Chapters 00:00 Intro 06:06 Signs Of Enviers The 9 Signs 1. They will find reasons to justify their envy despite evidence that the person they envy is a solid person. 2. Enviers have a love-hate obsession with their object of interest. 3. Enviers think they must balance the scales of justice in the Universe. 4. Enviers will go out of their way to harm their targets (act out on their envy). 5. Enviers will hurt those who help them. 6. Enviers are takers who look for what they can gain from others. 7. Enviers hang around people they don't like. 8. They are in the business of plotting and scheming. 9. Enviers usually do not change.
You have listed each and every sign that I have seen for myself, Esther. I can't add anything else to this list. They are always trying to hurt their targets and try to justify their envy. They hang around people they don't like. Always plotting and scheming. It's sad and can become dangerous.
Sometimes it will be those closest to you. I’ve also noticed that it’s often subconscious, as they cannot see how dark their envy is and feel justified in ‘bringing balance’.
They compare and they can’t compete we’re they can’t compare. They get envious and want to show you who is boss. I take it because they have to be the best in the room. They admire you then it turns into envy. I’m tired again and can’t complete my the whole process. I just been through it. The person explained it a long the way. Like rage is because they can’t accept your rejection. I didn’t reject them. I just moved on in good form but they want you in there play ground and help them achieve there goals. I guess I can kind of see how control and all this works but trust me….. took me forever to understand.
I felt something like that. That’s probably why the intense focus and why it can be hard to pull away… in this one case I deal with. A narcissist telling what effects they have and telling me what there going to do next. I try to pull away but there so good at faking empathy. And engaging you in conversation. Like their looking for appreciation and it hits us in an empathetic way. It’s actually mind blowing how many manipulators they play and see which one you respond to. I’m so busy now with my confidence back. So just keep going in the right direction.
Their analyzing you if your a good target then they test you and if you pass then the handle you and get what they want and terminate at the end and wash there hands. I think the amount I know now is a clear sign for me to get to my next chapter in life. I learned all this on RUclips.
Severe and continuous envy could be a result of an attachment injury with a caregiver, especially a lack of nurturing and emotional fulfillment by their mothers. It's quite tragic, actually. Also, when i feel envious, I quickly get over it. Its a primitive/biological emotion and not always our fault.
OMG, I thought this is the narcissistic trate, I dind't knnow iit's a whole new personality disorder 😲😲😲 it's correct who did this to me.. how to deffend, i live with them for 8 years xD
Hm... I think active envy is not a personality disorder, but a lot of people with active envy do have narcissistic personality disorder 😕 I'm glad you got out of the situation! Much love & blessings to you 🧡
@@EstherRegalis yk what? i didn't get out hahaah i just put it down every day xD they started talking to my mother and stuff and then i shamed that super hard. liek dude that is sooooo low taht you couln't go lower, look now what they think of you... shot back.. lol
Chapters
00:00 Intro
06:06 Signs Of Enviers
The 9 Signs
1. They will find reasons to justify their envy despite evidence that the person they envy is a solid person.
2. Enviers have a love-hate obsession with their object of interest.
3. Enviers think they must balance the scales of justice in the Universe.
4. Enviers will go out of their way to harm their targets (act out on their envy).
5. Enviers will hurt those who help them.
6. Enviers are takers who look for what they can gain from others.
7. Enviers hang around people they don't like.
8. They are in the business of plotting and scheming.
9. Enviers usually do not change.
You have listed each and every sign that I have seen for myself, Esther. I can't add anything else to this list. They are always trying to hurt their targets and try to justify their envy. They hang around people they don't like. Always plotting and scheming. It's sad and can become dangerous.
They end up so alone and miserable because of who they're. They burn bridges with everyone
Sometimes it will be those closest to you. I’ve also noticed that it’s often subconscious, as they cannot see how dark their envy is and feel justified in ‘bringing balance’.
That's a great observation. I can definitely see how them avoiding how dark their envy is causes them to justify it.
They pretend to be empaths and do good things for good causes.
They compare and they can’t compete we’re they can’t compare.
They get envious and want to show you who is boss.
I take it because they have to be the best in the room.
They admire you then it turns into envy.
I’m tired again and can’t complete my the whole process.
I just been through it.
The person explained it a long the way.
Like rage is because they can’t accept your rejection. I didn’t reject them. I just moved on in good form but they want you in there play ground and help them achieve there goals.
I guess I can kind of see how control and all this works but trust me….. took me forever to understand.
They want to be your God, narcissistic demons
I felt something like that. That’s probably why the intense focus and why it can be hard to pull away… in this one case I deal with. A narcissist telling what effects they have and telling me what there going to do next.
I try to pull away but there so good at faking empathy. And engaging you in conversation.
Like their looking for appreciation and it hits us in an empathetic way.
It’s actually mind blowing how many manipulators they play and see which one you respond to.
I’m so busy now with my confidence back.
So just keep going in the right direction.
Most people don't know how to mind their own business.
I must be weird.. I never recall experiencing that emotion...
Their analyzing you if your a good target then they test you and if you pass then the handle you and get what they want and terminate at the end and wash there hands.
I think the amount I know now is a clear sign for me to get to my next chapter in life.
I learned all this on RUclips.
Bravo! You are incredibly articulate. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed your videos!
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Severe and continuous envy could be a result of an attachment injury with a caregiver, especially a lack of nurturing and emotional fulfillment by their mothers. It's quite tragic, actually. Also, when i feel envious, I quickly get over it. Its a primitive/biological emotion and not always our fault.
Yeah, I definitely agree it's not always our fault. The main thing is that we are willing to take ownership of it and not allow it to control us :)
OMG, I thought this is the narcissistic trate, I dind't knnow iit's a whole new personality disorder 😲😲😲 it's correct who did this to me.. how to deffend, i live with them for 8 years xD
Hm... I think active envy is not a personality disorder, but a lot of people with active envy do have narcissistic personality disorder 😕 I'm glad you got out of the situation! Much love & blessings to you 🧡
in most cases: overt & covert narcs (my opinion)
@@EstherRegalis yk what? i didn't get out hahaah i just put it down every day xD they started talking to my mother and stuff and then i shamed that super hard. liek dude that is sooooo low taht you couln't go lower, look now what they think of you... shot back..
lol
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