Paula Doesn't Want Donna in Harvey's Life | Suits

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  • @neyazahmed309
    @neyazahmed309 2 года назад +3534

    Honestly She's being very reasonable here. Not screaming or demanding,rather talking of her inability of letting this subject go. She's saying the way she feels and can't deny the truth.

    • @ausar3852
      @ausar3852 2 года назад +169

      She was perfect for Harvey... %200 more chemistry than Donna ever had. Donna had no romantic chemistry more like a sister chemistry that worked well with her helping Harvey out... last couple seasons she was forced on Harvey by writers and it feels,smells and looks fake.

    • @emsa7esm203
      @emsa7esm203 2 года назад +59

      @@ausar3852 yeah I agree, Donna and Harvey felt forced.

    • @Inco464
      @Inco464 2 года назад +8

      @@ausar3852 I completly agree here
      I loved them as a couple

    • @sonkmd7274
      @sonkmd7274 2 года назад +82

      I don't think, this Darvey relationship was forced. This is what happens in real life. You work with someone for 12 years, they know all your secrets, they know whatever you need before you know you need it, they give you advices that help you, and moreover you share the same job. That's Donna for Harvey. And if you don't fall for that person, i don't know who will.

    • @TB91178
      @TB91178 2 года назад +45

      Yet she is demanding because she’s demanding that Harvey make personnel changes at HIS company because of HER feelings. How is this reasonable?

  • @Tk-iz2ws
    @Tk-iz2ws Год назад +468

    On this show NO ONE looks better than Harvey in his suit.

    • @CarolineLeeD
      @CarolineLeeD Год назад +20

      No one looks better than Harvey no matter what he’s wearing 😻❤️😘

    • @HelloWema
      @HelloWema 6 месяцев назад

      Periodt!

    • @Luckimee
      @Luckimee 2 месяца назад +2

      Jessica does

    • @Petrol_Sniffa
      @Petrol_Sniffa Месяц назад

      @@Luckimee Nah, I think Donna looks better than Jessica

    • @nomihagan
      @nomihagan Месяц назад

      @@Petrol_SniffaYou must be on dope to believe that hogwash!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 There is no comparison. Jessica vs. …

  • @jezeannwilliams1145
    @jezeannwilliams1145 2 года назад +3705

    Paula set herself up for failure in this relationship. Harvey had a meltdown because Donna stopped working for him. She really expected Harvey to just let Donna go just like that?

    • @ankid5867
      @ankid5867 2 года назад +219

      obviously not but Paula had all the right to ask Harvey that. maybe her past relationship was affecting the present but what she thought might happen, did happen when Donna kissed Harvey. it was fair on her part tbh.

    • @effy8774
      @effy8774 2 года назад +141

      If Paula had been smart she would have known that the relationship was doomed to failure. But she was too weak and mindless and even thought Harvey would fire Donna.

    • @Swiftie3forever
      @Swiftie3forever 2 года назад +141

      The fact that Harvey had a meltdown because of that is even worse because it proves that donna meant much more to him than what he said. Paula is not to blame. In fact she was definitely right on the fact that there were 3 people in that relationship.

    • @simone3633
      @simone3633 2 года назад +47

      Yes, Paula expected Harvey to let Donna go.
      In the scene of parting the whole range of emotions on her face show this. : the joy of seeing him, the compassion accompanied by those formal apologies and then the bewilderment when she seems to not understand and can't believe what Harvey is saying shows that Paula was convinced
      that Harvey would fire Donna.
      What did he do to believe that?
      It was that "big thing" the dinner with his mother.
      The fact that Harvey introduced her to his mother made her think that their relationship was strong enough to persuade Harvey to give up Donna.

    • @faam6149
      @faam6149 2 года назад +42

      Honey you dont get it do you? Harvey choose not to fire donna and let her go so he setup the relationship to fail not paula! Any woman on earth wouldn't want a secretary kissing her man and still work for him. Its not about insecure of jealose it about trust.

  • @thatissofetch5508
    @thatissofetch5508 2 года назад +1160

    It’s just weird how Paula was Harvey’s therapist and the majority of their session was Harvey talking about Donna, and i’m pretty sure Paula knows Harvey feels something deeper for Donna. Well I guess some people just want to fix others. I just feel sorry for Paula.

    • @paigepellaton
      @paigepellaton 2 года назад +194

      I don't feel sorry for her at all lol. She's a therapist who dated a former client for God's sake! She had it coming.

    • @monicastricker3582
      @monicastricker3582 Год назад +10

      I agree there is a line for a reason

    • @vishnujain7645
      @vishnujain7645 Год назад +16

      To be fair, when Harvey asked her out , she already told him her doubts regarding their relationship and his feelings for Donna.
      Harvey actually pushed for this relationship and convinced her . I don't think Paula is the one to blame. On top of that Harvey gave her the keys to his apartment when she said they should do it slowly. Not to mention Donna put a wedge between them by Kissing Harvey.

    • @lexaneli
      @lexaneli Год назад +8

      If that was the case then she should have known from a therapist position where his feelings were if he was talking about Donna to her the therapist.

    • @Elisa-gn5nj
      @Elisa-gn5nj Год назад +25

      ​@@vishnujain7645 When Harvey asked her out, she exposed her fantasies, not her doubts.
      Paula knew that Harvey and Donna had feelings for each other and saw that Harvey was in denial and did nothing about it, even though as a professional it was her duty to help him.
      She had doubts when she met her former mentor and was ashamed and lied about her relationship because she knew she was breaking ethics by getting involved with a former patient who still needed therapy.
      He knew what he was getting into and got what he deserved.

  • @satyajitpati635
    @satyajitpati635 2 года назад +2458

    I've seen the jealous and insecure type. And NO. Paula is NOT insecure. She put forward her point in a mature and straightforward manner. She is being reasonable and her actions are based on her previous experiences. Completely rational.

    • @effy8774
      @effy8774 2 года назад +67

      Paula is the weakest female character in this show, full of insecurity and doubts

    • @satyajitpati635
      @satyajitpati635 2 года назад +17

      @@effy8774 She is a therapist after all lol

    • @effy8774
      @effy8774 2 года назад +57

      Yes, a therapist who has fantasies with his client
      A doctor who does not have the courage to oppose an important client and as a result his child dies of an overdose
      She is afraid of the "mouth of the world" to start a relationship
      She is afraid that he is not worth it to be loved because an ex cheated on her
      He knows Harvey and Donna they have feelings for each other and yet a relationship begins with him
      She's so gullible that she thinks Harvey will prefer her to Donna
      Even the dress he will wear to the restaurant at the meeting with his mother is dictated by Harvey
      This is a confident on her,strong woman and a professional ?

    • @satyajitpati635
      @satyajitpati635 2 года назад +18

      @@effy8774 By "She is a therapist after all" I meant she overthinks every angle and experience of her past and how it may well again be a healthy probability of an occurrence in the present which prohibits her from having a synergistic and healthy bond with someone.

    • @effy8774
      @effy8774 2 года назад +40

      The fact that she is a therapist in my opinion does not excuse her but makes her unethical and manipulative

  • @Zeyneplo
    @Zeyneplo 2 года назад +266

    Paul knew from the very beginning as Harvey's therapist that he is in love with Douna she knew yet she kept lying to her self till it was too difficult for her to face it

  • @klaudiagrob
    @klaudiagrob 11 месяцев назад +98

    Moment when Paula asked Harvey to make a choice was a nail to the coffin of their relationship. I am glad that Donna and Harvey were endgame.

  • @lensterfernandes
    @lensterfernandes 2 года назад +974

    I wish I could put myself in a time machine to a point where I didn't know suits existed so I can watch it all over again!

    • @rtms9092
      @rtms9092 2 года назад +9

      U spam this comment everywhere

    • @lensterfernandes
      @lensterfernandes 2 года назад

      @@rtms9092 you blind?

    • @kaoutarsoulali2142
      @kaoutarsoulali2142 2 года назад +6

      I ve watched it over 4 times

    • @rtms9092
      @rtms9092 2 года назад

      @@lensterfernandes ur dad

    • @lensterfernandes
      @lensterfernandes 2 года назад

      @@rtms9092 somehow I understand you're illiterate as well...the way you type gives it away

  • @TB91178
    @TB91178 2 года назад +1104

    For everyone on these comments that have typed, “Paula is right, Harvey should have let Donna go” …..This whole storyline is insane. On what planet is it a appropriate to fire a woman from her job because the BOSS’S GIRLFRIEND demands he do so. Like, what?! What Paula CAN do is demand that HARVEY get another job, not affect the employment of another person outside of their relationship. This whole storyline is insane. I pray that none of y’all here has a boss like Harvey who will try to fire you because he has a girlfriend like Paula.

    • @fabmothernature7324
      @fabmothernature7324 2 года назад +56

      My boss has a gf like this. She called all the time and he started suggesting I move departments. It’s terrible. She’s a nutcase. I just don’t associate with him anymore.

    • @TB91178
      @TB91178 2 года назад +21

      @@fabmothernature7324 That’s terrible. He should be fired.

    • @soothingsoundssleepmeditation
      @soothingsoundssleepmeditation 2 года назад +99

      For what it's worth, most bosses don't have a relationship with their secretary like Harvey and Donna. She didn't demand he fire her. She said I can't be with you if you continue to work together. So he didn't fire her, instead, he tried to put her in a new position. So let's be real, most women can't even handle their man looking at another woman so you know they couldn't be with a man who is more emotionally connected to his secretary than them. Paula feelings are valid because where there's smoke, there's fire. Season 8 proved that. What Paula should've done is remove herself from the situation. The moment you have to tell him to disconnect from another woman and he's reluctant, you already know what you have to do.

    • @fabmothernature7324
      @fabmothernature7324 2 года назад +42

      @@soothingsoundssleepmeditation that’s the truth. Holding onto a man when you know he is more attached to another woman is digging your own grave. You can’t force someone to love you and you should not try to ruin another woman’s livelihood because she had the unfortunate experience of having her boss fall in love with her.

    • @fabmothernature7324
      @fabmothernature7324 2 года назад +3

      @@TB91178 she calls every hour now.

  • @sachingahrana310
    @sachingahrana310 2 года назад +385

    In the end they did end up together. So, Paula was right on the money here.

    • @Ghaltouni
      @Ghaltouni 2 года назад +14

      It's what she does for a living after all

    • @emreb.5018
      @emreb.5018 Год назад +10

      Paula didnt deserve this .Donna destroy their happiness

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino Год назад

      @@emreb.5018😂👈🏼

  • @skyskynomnom4674
    @skyskynomnom4674 Год назад +88

    Donna was always going to be the only woman who could put Harvey in his place. He respects her more than anybody else, she can handle his huge ego

  • @youreokay7888
    @youreokay7888 2 года назад +747

    Paula is totally within her rights
    Donna made a mistake, but she shouldn't have to pay professionally
    And Harvey should've been straightforward with Donna

    • @Leto2ndAtreides
      @Leto2ndAtreides 2 года назад +16

      Paula was within her rights to make this request. But was Harvey right in letting Donna go over a weak romance?

    • @ogenglishchat9502
      @ogenglishchat9502 2 года назад +6

      @@Leto2ndAtreides Yeah, that wasn't within his right.

    • @boomds5602
      @boomds5602 2 года назад +7

      Why not? That’s sexual
      Harassment in any workplace

    • @boomds5602
      @boomds5602 2 года назад

      @@ogenglishchat9502 yes it was

    • @alex.is.here.
      @alex.is.here. Год назад +10

      No she isnt, and what is a Therapist doing dating a patient?

  • @ranasafi4858
    @ranasafi4858 2 года назад +826

    I am SOOO glad that Donna and Harvey were endgame. She is THE woman for him and Paula knew it. I am surprised Paula let her feelings take over when she knows as a therapist that Harvey always had feelings for Donna.

    • @boomds5602
      @boomds5602 2 года назад +61

      Harvey and Donna have the chemistry of a gym sock

    • @Legend57.
      @Legend57. 2 года назад +1

      @@boomds5602 😂😂

    • @apieceoflife2732
      @apieceoflife2732 Год назад +3

      @@boomds5602 Cryyy

    • @imogene2044
      @imogene2044 Год назад +2

      I still love my ex but adore n love my new partner !!!!

    • @VDA19
      @VDA19 Год назад +7

      @@boomds5602 A gym sock has a lot of chemistry in it with all the bacteria and sweat tho

  • @wametravels
    @wametravels 2 года назад +81

    Honestly Suits is the best show ever

  • @lisi1732
    @lisi1732 2 года назад +138

    Paula looks like someone who always has cold hands

  • @Righteous628
    @Righteous628 2 года назад +10

    It's really amazing how tenuous relationships are, an inadvertent comment,a perceived slight could push the relationship off course irrevocably.

  • @marlenevaz1762
    @marlenevaz1762 Год назад +28

    Aside from being unprofessional dating the former therapist, she was never going to be his girlfriend. she would continue to demand from him postures and reactions that she would like him to have. Eternal therapist, not girlfriend.

  • @zizzi1227
    @zizzi1227 2 года назад +317

    It was painful to see Harvey betray Donna. Not necessarily because of her job, but because after so many years how much she worked for him and was devoted and loyal to him
    he didn't even have the honesty to talk to her and tell in front of they can't work together anymore

    • @ogenglishchat9502
      @ogenglishchat9502 2 года назад +5

      Thats y it was hard 4 him. I kinda understand all of them to be honest.

    • @Legend57.
      @Legend57. 2 года назад +20

      She did it to herself. Instead of talking to harvey about her feelings for him, she full on ambushed kissed him knowing that harvey was in a relationship and how much harvey hates cheating.

    • @zizzi1227
      @zizzi1227 2 года назад +45

      @@Legend57. Donna made a mistake in a moment of vulnerability. After she was humiliated by Malik, Mike came with his advice and then followed Louis' emotional speech. Harvey, on the other hand, admits that he racked his brains to find a solution to get rid of her.
      After 12 years of working for him and being loyal and devoted to him, Donna would have deserved so much honesty to tell him face to face that they can no longer work together, not to go behind her back to Stu.
      I think it was the only moment when Harvey forgot that loyalty is a two-way street.

    • @RBK0708
      @RBK0708 11 месяцев назад

      Two way street it is .. what Harvey did was wrong ..but it's Donna who left Harvey to work for Louis earlier .. if at all Harvey is loyal at all in his life it is only to Mike and Donna and to be fair both of em don't deserve it at all .​@@zizzi1227

    • @zizzi1227
      @zizzi1227 11 месяцев назад +2

      ​​@@RBK0708
      Donna went to work for Louis because she realized she was co-dependent on Harvey and their relationship was taking a toxic turn that would eventually destroy their friendship.
      And Harvey was addicted to Donna. This gave him panic attacks, but Donna's departure led him to deal with his own mental health issues due to childhood trauma.
      Harvey always supported Mike but Donna never had Harvey's support. Everything he did, he did thinking how it would affect him.
      He broke her resignation because he could not live with the guilt of having betrayed the most important person in his life:
      "Are you ok?
      You will be back?
      THEN I'LL BE OK!"

  • @dasaxophonist
    @dasaxophonist 2 года назад +111

    Harvey is a lucky man. Scottie, Donna, and Paula. All of them wife material

    • @sainiharika3158
      @sainiharika3158 Год назад +41

      You missed Zoe... She was lovely...sadly got very little screen time

    • @dasaxophonist
      @dasaxophonist Год назад +36

      @Sai Niharika oh yeah, well he's married to her in real life haha, the niece was actually their daughter too

    • @samselim2310
      @samselim2310 Год назад +2

      ​@@sainiharika3158not to mention his real wife 😊

    • @maralonent6257
      @maralonent6257 Год назад +3

      All he really needs is Mike. Sadly all of these women keep manipulating him.

    • @nirupampratapgiri1348
      @nirupampratapgiri1348 Год назад

      Facts@@maralonent6257

  • @ilias_r17
    @ilias_r17 2 года назад +162

    "Donnas first mistake" - loooool

  • @SophisticateHouseOfFashion
    @SophisticateHouseOfFashion 2 месяца назад +6

    Harvey and Scottie breakup, Harvey is cool, Harvey and Paula breakup, Harvey is cool. Donna leaves Harvey to work for Loius and Harvey implodes and have intimate dreams about her.
    Conclusion, the one person Harvey couldn't live without was Donna. That's a man in love even if he couldn't bring it to his conscious mind.
    Therapist Paula should have helped him to confront his feedings, not get into bed with him.

  • @tabathaogost4982
    @tabathaogost4982 2 года назад +46

    Honestly, this is a terrible place to find yourself in, there is no winning and you can make any move you want but at this point the relationship is already over. You can't help but be jealous, that's an inescapable reality, and you can't ask him to fire her, that's unfair and also controlling, and you can't ask him to change jobs because he will forever be resentful and also does not solve the problem of Donna existing at all, there is no condition that I can see under which this problem can be resolved. The best outcome I think could be continuing to be jealous and figuring out a way to manage the jealousy but it wasn't unfounded jealousy so its just a matter of time before decisions need to be made again. I think I would have probably ended right there. The truth is no matter how much he loved her he didn't love her as much as he loved his secretary and what she did for him.

  • @Ekaterina-o5q
    @Ekaterina-o5q 10 месяцев назад +53

    Paula was seeing the situation crystal clear, if you ask me. She saw that he loves Donna more than a friend. Considering that it is implied throughout the whole tv series, Paula was very reasonable (I would do the same) and the fact that they ended the relationship is the best move - he would never love her as much and be so compatible as with Donna. Pretty well written characters with a very realistic plot that can easily happen in real life.

    • @ilina84107
      @ilina84107 10 месяцев назад +9

      How can it be reasonable to enter into a relationship with a man who you know loves another woman who is his colleague?
      What hopes can you have that the relationship will last and you won't be left heartbroken like in the previous relationship?

    • @anthonyanderson9303
      @anthonyanderson9303 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@ilina84107 On top of that you were his therapist! You know all his issues with relationships and yet you still pursue this relationship?

  • @360shadowmoon
    @360shadowmoon 8 месяцев назад +7

    This entire plotline is batshit and should never have been written. Paula went from being a character I respected to someone with extremely bad judgement. Even with the legal lapse of a year, I found it very ick that she was willing to date a former patient. In addition, since he was her patient, she knew he was in love with Donna and chose to date him anyway. And on top of that, it is never okay to ask your bf to fire someone just because you're threatened by them. If you feel like your partner is not committed, break up with them.

  • @Ree-vn9dc
    @Ree-vn9dc Год назад +15

    I don't feel sorry for Paula at all, she knew how Harvey felt about Donna he told her everything in therapy so she should not have taken a chance with him she should have told him Donna is the one for you. I don't think it was fair for her to give Harvey an ultimatum to have Donna to lose her job that was wrong and he should have never allowed her to make him ask Donna to leave

  • @izzyizzy241
    @izzyizzy241 2 года назад +139

    I hated Harvey for not taking Donna's defense when Paula suggested he fire her. And when he acted on her back to kick her out of the company. He gives up the most loyal person in his life who has been with him non-stop for 12 years for one with whom he had started a relationship for 2 months and they had met several times. Even if he changed his mind I would have liked Donna not to give up at her resignation and move on without him

    • @Isaac1ofone
      @Isaac1ofone 2 года назад +1

      She for the streets

    • @effy8774
      @effy8774 2 года назад +20

      I despised Paula's character so much .
      Probably because first of all I saw her as a therapist.

    • @fallenangel3436
      @fallenangel3436 2 года назад +19

      @@effy8774 exactly, it was so unrealistic for such a “great” therapist to date her ex patient who she knew was in love with someone else

    • @effy8774
      @effy8774 2 года назад +18

      @@fallenangel3436 This is correct. But what kind of therapist is she if she doesn't realize that Harvey is in denial? She wasn't even interested in whether his emotional problems were resolved. She was preoccupied with her fantasies with the former patient

    • @TB91178
      @TB91178 2 года назад +18

      FINALLY. This is the first comment that actually makes sense!! I don’t understand so many people taking Paula’s side when she is essentially trying to force personnel changes at a company she doesn’t work for because she’s uncomfortable. And for Harvey to actually try to do it to keep his GIRLFRIEND happy? Imagine if we all had a boss like this….it’s insane. If anything she can demand HARVEY get another job but to try and get someone else fired? Paula is the worst and Harvey should be shamed for going along with it at all.

  • @TvojaMAMA77
    @TvojaMAMA77 3 месяца назад +5

    I liked Paula, but i honestly didn't understand her. Harvey had panic attack by the mere thought of Donna leaving him as a secretary. She had to have known, he had feelings for Donna. Why move into that relationship?

  • @patricksanders2219
    @patricksanders2219 2 года назад +35

    See women know when men love that woman in their life before we do.

  • @FalconFlyer75
    @FalconFlyer75 2 года назад +347

    normally when someone says "don't hang out with this person" I usually believe they're the ones who should be cut out
    but here I'm actually sympathetic for a few reasons
    1) she didn't say this on impulse, she actually took the time to think it through
    2) she wasn't inconsiderate of Harvey's feelings and took an "I hate to say this" approach not a "lay down the law approach"
    3) Donna was the one who kissed Harvey when she knew they were in a relationship
    4) Harvey has a history with Donna (its more like being friends with an Ex where anything could happen heat of the moment)
    5) she was cheated on in the past
    so in this case even though it was a bad move it was understandable, I know I wouldn't be comfortable being with someone who was actively working with a person they had such a history with

    • @simone3633
      @simone3633 2 года назад +21

      my opinion is that
      1. she premeditated the moment which makes she selfish.
      she could have had this discussion at other times, such as when Harvey asked her if she wanted to be with him or at least two other times.
      But it seemed to her the right time after the meeting with his mother. She considered that her relationship with Harvey had already reached another level that allows her to set conditions and she even thought that she would be chosen.
      2. She's a hypocrite because she was the one telling Harvey that he and Donna had feelings for each other.
      3. It is true that Donna kissed Harvey but Paula should have trusted him knowing his problem with fidelity.
      4. She should have consulted a therapist to get rid of insecurities

    • @boomds5602
      @boomds5602 2 года назад +5

      @@simone3633 anyone will have insecurities in this situation

    • @simone3633
      @simone3633 2 года назад +5

      ​@@boomds5602 Not just anyone. Just a person who doesn't trust her partner

  • @sureshnishtala2887
    @sureshnishtala2887 2 года назад +61

    harvey is caught between donna and paula...oh poor harvey

  • @mofokengmoiloa1231
    @mofokengmoiloa1231 2 года назад +324

    Is Paula being selfish though? I love this show it makes you think at all angles lol

    • @TradGuyTravels
      @TradGuyTravels 2 года назад +100

      Not at all, Paula is in the right

    • @Rheinmeister09
      @Rheinmeister09 2 года назад +76

      @@TradGuyTravels Donna's being selfish. She kissed him and forced him to choose.

    • @TradGuyTravels
      @TradGuyTravels 2 года назад +26

      @@Rheinmeister09 Exactly. Paula isn’t the selfish one

    • @khaledlaghfouri5429
      @khaledlaghfouri5429 2 года назад +28

      Pula isn't selfish Donna is and so do Harvey

    • @luwamalem9537
      @luwamalem9537 2 года назад +2

      Is it still on? I stopped the show a while ago lol 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @simone3633
    @simone3633 2 года назад +27

    He has such a sad look and a resigned voice when he tells his mother his name is Paula ....

  • @theresasutton5016
    @theresasutton5016 2 месяца назад +3

    Paula was wrong. She knew Harvey had feelings for Donna. They were never gonna separated

  • @fabriglas
    @fabriglas 2 года назад +33

    Harvey and Donna were the people I liked most in this show... yes Harvey is a cocky bloke but he is smart...

  • @gee7846
    @gee7846 Месяц назад +3

    Paula was right to be insecure, given how her marriage ended however, she put herself in this position, it wasn't like Harvey tried to hide Donna, she was literally why he went to therapy after all.

  • @ogenglishchat9502
    @ogenglishchat9502 2 года назад +18

    Common now people! How can u say Donna is selfish! She is the least selfish person in the world. I don't blame Paula tho cos I understand her position. However, she knew Harvey loves Donna which makes her even selfish 4 still going into that relationship. That right there was d beginning of her foreseen heartbreak. When u know someone is love with another and d other loves him, keep clear cos ur bound to get hurt!🤷🏾‍♀

  • @anaadyakumar
    @anaadyakumar 2 года назад +38

    Paula and Harvey have no chemistry

    • @angelabaxter2481
      @angelabaxter2481 5 месяцев назад +1

      Couldn’t agree more! He never seemed himself with her at all, like he wasn’t comfortable, no joking around no FUN! All too heavy, she was so uptight, not his type. Her English reserve and his New York swagger were just an awkward combination.

  • @michelleyota7899
    @michelleyota7899 Год назад +60

    I actually get her. Women feel that way when you make them feel they're not the number one woman in your life.
    She would like to be your partner, your best friend with whom you can share everything but she doesn't feel that way. She feels insecure and she's actually right.

    • @aethei8560
      @aethei8560 Год назад +1

      Women in general, sure. But Paula was Harvey’s therapist. She knew the ins and outs of his complicated feelings for Donna, and she knew that he had panic attacks when she left him. Making him fire her is inconsiderate to HIS feelings let alone Donna’s. I honestly think that Paula should have rejected Harvey the first time around no matter what the law says.

  • @eunicebalane9682
    @eunicebalane9682 2 года назад +33

    How does a professional relate to her patient? And how can no one see that this was manipulation? She as his therapist knew that as much as Harvey wouldn't admit the feelings she had for Donna he liked her, it's hypocritical of her to ask or question their relationship, if she entered the relationship with him knowing how he always felt she was obliged to swallow that or herself to leave, she just spoke softly and used excuses to get Harvey to cut Donna out of his life.

    • @ilina84107
      @ilina84107 Год назад +6

      The writing and acting were so great that not only Harvey is manipulated, but so are the viewers.

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino Год назад +3

      @@ilina84107Agreed!! It‘s very subtle, excellent writing. Harvey is being manipulated by playing harmless and concerned, when she is in fact patronizing and plotting. Super unprofessional!
      Most viewers fall for it, too - and therefore prove how hard it is for a man like Harvey to detect deceit on an emotional level.
      His mom was so classy about this awkward dinner. 😝

  • @sofializama8515
    @sofializama8515 3 месяца назад +3

    Harvey’s mom said that on purpose hahahaha ‘cause she been rooting for Donna for years😂

  • @Bella_Mami
    @Bella_Mami 2 года назад +32

    It was wrong of Paula to ask Harvey to fire Donna. She doesn’t trust him, which means she doesn’t love him. No trust no relationship. Donna deserve for Harvey to stickup for Donna. She was there for Harvey for 13 years and just can’t forget about her loyalty because the other chick is jealous and insecure. Glad Honna was endgame after all this. 👍🏼✌🏼

    • @TB91178
      @TB91178 2 года назад +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Frenzyshark
      @Frenzyshark 2 года назад +4

      I agree asking Harvey to fire Donna is out of line. You can ask your SO to spend less time with a potential person issue but outright firing is too much. How would Donna explain to other employers why she lost a job after so many years of service? It's just a bad decision.

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 2 года назад

      yo are wrong she does love him

  • @djalfredstein1049
    @djalfredstein1049 2 года назад +3

    Harvey’s mom to Harvey -Am I interrupting
    Harvey to Paula - Am I interrupting

  • @vaishnaviandhare2176
    @vaishnaviandhare2176 2 года назад +98

    The fact that Paula was absolutely correct!

    • @zizzi1227
      @zizzi1227 2 года назад +25

      it's not a question of whether or not he's right
      But Harvey was her patient. He ended up in panic atac therapy when she left him. Donna was the woman in his dreams.
      It was foolish that she start a relationship with him and even think that he would give up Donna and choose her

    • @imogene2044
      @imogene2044 Год назад +1

      @@zizzi1227 agree

    • @imogene2044
      @imogene2044 Год назад +1

      She was wrong
      She was unfair weak n childish to ask him to fire donna
      She was supposed to fight for him or leave
      Not attack donna ...

    • @Ambereigh
      @Ambereigh Год назад +1

      She new she was correct before they started dating. You know why?because she was his therapist ! She brought this on herself

  • @humbertoflores2545
    @humbertoflores2545 2 года назад +30

    Paula fue la terapista de Harvey, y creo que ella cometió el grave error de envolverse con un paciente, además de usar información privilegiada para manipular la relación, de modo que ella tenía la ventaja en la relación, pero no midió lo suficiente como para darse cuenta que Harvey siempre hablaba de Donna todo el tiempo y eso significa que él la amaba a ella muy en el fondo.! Paula apostó por Harvey pensando en "corregirlo", pero desde el inicio ya tenía la partida perdida.

  • @Elisa-gn5nj
    @Elisa-gn5nj 2 года назад +35

    Paula was too weak to resist the charm of Harvey who arrived at her door in designer clothes and a fancy car like in her fantasies (just as she was weak when she succumbed to that important patient whose child died of an overdose) .
    Although she learned from the therapy sessions that all his emotional problems were triggered because of Donna and that she was the woman of his dreams and that they had feelings one for the other, Paula assumed this relationship without being interested in the condition of her former patient .
    As a professional, when he saw that Harvey was in denial, he should have helped him to recognize his feelings.
    but she took advantage of her former patient's vulnerability and hoped that an opportunity would arise to get Donna out of his life.

  • @fragileesther
    @fragileesther Год назад +4

    so funny when mummy defines DINNER....

  • @sainnthiaanilus670
    @sainnthiaanilus670 Год назад +44

    Paula was definitely in the wrong, she knew what she was getting into when they started talking. For God’s sake she was his therapist and the man literally had panic attacks because of Donna. The fact that she suggested that he fire her was also wrong cause Donna earned that job and it shouldn’t be taken from her because Paula can’t accept the fact that Harvey will always choose Donna no matter what.

    • @pocketpug110
      @pocketpug110 Год назад +1

      I agree ☝🏾

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino Год назад

      Super unprofessional!

    • @sophisticatelifestyle
      @sophisticatelifestyle Год назад +1

      I agree with most of this. I just didn't like that Harvey gave in and sought to have Donna go to another company. Paula, caved into feelings she developed for her handsome and charismatic patient, but she should have been stronger and not start a relationship with him. She knew his feelings for Donna, she failed to push him during the sessions to get him to confront those feelings, maybe because she herself was developing feelings for him. She too readily agreed to date him when he came to ask her out, which showed she had feelings for him. To me, she crossed ethical lines since she knew his issues weren't fully confronted when they ended the sessions.

  • @Jdnicks00
    @Jdnicks00 2 года назад +144

    Paula is right, she knows Harvey’s feeling with Donna.

    • @effy8774
      @effy8774 2 года назад +24

      Of course she knew . Harvey was her panic-atac patient when Donna left him. And if she was smart, she wouldn't have a relationship with he

    • @alex.is.here.
      @alex.is.here. Год назад +2

      As she knew, she was the muppet for getting involved with him

    • @sophisticatelifestyle
      @sophisticatelifestyle Год назад +1

      Then don't get involved with him. Paula was at the forefront of Harvey's feelings for Donna as his therapist, so why get involved in that complicated situation?
      Then to want Donna to lose her job and Harvey to lose this person who he relied on so completely was not healthy for her relationship with Harvey. He would have resented her and they would not have lasted. Hey, they didn't.

    • @ssss-hx7py
      @ssss-hx7py Месяц назад

      Yes she knew it from beggining and started relatioship with client😂

  • @Sandripedroso
    @Sandripedroso 2 года назад +11

    Sinceramente siento admiración por Paula porque quiso estar en una relación con Harvey sabiendo lo que el siente por Dona 🤔🤔🤔 porque seamos honestos,el jamás iba a dejar ir a Dona😒😒😒 y no juzgo a Paula por querer intentarlo pero debió ver que las cosas no iban a cambiar y lo que no entiendo es porque quiso pasar por todo eso sabiendo lo que Harvey sentía.

  • @nikolascsgo
    @nikolascsgo 10 месяцев назад

    the thing is that this was written in such a nice way where there were three equally reasonable and emotionally struggling people trying to fit themselves into a two-person relationship
    you couldn't really blame anyone but just wait for it all to unfold in its natural course

  • @ssss-hx7py
    @ssss-hx7py Месяц назад +1

    Its always been donna from first episode but i get paula

  • @arminxvs3372
    @arminxvs3372 2 года назад +43

    Paula was a nice woman but maaaan did she have a lof of issues and red flags. If a woman gives you an ultimatum to drop important people in your life (family/friends) - drop her ASAP. She either trusts you enough or not.

    • @yuktaraj9062
      @yuktaraj9062 2 года назад +19

      I mean they did kiss, Paula's insecurities weren't out of nowhere

    • @gatobuho-
      @gatobuho- 2 года назад +9

      I think the red flag was seen when she was his therapist and fell in love with him

  • @melissapage2387
    @melissapage2387 Год назад +13

    While I understand Paula’s insecurity about Donna working with him - Donna being fired from a job she earned and loves is not the solution. Harvey should set clear boundaries, and be professional. And if Paula would wake up, she would see she is fighting a loosing battle. If she can’t trust him to be around Donna then that’s a huge red flag 🚩. As a therapist wouldn’t that be a clue to you that your relationship is not going to work 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @freeinghumanitynow
    @freeinghumanitynow 2 года назад +29

    The whole Harvey-Paula relationship was unethical, weird, awkward and basically the writers thumbing their noses at the annoying Marvey shippers. As a couple they made NO sense whatsoever.

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino Год назад

      Exactly!

    • @caffemocca8855
      @caffemocca8855 9 месяцев назад

      And all relationships IRL are ethical & totally normal without problems?
      I don't understand when people complain about fictional relationships "make no sense" when in fact it's just not their preference

    • @angelabaxter2481
      @angelabaxter2481 5 месяцев назад

      Exactly! So weird, so awkward, and unethical. A total mismatch

  • @samanthabelgrove8975
    @samanthabelgrove8975 Год назад +15

    Paula looked for what she got who in their right minds gets with a man who you know is in love with someone else. It’s not like if she didn’t know they loved each other so why would she put herself in that position to feel insecure in her relationship. Like girl BFFR 💀😭

  • @meghanwalsh6031
    @meghanwalsh6031 2 года назад +27

    Paula is all "keep your GRIMEY paws OFF Armistead Stewart. He's mine."

    • @nataliiay646
      @nataliiay646 2 года назад +3

      YESSSSSS😂 she will forever be Clarissa😂

    • @RossieMarrie
      @RossieMarrie 2 года назад +1

      Didn't she also mentioned Yankee in that sentence

    • @Aly-Author
      @Aly-Author Год назад

      Yaaaasss !!

  • @jackharle1251
    @jackharle1251 2 года назад +8

    Paula is replaceable, Donna is not.

  • @frankwaldron8223
    @frankwaldron8223 2 года назад +9

    This man was in therapy with you🤦‍♀️ you had to know how he felt about donna,plssss

  • @danielcavalier711
    @danielcavalier711 Год назад +6

    Well, Harvey had a breakdown because of Donna leaving, so, Paula is right about this.

  • @sweetrose_5
    @sweetrose_5 Год назад +3

    When you have to demand someone to make a choice.... They gave already made it😢

  • @gabifgt
    @gabifgt Год назад +16

    i actually liked paula. she was very reasonable, didn't make a scene and was very honest with harvey about donna. she just wasn't the smartest, because she knew about their complex relationship when he was her client.

  • @ZendelWashington
    @ZendelWashington 2 года назад +9

    run, harvey, run!

  • @fredo8564
    @fredo8564 6 месяцев назад +1

    very reasonable request

  • @haripriyaselvaraj987
    @haripriyaselvaraj987 Год назад +4

    For a therapist she is insane to me from the beginning i mean he tried everything to workout between them and due to her past relationship she is asking the cost of another woman. And for those who say she is right no she is not!! If he have let donna go then it would be some other after. If a person claims their happiness lies with a cost of another person they are never gonna be happy and you can never make them. Comparing to her i even liked scottie better🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @iyersforreal
    @iyersforreal 9 месяцев назад +1

    BIG RED FLAG 😱

  • @indrajitchatterjee111
    @indrajitchatterjee111 Месяц назад

    I completely understand Paula's feelings. Donna and Harvey's relationship has been in the grey before and Donna clearly always had feelings for him which also Paula knew so this would have been a slow and painful relationship

    • @AlezanDeer
      @AlezanDeer Месяц назад

      Paula also knew that Harvey had feelings for Donna and knew that he was in denial.

  • @serenaroseauthentics1391
    @serenaroseauthentics1391 Год назад +10

    Sounds like the therapist needs to find a better therapist. I say this as a therapist.

    • @caffemocca8855
      @caffemocca8855 9 месяцев назад +2

      The therapist shouldn't even considered dating her former patients before. That's the problem

  • @sasa89898
    @sasa89898 2 года назад +2

    i miss them اكثر من اي شي بهالحياه عم ببكي هلأ

  • @mostafajunayed4878
    @mostafajunayed4878 2 года назад +1

    nice touch on that wine glass

  • @zacqueeentertainment7336
    @zacqueeentertainment7336 2 года назад +2

    Great acting

  • @Bellinaxoxo
    @Bellinaxoxo 2 месяца назад +1

    Donna is harvey secretary... she knows her way around the office ... paula is insecure... just because she is doest mean donna should lose her job..

  • @therealdeal7468
    @therealdeal7468 2 года назад +3

    Everyone is insufferable!

  • @cal5444
    @cal5444 Месяц назад

    If she doesn't feel jealousy for you she doesn't love you. Keep 'em jealous and never capitulate your vision for hers.

  • @Swameh
    @Swameh 2 года назад +8

    Wait... Suits is still on?

  • @BB8enjoyer
    @BB8enjoyer 2 года назад +2

    I may not have a lot of experience in this arena, he said it

  • @mitsurikanroji9548
    @mitsurikanroji9548 Месяц назад

    Already knew this was bound to happen, donna is a regular in this show while paula's actress just work for this season alone

  • @xxgo0kst3rxx
    @xxgo0kst3rxx 5 месяцев назад

    This relationship was probably the most mature of the three he had.. she wasn’t wrong she was upfront with him she just knew was he didn’t at the time

  • @baxx4chee325
    @baxx4chee325 2 года назад +43

    I like it more Paula for Harvey tbh.. Donna gets really annoying in the last seasons

  • @aniketkarmkar8682
    @aniketkarmkar8682 11 месяцев назад +5

    I so wanted this relationship to workout man she is amazing ❤

  • @hackerkeanu
    @hackerkeanu 2 года назад +7

    Paula is a hypocrite..

  • @ayesharahim7859
    @ayesharahim7859 Год назад +2

    Top acting ❤

  • @shamimmeem1149
    @shamimmeem1149 11 месяцев назад

    I dnt understand y one could keep his heart so hard like that...

  • @Trinlove
    @Trinlove Месяц назад

    Paula is not wrong 😭Proximity closeness is a thing. I hate that Donna is trying to make Harvey feel guilty.

  • @Someone-yd3yt
    @Someone-yd3yt 2 месяца назад

    This was way too much to ask, Paula knew that the only way to remove Donna from Harvey's life would be for him to fire a person who did nothing wrong, have her leave on her own, or have Harvey give up his firm and go somewhere else.

  • @levolvik5231
    @levolvik5231 2 года назад +76

    I think it's absolutely right of Paula to ask this. She knows that Harvey loves Donna and so the only way to keep the relationship with Paula is to keep Donna out of his life

    • @TB91178
      @TB91178 2 года назад +32

      That’s not how love works …………….Trying to remove Donna from Harvey’s life isn’t going to magically make Harvey fall in love with Paula or keep their relationship, if anything it will make Harvey resent Paula and she’ll lose him anyway (which she did). You cannot force a person to love you or force them not to love someone else. It doesn’t work that way.

    • @Frenzyshark
      @Frenzyshark 2 года назад +2

      @@TB91178 I think it's fair for Paula to at least voice her concerns. Keep it in mind. It's inevitable a relationship to fail(and it did) when there really is a third person involved. It's not nice to Harvey to data Paula with Donna as a backup. Or as a way to make Donna jealous(not saying Harvey is trying to do this).
      But I agree why Donna and Harvey hesitated for so long. Dating someone with a direct relationship looks bad. When Donna became the COO(I think that's what she became), it did make it better(since she wasn't directly under him) but I guess still risky since two high levels of power. But it is what it is.

    • @adrianaayulo
      @adrianaayulo 2 года назад +12

      If Paula knows Harvey loves Donna, then she is the one that should go.

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino Год назад

      Typical shrink with their blurred lines and manipulative ways…they want to fix ppl and feel superior.

    • @maralonent6257
      @maralonent6257 Год назад

      Yep, she was trying to Help Harvey get past Donna but Donna manipulated him in the end.

  • @mahshidvarnaseri7493
    @mahshidvarnaseri7493 2 года назад +59

    Finally he chose donna 🤪🤪🤪

  • @PinGao-wx9hc
    @PinGao-wx9hc Год назад +3

    I want Paula more than Donna

  • @twiceshy9773
    @twiceshy9773 2 года назад +3

    Well Paula was totally right...gigglesnort poor Harvy, stuck between 2 gorgeous women

  • @HamitoucheBouanz
    @HamitoucheBouanz 8 дней назад

    Some lessons i've learned from this episode 1/ Having a dinner with your mom is a big thing for your wife, a diplomatic meeting that she needs to prepare... 2/ having "a donna" in your work, may make you struggle with your marriage. 😂😂😂

  • @blackandwhite691
    @blackandwhite691 Год назад +1

    Well, she was right. He and Donna definitely have some feelings for each other. And don't get me wrong, they SHOULD have ended up together anyway, I love Donna and Harvey. But any person who was in Paula's shoes would want the same thing. Although Paula should've never started the relationship as well because first, she was his therapist and second, because she is his therapist, she knows how much Donna means to him. I mean, why would you set yourself up for failure? Like I know Harvey kept denying it and he is guilty too but obviously, as his therapist, she saw the truth and choose to deny as well.

  • @42_10_
    @42_10_ 2 месяца назад +1

    shouldn't trust Paula in the first place 😅.

  • @timobeyer9870
    @timobeyer9870 2 года назад +2

    It's so annoying in movies that they not actually call something or at least have a picture of a calling screen, it's just the home screen

  • @bubblegammu
    @bubblegammu Год назад

    you feel what you feel, how can anyone deny that

    • @alex.is.here.
      @alex.is.here. Год назад

      SO that mistress feel what she feels for that married man and goes after him, yeah that is fine... NO, you can feel what you feel, but it shouldnt impact on others

    • @bubblegammu
      @bubblegammu Год назад

      @@alex.is.here. no one is married here

    • @alex.is.here.
      @alex.is.here. Год назад

      @@bubblegammu I know, I was referring to your broad statement about you feel what you feel, how can anyone deny that...

    • @bubblegammu
      @bubblegammu Год назад

      @@alex.is.here. I Don't know how old are you...but black n white do not happen in life. When such thing happens, a security in relationship is tested. If relationship is not strong, it suffers. Do this, Do that ...life does not work like it

    • @alex.is.here.
      @alex.is.here. Год назад

      @@bubblegammu possibly older than you, have had wide experience in life, and I knew that if a guy was interested, dating, engaged or married to someone, he was out of bounds

  • @elenahadloc5239
    @elenahadloc5239 Месяц назад

    Everybody loves donna and harvey.

  • @shukdeepsingh8570
    @shukdeepsingh8570 2 месяца назад

    What session and episode was fhis please send me fhanks for ur help

  • @2else4archi36
    @2else4archi36 9 месяцев назад

    As a therapist Paula saw how important Donna is for Harvey from the beginning. He wasn't ready to admit it even after his body did, and he started relationships with Paula. Why she even went into that? OK, it's hard not to want Harvey, but she should put herself first, especially after her man cheated on her with a colleague.

    • @blurryeyes316
      @blurryeyes316 9 месяцев назад

      Wait is she a therapist or is she HIS therapist?? Because that's messed up.

  • @khushbupatel5128
    @khushbupatel5128 2 года назад +6

    I understand Paula . But Donna was the one from the beginning...

  • @kishorsheta8478
    @kishorsheta8478 Месяц назад

    Very very nice ji superb thanks ji ❤

  • @srikanth-yi6ik
    @srikanth-yi6ik 2 года назад +148

    For some reason, I always feel Paula is right for Harvey..
    I think Harvey is more than Donna's standards

    • @harveyspecter1855
      @harveyspecter1855 2 года назад +15

      Ouch for donna. She's Donna. Understand Mr.

    • @lemongeezer1157
      @lemongeezer1157 2 года назад +12

      @@harveyspecter1855 does "she is Donna" loosely translate to "she is a highly paranoid, overdramatic shell that's always waiting to explode"? Then you might have a point there

    • @thechlorinator1803
      @thechlorinator1803 2 года назад +5

      @@lemongeezer1157 i mean is harvey any different but still Paula was better for him

    • @simone3633
      @simone3633 2 года назад +11

      By no means did Paula live up to Harvey's standards

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557 2 года назад

      Ever since i found out donna ends up with Harvey, I dropped the show. Just can't see them together like that at all. They seem, and feel like friends.

  • @summergreen9863
    @summergreen9863 Год назад +1

    I hated Harvey for hitting on her and gave her hope when we all know who’s gonna get in the way .. Paula should’ve known better and prevent herself from getting hurt .. I would pay for a scene where Paula rejected Harvey 100 times of him pursuing her.. It’s not Donna’s fault either but she just doesn’t know how to get out of the way by making it clear.. either telling Harvey she wants him or make him forget her.. They are just hurting another woman because of their indecisive relationship