I think it's because Harry is like an add-on for Charlotte meaning, his personality really never develops and we only get a glimpse of him through Charlotte whereas the other men we encountered in a more direct way. Burger however seemed to be very odd in all her explanation
To some, the predictability of a homebody becomes a bore, but thankfully it doesn't take long to discover this fact. Aiden types just have different values. At this later stage of life I appreciate these men far more than when I was younger.
Jesus, I would marry a guy like Aidan as fast as in three months of dating but I so get it he was not the man for Candance/Carrie. What is wrong with that?
Yeah he's a good guy but not for Carrie. Big was perfect for carrie. Aidan kept judging Carrie and tried to change her. Aidan is a low key guy who should be living in a small town. and big is all city and big money. Just like Carrie.
In one of the interviews Candace told that sex and the city is actually her story and she is the real life Carrie....she just didn't want her family to know about her dating experiences that's why she made Candace Bushnell the Carrie Bradshaw.....and smartly kept the abbreviation same CB
I just think that giving vulnerable girls the idea that a guy like mister big is worth the wait isn’t a good thing to do. I mean, yes, there are men that are discovering themselves and don’t know what to do when they fall in love with someone different than they’re used to. And yes, you could wait for them. But I think Carrie forgot about herself completely just to be perfect for him. She did anything she could to get him. And it feels like he got tired of looking and said ‘ok, Carrie’s the one cause no one else can stand me’. Is like Daniel Cleaver and Bridget. Tho Bridget felt like she deserved better. And still did the same with mr Darcy whenever she felt under appreciated. I think that’s a better approach. I just left a guy that really meant something to me but evidently he wasn’t on the same page as I was. And I knew there was this one particular girl waiting for him. Doing anything she could to keep him hooked even though he didn’t look at her on the same way. They might end up together once he’s bored and tired of goofing around with other chicks... hell, no. I ain’t nobody’s last choice.-
Oh my god, honestly I loved the show itself but never quite looked for further information on the books etc. This is me, for the first time actually seeing the author and let me tell you she doesn’t seem as a sympathetic person. I’m sorry but from this video I just can’t bring myself to like her at least a bit. She’s screaming at the camera, seems under influence of something and totally misses the whole point of the show even though she’s the author. She’s really like the main character Carrie in all the bad ways. Not trying to throw hate or something, just describing my first impression totally mortified. Thank god it cannot change my views on the show ‘cause it is on of my favourites as I’ve already said.
The reason I would never date an Aiden, ( and I did ) is because he pressured Carrie into doing things that were out of her nature. They couldn't be more wrong for eachother. He knew how Carrie was yet believed he could change her.. he fell in love with the idea of changing an imperfect person, so he could be the saviour.. he refused to see her for who she was. Aiden acted in the same way as Carrie with Mr Big. Carrie was in a way his "Mr Big". With that being said: I wouldn't date any of these men.. except for Smith.
Perfect explanation. I dated a guy like Aiden myself and it was just bad. He wanted me to change so much and pressured me to get married and have kids. So I hope I’ll meet my Smith too one day lol!
@@vlasatabarbora yes I was in that same exact situation! Aiden wasnt a bad guy.. he marked all the good guy boxes. But he pressured her a lot: to stop smoking, to marry, to rebuild her apartment.. too many changes for a one year relationship if u ask me.
I remember watching the episode where he and Carrie go on a first day and he tells her to stop smoking. Who does that on a first date? Not to mention he wanted to marry her just so he could “tie” her to himself and because he was insecure and didn’t trust her (not fully his fault but he should’ve never taken her back after she cheated).
This is the first time I see the author of one of my favourite shows and I'm so disappointed. She seams drunk and is screaming at the camera. Worst of all, she seams oblivious to the lessons you can easily conclude from the show. Mr. Big was a narcissist that was mainly attractive, because he was unattainable. Aiden was the best thing that happened to Carrie, but she was too arrogant and jaded to see.
I love the honesty about Mr Big, and his aspects being something you wanted to be yourself... Think it paves a new way to how we look at relationships!
Aiden was great he was awesome - but he never FULLY understood or supported Carrie, he kept getting jealous and mad when she wanted to do stuff for her. He didn’t understand that she wasn’t ready, and still tried to push things to be perfect. I mean, a perfect partner would understand their counterpart. Idk /: Aidan is great but /: I LOVED STEVE. I loveeeeeeeeeed Steve.... he’s PERFECT.
I dated a guy just like Aiden. He literally did the same things. Jealous, didn’t understand my love for fashion. He was a “stay home” type while I wanted to go out. He was not a bad guy but he wanted to change me too much and pressured me to marry him and have kids - only because he was insecure and wanted me to be “just his”.
You wanted to become mr. Big, and you did become one - and even more than that, baby girl! 😊 You're one of the biggest modern authors known all over the world! 👏👏👏 You are Ms. Bigger now, and I'm glad your story has an ultimate happy ending even though it's a little different from the Hollywood version of it - but it seems to be what you truly wanted 😊
@@zyxzyx3030 and so did Big! In the Sex and the City movie he wanted her to stay home - no more clubbing and going to parties together. He wanted to stay home and watch old black and white movies in bed. I don’t think there was a “perfect guy” for Carrie, she was better off single because of her independence.
I just don't think she is the convential get married type. She wants to enjoy her ecclectic, rich, luxurious life. It's this echelon of society/people that knows what's going to be in next season in Paris but not what's going on in the burough next to them. Out. Of. Touch. And Mr. Big would most def be with Charlotte type. And Carrie was neither more smart or more funny than any otger woman on that show.
Mr. Big is the guy who has MANY OPTIONS to choose from bcuz of his status. Steve Brady is the one who is settled for IN THE END after numerous heartbreaks from Smith Jerods.
That one episode with the modilizers summed up the real premise of the show. The rest of the girls are comparing themselves to the models and Sam says basically says "they've got nothing on me. I'm smart, successful and hot to boot. I have no reason to hate myself." And instead of saying "yeah, you're right," they say "are you sure about that? We're not models with perfect bodies." They say they are a show about female empowerment and women supporting each other but then they try to bring down the one character that is actually doing that?
Who was your favorite boyfriend on Sex and The City?
Aiden
Love Steve for Miranda. Glad Carrie ended up with JJP.
Mr Big
Aidan! 💗
Smith and Stevie!
She seems like the best person to have a glass of wine with omg
She seems like she already had a few before the interview
lehnxx I was thinking that myself
I was waiting for Harry, and he never got a mention!
You're right! Harry was fantastic - How come she missed him out?
Because it was about bad boyfriends... Harry was great!
He's also amazing. Love him 😁
I think it's because Harry is like an add-on for Charlotte meaning, his personality really never develops and we only get a glimpse of him through Charlotte whereas the other men we encountered in a more direct way. Burger however seemed to be very odd in all her explanation
"Never dating Aidan"??... The ONLY good guy Carrie ever met. No wonder I hated the finale.
Yeah, I was confused by that lol
To some, the predictability of a homebody becomes a bore, but thankfully it doesn't take long to discover this fact. Aiden types just have different values. At this later stage of life I appreciate these men far more than when I was younger.
Aidan was a good guy
Jesus, I would marry a guy like Aidan as fast as in three months of dating but I so get it he was not the man for Candance/Carrie. What is wrong with that?
Yeah he's a good guy but not for Carrie.
Big was perfect for carrie. Aidan kept judging Carrie and tried to change her. Aidan is a low key guy who should be living in a small town. and big is all city and big money. Just like Carrie.
Umm, she left out the best one (in my opinion): Harry!
She and Carrie seem so similar lol BIG ALL THE WAY.
In one of the interviews Candace told that sex and the city is actually her story and she is the real life Carrie....she just didn't want her family to know about her dating experiences that's why she made Candace Bushnell the Carrie Bradshaw.....and smartly kept the abbreviation same CB
Because sex and the city based on her life
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She should have been on the show as a cameo. Love her.
Why is she screaming like shes drunk
Milica Ivošević-Vucelić she is drunk
She seems like a pleasant woman
Someone had one too many cosmopolitans before this interview...
I just think that giving vulnerable girls the idea that a guy like mister big is worth the wait isn’t a good thing to do. I mean, yes, there are men that are discovering themselves and don’t know what to do when they fall in love with someone different than they’re used to. And yes, you could wait for them. But I think Carrie forgot about herself completely just to be perfect for him. She did anything she could to get him. And it feels like he got tired of looking and said ‘ok, Carrie’s the one cause no one else can stand me’. Is like Daniel Cleaver and Bridget. Tho Bridget felt like she deserved better. And still did the same with mr Darcy whenever she felt under appreciated.
I think that’s a better approach. I just left a guy that really meant something to me but evidently he wasn’t on the same page as I was. And I knew there was this one particular girl waiting for him. Doing anything she could to keep him hooked even though he didn’t look at her on the same way. They might end up together once he’s bored and tired of goofing around with other chicks... hell, no. I ain’t nobody’s last choice.-
Harry and Steve all the way. Wonderful, beautiful men.
Harry? not for me. Steve absolutely
Oh my god, honestly I loved the show itself but never quite looked for further information on the books etc. This is me, for the first time actually seeing the author and let me tell you she doesn’t seem as a sympathetic person. I’m sorry but from this video I just can’t bring myself to like her at least a bit. She’s screaming at the camera, seems under influence of something and totally misses the whole point of the show even though she’s the author. She’s really like the main character Carrie in all the bad ways. Not trying to throw hate or something, just describing my first impression totally mortified. Thank god it cannot change my views on the show ‘cause it is on of my favourites as I’ve already said.
A lot of her writing is similar to the show at it’s best actually, like a lot of authors I think video is not her best forum.
I see this also. She lacks self-awareness.
Aiden was the best guy Carrie met
I think so too
Sarah Tiara he was too good for Carrie
They weren’t a good match.
By trying to change who she was?
Oh , no Harry? Definitely my favourite!
Put some respect on Aidan Shaw's name!! He didn't put Carrie through the ringer like Big did!
He tried to change her, big didn't.
Take it as you will.
The reason I would never date an Aiden, ( and I did ) is because he pressured Carrie into doing things that were out of her nature. They couldn't be more wrong for eachother. He knew how Carrie was yet believed he could change her.. he fell in love with the idea of changing an imperfect person, so he could be the saviour.. he refused to see her for who she was. Aiden acted in the same way as Carrie with Mr Big. Carrie was in a way his "Mr Big". With that being said: I wouldn't date any of these men.. except for Smith.
Perfect explanation. I dated a guy like Aiden myself and it was just bad. He wanted me to change so much and pressured me to get married and have kids. So I hope I’ll meet my Smith too one day lol!
@@vlasatabarbora yes I was in that same exact situation! Aiden wasnt a bad guy.. he marked all the good guy boxes. But he pressured her a lot: to stop smoking, to marry, to rebuild her apartment.. too many changes for a one year relationship if u ask me.
I remember watching the episode where he and Carrie go on a first day and he tells her to stop smoking. Who does that on a first date? Not to mention he wanted to marry her just so he could “tie” her to himself and because he was insecure and didn’t trust her (not fully his fault but he should’ve never taken her back after she cheated).
And I’d like to point out that Aiden moved on from Carrie and had a child in 6 months (I read that somewhere). But he SO wanted marry her lol
This is What I think
This is the first time I see the author of one of my favourite shows and I'm so disappointed. She seams drunk and is screaming at the camera. Worst of all, she seams oblivious to the lessons you can easily conclude from the show.
Mr. Big was a narcissist that was mainly attractive, because he was unattainable. Aiden was the best thing that happened to Carrie, but she was too arrogant and jaded to see.
Thank you for saying what I was thinking.
She might still be learning
Thumbs down for not mentioning Harry
Hy love ly
How does she look better and less aged than the actors who played characters in the adaptation?
Exaactlyyyyy
Botox and face lifts 🤷🏾♀️
Kelly Mapatano
Sex and The City leads all have Botox now, as well.
If you see her NOT moving her face (at all😂), she's had a lot botox (I'm not shaming her)
She's the real life Carrie!
Why is she yelling!?
Mr. Big didn’t want her, not because she’s too smart and funny, but because she’s so annoying. No wonder he was embarrassed to be seen with her.
I love the honesty about Mr Big, and his aspects being something you wanted to be yourself... Think it paves a new way to how we look at relationships!
Aiden was great he was awesome - but he never FULLY understood or supported Carrie, he kept getting jealous and mad when she wanted to do stuff for her. He didn’t understand that she wasn’t ready, and still tried to push things to be perfect. I mean, a perfect partner would understand their counterpart. Idk /: Aidan is great but /: I LOVED STEVE. I loveeeeeeeeeed Steve.... he’s PERFECT.
I dated a guy just like Aiden. He literally did the same things. Jealous, didn’t understand my love for fashion. He was a “stay home” type while I wanted to go out. He was not a bad guy but he wanted to change me too much and pressured me to marry him and have kids - only because he was insecure and wanted me to be “just his”.
@@vlasatabarbora yikes /: im sorry!
She portrays each character in her own right 😂
I miss SATC so much!!!
Andrea Levy Same
"I would never ever date Aiden Shaw" Thank you ... this the sound bite I am gonna use anytime of one of those Aiden people @s me
speak on it
This is a woman of women. I re-looked at myself differently after watching this series. Thank you Candace
You wanted to become mr. Big, and you did become one - and even more than that, baby girl! 😊 You're one of the biggest modern authors known all over the world! 👏👏👏 You are Ms. Bigger now, and I'm glad your story has an ultimate happy ending even though it's a little different from the Hollywood version of it - but it seems to be what you truly wanted 😊
Candace Bushnell comes across as very artificial and affected. Very unpleasant to watch.
What about Harry?!
Love One Another He’s good guy
Her dress is on point. So fabulous
Is she high? Like 💯 Btw, I always said I will never date Aidan Shaw because I have seen many of those guys in my life trying to put you into a box.
now tell us about that article where you say you regret not getting married and having kids because now you're all alone
Eva Demonique She’s not all alone
She thought Steve would wait for her 25 years later when she was 50 😂😂😂
This video brought me so much happiness!! LOVE IT 😍
Candace, you're the source of some amazing moments in my life.
I hate Mr. Big 😩
Traveler in Progress ❤️ Big BLOWS !
Good for you. Don't fall for entitled assholes
My ex fiancé was definitely a Mr Big! My current boyfriend is a mix of Mr Big and Aiden
Aiden was the only one worth having!!
I agree with you. I married my Aiden and our 25 year anniversary is in a couple of weeks. It has never been boring.
Not everyone wants that kind of life though. To each their own.
He tried to change who she was.
@@zyxzyx3030 and so did Big! In the Sex and the City movie he wanted her to stay home - no more clubbing and going to parties together. He wanted to stay home and watch old black and white movies in bed. I don’t think there was a “perfect guy” for Carrie, she was better off single because of her independence.
Candace, do you had a few Cosmopolitan before!?! I don't mind...
Home girl is drunk 👀
Why is she shouting?
I LOVED Steve! ❤
This was excellent! She's very engaging!
Very enjoyable! Love Candace
This woman talks like a crazy person. A drunk or high crazy person. She came up with a good idea and a good show, she should limit herself to writing.
Mariana machado Oh no! Really? You think so? 😂
This woman really knows what she’s doing
I just don't think she is the convential get married type. She wants to enjoy her ecclectic, rich, luxurious life. It's this echelon of society/people that knows what's going to be in next season in Paris but not what's going on in the burough next to them. Out. Of. Touch. And Mr. Big would most def be with Charlotte type. And Carrie was neither more smart or more funny than any otger woman on that show.
Usually the actress is MORE attractive than the woman she's playing.
LMAO
"And I did" HAHAHAHA
I have to be able the same
What about Harry? I loved him!!!
Harry was nice, a good boyfriend, this video is about the “crappy” boyfriends! Harry wasn’t crappy!
I agree Steve Brady was the best.
No mention of Harry? He was the sexiest if you ask me.
"I want to be Mr. Big" as a female, YES. I get it now, why I found him appealing even after he was an ass
Mr. Big is the guy who has MANY OPTIONS to choose from bcuz of his status. Steve Brady is the one who is settled for IN THE END after numerous heartbreaks from Smith Jerods.
Berger. Who wouldn’t hate him?
I love you candace for this book
Heyyyyy so... what about Harry????
love and blessing 🍓!
I used to watch S&C 🎉
back in the days 🍰
Mr Big all the way ! 🎯
thank you for S&C 🌍
exhilarating 💎
This is the face of modern feminism?! Seems shallow,materialistic, and classist .
Thanks for sharing ❤❤
I looooove this woman
I like Aidan tbh
No Harry? Aka by far the best man on Sex and the City?
Good guy
Mr. Big is defiantly a Sagittarius
Scorpio in real life n Carrie Aries
Loved this.
Cadance Bushnell = Carrie Bradshaw
Smith was all around HOT ! 🔥
Sexs
Sexsmith
Deeply offended that the *girlfriend, Maria was not mentioned in all her glorious crazy
I LOVE THIS
Drunk or stroke?
Sounds like she's had a few too many cosmopolitans.
That one episode with the modilizers summed up the real premise of the show. The rest of the girls are comparing themselves to the models and Sam says basically says "they've got nothing on me. I'm smart, successful and hot to boot. I have no reason to hate myself." And instead of saying "yeah, you're right," they say "are you sure about that? We're not models with perfect bodies." They say they are a show about female empowerment and women supporting each other but then they try to bring down the one character that is actually doing that?
I just checked if my Playback speed has some problem
This is amazing
I’ve dated them ALL....🤦🏾♂️every-type I’d still choose my Alexandre🤣
This women has no idea what she is talking about, also is she drunk 🥴
What is with her accent? What is with ber pitch? 😂 damn she's drunk
And Harry?
Big- by the way, I’m the first
is she drunk???
Aidan,Robert leads and Smith were the best boyfriends.....the truly worst were Richard Wright,trey,Berger and of course Mr Big
Slurring a bit?
How many surgery she had? she can't even move her face while speck. She is literally yelling.
Im not deaf
This is awkward
mother
Harry
She dated Aidan??
luckyDancer100 Not because she love rich guy
Is she drunk? Omg! Someone else said this a month ago!! Haha! She really seems drunk.
Love this!!! #smithjerrod
How old is she
Kika Soran 63
You wouldn’t date an Aidan??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Ugh... Came for actual insight .....🙄
She is so bad at talking