now, I m a clueless doctor.
Toxicity was about to begin. I did not research various options after MBBS. I became a sheep in the herd to secure a PG seat. Some of my friends started to work at PHC’s. I joined Bhatia Institute for coaching of NEET PG at Bangalore. From then, my insecurities worsened, seeing all others just answering every damn question which wouldn’t fetch you an ounce of clinical judgement when you have to see a patient. But, I have to admit, I did get many concepts clear. But, the rat race took a toll on me. There were these grand tests, weekly tests, which shredded the confidence that I gained in Internship. It was systematically broken each and everyday. Long class hours, motivational talks etc, all to get a PG seat, which is a mirage created by these so called institutions telling that PG is the ultimate goal. I never scored good marks in those tests. The dreaded NEET PG exam date came. I gave the exam, I thought I would never make it. Probably, the universe had another plan for me. I got a rank and joined Anaesthesia in a Central institute. 3 years of difficulties again, I thought. Seniors and faculties were strict, long working hours. But all this for patient safety. Because at the end it’s you alone between your patient and the death which is ready to engulf them.
I hate even small changes in my life, but if I had to this all over again, I would do it. After PG, I realised that everyone has their own pace in life. We can stay content by understanding what we want, than running along the direction of the herd. U can Stop, Breathe and do whatever you want until you know what you really want. By being just an MBBS doctor, u can make a decent living. It’s all up to you.
Now, I have a group of friends who stood by me all thru these difficult times, we go on a trip every year, which we have made a thing. I look forward to keep this tradition of us. Being there for each other is the only way, but understanding what you want is the most important thing of all.
Lastly, I hate to tell that, a few people who want to enter this difficult yet beautiful journey, are just focusing on gaining a PG seat from day one in medical college letting no space for new experiences. Not their mistake either. It’s failure of the Government, and the ability of these private coaching institutes to milk this situation, worsening the situation
Now, as I see this video, I feel how lucky I m to have a different thought process all together. I have beautiful memories, where the patient I gave CPR survived and walked out of the hospital, and sad memories too. Life is a mixed bag isn’t it? It’s all not roses all the time but thorns too. It begins at the end of your comfort zone. Let us wake up to experience life as it is.
No. Not everyone can see this pointless life with "positivity and optimism". It is time for people of this country to stop procreating. Giving an 80-year-long life to someone, especially in this country, is unethical.
@@abhisheksing8379 I ve just explained what I ve been thru. I don't expect anyone to go thru the same either.
Also, I questioned myself why I opted for medicine, everytime I was in trouble, or stressed or even when I was happy till the last day of my PG and even now sometimes. So, most of us cant be positive always.
This video is Anuj's view on Medical education, let alone, it will not be same for others. Knowing what u are getting into before hand is good. But, its necessary not to run away from challenges, just becoz someone else found it difficult. U can create a better tomorrow by joining and bringing a change in the system.
And, moreover humans are inherently optimistic, and if one is not, he/she cannot survive in any other field too.
@@abhisheksing8379 just loved ur saying ✨ truly beautiful
Beautiful.....very well said.......@sameer prabhakara
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Guys who are saying that they got demotivated, just sit and think if you enter a Medical College with lots of hopes that this journey is going to be beautiful and suddenly you see your hopes are getting shattered it breaks your mental stability
If you enter a medical college knowing that it going to be tough you are prepared for that. you will have some mental stability to face it
He is going through that journey and letting us know how it feels and how it is going to be
Just understand things and be thankful to him
Yes very much true👍👍👍
Man I just want freedom and money
@@L0n30piumat the cost of what? Your self respect and mental peace? Nah I'll let that pass anyway😂
That eye to eye contact thing is so true , happened with me too, but I never followed it , because it's not the way of gaining respect or giving respect ,to me it's slavery . I tried to being little friendly and helpful whenever my seniors wanted me to , and after that a bond is created between me and them. Sometimes seniors just want to control you so that juniors will not become trouble for them but there are many ways to do that instead of doing ragging 🤬 or harsh intros. It will permanently make some one to lose their self esteem and confidence that will never be restored . I opposed every wrong decisions of my seniors regarding us but in a friendly way or indirectly that they would also not get hurt of that, but used to follow their right orders which will benifit us and all. In short tackle the situation in such a way that the problem get neutralised and non toxic for everyone.
I am a 4th year mbbs student in govt medical college, on my freshers day I was force by my seniors to bow down on my knees just like a dog and eat a whole samosa kept on the floor without using my hand. It’s been 4 years now but that day will always remain as a trauma to my self respect and it depress me every time whenever I think about my experience in med school 😢
can u tell me cities like patna usme koi bond ni show ho rha like 4.5 yrs mbbs ke baad internship krne rhete h na toh fir hee jakr milegi degree woh ni h ..
Toh kya yeh sach h ki yeh state wise differ krta h ya sbko krna hota h
Aur bond aur intership ek hee chijj hoti h na
@@RajKumar-ib7mwNo bond and internship is not the same, you need to serve the bond after completion of your 5.5 years of MBBS degree which is of 4.5yr + 1year of compulsory internship...
Shaiba Sajid you are great
Keep rocking
What? Is it really this bad. Damn if it was me I’d fight and get myself into trouble rather than doing that to some asshole senior
@@ABAddonfromHeLL See my freind sometime you just don't know what is going to happen u cant beat 4 5 grown men this is real life not a movie .. and if u say something to defend u get more bullied and if u try to be oversmart than may be they take on their ego and might bully u everyday my freind this is a hell place u can't do anything if u do fight may be u get tc by College and if not tc then might that seniors break your body parts or even worse ..
I study Medicine abroad and We talk to our seniors like they r our friends. They guide and support us without anything in return. Sad to see that it's not like that in India. But when we know there is a problem then there is always a solution.
Which country and college please tell me bro
Czech republic 😂
@@FakruddinAli7777 Charles university
@@FakruddinAli7777 bro nhii sis h
Aayushi aapne kota se neet ka preparation kiya the.
I am currently a 2nd yr mbbs student at Government Medical College Bhavnagar. The culture here is so good that there is nothing like ragging ! Yes, Absolutely 0 ragging. So glad to have a college like this. The efforts our seniors made in past is being appreciated by all the junior batches after knowing about culture in different colleges.
Nice , gujrat 💥💥
How many marks did you have in neet?
Then why is this comment edited?
@@vivekreddy2442 coz there was a spelling mistake in Bhavnagar 😂
Iss college ka aiq se cutoff kitna hoga? 😅 I should join
This is exactly why I refused to do PG in India !! Heck I even went in tears to my Dean during internship begging her to take my degree back and to just let me go back home!! Ten years later and I still get flashbacks of all this !! I don’t know how I got through it !!
Can u tell me what happened
Our medical profession especially seniors(including me to some extent for my junior) fail to teach the life lesson…that we are human being and not machine & we glorify overworking culture. Sleepless night and tireless working is promoted as WORKOHOLIC & praised by the faculty. These toxic workoholic type of working hours are set as standards for others. When junior becomes senior he follows the exact footsteps of his seniors and vicious cycle keeps on repeating. Every damn person forgets what he suffered from when he or she was junior. Anuj you rightly said that EGO RISE TO THE EXTENT THAT OUR FACULTY & SENIORS ITSELF FORGET THAT THEY ARE FROM THE SAME PLANET. And yes Depression is taboo even in medical field that many people doesn’t seek for help.
So true
I will never rag my juniors. The change starts with me
Bless you !!
I’m a first year BDS student , I’m in pvt college i can understand the pain of fee and also there extra charges and sometimes they don’t even listen to u and ur problems just because u r not paying them the money they want and that senior juniors toxicity like“ WE ARE YOUR SENIORS DON’T TALK WITH US BY MAKING EYE CONTACT “ that literally happened with my batchmate. But she refused to do so and they threatened her like we’ll do this, we will do that , but luckily there was some pg students and they saw that and scolded the toxic ones . Well all I want to say is not everyone is good and not everyone is bad there are some seniors who genuinely help us a lot and I really respect them .
I am an aspiring Neet student. When in the beginning you said it can change your silver lining of medicine I was about to leave the video. But then realised I must atleast know what I am getting into. But I don't think this changed anything for me or my dream's of becoming one of the greatest Doctor of All Times but what changed in me is that... When I become a senior in my medical College I would not allow my juniors to go through this kind of ragging and harassment.... That's a promise... Because after all we are the upcoming generation and it will be our actions which will bring Reforms in Medical field...
Exact word to word thoughts!
It shows the good upbringing good luck
@neutrino the roamer in Quran its says if you kill one person you kill whole humanity and if you save one person you save whole humanity, guess which field is best for saving a human life. It doesn't matter if I don't earn the same money by putting in the same effort as some other guy. In the end we all die, what does it matter if I die as a rich man or poor man, when there is no amount of money that I can take in after life, but what I can give is life to a human who will eternally be grateful to me for my help in saving him, and when I die they will atleast remember the kindness I showed to them. Money is just a material thing sure it will make your life easy and enjoyable but the satisfaction which you will get after saving someone life is not something that money can give you.
@neutrino the roamer it's ok we are both right in our own ways, what you say is correct we got only one life we must earn large amount of money, and similarly what I say is also right we only have one life we must serve mankind as much as we can after all we are all going to die.
This is something which I always feared. And especially in the surgical field, this happens the most but I'm still aiming my aim which is related to surgery and I will not give up on my dream while listening to this. I will be a good senior, a good resident and a good doctor.
To all out there watching this video, if you are a senior, please don't do these to your juniors and if you are a junior, please don't repeat this cycle when you become a senior. It is we juniors who can remove these toxicities and problems by changing the ways and means which are discussed by Anuj Bhaiya.
Thank you so much for talking about this topic. This means a lot for the medical students and future medical students✨✨✨
thank you so much for sharing this with us. i'm an aspirant and i'm preparing for my neet-ug. these things did scare me while listening to you but i think it's better to know what i might face in this field beforehand rather than facing it abruptly without any idea. that might shatter my expectations and make me depressed. but now that i know, i'll try my best to have my mental stability, and try to bring a change too. after all, it all starts with us. thank you so much once again!
Anuj bhaiya, I am Supratik. I have been following you since your 2nd yr MBBS... today my whole family has become your fan 😁. Your 'study with me' and 'exam saga' videos have motivated lakhs of students across India. Keep up the good work Sir !! ❤
Thank you so much Supratrik
Very True Sir......I am a first year student......and on my 1st day in my hostel ....I crossed a girl, I asked her aap senior hai kya ?( Because I even don't know my batchmates )....she replied so rudely "aise bat karte hai seniors se ,meri baki ke batchmates ko pta chalne do achhi ragging lenge teri".....and then I go to my room and cried so hard ....because no one is talking here softly plus problem of homesickness is also on top during initial days.........
Sadly bullies in india i have seen so far we will take any small reason to bully you. They just want a small reason to tear you apart.
phir kya hua didii🙄🙄???
@neutrino_the_roamer😂😂❤
Heartfelt thank you to you Anuj for bringing the ragging I faced in Yavatmal GMC to light by your video. It has been so mentally draining for me at this point because there have been no consequences for seniors who did all this and on top of that one senior female jr3 has put counter allegations of workplace sexual harrasment and Atrocities on me and this caused me so much mental stress that I got admitted to gmc nagpur for 6 days! Kindly get in touch with me Anuj I have more to tell you and I think you can help me.
How are you doing now buddy ? I want to know what happened next its a very serious issue and this needs to be addressed search Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj. I have shared the screenshot of this comment I hope she sees it, lets connect.
Thanks anuj for bringing the other side in light💡
Your support means everything 🙏
Kudos to you anuj, it’s really sensitive topic to talk about.
I am a 11th grade student who also want to be a doctor.
But after watching this video I realised that what mistake can I do😅
And also that what will happene in colleges🥲
I will try my best to keep myself free from these restrictions and also help my juniors. It's a promise.😊
Thanks for this video, it taught a lot❤
Now i will be in class 11
and i will also become doctor
And I also pledge i wont hurt my junior 😊
Abhi Padhai kr beta jaake
I am a md from AIIMS . Don't take medical field . It was not my mistake as it would have been a mistake only if someone had advised me not to and still I would have pursued. But I dint have RUclips back then .
But u are lucky to have RUclips where people like him tell u the reality . Now still if u will opt for medical field it shall be ur mistake as u already have guidance from two of us and I had none.
I wish someone had told me all this post my 12 th standard.
Beta doctor ke alawa kuch or career le lena nhi to royega baithke
@@sky16678 SIR, please can you explain it why not!
Because I am at a point where I have to choose a stream.
I know you always have a bit of time left in hand after everyday routine.
But pleseeee enlighten me .
I will be extremely grateful. 🙂
I as a senior in my medical college , never got ragged / never was thought inferior by anyone ( instead they are the best senior ) , Now me being in Final MBBS , Have always entertained Juniors to be more enthusiastic on what they are , why they are upto here . Motivate them to do things that they like , if study yes definitely. Things are learnt from experience! And the Ultimate Truth is ' Be always the one , whom you wanted out of anyone ' , 100 percent truth is do your work , make others work but stop Toxicity !
Which collage??
Which college?
Keep this attitude in residency.. It is very tough to keep this attitude during that time.
Neet ug aspirant plz tell which collage?
Residency mtlb.?
I'm not a science student , but every weekend I wait for ur videos , they always motivate me ❤️ Thankyou bhaiyya...
Iam a medical student of GMC ELURU,AP .Iam studying 1st year MBBS now .the best thing is I don't have seniors because my batch is 1st batch .😌😌
hope you dont BECOME the toxic seniors
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Something that I read recently that left me shocked is that "Doctors are their own worst enemies". Forget about society understanding our plight if our own colleagues can't. I feel like interdepartmental toxicity is also not talked about much. I dream of a fraternity so united, that disruptive elements will think twice about creating disharmony against doctors like violence.
Ragging has to stop. If you won't help me atleast don't go out of your way to make my life miserable. we should be taught about how we should be looking after each other.
To quote a line from my favorite show
"When the winter comes,the lone wolf dies but the pack survives". If the medical fraternity has to survive or even thrive in the future, time to change things has arrived. NOW.
The favorite show being got
This toxicity not only exists in medical field but in Veterinary field as well, I'm final year Veterinary student and I am proud to say that I become the senior I always wanted.
So you mean veterinary and medical are different 😐
@@kartik_018 yea
They are similar in some aspects like we also study Anatomy, Physiology, Pharmacology, Pathology, Microbiology, Surgery, Medicine, Gynecology and obstetrics etc , but we study about all non- human animals and that's the only difference.
Hey i also plan on getting into vet field, can you tell me the min cutoff for govt veterinary college?
True. The seniors and professors here are very arrogant
Being an engineer, I always respected doctors. Now, even more. I recognise them as pillars with unparalleled mental strength
I am first year medical student
Gone through a lot of ragging and torture
But I promise from my side there will be no ragging
@Lord Avalon Bhai konsi company ka daru pike comment kar raho ho ......…...................!????????
Which college and do the seniors beat you and hurt you physically
A guy dreams of getting into a GMC, works hell hard which he never ever did in his whole life, cracks NEET and even gets his desired college. What next?! A senior comes into his life and makes sure that he feels inferior, terrified and also tries to impose such changes into his life that'd make him feel like a slave.
Respect must be earned and never demanded like this.
Being an aspirant sometimes this haunts me!!
I'm a 10 th completed student and dreamed of becoming a doctor ...but now ,i realized that becoming a doctor is very tough even though you studied properly...😏🥺🙃
@neutrino the roamer I'm not money minded ...I'm saying that the competition from all over India is enormous.
Hey never leave your dream man do it.just imagine about your parents,your goal to become doctor .
don't quite ❤
What an irony; medicine is toxic 😥
This hurts when you are just going to step in first year of your medical career....
Exactly
No use in worrying at this time..You will surely supass all this👍. Only thing is, you shouldn't become the toxic senior down the lane.
@@DrAnujPachhel really dr. Anuj pachel ur a topper & ur Father also reputed dr. But so show the reality of Medicine profession... Yes I too realize many times.. How they keep motivated in 10yrs of medicine after MD with PG preparation.. Actually every profession have dark reality even Civil services, govt Engg, PSU, banking.all sector... Expect defence Forces.
Hllo...Anuj Bhaiya....I am currently preparing for NEET-UG. I came across this video of yours..This did not demotivate me but motivated me to do good for others and myself as well......Thank you for spreading awareness and bringing hope.....I will definitely try to follow the right path....May God bless everyone🙏🏻
Talking about harsh truths in medical field is very courageous. You did amazing job .I hope the silent good seniors also have to speak up to bring the change
It's great to see now indian doctors have started to speak about exhaustion and burnout... Earlier I used to watch only American or other country health care worker talk about this issue and I used to think if could feel and see with my own eyes this condition in my country why is nobody talking about it now I feel I'm not alone
Apke jaisa senior sabko mile👍
Yes! I met a resident doctor today which made me search this video, he too said the same...and honestly its all what is actually happening! Preparing for neet is a horrifying race for me now...but this cycle should break and that is possible if this generation take the initiative. Becoming doctor is saving life...this too will save many lives !
This is the kind of motivation I need after failing neet.
@Harshit Mittal do CA. It's very easy.
WOHHH indeed
@@Karina_J Are you a CA? What do you know about CA? At least get some information before commenting about random things...I know people who have sacrificed 10-11 years of their life to become a CA. Just because 3/4 people you know became CA does not mean it is easy. They must have worked hard, given their life to achieve it.
@@dishalade go for pharmacy na
Bro I cracked neet and trust me it’s not worth it
It has been 6 months of my 1st year of MBBS. And from the one month of ragging, that I am constantly told was nothing, have taken a good toll upon me till now. This intense phobia of talking to any of my seniors has grown to the roots and I am left out by all of them just because i wasn't so entertaining, or was scared.
It's tough to be here, in the environment where you are helpless. And I am.
Senior junior relationship is TOXIC. When some seniors try to overcome that toxicity, their batchmates nd seniors don't let them do it. And they, been scared by the same cause, cannot change the tables.
Wishing to change this code with my juniors, but i am unfortunately sure, i won't be allowed, or ever let to do so. Cuz that same fear will strike me there again.
Seniors hide under the word "interaction"
Can you please explain what does interaction include?
@@ramlal1567 MR sir ke student ho 👀!?
This 'interaction' wala term is very problematic. Interaction bolke Ragging karte hai.
This is some hard straight talk.. This is bitter this is reality.. As sad as it made me, I hope this changes one day, and we have knowledge and support being pillars of the growth of the medical industry in india..
I think there is some sort of toxicity in every field not just medicine we need to be strong and tackle this ......and take a pledge to not let our juniors face this......
Hi Anuj hope you are good, I am not a doctor but 2 days back I witness the toxicity and my heart just sank
watching the scene.
Context: My cousin had a swelling in his arm so he was admitted in the surgical department of Swaroop rani hospital prayagraj and I had to stay with him in the hospital, there was a junior doctor by the name Utkarsh. He was gentle, understanding, hardworking(6 am to 12 am) and most of the patient were happy with him because he was approachable unlike other doctors. one day I saw him abused both verbally and physically by another doctor, literally that mf was slapping and abusing doctor Utkarsh for 5 mins straight and nobody in the room did anything(room was locked otherwise I would have confronted that animal). It has been 3 days since the event happened and I am not able to forget it.
Utkarsh sir if you are watching this video, you are great and I hope you would get out of that toxicity and be somewhere better.
Really this happens??
I'm from Prayagraj too, and this is truly heartbreaking
Hope Dr. Utkarsh is ok😔
You are great utkarsh sir
I'm sure that senior was taking out his frustration of his life. Just like teachers and parents scold us for no reason. We have to stop this thing
I though residency is such bad in Australia ( that’s where I did my medicine & MD) until saw this video. But definitely, we didn’t have anything called junior-senior toxicity.
The fear which you mentioned at the latter part of the video is literally every where, I got penalised $40,000 for something that wasn’t even my mistake. Eventually, the decision got revert but the mental torture my family & I went through was so significant. Sometimes I think it’s not worth it, However; I get my driving force when I get blessings from hundreds of other patients & families.
Brother I suggest you to purchase an appropriate insurance, if one available in India before hitting the floor even as a residence.
OMG really toxic reality ...😗
Students study hard to clear *neet UG* first ,took so much coachings and drops in hope of getting admission in MBBS
Then all of this is waiting for us in future 🙃
If all this is happening to such hardworking and talented students Then where is that dream life we all wanted...
Is that life only for actors with no sense of acting , or youtubers who make time wasting vlogging videos ,or for politicians who only think for themselves 😏
There is no fairy dream life of mbbs all youtubers are showing superficial life of mbbs
You never go for mbbs aiming for a happy life....
Yeah ask any doctor they ll be happy finally at the age of 40 -50 but initial periods are real struggle....
@@adityanrvarier7406 what u are u even saying mtlb 60 saal m woh jii rha h ya katt rha h kitna din bacha h mtlb 40saal mehnat kro aur sirf 2 saal achha feel kro ?? Bhai kya h yeh
That's really good. At the end of any education v need money to survive.
I haven’t really commented on any video yet, but this one really compelled me to break the history.
People be taking drops after drops, putting in immense efforts, sleepless days and nights, and going through so much already; what for?? Just to be harassed and committing suicides in the end. This is an utter disappointment.
The video should be noted, and the concerned authorities are requested to take every needed actions ASAP.
Respect to the video creator✨
Ikr. Even I am taking my 2nd drop and no one wish for this..upar se being a girl everyone says ldki h umr horahi .. ghr p baithi h. I know boys have problems like this too. But still I am preparing for the dream which I will fulfill for sure but this reality literally hits hard.. sometimes it feels does it really worth it?
@@shimu36 yes its worth it
I have seen doctors drive BMW,AUDIs to hospital
These incidents are very few
Don't get demotivated it's one of the best profession in india
@@messpice Sorry to say when they drive bmw Audi they are literally a 45 yr old man for some people age matters because at after a certain age we just don't get exicted much about that thing ..
And your last point is totally what anuj bhaiya mentioned in video that there are many cases but they don't speak about it as they are scared of their seniors .. He literally said in the starting of the video live with fake stories forever or face the truth..
U can cross my points I'm here
@@shimu36 Sorry to say when they drive bmw Audi they are literally a 45 yr old man for some people age matters because at after a certain age we just don't get exicted much about that thing ..
And your last point is totally what anuj bhaiya mentioned in video that there are many cases but they don't speak about it as they are scared of their seniors .. He literally said in the starting of the video live with fake stories forever or face the truth..
U can cross my points I'm here
@@shimu36 No worries!! People will always have something to say.
Stick to what u dreamt.
Best wishes
All this is so true . Its actually very toxic environment , you end up just being depressed .
I just completed my internship a few months back i can tell u how i have enjoyed my life since then was never like that in my mbbs
Residents bully u
Professors bully
They have created a rut culture i hate it
I feel so bad whenever i see kids giving neet ug that they would have to live a life likethat despite studying so much. 😢
Truly amazing Video !
This is a very Serious issue that needs to be pointed out more often.
Great work Man 💯
Absolutely , this was the reality faced by us in our early days , thanks for covering such an important issue
I appreciate the kind of honesty and bringing truth to the limelight.keep going .all the best
Such an eye opener!
I really hope that we the upcoming doctors can make this field more better and 'noble' the way they call it
Even after knowing abt all the struggles we would going to face in future, still I dont Wanna give up on my dream. And Change all these things. Thanks anuj bhai for this.😇
Being a neet UG aspirant watching this video really calls forth your resolve
I belong to a 2007 batch , at that time it was said that profs/faculty used to tell seniors ki tumhare juniors batch ko tameez nahi hai , tameez means having to wear plain cloths and not to ask questions . Excitement for college shattered , can’t say reality to parents and was getting beaten by seniors during night time .
Which clg??
Not to ask questions?
Why are you here then professor i can just watch in marrow
Thanks for sharing reality 🙏
After watching this i am now clear to follow my passion instead od becoming doctor....thank you anuj sir you are really a very kind person
What is ur passion
Nice
Hey if you don't mind asking what is your passion and what are you going to do now . Have you taken a drop for neet
@@Startstar-u7b I am very much interested in business and management and now I am clear to go with that...now I can work on my soft skills like public speaking and other which I am interested and soon I will be a part of indias best business school.
@@unknownboi3399 which buissness school you are planning to join and I'm also interested in buissness but I'm scared as I took a year drop and didn't get selected and I am also not that much interested in medical but I'm scared right now that how will I face my parents who always trusted me now I have two options Either join normal bsc or bsc nursing
Being a senior GMC student you are bringing the truth to public.... Really doing a great job... Ab NEET ki tayari chod do aur chalo engineering karne... 😵
Thanks bhau ❤️🙏🙏
Bhau tu marathi boltos...??
@@sahilgomchale9322 he has been living in pune all his life so yes probably
@anon I guess he lives in Nagpur Right... Kya kuch bhi saare videos me to usne sirf Nagpur bola hai..
@@sahilgomchale9322 ah shit i meant nagpur
A close friend of mine did Post grad in the UK… the system under which he studied was too unrealistic true…. He never wanted to come back, it was too good to leave. In India, system is a mash up … teachers are toxic, unsatisfied with their lives, poor personal life, that they screw up their students lives.
In my college everyone has normalized ragging like it's meant to be if you're student
And if anybody resist and talk to dean/professor about it
They just discriminate that person and isolate him/her.
That's very toxic and we must take stand for that
I'll never ever rag anyone who's junior than me and will love to help juniors❤️🤟
Which College ?
I will prefer to be isolated rather than lossing my self respect
And we the future medical students will definitely bring positive changes.❤️
Every word you told is absolutely correct...respecting, helping, valuing each other should be cultivated by everyone
It's my heartiest pleasure and thank you brother for coming out with such a big fact.. Hope so everything goes all right.
Thank you Anuj bhyya for this reality check ❤️. I am preparing for neet 2023 even after not clearing it in my 1st somewhat serious attempt. After knowing all the reality of medical college system I don't why but I will still work hard and chase my dream of becoming a real good Dr. My parents always says that beta sirf ek Dr ni ek acchi Dr. Bnna ❤️ When I was not aware of this reality I always thought ki doctors are definition of humanity. In my area there are no multi-speciality hospitals and just one govt. college and honestly people don't give respect to Doctors that they deserve so I thought k bade cities k hospital to qafi acche hote hoge and mai wha jaugi but . even I am not a medical student and just an aspirant I have plans to give USMLE/PLAB instead of NEET PG.this reality hits hard...but anyway we will change this system for sure
Exactly I will also give plab
Preparing for neet 2024 , I hope we get seniors that would genuinely be helpful so that the juniors learn from them & become the same loving seniors in the future❤.
10am squad here#
Thanks for your sincerity towards posting the video for our motivation
Hope this doesn’t demotivate some of you. 🙏 always have your best interest at heart ❤️
@@DrAnujPachhel sure brother
Even after knowing all this people don't really talk about this . Even if a person is a doctor himself,sometimes he also needs a doctor.
During crisis we believe doctor is the one who is going to save him but if he failed to do so we start blaming him, we have to understand that he is a human not a creator not God . it's life and life is always unpredictable
And I'm so proud of those doctors even after having so much of mental toxicity, so much of pain they choose to be a doctor and not quiting their job. Hats off🙏
As Anuj bhaiya said "we can change this if we start know " , we can change this world by being those seniors we always wish to have.
Someone who's in medical field and dealing with anxiety n depression
I approve all these facts 🥲✌🏼
I'm a neet aspirant really disappointed to see this negative side of medicine...means for what purpose we are studying day nd night sacrificing our youth to crack neet !!!? To get toxicity nd suicide thoughts 💔 but definitely together we can bring a change ..it always starts from we ourselves making a change ✨
U don't need to sacrifice ur youth..
U can always settle in other countries
@@sohamnikam4578 nice thought . If everyone will settle abroad than who will take care of this country.
@@anshusingh1781 a country which don't respect its own jewels and necessaries its better to leave it exactly what I did
@@Ayush-wd1gc everyone has their own thoughts . Running is not the solution of everything. And most of doctors don't leave becoz of family.
If Current Situation doesn't changes towards a future where we see eachother as a Human first then those days are not far when Result of this Toxicity will take a turn and instead of Junior Ending His Own LIFE because of Toxicity will be so Desperate to End His Senior's .
Sab log same nhi hote...
Soch Lo..
Faisla apke haath me hai.
Rightly said.. this topic is a need of an hour for Medical Fraternity to seriously look upon. We should unlearn the inappropriate practices of past.
This is happening everywhere.
Irrespective of age, seniority,gender,intellect one should respect each other.
Because not everyone is mentally tough!!
Your words and actions can cause irreversible damage to others.
It's is a subtle crime.
Ragging,Bullying should be reported and action is to be taken immediately.No matter who they are
I promise when i become a doctor,i will cooperate with my juniors and ask them to carry this attitude forward...so that we can together make medicine a much better place!!
You won’t …..the process will make sure of that.
@@assasincreed3461 we can...if we all play our part together
@@assasincreed3461 yes we can, definitely we can. Agar tum pehle se hi system ko acha maan chuke ho ya uske samne ghutne tek chuke ho, then it can't be changed. Because change is from within.
from class 6th i had face a lot of ragging by our seniors , not physical but mentally , they used to yell at us without any reasons and make us do there works and no body use to tell those things to there parents as we were too small that time and yes it was always me because i was from another state and now i am preparing for neet 2025 , anuj bhaiya really sacred my old self who was still fighting to come over with those awful days but still i cannot leave my childhood dream . thank you anuj bhaiya for such informatory video
I am neet aspirant 2023 your video is really help to how to learning with scientific method thanks bhaiya 😊
Keep grinding 👍
Finally I got this video from Anuj Bhaiyyaa ❤️❤️❤️
We must actually increase the salary.... Put a severe ban on Ragging and strict laws must be implemented on attack on doctors
If you guys can't take the stress it's ok stop everything and take a break and find answers...End of day your family, your lovef ones wants you to live.. life is to thrive not just live.
Hey! I’m a first year student and I can totally relate. from just after my freshers party, I’ve killed my interactions with my seniors to absolute zero. I blend in with the background. Though I’m lucky to have my sister as a pg student somewhere else, she guides me academically but for one’s who don’t have that privilege, I see them embracing the toxic relations. What’s worse is that within first few months the idea that teachers are never gonna help us out was implanted in our minds by seniors and other batchmates who agreed unknowingly. Even though I now know that is not true.
Thank you for being so transparent... I hope some day a Fmg ( Foreign Medical graduate) student's story is also unfolded the same way..being a FMG i feel.. a lot is there not spoken about..
Hi Anuj....i am MD general medicine... whatever u have told is very very true....i want to do super speciality but with the fear of what l have gone through my pg...m not able to motivate my self to get into ss....off course it's not for demotivating but harrassment should be stopped ....plus general public should really know what we r gone through....well said....
hey anuj. I'm not a medical student but your journey and your approach towards things inspire me so much. the way you take leap towards things that most of the people don't. hatsoff to you bro. you're really are one of a kind. i wish you a good health and peace of mind all the time.
I am first year mbbs student at government medical college kottayam,kerala.....In my college there is not a single piece of ragging...seniors are so friendly...After watching this...I think I am so blessed to get admission to my college🤩🤩😇
Hey how much neet score we need to get in ktym Mch
Please reply
Oh kollallo ragging onum ille ipo. It was really bad when I was there in 2016. Still pg life is still crap there, As of 2022 . Not due to anyone in particular. It's just that the there isnt enough doctors and pgs and too much patients too.
@@aswineapenabraham1429 i don't know about the pg situation.....there is no ragging in ug college
@@devikasunil6714 around 800 rank is enough(kerala rank)
@@devikasunil6714kottayam is the third ranked college in Kerala. You can get it at 7500 rank in the makeup or stray round if aiq.
I am from NHLMMC , AHMEDABAD and in my 5 years I’ve never seen ragging or unwanted toxicity . We follow this rule of earning respect and you can call seniors by names . Everyone’s really helpful to each other and we always try to make way for helping each other out instead of pulling each otehr down . Lucky to be at a place like this .
Really ?? You didn't go through all those ragging part ..nd what about residency ??
The syllabus of mbbs few decades ago didn't use to be this vast compared to now ..people use to get residency easily... Competition was less... Now the scenario is changing and we dont know whatll happen in future.. The only way to survive is to be really passionate about this ... So that money or competition won't affect you.. That doesn't mean Compromising and not fighting against injustice and ragging but to be satisfied and be able to balance and adapt and not breathing toxicity everyday