Another key thing to add is to the empath there is no "narcissist" and "empath". Usually the true empath does not know these terms and just thinks that other person is normal with a bad childhood. That's why they try so hard and stick around so long, because they don't realize the other person is toxic, just that they are troubled and need help. Meanwhile the narcissist just thinks "Man, what a sucker." and "I'm soooo much better than them."
Dammm that’s the relationship between me and my mom bcoz of my love and care she thinks I’m a weak person but I wanted to show her what she don’t for the past 20 years and I finally learned my lesson
100 percent accurate A thought about narcissist inside an empath mind is She is like this because of parenting And meanwhile she will ride any d around the world and will say I am far better i deserve it as i am Being victim What about a narcissist who will blame u always that u r narc
The enpath's blind spot is that they do not know narcissists or psychopaths exist. They believe everyone is like them. Good, kind, and fair, except they have bad days and or are treated badly by others. Ironically, the narcissist and psychopath have this problem too. "Everyone is out to get me" or "Everybody lies, cheats, and steals." or "Everyone cheats on their spouse, the spouse just doesn't know it." It's the same side of the same coin, both sides don't know the other's world exists.
Yeah she abused me for almost 5 years and I was stupid for staying as long as I did, it damaged me and made my self esteem low. I’m still trying to recover and figure out who I am and it’s been almost 3 years since that toxic relationship ended. I gave & gave and she took, took, took and took advantage of all I had to give 💔Never ever again will I ever be fooled by a pretty face and a story about their traumatic childhood. I’m ruined enough already and I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to be in another relationship again because of the mental and emotional abuse Elizabeth put me through 😔
May I know more about the 'their traumatic childhood' part? Did she use her chilhood trauma story as a bait to hook you so that you can use your empathy to try to save her and then while you start doing that, she uses you as her supply?
@@alphabeta525 she was abused when she was about 3 years or age, I don’t feel comfortable saying much more because it’s her personal story and I respect that, but she never got help or therapy AND then years later she had a very extremely abusive husband on all fronts, as in mental, emotional and physical. It’s really tragic, and often 2 people with lots of a Trauma and abuse can come together BUT if both are not learning, healing, growing and trying to get help and work together as a team then it’s only one-sided. I have love and respect for her from a distance but I do not condone the way I was treated but I also know she’s not in the same felid of awareness and has yet to work on herself and through her past Trauma so that she can better manage her post traumatic stress disorder like I do. Different Timelines so to speak 🗣 if that makes sense
Sounds like what I've been through. I have high empathy (I think) and I've always thought the ex-wife would change. But no, she just kept getting worse and worse, eventually committing adultery and other crimes (some not against me). Crazy. We often clashed because she only thought of herself while I always thought of others, being pissed off whenever I see others neglected by her.
Child Services never receive this training and It is essential. The rate of narcissism in a population should be equal among all demographics. There is definitely a bias against men and that should not be. Considering a child left with a narcissist would be emotionally abused. As it takes genuine compassion, remorse and empathy to raise a child.
I’m 23 spent most of my life showing love ,care and support but all I got is to be treated badly I thought she must have bad day or something happened but she always sees me as weak person it’s ok it’s not too late we can pick ourselves and live the life we deserve and treat these people how they really are and we need to stop fake stories to ourselves
Another key thing to add is to the empath there is no "narcissist" and "empath". Usually the true empath does not know these terms and just thinks that other person is normal with a bad childhood. That's why they try so hard and stick around so long, because they don't realize the other person is toxic, just that they are troubled and need help.
Meanwhile the narcissist just thinks "Man, what a sucker." and "I'm soooo much better than them."
Yes! Well said...thank you for sharing this added perspective!
Dammm that’s the relationship between me and my mom bcoz of my love and care she thinks I’m a weak person but I wanted to show her what she don’t for the past 20 years and I finally learned my lesson
@@steffe9051 thank you for sharing ❤️
100 percent accurate
A thought about narcissist inside an empath mind is
She is like this because of parenting
And meanwhile she will ride any d around the world and will say I am far better i deserve it as i am
Being victim
What about a narcissist who will blame u always that u r narc
The enpath's blind spot is that they do not know narcissists or psychopaths exist. They believe everyone is like them. Good, kind, and fair, except they have bad days and or are treated badly by others.
Ironically, the narcissist and psychopath have this problem too.
"Everyone is out to get me" or "Everybody lies, cheats, and steals." or
"Everyone cheats on their spouse, the spouse just doesn't know it."
It's the same side of the same coin, both sides don't know the other's world exists.
Thank you for sharing this!! Excellent perspective ❤️
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Wow spot on!! so beautifully explained for people who know nothing about Narcissists and Narcissistic abuse.
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Sounds like angels and demons, literally.
Yeah she abused me for almost 5 years and I was stupid for staying as long as I did, it damaged me and made my self esteem low. I’m still trying to recover and figure out who I am and it’s been almost 3 years since that toxic relationship ended. I gave & gave and she took, took, took and took advantage of all I had to give 💔Never ever again will I ever be fooled by a pretty face and a story about their traumatic childhood. I’m ruined enough already and I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to be in another relationship again because of the mental and emotional abuse Elizabeth put me through 😔
You're not stupid. Thank you so much for sharing ❤
@@choosingtherapy 💕thank you
May I know more about the 'their traumatic childhood' part? Did she use her chilhood trauma story as a bait to hook you so that you can use your empathy to try to save her and then while you start doing that, she uses you as her supply?
@@alphabeta525 she was abused when she was about 3 years or age, I don’t feel comfortable saying much more because it’s her personal story and I respect that, but she never got help or therapy AND then years later she had a very extremely abusive husband on all fronts, as in mental, emotional and physical. It’s really tragic, and often 2 people with lots of a Trauma and abuse can come together BUT if both are not learning, healing, growing and trying to get help and work together as a team then it’s only one-sided.
I have love and respect for her from a distance but I do not condone the way I was treated but I also know she’s not in the same felid of awareness and has yet to work on herself and through her past Trauma so that she can better manage her post traumatic stress disorder like I do.
Different Timelines so to speak 🗣 if that makes sense
Sounds like what I've been through. I have high empathy (I think) and I've always thought the ex-wife would change. But no, she just kept getting worse and worse, eventually committing adultery and other crimes (some not against me). Crazy. We often clashed because she only thought of herself while I always thought of others, being pissed off whenever I see others neglected by her.
Thank you for sharing!
seeing compassionate people as needy or weak is i think a form of psychosis, mental illness.
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Child Services never receive this training and It is essential. The rate of narcissism in a population should be equal among all demographics. There is definitely a bias against men and that should not be. Considering a child left with a narcissist would be emotionally abused. As it takes genuine compassion, remorse and empathy to raise a child.
Thanks for bringing this up....it needs to be talked about more ❤
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This analysis was super duper 👌🏽🙏🏼 easy to digest and understand. Well done , it was short sweet logical and accurate. Thanks for video 😆
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Well said mam🙏
I'm still sitting in my room not knowing what to do 12 years of hell
I’m 23 spent most of my life showing love ,care and support but all I got is to be treated badly I thought she must have bad day or something happened but she always sees me as weak person it’s ok it’s not too late we can pick ourselves and live the life we deserve and treat these people how they really are and we need to stop fake stories to ourselves
So true!
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Are you a empath or a narcissist?? Says the truth