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7 Tricks to EASILY Win Any Argument!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 июл 2019
  • In this episode, you’ll learn how to win any argument easily, with just 7 tricks. The secret to always win an argument (win a fight) is based in fundamental persuasion principles that school probably did not teach you. If you’re arguing with your girlfriend, boyfriend, partner - whoever - this is the best way!
    This video is for educational and entertainment purposes only.
    Sources:
    www.psychology...
    time.com/53189...
    www.bbc.com/fut...
    / the-trouble-with-tryin...
    www.psychology...
    Music: “Straight” from Bensound.com
    Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (VO) for helping to create this video!

Комментарии • 669

  • @dbzlover8706
    @dbzlover8706 4 года назад +808

    "it's difficult to win argument against a genius but it's impossible to argue against a Idiot"

    • @SinoMelo
      @SinoMelo 4 года назад +38

      An idiot*
      "The aim of argument, or of discussion, should not be victory, but progress." [Joseph Joubert]

    • @BentReality.369
      @BentReality.369 4 года назад +24

      Hypnotize the idiot. You may not win the argument but at least you will have the satisfaction of seeing the idiot
      Walking off flapping thier arms and clucking like a chicken. Lol

    • @mavo3313
      @mavo3313 4 года назад +2

      Close but the second statement is inaccurate

    • @leethomson5733
      @leethomson5733 4 года назад +1

      @@mavo3313 No it's not , I'm right and you are wrong ok

    • @jan7996
      @jan7996 4 года назад

      True

  • @JazzyFabbry
    @JazzyFabbry 5 лет назад +681

    1 - Know Your Opponent
    2 - Dissolve Absolute
    3 - Create Relation
    4 - Show Flexibility
    5 - Nothing Personal
    6 - Admit Uncertainty
    7 - Avoid Competition
    and in the end... if you can't win...listen to some good music

    • @tonydarcy8371
      @tonydarcy8371 4 года назад +7

      Fair play to you

    • @Champtiste1
      @Champtiste1 4 года назад +2

      Awesome!

    • @MB-di8cw
      @MB-di8cw 4 года назад +1

      Thanks!

    • @dbzlover8706
      @dbzlover8706 4 года назад +6

      I usually apologize then when they feel bad I just go back to arguing lol

    • @itls8984
      @itls8984 4 года назад

      I like this

  • @darksoul479
    @darksoul479 5 лет назад +182

    No one ever wins. Make your points one time and one time only and move on.
    Life is too short.
    People are going to believe what they choose to believe no matter what you say.

    • @griff3683
      @griff3683 4 года назад +4

      In the end...This is true

    • @janedoe1342
      @janedoe1342 4 года назад

      True

    • @Muahaha651
      @Muahaha651 4 года назад +1

      True but in bigger cases it’s good to change opinions “for the better”

    • @Muahaha651
      @Muahaha651 3 года назад

      Duded Duded I think 70 or so years a pretty short considering how much the world has to offer

    • @Muahaha651
      @Muahaha651 3 года назад

      Duded Duded so are you 🤣

  • @prodarkzy
    @prodarkzy 3 года назад +47

    I’m going to add to this.
    1. If they call you names, leave.
    - This tends to happen when they are not confident that their opinion will be perceived well by you.
    2. Leave enough room for you to correct yourself
    - I like to keep a bit of room for correction in case I remember something about the topic that would be a better point to make
    3. Never change the subject
    - Most of the time people change subjects because they need to get away from the beginning topic due to a lack of support for their claim.
    4. Stay as confident as possible
    - when you lose confidence you make yourself seem like you don’t believe your point anymore, and are starting to agree with them.
    5. Don’t argue topics you don’t know much about
    - obvious but helpful
    6. Try not to argue over personal opinionated subjects
    - don’t argue because you think the color red is the best color. There isn’t any factual evidence to support that claim.

    • @sndalmri
      @sndalmri Год назад

      @@Mini-wd7qz swing swing swing

  • @ShaneHummus
    @ShaneHummus 5 лет назад +338

    I always stop an argument, I hate to waste time to people who don't listen. But this is a great help to win fast. But still, I will listen more and talk less.

    • @Vi-olynn
      @Vi-olynn 3 года назад

      I always listen on a agreement but it have literally time to say what I wanted to say, because the argument happened at school only 5 minutes break is not enough to win.

    • @davidvanklinken7138
      @davidvanklinken7138 3 года назад

      That’s so dumb- “I always”- really? Lol

    • @bradenr867
      @bradenr867 3 года назад

      @@davidvanklinken7138 what are you talking about. He’s saying he always stops an argument with people who won’t listen because he knows they won’t change their opinion

    • @user-lh5hl4sv8z
      @user-lh5hl4sv8z 3 года назад

      Don’t always listen, sometimes they make so many arguments it’s hard to counter it because the good arguments back up everything they say

    • @sus14_pog6
      @sus14_pog6 3 года назад

      Well, I don't hate arguments. I just found it funny. I like when I pissed them off. It took a lot of time. However, I hate them when they always repeated the same thing. And, I only do arguments when I was bored.

  • @ShaneHummus
    @ShaneHummus 5 лет назад +338

    I hate arguing, it takes a lot of time. I will use this to experiment and look on how to end and win it fast.

    • @fion3943
      @fion3943 4 года назад +4

      It's not about winning

    • @ghiaccio1885
      @ghiaccio1885 4 года назад +1

      @@fion3943 then whats it about

    • @Laser-Creator
      @Laser-Creator 3 года назад

      @@ghiaccio1885 it's about 1+1=3

    • @okay3131
      @okay3131 3 года назад

      @@Laser-Creator lol

    • @6xmaaaa
      @6xmaaaa 3 года назад +1

      ITS ABOUT WINNING. 🤣

  • @blueberryriver3220
    @blueberryriver3220 3 года назад +343

    It's when they interrupt you all the time and shout at you when you're trying to get your points across.

    • @ImeLara17
      @ImeLara17 3 года назад +29

      My opponent does this to me every single time.

    • @GenuineA-HOLE
      @GenuineA-HOLE 3 года назад +8

      Just make it seem like they’re the problem and then say that they never never let you speak and that they’re full of themselves when they shout and should act like a mature adult and not like a whiny child when they feel that they’re losing a unnecessary argument

    • @supremebearface9242
      @supremebearface9242 3 года назад +9

      Usually in that case u can do 2 things... walk away and leave them feeling dumb or physically fight them lol... if I can't make my point when I talk I'm not talking anymore

    • @perryh.5306
      @perryh.5306 3 года назад

      I always let my Sig Other win!

    • @topcat104
      @topcat104 2 года назад

      That's because they're taking each claim and proposition you make at that very moment and dissecting it, picking it apart to fit their side/narrative and throwing it back at you. Its a classic gunner dirty-man tactic. Not recommended for appropriate intellectual debates or arguments.

  • @hishammohammed4360
    @hishammohammed4360 4 года назад +195

    Imagine if my opponent is watching this video now.

  • @maybe.yellow
    @maybe.yellow 3 года назад +33

    For online arguing, one of the biggest tips I could give is neutralize your argument. Instead of implying that your point is 100% correct and your opponent is an idiot, really take in their POV and let them know that you understand where they're coming from. Basically, arguing without arguing.
    Let's take an example. You're having an argument with somebody about if the death row should be aloud (when people commit crimes bad enough, they get put to death.) You're argument is that no, people shouldn't be put to death. Your opponent is arguing that people should be put to death if their crime is bad enough. Here's an example of how this could play out:
    *Bad example*
    You: Taking away somebody's one chance of life is ridiculous. People can get better, we should try to help them with what they're going through instead of stealing their only life. [State opinion.]
    Opponent: So, you're saying if a murder steals the life of 20 people, they still deserve to have their life not taken away? Jailing isn't enough. [Challenge opinion.]
    You: Yes, there's a reason they committed that crime, that reason being a mental illness. We need to help them with their mental illness. [Supporting opinion.]
    Opponent: That's even more stupid. Even if we "help" them, they might wind up harming more people in the process. [Challenge opinion.]
    As you can see, you're now playing a game of state and challenge. Person A says their opinion, person B challenges it. Now, person B never has a chance to state their opinion since all they are doing is attacking yours. Both of you will go nowhere with this.
    *Good example*
    You: Personally, I don't feel like taking away life is the correct solution. If the goal of this is to stop people from killing others, why do we kill the criminal as well? Can't we help them? [State opinion and ask opponent for their opinion.]
    Opponent: If we don't get rid of the criminal, we could wind up with even more people dead. Some people aren't worthy of living. [State opinion]
    You: I see where you're coming from, it seems like common sense to get rid of the person that is doing harm. But we should at least make an effort to help them first.
    This way, both opponents have gotten their argument across and you've let the opponent know that you understand their point. This will allow for a more mess-free and productive argument.

    • @Luna_11.113
      @Luna_11.113 2 года назад +1

      Thanks for this.... this was helpful

    • @BlazerTheTazer
      @BlazerTheTazer 2 года назад

      You should be a doctor who takes care of mental people (not that I am calling you mental)
      You would be good at it 😄

    • @goodnight2798
      @goodnight2798 2 года назад

      Thanks it’s a good example

    • @evanneal4936
      @evanneal4936 5 месяцев назад

      Blaming mental illness is no excuse either because even people with mental illness know better, especially since they all have caretakers if they are diagnosed (unless they are undiagnosed, the state will make them a ward and care for them if theres no family members, who are supposed to teach them to know better) and if they don't know better they should not be in society anymore anyway because they are too dangerous, but still we taxpayers should not have to pay for them to live in secluded jails or homes either. Mental illness can be treated, most cases it's because they don't want to get better or don't want to take their meds or treatment, choosing to not treat your mental illness is choosing to accept the consequences of your actions just like choosing to take drugs means you accept the consequences that 1. You might die of od. 2. You might be arrested. Or 3. You might steal from or hurt someone while under the influence. If you believe people who do drugs should be responsible for their actions while on drugs, especially if they choose drugs deliberately after rehab treatment is available, then you MUST also believe that you are responsible for your actions while having a mental health episode if you fail or choose not to properly treat your mental illness, it goes both ways, you cannot believe one and not the other, thats hypocrisy. All people, even the homeless, are given free state health care and access to the necessary mental illness treatments. It's only the ones who DELIBERATELY don't want to get or receive help that causes problems, so they choose to do what they do while having an episode by not preventing it. If someone knows they go crazy off their meds and still dont take them and they commit a crime off their meds, they're still responsible because they choose not to take meds, thus choosing to do the crime. I know a poor female relative who was sexually assaulted and almost killed, and the person walked Scott free because of "mental illness" and he later admitted that he had purposefully not taken his treatment and meds because he knew he could do that and get away with it. My relative ended their life because of this, so I have a valid reason to have this stance.
      So, no mental illness is no reason to avoid death row either.

  • @angeldoglps114
    @angeldoglps114 4 года назад +66

    Me: *Here to win a argument against my little brother*

    • @goblin1073
      @goblin1073 3 года назад +10

      beat him

    • @hardsuperstorm2119
      @hardsuperstorm2119 3 года назад +10

      Beat the (OOF) out of him and blame him

    • @frankocean99
      @frankocean99 3 года назад +6

      I came here for that too lol, I usually just beat him up lol.

    • @noahdavid6519
      @noahdavid6519 3 года назад +2

      My brother complaint what ever I doo😭😭😭😭

    • @perryh.5306
      @perryh.5306 3 года назад +3

      I ALWAYS let my sister win ....and then I get in trouble for fighting with her....which I glady take the punishment!

  • @MrIFARI
    @MrIFARI 3 года назад +42

    "One person cannot "argue" - So just walk away." - My dad

    • @brendagonna6592
      @brendagonna6592 3 года назад +2

      My mom as well

    • @teriw56
      @teriw56 3 года назад +1

      Perfect, you can’t control the other person, however you can control your response.

    • @MrIFARI
      @MrIFARI 3 года назад

      @‏‏‎ ‎ First let me say that we ALL have a Holy father in JAH. My dad/"Pops" was like that - Seemingly very powerful and strong, wise and benevolent. Funny and caring. A provider that loved me always, even when I didn't always agree or understand what was for my own good. *The noblest thing a man can do is to do the best that he can*

    • @MrIFARI
      @MrIFARI 3 года назад

      @‏‏‎ ‎ I wasn't speaking of religion - I was speaking of spirituality.

  • @sanjanaskalloor2940
    @sanjanaskalloor2940 4 года назад +64

    Finally I am here trying to win an argument with my brother😂😂

    • @user-lh5hl4sv8z
      @user-lh5hl4sv8z 3 года назад +6

      Winning against someone your own age: Somewhat easy
      Winning against your parents: Normal
      Winning against your older sibling: Very Difficult
      Winning against your little brother: so stupid that their argument is unbreakable

    • @_klowy
      @_klowy 3 года назад +3

      Sigh my older brother just insults me without think about what he’s saying. And the fact that im a HPS (highly sensitive person) doesn’t help :/

    • @jahkaicousin7714
      @jahkaicousin7714 3 года назад +2

      Same!🤣🤣🤣

    • @zainabthedragon6528
      @zainabthedragon6528 3 года назад +2

      I was hoping to get some hacks so I didn't have to do the dishes tonight

    • @progaming-kk4oj
      @progaming-kk4oj 3 года назад +5

      For me..its my sister

  • @YvngGoat_
    @YvngGoat_ 3 года назад +7

    POV : Everyone who just been in an argument recently. 😂😂😂😂

  • @colinmccarthy7921
    @colinmccarthy7921 4 года назад +33

    Look the person up and down and walk
    around the person.Give that person one
    more look,then walk away with a big smile
    on your face.;SILENCE IS GOLDEN).

  • @bashiraliyu3282
    @bashiraliyu3282 5 лет назад +14

    I hardly argue. I listen and if I am convinced the other person has a better reasoning I am happy to learn. If I am convinced beyond doubt that I am right I allow other person claim victory if he /she so wish.

  • @cornchipinlegolad8703
    @cornchipinlegolad8703 4 года назад +15

    Where I live it's whoever insults the other first who wins. Since I never win I assume I'm the smartest person by not resorting to name calling and short winded insults

  • @griff3683
    @griff3683 4 года назад +13

    I've always felt winning an argument shouldn't necessarily be the goal. However clarity of position is.. Many people believe what they believe without giving it a sufficient amount of thought. Mostly surrounding themselves with "like minded" people. Never testing their beliefs only looking to affirm them.
    In the end we should all ask ourselves why we believe what we believe and steer clear of sabotaging or negating our own principles.

  • @ArturoCabello
    @ArturoCabello 5 лет назад +219

    How to win *any* arguement: Don't engage in any!

    • @samuelp2133
      @samuelp2133 5 лет назад +6

      It would have any sense, if the tiltle was ,,How to SURVIVE any argument"

    • @7Metal7Monkey7
      @7Metal7Monkey7 5 лет назад +4

      That's not winning an argument.

    • @TheCakoholic
      @TheCakoholic 5 лет назад +1

      Perfect way beat someone who likes to argue with silence.

    • @spectrum9092
      @spectrum9092 4 года назад +2

      That's what you called scaredy cat

    • @user-ym5rt7qw2h
      @user-ym5rt7qw2h 4 года назад +1

      Tom reedy: *insults*
      TopThink: *likes the comment of Arturo anyways*

  • @petermurungi7447
    @petermurungi7447 4 года назад +58

    Me.trying to win an argument with my boss got fired.

    • @aliwadani5970
      @aliwadani5970 3 года назад +1

      Why fired? Just address the issue and move on.

    • @johnnycaztejon7055
      @johnnycaztejon7055 3 года назад

      me also but not my boss my coordinator leader he thinks his salary is big he thinks i need the company no way for me than to do work with idiots like my leader

  • @marianrodova4337
    @marianrodova4337 3 года назад +8

    I know all my classmates dark secrets so if I get to argue with them I can make them uncomfortable lmao

    • @perryh.5306
      @perryh.5306 3 года назад +4

      Blackmail...that's great...you arebawesome!

  • @sdla690
    @sdla690 3 года назад +10

    I totally enjoy debates. I think it's the best way to learn and to know the 'truth'. In general, it's always more efficient to debate with numbers to present, and never set goal for winning rather than exchanging datas and personal perspectives. Avoid the ego sensitive ppl though

  • @JackGiblenSinger
    @JackGiblenSinger 2 года назад +1

    The best advice I got for something like this is not aiming to win, but to find a mutual ground.

  • @seeker5313
    @seeker5313 5 лет назад +28

    Simple trick(s)
    1. Just don't talk back
    2.stay silent
    3.stare at the person arguing.
    4.😨

    • @TopThink
      @TopThink  5 лет назад +4

      ༼ʘ̚ل͜ʘ̚༽

    • @MohsinKhan-nn6xu
      @MohsinKhan-nn6xu 5 лет назад +3

      I'm same way i thought i was weird 😪😥😭😭😭

    • @shamblezer1089
      @shamblezer1089 5 лет назад +3

      @@MohsinKhan-nn6xu you're not the only one

    • @alan2211
      @alan2211 5 лет назад

      So just show you don't care...I don't think that will solve any problems.

    • @movingon2081
      @movingon2081 4 года назад

      @@alan2211 true it doesn't work only cause more frustration. My mom does this and it's very dismissive so I end up feeling unheard and rejected

  • @starvethebeast6480
    @starvethebeast6480 5 лет назад +6

    I've learned the hard way that susceptibility is key. If I'm approaching someone who's not open to my perspective at all, there's little use in bothering to begin with. Adversely, if they are willing to listen, I can state my case and hope to make some headway.

  • @Indigoblue294
    @Indigoblue294 5 лет назад +91

    If it is with your girl friend even if u are right u will end up apologizing 😅

    • @TopThink
      @TopThink  5 лет назад +15

      LOL

    • @RareAries323
      @RareAries323 5 лет назад +6

      Agreed 1000% hahaha

    • @alyxxantara7544
      @alyxxantara7544 4 года назад +7

      Mine is the opposite.. I will always ends up apologing because I truly don't know how to argue back and I dislike arguments. I have a disorder that would actually make me feel stuck, like my brain dead when my bf arguing about me.

    • @ianvicente4042
      @ianvicente4042 4 года назад +1

      So true

    • @jjducci
      @jjducci 4 года назад +7

      More like if it’s with a woman... You will lose.

  • @schishne7546
    @schishne7546 3 года назад +2

    the problem is the arguments only start to pop up after i lost...literally every time when for example throws something at me and after a while fo silence or barely any response at all (because my mind cant think of even the most logical things) i go to my room and ONLY THEN my mind suddenly remembers millions of things i couldve said or responded with...why does that happen to me and how the hell can i beat this stupid thing my head does everytime ?

  • @aqdasfatyma2605
    @aqdasfatyma2605 3 года назад +7

    I'M HERE AFTER LOSING ARGUMENT WITH MY BF AND I'M ANGRY AF NOWWWWWW!!!!!!

    • @naehpaxor4211
      @naehpaxor4211 3 года назад

      Calm the fuck down princess diana

    • @SHAIK_FHAREEDH
      @SHAIK_FHAREEDH 3 года назад

      @@naehpaxor4211 lol replying to a comment 5 months later

    • @naehpaxor4211
      @naehpaxor4211 3 года назад

      @@SHAIK_FHAREEDH you replied to a comment a week later, it’s sad.

  • @tiffanymtsrs
    @tiffanymtsrs 2 года назад +3

    Me and my sister always fight and she always finds a way to win the fight this was a big help thank you

  • @nicholasrevas6268
    @nicholasrevas6268 4 года назад +4

    I love you too much to argue. After you say this, walk away and smile.

  • @FrayJaeBen
    @FrayJaeBen 5 лет назад +17

    I am here to brush up on my argumentative skills 🤣

    • @marissaporter2780
      @marissaporter2780 3 года назад

      same, I've got soooo much dirt on my sister now. It will be funny

  • @pointbreak2811
    @pointbreak2811 2 года назад +1

    I learned that it's okay to be wrong. Some things you gotta accept.

  • @Positivepworkouts
    @Positivepworkouts 5 лет назад +74

    The best way to win an argument. " You win, I'm not going to argue with you. " Leave.

    • @Anonymous-tk9re
      @Anonymous-tk9re 4 года назад +14

      That doesn’t win. That leaves you in an echo chamber. If you believe not exchanging diverging or opposite views is winning, the world has made you soft. Just the fact that you have fragility as your goal, speaks volumes about you.

    • @lucy-yh3fo
      @lucy-yh3fo 4 года назад +8

      No. That shows youre weak.

    • @coolhedgeboi8323
      @coolhedgeboi8323 4 года назад +8

      No that shows that you dont to waste time on that person

    • @lucy-yh3fo
      @lucy-yh3fo 4 года назад +2

      M C rightt

    • @AmberAmour
      @AmberAmour 4 года назад +2

      M C So you would your rather argue with random strangers on the internet for hours, just to prove a point and that you’re a badass.
      Or
      Move on with your life cause it’s all pointless.

  • @ingenuity168
    @ingenuity168 5 лет назад +11

    Why bother arguing. If I know I'm right, I don't have to argue my point. I let the other person think they are right. My peace and time are precious to me.

    • @goblin1073
      @goblin1073 3 года назад

      for god sakes if you say shut up to ur parents it’s game over

    • @ingenuity168
      @ingenuity168 3 года назад

      @@goblin1073 True. That's why children don't abandon their parents when they are underage.

  • @ProLogic-dr9vv
    @ProLogic-dr9vv 4 года назад +2

    Who wants to be friends with some who is always right and you are always wrong, you are always making all the sacrifices just so the other person can always be right.

  • @czjt79a
    @czjt79a 2 года назад +1

    Personally, I know I’ve won a fight if the other person starts throwing completely unrelated insults back at me, whether it’s about what I’m wearing or what I look like. It’s like their last effort to win.

    • @MorganAFunches
      @MorganAFunches 5 месяцев назад

      Omg! That's me with my family members! I have different political views than they do and when I say something outside of what they think the get loud, mockingly laugh, accuse me of awful things, and/or throw a passive aggressive comments!
      I just keep my mouth shut about it now even though I don't feel like I should censor my views or the way I think!

  • @shivenuttarwar6492
    @shivenuttarwar6492 3 года назад +13

    My mom just can’t accept that I won a argument
    Parents are loving in all but when it comes to arguing
    I become sad and get shouted at

    • @MrMJmusicLover
      @MrMJmusicLover 3 года назад +1

      Just happened to me 30 minutes ago 😥

    • @Harricota
      @Harricota 3 года назад

      Same that happends like 3 minutes ago

    • @iamwarranted4502
      @iamwarranted4502 3 года назад

      same

    • @FatherMighty
      @FatherMighty 2 года назад

      Had an argument with my mom today. It be tough

  • @MyMike004
    @MyMike004 4 года назад +5

    Being silent is the best way to win an argument. let him or her say, listen, and reflect for a while before giving your opinion. Especially, when the debate is really difficult. Give a neutral position would be ok, but do not admit you think it was wrong. Move on.

  • @maxccfc1927
    @maxccfc1927 3 года назад +1

    literally got into an argument midway through watching this
    our battle will be legendary

  • @mrcakey8012
    @mrcakey8012 4 года назад +10

    How to win: I’m gonna stop arguing because I’m not dumb...

    • @user-jl8wj8fz5q
      @user-jl8wj8fz5q 3 года назад

      Comeback: yeah sure whatever only dumb people say that

    • @kermitishot6061
      @kermitishot6061 3 года назад

      @@user-jl8wj8fz5q bc it's true

  • @sophieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee12
    @sophieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee12 4 года назад +15

    Parents: hmmm sounds like disrespect your grounded
    Me: no shut up im winning for once

    • @MrMJmusicLover
      @MrMJmusicLover 3 года назад

      Just happened to me 30 minutes ago. She just had to put it back on me instead of accepting that she lost. 🙁

  • @pioneerjatt93
    @pioneerjatt93 4 года назад +2

    win through your actions not your arguments.Robert greene

  • @gabybun
    @gabybun 3 года назад +2

    My friend just pissed me off by finding something I said and using it against me when I never said anything rude.

  • @maatonne
    @maatonne 4 года назад +9

    I usually just ask questions that would result in their own answers leading them to a dead end.

    • @gosiak3267
      @gosiak3267 4 года назад

      Like?

    • @maatonne
      @maatonne 4 года назад

      @@gosiak3267 Questions about the subject at hand, to establish their logic and viewpoints. Then I use their own logic and show them how it contradicts their own viewpoint.

    • @blakerobertson9989
      @blakerobertson9989 4 года назад

      Give a example

    • @maatonne
      @maatonne 4 года назад +5

      @@blakerobertson9989 For example, people in general like to make stuff up or exaggerate in order to make a point. You ask them where they got that idea from or how they can prove it. If you just say ¨that makes no sense¨ or ¨that is not true¨ they will only get defensive and the argument will get heated. So pretty much what I do is act like an ignorant student asking a professor to explain further. By doing this you can make the other person realize that they are not making any sense or admit that they can´t explain something. I mean they can still pretend to know what they are talking about but if they can´t explain they don´t really know. You don´t need to verbally win the argument, if you ask a hard question that basically makes their mind glitch out and unable to answer they have already loss. It´s like getting them to say ¨I don´t really know what I am talking about¨ but with their actions instead of words.
      Actions speak louder than words after all.

    • @Vi-olynn
      @Vi-olynn 3 года назад

      @@maatonne but then it's like they know, but can't explain it.

  • @MohsinKhan-nn6xu
    @MohsinKhan-nn6xu 5 лет назад +8

    I am truly afraid of argument and i was just thinking today what if there is a video that teaches argument and i just looked at my phone this showed up Thank You 🙇

  • @evanneal4936
    @evanneal4936 5 месяцев назад +2

    A good example of my point is the Israel Palestine issue despite the fact that it's a sensitive topic. I see many people siding with Palestine just because of religious related reasons over control of Jerusalem or because they are a fellow Arabic/muslim people or because someone in power in their home country told them isreal was the bad guy. Some even flat out lie without any supporting evidence and say the Palestinians were there before the jews(the philistines were conquerors not natives of the Levant) or tthey believe that since they conquered it in the past or are capable of doing so now, it means they can legally occupy it... But these people listen to propaganda and not real historical facts. Im not saying Palestinians are not a real ethnic group or that they don't deserve a homeland in the middle east, but what IS TRUE is that the jews are the original natives of the Levant(it was only called Palestine by the romans as a duchy title like normandy, not as a reference to who lived there) and during the crusades as well as the ottomans; they forced the jews to leave the Levant, and the Palestinians were tribal nomads who conquered and occupied the Levant the same way white settlers colonized America and forced natives to resevations especially since the ottomans encouraged the settlement of Palestinians in the levant because the jews kept rebeling and refused to convert. They always say the best way to make a region yours permanently is to remove the native population and move yours in, thats what the ottomans did between 1400 and 1922, they eliminated natives and brought in their own people. Just because Palestinians outnumbered jews in 1947 doesn't mean that the region belongs to Palestine, it never did until the ottomans ruled it. It's stolen and occupied land. The jews were there for thousands of years even before the ancient Egyptians and romans...the Palestinians weren't there until the middle ages at the earliest and even then they conquered the land they settled on, they weren't originally from there. "Palestinian" wasn't a real thing until the great nationalism wave of 1848 reached the Middle East. Before then they were happy being a group within other countries like the kurds, then suddenly nationalism comes, they want a nation state, like the kurds they are told no, and so they try to force the creation of a new nation state in someone else's land just because they happened to be settled there at the time, Palestinians have no legal or historical claim to be in the Levant. Thats why in the 40s, the UN originally gave Israel the land and not Palestine. They agreed to split it to prevent war, not because they recognized Palestinian claims. But Palestine started a war immediately after independence because a nation-state isn't enough. They have to eliminate isreal as a nation state as well. If im wrong, then why did they keep starting offensive wars with Israel (who was always on defense in every war) even though they had their nation state finally already? because its not about a nation state, they are jealous of Israeli existence. Also, to be fair, when you start a war and lose, like Palestine kept doing, you lose land fair and square. There's nothing wrong or illegal with that. Israel has never fully annexed Palestinian territory. They still exist as a free and independent nation, so the "free Palestine" sentence makes no sense at all. If We're to be historically accurate and legally valid, Israel is fighting an anticolonial war of reconquest against foreign occupiers who have no rights to be there. Im in favor of a Palestinian nation state, just not one carved out of Israel. Why not a different country be carved up to form Palestine? All of this is supported by facts and archeological evidence, im also a certified historian and history teacher, so i know i can prove all of this true. My point is, how do you argue with someone who believes lies and propaganda instead of facts when you have all the evidence and the balls in your court? Everyone sides with Palestine because of personal opinion rather than because of actual facts. They believe that since they agree with it or it benefits them that it MUST be true despite lacking in evidence that supports it. This comment is NOT my personal opinion. Everything said here ARE HISTORICAL FACTS that can be proven if you actually go do research.

  • @w1k1a
    @w1k1a 3 года назад +1

    my tactic is to just act stupid long enough to the point the opponent just gives up

  • @evanneal4936
    @evanneal4936 5 месяцев назад

    I have a few counterpoints to this... sometimes an argument is started because someone knows what they are talking about and the other doesn't. It's not a matter of different facts, but facts vs. opinions. In some cases, the opposite side really is just narrow-minded or refuses to accept truth because of a personal bias, but just because someone has a bias in favor of something that's 100% dead wrong doesn't mean their side is valid. So.e people argue just to be right regardless of facts. Many people believe the very first thing they hear, whether it's credible or not, and refuse to hear other options even if what they heard was completely wrong in every way. Some people have an agenda and are completely basing their ideas on propaganda. As a historian, I often see these types of arguments in comment sections. I often wonder what exactly you're supposed to do in those situations where someone is definitely wrong in every way and you're right in every way and can prove it, yet people still argue.

  • @pandabear6546
    @pandabear6546 3 года назад +1

    I think the deeper question is why do we feel that we have to win. In a week for two we don't look back and think. That argument I had with that vegan in the comments section was such a win. Or that argument I had with my boss showed him. Nope, think about it, he or she is still your boss... Arguments for the most part are pointless and emotionally draining.

  • @janfayeebojo9718
    @janfayeebojo9718 3 года назад +1

    Arguing can change life and change their bad behavior.Thanks for this video!

  • @natural_instincts
    @natural_instincts Год назад +1

    If you talk about winning an argument in a relationship, you will loose in reality because unless an argument is serious enough to be taken into consideration it must be forgone. Relationship is not about right or wrong, it's about experience you gain the bond you share.

  • @MooseBme
    @MooseBme 4 года назад +3

    WELL SAID! + If you are passionately arguing the same point from two different perspectives, or against each other and getting nowhere but bad fast: Fall back, separate yourselves and take at least twenty minutes to cool out. Come back, calmly and rationally explain yourselves :)!
    Bonus tips: 1> Long deep breaths though the nose. 2> LOSE THE EGO! Such as with the absolutist and "I have to be right" B.$.!
    You're welcome, good luck and BEST REGARDS TO ALL ;)!

  • @flacodinero5581
    @flacodinero5581 4 года назад +3

    Top think this was very helpful and informative! Thank you guys for this context

  • @paulwatson348
    @paulwatson348 5 лет назад +7

    You should argue to find the truth

  • @user56FR
    @user56FR 3 года назад +1

    Bruh right after watching this I got an add saying “there are free online councils to help with family and friend issues”

  • @vishakhamittal274
    @vishakhamittal274 4 года назад +1

    Sometimes it's better to remain quiet bcoz arguing from fools is just a waste of time and nothing else.

  • @magnetizzed
    @magnetizzed 2 года назад +1

    When you're getting destroyed in an argument so you correct their grammar 🤓

  • @BubuElisa
    @BubuElisa 5 лет назад +9

    2:33 he must be watching porn

  • @browney1571
    @browney1571 3 года назад +1

    arguing help me control my emotions when doing it . it also help me stand up for my self.

  • @itspkxdseriesyall1512
    @itspkxdseriesyall1512 2 года назад +1

    im here win an argument against my hecking parents , they NEVER speak with logic, and saying things that i didnt even do, if i said "i didnt do
    that " they'll say "how dare u to talk back to me" *LIKE HUN*
    *LEARN SOME LOGIC*

  • @Grolix.
    @Grolix. 3 года назад +3

    Discord Mods when they can't mute the person they're arguing with in real life

  • @poggersbutthole8444
    @poggersbutthole8444 3 года назад +1

    I hate it when the person i'm arguing with insists that he is is right even though there's more than enough evidence to prove it, after that they start to spread shit to others and warp the story so that i would be the enemy.

    • @jayda6030
      @jayda6030 3 года назад

      I swearrrr I hate that shot soo much 🙄😂

    • @mrdrip9980
      @mrdrip9980 2 года назад

      Every argument is as tough as that

  • @chaosdream21
    @chaosdream21 3 года назад +2

    "You don't argue with Annie, Garrett, you let her argue with herself until she loses." - Jeff Winger, Greendale Law Professor

  • @cloudyminami2623
    @cloudyminami2623 4 года назад +3

    Imagine that both side thinks about the fact that must consider about "what's make sense, what makes him or her thinks that way, who's gonna win then 😂

  • @kyukonut
    @kyukonut 2 года назад +1

    'You're allowed to be unsure' no as far as I remember that'll make your oponnent think you're acting dumb

  • @samuelp2133
    @samuelp2133 5 лет назад +10

    3:23 Where are his hands?

    • @TopThink
      @TopThink  5 лет назад +6

      ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @omed.h712
      @omed.h712 5 лет назад +1

      he has sold his hands

  • @SherXP
    @SherXP 3 года назад +2

    Gosh this arguing is genuinely gonna be the bane of my life.
    I hate talking and i hate repeating or stating the obvious to idiots more but i especially hate how they make ME of all people look smart even in the slightest.

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 лет назад +23

    The best way to win an argument with your girlfriend is using flowers and candy 🍭

  • @izsunk
    @izsunk Год назад

    Me:tries to prove my point
    My friend:screams out PROVE IT over and over 😂🤣

  • @Joe_blow121
    @Joe_blow121 2 года назад +1

    How to beat anyone in an argument.
    Step 1 - I know you are but what am I

  • @DJAyt69
    @DJAyt69 4 года назад +2

    I’M THE FIRST PERSON ON EARTH TO WIN AN ARGUMENT AGAINST MY MOM! Time to call the thanksgiving parade company to make a balloon about me saying first person on the planet Earth to win an argument against mom!

  • @exotc1861
    @exotc1861 3 года назад +2

    *"no u"*

  • @teacupanimates
    @teacupanimates 2 года назад

    This is such a useful vid to me and I like how serious this is as some arguments are just "monke agree" "monke disagree"

  • @tanyapahanvlogs4749
    @tanyapahanvlogs4749 2 года назад

    Thnks topthink really helpful ...

  • @apophisca2163
    @apophisca2163 4 года назад +2

    my rector told me to don't wear a fancy mask... because my school want to keep simplicity... BUT I KNOW *THAT FANCYNESS, IS MY OWN UNIQUE STYLE... MY PERSONALITY... and I'm about to teach my rector a life lesson*
    _cus I'm not a puppet... I don't obey BS rules_
    wish me luck XD

  • @Kneecaptain
    @Kneecaptain 2 года назад +1

    Just make a valid point

  • @ConsciencepartyUSA
    @ConsciencepartyUSA 4 года назад +1

    With traditional Asian parents that’s going to be hard to do. They feel they have to always win. Bc they have already been there done that. But they don’t want to understand that not everything is the same as the past. And even if it is why don’t they try to change it?

  • @yelezi7950
    @yelezi7950 4 года назад +2

    in that case i lost a argument to my dog because he barked over me yelling at him

  • @naneesmohmed1557
    @naneesmohmed1557 4 года назад

    An argument is a fight if you want to prove a point and don’t want a relation with the other person so I actually want to win an argument to some people and use your methods and reach a common ground with others that I really care about ,so in the end I clicked on this video because I’m sick of people who can prove their point even if it’s wrong and walk away making me furious that I had to stand to what I believe in ,I hate arguing, I hate it when it starts with friends and family but I would love to win an argument or at least a self defense argument to others who just don’t care about hurting the other person

  • @SundownerMGRR
    @SundownerMGRR 3 года назад

    Are you guys here because you can't win an argument or because the person you're arguing against is to stubborn to realize that they lost

  • @Soulvale88
    @Soulvale88 5 лет назад +5

    If any of these points come as a surprise to you than your problems are bigger than what any youtube video is going to fix.

  • @redgejeffersonsampior6731
    @redgejeffersonsampior6731 3 года назад

    Very concise explanation

  • @vibeyScar
    @vibeyScar 3 года назад +1

    I sent to my friend who argued and he stopped Arguing lmao

  • @SpeedSkeeee
    @SpeedSkeeee 3 года назад +1

    If you get muted or kicked out of the game means you win the argument

  • @uoohoo99
    @uoohoo99 4 года назад +1

    How about "You have a right to have an opinion" or " You can think whatever you want, but you're wrong"!!!!!!!!

  • @brooksproductionsstudios3389
    @brooksproductionsstudios3389 2 года назад

    Me: Watching this to win an argument with my mom.
    Ad: *Self defense*

  • @onyemakelvin6859
    @onyemakelvin6859 3 года назад +1

    Sometimes inflexibility works better

  • @unnamedchannel3976
    @unnamedchannel3976 2 года назад

    Thanks, I was really trying to prove i didn't get tagged

  • @aysumikayilli9322
    @aysumikayilli9322 4 года назад +2

    1:57 starts

  • @herculean616
    @herculean616 4 года назад +1

    You do have to understand. There are arguments you shouldn't win.

  • @BerishaFatian
    @BerishaFatian 4 года назад +1

    The tips start at 2:03

  • @switchbladeromance1466
    @switchbladeromance1466 5 лет назад +6

    WHERE THE FUNK IS PETER??????????😪😪😪😪😪😪

  • @mischiefvirgin3378
    @mischiefvirgin3378 2 года назад

    What should i say next when my mom pulls out his sacred weapon called slipper.

  • @abhishekroy7268
    @abhishekroy7268 5 лет назад +12

    good video but in begining 2 min you have bored the audience...

  • @jankocian9659
    @jankocian9659 5 лет назад +7

    Not 3 words, but 4 words: "I don't know."

  • @iceysue
    @iceysue 2 года назад

    If they want to argue with you, simple. Just say nothing at all, no one likes silence. So they'll try to fill the space by talking and still continuing lies. In that instant theyll slip up and just tell you the underhanded truth.

  • @jiriminarik6702
    @jiriminarik6702 4 года назад +1

    Nice video! I have a question tho... How to win an argument with a person that keeps arguing misinformed and untrue ideas, that they made by themselves or read somewhere, and are actively trying to persuade to believe them even though you 100 % know that they are wrong and showing them all the evidence and still they don't listen to you??
    You said in video that you should admit their perception. But how can you admit something that is completely wrong???
    For me, this happens all the time.

  • @BrightTheArtist
    @BrightTheArtist 3 года назад +1

    To Win an Argument:Don’t Argue at All.

  • @BentReality.369
    @BentReality.369 4 года назад +1

    Let them think they won the argument when they leave but if you did it right they will come back knowing you are right.

  • @oldheaddeuce2273
    @oldheaddeuce2273 4 года назад

    outstanding commentary,

  • @gumabllhasbobux8590
    @gumabllhasbobux8590 3 года назад

    Kid: Who asked?
    Me: YO MAMA! Who is also peppa pig!