its weird to watch and why should men be discussing other men? why are people so concerned with who we date? i use to think is only SA women who envy us and always insecure and trying so hard to damage our image but it seems like most men in sub sahara are obsessed with us. The only time we think Nigerian dudes exists is when we read the news and see all the crime they do in SA
South African men clean up in Nigeria. But yes what you say is true. South African men are generally not attracted to Nigerian women. But Nigerian women are beautiful. Model like.
SA men look down on SA women who date certain nationalities and once they find out, that lady would have to date outside SA because she will hardly attract SA men this why the saying they never come back, the truth is, no SA men want them back, even a SA guy with no options wont settle for such
South African woman are so beautiful it's not even funny everytime you go out to a public place you feel blessed to be surrounded by such beauty South African woman have most beautiful booties to die for than the rest of the world combined skinny jeans were designed with them in mind.There is nothing that's tops that off than a good smelling South African woman it's just therapeutic.I would not trade my South treasure for anything in the world.👌🏿👌🏿
Right...they were all saying how nigerian women do things too formal and everything is serious whereas SA women you can go out and meet and have sex with them the same day lol. Ewww. I was so disgusted by that. Yuck!!
They lead with money when they approach girls so they attract bitches. What do they expect? If my strategy was trash the local men while spending money....what kinds of girls do you think i'll attract?
I find it ironic that u say south African woman give birth alot yet Nigerian population is 4x south African population and have smaller country. Yet u disrespecting our woman yet your population is 4x. So who is giving more birth
EVEN B4 THE COLONIERS MASTERS COME N COLONISE NIGERIA WIT 50 MILLION PPL AM TAKING ABOUT LIKE 100 YEARS BACK WHILE SOME COUNTRY IN AFRICA IS 6 MILLION POPULATION
That surprised me as well.. I was like what the fuck are saying, do you even hear yourself. How the hell did you have such high population if you don't give birth a lot. 😏🤔
Im a woman and ill be honest... SA ladies love taking advantage its not only nijas but every foreign national who comes here at a large scale SA women will take advantage of them. You can't find a SA lady happily dating a foreign that has no income or doesn't have a hustle to maintain her. Tbh Nigerian likes showing off and hence we find it easy to get money and comfort on demanding money because it doesn't feel like a strain to you since showing off is a life style to you and try to win a girl by giving her what she wants. We are not as demanding as we are to oir SA men because they know how to shut us off . This was a trend when Mozambicans relocated to SA, SA women were dating them and saying they were better than our own because they gave us money and cared more. Our brothers even got used to Mozambicans dating their sisters and even called them "sibari" (bro inlaw) now that moz guys are wiser and no longer taking shit from us and we can't take advantage of them anymore we moved to Nigerians.
Speak for yourself, truth is that in South Africa we have a few "disabled" able bodied sisters who choose to live like leeches, a characteristic abhorred by our society. So if they meet Nigerian guys as they are accustomed to "buying sex" back home, they make a good match to those sisters I just described. Many of the Nigerian men attract "untouchables" without really knowing as they don't know the tell-tale signs of our society.
@@clementmakhate1708 you forgot they said South African girls likes Nigerians and don't go back to southies once they start dating Nigerians. That was my take from that point and reason why southies girls love foreigners is not a genuine love its advantageous dating them where as southie men have nothing to benefit from nija girls
I dated a Malawian before and he had no income whatsoever, we were still in school and it was all about, as far as I know. But one thing about foreigners is that they are very possessive and controlling. They don't have confidence. And I went back to South Africans and I'm here to stay
It's not like South Africa women don't want to go back to SA guys. It's just that us SA guys cut these women out from our interest. SA guys prefer a local girl. There are deep reasons behind that
@@stevenwilliams3015 Sure buddy. If I find out a girl's been with a Nigerian I stop messing with her. Because I know the kinds of women that Nigerians attract and I also know what they do to them.
@Gemini3K true, once you dated someone from our country, we cut you off, it's not like they are not coming back to us, it's because they know we want them no more
95% of your content is about South Africa, you talk about South Africa like you are expects yet none of you know how is life in the townships & rural areas. Just because you are dating SA women doesn't mean you know South Africans. i can count 20 Nigerians yotubers even those based in Nigeria who's content is 90% about South Africa. THE OBSESSION IS REAL!!!!
This is sad fr. I cant imagine being obsessed with someone to this point aowa. Even nigerian twitter south africa is trending They have like a crush on us it's sad fr.
There one are few answers to this question, 1. in SA there's simply not enough single Nigerian women even single Naija guys end up with SA women, 2. there's abundance of beautiful women in SA with small waist and dangerous curvy bodies 😍, this means single Nigerian women have a lot of competition and SA men will always choose their women first almost all the time with few exceptions.
Nigerian women are not beautiful. That is a simple fact. You find Nigerians running to Kenya to get the Bantu women in that country; you find Nigerians doing the same in Tanzania, Uganda, Rwanda, even Zambia, Malawi etc... None of the men from these countries go after Nigerian women
The question should be Why are Nigerian men leaving these "beautiful and well-mannered" Nigerian women for South African women? To me it seems that Nigerian men put more value on S.An women. Now why would a S. African man leave a woman of high value for a "reject"? 90% of Nigerian men, given the opportunity, would choose to marry a S. African, Ethiopian, European or Asian woman over a Nigerian woman. How about discussing that for your next podcast
Thats a delusional statement. Naija women are not rejected. Nigerians just like to settle wherever they are, not because they hate their own. Its that simple.
They r having fun with u . An average Igbo man wouldn’t even marry outside his tribe. They get married in sa , dumb them and come back to Nigeria to marry. Most igbos do not even made outside their states. I can’t speak for other Nigeria tribes . So many baby mamas in South Africa from Nigeria men
South African man like soft (feminine) woman , when they date outside they always choose the best . Most cases even the Nigerian that are in SA don’t date their sisters because they know how they look .Those that do they were married from home already n traveled to SA together. SA man are spoilt with choice of beautiful woman and there is no need to look outside
South Africans are all over the World , the Difference is they don't Announce their Presence by engaging in illegal activities. Besides there is nothing to experience in your Country .only East /Central and North and Southern Africa have something to offer, they are tourist regions .not West Africa
We date German women and European women easily in SA... Why do people make it seem like Nigerian women have higher status than women of other nationalities? Like SA men just cant afford them?? But we get all other types of women? Truth is, we dont find Nijerian women attractive.
@@KomeEmielu SA men are not asylums like you, we stay in South Africa and make it livable whilst you drowning in oceans trying to escape poverty from your hell Nigeria, Nigerian wemans built like bull dogs, loudness of poverty, you are not part of our culture, you are Muslims slaves in Nigeria, forget about South Africa and focus on your tribalism of religion slavery
@@fananelsonmbambo9040 You re so unlearned and ignorant. Nigeria is not a Muslim Country. There are Christians and Muslims in Nigeria. Do ur research before making foolish statements. And who cares what u think about Nigerian women. South African men, your opinions about Nigerian women do not matter, because they won't date ur class. By d way, I'm a Nigeria, and living in Nigeria. If I want to migrate, definitely not SA.
Why do you push the narrative of telling us what to do? Our culture does not allow us to date Naigerian women. Man who does not know their culture is doomed.
@Ernest Matlhake,well said bhuti ,no hips ,talk as if they are fighting.i love my culture and language I will never mix it with these nigerians .I wish I was it a minister of home affairs and police ,I tell u all these people will be gone back to the over populated country of theirs.
Where are SA guys supposed to meet with Nigerian girls because you leave them behind in your country when ever or wherever you travel to. The few we come across have been brought here by their men and are not free to talk to anyone let alone date. We have no reason to leave our country and go to meet them in Nigeria, and most of them I know would dearly love to hook up with SA men because of the luxury, lifestyle and entertainment we can provide them.
I think SA men just have an abundance of beautiful South African women to choose from and also consider that a lot of South Africans practice their traditional African religion which also is something to consider especially when your going to be giving someone your surname and bringing them under the protection of your ancestors. Further note that South African women are hypergamous (SA men got us used to this in the first place), so we will always go where there are more opportunities. But we will always prefer South African men first.
The only thing you said or implied that is true is that South Africa has an abundance of beautiful women (while Nigeria has none). In terms of having and upholding stronger African traditions, South Africa is above only the likes of LeSotho or Seychelles. On the average African standard, South Africa tradition is weak. You have no traditional music, you have few if any traditional ceremonies, your beliefs have been diluted and contaminated by your proximity to whiteness, to the extent that you are the country in African tolerating open homosexuality. I encourage you to come to Zambia during Kuomboka Ceremony so that you can observe grand African traditional pomp and pageantry- ironically, to the extent that you can understand siSuthu as a South African, you should be in familiar surroundings since the Lozi spoken in that part of Zambia is a direct derivative of the Suthu language brought over by Sebetwane of the Bafokeng clan of the Suthu of South Africa in 1840; Or you can delve into the deep African spirituality of the Vaka Chinyama cha Mukwamayi people's Mukanda ceremony.... and the deep African culture is not limited to one part of Zambia, but it stretches from corner to corner. The reason is that we come from deeply the African and spiritual Luba Lunda Empire of DRC...
U are saying that South African are easy to get and you further say that south African girls loves money more than Nigerian girls. Generalization is a problem gents.
I am not South African but what I know is that Nigerian women tend to be masculine and very loud mouth which rubs of the wrong way to most men outside Nigeria. As a Bantu person myself I can simply say Nigerian women are not attractive.
Remember according to Nigerians their women don't like dick and Nigerians are number 1 at everything. Have you ever heard a Nigerian objectively talk about Nigerians? They're always the winners, the best, the most....it's never the truth.
Right very disheartening smh 🤦🏽♀️💯🙏🏽 And although I’ve never been to Africa I know that I’m Nigerian (Igbo tribe) due to my father being from there. I know we are South-East Africa and I saw a post about South African women previously thinkin we are the same or similar enough. Now I’m seeing this and although I’ve heard how tribalism and xenophobia is a big thing in Africa akin to how racism is in America…to see it in action is very heartbreaking 💔We over here in the US like to romanticize Africa like we need to return there where its so beautiful, cultured and how “we as a people” are as if we’ve been “whitewashed” over here in the States (if its Whitewashed why the white people not actin like this amongst their own and if so its private but atleast for a public united front when it comes down to it they stick together and we don’t and they for sure don’t have public podcast downing each other the only race doin that are black people in US AND Africa I see smh). It seems like Africa is trying to be just like the US being divisive amongst our own people as well as how they dress, live, and even these divisive ignorant podcast (my first time seeing an African poscast the format is the same as in America smh) its ALL the same as in America smmfh 💔 Yea I have to take a break from these podcast and certain negative videos cause I refuse to think EVERYONE thinks like this cause I don’t so I know there are others…however its VERY prevalent and it can brainwash you into a negative mindset and if nothing else make you lose hope in humanity as a whole. I’ve overcome so much despite odds and have been able to maintain not being unduly tainted by this type of mess and I’m not about to let people on the internet finish the job smh This is crazy and sad how people can be especially how our own are to each other all over the world smh Its the same “conditioning” we experienced in the US the same in Africa I see smh🙏🏽
Yes come back home where you belong you were stolen from here. We do not have a problem about you guys as a matter of fact you will fit very well in SA
@@PatinaEdochie Even if they(whites)are not bashing one another on the internet,they do not like each other as the big world wars were fought among themselves.
Yes in South Africa school girls that fall pregnant are allowed to still attend school and write exams regardless of which grade they are in. I do believe that is South African women have one benefit that been a single parent is not that end of your life. And it does not mean a man wouldn't marry her at a later stage in her life being a single parent. I get the feeling that Nigerian women could feel the pressure of bringing shame to their families. Personally I definitely have mad respect for Nigerian women's ability to strive for an education, stand up for what they believe and really they are family orientated. I think the reason many South African men are not dating or married to Nigerian women is because many of the Nigerian in South Africa are already married and also there is a negative perception regarding South African men being abusive based on the high rate of GBV in South Africa. So rightfully Nigerian women would air on the side of caution. In South Africa women really do have more freedom that even if a parent would want you to marry a certain cultural group, they had to be open to the fact that South African women will exercise her right to choose. Just my 2 cent worth.
In Nigeria back room abortions are a big problem. Nigerians won't tell you that though. GBV isn;t a big deal in Nigeria or outside of Africa either. AND...South Africa is the only country in the world where it's women trash their own men. (fathers, brothers and sons) They throw their men under the bus every chance that they get and that's why most of them are single moms and unmarried. They don't have any real values. Are hyper survivalist and are always on the look out for the highest bidder because SA women are opportunists not lovers.
Guys stop generalizing that South african women love money and they easy to get that's just disrespect....you guys meet women at jorburg in clubs and then conclude .. go to KZN kwa Nongoma , go to Eastern cape , go to Limpopo you'll find Cultured South african women
@@ZFGPODCAST so what are you saying about SA girls ? Have you seen how many girls to to "umkhosi womhlanga " ....there are lot of cultured South African girls who are not an easy target ...go to country side not cities then you'll find cultured girls...I don't like this narrative you make our girls look cheaper yet you marry them mxm
@@ZFGPODCAST guys this is simple you said it yourself in the video that you can't judge Nigerian girls based on the ones you know cause nigeria is big ...now apply the same concept here have you ever been to Rural KZN places like Kwanadlala, kwaDukuza, Nquthu etc....you've only met a handful and yet you conclude your narrative I don't understand...when the king of AmaZulu picks a wife he picks from those cultured women not city girls ...you've never been to All places here in SA and I bet you don't even know our culture .
@@ZFGPODCAST you've been to these places but i doubt you know anything about their culture ....when you visit these places...go to the rural parts of these places so that you'll have full experience before you make conclusions I guess
@siphiwe Mukhari,who wants to marry a woman who talk as if she is fighting, who wants to marry a women with no hips ,I love my xhosa culture and language to mix it with these people, fronting destroying my country they must leave south africa. How do these people get papers how.
You've got it all wrong, we find Nigerian women crude and loud and unattractive by South African standards. Conversely Nigerian women don't find us attractive because regardless of how wealthy we may have, we never make it "rain". Flaunting of wealth is considered low class in our society.
To be honest there are many reasons why SA men don't usually go for Nigerian women. 1. Nigerian women are big and masculine. Normally and generally masculinity is seen as non feminine and not good for reproducing. 2. We prefer similarities and some assurance, which also means family values are high on our list of priority. Remember some tribes still believe in the cultural tradition of keeping things within the family ( blood line). Why is it that SA women date Nigerian men? It's called a trade off. Would they date a poor non providing Nigerian? Absolutely No.
@@mpram5522 I work and study with lot of Nigeria ladies in Dubai and the the ones I see and know are not big or masculine , their men are big and masculine not the ladies.
I think they are few Nigeria women In south Africa, Nigeria women in SA are mostly married , they are there with Thier husband, but they are so much Nigerians in Dubai both men and ladies.
U dont know what u talking about. Nigeria is a diverse country. Go get some knowledge bruh 🙄🙄 Im not a nigerian but i’ve been there. Maybe u should travel a litle more 😂
First, one must have an interest in something or someone to fully engage and interact. Case in point: Nigerians love South Africa and its people to a degree you spend your time and resources talking about South Africa and its people. However it's not the case with most South Africans. As a results most South African men will not be interested in Nigerian women for a number reasons. Second, I personally believe one has spend years to partially or fully acquaint themselves with the other person or people's way of life, customs, cultures, traditions, languages and religions to fully understand them. Yet the narrative I hear about South African men or women is somewhat false. Moreover, due the fact that none you have lived enough with a South Africans on the full time bases to say anything factual about them. Therefore it's disingenuous and wrong on your side to comment about us in this way when you really don't know us.
Nigerians love everyone. We don't discriminate go all over the world you will find us. You are judged off your character not your ethnicity. This gives us a more well rounded view which women in general tend to gravitate to.
@@abzigwe3656 you love everyone but not as much as your love and obsession with south Africans But south africans dont love nigerians as much as Nigerians love us. It's like y'all have a crush on us. But we not interested in us. Like leave us alone damn
@Thegreatest342 Egocentrism at its finest. I literally just said we don't discriminate. And for some reason you think we love South Africans more than everyone else. I am Nigerian I know at least 1000 Nigerians. I can say maybe around 50 of them have been to South Africa. Anyway you will not turn me into a xenophobe. I actually don't blame South Africans that have this perspective I understand the trauma of the apartheid regimes and Iving amongst the brain washing colonialists. It's easy to develop such views. I pray for healing. Peace and love to every African country let's unite 🇳🇬
South African men do date women that are available in South Africa. Usually the ones that went to school in S.A. Eg. Swaziland, Lesotho, Zambia, Kenya etc
Please make it make sense when you said s.a women give birth alot..I will never understand some1 who comes from the largest population in africa saying people gives birth alot..your women are the ones giving birth alot given the number of population in your country...nigerian population is 3x higher than south african population..rest.👐
You are right as a matter of fact they are more than any country in Africa. More over they use their women to be prostitute at home and abroad trafficking them to Lybia and Italy
Honestly 🤔.....I can't imagine SAcan men seated and discussing other men,really I'm failing to imagine that scene...they like minding their business 😄 But I'm not discouraging you guys,as long as it makes you happy..keep on
@@Gemini3K this can't determine your being unsecured or not. Is just about being men nje. Men don't do it,it's ladies' stuff🤔. Or maybe let's leave it here, and say SAcan men don't
South African women are very hygienic, great cooks ...hey and the most beautiful in Africa well structured, so why would our SA men look outside....its only three or four would date a nigerian woman and again that would be very weird...
body wise i will say is Ugandan women and overall beauty can be argued against Ethiopians, you'll ego's are just too high because some foreigners from poor countries like Nigeria simp a lot
@@ZFGPODCAST Yes Nigeria is among the poorest in Africa although not the most poorest as that title goes to Burundi, however, Your GDP Per Capita next to ours makes your guys have 4x less money than us. We can also look at basic infrastructure per capita, standards of living and the fact that Nigeria is lower middle income society. All factors put together, Nigeria falls under a very poor country despite having oil and large population which doesn't relate to the size of your GDP
@@lozi4163But Nigerians have the richest musicians, footballers, comedians, Actors, engineers, politicians, richest man in Africa is a Nigerian ALIKO DANGOTE, richest content creators, richest in resources , Nigerians are the ground shakers in SA😂 and the reason y’all hate Nigerians is simply because they got more money than y’all and spend more on your women and you don’t want those women back because Nigerians have spoilt her with money and now she’s exposed to wealth 😂 the reason SA looks anti better than Nigeria is the white man they developed your country but we built ours by ourselves!
South Africa got the most beautiful women in the world and Nigerian women don't come close to our women, why would we leave our beautiful women for Nigerian women come on bros speak the truth or ask us south african men. . Plus we got nothing to benefit from dating Nigerian women
Since you are talking about South African men, you could have included them in your panel. I was trying to understand what your are actually talking about as Nigerian men only, and could just hear your perceived conclusion about men your clearly have not sufficiently learnt from. I really do not know where did you do a research about South African men in term of dating. Next time they should invite both South African men as well as Nigerian women.
My brothers from Nigeria, stop generalizing it doesn't mean few SA guys you met in town and not the whole of SA all of us are like that. Why is it a big issue about who date who and why. It's about a choice. Shout out to you brothers. 😃
This video just shows their insecure mindstates. Southy men aren't "flossy , look at me I'm big man" type, u get disciplined out of speedans very early in Kasi. All these guys know r the club girls who slept with them, they've never experienced Mzantsi (culture, rural life) nor hangout with SA men
To cut to the chase gents, I am a South African older man who has never come across one Nigerian woman in South Africa, let alone women. I can assure you, I don't live all alone in the bush somewhere, nor am I a monk. I know they can't be advertising it wherever they go around the country. The only beautiful Nigerian women that one gets to see are those who are actors in films or on the internet. (Nice show guys if you can improve the sound quality).
Nigerian girls who grew/ born in SA don't date /married to Nigerians. They do date/married to South Africa guys n not only Nigerians, even Congolese, Ghanaians, Camerons. SA man r struggle to understand Nigerian girls who come straight from Nigeria cis they behave so different
South African girls are allowed to write exams and can move on to university. How will killing her dreams help her small child? She didn't make the child alone. She shouldn't suffer alone
Yeah but most African men comes from countries were women don't have rights. For them is normal to deny a girl child education because of pregnancy. Very backward society. When you deny the girl child education, how will she look after the baby?
We want to preserve our gene pool with our women . Our gene pool has the best genes hence your men will strive to have our product more than anything else . We love ourselves a lot we are a mixture of Bantu and Kgwesan therefore we don't want to disturb that gene pool
I think we do have the best gene, you should go on twitter and see how much effort they put in bashing SA men while simping to SA women, the inferiority complex is off the roof. They constantly try to proof how better they are while SA men don't even know this gents exist e isn't going to their countries never mind chasing their women because we deem their gene pool as not much of a thing to us
There is a South Africa lady who just made a video on YT a month or two ago ago. She said coloured South Africa men can be violent, so she started dating an African American man who moved to South Africa, but she’s not sure she likes the way he’s treating her.
Black American men are violent too. They have no clue of the concept of marriage. Trust me, she will regret her decision. I lived with enough black American women to know.
It’s allowed for a pregnant woman to write an exam as long she feels like she wanna write she can. We must know that a child is blessing did you know even Malema doesn’t know his father but now is a CIC
Our inlaw with the glasses I really like his way of explaining things and his wisdom I like that about him maybe it's because he is married to SAn lady. I would like to give you a little advice try not to compare SAns and Nigerians in your discussions otherwise your content is dope ooo.
You know I'm listening and I'm catching the Nigerian perspective on 19:37, and Nigerians are very friendly, I keep telling my friends that I always fix my laptop with the help of Nigerian brothers in Johannesburg and they're always reasonable compared to when you'd have taken your laptop to a repair shop
Nigerian women in SA most of them are business women they own salons and they’re not that attractive women because they don’t care about their looks it’s more like they just in SA to work and go back home they don’t feel like home in SA. But on the other hand Nigerian Men are very attractive cos they love themselves they feel like they home in SA and they’re soft, romantic and generous❤️🤞🏾
Nice content brothers, I'm South Africa abroad, I came across your platform and subscribed right away. I am looking forward to more content, so much love for African brothers
@@florarice592 so nigerian women have been so mad at south african men because they in love with them. But south african men dont like nigerian women it's the truth.
The answer to this question is simple, SA men are not exposed to the best Nigerian women. I cannot even remember the last time I came across a Nigerian woman!
The Nigerians you see are the best ones. That is how they all are. There are no others. I lived in Texas among Nigerians for many years. I went to their parties, was offered their women, including the medical doctor wife of a philandering Nigerian friend, who offered herself to me, and I still said "No".
The Nigerian woman is simply wanting to preserve herself for the right guy. She wants marriage bro, that's why and she was groomed well, the culture is more big on virtue and respect. There are differences in background and culture 🧫
You are describing women in general. In fact Nigerian women are known to be loud and disrespectful towards men. Bantu women by nature respect men and Bantu women are more beautiful than Nigerian women in generally.
Twisted mind asylums, Nigerian wemans think a man is a bank to change their asylum life, tell your useless Nigerian government to allow your girls to work instead of locking them up in big walls like prisoners, and stop worshipping Islam and christian slavery
The truth is, South Africans are seeing as the most successful Africans and they are admired highly, this makes other men on the continent feel like they are below us. People feel like even getting an SA reject is still better than their own women simply because they think dating an SA reject still put them on equal social rankings like SA men. Its similar to how a black men will do everything for a white lady who is a reject to a white men, mostly fat, if you look at Niger men, they with fat old SA women sometimes with kids. Not all countries in Africa, North, Botswana and Namibia don't have inferiority complex towards us, their men are not far from us in social rankings and having better countries as well
He is saying the truth. Most Nigeria women are married. And Nigeria women are afraid of being a baby mama. They have this mentality about SA. That SA men doesn't take marriage serious. Nigeria has more single men when compared to single women. THIS why you will always see many Nigerian men but few Nigerian women
I asked my SAn brother, he says that's BS. There are SAn men who date foreign women. He's stayed in Cape Town township (Danon) and says most people are mixed there (SAns with foreigners)
with white, Indian and Chinese, not Nigerian. I would not consort with whites, Indian or Chinese... I am describing what is happening, and not what I want for myself.
Guyz I really enjoy this podcast keep it up but you lost yourselves there at the end and you started speaking Yoruba or was it Igbo? You forgot about the rest of us southies 😂😂😂Anyway this was an eye opener ,great show 👍🏿
I am a South African man. South Africans in general don't travel. We have everything we need here in SA. I have never met a Nigerian woman. Maybe if i did meet one I might date.
English is a problem here, there is no African group that travels more than us and this is because of income per capita, we have the largest black middle class meaning we can travel more on average, what we don't do is to migrate, Nigerians are total opposite of us, they don't travel but they migrate. Its people like you who cant use the right wording who makes idiots on this continent disrespect us.
You mean we must date those women who have legs Like Men my legs are even better I failed to understand why most of Nigerian women who are in sa 🇿🇦 are all married but their Men from Nigeria aren't married how's this possible?
@@luckymotlatla8956you live in squalor,don't deserve to, engage in prostitution, slavery and drug trafficking, instead of being respectful to your ancestors and protecting little girls who are also so precious. South African men treat us like princesses. It's said a little girl ligugu lekhaya. Little girls are the pride of the home, never to be abandoned nor discarded in marriage. The Xhosas are very progressive, we're one of the few African tribes left who under customary law consider that a woman can get married, get divorced and still remain married to her husband. Let he who has ears hear😅
Not true that if a South African girl dates a Nigerian, they won't want to date anybody else. I know a lot of woman who dated a Nigerian by when they settled down, they married South African man. We SA girls siya phapha 🤣🤣, most of them just date Nigerians for the experience, coz we've heard someone talking about them and it's usually around college/ University years. But when we mature and think of settling down, we go for SA man.
But they marry SA men who either dont know or they just dont love themselves, a chance of this happening is like 0.1%. Most SA men rejects such women hence they end up stuck and make up saying like we dont go back, the truth is, no SA men want them, maybe ZIM men do marry them coz the bar is too low sometimes
@@lozi4163 wow.. "they don't love themselves" and " the bar is too low".. you make it sound like woman who date Nigerians are degrading themselves or something But anyway, that's your opinion as I also shared mine. 👍🏽
@@mathabongwenyama3646 Ofcourse they are, Nigerians are not sought of people of value in SA simply because of how barbaric they have proven to be in our land and who's fault is that? Show me any pretty young lady in SA with morals and good background with career and hope about life dating a Nigerian, never mind marrying one. After this, show me any SA man who likes ladies that date Nigerians. We all know what reality is and you won't force SA men to lower their standards and date women they don't want
@@mathabongwenyama3646 they are degrading themselves 90 percent of the women that date them are already club girls you don't see the average south African woman being interested in Nigerians or west Africans in general.
Yea it's actually a west african women thing..most will like formal union (marriage)before giving birth but south African women easily have birth before marriage
Unless you can show us SA community in Nigeria like you all undocumented have Nigeriań community in Sunnyside, Hillbrow and Point in Durban keep quiet and date in peace. Where do you expect SA men to get those women from? *localislekker* why should they date people that escape from their country and never want to set foot there?
You're very much allowed to write your matric and you will not be turned away, in fact its your right to write, not anyone else's and moreover there is a child grant that women apply for in order to support the child. But its people who are below a threshold who are going for a grant
The beauty that is South African women, the Shapes! Nigerian women are beautiful but fact is the majority of SA women are physically more appealing to the African male gaze more than any African race! Naija women respect themselves alot, which means a lot of them have high standards! They may be loud and arrogant but SA women should learn from them and stop being easy to get.
No it's Islamic propaganda hence you see tribalism in Nigeria, they warship Islam too much, and others are christians same thing, they warship religion too much, who can stay with a person always Allah and Jesus as if they know them
@ Clauronica, using the term "male gaze" is wrong an objectifying. It implies that they are seen as sexual objects by African men...Although, now that I think about it, maybe they are
Your problem always undermines and try to tell others what to do. You are tired of naming ghanaians common Ghana, please we might not be as highly educated as you but we are very smart, we did not get highly educated because white oppression. So be cool and stay in Nigeria
@@noziqu7728 Thats a myth they aren't educated its just a lie that was peddled .60 million of them are illiterate as in they can't read or write .A whole population thats equivalent to ours.Again if they were that educated them their country should be flourishing considering that theyve been free for so long
I was listening but can’t hear a thing, were you not taught in Nigeria to give each other a chance when speaking??? Why are you so LOUD?? Imagine when man are this LOUD, how LOUD are their women going to be??
@24:00 😂😂 The guy got shock of his life, he wanted the other to say something but the guy was being realistic and in most cases he is fair. I have always questioned this guy's views, he seems to have a deep-rooted envy about South Africans more especially men.
From my observations...most immigrant women who are in the country ...are in here for gold...they have everything at stake left back home....and have a strong instinct to go back eventually...; dating and even marrying a South African men defeats the purpose (they left kids and mothers...family back home) Though the foreign men might date and marry a local...their instinct too is to eventually go back home and settle there...coz nowadays you don't find the "Ruths" of the Bible who will declare to a man that "your God will be my God...your people my people...where you die I will die" Now let's not go far...how many SA men have dated Mozambican women...or Bots...Zambian ...or Malawian women? (Their men have nonetheless dated SA women)
But the brother 0n 7:39 minutes is trying to spare the emotions of us South African guyz, I would prefer if he aired his own perspective without stoping.There are South African women who like to explore and date Nigerian men. And those who do, say exactly what the gentleman had just articulated
Even look at Nigeria ladies in RUclips podcast y I hv to look at something outside while is already. Mac G was in Nigeria he saw one beautiful woman later he notice Tht was south African married by Nigerian. South African women are beautiful. When I date women I consider wt kind of child my wife will bear.
I don't know but this seems and sounds like manipulation...let me share with you this story, back In 2015 my cousin sister got married to a nigerian man...on the contrary almost every elder brother in the family didn't approve the whole marriage thing,for they they were a bit apprehensive about the so called "citizenship thing "hence the guy was making money hand over fist and surprisingly my cousin sister is highly educated and she's got her own things...but it all ended up In tears ...it didn't take long for her to find out that the guy was married in Nigeria after her second visit...my people this is just a mere matter of benefits,how painful it is to see our young girls in Mzansi with their materialistic tendencies and laziness running after Nigerian men thinking they are been loved...wheres they are exposing themselves to opportunists...not in a bad way my brothers from another country"Nigerians" we would do the same as south African men if we where in a similar situation as yours.but at the immediate moment we need not to date Nigerian women for we've got nothing to benefit rather than to be used.so it's simple both Nigerian and South African women are beautiful in their own way,but the point is this is just a matter of who's benefiting cause nevertheless there's no way Nigerian men love South African women more than Nigerian women it's only a mind game... thank you
As a South African man we have deep reasons and we don't discuss these reasons with anyone.
Mzwandile... Oh come on tell us🤣(south African girl)
I am the woman from SA it's true and they don't talk jah neh
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 Hahahaha lol
we're not interested in Naija citizenship
It's not easy Nigerian women are always wild not soft or handsome like our women.
I find it wild that there's not even 1 SA man among you but you're here discuss on WHY SA MEN ARE NOT DATING NIGERIAN WOMEN
Bro exactly 💯...they need to invite a South African so that they can get genuine reasons nothing said there was on point
@@nkazimulondlovu8056 they asked a question and answered themselves 🤣
Weird not wild
its weird to watch and why should men be discussing other men? why are people so concerned with who we date? i use to think is only SA women who envy us and always insecure and trying so hard to damage our image but it seems like most men in sub sahara are obsessed with us. The only time we think Nigerian dudes exists is when we read the news and see all the crime they do in SA
Exactly my point.. next time they must ask or at least invite SA men to speak for themselves.
A lot of South African guys who have engaged in this topic always say they’re not attracted to Nigerian Women😕
Nigerian women always say they are not attracted to SA men and in reality SA men are not attractive
South African men clean up in Nigeria. But yes what you say is true. South African men are generally not attracted to Nigerian women. But Nigerian women are beautiful. Model like.
And it's true shem
How can you be attracted to women who are not attractive?
@@Gemini3K Absolutely completely untrue. Nigerian women are not attractive in the least. Lets just leave that there
Because South African men don’t want Nigerian citizenship it is that simple.
I love 💕 you baby 😘
True
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nigeria do not grant citizenship by marriage, and by birth..
@@akojiodinaka5042 But they come and demand all those things in our country. Bl**dy sc*mbags
SA men look down on SA women who date certain nationalities and once they find out, that lady would have to date outside SA because she will hardly attract SA men this why the saying they never come back, the truth is, no SA men want them back, even a SA guy with no options wont settle for such
South African woman are so beautiful it's not even funny everytime you go out to a public place you feel blessed to be surrounded by such beauty South African woman have most beautiful booties to die for than the rest of the world combined skinny jeans were designed with them in mind.There is nothing that's tops that off than a good smelling South African woman it's just therapeutic.I would not trade my South treasure for anything in the world.👌🏿👌🏿
Agree with you
Yeh....I concor bruu
Damn.... but it is the fu@king painful truth
SA men are big and round headed, but SA women are the best thing in South Africa
@@florarice592south africaan men are stunning
West african men are shaped like mangoes.
You guys meet girls mostly from the clubs and then Generalise as if all SA woman are like them.
Exactly
Right...they were all saying how nigerian women do things too formal and everything is serious whereas SA women you can go out and meet and have sex with them the same day lol. Ewww.
I was so disgusted by that. Yuck!!
They lead with money when they approach girls so they attract bitches. What do they expect? If my strategy was trash the local men while spending money....what kinds of girls do you think i'll attract?
They are the only women they can meet.
@@dimbwemazala8978truly
Outside of the club noone is looking for nigerian men
But I think they are too delusional to know this ...
I find it ironic that u say south African woman give birth alot yet Nigerian population is 4x south African population and have smaller country. Yet u disrespecting our woman yet your population is 4x. So who is giving more birth
EVEN B4 THE COLONIERS MASTERS COME N COLONISE NIGERIA WIT 50 MILLION PPL AM TAKING ABOUT LIKE 100 YEARS BACK WHILE SOME COUNTRY IN AFRICA IS 6 MILLION POPULATION
Barata ho bua macepa bana
Nigerian is densely populated, I doubt you know what they mean
That surprised me as well.. I was like what the fuck are saying, do you even hear yourself. How the hell did you have such high population if you don't give birth a lot. 😏🤔
@@tsatsimafokoane1719 They even marry 12 -14 year olds these ones
South Africa Men are very Proud and they maintain their dignity
They don't date even woman who previously dated a foreigner.
Confused SA men
Sounds like Xenaphonbia and Racism... but you will share your country with oyinbo abi. Nonsense
Bruh,honestly nam nje I would never!!
@@abzigwe3656and it's okay,, you can call everything under the sun
Im a woman and ill be honest... SA ladies love taking advantage its not only nijas but every foreign national who comes here at a large scale SA women will take advantage of them. You can't find a SA lady happily dating a foreign that has no income or doesn't have a hustle to maintain her. Tbh Nigerian likes showing off and hence we find it easy to get money and comfort on demanding money because it doesn't feel like a strain to you since showing off is a life style to you and try to win a girl by giving her what she wants. We are not as demanding as we are to oir SA men because they know how to shut us off . This was a trend when Mozambicans relocated to SA, SA women were dating them and saying they were better than our own because they gave us money and cared more. Our brothers even got used to Mozambicans dating their sisters and even called them "sibari" (bro inlaw) now that moz guys are wiser and no longer taking shit from us and we can't take advantage of them anymore we moved to Nigerians.
Speak for yourself, truth is that in South Africa we have a few "disabled" able bodied sisters who choose to live like leeches, a characteristic abhorred by our society. So if they meet Nigerian guys as they are accustomed to "buying sex" back home, they make a good match to those sisters I just described. Many of the Nigerian men attract "untouchables" without really knowing as they don't know the tell-tale signs of our society.
The issue here is sa men nit dating nigerian women
@@clementmakhate1708 some South African women
@@clementmakhate1708 you forgot they said South African girls likes Nigerians and don't go back to southies once they start dating Nigerians. That was my take from that point and reason why southies girls love foreigners is not a genuine love its advantageous dating them where as southie men have nothing to benefit from nija girls
I dated a Malawian before and he had no income whatsoever, we were still in school and it was all about, as far as I know. But one thing about foreigners is that they are very possessive and controlling. They don't have confidence. And I went back to South Africans and I'm here to stay
It's not like South Africa women don't want to go back to SA guys.
It's just that us SA guys cut these women out from our interest.
SA guys prefer a local girl. There are deep reasons behind that
You guys tell yourselves this lie to feel comfortable
@@stevenwilliams3015tell us the truth cos u know
@@stevenwilliams3015 Sure buddy. If I find out a girl's been with a Nigerian I stop messing with her. Because I know the kinds of women that Nigerians attract and I also know what they do to them.
@Gemini3K true, once you dated someone from our country, we cut you off, it's not like they are not coming back to us, it's because they know we want them no more
@@Gemini3K what do they do, enlighten me
South African (most) just prefer thier South African women more
It’s because South Africa women are to beautiful to date outside have you seen South Africa women Nyash🙆🏾♂️
95% of your content is about South Africa, you talk about South Africa like you are expects yet none of you know how is life in the townships & rural areas. Just because you are dating SA women doesn't mean you know South Africans. i can count 20 Nigerians yotubers even those based in Nigeria who's content is 90% about South Africa. THE OBSESSION IS REAL!!!!
This is sad fr.
I cant imagine being obsessed with someone to this point aowa.
Even nigerian twitter south africa is trending
They have like a crush on us it's sad fr.
There one are few answers to this question, 1. in SA there's simply not enough single Nigerian women even single Naija guys end up with SA women, 2. there's abundance of beautiful women in SA with small waist and dangerous curvy bodies 😍, this means single Nigerian women have a lot of competition and SA men will always choose their women first almost all the time with few exceptions.
Nigerian women can't compete with SA women. They'll fall short.
Nigerian women are not beautiful. That is a simple fact. You find Nigerians running to Kenya to get the Bantu women in that country; you find Nigerians doing the same in Tanzania, Uganda, Rwanda, even Zambia, Malawi etc... None of the men from these countries go after Nigerian women
Bottom line, SA men are aggressive and jealous
The question should be Why are Nigerian men leaving these "beautiful and well-mannered" Nigerian women for South African women? To me it seems that Nigerian men put more value on S.An women. Now why would a S. African man leave a woman of high value for a "reject"? 90% of Nigerian men, given the opportunity, would choose to marry a S. African, Ethiopian, European or Asian woman over a Nigerian woman. How about discussing that for your next podcast
The should be something wrong with niger women as many niger men prefer other nationalities women
Yeah
Thats a delusional statement. Naija women are not rejected. Nigerians just like to settle wherever they are, not because they hate their own. Its that simple.
@@christopherosborne9477 that simple? Look bottom line is don't force your women on us
They r having fun with u . An average Igbo man wouldn’t even marry outside his tribe. They get married in sa , dumb them and come back to Nigeria to marry. Most igbos do not even made outside their states. I can’t speak for other Nigeria tribes .
So many baby mamas in South Africa from Nigeria men
😂😂😂😂😂 As a south african guy I can't date them sorry.
South African man like soft (feminine) woman , when they date outside they always choose the best . Most cases even the Nigerian that are in SA don’t date their sisters because they know how they look .Those that do they were married from home already n traveled to SA together.
SA man are spoilt with choice of beautiful woman and there is no need to look outside
South Africans are all over the World , the Difference is they don't Announce their Presence by engaging in illegal activities. Besides there is nothing to experience in your Country .only East /Central and North and Southern Africa have something to offer, they are tourist regions .not West Africa
Not true. Come to Ghana or Ivory Coast
We date German women and European women easily in SA... Why do people make it seem like Nigerian women have higher status than women of other nationalities? Like SA men just cant afford them?? But we get all other types of women?
Truth is, we dont find Nijerian women attractive.
But do they find u attractive? I don't think so.
U guys R not attractive, either..A lot of SA Women said Nija Men treat them better, and R better in Bed.
@@KomeEmielu SA men are not asylums like you, we stay in South Africa and make it livable whilst you drowning in oceans trying to escape poverty from your hell Nigeria, Nigerian wemans built like bull dogs, loudness of poverty, you are not part of our culture, you are Muslims slaves in Nigeria, forget about South Africa and focus on your tribalism of religion slavery
@@fananelsonmbambo9040 You re so unlearned and ignorant. Nigeria is not a Muslim Country. There are Christians and Muslims in Nigeria. Do ur research before making foolish statements. And who cares what u think about Nigerian women. South African men, your opinions about Nigerian women do not matter, because they won't date ur class. By d way, I'm a Nigeria, and living in Nigeria. If I want to migrate, definitely not SA.
They feel bad that we don't like their women
Nigerian women are already married when they reach South Africa
Why do you push the narrative of telling us what to do? Our culture does not allow us to date Naigerian women. Man who does not know their culture is doomed.
😂😂my G🤝
What about the Nigerian Culture and their Women and “Doom”?
@Ernest Matlhake,well said bhuti ,no hips ,talk as if they are fighting.i love my culture and language I will never mix it with these nigerians .I wish I was it a minister of home affairs and police ,I tell u all these people will be gone back to the over populated country of theirs.
@@GoldilocksOfficial1 they don't take that culture seriously
What culture is that? Do u know ur ancestors from 5 centuries
Ai me I love my South African women, no women in this world will understand me like my south African women
Where are SA guys supposed to meet with Nigerian girls because you leave them behind in your country when ever or wherever you travel to. The few we come across have been brought here by their men and are not free to talk to anyone let alone date. We have no reason to leave our country and go to meet them in Nigeria, and most of them I know would dearly love to hook up with SA men because of the luxury, lifestyle and entertainment we can provide them.
Facts
I think SA men just have an abundance of beautiful South African women to choose from and also consider that a lot of South Africans practice their traditional African religion which also is something to consider especially when your going to be giving someone your surname and bringing them under the protection of your ancestors. Further note that South African women are hypergamous (SA men got us used to this in the first place), so we will always go where there are more opportunities. But we will always prefer South African men first.
The only thing you said or implied that is true is that South Africa has an abundance of beautiful women (while Nigeria has none). In terms of having and upholding stronger African traditions, South Africa is above only the likes of LeSotho or Seychelles. On the average African standard, South Africa tradition is weak. You have no traditional music, you have few if any traditional ceremonies, your beliefs have been diluted and contaminated by your proximity to whiteness, to the extent that you are the country in African tolerating open homosexuality. I encourage you to come to Zambia during Kuomboka Ceremony so that you can observe grand African traditional pomp and pageantry- ironically, to the extent that you can understand siSuthu as a South African, you should be in familiar surroundings since the Lozi spoken in that part of Zambia is a direct derivative of the Suthu language brought over by Sebetwane of the Bafokeng clan of the Suthu of South Africa in 1840; Or you can delve into the deep African spirituality of the Vaka Chinyama cha Mukwamayi people's Mukanda ceremony.... and the deep African culture is not limited to one part of Zambia, but it stretches from corner to corner. The reason is that we come from deeply the African and spiritual Luba Lunda Empire of DRC...
U are saying that South African are easy to get and you further say that south African girls loves money more than Nigerian girls. Generalization is a problem gents.
I am not South African but what I know is that Nigerian women tend to be masculine and very loud mouth which rubs of the wrong way to most men outside Nigeria. As a Bantu person myself I can simply say Nigerian women are not attractive.
Remember according to Nigerians their women don't like dick and Nigerians are number 1 at everything. Have you ever heard a Nigerian objectively talk about Nigerians? They're always the winners, the best, the most....it's never the truth.
The internet has taught me how ignorant and devisive we are as a human race
These Nigerian gentlemen are so full of themselves, yet extremely ignorant about South African men and South African society as a whole.
Right very disheartening smh 🤦🏽♀️💯🙏🏽
And although I’ve never been to Africa I know that I’m Nigerian (Igbo tribe) due to my father being from there. I know we are South-East Africa and I saw a post about South African women previously thinkin we are the same or similar enough. Now I’m seeing this and although I’ve heard how tribalism and xenophobia is a big thing in Africa akin to how racism is in America…to see it in action is very heartbreaking 💔We over here in the US like to romanticize Africa like we need to return there where its so beautiful, cultured and how “we as a people” are as if we’ve been “whitewashed” over here in the States (if its Whitewashed why the white people not actin like this amongst their own and if so its private but atleast for a public united front when it comes down to it they stick together and we don’t and they for sure don’t have public podcast downing each other the only race doin that are black people in US AND Africa I see smh). It seems like Africa is trying to be just like the US being divisive amongst our own people as well as how they dress, live, and even these divisive ignorant podcast (my first time seeing an African poscast the format is the same as in America smh) its ALL the same as in America smmfh 💔 Yea I have to take a break from these podcast and certain negative videos cause I refuse to think EVERYONE thinks like this cause I don’t so I know there are others…however its VERY prevalent and it can brainwash you into a negative mindset and if nothing else make you lose hope in humanity as a whole. I’ve overcome so much despite odds and have been able to maintain not being unduly tainted by this type of mess and I’m not about to let people on the internet finish the job smh This is crazy and sad how people can be especially how our own are to each other all over the world smh Its the same “conditioning” we experienced in the US the same in Africa I see smh🙏🏽
Yes come back home where you belong you were stolen from here. We do not have a problem about you guys as a matter of fact you will fit very well in SA
@@noziqu7728 busy all day sis just saw text God bless. I keep promises though if it's his will I will be there in 23
@@PatinaEdochie Even if they(whites)are not bashing one another on the internet,they do not like each other as the big world wars were fought among themselves.
They aren't that pretty to be honest, especially considering the women we have
Yes in South Africa school girls that fall pregnant are allowed to still attend school and write exams regardless of which grade they are in. I do believe that is South African women have one benefit that been a single parent is not that end of your life. And it does not mean a man wouldn't marry her at a later stage in her life being a single parent. I get the feeling that Nigerian women could feel the pressure of bringing shame to their families. Personally I definitely have mad respect for Nigerian women's ability to strive for an education, stand up for what they believe and really they are family orientated. I think the reason many South African men are not dating or married to Nigerian women is because many of the Nigerian in South Africa are already married and also there is a negative perception regarding South African men being abusive based on the high rate of GBV in South Africa. So rightfully Nigerian women would air on the side of caution. In South Africa women really do have more freedom that even if a parent would want you to marry a certain cultural group, they had to be open to the fact that South African women will exercise her right to choose. Just my 2 cent worth.
In Nigeria back room abortions are a big problem. Nigerians won't tell you that though. GBV isn;t a big deal in Nigeria or outside of Africa either. AND...South Africa is the only country in the world where it's women trash their own men. (fathers, brothers and sons) They throw their men under the bus every chance that they get and that's why most of them are single moms and unmarried. They don't have any real values. Are hyper survivalist and are always on the look out for the highest bidder because SA women are opportunists not lovers.
Let SA men travel to Nigeria, it will be easy for them to date Nigeria women, women are women everywhere no different
Guys stop generalizing that South african women love money and they easy to get that's just disrespect....you guys meet women at jorburg in clubs and then conclude .. go to KZN kwa Nongoma , go to Eastern cape , go to Limpopo you'll find Cultured South african women
Lol we have been there
@@ZFGPODCAST so what are you saying about SA girls ? Have you seen how many girls to to "umkhosi womhlanga " ....there are lot of cultured South African girls who are not an easy target ...go to country side not cities then you'll find cultured girls...I don't like this narrative you make our girls look cheaper yet you marry them mxm
@@nkazimulondlovu8056 really hummmmmm
@@ZFGPODCAST guys this is simple you said it yourself in the video that you can't judge Nigerian girls based on the ones you know cause nigeria is big ...now apply the same concept here have you ever been to Rural KZN places like Kwanadlala, kwaDukuza, Nquthu etc....you've only met a handful and yet you conclude your narrative I don't understand...when the king of AmaZulu picks a wife he picks from those cultured women not city girls ...you've never been to All places here in SA and I bet you don't even know our culture .
@@ZFGPODCAST you've been to these places but i doubt you know anything about their culture ....when you visit these places...go to the rural parts of these places so that you'll have full experience before you make conclusions I guess
As a South African men I think we are afraid to date Nigerian women after we have watch negeria movie called "oh my son "
Nah it's not because of movies my G we are very preserved
@@akhonazasembo3016 but are they worth dating? Is so why do Nigerian men prefer other nationalities
@siphiwe Mukhari,who wants to marry a woman who talk as if she is fighting, who wants to marry a women with no hips ,I love my xhosa culture and language to mix it with these people, fronting destroying my country they must leave south africa. How do these people get papers how.
Not afraid but choose not to marry them for various reasons
You've got it all wrong, we find Nigerian women crude and loud and unattractive by South African standards. Conversely Nigerian women don't find us attractive because regardless of how wealthy we may have, we never make it "rain". Flaunting of wealth is considered low class in our society.
Nigerian women that are here came with their men. Others, with due respect are handsome. We preferr SA, Swaziland, Lesotho women. We love curves
w dont need to travel secondly w don't need loud Nigerian women,proudly south African
These guys acting like they don't know how their nigerian sisters look😳
lol 😂
You know the truth my guy😐I ain't even gotta say it coz honesty can be brutal
To be honest there are many reasons why SA men don't usually go for Nigerian women. 1. Nigerian women are big and masculine. Normally and generally masculinity is seen as non feminine and not good for reproducing. 2. We prefer similarities and some assurance, which also means family values are high on our list of priority. Remember some tribes still believe in the cultural tradition of keeping things within the family ( blood line). Why is it that SA women date Nigerian men? It's called a trade off. Would they date a poor non providing Nigerian? Absolutely No.
Nigeria women are not masculine at all. I wonder where you got that idea from.
@@priceelesslove8846 they are when compared to women in SA, Botswana, Lesotho, Namibia etc.
@@mpram5522 I work and study with lot of Nigeria ladies in Dubai and the the ones I see and know are not big or masculine , their men are big and masculine not the ladies.
I think they are few Nigeria women In south Africa, Nigeria women in SA are mostly married , they are there with Thier husband, but they are so much Nigerians in Dubai both men and ladies.
U dont know what u talking about. Nigeria is a diverse country. Go get some knowledge bruh 🙄🙄
Im not a nigerian but i’ve been there. Maybe u should travel a litle more 😂
First, one must have an interest in something or someone to fully engage and interact. Case in point: Nigerians love South Africa and its people to a degree you spend your time and resources talking about South Africa and its people. However it's not the case with most South Africans.
As a results most South African men will not be interested in Nigerian women for a number reasons.
Second, I personally believe one has spend years to partially or fully acquaint themselves with the other person or people's way of life, customs, cultures, traditions, languages and religions to fully understand them.
Yet the narrative I hear about South African men or women is somewhat false. Moreover, due the fact that none you have lived enough with a South Africans on the full time bases to say anything factual about them. Therefore it's disingenuous and wrong on your side to comment about us in this way when you really don't know us.
Thank you. Oh my God what are we going to do with the obsession these people have about us?
Thaw they even get girls. They spend their time trashing South African men to justify themselves to those girls.
Nigerians love everyone. We don't discriminate go all over the world you will find us. You are judged off your character not your ethnicity. This gives us a more well rounded view which women in general tend to gravitate to.
@@abzigwe3656 you love everyone but not as much as your love and obsession with south Africans
But south africans dont love nigerians as much as Nigerians love us.
It's like y'all have a crush on us.
But we not interested in us.
Like leave us alone damn
@Thegreatest342 Egocentrism at its finest. I literally just said we don't discriminate. And for some reason you think we love South Africans more than everyone else. I am Nigerian I know at least 1000 Nigerians. I can say maybe around 50 of them have been to South Africa. Anyway you will not turn me into a xenophobe. I actually don't blame South Africans that have this perspective I understand the trauma of the apartheid regimes and Iving amongst the brain washing colonialists. It's easy to develop such views. I pray for healing.
Peace and love to every African country let's unite 🇳🇬
I cant date a woman who wears size 8 or 9 shoe besides our women are beautiful. I am a South African
Hey a woman’s 8 is not that big?😅
South African men do date women that are available in South Africa. Usually the ones that went to school in S.A.
Eg. Swaziland, Lesotho, Zambia, Kenya etc
Please make it make sense when you said s.a women give birth alot..I will never understand some1 who comes from the largest population in africa saying people gives birth alot..your women are the ones giving birth alot given the number of population in your country...nigerian population is 3x higher than south african population..rest.👐
Nje love it what u just did there
You are right as a matter of fact they are more than any country in Africa. More over they use their women to be prostitute at home and abroad trafficking them to Lybia and Italy
@@noziqu7728 right I saw this other show were a Nigerian woman said her husband was pimping her in libya now he wants to leave her..imagen🤦
Not even 3 times, it's 8 times! Nonsense
And South Africa is 32% larger than Nigeria in land size.
Honestly 🤔.....I can't imagine SAcan men seated and discussing other men,really I'm failing to imagine that scene...they like minding their business 😄
But I'm not discouraging you guys,as long as it makes you happy..keep on
Because we're not insecure about ourselves. And when we're with girls we don't discuss other men either. Unlike them.
@@Gemini3K this can't determine your being unsecured or not. Is just about being men nje. Men don't do it,it's ladies' stuff🤔. Or maybe let's leave it here, and say SAcan men don't
Leave us alone. Making money talking about us
South African women are very hygienic, great cooks ...hey and the most beautiful in Africa well structured, so why would our SA men look outside....its only three or four would date a nigerian woman and again that would be very weird...
body wise i will say is Ugandan women and overall beauty can be argued against Ethiopians, you'll ego's are just too high because some foreigners from poor countries like Nigeria simp a lot
@@lozi4163 poor country like nigeria lol lol 😂
@@ZFGPODCAST Yes Nigeria is among the poorest in Africa although not the most poorest as that title goes to Burundi, however, Your GDP Per Capita next to ours makes your guys have 4x less money than us. We can also look at basic infrastructure per capita, standards of living and the fact that Nigeria is lower middle income society. All factors put together, Nigeria falls under a very poor country despite having oil and large population which doesn't relate to the size of your GDP
@@ZFGPODCAST Nigeria is the capital of open defecation, thats how poor Nigeria is.
@@lozi4163But Nigerians have the richest musicians, footballers, comedians, Actors, engineers, politicians, richest man in Africa is a Nigerian ALIKO DANGOTE, richest content creators, richest in resources , Nigerians are the ground shakers in SA😂 and the reason y’all hate Nigerians is simply because they got more money than y’all and spend more on your women and you don’t want those women back because Nigerians have spoilt her with money and now she’s exposed to wealth 😂 the reason SA looks anti better than Nigeria is the white man they developed your country but we built ours by ourselves!
why would Nigerian men speak on behalf of South African men as if they know us in that way this is completely ubsurd.
South Africa got the most beautiful women in the world and Nigerian women don't come close to our women, why would we leave our beautiful women for Nigerian women come on bros speak the truth or ask us south african men. . Plus we got nothing to benefit from dating Nigerian women
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Since you are talking about South African men, you could have included them in your panel. I was trying to understand what your are actually talking about as Nigerian men only, and could just hear your perceived conclusion about men your clearly have not sufficiently learnt from. I really do not know where did you do a research about South African men in term of dating. Next time they should invite both South African men as well as Nigerian women.
My brothers from Nigeria, stop generalizing it doesn't mean few SA guys you met in town and not the whole of SA all of us are like that. Why is it a big issue about who date who and why. It's about a choice. Shout out to you brothers. 😃
This video just shows their insecure mindstates. Southy men aren't "flossy , look at me I'm big man" type, u get disciplined out of speedans very early in Kasi. All these guys know r the club girls who slept with them, they've never experienced Mzantsi (culture, rural life) nor hangout with SA men
Unamanga😂no 🇿🇦is married to Nigerian women 😅
The guy in plain white Ts said it all...and his words speaks more to south african woman.
South african man prefer their own ...
You guys like shouting even when talking to each other. You guys can't talk soft
To cut to the chase gents, I am a South African older man who has never come across one Nigerian woman in South Africa, let alone women. I can assure you, I don't live all alone in the bush somewhere, nor am I a monk. I know they can't be advertising it wherever they go around the country. The only beautiful Nigerian women that one gets to see are those who are actors in films or on the internet. (Nice show guys if you can improve the sound quality).
Yes thank you sir. We really appreciate you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes sound quality and giving each other chance to speak
You're right my brother.
You are lying. Even Nigerian women in the movies are unattractive.
Nigerian girls who grew/ born in SA don't date /married to Nigerians. They do date/married to South Africa guys n not only Nigerians, even Congolese, Ghanaians, Camerons. SA man r struggle to understand Nigerian girls who come straight from Nigeria cis they behave so different
Exactly I'm a Nigerian girl that was raised in sa and I have never dated a Nigerian, just south Africans and Congolese people, in fact foreigners!
You marry anybody for opportunities, we will marry ur own you can marry anyone you want to benefit from.
lol ahahahaa
South African girls are allowed to write exams and can move on to university.
How will killing her dreams help her small child?
She didn't make the child alone. She shouldn't suffer alone
Yeah but most African men comes from countries were women don't have rights. For them is normal to deny a girl child education because of pregnancy. Very backward society. When you deny the girl child education, how will she look after the baby?
We want to preserve our gene pool with our women . Our gene pool has the best genes hence your men will strive to have our product more than anything else . We love ourselves a lot we are a mixture of Bantu and Kgwesan therefore we don't want to disturb that gene pool
I think we do have the best gene, you should go on twitter and see how much effort they put in bashing SA men while simping to SA women, the inferiority complex is off the roof. They constantly try to proof how better they are while SA men don't even know this gents exist e isn't going to their countries never mind chasing their women because we deem their gene pool as not much of a thing to us
The unobtainium component❤
There is a South Africa lady who just made a video on YT a month or two ago ago. She said coloured South Africa men can be violent, so she started dating an African American man who moved to South Africa, but she’s not sure she likes the way he’s treating her.
She crazy
Black American men are violent too. They have no clue of the concept of marriage. Trust me, she will regret her decision. I lived with enough black American women to know.
It’s allowed for a pregnant woman to write an exam as long she feels like she wanna write she can. We must know that a child is blessing did you know even Malema doesn’t know his father but now is a CIC
This obsession with sound Africa is annoying
I find this wild! Didn’t know Africans hated on other Africans like that
Our inlaw with the glasses I really like his way of explaining things and his wisdom I like that about him maybe it's because he is married to SAn lady. I would like to give you a little advice try not to compare SAns and Nigerians in your discussions otherwise your content is dope ooo.
Why don't Nigerian men themselves date Nigerian women when out of Nigeria? Why do they prefer South African women? There.. you have your answer!
You know I'm listening and I'm catching the Nigerian perspective on 19:37, and Nigerians are very friendly, I keep telling my friends that I always fix my laptop with the help of Nigerian brothers in Johannesburg and they're always reasonable compared to when you'd have taken your laptop to a repair shop
Nigerian women in SA most of them are business women they own salons and they’re not that attractive women because they don’t care about their looks it’s more like they just in SA to work and go back home they don’t feel like home in SA. But on the other hand Nigerian Men are very attractive cos they love themselves they feel like they home in SA and they’re soft, romantic and generous❤️🤞🏾
Sweet u are very correct
your pathetica shem
Nice content brothers, I'm South Africa abroad, I came across your platform and subscribed right away. I am looking forward to more content, so much love for African brothers
Thank you we love you 😘
If you travel down to Nigeria, you will meet a whole lot of woman who will run after you to date you
@@florarice592 so nigerian women have been so mad at south african men because they in love with them.
But south african men dont like nigerian women it's the truth.
The answer to this question is simple, SA men are not exposed to the best Nigerian women. I cannot even remember the last time I came across a Nigerian woman!
The Nigerians you see are the best ones. That is how they all are. There are no others. I lived in Texas among Nigerians for many years. I went to their parties, was offered their women, including the medical doctor wife of a philandering Nigerian friend, who offered herself to me, and I still said "No".
@@dimbwemazala8978 Your lies makes you feel better,abi?
Wow i really love your video guys keep it up.
guys you are killing me 😂😂😂😂
The Nigerian woman is simply wanting to preserve herself for the right guy. She wants marriage bro, that's why and she was groomed well, the culture is more big on virtue and respect.
There are differences in background and culture 🧫
You are describing women in general. In fact Nigerian women are known to be loud and disrespectful towards men. Bantu women by nature respect men and Bantu women are more beautiful than Nigerian women in generally.
Twisted mind asylums, Nigerian wemans think a man is a bank to change their asylum life, tell your useless Nigerian government to allow your girls to work instead of locking them up in big walls like prisoners, and stop worshipping Islam and christian slavery
If a woman is not beautiful and attractive the'll be no persuasion pressure
The truth is, South Africans are seeing as the most successful Africans and they are admired highly, this makes other men on the continent feel like they are below us. People feel like even getting an SA reject is still better than their own women simply because they think dating an SA reject still put them on equal social rankings like SA men. Its similar to how a black men will do everything for a white lady who is a reject to a white men, mostly fat, if you look at Niger men, they with fat old SA women sometimes with kids. Not all countries in Africa, North, Botswana and Namibia don't have inferiority complex towards us, their men are not far from us in social rankings and having better countries as well
Hmm I disagree. SA women are beautiful. On the other hand, other African guys do not aspire to be like SA men.
I would like to date a Nigerian woman but I don't know where to find one, availability is a problem
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@@florencetomi2223 hi Florence, hope you good
@@michaelmaemu23 Yes, I am.
Citizenship alert
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My brothers say Nigerian women are too loud plus there's abundance of beauty here in SA..
The guy in the middle said Nigerian women do not like mingling with South African Men. I wonder what's giving him that idea😅
He is saying the truth. Most Nigeria women are married. And Nigeria women are afraid of being a baby mama. They have this mentality about SA. That SA men doesn't take marriage serious. Nigeria has more single men when compared to single women. THIS why you will always see many Nigerian men but few Nigerian women
I asked my SAn brother, he says that's BS. There are SAn men who date foreign women. He's stayed in Cape Town township (Danon) and says most people are mixed there (SAns with foreigners)
with white, Indian and Chinese, not Nigerian. I would not consort with whites, Indian or Chinese... I am describing what is happening, and not what I want for myself.
@@dimbwemazala8978 no, with other African women who are not from SA. That was his experience.
@@acceptinglife6491 iInteresting. Any Nigerians among them?
@@dimbwemazala8978 he says there were plenty
@@acceptinglife6491 Did he date them? Have you ever seen what Nigerian women look like?
Guyz I really enjoy this podcast keep it up but you lost yourselves there at the end and you started speaking Yoruba or was it Igbo? You forgot about the rest of us southies 😂😂😂Anyway this was an eye opener ,great show 👍🏿
I have gone southern Africa women they are are more peaceful than Nigeria women
Thanks guys for your beautiful topic of love
Travelling is very important and educational simple
I am a South African man. South Africans in general don't travel. We have everything we need here in SA. I have never met a Nigerian woman. Maybe if i did meet one I might date.
English is a problem here, there is no African group that travels more than us and this is because of income per capita, we have the largest black middle class meaning we can travel more on average, what we don't do is to migrate, Nigerians are total opposite of us, they don't travel but they migrate. Its people like you who cant use the right wording who makes idiots on this continent disrespect us.
I like the part he said what about if you kidnap him.hahahaha 😆 9ja.
New subbie here,plz accomodate us,speak English, didn't understand some of the things you were saying 😉
You mean we must date those women who have legs Like Men my legs are even better
I failed to understand why most of Nigerian women who are in sa 🇿🇦 are all married but their Men from Nigeria aren't married how's this possible?
Legs like men🤣🤣🤣🤣
All Nigeria 🇳🇬 women that are in South Africa they are old 🤣🤣🤣. Grandmother's
😂😂😂 we also have grandfathers in the country, that's not a problem
@@luckymotlatla8956you live in squalor,don't deserve to, engage in prostitution, slavery and drug trafficking, instead of being respectful to your ancestors and protecting little girls who are also so precious. South African men treat us like princesses. It's said a little girl ligugu lekhaya. Little girls are the pride of the home, never to be abandoned nor discarded in marriage. The Xhosas are very progressive, we're one of the few African tribes left who under customary law consider that a woman can get married, get divorced and still remain married to her husband. Let he who has ears hear😅
Not true that if a South African girl dates a Nigerian, they won't want to date anybody else. I know a lot of woman who dated a Nigerian by when they settled down, they married South African man. We SA girls siya phapha 🤣🤣, most of them just date Nigerians for the experience, coz we've heard someone talking about them and it's usually around college/ University years. But when we mature and think of settling down, we go for SA man.
SA men don't date women who have been with foreigners
But they marry SA men who either dont know or they just dont love themselves, a chance of this happening is like 0.1%. Most SA men rejects such women hence they end up stuck and make up saying like we dont go back, the truth is, no SA men want them, maybe ZIM men do marry them coz the bar is too low sometimes
@@lozi4163 wow.. "they don't love themselves" and " the bar is too low".. you make it sound like woman who date Nigerians are degrading themselves or something
But anyway, that's your opinion as I also shared mine. 👍🏽
@@mathabongwenyama3646 Ofcourse they are, Nigerians are not sought of people of value in SA simply because of how barbaric they have proven to be in our land and who's fault is that? Show me any pretty young lady in SA with morals and good background with career and hope about life dating a Nigerian, never mind marrying one. After this, show me any SA man who likes ladies that date Nigerians. We all know what reality is and you won't force SA men to lower their standards and date women they don't want
@@mathabongwenyama3646 they are degrading themselves 90 percent of the women that date them are already club girls you don't see the average south African woman being interested in Nigerians or west Africans in general.
How do they look?
Yea it's actually a west african women thing..most will like formal union (marriage)before giving birth but south African women easily have birth before marriage
Unless you can show us SA community in Nigeria like you all undocumented have Nigeriań community in Sunnyside, Hillbrow and Point in Durban keep quiet and date in peace. Where do you expect SA men to get those women from? *localislekker* why should they date people that escape from their country and never want to set foot there?
SA prefer pretty women, that's all.
Ungathandana kanjani nje nenduna yezinsizwa Shandu. Abafazi base Nigeria amadoda
@@ndwandwewasendwedwe7964 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@ndwandwewasendwedwe7964 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hayi wena thula
@@cookwithlee5856 😂😂😂😂😂 Bayangidina labantu. Angiwazi amadoda athanda ukukhuluma njengawaseNigeria
You're very much allowed to write your matric and you will not be turned away, in fact its your right to write, not anyone else's and moreover there is a child grant that women apply for in order to support the child. But its people who are below a threshold who are going for a grant
Gents you put facts in a very fair way. All you say its true. All you tube people you really know what you are talking about.
The beauty that is South African women, the Shapes! Nigerian women are beautiful but fact is the majority of SA women are physically more appealing to the African male gaze more than any African race! Naija women respect themselves alot, which means a lot of them have high standards! They may be loud and arrogant but SA women should learn from them and stop being easy to get.
No it's Islamic propaganda hence you see tribalism in Nigeria, they warship Islam too much, and others are christians same thing, they warship religion too much, who can stay with a person always Allah and Jesus as if they know them
@@fananelsonmbambo9040 lol
@ Clauronica, using the term "male gaze" is wrong an objectifying. It implies that they are seen as sexual objects by African men...Although, now that I think about it, maybe they are
Your problem always undermines and try to tell others what to do. You are tired of naming ghanaians common Ghana, please we might not be as highly educated as you but we are very smart, we did not get highly educated because white oppression. So be cool and stay in Nigeria
@@noziqu7728 Thats a myth they aren't educated its just a lie that was peddled .60 million of them are illiterate as in they can't read or write .A whole population thats equivalent to ours.Again if they were that educated them their country should be flourishing considering that theyve been free for so long
I was listening but can’t hear a thing, were you not taught in Nigeria to give each other a chance when speaking??? Why are you so LOUD?? Imagine when man are this LOUD, how LOUD are their women going to be??
Yoooh very LOUD
As a mother I prefer my daughter to give birth than abortion
We hardly come across Nigerian women and we are atteacted to our own women a lot
@24:00 😂😂 The guy got shock of his life, he wanted the other to say something but the guy was being realistic and in most cases he is fair. I have always questioned this guy's views, he seems to have a deep-rooted envy about South Africans more especially men.
South Africa men don’t marry other African women
From my observations...most immigrant women who are in the country ...are in here for gold...they have everything at stake left back home....and have a strong instinct to go back eventually...; dating and even marrying a South African men defeats the purpose (they left kids and mothers...family back home)
Though the foreign men might date and marry a local...their instinct too is to eventually go back home and settle there...coz nowadays you don't find the "Ruths" of the Bible who will declare to a man that "your God will be my God...your people my people...where you die I will die"
Now let's not go far...how many SA men have dated Mozambican women...or Bots...Zambian ...or Malawian women? (Their men have nonetheless dated SA women)
Tons of SA men date Tswana women, Mozambican women, less so Zambian and Malawi
Lol Bots is part of our matrix. Spiritually ,Culturally ,Linguistically.They are us we are them
But the brother 0n 7:39 minutes is trying to spare the emotions of us South African guyz, I would prefer if he aired his own perspective without stoping.There are South African women who like to explore and date Nigerian men. And those who do, say exactly what the gentleman had just articulated
Myb they are too loud nd yei we cnt cope with their noise
Is there any Nigerian podcast out there calling out their countrymen all the criminal activities some are engaging with in the diaspora?
Even look at Nigeria ladies in RUclips podcast y I hv to look at something outside while is already. Mac G was in Nigeria he saw one beautiful woman later he notice Tht was south African married by Nigerian. South African women are beautiful. When I date women I consider wt kind of child my wife will bear.
This guy's who had experience of south African at clubs n they met most drug lords.
I don't know but this seems and sounds like manipulation...let me share with you this story, back In 2015 my cousin sister got married to a nigerian man...on the contrary almost every elder brother in the family didn't approve the whole marriage thing,for they they were a bit apprehensive about the so called "citizenship thing "hence the guy was making money hand over fist and surprisingly my cousin sister is highly educated and she's got her own things...but it all ended up In tears ...it didn't take long for her to find out that the guy was married in Nigeria after her second visit...my people this is just a mere matter of benefits,how painful it is to see our young girls in Mzansi with their materialistic tendencies and laziness running after Nigerian men thinking they are been loved...wheres they are exposing themselves to opportunists...not in a bad way my brothers from another country"Nigerians" we would do the same as south African men if we where in a similar situation as yours.but at the immediate moment we need not to date Nigerian women for we've got nothing to benefit rather than to be used.so it's simple both Nigerian and South African women are beautiful in their own way,but the point is this is just a matter of who's benefiting cause nevertheless there's no way Nigerian men love South African women more than Nigerian women it's only a mind game... thank you
Hummmmm
Please send truck full of single Nigerian woman so we can be able to see them and engage with them
Yes we do that for u lol