Ex-Jehovah's Witness therapist shares his story.

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 45

  • @leogolive
    @leogolive 4 месяца назад +13

    I was raised as a JW from about 4 years old until I was 18. I’m 48 years old now and left the organization years ago. But I’ve realized over the years that I definitely need therapy because of this religion. Even at almost 50 years old I know that I’m still not normal. Thanks mom and dad…

  • @tammyg8031
    @tammyg8031 5 месяцев назад +28

    I am so glad he went to college and pursued his career. It's great that both him & his mother left. It's great that many continue to leave. ❤. Join the upcoming protest in WASHINGTON D.C. at the WHITE House. Protest will be on September 13, 2024, during National Suicide Prevention Month. Shun No More 2024

    • @Mombal5
      @Mombal5 4 месяца назад +3

      Really? This is awesome! I want them to change shunning so bad. I’ll never go back but I want to sit with my dad and talk one more time. He’s almost 80 and he has his doubts but won’t leave the organization because he said he wouldn’t know where to go from there. It’s so sad. The shinning has to stop

  • @heatherwillson4862
    @heatherwillson4862 5 месяцев назад +20

    Leaving is a journey. Everyones is different. It can be hard & difficult, but ever so beautiful. It opens the door to learning & growing. Im still on my journey. But,...I love to travel. 🐎🦋

  • @solomonsmith1725
    @solomonsmith1725 5 месяцев назад +25

    It’s interesting to me how diverse we all are and how different our exit journeys are

  • @suecowles4560
    @suecowles4560 5 месяцев назад +12

    You are a very good interviewer Vievian.. This was great... thinking about anger and being a victim, I like the saying don't pack your bags and stay there... it is something we have to maybe go through but like you said we don't want to stay there.. People will say but half my life is gone now, well do you want the rest to go too.. So Life is good... thanks...

  • @jazzminejackson9181
    @jazzminejackson9181 3 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for sharing your story Ryan. He's a very nice guy to talk to. We spoke when I first left the org around 2018.

  • @denisealmeida5296
    @denisealmeida5296 3 месяца назад +1

    I applaud you for being a therapist. Unfortunately in the early 90s there was no one like you. I had severe PTSD in my 20s and had flashbacks in my 30s and finally registered psychologist. Keep up the good work

  • @valmegan7157
    @valmegan7157 5 месяцев назад +11

    Interesting interview, thanks!
    I’m happy his mother woke up. Perhaps while she was hospitalized for a long period of time, that break in indoctrination is what did it! Personally, that is what helped me, covid! I finally got away from the constant lovebombing and indoctrination.

    • @NewSkiwi
      @NewSkiwi 4 месяца назад

      Agreed. I took 3 yrs to do my degree n ECE to "future proof" my earning potential as I approached my 60s. I do believe it was the break from constant indoctrination that started freeing my mind. Oh, and the requirements to think critically.

  • @trevorbeeler3061
    @trevorbeeler3061 3 месяца назад

    I recently saw a comment on reddit from therapist, exjw. It was amazing talking to you! So shocked a therapist who lived it. Thank you what a gift to all of us. 💝❤

  • @tammyg8031
    @tammyg8031 5 месяцев назад +10

    I went to my prom too❤...lol. and class reunions. And I didn't get struck down...lol

  • @ozie4779
    @ozie4779 5 месяцев назад +6

    I've done Ayahuasca myself. It was very beneficial. Unfortunately, I found out I'm bipolar so they will not allow me to partake anymore. I would definitely do it again if given the opportunity. Saying hello to my ex jw and Ayahuasca brother and sister! 🙂

    • @megan.toni.singss
      @megan.toni.singss 3 месяца назад

      Heyyy where did you go? I know a place in Europe, think they might be more flexible with things like that

    • @mamajan99
      @mamajan99 3 месяца назад

      WHAT??? They will not allow you to partake! Who do they think they are? Jesus said: They "shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. They themselves do not enter, nor will they let those enter who are trying to." You have Jesus permission to partake of His flesh and blood. Please accept Christ's permission! Welcome to the family of God.

  • @migdaliafuentes1618
    @migdaliafuentes1618 5 месяцев назад +2

    There is a lot of talent and it’s sad to know that many inside (not awakened) can contribute to humanity not only at the scientific and law area but in arts, sports and many more areas!! In the congregation that I went there were 2 teen brothers vey brilliant kids, with innovated ideas and unfortunately they got married have children and struggling economically and still
    Are in the cult- it’s sad!
    Thank you for this interview! Wish him the best in his life! Glad he and mom are out of the cult and was able to get the high education he wanted.
    Greetings to all!

  • @phil6740
    @phil6740 5 месяцев назад +3

    Beautiful interview!

  • @jmalko9152
    @jmalko9152 5 месяцев назад +4

    Informative, thank you ❤️

  • @ThatWomanJezebel
    @ThatWomanJezebel 4 месяца назад +2

    Again - another awesome interview!!!!!!!

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  4 месяца назад

      So glad you enjoyed it💖

  • @MJ-rn9fx
    @MJ-rn9fx 3 месяца назад

    Thankyou for sharing this . I relate.

  • @desireewelvaert494
    @desireewelvaert494 29 дней назад +1

    I've been out, and alone. All alone. So I am going to counseling now.

  • @rubydejesus9119
    @rubydejesus9119 4 месяца назад +3

    I love the organization very much, but it's too much rules and regulations difficult to deal with. You shouldn't feel like you're being stifle with rules.

    • @vestland3877
      @vestland3877 2 месяца назад +2

      What about the molester database?

  • @skyone2380
    @skyone2380 Месяц назад

    No entiendo todo pero que bueno que salio.y pudo liberarse.de la secta gracias 😊

  • @micaiahbowman1900
    @micaiahbowman1900 3 месяца назад

    What is a retreat ?

  • @IsaiahChap.96
    @IsaiahChap.96 Месяц назад

    Great Video 🙏 please share with Jehova's witnesses, the scripture St. Isaiah Chap. 9:6 , the new world translation mentions Jesus christ is God and the wording can't be changed. 👍

  • @thomascomston8100
    @thomascomston8100 4 месяца назад

    They created a monster inside of me

  • @traceym2020
    @traceym2020 5 месяцев назад +2

    Was he ever baptized as a JW?

    • @drryanlee
      @drryanlee 4 месяца назад +4

      I was! Unfortunately lol

  • @cosmiclove2795
    @cosmiclove2795 Месяц назад

    I'm surprised at how many of us ex jws have been helped by ayahuasca plant medicine

  • @digbot5987
    @digbot5987 4 месяца назад

    Have you ran into them in public when you be somewhere

  • @alexmwabi7023
    @alexmwabi7023 5 месяцев назад +4

    “Happy are you when people reproach you and persecute you and lyingly say every sort of wicked thing against you for my sake. Rejoice and be overjoyed, since your reward is great in the heavens, for in that way they persecuted the prophets prior to you. - Matthew 5:10-12
    "people will hand you over to tribulation and will kill you, and you will be hated by all the nations on account of my name." - Matthew 24:9, Luke 21:12,13
    We cannot prevent those things that Jesus talked about from happening because they must happen. Therefore, we are not surprised to see God's people being accused today with false claims, half truths and torture. Jesus was treated like that.( John 15:18,19) Although he didn't do any evil to anybody, religious leaders and hateful people accused him with false claims and half truths and he was tortured and killed as a criminal. The Christians who were present at the time of Jesus in the first century were treated in the same way. These things are not new, they happened in the past and are happening today. The purpose of the false claims and half-truths our opponents make is to sow doubt in Jehovah's people. That is one of the method Satan uses to draw people away from Jehovah and make them stop preaching work. Opponents promise to give people freedom when they themselves are not free. They are misled and they mislead others. Their portion will be according to their deeds. (2Peter 2:19,20, Romans 2:6-9)
    Jehovah knows those who belongs to him. So we will not be distracted, we will continue to focus on the important work of finding honest people to preach and teach them the good news of the kingdom - Matthew 24:14, Matthew 28:18-20.

    • @williammencia5857
      @williammencia5857 5 месяцев назад +3

      What are "the half truths and false claims "????

    • @osogrande4999
      @osogrande4999 5 месяцев назад

      And yet you’re still in a cult and worship a book character that within its first chapters is already murdering children and babies. No amount of reasoning can get you out of that fact.

    • @drryanlee
      @drryanlee 4 месяца назад +1

      Know your audience my friend lol

    • @Melchizedek11
      @Melchizedek11 4 месяца назад +2

      Hi Alex Mwabi...how come you commenting here?
      ...
      You are welcome here...
      ...
      Reverse all the answer and quotes...
      ...
      "We" are the ones who are killed and persecuted because we been what you still are!!
      ..
      Take good care of yourself Alex🎉❤

    • @osogrande4999
      @osogrande4999 4 месяца назад

      @@alexmwabi7023 What nonsense. If the fictional Satan were to exist in this fantasy bible netherworld you talk about then 2 things would be true. First, he would be the nice guy compared to the genocidal lunatic that is the God character. Second, with a score by your numbers of God 8million - Satan 8billion, I don’t think he would even be trying at this point. But of course I don’t expect you to actually do any real thinking, why would you, someone transplanted their ideas into your mind from an early age so you don’t need to.