Father of two 28 year old special needs twins here. My son is the most afflicted, much like your son. Have long worried about he Hell he is likely to encounter when me and my wife are gone. Enjoyed your words here tonight. A very wise person, I call her my wife, has always told me to look at it this way, “You’ll get to experience a lot of things in life others don’t get to experience. Some will be not so pleasant, but some will be gifts! You will be living a fuller life than most. Grow from it!” It’s hard at times, but a much better outlook than always going to the dark places. Live on brother….LOVE your content and that much of it includes Wesley.
Hey Jim - fellow dad to a disabled kiddo here (including seizures). It's a heck of a journey! Seeing Wesley out on your big trips is a huge inspiration.
I'm with you, Jim. As a 70-year-old man, who was crippled from polio at the age of 3, I think you're on the right path. Thanks to great parents, and supportive brothers & sisters, I never went down the "oh, woe is me" trail. I simply accepted the reality of my condition and made the best of it. I never said "I can't do this or I can't do that." Instead I asked myself, "CAN I do that?" Then gave it a shot. Sometimes I failed. But often I succeeded. And even when I did fail - at first - I could often find, or invent, a work-around. This allowed me to do a lot of things that other people thought that I couldn't do. Like hunting, and camping, and racing go-karts. I rode motorcycles for a few years back in my late 20's. And I even managed to earn a pilot's license in 2011. If I had listened to the nay-sayers I probably would never have tried most of the things I've done. The point is, don't put pre-conceived limits on yourself or Wesley. And don't let anyone else do that to you, either. You never know what you're capable of until you try. That's different for each person and each situation, so just keep the lights shining bright and plow ahead.
Went on the same path with our son. He was years behind learning to talk and walk. You just appreciate them for the gifts they bring to your family, and the things you learn about yourself like patience and humility. Should be a Ted Talk.
@@kilroy776. Very wise words from life! I too can attest to the philosophy and proud I do not quite! Thank you, reminders are needed. Just like the shampoo bottle instructions, “repeat if neccesary” and yes, to repeat of positive thoughts are good!
Lost my son Kyle at 16, auto accident. I now have cancer,and have been thru all the treatments at the Mayo. Your words ring trrue and don't ever stop ok. Ppl like. Me. Really Need Them.😅❤
Thanks Jim, I didn't know how to help my daughter with her depression. She has been going through a very painful and incurable disease for the past two years and it has left me drained watching her try to cope. Your words will go far in helping her and me. Thanks again.
I cried when you talked about Wesley saying "Mama" and reaching out and there she was, progress for sure. You know Jim, most people don't have it in them to overcome "Serious" adversity, it's true..but the mindset is the most important, either negative or positive it produces what you sow. Your ability to face adversity and share the path to overcoming it is truly unique and inspiring. All of these things make you grow in oh so many ways that will not only help Wesley, Mom & Huddy but awesome canoe trips in the future, can't wait. Stay the course & keep your paddle wet !
Could not sleep, 3 am in Austria, full of negative thoughts and there you come around the corner! Had a cup of tea and now I will dream about going on an adventure instead 😊
Thank you for sharing your experiences on dealing with Wesley's disability. Thinking positive for the future equals power in the present. That's powerful. You and Tori are wonderful examples for both Wesley and Hudson. The experiences they have being out in nature on the adventures that you go on as a family are bound to have a positive effect on the boys. Maybe more so than you may imagine. So good to hear that Wesley said "Mama". That is so encouraging.
I watch your videos and documentaries all the time and this is by far the most heartfelt one I have ever seen. It brings us to an experience and understanding that makes us feel we are part of your adventures and journeys. Looking forward to your next adventure.
I believe your viewers are proud of you and Tori and stand behind you for staying your course. You will continue to be blessed for the love and parenting you are pouring into your children. Well done.
I would like to thank you for this video. You addressed an issue that every viewer thinks about. You and Tori are are wonderful family and are blessed with two wonderful boys. I recently saw a quote that went something like this…..you can’t change the past, you can not predict the future, so use today to do something positive! I think you expressed that in this video. Thanks for sharing this very personal insight into you family.
Well said Jim.My mother lived as a quadriplegic the last 23years of her life & she taught us to never give up faith she lived a good life & never complained about her situation.So I never thought of her with a disability we just had to do things differently. You have a beautiful family take life one day at a time. 🙂🇨🇦❤🙏
Hi Jim. Yeh I know kinda how it feels to have those dark feeling. I take care of my wife of 36 years . At one time she could to squats with me on her back , now due to diabetes she's been bed ridden for 4 years now. I have to stay positive about it. I love her.
Jim, I really appreciate the candor of this video. You grapple with a lot of the questions I have had about you and your family. You’re the real deal. I’m taking that advice about positive thoughts for the future giving you power in the present. Keep going. You and Tori and Wesley and Huddy are a true joy.
Love this, Jim. My son was in a coma, almost died, thought he’d never walk or talk if he lived… dark times. Now he’s working at LL Bean! You really can’t predict the future and your strategy of replacing negative thoughts with positive is perfect. Appreciate you, man!
This hit home for me. My son and wife have autistic son 12 years old, non verbal. Lots of the things you said rang true. I love my grandson, hes very special. Thank you for this. My best to you, wife and Wesley
Jim, I watch a lot of travel programs with people who have chosen a different style life. Here’s why I watch you. Yes, I saw you and your brother on Alone years ago. That’s how I became familiar with your name. After that, I inadvertently came across your channel in my feed. I remember it to this day. I didn’t know you were married or that you had Wesley until that day. The three of you were traveling along a river and stopped to camp at a cabin. I didn’t know about Wesley at that time but soon became aware that he was on his own journey. Tori was sitting at the table in the cabin with a puzzle book. This is silly, but I also do those puzzle books….so, connection and subscribe. From that point on, I have followed you because of how you are as a man with Wesley. Wesley is so lucky to have you and Tori as his parents. I admire you Jim. My nephew had Angelman’s Syndrome so I understood the genetics, besides I’m an RN who works L&D. I’m so glad you got the mental help you needed to help you focus. My nephew’s parents split up, each having mental/physical problems while raising another child. I wished they would have gone for counseling. Anyway, know you are a treasure as a parent, as is Tori. You are so admired by your community on RUclips. Take care and Merry Christmas.
Thanks for this. As a mother of a disabled child, the future can feel like a scary place. Love your channel and vids, a very peaceful place to go for rest. Love our country so much.
Thank you for sharing your journey. The phrase that stuck with me is, "Whatever you spend most of your time looking for is what you will find." It's a matter of how you practice using your mind. You and Tori are inspirational. Thanks!
We absolutely love you and your beautiful family. Watching your content is my "happy place". I won't be able to do things like this most likely (or not any time soon)...so THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!!
What a great story your family is living. Wesley is with the best parents he could hope for. Most of us would think it is too much work, or too risky to take him out on adventures like you do. I admire your outlook and your whole family. Love watching Huddy and you looking for historical relics. I pray for your family and ask God to bring you many blessings.
God bless you and Tori, Jim!! Y'all are great parents to Wesley and Hudson, and your love for them is evident. It takes courage to speak the truth to your situation, and what you voiced in this video will resonate with many whose situations may be different but just as challenging in their own lives. Thanks for sharing your story so explicitly with everyone. Merry Christmas to the Baird family!!
Thank you for being so so real and truthful.Your boy Wesley is a joy it’s really lovely seeing you as a family with him including him in everything you do he is a very happy boy and that’s because your love for him shines through xx
Your discussion about Wes is so powerful, Jim. We love Wes and all of you so much and can see him, his personality, and his progress! Thank you for sharing ❣❣
Thank you for sharing your fears as a parent and giving solid advice on turning a negative into a positive. You guys are giving your kids such a great experience / life of love , outdoor fun and adventure that the joy on their faces say it all.
Jim this video was timely, needed and inspirational. You’re a great guy and I have a lot respect f respect for you and the growth I’ve witnessed since following you after Alone Vancouver island. I’m a retired special ed teacher and Wesley touches my heart like so many students in my past. Judy is as cute as a button and Tori is a real catch. You are a very lucky man! I hope there are younger people watching who clue into your advice of turning negatives to positives. So many people need to find Center and drop the division. Learn empathy and just love one another. Cheers! Looking forward to many more years of content.
Jim! I thought you were the toughest, bravest dude i'd ever seen...for real...but i had no idea the level of which that was true...i can't envision you doing anything without Herculean strength and confidence. I'm a born again Christian, and i believe God gives the greatest challenges to the toughest and most capable among us. You are definitely no exception to that rule. I'm praying for you guys. Beyond that, i have no question you were chosen for this job... Wesley's soul needed your strength, patience and guardianship to do what he's going to do here. God bless him and you and your family.
Please everyone who watches and roots for this family, let’s all share the shit out of this channel. These people really deserve everything! This is the life and example that people all over the world need to see and follow. Jim, you and Tori are incredibly underrated and deserve to be leaders in this crazy world we live in.
Wow, congrats Wesley on a communication milestone! You're such an inspiration Jim. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts, your journey, and your growth. Life's not easy, but I think all your time in the wilderness brings you a perspective and grounding that we can all learn from. Thanks.
Thanks Jim for sharing this. My daughter is non verbal autistic and we struggle everyday. Some days it's hard to have any hope for her future or ours. I needed to hear this.
I've been sick for 62 years (chronic migraines and CPTSD among many other maladies) and nothing could be done about my health. I had to turn to God and begin to renew my mind to His Word. It has transformed my life. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, Romans 8:28, Ephesians 5:20, Colossians 3:15 and so many other Bible verses, comes to mind for me. Taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ and remembering that He works all things together for the good of those who love Him. When you get to the point where you understand there is a blessing in the situation, you begin to heal in a powerful way. Some really good books are Power in Praise, Imagine Heaven and Imagine the God of Heaven. God bless you all.
You and Tori are amazing parents! I couldn't imagine going on adventures like you have done while bringing along a child that has special needs and you both do so with such a positive attitude. I can relate to your concerns, I have grand children that also have special needs and at times, I find myself wondering about their future. But as you mentioned, you can't just dwell on 'what ifs' but live each day to the fullest. ❤ I love watching your videos...they are a breath of fresh air and a much needed break from the chaos and confusion that currently exists in the Canada and the World for that matter. Keep on keeping on...!!
Sharing your heart and thoughts like this Jim probably impacted and helped far more people than you'll ever know. I LOVE what you and Tori do and the insight into your challenging roles as parents of a high needs child is amazing.
You and Tori are amazing ppl and wonderful parents. You are such an inspiration to every parent fancy a challenge. You guys have found a way to make the very best of everyday. Your attitude and dedication is astounding. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. You are truly changing ppls lives for the better. I have so much respect for you, Tori and your family.
Mr. Baird ‼️ You don’t know how many people you blessed with your insightfulness about you and Tori’s mental journey with Wesley, you lifted a heavy burden from many parents and grandparents shoulders tonight. I pray that God continual blessings and strength follow you and your family all the days of you’ll life🙏🏽 I watched your harvest video first, I love Huddie’ haircut and you’ll bonding time. Huddie is going to be a real Bairdman.
You and your wife have proven through actions that this is not a hinderance. Your words were taken to heart. Your sons are super lucky to have both of you as their parents!
I appreciate your sharing your difficulties with your viewers and i wish you the best with your wonderful son and family. The idea that "positive thoughts for the future equals power in the present" is so powerful. I have felt so worn down by tragedies in my life, I really appreciated that concept. Thank you Jim.
I thought that was an important video for you to make Jim. A video about your self and your family, I believe that you are truly blessed to have both your children and I believe Wesley has made you and Tori the best versions of yourselves you could be, and both Wesley and Hudson have been born to the best possible pearents they could have wished for. Have a fantastic family Christmas both my wife karen and I wish you all a happy healthy new year Clive England UK
You win cutest comment ever award! I do also enjoy listening to him explain. I think it’s because he actually really loves what he does and it comes out in his descriptions.
Wow Jim. This was it. This was the video. I can't tell you how much I respect your outlook. I appreciate the insight. You and Tori are rock stars. Hearing about your search for a mental path that would see you through was enlightening and inspiring. Respect brother. Keep on being exactly who you are. I learned alot form this. Cheers.
Thank you Jim. Mama Mama beasts a million negative thoughts. Wesley is lucky to have you all and You are blessed to have Wesley. Keep it up the Baird family.
Amazing story about Wesley speaking! Thanks for this honest dialogue. I really connected with your lesson on needing to focus on the positive not the negative. Power in the present!
Jim, thanks for your honesty and your positivity. Man, think of all you've done, and what kind of life you and Tori have built. Wesley is a lucky boy to be part of such a family. I am positive you guys are going to help him live a life full of adventure, fun, and love. That's what I see in the future.
Jim, you and Tori are great parents. Man to Man it is good that you can speak so openly about sensitive issues. My wife and I have had to step up for our son and grandchildren, there has been a lot of challenges and we have had to create a new narrative and envision a good future for the little ones...it has been hard on occasions. I am very optimistic for Wesley and he is lucky to have you both as his parents. Hudson is also a real joy!
The ability to stay positive and make the most of your situation is so uplifting. Really enjoy your content. Keep up the good work as a father, husband and a content creator.
Thanks for sharing Jim, very impressed with how you and Tori manage your trips and lifestyle with the kids, especially Wesley. He is such a bright shining light and though all the hard times there’s always brighter days. You guys are amazing parents and keep bringing your sons on such amazing adventures because they will never forget how awesome they all were!
I couldn't care less what order your videos come out. As a parent of a son who has a chronic illness, I know how much it takes to stay mentally fit and positive sometimes. Much love to you and Tori. You are amazing parents. Happy Holidays!🎄
That's wonderful to hear that you have such a positive outlook. It is hard to do but your family is amazing and we your supporters love to watch your content. Thank you for sharing! Merry Christmas and happy new year to you and your precious family!❤🎉
We all appreciate what you do Jim, We love you share your adventures with your family, you're closing in on two hundred thousand followers, I've been lucky enough to have discovered your channel way back and believe me you are great parents, so give yourself a break and all the best to your family, happy holidays 🎉
The strength that you and Tori have is so inspirational. And u just keep figuring out ways to keep living the life you love and including him in it. It’s amazing really!!
Your family has been dealt a hand that you weren't expecting, but you have both handled it so amazingly well and your love for your son shines through. You have a beautiful family and are great role models for all parents out there Merry Christmas to you all! ❤💚
So Jim you are a great role model for all of us other fathers who have similar problems. In any case, you guide me how to think and relate to my son who is autistic. Many thanks to you Jim. Greet your wife and your boy Wesley from Bo in northern Sweden
Thanks for the insights Jim! Totally agree with your comments on thoughts and the replacement technique- it has work for me too! You can’t control what thoughts bubble up in your mind, but when you recognize them you can choose to replace them with a positive/opposite thought!
Such a great motivational reveal on your outlook on how to deal with Wesley. This will help many people to cope with their struggles! Thank you for talking about this. You and Tori are so strong and positive in everything you do!❤
What an awesome milestone for you, Tori, and especially Wesley. Thanks for the advice. It's something that can be used for many situations. Love your channel. I live vicariously through your adventures. Keep it up as long as you can.
Jim- there aren't better parents for Wesley than you and Torrie. You both have made it possible for Wesley to experience all that you do; you've included him in everything, your travels and your films, and that is a powerful message. I say this as the father of adult kids who have disabled kids of their own- one who has a 7yo daughter with cerebral palsy and one with an 11yo son who is autistic. My kids have done as you- ensured that their kids get all the experiences they can, so the 7yo has played softball and soccer, rides a therapy horse and has tried to wall climb. She often uses a wheelchair, especially in crowded stores. And, kind of like you, my son has to keep in mind that as he is a high-school cross-country and track and field coach, his daughter will never be competitive and herself deals with her frustration that she cannot compete with able-bodied children. And even more mindful that his daughter is one of a set of identical twins, one of whom only lived 13 months- the twins also had a rare condition, twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome. So when I watch your videos, and I see Wesley on those long trips, knowing the risks that this incurs and the fact that Torrie and you have made sure you have a way to get Wesley help no matter where you are, I stand in awe. I am also thrilled to hear that Wesley is beginning to talk! How great is that! Back in Covid I began watching you- it was a reminder of when I was younger and tooling around Algonquin PP and Michigan's UP canoe rivers and I just wanted outdoor canoe videos in Canada (I grew up outside Detroit), I found you, Chris Prouse, Xander Budnick and others and never went back- thank you for you do!
Thanks for sharing those insights and your story. I have always admired the strength and positivity that both you and Tori show. I can imagine it has not been easy. I think you are both amazing parents and the boys are incredibly lucky to have you. This would be a great pep talk for anyone going through a hard time. That is so exciting that Wesley is starting to talk! It’s amazing to watch him progress as the years go on. Very inspiring!
I know exactly how you feel. I have a special needs grandson we are helping raise and I have the same fears. However in this crazy Evil world I am reassured that he is a pure gift of Love and innocence, and there are still some good people left in the world who bravely stand up against the darkness and project the human spirit of godliness......You are one of them Jim.
Thank you for being personal💙 negativity (erosion) can’t really be undone but you can find new paths built on positivity and stop the negative progression. I have been having so many negative thoughts since our US election, I really needed your share today. Thank you!💙💙best of holidays to all 💙💙
that was very impressive and heartfelt video Jim. Thanks so much for sharing your personal feelings and experience. It inspires us all to rethink the negatives in our lives. Being vulnerable to share your heart is an amazing sign of strength. Thank you
Thank you for this video. My daughter and our first born was born with a bilateral cleft lip and palate. When I saw her I just wanted to have it fixed now. They, the medical staff told us that she would be mentally challenged and would need a lot of help. She proved every one wrong and grew up to be a very special person. She went through school with high marks and graduated with honours. She went on to university and graduated with a degree in nursing. She is a RN working in home care giving back to her community. Never give up on your children, as they will surprise you and become more than you think. Wesley has been on more canoe trips than most of us will ever be on. I am so jealous. He is loved and given the opportunity to enjoy nature and family time which is so important. Your family is so important, so keep doing what you are doing. Love your family your life and your videos no matter what order in time they come.
Jim Braid, you are the man. Tori Baird, you are amazing. Gosh, I wish you and your family the best. Your content is the best, but I'm happy to also know you are great people.
Gratitude. You have so much to be grateful for , the challenge of a special needs child is a gift. Every small forward step is celebrated. It’s not something we have control of except our attitude. God has created us all in his image so we need to draw from that blessing and see the ways we grow closer to God through those challenges. We can do nothing without the Lord. You thank God but do you really or is it just an expression. Wesley was given to you because through Gods help you are able. I also have faced the challenges of a child that could have died with a heart condition and she thrived because I embraced her as she was able. After two open heart surgeries and a failed marriage she now has 4 children and good health and I never doubted all would be well even in my solitary closet. I praise God everyday. Prayer. May people are praying for your family.
Many of us have "catastrophic thinking" when faced with challenges , disappointments or have faced trauma in our lives. I am sure you sharing this will help people so thank you for being so transparent. It is also said that most of what we fear or worry about never never takes place!so concentrate on the here and now, the blessings we have, and plan and hope for a prosperous adventure filled future! (preaching to myself😅) love your channel❤
LOove to you and your family. I am 78 and have a five year old son and there is always doubt, but life is good and God will take care of us. Love you and your family ..
Father of two 28 year old special needs twins here. My son is the most afflicted, much like your son. Have long worried about he Hell he is likely to encounter when me and my wife are gone. Enjoyed your words here tonight. A very wise person, I call her my wife, has always told me to look at it this way, “You’ll get to experience a lot of things in life others don’t get to experience. Some will be not so pleasant, but some will be gifts! You will be living a fuller life than most. Grow from it!” It’s hard at times, but a much better outlook than always going to the dark places. Live on brother….LOVE your content and that much of it includes Wesley.
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Very touching. I'm listening to John Denver as I read this, The Eagle and The Hawk. Seems fitting. Bless you guys.
Hey Jim - fellow dad to a disabled kiddo here (including seizures). It's a heck of a journey! Seeing Wesley out on your big trips is a huge inspiration.
I'm with you, Jim. As a 70-year-old man, who was crippled from polio at the age of 3, I think you're on the right path. Thanks to great parents, and supportive brothers & sisters, I never went down the "oh, woe is me" trail. I simply accepted the reality of my condition and made the best of it. I never said "I can't do this or I can't do that." Instead I asked myself, "CAN I do that?" Then gave it a shot. Sometimes I failed. But often I succeeded. And even when I did fail - at first - I could often find, or invent, a work-around. This allowed me to do a lot of things that other people thought that I couldn't do. Like hunting, and camping, and racing go-karts. I rode motorcycles for a few years back in my late 20's. And I even managed to earn a pilot's license in 2011. If I had listened to the nay-sayers I probably would never have tried most of the things I've done.
The point is, don't put pre-conceived limits on yourself or Wesley. And don't let anyone else do that to you, either. You never know what you're capable of until you try. That's different for each person and each situation, so just keep the lights shining bright and plow ahead.
Wise words that need to be lived by more often
Went on the same path with our son. He was years behind learning to talk and walk. You just appreciate them for the gifts they bring to your family, and the things you learn about yourself like patience and humility. Should be a Ted Talk.
@@kilroy776. Very wise words from life! I too can attest to the philosophy and proud I do not quite! Thank you, reminders are needed. Just like the shampoo bottle instructions, “repeat if neccesary” and yes, to repeat of positive thoughts are good!
Lost my son Kyle at 16, auto accident. I now have cancer,and have been thru all the treatments at the Mayo. Your words ring trrue and don't ever stop ok. Ppl like. Me. Really Need Them.😅❤
Love you. Great advice, and wonderful news about Wesley ❤️
we think we are our children's teachers when in fact they are our teachers.You guys are such good parents to your sons.
Oh wow I just teared up with happy tears when you said that Wesley said Mama!❤. Wesley is a blessing, a gift to this crazy world, as is Hudson❤
He's the best! 🥰
Thanks Jim, I didn't know how to help my daughter with her depression. She has been going through a very painful and incurable disease for the past two years and it has left me drained watching her try to cope. Your words will go far in helping her and me. Thanks again.
Excellent motivational talk... Trust me... It was as helpful to us, as it was to you❤
Glad you think so!
I cried when you talked about Wesley saying "Mama" and reaching out and there she was, progress for sure. You know Jim, most people don't have it in them to overcome "Serious" adversity, it's true..but the mindset is the most important, either negative or positive it produces what you sow. Your ability to face adversity and share the path to overcoming it is truly unique and inspiring. All of these things make you grow in oh so many ways that will not only help Wesley, Mom & Huddy but awesome canoe trips in the future, can't wait. Stay the course & keep your paddle wet !
Could not sleep, 3 am in Austria, full of negative thoughts and there you come around the corner!
Had a cup of tea and now I will dream about going on an adventure instead 😊
Thank you for sharing your experiences on dealing with Wesley's disability. Thinking positive for the future equals power in the present. That's powerful. You and Tori are wonderful examples for both Wesley and Hudson. The experiences they have being out in nature on the adventures that you go on as a family are bound to have a positive effect on the boys. Maybe more so than you may imagine. So good to hear that Wesley said "Mama". That is so encouraging.
Thanks so much for the kind words, we really appreciate it.
I watch your videos and documentaries all the time and this is by far the most heartfelt one I have ever seen. It brings us to an experience and understanding that makes us feel we are part of your adventures and journeys. Looking forward to your next adventure.
Thanks very much, I’m glad I shared it.
I believe your viewers are proud of you and Tori and stand behind you for staying your course. You will continue to be blessed for the love and parenting you are pouring into your children. Well done.
your'e a helluva man for exposing your soul and describing your family struggles, peace to you 🥰
"positive thoughts for the future give you power in the the present" amazing!
I would like to thank you for this video. You addressed an issue that every viewer thinks about. You and Tori are are wonderful family and are blessed with two wonderful boys. I recently saw a quote that went something like this…..you can’t change the past, you can not predict the future, so use today to do something positive! I think you expressed that in this video. Thanks for sharing this very personal insight into you family.
With spectacular parents like you, both your boys will be absolutely fine! You have grown into one hell of a man.
Thank you so much, means a lot to hear that 🙏
Well said Jim.My mother lived as a quadriplegic the last 23years of her life & she taught us to never give up faith she lived a good life & never complained about her situation.So I never thought of her with a disability we just had to do things differently. You have a beautiful family take life one day at a time. 🙂🇨🇦❤🙏
Hi Jim. Yeh I know kinda how it feels to have those dark feeling. I take care of my wife of 36 years . At one time she could to squats with me on her back , now due to diabetes she's been bed ridden for 4 years now. I have to stay positive about it. I love her.
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WARM HUGS TO YOU SIR. PRAYING THAT GOD CONTINUAL BLESSINGS AND STRENGTH REST UPON YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ❤
I pray Tori heard that or will hear him say momma. She will be crying tears of joy.💜
I was praying the same thing!
Jim, I really appreciate the candor of this video. You grapple with a lot of the questions I have had about you and your family. You’re the real deal. I’m taking that advice about positive thoughts for the future giving you power in the present. Keep going. You and Tori and Wesley and Huddy are a true joy.
Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. It means a lot to hear you relate to this one!
Love this, Jim. My son was in a coma, almost died, thought he’d never walk or talk if he lived… dark times. Now he’s working at LL Bean! You really can’t predict the future and your strategy of replacing negative thoughts with positive is perfect. Appreciate you, man!
That’s truly amazing and ya, I agree. Thanks a lot
This hit home for me. My son and wife have autistic son 12 years old, non verbal. Lots of the things you said rang true. I love my grandson, hes very special. Thank you for this. My best to you, wife and Wesley
Jim, I watch a lot of travel programs with people who have chosen a different style life. Here’s why I watch you. Yes, I saw you and your brother on Alone years ago. That’s how I became familiar with your name. After that, I inadvertently came across your channel in my feed. I remember it to this day. I didn’t know you were married or that you had Wesley until that day. The three of you were traveling along a river and stopped to camp at a cabin. I didn’t know about Wesley at that time but soon became aware that he was on his own journey. Tori was sitting at the table in the cabin with a puzzle book. This is silly, but I also do those puzzle books….so, connection and subscribe. From that point on, I have followed you because of how you are as a man with Wesley. Wesley is so lucky to have you and Tori as his parents. I admire you Jim. My nephew had Angelman’s Syndrome so I understood the genetics, besides I’m an RN who works L&D. I’m so glad you got the mental help you needed to help you focus. My nephew’s parents split up, each having mental/physical problems while raising another child. I wished they would have gone for counseling. Anyway, know you are a treasure as a parent, as is Tori. You are so admired by your community on RUclips. Take care and Merry Christmas.
Thanks very much for sharing, it means a lot..and it’s nice to hear how you came about watching our YT stuff.
you have true genuine character so caring and kind. you are truly blessed to be the father of Wesley.
Absolutely
Much Respect Brother!!! You and Tori are awesome parents..Keep up the good fight!!!!
Much love Jim ❤ Merry Christmas 🎄 and a Happy New Year to you and the family 🎉
Can't tell you how much I appreciate the vulnerability and information about your family, Jim! Such powerful advice and commentary. Thanks Jim
Powerfully real. Thank you for sharing, Jim.
Thanks for this. As a mother of a disabled child, the future can feel like a scary place. Love your channel and vids, a very peaceful place to go for rest. Love our country so much.
Thank you for sharing your journey. The phrase that stuck with me is, "Whatever you spend most of your time looking for is what you will find." It's a matter of how you practice using your mind. You and Tori are inspirational. Thanks!
We absolutely love you and your beautiful family. Watching your content is my "happy place". I won't be able to do things like this most likely (or not any time soon)...so THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!!
As a father, and as a man, this was just beautiful to watch. Much respect to you, Jim. You have a great family.
What a great story your family is living. Wesley is with the best parents he could hope for. Most of us would think it is too much work, or too risky to take him out on adventures like you do. I admire your outlook and your whole family. Love watching Huddy and you looking for historical relics. I pray for your family and ask God to bring you many blessings.
God bless you and Tori, Jim!! Y'all are great parents to Wesley and Hudson, and your love for them is evident. It takes courage to speak the truth to your situation, and what you voiced in this video will resonate with many whose situations may be different but just as challenging in their own lives. Thanks for sharing your story so explicitly with everyone. Merry Christmas to the Baird family!!
God makes the perfect ones different. Your family is blessed to have him. Thanks for your honesty
Ya, Wesley is a blessing
@@billydow1971 that’s a beautiful way to think of it.
Thank you for being so so real and truthful.Your boy Wesley is a joy it’s really lovely seeing you as a family with him including him in everything you do he is a very happy boy and that’s because your love for him shines through xx
Well put Jim. The power of intention. God Bless you and your family.❤
Your discussion about Wes is so powerful, Jim. We love Wes and all of you so much and can see him, his personality, and his progress! Thank you for sharing ❣❣
Having lived through similar circumstances, it certainly sounds like you and Tori are headed in the right direction on your family journey.
Cheers.
Thank you for sharing your fears as a parent and giving solid advice on turning a negative into a positive. You guys are giving your kids such a great experience / life of love , outdoor fun and adventure that the joy on their faces say it all.
Wesley is a great young man who has a great Dad. Jim, this video shows where your heart is. Very inspiring.
Jim this video was timely, needed and inspirational. You’re a great guy and I have a lot respect f respect for you and the growth I’ve witnessed since following you after Alone Vancouver island. I’m a retired special ed teacher and Wesley touches my heart like so many students in my past. Judy is as cute as a button and Tori is a real catch. You are a very lucky man! I hope there are younger people watching who clue into your advice of turning negatives to positives. So many people need to find Center and drop the division. Learn empathy and just love one another. Cheers! Looking forward to many more years of content.
Jim! I thought you were the toughest, bravest dude i'd ever seen...for real...but i had no idea the level of which that was true...i can't envision you doing anything without Herculean strength and confidence. I'm a born again Christian, and i believe God gives the greatest challenges to the toughest and most capable among us. You are definitely no exception to that rule. I'm praying for you guys. Beyond that, i have no question you were chosen for this job... Wesley's soul needed your strength, patience and guardianship to do what he's going to do here. God bless him and you and your family.
Please everyone who watches and roots for this family, let’s all share the shit out of this channel. These people really deserve everything! This is the life and example that people all over the world need to see and follow. Jim, you and Tori are incredibly underrated and deserve to be leaders in this crazy world we live in.
Wow, congrats Wesley on a communication milestone! You're such an inspiration Jim. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts, your journey, and your growth. Life's not easy, but I think all your time in the wilderness brings you a perspective and grounding that we can all learn from. Thanks.
Thanks Jim for sharing this. My daughter is non verbal autistic and we struggle everyday. Some days it's hard to have any hope for her future or ours. I needed to hear this.
Thanks for this video. I'm a grandfather of a special needs grandson and I get depressed on thinking of his future , thanks for the encouragement.
I've been sick for 62 years (chronic migraines and CPTSD among many other maladies) and nothing could be done about my health. I had to turn to God and begin to renew my mind to His Word. It has transformed my life. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, Romans 8:28, Ephesians 5:20, Colossians 3:15 and so many other Bible verses, comes to mind for me. Taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ and remembering that He works all things together for the good of those who love Him. When you get to the point where you understand there is a blessing in the situation, you begin to heal in a powerful way. Some really good books are Power in Praise, Imagine Heaven and Imagine the God of Heaven. God bless you all.
You and Tori are amazing parents! I couldn't imagine going on adventures like you have done while bringing along a child that has special needs and you both do so with such a positive attitude. I can relate to your concerns, I have grand children that also have special needs and at times, I find myself wondering about their future. But as you mentioned, you can't just dwell on 'what ifs' but live each day to the fullest. ❤ I love watching your videos...they are a breath of fresh air and a much needed break from the chaos and confusion that currently exists in the Canada and the World for that matter. Keep on keeping on...!!
Sharing your heart and thoughts like this Jim probably impacted and helped far more people than you'll ever know. I LOVE what you and Tori do and the insight into your challenging roles as parents of a high needs child is amazing.
You and Tori are amazing ppl and wonderful parents. You are such an inspiration to every parent fancy a challenge. You guys have found a way to make the very best of everyday. Your attitude and dedication is astounding. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. You are truly changing ppls lives for the better. I have so much respect for you, Tori and your family.
Mr. Baird ‼️
You don’t know how many people you blessed with your insightfulness about you and Tori’s mental journey with Wesley, you lifted a heavy burden from many parents and grandparents shoulders tonight. I pray that God continual blessings and strength follow you and your family all the days of you’ll life🙏🏽
I watched your harvest video first, I love Huddie’ haircut and you’ll bonding time. Huddie is going to be a real Bairdman.
You and your wife have proven through actions that this is not a hinderance. Your words were taken to heart. Your sons are super lucky to have both of you as their parents!
God bless you and your family Jim. Wesley is truly blessed to have you and Tori as parents.
Jim that was very heart felt inspirational talk. You and Tori work very hard for your family, be proud of all the accomplishments. A life well lived.❤
I appreciate your sharing your difficulties with your viewers and i wish you the best with your wonderful son and family. The idea that "positive thoughts for the future equals power in the present" is so powerful. I have felt so worn down by tragedies in my life, I really appreciated that concept. Thank you Jim.
I thought that was an important video for you to make Jim. A video about your self and your family, I believe that you are truly blessed to have both your children and I believe Wesley has made you and Tori the best versions of yourselves you could be, and both Wesley and Hudson have been born to the best possible pearents they could have wished for.
Have a fantastic family Christmas both my wife karen and I wish you all a happy healthy new year
Clive
England UK
Jim I appreciate your truth about Wesley's future and how you're both coping with it. ✌️
You win cutest comment ever award! I do also enjoy listening to him explain. I think it’s because he actually really loves what he does and it comes out in his descriptions.
Thanks Jim, love hearing the thoughts from your heart.❤
Thanks, appreciate it!
You sound like an awesome father and person. I look up to you and wish you the best.
Wow Jim. This was it.
This was the video. I can't tell you how much I respect your outlook. I appreciate the insight.
You and Tori are rock stars. Hearing about your search for a mental path that would see you through was enlightening and inspiring.
Respect brother.
Keep on being exactly who you are. I learned alot form this.
Cheers.
Thank you Jim. Mama Mama beasts a million negative thoughts. Wesley is lucky to have you all and You are blessed to have Wesley. Keep it up the Baird family.
Amazing story about Wesley speaking! Thanks for this honest dialogue. I really connected with your lesson on needing to focus on the positive not the negative. Power in the present!
Jim, thanks for your honesty and your positivity. Man, think of all you've done, and what kind of life you and Tori have built. Wesley is a lucky boy to be part of such a family. I am positive you guys are going to help him live a life full of adventure, fun, and love. That's what I see in the future.
Thank you Jim, you and your family are special!
Jim, you and Tori are great parents. Man to Man it is good that you can speak so openly about sensitive issues. My wife and I have had to step up for our son and grandchildren, there has been a lot of challenges and we have had to create a new narrative and envision a good future for the little ones...it has been hard on occasions. I am very optimistic for Wesley and he is lucky to have you both as his parents. Hudson is also a real joy!
The ability to stay positive and make the most of your situation is so uplifting. Really enjoy your content. Keep up the good work as a father, husband and a content creator.
Thanks for sharing Jim, very impressed with how you and Tori manage your trips and lifestyle with the kids, especially Wesley. He is such a bright shining light and though all the hard times there’s always brighter days. You guys are amazing parents and keep bringing your sons on such amazing adventures because they will never forget how awesome they all were!
I couldn't care less what order your videos come out. As a parent of a son who has a chronic illness, I know how much it takes to stay mentally fit and positive sometimes. Much love to you and Tori. You are amazing parents. Happy Holidays!🎄
That's wonderful to hear that you have such a positive outlook. It is hard to do but your family is amazing and we your supporters love to watch your content. Thank you for sharing! Merry Christmas and happy new year to you and your precious family!❤🎉
We all appreciate what you do Jim, We love you share your adventures with your family, you're closing in on two hundred thousand followers, I've been lucky enough to have discovered your channel way back and believe me you are great parents, so give yourself a break and all the best to your family, happy holidays 🎉
Merry Christmas, thanks for the positive words, it really helps.
I literally got tears of joy in my eyes when you said Wesley said "mom"!❤❤❤
Jim, I so appreciate your sharing what you learned in therapy. It will help me to deal with the death of my son and the regrets that go with it.
The strength that you and Tori have is so inspirational. And u just keep figuring out ways to keep living the life you love and including him in it. It’s amazing really!!
Jim and Tori, this is so wonderful and such an intelligent approach for your lives. Go Bairds!
Your family has been dealt a hand that you weren't expecting, but you have both handled it so amazingly well and your love for your son shines through. You have a beautiful family and are great role models for all parents out there
Merry Christmas to you all! ❤💚
So Jim you are a great role model for all of us other fathers who have similar problems. In any case, you guide me how to think and relate to my son who is autistic. Many thanks to you Jim.
Greet your wife and your boy Wesley from Bo in northern Sweden
Thanks for the insights Jim! Totally agree with your comments on thoughts and the replacement technique- it has work for me too! You can’t control what thoughts bubble up in your mind, but when you recognize them you can choose to replace them with a positive/opposite thought!
Such a great motivational reveal on your outlook on how to deal with Wesley. This will help many people to cope with their struggles! Thank you for talking about this. You and Tori are so strong and positive in everything you do!❤
I swear I'd watch your channel if all you did was snowmobile to a place in the middle of nowhere and read us the newspaper!
Definitely agree
Me too !!
He must pay y'all more than he does me.
Kind of agree with that statement
Me, too! 👍🏼😂
What an awesome milestone for you, Tori, and especially Wesley. Thanks for the advice. It's something that can be used for many situations. Love your channel. I live vicariously through your adventures. Keep it up as long as you can.
Thank you very much
Jim- there aren't better parents for Wesley than you and Torrie. You both have made it possible for Wesley to experience all that you do; you've included him in everything, your travels and your films, and that is a powerful message. I say this as the father of adult kids who have disabled kids of their own- one who has a 7yo daughter with cerebral palsy and one with an 11yo son who is autistic. My kids have done as you- ensured that their kids get all the experiences they can, so the 7yo has played softball and soccer, rides a therapy horse and has tried to wall climb. She often uses a wheelchair, especially in crowded stores. And, kind of like you, my son has to keep in mind that as he is a high-school cross-country and track and field coach, his daughter will never be competitive and herself deals with her frustration that she cannot compete with able-bodied children. And even more mindful that his daughter is one of a set of identical twins, one of whom only lived 13 months- the twins also had a rare condition, twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome. So when I watch your videos, and I see Wesley on those long trips, knowing the risks that this incurs and the fact that Torrie and you have made sure you have a way to get Wesley help no matter where you are, I stand in awe. I am also thrilled to hear that Wesley is beginning to talk! How great is that! Back in Covid I began watching you- it was a reminder of when I was younger and tooling around Algonquin PP and Michigan's UP canoe rivers and I just wanted outdoor canoe videos in Canada (I grew up outside Detroit), I found you, Chris Prouse, Xander Budnick and others and never went back- thank you for you do!
Thanks for sharing those insights and your story. I have always admired the strength and positivity that both you and Tori show. I can imagine it has not been easy. I think you are both amazing parents and the boys are incredibly lucky to have you. This would be a great pep talk for anyone going through a hard time. That is so exciting that Wesley is starting to talk! It’s amazing to watch him progress as the years go on. Very inspiring!
I know exactly how you feel. I have a special needs grandson we are helping raise and I have the same fears. However in this crazy Evil world I am reassured that he is a pure gift of Love and innocence, and there are still some good people left in the world who bravely stand up against the darkness and project the human spirit of godliness......You are one of them Jim.
Love to you and your family. Merry Christmas
Thank you for being personal💙 negativity (erosion) can’t really be undone but you can find new paths built on positivity and stop the negative progression. I have been having so many negative thoughts since our US election, I really needed your share today. Thank you!💙💙best of holidays to all 💙💙
that was very impressive and heartfelt video Jim. Thanks so much for sharing your personal feelings and experience. It inspires us all to rethink the negatives in our lives. Being vulnerable to share your heart is an amazing sign of strength. Thank you
Thank you for this video. My daughter and our first born was born with a bilateral cleft lip and palate. When I saw her I just wanted to have it fixed now. They, the medical staff told us that she would be mentally challenged and would need a lot of help. She proved every one wrong and grew up to be a very special person. She went through school with high marks and graduated with honours. She went on to university and graduated with a degree in nursing. She is a RN working in home care giving back to her community. Never give up on your children, as they will surprise you and become more than you think. Wesley has been on more canoe trips than most of us will ever be on. I am so jealous. He is loved and given the opportunity to enjoy nature and family time which is so important. Your family is so important, so keep doing what you are doing. Love your family your life and your videos no matter what order in time they come.
Beautiful words of encouragement no matter the life situation(s) we individually face!!! Thank you
Thanks!
Jim Braid, you are the man.
Tori Baird, you are amazing.
Gosh, I wish you and your family the best.
Your content is the best, but I'm happy to also know you are great people.
Gratitude. You have so much to be grateful for , the challenge of a special needs child is a gift. Every small forward step is celebrated. It’s not something we have control of except our attitude. God has created us all in his image so we need to draw from that blessing and see the ways we grow closer to God through those challenges. We can do nothing without the Lord. You thank God but do you really or is it just an expression. Wesley was given to you because through Gods help you are able. I also have faced the challenges of a child that could have died with a heart condition and she thrived because I embraced her as she was able. After two open heart surgeries and a failed marriage she now has 4 children and good health and I never doubted all would be well even in my solitary closet. I praise God everyday. Prayer. May people are praying for your family.
Much love to you all! Thank you for sharing! And thank you for sharing the wonderful quote from your therapist, that is so powerful.
Many of us have "catastrophic thinking" when faced with challenges , disappointments or have faced trauma in our lives. I am sure you sharing this will help people so thank you for being so transparent. It is also said that most of what we fear or worry about never never takes place!so concentrate on the here and now, the blessings we have, and plan and hope for a prosperous adventure filled future! (preaching to myself😅) love your channel❤
LOove to you and your family. I am 78 and have a five year old son and there is always doubt, but life is good and God will take care of us. Love you and your family ..
Thanks for sharing, Jim. You and Torri are doing great things.
Jim Baird---Outdoor Adventurer and Mental Health Councilor. Great words and sentiments Jim.