The RIGHT Way To Form An Unbreakable Bond With Your Horse

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024
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Комментарии • 143

  • @peachiixsky7497
    @peachiixsky7497 4 года назад +321

    The way you apologised made me realise how some people treat horses as a vehicle rather than a friend. Horse's are a gift, we don't deserve them.

    • @reeselaggy1652
      @reeselaggy1652 3 года назад

      Is that a good thing or bad I honestly can’t tell

    • @Bahddie_bby
      @Bahddie_bby 3 года назад +5

      Yes we do but the people who hurt them don't need them

    • @Ra-rg1vk
      @Ra-rg1vk 7 месяцев назад +1

      Some of us do. I sing to my horses while riding them

    • @Schmusan
      @Schmusan 3 месяца назад

      💯💯💯

  • @Ella-Llasa
    @Ella-Llasa Год назад +36

    The humbleness of “Thank this horse, for putting up with me…” love this positive, compassionate, interaction. ❤

    • @raynaemurray
      @raynaemurray Год назад

      It’s nice to hear anemone else say that. Thanking them for their cooperation, patience, and respecting their agency. I’ve said this for years. ❤️

  • @gerrycoleman7290
    @gerrycoleman7290 5 лет назад +100

    Yes, pressure and release with proper timing, rhythm, and feel. Good job. That is horsemanship.

  • @The_mare_stare
    @The_mare_stare 3 года назад +7

    He actually looks like he has a permanent smile. How sweet is he

  • @-.icywave.-5885
    @-.icywave.-5885 4 года назад +60

    Dude your horse is gorgeous! Sorry that I’m off topic and everything, but still you guys can’t say I’m wrong!

  • @augustluna7219
    @augustluna7219 3 года назад +52

    Man, I have been searching for YEARS for someone who is fair to their horse like you are. I am so impressed, I hope I can train like you one day.

  • @apbeauregard
    @apbeauregard Год назад +5

    I love that you used the word respect. I use that word. Ppl need to realize it's respect we need to give them. If we want it we have to give it. Doesn't mean the word no doesn't exist, but the respect u have for them has to be behind it.

  • @bethanys-herd
    @bethanys-herd 4 года назад +44

    Love this! All so so true, build them up rather than terrify them - you'll end up with a much more willing partner who trusts you and looks up to you!

  • @ChelseaMiddlebrook
    @ChelseaMiddlebrook 3 года назад +10

    I so agree with this method. I do not want my horse to fear me. Mutual respect. It's a relationship 💗

  • @channongard4396
    @channongard4396 4 года назад +59

    I have a 1/2 Arabian kill pen rescue that I've been working with...I had a scary bolt with him and I now realize I should not have even been in the saddle on this horse yet. I stayed on, but it shook my confidence quite a bit. I just subscribed to your group and am hopeful to get back on the right track with this horse. God bless you for the work you are doing!

    • @gerrycoleman7290
      @gerrycoleman7290 3 года назад

      Lots of the correctly applied ground work.

    • @algie471
      @algie471 3 года назад +4

      Same thing happened to me but I am slowly building my confidence with my horse, today was my first time trotting him! I am so proud of myself! ❤😸

    • @good__enough
      @good__enough 2 года назад

      Chandon, how is it going?

  • @jamiepennock546
    @jamiepennock546 4 года назад +11

    This is excellent. I just bought an abused auction horse, and this is the only video that shows trust before respect

    • @annat4792
      @annat4792 3 года назад +2

      Aw that's so great. We have a neglected and abused horse too. He used to be so dangerous and now he is the biggest teddy bear and everyones favorite 🤣

  • @rumuelnathanael8043
    @rumuelnathanael8043 4 года назад +106

    0:38 That scared the f outta me lol

    • @JesusRodriguez-im6yq
      @JesusRodriguez-im6yq 4 года назад +2

      Same

    • @micahmidstar2577
      @micahmidstar2577 3 года назад +2

      Mhm

    • @deviIish
      @deviIish 3 года назад +3

      SAME💀 i was more scared than the horse

    • @instafireflied
      @instafireflied 3 года назад +3

      Same. Even a year later from you. Whilst you’re just minding your business , people like me 🙋🏻‍♀️ nearly fell off my bed. Good times. Lol

  • @jess1e-
    @jess1e- 3 года назад +13

    Just a little random tip for anyone seeing this !
    If your cantering and it’s too fast and your horse won’t slow down don’t panic I saw a girl who was cantering and the girl screamed so loud (it was a normal canter) and the horse got spooked and it went crazy and she fell off (she’s ok) but the moral of the story is stay calm horses don’t like screaming

  • @EliannaCH
    @EliannaCH 3 года назад +9

    My new favorite horse trainer!!!
    I love how you build there trust like that!! thank you!!

  • @suzystone244
    @suzystone244 4 года назад +18

    Ground work is so important. I love to just be with a horse. On his level. This upload soothed me ❤

  • @1suitcasesal
    @1suitcasesal 3 года назад +2

    Finally, a trainer that makes sense!!!!!

  • @johannanattrass8331
    @johannanattrass8331 2 года назад +4

    Thank you!! The horse world needs people like you and you are putting yourself out there and giving others guidance. As a fellow horseman I sincerely appreciate what you are doing for these wonderful animals!

  • @LotusLady86
    @LotusLady86 3 года назад +10

    This is so good! The best video I've seen explaining how you keep the spirit of the horse while desensitizing to keep them safe and confident.

  • @Andrew10621
    @Andrew10621 3 года назад +8

    What a beautiful boy. I hope all people watching this treat these beautiful beasts of God with the respect they deserve.

  • @shuginubi
    @shuginubi 3 года назад +2

    I'm against violent breaking of horses, that's why I like your approach, sir. Horses are human's best friend ever, without them, there werent be mankind as it is.

  • @gmac1027
    @gmac1027 3 года назад +3

    What a sweet boy!🐴🥰
    1. I'm in love with the horse.🐎 😉
    2. I'm in love with the horse.🐎 😃
    The bond between you is awesome!

  • @ravenslair117
    @ravenslair117 2 года назад +5

    You have a kind and gentle approach and I just love watching you interact with your horse. I would love to do the clinic...!!! :-)

  • @rodrickdixon1350
    @rodrickdixon1350 3 года назад +2

    👍🏾 like the demo of the wrong way and the right way to train.

  • @jilltisdale455
    @jilltisdale455 Год назад +1

    THANK YOU! horse follow closely style. People think I’m crazy that I don’t bully my horse into submission, “make him” by a whip. my 2 yr old will swim for me bare back and hackamore.

  • @danawilliams1202
    @danawilliams1202 2 года назад

    I love this man. I never believed in breaking a horse, you train them to have mutual respect.

  • @earthtolaina
    @earthtolaina 4 года назад +17

    He is absolutely beautiful, and I’m glad I found your video! I’ve been working with my pony and he is only 3, and definitely we both need to gain trust and respect for each other. We are both green, and both stubborn. 😂

  • @primeslimer
    @primeslimer 4 года назад +8

    thank you so much! ive been looking for a respectful way to start a horse and ive finally found it here! really appreciate what you do, thank you. ❤️

  • @southofzero2510
    @southofzero2510 3 года назад +5

    Amazing video, and excellent horsemanship! It's great to see creators like you on my feed.

  • @dirksimmang
    @dirksimmang 2 года назад

    Finally a good horseman..
    I'm subscribing now...

  • @desireeadele1812
    @desireeadele1812 4 года назад +11

    I just found your video's. Great stuff. It's great to see someone working with horses like this. I do the same kind of work and it has made amazing improvements. Trusting each other is important 🐎🙂

  • @peachypixel
    @peachypixel 8 месяцев назад

    You are so gentle and confident, I really aspire to be as solid of a horseman as yourself someday. Thank you for posting these videos! ❤

  • @denisedspain7991
    @denisedspain7991 3 года назад +2

    He’s a pretty horse. Good information.

  • @VcntyPrxy
    @VcntyPrxy 4 года назад +12

    love your videos mate- very ethical and very real. keep it up!

  • @tomphillips2000
    @tomphillips2000 2 года назад +1

    You have it right man good job

  • @TruthCowgirl
    @TruthCowgirl 2 года назад +1

    amazing.. i cant even put into words how amazing this is .. god bless and keep upthe good work brother

  • @zoiesnyder9802
    @zoiesnyder9802 3 года назад +2

    Love how you explain things and you pointed out when he did a good thing as he did it so that new horse people know what to look for with their first horse :)

  • @dragonvyx8619
    @dragonvyx8619 3 года назад +4

    This is amazing and how it should be for every single horse and trainer!!❤️ thank you for this.

  • @bbbLPSjones
    @bbbLPSjones 10 месяцев назад

    im literally crying this is wonderful

  • @r_rowan1373
    @r_rowan1373 3 года назад +3

    That’s a beautiful horse breed

  • @minersroad6654
    @minersroad6654 3 года назад +1

    🐎Just love this💖
    'Wish you have more 🐴horse clinics

  • @roleyypoleyy5469
    @roleyypoleyy5469 4 года назад +4

    Thanks for the video man! I'm gonna try it on my horse to see if our bond can grow even stronger!

  • @QuietAZdesert
    @QuietAZdesert 3 года назад +1

    I like your patience...it goes a long way...

  • @panda-man123
    @panda-man123 3 года назад +6

    I’m glad 😀 I found this video I’m trying to create a bond with a pony and it looks like that I love ❤️ my 🐴 so much he is so nice I love my horse 🐴 I would never let it go never let it get hurt never let it get yelled at

  • @staciamackie1782
    @staciamackie1782 4 года назад +2

    That horse is stunning

  • @Kelly_Ben
    @Kelly_Ben Год назад

    Love this video! Here's a test... when you're with your horse, suddenly move quickly. If they whip their head up/ away, they're afraid they're about to be "disciplined". They're not respectful, they're reactionary and anxious. Is it effective? Sure. Is that the relationship I want with my horse? Nope.

  • @erinjean2695
    @erinjean2695 4 года назад +3

    Really glad I found your channel, thx for the videos

  • @ottb.harvey
    @ottb.harvey Год назад

    yes!!! you need to teach your horse that its okay to be scared, but to not react dangerously, especially young horses and ponies who tend to be very alert.

  • @rolo2351
    @rolo2351 3 года назад +1

    Amazing technique bro im sure there’s some psychological explanation as to why his behaviour drastically changes . Phenomonal

  • @theretroguy4519
    @theretroguy4519 3 года назад +1

    I have a 4 Old Arabian Mare and i will make the Same Training. Man i love youre Videos

  • @learleywells4498
    @learleywells4498 3 года назад

    Your horse is so sweet and he is a very beautiful horse! ❤️❤️ 😍😍

  • @lesliedoney1
    @lesliedoney1 3 года назад

    I pulled a 7 ur old mare from a killpen with her baby on Oct 8th, she isn't even halter broken but she looked just like my mare I had to put down last year. If i can get her broke, she'll be my biggest achievement yet. I've had 3 babies I raised from day 1, and my dad agreed im ready for a step up. I look forward to seeing how she turns out. Thanks for the video.

  • @stevenbertrand8508
    @stevenbertrand8508 3 года назад +3

    Great video... Not sure how it took me so long to find this one... I for sure prefer this method and it has been one I have been using because I "even as a noob" thought the other way was too much. I also liked the comment at the end. "your horse does not want to throw you" Last year my young green broke philly threw me... But it was my fault... I had the cinch too tight... she bolted on me with out one of my feet in the stirrup and I got thrown.... and boy did she feel bad for it... once I was able to stand up and take a seat on the hay trailer she cam right up to me and put her head in my lap as to say... "I'm sorry dad" She didnt even pay the hay any attention.

  • @pdoll96
    @pdoll96 3 года назад

    I’m a beginner..not an owner but praying to be..learning groundwork and I love your method and philosophy. God gave these beautiful creatures to cohabitate with and take care of and the respect should go both ways and love should
    Always be the premise.
    Thanks for what you do.

  • @chrig844
    @chrig844 3 года назад +1

    You're awesome I can't wait have great bond with my ponies

  • @nedcherry2066
    @nedcherry2066 4 года назад +3

    I just found your videos and I LOVE this way of training. God bless you.

  • @DukeCityKing50513
    @DukeCityKing50513 3 года назад +1

    Love this video brother 👍💯. Keep them up.

  • @barbarab9548
    @barbarab9548 4 года назад +2

    GREAT !! Great vid great training

  • @aimhehehe7080
    @aimhehehe7080 2 года назад +1

    I use to have a bond with my old horse till he got put down so now I’m trying to learn how to make a new bond with a new horse

  • @Conny226
    @Conny226 4 года назад +3

    Wow that was crazy I am amazed the horse did not bolt what a good horse 😌he was so stressed .

  • @juneequestrian9540
    @juneequestrian9540 2 года назад

    I love this advice.. I'm gonna try it

  • @blakericker3248
    @blakericker3248 11 месяцев назад

    Great video! Great trainer!

  • @erichicks9263
    @erichicks9263 2 года назад +1

    The very best way to introduce anything scary to a horse is not to bring the object to the horse but to get the horse to go to the object.This is done by getting the horse to follow the object and use their natural curiosity.In your flag example in the video I would walk off moving the object and simply lead the horse somewhere.
    It’s foolproof,the hirse is always calm and never has to get “used” to the object.
    I started a lot of horses and this was foolproof with any horse.

  • @kristenthessing706
    @kristenthessing706 3 года назад +3

    That is amazing

  • @angeldivine408
    @angeldivine408 Год назад

    This is definitely the best approach! Any advice on dealing with a rearing horse?

  • @StarxMoonOnPawzzz
    @StarxMoonOnPawzzz 2 года назад

    I totally understand that line: " I don't believe in these crazy show things like going side ways"

  • @BayanoSunIzem
    @BayanoSunIzem Год назад

    Man I’ve never really rode a horse before (a few times that I loved but never learned) but I wish there were places that would teach to train like this, in this way

  • @harinu9339
    @harinu9339 3 года назад +1

    the car and the goat talking together lmao

  • @mikeburton1703
    @mikeburton1703 3 года назад +1

    what a beautiful grey.......i would love to own em.......

  • @gerrycoleman7290
    @gerrycoleman7290 3 года назад

    It is thinking of pressure like a dial going from 0 to 100. Start low. If you get the response you are looking for, then release the pressure. If not, dial it up a bit until you get the correct response then release.

  • @pdeewee4495
    @pdeewee4495 4 года назад +1

    You’re amazing!

  • @meganpahl3612
    @meganpahl3612 9 месяцев назад

    ahhh man! I missed the webinar!! Will you be having another one. This horse is an arab so she spooks; however, is such a gentle soul and loves to please you. I feel that if I can show my little girl the right things to do, perhaps they can form this bind together. I have to train her yes but I want the bond to be between them.

  • @albertoruiz7829
    @albertoruiz7829 Год назад

    I just bought a horse at 21 years old I have a good stable at work with lots of space I’m just feeding her rn and letting her get used to me

  • @meganpahl3612
    @meganpahl3612 6 месяцев назад

    Well, here I am revisiting your videos. I find it helpful to pray with and over my horse. I do have a question though, how can I get her to follow without the lead? Yes, she follows behind if she sees I am leaving but I would like to have her follow me in the field without the lead at ALL times. Suggestions for me?

  • @leealexander3507
    @leealexander3507 3 года назад +1

    A frightened horse is in no frame of mind to learn anything.

  • @aktanakhmetov
    @aktanakhmetov 3 года назад +1

    That's a nice saddle! Which brand and model is it?

  • @meganpahl3612
    @meganpahl3612 9 месяцев назад

    I want to thank you for your video! I am a life-long rider, trainer, and competitor but recently bought my daughter her first horse. An 11 year old arab mare. They immediately took to each other but I have a problem I NEVER had for any of my horses before, I have to board this one 10 min from my home. We are there daily and I will be doing all of her training but I really need some help here. I do not want to be that person that visits and because I cant just step off my porch to be with her throughout the day, I feel like this is why she is digging in her feet and refusing to be lead away from the other horses. Where are you located and is there any way I could email or speak with you??? I pray you answer this message.

  • @1lesa242
    @1lesa242 4 года назад +1

    I like this a lot.

    • @1lesa242
      @1lesa242 4 года назад +1

      Thanks for posting

  • @shawndarris1265
    @shawndarris1265 Год назад

    good stuff !

  • @britters220
    @britters220 4 года назад +3

    Ya spoop’t the poor guy. 🥺
    He is a good boy. ^_^
    Exposure therapy.

  • @ddanaos
    @ddanaos Год назад

    love this

  • @clintcullum663
    @clintcullum663 Год назад

    Nice work

  • @antonsilvis1181
    @antonsilvis1181 3 года назад +1

    Lovely horse...tell me more please...breed, height, age?

  • @gloom0259
    @gloom0259 3 года назад +1

    Respect.

  • @ano.theart3050
    @ano.theart3050 3 года назад

    Fantastic

  • @katiefloss8421
    @katiefloss8421 2 года назад

    I love your horse 👌❤

  • @cybertronicgamer9589
    @cybertronicgamer9589 Год назад

    Will doing this strengthen my bond with my New forest pony? As he has separation anxiety, an has no trust in me to leave the herd. Will doing this help?

  • @eversonkharkongor5056
    @eversonkharkongor5056 4 года назад +2

    I'm waiting for so long this tactic,my horse always afrid I'm not getting the chance to ride till now.

  • @4AmySue
    @4AmySue Год назад

    Where is the link for the steady horse clinic?

  • @bigshot1300
    @bigshot1300 2 года назад

    what type of saddle is that?name and model please?

  • @igorfreitas2841
    @igorfreitas2841 3 года назад +2

    Respect 🇵🇹

  • @ethanwhit-gg7zg
    @ethanwhit-gg7zg 3 года назад

    Hello I'm trying to re brame in my horse have you got any tips for that and I'm trying to get a better bond with it please consider doing this

  • @rexythet-rex3513
    @rexythet-rex3513 3 года назад +1

    Just curious what type of horse is he?

  • @harmonyryan6872
    @harmonyryan6872 2 года назад

    Where is the link

  • @allisonplaysaj2269
    @allisonplaysaj2269 4 года назад +1

    No it doesn't hurt the horse to use a flag if you know what you're doing dont use it to just use it. Btw you did an awesome job.

  • @good__enough
    @good__enough 2 года назад

    :-)
    Lovely.
    I smiled.
    I subscribed.
    :-)

  • @josephwiebe8576
    @josephwiebe8576 Год назад

    Could you do a vid about horses that have a sensitive mouth

  • @firefly_the_rescue9308
    @firefly_the_rescue9308 4 года назад

    Subscribed!

  • @wetdewlap8741
    @wetdewlap8741 Год назад

    So quick question, why would you just stress your horse out to prove a point of what not to do?

  • @houstonbrown3450
    @houstonbrown3450 4 года назад

    My horse refuses to longe on line and round pen also ,point ask hit the ground with stick ,just stands there ,!!?

    • @stevenbertrand8508
      @stevenbertrand8508 3 года назад

      soooo... I hate this part... I use the stick with a string... My steps are this... Point, cluck, whip the ground at the feet, and spank. Both my horses have been spanked when the first three steps do not work. After ones I have never needed to again. I use to feel really bad but I have also seen horses bite and kick the crap out of each other so I guess my little string is not going to hurt them that bad... Start it first with no rope but just in the round pen. Only give each command ONCE... if you keep doing it over and over before the next step they will think that is the answer. And you dont want them to think that. So try this... Point, wait for 3 sec, cluck wait 3 sec (I always give them some time to think) whip the ground, (make sure your stick and string make the whoosh sound) wait 3 sec. Is still nothing spank them on the behind. Make sure it makes the whoosh sound. Also make sure you are standing behind the drive line of your horse. Hope that helps.

    • @houstonbrown3450
      @houstonbrown3450 3 года назад

      That's what I do ,but he sulks and has no euthaism about longing,but rides out good

    • @stevenbertrand8508
      @stevenbertrand8508 3 года назад

      @@houstonbrown3450 How old is he? You might have to get more aggressive about it all.

    • @houstonbrown3450
      @houstonbrown3450 3 года назад

      @@stevenbertrand8508 will be 4 March 29 2021,when I get aggressive ,then he gets aggressive,

    • @stevenbertrand8508
      @stevenbertrand8508 3 года назад

      @@houstonbrown3450 yikes almost sounds like a respect issue but its odd he rides out nice... Have you tried flags or a sack on a stick? Might need to bring in a different person also... He might have you trained instead.... I new person might be able to get his feet moving.

  • @HashBandicoot356
    @HashBandicoot356 3 месяца назад

    Seems like common sense....common decency really. These are intelligent animals; its a privilege to have that intelligence at one's disposal, not a hindrance.