I Quit My Dad’s Company (He Wants Me Back)

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

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  • @donvirts4608
    @donvirts4608 2 месяца назад +167

    Can we take a moment to give props to his dad that takes a real man to be able to realize that you're not good at something and to step back and let somebody who is better at it take over.

    • @takeontravel9076
      @takeontravel9076 2 месяца назад +1

      Some think that’s the definition of beta male .

    • @Kojow7
      @Kojow7 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@takeontravel9076There is no such thing as an alpha or beta male.

    • @gedwardnelson
      @gedwardnelson 2 месяца назад

      @@Kojow7 no?

    • @gedwardnelson
      @gedwardnelson 2 месяца назад

      @@Kojow7 I can tell you that Obama is the epitome of a beta male. Trump an Alpha. Probably even Biden in his earlier years.
      All RINOS are betas. Most democrats are betas.
      Milley is a beta. So is Mayorkas.

    • @jrowlet
      @jrowlet 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@takeontravel9076It takes an alpha male to be man enough to humbly admit when he is not up to a task.

  • @drn13355
    @drn13355 2 месяца назад +85

    I will give him props for being clear and to the point on the phone call. So many call in and don't have a clue what the numbers are and go on these long meandering stories about nothing.

  • @tress4726
    @tress4726 Месяц назад +11

    I have spent most of my career as a retail manager using this advice. I made my name for being the person that is sent to the worst preforming locations to "fix" them. I always did exactly that, I listened. I listen to customers, to vendors, to employees, and in so doing, I have never failed to turn a location around, most times turning the worst locations into some of the most profitable.

  • @gremlinmaster9996
    @gremlinmaster9996 2 месяца назад +34

    As a now retired manager, or what I preferred to be referred to as a leader, one of the best pieces of advice ever give to me is to never tell your employees what to do but instead tell them what needs to be done. Let them do it their way. Be there for them to give guidance if needed but they will bust their ass for you if you let them do it their way. As long as the result is a success, everyone wins and the employees feel more invested. As for the dad, I can understand why he wants to demote himself to a more public relations type position. That is probably where he really enjoyed the business and that’s where he wants to be in this point in his life. I’ve seen this many times over where someone really enjoyed the business but they were so good at it they started to climb the ladder. The higher they got the less they enjoyed the business because it required them to be to more engaged in the administrative, politics and whatever else it took to run a business. More power to dad. Kick back buddy and enjoy life. Watch your kid run things and be there for him if he needs you.

    • @JeffKantin
      @JeffKantin 2 месяца назад +1

      Yeah the guys who are really good at the work usually hate the administrative part of the business. When I heard they had no office people, I knew that's probably where most of the issues in the business were - you need at least one person in the office to make the payroll, bill the clients, collect from the clients, pay the invoices, file the taxes, etc. If the dad is a hands-on work type of guy, he would probably hate all that admin stuff...and he's probably been hating it for years 🙂

  • @orangerider2181
    @orangerider2181 Месяц назад +8

    There are alot of great lessons in this episode in this episode.

  • @ian6551
    @ian6551 Месяц назад +5

    I've been on the other side. Come in with a fresh new vision of what could be and get to really know your employees. Address their issues with the company or even just let them know that you see the issues and you are going to work on them. If they are at the same pay, give them a pay bump just to let them know they are valuable but keep working to fix the issues mentioned. I wish you much success and well.

  • @carguy1312
    @carguy1312 Месяц назад +8

    Family and business don't mix. Period. Don't do it.

    • @wendymerritt4594
      @wendymerritt4594 Месяц назад +1

      Your bias . Depends on the family.

    • @mikeball3897
      @mikeball3897 25 дней назад

      Coming from someone working for a successful and cordial family business I do agree it’s more likely not to work but we have a strong leader in my father and neither my older brother nor myself have gotten greedy. It is possible but very hard. One of the proudest things in my life is I was able to be a big part in making my parents wealthy.

  • @BusArch42
    @BusArch42 2 месяца назад +31

    This will not go well. His dad will not let go. Keep your own business and don’t mix in with family. A written agreement isn’t going to do the job

    • @BirdDogey1
      @BirdDogey1 2 месяца назад +2

      Great advice.

    • @MichaelMartin-nq8hp
      @MichaelMartin-nq8hp 2 месяца назад +2

      And you KNOW this how??

    • @BusArch42
      @BusArch42 2 месяца назад +4

      @@MichaelMartin-nq8hp I’m going to play the I’m old and have seen a lot card. Odds are very high it will go badly and likely damage his family relationships. It’s very difficult to do any business with family. Taking over a business can work but only if dad steps down and retires. Otherwise stay the course on your own business.

    • @MichaelMartin-nq8hp
      @MichaelMartin-nq8hp 2 месяца назад

      @BusArch42 Everything has risks, I would do it as a trial run type of thing personally. Try this for a year. If in that year things transition smoothly with me as owner, then fine, if not, sorry dad, go get a 9 to 5 somewhere else

    • @BusArch42
      @BusArch42 2 месяца назад +2

      @ I would not be willing to risk my relationship with my father.

  • @NVDAbets
    @NVDAbets 2 месяца назад +7

    Listen, DONT DO ANYTHING like that!! I am a 50% business owner and the other 50% is my uncle. He provided the funding and now he is paid back in full. I am buying his other 50% on a long term payment plan because he doesn't do things around the business, thus disqualify him as a 50% partner in a small business.
    What you ought to do is to BUY your dad's business and put it on a long-term payment plan.
    Partners needs to have vision, execution, thinking, aligned. These things are much much more important than the blood relationship in the business. And given the situation, the caller and his dad doesn't have that at all. So only 1 can have ownership, the other one gotta go. He can pay his dad whatever amount as salary and then on top of that a fixed payment over long-term to pay for the ownership.
    And this is a win for the dad as well. He is going to run the business to the ground if he doesn't like the business aspect of it.100% of nothing is still nothing. If he quit and sells it to his son and his son use the business income to pay for it, then it can be successfully passed down.

  • @tate6809
    @tate6809 2 месяца назад +52

    It sounds like dad started the company because he didn't want to (or can't) be an employee working for someone else, then figured out actually running a business is a whole nother ball of wax, now he wants the easyness of going back to just being an employee but with a boss that won't boss him around (his son) and let him do what he wants. This is not at all uncommon when you have family small businesses.

    • @mattchimeseconandfinance8895
      @mattchimeseconandfinance8895 2 месяца назад +1

      100%

    • @mattchimeseconandfinance8895
      @mattchimeseconandfinance8895 2 месяца назад +3

      With immunity by way of guaranteed lifetime salary

    • @PeezyReacts
      @PeezyReacts 2 месяца назад +1

      I had a shop I work close with approach me with this exact position.
      He wanted 15k for the business and to be an employee once I purchased.
      He said I could make the 15k back in a month but he had no books to support the claims so I passed.

    • @tate6809
      @tate6809 2 месяца назад +1

      @@PeezyReacts So basically "just give me a months worth of profits and you can have the whole thing? Yeah thats not shady at all. I wonder if he meant 15k was a months worth of sales, and didn't realize it was running at a loss or something like that, hence not wanting to keep any kind of books

    • @PeezyReacts
      @PeezyReacts 2 месяца назад

      @@tate6809 He runs a good business but was thrown into the position through inheritance.
      He doesn't spend enough time working on the business.
      He definitely meant a month of sales.

  • @sheenabees
    @sheenabees 2 месяца назад +17

    Brilliant Dave!! Wonderful and insightful direction.

  • @ainnovate88
    @ainnovate88 2 месяца назад +17

    This is very similar to my family business situation. My dad and I ended up doing a 50/50 partnership where he runs the field and I run the business.
    When my side slows down or I get all caught up I go out to the field work hard get my hands dirty keeping the respect of the team always backing them up and giving them full support.
    This has been working great business is booming relationships are all very healthy. Thank God 🙏

  • @joepfeiler5911
    @joepfeiler5911 Месяц назад +4

    If the career you have now is working for you, stay away. I was in the family business for most of my life and left 10 years ago. Life is so much simpler not being involved. This may sound selfish but you may have to look at what's in it for me. My career with my family came to an end when I proposed some changes and my dad said you can't do that when I was in as 50 % owner of the operating entity. Now that time has gone by, it appears as though I was right. The changes I proposed have been adapted but the "you can't do that" without even entering into a actual discussion created a situation where I had to leave.

  • @hggohh4915
    @hggohh4915 16 дней назад

    I haven’t got a lot of business experience but I’d run a mile from this. The father is a big part of the business spirit and if he’s not on side with the son the business will fail.

  • @laserwizard1
    @laserwizard1 2 месяца назад +11

    Love the way Dave coaches the callers!

  • @satyagirl1797
    @satyagirl1797 2 месяца назад +15

    Dad will never change- you fool yourself....he will try anything to control his image and you part of it.

  • @timgodfrey2058
    @timgodfrey2058 Месяц назад +1

    Great advice
    For Walker
    I understand why im a listener.

  • @mareemays7180
    @mareemays7180 2 месяца назад +7

    What about the brother? Inheritance

  • @carinaderoos576
    @carinaderoos576 Месяц назад +1

    Sounds great. Also sounds like this will be the 80/20 rule : 80% of the headaches and timecost in this while having less time and energy for his already great and successful businesses.

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  • @mikesawyer4707
    @mikesawyer4707 2 месяца назад +7

    Daddy needs to sell that company and retire if the son wants to buy the company outright, or possibly work for the new owner fine. But his dad needs to retire and this idea of dad hanging on with a lifetime salary at this time of dads life B.S. God bless.

  • @aaronmurphy8796
    @aaronmurphy8796 Месяц назад +1

    If it turns out the way Dave suggests that’s great but often the reason stuff is running a certain way is because the peolle there are fine with it .
    For example if he wants to have a more rigid time management system because they are paying too many man hours per job I doubt that the employees are gonna feel that’s a problem .
    Really depends on what types of changes are needed

  • @marshalltille7770
    @marshalltille7770 12 дней назад +1

    30/60/90 leadership change model.

  • @waltford8353
    @waltford8353 Месяц назад

    Leaders Pull, Boss"s Push. That's so good.....

  • @sevenRyeh
    @sevenRyeh 2 месяца назад +7

    Good dude, your doing what was expected. But you wont get out from under it.

    • @jrowlet
      @jrowlet 2 месяца назад

      What do you mean?

    • @AnneBellaHansen
      @AnneBellaHansen Месяц назад

      hi can i get to know you more

  • @elliebellie7816
    @elliebellie7816 Месяц назад +5

    How can you guarantee the company will survive long enough to provide lifetime income for your father upon retirement? That sounds like bad idea to me.

  • @darscassel
    @darscassel Месяц назад +4

    1.8 for 10 people and he’s doing 250 k with one employee? Dont do it!!!

  • @youiyoui9942
    @youiyoui9942 Месяц назад +3

    So helpful

  • @ChristoherWGray
    @ChristoherWGray Месяц назад +3

    1.4M in revenue doesnt even begin to cover 8 employees plus expenses

  • @nephetula
    @nephetula Месяц назад +1

    I don't get this? If he buys you out and you go to work for him and his company, who's going to run your company? Why can't he hire someone else as business manager and let you do your own thing?

  • @cashway0420
    @cashway0420 Месяц назад +3

    I want you BACK SON!!! NO Dadyy, I wanna be MY OWN MAN!!!!!

  • @DanielGunter-mv4un
    @DanielGunter-mv4un 2 месяца назад +2

    Yea I understand that

  • @StephanieMissouri
    @StephanieMissouri Месяц назад

    I would add that father and son come to a financial arrangement for when dad is no longer working for the company.

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 2 месяца назад +10

    You mean walls were considered critical to protect the city in Nehemiah's time? Well, isn't that interesting?

    • @Kojow7
      @Kojow7 2 месяца назад +1

      How is it interesting?

    • @awsomrapper
      @awsomrapper 2 месяца назад

      He's unnecessary bringing politics into this ​@@Kojow7

    • @lindalav1477
      @lindalav1477 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Kojow7 You know what she's getting at. It didn't take long for someone to say it.

    • @jrowlet
      @jrowlet 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Kojow7It is an interesting point relevant in the border conversation in our modern American politics.

  • @robertsayre9341
    @robertsayre9341 Месяц назад +1

    Run

  • @Aaron-fb1pq
    @Aaron-fb1pq 2 месяца назад

    WOW. This is almost identical to the situation I am in.

  • @timndonna
    @timndonna 24 дня назад

    Yes. Put it in writing because the Dad is going to fip a switch.

  • @leanderrowe2800
    @leanderrowe2800 9 дней назад

    Should call Dave.

  • @A.M.1.
    @A.M.1. Месяц назад

    His dad needs office support staff

  • @lsponganderson7846
    @lsponganderson7846 Месяц назад

    This question was giving "Shark Tank"

  • @mumejpatel7390
    @mumejpatel7390 10 дней назад

    Bruh dont do too much infront of truck drivers they switch up in a sec smoking a cigarette.😂😂

  • @allenkwilliams2871
    @allenkwilliams2871 2 месяца назад

    Read the book “The First 90 Days” by Michael D. Watkins.

    • @AnneBellaHansen
      @AnneBellaHansen Месяц назад +1

      Hi how are you doing ?

    • @allenkwilliams2871
      @allenkwilliams2871 Месяц назад

      @ I’m doing well. How are you?

    • @AnneBellaHansen
      @AnneBellaHansen Месяц назад

      @@allenkwilliams2871 Am good thanks for asking .....can i know more about you ?

  • @RNBarbaraP
    @RNBarbaraP 2 месяца назад +15

    Rachel does not give great advice. Sorry Dave. I have thought that for years. I wondered why she was kept on. Only found out recently that she is your daughter. Not trying to be mean here, just being honest.

    • @jrowlet
      @jrowlet 2 месяца назад +1

      Why do you think that her advice is not good?

    • @coderider3022
      @coderider3022 2 месяца назад +2

      Unfortunately we don’t inherit experience from our parents. Kids pick up things but it’s different from growing business yourself, no substitute.

    • @justintuttle137
      @justintuttle137 Месяц назад +1

      She gives great advice you’re just hardheaded and set in your ways. You better show some goddamn respect for Trump….

    • @jrowlet
      @jrowlet Месяц назад +10

      @justintuttle137 What does Trump have to do with this?

    • @Trackpad12
      @Trackpad12 Месяц назад

      Nah she is the best personality they have by far.

  • @amerlin388
    @amerlin388 Месяц назад

    Ronald Reagan - 'There is no limit to the amount of good you can do if you don't care who gets the credit.'

  • @Steven-k6g9o
    @Steven-k6g9o 6 дней назад

    I stopped counting at 24 umhs.

  • @joeriveracomedy
    @joeriveracomedy 2 месяца назад +7

    Pops wants to hang the losses & responsibillties on junior

    • @jrowlet
      @jrowlet 2 месяца назад

      How do you know that he is losing money?

    • @joeriveracomedy
      @joeriveracomedy 2 месяца назад

      ​@@jrowlethyperbole gramps

    • @AnneBellaHansen
      @AnneBellaHansen Месяц назад

      @@joeriveracomedy Hi how are you ?

  • @DanielGunter-mv4un
    @DanielGunter-mv4un 2 месяца назад

    Same here

  • @michaeldalton8374
    @michaeldalton8374 Месяц назад

    This has bad written all over it.
    What prevents dad from suddenly retiring and getting his weekly check forever without keeping up his operator stipulation?
    It’s family. Never do business with family.

  • @Dimka2012Bo
    @Dimka2012Bo Месяц назад

    $1.8m? For 8 people? Need to grow the business

  • @webfreakz
    @webfreakz 2 месяца назад +1

    So what if Walker ultimately start to change a few things whether right or wrong, big or small, then possibly a few team members quit, this lowers the financial value of the company and that's the retirement money his father is looking for. He's not going to like that...

    • @tomw485
      @tomw485 2 месяца назад

      The value of a company isn’t measured by the number of employees on the payroll. It’s measured by how much money it makes. In fact a company that makes the same amount of money with fewer people on the payroll is MORE valuable. The fewer people you have to pay for the same revenue the more net income you have to put back into the business. Not that I agree with mass layoffs since it has such a negative impact on so many peoples’ lives but did you see what happened to the stocks of companies like Google, Meta and Amazon after significantly trimming down their workforce? They went up a lot.

  • @MarksTournaments
    @MarksTournaments Месяц назад +1

    Dave, Racheal sucks 😂😂😂

  • @blackmailer26
    @blackmailer26 Месяц назад

    Pizza parties

  • @LizMcNamara47
    @LizMcNamara47 13 дней назад

    How awful for Dave to go behind his daughter back and talk to her husband! He is a control freak!

  • @siegfriedbraun5447
    @siegfriedbraun5447 2 месяца назад +2

    Is anyone surprised that this is PRECISELY what Donald Trump is doing, right now?

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 2 месяца назад +9

      No, and stop with the politics.

    • @maryannanderson2213
      @maryannanderson2213 2 месяца назад +1

      You and I are on the same wavelength.

    • @siegfriedbraun5447
      @siegfriedbraun5447 2 месяца назад

      @@jimroscovius sorry, how is linking two observable things, "politics"? It seems like your anger is misplaced.

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 2 месяца назад +1

      @siegfriedbraun5447 I'm not angry. I'm happy!!

    • @siegfriedbraun5447
      @siegfriedbraun5447 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jimroscovius then your snark is misplaced.

  • @mumejpatel7390
    @mumejpatel7390 10 дней назад

    Bruh dont do too much infront of truck drivers they switch up in a sec smoking a cigarette.😂😂