Please Help Me, I Put Hands On My Wife!| KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- Jason and Allysa are a couple with a pattern of toxic behavior. When they argue, it has turned physical with his anger issues coming to the forefront. Can Karamo help Allyssa realize she's in an abusive relationship?
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He seems somewhat self aware and seems like he wants help but the damage is done. They cheat on each other, he’s abusive, the children are aware. It’s sad.
She’s so afraid ❤
These males are fully aware about what they're doing. It's why they're doing it in the first place.
No-one knows what pain ppl are enduring
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecake 😂😂
Nothing that cannot be fixed
I respect that he admitted the abuse and he came for help. This is highly unusual.
But Karamo chose to make him an animal instead, this show is ridiculous and shameful. Further damaging our community and turning men and women out to be gay or men haters.
@@Mortis33-o4b what are you talking about?
@@Mortis33-o4b ur slow
@@Mortis33-o4b no. He made sure the wife understood that she was in an abusive relationship. His healing his something he has to figure out, and it's best they do it apart.
He really strikes me as a hurt individual. I hope he does get help.
As a victim of domestic violence I'm praying that this doesn't end in tragedy ..
Exactly
It will
I hope and pray not. I do know violence as my dad would beat me bloody.
@@terricunningham6810 .. I'm sorry that you endured that you're in my thoughts and prayers..
@@terricunningham6810same here,had my nose broken/whipped with belts,punched,slapped,strangled..i pray you're healing 🙏
Ain’t no marks being made from no shoving, BFFR! He’s abusive & it’s CLEAR. Of course he’s cheated on her & it’s “no big deal” but she did it & now the world is ending. Boy, BOO‼️
That's how the world handles their dumbass fragile egos. Im certain his bs don't compare to hers and she probably did it looking for an escape but at this point, she needs to leave him sadly
I bruise from small things. Especially our skin tones. But your right he did more than that.
@@khalil6307 I too bruise easily, I’ve been shoved more than a lil bit in the past & the bruises never came from that. That’s part of the reason I don’t believe that’s all he did. She’s frightened by him, I pray she leaves him & his damn ears.
But she didn’t react in a disbelieving way. I believe he only shoved
She is terrified of him. She is being abused. Why would she undermine him when she has probably heard him tell this lie may times @@Sabaki
I really admire how vulnerable he is. I have to say that because he’s all the way wrong but he can see where he needs the help.
Facts! Men always get blamed but never get help. Many black men are abused at home and in jails and prisons. That’s why there is so much violence in our community. Karamo was abused himself, but many men choose the mother’s side and become Allies of toxic women and men haters.
Remorse. He not a man
@@dynastyshawntell3015you can’t be a man and remorseful and have regrets?? What are you saying bro 😂
He’s saying because it sounds good
He's all around abusive. And I know it comes from where he's been and seen.. HOWEVER, we are responsible for our healing. DO THE WORK!
This right here!
Clearly he's taking steps that's why he is here 🙄
That part
And he needs to do the work someplace by his damn self
@@thomasyoung5013 But..this type of comment is the reason why some feel like they can wait! This man been KNEW he had anger issues! He had no business in ANYBODY'S relationship! Yet alone getting married! And, I'm not solely put all the blame on him, because she ignored the signals "red flags," due to her need and validation for a any kind of man and low self-worth. 'GET THE HELP!'
He puts his hands on her when she cheated, but she did not when he cheated. Cheating is not an excuse for physical abuse. We can all manage our emotions.
It’s hard controlling emotions while pregnant
Saying we can all manage our emotions is very narrow minded. The brain doesn’t work that way, especially if their is a chemical imbalance, thats when we see the social emotional delays. If the husband lived a life in chronic stress thats takes a toll in the brain and the mental. Although he may want to control his emotions and his impulses his brain is not wired to do so. Unless he gets therapy.
Not always true. Why do you think so many women never spend a day in prison when they find their husband in the act of cheating? That’s why it’s called a Crime of Passion.
This is not an excuse but It’s how humans are. That’s why there is a law for it.
Sounds like these replies are giving excuses for physical abuse, SUPER YIKES
@@Hawttamale Never an excuse for such behavior. There only reasons.
I went through this only I didn't cheat. Married a broken man that I couldn't fix or heal. I left him 12 years ago. 8 months pregnant with our second child. The final straw was being hit while pregnant. I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than to ever let another broken human to hurt me.
Did he change?
Me too… I’m so proud of you! And God is gonna bless you beautiful, and is going to continue to bless you
Good for you! How are you and the kids doing? ❤
@@auzy2u845
How would she know? She left the BANDIT!
Wait. You abuse me and STILL wanna unlock my phone. This man do not want help. He wants control.
idk how wise it is to go through an abused womans phone with the potential to upset her physically abusive and angry husband right beside her on TV. don't know what can of worms this can open up for her behind the scenes
This episode hit hard. Like you really see and feel the genuine emotion and sincerity with this couple. My heart goes out to both of them.
I hate how much he is playing the victim...they both cheated, and they both need to learn some healthy communication skills...but he is physically abusing her. That is UNACCEPTABLE. I don't care how much your feelings are hurt, you do not put your hands on anyone out of anger, grief, or a need to control.
Bingo!
RIGHT!!!!!
Exactly and he seemed to forget that he also cheated and failed to mention physically abusing his wife. He was too busy building an excuse for his abuse smh. I wouldn’t trust him. This relationship is behind toxic atp.
Thank you !!!!? Like cheating is bad, but NOTHING justify putting hands on someone and call names
@@ToBTee2 I agree with you but don’t lie on that man like that. We just all sat up here and watch him admit to putting hands on his wife. It’s the title of the video.
They both wrong he cheated and abusive and the woman is a cheater too. She cheated multiple times as well.
God sees BOTH as sin. So stop with this nonsense while you ahead.
He needs help and she needs help.
If he’s going to be abusive then leave, if she’s going to keep cheating then leave. That simple.
I’ll never understand why moms say that they don’t want their kids to be in a separate home, but what’s the alternative?? Seeing you get abused emotionally and physically?? I pray she finds the strength to leave because he’s broken and she can’t fix him.
Exactly…. When the kids see that it’s just as bad. What’s the point of making ur kids see that & go through that… it’s going to mess them up
Someone convinced them it’s a good excuse not to leave. I’m sick of hearing it cus it doesnt make sense when your kids are living in fear.
Men can't forgive especially aldultery.
I believe it's a fear to start all over. The fear of the unknown. The fear of doing it all by yourself even when you are doing it all by yourself. The fear of what society will say.
Or worse. Death! In a lot of domestic situations the abuser threatens to kill them or their children if they should try to leave.
I commend him for opening up and recognizing he has a problem, as a black man it's hard for them to express their feelings I pray he truly gets help individually and them as a family..I'm routing for them as a family, he really seems like a stand up guy outside of his abusive ways
he clearly can express his feelings. he expressed them enough to abuse her. what are you talking about?
What do you mean “outside of his abusive ways”?? Be so for real!
Really dont think colour has a single thing to to with wether a male is abusive or not its the nature if the beast..hes abusive simple as
Black women and their coddling of black males is truly shameful.
@@hvn17I think they mean express they’re feelings healthily. From many young af am men I know they were thought not to cry, not to share vulnerability, not to be affectionate to the level some people might be bc that’s vulnerable. W men in general anger is seen as the only excusable expression of emotion, abuse is not excusable but being angry even disproportionately is considered fine most of the time and that level of emotional repression can manifest itself in anger bc they don’t have another “acceptable” outlet. And that’s unhealthy. It’s changing in the newer generations it seems but still. He knows the abusing is bad and I hope for her sake and anyone else he may interact w that he gets his behavior under control and finds a healthier way to deal with his anger and hurt. Healthy, appropriate emotional expression is uncommon in men and especially black men.
Its terrifying that HER and the KIDS are so scared of him!! Abusers always go for a certain type of women - and the men are USUALLY just like this,
"I don't want no friends", very damaged.
Atleast hhe got help. She's also abusive.
@@auzy2u845 Right, cause most men dont get the help. Where did you see that she was abusive?
You said abuser usually go for a certain what is that type you speak of is it the ladies without a father figure, one’s that’s been sexually abused, or promiscuous etc…..🙋🏽♂️
@@cheivyslim8177 They usually go for "weak" women who stick it out through whatever - which aren't always those things you listed.
K, well, I bet that he did
I love how Mr. Karamo is so understanding, gentle , and supportive in his shows with his guests to get the better help they need or on what to do . I was in a toxic relationship a few years ago and this brought back memories. My ex had anger issues as well , I thought it was me but it was really him , I finally had spoke to a therapist by myself to discuss my relationship and it helped a lot ! You are never alone , there are people on this world to discuss sensitive topics like this ! Trust me ! She does deserve better and I hope she makes the best decision for herself moving forward!
Do u see how slow she is.. he knows that. He is a master narcissistic.. that woman is slow and needs help. She has low self-esteem
Not feeling him at all,, tell the damn truth to these people, forget your money or show... Host u r witnessing a horrible abuse in happen
I’m so happy that you were able to connect with someone who could help, and that you are doing better now. 💜
@@JacquelinePadinBut that's what he did... If it was for TV he had the perfect drama possibility right in front of him. And then they're both hurt, he doesn't go to therapy and beats her on the flight home? What are you thinking?
What I love about Karamo is that although he may not agree, he still understands all points of views and experiences. Despite the couple loving one another, way too much abuse has been done on both ends and Karamo has given them both the necessary tools they need to heal for themselves and their children... Even if that also means splitting up.
Yes I love him
I like the show, but what I don’t care for is the fact that they’re opening up her phone, knowing that he physically harms her, and if something is in there, there might be an altercation
She probably knew there would not be, so she allowed it this time.
Exactly. We don't know what will happen when they get home. She looks scared
Also I didn’t like that he gave her that phone number in national television after dude just said he watch’s the show all of the time. What’s the point of saying “ I’m giving this to just you if you need it” on tv!? You could have done that off camera and should have 🤷🏽♀️. If you wanted the audience to get the number if that was the excuse then post it after.
This women needs to LEAVE NOWWW! It only gets worse! He uses his anger as an excuse to abuse her.she’s clearly scared of him & tbh I think some of her “cheating” was her looking for a new guy to take her away from her abusive husband. He even said hisself she’s scared to question him bcuz of his anger issues. This man has dee rooted trauma & its poisonous that even his kids avoid him . He doesn’t have friends bcuz most likely she can’t have friends either.It’s only a matter of time before he seriously hurts her. If you see this PLEASE TAKE YOUR CHILDREN AND LEAVE!! I know it’s hard bcuz yu becomes codependent on your abuser but please try! THTA IS NOT LOVE! 😢
Not an excuse for cheating
@@thecalmsetting3161doesnt matter you leave! No right to put your hands on anyone.
Maybe soesp. Cheating on him too..hmmmmm
I’ve read many books on domestic violence after leaving a violent relationship. One massive lie victims and people in general are told is that abusive men are abusive because of insecurities, trauma, mental illness. That’s a lie. Culture, how a man is raised or directly/indirectly taught to treat women, has more to do with it. That’s why men with depression, anxiety or who’ve been bullied aren’t most likely to abuse. Cops and military men are though.
always a way to make the man seem like something hes not. HE needs to LEAVE her! no he shouldn't put hands on her but she is clearly doing wrong within the relationship period and he deserves to be with someone who gives him peace of mind.
I like how the husband take accountability for his action im glad he request tools to get the help. They both need counseling. Continue to pray for your family
They need to separate
Yall sound crazy he has tramua. 😢And he really wanted help.
I don’t give a damn about who cheated! She needs to leave his ass! Cheating is no excuse for him to abuse her so i didn’t give a damn about shit he had to say after admitting that he abused her several times. Take those kids & leave.
Part of trauma is that we sometimes imitate what we hated the most and what we said we never wanted to be. 😢
I pray she find the strength to leave and just find a way to coparent for her children because he is abusive and you can see she’s scared of him!!!
I hope he also wakes up and gets away from a habitual cheater
She scared but she’s the one cheating not once but several times it’s not right that he puts his hand on her but he was hurting as well they both need to seek counseling together and separate and see where this marriage is at and if not together then figure out how they are going to coparent and be friends at least
@@tareshascott9385 and he admitted that he cheats too. She needs to get her children and leave. This man is dangerous. On top of that he walks around mad and his children has to walk on eggshells around him. (His own admission). He’s an abuser
@Taresha Scott finally someone who isn't just holding him accountable. He did 13 years in prison, we know he's a POS, why would she procreate with a convicted felon. Doesn't she know that they don't give out hugs in fed penitentiary????
I love how the father and mother was so mature and honest about the things they did in the past it just brings me joy of how they both weren’t sugarcoating anything and they know that they were wrong in the end
It’s terrible how trauma and the prison system destroy men. 4 years by himself in a prison cell and now he has to be normal and fight against his anger everyday. He needs long term therapy and medication and a loving support system. I pray he keeps fighting and is able to give the love that his wife and his children deserve, as well as to love himself 🙏🏽 ❤
Why was he in prison?! He isn’t a victim, he’s an abuser with a “good” excuse about why he beats his wife. And let not forget he’s also a cheater
Actually men destroy themselves by committing crime and going to prison
@@tiffanithompson934exactly ❤
She says she doesn't want her kids to grow up without two parents in the household.
It's actually in your kids best interest to grow up without a father in the house, than to have an abusive father figure like that.
Ladies, the first time a man puts his hands on you should be the last time.
My prayer is she leaves before she gets killed. Then her children won't have a mother. Love from a distance.
Atleast he wants to change. And she's also abusive.
Amen.
Exactly
he needs a therapist .. hes got issues other than her cheating to deal with.
He’s an abuser
@@rubyjaez 💯percent
LMAO @ the audience gasping at just $300😂😂
$300 is a f****** lot of money to some people Especially this day and age
@@lacestocks-millz2836 $300 is a lot in 2023?!
@@TF-gf3fs IF YOU NEED IT THEN IT'S A LOT....Grow up
H.mmm
@TF?! It's a good amount of money for them right now, but I must agree that the audience was a bit extra, like it's thousands of dollars 🙄😏
I love that he take the time out to talk to her by herself ladies I know it’s hard to leave the men and lots of time we said we don’t want to leave because of the kids we’ll pack up your kids and run because it’s won’t get better they pretend we are sleeping with the devil half the time or they say woof in a sheep clothing wish you all the best 🙏🏽
I don't 🤔 they need to leave.
That’s great this man is reaching out for help! He seems genuine in wanting to do better for his family. It is such a shame this man left jail with absolutely no coping skills. America’s so called justice system failed him and society.
It was the ending for me. I love me some Karamo! So happy he did that & I hope she takes heed. Sis, please leave! I left an abusive relationship years ago & it was HARD! One of the best decisions I ever made. I have no doubt that said person would’ve unalived me by now. Thank God for growth, change & strength!
Love u girl ,,
7:01-7:22 is chilling to me. Those poor babies. 😢 he's cutting her off because he doesn't want her to tell the truth about how he really is.
she looks petrified
Honestly, I’m scared for this woman. He did 13+ years in jail, still abusive both mentally and physically, everyone is afraid of him including the children, and he’s cheating too.
Oh how I LOVED THIS episode! Wish I could see the full episode. This was sad. As sad as it was/is, it’s refreshing to see folks who truly want the help!
Umm, why didn’t they unlock HIS phone too?!
Exactly LOL....😂😂😂😂
THANK YOU!!!!
Her phone should NEVER have been unlocked, when they're dealing with domestic violence guests. That part should have never happened and Karamo explain why. They are putting her further in danger
@@zara198522 a lot of these episodes are fake to me for the reason you mentioned but Karamo showed the best example of how to help someone who is being abused.
@@zara198522 totally agree! I also questioned that final moment when he gave her the number for the abuse hotline. It was very touching and I truly felt that moment between them, but how will her husband react when he watches the episode? I really hope/pray she used it before the episode aired!
Ballin my eyes at the end … my father was abusive to my mother and Karamo is soooo right .. and gave her the best advice.
The isolation that is still holding him captive is killing the relationship! Her and the kids are scared of him, this is frightening BUT she is not scared enough to cheat…wow!!! Prison is robbing us of being emotionally available and emotionally intelligent! God bless this man, this woman, and their children❤
Wait a minute, he was loud and long winded about what she had done but he was speechless about his behavior. This man is controlling and needs to be in therapy and anger management. He doesn’t have friends or go out because he doesn’t want HER to. He’s abusive and starts doing NARC shit when he gets mad! He won’t even let her talk! I know a battered woman when I see one! She’s afraid! All of that fake azz crying he was doing!
He admitted he abused her. It just might not have been loud, like when he admitted his abuse. I pray she moved forward with their children. No one should experience mental or physical abuse. People who say they don't want their children to go through what they went through, but they repeat the same patterns.😮😢
@@standupbcounted2420 he barely admitted after she brought it up. Before she came out everything was her fault.
Exactly. You can tell by the way she dresses that he is abusive. She’s probably not allowed to show any skin. I’ve been there don’t that and I pray she gets the strength to leave him. She will always be trying to prove herself to him and walking on eggshells in fear of retaliation smh…
He said that he was wrong. He really wanted to change.
I don't think that she should leave.
I feel bad for the children. To have to witness their mother cheating on their father, their father beating on their mother. They're causing their Children more trauma being together than they would being apart. For him to be emotionally and mentally unavailable and have them walking on egg shells because he has no self control. Smh
Don’t for get the children witnessing their father cheat. This is a mess
@@raisinglangston733 it’s a mess smh
felt. my whole life story 😢
😢 lucky I did not have to go through that. I can only imagine the fear, distrust, hate and resentment you experienced.
@@rubyjaez im still getting through it. it’s definitely been bad though
I love how open he is to help. I hope it works out for him.
It's not he physically abuse
When he started crying I immediately broke down because I believe he’s a good man that’s dealing with pain. Im not condoning the abuse but he recognizes what he is doing is wrong and that’s the first step. I’m so happy he knew to ask Karamo for the help. I wish this couple nothing but love and peace in their home.
The show should always open both phones so everything is exposed & put on the table to deal with. I hate to just see the woman's phone unlocked. This episode was deep & I pray both of them get the help & healing they need. The children need a healthy foundation. 🙏🏾🙏🏾💕
Hate why? It should've been.
he gives me narcissistic vibes just by him barely letting her speak and say her opinion
I hate him
Yep.
I love how Karamo handled this couple's situation with dignity for both of them. They both got the counsel they needed, but the wife was also able to get the help she needed seperate from her husband
As a survivor of domestic violence I am in tears. Sis there is a better life for you. I pray she leaves while she still is alive to do so!!
He’s a great candidate for what I call root talk therapy. You know where you start with a therapist talking about from birth all the way to present. Everyone is not honest in those types of sessions, so they can’t really heal. But I think he would thrive so well. Real programs should be offered to inmates. They could actually come out rehabilitated, but that just may not be the most desired outcome in this country.
Did you hear the language she is using ; for example, “ I don’t want to disappoint him”!
That is an indication that there is more abuse that’s going on.
“Root Talk Therapy” is not enough.
She is afraid of how he reacts if he gets angry. He has hit her multiple times.
This man is screaming “RED FLAG”!!
He’s toxic and playing the victim.
I don't think so. This is a guy asking for help. It is not easy for a guy to come out and talk about his weaknesses and his desire to do what is right. He doesn't need condemnation but love. I hope she finds it in her heart to love him and show him love in a special way. He also needs to appreciate her much more. A few Sessions of therapy plus two willing people would help......the way I see it......
and they're coddling him
@@carniarrow he wants help so goes on a tv show.... Definitely someone that is serious
Narcissistic
See when 1 man out 100 decides to genuinely reach out and ask for help y'all will say he's playing victim or being narcissistic, making the other 99 just bottle up and act out or resort to suicide in some cases
This was the realest episode. Clearly shows how the talk and the walk are so different. And it takes WORK, a LOT of work to have your actions match your intentions. They both deserve empathy. But if they want to be together and have 1 family unit for their kids... They need to do some work for themselves before they can achieve that. You cannot pour from an empty cup, and you have to put on the oxygen mask on yourself before helping others.
he has so much hurt that goes way beyond the wife + her cheating, and he definitely needs to get some help (therapy) before trying to work on a marriage. at the same time, she also needs to not cheat but she also needs to leave that situation before he escalates and kills her
💯💯💯💯 im scared for her and for him .. he definitely needs therapy.
They both cheated on one another. So him putting his hands on her for cheating on him was uncalled especially since he also cheated.
Someone who openly admits to having anger issues is violent. He needs therapy mostly but she seems scared of him….
i say this on almost every video, but i must say this again! KARMAO YOU DO THE LORDS WORK!! What you do for our people is GODLY! I truely have love and respect for you
😢I was abused in my marriage too. My ex-husband took sex from me while I slept often, threw the couch on me while I was pregnant with iur daughter, and eventually broke my right shoulder bone. It was soo scary to leave him because he said that he would delete my life, but Only God saved my life because He gave me my life to breathe in and out. It's been 20 plus years since then and it's been hard raising children on my own but Only God has helped me through good people with resources and most of all understanding. Love doesn't hurt!!!!!!!!!🙏for anyone who feels stuck in love.
Love Karamo - You can tell he cares about his guests
They both need help.. weird how everyone is saying that the man is the only one who needs help when the wife cheating is what started everything
Exactly my statement I just made on the above post
He cheated too 🫣 and i dont think they said who cheated first but yeah they both need help AWAY from each other.
nothing can START physical abuse besides the abuser. if you get cheated on, you don’t injure the person, you leave.
Her cheating started everything? He cheated, too...first of all. Secondly...you keep your hands to your mf self. You dont get to put your hands on someone for doing something that you yourself are guilty of doing. Except she didnt even know he was cheating because he sat there and acted like a victim.
@@shawneegirl1980 EGGGZACCCLEEEEE‼️ It’s CLEAR he’s abusive. Stevie Wonder could see that. They both need help like you said. I hope they get it.
This relationship will end in tears. She must leave ASAP. The toxic cycle will continue
Yea I see it
Cap😂😅. He obviously 🙄 wanted to change.
Mad respect for the separate conversation he had at the end with the woman.
I think sympathetic people forget people die from domestic abuse situations all the time. It’s too risky to have patience for a person doing that. People need to develop the strength and resources to walk away.
Same for the people being abusive. Leave a person alone if you can’t do right by them. Honestly, I don’t think we focus on the latter enough. The self awareness to leave your damn self when you know you’re doing someone wrong.
I don’t care what someone tells me. If I know I can’t give you want you need, I am not sticking around to hurt you intentionally or unintentionally.
Well, he wanted help. And god says forgive.
Now the fact that everybody at school know your kids business and how they living in fear is sad
It might actually open it up for them to get support from school.. so many kids are living in fear and home and too ashamed to share. And it affects their behavior negatively - either acting out or withdrawn - and this can provide context. So what's sad is that this isn't discussed enough
Karamo is such a beautiful soul 😔Much Respect for both of them..lifes not easy and loves not sposed to hurt and words have power you cannot take them back…hurt people hurt people. It takes alot of humility and strength to be truthful about your shortcomings 🤲🏽 as a human and a Man. I hope that their beautiful family can get healthy together or separate. BLESSSSS 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
Zero Phone calls😂😂😂 BUT THOUSANDS HITS.... 😂 MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.....GIRL RUNNNNNNN....
the way he did that at the end with her was so smooth and I trust and believe it will be received and used soon please give us an update on them both!
Maya Angelou once said " when somebody shows you who they are, believe them the first time!" She already cheated more than once, and he already put hands on her! These two are headed for serious trouble!
I feel like she's staying because she doesn't want her kids alone with him in a separate house. She's clearly scared of him and I don't think she loves him either. I just don't see it. Not once she said she loves him. She needs to leave and I hope she does. If not for herself then the children
Yall kind of sound stupid. He has tramu he really wanted help.
You can sense that she fears him. Hell I'm scared of him and I'm cringing watching their interaction. She feels (brave) a little safe being on tv. But he even says she's afraid to question him. So just imagine how the kids feel. LEAVE HIM NOW!! Let him sit quietly and deal with his demons on his own, alone. Get yourself help and the babies. No judge will grant him custody. Especially after admitting he has anger issues. I pray she gets help soon. Karamo I hope you do an update on this story. Keep in touch with her please. Great show. but Im gonna side eye you Karamo... We know you would NOT have told on her if you did 😂😂
That's not funny. And she's also abusive. Atleast he wants help.
This one heart to watch. The husband has a lot of emotional trauma to work through. And as a wife, no excuse is good enough for you to cheat on your husband. God bless this couple and I really pray they both get the help that they need.
Let’s not ignore the fact that’s he’s put his hands on her several times and has cheated too.
@@erynsdream5826 Exactly....lol...
I was not expecting the ending … I’m glad you told her to leave in private because I don’t think he can change.
You 😜 he has tramua. Anbody can change.
Karamo out here changing lives❤ love it
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Definitely ❤
“you said you don’t like hurting him…that’s interesting language...” she’s about to get read.
You don’t like “disappointing” him. Is what was said. Y’all don’t listen
Soooo he's cheated, has anger issues, doesn't know how to communicate, abuses her, and she's cheated. Chile... they need to divorce.
yet, SHE has to unlock her phone...
I respect his honesty and the fact that he’s able to acknowledge that his behavior is abusive. I truly feel like his intentions are good but he needs a lot of help to really be able to change his ways and even if he does work on himself and his anger overtime, I definitely feel like his wife and kids aren’t safe with him and I’m glad Karamo went out of his way to tell her in private that she should get out as soon as she feels she can
I’d like to believe that they would have skipped the part of unlocking her phone had there been any evidence that she was still entertaining other men. I believe that they only went into that part to show him that she was being faithful so he couldn’t be triggered by his suspicions, but also because they wanted to discuss with the level of abuse, she was enduring more with the text messages he sent her.
Cowardly men hit women....No excuses! In my own humble opinion.
True he a pscychopath
Yall sound stupid😂😅. He has tramua. And she's also abusive. And he really wanted help.
These 2 need to go there own way before something serious happens
Karamo this episode was really good! It's so many black men that are damage like this who have went to prison. Althoughh, I am extremely proud of this man for being able to come on national television to be honest with himself, putting his pride to the side & reaching out for help before someone ended up dead(accidentally): I just pray he stays consistent with wanting to be better & don't do it again for all their sakes.
I am healing too just by watching these episodes. Thanks KARAMO ❤
If you are cheating on & beating up your wife then telling her she isn't even worth the dirt on the bottom of your shoes, then don't be surprised when you get cheated on. Thats why he's so insecure because he knows he deserves it & is surprised shes not cheating anymore. This lady has a very sweet spirit & if he was a decent human I'm pretty sure her infidelity wouldn't of happened. He sounds like an asshole & she is indeed the victim & sis should of been ran. He treats her like a punching bag. People want sympathy for him because she cheated but he cheated too. Not only that but then proceeded to beat on her & talk down on her. Are yall crazy or what. The only thing yall should be saying is he needs professional help & she needs to leave.
That is why both sides of the story should be told.
exactly
It takes more than knowing you have an abusive problem- get immediate help!. It's a disaster waiting to happen. Abusive men tend to always play the victim.I pray she gets out before it's too late!!
Such a pretty lady she deseve better her husband need to get help from himself before he goes into another relationship saved yourself Ms
I love that he acknowledged that he has anger issues and he needs help. I hope things get better.
She needs to leave him.
Omg this episode got me from all sides.. We need more people like karamo to get into the root and heart of a problem and find that pain underneath so that we can start healing. I see in that man’s heart of hearts he wants to be the man his family deserves.. but he’s let himself become too far molded by his own experiences. That does not go without saying.. we can remold ourselves. It does take a lot of time, willingness and effort though. It surely won’t be an easy task.. as for that beautiful women.. I see her pain. I’ve been there.. she has love for him but her heart is gone due to all the actions and things he’s put her through. When they break our hearts so many times we eventually run out of glue.. I hope she finds the strength to know she’s worthy of happiness too and those beautiful babies can still have a beautiful life and family. I hope dad continues to work on himself and rebuild his character and mom continues to fine the wisdom and courage for a new beginning and lust for life. ❤
Karamo is a scorpio wen we r high vibing like he is..we r the kindest most loyal loving people on earth❤
She looks like his daughter. He is NOT fit to be a husband. He deserves to be alone.
You are so bitter. She’s a cheating wife who is just as guilty as he is.
I need a update down the road. I love how Karamo handle this women and when he said I know you have to fly back home gave me chills.
I really 🤔 that he changed.
Usually these episodes are all screaming and immaturity but this couple really hit different. There is true love and heartache here. I hope they heal as a couple but if not they have got to go their separate ways.
I’m praying for her to escape this toxic relationship asap because it’s only going to get worse and he’s always going to be checking her whereabouts relentlessly no peace no freedom even though he’s out of the cage physically he’s not out mentally and he has caged the entire family.
I’m so glad that I had the strength to divorce my ex husband 18 years ago from his cheating and emotional abusive ways he got physical at the end and I was 14:52 already paying for the divorce and had put him out of the home, I was able to explain to my kids as much as I could to prepare them as much as I could and thank God they turned out to be fine and are very successful.
He 🙄 wanted to change.
Safety for yourself and your children are your top priority. Separate. He needs to be by himself
lHe needs long term Therapy.
I don't watch cable but karamo out here doin his thing.❤
Thank You Brother For Being Vulnerable For The World To See Your Shame, It’s Not Easy Looking On The Mirror, But ONLY U Can Do The Work….I Had A Beautiful Family Once But My Man Didn’t Want To Do The Work So That Man Lost His Family Now He Has Everything & Nothing 🧚🏾 Sister You Need To Love You More, I Know It’s Hard DO THE WORK✨🙏🏾✨🧚🏾💫
Karamo will like an update on this show, very emotional for me, tears are in my eyes, just Pray to God that they can make it in Life
I love Karamo. We really needed a show like this
I saw that lil boy, young man in him that really needed to hear what Karamo had to say. That’s a REAL man right there that could admit to his wrongdoings and admit that he wants/needs help. And a damn good woman for sticking by him. She’s beautiful and has the spirit and patience of a saint. I think they will be ok. They doing something a lot of folks can’t do and that’s not only working it out but fixing the actual root of the issue. They breaking they own generational curses and I think Karamo should have been a little more lenient on them.
Right
I can appreciate his honesty and it seems like he loves her but definitely could use some anger management and grief counseling for the lonely isolated traumatized boy inside
I felt bad for him then I didn't then I did again when he started crying asking for help. I really believe his words and that he wants to change. I always find it interesting in DV relationship where the woman is cheating and getting beat as well. Like she doesn't have the courage to leave but has the courage to mess around. Very interesting...
Those tears are fake. A manipulation tactic. He’s an abuser. I let a man tears cause me to stay and ended up being stabbed 3 times.
Nasty mammy vibes you have.This is a standard DV relationship except the cheating was an eacape because he's much worse than how he publicly presents himself. Happy women don't cheat.
@@2intriguing1 not true! She’s eating for cheating but he admitted that he cheated too. From his text message, I know he bully’s her. She’s mentally checked out of the relationship she’s just too scared to leave. He said when she tried to leave him he ran to the courts and threaten to get custody. That’s a controlling mechanism. I wonder if she cheated with hopes that he would leave her. She didn't try to hide it from him.🤔 if he would’ve been the one to leave them he would not chase after her versus her trying to leave him.
Why would you feel bad for him crying? This is the same dude who would beat you and enjoy when you cry.
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecake for one he ain't putting his hands on me without a case... But all that aside, him asking for help is a big step. I know men now that hit women, they not asking for no help... Men don't typically ask for help. So that was big of him. For her, she stayed. Had she left the first time or even after she cheated she wouldn't be here now...
Karamo your the best, but what's even better is he knows he needs help, the tools to grow!!
Geesh... Poor thing... He's so institutionalized 🤦🏾♀️🙏🏿
That's it💯💯
So he wants her to live on his only angry me Island. No Sir
Great Episode, just wished that Karamo talked to her behind closed doors after saying he was concerned. The Guests search for these shows, share them on their social media, and comment .. I'm sure he will see it.. hopefully if he does, it will be a change for the better.. The way some people can't take a breakup is sad and sometimes don't end well..
I don't 🤔 that they need to break up.
@@auzy2u845 I agree
Hurt people hurt people, I can tell he has a good hurt but all that pinned up angry get the best of him . The right therapy and counseling I believe they can both make it and stop that generational abusive curse on the family!!!!
Hurting people hurt people.
Love your awesome show ty JESUS! Very polite yet so bold and smart with wisdom beyond your years all your topics are 100
This episode brought me to tears. Even if she was cheating I hope that for her safety they would of not aired it.
He 🙄 wanted to change.