She Needs To Wonder Where She Stands With You

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @ShaunZachary
    @ShaunZachary  2 года назад +9

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  • @moorehoops3490
    @moorehoops3490 2 года назад +23

    Accurate post. Overtexting & over complimenting kills attraction because it gives off too much interest & that’s how you end up losing her. I’ve done this before I’m sure we’ve all been there.

  • @alsmithsr4296
    @alsmithsr4296 2 года назад +46

    Man this brother is telling the truth.I admit I have shown desperation by calling and texting a lot but I realized when you avoid them it really does spark their curiosity about how you really feel about them.

  • @skizzler1232
    @skizzler1232 2 года назад +14

    I just realized yesterday I need to experience an ego death and just become a new person there's things about me that I gotta fix

  • @metalmouth0413
    @metalmouth0413 2 года назад +16

    KISS - Keep It Simple Stupid is what I've had to learn in regards to women. Seems like not giving a damn works well. Some are afraid to be alone, but I can tell you there were many of times in my former marriage and other relationships I felt damned lonely. That sucked worse than being single.

    • @ManuB3581
      @ManuB3581 Год назад +1

      True man , being lonely and lost in a marriage is perhaps worse than being actually lonely.

  • @nellth7136
    @nellth7136 2 года назад +8

    That's messed up ppl start talking to people and they become distance, you can't learn or know anything about someone your not around. I'm the opposite I like text and reassurance, but the guys I'm running into are totally not masculine enough

    • @nellth7136
      @nellth7136 Год назад

      @Kingdom House this ain't my battle I spoke my thoughts, and your opinion is meaningless

  • @Jack-lf4op
    @Jack-lf4op 2 года назад +23

    The way Shaun tells us his lectures made me think he learned hard way several times back in the past.
    I really like the approach of "act like this, do like that to or with... NEW WOMAN". We can't change past mistakes but there is so much to improve and make right on the next stage.
    Teach us Shoun.
    Thank You.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching brother ✊🏼

  • @psalms1163
    @psalms1163 2 года назад +7

    Well said bruh.. I haven't contacted my lady in 2 months. I chased her for 10 years and now I am changing the game. Women out number men... 20 - 50(women) to 1(man)..

  • @sebastianduarte7732
    @sebastianduarte7732 2 года назад +15

    Powerful message bro. Your videos are now a daily dose of self esteem and confidence. Thank you for standing out for men's value, sir!

  • @Michael-calisthenics98
    @Michael-calisthenics98 2 года назад +7

    Just turned 20 on the 15th!! Superb vid bro 😎

  • @joseaparicio3027
    @joseaparicio3027 2 года назад +6

    Keep up the good work , ur videos are saving my life right now. I was so depressed cause my toxic wife and her sister kick me out of my own house!. Your videos have help me a lot, thanks for all the help bro.

  • @LilApostleX
    @LilApostleX 2 года назад +6

    Bro ur advice is always on point..i got a rotation going lol..n guess what? I dont chase them and they r constantly txting and calling n me..when i tell em im busy they say get upset but hey 🤷🏽‍♂️ im focused on me lol 😂

  • @BrandonVerse
    @BrandonVerse 2 года назад +11

    It’s hard for guys like me who never got women in the past but getting attention now, I’m not used to hiding my emotions with women I’m highly attracted to. I can hide it with my conversation and pulling back but it comes out in my body language, eye contact, etc. Maybe you can make a video in the future about this, I know it would help a lot. 👊 great video like always

  • @clintonsthilaire
    @clintonsthilaire 2 года назад +4

    How can you have your heart broke 3 times in 3 months lol ! Shaun you drop it differently lol my guy much love bro 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @TYE2020
    @TYE2020 2 года назад +4

    Only you can allow yourself to explore the person in the mirror. Only you can coax yourself into daring adventure to find your untapped potential.

  • @ballenonlocation
    @ballenonlocation Год назад +4

    You’re helping me soooo much…. Everytime I think of her or want to text her I’ll put on your video and just put down my phone

  • @larryrubin5150
    @larryrubin5150 2 года назад +5

    True the better I treat /compliment a female the worse I'm treated.
    Shaun everything you spoke is worth more than money. Your 100 💯
    Keep up the great work/truth

  • @jacknorton3771
    @jacknorton3771 2 года назад +4

    Make your self a mystery and you will be so much better off. I learned this the hard way but it works. I used to be the nice guy and that has always been a disaster.

    • @SOLIDJR2000
      @SOLIDJR2000 3 месяца назад

      bro facts most women just be nosy 😂😂

  • @lilbroomstick7914
    @lilbroomstick7914 2 года назад +4

    8 months of ex no contact

  • @nunkito
    @nunkito Год назад +3

    Less is more when it comes to woman

  • @stevenmorganofficial5696
    @stevenmorganofficial5696 2 года назад +7

    Thanks for the words of wisdom 🙏🏽
    I'm learning how to be a true alpha male at the age of 23.... I gotta kingdom that I'm trying to build first, the women can come later🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @youngmunna5417
    @youngmunna5417 2 года назад +5

    3 heart breaks in 3 months is crazy lmao

  • @jawadamin1998
    @jawadamin1998 2 года назад +7

    You sir have my respect and admiration every time. Shaun speaks the real essence of facts and life reality, with experience and knowledge. It all makes sense when you speak from your perspective. Whatever you said, happened, at the right time, at the right way, and I feel much better in life right now while focusing on work and goals. This content has really contributed in my growth.

  • @skizzler1232
    @skizzler1232 2 года назад +4

    0:05 🤣 lmfao thats what im saying mannnnnnn

  • @mrsinnizter
    @mrsinnizter 2 года назад +4

    Good afternoon my brotha great video I just walked away from a situation got the f out of my feelings got better control of my emotions and focused on me now I’m putting that energy I put towards her to my investing and working in my mindset appreciate you brotha

  • @thechucksmitty
    @thechucksmitty 2 года назад +3

    Great advice. Wish someone would have told me that back in the day.

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 2 года назад +1

    Broth analogy on point 💯

  • @JC-ov8ko
    @JC-ov8ko 2 года назад +1

    That’s insane. I feel 1000x better just hearing that introduction. Was it the same person who did it? 👀

  • @TomAndrews91
    @TomAndrews91 Год назад +2

    So much sense spoken in this video 🙏🏻

  • @recefraser4780
    @recefraser4780 Год назад +2

    I’m a woman and I listen to you 😅😅😂😂😂😂 it’s so hilarious

  • @macsillyee707
    @macsillyee707 2 года назад +3

    I appreciate the game u spitting brother I catch myself chasing the same woman I slept with 100s of times I have to check myself on that sometimes.

  • @NeanderthalNatty
    @NeanderthalNatty 4 месяца назад

    100%...get ahold of your emotions and watch your results go thru the roof

  • @Chopperdog
    @Chopperdog 2 года назад +4

    Simp love

  • @Key_Di19
    @Key_Di19 2 года назад +6

    In my opinion the key of your success with women is your significancy. It’s about your shape and your performances/achievements based on your talents. If you invest in yourself(time, energy, money) and finally become successful, then you’re awaking the self-confidence within and the most important THE INNER RIGHT TO CLAIM SOMETHING. And only afterwards you’re automatically beginning to get the female attention. And in the best case scenario you can get only the upper segment of those women who is choosing you. And only with those women the recommendation’s of Shaun are going to work. If you want to get the better ones, then you should develop yourself even more and have the greater performances. Otherwise you’re going to run after women your whole live and finally land by a mental institution.

    • @Key_Di19
      @Key_Di19 2 года назад +1

      Here I don’t mean the bad boys and guys with truly pretty faces(who is maybe 10% of the whole male population), they often have their significancy from their adolescence. And it grows like a snowball with every closed girl. The other 90% have unfortunately to walk a much longer path. Or fortunately;)

  • @donsolo123
    @donsolo123 Год назад +2

    Ever had ur heart broken by 2 women at da same time? I was honest with one and she directly told the other. Its a different kinda hurt. But what was born out of it is a fuckn savage!

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Год назад +1

      Bro yes I have had this happen.. except they both ended up staying 🤣 and knowing bout each other.

    • @donsolo123
      @donsolo123 Год назад +1

      @@ShaunZachary That was my intention, too! I had a bad girl and a good girl, with all the characteristics that go along with those 2 archetypes. I told the bad girl, thinking she could handle it, considering we’d had threesomes before and what not. Wrong! Wrong!(Charlie Murphy voice)

  • @nathanellis851
    @nathanellis851 Год назад +1

    Mate, just stumbled across this! Had me creasing!😂 so much truth! Brilliant ❤

  • @JoViiisss1087
    @JoViiisss1087 2 года назад +4

    If they fall in love 3 times in 3 months they need antidepressants 😮😊

  • @oliveronyango2075
    @oliveronyango2075 2 года назад +4

    I love you Zachary. You've taught me a lot. Thanks, bro!

  • @pigskinrode0
    @pigskinrode0 2 года назад +5

    Always to the point Shaun ! Really enjoy your content .

  • @TheBudolFighter
    @TheBudolFighter 2 года назад +1

    Good day Shaun, never though that you made a video about my comment, I really need to hear this now.

  • @kevincoon8573
    @kevincoon8573 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Shaun!

  • @RuuTrades
    @RuuTrades 2 года назад +3

    Appreciated

  • @ntsikelelonkambule2299
    @ntsikelelonkambule2299 Год назад +1

    4:04-4:40 straight facts 💯

  • @londonmaths1557
    @londonmaths1557 2 года назад +1

    Daily wisdom from the og Shuan

  • @callumwhitelaw4581
    @callumwhitelaw4581 2 года назад +3

    You are a legend bro 💪 everything you say is so correct.i am using your advice thanks

  • @seinfeldfan442
    @seinfeldfan442 2 года назад +4

    I generally don't bother reaching out to women much these days. Its a shame the way women act and yeah it's good to keep some space with them. I feel it's more of a women's world these days but men get more advantage as they get older.

  • @JacobCantu1
    @JacobCantu1 2 года назад +2

    Wow at this point Shaun; each time you make a new video it applies to my current situation. You’re providing me the play-by-play haha

  • @_thewickedone
    @_thewickedone Год назад +1

    Would love to hear your opinion on long distant relationships// met my fiancé overseas but now I’m back in the U.S… working .. distance sucks but… applying the formula.. still keeping interest.. but some days feel like a struggle. Regardless; great content brother!

  • @o751106
    @o751106 2 года назад +5

    3:44-3:58 😂😂😂😂

  • @brodiebro88
    @brodiebro88 Год назад

    Thats Right

  • @Trumpyification
    @Trumpyification Год назад

    Totally agree!

  • @Malfrmda813
    @Malfrmda813 Год назад +1

    Factssss

  • @Tony-uf1ef
    @Tony-uf1ef 2 года назад +4

    You as a man should never tell a woman that you love her and also don’t get your emotions involved with her your your logical sense as a man and stand in your frame

  • @stevenadams9478
    @stevenadams9478 5 месяцев назад

    Needed to hear this one today.
    Was falling into this trap subconsciously. Situation will now be addressed.

  • @nilesengerman8263
    @nilesengerman8263 2 года назад

    Regaining/shifting balance of power is challenging.

  • @bonnierue4392
    @bonnierue4392 2 года назад +2

    Man.. you’ve got some good points but the idea that anyone needs to be made to feel insecure in the connection is not healthy. Yes, give people space (women, men, whoever) but don’t shoot to make anyone feel anxious. That is an insecure move. Fellas if you are feeling anxious in your connections with women then get to know your attachment style and work on yourself. Awareness is sexy. Working on yourself is not only sexy but it is admirable ✨

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  2 года назад

      For sure- thanks for watching 🙏🏻

  • @seinfeldfan442
    @seinfeldfan442 2 года назад +5

    It's good not to force, it will happen naturally. For sure it's good to do other things besides focusing on the women, it's ok to make mistakes but as you get older you learn to play it cool.

  • @Ozymandias1111
    @Ozymandias1111 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @neverobey1477
    @neverobey1477 2 года назад +5

    Bro you need to go live and have ppl call.. on some Kevin Samuels shit

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  2 года назад

      I may have to do lives at some point in the future. Although for now I prefer doing the short form speeches

  • @imaginethat222
    @imaginethat222 7 месяцев назад

    Im a woman and i just recently came across your videos and i must say i have turned into a different type of woman,,i was in the bed in tears and eating cookies until i came across you,,now im like mannnn whatever fuk em😅😂

  • @williamtiyanjane7880
    @williamtiyanjane7880 Год назад

    Fellaz I'm no longer a fan but an air conditioner now

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 2 года назад +3

    And stop watching her stories !!!

  • @4thdown452
    @4thdown452 2 года назад +2

    Like the video..I’m talking to y’all

  • @austinkerr6197
    @austinkerr6197 Год назад +1

    From how you speak Shaun it certainly sounds like you been through alot of games with women. I'm interested in hearing those stories if your open to share.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Год назад

      Definitely bro- I have told a lot of personal stories on the channel so far so def check out some more videos 🤜🏼🤛🏼

  • @petecoventry6858
    @petecoventry6858 2 года назад

    4 times in 7 years - same woman - latest one she asked me out 3 weeks ago and then asked me why I didn't leave her lone 3 months ago.. Saying she's never done that before and it was a big thing for her - but she was on a chat site and has now dumped me because I asked why.. I mean come on talk about messed up!

  • @VeganRashad
    @VeganRashad 2 года назад +3

    😂😂😂

  • @Themostawesomestvids
    @Themostawesomestvids 2 года назад +2

    😎

  • @jayraw1120
    @jayraw1120 2 года назад +2

    😎👍

  • @larryrubin5150
    @larryrubin5150 2 года назад +5

    Frustration=attraction 🧲

  • @larryrubin5150
    @larryrubin5150 2 года назад +3

    If a guy likes a girl and the girl has zero attractive you can chase her all you want she running like a kat.
    If the girl has a little interest maybe a chance if you take it easy and let her make it her idea to do the contacting v
    No female interest there in no relationship

    • @Enochrry6024
      @Enochrry6024 2 года назад +2

      Unless the guy chasing she doesn't like is flashing money and material things,willing to be used to get what he wants.

    • @larryrubin5150
      @larryrubin5150 2 года назад +1

      @@Enochrry6024 that’s an exception for sure. But the chick has issues and you use each other. Chicks with issues like guys with issues. Everyone is a happy for a little while.
      True thou sir

    • @Enochrry6024
      @Enochrry6024 2 года назад +3

      @@larryrubin5150 ..Yep..once the honeymoon stage is over and reality sets in then the true selves steps forward=Insecurities,low worth,unhealed wounds,trust issues,distorted purpose.

    • @larryrubin5150
      @larryrubin5150 2 года назад

      @@Enochrry6024 100 💯💯💯💯💯 true sir. I have to agree with you sir

    • @adrianshaw4639
      @adrianshaw4639 2 года назад +1

      Men are the gatekeepers of relationship. Women are gatekeepers of sex. You have to get her to keep chasing for the relationship or you'll be chasing her for her body. Her interest has to be greater than yours. They want what they can't have so don't make it easy for them.