Living the NEW American Dream... of leaving America
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- Опубликовано: 4 апр 2024
- My wife and I don't want to wait to live out our bucket list so we left the rat race to explore the world with our family.
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"It's hard to take advice from people that live lives that I don't want to live." Man, I felt this.
Yes so true, the majority of people are sheep and they tend to give advice!
Been living this video since 2016, and it’s 100% the best thing I’ve ever done.
Where did you go?
Looking forward to watching your adventures. My lease ends in August and I’m considering leaving the US as well, at least for a while. Life is too short to wait for retirement.
My best friend worked his butt off spent most of the day in work and went to university in his 40s at the same time to get a degree. He travelled once a year for a two week holiday every year. He did try and enjoy life as much as possible but he passed away suddenly a few months ago at 52. Sorry but I don't want to be like this. I dont want to wait till I'm 65 to enjoy life I might not even reach it.
Your story is inspiring, and your background so close to mine. I had a troubled past but I am now sober, studying CS in school with a few years left. You live the life I dream of, and help me to stay motivated. Thank you.
I was born in England. I moved to south Africa, then Texas. Now my wife and are thinking about Vietnam travel next.
Man I could listen to this all day everyday
Dorian, I found you while the "people that live lives I don't wanna live" were telling me to learn new skills and I thought about coding. Very quickly did I give up on learning code. I'm still lost and have no idea of how I'm gonna make it to tomorrow or the day after that - let alone to my dreams... but hearing about your journey and your realness are just so fucking invigorating and inspiring. All the luck to ya and the family. Thank you for your content.
For me, this is the video of the year!
I loved how pure and authentic this video was
Hey Dorian, I just turned 32 and love your channel. I feel like I'm just starting my life just like you said you did at my age. I'm moving from slacking off to moving to my goals of having a family and being able to support them. You're an inspiration and I push even when it's hard. My journey is taking me to Vietnam and China and it's way more financially feasible, safe, with family values being the norm. I look forward to watching the journey you and your family take.
32 is the magic age. What you do next will shape your destiny. Keep going and enjoy!.
Very nice. I agree with you, Dorian. Unfortunately, not everyone can have that privilege to work remotely anywhere in this world. Most companies still require "work from office" at least 2-3 days a week for whatever reasons 😪
Best video you have ever made. I have been a fan for 3 years. A retrospective video at this level shows huge development.
Fantastic video brother 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 free your mind.
Rooting for you man! Happy to see you taking risks and making the most of your life.
I've been following your channel for some time and you have no idea how much this video touched me, it takes a lot of courage and strength to embark on such a great journey, especially with your whole family, thank you very much for showing us that it's possible and inspiring us to be who we really are, a big hug from Brazil and good luck, we will continue to accompany you
love that..."don't wait for some day" !
Love the video Dorian! Happy to see you and the family enjoying life the way you want!
Excellent video. Loved the wisdom and lessons behind it!
Nice Article ! I appreciated man
Okay...I'm listening.
Fire video man, something a lot of people need to hear
Highly wise words, through & through, friking inspiring, man, you got me really thinking and reevaluating, stay safe, have fun..
Keep up the great work on the videos!
I just quit my job at a family business as I was getting more and more miserable as time went on because I wanted to travel or at least get out of Canada. The American Dream is broken here in Canada as well and I had enough of the office and family politics. It wasn't easy as I was making more than most people my age, but realized at 38 my time on this planet is finite and won't be bought anymore with work I am unhappy with. I am done chasing the dream. Will hopefully get out of Canada pretty soon though.
Where to?
Thanks man
Respect dorian, glad to see you are doing what you want to do and chasing your dreams. I followed you in learning to code, and i'm going to follow you again on something similar. I want to do a van conversion and then convince my boss to make me fully remote. Then I have the ability to be anywhere.
Come to Malaysia brother Dorian
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that smile right there is my life now in asia😏😏
Love this message. We only have one life!!!! LIVE IT
You probably experienced more in 1 day abroad than you did in 1 month at home
I started following your channel back in 2021 when I was first started learning to code. I have now been working professionally as a software engineer for over 2 years! It is great to see where you started and where you are now! Feel free to contact me if you decide to visit Tokyo Japan (Where I currently live). I would be happy to show you and your family around!
Proud of you, D 💪🏾🤘🏽
YES to not waiting for "another day"! That is SOOO exciting for you & your family! Your kids will get to experience the world and not just read about it from their geography books! Btw, is it stressful to have your family reliant on you?
(P.S. Feel free to throw away my advice, because what do I know lol - but your title could be a bit snappier if it said: "Living the NEW American Dream...of leaving America")
Thanks! Yeah it's a little stressful at times but I'm making it work. Taking your advice on the title and changing it to your suggestion. Been thinking of reworking the title and thumbnail on this one..
@@DorianDevelopsI'm SUPER glad you found my comment useful, yay!! :)) Hope it'll attract more views and more people get to absorb the wisdom behind living this new (and awesome) dream :)
p.s. the pressure of being the earner is real and not often talked about openly - I see it happening with my male friends who have kids / families - hence why i asked! glad you're making it work and a bit of stress is actually healthy - shows that you're doing something worthy & what you care about! :)
THIS vid pretty much explains why i left europe as well going to asia, man it was tough to leave on so many ways, i lost my flight to bangkok, was half my month salary for the ticket, then had to save money for another month, man it ws a struggle but when i sat on the plane in the night, i cried silently grateful i made it out, and it only got better and went up from that moment, like im like went from 10% happiness in western europe to 40% in eastern europe and now i have been steady at a 77% happiness on average in asia !! if u dont get that huge , i dont know what to tell u....
Good stuff! :)
Love this video. Looking to have a remote job in the near future
Man that is so inspirational. You are living the dream. But in reality at least for me I need to make a lot more money to escape this repetitive work life in order to skip out on rent payments.
Nice to see you roaming Changi :)
welcome fellow westerner to s.e asia , malaysia and Indonesia best ppl so far for me
😊🙂😊🙂☺️🙂😌
Kiyosaki-san opened my eyes
@Dorian Develops now that you are traveling, what travel gear and vlogging camera setup you're using. Just in case we want to start traveling and vlog like you. Thanks
You make it brother
this guy is about to change my life in 2 videos lmfao
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sounds like smart parents and lucky kids, im a little sad my father never migrated to NW from europe when i was 13...😩😩
This video has a really deep message
How do you do your coding projects time management wise while in Asia?
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yep, I've been travelin asia now for since feb 2023, still lovin most of it especially Malaysia, wow, still here, and travelin nonstop since covid began, its not always great but much better if u have a family i guess and like a normal 9-5 job everyday, hotels get loney sometimes but there is always a sacrifuce to be made..even a good life is not always good , but some life choices are superior to others no doubt, i had similar thoughts and feelings like u have about my country back in europe, hated it...
Love it
Great video . I rewatch it instantly.
(Normally I Never do this .)
Standing in heaven seeing what life could've been, is probably how it will be in reality.
(NDE people say similar stuff !!)
yea this my plan when I save enough money
What is the story with you kids/ school? We want to move to Vancouver Island and work remotely (we live in the UK) but disruption to the kids school puts me off (in addition to visa complications).
Now I wonder... What's my bucket list?
First escape America
Never better time to live the American dream somewhere else!
I've never seen the use of having a bucket list and ticking off all the items.
But do travel the world, see places, meet people, enrich yourself & family.
Do them because you want to, not to tick them off your bucket list.
"Greatness from small beginnings." - Sir Francis Drake. I do see you are determined to make it work this time, and so you shall succeed. I hope you will never have to go back to a regular job, and you will be able to keep spending time with the people that matter to you, doing the things you all like to do and in the end just live free. You are never foolish for dreaming. The basis of some of the greatest ideas mankind had, came from dreaming, so keep dreaming brother! Soon enough you will transform them into reality. Good luck!
P.S.: Someday has "killed" a lot of good people.
No its "get a dead-end job and stay there till you die, or we throw a fit" if your my family. Not everyone gets that same mouth full, time to start stepping on some toes. The grass is never greener.
LFG!
Do you have to have a visa?
depends, i dunno for americans tho...
This is why people go to Europe. Asap.
Did I spot some Peak Design backpacks there? 🎒
Life in USA is a trap. I mean, how on Earth are you to enjoy life, travel, spend time with friends and maintain yourself in good mental and physical health with 5 or 10 days of vacation per year? How is it possible? It's a sh*tty life to waste your youth, only waiting to punch out and retire (if you live long enough)?
Very good video u only live once
Serious question - what are you hoping that Asia will offer that America does not?
i don’t know what’s in his mind obviously but i can think of a couple guesses: healthier food, better healthcare, change of pace, better community/less hyper-individualism, getting more for your money’s worth, etc.
its more livable when you have the money for sure
By the sounds of it he's giving the whole family a fantastic experience. Even if its just for a few years it'll create so many moments and also growth for all of them - just a partial guess!
i will answer for him from my own experience:
3 times increase in budget
more relaxed life
no need for accommodation money if s💩it hits the fan
only 3 $ for food needed to survive a day
no cold or freezing
generalky more smiling and friendly ppl ( not vietnam, the hate and exploited me for a Month (cuz of vietnam war memories ..? but its cheaper there tho!)
little to no social pressure for tourists to fit in cuz they clearly see u from other side of world
cheaper clothes to buy
politics and media is not really a thing here compared
no gender bs
no racial fights ( mostly
taxes less fir livin
and so on
there are like ten things i found out is better here than the west
@@phizzy123no healthcare and food not necessarily better unless u rich...but the rest pretty true
Would you like to go to Romania?
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u have like three categories of life quality in this world:
ppl who were born in poor countries and still live in them (not so happy)
ppl ho were born in rich countries and still live in the them (more happy but still unhappy
ppl who were born in rich countries and now live in poor countries (not perfect, yes u dont get all but u are the most happy of all three categoreies😀😀😃😃
im glad im just an autist that enjoys working and that doesnt need any of this. if i were to define my bucket list it would probably be full of literal shit
wym literal shit?
@@shaysarn2235Same
I'm a 29m asperger guy.
I wasted my twenties with doing literally nothing.
How would you find your purpose if you were in my shoes ?
@@lordnelsonmc.billionberg9166 find something you enjoy and do it. make it your life. for me it was programming. never too late to start.
It’s only a waste if you define it that way. What brings you joy? Happiness? Peace? Walk in that direction!
Bro goes to the other side of the world to get Starbucks, really living the dream.
Why do you change the titles of your videos so often?
Does fish fart underwater?
god i hate airports but SOME airports better than others and KLIA IS THE BEST ive ever been too (except the bngla cleaners there🙄🙄🕳️🕳️
Strange video format
Join the military youll see the world
Quran[3:185]"Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] compensation on the Day of Resurrection. So he who is drawn away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise has attained [his desire]. And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion."
No my friend. Hell is not a video of what life could have been if only you took more risks. Hell is a place for those who live a life apart from the God who has created this wonderful creation we enjoy. We worship the creature rather than the creator. We have turned our backs on Him. We all know instinctively that God exists, and we know instinctively that we all have sinned against Him. But God so loved the world that he sent His Son to this world (God taking on humanity), in order to live the life of obedience and love for God which we could not, and then dying the just death that we deserve for our sin, in our place, so that if you turn from your sin, and self, toward Christ, trusting in Him, He will forgive you and grant you everlasting life. Do not be deceived in thinking that this life is all their is and therefore "Eat and drink, for tomorrow we die" - 1 Corinthians 15:32. Eternity is forever. Your life is a mist, here for a moment and then vanishes. "For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?"
- Mark 8:36
Come to India my friend. You'll love it here!
nope, 🕳️🕳️💩💩💩
lol
cowards leave cya globalist
🤣 7 IQ
dont be jealous dude, be happy for them
globalism and travellin not same, lol, 5 IQ...?
@@user-ht1jg4qz3h it was a joke lmfao
yooo love this my dude. you doing it different. keep it up!
your channel tends to be that light at the end of the tunnel when it seems this goal is so far out of reach. Thank you for that.
i stopped having one because my ideals will never match up with reality. i still do what i want with no expectation of ever being able to fulfill those dreams