"I'm not as smart as these people, ok? I have to work harder" Hit me right in the heart. Sometimes I put in insane hours only to end up being mediocre at the expense of my personal wellbeing and it's not like I'm not always trying to think of more efficient ways to do my job.
Try and ask the other smarter people how they do things. They might just have a more effective method than you and you're just one question away from getting more done in less time.
u have no idea being poor because of this my granda cant spend their money its kinda mental problem. so when life havent showed real face of it u can say dont take it serious
@@jd8184 so this comment was 3 years ago let me explain it to you. My granma was an example If you live in survival mode and if you don’t have stable money you will be facing so many problems and especially when you have to be dependent to someone
Yeah, because in a mature relationship you have to talk To each other and let each other know. How detail your work is so that way the other person has a piece of Mind knowing. That you're working hard to achieve greatness and not just fooling around.
I'd have preferred it if she took his advice and got help, then their relationship could have been restored, but failing that yeah he really shouldn't have stayed with her
True love stay. When we true loving someone we need to accept their weakness like their strenght as well. If you go then you dont love the person that much.
Ruthy Evelyn stay and destroy himself? It seems like he tried to be patient and tell her how unhealthy this problem was getting, but it was going nowhere and he was becoming more and more miserable being with her. It's not healthy for her but also not for him. I personally think breaking up is good for the mental health in this situation. She needs to seek help about this workaholic problem and then when this is sorted out, maybe they can try again later on or go their separate ways.
LoveMe,com It's not a time issue, it's the fact that she feels the compulsion to constantly be working. In that scene where she got the email on her phone in the car, she started chewing gum to distract herself from the need to work
This is stressing me out so much. I hate to admit it but im slowly turning into her. (not work but school) Im constantly busy and there are times I dont hang out with my friends anymore because im always, always, doing sht.
ytaaal x Well all you need to do is manage your time after that you shouldn't be as stressed or upset you missed out enjoying times with friends or life.
All you have to do is to keep the balance means cut out unnecessary things that you do for the sake of "in case this happens".you just cut out extra homework or just don't prepare the little quizes that can be done in the school too,and instead of it get a good sleep if not daily but atleast once after 2 or 3 days(start with your sleep sweetie) because health is actually what matters the most 😃
I'm already there. I'm just autistic so the minimum of contact I need with my friends is through Messenger and Facebook once in a while. Luckily most of them are like that too.
I got married to someone like her and when life got tough the relationship took a backseat and it ruined our marriage. She's an otherwise perfect person but a family takes two people fully sharing their lives. We're getting divorced. Been a tough last year. :(
andrew Infante thanks. I'm good. I just take care of what I control--my job, myself, my health. Just staying motivated and taking things one day at a time. The divorce is a process but could be worse. We are almost done with an agreement for it. The situation is sad but I'm not so much anymore. I was sadder as things were going down and so I've had time to make peace with the future.
Frilleon no no no!! Please don't. ..think about this. If you love her,don't let her go. Marriage is hard man. The best things in life are hard and worth fighting for. You only get one soul mate. Everyone else is just a sad attempt at making you feel complete. Listen to me, if you believe she's the ONE God picked out for you, do not let go...you'll regret it
You can't be together with someone who is not there. All the love and support I could muster wasn't enough to save her. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him/her drink. She's completely gone from the previous reality she lived in. If there was a chance I'd still be holding on. Life continues...
These two stuffs are so important and such a big deal in life. When you already have both, you have to be able to balance it and not overdo the other one. Because if not, the other one might fall down. And just like what the video showed, it could also harm yourself physically not just emotionally.
I know this might be minor but I LOVE that the boss told her to get an Uber if she worked past midnight. I work in an industry that requires many late nights during a certain time of year and I always think how dangerous driving home at midnight is.
I hate it when people say “manage your time,” as if that’ll fix everything. What takes others a few hours, takes me twice as long. I’m just not as fast.
Me (No, not Ashildr, I had the name before Doctor Who, and I'm not changing it!) The commitment issue thing is when she freaked out about the ring which was possibly another reason why she wanted to work so bad to avoid the actual engagement
Just because she doesn't want to get married doesn't mean she has commitment issues. She specifically said that it just wasn't the right time for her because of the demands of her career.
ofowlsandcities Yeah but it was also stated that by the time she met her career demands it would be a long time from then which could be many many years atleast he came to realization he loved her to the point he thought of marrying her yes maybe it isnt a commitment issue but its a career and life issue. She shouldve left work at work and not drag it theres more to life than your career and constantly working bad enough he made a effort and wasted his time for a woman who was more involved with her job than her love interest. Not only that but it was pulling him down you cant blame the guy. You wouldnt want to waste your time, effort, and years in a relationship that will never go anywhere. You can always get back to your career at anytime but you cant get back lost time when it comes to life. This goes for men or women!
She ignored him for several time and did not gave him time and was always at work.So of course he is gonna have questions about their relationship.But when the girl finds out he returned the ring its all his fault now?
It isn't his fault at all. She is just sick and needs help. He hasn't done anything wrong or could have done more besides maybe make her see a therapist
Honestly perfect ending. She pushed everyone away overworking hers causing herself to be alone with no one to help her at the one place she always commited to, her job.
She is a workaholic, she just need to balance out things properly. Her personal life is as important as professional life, moreover too much of everything is not good...I think it should be general I think bith men and women need to understand the concept of balancing out moreover doing the right thing at a time
This is a very good story and sometimes I can relate to it but I wouldn't sacrifice my love for my career because a life without love is boring. I want to keep it balance, having a quality time for my man and at the same time build a career on my own.
Flying Pirate But imo it still works based on the content of the video, workaholics typically have a rough time with their relationships, because they constantly focus on work.
That's the whole point of it if you see well! It meant to show how workaholic people get more committed to their work that it disrupts their ability to invest more time and interest in their emotional and social relationships.
Carlos Parra money and love are both similar. They are both very highly overrated, and always considered more important than other valuable things in life. No, they can’t be everything. Never
@@nyankrunex9654 maybe you are talking about romantic love, which is a small part of what love truly encompasses, and yeah, that can be tiring and turn into something destructive at times. Its like saying that hatha yoga (the yoga that we see here in the west with all the fancy postures) is all yoga. Love, just like yoga, is something much more deeper.
Totally my ex gf. Workaholic, forget to love herself and forget how to keep this realtionship. She got Minimum salary sms also a maximum stress life. The worst, she blame all up on me? I work hard for her, my salary are more than her, bought her whatever she want. She is not even have a time for me. Even a night. And. Also blamed me for what i said. I want to help her, she refused it. Oke its time to go, i deserve better.
Benedictus Dewanto Adi Those are the type of women who end up 35 and single. Bitter and lonely, living with some cats and dogs. Women, this will be your lifestyle if you decide to prioritize your career and education over marriage and family.
I have real commitment issues. I can't even have friends. I start hanging out with a person and we become friends. A week later I get tired of that person and just want them to leave me alone. Idk what's wrong with me. I always pull away for some reason.
dill pickle I have the same issue- I open up to someone and we get close and then I become paranoid and then push them away and end up making enemies. It’s wonderful
dill pickle are u an aquarius? Cuz im am and like this too. I honestly can be with someone for a long time as long as they like trying neelw things and have a creative/wierd mindset like me
My boss is an workaholic. He's writing emails at 1 am, 7 am, when he's on a vacation, on weekends, really he doesn't have a life and assumes we don't have one either. 😅😅
no if you look at the description allison is credited in EXTERNAL CREDITS which is separate from buzzfeed "Credits:" so she's a contractor not employee
Part 2 is here - ruclips.net/video/rYSiaUmr17o/видео.html and there is also a part 3! Its basically part of a series circled on the theme of personality traits we want to "fix" and each chapter explores a different person's insecurities (but with different people).
I was crying because all he was doing was trying to help her, and she doesn't see that she needs help. Its very hard to see someone you love struggle, and I just, I knew he was trying to help but couldn't because she was in denial and idk I just. UGH!
Yeah, I definitely agree with you, but another problem was she wasn't JUST working hard... she was obsessed with her inbox to the point she eventually crippled herself from the burden, and that was also the problem. But you're right, her not wanting to talk things out was the major issue :(
EXACTLY. I've started to feel like the crazy one for always thinking of the "bad" guys as not-so-bad, or at least not as bad as everyone else is making them out to be.
I don't want a sequel. Leave the story as it is. Hopefully, many people will get the actual goal of the creator/s for making this video. It is never good to work more than your body can handle. Life is short and too precious to make myself a slave to my job. What's the point of having all those money if you can't enjoy them because you have to see a doctor or rest in a hospital. You have the adoration of your coworker but the people who truly matters are not by your side to celebrate with you. They say it's a lonely place at the top but it doesn't have to be.
Wait what?? That's seriously Allison?! She looks like a COMPLETELY different person with that hair & makeup! She also looks less depressing? I'm guessing she's happier now since when she was an exclusive BF worker she was always well...depressing. She's like a COMPLETELY different person!
12:00 when I heard that cracking noise my heart dropped, I thought about all the insane hours I would put into working. I had to draw back moving forward.
Yooooo stop freaking out out over allison, shes not back, and this isnt an old video. Buzzfeed is constantly hiring actors for their projects who don't necessarily work for the company itself. In the description, it credits allison and refers to her youtube channel
@@erianpena2908 you don’t need to work 100 hours a week to build a career, lol. That’s a non-sequitur. They were at different stages of their lives. He was ready to settle down, she was still in super career mode.
Sorry, but it's always this kind of a woman that gets a good man. Many men need to stop pining for emotionally unavailable females, and likewise, many of us women need to stop pining for emotionally unavailable men. What you see is what you get. If he/she loves their career and has time for nothing else, that's what you're getting into. Either accept it and re-organize how your needs are met, or move on if this isn't fulfilling your needs.
Good one.. though for some ... they get into a relationship and then find out their work is more important.. but they keep draging the other one around because they cannot let them down either.. its not really easy to just let go..
You know, as a student, I can really relate to this video. When I was a junior in high school, I only focused on work, and sometimes I would only get an hour of sleep every night because I was up studying or being paranoid about my grades. I made the grades, but my relationships and my health took a huge toll; I became more argumentative and was generally less happy. I also had fewer friends. However, since then, I've greatly improved in "working too hard" and balancing my work life and social life. To anybody out there struggling with this issue now, know that life isn't just about working, but it's also about savoring the good times: love, hope happiness, time with friends, or personal relaxation time.
I love it when I see Allison and Nick paired together, whether on Buzzfeed or JBU. They’re able to play characters that just hold my attention and I love their performance.
She got some serious issues. He had no right to take her laptop. But, she is also not taking any of his advice. And in the end, I don't understand how he was the one who did something wrong. Being in a successful relationship requires both parties to give equal amounts of effort to keep the relationship healthy. As the old saying says, it is a team effort. There are no exceptions to this fact. Now we see in the end that she got a stretched back, which he tried to prevent. I hope that this is just hyperbole and people with real relationships aren't this dysfunctional.
In case you want to know where I got facts, I got them from a marriage councillor and from a relationship councillor. They told me that those were the key to a healthy, loving, and long-term relationship, such as marriage.
So many years of school life to have a good college life and then this excruciating college life working hard for a good work life. Imagine how much she tried and she couldn't give up trying. You don't say "You need to see someone, like a professional", you talk to them nicely and you take them there.
Okay why has Allison never shown this kind of acting before, this is why she didn't fit in with the buzz feed shortvid-quantity max profit strategy, she is a real actor
I'm a workaholic and I do not have any regrets about not having a relationship and choosing my career over her. Because in the end, career and love both may leave you someday but the difference is when love leaves you you're left broken and miserable. And love will leave you eventually. Whereas when career leaves you, you're left independent and with money and happiness and satisfaction with life and self satisfaction for the work you did. And if you're independent, great people will come into your life compared to when you're miserable and no one would wanna be with you.
"I'm not as smart as these people, ok? I have to work harder"
Hit me right in the heart.
Sometimes I put in insane hours only to end up being mediocre at the expense of my personal wellbeing and it's not like I'm not always trying to think of more efficient ways to do my job.
Same here.
Try and ask the other smarter people how they do things. They might just have a more effective method than you and you're just one question away from getting more done in less time.
So true. I felt that too. And it hits so hard.
i felt it me 2
Well that's accurate
They're actually good actors
+FruityCandy I think they have both
simplebeautyxx lol
simplebeautyxx ikr
simplebeautyxx so bad no
Meh.
A++ for their acting skills. I really loved this.
I would give it a B- but yea
A for Anne!!!!!!!!!
Totally agree :)
yeah...
Asterismz just for buzzfeed standards 😂
A STRONG message. Never take life too seriously.
u have no idea being poor because of this my granda cant spend their money its kinda mental problem. so when life havent showed real face of it u can say dont take it serious
@@rapunzelsun9659 i dont even know what this comment says. Is your grandma poor or is she not able to spend her money?
@@jd8184 so this comment was 3 years ago let me explain it to you. My granma was an example If you live in survival mode and if you don’t have stable money you will be facing so many problems and especially when you have to be dependent to someone
@@rapunzelsun9659 oh i see. sorry the word mental threw me off
He kinda looks like all the Jonas brothers combined
angela exactly what I thought
Lmao😂😂😂
i thought that 2
And his name is Nick XD
Omg yess
Want more Allison!??? Here I am! I've been here the whole time!
🖤🖤
OH MY GOD HI!!!!
What’s going on? Are you back at Buzzfeed?
Ayodele Cuffy I don't think so, if you look at the end she's in the external credits.
ALLISON What is going onnnnnnnnn
I mean what did she expect. She was mostly at work and never even spoke to her boyfriend. Of course it was going to end in a break up.
ItzSo Cute agreed
@I see Everything! Nice. So when you are kissing her you can taste the semen of the last pilot she flew with.
this
Yeah, because in a mature relationship you have to talk To each other and let each other know. How detail your work is so that way the other person has a piece of Mind knowing. That you're working hard to achieve greatness and not just fooling around.
Yes,but if it's the man who works all the time,then is fine,he is judt trying to make it for both
Work only 8 hrs a day
And be with family 8 hrs day
8 hrs sleep
This is good
Simple maths
Right ✌
And an hour of exercise coz that stays with u
Rat race
Fantastic ...
I’m happy he left her. Honestly, this isn’t healthy. He deserves better.
A. Princess. B exactly
I'd have preferred it if she took his advice and got help, then their relationship could have been restored, but failing that yeah he really shouldn't have stayed with her
True love stay. When we true loving someone we need to accept their weakness like their strenght as well. If you go then you dont love the person that much.
U gave spoiler man
Ruthy Evelyn stay and destroy himself? It seems like he tried to be patient and tell her how unhealthy this problem was getting, but it was going nowhere and he was becoming more and more miserable being with her. It's not healthy for her but also not for him. I personally think breaking up is good for the mental health in this situation. She needs to seek help about this workaholic problem and then when this is sorted out, maybe they can try again later on or go their separate ways.
Why choose if you can have both your career and love, you just need to properly manage your time and it'll work out.
I totally agree! But over love is good.. Over work isn't according to me 😂
Not everyone is good at time management you know? Plus who know if this workaholic things turn out to be that serious issue.
Ikr:-(
LoveMe,com It's not a time issue, it's the fact that she feels the compulsion to constantly be working. In that scene where she got the email on her phone in the car, she started chewing gum to distract herself from the need to work
Easy to say. But not always possible to maintain that balance.not every one can . Not everyone does. Then we prioritise to career often. Sad but true
This collab was a great idea. It's a good way to bring back the creators that the Buzzfeed fans know and love, but who have since left the company.
Revina Que looks like I missed the whole history behind BuzzFeedVideo. Could you fill me in?
I love these kind of Buzzfeed videos. THEY'RE LIKE SHORT FILMS!
Do you work for Fuel Hospitality?
LILY ITS YOU FROM PIPELINE OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Kitty K is that you kyla?
+Lily Blish MAMAsoyS
Eduardo Ernesto Vidal Vidal umm, what was that??
this couple has more chemistry than a lot of Hollywood ones
Pretending to be in the shower when you don’t want your partner knowing your working and sneaking out... that’s when you know your over working
Water is also wasted
you're
This is stressing me out so much. I hate to admit it but im slowly turning into her. (not work but school) Im constantly busy and there are times I dont hang out with my friends anymore because im always, always, doing sht.
ytaaal x Well all you need to do is manage your time after that you shouldn't be as stressed or upset you missed out enjoying times with friends or life.
All you have to do is to keep the balance means cut out unnecessary things that you do for the sake of "in case this happens".you just cut out extra homework or just don't prepare the little quizes that can be done in the school too,and instead of it get a good sleep if not daily but atleast once after 2 or 3 days(start with your sleep sweetie) because health is actually what matters the most 😃
ytaaal x me toooo 😭
And here i am being a total procrastinator 😕
I'm already there. I'm just autistic so the minimum of contact I need with my friends is through Messenger and Facebook once in a while. Luckily most of them are like that too.
WTF. CANT JUST END LIKE THAT??? MOREE PLEASEEE
Part 2 - ruclips.net/video/rYSiaUmr17o/видео.html
Your goals and dreams won't wake up one day and tell you that they don't love you anymore.
exactly!!!
They do bossman wakes up one morning to let you go 😂
@@bencrosbie your qualification can get u another job then...
So much money for me
Tell me why should i care for peace and love?
This comment made my day .
I got married to someone like her and when life got tough the relationship took a backseat and it ruined our marriage. She's an otherwise perfect person but a family takes two people fully sharing their lives.
We're getting divorced. Been a tough last year. :(
Sorry for your rotten luck, mate. Heartbreak and tragedies are the norms of this world, as of late it seems. How're you doing these days?
andrew Infante thanks. I'm good. I just take care of what I control--my job, myself, my health. Just staying motivated and taking things one day at a time.
The divorce is a process but could be worse. We are almost done with an agreement for it.
The situation is sad but I'm not so much anymore. I was sadder as things were going down and so I've had time to make peace with the future.
Frilleon no no no!! Please don't. ..think about this. If you love her,don't let her go. Marriage is hard man. The best things in life are hard and worth fighting for. You only get one soul mate. Everyone else is just a sad attempt at making you feel complete. Listen to me, if you believe she's the ONE God picked out for you, do not let go...you'll regret it
You can't be together with someone who is not there. All the love and support I could muster wasn't enough to save her.
You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him/her drink. She's completely gone from the previous reality she lived in. If there was a chance I'd still be holding on. Life continues...
Frilleon Before you both departed did you talk with her about her being a workaholic? I been on the same boat before except not married
We want the part 2 !
I ditched a workaholic as well. Best decision of my life.
I'd rather have a workaholic than someone who watches porn
@@Samsungsamsung-ec5gl Who's watching porn in this context?
@@natschaefer1044 She is juss making her point. It doesn't need a context. Does it??
@@Samsungsamsung-ec5gl Yes, because there's like litteraly no middle ground. Only workaholic and the loser watchin porn all day.
Why atlest he was a cheatwe
Allison did not come back. See the description. They have given her special credits.
Nice photo
James Gorsevski Thank you and same to you
Nice pics both of you it brought tears to my eyes
These two stuffs are so important and such a big deal in life. When you already have both, you have to be able to balance it and not overdo the other one. Because if not, the other one might fall down. And just like what the video showed, it could also harm yourself physically not just emotionally.
So true
I know this might be minor but I LOVE that the boss told her to get an Uber if she worked past midnight. I work in an industry that requires many late nights during a certain time of year and I always think how dangerous driving home at midnight is.
I hate it when people say “manage your time,” as if that’ll fix everything.
What takes others a few hours, takes me twice as long. I’m just not as fast.
Which is fine, just don’t expect a guy like this to come along for the ride.
@@theplaintiff5450 exactly
That moment when you can’t relate because you have no career and no love
Update: I have a love life now lol
aka no worries
fuckin true
Funny and sad too
good for u mate
Ryuu Sei thanks, mate
"Did you like your shoulder kiss?" That's such an allison line lol
Alison!?!!???
That's not commitment issues, that's being a workaholic. And I'm so sorry for that guy living with a crazy person.
Me (No, not Ashildr, I had the name before Doctor Who, and I'm not changing it!) The commitment issue thing is when she freaked out about the ring which was possibly another reason why she wanted to work so bad to avoid the actual engagement
Me (No, not Ashildr, I had the name before Doctor Who, and I'm not changing it!)
He wanted, nobody forced him
Just because she doesn't want to get married doesn't mean she has commitment issues. She specifically said that it just wasn't the right time for her because of the demands of her career.
chupaxf tf? If it was a man people would tell the woman to leave him. Men get no special privileges
ofowlsandcities Yeah but it was also stated that by the time she met her career demands it would be a long time from then which could be many many years atleast he came to realization he loved her to the point he thought of marrying her yes maybe it isnt a commitment issue but its a career and life issue. She shouldve left work at work and not drag it theres more to life than your career and constantly working bad enough he made a effort and wasted his time for a woman who was more involved with her job than her love interest. Not only that but it was pulling him down you cant blame the guy. You wouldnt want to waste your time, effort, and years in a relationship that will never go anywhere. You can always get back to your career at anytime but you cant get back lost time when it comes to life. This goes for men or women!
This is a crossover with that INSECURE guy video..lol
And the anger issues one too 😂
yess i just watched that one haha
Everyone: expecting her choosing love over career
She: dies near the Xerox because the back hurts
I'm loving the short film that buzzfeed is posting I just realized they are connected. Because at 7:22 this is a part from Body Issues
Just Another Commenter I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED THAT!
ahhhhhhh!
Is there going to be a part 2? I really hope so
Alison quit buzzfeed a while ago :(
Actually I felt that was the perfect place to end it. Like a classic Twilight Zone episode.
I hope so too
Please let there be a nother one!
Jorden this was filmed after she quit. She came back to film this. Buzzfeed hires actors to come in all the time.
You know who's committed?
*JENNA TO HER BASKETBALLL GAAAME TOMORROOOOOW*
kaykay12152 same
kaykay12152 XDD
*trey, *his
This Jenna thing is getting out of hand... *AND I LOVE IT*
LMFAO
She ignored him for several time and did not gave him time and was always at work.So of course he is gonna have questions about their relationship.But when the girl finds out he returned the ring its all his fault now?
It isn't his fault at all. She is just sick and needs help. He hasn't done anything wrong or could have done more besides maybe make her see a therapist
ikr what a joke☻ She doesn't wanna engage with him anyway then why is she so angry about him returning the ring🙄
I understand Nick Jonas point of view better though.
😂😂😂😂
LMFAOOOOOOO
I don’t get it
@@shanmathisolaimalai6816 he looks like him.. duh
Honestly perfect ending. She pushed everyone away overworking hers causing herself to be alone with no one to help her at the one place she always commited to, her job.
These two work really well together!
Handsome, caring, dentist... ffs she is a fool
Caring?? Even a little financ. for her?? Are you seriosly?!?
Ikr :))
She already had a husband - work. She’ll be 35, single, no kids .. but at least she’ll be a higher rank at work!!!
Disagree. Completely
She is a workaholic, she just need to balance out things properly.
Her personal life is as important as professional life, moreover too much of everything is not good...I think it should be general I think bith men and women need to understand the concept of balancing out moreover doing the right thing at a time
This is a very good story and sometimes I can relate to it but I wouldn't sacrifice my love for my career because a life without love is boring. I want to keep it balance, having a quality time for my man and at the same time build a career on my own.
A New Love Official thats how its done prioritise the relationship
A New Love Official+ Good decision. Because your boss and colleagues can replace you more easily than your loved(Truly loved) ones.
Don't worry she would be fine with her emails...
💏💑💑💑
Isnt the title a bit inaccurate? This is about a workaholic, not commitment issues..
Flying Pirate But imo it still works based on the content of the video, workaholics typically have a rough time with their relationships, because they constantly focus on work.
Same thing. Cant marry anyone else if ur already married to your job
Flying Pirate
That's the whole point of it if you see well! It meant to show how workaholic people get more committed to their work that it disrupts their ability to invest more time and interest in their emotional and social relationships.
That is what the title says...
In 10 years, she'll be a millionaire still trying to buy love.
Tee Abbs but then again, love isn’t everything
It is 😢
@@nyankrunex9654 that is money, money isnt everything. Love is everything.
Carlos Parra money and love are both similar. They are both very highly overrated, and always considered more important than other valuable things in life. No, they can’t be everything. Never
@@nyankrunex9654 maybe you are talking about romantic love, which is a small part of what love truly encompasses, and yeah, that can be tiring and turn into something destructive at times. Its like saying that hatha yoga (the yoga that we see here in the west with all the fancy postures) is all yoga. Love, just like yoga, is something much more deeper.
He is realy a good BF
Really ur right
He's an okay boyfriend.
@@LatteSmurf 😁😁
Totally my ex gf. Workaholic, forget to love herself and forget how to keep this realtionship. She got Minimum salary sms also a maximum stress life. The worst, she blame all up on me? I work hard for her, my salary are more than her, bought her whatever she want. She is not even have a time for me. Even a night. And. Also blamed me for what i said. I want to help her, she refused it. Oke its time to go, i deserve better.
Benedictus Dewanto Adi Those are the type of women who end up 35 and single. Bitter and lonely, living with some cats and dogs. Women, this will be your lifestyle if you decide to prioritize your career and education over marriage and family.
Sally Lovelyy x hey not a bad word on cats or dogs!
I love my two furry babies
Same here bro. I also try to understand her, but she refused too. They just don't know the balance between life and work.
I have real commitment issues. I can't even have friends. I start hanging out with a person and we become friends. A week later I get tired of that person and just want them to leave me alone. Idk what's wrong with me. I always pull away for some reason.
dill pickle That doesn’t sound like commitment issues sounds like you just like new and trying new things
dill pickle I have the same issue- I open up to someone and we get close and then I become paranoid and then push them away and end up making enemies. It’s wonderful
dill pickle are u an aquarius? Cuz im am and like this too. I honestly can be with someone for a long time as long as they like trying neelw things and have a creative/wierd mindset like me
Just call me Stella Im a Pisces
dill pickle same here... Pisces as well. We are so weird...
99% of these comments: ALLISON????????!?!!
1% some random crap
Pinecone Power lol
I think this comment is in that 1% lol
Pinecone Power 😁
Pinecone Power IKR!?!
Yep 😂
This sort of thing can really ruin someone's life and relationship
I feel bad for the nerd😂
Aaliyah Lo A Njoe haha😂
He was in the anger issues. its cool that they link that episodes up
she just yelled at him for no reason, reserve your anger for people that deserve it.
Start kase kre
My boss is an workaholic. He's writing emails at 1 am, 7 am, when he's on a vacation, on weekends, really he doesn't have a life and assumes we don't have one either. 😅😅
What work do you do tho?
Did Allison come back or is this THAT old
simplebeautyxx that’s what I wondered!
Nah she's growing her bangs out so it's pretty recent
And I doubt she's back, I think she just wrote this video for them. She's a freelance writer
You can see a iphone 7
At 5:43
GUYS. IT'S NOT WRITTEN BY ALLISON. LOOK AT THE CREDS AT DESC!
its all for buzzfeed
So, shes back?
no if you look at the description allison is credited in EXTERNAL CREDITS which is separate from buzzfeed "Credits:" so she's a contractor not employee
pretty sure they mean EY BOI ALLISON IS IN DA VIDEO LEGOO
Part 2 maybe??
Lupe Beltran please!!!!!
God please yes
Every chapter in life doesn't always end up the way we wanted it. Things need to happen to "you" as a person grow.
no allison doesnt work at buzzfeed anymore
Part 2 is here - ruclips.net/video/rYSiaUmr17o/видео.html and there is also a part 3! Its basically part of a series circled on the theme of personality traits we want to "fix" and each chapter explores a different person's insecurities (but with different people).
I really hope they make a part 2, the story is incomplete. I loved their acting, the story, the emotions. Everything was just fantastic.
I was crying because all he was doing was trying to help her, and she doesn't see that she needs help. Its very hard to see someone you love struggle, and I just, I knew he was trying to help but couldn't because she was in denial and idk I just. UGH!
ALLISON ????
AsianUnicorn wrong it's Allison how you spelt it is how you spell MY name lol
Ally Burrett sorry lol
Wait what?? That's
Um... am I the only one confused by this situation? It was a great short film though!
she has commitment issues and she ended up hurting her back so now she HAS to commit on support of others
also when being in front of a computer for so long your shoulders begin to slouch. This makes it easy to hurt your back
Allison???????????
Anannya Sriram MY QUEEN IS ALIVE
Clød Bless You she and gabby have a channel called just between us
FruityCandy this was uploaded today!
She left buzzfeed wtf confused
According to Alison's twitter, it's new.
I see nothing wrong with her working hard but then she isn't willing to work things out. That's the main problem!!!
Finally somebody said it. So relieved.
Yes
Yeah, I definitely agree with you, but another problem was she wasn't JUST working hard... she was obsessed with her inbox to the point she eventually crippled herself from the burden, and that was also the problem. But you're right, her not wanting to talk things out was the major issue :(
EXACTLY. I've started to feel like the crazy one for always thinking of the "bad" guys as not-so-bad, or at least not as bad as everyone else is making them out to be.
EXACTLY
I don't want a sequel. Leave the story as it is. Hopefully, many people will get the actual goal of the creator/s for making this video. It is never good to work more than your body can handle. Life is short and too precious to make myself a slave to my job. What's the point of having all those money if you can't enjoy them because you have to see a doctor or rest in a hospital. You have the adoration of your coworker but the people who truly matters are not by your side to celebrate with you. They say it's a lonely place at the top but it doesn't have to be.
What if you’re an entrepreneur?
When you can't focus on the video content because ALLISON
Morgan Alexander lol
And she looks bomb! Look at her hair!!!
Wait what?? That's seriously Allison?!
She looks like a COMPLETELY different person with that hair & makeup!
She also looks less depressing? I'm guessing she's happier now since when she was an exclusive BF worker she was always well...depressing.
She's like a COMPLETELY different person!
iBeFloe Could be maturity.
for anyone thinking this might be an old video, she still had bangs when she was working for buzzfeed
Insanely good, can’t wait for another
12:00 when I heard that cracking noise my heart dropped, I thought about all the insane hours I would put into working. I had to draw back moving forward.
The struggle is real. It's difficult to balance work and love life.
AHHHH I MISSED THESE KINDA SHORT FILMS THEY MAKE.
Who else clicked because "Allison?!?!?! on buzzfeed?!?!?!"
Yooooo stop freaking out out over allison, shes not back, and this isnt an old video. Buzzfeed is constantly hiring actors for their projects who don't necessarily work for the company itself. In the description, it credits allison and refers to her youtube channel
Well she could just marry her job
U wrong for that one 😂😂😂
Lol,people now days 🤣
And then women ask where are the good men?
I don't think it can be better than him.
Sharath V of course there is....
Someone who could actually understand how hard is to build a career
Good answer.
@@erianpena2908 you don’t need to work 100 hours a week to build a career, lol. That’s a non-sequitur.
They were at different stages of their lives. He was ready to settle down, she was still in super career mode.
aside from all the Alison comments, this is a really good video with a really good plot lol.
Well, that was depressing.
The writer did an astonishing job and im so happy they got allison and nick to do this!
Sorry, but it's always this kind of a woman that gets a good man. Many men need to stop pining for emotionally unavailable females, and likewise, many of us women need to stop pining for emotionally unavailable men. What you see is what you get. If he/she loves their career and has time for nothing else, that's what you're getting into. Either accept it and re-organize how your needs are met, or move on if this isn't fulfilling your needs.
Good one.. though for some ... they get into a relationship and then find out their work is more important.. but they keep draging the other one around because they cannot let them down either.. its not really easy to just let go..
i see. i suppose it just all depends on the person
that is not true. don't lie
It goes both ways.
You know, as a student, I can really relate to this video. When I was a junior in high school, I only focused on work, and sometimes I would only get an hour of sleep every night because I was up studying or being paranoid about my grades. I made the grades, but my relationships and my health took a huge toll; I became more argumentative and was generally less happy. I also had fewer friends. However, since then, I've greatly improved in "working too hard" and balancing my work life and social life. To anybody out there struggling with this issue now, know that life isn't just about working, but it's also about savoring the good times: love, hope happiness, time with friends, or personal relaxation time.
Honestly I blame the country and how it stresses people out
Natasha Newwonders the U.S is a soul sucker
The hazard sign in the car was to show she can't decide which way to go. She is in a limbo.
Stop overanalysing this! Lol XD
But really, that is really good of you to spot that.
I love it when I see Allison and Nick paired together, whether on Buzzfeed or JBU. They’re able to play characters that just hold my attention and I love their performance.
The 3 things I learned was
Time management, self-love and self-respect. You need to be happy with yourself. Love yourself peace💜
I learned from someone that many persons all they do is study they don't find time for fun or even being in a relationship.
LOVE IT WHEN BUZZFEED MAKES THESE SHORT FILMS!
*IS ALLISON BACK ON BUZZFEED???!!*
I always shipped Alison and Nick together, never thought this day would come again :')
Em Kay its just a collab
Weren't they dating before? I'm sure they did but then quickly split up
I was expecting more of a ...
“Sorry, I got a new match on Tinder”
Video lol
OMG, this made me so sad, I kind of get both sides but seeing it like that is really devastating
I love how all these videos roll into each other and are all connected. Like each one showing a different side of the story in this world
She got some serious issues. He had no right to take her laptop. But, she is also not taking any of his advice. And in the end, I don't understand how he was the one who did something wrong. Being in a successful relationship requires both parties to give equal amounts of effort to keep the relationship healthy. As the old saying says, it is a team effort. There are no exceptions to this fact. Now we see in the end that she got a stretched back, which he tried to prevent. I hope that this is just hyperbole and people with real relationships aren't this dysfunctional.
In case you want to know where I got facts, I got them from a marriage councillor and from a relationship councillor. They told me that those were the key to a healthy, loving, and long-term relationship, such as marriage.
I definitely agree.
unfortunately this vid is not a hyperbole at all
manuelthegreatman haha you'd be surprised!
are we just going to forget about the poor dude who had an exam the next day? haha
So many years of school life to have a good college life and then this excruciating college life working hard for a good work life. Imagine how much she tried and she couldn't give up trying. You don't say "You need to see someone, like a professional", you talk to them nicely and you take them there.
Why isn't he working 🤔🤔🤔
Mighty Nora he’s got a pretty intense career himself. I was wondering the same thing
Every time theres a scene its late at night.... if hes normal he works an 8 hour shift so he'd be free
I think his a dentist
@@celticwind4122 but there's a morning scene where she finds out the ring . He is asleep.
I think he a freelancer
Sometimes I work up to 15hrs a day but I make sure that I have a (consistent) quality time for my boyfriend.
You're literally one in a million. But keep it up, since that is really incredible.
how is it possible? :(
I study 12 hours everyday 😪
Okay why has Allison never shown this kind of acting before, this is why she didn't fit in with the buzz feed shortvid-quantity max profit strategy, she is a real actor
THEY'RE ALL TIED TOGETHER...THIS IS AMAZING
I’m so glad he left her!
Derek is legit a Jonas brother 😂
I'm a workaholic and I do not have any regrets about not having a relationship and choosing my career over her. Because in the end, career and love both may leave you someday but the difference is when love leaves you you're left broken and miserable. And love will leave you eventually. Whereas when career leaves you, you're left independent and with money and happiness and satisfaction with life and self satisfaction for the work you did.
And if you're independent, great people will come into your life compared to when you're miserable and no one would wanna be with you.
Omg I freaked out when I saw Allison in the thumbnail
Emma Barton we all did
*legends says she still lays in the office*
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In real life, whenever your love life gets more screwed up the further you get in your career
I love how this video overlaps with the one about body insecurity and anger problems
Omg just realised this and Body Insecure are connected. Daaaamn. *claps*