Jack Murphy's Masculinity Crisis
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- Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024
- Guess we've got a new meaning for "Murphy's Law".
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(Footnote written on date of uploading, Jan 22nd 2022: I expect I, Hypocrite to keep talking about me. I have said all I want to say about him in this video, and I don't intend on replying further. Let this be my statement if he keeps on talking about me in the future: "lol totally not mad bro")
>paying $100 a month to jack murphy when you could just watch Clint Eastwood westerns to increase your masculinity stat
>im le epic 4plebber greentexsting ooga booga teh meme pro longkat please yotsuba called m00tles homo desu~~~1!!
The good the bad the ugly..
Clint isn’t a particularly good example of masculinity in those movies. He’s a literal superhero.
@@Xplora213 Charles Bronson in the first Death Wish is a better example I would say.
@@autist4209 says the guy with an anime profile pic who thinks being edgy and then saying he hates white people and Americans will get him bitches
Person 1: "Hey, you know that guy who calls himself Short Fat Otaku?"
Person 2: "Yeah. What about him?"
Person 1: "He's short."
Person 2: "Yeah?"
Person 1: "And fat."
Person 2: "I imagine he's an otaku too."
Person 1: "Yeah, he's a total dork!"
Person 2: "OK, so?"
Person 1: "I'm going to tell the internet that he's a short fat dork! It's a sick burn!"
Person 2: "Very creative. He'll never see that coming."
I'm shocked, shocked! ...well, not that shocked.
That's why I respect that screen-name. The guy throws his short otaku gut on the table and says "go ahead, make fun of it. I find it funny to laugh at my shortcomings."
Better to make the jokes yourself, and use up all their low-hanging ammunition. Then stare them down when they realise you don't show weakness from their petty insults.
I'm looking too deep into it, and elongating the point, but I hope my point got across
“Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.”
Tyrion Lannister (Game of Thrones)
Just what I was thinking.
Wait... You are telling me that ShortFatOtaku is a short fat otaku ???
Next you are going to tell me that I, Hypocrite is an hypocrite !
Why yes, this floor is made of floor.
Nice!
Who does this "short fat otaku" guy think he is fooling with that descriptive channel name and avatar that looks just like him?
@@kevinwaddle447 Truly a master of deception.
holy shit guys, water is slippery as fuck
Lesson #1 for being a man - don't pay someone $100 a month to teach you how to be a man.
Except me, I'm cool and totally not a grifter. $99.99 for lesson #2.
$99.99? That’s a steal!
where do I sign?
Will you teach me how to get MY significant other to constantly cheat on and humiliate me, which will further degrade any semblance of masculinity I enjoyed while I pretend I’m in on it and I like it?!
@@pandavelli8176 Step 1: Lose all self respect.
Step 2: change your name to Jack Murphy, nature will sort it out from there.
Lesson #2, Dont read from the superchat when the warband invades your livestream.
Jack Murphy shouldnt be given the benefit of the doubt.
He is a grifter and the only reason he was so upset is because he got caught.
@@lostalone9320 the guy is a complete degenerate, it wasn’t a transitory part of his life where he learned something and grew from it, the caps behind the paywall on his grifter site proves as much.
Anyone that got scammed by him deserves it. He speaks with an upward intonation and literally talks like a gay man.
@@josermtz not sure if they deserve it, but they definitely shouldn't have given a hundred plus dollars for advice that's free online.
I love how these guys act like they have stoicism down to an art form, but the moment you bring up any cracks in their image they just melt down and start cussing at you like a fifth grader.
they are jews
Don't give up SFO, you can become SRO. Short, Ripped, Otaku.
Always remember: the body follows the mind.
Just lean up against a volleyball net with your shirt off. Instant 6pack
@@CoolPapaJMagik Trying this tomorrow
we’re all signing up to DUDE HEAVEN gym boys we’re gonna get ripped 💪
He has to stop considering meal times as durations of time you need to eat until the end of.
Selling a fake overpriced 'masculinity shortcut' to guys who are likely going through problems in life is so exploitative and dishonest. While masculinity is important, it requires a lot of discipline to achieve. Therefore, because people are different, it shouldn't 100% dictate what defines men as men (at least in my opinion). Jack dug his own grave by defining himself as something he wasn't.
I agree with that. Although there are generalities that can be applied to what a man should be (strong, capable, willing to analyze a situation before acting) those generalities can manifest in a lot of different ways.
Some people work out, some people seek financial status, some people sacrifice everything they have to help others. For example, if a man jumped on a grenade to save a school of children he'd likely spend the rest of his life physically weak living off a disability check but that one moment defined and embodied his manhood.
I think that true compassion and strength is built off of what we're willing to risk losing to help others. I don't think it makes you a man just to work out but if you work out specifically to make yourself more capable of protecting those around you it is a manly action.
One thing I've learned in life is that if a solution to a personal problem (like exercising, mental health or acting masculine) requires cash, it's probably a scam.
There is also a hidden intellectual dishonesty about selling yourself as "big dick energy high test alpha macho man" when in reality you're preying on vulnerable people, like they subtly admit to the fact thar they cannot genuinely compete with wits or skill because they don't actually have them so they settle for far less, completely counter to whar they're supposed to be.
@@SleepyMatt-zzz gym's are a scam by that definition also?
@@TheTeddyZerg Yeah, kinda. There's a lot you can do exercising at home with no special equipment.
Him “here my boundary, please don’t cross it”
Actually him: “fuck you fuck you fuck you”
Literally "Here's my boundary, it is the bonds of a relationship. Go ahead and cross it, I get off on being a bitch."
To paraphrase EmpLemon: "On top of all the problems of being an adult, you're also expected to be boring, so excuse me for not wanting to abandon my childlike sense of wonder."
Loved that
Jung would say that becoming an adult is necessary, you should focus on becoming good at something, and then after you try to rediscover yourself child to become whole, self-actualized
@@joaogarcia6170
Very similar to my conception of it, what I was thinking in response to the "anti-hobbies" portion was that a man does not eschew free time he *justifies* it with the rest of his life. Would anyone dare to mock Arnold Schwarzenegger if he was seen being rather silly and childish? Has he not earned that a thousand times over?
@@disappointedoptimist255 yep, life is fundamentally suffering because the natural condition of man is of absolute destitution, thus we labor so we can live reasonably comfortable lives and not become a parasite on others therefore creating wealth. Labouring leaves little time to hobbies so it's more of a consequence than a necessity, but my perspective is, especialize, work hard, find something that people will pay for, be savvy with your money, put together a good retirement fund and live the kind of life you want after. Of course this is just a rough estimation, but it's in the lines of what i believe, you shouldn't give up all fun but have enough to keep battling effectively.
@@joaogarcia6170 eh… IThis still seems a bit “anti-hobby” to me, because I’ve seen people have successful careers and time for their hobbies without needing to wait till retirement. Unless I’m misreading this or something.
This should be called Murphy's fallacy
*Murphy's phallusy
Technically his name is John Goldman
It's called the Streisand effect.
@@notimportant2290 actually that's another way to say 3 inches
An offshoot of _Murphy's Law,_ perhaps?
Jack Murphey: "this is such a nothing burger in my life."
Comparing this to his response doesn't make sense with this statement.
Indeed "the form of your argument contradicts its content" surely seems to apply here.
Impossible Whopper more like it
@@LeeroyPorkins ..and a side of fries.
Isn’t that kinda where the phrase comes from?
Van Jones described Russiagate as such while yelling about it on tv?
Backwards I know
It makes sense when you realize that he has a strong narcissistic personality component.
It makes them emotionally brittle when their facade is threatened.
And then they must re-rationalize it to everyone later, because they are horrified that their facade slipped.
I learned masculinity the hard way. My mother was single until I was 7, then my step dad was a hyper masculine abusive Christian fundamentalist. So I moved in with my grandma at age 13. My friends were goths, emos, punks, metal heads, and street kids. I learned to reject authority, cover up for other people's crimes, and drown my feelings with drugs and alcohol. But then I ended up homeless, and eventually in jail. I had to fend for myself. I had to toughen up or get bullied. So I toughened up. But I still didn't know how to be a man, because I didn't understand personal responsibility. Until I wanted to get off the drugs. It soon became clear that I either grow up, or stay stuck in addiction. I chose to grow up. I'm still learning. But I've kept a healthy relationship with the same woman for 3 years, I pay my rent and bills, I take care of my cat. I know I have a long ways to go. But being a man to me means facing your problems head on, being assertive when people try to step on you, standing up for what you stand for, and protecting those who are more vulnerable than you. But these traits could easily apply to a woman and it wouldn't take away her femininity. So what makes me distinctly masculine is my personality traits. What makes me a man is what makes anyone a responsible adult. I hope that makes sense.
'What makes me a man is what makes anyone a responsible adult. I hope that makes sense.'
It does
No, it doesn't. It is simply being a responisble human being and that should be cherished as that. Not Masculinity.
Damn, bros got the whole tragic anime backstory and everything 🗿
@@karthikbalamurugan7390
Nothing ever happens huh.
@@steellegion7054
What is masculinity then?
Masculinity isn't something you have to meditate over. Being a "real man" shouldn't be so hard for people. Stoicism, discipline, honor, integrity, that's not accessible for a few hundred dollars. Like all intangibles, it's from within. Being at peace with yourself and owning up to your past is what you need to do to be a real person. Not man or woman, just a healthy human being.
Good male role models are a lost art. Don't try to make it a commodity.
Compassion, too.
"Meditate" in the Bhuddist sense, maybe not, but those things-integrity, honor, discipline et al-take effort to instill and rarify. They're part of a method, not the end result, and if one strays from them it takes contemplation to figure out what happened and correct it.
@@gownerjones Compassion is a mother's job.
Well, its a by-product of fatherlessness. Why the fuck would young men need to learn how to be a man if they had an actual father to teach them shit. Single moms are a doomsday device.
@@gownerjones "Fairness" is more like it. You don't want to be that dad who'd ground your kid because you were a big ol' grump. Both compassion and fairness do need the same quality: understanding. Understand your kid, and the world in general, and apply it to a solid system of justice and morality. You are your child's first impression of authority, and so you want your child to properly function based on a rule system that is both just and understanding.
I find it hillarious how so many of these "alpha gurus" online keep saying "don't play video games" or don't do X. Most likely they have hobbies as well (watching sports, fixing cars, whatever), don't do your hobby because it is not as alpha as mine is the equivalent of 5 year olds arguing about who's dad is stronger. So alpha...
I think video games are fine as long as they don't eat into time for other things. As an old man, I get why my dad was so against games when I was young.
Playing video games is fine as long as you still make time to exercise, cook healthy meals, and find extra sources of income.
I wasted a lot of time playing games in college and "didn't have time" for things like working out or picking up an extra shift at work. I still play about two hours a week, but I spend more time working out and researching crypto and ETFs to invest in. My new hobbies are also good sources of exercise (competitive shooting, hiking, and snowboarding). I always had time for these things, but games got in the way. That was my fault, not the fault of the games though.
Sort of like living in a legal weed state. A little probably won't hurt you, but make sure it doesn't become an addiction.
Unless your hobby is having other men fuck your GF. That shit kinda gay.
@@HelghastStalker investing is high risk high reward. VOO and VUG have been doing over 9% for a year but that won't last forever.Crypto is in the toilet right now and that won't last either. Letting your savings sit in a money market account and gain 0.008% might be safe, but inflation is running rings around it.
@@HelghastStalker Don't ever try to be a finance coach bud. You have no idea what you are talking about. You'll only end up poor if you invest carelessly.
@@HelghastStalker Again. Depends on how you do it. If you want to invest in something be sure to actually learn how that works and start with smaller and more manageable risks.
I can't stand when he says "why are you doing this to me?" She didn't do this to you Jack, you did this.
FACTS
@Sean M yep.
Manly boundaries one shouldn't cross is threatening to attack his kids, loved ones, etc. not insulting his shitty articles.
Exactly. The reaction was in line with other sjw reactionaries.
Dude who watches people fuck his misses and fucks his own ass with dildos on webcam, while he is obviously allowed to do whatever he wants between consenting adults, he doesn't then get to tell people how to be masculine and manly. It's 100% bitch behaviour.
Talking while fishing
I remember watching one of I hypocrite's videos about incels. In it he told a story on how he used to be a nerd who played chess and video games but stopped doing that so he would appear more attractive to women. He frames this story like it's a good thing, even though it's basically a story about giving up doing the things he likes so he can get the attention of shallow women. Which to me sounds like somthing a insecure beta would do.
If you're dating a woman who would leave you for enjoying a game that she doesn't enjoy, you're dating a really shallow woman. I pity anyone that gives up on doing the things they like just to hang on to a relationship.
Honestly, I learned that women will be naturally attracted to someone with strong conviction. Keeping and honing your hobbies are probably the easiest way of showing this, and not once does it require wanting or even considering a fembot's feelings on the manner
Cope harder. Nerd shit is highly unattractive to women, so if you don't want to end up a genetic dead end you need to change unfortunately. Life and human nature is what it is.
@@torrasque0151 That's just untrue. If you only know women who are repulsed by 'nerdy' hobbies, then you don't know many good women.
@@torrasque0151 ah yes the all knowing winnie the pooh has blessed us with his wisdom.
"His name is ShortFatOtaku? I bet he's short and fat! Haha!"
Sick burn there, Hypocrite. Well done. *Clap*
Oh my god, someone described themselves accurately! I can surely "win" by saying they're correct!
Especially ironic from an individual with the handle “I, hypocrite”…
Seriously. What an a-hole. You can see the insecurity oozing out of his face.
He should change his name to Obvious, Hypocrite
@@Snakedude4life I did catch that as well.
Maximum cope XD
Being a man isn't about not caring. It's about only caring about what is truly important in your life, which will be different for everybody
"Being a man" really just translates to "have others respect you." Who's respect do you care about? If no one's then you'll do whatever you want. If it's someone or some group instead then they'll be your daddy and you'll jump through little hoops to please them.
There's hardly anything masculine about being uncaring.
“I answered it politely”
“Fuck you! Heartfelt!”
He's saying he said it politely *before* but he actually didn't. Edit: actually he did say it nicely but he didn't warn her about it. I misremembered. See comment below
If you watch the episode of "You Are Here" that he was on, he actually DID answer the question politely the first time - I don't remember exactly what he said, but it was along the lines of "yeah, I wrote that, but I'm 180 degrees away from that now". But his "claim" that he warned Sydney? If he did, I didn't catch that, either. It was too subtle. When someone else asked the same thing later on, he SHOULD have said "Asked and answered" or "I already answered that" or something equivalent. It was his HUGE overreaction that started this whole thing. Everybody watching basically just thought "What the hell just happened???" and then felt the need to find out!
@@kateshiningdeer3334 oh yeah you're right I misremembered it
"You know what would spice up my sex life? Make my girlfriend cheat one me!"
-- Mack Jurphy
If they were real men, they'd play video games and play beer pong with their mates and not care if someone thought they were acting childish because real masculinity can hold itself up even in the face of scrutiny. Honestly they kind of have similar ideas of Traditional gender roles to terminally online "UwU too cute" trans people
True Wisdom brother
I've stumbled across a few of Tim's episodes with this dude on it, where I didn't know what his deal was, or who he even was, but he's a "masculininity guru???"
Lol, he's the least masculine person on that podcast.
Same. I learned of Murphy after the chaos, and not before.
I, Hypocrite living up to his name unironically. Disappointing, but we're all human. Still...
Dev really got me there, I really thought with that name there would be some awesome hypocritic reply from the guy made in jest. Then he goes ballistic like that, lol.
What gets me is how Jack was so adamant he didn't care and how this was all just a minor annoyance...And then he proceeded to lose his fucking shit and go off the deep end over it.
Yep
XD
the 'masculinity guru' types are con men 99.99% of the time. The only 2 people I can think of that have a positive influence on men are Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson. They don't beg you for money though and they have the behavior to back up what they say.
peterson & rogan are bad examples
@@TheDashingRogue why
Just watch some good old Clint Eastwood Films. Now you have a clear idea of what is masculinity.
@@TheDashingRogue in my defense, I'm not a man so yeah 🤷🏻♀️ the best person will always be a male family figure but I figured they'd do if a guy didn't have one
@@ethanhinton4549 peterson & rogan are junkies. peterson fail to stop bill c17 & peterson took tim learys job at harvard after learys death. Rogan is a biproduct of the drug culture of the 1960s.
Jack is one of those guys that makes up stories about how much he used to beat people up in high school when they messed with him then you find out he spent half his time in a locker or with his head in a toilet.
So joe biden.
And liked being the toilet
Anyone who says "In order to be a REAL MAN you need to throw away your hobbies, likes, personality, and anything else that makes you weak in the eyes of others" Is in the complete and total thrall of the opinions of other people. That is a sad existence, and I don't think "Real men" spend much time caring about how other people perceive them, at least not more than how they perceive themselves. It's like the old saying goes "A real man doesn't drink his coffee black, he drinks it however he pleases" The phrase "Sigma male" Comes to mind but that's also been turned into a buzzphrase coping mechanism.
They don't. My dad is the manliest person I've ever met. 15 years as a Ranger and a Green Beret; he was in Mogadishu for Black Hawk Down. 20 years as an industrial electrician. Golden gloves boxer. Been hired as a hunting guide. Just the picture of masculinity.
The man listens to Taylor Swift on the way to work. He mixes Pina Coladas and cosmopolitans to unwind. And you know what? He's never given a flying fuck what anyone thinks about it. If you're a real man then you know it and nobody else's opinion matters.
a real man would solve all his problems with a rock. like our ancestors did
Anyone who tells you you must take something harmlessness away from you to be better is not someone you must listen.
That includes hobbies, goals, wealth, or bonds.
The only things you must take away from you are self destructive habits such as excessive use of recreational substances (only the excess, not the substances), or self injury.
@@colinsanders9397 your dad sounds cool.
@@thefool8224 we do. Our computers are, at their core, minerals.
This pettiness is what we see in online games, when we smack talk our teammates for "throwing," when we have more control on our own experience than we think. That is a real part of growing up though, growing to be independent and to take our own responsibilities. It is normal and healthy to be frustrated over an issue, or embarassed about our past; but we need to adapt and move on.
Reeee it's my team's fault I'm hardstuck in gold!!1
@@robertasvaicius4437 lol, L.o.L.
I have a recent experience with this I was playing with a group of randoms on tarkov and one of them was getting really petty with me everytime I died or you know died myself. Anyway it ended when this guy went to go loot something in an open field and got sniped. He blamed me for not spotting and killing the sniper from 200m away with a pistol caliber and that was the last straw for me I said politely that I play games to have fun not get scolded like it's a job had to stop playing with that group
@@terellcase9231 Everyone blames teammates but attitudes differ based on elo. The higher you go the more focused people are on actually tryharding and winning than they are on spilling their ego. The difference between a challenger players mentality and say a grandmasters in league of legends, is very noticeable even though it's very close elo ranges. Same sht applies to csgo and tarkov i think.
GET CAUT OR THROW!!!
XD
Jokes XD
Imagine being a man and not loving your dog to hell and back. I have no idea about babies, but I presume even manly men love them too.
men in general are pretty good with kids. We have to be, as biologically we're suppose to help take care of them. Society has made that near impossible though, with the rampant Fear that men are going to do something terrible to children or that they aren't equipped to really do more then 'Baby-sit' occasionally. When a father can't take his own girls to a park without drawing the stink eye from mothers there, you know society has a problem.
Want to be "manly"?
Get a hobby. Men have hobbies, no matter how corny they may seem, and your passion for that thing translates to finding friends and even finding partners
Napoleon Dynamite was unironically spot on when he said "Chicks dig guys with skills." When my wife tells people about what attracted her to me when we first started dating she always brings up how excited I was for souping up nerf blasters. To this day I have no idea how or why that worked in my favor, but it did.
@@elindred learning about another person's interests and hobbies helps you grow closer to them. And its often something the two of you can enjoy together. Plus, I think most women are attracted to intelligence and passion in general, and showing off a hobby that you have spent a lot of time on can showcase both. Even if its something like nerf guns, haha
@@jamesmcdonnell2455 I think it's more the passion you have for something, as opposed to the hobby itself
People admire people who are driven, I guess is the point
WEVE GOT ONE THAT CAN SEE!
@@jamesmcdonnell2455 playing minecraft got me laid, lol
I'm a father, husband, business owner, disabled combat veteran paratrooper. I also like anime, video games, terrible movies, goofy fun with my friends and kids, and cute animals.
These 'alpha grindset' types have never done anything important or meaningful and are looking for manhood in all the wrong places.
You are absolutely right, and as the daughter of an Air Force vet, thank you for your service! I DO think that serving really DOES provide a good place to "grow up" - That's what my Dad has always said, and who he is demonstrates that to me. He knew he wasn't ready for college, so he picked a 4-year stint in the military. When he got out, he had useful skills and was ready for college in ways he never thought he would be. It was one of about 4 or 5 things in his life that utterly changed who he has become.
The manliest thing I've ever done was running a one shot Twilight 2013 (post 1980's nuclear war rpg) game for a handful of SEALs while we were stuck at an airport in Ghazni. I ran it like WWZ, set it in Gahzni, and these SF dudes wanted to play the weiniest military characters. One of my fondest memories.
@@HelghastStalker most dudes I served with were into things like Warhammer 40k, retro fighter games, anime (mostly shonen), old crappy scifi movies, etc. It's almost like they had nothing to prove...
@@francavable Shonen is like the manliest form of media out there. It's right up there with 80s action movies like predator and video games like devil may cry or quake.
@@saisameer8771 Yeah, it's pretty damn manly. I'm a fan, for sure.
“When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”
― C.S. Lewis
Great quote,
Commenting to please the algorithm
Not always a fan of C. S. Lewis, but that's pretty based. Masculinity and maturity are two of those things that you damage the more you try to force them. There are several different men out there I consider examples of what it means to be a good man. They differ greatly in their hobbies and beliefs, but what they all have in common is honesty, strong principles, and the wisdom to know when and when not to show vulnerability. By not clinging to some sort of superficial aesthetic of what a "big manly man" is, you actually become a lot harder to tear down.
Jack Murphy is such a lol cow treasure trove that we all happened to stumble upon by accident. I bet things only get funnier the more we look into it
His whole career has been exposed. He’s a fraud. Compete fraud and it’s not even the “gigaChad alpha male” shit.
You mean he's like those crazy people who keep trying to bring up the gamergate who usually are female and one who is actually a dude who's trying to be a woman.
TBH he strikes me as a horrorcow in the making, and that's just from this video. Narcissist with a victim complex and a fragile ego.
-Dev retweets ihipocrit*
Ihipocrit: "the attempt on my life has left me scared.. and deformed"
The peak of masculinity runs away like a child and nurses his hurt feelings
This video really hit a surprisingly deep and impactful point. This will be a long comment so totally get if you don't read it, it's more cathartic for me. The start of this video is standard Jack Drama commentary. I've everyone talk about this but you tend to have interesting takes that I enjoy from time to time. However, you hit the nail on the head with the ending with the Man-o-sphere movement doing what I describe as wishing to be a robot. I'm dyslexic and consistent productivity is a struggle for me. I can work it large spirts but the day to day is crippling to me, explains a bit why I was so terrible in school and college. I wished so much to be a robot, waking up early, immediately being productive, and working hard until the end of the day. Where from working so hard I'd be satisfied and pass out just to do it again. I blamed a lack of will power, I was too weak. So I thought like working out I just needed to strengthen this mental muscle until I was a literal machine. I joined the Marine Corp for many reasons but one of them was the hope they would turn me into a productive successful robot. I was the closest to my robot ideal right after boot camp. I still do believe boys should push past their limits finding what they can achieve when they put everything into bettering yourself. You will never know you Limits until you push past them again and again. However there is a fundamental downside to all this hyper productive hyper masculine taking the world on your shoulders mentality. You are painfully fragile, like a diamond you feel strong and invulnerable, but hit the right point or the right frequency and you shatter into dust. One small event in my Career in the Marine Corp shatter my trust so overwhelmingly it took me 5 years to dig myself out of the pit of despair I fell into. As a "Man" you need to find balance, hobbies give your brain relief allow you to refocus and improve, when traumatic moments hit you, you are so rigid and immovable you break, instead like a palm tree you flex and roll with the punches.
Thank you
Well said.
I've spent the last 7 years unable to work, the last 2 years unable to use my arms, the last 6 months unable to use my voice, because I pushed myself too far past my limits. I think I was similar to how you were, thought I needed to just stop being lazy. Been a real learning experience.
Excellent comment. Pin this Dev!
I've been there too bro, one of the biggest things I've come to terms with over the past few years is that I'm not productive in the "normal", plink away at something for 8 hours then do it again tomorrow, way.
I used to think I was just stupid/lazy for not being able to work like that, and ran myself ragged chasing after it. After working in the professional space for a while I've realised that my typical workflow is bursts of intense productivity followed by being unable to focus, but I'm still getting the same amount of work done as my co-workers who go at a steady pace through the day.
The biggest thing for me has been to just remind myself that it's okay to have prolonged unproductive time as long as I still get everything done and meet my deadlines; I earn the "slacking off" in exchange for working 4-6 hours hyper-focused and on task.
Naturally there's a fine line there between procrastination and recovery, but everyone has to work through that regardless of their personal workflow.
Keep on keepin on homie, and remember to be as kind and understanding of yourself as you are to your pals ♥
So early the video hasn't even finished processing.
The video says 12 seconds ago, but your comment says 1 minute.
How do you time travel
So early Devs still laughing at his own thumbnail
@@henrycarolan990 Dev posted the link on twitter before it was done processing.
SFO: Does a retweet with no comment
I, Hypocrite: "And I took it personally."
So disappointing. I like his posts but my god does he seem insecure.
Jack Murphy and the Ligma order.
Who's Jack Murphy?
Whats Ligma?
Wow, I didn't think I hypocrite would be such a big girl's blouse at being ribbed.
“Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.” ― C.S. Lewis
really a good quote, if you're perturbed by how others view you you already lost.
That's a man to look at
The way Murphy says "amused mastery" like he's talking about using a pokimon move. Dude was always a BETA.
I'll see your "amused mastery" and play my "surprised pikachu"
lol
To summarize most masculine channels or coaches:
1. Will tend to talk about self-betterment with the end goal of sex.
2. Will tend to place pictures of attractive women in their thumb nails.
3. Will tend to promote a product of some kind which costs way too much.
4. Will not make you a better moral man, instead more of a hedonist.
If you wish to know the steps to being a man:
1. Seek constant self-improvement, towards a defined end goal. I'm a Christian, so my end goal is to be like Christ.
2. Pick yourself up when you fall off the path.
3. Know when to give up and start something else.
4. For further information, read "IF" by Rudyard Kipling.
Attaboy. 😤😤💪🏻💪🏻✊🏻💯
OK Boomer.
@@marflebark2865 ❄️
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I like your words!
Dev asserted dominance by telling his dad, "You take your shoes off when you enter my home!"
hah I ACTUALLY DID
ah, yes, "setting limits" just like a man does.
"OMG, the guy called shortfatotaku is both short and fat and like anime/games."
I fail to see how that I.hypocrite guy on the stream was able to think that it was an attack on you to point those out. You've owned your physical shortcomings and as such practically render yourself immune to that angle of attack.
I,Hypocrite is well known for being a dense pseud who just says shit without to think
You mean John Goldman's Masculinity Crisis.
Quintessential shapeshifter.
Jack Murphy is exactly the kind of person you should not get advice from. Because his views and actions are inconsistent and he avoids the inconsistency instead of clarifying it.
Many mocked Peterson for failing to live up to his own standards, and he acknowledged it.
Murphy just exploded on his interlocutors.
Being inconsistent happens. Dodging one's inconsistency, however, is just wrong.
And you can give advice on being a strong and dominant man while being thin skinned and liking what Murphy likes, unless you admit you failed your own standard.
Acknowledging your faults and issues are the first steps to overcoming them. Peterson did, Murphy did not.
Peterson also only let his standards slip because he was going through a rough time (family health issues and such). He was still a hypocrite, but only because he wasn't able to be his best during a difficult time in his life, _and_ he owned up to it.
Like wounds, character needs to be treated, if you want it to be good. Just covering the necrotic festering wound with wraps is a quick way to end yourself.
At the end of the day everyone is inconsistent with their views from time to time. It's always about having enough self-awareness to recognize it and grow from it. Jack simply threw a fit claimed he "apologized afterward" which doesn't line up with the evidence at hand, then continually lied and made this so much bigger than he needed to. He literally made more work for himself, when he could've just addressed it and it would've just been done and over with. He isn't a man, a man would deal with their problems instead of running from them, a child runs from their problems.
You all are correct in your replies. It is all about context and reaction.
His beard was so immaculate it basically struck me as an insecure projection unto itself.
when you're bald and have no chin/jawline, you need to create something that looks masculine. lucky for him, there were enough right genes for the beard.
"I don't know why everyone is so butthurt" Ohhhhhhhhh momma the weapons grade irony of using that term after what we now know and can never unsee from him. What an absolute clown he is! Watching the Jack Murphy heteroflexible trainwreck was spectacular. I had no clue who that goofball was before this drama.
Watching Jack behave that way is the most cringe shit I've ever seen. I'm a 150lb nerd and I know that's not how a "real man" acts.
Being a man is not about physicality. It's about character, principles, and being a good person.
You say if it was too skinny.
I wish I was 150 lmao
Conor McGregor is 6' and about 150
"I thought he was kind of a weasel"
"So I blocked him"
Damn didn't know he renamed to I, rony
“I don’t understand why you’re talking about this. You are making yourself look bad in front of our mutuals”
- Jack Murphy (Sent from Matt from Tinder’s phone)
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🐍 no step on Snek! 🇺🇸🇭🇰
I've always seen the pickup artist segment of the manosphere as a complete joke. I'm surprised we haven't had more lolcows like Murphy come out of that space yet. Make sure to maintain frame, and wash with the pheromone soap!
On a more serious note, the observation that these are all highly insecure guys is very true. In the same way that incels define themselves by their lack of masculinity, and female validation, PUAs define themselves by their self-proclaimed masculinity, and female validation. Only someone very concerned about such things would do that; an actually confident man doesn't, since he's not constantly questioning himself. Just as you described, this is something I had to learn through habit.
I can't help but remember one time when I would regularly sit near a guy who was kind of a simp. He spoke quite loudly, so I'd inevitably hear his conversations. One day he was trying to make a move on a woman talking about how he'd learned that women are attracted to confident, and assertive guys, and how and why that is. "So that's why I'm like, really, like, confident, and like, assertive, y'know? *nervous laughter*. I struggle to imagine many ways to show less self-confidence.
There have been, most of them tend to drop off the internet when they see that people have figure out who they are like that guy who was publically comparing ladies to horses
Yeah, I remember watching Gavin McInness. Some of the stupidest shit I have ever heard come out of someone's mouth. Saw Roosh and saw him go Cu-Cukoo for Coco Puffs. Honestly, being "red-pilled" was just a fad like being a Rad-Fem for some girls.
Anyone whose still a pua after metoo is just insane.
Murphy seems like a massive ragist
He's on roids and testosterone therapy which explains a lot.
Ihyprocrite really got into his feminine side
His behaviour shown here was extremely bitch-made...... lol
Im a tradesman and i go through a large number of teenagers as their first job. Its tough to teach and instill them with positive masculine traits.
Almost all of them have a friend's relationship with their parents. The father relationship is described very modern and effete.
The conversation of ultimate responsibility (although i didnt have that frame until the SfO video about it) ive used to try and help them mature into strong young men.
I only see a few that use the manosphere as their representation of what a true man is. It's never a positive experience because they take the most extreme traits of the thinking without any of the nuance. They dont have the life experience to protect themselves from it.
I feel like Hank Hill constantly put of place in a changing world. But i do my best to be a positive influence.
Thanks for being a good role model for kids in these crazy times.
dude, screw you with that profile pic. I went mad trying to unselect it.
And like Hank Hill your doing your part. Respect
When you realize Hank Hill was the hero we needed all along...but seriously though keep up the good work, the older we get the more responsible we are to teach them what we've learned the hard way.
Everyone is so "butthurt". That's hilarious 😂
I don't believe Jack regrets what he did, I think that's who he really is.
A dude
When public people reinvent themselves, is it always a cope?
He regrets getting caught as it affects his grift
His major coping. He'll switch over to blackpill soon enough.
@@SubtleStair In his case, it is. He got caught with his pants down, and rather than using this to explain why he does what he does now for instance, he acted like a 12 year old in a MW2 lobby when his killstreak got broken. Dev was right. Had he just been honest about it from the beginning and weathered the initial teasing, he'd come out of it relatively unscathed. But in doing what he actually did, he destroyed both his reputation and his career. This wasn't even cancel culture, he did this to himself. And he'll just go down as another concrete example of the Streisand effect in action.
This guy is like the real life equivalent of that meme where a girl has someone say "hey!" at them, and then posts a video about how they got abused in the street XD
I cant get over what a steady and reasonable person FSO is.
true. i don’t always agree with his takes, but i can be assured that what he has to say will be well thought out and, as you said, reasonable. even when he’s dealing with personal attacks. i know I would have to sit calmly for like a day before i’d be able to talk about that kind of stuff with others so calmly, but this dude does it on the regular
You mean like a real alfa?
@@gato2 alfalfa male
Ah yes, good ol' FortShatOtaku
@@Warmaka Fort Shat is what I call my secret underground sewer base
This is the most level headed take on this madness so far
Being a man doesn't mean you need to give up being a child, it just means you have to earn it.
"This is such a NOTHING burger in my life..."
*Ruins his career and his life*
As always, another great take from *SmallThiccWeeb.*
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@ShortFatOtatu, why is the video's quality regressed to mid 2000s quality?
Why did you change the definition of cuck to match you
You know, you kinda do weasel around Otaku, maybe it's just your nature...
13:40 he's right. Your action to post that was viewed as a hostility. Because you run a channel and need to wrangle your intellectoomer fanbase bro.
"But Jesus answered, 'It is written: Man shall not live on bread alone...' " - Matthew 4:4. As long you moderate indulgence, and deny self destructive behaviors, there isn't any reason you can't play videogames.
What is this? Motivational video?
Jack Murphy was smart enough to find niche markets for the liberal to cuckservative convert and the masculinity coach. His mistake was not making sure his facade could stand up to even the lightest scrutiny which is odd because he made sure to label his subscription as a networking group rather than outright calling it a coaching sub. You'd think someone like that would be smart enough to have a plan when his easy to find past came up or make that past wouldn't come up.
Real masculine role models are sought out. If you have to hustle and sell yourself, that's pretty much a dead giveaway for a grifter
Anybody who utters the words “hustle” “grind” or “side hustle” is either a rube or a grifter/carpetbagger/scam artist
@@TheSunderingSea I'm out here hustling
@@TheSunderingSea While I would GENERALLY agree with you on that, I have to somewhat disagree because of two SPECIFIC things -
"Grind" is something you do in video games, and also part of the phrase "the daily grind", so if you grew up with either gaming (back in the days when grinding was real) or in a family who used the phrase, you may think in that way yourself.
I also disagree about "side hustle", as this is often used to describe a "second job" that is different in type than your first one. In SFO's case, you could describe THIS channel as his "work", and the gaming channel as his "side hustle", because he DOES get some money from streaming it, but it's not his primary means of support.
You often see women, in particular, refer to their "side hustle" when they either work "a regular job" (in whatever field) during work hours or are stay-at-home moms (which really IS a full-time job, whether modern society sees it that way or not.) Both of these groups tend to either sell something (like clothing, candles, or kitchen equipment) in their "off hours" or blog or make crafts or craft patterns to bring in extra cash. In both cases, the phrase "side hustle" is legitimate because it really IS "beside" their regular job, and isn't the primary means of income earning, but IS a supportive means to make extra money. This is especially true of "creative types" who need that outlet for their creativity anyway.
RUclips chat be havin no grind lol get yo weak ass out. . . .🏃🏾♂️
This is the inevitable end point of the nihilism that was so happily cultivated in the red pill community. I'm grateful for being aware of the ideas that started there it helped me dodge some serious bullets in my life and end up with an amazing wife. but those ideas are much better discussed with someone who has a life affirming conclusion as their end goal for you.
I'd argye that the red pillers merely accepted the nihilism of post modernism.
Great video Dev. Really hits the nail on the head about how fragile the “manosphere” feels to me
Much lower than the atmosphere
CLOSER TO THE MANTLE
XD
It's men who didn't have positive male role models in their lives, trying to sell a fairy tale version of masculinity.
At least I, Hypocrite got the name right.
I believe the most important part of masculinity is the last line said “and I’m not giving up”. You fight when you need to fight, run when you need to run, stand alone or with a group when necessary but you don’t ever give up.
I also don’t think these guys understand that being the leader of the pack means you bleed first when danger comes. Definitely not yelling at a lady without explaining yourself.
I had followed I, Hypocrite for a bit for the same reasons you did, but when he reacted that way and did a segment on you JUST off a retweet with no added comment from you, I had to unfollow. What an insecure baby.
It was because he's being compared to a masculinity Guru and he isn't.
It's like he just said shortfatOtaku is a cuck Guru it doesn't make it true if he just said it
Bro, how in the hell is screaming 'fuck you' at a girl for making a joke alpha? This dude's clearly never been in a fight in his life, like, you point you finger at me and yell 'fuck you', those are fighting words, my guy, we going outside to resolve the issue. This video's got the same vibe to me as those of the crazy chicks assaulting dudes cause they know they can't really fight back.
Yeah, I stopped liking I, Hypocrite after he got pissy at Sean Fitzgerald because he misunderstood what Sean was saying in a stream
ShortFatOtaku is short, fat, and otaku; huh, who would've thought?
That's not a good thing
@@basedbrit4206 And you know what's even worse? Being an insecure, emasculated boy like Jack Murphy or I, Hypocrite.
I recently learned that Murphy was around on the Red Pill forums a few years ago. He seems to (ab)use some of the concepts still (e.g. amused mastery and the fixation on boundaries) but at the core the Red Pill philosophy is fundamentally incompatible with the TradCon values when it comes to your sex life.
When you try to grift both spheres you're bound to run into problems.
If his political development had led him from one worldview to another - both would require you to own your sexuality.
I’m reminded of the interactions between Tywin Lannister and Joffrey Baratheon. Tywin never once declared himself an Alpha or anything of the like, but when he walked into a room, you just KNEW he was in charge. Compare this to Joffrey, who, in the council chamber, whined like a little bitch that people weren’t hanging off his every word.
“I am the King!” Joffrey would whine.
“Any man who must declare ‘I am the King’ is no true king.” Answered Tywin.
The wisdom of life experience. Thats what the alpha males do for the younger ones. They pass on that experience so those men can do good within their own lives.
As someone who watches i,hyporcite...i was super surprised he mentioned you on his stream and it left a sour taste no lie...i was like "dude, my boy sfo makes good videos and knows how to articulate himself 😦 why are you dissing him?!"
12:00 Damn, being called a weasel by the Nostalgia Critic...This a new height for the channel Dev!
Wait, so the guy whose handle is "I, Hypocrite," who said, "...People wouldn't get so extremely pressed if this wasn't touching on something," gets buttmad when someone points out he used to be an average consoomer?
Holy fuck, this is an inescapable vortex of irony. Can this guy please come up with an even more insecure response? I think we could really break some new ground here if he can take it a step further.
In other threads on this video, I've been describing that guy's masculinity as a paper fortress. And he's so afraid of it being knocked over, because his only real defense for those paper walls and the cardboard foundation is the trebuchet. So he goes full YEET mode when the slightest perceived threat comes into view. That's how he responded to SFO.
Huh 50 years of Feminism and 39 years of Inflation at it's highest. Let's not forget that the last time more men graduated from College than women was oh 1982. Oh well Feminism has consequences and right now we have 3 generations of both men and women who have no idea how to raise a family where raising a family is the most expensive in 100 years.
MGTOW and Feminism are two sides of the same coin.
Blaming the other side for their shortcomings.
@@1SpicyMeataball Yeah, if both sides would just try the totally never-before-heard idea of "Being Responsible For Your Actions", both would disappear overnight.
@@1SpicyMeataball Oh please, show me the mgtow lobbies, marches, and government grants. We were censored and deplatformed EVERYWHERE. MGTOW is NOTHING like the hegemonic oligarchy pf feminism.
10:40 I think what a lot of these types miss is that yes, masculine figures do tend to give these things up, but only because they are fathers and no longer have as much time for their hobbies. And even then, they don't give up on all of those things. Only some.
It's way more nuanced than something being "childish". It's more about moderation. If you're a dad and skipping out on helping your kids with something to play video games, there's obviously a problem. But if you're a dad and you spend some time playing games with the kids, what's the difference between that and watching a movie with them or something like that? It's all a balancing act. There are definitely men out there who go overboard with their hobbies, but quitting those hobbies entirely isn't the answer. The answer is moderation.
"When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up."
--C. S. Lewis
The reason why comments like the tweet referenced in the video don't bother me either? Because this quote represents one of my philosophies. Being "grown up" or manly does not mean you must put away childish things, or shirk away from the effeminate. It simply means you should be moderate; as the saying goes: Moderation in all things, even moderation.
It was a meltdown of notable proportions.
Running around reminding people you are “alpha” is a sure sign you aren’t.
Pretending “alpha” is actually a thing is a sure sign you don’t know how to be a man.
Whatever happened to being a gentleman and honorable individual?
A man that reacts to his past havent let it go completly.
Testostrone overdoze is bad for your health.
It also increases estrogen.
Not even kidding, look it up.
I, Hypocrite really proved his namesake, didn't he?
The irony of _I,Hypocrite_ throwing a hissy fit over being called out for being _a hypocrite_ is one thing.
But immediately going on the offensive by calling *SHORT. FAT. OTAKU.* ; fat and wearing a nerdy t-shirt, as if he doesn't realise how he presents himself‽
My brother in Christ, wtf were you thinking?
I Hypocrite goes on how guys shouldn't be playing video games and yet all his vids use old school video game footage and he even recently posted a photo on his twitter of him and his kid.... while he's holding a ps4 controller lol
I watch Tim Pool from time to time. From the first time I saw and heard Jack Murphy I didn't believe him for one second. I knew there was something phoney about him. Feels good to be proven right, especially because I'm wrong a lot lol
"Yeah, I'm getting rainbow vibes" -- Drex
@@MephiticMiasma You know, it's funny. I'm usually pretty good at spotting those "rainbow vibes" but I didn't pick up on JM's until AFTER this debacle. And now I can't "unsee" it - Every time I watched a clip of him AFTER that, it's so clear! Weird, for sure.
IHypocrite sounds like Bobcat Goldthwait on downers.
1:59 How Jack should have responded: Yeah that makes sense. I reacted extremely poorly to this situation and regardless of my personal feelings I should not have reacted like that towards her. I wish that I had been better and completely and totally apologize to her for my conduct in that instance.
His name is NOT Jack Murphy.
His name is Jack Goldman.
I heard it was Goldstein
Overlooked comment. His name is John Goldman, but think about how manly this guy is if he has to basically steal another real man's identity.
John Goldman is the pinnacle of betadom
Well, at least I, Hypocrite lived up to his handle.
I love the idea that every time a RUclipsr reads this article, somewhere in the world the vein on manly man Jack Murphey's head begins to pulsate.
I'm so comfortable with myself as a man that I cry like a little bitch if someone says otherwise.
Oh yeah I, Hypocrite blocks everyone who argues with him. EVERYONE. I’ve been there