Life Transitions & The Power of Hindsight with Rachel Lindsay
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- Опубликовано: 5 июн 2024
- Welcome to Hidden Gems with Natasha Parker!
Join Natasha as she speaks with Rachel Lindsay, Bachelor Nation Alum, attorney, author, entertainment correspondent & podcast host.
In this episode Natasha and Rachel discuss Rachel’s major life transitions & what she's doing to take care of herself during this time. Looking back, Rachel shares what lessons she’s learning and her approach to future relationships.
You can also find Rachel on the Higher Learning Podcast.
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what fantastic quality podcast you have Natasha. I'm blown away, but technically and with substance. Well done!
Way to support @davenealcomedian! As a subscriber to your channel & podcast, ❤️you 2!
💯 agree, Dave!
Dave Neal brought me here!
I love how Rachel gave this interview to Natasha!! She could’ve spoken to any outlet like Bryan has but instead she kept it in house with someone she trusted but also someone who could get more exposure for her platform because they both know everyone’s gonna wanna listen to get she has to say about all this
An astute homegirl play. Love it
Which outlet did bryan speak to ?
I also LOVEEEEE the fact that Natasha brought up the fact that Rachel MOVED TO MIAMI FOR BRYAN!!! 🗣️🗣️
Divestment woes
Now she paying 10 k a month
@@keymusabe7207 she’s not paying anything because nothing is settled. That’s the number she offered & that amount only has to be paid for half the time they were together
I loved Big Rach before but it’s undeniable now. She’s just the best and I’m confident she’ll find her happiness ❤
"It's not unsexy it's just smart" I like that statement👌
I always loved Rachel. She's my favorite bachelorette. But what I love seeing in this podcast is her energy....here's just a calmness in her.
Never listened to this podcast but came because I love Rachel! So happy for her and excited for her future.
Natasha has surely matured since her bachelor days in paradise, very interesting and intelligent girl, who was treated so badly on those shows, good luck with your podcast Natasha.
I love how honest she is
Loved hearing from Rachel again … like really hearing from her again. We missed you! So many women are in similar spots - waiting to hear advice from you in a place of no judgement and just wanting wisdom…you both are wonderful ❤️also Great job Natasha!! Loved this episode 👏🏽
I love Rachel's speaking voice. It's so calm and pleasant to listen to. Also, she seems kind. I'm so sad about her and Brian. I wish them both the best as they move thru all this...
I love Rachel and she was so open and honest on this podcast, well done Natasha for creating a quality safe space.❤
This was a fantastic interview!.Rachel is such an incredible person. She was so open, honest and mature in how she talked about this entire situation. I am so impressed and proud of her❤Wishing her all the best
i just enjoy wise intelligent sisters ..this is just different and refreshing and needed PERIODTTT
Rachel is amazing..I wish her the best moving forward ❤
Love me some Rachel she's my favorite bachelorette period ❤️
Rachel you’re amazing and keep God first.. key attitude… FAITH in God🙏🏽🌹❤️
Rooting for you Rachel to finding the calm and peace and freedom you deserve ❤
So is her ex husband
He just got awarded 10 k a month from the divorce
Divestment is 💰
I love Rachel. Sending her so much light
Love you Rachel ❤
Praying for Rachel ❤
Great Rachel you're are a wonderful person, you could have done this interview with other's, but you kept it with someone that looks like you, and trying to give them a lift, I must say you're are a wonderful person, to think of other's, and I hope that you can get that same treatment & support from others, I must say great interview !!
This interview was so healing for me and brought a lot of things into perspective.
Keep being you @rachellindsay Self respecting self loving owning your s**t being open and honest Sad though that Bryan turned out to be not who you should be with Good thing you are truly authentic You are dealing with this well though it must hurt Give yourself grace Especially for not insisting on a pre-nup You believed in a forever So did we Give yourself kindness Sending love your way Love your strength and how you show your vulnerable side Makes you a very real person Hope my daughter learns from you You have accomplished so much
Think Natasha helped Rachel a lot today.
Marriage is a challenging gig, and especially without kids involved, it’s pretty clear when walking away is the best choice. Divorce should solve something. Hopefully, when Rachel gets to the other side, she will believe that it did. And thanks for encouraging listeners to sign prenuptial agreements … we need to take the stigma off them, particularly as people delay marriage and come into marriage with individual assets. Smart is sexy … and Rachel personifies smart. Kudos to Natasha for snagging the guest we’ve all eagerly waited to hear from. P.S. we also need to agree that not all people need, want, or function well in marriage. It’s not a character flaw, but rather excellent self awareness.
Hi, Rachel, hope you’re doing GREAT. I’m an international student in USA. Originally, I’m from Saudi Arabia. I started watching the show when you were announced to be a bachelorette. Until this day, I remember you saying on the last episode of your season to Bryan that you used to fixing people and he’s too good to be true. Now, at 35:00, your therapist saying you go after the potential of a person other than the reality of a person which is completely true lol. Hope you the best in the new chapter in your life
What a beautiful friendship and conversation❤❤
Natasha, this is my first time here. You're a lovely host. Thank you for speaking Life into our Rachel Lindsay. And Rachel, we're all rooting for you ♥️
Love Rachel! She so incredible and strong and BEAUTIFUL. Great interview Natasha- you are awesome :)
Natasha! An intelligent interviewer! 🙏🏾
Love Rachel she’s my fave bachelorette love her personality, she’s so smart, not to mention beautiful. Wishing her all the best ❤
Great podcast! 👍🏾👍🏾❤❤ I’m so glad I’ve found this “Hidden Gems.” Thank you, Natasha Parker. 🙏🏾 And thanks to Rachel Lindsey. 🙏🏾😊🙂
I was waiting for this! ❤️
Such a great episode. So proud of both of you ladies
So thrilled to see that you have a podcast Natasha! Best interview of RL yet! Can't wait to see what the future holds for you Queen! xoxoxo
This was so amazing , I love how Natasha poured into Rachael . I will be watching this again and again . Natasha you’re so gifted , I can’t wait for your podcast to blow up .
Loved this chat, thank you! Heard about it from Dave Neal and came here to listen to the whole thing.
Wonderful interview 😍🤓 great job Natasha
Beautiful conversations ladies❤❤❤
Very informative, do not ignore any thing💯
What a wonderful podcast.
Would love to pod. Published a book on finding true WHOLENESS after divorce called “THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH”
Great episode! Wishing Rachel the best!❤
DEAN AND PETER ON THE RACHAEL'S SEASON WAS CORRECT, BRIAN WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH FOR RACHAEL, HE IS JEALOUS OF RACHAEL'S CAREER, HE WANT TO BE ON THE DOCTORS AND NOT EXCEPTED. HE WANTED TO BE ON TELEVSION, HIS CAREER WASN'T ELEVATED AND RACHAEL'S WAS AND HE IS ENVIOUS. IT'S TAKE A LOW DESPICABLE MALE TO ASK A WOMAN FOR SPOUSAL SUPPORT, WHEN HE IS EDUCATED AND ABLE BODIED. NOT MUCH MAN HOOD. HER SISTER, DEAN AND PETER WAS RIGHT ABOUT HIS CHARACTER AND HIS INTENTIONS. BRIAN DESERVES AN ACADEMY AWARD FOR HIS PORTRAYAL OF A MAN IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN AND HIS FAMOUS LINE TO RACHAEL,( I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER.) (FOREVER WAS AS LONG AS THING WENT HIS WAY.)
@@Lydia-ip2oeremember when he also kept saying on the show, “this is like a fairytale?” That was a red flag. He saw Rachel and saw dollar signs.
Yes, He wanted the show to help him to become famous. He wanted to be on the Doctors. Women me must listen to other men when so many felt Bryan was a Charmer, Not genuine , a man with no real Substance.
Ugh I love Rachel!!
My favorite two ladies ❤
Great interview
You are not a lot Rachel you are you as God intended ❤😂
So great!!! ❤
I think the prenup thing is all about wanting someone's money. My prenup is keep what's yours and I keep what's mine. I don't support women depending on men for money, like even if I meet you with nothing, I prefer to help you become something so that you can rely on yourself for financial support because if a man leaves you what are you gonna do? Let a nanny look after the kids while you go and work and make money.
love Rachel, but alot of what Natasha said gave me the ick. Maybe its her delivery.
A loving and supportive partner who is affectionate and prioritizes you is 99% of what most women want and need. As a woman who is also the bread winner in my relationship and has had to support my partner during unemployment, sure it would be nice if my partner made more. But I’ve had to learn that the way he treats me and takes care of me is priceless. Most women would be jealous of what I have. Lots of quality time, physical affection, emotional support, I’m his top priority, he cooks me meals, rubs my booty and caresses my body every single night, I mean the list goes on and on. I am living my best life in large part because of him.
It’s gonna be tough to find a supportive emotionally available partner again Big Rach but I wish you the best of luck!
Seems like they both made sacrifices for the relationship and decided it wasn’t working anymore. I just wonder, if they had been willing to stick it out for a little bit longer or compromise a little bit more could they have made it? Like Bryan, maybe your office didn’t need to be in Beverly Hills? Maybe you could have worked for someone else instead of launching a practice? And Rachel, maybe you could have lowered your high end lifestyle to ease the pressure of supporting two people on your income?
Also, for Rachel If Bryan’s business takes off you will never get a return on your investment once you’re divorced, yikes.
First of all, you don’t know the full reason why they are getting a divorce. All you know is that they’re going through a tough divorce due to him asking for spousal support, but why does everyone think that’s why they’re divorcing? It seems that Rachel was ok being the breadwinner and allowing Bryan time to work on his business, so I don’t think that’s why they’re divorcing. No one knows what was happening in that marriage. You say your husband takes care of you and cooks for you-how do you know if Bryan did that for her? Because I have a feeling he didn’t and I could tell in interviews and public appearances that he was over her. He’s also showing his true colors right now. Also, please stop telling women they’re going to have a hard time finding someone else and that they may regret letting go of a man. No one should stay in a bad marriage due to fear of being alone and not finding someone else. Rachel said in this interview that God opened her eyes and gave her clarity-for all we know there could’ve been cheating or other issues that was happening behind closed doors. Stop judging her decision, which was mutual by the way. Bryan was the one that filed so why aren’t y’all questioning his decision and only Rachel’s?
@@LA-ty2ug you’re putting a lot of words in my mouth that I never said.
Him asking for spousal support does not indicate a “tough divorce.” Many divorces involve spousal support that’s just normal.
I never said finances is the only reason they are getting divorced but it is very clearly a PART of the reason according to Rachel’s interview. I never said she would regret leaving Bryan or anything even close to that. I never said Bryan was exactly like my husband. I just gave an example of my experience since there are some similarities in our situations. I make way more than my husband and I’ve had to support him during periods of unemployment. I am much more of a hustler and he’s a more simple man with a type B personality. The disparity in financial contribution and “hustle mentality” can weigh on you & deteriorate the relationship even when your partner is GREAT in so many other regards. My message is not for Rachel, she’s not gonna see this. It’s for all the women out there who can relate.
She said herself in this and previous interviews that Bryan is very supportive and emotionally available, her words not mine. She said herself in multiple previous interviews that she was able to accomplish so much because of how supportive her husband was. So there are some similarities between us.
Also I questioned BOTH of their decisions and willingness to make sacrifices and compromises for each other.
But you heard what you wanted to hear.
Also everyone is out here speculating including you. You made a bunch of speculative comments in your reply so get off your high horse.
@@ikn8036 Bryan seemed to be very supportive and she has said as much. But the fact that she seems to have ignored things with him that made her uncomfortable (red flags), probably means she realized they are incompatible. The way Bryan transformed from a publicly and supportive husband to a manipulative, vindictive liar shows that was already part of who he was. She probably saw signs of this unpleasant behavior and just brushed it off. If a relationship is draining and exhausting you, after repeatedly trying to make it work, it's time to let go.
And the way you make it seem like Bryan didn't want that high end lifestyle as much or more than Rachel. He is the one who needed his office to be located in Beverly Hills. It's was all about the image for him, celebrity chiropractor to the stars.
Also, if he is such a good person, why did he delete his divorce announcement a few days ago, shortly after this interview. You know, that manipulative, misleading statement making everyone think "he dumped Rachel"
Can we stop treating him like he is some kind of saint. 🙄🤦🏽♀
@@irene67678 whilst you are definitely making a lot of assumptions about Bryan, and Rachel, and their situation I can understand where you’re coming from.
But you also continue to put words in my mouth that I never said. So I don’t really know what else to say 👋🏾
@@ikn8036 That's fine. I'm not trying to put words in your mouth. All I know is that a person's character is defined by how they respond to things at the lowest points in their life. I could never behave the way Bryan has with Rachel because I'm a good person and I don't have it in me. Bryan has been manipulative, petty and deceitful throughout this process. So what does that tell you about his character?
We all should be praying for both of them. He has given a lot to be with her,. What i do understand they both wanted different things in life, he isnt the out and about person as she is. I am hoping they both find their person.
Look🙂... I'm really not trying to chase after you but you're still talking about his sacrifices, as if she didn't make any. Rachel pushed herself to exhaustion (sacrificed her mental, emotional, and even physical health) to support them both. While Bryan felt very comfortable letting her do it and praising her for working herself to death. It's hard to feel comfortable or be able to feel secure when you always have to work because you're partner can't support you or himself (year after year); especially when you're trying to start a family. A lot of people work 2-3 jobs including running a business, Bryan doesn't seem to have that hustle or work ethic in him. She simply needs her match, he wasn't it. And his petty behavior over the past few months, only confirms it was the right decision for them to part ways.
@@irene67678This. And some may not remember that Rachel was actually hospitalized early in their relationship from overworking. No real man is going to feel ok letting a woman go through that. Bryan could’ve worked at a group practice in Beverly Hills and earn over six figures easily if he really wanted to help financially, and put the failing business on hold. But he chose not to.
@@irene67678 Drizzle drizzle. Rachel admitted they were leveled when they first got married and no prenup…
Women DO THIS ALL THE TIME TO MEN. Women bleed men dry, take half their assets, get the alimony….this is not even including child support. 90% of alimony is paying from man to woman. Now with the feminist movement and women making more money now than ever before….yiu fought for equality now deal with it 😂
Pay up lady. All men should marry up and take the woman for what she got. The tables have turned.
Soft man era. Drizzle drizzle!
@@ikn8036first of all, Bryan never had his own practice before going on the show-he worked at someone else’s practice with other chiropractors. He only started a business after the show when he moved to Miami with Rachel. Also, lazy isn’t the word to describe Bryan. The right word is opportunist or clout chaser. He saw an opportunity to marry a successful attorney with status and knew that it was going to improve his situation and he took it. He saw that Rachel had the means to take care of him and he relied heavily on that, which is why now he’s claiming he needs her money to maintain the lifestyle she afforded him to live. I don’t think Rachel will regret letting him go because I don’t think the money/career situation was the only reason why they’re divorcing. Listening to this interview, it seems that Rachel was very patient and willing to support Bryan financially so I don’t think that’s why it ended. I have a feeling other issues took place-cheating, disrespect, mistreatment-that also lead to the divorce. I always thought Bryan was phony and not as nice as he wants people to think he is and I’m starting to realize I was probably right. It’s better to be alone happy and at peace than in a bad marriage just so you don’t have to be alone.
@@LA-ty2ug your attempt to make Brian look horrible on every post imaginable is hilarious. You failed miserably. Your boss babe Rach admitted that when they got married, they were equal footing. They were level. So I’m sure you won’t say she was broke, bum, and didn’t make money when she was with Brian. She was a lawyer likely making around $125k? Brian has his OWN condo in downtown Miami…in the brickell area. You know how expensive it is to live in brickell, let alone own there? So for sure he was making at least $150k.
Big boss rach wanted the limelight just like Wendy Williams predicted. She had that limelight for a bit due to being the first black bachelorette and her extra gig. After losing her contract, what has she done since?
Once Brian gets his settlement, moves back to Miami… he will be working again as chiropractor and making a good $125k-$150k with $1.44m in the bank. Cry harder 😂😂😂
I love rachel lindsay.
Good to see Rachel in a lighter convo...she is a sharp cookie and I hopes she takes her time for whatever comes next romantically in her life. I wish her well and love her and Van on Higher Learning podcast.
Love Rachel 🫶🏿
Great interview and it was eye opening to hear Rachel talk about the kind of man she wants in the future. Every show or interview Rachel did since coming off the bachelorette, she always said how supportive, encouraging, shy Bryan was. During Rachel backlash with Chris Harrison, her success, she always said it’s because of her supportive partner. Rachel changed her reasoning for going on the show, and was the one always saying, having kids later. After 7 years Bryan has nothing to show for closing his practice in Miami at age 39 and moved to LA and spent months searching for a location to reopen an LA office. Rachel must remember Bryan did not come with his patients so how can he make money. I’m sad but I feel bad for Bryan bcuz he’s in his 40 and has to start over. He has lost lost of money while Rachel did income increased and she spends more money than Bryan that what she said. Overall it was beautiful to watch but even if Rachel had pick Peter that relationship would not have lasted either.
BRYAN WAS AN TV OPPORTUNTIST, BRYAN WANTED HIS CAREER TO BE ELEVATED, THROUGH RACHAEL'S ELEVATION. BRYAN IS A LICENSED CALIFORNIA CHIROPRACTOR. HE AGREEDED TO MOVE TO CALIFORNIA, HE DIDN'T LOSE ANYTHING, HE GAINED. BRIAN CAN MAKE MORE MONEY IN CALIFORNIA, THAN FL. HE IS THE ONE FILED FOR A DIVORCE, NOT RACHAEL. THOSE MEN ON THE SHOW SAW HIM FOR THE TV OPPORTUNIST HE IS. CHIROPRACTORS EARNED HUNDREDS OF THOUSAND OF DOLLAR A YEAR OR MORE. AN ABLE-BODIED MAN ASKING A WOMAN FOR MONEY, WHEN HE FILED FOR A DIVORCE, WITHOUT SPIRITUAL OR LEGAL CAUSE. WOMEN FAR TO OFTEN FALL FOR THE CHARM AND LOOKS AND DON'T PAY ATTENTION, TO THE INNER SUBSTANCE THE (CHARACTER), IT'S ALL ABOUT THE CHARACTER, NOT THE CHARM AND LOOKS. REWATCHED THE BACHLORETTE SHOW AND RACHAEL TELLS BRYAN HE'S SO CHARMING, SHE WAS CONCERNED IT WASN'T REAL. HER INTUTION WAS RIGHT, SAD SHE DIDN'T LISTEN TO HER INNER VOICE, EVEN WHEN THEY COULDN'T REACH AND AGREEMENT ON PRE-NUPTIALS, WITH NO PROPERTY, NOR CHILDREN INVOLVED, MAJOR RED FLAG. SHE LOVED HIM AND WAS BLINDED BY CHARM.
@horacefletcher9510 If you listened to the entire episode you will hear that Rachel said that there were some red flags that she omitted to see about her ex. Their marriage was not at all what we thought it was. Let's move on as she and her ex are doing. Don't worry about her ex, he's going to be fine. Thank goodness Rachel can move on from all this unnecessary weight. 54:48
I think they both were emotionally supportive of each other. I think Bryan is a little too laid back with how he handles his business and that is part of the reason for his lack of success. The business he started in Miami (after they moved back there) was with Rachel's emotional and financial support. It was the first time he had his own practice because before the show he worked in a group practice. She has helped him twice realize his dream of having his own practice. I mean she can't run the business for him.
He'll be fine. He will receive something and then they both can move forward.
Bryan is being ridicules, He doesn't deserve part of her income, Bryan is a doctor, what doctor needs financial support from their spouse. He is asking for money for one of two reason. 1. He filed for divorce out of pettiness, He really don't want the divorce, because he knows Rachael is not willing to agree to give him spousal support. or 2. He is what Dean and Peter was saying about him on the show and Rachael's family didn't believe his sincerity.
Bryan’s issue is he’s desperate to have his own business but it’s failing. If he went back to working in a group practice like he was before the show, he would be making over 6 figures. But he feels entitled because Rachel makes more money than him and he thinks because he came off a tv show with followers, he should have more and earn more opportunities. I think he’s petty and it’s tripping him up.
The court should look at his income over a period of five years to see how many years he actually made $1300 a month. I think she left her job and went to Miami to be with him. What was he making then?
Not my two favs!! 😍😍😍
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So I’m watching this podcast and while it’s great and I love Rachael. Sometimes I get the vibe that now her financial status has changed she’s choosing that versus finding a true partner
And you got that from what? She literally said she didn't get a prenuptial agreement because we followed love not business. With their "nasty" divorce she has learned "her" lesson. Just like anyone going through a divorce you learn lessons. They went into the marriage with love and according to "reports" he is leading with money so how can one say she is when he is the one flipping the script. Just interested
Look like he thought he would profit by going to Hollywood with Rachel but angry that Rachel did not give him access as he expected.
thesis the video that I realize something was wrong in their marriage. .. the way she talks ABOUT her and Bryan
Natasha….please let your guest talk.
We better be careful what we pray for. I prayed and when i got it, i cried becaues he was really what i ask for the height the job , but it so wrong, so we finally divorce and all i can say god its in your hand. Sometimes we pray for the wrong things, satan is always listening and prentenedmto be god answering our prayers.
This sounded like a girl chat 🤣
Great interview. I wish Natasha would have allowed Rachel speak though. She kept going on and on, at a point, I forgot who was the interviewer and interviewee. I love Rachel a lot and how she carries herself. I wish her the best. I am also curious to see if there will ever be a chance between she and Peter.
Did you post this on tiktok
How can you be very understanding but not patient? Per what Rachel said.
She did a podcast with someone and talked briefly about her sex life with Bryan and at the end of her statement she made reference to telling Bryan to just go watch some porn. Whether she was joking or not, what a disrespectful statement to her husband. She gave us a peak into what was really going on in their relationship. I feel for both of them.
I wish Rachel got to talk more…
I heard Peter Kraus fits into that criteria of 10,000 guys.. just sayin.
Natasha looks like she can be the sister of Halle and Chole Bailey. 😊
24:20 damn mr ex
RACHAEL GOD WILL SUSTAIN YOU AND STRENGTHEN YOU. GREATER IS COMING, GOD NEEDED YOUR EYES TO BE OPENED AND HE IS PRUNING YOUR LIFE, FOR GREATER. HE PRUNED MANY OF OUR LIVES, FROM THINGS AND PEOPLE THAT IS AND WAS DETRIMENTAL FOR OUR LIVES. REMEMBER, THIS TOO SHALL PASS.) GOD WILL TAKE YOUR ASHES AND GIVE YOU BEAUTY ISAIAH 61:3)
Amen ❤
I might be wrong but Rachael made a big mistake, but she knows best. I don't think she was ready for marriage and children. I feel for Bryan because he has given up so much for her, it's so sad.
This was a wonderful conversation between Rachel and Natasha. Natasha did an excellent job. Rachel was extremely graceful in the way she spoke about Bryan. Even though it was a mutual decision to end this relationship, he has behaved in a very petty, narcissistic and vindictive manner over the past few months.
With her emotional and financial support, he was able to opens his own business (once in Miami and once in LA). This was something he never had before the show. He always worked for someone else and he always wanted his own. Bryan always wanted to be in LA but he was unable to financially afford it. He could have easily worked for another practice in LA. She worked her a** off to help him achieve his dream. At some point, he has to start being responsible for himself. He has an enormous amount financial assets to fall back on (something many people divorcing don't). Yet he wants her to take care of him.
Please stop making him a victim.
@@irene67678This👍🏾. Thank you!!!!
Brian is a narcissist 😭😭😭
HE GAVE UP NOTHING, HE WANTED FAME, HE NO LONGER DESIRES TO BE A CHIROPACTOR, HE WANTED TO BE ON THE DOCTORS, HE WANTED TO WIN FOR FAME, NOT LOVE, NOT MARRIAGE, BUT FAME, HE IS ENVIOUS OF RACHAEL NO LONGER HAVING TO HAVE A 9 TO 5 JOB, NO LONGER HAVING TO PRACTICE LAW AND STILL EARNING MORE MONEY. WATCH THE OLD SHOWS WITH PETER AND DEAN AND SOME OF THE OTHER MEN, COULD SEE BRYAN WAS NOT
GENUINE. MEN KNOWS OTHER MEN, BRYAN SPECIALITY OF CHARMING WOMEN, NOT MEN. PETER AND DEAN HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD ABOUT MR. SUPERFICIAL BRYAN.
No mistake was made. Just look at how he’s treating her throughout this divorce and you can see that he’s not the perfect gentleman everyone thought he was and God only knows what was happening in their marriage in private. Also his Instagram activity and social life since the divorce has proven that Bryan is that Miami playboy that loves the ladies and nightlife that everyone could tell from the beginning during the show. He’s not any better than Rachel.
I disagree with Natasha about the athletes thing. A lot of good athletes come from tough backgrounds. She seems a little toxic but brought up some good stuff.
BW from the USA really need to learn that marriage is more than monogamy and money.
Here’s the deal: Bryan love bombed Rachel on the Bachelorette. At the time I thought “he’s laying it on thick. Is he really that into her, or does he see the financial potential in her?” In all honesty, based on Rachel’s memoir and things she’s said over the years on her podcast, it seems like she forced herself to consider marrying outside of her race. She spent most of her memoir talking about her last ex boyfriend who is Black. It’s not 100% surprising this marriage didn’t work.
Sooo are you implying that Rachel is a racist, and she used Brian's skin complexion to become more desirable as a BW from the USA?
@teresamarie7460 whatttt how did you get that from her comment? Interesting. All they said is that Rachel "may" have entered this interracial relationship yes loving her pattern but possibly with hesitation. Her past experiences may have been only with her own race. Being the first black Bachelorette and one choicing to "leave" with someone that doesn't look like her is a layering we will never understand from "her" perspective. At the end of the day we will never know but no one ever aluded to anything remotely to what you are implying.
I’ve never heard this podcast, but the interviewer is… idk the whole I’m not paying just bc sounds very entitled and that’s what’s wrong with society nowadays… women expect men to be financially superior and reject the idea of focusing on values more. Also, I appreciate how Rachel spoke neutrally about her partner and is taking the mature high road. This girl talking about how much her face cost….. girl… how condescending honestly to your date and rude. She’s really focused on money. Way to make Rachel feel some type of way especially given her situation. Idk just weird
I actually understand about the face part. Men expect us to look like a 10 and like to pretend we can just wake up like that. And I’m sure there are people who can BUT realistically speaking most of us don’t.
I also being a married woman with 3 kids feel finances are SO important. Being on the same page is SO important. There’s nothing wrong with having expectations regarding what you expect. It doesn’t mean someone HAS to be okay with what you believe BUT to have a lasting marriage I believe that kind of honest reflection of expectations is important.
Calling a grown woman a girl is wild.
100% agree which is why she is single. She a cute lady but by no means does she fit the type of woman those men she admitted to who are 0.0025% of the USA male population will marry. Those men definitely will have much more options of women and likely will cheat.
Women want those men but expect those men to be faithful or one dating them. In reality those men have all the options and they will exercise those options. They’re more likely to cheat and women don’t want to deal with those consequences.
If Natasha is doing so much for her face to look presentable then she should pay for it herself. Why should she need a man for paying for it? That logic is rubbish and no man is buying that.
Rachel is clearly less than smart. I don’t care how “in love” someone is. That’s Lawyer 101! You would think someone who practiced law would make someone sign a prenup from day one! This just proves my initial view of Bryan. He love bombed Rachel because he was also after her money. Sad…
It’s because she didn’t give him kids
Thank goodness not! He can't financially and emotionally look after himself and a wife, far less for bringing children into the world. Too bad!!!!
Things would’ve been much worse if they had kids. Who was going to take care of the finances while Rachel is pregnant and on maternity leave? Also, he’s probably mad she didn’t give him kids because if she did, he would’ve been able to file for child support too and get much more money from her. Most men don’t want to have children unless they’re financially stable and their career is established. The fact that Bryan still wanted kids even though he was only making $1,600 a month is questionable. He’s very sketchy.
@@balancedlibra1792You clearly are not listening to this interview. Projecting is real in all your comments. Also, you people have this bad habit of ignoring what is being said...
@@teresamarie7460I have been following this couple from the beginning, so I know what I am saying. Agree to disagree!!!
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yep, the delusion calculator 😂😂
She's seemingly getting divorced because Bryan isn't as financially stable as she'd like him to be. If he had more money, I wonder if they would be getting divorced. She needed financial security, and Bryan couldn't give her what she needed at this time. They seemed to really love each other. It's unfortunate that it didn't work out.
Lol what did she say that lead to your interpretation of that??? She never said anything even remotely close to that. Is that was the case why would she get married? She knew his finances going into the marriage. If she cared about finances she would have gotten a prenuptial to protect herself. She will most likely pay him in the settlement.
she wants a traditional man with liberal values who wants a modern woman LOL