Returning to Work After Psychosis or Other Trauma

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @briellehunter7233
    @briellehunter7233 2 года назад +14

    I’ve definitely self isolated far too long. I’m scared of everything but have no choice but to get working. Thank you so much.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing 🙏

    • @Rickybobby427xyz
      @Rickybobby427xyz 3 месяца назад

      This is what I’m going through right now. I still feel crazy. I still think demons are behind all my bad luck and angels are behind the good luck.

  • @M.Sid9.3
    @M.Sid9.3 Год назад +7

    Your content has been a great support for me, life has never been so hard on the daily. Thank you so much.

  • @MarioStankovic
    @MarioStankovic 2 года назад +7

    Dear Brother thank you for sharing your experience and giving hopeful thoughts. I am exactly at this point you are referring to, I try to free my self of this overwhelming anxiety and look at the small progress from week to week. Loving people, spirituality and faith helps a lot. ❤️

  • @simplewelshman
    @simplewelshman 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks for the content. Wishing everyone the recovery you need.

  • @kimlec3592
    @kimlec3592 Месяц назад +1

    Emotions that overwhelm a person can cause all types of mental symptoms. It is not an illness..but it is very disruptive to your life. Hearing Voices Network as well as Open Dialogue approach practiced in Finland since the 1980s, helps people to come back to themselves, usually without medications. Psychosis & other symptoms are actually emotional crisis. This is still very disruptive. But there is no brain disease or pathology. Only big emotions that need gentle handling.

  • @bobostyle1996
    @bobostyle1996 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great insights, thank you. I tried to go back to working two months after my psychosis amd it was really challenging. I gave up on that job and it was the right decision to make because I was in the early stages of psychosis. Now I feel much better and I'm working easier jobs, its been almost a year since my psychosis and I hope to become independent in the next months. For everyone going through this hard experience I would say: "slowly but surely". Keep pushing at your own pace, we can do it. Let's learn from this and may that make us stronger.
    Have a good one

    • @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi
      @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi 6 месяцев назад +1

      Are you still taking medication? I was also detected psychosis in early stage, but after one year I am thinking to stop meds. So I want to know about your experience?

    • @bobostyle1996
      @bobostyle1996 6 месяцев назад +1

      I was diagnosed with psychosis and started taking 1mg of risperidone in may 2023, I stopped taking it march 2024, so more or less 10 months.
      Every experience is different, I'm doing fine now. My family paid for therapy, twice a week at the psichiast for the first six months, then once a week. After the psychosis I had lots of problems in the relationship with my parents and my brother, I feel stronger now and I try and not interfere with their lives and try to support them in the measure that it's healthy to me. Thankfully my parents moved away, not far but enough distance so that I can feel calm in my house, the house that my parents own. I don't speak that much with my father, because he was aggressive with my mother when I was growing up.
      I bought a bycicle and when I used it for 2-3 hours a day everytime I could.
      I got closer to god and dig deep into spirituality and psychology.
      I even used to go out and drink alcohol and use cocaine with new friends as a coping mechanism.
      This is just my experience and if I share it maybe you don't make the same mistakes.
      Take your time, find what you like doing and do it as often as you can, thank god for the awakening that you received, follow your heart, this pain is all temporary, use it as something that will make you stronger, open minded and kind. Dont get into drug addiction, enjoy nature, the sun, the sea, the greenland that our god gave us.
      Important thing is to train your body, go for walks, go the gym, do something! Don't stay in the house thinking about what went wrong, dont take anything personal and forgive who did you wrong, free yourself from those thoughts because you dont deserve to think of them, you deserve to be free and to be at peace.
      Eat healthy foods, stay away from alcohol and coffee, drink pleanty of water.
      This too shall pass, I know that you can do it because you have it in you, you were given everything when you were born.
      Sorry for talking too long and grammar errors.
      Believe in you, you can do it.
      Love, Robert ❤️
      @@ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi

    • @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi
      @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi 6 месяцев назад

      @@bobostyle1996 Thanks for sharing your experience, it will be helpful for me.

  • @tinamarie1111
    @tinamarie1111 Год назад +2

    I just found your Chanel on my feed and I am binge watching your channel,great information on this Chanel I can relate so much to everything you speak of so I thank you 🙌

  • @emmajohnson2501
    @emmajohnson2501 5 месяцев назад +4

    I have psychosis 4 times and now I hear voices, I cannot work or look after my children nor have another child - I feel guilt, but still continue education & relationship.

  • @Persephone7243
    @Persephone7243 Год назад +1

    Thank you for making this video ! This is exactly what I needed to hear today.

  • @ania-sk9lz
    @ania-sk9lz Год назад +2

    I listen 2 meditation music ,chill out , asmr , deep om. Shamanic drums.... I'm recovering from psychosis... ( damaged brain 2 the rest of my life)

  • @mikecollins2371
    @mikecollins2371 2 года назад +2

    Just wanted to say thanks for the words of encouragement and sharing your story with us as always. Im currently working for the agency's program that helped me get through my psychosis three years ago. I just started so im still unsure how well ill be at my job of youth peer support. But the team is really optimistic and proud of how far ive come so thats comforting in having the extra support here. Im working for whats called the ihope program, and its sole purpose is to help people with first episode psychosis or prevent them from having psychosis at all. Anyway just wanted to share and give you some praise for your videos of encouragement.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  2 года назад +1

      Hey! Thank you for sharing! I'm so glad that there are resources like that out there and that you are supporting others through similar experiences. I am glad that you have enjoyed and found my videos of benefit. Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @toastytoast001
    @toastytoast001 7 месяцев назад +1

    So relatable, thanks, I feel less majorly bad about things

  • @12345tobal
    @12345tobal 3 месяца назад

    Great content! Video was helpful . It’s definitely good to find a channel for psychosis.

  • @aijazsiddique8713
    @aijazsiddique8713 4 месяца назад +1

    Hi Hayden. Really appreciate your opinion. Not really suffering from psychosis but more like severe vitamin D deficiency which made me bedridden for a few months. Looking forward to gradually getting back to work but I have to maintain my stress levels very carefully.

  • @getupandgo77
    @getupandgo77 Год назад +2

    this is so helpful! Thank you again

  • @DanFr33man
    @DanFr33man 2 года назад

    Hey Hayden, thank you for sharing, you've done a lot to make me feel less alone and more normal with my experiences. What you have to say often aligns with the more useful, meaningful and positive things I have learned about recovery for myself and others. I wish you the best for your continual progress and look forward to your future videos!!

  • @EmceePinks
    @EmceePinks Год назад +5

    Still having trouble with this after 8 years.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Год назад +3

      Sorry to hear this I am sure it has been a challenging journey. I appreciate you sharing this on the channel 🙏

  • @lazarmitrovic180
    @lazarmitrovic180 2 года назад +6

    I have my first date today, and it is first time after psychosis, and oh man I am nervous. Dates were always what I used to love doing the most, but now, after psychosis, damn, it is so hard,I am so weird in social situations...

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  2 года назад +2

      Thank you for sharing and good job having the courage to step out of you comfort zone! Good luck on the date!

    • @lazarmitrovic180
      @lazarmitrovic180 2 года назад

      @@justbeinghayden9451 Ty man

    • @aew234
      @aew234 2 года назад +1

      Just trying to understand what feeling weird in social situations means to you. Are you overly self aware or self conscious or are you still experiencing any low level symptoms that distract you where you can’t focus as much.

    • @lazarmitrovic180
      @lazarmitrovic180 2 года назад +2

      @@aew234 cognitive problems from my psychosis, my brain function rly bad. I have trouble understanding, memory problems, trouble focusing, I forget words... My head is just one big mess right now

  • @SadPerson-gr6qh
    @SadPerson-gr6qh Год назад +14

    Oh, I am So NOT returning to the work which gave me psychosis. Best for me best for the work. Housewoman now but no psychosis.

    • @yousmallfish5069
      @yousmallfish5069 7 месяцев назад

      Female privelege

    • @bobostyle1996
      @bobostyle1996 7 месяцев назад +7

      ​@yousmallfish5069
      Not a nice thing to say to a person suffering bro

    • @eye-leenlove
      @eye-leenlove 6 месяцев назад +1

      She’s being honest. It’s her way of healing. Her way of retreating! Jeeez. You guys are atrocious!

    • @aclark446
      @aclark446 3 месяца назад

      ​@@yousmallfish5069 Yeah, because women are actually inherently valuable. XYs are literally worthless unless you create worth in yourself. But most of you are incapable of becoming valuable.

    • @heidimichellemoenkhaus3569
      @heidimichellemoenkhaus3569 2 месяца назад

      I am female and do not have this privilege. ​@@yousmallfish5069

  • @marks8225
    @marks8225 2 года назад +1

    Thank you! This is content for me✌

  • @deannadempsey7277
    @deannadempsey7277 5 месяцев назад

    Very inciseful and much appreciated!

  • @redballoonluke
    @redballoonluke 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is fantastic thank you

  • @danieljones4648
    @danieljones4648 2 года назад

    Great video and good advice bro I can relate to what your saying really good points and practical steps thanks for another one keep them coming man

  • @queenoftemplar
    @queenoftemplar Год назад

    Thank you so much

  • @humptydmt3439
    @humptydmt3439 Месяц назад

    Sound advice I think

  • @Kristel280
    @Kristel280 6 месяцев назад +1

    I feel very frustrated with not being able to work or studie.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  5 месяцев назад

      That's understandable. Holding space for it being frustrating and identifying ways in which you do have control to take action are how you can feel more empowered.

  • @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi
    @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi 6 месяцев назад +2

    Can psychosis be recovered in a state that he no longer need medicine and no longer feel any symptoms of psychosis? Just need any honest review from you, any idea?

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  6 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, I am not on medication and do not have psychosis anymore. I was able to recover and taper off of medication.

    • @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi
      @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi 6 месяцев назад

      @@justbeinghayden9451 After how many days you stopped your meds? I'm curious because I also don't feel psychosis anymore and I'm still taking medicine from last 7 months.But the doctor still recomending to take meds. Due to side effects, I'm thinking to stop meds after 1 years, so I want to know about you, when did you stop your meds? Thanks:)

  • @asuicidemachine
    @asuicidemachine 2 года назад

    Good man.

  • @seanbertsch3999
    @seanbertsch3999 Год назад

    Would you mind including specific examples of what you experience? ie in experiencing a different reality.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Год назад +1

      I have videos that go into detail about this if you check out some videos about my psychosis experiences. Feel free to reach out if you have any further questions after watching those.

  • @greentea_3885
    @greentea_3885 Год назад

    May gof bless you

  • @Luke-xd5ng
    @Luke-xd5ng 4 месяца назад

    😎

  • @martymar2113
    @martymar2113 Год назад

    Feels like it’s a condom over my emotions

  • @Moonstonee212
    @Moonstonee212 Год назад

    4:00

  • @Moonstonee212
    @Moonstonee212 Год назад

    2:51

  • @ladydejaneiro
    @ladydejaneiro Год назад +4

    I'm amazed you still believe in spirituality and raising your vibration etc after a psychosis. I just feel ashamed. Delusional. I lost my faith.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Год назад +3

      I have always been someone who tries to find solutions to problems. In my search and pursuit of answers, I have found that a present-focused and practical approach is most helpful. When it comes to spirituality, I don't see anything we do in life as separate from spirit. For me, life, existence, and consciousness are manifestations of spirit. So I don't think anyone needs to believe in or not believe in it. It just is.
      I can understand why you may feel shame about the experience. It can feel demoralizing. Know that your experience is valuable and part of some peoples' experience. There is a lot of stigma in our society about states like psychosis, which is not understood. Know that it is similar to any other intense experience, like a car accident or the death of a significant person in one's life. You are not broken because of it, and nothing is wrong with you. I know it's difficult, and you can still grow, learn, and have positive experiences after having psychosis.
      I am sending you positive vibes and wishing you integration and connection. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @woutje280
    @woutje280 2 года назад

    Can you give me your opinion about my current situation? Im currently at a level where people can go fk themselves and idgaf about others anymore. I only have contact with my brother and step-sister, with them i only have the feeling that i can be myself. Is this a common phenomina of recovery?

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  2 года назад

      I would have to know more about the situation, but it sounds like you might have some anger and pain from being hurt by others sometime in the past. Anger can be part of the recovery process and can be helpful towards healing when funnelled into productive channels.

    • @woutje280
      @woutje280 2 года назад

      @@justbeinghayden9451 nah its not anger. I uhmm wrote it wrong down. Idgaf about other peoples opinions and people who want to change my life how they think i should live my life. And yes maybe some anger towards those people who think what is best for me. If i want to sit on the couch all day and scream i like cheese i do that and what other people think idc because most of them are retards anyway

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  2 года назад

      @@woutje280 You don't have to take other people's advice and you can live the way you want to. Just know that all actions have consequences, wether positive or negative, and if your actions are affecting other people you will get feedback on that whether you want to or not. When it comes to feedback and advice I try to understand the intensions behind the advice or feedback and why it might be coming to me. It can sometimes be a lesson for me to stand in my power, to become aware of a blind spot I have, or a little of both. Either way you have a choice as to how you respond.

    • @woutje280
      @woutje280 2 года назад

      @@justbeinghayden9451 thats true, but i think the only one's who are honest and true to me is my brother and step-sis. The rest is very judgemental and arrogant.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  2 года назад

      @@woutje280 It's good you have people who are non-judgmental and supportive. You choose who you give your power to. Give time and energy to people who help you grow, learn, and who genuinely care about you 🙂

  • @bobostyle1996
    @bobostyle1996 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hey, have you ever talked about the fact that psychosis can be present due to underlying trauma and more specifically childhood trauma?
    I ask this question because this was/is one of my interests after I experienced psychosis.
    If you did please link the video, if not you could consider talking about it in one of your next videos.
    Cheers!

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  7 месяцев назад +1

      There are many reasons why psychosis can present. I can look into this more for sure. Thank you for your comment.

    • @User98681
      @User98681 6 месяцев назад +1

      I went thru physcosis that was induced thru years of physcologival and emotional abuse throughout my childhood

  • @Moonstonee212
    @Moonstonee212 Год назад

    5:52