girl chat| not growing on socials, I fumbled the bag, pressure to keep up, going 50/50 + more!
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- same day turn around on this but i just wanted to chat with yall so bad!! I love yall 🫶🏽
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Love you guys, always, all ways xx
People are too worried about what their neighbour has. Comparison is the thief of joy. Very true
Yes! Preach!
I learned about you because I follow Allyiah. I am now here for you. Love your style, fashion, smarts and you are very much a leader. You don’t follow what everyone else does. You do your own thing and you can do very high end and very affordable and I’m here for it. You are very wise for your age and I admire that about you. I pray you never lose it. I think your time will come. I see success for you, just keep going and stay consistent. You are stunning when you dress up and even when you are chill. Love your jewelry pieces! I always buy it lol. Love when you do skin care and tell us about stuff that works. Your chit chats are always inspiring.
🥹 can i just print this comment and put it in my damn wallet for when i need some words to push me?!? OMFG. Thank you for coming from her channel and sticking around!!
Well said & very much facts,
Except for me i followed Aliyah bc of you ❤
Hey Aja! You hit the nail on the head! Right in the centre. Thank you for being authentically, transparently, truthfully YOU. Give yourself grace, you're doing such a wonderful job, in your online presence and in your family and personal life. As another commenter wrote. Just give us a snippet when you can't post a longer vlog. We love to see you. PS. Your people here are your people! We're here for YOU...short, long, taking a break, moving, cooking, raising the kiddies, car chats, etc. We'll be here. You are appreciated, try not to let the algorithm affect you girl.
Would love to see some "how" you shop online, ie picking sizes, outfits" , Cook with me/ what I eat in a day, and how you organize/reorganize areas of your home type videos. See you in the next one ❤
🥹🥺 girl this comment... what did i do to deserve these words. Truly so grateful, and this is why i do this. I've taken notes of all your videos recs, and just truly am so grateful for these kind words!
@@ajanarie your welcome hun. You truly deserve it. Real recognizes real xox 💐🌹
Can you do a clothing haul that’s vacation themed or like a vacation lookbook?
Yes! Any particular store your interested in?
@@ajanarie Micas & White Fox
I love you . I wish I could see you more on TikTok especially with your new home decors and etc. it
May be a great way to gain more new followers. I love your vibe & Ill will follow you everywhere girly! You deserve to be recognized and more especially as a single mom. Never limit yourself. But def take some mentally days off!
I definitely have been pushing myself to vlog a bit more for TikTok so fingers crossed i keep it up lol. Thank you so much for loving me on all platforms!
A video on Luxury items regrets? And favs?
I love that you talked about finances and not needing to keep up with joneses. Can you make more videos on it? Budgeting etc.
Your aesthetic is top tier baby! Maybe do the decorating the house videos I need a refresh and would love some inspiration.... outfits of the day the accessories when you get dressed you pop out! Love content and aesthetic timeless chic style
I definitely plan to do some home decor videos now that the ball is rolling! I struggle with those types of videos cause in my mind i always think it's easiest for them to be in vlogs! So i limit myself being noticed solely for home decor because i stick my self in the "vlog" niche so i definitely have to stop!
“You can have that man but never how I had that man” facts!!!
You covered some excellent points in this video. Keeping a low profile is essential for me. It's better to keep quiet and not share everything, as not everyone is genuinely happy for you. Social media can be overwhelming at times, so it's important to take time to unwind. I've noticed that when I do this, only a few people reach out to check on me. Unfollow anything that makes you feel anxious or upset.
I totally agree we make our decisions based on what other people have it takes strong mature mindset to plan accordingly 👏🏽👏🏽
Yes, it's really hard as hell these days to choose to be realistic and not doing well for instagram.
Aja the way your hair is falling looks like a bob and looks so cute on you!! I could totally see you rocking one 🥹🥹
I would love one but the way my hair is my security blanket and how long it is i may never recover emotionally lmao
Yes I agree!!! Social media is really the thief of all joy! You just gotta be realistic and know what is for you will always be for you!
Lol I literally ordered that enroute necklace while watching your video lol! Can’t wait to get ittttt!
this is why I love you, you get it! Just bc we value different things doesn't make one person better than the other.
The lifestyle topic at the end was so good. Def needed to hear that! ❤️🙏🏽
You look so radiant Aja! So happy to see you are in a better mental state compared to last video.
Also, I love the sit down videos! 😊
Your hauls are my favorite videos to watch. One of the only youtubers I can trust in terms of style/quality clothing. Please do more hauls when you can! Vacation or summer outfits from either PLT, Fashion Nova, Zara, Princess Polly, or white fox please you literally always have the best stuff.
Sending this video to the girls group chat 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
That conversation at the end is what people need to hear
but sis we need the nail tutorial! My first thought when seeing this video lol since I saw your nails! Love them!
Girllll, PRESS ONS!!! lol from target! Then i do a gel base coat and top coat to make them look like i left the salon lmaoo. I haven't done my nails in weeks because this is just sooo easy and saves me so much time.
Yaaaaaaaaaas!
Nail tutorials maybe for TikTok content. I know you said press ons. But you make them look good. 😫
Your so beautiful girl love your content and personality!! Make more reels of you getting dressed or anything your gonna go viral! Or do a weekly vlog 💗
Aja I started following you because your fashion, hauls and your chit chat gram’s. I would love to see more of your party planning content, mommy things and shop with me at target,etc.
Added these videos to my notepad! Thank you!
Don't you dare beat yourself up bcs you have a lot on your plate. You are Aja first, and Aja has needs, then a mom, daughter, and friend etc. That is a lot right there. Take your time. I am looking fwd to all the new house decor. Maybe some vlog ideas, staple pieces, body image and how you deal w problem areas, weight gain vs weight loss, budgeting, cooking plus maybe a few kids events. You are creative this is just a bump in the road but the road goes on like growing pains. You will be fine and we will keep watching. Take it easy on yourself! Happy Mother's Day!❤❤❤❤
P.S. I'm a small RUclipsr wait I will not own "small" but I vlog and work full time. Both of my kids are grown but I am active in both of their lives. It can be a struggle but we have to keep pushing! ❤
Thank you for this Aja 😢 I ended this video in tears. This girl chat was needed for sure.
This whole video>>. Everything you said was spot on! PREACH.
Love your transparency here. I don’t ever miss a video of yours, your personality reminds me of mine and I absolutely love that you’re so transparent and authentic. The words you spoke about superficial lifestyles and social media resonated with me so deeply. Don’t stop the content babes, you’re killin it whether the numbers show it or not. Don’t give up!💕
Hi, Aja, Happy Mothers Day, you show so much kindness, patience, loving care toward
your children, this is a gift from God, Never let no one judge you, and also please keep your mind
in perfect peace, for no depression to try to attack your mind . Love ya
Spitting FACTS, I loved this girl chat so much. I love to see how you can relate to us ❤
This whole video was so real! This is why I will alwayssssss be a subscriber to you! Feel like I’m talking to my bestie! lol
Ajá i love content please never stop your so relatable and should create a group chat for the girlies ❤
🤍 omg a group chat where!! Instagram?!
Hey love ! definitely do more fashion videos for sure …. such as monthly favorites, basics must haves , look books , wardrobe accessories, must have shoes ❤
Thank you for keeping it real and staying true to yourself. ❤And idc nothing about no tictok you stay right here!!!!
Thank YOU for watching!
@ajanarie My pleasure, love ❤️ your channel
I’m always going to love you Aja! You’re real life relatable for me and I’m going to make sure I watch every video and like every picture. I’m a lifer!!
I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH
You pulled me in from the intro snip!! Right here with you!
Hey girl !!!
Could you do a vacation wear haul? Cute fits to wear this summer or around a resort, etc
I need a jewelry haul and styling video because your jewelry in this video is amazing 😍😍
I’m 30 and I struggle with this, “image” is powerful. But you right sis I like my money where I can see it too.
Love these types of videos from you. Please don’t feel the pressure that you always have to produce movie length vlogs while I do enjoy them these sit downs are also welcomed.
I would loveee to see your wardrobe staples!💞 Spring/summer and maybe in the future fall/winter.
you were preaching in this video. i started tearing up lol. love you aja 🩷
Hey girl! Really enjoyed watching your video. Love how you’re so transparent!
I appreciate you so much!
Needed this babe! The social pressures have definitely been getting to me lately 😊
So happy you resonated!!
please do an oura ring review !
Yessss! So much of what you shared resonated with me! I feel like I’ve been talking myself down a lot from feeling like I’m behind based on what I see from others on social media!
It's soooo normal in this day and age. It truly sucks
Hey Aja! I had to comment before i start watching lol. I'll be back after the video
I appreciate your transparency 🫶🏾
I’m an an Aries and I just started back talking to my boo from my early teens ..10years later here we are back talking 😂
Hey, I would love to see fav monthly products, grocery store & retail hauls. Like getting your nails done, etc. fav perfumes..room tours. Organization hauls. I think this could help..
Definitely plan to do some organization and clothing hauls!
Listennnnnnn!!!!!! This was so real sis i laughed so hard cos spun the block couple times cos i needed the “fix”😂😂 safe space right. But i always love your realness❤️
This was the conversation my mental health desperately needed. 💗
Have you thought about joining a management company? I think it will help you grow even more. Love you content since day 1😊
Ides for fashion content: Date night outfits for different event (Movies, going out to eat, family dinner etc), 5-10 pieces every girl needs this spring/summer, vacation outfits. Love your content keep going! Been watching you for years. The makeup is eating here.
Thank you!! Added these to my notepad!! & love you!!!
RUclips doesn’t notify me when u post. I thought you stopped making videos and you finally showed up on the Home Screen.
Can you do a Miami try on haul or look book? I’m going soon but I’m struggling to make a vibe
yes on this economy... you hit everything on the head! 🤍
I use to spin the block and I say hell no! If we make it past the break up and the relationship was done done then it can stay done 😅😂 I also have to remind myself often that comparison is the thief of joy. You are here to live your life and you got to love (the ups and downs)
Omg I haven’t seen you in a minute!! Aw thanks for sharing- May is Mental Health Awareness Month!! Hope you’re feeling better!! You got this! Xo
love your videos, maybe try doing new things! You’re really good at party planning, DIY, decorating. Maybe incorporating these things. And more look books.
been following u for years and though you’re multifaceted i loveeee your fashion content. personally i think it would go crazy on tiktok if you posted on there
I enjoy all your videos Aja. I would like to see cooking videos, what you eat in a day, what are your top 10 go to items (no specific category).Have you considered having mgmt or doing collabs to help grow your channel? I think you put out good mix and relatable contents and you should be closer to 100k or more.stay the course and your recognition willcome.
I miss your hauls so much!!!!!
Aja I loveeeee this video so much! I hope the comments make you happy and to keep going we love you girl 🫶🏾😍
They definitely did. I love you guys soooo much!
Aja!!! Missed seeing you pop up on my feed. I think the biggest thing is consistency right now. This is a world where people are posting EVERYDAY ( not saying you should post that much) but maybe a few times a week ? Post on your stories everyday so we see you & keep interest. Would love to see you post more on Instagram too! I love TikTok but I LOVE your pictures on ig. Post more looks, fashion, family vlogs! We love the kids. Xoxo I enjoyed this vid.
Hey my girl! Always so happy to see a new video from you especially a lil chit chat
Thanks girl!!
this is why i love you 🥺🩷
Love you more!
So right I want to see my Money and it’s a blessing to be able to go home ❤😊
The video we much needed love these chit chat videos ❤
*critical criticism*
I’ve been subscribed to you for a few years now but admittedly I haven’t been watching bc the content did get repetitive. When I last watched, I think we didn’t see much of anything new in your life. However, I did enjoy this video and your transparency (I clicked bc of the title).
I think TikToks and moving/new home content would be something that propels you forward a lot. Best of luck and I hope to watch in the future!
This chat was on pt. I def just got the en route chain (along with a couple of other things). Thanks for influencing me 🤑!
Girl, love kollens jewelry!!! Thank yiu
Aja u are a real one❤️ fr
I looooove your clothing hauls anything fashion.
I saw you putting hearts on my cousin’s ig pics lol I wondered if y’all had a thing and thought you guys were cute if you did have a thing at one point lol. ❤❤ I love your content Aja!
LMAO OMGGGG WHOOOOOOOOOOO
Happy Mother’s Day in advance 💐💐💕💕Have a wonderful weekend.
Glad you are feeling better❤❤
Girl you on God’s payroll with this video! ❤
🥹🥹🥹🥹 i think they may be the sweetest comment
Such a great girl chat 💁🏾♀️
Such a great video! Love the realness of the sit down chats... Baby ain't nobody forcing me into a high ass rent or car note just to appease the socials🙅🏾♀️ Not happening. I barely can afford myself😭😭
Lmfao girl i gag at the price of butter & chicken wings! Ima go on and live my lil life ok
You let me know when you can find a braider that’s reasonable in Philly since I’m from there too.. you continue to push through and keep praying the ideas will come. The concept will come. Everything will come in God time… I’m so happy to see you grow. I found you one day going through RUclips you were talking about being 17. I believe I’ve been following you since Harper was four or five I think… ❤
Love your vlogs omg❤
I have definitely spun the block... and I'll do it again lol
Hey girl! Firstly, love you! I’m in Philly now and l love when you go out and recommend places to go because I’m not from here. One recommendation on vlogs it would be great to see you outside of the car. Like you drive to target then leave us in the car while you’re in target. Take us with you. Styling videos would be nice as well!
NOTED!!! It be so chaotic with the kids but will def bring yall with me
THIS IS SOOOO GOOD❤
21:12 WHEWWWW I’m watching this as I do my own braids bc what I look like paying $500 for boho braids??? Baby we got boho braids at home 😩🤣
I recommend short form even though you don’t necessarily like consuming it
I consume it a lot! I definitely plan to branch into it and stop being so hard on myself
@@ajanarie I would definitely watch for sure
Hey boo. You look so pretty as usual. I feel like I actually know you and you’re my lil sis. I found you years ago b/c I was looking for fashion vlogs.
I LOVE your content. Now I know you seen me (maybe others) ask for a closet organization video 😂. I want to see the goods! Other videos you could do are declutter, clean with me, you can do voice over/sped up. I love watching those. They help me get motivated to clean when I’m feeling hella lazy. You know folks love shorts, so even if you don’t do Tik Tok; post on YT shorts. Do some bestie Q&A w/Steph if she’s down.
As a mom of 2 I get it, sis we TIRED. But you’ve come this far.
Aaayye you read my statement/question last. But the pressure be REAL.
I don’t believe in spinning the block unless God came to me himself and said do it.
What some forget is that everything you have is a a flex to someone. A home, a car, going on vacation. There are folks who can’t do that, don’t have that. Always have to keep that in mind to not beat yourself up. And I’m speaking for myself. It’s hard NOT to be hard on yourself.
Aja can you please just start a podcasty video situation like girl I can listen to you go in on a topic alllll day
Girl u know it's on my bucket list!!! lol i swear i might set up a lil corner for it at the new house
@@ajanarie yes, yes absolutely do it!💕
You have to do storytimes, that’s where a lot of people’s subscribers come from. At least that’s how it is for me. People love being nosy and hearing about other people’s business so you have to do what you have to do to get to where you wanna be. Don’t give them too much though lol. Another Philly youtuber!
I’m here for you ❤
Love this video ❤❤❤
It’s mah boo 🤗💕 Hey gworl. It’s the tan for me mamas ☀️
Thank you!! Hey girl heyyyyy
My fav,,, AJA! ❤️
One I want to start off by saying that I enjoy your content and I been watching from the start. As for you not growing, I feel as though you can be inconsistent….this is an algorithm platform, you have to feed not only your supporters but the algorithm. Also, though I love your content….you come off superficial sometimes and the conversation gives off trying too hard but not trying too hard while bragging but not tryna brag if that makes sense lol. For example when you were talking about losing the camera once and how the guy you were on FaceTime was walking down the aisle on the airplane and all the extra unnecessary details. Your conversations are also about material, men, men with money…and it become redundant and hard to relate to. Be authentic and transparent if you want to grow on these platforms. You can’t try to act as if you are on Aaliyah j or Sunny’s level when they have been transparent and authentically themselves, if all you have to offer is conversations about a man with money….I think your channel will continue to be a slow grower. I feel like you have the potential, but it’s like you are putting on the pretentious act. Another bone I have to pick is that I feel like you are hiding your blackness or at least claiming it…I know Teisha and your uncle and all…they are black and always claimed to be black…and being black is to be mixed as well so let’s not talk that Spanish stuff. Never the less I want you to win, you have so much potential, just be your authentic self. Sorry for the book girly I just want to see you grow and I feel like those are some stand outs.
I am inconsistent! That's my own fault that i always own up too, but considering i do everything alone and am raising two kids not considering the outside things i go thru, yes sometimes the last thing i ever want to do is pick up a camera. & that's ok to me. I don't see much growth but im very content with the audience i do have because they love me and my kids.
Pertaining to being superficial. I can see why someone would assume that but im also just a lighthearted person that doesn't think to deep into things, so maybe what i do/say comes off as "superficial" bc its honestly a lot of things i never care to bring to the internet and there's others that people don't care about. I don't necessarily think i brag, bc i have nothing to brag about in my opinion. I cut so much footage out that maybe the stuff i tend to keep is the same stuff u would trash? All about perspective. But i am reading this with open arms! Also i don't recall the scenario you mentioned lol.
I can see why u say it's redundant. But surprisingly when i open my IG to topics people want me to discuss, that's all they want to hear or being a single mom. So if you have alternative topics you would like for me to touch on, please share.
Regarding Aaliyah & sunny, love them both! But never tried to act on their level a day in my life bc i don't compare myself to other creators. Especially creators like Aaliyah that i was watching on YT 10 years ago. I cannot compete where i don't compare lol. I talk about far more than men with money lmao, again while it may be in some chit chats, i pull all the conversations from TikTok controversies that make me ponder. I don't sit around thinking about it.
Regarding my family.. if you "know" my family, you should know why I don't discuss my family. So i think that's corny to say. Since "u know my uncle"... it's some shit that shouldn't be brought to the internet and those family aspects are some! I've never in my life not claimed my blackness, and never have i ran around saying I'm Spanish cause let's BFFR I'm like a dash of Spanish which doesn't count TO ME. I always say I'm Cambodian and black. I infact look it and never tried to hide it. Do i talk about my Cambodian roots often? Yes, because that's the family i grew up with most. Clearly you should know that I've never been close with my mom's side and till this day don't communicate with them. So i think your reach that you know my family is offfff by a long shot lol. And if u know my mom, u would know while i can air out my own dirty laundry on the internet, my mom would prefer me not drag my family into it. So i protect everybody's privacy.
I appreciate the criticism & have taken note of it with an open heart. Thanks girl.
Baby yessssss a classy Philly let me get her together moment. I love it lol.
But to be clear I meant no disrespect in anything I mentioned. I am just a fan and I really want to see you win.
Maybe you should source out a manager, or an editor or someone to help lessen your burden because as you mentioned you are a full time mother.
I feel you and your content thrives when you are showcasing you as a mother, when you do your cooking stuff, we love a good cherry hill run, I love seeing the dynamic with you Jay and Steph etc.
I feel the chitchat videos could be a time to get into more in depth convos, not surface material topics. Something meaningful and from the heart. Look at how well your initial 17 and pregnant story took off… because you were so raw and open. Could talk about your journey as a mother, you and the gym, mental health, etc ya know?
Idk girly, I just wanna see you win. My apologies on mentions of the fam. I just found it as a disconnect how you mention being Asian/ Cambodian and nothing about black when at times you look like a black girl with a lil almond shape eye.. and times you look more Cambodian and then times it’s like this girl is clearly blasian… so like embrace that ya know? But again my apologies. And on that note…you pretty than a mf hos be lookin okayyy
LMAOO THE DANCING MEN ON TIKTOK IS TOOO SASSY
Hey Aja! Have you considered management? I’ve seen creators grow when doing so.. they push for brand deals and campaigns too! I would love to see more style Reels of you and the kids.. maybe shorts on here? Like dressed and day in the lives out. I think those little Reels will definitely help you grow. Anyway you’re doing great nonetheless! I love the recent consistency 🤍🤍🤍
Yes i have! I've been trying to source a management team that's best for me. & noted!!' Thank you
Loved that you touched other qualities in a guy besides being able to provide financially, and how much of a blessing it is to return home if needed 🤍
Thank you!
Lol I can’t with men that dance, period.😂 & the tiktok comedians plssssss
I felt ALL of this! TikTok can be overwhelming, it takes just as much effort as RUclips. But I feel like I prefer RUclips because the DEMAND is lower for consumers, meaning people will wait a whole week to get a vlog vs. posting once a day on TikTok, people expect that consistency. And when it comes to us who have kids, it’s ALOT. I can def tell when my TikToks lose their juice bc I had a long week, and my energy is just GONE. I hate showing up like that, and dont feel like talking. RUclips I can have a bad day and it wont affect the vlog entirely bc I have 5-6 other days to get it together, you know?
Yes to all of this!!!!! And i feel like tiktok u have to but your funny spunky self bc if your just like "we went to the mall, we ate dinner" it's like girl no shit lmaoo
@@ajanarie RIGHT! Lol like on here we can just exist, chat, it’s less editing. The way i scroll past so many videos on TikTok now, it’s not hitting the way it used too. But longer videos, I can sit and watch or have playing while I do other things. You, Allyiah, Kirah be on repeat. Also watching people that are my age hits different too, like 28+. I love the younger TikTok creators but im starting to relate less bc we’re just at different places in life.
Love your channel ❤
I love you! 🫶🏽
Well said! 👏🏼
Short form content doesn’t even have to be edited. Just post what you’re wearing or what you’re doing!
Yes i plan to def do OOTDs and hauls on TikTok!! Especially now that it's warm and i get dressed more