Hey Steve: Getting a Guy Interested
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- Опубликовано: 20 сен 2018
- How do you make it clear to a guy that you may be interested? Steve says it’s not that difficult!
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Alice: “Heyy Steve!”
Steve Harvey: *My NAME IS JOHN!!!* 😂😂😂
Cracked me up! 🤣🤣🤣
I'm dying 😭😭😭
he is so sharp.. may God bless him. I forgot too that his name was John.
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Man Steve's color palette for his suits are amazing give his stylist a RAISE!
Emily G that's not his stylist dressing him, that's from his own line of suits.
I was thinking that the whole time.That suit cold af
That’s Steve not his stylist
Emina G Steve suits be ugly af lmao
S/O to the Stylist Sir William Phoenix 💯.
Steve is always on point, perfect fit, color and size 👍🔥
I couldn't remember what he said too 😂😂
Lol yall dont listen
i thought i was the only one lmao
@@XonTheOne I'm married 💍🙃
I would have to practice that, myself. That's all. We need more practice in talking straight to the point. I would have to write it down and read it 5-8 times!
Me too.That's it's a long words to remember. I think I need to write it down 😂
She's indeed a beautiful woman
Write to the Steve Harvey show. I bet they'll relay a message you're interested. That has happen in other shows.
thats my auntiee ❣️
Lamin JS I just wanted to write: your missing out on an opportunity to meet a fabulous woman
She is slow , being stupid ain't attractive
@@mustafaalbouali You Can Gtfo Ok , Cause My Auntie Aint Slow She Probably Wayy Richer Than Yo Dumb Ahh Now Please Continue With Your Life And Stay Away From Her 😚🤷🏽
And this is why the guy always approaches first
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....Cause they have no idea what they're doing
Thank God Lol
she is a truly feminine women, its a mistake trying to put her is a masculine frame
etf42 but that's the environment we are in now. Men have to adjust to women and try to feel the vibe she could be sending him. All women have to do is be relaxed. If she knows she likes him and can't use a simple bait and hook to get a man's attention, how can she expect that man to want her?
She likes him but can't think of a way to get his time? All she has to do is show him an event he may want to attend and ask "So you are taking me right?"
Shes beautiful. John better get it together
John may have better available
No he better run
She's average.
Yes Indeed
@@AllPro777 nah
She's going to need a hidden camera, a mic, & earbuds. Someone is going to have to feed her the words! Bless her heart. I hope "John" can get a clue! 😍❤
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staylor0524 😂😂😂😂😂
No she don't. She like him very much. She don't need to approach him perfectly. He will get the message even if she said the wrong thing because she is nervous.
I love how everyone (aside from Brian) is assuming this "John" guy even wants her. He can't get a clue if he doesn't like her like that.
She changed the whole script. 😂🤣😂 I hope she really does it.
She dont LISTEN!
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This cracks me up every time! 😂 And she is a stunner!
Agree. I'm in the UK, and each time I watch these shows I'm astonished at how confident and attractive the women are.
Who really think that this thing can work? Cause I don't 😂😂 😂
I don't know, but I'd like to be a fly on the wall for that conversation. 😂
It could work. As a man, I'm telling you, ain't nothing in this world like a woman you're interested in giving you a hint. We search for hints, we strive for hints, we are dying to get some sort of hint!!! This is an obvious hint! This is a "if you don't say something to her soon you really will miss out" kind of hint, best believe he will be running up behind her immediately asking "well, what you mean by that?!?!" And such a conversation will ensue! Sometimes y'all women give off way too subtle of a hint. Remember, men don't do subtlety... gotta be more obvious for us to get it.
That's the same thing I thought! Like who says that lmaooo
The principle is, but not sure about the execution.. 💀😂💀
I don't think it can work either. 🤣🤣
Steve is the father, uncle and brother you need in your life. This is so hilarious!
If a man is into you, or interested he will do it himself. If he's also too shy you will know but at least he will show interest. Next!
David Lubanga thats not every man 🤷🏾♀️
I agree David. A lot of women get hurt because the guy is not into them as they are into him. Once a man truly loves you and is feeling you, he will show it and he will put in work in a relationship. Only if women knew how simple and direct men are, they would live a happy life.
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Some guys really are shy and they might lack confidence too. That’s a good combination to let a potential girlfriend go :/ and then go on about their life wondering what if. And then there will be a girl wishing she would have just made the move instead of sticking to the idea that guys need to ask. It’s just dating, she’s not proposing!
@@abigailgarcia3599 Being shy and showing interest are two different things. Why would you push up into a man that's not interested in you? If a guy is not into you, there's nothing you can do to change his mind. You can't be too pushy. either.
she's got a nicest smile in the world
Im a guy and im telling yall you should never do this lmao
Exactly
Yes. This is BAD advice.
@@goscott2 hahah! :) Why? What would you do?
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@@rachelmacdonald9195 coz masculine women are a huge turn off and not a wifey materual for them
Lol when she goes up to the actual guy she might actually call him John
That's true 😂😂😂
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know, right
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She FINALLY got it!!! 😂 I would love to hear an update on what happened. 💁
Poor john😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
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If John was interested... he would have already known that💯💃🏽👌🏽🦋 self worth ladies
If he's known her a year and hasn't made a move, doesn't that just mean he's not into her?
I don't think so. Some guys think they have time especially since she's so sweet.
she's in the friend zone. this stupid line Steve gave her to say to this dude..... EPIC FAIL. LOL.
More then likely yes.
Most likely
@@ceded6543 mlm
I would never say that to a man, seems too direct
Steve complicated it lol Don't complicate it. IT's simple...just smile, have some eye contact...greet him, and walk away.
Do that to me, I'll stop you and see what you're about. Don't like the convo...do what many
do...act busy or say you were just being nice...lmao
Duhhh! It is direct.
Steve back with the suits ❤️🎉 suit game is on a 💯
Steve is wrong about this one.
All she has to do is say Hi when she sees him, And making sure she looks her best.
Totally agree!
I think men like Steve would respond to this because they ll be curious what she has to offer. they may try her and get to know her. becaue very successful men dont miss good opportunities.
I think thats too passive
Hope she got him despite Steve's cheesy approach, cos she seems real and sweet
She is beautiful, her spirit and physically. But I dont think this was good advice lol
I agree lolll
Uhmmm, who was the other lady???
Me too. Sometimes Steve just gives bad advice
Sometimes ? All the time!
She is average as all hell
She's so cute.
She is.. but stupid.. 😂
I died when she said that she couldn't remember what he said cause I couldn't either 😂🤣
Let’s hope and pray “John” sees this and gets the hint. Otherwise, she’s screwed. 😂💞
Lol. This one does NOT do subtle well. Give her another suggestion lord.
Jay George= Agreed....with your comment.
Ok agreeee this one gives me anxietyyyyy
If a woman ever came up to me and said that, i would immediately think, "Oh god, one of those."
My favorite one, can't stop laughing at this lady
I love this girl!!! I laughed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 so hard guuurrrlll must update us 💕
Girl says: your missing out on meeting a fabulous woman.
Me: Who???
That’s how I think
Don’t get me hints just tell me what you want. Stop trying to make everything so complicated
Give not get
💯 sht!
@@Secondadmendment that was kind of the point, it was to peak our interest as men and then it open new possibilities/conversations. Although, I don't think the "walk away" is necessary lol.
James j EXACTLY! 🤣🤦🏽♀️
I'd be confused too. Like she talking about a friend or herself or just cracking a joke?
Setting this woman up for an epic fail. Don't play games with me men if u ain't build for it.
She is so beautiful. All she has to do is give him that beautiful smile and those eyes and she has him! I believe that when you know you're a beautiful woman (on the inside), if a man doesn't "see you" that's bc he doesn't recognize greatness and you don't need him - he is not on your level. Or it could be that he is not supposed to notice you yet.
ATTENTION WOMEN: YOU ARE THE PRIZE!!
Thank you for what you said here. I know you're talking about the lady in the video, but I find this very helpful and encouraging and I'm so glad I read your comment. Thank you for leaving it. I hope you're doing well and having a great day.
On your level, yes right! What if the man isn't interest in her! Oh he must take what's offered, please!
You must be a very lady on the inside.
Naw, sister just a brother that knows his worth!
Mila B 👏
Steve’s stylist deserve a raise ! Damnnnnn 🔥
I always watch at least one clip from the Steve Harvey Show,everyday, before going to school because it honestly brightens my day.
Steve is on point every time and he is so funny he really makes me lol every day i love steve Harvey he is an amazing person
Lmao if a lady come up to me like that i'm sure we could never be together.
They've known each other for a year though he knows she means no harm.
This lady is so beautiful,so cute and fabulous,she is a great woman with a huge heart,she is well educated, u can see she is so honest and sincere, wish her the best and her life
That's as close as she is going to get to what Steve said😂😂😂😂😂 bless her heart 😍
If he was truly attracted to her, he would make it known.
“My name John” 😂😂😂 I love Steve, omg.
"you're missing one of the best women God created. Thank you." Omg I laughed so much 😂😂
Me too!!!🤣😂
Steve’s suit is awesome!
No my girl just leave tht alone........
Yeah, she shouldn't be approaching the guy. If he's interested, he will let her know!
Candice Mills I agree she shouldn't have to let him know that I think he should recognize it right off if he's interested
She gonna be so nervous 😬, she’s not gonna remember those lines. I’m surprised Steve gave her that advice. Now what if “John” doesn’t inquire about this mystery woman? She will be devastated! I think she should be natural & just flirt a lil bit. If he’s interested or not involved with someone else he will get the message & make his move
Awww she is too cute lol lol I hope he notices her before she has to go through all that lol
Her sweet giggle 😊
Ok ladies, let me give yall a few secrets, sorry fellas. Now dont use this unless you want a serious relationship. Dont go using this to manipulate good men.
The best thing you could do though is to exude feminine characteristics and look as good as you can, for a lot of men that means unnoticeable to no make up and BE APPROACHABLE, which means dont display anything that makes you look
1. Judgemental
2. Materialistic
3. ill-mannered/ghetto
4. Aggressive
5. No moral values
6. An easy catch, meaning you mess with everybody (a garden tool, easy, no standards, no male filter, anybody would do).--- You can accomplish this from a distance by NOT responding to every man that approaches you, NOT giving the googly eyes to every man you are talking to, be able to say "I'm not interested" and be able to explain the reason and that reason CANNOT be anything related to 1 through 6), reject other men based on your moral values. Never tell a man that the reason you rejected the other guy is because of something that puts you on the list 1 to 6. He is listening to how you judged that other man to see where your values are.
Example: You want a man with money
Bad way to say it: " I left him because he was broke"
Pros: 1. If the man you talking to has money, that can boost his confidence in his ability to get you
2.Can also make him see you as a woman with standards
Cons: 1.Can make you look materialistic
2. Can make you seem judgemental
3.Can make the guy feel his money/success is a way to manipulate you, so he wont focus on you, just on how he can use his money to get what he wants.
Good way to say it: "We discussed working and saving together so we could pool our resources to build a better future together. Turns out, he wasnt trying to build anything, he simply wanted to take advantage of me. After much discussion, we had to depart ways, it was too difficult to care for both of us."
Look good physically: this will attract ANY MAN. Look good based on your own taste. But keep these rules in mind:
1. A man WILL judge you based his own moral standard. Dress according to the moral standard YOU are looking to FIND in him.
Look, you want a man with christian morals, then dress like one. You want a biker, then dress like one. You want a man who ONLY wants sex, then dress like a woman who only wants sex. Its simple. Dress according to the value you wish to attract.
2. Dont go overboard with the name brand. Have nice things , men like women with nice things/clothes/accessories. But dont go overboard where EVERYTHING you have has GOT TO BE name brand. Got to be Gucci, Louis and the rest....
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Its not so much that you wear nothing but the best, here are a few things you could be projecting:
1. You are high maintenance, you require him to spend all his cash on materials. He may or may not have the money but thats not the point. He wants to be sure you are not just a gold digger. If he is rich, you lower your value in his eyes if he can use his money to manipulate you.
2. You got your values in the wrong place. May have nothing to do with you being high maintenance, he will just be concerned that you dont really understand real life and what truly makes life valuable and would be concerned if you are really ready to invest in real love, relationship, and family, where the real wealth and value lies.
3. You're materialistic and vain. Ok No more secrets...No book either. Im not saying anymore...maybe I will continue if I get at least 1.3K likes
Thank you so much for your candid advice. I would have benefited from this sage counsel 30+ years ago.
Thank you 😊
Rather be single that go thru all that just to be in a relationship
@@rnews7119 okay??! My thoughts exactly! 😀❤️😂 On the other hand, he did offer good advice for those who are willing to put themselves out for a relationship, so maybe what he said, will help those people. 😀❤️
Mehn!! since Steve has this bear, his suit game is on another level.; the cut, the colors and how he wears them !!!
God knows I love a man with nice suits.
suit is everything!!
@@shonb989 sexy AF!
THIS IS CONING FROM A MAN, PLEASE DONT DO THAT!
Thank you.
Hahaha! We get it... John!!😅😂
John Delaney 😂😂🤦🏾♀️
I am a woman, and I would not do it. If the man is digging you, he will let you know.
Disagree completely, there's nothing wrong with women taking a smooth approach to any man that they are interested in. It'll work, just as long as the woman isn't too aggressive or act too high maintenance. But what do I know, I'm a guy so I must be wrong anyway. 👍🏾✌🏾
Even the lil wireless microphone on his tie matches the color of his suit... BALLERRR
I couldn't remember all that either!
Lol ..you are beautiful
She was trying... 🤣😂🤣😂
But Didn't she say that they already know each other....
Lol.
She is a beautiful woman ❤️
Ok ladies..if you like a guy just tell him straight up. Don’t drop “hints” and stuff like that it just causes confusion and frustration and the guy might not pick up on it.
Big Picture: Just Be Yourself
That doesn't work for everyone anymore.
@@Minleyx1 True for some but it still works.
I needed a good laugh, thank you!😂😝
Oh God I have flu but I'm dead now becoz of how many times Steve repeated his advice to that girl 😂😂😂
Saraa Omer 😂😂😂
Feel better!
I'm glad that you are available to help these women! Even still they don't listen!
John is already drunk😂🤣😂
All i head her say was: "I'm a southern girl, I shouldn't have to put in effort"
And ladies, please do not do this. This will get the vast majority of us to not be interested. Just simply ask us out. No excuses
This had me cracking up lol.... she reminds me of me. I would so mess it up a couple of times lol.
I say all you have to do is to put yourself around them enough and they will come to you in time.
Just smile and initiate a conversation by saying "hi John "! Let John take it from there. His response will tell you how interested in you he really is.
That’s too much. “John, I’m interested in getting to know you better.” Let him take it from there!
This was one of the funniest episode
I forgot what you said😂😂😂
She has a beautiful smile
That walk away at the end LOL
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She's precious! 😊
I have a feeling she had to watch this a few times &/or write it down. Unless 'John' wised up or unless he caught this episode!
"Hey steve,"
"Muh name is John!" 🤣
Alice you are BEAUTIFUL AND DID AMAZING. It really was a lot to remember especially when on camera and your nervous 😬 MAY GOD BLESS YOU WITH YOUR HEART’S DESIRE 🙏💯♥️👍🏾
Hell I’d probably screw it up too if I was on stage, lol.
One of my favorite clip ever ! Hilarious
Don’t be addin na’in 🤣 I love Steve 😂
Ask steve is my best part 💜 love u uncle steve
😂😂😂this girl has killed me
This is really cute but incredibly cheesy. Hopefully he'll think she's joking and ask her out for her great sense of humor :-D
Steve thanks for the great humor you added to my morning! I was cracking up!
God bless this woman she made me laugh today
Doubting this will work, but okay girl. 😂
My advice is to not play this intricate game and just let an activity come up in conversation that you both are interested in and say I'd love to ___________ , I just can never find a nice guy to go with." If he's interested, he'll take the cue. If not, let it be and find someone else.
I love uncle Steve man
She is a very respectful lady.
Lool she said 'you're missing one of the best women God has ever created in his life' 2:29
That's too much. Just smile at him, laugh at his jokes, and flirt. That should do it.
I love you Steve Harvey talk show ♥️❤️❤️😙😙😙
Hey pretty lady,your laughing is great...and we don't missed that opportunity. & I am not John 😂😂😂
I would’ve fallen over laughing if Steve had turned to her the final time with one eye open trying to focus, slurring his words & said “Yesshh...?” like he was drunk! I was kinda expecting something cheeky like that!
Lol yup
I'm dying laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Even when she wasn't getting it right, you still didn't give up on her... Steve you have God's heart in you.. more grace sir
"Hey Steve"
"And my name is John" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Just do it the old fashion way, get your girlfriend to let him know straight up. Otherwise she might forget all the words all together the moment she walks up to john
OMG I love this one! She is so cute!!!
Steve was like “close enough” 😂😂
John's reaction: "Hmmm wonder who that could be?"
So many people trying to discredit Steve's advice. Look, this would not sound desperate if she took this more obvious approach. In my opinion, this is just the right amount of obvious. Yes, he needs to do the courting work, but don't you think a man might get tired of rejection after a while? I know I certainly am! But to get a green light of some sort, anything, something! Us strategic guys typically have our eye on many women at once, unsure if we should approach her cause she may be taken or uninterested in dating and it may be obvious to others but not obvious to me. Stuff like that, so we scope it out over a period of time. But if she gives you a signal that says "you should try to talk to her, she's open to it" then we jump all over that!!!
MAN_ON_WHEELZ Thanks, brutha. This exactly how I feel about this advice. It will indeed work, she already got to know the man, she had already feel some chemistry between them. So now that he hasn't yet to make a move on her, she can definitely use this approach to put the interest out there or even be respectfully direct, "Hey John, I know we've been talking for the last few weeks/months but I wanted to let you know that I really like talking to you and I would love to go out with you. Maybe dinner and a movie?" Then work the details out from there, if he makes the woman make all the plans, she shouldn't bother wasting her time. Just end it there, however if he's willing to take her out a few places even provide a few of his own cooked items/champagne/wine for a planned home cooked dinner then give it a chance.
MAN_ON_WHEELZ But this woman says she met the guy a year and a half ago. Don't you think he would've asked her out by now if he was interested in her?
@@zora99ny easy answer is no, not necessarily...maybe he's afraid of messing up the friendship that they share or simply afraid of the rejection or not measuring up in other areas. We can't assume it's as easy as "oh I'm just going to ask her out.". Different people take different approaches.
She said they MET a year n a half ago.. she didn’t say they’ve been friends or hanging out for a year and a half... she probably met him a while ago n has been crushing on him and only seen him a few times since and wants to take things to the next level... otherwise this would be a “how do I get out the friend zone?” Ask Steve lol
@@TheeUrMajesty Ok, no need to attack me lol. I'm sure that there's plenty of the situation she didn't fully disclose to the show or Steve. However based on how she presented it, I thought she stays in contact with this person regularly and so did Steve apparently. Because otherwise, he might had told her that she done blew her chance or given her a whole different way to come at him.
Real talk I'd be more confused if a woman told me that more than anything.
2019, women can ask guys out. Be strong and confident. Guys will let you know if they are interested. Dont need to play games.
i couldn't remember all that he said either LOL! Good thing I'm already married....