So true, i was the rescuer of my parents. I stopped going to school in childhood because such fights were overwhelming. A psychologist helped me by drawing this diagram and concept of drama triangle to teach me to not to get at my parents fight. It helped alot. I do have mild scars of past. But I was saved from the new ones. Thank You for educating us! Its all science at the end! Thats how I look at such incidents of my childhood now 😊
Ma'am i appreciate your all videos. But ma'am i have question, suppose your sapouse hits your child.... In that scenario is it appropriate to not speak up for your child. Because i have heard from lots of people who shared that when they were beaten by their fathers in the childhood their mother never rescued them. And that was very hurtful moment for them. And they still remembered this in their adulthood.
These are for emotional dramas not physical . This applies when 2 people r in emotional victim - perpetrator state. When there is physical abuse one has to obviously stop it - esp when it is adult and child . I have clarified it in the video
Ma'am, I have noticed that within our family dynamic, I tend to fall into the role of the 'rescuer' in the drama triangle. My elder son, who is 16, often takes on the role of the 'persecutor,' while my younger son, who is 4, appears to take on the 'victim' role. At times, the situation escalates, and my elder son becomes abusive toward his younger brother. I'm seeking guidance on how to break this pattern and create a healthier dynamic for all of us.
When there is physical abuse of one sibling on other or parent on child then this does not apply. This is for emotional drama triangles not physical abuse situations
Maam could you please suggest on a very unusal topic - a very young child brainwashed for religious conversion. Child now hates her family and religion. Confides only in caretaker and her religion Christianity. Child got ready to leave own family and go with that outsider. How do parents handle such child in right way without forcing or hurting her emotions ? Parents are in dilemma that how to normalise the situation and bring back the child closer to family. I understand that its' parents' fault that how could they dnt notice so much xhange in their child. But.. now they are in pain.
I make videos that are beneficial to general public - what u mentioned is very specific case and I cannot make general comment without knowing specific details of this child , the family and the story behind the story - specific cases are not of interest to Aam junta
Mam, I need your help. I tried to contact you through whatsapp but no answer. I am in Canada, I am going through truma....plz reply with your any contacts 🙏🙏
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So true, i was the rescuer of my parents. I stopped going to school in childhood because such fights were overwhelming.
A psychologist helped me by drawing this diagram and concept of drama triangle to teach me to not to get at my parents fight.
It helped alot. I do have mild scars of past.
But I was saved from the new ones.
Thank You for educating us!
Its all science at the end!
Thats how I look at such incidents of my childhood now 😊
Thank u so much
Thanku mam your opinion always help me
Ma'am please write a book. Mn search kar rha hn aapki book but mili ni koi regarding mental health, upbringing of child and family dynamics
The book will be out next year! It’s almost ready 🎉
Really ,it's interesting and helpful.l personally many times become rescuer 😂 and become victim. I promise not to be a rescuer any more in drama duel
yes try to practise this from now on
Thank you
Welcome!
Ma'am please make viedo on class 5 ke students ko self study ki aadat kaise lagaye...study imp kaise samjaye
Tysm
Ma'am i appreciate your all videos. But ma'am i have question, suppose your sapouse hits your child.... In that scenario is it appropriate to not speak up for your child. Because i have heard from lots of people who shared that when they were beaten by their fathers in the childhood their mother never rescued them. And that was very hurtful moment for them. And they still remembered this in their adulthood.
These are for emotional dramas not physical . This applies when 2 people r in emotional victim - perpetrator state. When there is physical abuse one has to obviously stop it - esp when it is adult and child . I have clarified it in the video
@@riritrivedi okay okay sorry ma'am actually I didn't watch the last 2 minutes of your video. Yes you mentioned that. My bad.
Ma'am, I have noticed that within our family dynamic, I tend to fall into the role of the 'rescuer' in the drama triangle. My elder son, who is 16, often takes on the role of the 'persecutor,' while my younger son, who is 4, appears to take on the 'victim' role. At times, the situation escalates, and my elder son becomes abusive toward his younger brother. I'm seeking guidance on how to break this pattern and create a healthier dynamic for all of us.
When there is physical abuse of one sibling on other or parent on child then this does not apply. This is for emotional drama triangles not physical abuse situations
Maam could you please suggest on a very unusal topic - a very young child brainwashed for religious conversion. Child now hates her family and religion. Confides only in caretaker and her religion Christianity. Child got ready to leave own family and go with that outsider.
How do parents handle such child in right way without forcing or hurting her emotions ?
Parents are in dilemma that how to normalise the situation and bring back the child closer to family.
I understand that its' parents' fault that how could they dnt notice so much xhange in their child.
But.. now they are in pain.
I make videos that are beneficial to general public - what u mentioned is very specific case and I cannot make general comment without knowing specific details of this child , the family and the story behind the story - specific cases are not of interest to Aam junta
Mam, I need your help. I tried to contact you through whatsapp but no answer. I am in Canada, I am going through truma....plz reply with your any contacts 🙏🙏
For therapy or consultation queries please fill up this form
👉🏼 forms.gle/EP8FsWkmhe2bDTS6A
Once you submit the form our team will reach out to you in the next 48 hrs🙏🏼
For further questions please send a WhatsApp to our team on +91 9099853844 between 10 am to 6 pm IST
Meanwhile Please see the video on what our consultation and therapy process is like
ruclips.net/p/PLa4jfO4aTSvt7jk8vDsHVV5_Y5JUXTGmP&feature=shared
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