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  • Опубликовано: 20 авг 2024
  • An audience member wants advice on how to get a stranger on the train to talk to her.
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Комментарии • 741

  • @mademoisellejules3784
    @mademoisellejules3784 6 лет назад +1247

    "He's not as pretty as you" I love Steve!!!

    • @e-learning3352
      @e-learning3352 5 лет назад +1

      Yes, l love him too. His look like funny man.

    • @hawaiianrussian1047
      @hawaiianrussian1047 5 лет назад +1

      Don’t get me wrong I get it what Steve said was cute and Ofcourse he’s gonna blow smoke up her ass like he does every female but ughhhh......she ain’t pretty though??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @aureateseigneur5317
      @aureateseigneur5317 4 года назад +1

      She aint ugly either tho

    • @emabella1000
      @emabella1000 4 года назад +10

      ?,?, wow so much hate. Just so you know, pretty women wear makeup too. Makeup is fun and of course is supposed to enhance our features. No need to be rude

    • @nyamheria
      @nyamheria 2 года назад

      @@t6amygdala huh?

  • @yasmo5271
    @yasmo5271 7 лет назад +3082

    I'm too shy to approach him let me go to a talk show and ask for help 😂

    • @mbangroo
      @mbangroo 5 лет назад +11

      Lmao

    • @worthlessmutts9598
      @worthlessmutts9598 5 лет назад +101

      i suspect they are just actors.

    • @MRJMXHD
      @MRJMXHD 5 лет назад +19

      @@worthlessmutts9598 impossible

    • @chillmf9459
      @chillmf9459 5 лет назад +1

      MR. JMXHD idkidk

    • @Caribbeana
      @Caribbeana 5 лет назад +23

      She wants to be on his dating segment

  • @erikhayes1
    @erikhayes1 6 лет назад +1482

    See, now here is the truth. If a woman followed Steve’s advice and did that to me? I would think she is trying not to laugh at me and I would be discouraged.

    • @liliw3977
      @liliw3977 5 лет назад +74

      Erik Hayes What about a shy smile as she tucks her hair behind her ear before looking away?

    • @KillShot-ln6mn
      @KillShot-ln6mn 5 лет назад +58

      @@liliw3977 That'd make 90% of us approach you

    • @liliw3977
      @liliw3977 5 лет назад +10

      Cain City I give women this advice all the time. I’m happy to have some confirmation for them😊

    • @a.l2563
      @a.l2563 5 лет назад +4

      So what would u recommend?

    • @liliw3977
      @liliw3977 5 лет назад +9

      Tony oneill just be yourself, when you approach her make sure you don’t lead with comments that will make her think you’re only seeing her in one light. Comment about her beautiful smile, eyes, her laugh, how she talks with her hands...that will give her a positive feeling about you and make you seem genuine. Whatever you say, say it with confidence; women find that very alluring.

  • @fuckinzell
    @fuckinzell 7 лет назад +1028

    "I do this for a living!" *remembers Marjorie* "USED TO.. Used to..."

  • @CinnaAbble
    @CinnaAbble 7 лет назад +702

    This girl is literally me infront of guys.

    • @jaaptendijk7192
      @jaaptendijk7192 6 лет назад +2

      The Ablix me in front of girls✋

    • @icefleura8168
      @icefleura8168 5 лет назад +3

      Me too so shyyy

    • @peterlane1391
      @peterlane1391 4 года назад +2

      Well good news: I love everything about that woman and many guys do too.

    • @mateoslab
      @mateoslab 4 года назад

      This girl is me in front of girls

  • @rubyshay6352
    @rubyshay6352 7 лет назад +2106

    If she follows Steve advice, the guy gonna think something is funny and he is a joke.

    • @cheritabispat286
      @cheritabispat286 6 лет назад +110

      Yes, remove the hand but keep and control the smile then turn your head. Lol

    • @alexiskosseify9929
      @alexiskosseify9929 5 лет назад +44

      You should have your own show called ask Ruby

    • @kaymap2061
      @kaymap2061 5 лет назад +7

      @@alexiskosseify9929 this is funny, and we are the audience

    • @alexiskosseify9929
      @alexiskosseify9929 5 лет назад +5

      @@kaymap2061 hell yeaa, wanna book the first 2 seats?

    • @kaymap2061
      @kaymap2061 5 лет назад +3

      @@alexiskosseify9929 hahaah is it a date? 😅

  • @Ep1cxxPredat0r
    @Ep1cxxPredat0r 7 лет назад +580

    or she can just smile and say hi........

    • @adwoakwartemaa8553
      @adwoakwartemaa8553 7 лет назад +10

      Zeke2g exactly! 😊.

    • @alishibli4720
      @alishibli4720 5 лет назад +14

      Exactly

    • @capgreen3805
      @capgreen3805 5 лет назад +23

      Or just ask him out and not wait for him

    • @1Chasg
      @1Chasg 5 лет назад +1

      Yep. If u want something just go for it or else it might not happen.

    • @MizzNR
      @MizzNR 5 лет назад +8

      That's hard for some people.

  • @icetray2727
    @icetray2727 7 лет назад +172

    His face though😂😂😂 2:28

  • @RainwriterMusic
    @RainwriterMusic 4 года назад +176

    Title: "You can't stare at him!"
    Thumbnail: weirdest face from Steve I've ever seen in my life

  • @madi21772
    @madi21772 6 лет назад +190

    I RELATE SO MUCH TO “TRY AND APPEAR NOT BITCHY” YALL DONT EVEN KNOW OMG I UNDERSTAND

  • @rihazzahir9826
    @rihazzahir9826 4 года назад +35

    Uncle Steve got the answers to almost everything, wish I could meet him in my life time

  • @missylulou5178
    @missylulou5178 5 лет назад +61

    So he sent her off to laugh at the man 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 good one Steve 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @naria2224
      @naria2224 4 года назад +2

      Missy Lu Lou. Well she wasn’t supposed to laugh while doing the thing. She couldn’t help it , she’s nervous about it.

  • @MissAdamLambert888
    @MissAdamLambert888 5 лет назад +71

    "but he's so pretty..." GIRL I GET YOU ! T_T

  • @philboom9136
    @philboom9136 4 года назад +36

    Smile, little wave, maybe say hi. Thats it.
    Laugh and look away makes us think you make fun about us.

  • @SethManex
    @SethManex 6 лет назад +165

    Those heels are pretty

  • @vanessaantoine4264
    @vanessaantoine4264 7 лет назад +888

    I love her shoes! We need to know where she got those shoes!!!

  • @GetTheGrandFunkOut
    @GetTheGrandFunkOut 7 лет назад +268

    Games don't work all the time. Get close enough to the man in passing to smilingly compliment him on his shoes, and when he smiles "Thanks!" in turn, go on about your business. If the man you have surprised with your notice of his good taste is interested, he'll be looking for you on the next train.

    • @Sisterlisk
      @Sisterlisk 5 лет назад +22

      A compliment is a good idea if you're trying to get a guy to approach. He has to know you're interested. A compliment to an opposite sex stranger on a train...definite sign of interest in my book.

    • @1Chasg
      @1Chasg 5 лет назад +10

      As a guy yes this would 100% work and get his attention.

    • @frankdeboer780
      @frankdeboer780 4 года назад +3

      Wow. You should doing the show. Really. Great advice

    • @tjaspire
      @tjaspire 4 года назад +8

      That sounds right. I complemented a man on his hoodie, in front of his friends, because I really liked it. I went on about my business. I looked back and he was staring at me like his mind was blown LOL.

    • @GetTheGrandFunkOut
      @GetTheGrandFunkOut 4 года назад +2

      @@tjaspire Alright!

  • @ocubex
    @ocubex 6 лет назад +219

    Steve must have been a dangerous man when he was in the game...

  • @deliamoyle3279
    @deliamoyle3279 7 лет назад +43

    HER SHOESS! YES I WANT THEM

  • @cherrypath1702
    @cherrypath1702 7 лет назад +53

    😂😂😂😂 Steve is so funny, that stare and smile 😂😂

  • @Just.Ashley.S
    @Just.Ashley.S 3 года назад +28

    I feel her. I have RBF too. The problem is we drop ALL emotion out of our face when most people don’t. The key is to express slight emotion in your face when you’re around someone you like. Can’t do it all the time like most people do subconsciously. We just have to put the extra effort in to be aware of it around those people. It gets tiring answering the same “what’s wrong” question everyday from even friends if I relax my face completely for 2 seconds 😑.

    • @mwilkins1644
      @mwilkins1644 Год назад

      Us men have 'resting axe murderer face' 😂

  • @bellagrace9812
    @bellagrace9812 4 года назад +12

    "Next time you come on the show you're gonna have him with you". Can't wait to see that. 😄

  • @justicewarrior9187
    @justicewarrior9187 5 лет назад +55

    Girls please be more obvious!!!
    We men have no clue about your intentions!

  • @sammiller9855
    @sammiller9855 5 лет назад +21

    Three is no harm in just starting up a casual conversation with the dude. Don't turn it to some cat-and-mouse game.

  • @Yincvns
    @Yincvns 7 лет назад +42

    *yOU cAn'T StaRE AT hIm!*

  • @Chrissy-yi5em
    @Chrissy-yi5em 5 лет назад +27

    Steve should never give advice on what the opposite sex should do and how to do it.
    There’s nothing wrong with a girl approaching a guy. How else will you get to know him if he’s not the type to approach. Don’t regret doing what you should have done. You could miss out on a lot of opportunities in life.

    • @georgec8210
      @georgec8210 5 лет назад +1

      He only caters to women cause they buy his book. He got divorced 3 times he is the last person who should give any advice.

    • @empressoliver3341
      @empressoliver3341 3 года назад +9

      Steve knows exactly what he talking about. I'm a relationship expert.
      Men are natural hunters. Maybe a lil smile to look approachable but allow him come to you.
      Wait to be approached.
      90 percent of the times women who approach men first, are seen as desperate and watch those kinda relationships, the women loves the man more than the man does her.

  • @Dreamweaver777
    @Dreamweaver777 5 лет назад +16

    Steve's expressions are priceless. lol

  • @witting_gull1816
    @witting_gull1816 5 лет назад +29

    Imagine she comes to the show again and says he ran..... or something like that xD

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways1002 4 года назад +21

    His staring face had me hollering!!!!!!!!🗣🗣🗣😭😭😂😂😂😂💀

  • @bigkeith1022
    @bigkeith1022 5 лет назад +30

    Here's some advice ladies. Wave, say hello, take initiative sometimes. Especially in today's environment. Women come off as unapproachable because of all these cases of women complaining about mens advances. Thats in my experience, not to offend anyone

  • @SammySam316
    @SammySam316 7 лет назад +27

    I love the lady's outfit.

  • @man_on_wheelz
    @man_on_wheelz 7 лет назад +6

    Steve is so right, I never know if a woman is smiling because she's just friendly in a southern kinda way or smiling because she's into me. Doing something a little over the top and kinda corny like cover her smile would totally make me consider approaching her.

  • @iMolikaMenThlang
    @iMolikaMenThlang 7 лет назад +42

    Not unless he's married pahahahaha ain't having him on the show without his wife! Dead!

  • @SuperMustseetv
    @SuperMustseetv 7 лет назад +141

    Love Steve Harvey.....great guy!!

  • @michellec6034
    @michellec6034 6 лет назад +11

    She’s so adorably nervous. I can’t. Steve as a girl- hilarious. Heh heh

  • @658Chrissy
    @658Chrissy 3 года назад +1

    Just smile and say hello. Simple. Don't act like you are laughing at the guy.

  • @candicemiller1018
    @candicemiller1018 3 года назад +12

    Wow No wonder why Lori got all that game 😩 I wish I had a dad like Steve 😢

  • @beprominent7860
    @beprominent7860 2 года назад +13

    Turns out he watches Steves show and sees this so when she does it he understands and makes his move 😂😂

  • @f_r_e_d
    @f_r_e_d 4 года назад

    No hand on the mouth, just smile. Def no rbf, I see this all the time in nyc trains, I just keep it moving. I met an approachable girl once on the train and she eventually became my lover. Unfortunately she was moving out of the city and in 4 months she vanished from my life. I still love her and will never forget our time together.

  • @itsme4355
    @itsme4355 4 года назад +11

    Why all these indirect ways?! Just talk each others. So simple.

    • @naria2224
      @naria2224 4 года назад +1

      It's Me Well because not everyone is an extrovert. These kind of things are helpful for people that tend to be shy . It’s not quite as easy as you seem to think. Most likely you are an extrovert. Oh well, not a big deal .

  • @kandycanesunshine9403
    @kandycanesunshine9403 5 лет назад +9

    Damn I want a follow up. I think that when Steve help people they should send a follow up video to the studio

  • @rakhichowdhury6051
    @rakhichowdhury6051 5 лет назад +19

    I wonder if she was successful with getting the man approach her !! 🤔

  • @yasmeenalrumaidh339
    @yasmeenalrumaidh339 2 года назад +2

    When the crowds went awwwww, so cute 😂❤️

  • @reshamm95
    @reshamm95 3 года назад +1

    Steve's advice is for him to do the smiling bit after they make eye contact not before, thus, she won't be laughing at him but rather give off a shy feeling which will interest the guy. (Most people don't continue laughing or continue to make eye contact if someone was laughing at you) As for going upto the guy and talking to him directly; Steve's whole premise is that the woman does not have to do anything, it's the guy's priority to come up and ask her. Yeah, if you are confident and you want to make things move along, you can go and ask him, or if you want to just have a casual or friendship relationship, sure! But if you want a long-term relationship and the guy is interested in you, HE WILL do whatever it takes to get you! Many men have said this themselves, that if he loves you he will say it; if he wants you, no matter how scared or nervous he is, he will come up to you himself. If a man is truly interested in you for a long-term relationship, or even a casual one, they will come up and ask you themselves no matter how shy they are.

  • @EdLife11
    @EdLife11 5 лет назад +70

    I think the guy is already in a relationship so he's not after a lady..

  • @theophilusniilamptey8519
    @theophilusniilamptey8519 4 года назад +6

    Women always want to talk about their sort of man, but when a man does it they become uncomfortable and possibly angry 😏

  • @chandler5982
    @chandler5982 2 года назад +2

    She’s a real sweetheart 😂

  • @SYREN_AmusementMedia
    @SYREN_AmusementMedia 7 лет назад +159

    Trying so hard not to laugh in class

  • @neda5052
    @neda5052 6 лет назад +6

    "But he's so pretty..." 😂😂

  • @rocknroller77
    @rocknroller77 5 лет назад +4

    "You cant stare at the man." 😄

  • @saartiaipinge7347
    @saartiaipinge7347 6 лет назад +2

    Absolutely absolutely yes Steve. I 100% agree with you that a smile bring people closer and that's me. I smile to everyone that I get in eye contacts with. But i think it can also be confusing guys, as they might think that you like them more. So a smile should be controlled anyways.

  • @caseycreationsofficial
    @caseycreationsofficial 5 лет назад +4

    She's not a hunter... She's a gatherer 😂😂😂

    • @justtimm1255
      @justtimm1255 4 года назад

      The lioness hunt. Women you can take the initiative just don't be aggressive do it with class. I once thought like Steve I'm 57 but i realize nothing stays the same.

  • @7Tiffany
    @7Tiffany 5 лет назад +5

    Her shoes! 😍

  • @ardentdfender4116
    @ardentdfender4116 5 лет назад +2

    A good smile and eye contact goes a long way.

  • @glamoret
    @glamoret 5 лет назад +32

    That’s ridiculous. Men would think there’s something funny about him. Just give it a nice smiling glance.

    • @naria2224
      @naria2224 4 года назад

      LGM yeah, especially since she couldn’t stop laughing. It would work better if she didn’t laugh while doing that.

  • @kenokenedid4257
    @kenokenedid4257 7 лет назад +13

    Yooow that deffinately will work!! If a woman does that smile in front of me, I would go absolutly after her!!

  • @cali9073
    @cali9073 7 лет назад +4

    her *eyes* though, beautiful

  • @teresaridgeway2214
    @teresaridgeway2214 2 года назад +2

    All in all I’m a shy person when it comes to me meeting people but when I see someone I’m interested in I always bring a wing man and use her to say she wants his name etc almost like 2nd grade mess. But it has always worked. Now when I met my husband I met him on POF and all I said to him was “ You’re to young for me but I wanted to let you know you have a beautiful smile “. We’ve been together 8 years and have a beautiful little girl. 🤣

    • @forearthbelow
      @forearthbelow 2 года назад

      Look. At. YOU. Lady!!!!!!!!!!!! Respects from London👍👍

  • @RapidFrames
    @RapidFrames 3 года назад +1

    What i noticed that worked on me, catching myself that i am already on the bait was, a lady would ask for a silly help (an obviously she can do) and just by then she does what Steve advised. Steve's advice is a little short, and can or possibly misunderstand that the man is something to laughed at.

  • @icefleura8168
    @icefleura8168 5 лет назад +1

    Awwww she is beautiful.

  • @KayLovesXOXO
    @KayLovesXOXO 7 лет назад +6

    Loveeeee her shoes😍

  • @luphelelemavuso9882
    @luphelelemavuso9882 2 года назад +1

    Steve is such a dad😊

  • @TheLoveKing
    @TheLoveKing 4 года назад +1

    Its gotten to the point where I just see Steve Harvey in the title and I leave a like. Im a simple kind of guy.

  • @topobuddy5623
    @topobuddy5623 5 лет назад +3

    She said I want to be hunted 😂 I can’t rn 😂 ahahahahahaa

  • @Chaptersaudio
    @Chaptersaudio 6 лет назад +27

    This is the first time I don't agree with Steve. We as women are not Geishas! I don't agree with men that say women need to smile more, it's not about the smile, it is about acknowledging the man. Eyes are the window to the soul.....literally. When I see a man I am attracted to I look him in the eye, keep his gaze AND THEN AND ONLY THEN, gently smile. People are too afraid to keep someone's gaze these days, I love looking deep into a man's eyes.

    • @Shewas-kathybates
      @Shewas-kathybates 6 лет назад

      Belinda Joy yes that’s a sure way to let him know you’re interested

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 6 лет назад

      Belinda Joy I wish I had your confidence I’m so shy to look at guys in the eyes lol

    • @ninetysdude6212
      @ninetysdude6212 6 лет назад +3

      Belinda Joy a woman has done that to me once in the airport, I couldn't stop thinking about her. but I had to go to my flight :(
      But I agree, that makes the message loud and clear.

  • @arseneremy
    @arseneremy 5 лет назад

    Vulnerability and joy will attract anything you want in life ladies.

  • @renefranciscocarballocalde2244
    @renefranciscocarballocalde2244 5 лет назад +1

    She is so cute i love her personality

  • @tim.prasad03
    @tim.prasad03 3 года назад +2

    Steve's face at 0:57 is like, "Ladies and Gentlemen, we found her! The first woman who's admitted she's bitchy!"

  • @strawberriesncandii
    @strawberriesncandii 7 лет назад +1

    She seems like a sweet person and I love her shoes.

  • @Free2flyjj
    @Free2flyjj 2 года назад

    So many introverts couldn't look at their own TV because of Steve. Lol, you're not alone.

  • @n8style
    @n8style 5 лет назад +1

    1. smile
    2. smile and look a bit longer
    3. compliment him
    if he doesn't approach you after the 3rd step you ain't ever getting him

  • @rishitpatel6237
    @rishitpatel6237 5 лет назад +1

    Just some free advice to ladies: If you want to appear single and available to a particular guy, go up to him and ask him nicely if he would want to go out. Don't always expect the man to make the first move.

  • @prestokrs1
    @prestokrs1 6 лет назад +2

    That's good advice but the most important thing is that he finds you attractive in the first place and likes you after you start talking.

  • @faithfulseeker533
    @faithfulseeker533 5 лет назад +3

    I love when Steve learns something new. Lmaoo.

  • @TRINITYAUGUSTIN
    @TRINITYAUGUSTIN 5 лет назад

    My crush came over because my smile caught him.
    He always tell me "your smile is beautiful "
    Love you chris

  • @Tr-qp3rh
    @Tr-qp3rh 5 лет назад

    GO TALK TO HIM.
    It’s okay for a woman to start a conversation.
    If he’s a real man, then he won’t feel threatened, but released, that he doesn’t have to push. It would make you more attractive because he would know you are strong, confident and that you seek what you want.
    Ladies. If you like a man, and you want him.
    GET HIM.

  • @torisefford989
    @torisefford989 5 лет назад +18

    Key word: looks successful

  • @sjraneyumo6049
    @sjraneyumo6049 2 года назад

    Women like baffled face. They love Steve's reaction.

  • @0r0r0
    @0r0r0 2 года назад +2

    Steve is so sweet. Jesus I need a friend like him

  • @lola-mo5sh
    @lola-mo5sh 2 года назад +1

    she is so pretty. I hope she met the man of her dreams

  • @angievalful
    @angievalful 3 года назад +3

    OMG this was so hilarious but so helpful🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jmrafiya8158
    @jmrafiya8158 2 года назад

    The way Steve smiled with hand on his lips reminds me of new bride of india or Bangladesh

  • @quentinjansevanvuuren4199
    @quentinjansevanvuuren4199 6 лет назад +5

    Damm if the guy did not approach you maybe he is taken just be careful of that...

  • @onlyhadiyaaaxo
    @onlyhadiyaaaxo 5 лет назад +2

    Yo HER SHOESSSSS 😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @Hollins23
    @Hollins23 6 лет назад +2

    0:51 Steve's face!!! 😂

  • @xenabbclassy
    @xenabbclassy 5 лет назад +1

    😂 uncle Steve is the most hilarious 🤣

  • @raphael5165
    @raphael5165 4 года назад

    At this point it's up to the man. Either he's already engaged or he's afraid. If so, just give him time to pump himself up. The first approach is crucial, and the guy don't want to mess it up. All you can do is look at him, try to get an eye contact and smile when it happens.

  • @rostallar4243
    @rostallar4243 2 года назад +1

    God I love Steve, bloody brilliant!

  • @juanencines5417
    @juanencines5417 4 года назад +3

    “He seems pretty successful”* he rides the train😂😂😂

  • @TheDanCazzoProject
    @TheDanCazzoProject Год назад

    "Try and appear not bitchy". I actually like her and respect her! I wish that was more women's response.

  • @phumzilesthembisokeswa5067
    @phumzilesthembisokeswa5067 3 года назад

    I get what Steve is saying lol. A little bit of eye contact 4play with a sheepish blush at the end always works. Even for a guy that doesn't approach women, he would be hard pressed not to say something since she has kinda already broken the ice for him by displaying her vulnerability towards him. Big Ego boost that for any man!

  • @courtneydolan154
    @courtneydolan154 4 года назад +1

    can we appreciate the shoes? girl slay

  • @jankowillemfourie1642
    @jankowillemfourie1642 2 года назад

    Its 2022 and i thought. How can he see you smile trough the mask🙈😂

  • @RemiAdam
    @RemiAdam 2 года назад +1

    She's adorable

  • @edwhitson9873
    @edwhitson9873 4 года назад +1

    She totally nailed" the move "

  • @hyacinthp4882
    @hyacinthp4882 7 лет назад

    resting b. face i am dying...i love her

  • @rohitjoshi7150
    @rohitjoshi7150 2 года назад +1

    Steve's face though 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @galaga7146
    @galaga7146 7 лет назад +2

    “I try not to appear bitchy” XD

  • @libraalovee2437
    @libraalovee2437 6 лет назад

    That moment when you get that "Come here" & yr feet start to magically move and you have nothing else to say priceless

  • @Sisterlisk
    @Sisterlisk 3 года назад

    The only time I look not bitchy on the train is when I close my eyes and pretend to be dozing lol