i mean wow seeing myself how i can understand you without any mistakes and gets everything literally i was always watching your videos before like maybe 2 years ago and i literally were not able to understand you (as much as i can) but now oh my god can't explain my feelings 😭💛 to be completely honest your accent in arabic MUCH MUCH MUCH better than mine +ily 💛
Definitely in Elementary and up I think here (in the US) teachers don't hug so much. I was an early childhood teacher for five years though and we definitely hugged our kids daily. The parents called us their "daycare Moms."
We do this in Spanish too we say my daughter but anyone who loved you will say this too like your grandparents aunts uncles your friends mothers haha but it’s sweet
I can understand why the UK and most of western countries do not allow taking pictures with kids in kindogarden schools and restricting physical contacts with them... Sadly because of the many accidents that occur such as sexuall abuse that are conducted by either staff in these schools or bad people from members of the community. Alhumdolellah, this is quite rare in Muslims societies... Kids as young as 6 years old could go to a nearby shop and purchase some kandy alone in most Muslim countries. In western countries you can not allow your kid to go alone...
but I think allowing such young kids into the streets is a big problem here in Jordan, because they absolutely cannot understand the level of danger in the streets (mostly because of cars) and they are not aware of their surroundings. I've seen kids as young as 3 years out in the streets without any adult company!! I think this must be changed and parents should be much more responsible. Alhamdulellah there's no worries about someone sexually abusing your kid, but still there are other dangers in the streets and accidents happen all the time. I'd say : don't let your kid out alone until 8-10 years of age, and don't allow them to go until you are sure they are aware of the dangers in the streets and know how to cross the street safely.
@@daniaawni5180 Totally agree.... When I said a nearby shop I meant those little ones close to your home with almost no major street crossing... and I do agree that there are some reckless parents allowing young children to go out alone... I myself never allowed my kids to go to a shop alone until they were in second grade.. Yes they used to play with other kids near my home in a play yard as young as 3 years old but with company of their mother who would watch
There are several important reasons for the strict guidelines about social media and posting images in the West. One is simply just family privacy and another is protecting our children from social media. . . At such a young age they don't need to know how social media works or be influenced by it. In preschools here in the US, teachers are affectionate and do touch the children a lot actually. Incidents of sexual abuse are not nearly as rampant as the media might lead you to believe. . . .Sexual abuse is definitely a problem in the Muslim world, but because of honor and shame, these situations are handled differently. In the West, if someone does something shameful to you, you're more likely to report it to the police or even the news and less likely to be blamed for the incident happening to you. But, for example, when there were rape incidents among the immigrant Muslims at an apartment complex here in my city and some of the girls got pregnant, the families of the victims couldn't report it to the police out of shame and they tried to keep anyone from their Muslim community from knowing about it. As a Muslim friend explained to me, the parents would be blamed by their community members for that happening and would bear so much shame that they would have to either allow their daughter to marry the rapist OR move to another city where no one knows them. . . In other words, most shameful things are kept hidden or are covered in secrecy. I think most (or at least a lot of) sexual abuse everywhere happens, unfortunately, among relatives or friends of the family. As a result, a lot is kept secret.
@@rashidah9307 I am aware of the strict laws in the US and it should be... With a society that has almost no internal fear from God (I mean a big portion of the society) the Government should put very strict laws against rapists and other criminals... In one night in New York when there was a complete blackout... many shops and malls were looted. Even that the western countries are so open in terms of male-female relationships, but the raping incidents are much much Bigger than those in Muslim countries.... Not because that these incidents are not reported as you claimed but because Muslim societies still own that internal fear of God. Yes, there are incidents of rape that are not reported but wouldn't be be compared in any ratio to what happens in western societies
I didn't go to kindergarten so I never really noticed these things, I didn't realize there was that much gender segregation, I thought kids just play with like numbers or legos or drawing, things like that.. I don't think they do the same in elementary school though, at least my school didn't..
hallo thank you for this nice topic and i enjoy your comparsion its truly interessting to see the different perspectives between two different cultures thank you
The more years pass by the younger they starte to gender segregate. I remember when after the fifth grade we got separated but stayed in the same building until 7th grade the buys moved into the building across form ours. But apparently they changed it and started from third grade which personally find unnecessary.
ممكن معلومات عن شهادتك الجامعية وهل تستطيعي العمل في عمان وهل الراتب يكفي ام انه رمزي وكيف تستطيع الام العاملة ادارة وقتها واين يمكن لها ان تضع اطفالها اثناء العمل
Loved this video thanks for sharing! Do you think your experiences as a mother in Jordan would be different if you had daughters instead or had daughters in the future?
I love your videos very much and they are very nice, but there is a small note that I hope does not bother you, which is to make the hijab better so that the neck does not appear, as in the profile picture is correct. Thank you 🌸
@@rashidah9307 He is advising her to be better what's wrong with that? If you see a child building a Lego tower and he keeps missing one structural block every time , would you let him be, or help him by offering advice? The neck was mentioned in the Quran, the hijab started as a modest cover, but with it mixing with fashion it has become a simple cloth for style, soon we will bear witness of "كاسيات عاريات" and there will be no way of going back.
@@shapsugh1864 We're coming from different worldviews, so I respectfully disagree. In my context, it's inappropriate for a male stranger to tell a woman how she should dress unless he's her father or husband.
@@rashidah9307 so a sheikh is a male stranger that has no authority over advising and teaching Muslims how to dress whether they're female or male? You're straying away from religion... plus the prophet himself was a "male stranger" to women at the time. These aren't different worldviews it's literally in the Quran
@@shapsugh1864 I'm not a Muslim, so we are talking about different worldviews and perspectives. . . My parents gave me an Arabic name because they were both Muslims at the time, but now I am a follower of Yesoua. Blessings!
I was wondering , are you bored of wearing head cover , and Y you u r not wearing it properly ? If you still not convinced about it , you could ..........you know!
I was wondering Why are you asking all these stupid questions 🙄, and why do you care about what people are wearing? If you are obsessed about people's clothing, you could....you know!
Back then when Rachel wore the hijab she said no one made her do it ,she wore it bc she was convinced it was the right thing to do And for not wearing it properly part she is still new to hijab and still learning how to put it ,style it etc especially that she is foreign it’s normal
@@everythingsfree3468 I was wondering Why do you care about racheal's appearance , and Y you are not focusing on your own appearance? If you are not her guardian, then you could .....you know!
@@razzaa01 he's offering advice, even if it's coming off as aggressive, he's not forcing anything, he's simply questioning her actions from going fully covered to partially covered, you don't have to be somebody's guardian to be able to offer him advice, especially when you're both Muslims, brothers/sisters in Deen.
we gotta listen to people like you if we want to keep getting better and better.
I mean you kinda know what's the best of both worlds.
The same exact thing happens with "Ya mama" in the south of Italy !!! And coming from northern Italy, I have always found it weird too 😅
Cuz Spain was under Islamic rule for well over 700 years.
I had a sweet professor at Hashemite University that used to call all of her students ya mama 😅 it was utterly confusing for university level
that's a little weird lol, but still much better that doctors with MASSIVE ego's.
@@daniaawni5180 Yes! I totally agree
@@daniaawni5180 not really weird if you're the same age as his/her kids, as we said it's a form of endearment
i mean wow
seeing myself how i can understand you without any mistakes and gets everything literally
i was always watching your videos before
like maybe 2 years ago
and i literally were not able to understand you (as much as i can)
but now oh my god can't explain my feelings 😭💛
to be completely honest your accent in arabic MUCH MUCH MUCH better than mine +ily 💛
Definitely in Elementary and up I think here (in the US) teachers don't hug so much. I was an early childhood teacher for five years though and we definitely hugged our kids daily. The parents called us their "daycare Moms."
We do this in Spanish too we say my daughter but anyone who loved you will say this too like your grandparents aunts uncles your friends mothers haha but it’s sweet
I can understand why the UK and most of western countries do not allow taking pictures with kids in kindogarden schools and restricting physical contacts with them... Sadly because of the many accidents that occur such as sexuall abuse that are conducted by either staff in these schools or bad people from members of the community.
Alhumdolellah, this is quite rare in Muslims societies...
Kids as young as 6 years old could go to a nearby shop and purchase some kandy alone in most Muslim countries. In western countries you can not allow your kid to go alone...
but I think allowing such young kids into the streets is a big problem here in Jordan, because they absolutely cannot understand the level of danger in the streets (mostly because of cars) and they are not aware of their surroundings.
I've seen kids as young as 3 years out in the streets without any adult company!! I think this must be changed and parents should be much more responsible.
Alhamdulellah there's no worries about someone sexually abusing your kid, but still there are other dangers in the streets and accidents happen all the time.
I'd say : don't let your kid out alone until 8-10 years of age, and don't allow them to go until you are sure they are aware of the dangers in the streets and know how to cross the street safely.
@@daniaawni5180 Totally agree.... When I said a nearby shop I meant those little ones close to your home with almost no major street crossing... and I do agree that there are some reckless parents allowing young children to go out alone... I myself never allowed my kids to go to a shop alone until they were in second grade.. Yes they used to play with other kids near my home in a play yard as young as 3 years old but with company of their mother who would watch
Well stated
There are several important reasons for the strict guidelines about social media and posting images in the West. One is simply just family privacy and another is protecting our children from social media. . . At such a young age they don't need to know how social media works or be influenced by it. In preschools here in the US, teachers are affectionate and do touch the children a lot actually. Incidents of sexual abuse are not nearly as rampant as the media might lead you to believe. . . .Sexual abuse is definitely a problem in the Muslim world, but because of honor and shame, these situations are handled differently. In the West, if someone does something shameful to you, you're more likely to report it to the police or even the news and less likely to be blamed for the incident happening to you. But, for example, when there were rape incidents among the immigrant Muslims at an apartment complex here in my city and some of the girls got pregnant, the families of the victims couldn't report it to the police out of shame and they tried to keep anyone from their Muslim community from knowing about it. As a Muslim friend explained to me, the parents would be blamed by their community members for that happening and would bear so much shame that they would have to either allow their daughter to marry the rapist OR move to another city where no one knows them. . . In other words, most shameful things are kept hidden or are covered in secrecy. I think most (or at least a lot of) sexual abuse everywhere happens, unfortunately, among relatives or friends of the family. As a result, a lot is kept secret.
@@rashidah9307 I am aware of the strict laws in the US and it should be... With a society that has almost no internal fear from God (I mean a big portion of the society) the Government should put very strict laws against rapists and other criminals... In one night in New York when there was a complete blackout... many shops and malls were looted.
Even that the western countries are so open in terms of male-female relationships, but the raping incidents are much much Bigger than those in Muslim countries.... Not because that these incidents are not reported as you claimed but because Muslim societies still own that internal fear of God.
Yes, there are incidents of rape that are not reported but wouldn't be be compared in any ratio to what happens in western societies
I don't put my children photos because I respect his privacy
I didn't go to kindergarten so I never really noticed these things, I didn't realize there was that much gender segregation, I thought kids just play with like numbers or legos or drawing, things like that..
I don't think they do the same in elementary school though, at least my school didn't..
hallo thank you for this nice topic and i enjoy your comparsion its truly interessting to see the different perspectives between two different cultures thank you
كل يوم بتصيري احلى من الي قبله الله يحميكي ❤️
U look really beautiful ♥️
Am Algerian and my gf is Canadian and she saw all your videos keep up
@@hamzaslr9093 who tf are you ??
@@hamzaslr9093 i was being nice she said at the first of the video that she made new look so i complimented her is there something wrong with that ?
Thanks for sharing! Your makeup and lipstick looks so pretty. Maybe do a video on your makeup sometime ☮️💕
The more years pass by the younger they starte to gender segregate. I remember when after the fifth grade we got separated but stayed in the same building until 7th grade the buys moved into the building across form ours. But apparently they changed it and started from third grade which personally find unnecessary.
Are there any cute Jordanian children's shows I can watch to practice Arabic?
أهلاً بك في مجتمعاتنا العربية الإسلامية 💕
I really hate it when parents share their children's pictures especially when they are not dressed very well just because they think it's cute 😫
ممكن معلومات عن شهادتك الجامعية وهل تستطيعي العمل في عمان وهل الراتب يكفي ام انه رمزي وكيف تستطيع الام العاملة ادارة وقتها واين يمكن لها ان تضع اطفالها اثناء العمل
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Try Choueifat School in Amman.
you're a star ⭐
I need native speaker to learn with him english ♥any native speaker hear?
Following u since long time ⌛. Love u
Heeeey ,
You're looking amazing
Nice Topic Rachel , keep going
Very nice video 😊👍🏻
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Love From Pakistan
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Loved this video thanks for sharing! Do you think your experiences as a mother in Jordan would be different if you had daughters instead or had daughters in the future?
You are speaking about gender segregation and you have this thing all over your head?
what do you mean by gender segregation because in my childhood - born in 1987 - segregation started at 4th grade not before
I love your videos very much and they are very nice, but there is a small note that I hope does not bother you, which is to make the hijab better so that the neck does not appear, as in the profile picture is correct. Thank you 🌸
Why does it matter if her neck appears? I feel sad that Muslim women have to deal with this kind of criticism from fellow Muslims.
@@rashidah9307
He is advising her to be better what's wrong with that?
If you see a child building a Lego tower and he keeps missing one structural block every time , would you let him be, or help him by offering advice?
The neck was mentioned in the Quran, the hijab started as a modest cover, but with it mixing with fashion it has become a simple cloth for style, soon we will bear witness of "كاسيات عاريات" and there will be no way of going back.
@@shapsugh1864 We're coming from different worldviews, so I respectfully disagree. In my context, it's inappropriate for a male stranger to tell a woman how she should dress unless he's her father or husband.
@@rashidah9307 so a sheikh is a male stranger that has no authority over advising and teaching Muslims how to dress whether they're female or male? You're straying away from religion...
plus the prophet himself was a "male stranger" to women at the time.
These aren't different worldviews it's literally in the Quran
@@shapsugh1864 I'm not a Muslim, so we are talking about different worldviews and perspectives. . . My parents gave me an Arabic name because they were both Muslims at the time, but now I am a follower of Yesoua. Blessings!
I was wondering , are you bored of wearing head cover , and Y you u r not wearing it properly ?
If you still not convinced about it , you could ..........you know!
I was wondering Why are you asking all these stupid questions 🙄, and why do you care about what people are wearing? If you are obsessed about people's clothing, you could....you know!
@@razzaa01 what makes them stupid questions?
I don't care about clothing , I care about Rachel's appearance , for many reasons
Back then when Rachel wore the hijab she said no one made her do it ,she wore it bc she was convinced it was the right thing to do
And for not wearing it properly part she is still new to hijab and still learning how to put it ,style it etc especially that she is foreign it’s normal
@@everythingsfree3468 I was wondering Why do you care about racheal's appearance , and Y you are not focusing on your own appearance? If you are not her guardian, then you could .....you know!
@@razzaa01 he's offering advice, even if it's coming off as aggressive, he's not forcing anything, he's simply questioning her actions from going fully covered to partially covered, you don't have to be somebody's guardian to be able to offer him advice, especially when you're both Muslims, brothers/sisters in Deen.