She wrote this when she was 16. Very powerful song to be written at any age, let alone as a teenager. I think sometimes we forget just how good a writer Kelly is. Sometimes her songwriting gets over shadowed by her unbelievably beautiful voice. We all have our own opinions about music, but for me Kelly is the best singer I've ever heard.
@momentsofloveromantic Live the best I've heard singing was actually Cristina Scabbia from the Italian Goth Metal band Lacuna Coil. Followed very closely behind by Amy Lee. When I saw Evanescence, I've seen them three times now, first time and I realized she is always so controlled. She has a way live with rolling through highs and lows and taking you with her. Something I've never really experienced since those times.
Same that part of the song always has me so emotional “ you never thought of anyone else you just saw your pain “ “ now I’m ashamed of my life, because it’s empty “ Those parts also get me
It took me decades to understand that this isn't a heartbreak song but more about a child being forced to grow up way to early... Reminds me a bit of how my foster daughter feels about her mother, she always had to be the supportive adult in their relationship, though she wasn't even a teenager, when it started. Now she is 15, lives with us since 1,5 years and she has such a hard time, just being a kid and depend on us, the actual adults... I don't think, we can fix what her mother messed up and that is really sad. It's hard having such a young and lovely person being so broken.
as someone who deeply identifies and understand the responsability your daughter took so early in life, I think that maybe you can't fix it at all, but you can make her life a whole lot better.
@@VitorAlvarodeBiagi we are doing our best to support her, she gets therapy and a lot of love and validation just for who she is, without us expecting anything from her in return. That's the least we can do.
She can fix it, with time and extensive therapy. I can't stand the way Kelly Clarkson writes songs so eloquently that hits home and hits hard. The whole song 8s a description of me, my situation with both of my narcisist parents and this damage you mention. Nowadays, we have resources to allow us to understand what happened in our past, why it happened, and how to move forward into living the life we were always meant to live. It has to be her choice to make use of those resources at the time she feels she is ready to do so. It is hard and dangerous to navigate through it without being ready for it and especially without proper and qualified professional assistance, but one can do it. She 8s lucky to have been placed with you, a real mother who is able to identify this and recognize her struggles. I am confident that you will be able to guide her into the same recognition in order for her to make that decision. Guide her and support her through her therapy (if that is what she chooses) and you will see how she will blossom into what she truly is.
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To my mom and dad and my child's father. I can never listen to this song and not cry. I listen to it every now and then to see how much I've healed. I still cry just as much
"And now I cry on the middle of the night for the same damn thing" it's me, crying to my window, looking to the sky and praying to god to please take me with them so I can no longer hurt for this man...
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It’s kinda ironic that my mother showed me this song when I was a little kid, told me it was how she felt about her mother.. now im 24 and I cry to this song bc this is exactly how I feel about her.
Literally the same here, my mother had this playing in the car all the time. And now I listen to it as, sometimes the cycle of abuse is much harder to break. I hope I'll be able to break it once I have my own children.
28 And I listened to this song for the time in years and I'm crying because all the lyrics hit me so deeply now we will be okay we just need to learn from their mistakes and do a better job!😘
listened to this song for the first time when I was 13y/o, didn't understand much the meaning of the lyrics,...now I'm 20y/o, and I finally understand what's the meaning of the lyrics, somehow it's related to my life. Song does speak from experience😭😭
This song hits me so hard because, I was hurt mentally my feelings by my ex and turned out to be my friend but, not anymore. I realize that I was in a toxic friendship. Thanks to myself that I left him
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“ I was so young You should have known betterthan to lean on me You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain And now I’m cry in the middle of night for the same dann thing” dang I relate to that..
To him who help gave me life thank you for being the first one to show me how cruel the world is and for breaking me into a million pieces !! Am thankful it came from you because if you can do that to your own child then no one on this earth can do anything that will surprise me or hurt me that bad… thanks for the reality check ✌️✌️
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Sometimes people who hurted us never will understand or even validate how we felt and it sucks. Because you just torture yourself thinking its your fault. and maybe it is
I will not make the same mistakes that you did I will not let myself 'cause my heart so much misery I will not break the way you did You fell so hard I've learned the hard way, to never let it get that far Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I lose my way And it's not too long before you point it out I cannot cry Because I know that's weakness in your eyes I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh Every day of my life My heart can't possibly break When it wasn't even whole to start with Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I watched you die (I watched you die) I heard you cry Every night in your sleep I was so young (and you're so young) You should have known better (I was too young for you) Than to lean on me You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain (you never saw me) And now I cry In the middle of the night For the same damn thing Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I try my hardest just to forget everything Because of you I don’t know how to let anyone else in Because of you I’m ashamed of my life because it’s empty Because of you I am afraid Because of you Because of you Mm, ooh
I used to sing this song as a little kid so much not understanding the lyrics but feeling this pain in my chest not understanding why. It's a shame we have to come to understand these things.
To my parents, my siblings, and my ex husband. Well... I guess if you're gonna abuse, neglect, dismiss, abandon, reject, and ignore me...I can choose to strengthen my relationship with God, by coming unto Christ. So... It works out in the long run... ... Though, it still really hurts to think about sometimes...but it's ok. Everything will turn out great if you just choose to be honest with Him...
To my ex who was much older than me (14 years) I supported through addiction who eventually shot me up with drugs at 18 and I’m still fighting because of it.
@@guerlineedwards4153 thank you beautiful. And I am sorry to you for whatever you’re fighting with that brought you to belt this song out. You deserve the world! Never forget it.
Wow!! I'm so sorry, lovely! I hope that you're doing better. I dedicate this song to my ex boyfriend who left me homeless in Dayton, Ohio far away from home. I have a home now after 2 years
This song reminds me to my inner strength. Despite my multiple disabilities, many healthy people want to put me down, but I never let them to do so. So my suggestion to you, is that always find your inner strength and always know that you are as precious as people who just judge you.
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This always reminds both my sister and I of our abuser. I didn't know she thought of him till she asked to skip the song. I want to see this song as a come back. To let everything out that he made us keep in.
*"MY HEART CANT POSSIBLY BREAK WHEN IT WASNT EVEN WHOLE TO START WITH"* hits hard, also, *"AND NOW I CRY IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT FOR SAMEEEEEEE DAMNNNNNNNNNNN THING!!!!!!!!!"* edit: thanks for the likes :)
I tell my kids i love them, unconditionally. They are safe. I validate how they feel, their needs, their interest. When they speak, i listen. I pray for them before sleep, i pray for them when i wake up. I'm doing two different jobs, morning to midnight. Its okay, because they can get a life i dont get. Whatever horrible things they feed me as i grow, none of it will happen to my kids. The suffering ends with me.
You have to let go inderstand eoe are who they are and there’s nothing you can do to change that find love and peace within.. we will all be fine I wish you love happiness and peace ❤️❤️
I want everyone who has caused me pain to feel all the pain ive experienced because of them. All the PTSD, depression, anxiety i want them to feel the suffering i have because of how they treated me. Rejection, hurt, loneliness, abuse, assault, hurtful words. Im so sick of people!
No don’t go down that path, you are better than whoever did this to you. I’ve been down that road and also have PTSD it is too hard to come to terms with without therapy, we both need it find something that gives you hope. God bless❤🆗
I was in 2nd grade when I first heard this song and I always thought if my mother. Being 24 now, I am sobbing that little me didn't even fully understand the weight of the lyrics, but understood enough to relate. She didn't deserve this pain.
The way the lyrics hit at 12 or 13 now I’m 32 and let me tell you I never felt anything like this kelly I love your music huge fan forever your show is great angelic voice country girl I love you thank you for the impact you’ve made in my life ❤and your gift you inspire me
Thank you for making me go through all the turmoil you threw me into when I was only a child whom you should have protected. Thank you for breaking me into pieces that until now I have tried so hard hard put myself together, and that I don't know what I am anymore. Thank you very much for making me live my life with myself I hate the most.
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My brother just called me and told me he thinks of me every time he hears this song because of how I was parentified by my mother… I never heard this song for what it is until just now. The acknowledgment from one of my 7 siblings has me in tears.. my brother and I are both in our 50’s. The co-dependency and people pleasing will take everything you ever worked for.. the line “I’m ashamed of my life because it’s empty” hits hard. :(
I have a vivid memory of this song. I was 9-10 going through some really tough times in my childhood. and I would belt this song out when no one was home, becuase it made me feel heard. As i was growing I had to grow up fast. So this by far is not a sad love song its the sad reality of a lost childhood
😢 To my parents who always fight and I never know what true love was until I met my husband. I still can't trust anyone easily...and to this day my parents still don't know how to love or support us kids. I realized they only care about themself...I've forgiven and kept my distance. Now they want to try alittle bit but...my heart is frozen. I feel bad having their characteristics toward my husband. I don't know how to love 100% bc of trust issues. But I'm slowly healing. I thank my patient husband ❤
How much have i been abused as a child . I felt i worth nothing . I was bet and humiliated by my parents. Each had his own way . Now i am a mother and completely different from them , but I’m still hurt inside . My heart never been complete.
It’s very sad to see people with the same story as mine! Because of people who should be their pillars, their fortresses, their safe ports, but are their greatest devastations! May we have the strength to heal ourselves from these traumas that are not ours!
To my mom who ruined my life. To my mom who never gave the love i needed. To my mom who made me hate myself .to my mom who always said i am dumb and worthless. I was the best at school but she didn't care and now after leaving the country and trying to start a new life i just wanted to say congratulations you made it mom. I couldn t realise my dreams i coudn't reach a thing. And the beat of it she didn't care she never said my little girl lives all alone in another country many bad thing happened to me and she doesn't know many struggles many problems i had to face and she never thought to ask me. She dosn't even know how is my personnality, she dosn't know a thing about me she just want money and as i said i don't have money now she doesn't want to talk to me 😂. Hey mom i really don't have feelings for you. I just don't care that's what you made do: Hating people and hating myself. So i can t love you
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She wrote this when she was 16. Very powerful song to be written at any age, let alone as a teenager. I think sometimes we forget just how good a writer Kelly is. Sometimes her songwriting gets over shadowed by her unbelievably beautiful voice. We all have our own opinions about music, but for me Kelly is the best singer I've ever heard.
@momentsofloveromantic Live the best I've heard singing was actually Cristina Scabbia from the Italian Goth Metal band Lacuna Coil. Followed very closely behind by Amy Lee.
When I saw Evanescence, I've seen them three times now, first time and I realized she is always so controlled.
She has a way live with rolling through highs and lows and taking you with her. Something I've never really experienced since those times.
@momentsoflover I agree with you! That’s something special!
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"I cannot cry, because I know that's weakness in your eyes."
No one has any idea how much I relate to that...
I'm sorry about that...
our feelings should be free and no one should judge them if their true.
@Fuzzelism 100% with you there... your a wise person 💖
I totally relate 💯
That's why your saying it?
Just keep it
"I was so young. You should have known better than to lean on me."
Gets me every time.
Same that part of the song always has me so emotional “ you never thought of anyone else you just saw your pain “
“ now I’m ashamed of my life, because it’s empty “
Those parts also get me
My momma did this to me
@@Thebeautifulme100 Same. :/
KELLY KELLY I AM A BLACK WOMAN AND HONEY YOU DID THIS SHIT!!!!!!!
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It took me decades to understand that this isn't a heartbreak song but more about a child being forced to grow up way to early... Reminds me a bit of how my foster daughter feels about her mother, she always had to be the supportive adult in their relationship, though she wasn't even a teenager, when it started. Now she is 15, lives with us since 1,5 years and she has such a hard time, just being a kid and depend on us, the actual adults... I don't think, we can fix what her mother messed up and that is really sad. It's hard having such a young and lovely person being so broken.
as someone who deeply identifies and understand the responsability your daughter took so early in life, I think that maybe you can't fix it at all, but you can make her life a whole lot better.
@@VitorAlvarodeBiagi we are doing our best to support her, she gets therapy and a lot of love and validation just for who she is, without us expecting anything from her in return. That's the least we can do.
She can fix it, with time and extensive therapy. I can't stand the way Kelly Clarkson writes songs so eloquently that hits home and hits hard. The whole song 8s a description of me, my situation with both of my narcisist parents and this damage you mention. Nowadays, we have resources to allow us to understand what happened in our past, why it happened, and how to move forward into living the life we were always meant to live. It has to be her choice to make use of those resources at the time she feels she is ready to do so. It is hard and dangerous to navigate through it without being ready for it and especially without proper and qualified professional assistance, but one can do it. She 8s lucky to have been placed with you, a real mother who is able to identify this and recognize her struggles. I am confident that you will be able to guide her into the same recognition in order for her to make that decision. Guide her and support her through her therapy (if that is what she chooses) and you will see how she will blossom into what she truly is.
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To my mom and dad and my child's father. I can never listen to this song and not cry. I listen to it every now and then to see how much I've healed. I still cry just as much
"And now I cry on the middle of the night for the same damn thing" it's me, crying to my window, looking to the sky and praying to god to please take me with them so I can no longer hurt for this man...
This had been my favourite song when I was little 🍀
Same as well😂❤
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Os revestiu
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Respeito
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Dignidade
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Verdade
Fidelidade e lealdade
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Going back to this song when i remember everything and every problem they left me with.
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It’s kinda ironic that my mother showed me this song when I was a little kid, told me it was how she felt about her mother.. now im 24 and I cry to this song bc this is exactly how I feel about her.
I feel you, hugs
27 years old and you just described my life. hugs.
Literally the same here, my mother had this playing in the car all the time. And now I listen to it as, sometimes the cycle of abuse is much harder to break. I hope I'll be able to break it once I have my own children.
28 And I listened to this song for the time in years and I'm crying because all the lyrics hit me so deeply now we will be okay we just need to learn from their mistakes and do a better job!😘
First i though lt that was about a boy.. But if she begin talking about the past i know its about her parents..
listened to this song for the first time when I was 13y/o, didn't understand much the meaning of the lyrics,...now I'm 20y/o, and I finally understand what's the meaning of the lyrics, somehow it's related to my life. Song does speak from experience😭😭
This song hits me so hard because, I was hurt mentally my feelings by my ex and turned out to be my friend but, not anymore. I realize that I was in a toxic friendship. Thanks to myself that I left him
so proud of you ❤❤❤
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These comments got me thinkin this isn't a romantic heartbreak song, but a sad reflection of the pain caused by a troubled childhood. 💔
“I’m ashamed of my life because it’s empty.” Yep. That pretty much sums it up.
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Look I’m crying now This song is beautifull so amazing thank you ❤
I feel this song so deeply...
这首歌在今天来听一样是非常经典的歌曲，尽管过去了十多年
Sounds the same as every other song in that time period! Just the generic sound
Why these pains are all from our parents...More love more scars
“ I was so young
You should have known betterthan to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I’m cry in the middle of night for the same dann thing” dang I relate to that..
My biological mother abused me and I relate too this song so thank u for helping me feel powerful!!! I’m finally free from my mom!!!
To him who help gave me life thank you for being the first one to show me how cruel the world is and for breaking me into a million pieces !! Am thankful it came from you because if you can do that to your own child then no one on this earth can do anything that will surprise me or hurt me that bad… thanks for the reality check ✌️✌️
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Sometimes people who hurted us never will understand or even validate how we felt and it sucks. Because you just torture yourself thinking its your fault. and maybe it is
i’ve been there. may peace be upon you 🙏
I don’t think any of my parents are capable of taking true accountability. There’s always excuses.
" i was so young " made my eyes tear up 😢
I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself 'cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way, to never let it get that far
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh
Every day of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I watched you die (I watched you die)
I heard you cry
Every night in your sleep
I was so young (and you're so young)
You should have known better (I was too young for you)
Than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain (you never saw me)
And now I cry
In the middle of the night
For the same damn thing
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don’t know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I’m ashamed of my life because it’s empty
Because of you
I am afraid
Because of you
Because of you
Mm, ooh
I used to sing this song as a little kid so much not understanding the lyrics but feeling this pain in my chest not understanding why. It's a shame we have to come to understand these things.
This song is so beautiful and it's the one that started it all for Kelly Clarkson and I will always be a true fan of hers.
To my parents, my siblings, and my ex husband.
Well... I guess if you're gonna abuse, neglect, dismiss, abandon, reject, and ignore me...I can choose to strengthen my relationship with God, by coming unto Christ.
So...
It works out in the long run...
... Though, it still really hurts to think about sometimes...but it's ok. Everything will turn out great if you just choose to be honest with Him...
God bless you love.
@@WhatAGwaaan thank you so much, sweets. I love you.
❤
As a father i will break that cycle, ill be with u always
To my ex who was much older than me (14 years) I supported through addiction who eventually shot me up with drugs at 18 and I’m still fighting because of it.
😢 I’m sorry that happened to you!
@@guerlineedwards4153 thank you beautiful. And I am sorry to you for whatever you’re fighting with that brought you to belt this song out. You deserve the world! Never forget it.
希望你可以好起来，回归你的正常生活并为了你的理想努力
Wow!! I'm so sorry, lovely! I hope that you're doing better. I dedicate this song to my ex boyfriend who left me homeless in Dayton, Ohio far away from home. I have a home now after 2 years
@@garrybaldeagle I’m from Ohio too ❤️
This song reminds me to my inner strength. Despite my multiple disabilities, many healthy people want to put me down, but I never let them to do so. So my suggestion to you, is that always find your inner strength and always know that you are as precious as people who just judge you.
Just got out of a mentally abusive relationship recently and this song helps a lot.
Same. I was with a Narcissist beater long story. But yrs this is how I was especially after.
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because of YOU i find it hard to TRUST not only me but EVERYONE around me😢..
because of YoU i am AFRAId..
This always reminds both my sister and I of our abuser. I didn't know she thought of him till she asked to skip the song. I want to see this song as a come back. To let everything out that he made us keep in.
😢
@@rhoginagilgonzales *hugs* luckily we are far away from that man and hope one day to press charges and sue him for all the money he stole
Hello people with good taste in music
The reason I play my music through a big speaker is so the people around me can listen to good music whether they want to or not
Hello
*"MY HEART CANT POSSIBLY BREAK WHEN IT WASNT EVEN WHOLE TO START WITH"* hits hard, also, *"AND NOW I CRY IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT FOR SAMEEEEEEE DAMNNNNNNNNNNN THING!!!!!!!!!"*
edit: thanks for the likes :)
Right when I read your comment the song sang it 😂
I tell my kids i love them, unconditionally. They are safe. I validate how they feel, their needs, their interest. When they speak, i listen. I pray for them before sleep, i pray for them when i wake up. I'm doing two different jobs, morning to midnight. Its okay, because they can get a life i dont get. Whatever horrible things they feed me as i grow, none of it will happen to my kids. The suffering ends with me.
your kids are so so lucky
I pray u heal
I feel your pain
First Love I don't know but If God send me this Man I ACCEPT 🙏😇
To my dad that cause so much pain in my past until now😢 How can I get over the pain that cause too much ache😭
You have to let go inderstand eoe are who they are and there’s nothing you can do to change that find love and peace within.. we will all be fine I wish you love happiness and peace ❤️❤️
by realizing that we are what we go trough by understanding
😅😅
Pray to the lord and ypu will find the peace of mind and joy godbless😇
Thanks so much, buddy.
I'm being honest this is my favorite songs 😍
Beautiful song that I tear every time listen to this song🫶👍🏻🔔🎄🥰
I want everyone who has caused me pain to feel all the pain ive experienced because of them. All the PTSD, depression, anxiety i want them to feel the suffering i have because of how they treated me. Rejection, hurt, loneliness, abuse, assault, hurtful words. Im so sick of people!
No don’t go down that path, you are better than whoever did this to you. I’ve been down that road and also have PTSD it is too hard to come to terms with without therapy, we both need it find something that gives you hope. God bless❤🆗
To those who are watching this video, I wish you a day filled with the same creativity, good health, warmth, and joy! 💖
Aww thank you❤❤
Beautiful song! Heard it before but didn't really listen on it until now, 👍
It's sad to think that's some people get bullied because of their apprenace etc, but this song is dedicated to anyone going through a hard time
I was in 2nd grade when I first heard this song and I always thought if my mother. Being 24 now, I am sobbing that little me didn't even fully understand the weight of the lyrics, but understood enough to relate. She didn't deserve this pain.
Now that I’m and adult and understand the lyrics, this song is pretty dark
Nice to hear ❤❤❤
This song hits me to hard😭😭 I really miss my family😢😢
The way the lyrics hit at 12 or 13 now I’m 32 and let me tell you I never felt anything like this kelly I love your music huge fan forever your show is great angelic voice country girl I love you thank you for the impact you’ve made in my life ❤and your gift you inspire me
Essa música é incrível❤. Eu gosto muito de ouvir as músicas da kelly Clarkson.
Let’s do our best to break these curses and thank for the greatest music that touches your heart and soul!! Music gets me when nothing else did ❤
Well I can correct this god always did but I feel music that’s real is heaven sent ❤
Great song and great lyrics
I just love Kelly Clarkson she's very special and talented
I LOVE KELLY CLARKSON,SHES AMAZING🙏💝
Every time i think of her husband passing, i can honestly feel her pain, even after all these years 😢 Bless her heart!!!
Thank you for making me go through all the turmoil you threw me into when I was only a child whom you should have protected. Thank you for breaking me into pieces that until now I have tried so hard hard put myself together, and that I don't know what I am anymore. Thank you very much for making me live my life with myself I hate the most.
I relate to all of this too.
First!! And I wanna let u know that I love all of ur vids!
No one here is a victim.We are all winners.We survived.God bless you all .
Heart breaking to hear! May people have peace and harmony!😢
Me, in Brazil! Kelly Clarkson has a beautiful voice.
I love this song
Good song and good lyrics ❤
I’ll sing this song for The voice audition in my country ✌️
good luck! :)
How did it go???
i love it
😆
To her…. the one who fucked up my life!!! Sometimes those you considered your closest friends and love are the ones to cause the most damage
Or sometimes ur own parents
@@WildWind704 yea… loved ones. That’s what the comment said. 😕🥲
@@WildWind704that’s what the songs about
6 months n Mula Ng mawala k at iniwan m kmi papang😭😭pero ung sakit and2 padin s puso ko,,mahal n mahal kta papang ko,sobrang miss n miss n kta❤️❤️😭😭alam ko Masaya k n kung nsan k man ngaun,,maghihilom dn Ang sugat s puso d man ngaun pero hopefully soon 😭😭
My fav songs❤ until now 2024 kinakanta ko parin siya ❤😊
Naalala KO ung ksabayan KO sa Barko non 2004 wayback galing nya kumanta nito..saan kana Kaya Megome.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢and motfara.
My brother just called me and told me he thinks of me every time he hears this song because of how I was parentified by my mother… I never heard this song for what it is until just now. The acknowledgment from one of my 7 siblings has me in tears.. my brother and I are both in our 50’s. The co-dependency and people pleasing will take everything you ever worked for.. the line “I’m ashamed of my life because it’s empty” hits hard. :(
Every child devserves a house but not every house deserves a child😢
I love this song it’s so beautiful 😍
Anyone here from 2024?
Yeah 😊
Me😊
2130 here
Me 😢
Me😭
Underrated fr
I have a vivid memory of this song. I was 9-10 going through some really tough times in my childhood. and I would belt this song out when no one was home, becuase it made me feel heard. As i was growing I had to grow up fast. So this by far is not a sad love song its the sad reality of a lost childhood
I love this song 😭😭
😢 To my parents who always fight and I never know what true love was until I met my husband. I still can't trust anyone easily...and to this day my parents still don't know how to love or support us kids. I realized they only care about themself...I've forgiven and kept my distance. Now they want to try alittle bit but...my heart is frozen. I feel bad having their characteristics toward my husband. I don't know how to love 100% bc of trust issues. But I'm slowly healing. I thank my patient husband ❤
I like this song so much ❤
How much have i been abused as a child . I felt i worth nothing . I was bet and humiliated by my parents. Each had his own way . Now i am a mother and completely different from them , but I’m still hurt inside . My heart never been complete.
this song is so pretty
For him 😊😊
It’s very sad to see people with the same story as mine! Because of people who should be their pillars, their fortresses, their safe ports, but are their greatest devastations! May we have the strength to heal ourselves from these traumas that are not ours!
So inspiring!
I just rediscovered this OG banger when I really needed... Just got break up from 3 years
Nice place and nice performance
Thanks Rachel
I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh, every day of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with!
To my mom who ruined my life. To my mom who never gave the love i needed. To my mom who made me hate myself .to my mom who always said i am dumb and worthless. I was the best at school but she didn't care and now after leaving the country and trying to start a new life i just wanted to say congratulations you made it mom. I couldn t realise my dreams i coudn't reach a thing. And the beat of it she didn't care she never said my little girl lives all alone in another country many bad thing happened to me and she doesn't know many struggles many problems i had to face and she never thought to ask me. She dosn't even know how is my personnality, she dosn't know a thing about me she just want money and as i said i don't have money now she doesn't want to talk to me 😂. Hey mom i really don't have feelings for you. I just don't care that's what you made do: Hating people and hating myself. So i can t love you
Are you acoustic
"Because Of You I'm Afraid" She has done so well. She didn't deserve to have her father leave her when she was 6.
Heavenly fire
I fell in love with this music ❤️I will miss LOVELY RUNNER when it ends😢
Having issues with my mom made me feel seen when this song came out
This song just slaps, no sappy traumatic back story needed🎉😂
Month of october 2024😢
This had been my favorite song when I was young
this song is definitely written to a parent
this song because of you by kelly Clarkson made me miss my old friends
Growing up. Now i understand the lyrics
Thank u for this song(im heart broken)