Yeah it's the principle not the food, it did sound trivial and cheap but that's the way the show put it across but I could see where the girl was coming from. At the same time she should stand up for herself more, she's obviously too timid to mention things like this when they are alone
MrSustainableVegas It's possible, but not likely. If she was in a difficult situation, she should have talked to the roommate about it. But since the roommate brought it up to the show, either she is not in a difficult situation or she has not told the roommate, in which case is also her fault to expect someone to understand without telling them why they should understand.
MrSustainableVegas They both buy equal amounts of food, eg whole pizzas or chickens, that is more than enough for one person, she's just greedy and disrespectful. Also, it is incredibly petty of her to eat others food if she is poor, at least ask first.
As I was watching the third concern I couldn't help to feel angry. That roommate looked shameless and her facial expressions were grinding on my nerves. It was like she was annoyed to find that as a concern, that she should eat whatever she wants because she's hungry as she nodded her head when the elderly man said that he sided with the roommate. The fact that she went through her roommate's closet and found food, ate it just shows that she lacks respect. They are boundaries as a roommate and if something is hidden I think it's pretty obvious she wanted to eat it herself. Also, how can she say that she hates frozen food, but eats hers? The one with the concern bought them for herself and I felt so sad when the roommate ate/drank what the one with concern's mother gave her. How is it possible that she thinks it's for her? No one cares that deeply for another person's daughter, especially since their own daughter is a frequent patient at the hospital. I could be greedy when it comes to food, but I know where my lines are. I always ask if I could eat what's not mine first and if I permission I eat it, if I don't; I put it back. The roommate needs to learn about manners, respect and boundaries. This concern annoyed the hell out of me.
Jubi omg you took the words right out of my mouth. I can’t even believe they were saying she should just back down from that. Even the mini captions said she should be grateful. I feel bad that they took it lightly.
You can see different kinds of shameless and toxic people in every episode of this show tbh and it's disturbing how they laugh off or downplay some of the cases like this one.
i dont like the way they try to solve the second concern. it's his personality, and that is his comfortable form. they shouldnt be telling him to change, theres nothing wrong with guys being feminine. what they should have said, is that teasing someone because of that is wrong, and its not nice for the person being teased That is bullying
You've got the wrong end of the stick, the reason they say that to him and others who come on in similar situations is because they are the ones who have come saying its a concern for them. That's why I think his concern was abit naff, like if you're not willing to change yourself to fix what others don't like about you then stay who you are and don't care about them but he obviously cares that's why he came on the show yet he doesn't want to change. I know he's young but people like that annoy me. Plus he's so fixated on not changing because he wants to be a trot singer and thinks trying to be masculine will ruin that but he's clearly forgotten something...puberty, his voice is going to change whether he likes it or not so I don't see why he can't be flexible....it's not like there are no male trot singers...how frustrating
They actually never told him to change, they wanted him to try different stuff so he can get close to the boys in school, that was a suggestion for a solution since his concern was that the boys avoid him for being feminine. He should try out other activities, then maybe he'd get some guy friends.
I agree. And I knew as soon as I heard the concern that it was not going to be handled correctly. That kid is great and I hope he continues to be himself as he grows up. Maybe Korea will grow up with him.
Hwanhee is so goodlooking i wished he could talk more with his manly voice The 'girly'' boy has some good friends beside him and his parents he could come far with his bright personality
I love the way Wheesung is so welcoming to the guests....he seems so friendly :) Or am i the only one who noticed? He is more on the touchy side...and trust me that is RARE in korea haha
honestly the friend in the second concern gives me life xD I died of laughter so many times when he kept bringing up that he keeps treating him. I'm sorry I laughed, its funny XD
I understand the girl of the last concern a little bit. Sometimes I feel like my friends don't really like me and don't enjoy spending time with me. They text each other all the time, but rarely send anything to me. And there are situations when they go out and don't invite me to go with them.. But then when we meet they are very nice to me.. Sigh.
Yes...I can relate to her. And your situation is exactly like mine. They rarely do things together with me or invite me but they treat me really nice. I kept wondering do they really include me as their bestfriend or just a good friend. At the same time I do feel guilty like her for being depressed over little things.
smiley hottest I can update you on my situation. So since we graduated we almost haven't contacted each other. Maybe 2 times only lol.. So I think that if people treat you this way, they don't think of you as a good friend
Me too I always feel like people don't care about me I actually have depression, so that's probably the reason, but it's so frustrating, because I feel lonely, but only isolate myself more because I feel like there's no point in meeting people that don't really care about me...
@@amidreaming333I understand how you feel so much these days i realised that the best friend we could have is Jesus readind the bible is so comforting I will pray for you that you find friends fighting !
The girl was probably just being polite by asking her mom if she needed help, she seems like a smart kid and noticed her mom was busy and could need some help. And obivoulsy kids get given chores and there is nothing wrong with that.. but I think it's a bit selfish to have more kids if you can't even find time to take care of them or do some chores yourself.
I think the mother was a bit too selfish to let her 12-year-old daughter to do a lot of houseworks eventhough the kids at her age should live as kids and have some fun time with her friends. She also doesn't call her daughter's name nicely when she want her to do something.
The feminine boy - I WANNA BE FRIENDS WITH YOU!!! but it could be awkward coz I'm waaaaaaay older than you lol. You are a cool dude~! I would also like to make friends with FLY TO THE SKY ;) ;) lol. They're sooo handsome OMG.
The boy of the 2nd concern is so sassy and fabulous! I would love to be friends with him omg. His looks remind me of Rockhyun of 100% but his gestures and the way he talks reminds me of Infinite's Sungjong. It's so cute! People are so mean nowadays!
aw cameraman is bullying wheesung I can tell he's nervous yet they keep focusing only on him like the other guests aren't there... that, or camerman fell in love w him too c;
Idk why but my tears r falling while listening to the 1st concern, seriously, If I had a daughter like her, I wouldn't want anything else in the world. I don't like the fact she said "I dont have mom", no one ever complimented her so she don't know how to compliment her kids. Whatever she been thru in the past and doesn't matter how hard it is, she still can't make her daughter to experience the same as her. The fact that her daughter asked her "Mom, do you need help?" already maker her a good daughter and independent. Kids these days aren't like that anymore or rare and she only like what? 5 yrs old girl. If she proud of her daughter then be nice to her, she not your maid. Jeasuss!
Even I'm mad at that roommate!!! Even if she's nice, doesn't mean you should take advantage of it. And why in the world would you think that her parents made the rice drink for you? You're not their daughter and you're not in the center of the world either! Consider others' feelings before yours!
Wow, Wheesung's new song sounds so good! Love it. The first concern the little girl is really cute and the brown hair matches her skintone so well. :D The second concern with the trot singer boy. He's so fun and seriously must be a joy to be around. His bright energy is definitely fabulous.
hahaha i love that little boy, hahaha he's so adorable, I would love to be his friend, what's wrong with kids? i bet it is a lot of fun hanging out with him :D
I relate so much with the last concern, being an only child myself I had a hard time trying to get closer to other people that weren't my family members. I'm lucky that I've found those few friends who are really patient with me. It take time for someone like her to really open up, I just hope her friends will be patient enough and be a good support so she can over come her timidness.
+shawolarmysone exolbestfriend I want to be friends with him *and* the other two. They were so fun in answering. And later, when the only daughter was also buying food to get friends, they were giggling together :D
27:56 You know these kids are going to be funny from the get go haha 52:01 Wheesung is just too cute! 53:45 I don't know if I should laugh because Wheesung is so adorable or because this concern is getting more and more ridiculous LOL
The girl in the last concern is like me. I understand her. It's not like she wants to be like that. She just has a weak heart. I was shaking while watching bcs she really is like me. I even move school because of that problem. It's painful you know.
Yeah same. :/ When my friends exclude me in their activities, conversations, and/or jokes, I always assume that they hate me. I get jealous really easily too, and no matter how hard I try to stay positive, I always end up feeling depressed. It's not an easy thing to overcome.
Omg reading your guys comments makes me so happy that I'm not the only one that felt this way. I mean I can really relate to that girl I'm exactly like her my friend all go out together but I usually stay at home...But no I feel at least a bit better after watching her concern ^.^
OMG! I'm exactly like that too. I know I am, but when I start geting upset I just cant control my sadness and all the bad thoughts. :( let's start a club.
I think her friends are jerks. She needs to find better friends who won't exclude her or tease her or make her feel like she's not truly one of them. :/
munseok is still young.he has a long way ahead of him to find his identity.. most people who got bullied but still manage to be positive and be happy have bigger chances to be great in the future.i wish this kid all the best!😊
I hate how munseok's family kept telling him to change. He doesn't need to change for other people, but become happy with himself the way he is. Kids are mean, but things will eventually change, and he can find people who will accept him for who he is. That can't happen if he hides his true self.
thats the worst advice ever he is not like that naturally didn't he just say after signing feminine trot songs he became like this as for his family it's there duty to guide him to the right path and remind him who he is originally which is a male coz it will be easier as long he is young before he becomes older and it gets complicated
+Nada Fateen wake up, it's almost 2016. Gender roles are a thing of the past. If someone genuinely enjoys doing somthing that doesn't hurt anyone eles, LET THEM BE HAPPY
+Alli am what if it's 2016 what's wrong stays wrong no matter what time it is am not saying to force him they can at least try their best coz at the end of the day he is the one who is going to of suffer his parents should help him as long as they are able to and if they faild than thats another story
I hate people who act they want happiness for others when they are only satisfying their own agendas. That kid's gestures will bring him a lot of problems especially in Korea. If this is considered worth bullying in America which is waaay more open than Korea then imagine how hard will it be for him. He can stay bright and funny without being feminine.
I'm sorry, but can't some people be a little more respectful to Youngja? I understand that she gets this a lot and it's more of a joke but sometimes people really take it too far. Especially when they aren't very close to her. She is human and shouldn't be treated in this manner and the worse part is that she's use to it, people shouldn't get use to disrespectful behaviour.
I know what u mean. She probably hasnt gone a day without someone making a jab at her weight/ body image. It's really sad but i think shes so used to it and it has become her way of income, so she sometimes even puts herself down. But, i think she's comfortable as she is and i like her for that.
a personality is more complex then anything else in a person, who you are the things that are important to you and how you react to different situation, political view everything that makes up a personality exist in the front lob so just utter interference isn't going to be able to change that guy's way of being since its biological. They should make sure to tell him its not his fault for being bullied.
The last concern, I'd die if had a friend like that it's like walking on egg shells at every turn, if am being honest I think I'd exclude her more because of that I don't understand why she can't reason that if he friends haven't deserted her by now they must really genuinely like her. I wouldn't encourage a boyfriend just yet, someone please think of the poor sod hell end up sending in a concern too about her being clingy. She has low self esteem but also a tad narcissistic because she wants the world to revolve around her and if it doesn't then she takes it personally
Ikr... I was in a group of friends in college with this kind of girl too. She's too sensitive. We even rarely teased her. Once she got mad at 2 of my friends because when three of us left her I was the only one waved goodbye. Can you imagine someone ggave you silent treatment for not waving you goodbye for daily routine, like, tomorrow we'll meet again at school, dude! Imagine if she has a boyfriend who forgot to texted her at lunchtime.
The kid in the 2nd concern , I swear sounds exactly like Sungjong (Infinite) . I love his personality , he shouldn't be ashamed on who he really is nor take what people say about him . He's so sassy . More sassier than me , AND I'M A FEMALE lolol xD
The second concern, i am so amazed that he doesn't cry when i'm the viewer, crying like a river. I really don't understand people. Why must they judge him? I mean, he can be whatever he wants to. Don't need to say those harsh words even if they doesn't like him. I've a guy friend like him and the guys around him do friends with him. So i hope he won't give up trying and people will understand him more. The last concern, i kind of understand her feelings because i'm sensitive too. But not as bad as her. Now that she's known the reason behind her friend's actions, I know she can think positively after this. Try harder okay? I believe you can do it. Fighting! Thanks kbs for uploading this. Been missing the show a lot.
Just hearing the 1st concern sounded exactly like childhood; the even the age gap, the mom asking for water, the bellydancing (though I did real bellydancing). I started learning at the age of 9. When the baby called her mom, that killed me. My baby brother used to call me 'mama' until he was 5. By the time I was 14, I was also paying all the household bills. On top of all of that, I had to maintain at least an 2.9 GPA. My mother also said it was because I liked it. Such crap.
The boy in the second concern seems so genuine and fun! I hate how in Korean culture men need to be "masculine". It should be acceptable to act in any way, feminine or masculine or whatever else! Honestly, kids like him are the ones who grow up to be amazingly talented and bright. It sucks that no one brought up the fact that what he was being treated like at school was straight up bullying and harassment. I hope he grows more confident and people open up to him more! Also, there are many people in the idol industry who act feminine (Key and JoKwon in particular). And whenever those two are on a show, I feel like it's more fun and energetic.
For the first concern, i believe that the girl will definitely thank her mom in the future...I also hated to do housework and take care of my sisters when I was younger but now every house work seems easy to me...well thanks mom for being hard on me back then..:D
After reading the comments, I am so thankful that I'm not the only one who is like the girl from the last concern! I felt hurt just by watching that concern because my friends treat me that way too..
I learned to do my own laundry (sorting, washing, drying, folding) when I was about 7 years old but I did NOT do the entire families laundry or things like towels. Only my own clothes. Beyond that is a bit excessive to *expect* from a child. For a child to *help* is normal when asked. I was never charged with watching siblings, cooking meals, or changing diapers however. That sounds like a lazy or misguided mother to me.
Somin is so pretty inside and outside. Her mom should really grateful had daughter like her. She didn't ask much from her mom, just compliments her well and not fold the laundry anymore. She didn't ask expensive gift or something like that. Somin~~naaa stay strong and wish u didn't lost the fun being youth. The third concern, it's not just about food but respect.
PSA: just for those who don't know, gender has nothing to do with sexuality. The boy in the second concern could very well be straight, just because he has aspects of the societal definition of the female gender does not mean he's gay. He's still a guy who does not conform fully into the male gender role. And no I'm not saying he's transgendered either. That's completely different from this kid.
haha I love the kid from the 2nd concern he's sooo funny! I would love to have a friend like him :) I feel disappointed in the guys that avoid him just because he's a bit feminine I mean I swear almost all korean guys are like homophobes even the younger generation even though they should have a more open mind than the older generation! The chubby girl from the 3rd concern that keeps eating her food kind of pisses me off I mean I'm pretty sure she would be more pissed off than her roommate if it was the other way around. Even though it may seem like something petty sending in a concern about her roommate stealing food but I get so angry when someone steals my food I get them to buy it for me again or else I start annoying them :P It makes perfect sense that if she's going to eat more than she should pay more for it otherwise it's like she's just leeching off her roommate a bit.
the feminine boy.. he's not asking for advice to be masculine he's accepted himself and likes the way he is thats his personality he wants people to accept it... he doesn't see himself as weird -like how they see him- he finds THEM weird for thinking that. knowing and understanding your personality and accepting it at that age is really good most people go through life not knowing who they are and search for their identity. to him he's already found it good for him !
I SERIOUSLY LOVE THAT BOY FROM THE 2ND CONCERN. He's so fun and CUTE!!!!!!! He kinda reminds me of my K-Pop bias. I usually like this type of guys. Why even.
I think I understand the last concern. Sometimes I also feel that I don't belong in the group when I'm with my friends but I try my best so that they'll remember that I'm also there with them and I think it works, sometimes. I'm trying my best to think positively.
The forth concert related to me... My four best friends and one of them is easy to upset . I hope she doesn't feel this way any more... Let's be close forever...
the first concern mother is totally wrong, she doesn't grow up with her mother compliments doesnt mean her daughter is must grow like her too.. the mother grow up with do all chores at home, doesn't mean her daughter must grow like her too.. feel bad for the lill girl :(
that little boy is FABULOUS and I LOVE IT!
I agree, the people who avoid him are the 'weird' ones...
As good as Jo Kwon.
arickaleeann Yes he is ! Aaaaw
+arickaleeann He is just so cute~~ I can't~~
Yup he so cute !!
I totally understand the roommate concern. It's not about the amount of food consumed, it's about respect.
Yeah it's the principle not the food, it did sound trivial and cheap but that's the way the show put it across but I could see where the girl was coming from. At the same time she should stand up for herself more, she's obviously too timid to mention things like this when they are alone
Have you ever thought that the roommate is having financial difficulties and can't afford to buy a lot of food....
MrSustainableVegas It's possible, but not likely. If she was in a difficult situation, she should have talked to the roommate about it. But since the roommate brought it up to the show, either she is not in a difficult situation or she has not told the roommate, in which case is also her fault to expect someone to understand without telling them why they should understand.
MrSustainableVegas They both buy equal amounts of food, eg whole pizzas or chickens, that is more than enough for one person, she's just greedy and disrespectful. Also, it is incredibly petty of her to eat others food if she is poor, at least ask first.
Don't get me wrong. The roommate is pretty, but I can see in her figure that she's been greedy with food.
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the second concern that boy IS SO FREAKIN CUTEE OMFG
As I was watching the third concern I couldn't help to feel angry. That roommate looked shameless and her facial expressions were grinding on my nerves. It was like she was annoyed to find that as a concern, that she should eat whatever she wants because she's hungry as she nodded her head when the elderly man said that he sided with the roommate. The fact that she went through her roommate's closet and found food, ate it just shows that she lacks respect. They are boundaries as a roommate and if something is hidden I think it's pretty obvious she wanted to eat it herself. Also, how can she say that she hates frozen food, but eats hers? The one with the concern bought them for herself and I felt so sad when the roommate ate/drank what the one with concern's mother gave her. How is it possible that she thinks it's for her? No one cares that deeply for another person's daughter, especially since their own daughter is a frequent patient at the hospital. I could be greedy when it comes to food, but I know where my lines are. I always ask if I could eat what's not mine first and if I permission I eat it, if I don't; I put it back. The roommate needs to learn about manners, respect and boundaries. This concern annoyed the hell out of me.
Jubi omg you took the words right out of my mouth. I can’t even believe they were saying she should just back down from that. Even the mini captions said she should be grateful. I feel bad that they took it lightly.
You can see different kinds of shameless and toxic people in every episode of this show tbh and it's disturbing how they laugh off or downplay some of the cases like this one.
i dont like the way they try to solve the second concern.
it's his personality, and that is his comfortable form. they shouldnt be telling him to change, theres nothing wrong with guys being feminine.
what they should have said, is that teasing someone because of that is wrong, and its not nice for the person being teased
That is bullying
South Korea is a very homophobic country,even tho they dont know how many gays they have in their country
Bilal FLY
that is very true
but being feminine doesnt equal homosexuality, which i think, regardless of the country, every one should know
You've got the wrong end of the stick, the reason they say that to him and others who come on in similar situations is because they are the ones who have come saying its a concern for them. That's why I think his concern was abit naff, like if you're not willing to change yourself to fix what others don't like about you then stay who you are and don't care about them but he obviously cares that's why he came on the show yet he doesn't want to change. I know he's young but people like that annoy me. Plus he's so fixated on not changing because he wants to be a trot singer and thinks trying to be masculine will ruin that but he's clearly forgotten something...puberty, his voice is going to change whether he likes it or not so I don't see why he can't be flexible....it's not like there are no male trot singers...how frustrating
They actually never told him to change, they wanted him to try different stuff so he can get close to the boys in school, that was a suggestion for a solution since his concern was that the boys avoid him for being feminine. He should try out other activities, then maybe he'd get some guy friends.
I agree. And I knew as soon as I heard the concern that it was not going to be handled correctly. That kid is great and I hope he continues to be himself as he grows up. Maybe Korea will grow up with him.
Hwanhee is so goodlooking i wished he could talk more with his manly voice
The 'girly'' boy has some good friends beside him and his parents he could come far with his bright personality
I love the way Wheesung is so welcoming to the guests....he seems so friendly :) Or am i the only one who noticed? He is more on the touchy side...and trust me that is RARE in korea haha
i think i just fell in love with wheesung... lol
Me too LOL his song and overall presence got me. haha
me too
LOL I'm glad to know I'm the only one..... now I'll go haunt him down.
+dharsh_kwon I been in love with him in years :'( hahahah
+dharsh_kwon Oh god I know. I've fell so hard for him.. He is so caring for that little girl. Ahhh he makes my heart melt hahaa ^.^
honestly the friend in the second concern gives me life xD I died of laughter so many times when he kept bringing up that he keeps treating him. I'm sorry I laughed, its funny XD
The boy at the second concern was fab XD I hope he can just ignore what their guy friends said
The first girl has a nice hair colour
lol I was thinking the same, I want her hair
I understand the girl of the last concern a little bit. Sometimes I feel like my friends don't really like me and don't enjoy spending time with me. They text each other all the time, but rarely send anything to me. And there are situations when they go out and don't invite me to go with them.. But then when we meet they are very nice to me.. Sigh.
Yes...I can relate to her. And your situation is exactly like mine. They rarely do things together with me or invite me but they treat me really nice. I kept wondering do they really include me as their bestfriend or just a good friend. At the same time I do feel guilty like her for being depressed over little things.
smiley hottest I can update you on my situation. So since we graduated we almost haven't contacted each other. Maybe 2 times only lol.. So I think that if people treat you this way, they don't think of you as a good friend
Me too I always feel like people don't care about me I actually have depression, so that's probably the reason, but it's so frustrating, because I feel lonely, but only isolate myself more because I feel like there's no point in meeting people that don't really care about me...
@@amidreaming333I understand how you feel so much these days i realised that the best friend we could have is Jesus readind the bible is so comforting I will pray for you that you find friends fighting !
The girl was probably just being polite by asking her mom if she needed help, she seems like a smart kid and noticed her mom was busy and could need some help. And obivoulsy kids get given chores and there is nothing wrong with that.. but I think it's a bit selfish to have more kids if you can't even find time to take care of them or do some chores yourself.
I think the mother was a bit too selfish to let her 12-year-old daughter to do a lot of houseworks eventhough the kids at her age should live as kids and have some fun time with her friends. She also doesn't call her daughter's name nicely when she want her to do something.
This episodes concern's are really light...
the first girl, i think SM would like to scout her to be idol in the future :)) she's pretty and talented.
It's a concern, no one takes my food. It's mine!
The feminine boy - I WANNA BE FRIENDS WITH YOU!!! but it could be awkward coz I'm waaaaaaay older than you lol. You are a cool dude~! I would also like to make friends with FLY TO THE SKY ;) ;) lol. They're sooo handsome OMG.
IKR? :-D He's such a little sweetheart, that boy.
The moment Weesung said the kakaotalk notification sound I got a kakao message! Perfect timing!!!
The boy of the 2nd concern is so sassy and fabulous! I would love to be friends with him omg. His looks remind me of Rockhyun of 100% but his gestures and the way he talks reminds me of Infinite's Sungjong. It's so cute! People are so mean nowadays!
KiwiYukino Omg yes definitely Sungjong but also Kwanghee from ZEA
today, I fell in love with Wheesung
aw cameraman is bullying wheesung I can tell he's nervous yet they keep focusing only on him like the other guests aren't there... that, or camerman fell in love w him too c;
I'm in love with the 7th grade boy!! He is so fabulous!
I fall in love with fly to the sky thanks for this video~
So happy Wheesung was so protective of the young man in the second concern.
Idk why but my tears r falling while listening to the 1st concern, seriously, If I had a daughter like her, I wouldn't want anything else in the world. I don't like the fact she said "I dont have mom", no one ever complimented her so she don't know how to compliment her kids. Whatever she been thru in the past and doesn't matter how hard it is, she still can't make her daughter to experience the same as her. The fact that her daughter asked her "Mom, do you need help?" already maker her a good daughter and independent. Kids these days aren't like that anymore or rare and she only like what? 5 yrs old girl. If she proud of her daughter then be nice to her, she not your maid. Jeasuss!
Even I'm mad at that roommate!!! Even if she's nice, doesn't mean you should take advantage of it. And why in the world would you think that her parents made the rice drink for you? You're not their daughter and you're not in the center of the world either! Consider others' feelings before yours!
Why is wheesung so cute?! *flips table*
Wheesung though!!
Hwanhee is really handsome but I couldn't take my eyes of wheesung he is gdgbvdhng
That little boy is AWESOME!
I wish he was my friend haha. ♥
"I feel so pressured hihihi" and then the look on the boy's face in the audience at 24:58.
Heavenly :D
Wow, Wheesung's new song sounds so good! Love it.
The first concern the little girl is really cute and the brown hair matches her skintone so well. :D
The second concern with the trot singer boy. He's so fun and seriously must be a joy to be around. His bright energy is definitely fabulous.
hahaha i love that little boy, hahaha he's so adorable, I would love to be his friend, what's wrong with kids? i bet it is a lot of fun hanging out with him :D
I relate so much with the last concern, being an only child myself I had a hard time trying to get closer to other people that weren't my family members. I'm lucky that I've found those few friends who are really patient with me. It take time for someone like her to really open up, I just hope her friends will be patient enough and be a good support so she can over come her timidness.
W/ that second concern that boy was SOOO CAYOOOT. Omg, I wish I could hug him.
the second kid is owning that stage! His friend is a cutie too, he's just so funny omg
I WANT TO BE BEST FRIENDS WITH THE BOY OMG
+shawolarmysone exolbestfriend I want to be friends with him *and* the other two. They were so fun in answering. And later, when the only daughter was also buying food to get friends, they were giggling together :D
27:56 You know these kids are going to be funny from the get go haha
52:01 Wheesung is just too cute!
53:45 I don't know if I should laugh because Wheesung is so adorable or because this concern is getting more and more ridiculous LOL
oh these days i'm really into fly to the sky!!! i's been a while!!! woooow still a fan
The girl in the last concern is like me. I understand her. It's not like she wants to be like that. She just has a weak heart. I was shaking while watching bcs she really is like me. I even move school because of that problem. It's painful you know.
Yeah same. :/ When my friends exclude me in their activities, conversations, and/or jokes, I always assume that they hate me. I get jealous really easily too, and no matter how hard I try to stay positive, I always end up feeling depressed. It's not an easy thing to overcome.
Omg reading your guys comments makes me so happy that I'm not the only one that felt this way. I mean I can really relate to that girl I'm exactly like her my friend all go out together but I usually stay at home...But no I feel at least a bit better after watching her concern ^.^
OMG! I'm exactly like that too. I know I am, but when I start geting upset I just cant control my sadness and all the bad thoughts. :( let's start a club.
***** heheh could I join to the club? instead of that I kind of felt annoyed, because I'm a little bit like that and I want to change.
I think her friends are jerks. She needs to find better friends who won't exclude her or tease her or make her feel like she's not truly one of them. :/
I'm going to run to be Wheesung's fan-club president :) he seems like such a sweetie here
Yay for English subs for this episode with FTTS! Thanks for posting! ^^
Yes! Love this show!
The guy from the second concern.. OMG.. I already love that guy. He seems to fun to be around.. XD
the yellow ribbon in the corner :)
wheesung so handsome after a long comeback! :D
the guy in the second concern is so cute I just wanna hug him ^_^ He is perfect the way he is.
munseok is still young.he has a long way ahead of him to find his identity.. most people who got bullied but still manage to be positive and be happy have bigger chances to be great in the future.i wish this kid all the best!😊
I hate how munseok's family kept telling him to change. He doesn't need to change for other people, but become happy with himself the way he is. Kids are mean, but things will eventually change, and he can find people who will accept him for who he is. That can't happen if he hides his true self.
thats the worst advice ever he is not like that naturally didn't he just say after signing feminine trot songs he became like this as for his family it's there duty to guide him to the right path and remind him who he is originally which is a male coz it will be easier as long he is young before he becomes older and it gets complicated
+Nada Fateen wake up, it's almost 2016. Gender roles are a thing of the past. If someone genuinely enjoys doing somthing that doesn't hurt anyone eles, LET THEM BE HAPPY
+Alli am what if it's 2016 what's wrong stays wrong no matter what time it is am not saying to force him they can at least try their best coz at the end of the day he is the one who is going to of suffer his parents should help him as long as they are able to and if they faild than thats another story
I hate people who act they want happiness for others when they are only satisfying their own agendas. That kid's gestures will bring him a lot of problems especially in Korea. If this is considered worth bullying in America which is waaay more open than Korea then imagine how hard will it be for him. He can stay bright and funny without being feminine.
i support munseok..he is really pretty and he has talent ...
Yoon-G is so pretty
Hwanhee!!
thank you so much for sharing !!
Marry me Wheesung... You may be 13 years older me but I don't care hahaa
LMAO I swear, this man is attractive no matter what the age difference. I feel ya lol
53:14 I love how when they are teasing Youngja (AGAIN) Wheesung just puts up his hand like "it's ok"
Wheesung's acting part so cute~~Haha ^_^
Damn that boy at the 2nd concern so funny and fabulous Lol
hwanhee's laugh is eargasm *-*
I'm sorry, but can't some people be a little more respectful to Youngja? I understand that she gets this a lot and it's more of a joke but sometimes people really take it too far. Especially when they aren't very close to her. She is human and shouldn't be treated in this manner and the worse part is that she's use to it, people shouldn't get use to disrespectful behaviour.
I know what u mean. She probably hasnt gone a day without someone making a jab at her weight/ body image. It's really sad but i think shes so used to it and it has become her way of income, so she sometimes even puts herself down. But, i think she's comfortable as she is and i like her for that.
Love you NS YOON-G so pretty and gorgeous smile
a personality is more complex then anything else in a person, who you are the things that are important to you and how you react to different situation, political view everything that makes up a personality exist in the front lob so just utter interference isn't going to be able to change that guy's way of being since its biological. They should make sure to tell him its not his fault for being bullied.
the last girl is soooooo pretty and adorable!
BEST VARIETY SHOW EVERRRRRRRRR!! Lee YeongJa you have a fan in Brazil *-*
Hwanhee is a fine man.
The last concern, I'd die if had a friend like that it's like walking on egg shells at every turn, if am being honest I think I'd exclude her more because of that I don't understand why she can't reason that if he friends haven't deserted her by now they must really genuinely like her. I wouldn't encourage a boyfriend just yet, someone please think of the poor sod hell end up sending in a concern too about her being clingy. She has low self esteem but also a tad narcissistic because she wants the world to revolve around her and if it doesn't then she takes it personally
Ikr... I was in a group of friends in college with this kind of girl too. She's too sensitive. We even rarely teased her. Once she got mad at 2 of my friends because when three of us left her I was the only one waved goodbye. Can you imagine someone ggave you silent treatment for not waving you goodbye for daily routine, like, tomorrow we'll meet again at school, dude! Imagine if she has a boyfriend who forgot to texted her at lunchtime.
Omg thank goodness! I thought I only thought this way. Honestly, she wants the girls to pity her which is pretty sad.
The kid in the 2nd concern , I swear sounds exactly like Sungjong (Infinite) . I love his personality , he shouldn't be ashamed on who he really is nor take what people say about him . He's so sassy . More sassier than me , AND I'M A FEMALE lolol xD
The second concern, i am so amazed that he doesn't cry when i'm the viewer, crying like a river. I really don't understand people. Why must they judge him? I mean, he can be whatever he wants to. Don't need to say those harsh words even if they doesn't like him. I've a guy friend like him and the guys around him do friends with him. So i hope he won't give up trying and people will understand him more.
The last concern, i kind of understand her feelings because i'm sensitive too. But not as bad as her. Now that she's known the reason behind her friend's actions, I know she can think positively after this. Try harder okay? I believe you can do it. Fighting!
Thanks kbs for uploading this. Been missing the show a lot.
Just hearing the 1st concern sounded exactly like childhood; the even the age gap, the mom asking for water, the bellydancing (though I did real bellydancing). I started learning at the age of 9. When the baby called her mom, that killed me. My baby brother used to call me 'mama' until he was 5. By the time I was 14, I was also paying all the household bills. On top of all of that, I had to maintain at least an 2.9 GPA. My mother also said it was because I liked it. Such crap.
The boy in the second concern seems so genuine and fun! I hate how in Korean culture men need to be "masculine". It should be acceptable to act in any way, feminine or masculine or whatever else! Honestly, kids like him are the ones who grow up to be amazingly talented and bright. It sucks that no one brought up the fact that what he was being treated like at school was straight up bullying and harassment. I hope he grows more confident and people open up to him more!
Also, there are many people in the idol industry who act feminine (Key and JoKwon in particular). And whenever those two are on a show, I feel like it's more fun and energetic.
preach
i just love that Little boy like omg he is so funny and cute
For the first concern, i believe that the girl will definitely thank her mom in the future...I also hated to do housework and take care of my sisters when I was younger but now every house work seems easy to me...well thanks mom for being hard on me back then..:D
munseok friend is so adorable,,... funny level max. hahaha
NS Yoon-G 😍😍
Looks like beautiful NS Yoon-G is having a great time
don't let what other people say put you down! you're great MINSEOK ❤️
After reading the comments, I am so thankful that I'm not the only one who is like the girl from the last concern! I felt hurt just by watching that concern because my friends treat me that way too..
I learned to do my own laundry (sorting, washing, drying, folding) when I was about 7 years old but I did NOT do the entire families laundry or things like towels. Only my own clothes. Beyond that is a bit excessive to *expect* from a child. For a child to *help* is normal when asked. I was never charged with watching siblings, cooking meals, or changing diapers however. That sounds like a lazy or misguided mother to me.
Somin is so pretty inside and outside. Her mom should really grateful had daughter like her. She didn't ask much from her mom, just compliments her well and not fold the laundry anymore. She didn't ask expensive gift or something like that. Somin~~naaa stay strong and wish u didn't lost the fun being youth. The third concern, it's not just about food but respect.
PSA: just for those who don't know, gender has nothing to do with sexuality. The boy in the second concern could very well be straight, just because he has aspects of the societal definition of the female gender does not mean he's gay. He's still a guy who does not conform fully into the male gender role. And no I'm not saying he's transgendered either. That's completely different from this kid.
haha I love the kid from the 2nd concern he's sooo funny! I would love to have a friend like him :) I feel disappointed in the guys that avoid him just because he's a bit feminine I mean I swear almost all korean guys are like homophobes even the younger generation even though they should have a more open mind than the older generation!
The chubby girl from the 3rd concern that keeps eating her food kind of pisses me off I mean I'm pretty sure she would be more pissed off than her roommate if it was the other way around. Even though it may seem like something petty sending in a concern about her roommate stealing food but I get so angry when someone steals my food I get them to buy it for me again or else I start annoying them :P It makes perfect sense that if she's going to eat more than she should pay more for it otherwise it's like she's just leeching off her roommate a bit.
Hahhahahahhahha that little boy is awesome lol.
the feminine boy.. he's not asking for advice to be masculine he's accepted himself and likes the way he is thats his personality he wants people to accept it... he doesn't see himself as weird -like how they see him- he finds THEM weird for thinking that. knowing and understanding your personality and accepting it at that age is really good most people go through life not knowing who they are and search for their identity. to him he's already found it good for him !
I SERIOUSLY LOVE THAT BOY FROM THE 2ND CONCERN. He's so fun and CUTE!!!!!!! He kinda reminds me of my K-Pop bias. I usually like this type of guys. Why even.
That hwanhee guy, gosh! He's hot!
im watching this just for my man hwanhee, the legendary voice i really wanted him to sing
I think I understand the last concern. Sometimes I also feel that I don't belong in the group when I'm with my friends but I try my best so that they'll remember that I'm also there with them and I think it works, sometimes. I'm trying my best to think positively.
wheesung♥♥♥♥♥♥marry me!!!!
YAY!
The forth concert related to me... My four best friends and one of them is easy to upset . I hope she doesn't feel this way any more... Let's be close forever...
the first concern mother is totally wrong, she doesn't grow up with her mother compliments doesnt mean her daughter is must grow like her too.. the mother grow up with do all chores at home, doesn't mean her daughter must grow like her too.. feel bad for the lill girl :(
The second little boy was F to the A to the B to the U-L-O-U-S
FABULOUS 👏🏻🎉
Wheesung is damn fine.
Wow never thought that I would hear one of shakira's old song in a korean show ! Daebak
I can relate to the last concern... It makes me sad seeing her concern as I reflect on my own situation
OMYGAHD. I LOVE THAT MUNSEOK KID. FABULOUS
ty for uploading this episode =p but what happen to gag concert??
I feel the first story.I did most of the household chores since 12yr too. Without compliment too..
The 2nd and 3rd concerns was the best
I LOVE THE FEMININE GUY BECAUSE HE'S SO FABULOUS AND HE IS LIKE SUNGJONG!
does no one else think that brian is hot?
yes he is indeed 😍
so hot
I think hanhee is hotter
Of course he is hot , he was my childhood crush .