When You Start Feeling Insecure, WATCH THIS! | Jay Shetty
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Her past is making her so insecure she's ruining every relationship before it even starts. Never believe what others say about you. Believe in yourself and love yourself so you can love others the right way.
Yeah this is true for me. At 48 yrs old & getting jealous when my 40 yr old bf looks at younger women. It tears me up inside & i get distant from him when he does it. This clearly stems from insecurity. I'm a bit apprehensive for the gyms opening back up, because this is where my issues lie. We sometimes train together & sometimes it's not enjoyable. Could potentially break us up one day!
So true
@@carolanneg3819 the way you feel is more important then losing him? Think about it..your thoughts and feelings are not who you truly are. Just pass trauma.
We feel her pains. She has her right
@@aa-dj9br True but it shouldn't have negative impact on those who do truly love her.
I've destroyed beautiful relationships in the past because of my insecurities. And still am. This video means a lot. Thanks
More power to you, hope you overcome your struggles.
But I like to be insecure I don’t want my girl hangout with other guys.But i will stay single so I couldn’t suffer the pain from it 😃
Wish best for you
Why were u insecure? Maybe ppl haf lying issues
Well fix yourself, at least for the sanity & wellbeing of the other person you’re involved with. It’s not their fault you’ve got hang-up’s from years ago, yet they are left suffering & heartbroken because of your insecurities at no fault of their own.
Psalms 139: 14" you are fearfully and wonderfully made" Sending virtual hugs to everyone!!!
Thank you!
Beautiful
Thank you, Cynthia
Amen❤️❤️❤️
amen!!
*"Pain of regret is so much worse than pain of discipline."*
True
Dear Lord, we lift up all those who are facing illness today. We ask that You would bring healing, comfort and peace to their bodies. Calm their fears and let them experience the healing power of Your love. Amen.💕
Amen
Amen!
Amen
Amen!
AMEN
Self love, everything start with in you. You can't expect someone to love you when you can't even love yourself . No one is you and that's your power.
How do you love yourself?
By treating myself like I wanted others to treat me. I woke up in the morning look in the mirror telling myself I'm pretty, I'm enough and I'm doing great living my life, eating healthy foods, doing some exercises, engage modt of my time alone and evaluating myself asking the question "Am I happy today?" Something like that.
Real love always makes us and our hearts safe and secured.
When something is important to you enough, you will do it inspite of the fear.
*-Elon Musk*
Yep
Yeah
Dude are you Turkish?
@@sharonjoe7535 yeah :)
Everyone Reading ths : You are loved, You are a blessing to this world ! Never GIve UP .
6:52 the moment of self awareness starts and your insecurities gets vanished slowly. @Jayshetty you are a savior to this world 🙏 🔥❤️
True ❤️
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It’s tough enough sometimes to find a person that of great character, and sadly you have people who wreck their own blessings because of some past negative event orchestrated by some jerk who probably didn’t even love himself enough. Remember this you have value and don’t ever put yourself down. Please always grow your self image.
True
If you feel insecure, the goal is to figure out where the insecurity stems from, then you will be able to release all the tough emotions 🙌🏽
YALL HE’S ACTUALLY RIGHT
@@daydreamera8558 I’m glad you agree! That is how I did it and also how I advise others to do the same (well not as basic as that haha)
@@Maxhindle it helped Rlly. I was so tense and anxious about our relationship for cryin out loud. I told him everythinggggg. Now i feel good lmfao 🤣. We could be dramatic sometimes. He’s my first love Thas why I feel like that.
This video showed me that I should put myself into my partner’s shoes so I Did.
It helped Periodt
Getting married is easy but staying in it is difficult. Insecure, jealousy, disrespectful disloyalty.
exactly
Are none of the things you should accept in a relationship
@@aurora8749, for man respect, is more important than love. And loyalty is part of respect. when you accept all of it then it's not a relationship anymore. Either you are a super nice guy or you are staying for kids.
@@hotmotivation6171 I'm a woman and that was my point. You shouldn't accept any of those behaviors and if someone loves you they don't disrespect you
You said that right!!
"I'm not here to tell you that you won't ever feel insecure"...love that.
From the start this made me cry, real emotions came back. Wondering when they will fade more, too old to keep this stuff anymore. Love Jay’s wisdom 💖
reading books about self development will also help alot!☺️ all is well!
@@lao0808 I’ve been doing that along with intermittent therapy for 30 yrs 😞
When you are so depressed when anxiety haunts you when you have so low confidence in yourself, when insecurities start to eat you alive, no motivational videos or quotes work. It becomes so deeply rooted that it is almost difficult to remove it from the root. Even if we are aware, even if we know the cause of insecurities nothing works literally nothing😢😢💔💔
You have to look deep in yourself. Find yourself love yourself it'll make a difference. I'm talking from exsprience. And start self positive talk on your self. One thing you like about yourself. Whether your hair eyed nails. Say the one thing for a week. Then add another, then you'll notice you'll start saying more positive things which will help you,
@@jensnow6551 I have been dealing with it since 2 years but seriously nothing worked😥. I recalled all my achivements, i stand infront of the mirror and complient myself but i only feel good momentarily then back to same depressed mood. And because of my insecuritues I am ruining my relationship too. I sometimes become controlling. And this kind of feeling really sucks. But i am not able to help myself😥😥 This is the worst worst worst feeling.
@@prikshyabhattarai4569 I wish you well. Lots of love and hope you heal soon :)
Then sister please discuss this with your friend or any therapist. Because sometimes we know the root cause but don't know how to come out. Lots of love
You must love yourself before you love
some one else. If you don't feel good about
You, and Believe in yourself ,then there is
a problem with your self worth.
Thank you for your videos.
Omggg the beginning scene literally happened to me!!!! Except i was with my mom, helping her do shopping...
This is so my story. Im just ruining all my relationships. But my current boyfriend has a lot of patience. Besides all my toxic insecurities he still wants me...and till now he didn't give up. If we breakup someday I will miss him. I don't have patience to be in relationship and handle my insecurities. I prefer to be single.
Your pride and ego is just a reflection of your insecurity🙏
Greetings from Scotland 😊 Have a wonderful day everyone 🌻 Stay blessed
Greetings Bruno from Scotland :)
thank u u too!
You can never be happy or be in a happy relationship if you are insecure, truth is you need to love yourself and work on how to fix those insecurities
I met a girl who was damaged by her past. After about 3 weeks later, she broke up with me. That was a long time ago, I wish her well
Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
He is very perfect at reuniting Broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
Be careful how you treat people, no one is perfect and we screw up at times, but this will effect people long term... I’m not perfect but I strive myself on being open and honest ❤️
That's a great personality u have. I totally liked it🌸🌸😇😇😇 but the problem with me is, I treat ppl the best they deserve...but when I need someone badly...may it be any kind off help or just talking, I am left all alone.😔😔😔 I never knew that others are so lucky...n I am so unlucky as hell ( w.r.t having ppl around to talk to).
And I screw up things so bad, I cannot even do anything to make it right.
this video was really so so relatable..i want to share my personal experience (which maybe no one wants to hear tho) so my first relationship that went for like 4 years ended up, and the reason was that he dated other girls while being with me..in all he was completely disloyal and knowing all this i chose to stay with him for like 4 years but at the end when i realised my worth i moved out of that whole thing. in that relationship he even made me meet his parents and it felt so good at that time but ive already told u the end. but actually things didnt end here. i became so insecure with almost every relationship except my parents. i broke beautiful friendships just overthinking that my friends use me or what not i thought then. i just cutoff links with every good friend of mine and then i started talking to a new comer of our school and we started dating 8 months back and we still are. i love him more than anything but sometimes these insecurities pop in my head and they kind of start ruling over me. but now i realise my insecurities and i have started working on them. i hope i find peace soon and i hope god gives wisdom to everybody
*You'll realize how far you are in your journey, but you'll soon realize you can go even further and achieve greater challenges.*
Keep going my friend. 💥💥
I’m not in a relationship yet but true and real love makes our heart feel safe, In a relationship I think the most important thing we have to remember is, not all people are the same, not all men or women are cheaters, thank you Jay for sharing another great video. 🧚🏻♀️
This just brought tears to my eyes
Hello Jay sir. Your videos in the story format conveys the most valuable information that we youngsters deserve to know. A big hug from me. 😊❤❤
To deal with insecurities:
1. Awareness- recognise and accept
What you don't like?
2. Root cause- projection of others opinions
3. Checking in with yourself- consider alternative ways of thinking
Apply more than usual makeup and wear fashionable form fitting dress
Peace and blessings always! And hurt people hurt people...
Wow, it’s like he knew... 😓 needed this today, thank you
Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat.. this dude has literally saved my life..listening to his work and job I can relate to it.. *minslegend* keep it up and thank you for your talent... 💯
OMG.....this is me.....I have had nerdy glasses since grade 6 and been insecure pretty much all my life.....post pendamic I started eating healthy, Yoga little bit meditation and Wohla..... it's working like magic🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗😁👍
If you feel this, don’t feel too hard on yourself. Try your best to analyze and process your emotions before acting on them.
There's a difference between being insecure and noticing red flags, your intuition will kick in
Good video. Thanks for sharing. It is very hard to overcome past pain that you may have experienced, but it is necessary. We really need to watch how we treat people, and what we say to one another. It is not good to be mean, rude, and obnoxious to anyone. No matter what they look like, or what they have or don't have.
Don't Compare yourself with others, your insecurities will runaway.
This is true. Until I recognized the root cause which was an event from my younger age where a married woman was constantly cheating her husband which I unfortunately had witnessed, that had seeded the doubting, I could never trust a woman and it affected my relationship badly. Now I feel free and can trust a woman with all my heart.
Idk whther I am insecure in relationship or not.....but I knw that I am very much insecure abt my own self. This seems to be a difficult one though. Trying so hard to feel good abt myself...idk why I cannot do that. I am that person who feel insecure with no ppl around me...feeling left out💔
💔💔💔
Don't feel insecure about yourself. You are beautiful and wonderful person because god loves you. Spend time with yourself and discover what you love to do. Then You gonna feel good about yourself.
@@jaskirandeepkaur6992 I guess I should do that. But I did try this before...gave me zero results.💔💔
@@aadya3933 then spend time with nature and learn about law of attraction
😩😢 m goin thru the same phase right now i feel u
sad thing is, I know someone like this. I'm sure most, if not all of us do. It's a sad place to be in in life, I really feel for anyone dealing with this issue.
Just when I started to feel insecure and have doubts about my current relationship. Dear lord and Jay thank you for showing this in my recommendation...i needed this more than ever right now 🙏🙏 thank you 😊
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Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
"Never speak badly of yourself"
It is very tough being with a partner who has low self esteem. It kind of becomes exhausting, and it is up to them to transform themselves. Many times it just doesn't happen and they start blaming everyone around.
Even when he says ‘I would never’ ‘There’s no one else I’d rather be with’ etc… my fear is so intense I can’t let it go. I’m sure I’m not alone but I do feel very alone sometimes…
There should be someone in our life who constantly support us through our lows, like her friend in this video🧐
I really needed this today thank you!
Same
I AGREE, HEARTBREAK N BULLYING CN LEAVE A LIFE LONG IMPACT!!!!!!
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Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
I'm really so excited to watch your videos Jay😇
Thanks Jay for that, appreciate it ❤️❤️
I feel insecure at times but I have managed to overcome this is definitely not the last time Im going to feel insecure
Its easy for the beautiful people to talk about others insecurities. It starts during the formative years and snowballs to mammoth proportion. You've got to chip away at it and realize YOU are unique and perfect in your own way.
This made me cry...😪
This video means a lot and jay shetty is really helping so many people.
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Thank you Jay for creating such a beautiful video with such a great message
You've got to believe in yourself
Poor guy, I can tell he really loved her
Thank you for this video. This really made me cry.❤ and it all start in our childhood
This came at the perfect time...Thank you.😊
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This is so powerful!
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I needed this like two years ago
No matter what insecurity or self doubts my girlfriend has in her mind I always stand with her...and make her confident with unconditional love 😊😊
Thank you so much Jay, I really needed it🙂
I can relate to this 'cause I always don't feel beautiful 😪
Me 2
@Beautiful Stranger 125 awww.. thank you.
Beauty can be internal as well it's not just the outside that counts ✨💐💞💐💐
Me too 😥 insecure about my appearance and every time I go out people keep looking at me making me more sad about my appearance 😥😥
@@miamooshi9589 😢
Thank you
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The Creator never gave us a spirit of FEAR but one of Love, Power, and a Stable mind.
This is heartbreaking... it’s also me 😢
Most of good women are insecure
Everyone , if you love and trust your partner then let your relationship grow . Don’t set up unnecessary road blocks.
Life is short enjoy each other to the fullest 😍🙏🙏🙏🍀
Thank you💫
Very educational! Keep up sharing invaluable lessons !
Great message. Great videos as always.
Letting your past effect ur future will destroy your happiness
The fact that this was recommended to me kinda scares me.
But I'm here for it. That lady summed up everything I think when I'm interested in a guy.
"How do you feel about other women?"
"Are you tired of me?"
"Why can't you just be honest with how you really feel about me?"
"You don't HAVE to be with me if you don't want to"
"I'm not pretty like other women, so you should just go and be with them"
I really need this.. thank you
Thank you Jay!
So great!!! So true!!!
Thanks Jay
Good relationship is avoiding unnecessary obstacles.
I'm your biggest fan sir
Love from India
Thankyou so much jay
I need people to understand that if you ever feel insecure bout yourself, don't just jump into a relationship with and hope that the other person become your bandage. It's not their job to fix you and the fact is they can't. Stop wasting people time and energy.
Greetings from India 🇮🇳 sir
India 🇮🇳❤✔
I was the same way when my ex-girlfriend left me but now I'm with someone who loves me for me and we both love each other.
This is so me, I'm so insecure because of people and what they said to me. Become an emotional eater.
I'm not like I used to be, but I still get insecure about a lot of things. It was years of trauma.
Attachment styles are crucial in any relationship.
First day of high school I had this done exactly what happened to this character and they all laughed calling me ugly.
My problem is hard to trust anyone.
Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
Trying so hard to get past this so I don’t ruin another relationship. When does the agony end I’ve tried therapy no luck I hate these thoughts
I had some insecurities thatz y most of my relationships could not work....though now i changed for the better
I know of a powerful man who is capable of restoring balance to all aspect of your life
Whoa 😳, thank you for sharing.
At least she has an amazing friend to encourage her 😍
First, edit...(second hahaaa), love your videos.
I felt a lot more bad for this girl than I usually would. Only because she was still suffering from a past experience. Plus, she is basically the vulnerable side of me.
This video came out at the right time for me, I felt like you were talking to me personally, Thank you Jay.
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My boyfriend tells me I'm beautiful all day everyday and I always tell him those are lies all lies and we laugh about it . Even thought I know I'm not a super model but I love myself . No one can love you or see the beautiful in you if you don't love yourself.
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Thank for this video
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Thank you!! Amazing picture...very clear if you show that by story like this one 🙏😉
These actors are really good
So much of self doubt I have and I really don't know how to deal with it. It completely eats me from inside. And hurts too. Maybe that's the reason why I lack in so many things. I really need some help with this @JayShetty. I hope you guide me plzzz🙏🙏
Same😔✌️
@@lziajuliann4107 😔😔😔😔 makes me feel more worse abt myself 😔😔💔
Love you sir once I'll meet u
Reply me something plz sir