I’ve seen and heard parents do a lot of foul things to their kids-but this...is NEXT LEVEL. Not only is this plain wrong but as a parent this is just something you shouldn’t do. As teens a lot of us have done wrong things, however, I don’t believe this is an acceptable punishment whatsoever. Kids do a lot of crazy stuff but embarrassing your kids on the Internet shouldn’t be a go to punishment and if it is, (I don’t believe in beating children) I don’t think you should beat them as well. I don’t think this mother is a horrible parent, nor do I think this child is a bad child. BUT-I do believe that this experience can scar this child for life. What do you think would have been a better punishment? Follow me on IG: instagram.com/theemlle
The only thing she taught her daughter is to 1. Never trust her with anything ever 2. Get better at hiding things 3. Never share anything intimate with her
Jerry that’s so true I’m glad me and my mom have a relationship where I can come to her and talk to her she doesn’t like everything I do or have to say but she listens.
I agree. Though I have never done anything that required this level of punishment, this was blown way out of proportion. I'd understand ranting on instagram but showing pictures of your daughter to others and it going viral. She's going to be in even more danger.
That is very true because I've been through this exact thing thankfully I've never had social media when I was in school because I honestly believe my mother would have done the exact same thing that mother did.
Nevaeh Christopher I say this all the time! It’s not just about what you provide for the child, but it’s also about providing emotional support and stability for the child. You can provide all you want, but that doesn’t necessarily make you a “good” parent.
Yummyleigh Of course that’s true, and I understand that. However, that doesn’t mean parents shouldn’t show mutual respect to their children. Providing for your children is necessity, but providing children with emotional support is even more important
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm laughting at your comment but not the situation. This kid is in pain and put her self in a shell to protect herself from her all to familiar mother's abusiveness. The daughter and mother may need a therapist together and separately to determine some deeper issues that they might have. This child may need to take her siblings(if she have any) and go to a safe relatives home. This is what the mother feels comfortable saying on camera....can you imagine what she would do behind closed doors...
I’m 31. If my mother was tech savvy this would have been my entire childhood. I went to therapy as an adult because of all the trauma I went through. My therapist told me my mother might be a narcissist. Parents that do this are narcissists. My mother finally came clean and told me that she hated me all my life. I’ve taken that as closure and moved on. I’m breaking the cycle of abuse for my own daughter. I would never to this to my child! NEVER!!!!!
I was raised by narcissists too and the TRAUMA is next level and long lasting so I’m VERY proud of you for getting help to heal and breaking the cycle with your daughter! You are and always were WORTHY AND DESERVING of UNCONDITIONAL love and I pray you’ve found it!!!❤️❤️❤️😁
~ Did she say why she hated you? Do you still talk to her & is the relationship better? I’m sorry that all of that happened to you. I know it hurts for your own mom to say she hates you. Makes no sense.
Anytime my mom had the chance me from ages 12-18 the day I was put out...I was told constantly that she wished she would have aborted me...I got verbally abused the entire time....and I was the oldest....out of 6 of my siblings at the time now 12 of us...I was made to babysit...and had to sacrifice going to school.....6th grade 7th grade 9th grade 10th grade 11th and 12th....I was forced to stay home to babysit.....when I turned 18 was kicked out in the snow ......with no shoes on.....I still went to school I went to job Corp and graduated ....soon as I went to school all my siblings were tooken in to dcfs.. department of children family service . custody......it was in the news paper ....soo u definitely know who was watching them.....on that same day my siblings was tooken away.....my mom called me and asked me to lie to the police and tell them that I was there...when clearly I was on job Corp campus... military ran.....I knew if I lied ....there would be a deep investigation.....my mom cursed me out real bad and told me she would never be there for me Eva again....I already felt this way.....it was a very challenging situation....I never been on my own......and being in a military ran facility .....sortive kelpt me in focus I did get my diploma ....I did spend years in mourning .....away my family......I even had it where job Corp had me anonymous on campus so I could focus.....
She’s fighting her tears , that’s why she smiling and laughing cause she don’t wanna cry , when I’m genuinely nervous and scared I start to laugh and then cry
bruh_why_ like_frfr I wouldn’t wanna cry in live but when I’m embarrassed or scared I don’t cry honestly I would scream out I hate u! To my mom if she did that😂
@@mochiicecream260 nah she kinda acted like this ain't rlly new the way her momma was acting so I don't think that's what it was she was just embarrassed Cuz she got exposed like that and was angry but was laughing and smiling to stop from crying but that just what I think
QueenCherry 12 I’m okay. My best friends are helping me move past it. ^~^ Even though my parents still does this, but starting to value myself and my emotions a little more.
Shay Levene imagine this in ten years she goes to a job interview and they give her the job, unaware of this video, someone sends her boss the video but doesn’t fire her or confront her but instead bullies her about it ☹️ so sad
Exactly! It makes me so mad how a lot of parents seem to think publicly shaming their child is the right thing to do. How about a conversation and an appropriate punishment?
The only time I would take a punishment public is if my kids got caught bullying somebody. Like if they bullied a homeless person I would make them volunteer at a soup kitchen and so forth. Pretty much make the punishment for the crime while trying to instill better values, empathy and without beating my child's spirits down
The way this woman is conditioning her daughter to take physical abuse and stay calm is terrifying. TERRIFYING. she will literally back hand her in her face and she has to stay calm and say “yes ma’am” while it’s happening.
now when her daughter tries to get jobs and go to collage she isn’t going to get hired or accepted cause they did a background check and found this video.
Rivolting. My sympathy and empathy for this baby girl is extreme. No father and with a mother like this, you're literally alone. I know the feeling all too well. Praying for this baby girls mental and emotional health for the rest of her life.
I think the girl was smiling out of embarrassment. I know a lot of ppl who do that. She seems like the type who smiles or laughs in awkward or embarrassing situations. She’s trying to pretend that she’s fine but to me she seems like she’s about two seconds away from breaking down.
I do the same things for exampleeeee My mom: Did you eat that KitKat it’s missing?! Me: I didn’t do it *starts laughing* My mom: why you laughing Me: it’s funny you think I took it My mom: God knows if your lying!... Me: *smiles and laughs* Ik I’m not lying 😂 My mom: mhmmm okay God knows... Me talking to God: you know I didn’t eat that Ik u saw me sitting on the sofa 🛋 😂😂
I do the same when I feel awkward or embarrassed that awkward/ uncomfortable laugh come out and ppl especially my mom think I'm lying cuz of it or think I'm taking the situation as a joke when I'm not I'll just be uncomfortable
Its a bad habit of mine as well. I used to get trouble a lot in school because I would smile or laugh when the teachers are in my face and lecturing me
A whisper of Patricia Yes. That p.o.s. mother is a sociopath. My siblings and I was born to one. A really good book is Mothers Who Can’t Love by Susan Forward. In it,she gives you several different types of sociopathic mothers from the smothering to the sadistic with a real patient’s personal story to illustrate how this or that type of sociopathic mother operates. The second half of the book deals with overcoming the effects of being raised by such a mother.
She told her daughter the danger she put her family in but imagine how her family is looking at this mom acting a fool on the internet. They otta be ashamed
@@jenniferlynnhenrycervantes6290 lol I got slick one time and she took my door off and I had to have those hippie beads up as a door for a month LOL never talked back again
Ikr! I agreed with what she was saying but then when she started doing all that I was like no oo oo. Totally inappropriate. She says one thing but does another. I think she was trying to haze her in some way like since you wanna do this then do it in front of everyone type of thing but that's disgusting and not the right way to go about it. I can understand her yelling at her and grounding her and taking away her phone. Also how about watching who she's around.
She’s smiling because it’s a coping mechanism... she was honest when she said she didn’t want to fight her mom... her mom is physically mentally and emotionally abusive
I do this a lot. When I’m embarrassed or being yelled at, I smile because I sometimes don’t know what to do with my face, I’m nervous, or I don’t want to cry. Like that’s just me
Yea I don’t cry anymore when it comes to my mom or things like this. I want to but can’t anymore. If I do, only 4-5 tears will come out. It’s hard. I smile when I’m embarrassed then I sit down and shake from being so overwhelmed. People don’t understand these things so they say I’m fake, and that’s exactly what her mom just did to her
This level of abuse , using social media to humiliate a child under the guise of punishment is not ok. There is nothing good that can come of this. This child will only learn not to trust her Mother, hide things and that her mistakes may be broadcast on social media. If the Mother wants to teach her daughter about the importance of keeping her body and her intimate thoughts, feelings and desires private, there are classes which can help parents and teenage children navigate the use of social media. They can learn about the dangers of misusing social media and how to be safe online. As far as appropriate punishment, taking away her phone for a couple weeks and requiring her daughter delete her social media accounts or share the password with her Mother would be an acceptable punishment. Perhaps when she's older, 16+ she can have a social media account again. If I knew this family, and saw this live video I would have to as a social worker, report this to CPS immediately.
I just don't understand why a parent who wants to raise a scholar, would post this online. You just destroy her chances of being a scholar and going to a college. They background check things like this. Yes she made mistakes, but u were once a child too. Not saying what she did was right. But u have conversation without the world watching
How can parents be so disrespectful. Sometimes kids are bad, but I don’t think everything should be online. Parents shouldn’t be so disrespectful to their children when they make bad decisions.
one thing that i’ve notice in children, kids, and teens they get fed up with their parents behavior especially when they act like this. So if they look like they are smiling or they aren’t sad enough it’s probably because they are in shock or they are fed up or just numb.
What really made me mad was every time the mom said something it was centered around herself. Not once did she tell her daughter, 'don't do this because its dangerous for you' she just kept saying my family, you're embarrassing me, the man in this house like the mom was being very narcissistic. Its about your child not what people think about you!
Yes! Thos right here. Obviously the young girl feels like her voice is not heard and that's more likely the reason she is behaving this way. She's looking for love and guidance. What I seen in this video was not it.
This is a perfect example of how many parents can take things too far. There’s a huge difference between discipline and being a bully. This mother was being a bully! I’m so glad my parents never did this to me.
The worst thing is when your parents are bullying you, calling you names, hitting you and you cant do or say anything back or stick up for yourself as it's disrespectful
@@Wee.low1 I've dealth with that and when i got older and wanted to fight my parents it was "im can call the cops on you" parents be so hypocritical and abusive to their kids because they let tge title "PARENT" get to they head 💯💯
@@Wee.low1 when I turned 14 I started to physically fight my parents (yes I'd fight my dad as well) cuz my parents were very abusive mentally and physically towards me and my siblings growing up so when I was big enough I started to defend myself regardless of weither it's disrespectful or not cuz it was either get beat black and blue or fight back
the mom makes me angry but the worst part is that there is always comments of people laughing and making a joke of the situation yet if it was them they would be mad.
The fact that she brought up some things about her real dad not doing nothing for her Ik that hurts deep down inside. She’s probably mad at the girls dad and talking it out on her.
@@TJR-ju8djI hate looking like my dad bro, every time my motha look at me it’s always “you get your nose from yo daddy” or “you get your eyes from yo daddy” like at least mine didn’t die bro.
意地悪女 Because people have kids to young to know how to discipline correctly sometimes others to ghetto to be a mother and also sometimes it just the kid
I'm not sure how this channel ended up on my time line, but since I'm here.... To all the boys and men out there who have daughters, this is the outcome of you not being in your daughter's life. She needs you, your love, and attention. Don't be absent in your daughters lives!
Shae shae Da brat You are a precious diamond in a world of rocks. Don't let the rocks block your shine. Keep other diamonds close to you because you deserve nothing but love. You are a queen and shall rain your life because it belongs to you. You are perfect. You are beautiful. You are intelligent. You are strong. You are in control. You are powerful. You are a star. Please don't end your precious life. You are too incredible to do so. 💖❤️‼️
I was stressed yeah 10 year old can’t stress I am 10 and I grabbed a broken hanger and I was gonna slit my throat but I thought about how my family would miss me they love me and I have to appreciate them
Më /Më don’t worry you will get through it I know you hear that from everyone and honestly I’m going through the same exact thing too my parents refuse to parents me and tried to throw me out during the pandemic so I get you but we can get through this together stay strong and anyone at any age can feel stress, you are valid and your pain is heard
@@mottempire2465 Please know that every thing will get better.. I am a living witness to that.. We care about you and are here for you.. Please do not hurt yourself.. You can talk to Us or If you can talk to someone closer to You or even a hotline. I just want You to know that You will get through anything. 💖You are strong. You got this
@@mottempire2465 oh hun, I understand I have struggled with these feelings since I was around your age too. I will now be 22 in June. I know it's cliche but it will get easier to deal with as time goes on. I struggle nearly everyday with these feelings. Really , your not alone and we can get through this, I'm living proof. And I want you to prove your thoughts wrong too, I believe in you. We are valid in our feelings but we more than our feelings of worthlessness or painful memories.
I know this is old, but my tears are so deep. She's so dead inside she can't even cry, but I see she wants too... Parents are really overstepping their parenting role. What happened to teaching the opposite. She's 14 and curious; and clearly she can't talk to her mom. I hope this doesn't mess her up mentally later.
She’s having soooo many emotions... embarrassed, hurt, disappointed in herself, disappointed about the situation, etc, on top of having a camera in her face... I think that’s why she wants to cry but the tears won’t come out
The worse thing my child has done was eat all the cookies. When she was 4. I taught my 2right. Because I've hade 3 miscarriages so it pains me to see people treating there. Kids like this
This poor baby girl. 14 years old. I feel so bad for her. I’m so sorry this happened to her. I can’t imagine the trauma she’s gonna have to deal with from this.
@@petergeramin7195 Oh stop it. You're saying that black parents need to abuse their children so they don't end up a ghetto stereotype? Seriously? So black children are some how different to where other parenting techniques don't work on us? And how is it she is telling her daughter she is doing the wrong thing by putting her daughters nudes on live? Where anyone can see it? The fact is, black women DO tend to be harder on their daughters than they are on their sons. And there are a lot of women of all races who ARE jealous of their daughters. For you to call what this mother did childish instead of abusive makes me really wonder about your moral compass.
Now Jada will never trust her mother with important issues again. Good job, mom! Also, to me, I thought Jada's tears were real. Humiliation is powerful.
Don't shame kids for their sexuality, instead teach them to be smart about it and educate them. Shaming them leads issues even into adulthood, trust me.
@@annetteking1499 the mother probably is arrested because one time I saw a video of a man abusing his daughter with three videos posted on Instagram and I was watching the news and found out the guy went to jail
Tiysheyah Ayers because a lot of mothers are jealous of the daughters and my grandmother told me that girls usually grow up to hate their mothers for that reason.
@@YourAverageChick I had a messed up childhood so that's why I run my house without genders. I was married but things didn't go nicely so now im a single mom in college without help. Sadly sometimes people go through bad things. But I've learned to make sure my kids dont hurt like I did.
A lot of black parents view their children as property. Notice you don't see a lot of diversity with these "expose your children" videos. When your property starts to "lose value" you have to let everyone know. That's what these parents are doing. Edit: I also don't think her tears are fake. I whole-heartedly believe she's trying not to cry so it's coming off as fake crying.
@@krystalharris1259 Black people were not the only ones who's ancestors were slaves. Many indigenous people were slaves as well. But if you talk to a lot of elders in a black family, they refuse to grow and educate themselves because they have lived for a while so they think they know all there is to know.
Krystal Harris you’re wrong. Irish and Scottish ppl were slaves in the Caribbean and throughout Europe Europeans enslaved each other. Arabs enslaved the romans. Ottomans enslaved the Spanish. North Africans enslaved Slavic and Southern Europeans. Mongols enslaved practically all of East and Central Asia. Chinese ppl were slaves for a very long time. Uyghurs were slaves and they are a Turkish-Chinese ethnic group. So what are you talking about? Iroquois and Algonquin indigenous tribes in Canada enslaved each other.
Sadly this is true I only saw one white parent hit his kid with a wrench and it's still on RUclips only age restricted. If you don't respect your child how do you expect them to respect you.
BELLE JANÈE absolutely!!! They think they’re being “cool” n feed off of the “that’s right, get em mama” “that’s why these kids bad these days, more parents should be like you” comments!
I’ve learned that SOME women look at their daughters as competition as they grow older and become jealous. Edit: SORRY! I should’ve same some women because this definitely does not apply to everyone! My fault!
Super late but y’all notice the “my” instead of “ our” when saying she putting the family in danger. As if she’s not even viewed as part of It. The whole thing is sad
Mom:Is mad at her child for sending nudes and exposing herself Also mom: exposes her nudes even more for the internet to see *yea that makes perfect sense*
when she said that she couldn’t call her own father daddy, really hurt me. i lost my father and if my mom ever said something like that to me, i would never forgive her.
@@naturalgirl576 some children are okay with not having the other parent around especially when one seems to be enough or something that you've grown used to ever since you were born that's okay but in this case when one parent is obviously not being a completely loving parent the child seeks out the other one in hopes that they will fill the void that the first parent can't when they are unable to fill that void and are bullied like this for it they feel helpless and as if no one will ever be there for them which at such a young age is a terrible thing to feel
A whisper of Patricia what you did is the best thing. that must’ve been so saddening to hear from your own mother who’s suppose to have your back and be there for you :( i wish you the best of luck and im so sorry for your loss.
When I become a mother I would NEVER EVER hit or embarrass my kids . So glad I was raised by a loving mother. Now that I’m older I can see why my mom sheltered me when I was young because of my environment. This is just sad🤦🏽♀️
Moon Light I mean if my child is disrespecting me I will spank them and raise them right instead of that bogus. I would hate my mom forever if she ever did me like this
My mom promised to never beat her children. The last time I got whooped was in kindergarten bc they told me for a week straight to clean my room and I didn’t. I’m not going to 7th grade. I’m happy my mom kept her promise
So I'm a mother of three teenagers. My oldest is 17 and my youngest is 14. I would never in my life do this. This is the time when it's crucial to sit down and have very in-depth conversations with your teenager about their sexuality, about their bodies, about love, about lust, about loving themselves, about what to accept what not to accept. This is the time when your children need you to be a parent. She is definitely not parenting her child. There's a deeper root to this issue between the mother and the child. the whole daddy situation I don't think we can blame the mom for the daughter not being able to call her daddy daddy cuz we really don't know what that's about whether it's the mom's fault or the dad's fault our life took place anything could have happened so we can't say that it's the mother's fault that the dad is not around. But what I can say is as mothers we have to be the best example for our daughters. we have to use more than words with them we have to show them in our own actions on how to be young ladies.
This is just disgusting and unacceptable. This embarassing children on social media needs to stop, because when it's all said and done, the children will have to live the trauma and the consequences of their "parents" actions.
I feel like all the parents who are doing this could actually care less about their kids. They just want to see how many veiws and likes they can get. Basically clout chasing. When one of their kids commits suicide because of something like this then what?
I don’t get why women do this kind of shaming to their own girls. Society already shamed us so much and hyper sexualizes us. I think it would be better to embrace your daughter and give her more love rather than shame. This woman went to far. I feel so bad for her kid. I’ve had Facebook since I was 8. Yeah I did some of the same things as this girl, but I think more love and support to boost my self esteem and confidence would’ve helped me more. You’re right bout scholars send nudes too. My 4.0 friend does😂
My question is what was the mother trying to prove by showing the picture? Most parents would try to keep as many people as possible from seeing it, but she wants everyone to see it. Parents need to do better, because this ain’t it🤦🏾♀️
My mom did this to me as a child. She found pleasure in humiliating me. She humiliated me in front of my friends and I'm scard to this day. When I got older I left home and never looked back. I will never go back to my dysfunctional family. Ever!
I been thru the same thing.i had to let them go&put myself first.sometimes family can be worse than enemies.this lady is a monster.jesus this made me sad
With me, my mom is a random bomb. It doesn't matter if she's having a hard time or a good day, either way, she'll legit yell at me for anything. My fault or not. I'll explain. At the times where she's obviously irritated, I'll keep to myself and figure out if there's anything I forgot to do so she won't yell at me for anything. But when she's having good days and I let my guard down a bit, it's like she'll purposely try and sniff out something to stress me about. And then when she does find something as little as forgetting to sweep or grabbing the wrong thing, she'll stay on it for minutes on end, switching different subjects to make me feel worse. Like I said, I get it when she yells at me for things that are actually my fault or that are a huge deal. But the little unnecessary things or the things that are HER fault is the reason why I have no confidence to share anything personal with her which I'd love to do. One more thing, let me share one of the 7 arguments we had yesterday. We are cleaning the house. She bought 2 new containers of bleach. I put them near the kitchen entrance. She asks me where they are. I say where I left them. She says they aren't there and tells ME to find them when I know where I had left them. So I did. I find BOTH of them in the laundry room. A few yards from where I left them. I say she put it in the laundry room. She said she didn't and keeps saying I keep making things harder for myself and shaming me for not knowing where I supposedly put them.
Krystal Harris it doesn’t matter when you know you don’t want to be home at that age. “You can never go too far when you can’t come back home...” - Kirk Franklin
@@krystalharris1259 wherever she feels best. Either way, it's sad. I think she also did what she did out of being insecure because who isn't at 14. Her friends probably do the same thing. The mom still shouldn't have exploited her daughter on social media like that and threaten to beat her at the same time. I know that personally, I would be traumatized if that were me. I don't condone sexually exposing yourself even if it is mean to be shared between you and the person you're sending them to. I never went that far to impress someone. Personality and character is the most important in a relationship. That poor girl.
I don’t think the daughter is smiling nor not caring per se- I think it’s stress. This whole situation is stressful. I see myself in a lot of her mannerisms. I think she’s dealt with the situation for so long she’s not even in the mood to deal with it anymore. She’s tired. It’s obvious.
Facts sis really looking at this the girl has been condition to endure this type of abuse from her mother. The way her mother would mock her for crying and have no empathy for her daughter. (Not all) but black mothers are some of the worst I've seen.
That mother is a piece of work! Where are the Police and CPS? THIS video NEEDS to be turned over to the Authorities! What mother wants to fight their own daughter on IG? WOW!!!
Speaking from experience, it is way easier to be numb and not really feel anything, than be feeling every hit you take (emotionally, physically or otherwise).
I understand what you are saying but as a mother you must build your child not break her down. Teach her to value herself and know her worth. Show her what's she's doing wrong and if you wanna punish your child do that but why does it have to be there for everyone to see? Why don't you do that in the confines of your home? Children are children not every child will listen to you the first time you repremand them. They still gonna do what they want to do. The thing about social media is that once something is on there it will be very difficult for it to disappear. Once this girl is grown this video will continue to follow her. The reason why you would want to repremand your kids is because you want a better future for them so how is this gonna do that for this girl? I don't really care how you choose to put your child in line but why must it be public?
Oarabile Nankie I agree 💯. There are better ways to handle situations like this. Nobody has the right to humiliate others. This will cause the girl to be resentful towards her mother and become depress. Anyways, I wish this girl the best and if I were her I would get a part time job ( in the near future) and start saving money, so as soon as she turn 18 she can move out. This mother and daughter relationship is not healthy
Abisola Abiodun you’re blaming the child for being abused...? If a child does something wrong, like sending nudes, then abuse is okay? A parent should know how to handle their kids without abusing them. An ADULT (especially a parent), should be extremely aware of the dangers of doing this to their child, or anyone at all. Idk how people can say children are “bad” when they grow up with parents like this.
Most young people forget most parents didnt have social media or phones to participate in the foolery. It's more 14 yo with more bodies than a 40yr nowadays.
I hate these new parents. My mom and I used to have our fights. We would go at each other and she didn't do and say the right things all the time. I'm thankful that all our issues were handled privately. She wouldn't even tell our other family members about my misbehavior and bad decisions. We always handled it privately and that's how it should be.
She should have sat her child down and really talked to her and told her she doesn’t have to do those type of tings to impress these guys 🤦🏾♀️ tell her about her self worth not try to break her down 🤧
All the things lil Jada is doing, is what the mom has done/still doing. She's low key bashing herself as well. I'm sure like Jada learned most of this from her mom/aunties/cousins.
Sad because am from this generation and I go to school with them kids and they have a reason for the way they act but people jump right to the punishment but don’t ask way they do the things they do.
When her mom said "I guess you gotta call him daddy since you dont have a daddy" my heart broooooookkkkeeeeee I'm a single parent child and if my mom ever told me that I would cry that girl is strong asf she just took it 😭
Jade Simone my mom is a single parent also , my father left and he died afterwards, it didn’t hurt me as much bc i never meet him but when she said that i cried
those slaps were so unnecessary... yeahh CPS definitely needs to be involved. if she do this on live, there’s no telling what she’s doing behind closed doors..
I’m in disbelief 😢 that mother is horrible the way she is talking to her daughter. That is not how you parent and discipline. Call cps on that mother for real.
She should have sat down and had a private conversation with her. Explain why she’s telling her not to do things. Give her information if she wants her to be a scholar.
I know those tears. I had those tears when I was getting bullied not only in school but at home. Those tears are you trying to stay strong so you don't seem more weak. You try to play it to seem less worried
Thought I was the only one who knew bts in the comments 😭😭 but what your saying is true and the mother shouldn’t expose her daughter like that yes is was also the daughter fault for trying to be grown but as a mother who is supposed to protect her just put her life in more danger
Thank you for being one of a few youtubers that show the utmost class and keeping it clean. Your parents should be veery proud. Keep up the great work and please don't ever change for views or money.
I’ve seen and heard parents do a lot of foul things to their kids-but this...is NEXT LEVEL. Not only is this plain wrong but as a parent this is just something you shouldn’t do.
As teens a lot of us have done wrong things, however, I don’t believe this is an acceptable punishment whatsoever. Kids do a lot of crazy stuff but embarrassing your kids on the Internet shouldn’t be a go to punishment and if it is, (I don’t believe in beating children) I don’t think you should beat them as well.
I don’t think this mother is a horrible parent, nor do I think this child is a bad child. BUT-I do believe that this experience can scar this child for life.
What do you think would have been a better punishment?
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You did do a story time about that ex who threatened to expose your nudes and you read a letter that you sent to him.
She should be arrested
I feel like a better punishment would be, taking her phone until she graduates. And limiting her time doing other things than school.
Thee Mademoiselle hi uh where’s ur shirt from
Now, if the child commited suicide in the future, the mother would be in the media, crying, saying she doesn't understand why she did it. SMH
I know right
That's what I was thinking this whole video or if she ends up on drugs
deadass
Sadly you are not lying
I won't even be surprised.
Parents like to disrespect their kids but then act surprised when their kids don’t respect them
LMAO RIGHT
To me as a kid I got whooped and all that caused was built up anger and resentment
People in her school are going to see this and she is going to get bullied and then what????
@@wemdoto4201 You are so right in so many ways!
wema o MY MOM SAY SHE DONT OWE ME RESPECT that’s why I have that mentality dealing with other people.
I don't care what she was trying to teach her im not exposing my child body on live... Period
FACTS
Big FACTS.
Especially with all the predators AROUND! And more of them are in children's spaces than EVER!
and predatory men is big in the black community..uncles be touching they nieces n nephews🤢
It actually makes the mom look even worse!!!
So basically all Child Protective Services needs to do is start watching RUclips to find these parents
You're right, but CPS are too busy, going after the REAL/GOOD PARENTS, trying to take THEIR CHILDREN AWAY.
No the app was instagram. Yes I know this was 2 years ago
The only thing she taught her daughter is to
1. Never trust her with anything ever
2. Get better at hiding things
3. Never share anything intimate with her
Jerry that’s so true I’m glad me and my mom have a relationship where I can come to her and talk to her she doesn’t like everything I do or have to say but she listens.
I agree. Though I have never done anything that required this level of punishment, this was blown way out of proportion. I'd understand ranting on instagram but showing pictures of your daughter to others and it going viral. She's going to be in even more danger.
Thats a fact i was like that with my mom and I make sure not to do that to my daughters and we talk about everything
@@sleighbeggy3028 DEADASSSSSS
That is very true because I've been through this exact thing thankfully I've never had social media when I was in school because I honestly believe my mother would have done the exact same thing that mother did.
I hate when parents say “ I feed you and cloth you” that’s your supposed to do!!!!! Its your responsibility as a parent either way.
Nevaeh Christopher It’s the bare minimum actually. Some ppl struggle to do that through no fault of their own 🤦🏾♀️😢
Right!!!! Like you fuckn filled out a whole application and sat through an interview to be born and selected to be their child!!!
PREACCHHH
Nevaeh Christopher I say this all the time! It’s not just about what you provide for the child, but it’s also about providing emotional support and stability for the child. You can provide all you want, but that doesn’t necessarily make you a “good” parent.
Yummyleigh Of course that’s true, and I understand that. However, that doesn’t mean parents shouldn’t show mutual respect to their children. Providing for your children is necessity, but providing children with emotional support is even more important
How is she gonna teach her daughter how to be a lady, hen she isn't one herself? How that work...
Thank you, just what I thought
Right!
I’m crying 🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm laughting at your comment but not the situation. This kid is in pain and put her self in a shell to protect herself from her all to familiar mother's abusiveness. The daughter and mother may need a therapist together and separately to determine some deeper issues that they might have. This child may need to take her siblings(if she have any) and go to a safe relatives home. This is what the mother feels comfortable saying on camera....can you imagine what she would do behind closed doors...
Hence
I’m 31. If my mother was tech savvy this would have been my entire childhood. I went to therapy as an adult because of all the trauma I went through. My therapist told me my mother might be a narcissist. Parents that do this are narcissists. My mother finally came clean and told me that she hated me all my life. I’ve taken that as closure and moved on. I’m breaking the cycle of abuse for my own daughter. I would never to this to my child! NEVER!!!!!
I was raised by narcissists too and the TRAUMA is next level and long lasting so I’m VERY proud of you for getting help to heal and breaking the cycle with your daughter! You are and always were WORTHY AND DESERVING of UNCONDITIONAL love and I pray you’ve found it!!!❤️❤️❤️😁
~ Did she say why she hated you? Do you still talk to her & is the relationship better? I’m sorry that all of that happened to you. I know it hurts for your own mom to say she hates you. Makes no sense.
Smh
Anytime my mom had the chance me from ages 12-18 the day I was put out...I was told constantly that she wished she would have aborted me...I got verbally abused the entire time....and I was the oldest....out of 6 of my siblings at the time now 12 of us...I was made to babysit...and had to sacrifice going to school.....6th grade 7th grade 9th grade 10th grade 11th and 12th....I was forced to stay home to babysit.....when I turned 18 was kicked out in the snow ......with no shoes on.....I still went to school I went to job Corp and graduated ....soon as I went to school all my siblings were tooken in to dcfs.. department of children family service . custody......it was in the news paper ....soo u definitely know who was watching them.....on that same day my siblings was tooken away.....my mom called me and asked me to lie to the police and tell them that I was there...when clearly I was on job Corp campus... military ran.....I knew if I lied ....there would be a deep investigation.....my mom cursed me out real bad and told me she would never be there for me Eva again....I already felt this way.....it was a very challenging situation....I never been on my own......and being in a military ran facility .....sortive kelpt me in focus I did get my diploma ....I did spend years in mourning .....away my family......I even had it where job Corp had me anonymous on campus so I could focus.....
Same
She’s fighting her tears , that’s why she smiling and laughing cause she don’t wanna cry , when I’m genuinely nervous and scared I start to laugh and then cry
True except I don't cry I just hold it in frfr
bruh_why_ like_frfr I wouldn’t wanna cry in live but when I’m embarrassed or scared I don’t cry honestly I would scream out I hate u! To my mom if she did that😂
@@myshiteu4934 lolz I just sit there with a u hate u look and just sit silently it usually makes whoever I do it to mad 😂😂
She might be really stressed or in shock/disbelief
@@mochiicecream260 nah she kinda acted like this ain't rlly new the way her momma was acting so I don't think that's what it was she was just embarrassed Cuz she got exposed like that and was angry but was laughing and smiling to stop from crying but that just what I think
Telling your kid her feelings aren't real, that's gaslighting. And it does a lot of damage to a kid.
Yep that’s why I will never be emotionally vulnerable in front of my mother
It’s sad that I relate to this comment
@@sweethartia I'm the same way
@@simply_teatree2981 I hope you're alright
QueenCherry 12 I’m okay. My best friends are helping me move past it. ^~^ Even though my parents still does this, but starting to value myself and my emotions a little more.
Mom should be in jail for indecent exposure of a minor.
Yeah I'm like obviously it's wrong. But more than that I'm pretty sure it's illegal.
I agree she should.
Exactly
I agree
Agreed
This is why people shut down emotionally....bc there has never been a safe space to speak or cry
She's looking for love from these men/boys because obviously her mother failed to provide it for her
Fr
ChocolateThunda1345 she has daddy issues
@@Mystixspiral she has parent issues 🤷
ChocolateThunda1345 And the mother failed to provide her with a dad.
@@ShanteRoxxane it's not the mothers fault the father left 🤦🏽♀️
The internet is forever, she just ruined her kids whole future
Shay Levene imagine this
in ten years she goes to a job interview and they give her the job, unaware of this video, someone sends her boss the video but doesn’t fire her or confront her but instead bullies her about it ☹️ so sad
Miaplayz it depends if it’s a career involving children she’ll be fired on the spot.
The only person who should be worried about their future is the mother
Right smdh 🤦🏾♀️
PiscesLuv♓️💞🐬🐠🐟 god forbid if she wants to get into an Ivy League school
Her mother should've had a private conversation with her, publicly humiliating your child is next level sick. smh
Exactly! It makes me so mad how a lot of parents seem to think publicly shaming their child is the right thing to do. How about a conversation and an appropriate punishment?
She did it to get social media fame. . . And she got it
Amen private conversation where is the love an respect an love be a mother
period't
The only time I would take a punishment public is if my kids got caught bullying somebody. Like if they bullied a homeless person I would make them volunteer at a soup kitchen and so forth. Pretty much make the punishment for the crime while trying to instill better values, empathy and without beating my child's spirits down
The way this woman is conditioning her daughter to take physical abuse and stay calm is terrifying. TERRIFYING. she will literally back hand her in her face and she has to stay calm and say “yes ma’am” while it’s happening.
That’s child porn...I’m pretty sure the mom could get in trouble for showing that.
????
Boi Yeet what why are u confused
There was no nudity in the vid so im confused
Boi Yeet there was nudity but she jus blocked it out🤦♀️slow
Boi Yeet there was she just couldn’t show it
Another parent ruining their child's life.🤦
That's ALL THIS fuckery is! 😡😒🙄😡
Facts. 🥴
now when her daughter tries to get jobs and go to collage she isn’t going to get hired or accepted cause they did a background check and found this video.
Sadly😧
The child shouldn't have been doing that in the first place
this is extremely abusive.
Choccy Milhk yes it is in so many levels that I will not have time to explain. 🥺🤥🤦🏼♀️
Ayanna H sis huh
Very much, my heart broke for this poor girl
The mom is sadistic
The mother is absolutely unhinged..
Rivolting. My sympathy and empathy for this baby girl is extreme. No father and with a mother like this, you're literally alone. I know the feeling all too well. Praying for this baby girls mental and emotional health for the rest of her life.
I hope she puts her mom into the worst nursing home possible
I think the girl was smiling out of embarrassment. I know a lot of ppl who do that. She seems like the type who smiles or laughs in awkward or embarrassing situations. She’s trying to pretend that she’s fine but to me she seems like she’s about two seconds away from breaking down.
Amanda Chandler NOT!
I do the same things for exampleeeee
My mom: Did you eat that KitKat it’s missing?!
Me: I didn’t do it *starts laughing*
My mom: why you laughing
Me: it’s funny you think I took it
My mom: God knows if your lying!...
Me: *smiles and laughs* Ik I’m not lying 😂
My mom: mhmmm okay God knows...
Me talking to God: you know I didn’t eat that Ik u saw me sitting on the sofa 🛋
😂😂
@@xxivy_lyxxmoore5717 it's not the same thing..
I do the same when I feel awkward or embarrassed that awkward/ uncomfortable laugh come out and ppl especially my mom think I'm lying cuz of it or think I'm taking the situation as a joke when I'm not I'll just be uncomfortable
Its a bad habit of mine as well. I used to get trouble a lot in school because I would smile or laugh when the teachers are in my face and lecturing me
Just why do these moms think it’s such a cool trend?!
THEY RIDICULOUS.
A whisper of Patricia Yes. That p.o.s. mother is a sociopath. My siblings and I was born to one. A really good book is Mothers Who Can’t Love by Susan Forward. In it,she gives you several different types of sociopathic mothers from the smothering to the sadistic with a real patient’s personal story to illustrate how this or that type of sociopathic mother operates. The second half of the book deals with overcoming the effects of being raised by such a mother.
@@cherubicnerd seriously about to go buy this book. Ty
cherubicnerd that’s sounds like an interesting book. About to go look for it at the library
Thee Mademoiselle ikr 😂😂😂💀💀💀
She told her daughter the danger she put her family in but imagine how her family is looking at this mom acting a fool on the internet.
They otta be ashamed
80s and 90s babies: let's all take a moment to appreciate the fact that social media didn't exist when we were kids 😌🙏
Dail Up. “ For the love of God! No one answer the phone! 🤣
lol yup
Nor your door cause my mom had no problem taking me to others houses especially if any of my friends were involved in anything
@@jenniferlynnhenrycervantes6290 lol I got slick one time and she took my door off and I had to have those hippie beads up as a door for a month LOL never talked back again
Amen 🙏🏾
I feel like these kids are going to have a new type of ptsd.
Agreed. I can't imagine growing up where almost anything embarrassing can be re-posted forever, even from your own parents. Smh
Look up CPTSD. Many adult survivors of child abuse have this
Le Bêbeve the same type of PTSD of a solider
She’s really just sending a mixed signal when she’s exposing her daughter but telling her daughter not to expose herself.
Frueee
True tho
Ikr! I agreed with what she was saying but then when she started doing all that I was like no oo oo. Totally inappropriate. She says one thing but does another. I think she was trying to haze her in some way like since you wanna do this then do it in front of everyone type of thing but that's disgusting and not the right way to go about it. I can understand her yelling at her and grounding her and taking away her phone. Also how about watching who she's around.
She’s smiling because it’s a coping mechanism... she was honest when she said she didn’t want to fight her mom... her mom is physically mentally and emotionally abusive
I do this a lot. When I’m embarrassed or being yelled at, I smile because I sometimes don’t know what to do with my face, I’m nervous, or I don’t want to cry. Like that’s just me
Honestly tho. Dead wanna fight that mom with a baseball bat
That or she is so used to it tears don't come out anymore
Yea I don’t cry anymore when it comes to my mom or things like this. I want to but can’t anymore. If I do, only 4-5 tears will come out. It’s hard. I smile when I’m embarrassed then I sit down and shake from being so overwhelmed. People don’t understand these things so they say I’m fake, and that’s exactly what her mom just did to her
This level of abuse , using social media to humiliate a child under the guise of punishment is not ok.
There is nothing good that can come of this.
This child will only learn not to trust her Mother, hide things and that her mistakes may be broadcast on social media. If the Mother wants to teach her daughter about the importance of keeping her body and her intimate thoughts, feelings and desires private,
there are classes which can help parents and teenage children navigate the use of social media. They can learn about the dangers of misusing social media and how to be safe online.
As far as appropriate punishment, taking away her phone for a couple weeks and requiring her daughter delete her social media accounts or share the password with her Mother would be an acceptable punishment. Perhaps when she's older, 16+ she can have a social media account again.
If I knew this family, and saw this live video I would have to as a social worker, report this to CPS immediately.
27:18 “Your body is mine” lord please be with this child. Amen.
🙏🏻 Very scary how she said it too....
The mother is a narcissist
Now apply that to different situations. Legit what a predator would say.
I just don't understand why a parent who wants to raise a scholar, would post this online. You just destroy her chances of being a scholar and going to a college. They background check things like this. Yes she made mistakes, but u were once a child too. Not saying what she did was right. But u have conversation without the world watching
Exactly jobs do this too, so I don’t think she understands the repercussions of this.
Was just thinking the same think
But if a mom saw what their sons posted on social media it wouldn’t be anything near like this 😳.
ladyy frostyy I wholeheartedly agree with this statement.
True
Deadass
Right I'm 13 and not allowed to have a Instagram but my brother had one since he was 10 I don't get it
This is so true😒
How can parents be so disrespectful. Sometimes kids are bad, but I don’t think everything should be online. Parents shouldn’t be so disrespectful to their children when they make bad decisions.
one thing that i’ve notice in children, kids, and teens they get fed up with their parents behavior especially when they act like this. So if they look like they are smiling or they aren’t sad enough it’s probably because they are in shock or they are fed up or just numb.
Numb is it!
What really made me mad was every time the mom said something it was centered around herself. Not once did she tell her daughter, 'don't do this because its dangerous for you' she just kept saying my family, you're embarrassing me, the man in this house like the mom was being very narcissistic. Its about your child not what people think about you!
Yes! Thos right here. Obviously the young girl feels like her voice is not heard and that's more likely the reason she is behaving this way. She's looking for love and guidance. What I seen in this video was not it.
This is literally child abuse. This crosses past the line of discipline and into the zone of abuse. This should be reported to the authorities.
Girl the mom was goinh easey on her better then other moms have on live
Krubally Agi a lil less than bad is still bad foh
I admit she should be arrested for exposing her kid but if she didn’t do that then it would not have been child abuse
@@aliciakeller1758 No, I have to disagree. Corporal punishment is a form of abuse.
@@kruballyagi621 No tf she's not
This is a perfect example of how many parents can take things too far. There’s a huge difference between discipline and being a bully. This mother was being a bully! I’m so glad my parents never did this to me.
I could never do this to my daughter😢😢
The worst thing is when your parents are bullying you, calling you names, hitting you and you cant do or say anything back or stick up for yourself as it's disrespectful
@@Wee.low1 I've dealth with that and when i got older and wanted to fight my parents it was "im can call the cops on you" parents be so hypocritical and abusive to their kids because they let tge title "PARENT" get to they head 💯💯
Same
@@Wee.low1 when I turned 14 I started to physically fight my parents (yes I'd fight my dad as well) cuz my parents were very abusive mentally and physically towards me and my siblings growing up so when I was big enough I started to defend myself regardless of weither it's disrespectful or not cuz it was either get beat black and blue or fight back
the mom makes me angry but the worst part is that there is always comments of people laughing and making a joke of the situation yet if it was them they would be mad.
Did this heffa say war wounds.. she's beating this girl .. When will parents understand beatings dont equal good behavior
This isn’t discipline. This is exhibit A in a custody trial 😒 🤦🏾♀️. SMH
This. This is it.
SMH😔
Saniyah Jean-Georges EXACTLY!!!
Saniyah Jean-Georges not CUSTODY cuz she can’t stay with her daddy
The fact that she brought up some things about her real dad not doing nothing for her Ik that hurts deep down inside. She’s probably mad at the girls dad and talking it out on her.
Honestly my mom was the same way
@@bbgd5032 yup
@@bbgd5032 my mom used to spaz out on me kuz i look like my father...
Yes
@@TJR-ju8djI hate looking like my dad bro, every time my motha look at me it’s always “you get your nose from yo daddy” or “you get your eyes from yo daddy” like at least mine didn’t die bro.
If you want respect from your kids, give them the same respect.
And that’s on 2-way street!!!
and people wonder why my generation is so depressed 🤦🏾♀️
Fr
Rite
意地悪女
Because people have kids to young to know how to discipline correctly sometimes others to ghetto to be a mother and also sometimes it just the kid
honestly !
Exactly
By the way she’s reacting and responding you can tell she’s used to this and that’s even worse 🤦🏾♀️
Akeilya James 😟ik
what in the cps is going on
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂 My thoughts exactly.
💀💀💀
I'm not sure how this channel ended up on my time line, but since I'm here.... To all the boys and men out there who have daughters, this is the outcome of you not being in your daughter's life. She needs you, your love, and attention. Don't be absent in your daughters lives!
These parents have been getting worse...somehow, someway
Ultimate Kunochi it’s cause all them daddy’s be leaving then they get all mad 😡
@@hopeorendal8658 no excuse
This is the old generation that be spanking thier kids. Thats why the generation is getting worse.
@@carameldiorr6835 I totally agree but I feel like our Generation would be better because of some of the stuff we been through💛💛
Especially black moms
Name one kid that became a better person after their parents did this to them. Some people don't need to have kids
Janet Sullivan i mean I’m trying to but I’m pretty sure I’m going to end it all before then.
The air
My cousin kinda did almost fully
Shae shae Da brat You are a precious diamond in a world of rocks. Don't let the rocks block your shine. Keep other diamonds close to you because you deserve nothing but love. You are a queen and shall rain your life because it belongs to you. You are perfect. You are beautiful. You are intelligent. You are strong. You are in control. You are powerful. You are a star. Please don't end your precious life. You are too incredible to do so. 💖❤️‼️
Me
I believe embarrassing kids this way can lead to them committing suicide I mean do they not think I cant never do this to my daughter
I was stressed yeah 10 year old can’t stress I am 10 and I grabbed a broken hanger and I was gonna slit my throat but I thought about how my family would miss me they love me and I have to appreciate them
Më /Më don’t worry you will get through it I know you hear that from everyone and honestly I’m going through the same exact thing too my parents refuse to parents me and tried to throw me out during the pandemic so I get you but we can get through this together stay strong and anyone at any age can feel stress, you are valid and your pain is heard
@@mottempire2465 Please know that every thing will get better.. I am a living witness to that.. We care about you and are here for you.. Please do not hurt yourself.. You can talk to Us or If you can talk to someone closer to You or even a hotline. I just want You to know that You will get through anything. 💖You are strong. You got this
Më /Më Don’t worry about it we will help you get through this.😉
@@mottempire2465 oh hun, I understand I have struggled with these feelings since I was around your age too. I will now be 22 in June. I know it's cliche but it will get easier to deal with as time goes on. I struggle nearly everyday with these feelings. Really , your not alone and we can get through this, I'm living proof. And I want you to prove your thoughts wrong too, I believe in you. We are valid in our feelings but we more than our feelings of worthlessness or painful memories.
I know this is old, but my tears are so deep. She's so dead inside she can't even cry, but I see she wants too... Parents are really overstepping their parenting role. What happened to teaching the opposite. She's 14 and curious; and clearly she can't talk to her mom. I hope this doesn't mess her up mentally later.
She’s having soooo many emotions... embarrassed, hurt, disappointed in herself, disappointed about the situation, etc, on top of having a camera in her face... I think that’s why she wants to cry but the tears won’t come out
I was thinking this same thing. This is truly heartbreaking. She’s humiliating her own blood.
and she has daddy issues I feel bad for her
I wouldn't be surprised if she had suicidal intentions after this momma ain't s__t.
Plus she prolly doesn’t want to cry on camera Bc I don’t like to cry in front of people I wait until I’m alone to cry
The worse thing my child has done was eat all the cookies. When she was 4. I taught my 2right. Because I've hade 3 miscarriages so it pains me to see people treating there. Kids like this
Sorry that happened to u
I’m so sorry that happened to you, God bless you and your little blessings! 💕💕💕
@@slamzam thank you it truly hurts me to my heart to see parents doing this to their kids
@@angelofscorpio thank you. People need to appreciate need to appreciate there children. One name is Isaac and the other one is dinova
God bless you and your child, I hope the both you live a happy and healthy life 👏🏽💛🦋
so she’s mad that her daughter took+sent nude pics but shows more people... what type of logic??
There isn't any. :/
@@eirenity She's talking about the nonexistent logic
@@Mels0103 yep.
Ikr
@@eirenity 😊♡
This poor baby girl. 14 years old. I feel so bad for her. I’m so sorry this happened to her. I can’t imagine the trauma she’s gonna have to deal with from this.
This mom just yelled at her child for exposing herself to boys, but this mom also exposing her child on ig live?????🤔
@@KangKush thats her CHILD. You shouldn't ever exploit your own child like that. Its terrible parenting.
Styleryda ikr
Mothers who do this don't have any sense, tbh.
VVSCensored you’re sick, she’s a child. And even if she was it’s still wrong. Get some help.
Greenish Cactus the own mother exposing herself to men that’s why the little girl alive, got it from her mother
I dont see them exposing their sons. Or fathers doing this to their sons. I really think some mothers hate their daughters and are jealous of them
I concur
It’s sad but true🤦🏽♀️ some women are just wicked
Not my mom
@@petergeramin7195 Oh stop it. You're saying that black parents need to abuse their children so they don't end up a ghetto stereotype? Seriously? So black children are some how different to where other parenting techniques don't work on us? And how is it she is telling her daughter she is doing the wrong thing by putting her daughters nudes on live? Where anyone can see it?
The fact is, black women DO tend to be harder on their daughters than they are on their sons. And there are a lot of women of all races who ARE jealous of their daughters.
For you to call what this mother did childish instead of abusive makes me really wonder about your moral compass.
I believe that to be true**unfortunately*
Now Jada will never trust her mother with important issues again. Good job, mom! Also, to me, I thought Jada's tears were real. Humiliation is powerful.
What boggles my mind is the people who will sit and laugh at this child being humiliated as if it’s a joke
Nah it’s not even funny ppl are twisted
Don't shame kids for their sexuality, instead teach them to be smart about it and educate them. Shaming them leads issues even into adulthood, trust me.
So when is she going to be arrested? Where is child and family services?
Where is child and family services?
Mom sounds high right now.
@@annetteking1499 the mother probably is arrested because one time I saw a video of a man abusing his daughter with three videos posted on Instagram and I was watching the news and found out the guy went to jail
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Moms be harder on there daughters when disciplining them but with there sons they get the easiest discipline with their sons
Tiysheyah Ayers because a lot of mothers are jealous of the daughters and my grandmother told me that girls usually grow up to hate their mothers for that reason.
Not all moms. In my house girls and boys get treated the same.
@@avamooltrey Lucky you
@@YourAverageChick
I had a messed up childhood so that's why I run my house without genders. I was married but things didn't go nicely so now im a single mom in college without help.
Sadly sometimes people go through bad things. But I've learned to make sure my kids dont hurt like I did.
@@avamooltrey I understand your pain ms.Ava💔💗😭
Her mama should have sat there and had a talk with her not expose all her business like that🤦🏾♀️🙄
Exactly, I'd talk to my daughter so she still know im there for her. I dont want her to think im her ENEMY.
Communication would solve this issue too. Parents never want to talk to their kids. They forget that they’re humans learning throughout life
I would be violently upset if I ever ever heard of my baby momma doing this to my child.
I don't even promote violence, but I really wouldn't even be mad at you. Nbs 💯
A lot of black parents view their children as property. Notice you don't see a lot of diversity with these "expose your children" videos. When your property starts to "lose value" you have to let everyone know. That's what these parents are doing.
Edit: I also don't think her tears are fake. I whole-heartedly believe she's trying not to cry so it's coming off as fake crying.
True. Blk ppl were the only ones whose ancestors have a history of being slaves. And I didn't think about it that way
@@krystalharris1259 Black people were not the only ones who's ancestors were slaves. Many indigenous people were slaves as well. But if you talk to a lot of elders in a black family, they refuse to grow and educate themselves because they have lived for a while so they think they know all there is to know.
Nikki Sweet exactly. It’s arrogance. Educate them sister 👏🏽👏🏽
Krystal Harris you’re wrong. Irish and Scottish ppl were slaves in the Caribbean and throughout Europe Europeans enslaved each other. Arabs enslaved the romans. Ottomans enslaved the Spanish. North Africans enslaved Slavic and Southern Europeans. Mongols enslaved practically all of East and Central Asia. Chinese ppl were slaves for a very long time. Uyghurs were slaves and they are a Turkish-Chinese ethnic group. So what are you talking about? Iroquois and Algonquin indigenous tribes in Canada enslaved each other.
Sadly this is true I only saw one white parent hit his kid with a wrench and it's still on RUclips only age restricted. If you don't respect your child how do you expect them to respect you.
I’m starting to think these parents get a “high” off embarrassing their kids on live.
They don’t even think about the after effect, and it’s sad.
so true
They probably do
BELLE JANÈE absolutely!!! They think they’re being “cool” n feed off of the “that’s right, get em mama” “that’s why these kids bad these days, more parents should be like you” comments!
I think that and they want attention from social media
Most parents love their children.
I’ve learned that SOME women look at their daughters as competition as they grow older and become jealous. Edit: SORRY! I should’ve same some women because this definitely does not apply to everyone! My fault!
I dont
Only toxic mothers
Kashana Reneé mostly black moms do this often
Was just thinking this reminds me of my mom unfortunately. 12+ years we still don't speak and I am honestly glad for it.
Katelyn Mosley um no unless you know every black mother then shut up. Stop using stereotypes to push your hate
Super late but y’all notice the “my” instead of “ our” when saying she putting the family in danger. As if she’s not even viewed as part of It. The whole thing is sad
Mom:Is mad at her child for sending nudes and exposing herself
Also mom: exposes her nudes even more for the internet to see
*yea that makes perfect sense*
o u t s t a n d i n g m o v e
*Thanks mom. We’re Equal ;(*
Prefect sense
Why you like 667 person
@@monisworld3965 oh ok
when she said that she couldn’t call her own father daddy, really hurt me. i lost my father and if my mom ever said something like that to me, i would never forgive her.
Emma XTC exactly, she just needs somebody to give her the attention she is obviously lacking.
I never have a father so I don't see what's wrong with it?
@@naturalgirl576 some children are okay with not having the other parent around especially when one seems to be enough or something that you've grown used to ever since you were born that's okay but in this case when one parent is obviously not being a completely loving parent the child seeks out the other one in hopes that they will fill the void that the first parent can't when they are unable to fill that void and are bullied like this for it they feel helpless and as if no one will ever be there for them which at such a young age is a terrible thing to feel
A whisper of Patricia what you did is the best thing. that must’ve been so saddening to hear from your own mother who’s suppose to have your back and be there for you :( i wish you the best of luck and im so sorry for your loss.
A whisper of Patricia 😦
When I become a mother I would NEVER EVER hit or embarrass my kids . So glad I was raised by a loving mother. Now that I’m older I can see why my mom sheltered me when I was young because of my environment. This is just sad🤦🏽♀️
Moon Light I mean if my child is disrespecting me I will spank them and raise them right instead of that bogus. I would hate my mom forever if she ever did me like this
Jermany ppil But were do you draw the line between spanking and beating?
My mom promised to never beat her children. The last time I got whooped was in kindergarten bc they told me for a week straight to clean my room and I didn’t. I’m not going to 7th grade. I’m happy my mom kept her promise
Moon Light facts
Awkward Faze I’m actually a child myself so I don’t know how to answer that but I won’t just constantly hit them
So I'm a mother of three teenagers. My oldest is 17 and my youngest is 14. I would never in my life do this. This is the time when it's crucial to sit down and have very in-depth conversations with your teenager about their sexuality, about their bodies, about love, about lust, about loving themselves, about what to accept what not to accept. This is the time when your children need you to be a parent. She is definitely not parenting her child. There's a deeper root to this issue between the mother and the child. the whole daddy situation I don't think we can blame the mom for the daughter not being able to call her daddy daddy cuz we really don't know what that's about whether it's the mom's fault or the dad's fault our life took place anything could have happened so we can't say that it's the mother's fault that the dad is not around. But what I can say is as mothers we have to be the best example for our daughters. we have to use more than words with them we have to show them in our own actions on how to be young ladies.
"You dont represent me like this"
Sweetie you arent representing yourself very well either.
That’s exactly what I thought like do you think this is gonna make it better?
She exposed her underage daughter nudes and that’s a crime. I wonder if the cops or cps was called.
The mom is one thing - but those people laughing at this in the live comments? Disgusting.
It is 😫
No, the mom is worse. She’s the adult and should know better.
Bruh I was trying to ignore the comments so badly
Queen Aquarius they’re 17-18 thooo 😩 I’m 17 and would NEVER but I guess these children were raised differently 🤷🏽♀️ idk it’s just buggin me real bad
Then when it happens to them it's a whole new story
This is just disgusting and unacceptable. This embarassing children on social media needs to stop, because when it's all said and done, the children will have to live the trauma and the consequences of their "parents" actions.
Bullying, preditors, cyber bullies, but thats not enough to make them care.
I feel like all the parents who are doing this could actually care less about their kids. They just want to see how many veiws and likes they can get. Basically clout chasing. When one of their kids commits suicide because of something like this then what?
Please understand this,
"KIDS DON'T FAIL PARENTS DO"!
You are the ROLE MODELS to your kid's FUTURE!!!💚💚💚
I don’t get why women do this kind of shaming to their own girls. Society already shamed us so much and hyper sexualizes us. I think it would be better to embrace your daughter and give her more love rather than shame. This woman went to far. I feel so bad for her kid. I’ve had Facebook since I was 8. Yeah I did some of the same things as this girl, but I think more love and support to boost my self esteem and confidence would’ve helped me more. You’re right bout scholars send nudes too. My 4.0 friend does😂
But why the women did that to her own child I just don’t get it ???
does she expect her daughter to ever love/ trust her again. I hope not because this is mental trama right here I would never even talk to my mom again
Skylah Samad fuhrtz for real
@Mira Mthats a hideous thing to say.
I would run tf away and scratch her car
Kim Wong that’s an accuracy thing to say, she should also call child protective services so she’ll have somewhere to go
*accurate
My question is what was the mother trying to prove by showing the picture? Most parents would try to keep as many people as possible from seeing it, but she wants everyone to see it. Parents need to do better, because this ain’t it🤦🏾♀️
thank you for acknowledging how pretty the girl is her hair too I thought i was the only one 😭
My mom did this to me as a child. She found pleasure in humiliating me. She humiliated me in front of my friends and I'm scard to this day. When I got older I left home and never looked back. I will never go back to my dysfunctional family. Ever!
Yawehs Beloved I feel you I tell ya when I’m 18 I’ll never look back 🤷🏾♀️
I been thru the same thing.i had to let them go&put myself first.sometimes family can be worse than enemies.this lady is a monster.jesus this made me sad
With me, my mom is a random bomb. It doesn't matter if she's having a hard time or a good day, either way, she'll legit yell at me for anything. My fault or not. I'll explain.
At the times where she's obviously irritated, I'll keep to myself and figure out if there's anything I forgot to do so she won't yell at me for anything. But when she's having good days and I let my guard down a bit, it's like she'll purposely try and sniff out something to stress me about. And then when she does find something as little as forgetting to sweep or grabbing the wrong thing, she'll stay on it for minutes on end, switching different subjects to make me feel worse. Like I said, I get it when she yells at me for things that are actually my fault or that are a huge deal. But the little unnecessary things or the things that are HER fault is the reason why I have no confidence to share anything personal with her which I'd love to do.
One more thing, let me share one of the 7 arguments we had yesterday. We are cleaning the house. She bought 2 new containers of bleach. I put them near the kitchen entrance. She asks me where they are. I say where I left them. She says they aren't there and tells ME to find them when I know where I had left them. So I did. I find BOTH of them in the laundry room. A few yards from where I left them. I say she put it in the laundry room. She said she didn't and keeps saying I keep making things harder for myself and shaming me for not knowing where I supposedly put them.
@@yeahwhathesaid8498 I'm sorry you went threw that. I hope you find peace
@@yeahwhathesaid8498 Greetings, I'm truly sorry for you. Hope you don't now or in the future suffer from PTSD. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh my goodness! I would leave in the middle of the night after that kind of trauma. For real, though.
WHERE would she go?
Krystal Harris it doesn’t matter when you know you don’t want to be home at that age. “You can never go too far when you can’t come back home...” - Kirk Franklin
@@Nishawnsworld so true
@@krystalharris1259 wherever she feels best. Either way, it's sad. I think she also did what she did out of being insecure because who isn't at 14. Her friends probably do the same thing. The mom still shouldn't have exploited her daughter on social media like that and threaten to beat her at the same time. I know that personally, I would be traumatized if that were me. I don't condone sexually exposing yourself even if it is mean to be shared between you and the person you're sending them to. I never went that far to impress someone. Personality and character is the most important in a relationship. That poor girl.
Krystal Harris Anywhere, away from an abusive parent like that
I don’t think the daughter is smiling nor not caring per se- I think it’s stress. This whole situation is stressful. I see myself in a lot of her mannerisms. I think she’s dealt with the situation for so long she’s not even in the mood to deal with it anymore. She’s tired. It’s obvious.
🙌🏾🙌🏾
Facts sis really looking at this the girl has been condition to endure this type of abuse from her mother. The way her mother would mock her for crying and have no empathy for her daughter. (Not all) but black mothers are some of the worst I've seen.
That mother is a piece of work! Where are the Police and CPS? THIS video NEEDS to be turned over to the Authorities! What mother wants to fight their own daughter on IG? WOW!!!
The poor girl gets abused so much, she can't even cry anymore! She's numb, and desensitized!
Speaking from experience, it is way easier to be numb and not really feel anything, than be feeling every hit you take (emotionally, physically or otherwise).
🙁true
@@rebeccamutyaba6623 True I was numb for awhile until someone made me feel things again I wanna go back to being numb
@@rebeccamutyaba6623 also been with the abusive parent and yeah I definitely agree. You get numb. You just try to see tomorrow and maintain.
This was me, I didn’t really respond even when my Mom spit in my face and I wasn’t allowed to wipe it off as I was getting verbally chastised
Society idolizes mothers so much but the truth is not every mother is a good mother. SMH. This is sad!! 😔
I understand what you are saying but as a mother you must build your child not break her down. Teach her to value herself and know her worth. Show her what's she's doing wrong and if you wanna punish your child do that but why does it have to be there for everyone to see? Why don't you do that in the confines of your home? Children are children not every child will listen to you the first time you repremand them. They still gonna do what they want to do. The thing about social media is that once something is on there it will be very difficult for it to disappear. Once this girl is grown this video will continue to follow her. The reason why you would want to repremand your kids is because you want a better future for them so how is this gonna do that for this girl? I don't really care how you choose to put your child in line but why must it be public?
Oarabile Nankie factss💯💯👏
Oarabile Nankie I agree 💯. There are better ways to handle situations like this. Nobody has the right to humiliate others. This will cause the girl to be resentful towards her mother and become depress. Anyways, I wish this girl the best and if I were her I would get a part time job ( in the near future) and start saving money, so as soon as she turn 18 she can move out. This mother and daughter relationship is not healthy
Oarabile Nankie Exactly. Some mothers can be more toxic then fathers.
Abisola Abiodun you’re blaming the child for being abused...? If a child does something wrong, like sending nudes, then abuse is okay? A parent should know how to handle their kids without abusing them. An ADULT (especially a parent), should be extremely aware of the dangers of doing this to their child, or anyone at all.
Idk how people can say children are “bad” when they grow up with parents like this.
Most parents forget they were once young too...
Letmestyleyou that’s what I’m saying 💯💯👏
The apple don't fall far from the tree
Letmestyleyou facts
Most young people forget most parents didnt have social media or phones to participate in the foolery. It's more 14 yo with more bodies than a 40yr nowadays.
So their supposed to allow their child to behave so because they were once like them?...Girl bye
Love how she’s lecturing her daughter on “ being a lady”. With her foul mouth that’s cute.
I hate these new parents. My mom and I used to have our fights. We would go at each other and she didn't do and say the right things all the time. I'm thankful that all our issues were handled privately. She wouldn't even tell our other family members about my misbehavior and bad decisions. We always handled it privately and that's how it should be.
She should have sat her child down and really talked to her and told her she doesn’t have to do those type of tings to impress these guys 🤦🏾♀️ tell her about her self worth not try to break her down 🤧
All the things lil Jada is doing, is what the mom has done/still doing. She's low key bashing herself as well. I'm sure like Jada learned most of this from her mom/aunties/cousins.
Right asked her why she behaving this way.... Not aggression
Right, she literally just fatten a frog for snakes
The fact that she never cried once after being hit is disturbing
Right. Like she adjusted to it
I wouldn’t cry. I’d just scream I feel like crying would mean they won
Kashana Reneé 14 years’ll do that you
I just stand there with a stone face and cry once they leave.
She’s been abused for years... she’s used to the humiliation and pain.
Parents like these are the worst. How do you expect your child to trust you?? Absolutely gross on the mother’s part.
This is why I say dont blame millennials and gen z for cutting up. Look at what we were raised by.
PhuckUMean Somebody had to say it 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly
Amennnn 🙏🏼
Sad because am from this generation and I go to school with them kids and they have a reason for the way they act but people jump right to the punishment but don’t ask way they do the things they do.
PhuckUMean raised by the 2 live crew generation
When her mom said "I guess you gotta call him daddy since you dont have a daddy" my heart broooooookkkkeeeeee I'm a single parent child and if my mom ever told me that I would cry that girl is strong asf she just took it 😭
Jade Simone my mom is a single parent also , my father left and he died afterwards, it didn’t hurt me as much bc i never meet him but when she said that i cried
Her mother is a demon.
Same, I felt that.
Probably wasn't her first time hearing any of it. Her mom is trash and they both need therapy.
That’s what some black girls have to go through on a regular (I’m one of them). Our community needs intervention 💯
those slaps were so unnecessary... yeahh CPS definitely needs to be involved. if she do this on live, there’s no telling what she’s doing behind closed doors..
Yes. CPS needs to get that kid away from the mom
Lillycher 245 please find help soon
Lillycher 245 that’s not ok not at all your father shouldn’t even be hitting you like that
@@lillycher2455 I'm sorry call someone asap
@@ghjuiihhj3434 yea
Agree 💯.A child's parents are their first exposure to love ,respect,self worth, and value as a person.
I’m in disbelief 😢 that mother is horrible the way she is talking to her daughter. That is not how you parent and discipline. Call cps on that mother for real.
She embarrassed her child and lost her child’s trust...
And this illegal
Well I’m 15 right now but the stuff that parents do to their children I would never ever do to my future kids
PERIOD🙅🏾♀️
IAMZIERRAH 15 same girl
me too sis
Same
i swear i will give my children the world
I would never do that to my child. Majority of the older generation are really deluded. This is embarrassing for her. 🤦🏿♀️
She should have sat down and had a private conversation with her. Explain why she’s telling her not to do things. Give her information if she wants her to be a scholar.
PrettyGirl YahYah Exactly, wouldn’t be surprised if the mother winds up alone in the end.
Honestly I agree but I think the mother was too angry to JUST do that
Im sorry but a mother like her seems like she wouldn't be the type to just sit down and talk it out sadly
I know those tears. I had those tears when I was getting bullied not only in school but at home. Those tears are you trying to stay strong so you don't seem more weak. You try to play it to seem less worried
Glucose Jams Yup that’s exactly it...been there too so I was lowkey annoyed when she kept saying fake tears and no remorse.
Just sad man you not safe nowhere sometimes😢
Is that the most amazing leader in the world as your profile pic?
Thought I was the only one who knew bts in the comments 😭😭 but what your saying is true and the mother shouldn’t expose her daughter like that yes is was also the daughter fault for trying to be grown but as a mother who is supposed to protect her just put her life in more danger
Thank you for being one of a few youtubers that show the utmost class and keeping it clean. Your parents should be veery proud. Keep up the great work and please don't ever change for views or money.