No my mom never told me that and my dad was so supportive and even told me if you can't handle the pain just take rest your health is more important. Even now it's my period and my mom told me to take a day off. 😊
I also used to feel that way, But now I can understand... That could be because Parents r generally burdened with hell lot of things, they feel low and frustrated (as they have manage their and ur daily routine, have to think of their upcoming medical issues, all finances, children's future and many more things) So they dont have time to relax and wants children to take responsibility to lower their burden (parents' burden) You will realise when we see ur Parents getting Old and realise they might leave the world soon. Although, I am just wondering when parents have to do daily routine tasks, house chors, cook food, help their kids... why are not they considered servants then?? Parents shouldn't exploit their kids but yes it's everyone's responsibility to take care of things. Every member is equally responsibility and accountable. .
Oh my God! This reminds me of my horrible mom who said that I'm lying down was a drama to avoid doing household chores and to bunk school.. I usee to wriggle in pain and what killed me was her words.. she used to say that her mother would say even worse things like all this drama is to get to bed with a guy.. my horrible childhood and worse adulthood.. now when I remind her of that she says that she hadn't done a thing like that.. she asked me to go abort my child so that she can't help me for a few days of postpartum.. I will never show my daughter's face to her and keep my angel out of such family toxicity
Why should she take care, ask your husband and in laws to do that and she has only taught you truth. There are men who may not be doing well however they still go to work. They do hard work because they don't want their family to struggle. A man can live in a single room with bare necessities but they want to provide comfortable life to their family
@@softsensbaby taught her truth??? What truth? That she was bad parent, men do not face monthly problems and the other problems they face are mutual in both female and male bodies and if they are not , then most of the men are taken care, by their wives and if not wives them mothers, but a girl is always taught to face period pain and not even expect a bit of comfort by the people around her, BY HER OWN PEOPLE. I understand that men go through pain too and still work for their family but so does women. Why can't you just be normal for once and not compare men's pain and women's pain?
@@studylife5529if you think like that then choose a time and say I love you maa and give a hug then talk then if you have job take her to the place where she likes because these kind of love she didn't get from her mother just break the pain without risk there will have no gain if it successful do not cut the communication and finally chant Hanuman chalisa every morning and evening. Wishing you a great success on your passion and make your relatives getting jealous on your parents that they have a successful daughter who made them proud
So he watched her do this for years to his daughter. Didn’t support his own wife, which is y she’s like that. And now all of a sudden he’s a hero?? What’s wrong with u?? 🙄 😒
The father's heroic entry and the dialogue, but if the same father would have treated his wife at rest during her periods ....she would not b so frustrated n not in a mode to prepare her daughter to b strong like nothing happens during periods... Periods is not the issue, showing care n concern towards the female can make so much difference. ... Men in house should start doing this in every household....
Probably her mother never told about her pain, her husband might be understanding but since she never disclosed about her period problems, he thought that she was not having pain . Not all women feel pain during periods, and I am one of them. I can do all the work without pain, and thus I don't like anyone interfering in my work during periods. Her mother should have told her husband that she was having pain and thus needs rest, how could anyone understand if anyone is having pain if that person doesn't spoke for herself?
@@rupama31 i get it, not all women have pain, it's not about taking rest also, but periods are no joy with pain or without pain this is the time where mentally, physically n emotionally she's a little sensitive...n should b treated sensibly .. especially those women who are home makers and do 24/7 job...my point was if the woman was treated sensibly by her husband during her periods after marriage she would have changed her behaviour n perspective towards her girl....
I just cried when I see this ............... because I lost my mother when I was in 2 nd stand I was so small so my father married second time but my second mother tortured me and effected my studies so that's why my father leave her and now I am in 9th standard but I still miss my mother 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I am an unlucky...The comment sections are filled with Mom's love and support...I am the one who tolerate mother's worst words during period...Not only periods days, some times other pain days... Today also i am facing this... My mom's words are kills me aa lot more than this video...
My Mother in law is such a pathetic person, she always tries to make me feel guilty if I am in pain, start saying that " hum ne to Bari Bari taklifo me sab kuch Kia hey in naukri karny wali larkiyon K to nakhry hi khtm nhi hoty, ye Ghar Kia basaey gi" 😢😢 Shadi se pehly hi job churwa di Meri K hamy naukri wali nhi chahye warna Ghar Kon sambhaly ga 💔😓
That hits hard..! Agree the fact this is how her mother treated her ,even she knowing that it did nt make her feel good,she chose to follow her and treated her daughter bad ! A good mother doesn't do that! I'm a person who had kind of conservative parents and all i decided i wont become such mother like my mom used to be..I'm so proud of me❤
It's really very emotional But my mom never tell me this things 🥺 even when she is suffering from these things she also do all wrk of home 🥺 my mom is such a really goddess for me ❤️ I wish " god give everyone mom like my mom " 🥺🥺🥺❤️
@@ananyamohapatra8844 So only cooking, cleaning comes under household chores? What about providing and protection. What about getting things repaired no matter. Understand this men and women work for house. But they are different. Also as a man we will never know completely how it is to have a period with uterus. We can only feel bad by the way you are. That's all. So don't ask us what we cant.
@@ananyamohapatra8844 I dodnt wnat to comment because this is not something as a man I can experience but as soon as you included other things. I had to
@@Raju_K thats the problem with this INDIAN society ...women are expected to work at the house ..no matter however much qualified you are .. they'll still "expect" you to serve them dinner at the end of the day
@@Raju_K Rene de Bhai yeh sab bechari bechari banke jindangi katne wali ladkiya hai... Aur jo bechari ka rona nhi gaati sab bahut agey chali gyi... Aakhir kaar they are papa ki pari ☕☕☕
I'm 21 but still my mother take care of me like I'm a little baby especially during periods thanks for sharing the video it made me realize how lucky I am
I had a friend who was diagnosed with PCOD when we were at 9th standard she didn't get period for months...she once confessed that when she was diagnosed after ultrasound her mother said her you can't give birth as a woman you are useless!! This really broke my heart she was just a teenager and a kind hearted girl P.S women with PCOD can easily conceive it doesn't make them infertile
@@Kuroyuki2007on't worry girl. Every problem has solutions... You can take allopathy, homeopathy or ayuervedic treatment.After then it gets fine. And also remember not able to give birth is not the end of world. Your health is the main priority you should think and care of. Nobody is worth to sacrifice yourself. Lots of love ❤
@@Kuroyuki2007 at 15 irregularities happens I too used to get periods for 10 days!! When you are at the end of puberty and you think it's not getting better then you should see a doctor
It hits hard when someone can't understand u, it hits harder when a girl can't understand u and hurts extreme when your own mother can't understand u !!!!💔💔💔💔 I am lucky to have a loving mother❤❤❤❤🦋💖💖💖
I'm really lucky to have the kindest mother, she always supports me , understands my pain and always is there for me, I'm so lucky , I really thank God for giving me such a wonderful mother.
The same words my mother used today and i suddenly remembered this and opened this short The same words, same anger, but my father was not here like this to say something to her, no one really is on my side, and my mother makes me mentally sick She said the same as i didn't wemt to school These words just get pinned straight on my heart I'll never forget how she treated me! Girls don't listen to your moms just ignore them, 'cause ik its hard to hate them as they brought you here but don't be bounded with this 'cause it was them and their wish! You do not necessarly NEED to repay Its good if you do, but if they are not good as parents then you can choose not to be the best children for them
Imagine if your parents chose to not be good parents ? Don’t judge on occasional outbursts …parents do everything for their children. Love your mum, try to understand her and try to help her too if required
@@GeetikaKulshresthaif you will try checking the internet you will find 70 percent of kids attempt suicide because the way their parents treat them my parents also treat me like that I have attempted suicide 5 times but it turned out to fail idk why God is not supporting me (My bestie is also suffering from the same. Now when that day we confronted each other from that day we motivate each other and forget everything in school and classes and in my school we are known as the happiest students. But we aren't still happy)
Felt so sad seeing this. I’m so fortunate to have my mom. She never once scolded me for getting up late, bunking classes or anything during my periods. Instead she always took care of me, brought me hot-pads, massage my legs, back and feet. She knows I have terrible mood swings and would always put up to it. She would buy my favourite chocolates cause she knew it would bring relief to me. She is the sweetest, kindest soul to exist in my life.
These are the things which we are getting from our parents in form of legacy... Try to understand we can't change our mother but we can change ourselves so that our upcoming generation can live their life happily
If fathers helped their wives, maybe moms wouldn’t be so frustrated about everything. My dad would always support me when my mom scolded me for something. But after becoming a mom, i realise now.
Actually yes , my mother said all same things to me but that things never made me strong....but these words hurt me alot and I used to do all domestic chores during my days 💔
Same here, my mother never said any harsh words to me. My father used to massage my legs, in starting years i used to get bad cramps, but after his massage i felt much better.
Wrong !!! If she doesn't intend to then atleast she would care about it somewhat but all she care about is that I don't touch any thing that is to be put in prayer or that is to be served as 'bhog' and all of that Caring for them is bullshit !!!
Ya my mom is this... Initially I didn't had any problem but when saw my friends mothers n cousins mothers they are really really supportive but mine .....I am not complaining about anything but I just also need that extra care n consern during those 7 days. I just hope I also have a supportive person during my periods with me .
Before getting married my mother used to feeds me with her hands and always supports me especially during my periods. I really miss those days. May Allah swt grant long and healthy lives to our mothers.. Ameen ya rabb FYI my husband is supportive and understanding too😊
i dint faced this instead my mom dad pampered a lot n got xtra attention on those days n nw da same treatmnt frm my soulmate and my cutie pies too who r jst 3 n 5 yrs. I think am vry much blessed to hve thm in this life...✊✊🪵
Yeh sb mere liye hai. Us din agr kitchen ka nhi to ghr ki sari safai kro. Na mandir jana na kitchen me hath lgana parshad bhi nhi lene dete. Us time mujhe bed se uthna bhi mushkil ho jata hai. 😟😟😟
lol, they dont understand. they already went through that pain. But adults knows that whatever pain is u got to do your work. Excuses dont make men earn money, hardwork does.
Same ( my mom doing this too when im in my period's and i understand this girl feeling but maybe she's lucky bc she's dad are stand for her but my dad just still listing everything ) 😢😭💔
I am blessed to have mom who understand my pain.. She never tells these things to me.. Once she told her mother always makes her do household works at that timee.... Love amma
That's the thing you know.... At the time you're the most vulnerable and emotionally down nobody feels it. I mean they look at your face but can't even feel it. If you've cried the whole night then too nobody notices and then they say you're cold
Never ever I heard this from my mother...she is the precious gift which I get from God..i hope I will be a great mother like her... love you maa for being there always..❤
My mother tells me that it is normal because it is normal... every girl go through this every month. Period cramps are painful but that doesn't mean we should stop all the work. My mom tells me to do a much simpler or that kind of household chores that doesn't require any physical activity like vegetable cutting and folding clothes or filling water bottles...she tells me to keep on my studies and when I feel like I can't concentrate anymore she orders food from outside. She's a working woman and cares a lot for me. She's my iron lady ❤️
my mom never said this type of words to me... even if she said, she says with a warm and sweet voice... my mom is bestest of the best... thankgod... i got such a understanding mom...🥺🥺🥺
She is supposed to understand the pain specially cause she has also been through it Speaking in harsh tones does not make her stronger or build any strength
My mum treated me like a princess and I love her the most so I helped her whenever I could but she never asked for it♥️😇 realised it more after getting married
Yeah even in my house it happens. I always feel why wouldn't i get rest even in that time. But if your financially independent apko yesab sunenahi padenghe. Thats the motivation i give to myself everytime this happens 🙃🙃......keep your courage girls 😉 we all are with you ❤. Take care 🫂🫂💕
The way she said it could’ve been hurtful but the reason was to make her stronger in holding the pain… yet some women should know that the pain is not the same for everyone nor every time is it the same kind of pain. Like myself, I have the terrible cramps every three months and it reduces for the next two months and lapses again on the third. The only time I was hurt was when I couldn’t even get up off the floor or move myself in that extreme cramp once that my mother wouldn’t believe I actually had terrible cramps until I cried… in other words think twice and use your words wisely
my mother is the best mother in the world. She never says like that. She tries to feel comfort to me in that situation. I love you mom for you endless support❤❤
Period pain at times = mini heart attack. Once a heath care provider shared with me. Give that girl a comforting words of love, heat pack and dark chocolate. Family needs to give them a break at that time.
sometimes you have to fight yourself to get up and i’m grateful to my mother to show me that. this is the real struggle to fight for what lies ahead of you, psychologically it does absolute wonders. it all depends on the persons own medical health of course
Though my mother loves me yet sometimes she speak such harsh to me that I feel like leaving the house and her forever. And most importantly. My father NEVER stands up for me since I was born a girl and not a boy!!😢
But I'm lucky to have a such supportive and understanding mother who never ever hurted me by her harsh words😌❤️she is like literally my bestfrnd with whom i can enjoy and share every little thing💗✨
That's how Mom's make their daughters strong... World is going to be tuff for them, of they can't tolerate this pain, then it will be difficult for them only, who else knows it better than the mother. ❤❤❤ Daughter will thank mother for this in future.
my mother was extremely caring about me in these days and luckily my husband is extremeely caring too he helps me alot even makes tea for me boils eggs for me give me comfort and alot love❤
Thankfully my mother and father both are very supportive, caring and are able to understand my pain and mood swings during my periods especially my mom she let's me to throw tantrums and never ever said these words to me🙂 I feel blessed to have them in my life as my parents ❤
I am very grateful that i have my mother on my back every month she told me to take rest completely she never made me do any stuff during those 5 painful days ❤️❤️
Mothers should talk kindly with all her children equally. But kids should also understand the fact that their parents are their well wishers, they might seem strict at times But their intention is always pure for them…!
In this time every girl and woman wants the person who understand her pain, this is not just a periods, this is about feelings she suffering from the pain which is not tolerable, she need rest bcoz of lack of iron in the body she feels weakness, do support her instead of scolding or taunting her, bcoz every person is different, some people can bear and some can not
Every mom say like this but no dad take stand for us😂😂
Yes true
Ya actually
No my mom never told me that and my dad was so supportive and even told me if you can't handle the pain just take rest your health is more important. Even now it's my period and my mom told me to take a day off. 😊
@@vcV9 u are blessed girl never ever hurt them okay
@@deepamishra3932 thank you. No I won't ever hurt them ❤️
Sometimes your own parents behave like your enemies
Yes🥺
Yes
Yes
Yes
Not sometimes ...😢😢
The worst feeling in the world when ur parents treat you like a servant
Yess 🥺🥺😩😩
Ghar ka kaam toh karna padta hai😅
I also used to feel that way, But now I can understand... That could be because Parents r generally burdened with hell lot of things, they feel low and frustrated (as they have manage their and ur daily routine, have to think of their upcoming medical issues, all finances, children's future and many more things)
So they dont have time to relax and wants children to take responsibility to lower their burden (parents' burden)
You will realise when we see ur Parents getting Old and realise they might leave the world soon.
Although, I am just wondering when parents have to do daily routine tasks, house chors, cook food, help their kids... why are not they considered servants then??
Parents shouldn't exploit their kids but yes it's everyone's responsibility to take care of things. Every member is equally responsibility and accountable.
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Not to all children, only daughters
Oh my God! This reminds me of my horrible mom who said that I'm lying down was a drama to avoid doing household chores and to bunk school.. I usee to wriggle in pain and what killed me was her words.. she used to say that her mother would say even worse things like all this drama is to get to bed with a guy.. my horrible childhood and worse adulthood.. now when I remind her of that she says that she hadn't done a thing like that.. she asked me to go abort my child so that she can't help me for a few days of postpartum.. I will never show my daughter's face to her and keep my angel out of such family toxicity
Same 🥺😓 , I never got her love, just a toxic family 😓
Why should she take care, ask your husband and in laws to do that and she has only taught you truth. There are men who may not be doing well however they still go to work. They do hard work because they don't want their family to struggle. A man can live in a single room with bare necessities but they want to provide comfortable life to their family
@@softsensbaby taught her truth??? What truth? That she was bad parent, men do not face monthly problems and the other problems they face are mutual in both female and male bodies and if they are not , then most of the men are taken care, by their wives and if not wives them mothers, but a girl is always taught to face period pain and not even expect a bit of comfort by the people around her, BY HER OWN PEOPLE.
I understand that men go through pain too and still work for their family but so does women. Why can't you just be normal for once and not compare men's pain and women's pain?
@@studylife5529if you think like that then choose a time and say I love you maa and give a hug then talk then if you have job take her to the place where she likes because these kind of love she didn't get from her mother just break the pain without risk there will have no gain if it successful do not cut the communication and finally chant Hanuman chalisa every morning and evening. Wishing you a great success on your passion and make your relatives getting jealous on your parents that they have a successful daughter who made them proud
@@softsensbabyall this is neither true altogether nor is it irrelevant here.
i like this father ,good thought😭💓
Edit: OMG! Thanks for this much likess 😍☺
But In reality father is not that understand
About it
So he watched her do this for years to his daughter. Didn’t support his own wife, which is y she’s like that. And now all of a sudden he’s a hero??
What’s wrong with u?? 🙄 😒
@@RojaJanemanநெனச்சேன் சொல்லிட்டீங்க😅
@@RojaJanemantrue
The father's heroic entry and the dialogue, but if the same father would have treated his wife at rest during her periods ....she would not b so frustrated n not in a mode to prepare her daughter to b strong like nothing happens during periods...
Periods is not the issue, showing care n concern towards the female can make so much difference. ...
Men in house should start doing this in every household....
Probably her mother never told about her pain, her husband might be understanding but since she never disclosed about her period problems, he thought that she was not having pain . Not all women feel pain during periods, and I am one of them. I can do all the work without pain, and thus I don't like anyone interfering in my work during periods. Her mother should have told her husband that she was having pain and thus needs rest, how could anyone understand if anyone is having pain if that person doesn't spoke for herself?
Your words brought anotger perspective, better one in second after reading it. 😊😊
@@rupama31😂😂😂😂
@@rupama31 i get it, not all women have pain, it's not about taking rest also, but periods are no joy with pain or without pain this is the time where mentally, physically n emotionally she's a little sensitive...n should b treated sensibly .. especially those women who are home makers and do 24/7 job...my point was if the woman was treated sensibly by her husband during her periods after marriage she would have changed her behaviour n perspective towards her girl....
Yes thats true
This is sad but reality... No matter how much pain we handle.... But we have to do everything at home
I just cried when I see this ............... because I lost my mother when I was in 2 nd stand I was so small so my father married second time but my second mother tortured me and effected my studies so that's why my father leave her and now I am in 9th standard but I still miss my mother 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I love you. I don't have my own mother too and it hurts. Be brave. ❤❤❤
Thanks for your support girl ❤😊
@@prabhawatibhosale9125 you're most welcome dear. Be strong. You are already brave and strong. Lots of love! ❤😘
😊
I literally got tears in my eyes when her father said those line '' did you like hearing to it?'' ...🥺
Did he help his wife?
@@mayurisweety1873you snatched words out of my mouth..
I am an unlucky...The comment sections are filled with Mom's love and support...I am the one who tolerate mother's worst words during period...Not only periods days, some times other pain days... Today also i am facing this... My mom's words are kills me aa lot more than this video...
Don't worry sis everything will be fine soon
I wish you got a husband who cares about you alot ❤
Sooo Relatable
Kabhi kabhi nhi roz ka jo jata hai mummy ka and it hurts like a slow poison 😢
@@EPI9026 I agree I can completely understand bcuz I bear the same
My Mother in law is such a pathetic person, she always tries to make me feel guilty if I am in pain, start saying that " hum ne to Bari Bari taklifo me sab kuch Kia hey in naukri karny wali larkiyon K to nakhry hi khtm nhi hoty, ye Ghar Kia basaey gi" 😢😢
Shadi se pehly hi job churwa di Meri K hamy naukri wali nhi chahye warna Ghar Kon sambhaly ga 💔😓
That hits hard..! Agree the fact this is how her mother treated her ,even she knowing that it did nt make her feel good,she chose to follow her and treated her daughter bad ! A good mother doesn't do that! I'm a person who had kind of conservative parents and all i decided i wont become such mother like my mom used to be..I'm so proud of me❤
Every girl deserves father like him❤❤
Oo kya every girl Mera pass isse bhi best papa 😎
But my father is not like this sadly
It's really very emotional
But my mom never tell me this things 🥺 even when she is suffering from these things she also do all wrk of home 🥺 my mom is such a really goddess for me ❤️
I wish " god give everyone mom like my mom " 🥺🥺🥺❤️
Men don't even have periods.. still never bother TO DO household chores.. STRANGE
@@ananyamohapatra8844 So only cooking, cleaning comes under household chores? What about providing and protection. What about getting things repaired no matter.
Understand this men and women work for house. But they are different. Also as a man we will never know completely how it is to have a period with uterus. We can only feel bad by the way you are. That's all. So don't ask us what we cant.
@@ananyamohapatra8844 I dodnt wnat to comment because this is not something as a man I can experience but as soon as you included other things. I had to
@@Raju_K thats the problem with this INDIAN society ...women are expected to work at the house ..no matter however much qualified you are .. they'll still "expect" you to serve them dinner at the end of the day
@@Raju_K Rene de Bhai yeh sab bechari bechari banke jindangi katne wali ladkiya hai... Aur jo bechari ka rona nhi gaati sab bahut agey chali gyi...
Aakhir kaar they are papa ki pari ☕☕☕
My mom cares me a lot during these days I love her a lot ❤️
You are very lucky bcoz every child doesn't have mom like your mom.
@@SonyKumari-zv1ghryt
Same
Meri mom b bohat care krti the now she is not more
Same🥺💝
Yes exactly as it says Not only in these days, some say bad times His words hurt me a lot
I'm 21 but still my mother take care of me like I'm a little baby especially during periods thanks for sharing the video it made me realize how lucky I am
Absolutely🤞💓
Yes my mother also ☺️
My mother is the best mother in this world 🌎
Same in my case and my friends' case
She a true angel during my periods ❤❤
Same❤
Shame!!
I had a friend who was diagnosed with PCOD when we were at 9th standard she didn't get period for months...she once confessed that when she was diagnosed after ultrasound her mother said her you can't give birth as a woman you are useless!! This really broke my heart she was just a teenager and a kind hearted girl
P.S women with PCOD can easily conceive it doesn't make them infertile
:( why are mothers so harsh, they treat us like garbage and pamper their princes
@@Kuroyuki2007 irregularities can occur, you can just take pills for that if you want. Just taking them for a few months would work.
@@Kuroyuki2007on't worry girl. Every problem has solutions... You can take allopathy, homeopathy or ayuervedic treatment.After then it gets fine.
And also remember not able to give birth is not the end of world. Your health is the main priority you should think and care of.
Nobody is worth to sacrifice yourself. Lots of love ❤
@@Kuroyuki2007 at 15 irregularities happens I too used to get periods for 10 days!! When you are at the end of puberty and you think it's not getting better then you should see a doctor
im too and i did hear these words from my mom too 😢 kash koi ilaaj hota is pcos ka im still suffering
It hits hard when someone can't understand u, it hits harder when a girl can't understand u and hurts extreme when your own mother can't understand u !!!!💔💔💔💔
I am lucky to have a loving mother❤❤❤❤🦋💖💖💖
I'm really lucky to have the kindest mother, she always supports me , understands my pain and always is there for me, I'm so lucky , I really thank God for giving me such a wonderful mother.
Can you cook ?
My mother always understands me, I am very thankful to god for giving her to me
@@sunitadudi8727 can you cook
@@manjurockzgaming8448can YOU cook
U r lucky ,not like me My mother not at all supports me 😢😢😢😢
Iam grateful to my mom forever she takes care of me even now 🤩😍😍
The same words my mother used today and i suddenly remembered this and opened this short
The same words, same anger, but my father was not here like this to say something to her, no one really is on my side, and my mother makes me mentally sick
She said the same as i didn't wemt to school
These words just get pinned straight on my heart
I'll never forget how she treated me!
Girls don't listen to your moms just ignore them, 'cause ik its hard to hate them as they brought you here but don't be bounded with this 'cause it was them and their wish! You do not necessarly NEED to repay
Its good if you do, but if they are not good as parents then you can choose not to be the best children for them
Imagine if your parents chose to not be good parents ? Don’t judge on occasional outbursts …parents do everything for their children. Love your mum, try to understand her and try to help her too if required
And the worst thing about my parents is they hate me
Not all parents are good
@@GeetikaKulshresthaif you will try checking the internet you will find 70 percent of kids attempt suicide because the way their parents treat them my parents also treat me like that
I have attempted suicide 5 times but it turned out to fail idk why God is not supporting me
(My bestie is also suffering from the same. Now when that day we confronted each other from that day we motivate each other and forget everything in school and classes and in my school we are known as the happiest students. But we aren't still happy)
I understand, not everyone's parents are Angels. Life is not a bed of roses for everyone.
Be strong and focus on yourself.
One day I was having an unbearable cramp so I called my mom to pick me up from school. After coming home she said the same words
What an amazing Dad ❤
Felt so sad seeing this. I’m so fortunate to have my mom. She never once scolded me for getting up late, bunking classes or anything during my periods. Instead she always took care of me, brought me hot-pads, massage my legs, back and feet. She knows I have terrible mood swings and would always put up to it. She would buy my favourite chocolates cause she knew it would bring relief to me. She is the sweetest, kindest soul to exist in my life.
nice , my mom tells me it would be great if i was never born
you are very lucky
Girls I know that cramps are painful but you know what I never got cramps during periods.
My mom does the same.. ❤️
@@sakshiarya2965that's sad
My mother never scolds me during my periods!! Instead she understands the pain and makes me feel better.❤
These are the things which we are getting from our parents in form of legacy... Try to understand we can't change our mother but we can change ourselves so that our upcoming generation can live their life happily
Meri maa to normally bhi princess ki tarah treat krti he …. Period ki bat to chord hi do❤love u maa
Good thing my mom is different. She would say "aww take a rest,happens on first day ect".
Same yrr my mother is so caring ❤❤ and my father too😌😌
My mother says this too 😃
Thank God My mom is different..
Same my mother is so caring too
I am jealous of you that you have such a caring mother.
Nah, my mom never spoke to me like that and I'm fortunate to have her❤
You are so lucky 😊 Happy for you..
sameeeeeeeeee
I am also so lucky
Lucky you
Alhamdulilah my mother supports me in every possible way
Fathers always understands their daughters much more than mothers❤️💯they also saves us literally from every scolding situation😂🥹
First they should understand their wives.
😊😊
If fathers helped their wives, maybe moms wouldn’t be so frustrated about everything. My dad would always support me when my mom scolded me for something. But after becoming a mom, i realise now.
Dard sabko hota hai par sabki sehne ki capacity alag alag hoti hai
99% girls ko cramp hota h sadly 😢...wo 1% rare lucky girls ko cramp nhi hota
Every mothers are not same💔
Actually yes , my mother said all same things to me but that things never made me strong....but these words hurt me alot and I used to do all domestic chores during my days 💔
You are right ! ❤ Not every mother like her😢
100%correct
@@user-db5dm8px8ethey think those words will make us strong but instead it will hurt us 😔
@@JIYOOKIM09exactly moreover she says why don't u just forget...how can iiiii????
I am lucky that my mom can understand my pain. She is a gem❤😘
Good u are lucky
Not like me
Same here, my mother never said any harsh words to me. My father used to massage my legs, in starting years i used to get bad cramps, but after his massage i felt much better.
In this i blessed with such good good parents ❤
किसी ने सही कहा है parents से बड़ा दुश्मन कोई नही होता
Her words are harsh, but I can bet no mother can tell this intentionally the only intention was to make a girl strong in every manner.
Right👍
Wrong !!!
If she doesn't intend to then atleast she would care about it somewhat but all she care about is that I don't touch any thing that is to be put in prayer or that is to be served as 'bhog' and all of that
Caring for them is bullshit !!!
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True true
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Ya my mom is this... Initially I didn't had any problem but when saw my friends mothers n cousins mothers they are really really supportive but mine .....I am not complaining about anything but I just also need that extra care n consern during those 7 days. I just hope I also have a supportive person during my periods with me .
You r right not in only periods every topic she blammed me
same situation 🥲
over react nhi 😪😗
Same here 🥺😢
Same here 😢
So sad, our mother never said all this to us. She raised us herself single handed but was always caring and loved us
Literally I feel lucky as my mother never let me do something in periods❤❤
Thank you mummy for being kind towards me on those days
Before getting married my mother used to feeds me with her hands and always supports me especially during my periods. I really miss those days. May Allah swt grant long and healthy lives to our mothers.. Ameen ya rabb
FYI my husband is supportive and understanding too😊
My mother cares me a lot during periods!! 🤗😇
i dint faced this instead my mom dad pampered a lot n got xtra attention on those days n nw da same treatmnt frm my soulmate and my cutie pies too who r jst 3 n 5 yrs. I think am vry much blessed to hve thm in this life...✊✊🪵
My mom is the best ❤
Sometimes their intention is not that.
Not every mom is same.
Know one knows better than Mom❤️
Girls should get their uterus removed to stop their periods permanently
@@wewin7899 Just like you removed your brain?
@@After_dark911 😂😂good bro
Not every mother is nice
That's true and we will know that after everything is over😢
My mom is always supportive ❤.
Yeh sb mere liye hai. Us din agr kitchen ka nhi to ghr ki sari safai kro. Na mandir jana na kitchen me hath lgana parshad bhi nhi lene dete. Us time mujhe bed se uthna bhi mushkil ho jata hai. 😟😟😟
It just hurts me so good while reading comments ,where there mothers are supportive .
Me too 😢
when her mother smiled, she has very beautiful and charming smile.
No yaar all mothers are not same they don't understand our pain 💔 and mental stability
lol, they dont understand. they already went through that pain. But adults knows that whatever pain is u got to do your work. Excuses dont make men earn money, hardwork does.
Same ( my mom doing this too when im in my period's and i understand this girl feeling but maybe she's lucky bc she's dad are stand for her but my dad just still listing everything ) 😢😭💔
Mujhe periods me bahut dard hota hai but thanks to my mumma my di and my family ki meri dekhbhal karte hai....💗✨
I am blessed to have mom who understand my pain.. She never tells these things to me.. Once she told her mother always makes her do household works at that timee.... Love amma
That's the thing you know.... At the time you're the most vulnerable and emotionally down nobody feels it. I mean they look at your face but can't even feel it. If you've cried the whole night then too nobody notices and then they say you're cold
Yeahhhh👀
Same
Such a great father ❤️✨
Passing venom down the generation two women at a time 😊
1.)Mother
2.) Mother in law
My mother is a blessing she never said anything like that she helps me alot ❤
I am totally blessed in this. My parents are so cooperative in these things . Especially my mother. Love you bou❤
Thanks you mummy for being kind towards me on those days 🥺🥺
My mother is not at all like this! She takes care of me the whole day. Roams around me. Sits with me to make me feel comfortable. I love her! 💗
Never ever I heard this from my mother...she is the precious gift which I get from God..i hope I will be a great mother like her... love you maa for being there always..❤
My mother tells me that it is normal because it is normal... every girl go through this every month. Period cramps are painful but that doesn't mean we should stop all the work. My mom tells me to do a much simpler or that kind of household chores that doesn't require any physical activity like vegetable cutting and folding clothes or filling water bottles...she tells me to keep on my studies and when I feel like I can't concentrate anymore she orders food from outside. She's a working woman and cares a lot for me. She's my iron lady ❤️
My mom caring alot in these situations ❤ thanku mom ❤
No never.. she was very supportive
Girls should get their uterus removed to stop periods permanenrly
No
@@kvincymangla5540 what her mother wanted was that her daughter becomes strong
mine also ...
@@revengemodeon9196 this just makes her hate her mother in future
Parents should be sympathetic towards their children
my mom never said this type of words to me... even if she said, she says with a warm and sweet voice... my mom is bestest of the best... thankgod... i got such a understanding mom...🥺🥺🥺
I wish every father to take stand like this one 😣
My mother cares for me a lot I ❤ U
No mother makes you weak by speaking like this. Builds strength for the future.❤️
She is supposed to understand the pain specially cause she has also been through it
Speaking in harsh tones does not make her stronger or build any strength
Meri mummy to isse bekar bekar bolti hai ki Kanno se khun aa jaate
My mum treated me like a princess and I love her the most so I helped her whenever I could but she never asked for it♥️😇 realised it more after getting married
I think I have the only mom who doesn't talk like this...❤
Yeah even in my house it happens. I always feel why wouldn't i get rest even in that time. But if your financially independent apko yesab sunenahi padenghe. Thats the motivation i give to myself everytime this happens 🙃🙃......keep your courage girls 😉 we all are with you ❤. Take care 🫂🫂💕
When I get cramps my mother helps me, she might be busy but she doesn't let me do any work, she understands me, am happy to have her ❤
The way she said it could’ve been hurtful but the reason was to make her stronger in holding the pain… yet some women should know that the pain is not the same for everyone nor every time is it the same kind of pain. Like myself, I have the terrible cramps every three months and it reduces for the next two months and lapses again on the third. The only time I was hurt was when I couldn’t even get up off the floor or move myself in that extreme cramp once that my mother wouldn’t believe I actually had terrible cramps until I cried… in other words think twice and use your words wisely
I am soo blessed my mother is so caring i just love my parents a lot
my mother is the best mother in the world. She never says like that. She tries to feel comfort to me in that situation. I love you mom for you endless support❤❤
Period pain at times = mini heart attack. Once a heath care provider shared with me. Give that girl a comforting words of love, heat pack and dark chocolate. Family needs to give them a break at that time.
sometimes you have to fight yourself to get up and i’m grateful to my mother to show me that. this is the real struggle to fight for what lies ahead of you, psychologically it does absolute wonders. it all depends on the persons own medical health of course
Though my mother loves me yet sometimes she speak such harsh to me that I feel like leaving the house and her forever. And most importantly. My father NEVER stands up for me since I was born a girl and not a boy!!😢
Moms perfect example of generational trauma
My mom made me strongest person on one side and raised me as flower on another side💞💞she is the best mom 🎉🎊
This scolding is normal...it's mom who understands everything simply and fills strength..
Thank god my parents are really supportive😢
My mother takes care of me a lot during these days ,the pain is unimaginable that i cannot bear even pain killers dont work
I have everyone but no one who understand my any pain if by mistake i try to tell them what's my pain is, they will just blame me 😩
I understand ❤
@@mehrim5309Ooh
@@mehrim5309 its a bot
@@devilkings8096 what🤔
@@mehrim5309men also have hormones they also feel like staring at women's boobs watch porn so shud that be allowed no right your period is an excuse
But I'm lucky to have a such supportive and understanding mother who never ever hurted me by her harsh words😌❤️she is like literally my bestfrnd with whom i can enjoy and share every little thing💗✨
That's how Mom's make their daughters strong... World is going to be tuff for them, of they can't tolerate this pain, then it will be difficult for them only, who else knows it better than the mother. ❤❤❤
Daughter will thank mother for this in future.
my mother was extremely caring about me in these days and luckily my husband is extremeely caring too he helps me alot even makes tea for me boils eggs for me give me comfort and alot love❤
Her father is unique 😊😊❤❤❤❤
I love my Mom 💞 she is so much supportive I am grateful ❤💯
My mother never says me like this on my periods 😊 My mom is best gift from the god❤
My mum still treats me like a baby during mine and she helps me love her for that ❤❤❤
Thankfully my mother and father both are very supportive, caring and are able to understand my pain and mood swings during my periods especially my mom she let's me to throw tantrums and never ever said these words to me🙂
I feel blessed to have them in my life as my parents ❤
I am very grateful that i have my mother on my back every month she told me to take rest completely she never made me do any stuff during those 5 painful days ❤️❤️
I am lucky to have understanding parents
Kash ye baat har maa samjhe
Mothers should talk kindly with all her children equally. But kids should also understand the fact that their parents are their well wishers, they might seem strict at times But their intention is always pure for them…!
My Mom never scold me like this infect she cares more about me when am having my periods love you Mom❤you are the best
I am glad to have such a sweet mother God has given me
Atleast the father supported 😢
In this time every girl and woman wants the person who understand her pain, this is not just a periods, this is about feelings she suffering from the pain which is not tolerable, she need rest bcoz of lack of iron in the body she feels weakness, do support her instead of scolding or taunting her, bcoz every person is different, some people can bear and some can not
yeah during my periods it'll hurt so much that I used to cry silently every month 🤧