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  • Опубликовано: 24 янв 2025

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  • @moniquesamuel8706
    @moniquesamuel8706 Месяц назад +199

    I really didn’t like how Violet was so volatile with her mom, especially since Kristy had it in her heart to forgive Bonnie. Yet Bonnie was violet’s favorite

    • @Virgin_Succubus642
      @Virgin_Succubus642 Месяц назад +3

      Violet was just a stuck up brat.

    • @rachelmartin5187
      @rachelmartin5187 Месяц назад +29

      I understand why. Violet didn't know the old drunk and crazy Bonnie. She got to know her grandmother sober.

    • @AshleighDanburry
      @AshleighDanburry Месяц назад +15

      They totally ruined Violet's storyline; they showed no growth. I missed the kids by the end of the series though.

    • @tmanchu
      @tmanchu 29 дней назад +5

      She knew the active alcoholic mom. Not the sober one. And she was muchnyiunger. Its takes a lot of work to get over the trauma from the drunken years.

    • @nycgirltee
      @nycgirltee 25 дней назад +1

      Well she isn’t Christy she doesn’t have to forgive just because she forgave Bonnie and also Bonnie didn’t put Violet through the things Christy did ..

  • @oceaser6977
    @oceaser6977 2 месяца назад +346

    She should’ve told him she had a baby already - I don’t see why she got mad at her mom, especially if her mom didn’t know Violet didn’t tell

    • @nighthunter3824
      @nighthunter3824 2 месяца назад +13

      Because most men are judgy, and to have a normal relationship you have to hide certain aspects of your life.

    • @oceaser6977
      @oceaser6977 2 месяца назад +24

      @ most women are liars trying to start brand new in every relationship
      No excuse to not tell your fiancé you’ve had a child

    • @teehee3657
      @teehee3657 2 месяца назад +36

      @@nighthunter3824 that doesn't sound like a relationship worth having. Being honest means you'll find the right guy, and not some judgemental loser.

    • @sindhurao4472
      @sindhurao4472 Месяц назад +13

      @@nighthunter3824 no need to spend a life with a judgmental man

    • @IcecteamOni-x4v
      @IcecteamOni-x4v Месяц назад +7

      Similar to Christy, they have a pattern of blaming their parents for things they really weren’t responsible for. There’re plenty of reasons to blame Bonnie and Christy for shit parenting, but they end up blaming them later on for things they didn’t do, or getting worked up over trivial things.
      In this case it’s on Violet. Sure it’s her right to not tell her future fiancé she once had a child, but it’s on her for assuming Christy and Bonnie would know to never bring it up. Violet could have said to keep the first child a secret.
      Now when the secret got exposed unintentionally, instead of taking responsibility, she deflects and doesn’t appreciate how it would be an honest thing to happen in a healthy relationship that could be worked out. Instead she uses it as an excuse that they can’t move forward with a relationship.
      If she doesn’t want to have a relationship for how Christy raised her in childhood that’s one thing, but exploding and telling someone that this is another reason to justify cutting someone out of their life is incredibly immature and inappropriate especially when it was on Violet to have had that discussion with Christy and Violet if she didn’t want her fiancé to know about her first kid.

  • @onaaaaa_K.
    @onaaaaa_K. 2 месяца назад +104

    'Is she pregnant'
    Gregory:no
    Bonnie:Then why do wanna Mary her?😂😂😂

  • @jt5733
    @jt5733 Месяц назад +56

    When you're a middle aged guy pulling a 19 year old you should not wonder when said 19 year old is from a dysfunctional family 💀

    • @UWalvern0810
      @UWalvern0810 17 дней назад +6

      That’s likely a 19 year old who might as well have “Daddy Issues “ stamped on her forehead. 😂

    • @kamakshishiv
      @kamakshishiv 8 дней назад +4

      Exactly, I don't know what this man was thinking that he's getting a pure virgin 😅

  • @GeinsArtAndCraftSupplies
    @GeinsArtAndCraftSupplies 2 месяца назад +114

    He's 42 with the air-headed lovesickness of a 16 year old 😒

  • @dublinjazz1
    @dublinjazz1 24 дня назад +13

    I never bought the storyline of Gregory breaking up with Violet because she had been pregnant. She's got a mother and grandmother who are alcoholics, but getting pregnant as a teenager was a bridge too far for him? Even though she had done a very selfless thing by giving her baby up for adoption? That should have elevated her in his eyes.

  • @taraz6786
    @taraz6786 2 месяца назад +248

    This is the problem with middle aged men, they genuinely think that young women will love and want them forever. 🤔 Violet literally was partying, out with her friends all the time and got bored of his old self pretty much straight away. 🤷‍♀️

    • @felixthecat2786
      @felixthecat2786 Месяц назад +40

      Men like to tell themselves stories. They think the solution to their dating woes is to just find a younger woman with "less baggage," but then they end up getting played by a young woman who is not ready to settle down.
      In order to find a good partner, you need to do the work on yourself. Men would rather find a younger, "easier" woman then just fix their own personality flaws.

    • @chrisgonzales4420
      @chrisgonzales4420 Месяц назад +8

      So it is his fault?! I'm curious because a lot of middle aged women do the same thing.

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 Месяц назад

      @@chrisgonzales4420 😂 Young women will always have more sexual opportunities, so it’s not the same thing at all. It’s apples and oranges, men will never have the same chances with women, young and old, they get rejected a lot more, so having a regular, monogamous partner is a godsend for most guys, with the exception of millionaires.

    • @declaracionespolemicas
      @declaracionespolemicas Месяц назад

      ​@@chrisgonzales4420 I mean, yeah, he's 40+ years old and should know better, and so should those 40+ women.
      If you're at that age and still looking for barely legal teenagers or could be your child's age, that's a sign of immaturity and being emotionally stunted.

    • @AshleighDanburry
      @AshleighDanburry Месяц назад

      @@chrisgonzales4420 a lot of middle-aged women date young guys who are not ready to settle down?

  • @wackyjackie12
    @wackyjackie12 13 дней назад +10

    Bonnie’s instincts never miss 👍👍

  • @questionresearch8721
    @questionresearch8721 28 дней назад +8

    Christy and Bonnie are nuts 😂😂😂

  • @michaelorr2628
    @michaelorr2628 21 день назад +14

    We need to start teaching our daughters that Age does matter! It’s a stage of life, and brain development! If you’re at 2 different stages, it won’t work, plus it’s predatory! There’s age of consent for a reason, and your brain isn’t fully developed until age 26, so grown men who target even the 18-25 girls who’s brains are still developing, are still predators, and should be shamed! If there’s a big age gap, it leads to fertility trouble, and if there’s kids, the older spouse is closer to Geriatrics than the other spouse and will die sooner than the other spouse. This is why people need to stay with their own age! If they are young enough to be your kid or your parent, it’s an automatic off limits!

  • @carolynwilliams2150
    @carolynwilliams2150 23 дня назад +6

    I love how Linda Alvin is on this episode.R.I.P Linda Lavin.😢

  • @IcecteamOni-x4v
    @IcecteamOni-x4v Месяц назад +54

    I hate really how all of a sudden Violet cut off her mom from being a part of her life in later seasons. I mean I get it when you had an alcoholic drug addict negligent parent, but plots like these in earlier episodes and seasons really never properly built up or showcased how Violet felt it would be the best decision to completely cut her mother out.

    • @likhwezititus
      @likhwezititus Месяц назад +12

      She basically raised herself, she doesn't owe Christy anything let alone forgiveness

    • @MegaWicked89
      @MegaWicked89 Месяц назад +10

      ​@@likhwezititus and yet she was more willing to keep her grandmother in her life?!

    • @DragonMonarch-eg2ib
      @DragonMonarch-eg2ib Месяц назад +10

      Violet is a teenager that doesn't want to admit that she is just like her mother because when she raises a kid it is going to be the exact same relationship till she is grows up and takes responsibility for her own actions yeah she's spoiled and ungrateful but that just means Christy better is because she learned from her mistakes and tried to be a better person also every kid is nice to there grandmother cause there not the parent.

  • @esmeraldagems9487
    @esmeraldagems9487 Месяц назад +135

    Yuck!! 😂😂 Even as a 23-25 year old, the mere Thought of dating a 19 year old guy was 🤢🤮 for me

    • @coconutsciencegirl9232
      @coconutsciencegirl9232 Месяц назад +6

      I mean that’s your judgement. You can do that. But legally it isn’t illegal. I don’t think it’s gonna end well for many. The generation gap will end in having nothing in common. But 19 is an adult. 42 is far above that. Which I think is weird. But it’s also not my business. What I mean is…have your judgements but if the two parties are of consenting age? Maybe just keep it to yourself. Cuz it doesn’t hurt you on any level. Or the world.

    • @user-lt1jd1ye3v
      @user-lt1jd1ye3v Месяц назад +10

      Yeah, it does hurt the world. Studies show the most advantageous age range for couples is within 4 years apart. That is what is healthiest and best for society.

    • @lizbrown6943
      @lizbrown6943 25 дней назад +2

      From the mouth of inexperienced without life knowledge. Brain isn't ripe until 25.

    • @1x4
      @1x4 13 дней назад

      Sounds like a woman thing to say.

    • @angelabach9821
      @angelabach9821 11 дней назад

      ​@@coconutsciencegirl9232 legal age doesn't mean real adult. brain hast fully developed at that age. that's why drinking age is 21 and renting a car under 25 isn't easy, because people make reckless choices at a young age not thinking things through. He's the older adult and should make better decisions.

  • @FelixBomer-ox5br
    @FelixBomer-ox5br 2 месяца назад +58

    The most underrated show ever

    • @JamilaJibril-e8h
      @JamilaJibril-e8h Месяц назад +3

      Nah scream blonde got lines but the rest is blah

  • @mandy7131
    @mandy7131 Месяц назад +43

    We LISTEN N WE DON'T JUDGE 😂

  • @MM-em6ly
    @MM-em6ly Месяц назад +48

    19 vs. 42
    My God, 23 year age difference

    • @rsync9490
      @rsync9490 Месяц назад +9

      Eww. At least date a 28 year old ffs, these creeps. He was also shocked that she was a teenage mom. He wanted a 19 year old virgin girl.

    • @agalgonzalez
      @agalgonzalez Месяц назад +2

      Teenage moms generally don't have the best planning skills, do they?

    • @Artfanbookfan25
      @Artfanbookfan25 27 дней назад +3

      If it were Victorian times it would've been considered a good match. 😂😅

    • @lepapercastle
      @lepapercastle 22 дня назад

      ​@Artfanbookfan25 It made more sense. A secure man with money and a young woman young enough to have many children in a world where people were dying anywhere between their late 30s go their early 60s. That's not much time to do stuff.
      But people are living past 80 every day now. There's no need for that nonsense anymore.

    • @petesong7146
      @petesong7146 17 дней назад +2

      Hollywood normal.

  • @MizLaur
    @MizLaur 2 месяца назад +41

    Hey, it’s Bernard from The Santa Clause!

    • @hiheyhello156
      @hiheyhello156 2 месяца назад +7

      That's Bernard!? Oh my goodness! He's all grown up!

    • @ashleyconnortalks
      @ashleyconnortalks Месяц назад +3

      Thank you so much, I couldn't figure it out what else he was on, lol.

    • @casszanggonmiah
      @casszanggonmiah Месяц назад +2

      ​@@ashleyconnortalksme too!

    • @jayhawkgirl6289
      @jayhawkgirl6289 Месяц назад +4

      He also was in the movie 10 things I hate about you

    • @ashleyconnortalks
      @ashleyconnortalks Месяц назад

      @jayhawkgirl6289 Ur so right!

  • @saltynutzz
    @saltynutzz Месяц назад +45

    I don't mind the fact that people have age got relationships. Best believe I'm not letting my 19-year-old daughter date a 42-year-old man. That is an abuse of power on his part because he was her professor and also it's just really creepy because 19-year-olds don't know the world they don't know anything about anything really. If she was 24 yeah go for it.

    • @niloofarmehraban3226
      @niloofarmehraban3226 Месяц назад +12

      24 is still so young .If she want to have a family she can find someone her own age.

    • @UWalvern0810
      @UWalvern0810 17 дней назад +3

      An explanation - not a defense - is that Violet is a 19 year old that had to grow up 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 fast, given her upbringing.

    • @epbrown01
      @epbrown01 6 дней назад

      @@niloofarmehraban3226Personally, I’ve never gotten that argument. How are TWO young dumbasses better than one? This guy will have more resources and stability than a 19 year old guy flipping burgers while living with his parents.

  • @CissieForrest
    @CissieForrest 2 месяца назад +18

    I feel like mom is about everyone family with the fighting everything

  • @cynjinmissouri8958
    @cynjinmissouri8958 Месяц назад +3

    He was Charlie from the show called numbers. He played a college mathematician whose brother was an FBI agent and of course he ended up helping his brother. It was a very good show and Judd Hirsch played their father. This show is called Mom and it was very good also

  • @Ami_Ama
    @Ami_Ama 2 месяца назад +30

    Why wasn't Violet there when he met her mom and grandma? I think that parents shouldn't be alone with the bf or gf when they first meet.

    • @changet2172
      @changet2172 Месяц назад +11

      Because he was asking permission to marry her. Kinda ruins the surprise of the engagement if Violet is with him.

  • @JoseDiaz-bs1jg
    @JoseDiaz-bs1jg Месяц назад +13

    The daughter character was the worst of this series,,, Her attitude,, everything else was funny as

  • @sights3255kamobrin
    @sights3255kamobrin Месяц назад +37

    you hide your Baby from your bf your about to marry
    but for some reason your mad at your Mom .....
    smh kids an Their ways,
    i tell ya

    • @coconutsciencegirl9232
      @coconutsciencegirl9232 Месяц назад +7

      She basically proved she isn’t ready to get married. She can’t even tell him the truth

  • @Ancaryvan
    @Ancaryvan Месяц назад +8

    Anyone recalls the Scary Movie franchise when sees Christy?

  • @brettteply1207
    @brettteply1207 2 месяца назад +47

    That's wrong in SO MANY WAYS

  • @kerrygligorovic9758
    @kerrygligorovic9758 2 месяца назад +32

    Christy and Bonnie are definately acting like children fighting all for nothing while embarrassing in front of Violet.

  • @michelleosborne1431
    @michelleosborne1431 2 месяца назад +18

    Thankfully I don't have my toxic mother in my life. She did teach the kind of mother i didn't want to be. By the way she chose to not have contact with me & I'm good with that. My kids experienced her as young adults & decided they didn't want that.

  • @mistressofthedark1476
    @mistressofthedark1476 2 месяца назад +21

    I just love it when mothers say that their children would never lie to them or do anything awful. I had mothers blaming me for their sons behavior or their daughter's behavior and then calling me to apologize and asking me to get back together with their sons or be friend's with their daughters again because they found out the truth, and that was that I wasn't guilty of doing any of the stuff that I was accused of doing!

  • @lindaleelaw5277
    @lindaleelaw5277 Месяц назад +7

    Hes a Professor...gone !

  • @TheHIDDENPLAYBOOK444
    @TheHIDDENPLAYBOOK444 Месяц назад +3

    I like how the daughter is more like the grandmother in a lot of ways.... She's more cutthroat than her mother

  • @questionresearch8721
    @questionresearch8721 28 дней назад +4

    Violet is out of order.

  • @omegamanduwa7843
    @omegamanduwa7843 2 месяца назад +19

    Bonnie is the best

  • @rickshannet8647
    @rickshannet8647 12 дней назад +1

    All of the cats got out of the bag at the same time! Yikes!

  • @brandond8197
    @brandond8197 Месяц назад +11

    Hey it’s Bernard from the Santa clause!

  • @donnabacon4681
    @donnabacon4681 2 месяца назад +34

    One of my fav shows ever! Need to watch reruns.

  • @StefaniePowersfan
    @StefaniePowersfan 7 дней назад +1

    Shooting saw dust 😂😂😂😂

    • @DmitriyK12
      @DmitriyK12 3 дня назад +1

      sawdust comes from a wood chipper, Bonnie.

  • @toocoolforreel
    @toocoolforreel 2 месяца назад +18

    Is that David Krumzholdt from NUM3ERS???

  • @crawdaddy1234
    @crawdaddy1234 Месяц назад +9

    Suuuuuuuuper creepy - I’m not sure how this is supposed to be funny.

  • @betsyr4724
    @betsyr4724 7 дней назад +1

    At least wait until she is 21.

    • @DmitriyK12
      @DmitriyK12 3 дня назад +1

      No, at least wait until she is 25 or 30 years old and graduated from university or college.

  • @yung1717
    @yung1717 15 дней назад +4

    43 year old professor but wants to marry a 19 yr old and put babies in her? He’s weird

    • @1x4
      @1x4 13 дней назад

      He's normal. Makes sense for an older man to want a younger woman. It also makes sense for a younger woman to want an older man.
      Evolution, baby.

  • @Random-xw1fg
    @Random-xw1fg 4 дня назад +1

    What show is that?

  • @user-dh4mi6ir2m
    @user-dh4mi6ir2m 2 месяца назад +11

    Violet hates who? 4:57 What episode?

    • @awesomeavaalways
      @awesomeavaalways 2 месяца назад +5

      “I hate you both”

    • @Makima209
      @Makima209 Месяц назад

      S2 Ep21
      “Patient Zero and a Chocolate Fountain”

  • @kc0lif
    @kc0lif 7 дней назад +2

    linda lavin rip

    • @DmitriyK12
      @DmitriyK12 3 дня назад +1

      oh, I didn't know she died; rest in peace and tranquility. 😮

  • @jasoneaton9477
    @jasoneaton9477 22 дня назад

    Happens everyday
    We all need a pretty young "nurse "..
    I mean girlfriend for extra parts

  • @fatemezamani8604
    @fatemezamani8604 Месяц назад +4

    What is the name of the show ?

  • @nawbhantahzeeb9733
    @nawbhantahzeeb9733 Месяц назад +3

    What is the name of this sitcom

  • @wedahmed9411
    @wedahmed9411 2 месяца назад +4

    what show is that

  • @Ronin_dv
    @Ronin_dv 21 день назад +2

    Я подумала, что они бы офигели будь он евреем. И тут они упомянули Шаббат😄🤦 ааа...

  • @brettteply1207
    @brettteply1207 2 месяца назад +11

    Christy's NOT a cool mom

  • @Stephanie-x1v
    @Stephanie-x1v 4 дня назад +1

    Little foot👀😔

  • @doinalright4552
    @doinalright4552 Месяц назад +5

    Violet got the best guys in the show but she was the problem.

    • @abigase135
      @abigase135 Месяц назад

      People underestimate mommy issues

    • @WalkingWoman-k7x
      @WalkingWoman-k7x Месяц назад +1

      A very stupid but nice teenager and a 42 year old creepy manchild….that he wants to start a family with a teenager……🤢🤢🤢

  • @tamerastone4732
    @tamerastone4732 2 месяца назад +6

    It was a good episode, till the fight!

  • @GemmaBrooks-hx3lq
    @GemmaBrooks-hx3lq 2 месяца назад +4

    I love you so much 😢😢😢

  • @DmitriyK12
    @DmitriyK12 3 дня назад

    Really Bonnie, Micronesia; wtf is wrong with her ?! 😮‍💨🙄

  • @Ryan2005-t8k
    @Ryan2005-t8k 2 месяца назад +17

    First Luke and then Gregory.. Violet couldn't be lucky enough to get guys like them and yet she manages to screw it up.. She is the problem..

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 Месяц назад +2

      @@Ryan2005-t8k Luke I could get behind, he was sweet, gentle, handsome, age appropriate and all round lovable. Gregory was just a chubby old perv with a fetish for teens, he got what he deserved with her. 😂

    • @UWalvern0810
      @UWalvern0810 17 дней назад +2

      Of course she has. She has absolutely no idea what a healthy relationship looks like.

  • @Leannot35
    @Leannot35 12 дней назад +1

    😂😂 oh it's been a long time I've watched this show I've always loved this TV show

  • @margaretrich5406
    @margaretrich5406 2 месяца назад +9

    When did Bernard get tubby?

    • @courtneyjackson7181
      @courtneyjackson7181 2 месяца назад

      Love Bernard!❤

    • @margaretrich5406
      @margaretrich5406 2 месяца назад +2

      @courtneyjackson7181 brainstorm- Bernard's Santa-fication process has begun.

    • @kweaver1965
      @kweaver1965 Месяц назад +1

      It's called GETTING OLD! Wait it's going to happen to you too🤪😜

    • @kweaver1965
      @kweaver1965 Месяц назад

      It's called getting OLD! It will happen to you just wait 😜🤪

    • @tonyj9743
      @tonyj9743 Месяц назад

      Not necessarily. Im 42 and rock a solid 8 pack!​@@kweaver1965

  • @chrisgonzales4420
    @chrisgonzales4420 Месяц назад

    Am I the only one who thought Gregory was cute?

  • @RiaRose-q3d
    @RiaRose-q3d Месяц назад +18

    This is not even funny. For real.

    • @parthetis74
      @parthetis74 Месяц назад +1

      Then why are you here? Move along..

    • @crawdaddy1234
      @crawdaddy1234 Месяц назад

      @@parthetis74 Please explain to me how this is funny. A neurotypical person’s brain isn’t fully developed until around 25. If a person has ADHD, it’s likely that it won’t reach peak development until almost 30 - and never reach the decision-making level of someone without ADHD.
      --
      Not only is this 42 year-old man “dating” someone who is still technically a TEENAGER, he is a professor. If he taught one of her classes, that makes this even more sus. I’m a 38 year-old man with ADHD (so I’m less mature than many of my friends). To me, anyone under 28 is basically just a child to me. I have far more in common with someone in their 50s or early 60s than I do with someone younger than 30.

  • @briananderson8224
    @briananderson8224 28 дней назад +3

    Seems like he should of been able to tell that she had passed a baby.

    • @ricardofierro7041
      @ricardofierro7041 26 дней назад

      Oh I don’t know that he should have been able to tell. There was a case in Colorado where a DOCTOR married a woman/ man that had a sex change. They were married for several years before he found out through the gossip world. A DOCTOR regardless he was not happy.

    • @Raisinsins
      @Raisinsins 26 дней назад

      The muscles tighten up again when u have a baby this young. You don't really "Tell"

  • @casszanggonmiah
    @casszanggonmiah Месяц назад +4

    Alice!

  • @agalgonzalez
    @agalgonzalez Месяц назад +7

    They are both over 18 and he is an educated professional with a respectable job. So far, he is head and shoulders above the other men that have been with those three women.

    • @zaysclubs
      @zaysclubs 28 дней назад +11

      No…. Just… no.

  • @MM-em6ly
    @MM-em6ly Месяц назад

    What happened to his face?

  • @ElizabethHurtado-py8ur
    @ElizabethHurtado-py8ur 6 дней назад +1

    Wrong and disgusting

    • @DmitriyK12
      @DmitriyK12 3 дня назад +1

      Gregory was more than twice her age; Violet was a gold digger in my honest opinion. 😮🤔

  • @BrunoGomes-sz1bz
    @BrunoGomes-sz1bz 2 месяца назад +3

    😂😂😂😂

  • @terrihartbarger
    @terrihartbarger 14 дней назад

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @BRN497
    @BRN497 15 дней назад +1

    מזל טוב

  • @victornguyen-em6eq
    @victornguyen-em6eq 19 дней назад

    Okin

  • @NoeleenNaidu
    @NoeleenNaidu Месяц назад

    🎉 TU Eres TU Eres ruryryr

  • @EsthersLetters
    @EsthersLetters 28 дней назад

    eww....

  • @kehindeRusty
    @kehindeRusty 22 дня назад

    Absolute hogwash