Check out the new video regarding "It is haram for parents forcing their children to marry person they do not desire" and Mufti Menk goes over "How love marriage could be a good thing in many Muslim marriage". ruclips.net/video/RFYPsS5hk0I/видео.html
AssalamoAlaikum Sir you said if the marriage is not possible for some reason then just move on, i just want to ask how one can move on sir? Allah puts love in our heart and from 1st day my intention was right(means i will marry him) and now its impossible for me to move on. I love him alot sir i accepted his love after passing so many months and now he can't marry because of family issue, now i can't move on, i still have hope because Allah can do everything.
I request you sir please do tell me the right way in this situation, may be i am doing wrong that i can not stop to love him only because i have hope on Allah, i really do not want to angry Allah, i am facing very hard time please tell me what to do at this moment
World Islam I think often of my past experience and pray please for me for peace and to move on with my life and live my life in peace thats what I want and my life is getting better every day. Ameen
Im so sad, he left me for another girl. Im deppressed. Allahu, its already 7month since he left but its still hurt. Every night, my tears is my sleeping pills. If youre reading this, pray for me :')
May Allah make it easy for you...Also remember to forgive them and everyone...It will u make you feel good guaranteed...As Allah loves so much those who do good to others...By forgiving him you will start feeling Allah comforting you... May Allah make it easier for you and us....
Life is too short to waste and wait for someone that didn't love u the way u did, so just don't be depressed brothers and sisters and get up from bed and move on with your life and just pray to Allah and ask for forgiveness in sha allah, you will find someone better soon 😊
It absolutely breaks my heart to see so many people hurt in the comments section subhanallah all I can say is do TAHAJJUD at night and ask Allah swt for a good person and may it be true love!!!
Making dua at Tahajjud is like an arrow that does not miss its target. May Allah grant us all the ability to pray tahajjud and leave the blessing our beds to earn the blessings of Allah’s love ameen
I'm 32 divorced.... got out of abusive marriage... alhamdulilah iam happy but I want to start a family..... I don't have kids... so it's Ramadan please pray for me I find a god fearing kind husband for me ...... it's so hard to find someone good with basic qualities. .... so pray for me every one ... inshallah the right one will come
@Usama Fayyaz dont judge her coz she knows better about the issue...usually itz seen that ignorant men swear and beat their wife....they take the advantage of masculinity and try to dominate women
im new about islam. my boyfriend is from palestina. and iam from japan. he told me about islam so well. and iam Muslim now. not coz of i have Muslim bf. but.. i feel cant explain my feels and i wanna cry when i listen he read quran.
Keyboard Worrior Subhan Allah.. there's nothing to do with if he is hindu or not ...!!! He is our Mufti brother and that's all only going to be said Here ..!!! And don't say that please 🙁
I wish we never fall in love with people we can't be with its sad n so heartbreaking.. love is beautiful falling in love is beautiful but then when u separate for sum reason any reasons it tears away at ur soul... I have loved n lost...again n again sumtimes I gave up hope of ever meeting my soulmate...ask people whose heart is broken it's so painful to carry on but sum how u go on While they live on as if u were nothing may Allah give all heartbroken ones strength n sabre n fill their hearts with love again inshallah ameen. ..
I have been through same problem, Once i loved someone so purely so deeply, but suffered alot, i was unable to foget her, but at very moment i prayed ALLAH to give me strength to forget her and move on with my life, ALLAH has blessed me and gave me that strength, now my first part of suffering is over yes i did some steps also, completely remove her pics from mob block her from whatsapp and strict my mind to not to think about her, eventually i started to forget her. Now i am in second phase the phase us called acceptance of new relationship, am not not dating or thinking about these things, i meant to say completing relying on ALMIGHTY and pray that oh my lord give me the one who is good for me and bless me the right person.. Pray to him he is the sustainer he is the one who gives comfort to broken hearts, he will listen and grant us the thinks which brings goodness. Tawaakul is key and in bad situation one must seek help through sabr and nawaz. May ALMIGHTY grant us a deep understanding.
@@fahadbakht8848 I have started praying five times n it give so much peace .. my frnd said that isn't it better that u found the love of creater of all things after loosing the love of a human being
@@fahadbakht8848 Did the girl leave u? Or u left her?? The person who is at the receiving end suffers the most.. U can't unlove someone just by deleting their pics or blocking them.. Namaaz does help to ease the suffering but sincere feelings remain unchanged..Are you sure you've forgotten that person??
I'm so depressed and sad and have low selfesteem. I dont have anyone to talk to. Its a sensitive topic. I pray Allah will strenghten my imaan (and my muslim sisters and brothers in similar situation) and bless me/us with inner peace and happiness. Ameen!
Anoniema please don't loose hope. :) everyone have a different timing in life . someone may acchieve something at the age of 17 while someone else may acchieve it at 40. .it is all in Allah's planning. We don't know indeed and He knows. & it is for the better. & he'll provide for u what's best for you at the right time..this is coming from someone who recently had her heart broken. trust me.. it is better to have no one in ur life then being with the wrong one. so just wait for the right one , be patient and trust allah. and always be thankful. alhamdulliah
Chanyeolie If someone get some good things early in his/her life and the other's very Late. Then how you can equate both ? The on e who get it early will enjoy for a long life. While the other who gets it at the age of 40 will have that good for alittle period !!!
I hope whoever is reading, has a peaceful and good happy life. It's not easy I know, but believe me when I say this, it's all gonna be fine. We all loved someone who hurt us but does that mean we should hate them and get depressed? Not at all. Wallahi, it's for the best. You'll find someone far far better. Just pray for them and you'll be fine. Alhamdulillah I'm not depressed, Why? Because who's better at making you feel happy than the one who created you? Talk to him, and I promise you, you will be fine In Sha Allah. Fi Amanillah sweeties.😘
If I personally got a chance to explain my self then it will be like a story of for to 5 pages....So in word I will say it's sweetness is very sweet... And I will pray whoever my comment 😊😊😊 May Allaha Give hidaya to all of them as well as me...Ameeeeeeeeen Allaha humma Ameeeeeen..
I loved a girl and she loved me too she promised that she'll marry me but later I came to now that she was cheating on me. And now my whole life is shattered I don't know what to do I so lonely no one understands my pain they think my story is just an another love failure. No one understands my pain and sufferings. I want to forget her completely and move on but it's 8 month and her memories still haunts me to the hell. I have a family I need to support them but I can't concentrate on anything. May Allah bless have mercy on me.
Impatience is for shaytan,so be patient.the choice of Allah is the best,seek knowledge to get out of ignorance and let's go back to Allah.may Allah guide us on the right path to the end of our life
When I looked at her I felt happiness, my hart was at peace, she had a beautiful soul, prayed, she was respectful, I loved her for the sake of Allah S.W.T, never did I look at her for her body or beauty. But the distance between us and her parents turned her against me. She left me, I cry day and night, it feels like there is no reason for me to live anymore. I am making dua for her, but it feels like she’s never going to come back. I’m lost, I don’t know what to do. May Allah S.W.T guide me.
I'm kinda in the same boat, except I walked away from him ....and now he's having a baby ....it broke me and i didn't wanna live anymore , idk what to do either, Allah help us all
Allah Can heal every one..... My father had left my mom since 4 years.... I can see her crying at nights.... She is still loving her husband... But my father is living with another girl... Pray for them, forgive them..... Allah is always with us.... We came alone here, no one was with us, n we are going alone from here.... Allah u r great... Heal our problems.... Say alhamdulilla
I was in a haram relationship, and she broke my heart. Its been a year already, but still hurts till today. But I am thankful to Allah Subha a taalah for bring to closer to him through ending a haram relationship. I know, he has someone better waiting for me.
I fell in love with a sister in my med school class who I knew a little bit, but she told me that she wanted to remain friends. I am utterly heartbroken because I even did Isthikara hoping for the best. She seemed like the right combination of beauty, athleticism, smarts and humility, but I'm now starting to see faults in her that perhaps Allah was trying to save me from. I hope to find someone to cool my eyes, who will love me back and make me fall in deeper love than this girl, InshAllah. Hope the same for my brothers and sisters going through a similar ordeal, Ameen.
@@hammadferoz2224 We're still in school together for the next 3-4 years, so it remains to be seen, but I'm not optimistic. She never expanded on why she said that and I never bothered to probe any deeper about it. I still do dua that Allah being us close if she's the right one for me. I'm still utterly heartbroken about her, but Allah knows best InshAllah.
@@smellypatel5272 pray that Allah makes you both the best for each other and Unites you! At the same avoid being close to her be normal and distance yourself for the time being so that she doesn't feel awkward and weird and just try to understand her better and yourself also! Things will work out between you two! Ameen
Honestly, you can't force her to desire you. That's the painful part of it all, I know. Feelings have to be mutual for it to work. Imagine she did get with you, but it's you who does all the romantic stuff, buying gifts, making her life easier. While she sees you as settlement. You can't force people to like you, you're in med school. Just focus and work on yourself.
I found the guy I want to be with, I prayed and made dua he claims me loves me and sees me as his wife but he is not ready cause he think he can’t support me and wants to finish studying please pray that if he is the one for me he comes back to me inshallah thankyou brothers and sister, May Allah bless u all
The girl With no name May Allah bless you, May Allah grant you the person whom you love so much , they say love is divine , pray to Allah, he is Rahim he is Karim , he is haabeeb ,he is Hakeem , pray Tahajud , I am sure Allah will grant you the soul whom you love so much. Sister, pray for your brother also ,your brother that's me also loves some one beyond love can ever be defined , hope I marry my love too , Allah bless us all , without your blessings where we will go , you are our khaleek (creator), we bow down and ask for forgiveness. May Allah grant Shifa to one of my brother he is suffering pray for one of my younger brother also. Ameen
If u are not married with him right now. Run from him. If a person says he sees u as a wife it's a lie. It's. Only to keep u hooked. How can a person consider a girl his as wife without marriage.. What kind of thought he is having with u then.. Naujubillah
If we have the ability to love..love Allah first. Fill our heart with his love. He is the source of love (al-Wadud). If we fill our heart with His love in syaa Allah everything on earth and heaven will love us. Hold onto His love because Allah never leaves us and never disappoint us. If we fill our heart with so much love for Him..we will never ever feel lonely, sad, insecure and heartbroken. Only on His remembrance do our heart find peace. Indeed, we belong to Him alone and will return back to Him alone.
Nice message dear, it is one of the best way to get rid of anxiety, depression , loneliness. Love Allah don't love anyone in this world. Specially your husband because he never love us perhaps it's a give and take relationship.
I found him the man i was looking for all my life he has all qualities i was looking for and he is Pious and a devoted muslim man. when we planned everything in the middle of waiting for my dream wedding, i lost him, i felt so hurt. Alhamdulilah no one should question the Decree of Allah He ﷻ kNOWS BEST
Zeitun Ahmed - hi I thought i met my soulmate i loved him so much but he left me to marry another woman.... he didnt look back not once or apologise for hurting me but i hopes hes happy and i hope he got what he was looking for but why break my heart. How do i forgive him sometimes i hope he realises. :,(
Shukran so much for this :). Yes the girl I loved was beautiful both physically and spiritually, but if Allah has decreed that she is not for meant for me then I will move on and find my true soulmate. Alhamdulilah
i once loved this girl more than anything we were together for 2 years..but one day she called me and told me her parents have arranged her marriage to another man..i was heartbroken Wallah..i moved on becoz she is someone else's wife.. i still.feel bad to this day..i know Allah has someone better for me In Shaa Allah..
aslamu aleykum.I have find my life partner but we have not met yet but with your blessing will meet one day inshaa Allah. so who is ready to pray for us ?
*Since I was 16, I met the love of my life Abdulrahman, we promised to marry each other back then, now I am 20, he is 21, we have been together for 4 years, I used to become very jealous of girls wanting him, now again I am jealous, and it drove him away. We’ve been broken up for 4 days at least, I’m in such a tragic pain because he’s what makes me feel wholesome. Everyone please pray Allah connects our path so we can be halal and have this marriage.*
oh my girl !! Don't weep for the person who can't understand you.. It is your love that you become jealous .. Just move on honey 💕 If he really do love you then he had to stay with you & make you feel good etc .. So let him go 💕 May Allah heal my all sisters
Everything is side of Allaah and he is sufficient for us Alxmdullh I'm Muslim ☪️ and believe that I will get the person who allaah written for me. I pray everyone who feel sad and his/ her heart is broken 💔 by the person who he/she select in the world but didn't understand to get someone who deserve and know their values. May allaah bless all the Muslim people wherever they are
U see that's the problem. U love someone from ur heart but somehow it doesn't work out and u have to move on. The problem is can u love another person more than the one u truly loved? It's really complicated but Allah always will be by our side. God knows what's good for us. So no matter what, keep praying and do dua:)
I love someone so much. I believe he's my soulmate. I've had so many signs that he's the one for me but due to my mistakes he moved on and married someone else. I pray that I will be one of his wives in jannah and clear all misunderstandings. In the meantime may Allah bless his marriage.
Mishu Islam that's so sad ._. but if it was meant to be in this life then it would have happened so maybe you'll get someone better ! :3 I'm trying to think this way because I'm in a similar situation and it hurts :( I pray Allah cures our heartbreak
I lost my ambition. ..its hurting me a lot.still now. ....and so many problems surrounding me day by day ...feeling very bad....but i believe in Allah. ...pray for me to become a better person in my life...
This lesson teaches me a lot a thank u mufti menk your lecture has entered my mind a heart .thank u teacher your lectures make me strong a think right thank u .may Allah grant u all e best wth protecting
I am going through a rough patch’ in my life with someone who’ I am supposed to get married to. However, when I am communicating, affiliating with this person I do not feel happy, we argue and our relationship has gone down hill. Has made me suffer from anxiety, sadness and a lot of anger built up. So I will cut off contact with him, and call out to Allah and I feel so much more peace.. it’s beginning to make me think this guy isn’t the right spouse for me 😥 Please keep me in your duas that Allah makes it easy for me & those who are suffering and/or trying to get married. For the sake of Allah please keep me in your duas 🌹
Pray for me. I hv been left by someone who promised me to marry. M deeply pained...Hi did wrong with me. Hi left me coz m poor. Hi is rich. Hope allah will show him path.
I left her because she is rich and our condition at home are not so good and healthy... But I love her toooooooo much... May Allah grant her success and wisdom ameen
Mufti menk from the beginning had big impact on me. May Allah(swt) cure our hearts. May Allah(swt) mend our heart and set it together. May Allah(swt) help us walk again after we have shattered into pieces and lost hope. Aameen
Assalam o Alaikum brothers and sisters! I just wanted to let everyone know that it is definitely possible to move on. You have to trust Allah’s plan. I thought it was impossible to get over this Muslim sister that I was interested in getting married to. She had mutual feelings to begin with but then told me a few months later that she’s not ready or just can’t talk about it this soon. She said her parents won’t accept me but I think she was being nice so that I’m not hurt but didn’t even give me a chance to speak to her parents as how can one tell if you don’t even try. Believe me I was obsessed to the point where I thought about her all day everyday, losing sleep over it, even while at work, when socialising with friends and losing focus over daily tasks. I though too far to the point that we’ll get married and have kids etc but Allah had better plans. When she said no I was absolutely heartbroken as I thought I she was a good match being a Hijabi and religious. Then Alhamdulillah I prayed to Allah everyday that if she’s good for me to make it easy otherwise keep me away from her. SubhanAllah Today I came to a realisation that if something is making me loose sleep, be unproductive, and affecting my day to day activities so much to the point that is extremely unhealthy and dangerous if not get sorted as soon as possible would be disastrous and would destroy my life, when we are not even together than how will it be any good or peaceful if we are together. Then I completely lost interest. No one’s to blame her as I’m sure she’s a very nice girl. See the below Ayah: Another of His signs is that He created spouses from among yourselves for you to live with in tranquillity: He ordained love and kindness between you. There truly are signs in this for those who reflect (30:21). If there is no peace now when your not together and only stress anxiety and depression, there would’ve never been any peace if you were to let’s say get married and Allah saved you. I think it all comes down to low self esteem and we try looking to fill our emptiness in worldly things be it a person or any other thing. What we need to do is to focus on improving our relationship with Allah and things will get better because our love should mainly be focused to please Allah and only then you’ll be content and good enough to love another person as you are full. You have to trust Allah’s plan. He knows you better than you know yourself and I pray that Allah makes it easier for anyone that’s going through heartbreaks. You have to be patient and trust Allah’s plan fully.
Jazakallah Brother very inspiring and I hope you meet your happy ever after in shaa Allah, if you thought she was good then Allah will give u someone 100 x better
I went through the same exact thing this past month, brother. A girl in my medical school who I fell in love with rejected my interest in her. I was heartbroken to the point that I couldn't focus on my studies, gym, or anything else. I was obsessing over it night and day. Now that Allah has ordained that she is not for me, I'm slowly moving on. It's still painful, but now I'm realizing that I have to improve myself and my connection with Allah before I can find the right person. May Allah guide all of us and make these difficult parts of life easy, Ameen
Alhamdulillah..thank you for this video..it helped me a lot 😘 if a person doesn't want me, there's another 100 person who value me..gonna bear that in my mind ❤️
i love this pakistani girl in university and I am not pakistani, so her parents dont accept me because of culture but Alhamdulilah we are both good muslims and I want to marry her in the future please make dua for me to make everything work out. InshaAllah everything good happens
I spoke to her family soon after this message and they said no and she has cut contact me for the past 5 months, I miss her but i have to respect he following her families decision... i do feel sad though
please be patient. what's written for you will never be taken from you. & if this happened then it was all in allah's plan. i am a pakistani & i used to like an arab guy . he told me to end everything 2 weeks ago. & he said he prefered not telling me the reason. we've stopped talking completely & inshallah we'll never talk again. :) u know .. we can't really do anything expect for accepting the reality. maybe this saved us both from something bigger and tougher that might have occured in the future if we were still together bcz we were simply not meant for each other, like u were not with this sister. so please be patient & strong. and inshallah the one allah have made for u will come to u at the right time. until then bring your heart closer to allah. & he'll make everything else easy for you🤗
Chanyeolie thank you very much sister, this has made me feel much better Alhamdulilah, InshaAllah all is well and we both have a good life. InshAllah everything is easy for all of us and at the end of the day what is meant to happen will happen. Everything has a way even if you think it is impossible.
I am 21 and I really love an 18 year old lady. I confessed my feelings for her a couple months back and she told she doesn't feel the same way. After that we talked and got to know each other and we became very close. Today she told me a guy from her relatives asked for her hand and she doesn't want him. Am out here now broken and on the verge of losing her forever. I am going to propose to her inshaAllah, please make prayers for me for Allah to make it easy for me and to grant me in this inshaAllah.
Alhamdulillah because I was born Muslim and I will always say Alhamdulillah, Islam is full of peace it means peace is only stands and preach peace...greetings from Nigeria thanks
Touched mah heart 💔I love just one from 3 years Alhamdulellah got engaged with her but now don't know what happened to her shes not the same I've met first 😭 may Allah give me her real love again I don't need anyone except her 😭💔 remember me in your prayers
Fathima Mazra Assalamualaykum sister. I implore you to pray, and ask Allah for guidance. Perhaps, their reluctance is a sign from Allah of something better to come. May Allah guide us all. Amin
Salam brother, check out this talk by Mufti Menk too. ruclips.net/video/RFYPsS5hk0I/видео.html . We understand the pain you go. If you have time, Yasir Qadhi did a talk regarding love in Islam and I can link you to the video.
Fathima Mazra tell them show them this video show the These verses of Qur'an with urdu translation tell them to hear what Allah Subhan wa tallah said & what hadees said
I had tears on my cheeks until he said "people are making doua to be together in jannah with someone else's wife" "What peace do you want brother?" I'm dead xD
I just had broke up few hrs ago , her parents didn’t like me and my family just because we are from a different race than them. But they never even knew that me and my family are far better in Islam than them itself. We tried hard to convince them , but they never even gave their ears to us. Pls pray for me brothers and sisters for me to move on and for me to get the best girl on the way I want her to be 😣
I have a fiance but he died jn a car accident 1 month b4 our marriage, last yr August 25, 2017.. but know ALHAMDULILLAH i’m ok coz’ i’m always telling my self that it is qadr.. and i’m crying to ALLAH, im explaining to Him even though i know He knows what happen.. but know Alhamdulillah im ok, i need to move forward ..
I'm turning 24 on this coming May alhamdulillah and no boyfriend since birth yah it sounds funny but it is true and i believe allah will send a good man for me whoever it is i'll pray for you and take care always 🙏
She isn't so close to deen nor was I but this seperation brought me closer to Allah. Now I love her to be with her and bring her close to deen and wanna spent my life with her at Jannah. I pray for her goodness everyday but all i got right now is my Allah and hope in him ....
I'm 32 this year, and still single. Marriage has always been something extremely scary to me, being hurt by a lot of people, I am kind of afraid of being in a relationship. Even friendship scares me sometimes. My best friend hurt me like... a lot, I can't imagine what my husband will do. Yet... Yet, I know Allah will pair me up with someone extremely perfect for me someday. I mean, I have a lot of flaws. Allah is trying to teach me things before I'm ready to marry someone. Well, however, if Allah wish for me to be single for the rest of my life, that will be okay too. His arrangements are faultless and He knew me very well, what I need most and, how i should live my life. I'm going to perform my hajj this July InshaAllah, without a husband of course. Thank God for having a brother. So, to my future husband out there, I just want to tell you that I'm not going to wait for you anymore, so do not wait for me either. Do whatever it is that you must, that you want. Live your life. Always be in Allah's favour. Strive hard for the life in the hereafter. I will do that as well, InshaAllah, and I will always be loyal to you. When the time comes, may Allah let us meet happily in jannah. Amiin ya rabbal aalaminn...
Allah created in pairs make dua to guide he/she towords you to get marry make dua for women to get marry soon in sha Allah Allah hears every silent prayer Sami ul Bassir
I fell in love hard with a girl from a different culture. I believe she loved me to an extent too however I couldn’t be with her for her way of life went against mine. I didn’t care much at the start because all I wanted was to party and be casual however my heart landed for her and it made it even more difficult when she told me a secret about her past. I couldn’t look at her or the school system the same way again. Everything about her screamed she wasn’t for me which is why we had to go out separate ways. It’s been 3 months and I’m feeling moved on but some days my mind still races and my heart still bleeds. All I know is I wish her and her close ones the best and I will continue to improve on myself to be able to be more virtuous, strong, kind and loving during the present
It just feels sad, because other have it. In real life, I can´t crave for something called relationship if it has vocabularies such as betrayal and jealousy. It´s a contradiction. Asiya (a woman) and Isa (a man), were also alone in this life. And even if I had a partner I would still love my friends and treat them the same as before, no matter you`re someones wife or husband. This is a quality that many don´t have. That´s why they break the hearts of people.
Today is my birthday. Im 42-years- old. I am a new revert. I am divorced and have two children. I pray Allah finds me a good husband that is a good Muslim inshallah. I feel sad because I live in an area with no Muslims, I feel I may be too old to find someone, and scared to suddenly expose my children to a new person. All ll Ive ever really wanted was to devote myself to the right person and give and receive love in a profound way.
Asalamwalaikum ... Times have changed and with each passing generation it's difficult to trust people and becuz of that people prefer doing love marriage rather than arrange... surely I know it's difficult to marry someone you dont know. The reason why I feel everyone is depressed these days in love is becuz we dont do any halal things... we fall prey to shaitan and we all know haram things will never bring us genuine happiness. I know I myself am not clean in this world. No matter what happens everyone has to move on one day... I know it is easy to say than do but in cases when we have to move on we need to understand that we lived even before meeting the person we love. We did survive!! And you know why?? Its becuz we need to remeber always we are not in this world just to find someone to love... we are here to please Allah. To be true muslims. We cannot have temptations of this world. We need to look forward to afterlife. Who is more important to you ?? A girl or boy you love or is it Allah ?? How can we be happy if we dont perform our duties in this world properly ?? Surely we all feel the pain we have is the greatest in this world but it's literally not as great as what our prophets (peace be upon them) and their friends faced. Is this how we will be representing ourselves as last of our ummah??? I just want everyone to think about this everytime you think and life is over without the one you love. Becuz there is so much more to life than that. It's to please Allah to be a good Muslim. That is the only purpose of our life that will make us live until we die. May Allah guide us all towards the right path. Ameen.
But Allah says you should pray and i will fulfill. Then why He seperates 2 loving persons, not only in this world, but as per this video, in the hereafter also. Its very desturbing.
Today, I'm thankful to Allah, my parents and my deep soul who guided me through the pureness and the real world that we're living in it , to accept our situation what matter is , to love and to try to be sweet . I'm enjoying living with myself and my closers . Don't wait for love or a prince to come for you but exepct "Kheir" and Allah will gives you it.
love generally develops because we let it grow when we like someone either by looks, richness, or whatever. it wont grow if we dont focus on it. i have always been single but in spite of having feelings towards someone i like occasionally i dont let it grow because what is the chance that i will get her. But yes i feel very lonely but i also know i am not suffering as bad as someone who will never get their loved one to live with . now i just hope i get to marry a girl who does not have feeling for another person, because that is highly probable where everyone lost their original lover and tends to cheat on their actual partner. If she cheats on me or does not love me as much as i deserve then i think i will be as broken or worse than someone who failed in their haram love
i am a Muslim girl, alhamdulillah try to pray every waqt namaz, all my friend have a boyfriend but I am afraid allah.I always pray that Allah receives my patience and give me a LOYAL,LOVING,CARING partner,Plzz you all pray for me in namaz(sujddoh
Assalamualaikum dear all, in my case we both are in love with each other morethen anything else..but her family members are not understanding us .it kills me everyday..please pray for us . inshallah
Love can overwhelm us so much that when we fall out of love sometimes it takes years to stand again and some never... I think im too depressed that i just want it all to end.. i just want to die . I lost the energy to do ..and i dont even care if i go to hell... been more than 2 years and nothings changed...
May Allah make it easy for you. Aameen. Never lose hope in the mercy of Allah. Wake up during thahajjud time and make 2000 Isthighfar daily ,Allah will provide you from the places you've never even imagined. That's Allah. He is capable of All things.
our nation is soo beyond from Qur'an and Hadees how is this possible oh People of Muslim please follow Qur'an and listen to what Allah subhan Wa Tallah said to us how to live in life 😢
Every Human loves. But if love is for the sake of Allah its a pleasure. We should learn to let go people who don't want to stay with us. M 26 , I never wait for any guy. I know when right time is up, Allah Rabbul Alameen is going to send a soulmate,who is going to stay with me even in Aakhirah...I too liked a guy. But insha Allah I will love only my husband...He moved away saying hez parents didn't agree. I never regret. It's all pre destined. Alhamdullillah for everything.
Asalamu aleikum sisters! Im coming to you for help. I am muslimah by blood, but because of our country and modern life, nobody ever taught me Islam, and im in transition of becoming a very strong muslimah. InShAllah but i am scared, for i don’t do it right. I don’t know where to start. I am in love with a proper muslim guy, and im scared of his family. Please sisters, if you don’t know how to help, please pray for us.
Allhumdullilah for everything Remember brother and sisters ALLAH(swt) is best planner he always give you best masha ALLAH ALLAH(swt) is greatest Always say Allhumdullilah ❤
I loved a girl and she loved me.. 4 and half years..we loved each other.. But her parents refused me for that I am from another town..Her parents not interested to give a girl to another town..Me and her tried to join..But now she said we will be bride and groom in jannah and gone from my life..
They already are some else's wives, please be careful at what you're saying. Listen what Mufti just said at the end of video. You're not paying attention
Mufti is an perfect role model for us all and inspires us Unfortunately ppl are too demanding especially the mature and older ones making it harder for ppl who do want to get married Having alot of online sites is creating haram then halal
Please someone give me advice. I am the second eldest daughter of a family of 5 daughters n no brothers.My life was one of abuse, suffering, loneliness n rejection from my parents, especially my mother. I am 48 now, no prospects to get married, I had to look after both of my parents. Extendesd family tried to use me to run around looking after their needs. I had suffered a lot of abuse n they tried to manipulate me. I have cut off ties with them. I live alone with my elderly mother. I don't know if I will ever attain the type of happiness n peace others have. I avoid married people cos they think I will give them the evil eye but yet I pray for them to be blessed. Will Allah ever hear me? What Allah want from me? I have was a good daughter to both of my parents, hardworking n loving. I didn't get much of a childhood cos I was forced to take care. of my wayward elder sister, yet she lives happily married n gets respect just like my other married sisters. I tried all my life to be a good n perfect daughter n never got any love from parents. They took me for granted n I sacrificed most of my life for them. Please someone if they could tell me what does Allah want fr me now? I'll do just to get a normal life.
StarlightnDust sister maa shaa Allah tabarakallah for doing what Allah asked of you in terms of taking care of your parents and sisters. Even if they did not do their duty toward you, you have to do yours toward them. I'm so proud of you for doing this. We are all tested with one thing or another and Allah tests those he loves. This test increases your Iman and your level in the eyes of Allah so don't be disheartened. Keep making dua and remember Allah answers all dua. Yours might or might not be answered in the way you want but it will be answered. You will either get what you ask for or that which is better or you will get rewards for your patience or it will be answered in akhira. It maybe that Allah is protecting you from a clamity worse that the situation you are in now sister. Subhanallah Allah knows what's best for us and we should try not be depressed about what he designs for us. How could we say that Allah did not give me a good or normal life when we know nothing and Allah knows the hidden and the obvious. May Allah bless you for doing good toward your parents and I pray you continue that and not be disheartened. forget what ignorant people say about evil eye. That's their sin not yours. pray for their blessings because when the angels hear your dua for others then they ask Allah that you be given the same too. Subhanallah imagine the angels making dua for you to Allah. You're not the only one going through a situation like this sister but remind yourself that you are one of the few handling it very well. Try your best to find a good practising muslim man who will marry you and not mistreat you. There are many who will Mary and value who you are so keep looking and ask your elders who are kind or the imam in masjid for help. consider being a second wife if this is not too much for you. Keep strong your connection to Allah and Allah will give you khair that you can not forsee. May Allah give you a pious brother who will protect you and your family and help you attain goodness in both here and akhira. My heart is with you and I'm truly and honestly proud of you and hope to be for my parents as good a daughter as you are to your parents. Maa shaa Allah tabarakallah. Don't forget Allah is with you in every situation so talk to him often and ask him for help and never get tired of waiting for an answer. Subhanallah Allah is merciful and kind so you will be ok😊
HeLacks Thank you sister for your kind-hearted reply. Yes, you are right I must increase my faith. Make duah for myself n the goodness of others like yourself. Your faith has humbled me and I shall take your good advice. May Allah bless you and he indeed knows best.
StarlightnDust As I was listening to a talk about dua I was thinking of you sister and I fully understand how you feel. Please listen to short talk called When you feel like Allah doesn't listen by Majed Mahmoud. This really calmed my heart and like you I won't ever stop making dua because now I know the goodness in it whether it comes true or not. Jazakallahu khair for your dua my beloved sister and I will keep remembering you in my dua. dua made in secret for others is accepted by Allah so may Allah accept it from us😊
Will indeed listen to this video. I will pray Allah will grant you a good life, much peace and blessings. Your guidance has brought me back to reality, lifted me up, reminded me what Allah has plans for all of us, encouraged and strengthened my faith. Wa iyyaakum sister. : )
StarlightnDust Alhamdulilah shukrililah ☺ I have done nothing, it's Allah's mercy on you so alhamdulilah sister. Let's keep our Tawakkal on Allah because when we trust Allah absolutely and rely on only Allah then nothing can go wrong. We must be positive and expect good from Allah. These words I write to you are first and foremost for me so writing to you actually helped me too alhamdulilah 😊 Jazakallahu khair sister for your kind words and dua. I surely need dua too so alhamdulilah for yours!
I ended things with my girlfriend of 7 years, i left her i didnt know what i wanted, completly cut her off, and its been like 7 months, the pain ive caused her will never allow her to forgive me even though i want to marry her more than anything.. so yep i am pretty depressed, having to live with the guilt that i ruined something so good ruins me inside.. she was so good to me and i was so bad.. i hope she forgives me and i do marry her inshallah,, pray for me or if anyone can provide any sort of advice i truly would appreciate it
the guy I have ever loved left coz his parents wudnt allow him (and mine was very supportive) and he doesn't want to jeopardize his sisters future. because my mom is a revert. And everyone says if a guy wants a girl, truly loves her he will always fight for her. he left, yet here I am deeply saddened by his actions and words. and still like a fool waiting for him by Allah's grace.
Ruby Maharoofa I know how that feels. The next time when you pray, ask Allah to rectify your mistakes for You. Beg Him to take out the love from your heart of everyone and everything that is not destined to be yours. Ask Him to make your heart filled with His love and happy upon His Qadr. I'll pray for you in sha Allah.
Check out the new video regarding "It is haram for parents forcing their children to marry person they do not desire" and Mufti Menk goes over "How love marriage could be a good thing in many Muslim marriage". ruclips.net/video/RFYPsS5hk0I/видео.html
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AssalamoAlaikum
Sir you said if the marriage is not possible for some reason then just move on, i just want to ask how one can move on sir? Allah puts love in our heart and from 1st day my intention was right(means i will marry him) and now its impossible for me to move on. I love him alot sir i accepted his love after passing so many months and now he can't marry because of family issue, now i can't move on, i still have hope because Allah can do everything.
I request you sir please do tell me the right way in this situation, may be i am doing wrong that i can not stop to love him only because i have hope on Allah, i really do not want to angry Allah, i am facing very hard time please tell me what to do at this moment
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World Islam I think often of my past experience and pray please for me for peace and to move on with my life and live my life in peace thats what I want and my life is getting better every day. Ameen
Im so sad, he left me for another girl. Im deppressed. Allahu, its already 7month since he left but its still hurt. Every night, my tears is my sleeping pills. If youre reading this, pray for me :')
Shfqh Adnan dear...my dearsis...your future husband is waiting for you...
Shfqh Adnan i pray things get well with you🙏🏻
May Allah make it easy for you...Also remember to forgive them and everyone...It will u make you feel good guaranteed...As Allah loves so much those who do good to others...By forgiving him you will start feeling Allah comforting you... May Allah make it easier for you and us....
allah know what best for you. inshallah you get the best you deserve
May allah help you 👆
Life is too short to waste and wait for someone that didn't love u the way u did, so just don't be depressed brothers and sisters and get up from bed and move on with your life and just pray to Allah and ask for forgiveness in sha allah, you will find someone better soon 😊
Inshaa Allah .pray for me plz
Which dua u should make to forget someone and to move on with life
@@fugurally plzz also tell me humbly request
Inshallah
exactly same situation am going through..but alhamdhulillah..now Allah took me in his shelter
It absolutely breaks my heart to see so many people hurt in the comments section subhanallah all I can say is do TAHAJJUD at night and ask Allah swt for a good person and may it be true love!!!
Ummah In A Coma And is Corrupted yeah I also get hurt by reading these painful comments.... May ALLAH paak give them patience
@@beastbeast1991 Ameen
Making dua at Tahajjud is like an arrow that does not miss its target. May Allah grant us all the ability to pray tahajjud and leave the blessing our beds to earn the blessings of Allah’s love ameen
Ameen
Ameen
I'm 32 divorced.... got out of abusive marriage... alhamdulilah iam happy but I want to start a family..... I don't have kids... so it's Ramadan please pray for me I find a god fearing kind husband for me ...... it's so hard to find someone good with basic qualities. .... so pray for me every one ... inshallah the right one will come
Jamila Yasin where are you from sister
Sharofat Halmuratova Somalia what about you
Jami Yj how is life now
sure
@Usama Fayyaz dont judge her coz she knows better about the issue...usually itz seen that ignorant men swear and beat their wife....they take the advantage of masculinity and try to dominate women
im new about islam. my boyfriend is from palestina. and iam from japan. he told me about islam so well. and iam Muslim now. not coz of i have Muslim bf. but.. i feel cant explain my feels and i wanna cry when i listen he read quran.
Allah will help u inevery sutuation
thank you
@@nofelisalya6021 mentiin not where u from
ya i see..
Allah akbar. Seek more and more about islam
This is Making me a Better Person Each Day Every Moment...
Keyboard Worrior Subhan Allah.. there's nothing to do with if he is hindu or not ...!!!
He is our Mufti brother and that's all only going to be said Here ..!!! And don't say that please 🙁
Vaishnavi Shivshankar ..plz study ISLAM
Vaishnavi Shivshankar masha allah thanks for good open communication with Islam world sister we hearty well come you for your comments
Vaishnavi Shivshankar who
I wish we never fall in love with people we can't be with its sad n so heartbreaking.. love is beautiful falling in love is beautiful but then when u separate for sum reason any reasons it tears away at ur soul... I have loved n lost...again n again sumtimes I gave up hope of ever meeting my soulmate...ask people whose heart is broken it's so painful to carry on but sum how u go on While they live on as if u were nothing may Allah give all heartbroken ones strength n sabre n fill their hearts with love again inshallah ameen. ..
I have been through same problem, Once i loved someone so purely so deeply, but suffered alot, i was unable to foget her, but at very moment i prayed ALLAH to give me strength to forget her and move on with my life, ALLAH has blessed me and gave me that strength, now my first part of suffering is over yes i did some steps also, completely remove her pics from mob block her from whatsapp and strict my mind to not to think about her, eventually i started to forget her. Now i am in second phase the phase us called acceptance of new relationship, am not not dating or thinking about these things, i meant to say completing relying on ALMIGHTY and pray that oh my lord give me the one who is good for me and bless me the right person.. Pray to him he is the sustainer he is the one who gives comfort to broken hearts, he will listen and grant us the thinks which brings goodness. Tawaakul is key and in bad situation one must seek help through sabr and nawaz. May ALMIGHTY grant us a deep understanding.
@@fahadbakht8848 m on first phase n it's so painful .I have also deleted his chats n blocked him n it feels better
@@fahadbakht8848 I have started praying five times n it give so much peace .. my frnd said that isn't it better that u found the love of creater of all things after loosing the love of a human being
@@fahadbakht8848 Did the girl leave u? Or u left her?? The person who is at the receiving end suffers the most.. U can't unlove someone just by deleting their pics or blocking them.. Namaaz does help to ease the suffering but sincere feelings remain unchanged..Are you sure you've forgotten that person??
Yo how are y'all's love life now?
I'm so depressed and sad and have low selfesteem. I dont have anyone to talk to. Its a sensitive topic. I pray Allah will strenghten my imaan (and my muslim sisters and brothers in similar situation) and bless me/us with inner peace and happiness. Ameen!
Naima Mussa Ameen sis
Iman E thank you for your kind words sister. I wish you the same in sha Allah.
Naima Mussa have patience...Allah loves you.
I have got the same issue haunting me for long...i just thought I am alone in this,I pray Allah gives us shufaa..amin
Ameen
Well I am 25 and still don't have anyone.. If you see this please make dua for me. Thankyou
Anoniema please don't loose hope. :) everyone have a different timing in life . someone may acchieve something at the age of 17 while someone else may acchieve it at 40. .it is all in Allah's planning. We don't know indeed and He knows. & it is for the better. & he'll provide for u what's best for you at the right time..this is coming from someone who recently had her heart broken. trust me.. it is better to have no one in ur life then being with the wrong one. so just wait for the right one , be patient and trust allah.
and always be thankful. alhamdulliah
I'm in the same boat. May Allah bless us both with great spouses.
Anoniema amen
sure i will pray for u
Chanyeolie If someone get some good things early in his/her life and the other's very Late. Then how you can equate both ? The on e who get it early will enjoy for a long life. While the other who gets it at the age of 40 will have that good for alittle period !!!
I hope whoever is reading, has a peaceful and good happy life. It's not easy I know, but believe me when I say this, it's all gonna be fine. We all loved someone who hurt us but does that mean we should hate them and get depressed? Not at all. Wallahi, it's for the best. You'll find someone far far better. Just pray for them and you'll be fine. Alhamdulillah I'm not depressed, Why? Because who's better at making you feel happy than the one who created you? Talk to him, and I promise you, you will be fine In Sha Allah. Fi Amanillah sweeties.😘
Thank you for the advice.
That's how I think but need to be more firm . Please remember this sister in duwas aswell. JZK
Thankyou this is indeed a motivating message. May yours and everyone here gets happiness in life and their issues gets solved ameen
Ameen.
If I personally got a chance to explain my self then it will be like a story of for to 5 pages....So in word I will say it's sweetness is very sweet...
And I will pray whoever my comment 😊😊😊 May Allaha Give hidaya to all of them as well as me...Ameeeeeeeeen Allaha humma Ameeeeeen..
I loved a girl and she loved me too she promised that she'll marry me but later I came to now that she was cheating on me. And now my whole life is shattered I don't know what to do I so lonely no one understands my pain they think my story is just an another love failure. No one understands my pain and sufferings. I want to forget her completely and move on but it's 8 month and her memories still haunts me to the hell. I have a family I need to support them but I can't concentrate on anything. May Allah bless have mercy on me.
Please do TAHAJJUD at night!
Do TAHAJJUD please
I feel that too let’s pray for forgiveness and Allah will set our lives straight
Same story with me....
so you where dating someone before marriage ?
Pray for me to find the right woman so I can become more closer to Allah. Aamiin.
Pray for me to find the correct life partner
Aamiin, the same pray for me too
Keep on making duas, but the real true love is always from Allah(SWT)
FiAmanillah. Choose your spouse based on her dinn.
Found???
Impatience is for shaytan,so be patient.the choice of Allah is the best,seek knowledge to get out of ignorance and let's go back to Allah.may Allah guide us on the right path to the end of our life
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When I looked at her I felt happiness, my hart was at peace, she had a beautiful soul, prayed, she was respectful, I loved her for the sake of Allah S.W.T, never did I look at her for her body or beauty. But the distance between us and her parents turned her against me. She left me, I cry day and night, it feels like there is no reason for me to live anymore. I am making dua for her, but it feels like she’s never going to come back. I’m lost, I don’t know what to do. May Allah S.W.T guide me.
I'm kinda in the same boat, except I walked away from him ....and now he's having a baby ....it broke me and i didn't wanna live anymore , idk what to do either, Allah help us all
@@yuriken8301 how are you doing now?
Allah Can heal every one..... My father had left my mom since 4 years.... I can see her crying at nights.... She is still loving her husband... But my father is living with another girl... Pray for them, forgive them..... Allah is always with us.... We came alone here, no one was with us, n we are going alone from here.... Allah u r great... Heal our problems.... Say alhamdulilla
I was in a haram relationship, and she broke my heart.
Its been a year already, but still hurts till today.
But I am thankful to Allah Subha a taalah for bring to closer to him through ending a haram relationship.
I know, he has someone better waiting for me.
How are you now?
I fell in love with a sister in my med school class who I knew a little bit, but she told me that she wanted to remain friends. I am utterly heartbroken because I even did Isthikara hoping for the best. She seemed like the right combination of beauty, athleticism, smarts and humility, but I'm now starting to see faults in her that perhaps Allah was trying to save me from.
I hope to find someone to cool my eyes, who will love me back and make me fall in deeper love than this girl, InshAllah. Hope the same for my brothers and sisters going through a similar ordeal, Ameen.
Did your situation work out ? Are you guys still talking? Did you try to understand why she said she only wants to be friends?
@@hammadferoz2224 We're still in school together for the next 3-4 years, so it remains to be seen, but I'm not optimistic. She never expanded on why she said that and I never bothered to probe any deeper about it. I still do dua that Allah being us close if she's the right one for me. I'm still utterly heartbroken about her, but Allah knows best InshAllah.
@@smellypatel5272 pray that Allah makes you both the best for each other and Unites you! At the same avoid being close to her be normal and distance yourself for the time being so that she doesn't feel awkward and weird and just try to understand her better and yourself also! Things will work out between you two! Ameen
Honestly, you can't force her to desire you. That's the painful part of it all, I know. Feelings have to be mutual for it to work. Imagine she did get with you, but it's you who does all the romantic stuff, buying gifts, making her life easier. While she sees you as settlement. You can't force people to like you, you're in med school. Just focus and work on yourself.
@@blueflame3531 then what should be the way to naturally and mutually get someone to like and love you?
I found the guy I want to be with, I prayed and made dua he claims me loves me and sees me as his wife but he is not ready cause he think he can’t support me and wants to finish studying please pray that if he is the one for me he comes back to me inshallah thankyou brothers and sister, May Allah bless u all
The girl With no name May Allah bless you, May Allah grant you the person whom you love so much , they say love is divine , pray to Allah, he is Rahim he is Karim , he is haabeeb ,he is Hakeem , pray Tahajud , I am sure Allah will grant you the soul whom you love so much. Sister, pray for your brother also ,your brother that's me also loves some one beyond love can ever be defined , hope I marry my love too , Allah bless us all , without your blessings where we will go , you are our khaleek (creator), we bow down and ask for forgiveness. May Allah grant Shifa to one of my brother he is suffering pray for one of my younger brother also. Ameen
Please do TAHAJJUD at night!
If u are not married with him right now. Run from him. If a person says he sees u as a wife it's a lie. It's. Only to keep u hooked. How can a person consider a girl his as wife without marriage.. What kind of thought he is having with u then.. Naujubillah
If we have the ability to love..love Allah first. Fill our heart with his love. He is the source of love (al-Wadud). If we fill our heart with His love in syaa Allah everything on earth and heaven will love us. Hold onto His love because Allah never leaves us and never disappoint us. If we fill our heart with so much love for Him..we will never ever feel lonely, sad, insecure and heartbroken. Only on His remembrance do our heart find peace. Indeed, we belong to Him alone and will return back to Him alone.
Nice message dear, it is one of the best way to get rid of anxiety, depression , loneliness. Love Allah don't love anyone in this world. Specially your husband because he never love us perhaps it's a give and take relationship.
May Allah grant us a spouse who bring coolness in our eyes and peace in our heart. The best spouse in dunya and akherah this year. Aameen 🤲
I found him the man i was looking for all my life he has all qualities i was looking for and he is Pious and a devoted muslim man. when we planned everything in the middle of waiting for my dream wedding, i lost him, i felt so hurt. Alhamdulilah no one should question the Decree of Allah He ﷻ kNOWS BEST
Zeitun Ahmed allah will help u...
Zeitun Ahmed - hi I thought i met my soulmate i loved him so much but he left me to marry another woman.... he didnt look back not once or apologise for hurting me but i hopes hes happy and i hope he got what he was looking for but why break my heart. How do i forgive him sometimes i hope he realises. :,(
Have patience dear..
Ahsanat Syed I think u deserve a little better than him , insha'Allah he will be in ur life soon
i know how it feels. im going through the same except the reason for us was distance and we could not do anything about it.
Love the life u get.!!!u don't need to
search for love ...the love u get from ur mom is enough
Ohhh thatz damn true. Her love is above all
absolutely!
@@tayyabacheema5747no Allah’s love is.
I was depressed from a long time.
Due to this video, I got some relief.
Jazakallahu khair wa ahsan ul jaza ❤️
Shukran so much for this :). Yes the girl I loved was beautiful both physically and spiritually, but if Allah has decreed that she is not for meant for me then I will move on and find my true soulmate. Alhamdulilah
i once loved this girl more than anything we were together for 2 years..but one day she called me and told me her parents have arranged her marriage to another man..i was heartbroken Wallah..i moved on becoz she is someone else's wife.. i still.feel bad to this day..i know Allah has someone better for me In Shaa Allah..
Amir Omar
I know how that feels. Lessons to be learnt brother. The right way, the Prophetic way avoids such heartbreak.
THE FOOTBALL FANATIC walahi thats true
Now r u fine?
Man arranged marriages are disgusting, I hope you are okay brother
So Lame,,,,,u r absolutely right
Whoever sees this message please do dua for me x
I'll make dua for u sis 😊
Keep going well our sister... You are always in our duas😊
May Allah give u honour health happiness faith and life.may Allah forgive ur sins .And give u a good spouse
In Sha Allah, everyone here will find the the right one for them. May Allah bless us all. Ameen :)
Ameen
aslamu aleykum.I have find my life partner but we have not met yet but with your blessing will meet one day inshaa Allah. so who is ready to pray for us ?
inshaa Allah my friend, hope u meet her soon
habibty Hussein sister In sha Allah you will be the best couple.
habibty Hussein Inshaallah u 'll meet one day
habibty Hussein i am so readyyyy to pray for you Insha'Allah all will be well... you have to be patient tho
May You meet and may Allah bless your Union. Ameen
*Since I was 16, I met the love of my life Abdulrahman, we promised to marry each other back then, now I am 20, he is 21, we have been together for 4 years, I used to become very jealous of girls wanting him, now again I am jealous, and it drove him away. We’ve been broken up for 4 days at least, I’m in such a tragic pain because he’s what makes me feel wholesome. Everyone please pray Allah connects our path so we can be halal and have this marriage.*
Ameen ya Allah its happened with me...im broken totally 💔😓😓
oh my girl !! Don't weep for the person who can't understand you.. It is your love that you become jealous .. Just move on honey 💕 If he really do love you then he had to stay with you & make you feel good etc .. So let him go 💕 May Allah heal my all sisters
@@tayyebanasir3807 ameen
is everything alri8 now??
If he valued you, he would have married you
Everything is side of Allaah and he is sufficient for us
Alxmdullh I'm Muslim ☪️ and believe that I will get the person who allaah written for me. I pray everyone who feel sad and his/ her heart is broken 💔 by the person who he/she select in the world but didn't understand to get someone who deserve and know their values.
May allaah bless all the Muslim people wherever they are
U see that's the problem. U love someone from ur heart but somehow it doesn't work out and u have to move on. The problem is can u love another person more than the one u truly loved? It's really complicated but Allah always will be by our side. God knows what's good for us. So no matter what, keep praying and do dua:)
This made my day 🥺❤️ i have been waiting for that person but never met yet ☺️
I love someone so much. I believe he's my soulmate. I've had so many signs that he's the one for me but due to my mistakes he moved on and married someone else. I pray that I will be one of his wives in jannah and clear all misunderstandings. In the meantime may Allah bless his marriage.
Mishu Islam
that's so sad ._.
but if it was meant to be in this life then it would have happened so maybe you'll get someone better ! :3
I'm trying to think this way because I'm in a similar situation and it hurts :(
I pray Allah cures our heartbreak
Mishu Islam my sister I know you are having a very hard time.. we shall make dua for u may Allah swt give you someone better
Mishu Islam 9
I understand.
Mishu Islam Subhan allah mash allah uh have so much of courage my dear
I lost my ambition. ..its hurting me a lot.still now. ....and so many problems surrounding me day by day ...feeling very bad....but i believe in Allah. ...pray for me to become a better person in my life...
This lesson teaches me a lot a thank u mufti menk your lecture has entered my mind a heart .thank u teacher your lectures make me strong a think right thank u .may Allah grant u all e best wth protecting
I am going through a rough patch’ in my life with someone who’ I am supposed to get married to. However, when I am communicating, affiliating with this person I do not feel happy, we argue and our relationship has gone down hill. Has made me suffer from anxiety, sadness and a lot of anger built up. So I will cut off contact with him, and call out to Allah and I feel so much more peace.. it’s beginning to make me think this guy isn’t the right spouse for me 😥
Please keep me in your duas that Allah makes it easy for me & those who are suffering and/or trying to get married. For the sake of Allah please keep me in your duas 🌹
I have never been in love before but my heart aches 💔 for love. I just want to be loved.Allah give me strength
Pray for me. I hv been left by someone who promised me to marry. M deeply pained...Hi did wrong with me. Hi left me coz m poor. Hi is rich. Hope allah will show him path.
I left her because she is rich and our condition at home are not so good and healthy... But I love her toooooooo much... May Allah grant her success and wisdom ameen
May Allah give you the best of best insha allah Ameen... Please pray for me also... I'm so depressed
Mufti menk from the beginning had big impact on me. May Allah(swt) cure our hearts. May Allah(swt) mend our heart and set it together. May Allah(swt) help us walk again after we have shattered into pieces and lost hope. Aameen
Assalam o Alaikum brothers and sisters! I just wanted to let everyone know that it is definitely possible to move on. You have to trust Allah’s plan. I thought it was impossible to get over this Muslim sister that I was interested in getting married to. She had mutual feelings to begin with but then told me a few months later that she’s not ready or just can’t talk about it this soon. She said her parents won’t accept me but I think she was being nice so that I’m not hurt but didn’t even give me a chance to speak to her parents as how can one tell if you don’t even try. Believe me I was obsessed to the point where I thought about her all day everyday, losing sleep over it, even while at work, when socialising with friends and losing focus over daily tasks. I though too far to the point that we’ll get married and have kids etc but Allah had better plans. When she said no I was absolutely heartbroken as I thought I she was a good match being a Hijabi and religious. Then Alhamdulillah I prayed to Allah everyday that if she’s good for me to make it easy otherwise keep me away from her. SubhanAllah Today I came to a realisation that if something is making me loose sleep, be unproductive, and affecting my day to day activities so much to the point that is extremely unhealthy and dangerous if not get sorted as soon as possible would be disastrous and would destroy my life, when we are not even together than how will it be any good or peaceful if we are together. Then I completely lost interest. No one’s to blame her as I’m sure she’s a very nice girl.
See the below Ayah:
Another of His signs is that He created spouses from among yourselves for you to live with in tranquillity: He ordained love and kindness between you. There truly are signs in this for those who reflect (30:21).
If there is no peace now when your not together and only stress anxiety and depression, there would’ve never been any peace if you were to let’s say get married and Allah saved you. I think it all comes down to low self esteem and we try looking to fill our emptiness in worldly things be it a person or any other thing. What we need to do is to focus on improving our relationship with Allah and things will get better because our love should mainly be focused to please Allah and only then you’ll be content and good enough to love another person as you are full. You have to trust Allah’s plan. He knows you better than you know yourself and I pray that Allah makes it easier for anyone that’s going through heartbreaks. You have to be patient and trust Allah’s plan fully.
Jazakallah Brother very inspiring and I hope you meet your happy ever after in shaa Allah, if you thought she was good then Allah will give u someone 100 x better
I went through the same exact thing this past month, brother. A girl in my medical school who I fell in love with rejected my interest in her. I was heartbroken to the point that I couldn't focus on my studies, gym, or anything else. I was obsessing over it night and day. Now that Allah has ordained that she is not for me, I'm slowly moving on. It's still painful, but now I'm realizing that I have to improve myself and my connection with Allah before I can find the right person. May Allah guide all of us and make these difficult parts of life easy, Ameen
@@smellypatel5272 how are you now?
Alhamdulillah..thank you for this video..it helped me a lot 😘
if a person doesn't want me, there's another 100 person who value me..gonna bear that in my mind ❤️
i love this pakistani girl in university and I am not pakistani, so her parents dont accept me because of culture but Alhamdulilah we are both good muslims and I want to marry her in the future please make dua for me to make everything work out. InshaAllah everything good happens
I spoke to her family soon after this message and they said no and she has cut contact me for the past 5 months, I miss her but i have to respect he following her families decision... i do feel sad though
please be patient. what's written for you will never be taken from you. & if this happened then it was all in allah's plan.
i am a pakistani & i used to like an arab guy . he told me to end everything 2 weeks ago. & he said he prefered not telling me the reason. we've stopped talking completely & inshallah we'll never talk again. :)
u know .. we can't really do anything expect for accepting the reality. maybe this saved us both from something bigger and tougher that might have occured in the future if we were still together bcz we were simply not meant for each other,
like u were not with this sister.
so please be patient & strong. and inshallah the one allah have made for u will come to u at the right time. until then bring your heart closer to allah. & he'll make everything else easy for you🤗
Chanyeolie thank you very much sister, this has made me feel much better Alhamdulilah, InshaAllah all is well and we both have a good life. InshAllah everything is easy for all of us and at the end of the day what is meant to happen will happen. Everything has a way even if you think it is impossible.
RiseAgainBH ameen :)
we'll pray my dear
May Allah continue to bless Mufti Menk Ismail.
I am 21 and I really love an 18 year old lady. I confessed my feelings for her a couple months back and she told she doesn't feel the same way. After that we talked and got to know each other and we became very close. Today she told me a guy from her relatives asked for her hand and she doesn't want him. Am out here now broken and on the verge of losing her forever. I am going to propose to her inshaAllah, please make prayers for me for Allah to make it easy for me and to grant me in this inshaAllah.
How did it go?
Alhamdulillah because I was born Muslim and I will always say Alhamdulillah, Islam is full of peace it means peace is only stands and preach peace...greetings from Nigeria thanks
When I see people cheating on someone, I feel pity for them. You have no clue how precious is to find the right person.
Yes exactly
Kaha se hain ap
Touched mah heart 💔I love just one from 3 years Alhamdulellah got engaged with her but now don't know what happened to her shes not the same I've met first 😭 may Allah give me her real love again I don't need anyone except her 😭💔 remember me in your prayers
I want this to be heard by my parent's but they don't understand this.
Fathima Mazra
Assalamualaykum sister.
I implore you to pray, and ask Allah for guidance. Perhaps, their reluctance is a sign from Allah of something better to come. May Allah guide us all. Amin
Walaikumsalam
Ameen yes for sure I never miss to pray that's my first responsible
Salam brother, check out this talk by Mufti Menk too. ruclips.net/video/RFYPsS5hk0I/видео.html . We understand the pain you go. If you have time, Yasir Qadhi did a talk regarding love in Islam and I can link you to the video.
World Islam
please post it. May Allah reward you
Fathima Mazra tell them show them this video show the These verses of Qur'an with urdu translation tell them to hear what Allah Subhan wa tallah said & what hadees said
I am very sad with my life.i don't get any marriage proposal 😞 please Make dua for me 😞☹️
Shabina Shahin Be patient sister. Allah has a best planner.
Assalamualaikum sister ..u will get oneday .inshallah ..
Always believe IN ALLAH one day you will overcome with this problem INSALLAH
S Shaheen inshaAllah.
S Shaheen assalamualaikum may i know few things about you . You can write to ndawud@hotmail co.uk
I had tears on my cheeks until he said "people are making doua to be together in jannah with someone else's wife" "What peace do you want brother?" I'm dead xD
😂
Lollllllll haha
Same, I started laughing. So sad 💀
Lmao😂
well, I can still understand their urge to make the dua. Jannah should be a place of love not of casts.
﷽ مَّا جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لِرَجُلٍ مِّن قَلْبَيْنِ فِي جَوْفِهِ ۚ
I just had broke up few hrs ago , her parents didn’t like me and my family just because we are from a different race than them. But they never even knew that me and my family are far better in Islam than them itself. We tried hard to convince them , but they never even gave their ears to us. Pls pray for me brothers and sisters for me to move on and for me to get the best girl on the way I want her to be 😣
How are you now??
I have a fiance but he died jn a car accident 1 month b4 our marriage, last yr August 25, 2017.. but know ALHAMDULILLAH i’m ok coz’ i’m always telling my self that it is qadr.. and i’m crying to ALLAH, im explaining to Him even though i know He knows what happen.. but know Alhamdulillah im ok, i need to move forward ..
I'm turning 24 on this coming May alhamdulillah and no boyfriend since birth yah it sounds funny but it is true and i believe allah will send a good man for me whoever it is i'll pray for you and take care always 🙏
I'm 26 yet I am not getting married. We dua for each other.
She isn't so close to deen nor was I but this seperation brought me closer to Allah. Now I love her to be with her and bring her close to deen and wanna spent my life with her at Jannah. I pray for her goodness everyday but all i got right now is my Allah and hope in him ....
I'm 32 this year, and still single. Marriage has always been something extremely scary to me, being hurt by a lot of people, I am kind of afraid of being in a relationship. Even friendship scares me sometimes. My best friend hurt me like... a lot, I can't imagine what my husband will do. Yet... Yet, I know Allah will pair me up with someone extremely perfect for me someday. I mean, I have a lot of flaws. Allah is trying to teach me things before I'm ready to marry someone.
Well, however, if Allah wish for me to be single for the rest of my life, that will be okay too. His arrangements are faultless and He knew me very well, what I need most and, how i should live my life.
I'm going to perform my hajj this July InshaAllah, without a husband of course. Thank God for having a brother. So, to my future husband out there, I just want to tell you that I'm not going to wait for you anymore, so do not wait for me either. Do whatever it is that you must, that you want. Live your life. Always be in Allah's favour. Strive hard for the life in the hereafter. I will do that as well, InshaAllah, and I will always be loyal to you. When the time comes, may Allah let us meet happily in jannah. Amiin ya rabbal aalaminn...
Lol do you not see how Allah created the heavens and earth ? He is the custodian of the throne.
@@Billionaires29 I see that....and?
My dear brother mufti menk! May allah grant you with long life and health thank you so much for your talks
Allah created in pairs
make dua to guide he/she towords you to get marry
make dua for women to get marry soon in sha Allah
Allah hears every silent prayer Sami ul Bassir
amiin pray for me as well
Pray 4r me
Alhamdulillah,Allah is enough for me.
My situation now...I want to leave him. I want to be free not thinking about him..
Same.
Worst he is only a crush. And he looks at many. I feel he likes me. But Idk.
I also
Good brave girl
Did u leave hi
How are you now?
This video made me cry😭
I am 28years old and still didn't find someone to love and get married. Pray for me.
Are u married now?
May you be blessed in marrying the right person who loves you and brings happiness and peace to your life ameen
Each time I listen I get motivated
I fell in love hard with a girl from a different culture. I believe she loved me to an extent too however I couldn’t be with her for her way of life went against mine. I didn’t care much at the start because all I wanted was to party and be casual however my heart landed for her and it made it even more difficult when she told me a secret about her past. I couldn’t look at her or the school system the same way again.
Everything about her screamed she wasn’t for me which is why we had to go out separate ways. It’s been 3 months and I’m feeling moved on but some days my mind still races and my heart still bleeds.
All I know is I wish her and her close ones the best and I will continue to improve on myself to be able to be more virtuous, strong, kind and loving during the present
Just the medicine required. May Allah grant us whatever is better for here and hereafter. Aameen
Aameen ya rabbalameen…
I believe God has destined for me to walk this life alone and to die alone with no partner.
Same here
Allah knows best
It just feels sad, because other have it. In real life, I can´t crave for something called relationship if it has vocabularies such as betrayal and jealousy. It´s a contradiction. Asiya (a woman) and Isa (a man), were also alone in this life. And even if I had a partner I would still love my friends and treat them the same as before, no matter you`re someones wife or husband. This is a quality that many don´t have. That´s why they break the hearts of people.
Fathima don't worry Allah will always be on ur side just keep trust on him
You are quite funny Mufti Menk hahaha that's why I like to listen your preacher 😃😃
Today is my birthday. Im 42-years- old. I am a new revert. I am divorced and have two children. I pray Allah finds me a good husband that is a good Muslim inshallah. I feel sad because I live in an area with no Muslims, I feel I may be too old to find someone, and scared to suddenly expose my children to a new person. All ll Ive ever really wanted was to devote myself to the right person and give and receive love in a profound way.
Asalamwalaikum ...
Times have changed and with each passing generation it's difficult to trust people and becuz of that people prefer doing love marriage rather than arrange... surely I know it's difficult to marry someone you dont know.
The reason why I feel everyone is depressed these days in love is becuz we dont do any halal things... we fall prey to shaitan and we all know haram things will never bring us genuine happiness. I know I myself am not clean in this world. No matter what happens everyone has to move on one day... I know it is easy to say than do but in cases when we have to move on we need to understand that we lived even before meeting the person we love. We did survive!! And you know why?? Its becuz we need to remeber always we are not in this world just to find someone to love... we are here to please Allah. To be true muslims. We cannot have temptations of this world. We need to look forward to afterlife. Who is more important to you ?? A girl or boy you love or is it Allah ?? How can we be happy if we dont perform our duties in this world properly ?? Surely we all feel the pain we have is the greatest in this world but it's literally not as great as what our prophets (peace be upon them) and their friends faced. Is this how we will be representing ourselves as last of our ummah???
I just want everyone to think about this everytime you think and life is over without the one you love. Becuz there is so much more to life than that. It's to please Allah to be a good Muslim. That is the only purpose of our life that will make us live until we die.
May Allah guide us all towards the right path. Ameen.
But Allah says you should pray and i will fulfill. Then why He seperates 2 loving persons, not only in this world, but as per this video, in the hereafter also. Its very desturbing.
Today, I'm thankful to Allah, my parents and my deep soul who guided me through the pureness and the real world that we're living in it , to accept our situation what matter is , to love and to try to be sweet . I'm enjoying living with myself and my closers . Don't wait for love or a prince to come for you but exepct "Kheir" and Allah will gives you it.
Where are you from?
Do not loose hope, nor be sad Quran 3:139
Ma sha Allah, very nice islamic lecture with very good intentions and advice by my beloved muftie menk.
we need your prayers plzz inshaa Allah. thank u 🙏🙏
MAHABOOB
Shukrian mufti sahab this clip is helping me alot💖
touched my soul
Ma Shaa Allah, it's educating but I need your prayers
love generally develops because we let it grow when we like someone either by looks, richness, or whatever. it wont grow if we dont focus on it. i have always been single but in spite of having feelings towards someone i like occasionally i dont let it grow because what is the chance that i will get her. But yes i feel very lonely but i also know i am not suffering as bad as someone who will never get their loved one to live with . now i just hope i get to marry a girl who does not have feeling for another person, because that is highly probable where everyone lost their original lover and tends to cheat on their actual partner. If she cheats on me or does not love me as much as i deserve then i think i will be as broken or worse than someone who failed in their haram love
i am a Muslim girl, alhamdulillah try to pray every waqt namaz, all my friend have a boyfriend but I am afraid allah.I always pray that Allah receives my patience and give me a LOYAL,LOVING,CARING partner,Plzz you all pray for me in namaz(sujddoh
Assalamualaikum dear all, in my case we both are in love with each other morethen anything else..but her family members are not understanding us .it kills me everyday..please pray for us . inshallah
Very true Mufti.There are many beautiful women out there and do not feel depressed over one woman.😊
Love can overwhelm us so much that when we fall out of love sometimes it takes years to stand again and some never...
I think im too depressed that i just want it all to end.. i just want to die . I lost the energy to do ..and i dont even care if i go to hell... been more than 2 years and nothings changed...
Don't worry Allah will replace ur bitter into better...
Have faith do not lose hope...
Allah knows our pain he is Cure our wounded heart...
May Allah make it easy for you. Aameen. Never lose hope in the mercy of Allah. Wake up during thahajjud time and make 2000 Isthighfar daily ,Allah will provide you from the places you've never even imagined. That's Allah. He is capable of All things.
Subhan Allah.. I was putting this Ayyah & Look at this . It's already been up Masha Allah 😇
our nation is soo beyond from Qur'an and Hadees how is this possible oh People of Muslim please follow Qur'an and listen to what Allah subhan Wa Tallah said to us how to live in life 😢
I was very sad..I cried almost 1 hour..Now I am feeling better after watching this video..
Every Human loves. But if love is for the sake of Allah its a pleasure. We should learn to let go people who don't want to stay with us. M 26 , I never wait for any guy. I know when right time is up, Allah Rabbul Alameen is going to send a soulmate,who is going to stay with me even in Aakhirah...I too liked a guy. But insha Allah I will love only my husband...He moved away saying hez parents didn't agree. I never regret. It's all pre destined. Alhamdullillah for everything.
Insha allah they will send
Asalamu aleikum sisters! Im coming to you for help. I am muslimah by blood, but because of our country and modern life, nobody ever taught me Islam, and im in transition of becoming a very strong muslimah. InShAllah but i am scared, for i don’t do it right. I don’t know where to start. I am in love with a proper muslim guy, and im scared of his family. Please sisters, if you don’t know how to help, please pray for us.
Aizhana Ailchieva .iam indian
Aizhana Ailchieva I’m a revert and would love to connect , please don’t hesitate.. onwards and upwards sis!
Please do watch proper Islamic videos you can learn lot
How can you be Muslim by blood? It's not in the genetics to be a Muslim but rather a feeling and a spirituality.
Allhumdullilah for everything
Remember brother and sisters ALLAH(swt) is best planner he always give you best masha ALLAH
ALLAH(swt) is greatest
Always say Allhumdullilah ❤
I loved a girl and she loved me.. 4 and half years..we loved each other.. But her parents refused me for that I am from another town..Her parents not interested to give a girl to another town..Me and her tried to join..But now she said we will be bride and groom in jannah and gone from my life..
They already are some else's wives, please be careful at what you're saying. Listen what Mufti just said at the end of video. You're not paying attention
In Jannah you can have whatever you want! She may not love her husband.
Yes it's true love n actually she has not gone ..she is yours for eternity
@@mohammadaatif7924 no, he can be her admirer in Jannah, too.
Mufti is an perfect role model for us all and inspires us
Unfortunately ppl are too demanding especially the mature and older ones making it harder for ppl who do want to get married
Having alot of online sites is creating haram then halal
May Allah make it is for us. Life is hard.
I have been encouraged by this small lecture
Please someone give me advice. I am the second eldest daughter of a family of 5 daughters n no brothers.My life was one of abuse, suffering, loneliness n rejection from my parents, especially my mother. I am 48 now, no prospects to get married, I had to look after both of my parents. Extendesd family tried to use me to run around looking after their needs. I had suffered a lot of abuse n they tried to manipulate me. I have cut off ties with them. I live alone with my elderly mother. I don't know if I will ever attain the type of happiness n peace others have. I avoid married people cos they think I will give them the evil eye but yet I pray for them to be blessed. Will Allah ever hear me? What Allah want from me? I have was a good daughter to both of my parents, hardworking n loving. I didn't get much of a childhood cos I was forced to take care. of my wayward elder sister, yet she lives happily married n gets respect just like my other married sisters. I tried all my life to be a good n perfect daughter n never got any love from parents. They took me for granted n I sacrificed most of my life for them. Please someone if they could tell me what does Allah want fr me now? I'll do just to get a normal life.
StarlightnDust
sister maa shaa Allah tabarakallah for doing what Allah asked of you in terms of taking care of your parents and sisters. Even if they did not do their duty toward you, you have to do yours toward them. I'm so proud of you for doing this.
We are all tested with one thing or another and Allah tests those he loves. This test increases your Iman and your level in the eyes of Allah so don't be disheartened.
Keep making dua and remember Allah answers all dua. Yours might or might not be answered in the way you want but it will be answered. You will either get what you ask for or that which is better or you will get rewards for your patience or it will be answered in akhira. It maybe that Allah is protecting you from a clamity worse that the situation you are in now sister. Subhanallah Allah knows what's best for us and we should try not be depressed about what he designs for us. How could we say that Allah did not give me a good or normal life when we know nothing and Allah knows the hidden and the obvious.
May Allah bless you for doing good toward your parents and I pray you continue that and not be disheartened. forget what ignorant people say about evil eye. That's their sin not yours. pray for their blessings because when the angels hear your dua for others then they ask Allah that you be given the same too. Subhanallah imagine the angels making dua for you to Allah.
You're not the only one going through a situation like this sister but remind yourself that you are one of the few handling it very well. Try your best to find a good practising muslim man who will marry you and not mistreat you. There are many who will Mary and value who you are so keep looking and ask your elders who are kind or the imam in masjid for help. consider being a second wife if this is not too much for you.
Keep strong your connection to Allah and Allah will give you khair that you can not forsee.
May Allah give you a pious brother who will protect you and your family and help you attain goodness in both here and akhira. My heart is with you and I'm truly and honestly proud of you and hope to be for my parents as good a daughter as you are to your parents. Maa shaa Allah tabarakallah. Don't forget Allah is with you in every situation so talk to him often and ask him for help and never get tired of waiting for an answer. Subhanallah Allah is merciful and kind so you will be ok😊
HeLacks Thank you sister for your kind-hearted reply. Yes, you are right I must increase my faith. Make duah for myself n the goodness of others like yourself. Your faith has humbled me and I shall take your good advice. May Allah bless you and he indeed knows best.
StarlightnDust
As I was listening to a talk about dua I was thinking of you sister and I fully understand how you feel.
Please listen to short talk called When you feel like Allah doesn't listen by Majed Mahmoud. This really calmed my heart and like you I won't ever stop making dua because now I know the goodness in it whether it comes true or not.
Jazakallahu khair for your dua my beloved sister and I will keep remembering you in my dua. dua made in secret for others is accepted by Allah so may Allah accept it from us😊
Will indeed listen to this video. I will pray Allah will grant you a good life, much peace and blessings. Your guidance has brought me back to reality, lifted me up, reminded me what Allah has plans for all of us, encouraged and strengthened my faith.
Wa iyyaakum sister. : )
StarlightnDust
Alhamdulilah shukrililah ☺ I have done nothing, it's Allah's mercy on you so alhamdulilah sister. Let's keep our Tawakkal on Allah because when we trust Allah absolutely and rely on only Allah then nothing can go wrong. We must be positive and expect good from Allah.
These words I write to you are first and foremost for me so writing to you actually helped me too alhamdulilah 😊 Jazakallahu khair sister for your kind words and dua. I surely need dua too so alhamdulilah for yours!
InshaAllah i will not loose hope or feel sad
I ended things with my girlfriend of 7 years, i left her i didnt know what i wanted, completly cut her off, and its been like 7 months, the pain ive caused her will never allow her to forgive me even though i want to marry her more than anything.. so yep i am pretty depressed, having to live with the guilt that i ruined something so good ruins me inside.. she was so good to me and i was so bad.. i hope she forgives me and i do marry her inshallah,, pray for me or if anyone can provide any sort of advice i truly would appreciate it
why can't you marry her?
my heart hurts so much
the guy I have ever loved left coz his parents wudnt allow him (and mine was very supportive) and he doesn't want to jeopardize his sisters future. because my mom is a revert. And everyone says if a guy wants a girl, truly loves her he will always fight for her. he left, yet here I am deeply saddened by his actions and words. and still like a fool waiting for him by Allah's grace.
Ruby Maharoofa I know how that feels.
The next time when you pray, ask Allah to rectify your mistakes for You.
Beg Him to take out the love from your heart of everyone and everything that is not destined to be yours.
Ask Him to make your heart filled with His love and happy upon His Qadr.
I'll pray for you in sha Allah.
Mashallah your voice ALLAHS gift
I don’t believe in love and romance, it’s nothing but nonsense and waste of your time.
Spend your time with your family and do some constructive work.
Hafeez Siddiqi Absolutely correct.