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No greater fundamental human truth than Spiritual Dynamics. Bustamante and his kind will keep society between stage Blue and Green. He doesn't have the solution, because he is the problem. His solution is to master the game of abundance (green) and scarcity (blue) without realizing there is plenty for all (yellow) and excess leads to suffering both individually and societally (red). That said, as an overnight father of two boys .. I get it. As an example, spending finite family energy to recycle only to have it thrown in the ocean seems pointless--humans are not ready. I am sad to say that likely I will rejoin the problem, but with awareness which I will pass on to my boys. If everyone could do this we could end suffering (yellow) in two generations.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 People are learning too much outside of the DSM -5 certified scope of practice. Quick! Go reverse psychology trick as many people as fast as possible to gaslight people into distrusting their intuition and their own sense of empathy! “People with high EQ, high empathy, and anxiety, they can pull themselves out of that and tap into and use that same system for their own individual benefit, and now, they’re the puppet master. You can now create *artificial* relationships. You now know the *method* for manipulating people to do what you want them to do.” Actually, sir, you just explained psychopathy and sociopathy. We have you and Evy along with a bunch of other psychologists to thank for knowing that because you’ve given us these definitions over and over yourselves. Empathetic people who know how to self regulate coregulate with and empower others to do the same for themselves at all times. Often, and especially, to protect themselves and each other from those who would take exploited advantage.
I love that Andrew said to be cautious of the words you use, and then caught himself calling the customer the “target.” Great interview and super entertaining!
@@Aryisk no, dude marketing is the thing to comes to mind Same thing with mark, you thing about a guy named mark, or leaving a mark, definitively it would never mean anything else
I've watched a lot of interviews with Andy, and you brought several concepts that I don't think he explained anywhere else, at least not to the same level of detail. You were obviously well-prepared and able to ask great follow-up questions! I never watched you before, but I just subscribed.
Love this “everybody’s worth a cup of coffee”…. I’ve always said this. Networking has been my way of life. Love the description of what empathetic ppl are about….. so true.
Mr Andrew Bustamante applies a none threatning but intense gaze as if he's still on mission. I am watching how he's listening to the questions presented to him, he's actively collecting information. The amount of focus I believe makes his insights more rich and makes listening to all his conversations interesting.
@pwyman5540 @pwyman5540 He's humble about it. He says these are sets of skills. I guess he's mastered it so well you can't tell if he's still at work or he's here with us deep sh*ts 😅.
He’s mind fucking him too. I don’t know if you noticed but he’s changing his complete perception to the one he wants. He knew from the beginning that he had complete control to mold because he was completely open. Bravo 👏
I think there’s more too it that’s everyone’s initial reaction to the content but he says things that show you how intelligent he is and how (hopefully) intelligent others in the agency are
He’s not psy oping anyone who isn’t a pansy ass lmao . He blatantly tells people how they recruit for the CIA. They put you in a room with 10 other idiots and if you’re smarter than the other idiots then they pull you aside and tell you the truth about how the system works. So it’s not psy oping the ones who read between the lines lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 People are learning too much outside of the DSM -5 certified scope of practice. Quick! Go reverse psychology trick as many people as fast as possible to gaslight people into distrusting their intuition! “People with high EQ, high empathy, and anxiety, they can pull themselves out of that and tap into and use that same system for their own individual benefit, and now, they’re the puppet master. You can now create *artificial* relationships. You now know the *method* for manipulating people to do what you want them to do.” Actually, sir, you just explained psychopathy. We have you and Evy along with a bunch of other psychologists to thank for knowing that. You’ve said yourself psycopaths cannot feel empathy but they can mimic it, and sociopathic people feel emotions but they’re completely self-centered. Empathetic people who know how to self regulate coregulate with and empower others to do the same for themselves at all times. Often and especially to protect themselves and each other from those who would take exploited advantage.
Conversation mapping- had no idea this concept existed. I’m going to experiment at a networking event this evening. I look forward to watching the rest of this conversation. Cheers!
After dealing with a pathological narcissist I’m so much more aware. I am glad I’m not as ignorant and innocent as I was before, it has really opened my mind and I try to keep it open! Love watching these videos I always learn something new!
Most of my life I wore pink glasses and loved to help ppl then went thru divorce with covert narc and all bets were off. Broke my pink shades and now I wear hater blockers 😂 I still have a service to provide and I quickly keep it moving 😊 I've also learned to be highly suspicious of other's intentions.. not sure I could ever truly trust again 😕
@@MatrixxPhoenixx the vampire saw you coming a mile away 🤣 You know, not being an open all out there people pleasing do goody with a proverbial neon “use me” flashing for predators above your head isn’t really a bad thing. Learning the personal boundaries and discretion on who to invest your energy into likely was never going to occur without suffering the consequences of not doing so. Once you get past the pain of betrayal and disillusionment, you’ll be able to move forward with more wisdom and use your energy and resources more positively because it won’t be being drained by takers. Trusting YOURSELF to make those decisions is the actual challenge. …. Just someone who’s been there.🌻
Because narcissists mostly don't know they are narcissists, part of being one is a huge lack of self awareness and the inability to acknowledge shame. Also, a lot more people are narcissistic and don't have npd, but there's still way more than many would think, we all likely know a few. After having a relationship with one I would say had npd, I started recognising them whereas before I are blind.
Keep in mind that the world they move in is very, very different from ours. It is a grey world with different rules that requires a more pragmatic mindset to get the job done. Am I defending it? Not at all. There’s no way I could move in that world. I’m just not wired that way. All I’m saying is that it’s a different world with different rules that requires a different mindset than what we’re accustomed to.
Im a psychologist. Nobody wants to sit next to me at dinner parties, because they think I can read their mind! I just prefer to listen : ).I know what I know...I want to know what you know.
This is the first interview of Andrew B I ever watched from beginning to the end. This man has gained my respect. He opened my eyes to a whole different perspective of thinking.
The sound! Great pod. However, listening to this with ear buds was a challenge. I'm not being critical, I just thought you would want honest feedback. The caliber of guests you are interviewing on your podcasts expect the production to be crispy clear, and audible. I picked up a lot of low frequency interference, buzzing, and low to high shifts of volume in the same person's voice, as they are talking. I noticed this in both voices. I listend a second time on an external speaker and it was the same. It's most likely a quick fix, but I thought you would appreciate the feedback and consider it as a way to improve your sound quality to help improve your overall quality and increase views, subscriptions, etc. No intentions of being critical, being a know it all, or telling Aman his business, my friend. Thank you. Enjoyed the pod, thoroughly! Both times!😅
Yeah I hear it too. But im not a tech guy. I don't know who these people are but sounds bout what I've been seeing. But yes I would like to have the best stuff out there that I don't know. I'd let them do what they do keep up the good work
I love the fact that Andrew just presents the viewers with his logic-based opinions and lets us as viewers wrestle, internally, with the ideas without dumping an agenda on top. His approach is practical and simplistic; however, it is obviously rooted in years of training in sociology and psychology. It's the same mindset of, "If on fire, seek water."
We are high-empathy because we are hypersensitive, hyperaesthetic, way too tuned-in to the subtle nuances of all the beings around us. All of their shenanigans compete with our internal flow for our precious attention and we must struggle to maintain our sense of self in the midst. It's not that we don't like other people; it's that they make it so difficult for us to hold a line.
Or they take our kindness for weakness almost every fucking time so no I generally don’t like people unless they are of the same intelligence level mentally and emotionally 😂
@@Anas_Ali007if they are both real empaths, nothing worse than encountering a fake. Someone virtue signaling or playing one upmanship or faking it to manipulate someone into a desired outcome.
Psychic abilities are a skill. Like any skill it can be used for good or evil; ergo the Dark Empath. Whether someone with high empathic ability "likes other people" is a really weird generalisation. It depends on how awake the empath is, which person, or type of person, we are referring to and how loving the empath is. A sleeping empath can fall in love with an abusive narcissist, an awake empath will not. A highly loving empath with little shadow will still be able to operate from a Divine Mind perspective and feel compassion for evil doers. Wounded empaths who haven't done the inner healing work will not. 95% of people on this planet are unevolved self-centred NPCs. So yeah these people are generally not well liked by empaths. I'm so over being reincarnated back onto this prison planet so I do have moments of frustration where I say stuff like "f* humans, they are so stupid" etc... But at other times of greater inner peace and balance I experience high empathy and compassion for all people. It really depends on our own internal frequency and modern society is drenched in disgusting frequency, so it makes sense that empaths are picking that up and then losing their compassion being overwhelmed by all the nefarious crap going on around them.
What you are teaching people is how to become social. You teach how to have REAL conversation. You are teaching people that emotions are sharp weapons. Thank you so much Andrew bustamante.
Best Brett interview. Interviewers want subjective info on world politics while Bretts got the gravy on human behavior. I vote for a round 2. I like the repoir of brett counseling and coaching.
I think Brett and maybe others need to understand is that Empathy is not inherently compassion, guilt, shame, etc. Being empathetic means you're able to see world from another's eyes. Sure, you can feel the pain someone else is experiencing but that doesn't mean you feel bad for them. That would be sympathy.
We're all people, and if you realize that your life isn't any better or worse after interacting with any given individual then there's nothing to get yourself worried about
I have a brother-in- law who is in the CIA, and an uncle in FBI. Neither of them are allowed to be on social media, nor their spouses. I’m curious how he’s a’spy.’
@@ИльясУалиев-о1сobviously... you don't openly talk CIA shop without approval and remain breathing. In most cases whoever has a big following is an asset. Hard to believe anyone considers someone like Andrew Tate to be legit. Omg the stupid hurts!
@@ИльясУалиев-о1с I think it must be, there are something like 30 or 40 CIA or ex -cia members of Congress. I am sure they have social media and I am sure they are doing there jobs or have gotten permission. There CIA links are invisible on their social media accounts. This is divulging a lot of generic information, but information nonetheless. I am quite sure they all sign NDA,'s. So probably he is still working for them, promoting a narrative. To what end? Who knows.
I remember, Doc Andy, do to his positive inspirational attitude. He told everyone an amazing phrase, "No true friend will punch you in the solar plexus, and will exept you for who you are within.." I was the moment I started believing in humanity's empathy again. I was a total mess in Haven little by little. My mirror defense was slowly decreasing from survival mode to understanding that I'm actually cared for, plus, military brats are like Dandelions and Dandelions understand either struggles. As if arcs.. Architects spend much of their time in offices, where they meet with clients, develop reports and drawings, and work with other architects and engineers. They also visit construction sites to ensure that clients' objectives are met and to review the progress of projects. Thank you, Doc Andy! 🍻🌼
He explains the way of preparing for a interaction you try very hard is a insult said as a compliment. Turning a insult as a compliment is a very simplistic way to say prepare but don't do too much where you overwhelm yourself so you don't seem needy or easily gullible
You got my favorite dude I love listening too. I listen to Andrew on my way to work all the time and his content is so cool. I am enjoying your content as well, the more I watch the more engaged I become, the more views of your videos the more excited I get your content inspires me bro! Thanks for this awesome vid.
This should be your lesson to understand this is what you do not allow anyone to do to you. Learn to not do what this guy's says but learn to protect yourself from it. Not even the most high manipulates your will don't let other beings do it.
I'll say this guy is right on about the first points and preparation (talking out loud, muscle memory, etc). I've been super stressed about presenting and this exact role playing and practice exercising absolutely works.
Yeah in sales I’ve learned a bunch of NLP things tie downs and psychology tricks. Really at the end of the day being honest and connecting with people and serving them is what gets the sales that stick.
Great lesson for those who are eager to learn. The guy conducting the interview is still a kido, but everyone needs to learn some lessons the hard way. Life makes us humble; this allows us to reflect on words and give them appropriate meaning in time.
Really great video and learning. Its funny I notice when people are using techniques in interactions…I started applying a default when people don’t answer though…I intentionally stop showing any interest in the conversation because I want them to know they are coming across like they are not paying attention even if I realize they are most likely using a technique…they can often act like something caught their attention too. This is also a common response then I show massive exhaustion in my interaction 😂 basically those are techniques I choose to condition them against using in the future. I will even come right out and say you seem distracted…have a good day and walk away
any reasonable, US citizen with an IQ above 20 would ask themselves-especially IF they are a veteran or retired/veteran: why are these 2 on YT flappin their lips and jaw for hours, hours, and hours on any pod cast they can fidn while wearing childish 13yoa tshirt like you got at Disney World of: "everdayspy". how childish. from a "former" military officer? please. grow up! folks that talk this much and about his AF career also: BE VER suspicious of what they are saying and WHY? if someone is like 19yoa or the mentality of that age and think all this talk is "cool" and "wow" and "i never knew that" and OK i will buy his coffee mug and tshirt on sale: you are falling into their social media trap. retired and then i was a DoD contractor--sorry-11yrs in iraq/afghanistan taught me better-i do not listen to OR support these two yapping duo of "husband" and wife. nothing buy a marketing scam out of hollywood. they claim to have the creditlas? so teach at a university and stay off open-source YT with their never-ending story's. so bustamonte did like 8 or 10yrs agency and AF and going to "talk" for 20 about those 8yrs? if it is illegal or improper to reveal: the fact is their training was done in private and was not "designed" to be talked and gossiped about on YT years after they left the agency. and both "left" (which they can do) they did NOT retire with honor. they do not for some reason. possibly $ or just they are militants. either way not my "cup" of toxic tea i listen to millennials spill their perceived garbage about our society, nation and home because they did not like 'XYZ" at the agency. before being a DoD contractor i was with a city in florida for 20+yrs. was it perfect? no. though-provided me a good job, severed the public, beneifts and RETIRED of which i am grateful and thankful. years later do i go on YT and half bad mouth and spill 50% of "what i know" for likes, thumbs up and to sell a tshirt like a 14yoa child like these 2. never. retired/with pension-and teach online. 2 "disguised" clowns these two are.
Boom!!! This guy dropping the gems hey. I realized I am not executing my social exits correctly. Life changing light bulb moment. Fantastic interview. Thankyou🥰
Omg!!! I’ve never in my 47 years heard anyone describe my empathy and intelligence like here on this episode. I felt everything to my core when describing people with empathy that hate people. I hate people. And also have a lot of artificial relationships because ( that’s what society says I have to do). I can’t stand my mother. But I have to like her per society. 🤷♀️
@Celestial_sapphire, watch a video of him discussing narcissists and sociopaths you may find it enlightening! If you don't like your mom maybe there is a real reazon, not just a "choice" thing. Respect yourself and your choices. ❤❤❤
Sounds very complicated and contrived to hear you say that your emotions and relationships are solely due to the demands of society. That's like suddenly one day you wake up and ask yourself, " am I totally indoctrinated?
It's not just a car sales person. It's "used car" sales people that were disliked. The bad reputation came about from customers being manipulated and lied to by the salesperson in order to sell them junk for a premium price.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I'm only about 10 minutes into this interview, but I just want to say to everybody if you want to learn these tricks a simple way to do it is honestly going to sales and just get a sales job for even a couple months. Sales teaches you how to speak like some of the best people in the world especially if you have a good sales coach or mentor as well.
I had a sales job for a year but then started to feel “burnt out” in regards to socializing. Even tho it was at a great location and not super demanding like some jobs are. I still struggle with developing relationships and talking out loud in front of groups like socials places.
Wow, this conversation resonated so hard with me. The timing on this conversation was so perfect,, I learned so many new things and confirmed that I am on the correct path. thank you for this Brett and Andrew.
When you're asking for coffee, it s manipulation. When you're putting a baby to sleep, it's manipulation. Manipulation can mean that you have a need for help
@@dawnmarshall1290 I don't agree. I'm talking about a deceptive and concerted effort to bend a person to my will. Not a suggestion. Not a comment. Not a request. Manipulation is manipulation. Moving the goalposts on what you think the word means doesn't change what it means.
Having seen Bustamante's stuff, in regards to influencing people's decisions and action, "manipulation" refers to the high-level intent behind those actions (influencing other people's decision making for *_your own_*_ personal_ benefit)... while the other intent is "motivation" (influencing other people's decision making for *_their_*_ personal_ benefit). These arent mutually exclusive. And if you've done any form of negotiation, including pay rises, or have threatened to escalate something if it wasn't dealt with eg. threatening to cut ties with a business again if they don't address an issue, then that indeed is a form of manipulation ("Coercion").
Spy guy: oh no, no, it’s nothing like weaponize against ppl or anything.. that’s “alarmist”😊 Next sentence: “ *The target* ” ..um er, consumer, customer, yeah “customer” 😅
I thought I was the only weirdo in the world that “maps out” conversations and practices every possible answer. Here I thought I was just crazy ruminating and it turns out it’s an adaptive trait that improves outcomes. This changes my perspective on my ruminating and eases my suffering a little by seeing it’s not necessarily a bad thing
😂😂 when you use the meditation he’s talking about you’re able to leave the body or astral travel…. They can do remote viewing during this process look into the gateway process if you want to understand what he’s really speaking of
The day I see an RUclips video with any intel extraction, Counter Intel practices, or any relevant content related to subversion that is not in a book published 10 to 20 years ago I will start believing this site is not a bot paradise completely controled and censored...
I’ve had the same even as a child. Well, adolescent more like. Adults I didn’t or hardly knew would unload all their troubles on me. As an adult I can’t count how many times someone has said to me “I’ve never told anyone this before in my life”. Often strangers. Even while waiting on my oil change at Jiffy Lube some guy just started telling me his troubles (I’m female by the way) and ended with saying that. It’s sort of flattering I guess that people trust me but it’s also kind of a burden knowing so many people’s secrets, especially when the person telling me isn’t a close friend to me but to someone I’m close to. Creates a very weird dynamic.
omg so true ....lmao I don't like most people and I don't drink Kool aid or fall for pep talk at my workplace. I'm an INFJ or rather 55% INFJ, 45% ISFJ (his wife is an ISFJ) as per MBTI testing. Empathy, HSP and some anxiety are in my wheelhouse. Talking to ppl one on one and understanding them intrinsically and building a rapport comes naturally to me without all the "extra training" lol but I love listening to Andy. Thanks for the interview Brett!
Same here in terms of traits, except I tested as ENTJ. Always been an intuitive empath with above average IQ. Initially a rule follower but now I'm awake a rebel against the Beast System. Thank you David Icke for the red pill 🙏
I love how he is so eloquent with his words. You can tell he has to study human psychology; by doing so, he can sell his words as a statement, and the audience will buy it. Saying that it is hard to have a shadow government is like saying corporations don't have government contracts. I can see why he is saying all those things about the deep state (he is selling at this point a safety point for you to accept his point of view as he knows the demographic of the type of people who watch this channel; he knows his target audience. Good sell point).
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No greater fundamental human truth than Spiritual Dynamics. Bustamante and his kind will keep society between stage Blue and Green. He doesn't have the solution, because he is the problem. His solution is to master the game of abundance (green) and scarcity (blue) without realizing there is plenty for all (yellow) and excess leads to suffering both individually and societally (red).
That said, as an overnight father of two boys .. I get it. As an example, spending finite family energy to recycle only to have it thrown in the ocean seems pointless--humans are not ready. I am sad to say that likely I will rejoin the problem, but with awareness which I will pass on to my boys. If everyone could do this we could end suffering (yellow) in two generations.
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Hey thebrettway do u think that people like us can be successfull ?
@@nerkok.9080😂
“Highly empathetic people don’t like people!” Omg dude gave the secret away 😂😂😂 he is so right
Indeed lmao
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People are learning too much outside of the DSM -5 certified scope of practice. Quick! Go reverse psychology trick as many people as fast as possible to gaslight people into distrusting their intuition and their own sense of empathy!
“People with high EQ, high empathy, and anxiety, they can pull themselves out of that and tap into and use that same system for their own individual benefit, and now, they’re the puppet master. You can now create *artificial* relationships. You now know the *method* for manipulating people to do what you want them to do.”
Actually, sir, you just explained psychopathy and sociopathy. We have you and Evy along with a bunch of other psychologists to thank for knowing that because you’ve given us these definitions over and over yourselves.
Empathetic people who know how to self regulate coregulate with and empower others to do the same for themselves at all times. Often, and especially, to protect themselves and each other from those who would take exploited advantage.
We like people, we don't like the influence society has on ppl n how it brings out the worst in ppl.
Empathy how sad it is to realize all people are narcesist!😮😅
😂 it's crazy but it becomes a burden the voices and feelings are too much and they not even yours
I love that Andrew said to be cautious of the words you use, and then caught himself calling the customer the “target.” Great interview and super entertaining!
Target like in marketing man!
@@JoJo.mp4 or hunting haha
@@Aryisk no, dude marketing is the thing to comes to mind
Same thing with mark, you thing about a guy named mark, or leaving a mark, definitively it would never mean anything else
Isn’t that what the customer is when broken down in terms of data.
I've watched a lot of interviews with Andy, and you brought several concepts that I don't think he explained anywhere else, at least not to the same level of detail. You were obviously well-prepared and able to ask great follow-up questions! I never watched you before, but I just subscribed.
@@kim-jrgenarnetvedt811 you’re watching a different show . The introjects one .. 🤐🙈
No level of preparation will lead to the questions he had. Those are personal questions I believe.
Vinh Giang is awesome as well.
Soooo. What are those several concepts your talking about?
Or are you a bot.
I.thought the preparation wasnt there
Agreed, I loved it:) watched him over the years on several great platforms, but this talk was super exciting and clear.
Love this “everybody’s worth a cup of coffee”…. I’ve always said this. Networking has been my way of life.
Love the description of what empathetic ppl are about….. so true.
Mr Andrew Bustamante applies a none threatning but intense gaze as if he's still on mission. I am watching how he's listening to the questions presented to him, he's actively collecting information. The amount of focus I believe makes his insights more rich and makes listening to all his conversations interesting.
He is very smart.
@pwyman5540 @pwyman5540 He's humble about it. He says these are sets of skills. I guess he's mastered it so well you can't tell if he's still at work or he's here with us deep sh*ts 😅.
He’s mind fucking him too. I don’t know if you noticed but he’s changing his complete perception to the one he wants. He knew from the beginning that he had complete control to mold because he was completely open. Bravo 👏
He still is on a mission lol
Love this guy’s perspective💙💙💙
CIA out here publicly psyop-ing RUclips 😂
Its absolutely brilliant. I'm so proud of America in this moment.
I think there’s more too it that’s everyone’s initial reaction to the content but he says things that show you how intelligent he is and how (hopefully) intelligent others in the agency are
In your heart that's how you feel.
He’s not psy oping anyone who isn’t a pansy ass lmao . He blatantly tells people how they recruit for the CIA. They put you in a room with 10 other idiots and if you’re smarter than the other idiots then they pull you aside and tell you the truth about how the system works. So it’s not psy oping the ones who read between the lines lol
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People are learning too much outside of the DSM -5 certified scope of practice. Quick! Go reverse psychology trick as many people as fast as possible to gaslight people into distrusting their intuition!
“People with high EQ, high empathy, and anxiety, they can pull themselves out of that and tap into and use that same system for their own individual benefit, and now, they’re the puppet master. You can now create *artificial* relationships. You now know the *method* for manipulating people to do what you want them to do.”
Actually, sir, you just explained psychopathy. We have you and Evy along with a bunch of other psychologists to thank for knowing that. You’ve said yourself psycopaths cannot feel empathy but they can mimic it, and sociopathic people feel emotions but they’re completely self-centered.
Empathetic people who know how to self regulate coregulate with and empower others to do the same for themselves at all times. Often and especially to protect themselves and each other from those who would take exploited advantage.
Best INTERVIEW with bustamante ever
Agreed
Conversation mapping- had no idea this concept existed. I’m going to experiment at a networking event this evening.
I look forward to watching the rest of this conversation. Cheers!
How did it go?
After dealing with a pathological narcissist I’m so much more aware. I am glad I’m not as ignorant and innocent as I was before, it has really opened my mind and I try to keep it open! Love watching these videos I always learn something new!
Most of my life I wore pink glasses and loved to help ppl then went thru divorce with covert narc and all bets were off. Broke my pink shades and now I wear hater blockers 😂 I still have a service to provide and I quickly keep it moving 😊 I've also learned to be highly suspicious of other's intentions.. not sure I could ever truly trust again 😕
Women cant do what men can do
@@MatrixxPhoenixx the vampire saw you coming a mile away 🤣
You know, not being an open all out there people pleasing do goody with a proverbial neon “use me” flashing for predators above your head isn’t really a bad thing.
Learning the personal boundaries and discretion on who to invest your energy into likely was never going to occur without suffering the consequences of not doing so.
Once you get past the pain of betrayal and disillusionment, you’ll be able to move forward with more wisdom and use your energy and resources more positively because it won’t be being drained by takers.
Trusting YOURSELF to make those decisions is the actual challenge.
…. Just someone who’s been there.🌻
It's funny though, because everybody seems to know a narcissist, but nobody is ever a narcissist themselves. Just putting it out there.
Because narcissists mostly don't know they are narcissists, part of being one is a huge lack of self awareness and the inability to acknowledge shame. Also, a lot more people are narcissistic and don't have npd, but there's still way more than many would think, we all likely know a few.
After having a relationship with one I would say had npd, I started recognising them whereas before I are blind.
How to be a narcissistic sociopath 101… brought to you by the CIA
and the fact that he talks about it as if it was good. really shows the nature of the us intelligence regime
Keep in mind that the world they move in is very, very different from ours. It is a grey world with different rules that requires a more pragmatic mindset to get the job done.
Am I defending it? Not at all. There’s no way I could move in that world. I’m just not wired that way. All I’m saying is that it’s a different world with different rules that requires a different mindset than what we’re accustomed to.
His hair is what trows me off, never trust a dude that leaves his house looking like this
@@seneca1932same world just a different lens
@@trikCSmommy boys united.
Self importance is man's greatest enemy.
Best interview with Andrew B of everyday spy thus far - thank you to both.
Best since James Bond
Im a psychologist. Nobody wants to sit next to me at dinner parties, because they think I can read their mind! I just prefer to listen : ).I know what I know...I want to know what you know.
“I want to know what you know” that’s just beautiful
Creeping😅
Your so smart
@tmanning6829 your so smart you’r like brain food
I don't mean this offensively, but have you considered you're boring to them?
This is the first interview of Andrew B I ever watched from beginning to the end. This man has gained my respect. He opened my eyes to a whole different perspective of thinking.
these x agents speaking Out, really help me to recognize local agents that pose as friends, blowing thier cover effortlessly😂
it is a psyops
@@myname-mz3lo A psyop justifying / rationalising / making / conditionning people normalising and accepting psyops. Possible.
How to win friends and influence people has taught me so much, rather than the 48 laws of power, which is great to know but very dirty. Stay Uncommon!
Dirty, how?
@@HilloFX a lot of underhanded tactics and sneaky tactics which are just not for me but they are great to know and understand.
@@Uncommony Oh, so like unethical tactics?
@HilloFX Yes, and some stuff sound like they would come from a coward rather than a strong, confident man.
Its definitely help to be on the defense. I appreciate 48 laws as a person who can be naive at times 😂
He broke down why Rockefeller funded education & why Jefferson wanted an educated civil society.
The sound! Great pod. However, listening to this with ear buds was a challenge. I'm not being critical, I just thought you would want honest feedback. The caliber of guests you are interviewing on your podcasts expect the production to be crispy clear, and audible. I picked up a lot of low frequency interference, buzzing, and low to high shifts of volume in the same person's voice, as they are talking. I noticed this in both voices.
I listend a second time on an external speaker and it was the same.
It's most likely a quick fix, but I thought you would appreciate the feedback and consider it as a way to improve your sound quality to help improve your overall quality and increase views, subscriptions, etc. No intentions of being critical, being a know it all, or telling Aman his business, my friend. Thank you. Enjoyed the pod, thoroughly! Both times!😅
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Yeah I hear it too. But im not a tech guy. I don't know who these people are but sounds bout what I've been seeing. But yes I would like to have the best stuff out there that I don't know. I'd let them do what they do keep up the good work
It's the pass filter being too harsh, or the noise removal is too harsh, or both.
I love the fact that Andrew just presents the viewers with his logic-based opinions and lets us as viewers wrestle, internally, with the ideas without dumping an agenda on top.
His approach is practical and simplistic; however, it is obviously rooted in years of training in sociology and psychology.
It's the same mindset of, "If on fire, seek water."
This man is another level! Wow thank you so much for having him on!🎉🙌🏼🔥
We are high-empathy because we are hypersensitive, hyperaesthetic, way too tuned-in to the subtle nuances of all the beings around us. All of their shenanigans compete with our internal flow for our precious attention and we must struggle to maintain our sense of self in the midst. It's not that we don't like other people; it's that they make it so difficult for us to hold a line.
Or they take our kindness for weakness almost every fucking time so no I generally don’t like people unless they are of the same intelligence level mentally and emotionally 😂
All that you said is true.. that being said I don’t think I like ppl even more 😂
Do empath like empath?
@@Anas_Ali007if they are both real empaths, nothing worse than encountering a fake. Someone virtue signaling or playing one upmanship or faking it to manipulate someone into a desired outcome.
Psychic abilities are a skill. Like any skill it can be used for good or evil; ergo the Dark Empath.
Whether someone with high empathic ability "likes other people" is a really weird generalisation.
It depends on how awake the empath is, which person, or type of person, we are referring to and how loving the empath is.
A sleeping empath can fall in love with an abusive narcissist, an awake empath will not.
A highly loving empath with little shadow will still be able to operate from a Divine Mind perspective and feel compassion for evil doers. Wounded empaths who haven't done the inner healing work will not.
95% of people on this planet are unevolved self-centred NPCs. So yeah these people are generally not well liked by empaths.
I'm so over being reincarnated back onto this prison planet so I do have moments of frustration where I say stuff like "f* humans, they are so stupid" etc... But at other times of greater inner peace and balance I experience high empathy and compassion for all people.
It really depends on our own internal frequency and modern society is drenched in disgusting frequency, so it makes sense that empaths are picking that up and then losing their compassion being overwhelmed by all the nefarious crap going on around them.
What you are teaching people is how to become social. You teach how to have REAL conversation. You are teaching people that emotions are sharp weapons. Thank you so much Andrew bustamante.
Props for landing this guest, Brett
Best Brett interview. Interviewers want subjective info on world politics while Bretts got the gravy on human behavior. I vote for a round 2. I like the repoir of brett counseling and coaching.
I think Brett and maybe others need to understand is that Empathy is not inherently compassion, guilt, shame, etc. Being empathetic means you're able to see world from another's eyes. Sure, you can feel the pain someone else is experiencing but that doesn't mean you feel bad for them. That would be sympathy.
This is a great interview!! Stress innoculation is such an interesting method for reducing high energy! I'll have to check it out more info about it.
Big fan of Andrew.I share Andrew video with my family and friends, find it so valuable.
Because you are easily brainwashed.
We're all people, and if you realize that your life isn't any better or worse after interacting with any given individual then there's nothing to get yourself worried about
I have a brother-in- law who is in the CIA, and an uncle in FBI. Neither of them are allowed to be on social media, nor their spouses.
I’m curious how he’s a’spy.’
He WAS a spy,
& MAYBE he's recruiting?
Maybe being out in the open talking CIA is the assigned mission 🤷
@@ИльясУалиев-о1сexactly. This is definitely his mission, and we are the target.
@@ИльясУалиев-о1сobviously... you don't openly talk CIA shop without approval and remain breathing.
In most cases whoever has a big following is an asset. Hard to believe anyone considers someone like Andrew Tate to be legit. Omg the stupid hurts!
@@ИльясУалиев-о1с I think it must be, there are something like 30 or 40 CIA or ex -cia members of Congress. I am sure they have social media and I am sure they are doing there jobs or have gotten permission. There CIA links are invisible on their social media accounts. This is divulging a lot of generic information, but information nonetheless. I am quite sure they all sign NDA,'s. So probably he is still working for them, promoting a narrative. To what end? Who knows.
The power of suggestion is extremely powerful and "they" know it.
We have to know it as well and we are also powerful.
This was one of the best podcasts I've heard from Bustamante! Keep up the great work! Pars Adelante!!
becoming the puppet master to get what you want from others can evoke both positive and negative connotations, depending on the approach taken
I remember, Doc Andy, do to his positive inspirational attitude. He told everyone an amazing phrase,
"No true friend will punch you in the solar plexus, and will exept you for who you are within.."
I was the moment I started believing in humanity's empathy again. I was a total mess in Haven little by little. My mirror defense was slowly decreasing from survival mode to understanding that I'm actually cared for, plus, military brats are like Dandelions and Dandelions understand either struggles. As if arcs..
Architects spend much of their time in offices, where they meet with clients, develop reports and drawings, and work with other architects and engineers. They also visit construction sites to ensure that clients' objectives are met and to review the progress of projects. Thank you, Doc Andy!
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this is solid, straight talk and final core deal... take action do whats good when u have the right idea.
This is one of the best podcast episodes I’ve seen in a while. Great job and lots of respect to the both of you!
0:38 “You try very hard.” “Thank you.” I don't think that was a compliment. You a try hard
That's amazing!!! You picked that up fast!!
Talk about emotional intelligence!!
Is was the laugh right after for me
What was the intent of the comment?
He explains the way of preparing for a interaction you try very hard is a insult said as a compliment. Turning a insult as a compliment is a very simplistic way to say prepare but don't do too much where you overwhelm yourself so you don't seem needy or easily gullible
You got my favorite dude I love listening too. I listen to Andrew on my way to work all the time and his content is so cool. I am enjoying your content as well, the more I watch the more engaged I become, the more views of your videos the more excited I get your content inspires me bro! Thanks for this awesome vid.
This should be your lesson to understand this is what you do not allow anyone to do to you. Learn to not do what this guy's says but learn to protect yourself from it. Not even the most high manipulates your will don't let other beings do it.
He hardens hearts
I'll say this guy is right on about the first points and preparation (talking out loud, muscle memory, etc). I've been super stressed about presenting and this exact role playing and practice exercising absolutely works.
Yeah in sales I’ve learned a bunch of NLP things tie downs and psychology tricks. Really at the end of the day being honest and connecting with people and serving them is what gets the sales that stick.
Great lesson for those who are eager to learn. The guy conducting the interview is still a kido, but everyone needs to learn some lessons the hard way. Life makes us humble; this allows us to reflect on words and give them appropriate meaning in time.
Really great video and learning. Its funny I notice when people are using techniques in interactions…I started applying a default when people don’t answer though…I intentionally stop showing any interest in the conversation because I want them to know they are coming across like they are not paying attention even if I realize they are most likely using a technique…they can often act like something caught their attention too. This is also a common response then I show massive exhaustion in my interaction 😂 basically those are techniques I choose to condition them against using in the future. I will even come right out and say you seem distracted…have a good day and walk away
This interview was absolutely fantastic! Incredibly intriguing and mind-blowing!
So this is why u kicked me out of the office 30 minutes prior... haha good vid brotha
thanks for taking one for the team lmao
30:24 Chaos, 43:26 Empathy/society control
In the first seven minutes bro just fixed my entire issue with talking on the first date 😂😂😂
This is prob the best Andrew podcast I’ve seen. He went much more in-depth here than any other pod
any reasonable, US citizen with an IQ above 20 would ask themselves-especially IF they are a veteran or retired/veteran:
why are these 2 on YT flappin their lips and jaw for hours, hours, and hours on any pod cast they can fidn while wearing childish 13yoa tshirt like you got at Disney World of:
"everdayspy". how childish. from a "former" military officer? please. grow up!
folks that talk this much and about his AF career also: BE VER suspicious of what they are saying and WHY?
if someone is like 19yoa or the mentality of that age and think all this talk is "cool" and "wow" and "i never knew that" and OK i will buy his coffee mug and tshirt on sale:
you are falling into their social media trap.
retired and then i was a DoD contractor--sorry-11yrs in iraq/afghanistan taught me better-i do not listen to OR support these two yapping duo of "husband" and wife. nothing buy a marketing scam out of hollywood.
they claim to have the creditlas? so teach at a university and stay off open-source YT with their never-ending story's.
so bustamonte did like 8 or 10yrs agency and AF and going to "talk" for 20 about those 8yrs?
if it is illegal or improper to reveal: the fact is their training was done in private and was not "designed" to be talked and gossiped about on YT years after they left the agency. and both "left" (which they can do) they did NOT retire with honor.
they do not for some reason. possibly $ or just they are militants. either way not my "cup" of toxic tea i listen to millennials spill their perceived garbage about our society, nation and home because they did not like 'XYZ" at the agency.
before being a DoD contractor i was with a city in florida for 20+yrs. was it perfect? no. though-provided me a good job, severed the public, beneifts and RETIRED of which i am grateful and thankful.
years later do i go on YT and half bad mouth and spill 50% of "what i know" for likes, thumbs up and to sell a tshirt like a 14yoa child like these 2. never.
retired/with pension-and teach online.
2 "disguised" clowns these two are.
Boom!!! This guy dropping the gems hey. I realized I am not executing my social exits correctly. Life changing light bulb moment. Fantastic interview. Thankyou🥰
SO MUCH GEMS DROPPED FROM ANDY. KUDOS SIR ✊🏼
Love the pool analogy, I knew it . Thankyou . I truly truly appreciate someone just said it .
Omg!!! I’ve never in my 47 years heard anyone describe my empathy and intelligence like here on this episode. I felt everything to my core when describing people with empathy that hate people. I hate people. And also have a lot of artificial relationships because ( that’s what society says I have to do). I can’t stand my mother. But I have to like her per society. 🤷♀️
@Celestial_sapphire, watch a video of him discussing narcissists and sociopaths you may find it enlightening! If you don't like your mom maybe there is a real reazon, not just a "choice" thing. Respect yourself and your choices. ❤❤❤
Like her or not, she has rights over you so respect her.❤️
Sounds very complicated and contrived to hear you say that your emotions and relationships are solely due to the demands of society. That's like suddenly one day you wake up and ask yourself, " am I totally indoctrinated?
@@MSharifTrading honest questions: what rights.. and what do you mean by respect?
It's not just a car sales person. It's "used car" sales people that were disliked. The bad reputation came about from customers being manipulated and lied to by the salesperson in order to sell them junk for a premium price.
Loved the chemistry in this one. I was sitting here like I was also in the convo 😅✨
The message at 22:50 really resonates-seeing the world beyond just our senses opens up a whole new level of understanding.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I'm only about 10 minutes into this interview, but I just want to say to everybody if you want to learn these tricks a simple way to do it is honestly going to sales and just get a sales job for even a couple months. Sales teaches you how to speak like some of the best people in the world especially if you have a good sales coach or mentor as well.
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no disrespect… But sales isn’t for everybody. You have to be really ready to accept a lot of rejection.
@@Athens8677Thats the goal, to be rejected and improve with time
I had a sales job for a year but then started to feel “burnt out” in regards to socializing. Even tho it was at a great location and not super demanding like some jobs are. I still struggle with developing relationships and talking out loud in front of groups like socials places.
Andy you did beautifully with Little Brett, I really have to hand it to you. I couldn’t have done it myself, the valley girl voice….
As a highly empathetic person, I am now also a scared person. Yikes. Would really like to read some of the CIA screening tests.
Wow, this conversation resonated so hard with me. The timing on this conversation was so perfect,,
I learned so many new things and confirmed that I am on the correct path.
thank you for this Brett and Andrew.
Me too 🙋♀️
I watched you from the beginning now I watch you on Skinwalker Ranch you have knowledge I love to listen.You make lots of sense....
This was one of my favorite podcasts on this channel ❤
Thank you, Andrew. I liked you even before I ever listened to you.
There's nothing I want badly enough to manipulate others for, unless it's out of spite for stealing from me. Namely, stealing my time.
When you're asking for coffee, it s manipulation. When you're putting a baby to sleep, it's manipulation. Manipulation can mean that you have a need for help
@@dawnmarshall1290 I don't agree. I'm talking about a deceptive and concerted effort to bend a person to my will. Not a suggestion. Not a comment. Not a request. Manipulation is manipulation. Moving the goalposts on what you think the word means doesn't change what it means.
Having seen Bustamante's stuff, in regards to influencing people's decisions and action, "manipulation" refers to the high-level intent behind those actions (influencing other people's decision making for *_your own_*_ personal_ benefit)... while the other intent is "motivation" (influencing other people's decision making for *_their_*_ personal_ benefit).
These arent mutually exclusive. And if you've done any form of negotiation, including pay rises, or have threatened to escalate something if it wasn't dealt with eg. threatening to cut ties with a business again if they don't address an issue, then that indeed is a form of manipulation ("Coercion").
Thank you so much for this one..🙏🙏🙏
One of the best podcasts i had ever seen!!❤❤❤
Really enjoyed this podcast. Big fan of Andy who is always dropping knowledge in a way that’s relatable and understandable 👍🏼
Loved every second of this. As a sales guy who is empathetic. Pulling ppl out of the average idiots out there to become something greater.
16:20 As a professional car salesman with decade of experience now i feel myself as a CIA car salesman :D
Everyday spy is on fire in this interview!
The beginning of this podcast is already a win! Pay attention people, this is free therapy. CBT techniques 🙌
What is CBT please?
@@irenitele8497 It's cognitive behavior therapy so study it
Yes indeed
@@irenitele8497cognitive behavioral therapy
@@irenitele8497"cognitive behavior therapy" is what the acronym is for.
This is our CIA? We are in trouble…
Great interview, very useful perspective.
AI always wants something from you, and never give something back.
Spy guy: oh no, no, it’s nothing like weaponize against ppl or anything.. that’s “alarmist”😊
Next sentence: “ *The target* ” ..um er, consumer, customer, yeah “customer” 😅
Big fan of Andrew. Truly valuable.
Ok bot.
@GroundbreakGames you try too hard, relax
@@yelena3285 trying hard by saying bot?
@@TheLettersJIf he's not a bot yeah.
little different from the usual business stuff, but Brett's interview skills carry over perfectly - would love to see more
I thought I was the only weirdo in the world that “maps out” conversations and practices every possible answer. Here I thought I was just crazy ruminating and it turns out it’s an adaptive trait that improves outcomes. This changes my perspective on my ruminating and eases my suffering a little by seeing it’s not necessarily a bad thing
😂😂 when you use the meditation he’s talking about you’re able to leave the body or astral travel…. They can do remote viewing during this process look into the gateway process if you want to understand what he’s really speaking of
I cant get enough of this man. He's so interesting.
It would be good thing to have time stamps for each topic
The day I see an RUclips video with any intel extraction, Counter Intel practices, or any relevant content related to subversion that is not in a book published 10 to 20 years ago I will start believing this site is not a bot paradise completely controled and censored...
Is there a better place like a website with info on how to better operate like military info or something. Lmk I'm interested
45:20 love this part 😄
58:53 anybody else catch the moment Andy hooked Brett like a master handler?
Totally. Brett is a complete dope lmao
Eustress...distress!
True!👍
A lot of learning in which to implement in my everyday life.
"target" is pretty incendiary
I agree. I am highly empathetic and most ppl drain me.
I find 90 percent of people tell me their intimate secrets. I really do not understand why but is true
They sense they can trust you and you listen. I have the same thing.
Empath?
That happens to me to
I’ve had the same even as a child. Well, adolescent more like. Adults I didn’t or hardly knew would unload all their troubles on me. As an adult I can’t count how many times someone has said to me “I’ve never told anyone this before in my life”. Often strangers. Even while waiting on my oil change at Jiffy Lube some guy just started telling me his troubles (I’m female by the way) and ended with saying that. It’s sort of flattering I guess that people trust me but it’s also kind of a burden knowing so many people’s secrets, especially when the person telling me isn’t a close friend to me but to someone I’m close to. Creates a very weird dynamic.
Look up INFJ Myers Briggs personality test. INFJ's often have folks come to them with problems.
Good job guys !
Thank you for sharing these Brett. I always watch your videos twice lol
I can’t cross any lines, but man, did I punish my mom for criticizing my bad ego?
omg so true ....lmao I don't like most people and I don't drink Kool aid or fall for pep talk at my workplace. I'm an INFJ or rather 55% INFJ, 45% ISFJ (his wife is an ISFJ) as per MBTI testing. Empathy, HSP and some anxiety are in my wheelhouse. Talking to ppl one on one and understanding them intrinsically and building a rapport comes naturally to me without all the "extra training" lol but I love listening to Andy. Thanks for the interview Brett!
Same here in terms of traits, except I tested as ENTJ. Always been an intuitive empath with above average IQ. Initially a rule follower but now I'm awake a rebel against the Beast System.
Thank you David Icke for the red pill 🙏
It's unfair to not like this, unless be sick. Young man. You just bite more than you can chew. But you handled him great. I spent 3 days taking notes
I love how he is so eloquent with his words. You can tell he has to study human psychology; by doing so, he can sell his words as a statement, and the audience will buy it.
Saying that it is hard to have a shadow government is like saying corporations don't have government contracts.
I can see why he is saying all those things about the deep state (he is selling at this point a safety point for you to accept his point of view as he knows the demographic of the type of people who watch this channel; he knows his target audience. Good sell point).
It’s not hard to
I don't need a conversation map to be a human
1:10 when he makes it clear his view is that he, and the government is above God. This is why we can't have nice things
Yeah, I don't trust the CIA at all.
Omgosh.
So many answers about myself.
And so many hidden skills and likes of mine, revealed.
he's very good ✅
High performing, empathetic, anxious people is who they look for.
Wonder why I haven’t been recruited
Really enjoyed the expansion on perception and perspective. Very positive interview. I enjoy learning about the 2% .
Love the content