WORKING IN A TOXIC SCHOOL | Finally Opening Up About My Experiences + Answering Your Questions

[@MrsCallsCampers]

*What advice would you give to a teacher who is in a toxic school? What would you tell your past self, if you've been there?*

[@mzzzzzzday]

Mind your business, stay in your room, make plans to leave.
Big on, mind your business! Watch who you talk to!

[@sarahp444]

Find your marigold (a teacher who inspires and pushes you to be a better teacher - go to them for help when you need it). Don't allow your current circumstances to affect your self-esteem and make you question your teaching ability. Focus on your strengths. Close your door and teach to the best of your ability.

[@Stephanie__H]

I was in a very very toxic school and I stayed for years, to the point it affected my health. I was young, new and I should have left.

[@salamarinita]

Definitely make plans to leave, find a mentor/friend in your building, don't stay in your room - you need a daily break! My school was great in the beginning but then became toxic. I should have left but didn't. The 5th principal finally forced me out and I changed levels completely. I am very fortunate to have landed at a school where all the staff are supportive. This will be a great school to retire from. I'm sorry you had such a horrible experience early in your career. I'm glad you found a good school!

[@ga6589]

Retired teacher here, 36 years as a public school primary teacher. I was always in the same district, but had different experiences in different schools and during my tenure worked under 9 or 10 different administrations. IMO, the principal set the tone for everything in a particular setting. I recall 2 "toxic" principals that really made the job miserable and it affected the overall climate and morale of the staff. When this happens, people tend to become defensive, retreat to their respective corners, or become part of a clique looking for favoritism from the main office. New comers are looked upon with suspicion. I requested a transfer twice and it was granted. It made all the difference. Once it was after coming back from a 5 year child care leave. (No one gets that today!). My school had been completely transformed by a new principal and it wasn't for the better. I felt like Alice in Wonderland falling down the rabbit hole. Overall, I was fortunate to have very good principals who cared about kids and their staff. Students can't do their best if the staff is degraded, manipulated and turned against each other. All you can do in this type of situation is to keep a LOW profile, keep your door shut, possibly connect with at least one other kindred spirit, and find a way to another school.

[@Catfluff521]

Dearest teachers, It’s not you, it’s them. It’s the unsupportive, cliquey coworkers, the incompetent administrators, the poorly raised children, the bully/inept parents. It’s not you. Education in this country is 100% broken in so many ways. Sorry for all the teachers out there having awful, heartbreaking experiences. So sad to see committed professionals treated so badly when all they want to do is teach children.

[@KayGee4319]

Omg this…THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!!! The gaslighting is killing me - we NEED these messages to know it is NOT us!!! It is NOT that we can’t, it’s that we CAN’T under impossible circumstances and ridiculous expectations that don’t work with today’s teaching environment! 🫶

[@rose-kh1qv]

Hey Ms. Call! My brother had you last year, and talks about how he misses you all the time! I just wanted to know that you are such an amazing teacher, I visited your class last year and your kids were so well behaved and always had a big smile on their faces! My parents loved getting updates from you during the day seeing all the fun and creative activities that they were doing. My brother would come home always excited to tell us about his day and what he learned💕. This is the second year going the the school that you are talking about in this video. I have noticed this year how unorganized and toxic the school is, especially in how the teachers and staff act toward students and how they handle problems. I hope you are doing well 💕

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Hi! Thank you so much for sending this 🥺💛 That makes my heart so happy!!!! My kinder babes from last year will always have my heart!!!!! Feel free to reach out any time! And I hope that things get better for everyone there. 💛 Sending love!

[@samarimcdonald673]

You can tell those who truly care about the kids and those who do it for a pay check and were the mean kids in school because they act that way as an adult working with children, it’s terrible. Props and shoutout to you, as a future teacher I would be honored to work with you. You seem so dedicated towards your babies, and so kind and genuine. I’m so glad you’re in a safe space now.

[@sailexw6414]

This is exactly why I never leave my classroom, the students are awesome but most of the administraters are toxic af

[@yaimavol]

But why do you think these kinds of people always get to that level?

[@Augfordpdoggie]

@@yaimavol i was going to ask the same question

[@beatagoodluck9110]

@@yaimavol narcissim

[@jeffs7915]

Why did some people in concentration camps work for the Nazis? Survival was more important than morality.
Why do most people become administrators, because their desire for income, power, avoiding discovery of incompetence is greater than morality.
Am I comparing administrators to the concentration camp Kapos, no, the administrators are far worse, administrators aren't facing life and death situations, they just want their own parking spot.
Let's lay out, I believe few people as pre-college student dream of one day becoming an administrator. The vast majority of principals leave teaching for
a principalship, because the classroom is not survivable for them. The are not
motivated by a desire to have a greater impact on students. Their impact usually is focused on the teacher they rule over.

[@rhondat5921]

This is year 14 for me. I taught at my very first school for 11 years. People - teachers came and went, all had different issues. I didn’t experience the things they did. When my principal was FORCED to retire, she helped me get a job at another school. If she wasn’t going to be there, I didn’t want to be there. This new school is VERY TOXIC!!! There are so many cliques. I feel like you did at your previous school. They don’t know me from Joe Blow but had already formed an opinion of me. I would go in each day with a smile and positive attitude. I would speak to everyone I would see and/or pass in the hallway. You would think I’d cussed them out, the way they looked and responded - if they responded. This school year I started off speaking and being nice and when I wasn’t met with the same I stopped. Now I only speak and talk to a small handful of people. I have to get “prayed” 🙏🏾 up before walking into the building each day.

[@yaimavol]

This really is hard to understand. With all the challenges of teaching today, one would think the teachers would support each other.

[@kloewe6069]

@@yaimavol I wonder if admin or some other system within the school pits teachers against each subconciously? Or maybe its a cycle of toxicity, the cliques form to protect each other but the issue with cliques is that they are inherently hostile to new faces; BECAUSE they are made to protect their members! So it just reinforces the toxic environment

[@shanlange6331]

They’re not thinking about you. They’re thinking about their rotten days……. And you are just one more person they don’t know and have to get to know.

[@shanlange6331]

They’re not thinking about you. They’re thinking about their rotten days……. And you are just one more person they don’t know and have to get to know.

[@gailrothermund9209]

I recently retired after 30 years teaching in a toxic school. I can’t even begin to tell you how awful it was and how amazing it felt to walk out of that school for the last time. However, I’ve gotten another chance to teach in another state and I absolutely love going to work every day. I am with an amazing First Grade team that I love! I wish you the best and I appreciate that you shared your experience! ❤️

[@brianagrizzard4605]

I hate that you dealt with that for so long! 💔

[@corm1000]

I worked as a teacher's assistant a few years ago, in a special needs classroom. The teacher I was paired up with did not like me, for reasons that were never made clear to me. She wasted no time in trying to get me fired. Finally she succeeded and she was able to get the principal to fire me. Since then I've been in other schools and the teachers there have always been very complimentary toward me and very kind as well. It all depends on where you're at I believe. You could be in one place and be in a terrible situation, you could have the same job in a different location and it could be great.

[@mysteryworld8170]

Yes, exactly I was in a similar situation but it turned out differently.

[@sarahp444]

Honestly, it's refreshing that you post about the pros and cons of teaching in your videos. You have a good balance of being positive yet realistic...it makes you relatable to your viewers. This empowers us to improve and MAKES us want to open up to you in the comments.

[@cassandraroberts3711]

Toxic schools are the worst! It kills your teacher heart because you want to be there for the kids but the environment is terrible. I feel your pain girl! Two years ago I worked at a school that was toxic. No matter what I did the staff and administration didn’t accept me as one of their own. I felt awkward and uncomfortable every day I walked in the door but still had to be there for the kids. It’s really hard to deal with that on top of all the normal stress of being a teacher.
I got my letter of resignation from my principal through the mail to my actual house. He never mentioned it not being a good fit or talked to me one on one. Getting a letter in the mail was the most degrading and embarrassing thing that could have happened on top of how I was treated the whole school year.
I could go on forever, but the good thing is we both found schools that value us as not only educators but human beings. You’re an amazing and inspiring teacher! Thank you for sharing this so other teachers know it can happen to anyone. I hope you have a great rest of your school year! 💙

[@dannimack1020]

I was in a toxic school for 13 years but I didn’t realize how bad it damaged me. I finally was able to apply to be a teacher at that school and the principal shut me down after dragging me on thinking it would finally happen. Once I realized I was never going to be more than an assistant to them, I applied everywhere. I’m now at a school that truly loves me for who I am and I’m still recovering from the trauma of the old school. It definitely is like PTSD, I agree with you. My new principal is so supportive and is amazing. Proud of you for sharing all this!

[@DarinNakakihara]

I'm so happy for you, Danielle!

[@dannimack1020]

@@DarinNakakihara thank you Darin! That means so much!

[@kcourtney6826]

My first year of teaching was in a charter school and it was a horrible ( no support, no supplies, etc), but it did prepare me for the level of unprofessionalism I would have to deal with for the next 8 years during my teaching career. I’m glad things got better for you we need more excited teachers like you. If you guys ever move to the Texas area you will have no problem finding a job.

[@kia.kikiii]

So glad you’re in a safe space now. It’s crucial that the work place and people in it is supportive. I totally relate to feeling like no one likes you or “hears” you. The advice I would give is to NEVER settle for a toxic environment or people who make your contribution seem like it’s not enough. I would tell my past self that there’s so much more room to grow and that I don’t have to stay in that box for fear that I don’t know what’s out there. I can honestly say where I am now is the most healthy I’ve ever been, and it is triggering bc I’ve never experienced that.

[@Zhoomtunes]

I just want to reach through this screen and hug you. I am so sorry for your experience! I am an "older" teacher in a private school and have come alongside my own daughter, now a 2nd year Kindergarten teacher. I have learned so much from the younger teachers and love the "give and take" of mentor/mentee teacher relationships. Hang in there, you are making a difference. I love the Bible verse in I Timothy 4:12 : "Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example..."

[@Mabelliene]

I also had an odd interview where the headmaster talked the whole time, and when he asked my opinion about something and I gave it, he told me I was wrong 😳 when they called me weeks later to offer me the job I had already accepted a different one. Looking back on it, it was a major red flag and I'm really glad I didn't take the job!

[@kloewe6069]

That's really great that you passed that opening, we really need to follow our instincts when it comes to interviews- and remember that its just as much an interview for them as it is for us! As women in general we need to trust ourselves and our instincts, without guilt or acquiescence. I made the mistake of taking a job at the expense of my intuition- And I paid the price for it!

[@malloreygarrett892]

I was in a horrible toxic school the last two years. I wanted to leave after the first year but found out I was pregnant and needed the health insurance. It was the longest, most stressful and unhappy 10 months of my life and I’ll never forgive them for making the months of my pregnancy a living hell. I ended up taking a position at a different district where the pay is significantly less but the atmosphere is WONDERFUL.

[@MamaCrocker1]

I am the new kid on the block at my new school, though not a new teacher. I am a veteran teacher of 20 years, but new to public school in my district. So much of what you are saying resonates with me. A few of my new staff members are downright rude to me. I try to be friendly, bubbly, and energetic because that is who I am. I LOVE my new job, and I am suuuuuper grateful for my new position. It is sooooo hard to work with people who are rude, unkind, and not supportive. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. I think many of us can relate. We are here for the kids, and some people will just be rude, no matter what. I try to remind myself that it is them, not me. But like you, I want to be friends with everyone. But that is not possible. Love your videos and appreciate the time you take to share with us.

[@kaitlynonan9873]

I am CRYING listening to this! I had a very similar experience. This new school has changed teaching for me. Feeling supported by coworkers and your principal changes EVERYTHING! I am soooo happy for you! ❤️

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Teaching is EMOTIONAL!!!! So happy for you too Kaitlyn! Go us!!!

[@ashleyp9970]

I literally cant wrap my head around how anyone could not love you! You are the absolute sweetest!! What a blessing you got out of there! You are amazing ❤

[@annberlin5811]

Thats why they dont like her, shes too nice too pretty for psycho fat chicks

[@charlenelorn560]

You seem like a genuinely nice person and I'm so happy for you that you are where you should be. I'm sorry you were at a toxic school. I tried teaching Kindergarten and it wasn't for me (at least at the time). I'm so happy for you!

[@CatAndrina7]

Thank you sharing this video Mayleen! I’ve had three years of teaching in toxic places and I am battling PTSD currently because of it. I can no longer post videos on YT, and I’m just trying to make it until the end of the school year. Thank you for being brave and sharing the truths about teaching. Always love your energy and content ☺️💕

[@morganwilliams3301]

I too battle PTSD from a past experience. Just know that I am praying you find a school that will support you! As teachers, we all need to band together and give each other support no matter where we are!

[@CatAndrina7]

@@morganwilliams3301 I absolutely agree! Sending love and peace to you Morgan😊

[@annberlin5811]

❤❤❤❤ hang in there

[@kinderjenni]

I am so sorry you had to go through that. As a retired school teacher, it makes me so sad that those “veterans” would treat you that way when they should have taken you under their wing and helped you…or at the least be kind.. so sad 😞 jealousy is the main culprit. They do t want to see anyone enthusiastic about their job since they have lost that or maybe never had it.. I’m glad you are in a happier place this year! Good luck and God bless you sweet girl. Your students are blessed to have you as their teacher!

[@Mabelliene]

I'm sorry for what you went through but I also agree with you - that letter was a blessing and it meant you were able to move on to a more supportive school. I'm still shaking my head at how unprofessional that school was!

[@sarahmatuszak846]

Omg mayleen :( i literally admire and love you even more. Hearing this was so comforting to me. My first year of teaching was so similar to your last year. I was bullied and treated horrible by the other teachers on my team (except for 2). one of the teachers that was very mean to me was supposed to be my mentor teacher as well. I had a very tough first class, like very violent having to evacuate the class daily kind of class. I felt so alone because instead of being helped, it was worse by being bullied. This was the year right before covid started 2019-2020 (the year that ended online when the pandemic first began). it was so difficult having my first year end that way and then finding out that they were not going to renew my contract because of "my classroom management and parent communication" when they themselves as admin straight up told me that they had no idea what to do about my class and the behaviors. My two friends went to admin about how I was being treated and one day i stood up for myself and talked to them and admin did not care. I told them that I was trying to be professional about the situation as I liked the school and did not want that to hurt me in the end, which the admin assured me was not the case. But i got a call when we were all stuck at home that I would not come back. I debated if i should go back but wanted to stay because of my kids - but they took that option away from me. They encouoraged me to apply for the position, only to be on an interview with people on my team knowing i did not have a real shot but i went for it anyway not knowing how I was being taken advantage of. Not even 24 hours later they told me they were going with someone else. It was heartbreaking and i know the reason I was not asked back had nothing to do with my teaching or my connections with families, but it was because of that group of teachers. I was heartbroken, but I found my dream school that I work out now and just like you said I was looking for support and this school was full of it. It is amazing, I am sorry this happened to you, it is so tough. But you are amazing and I love following you on your journey. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@beatagoodluck9110]

I worked for a toxic school before. Mainly management was very toxic. But these assholes pushed me out of the job that I did not like to do the job that I love, I am good at, and I finally do what I am good at. I will never work in a toxic environment again. My life matter.

[@PuttingFourthEffort]

I truly commend you for hanging in there and sticking it out through the year for those kids last year. I feel like several people nowadays are so quick to walk away from teaching. I couldn't imagine waking up every day and pushing through the way you did. AND you gave it your all every single day to those kids. I have told you a million times, but you are amazing, you are an inspiration, I love you. I am so so happy you found your place ❤️

[@MrsCallsCampers]

You're strong too Bre!!!!! thank you for this. can't wait to see you again eventually!

[@keyaranichole2964]

My first year was similar. My admin continually tried to tear me down.
I was lied on, put on PPAS, given extra assignments and things to turn in or id be written up, they used all my planning periods to call me into meetings and interrogate me. I was accused of falsifying scores and grades, once my kids district test scores came out my admin told me “there’s no way bc these kids are low” and then took my kids that did well and put them in another teachers class and gave me a new set of students mid year. They were emotionally & verbally abusive to the students. It was hell on earth.. if I could tell my past self anything it would’ve been to report to HR what was happening to me sooner but I didn’t have the knowledge I have now. They manipulated me and I didn’t know my rights unfortunately. It’s been a year and it’s still very upsetting to think about the way I was treated. I loved my students and I still feel guilty about leaving them sometimes..

[@Texasmilitarydepartmentvid9654]

As a Special Ed student who was abused and kept in a isolated room. I'd tell you to expose it and protect these children.

[@heatherm2485]

Wow! I’m so surprised that you stayed the whole year. I don’t think my mental health could’ve handled that. I’m proud of you and your kids are lucky to have you!

[@emilybannon1943]

I saw the title and immediately had to watch and comment as I work as a para (ea) in Canada and my current admin is toxic/awful especially this week. I love the other teachers, paras and of course the students but the admin is so bad I’m glad I can’t stay at my current school (no postings available next year) thank you for sharing this to let us know we are not alone and it’s not okay.

[@ReenieK2]

I’m so sorry you went through all of that , I cannot fathom ever treating a coworker like that. And so sad that those people are teaching children. Best of luck to you going forward, better days ahead.

[@aknudsen93]

I am glad you found a good school to teach at. I have been teaching for about 14 years and this is my last year. I am leaving the field. Unfortunately there are just too many unprofessional teachers and more importantly too many administrators running schools that have never been in a classroom and do not know what they are doing. I finally decided that it was enough for me. It sounds like you are in a much better place now and I hope that you continue to find joy in teaching. It can be such a rewarding career when you find the school community that supports you and builds you up.

[@stephpayne1467]

Thank you for sharing this. In my third year of teaching, I was in a very toxic environment, where the principal tried to have me non-renewed. My stomach hurt everyday I went into work. I almost quit several times, but I just couldn't do that to my family and to my students. I am now in year 3 at a wonderful school (year 6 as a teacher) with fair, supportive admin and a good team of teachers. I am so much happier now and thankful to still be in education. Thank you for sharing in such an open, honest way!

[@Frazzle2Zazzle]

I was in a toxic school my 1st 2 years of teaching. I got moved to another school and I’ve been there for 3 years. I am so thankful!

[@pattiesposito3122]

When I was first hired I too walked into another teacher's items from many years. My friend walked into a very empty room and said it was the best thing the prior teacher could have done leaving her a blank slate. So glad it has worked out and you have found your place.

[@BonjourChristie1]

Pleased you got out

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Absolutely. Love seeing you pop up in the comments Christie!!!!

[@jessicabarnett593]

It really is like PTSD when you get out of it. I really needed this video after finally getting out as well.

[@wheresyourhousekey]

I had SUCH a similar experience and am currently at my dream/probably forever school. It IS possible to find amazing schools full of support and JOY for each other AND the kids.
I went from thinking I was going to change careers after my first year, yo absolutely loving what I do.
I'm so sorry you went through that but look at you now !! So happy for you ❤️

[@MrsCallsCampers]

That's a huge transition!!! Thanks for watching Sarah and also affirming that it is POSSIBLE!!!

[@Jessica-pn5ri]

It always bothers me when someone is new to a work environment and the other employees choose to be ugly from the start. I mean what is the point of that, especially new hires who are relatively young, it can be soul crushing. I think it is a way of asserting dominance that should not be tolerated. I'm glad you looked after your spirit and kept it moving.

[@teachingasfastasican5785]

OMG. You are such a sweetie and a dedicated professional. I honestly feel badly for the kids that have to be taught in that environment. They are savvy enough to pick up on that negativity. You are a warrior!!! Congrats on rising from the ashes!

[@MrsCallsCampers]

I can't speak for most of the teachers because I never got to sit in anyone's class. I just know that I did my best in my room and worked hard to make my class as positive as possible! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@123stephanieb]

Girl, that school did not deserve you! As bad as I feel for you, I can't get over how awful it must be for the kids who go there. Sad. Unacceptable that ADULTS who are teachers act like this to a new, young, excited teacher. I am SO happy for you now and what you went through only taught you valuable lessons and made you better. Hang in there! XO

[@MrsCallsCampers]

I wish nothing but the best to those kids!!! 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

[@morganwilliams3301]

Your experience and my experience was very similar. However, all of my experience happened during my first year of teaching. I was harassed by my administration and I had o attend therapy after that school year. I was diagnosed with mild PTSD after I resigned in March of that year. My mentor teacher hated me. I hate that you had this experience, but I am glad that you are in a better school and have more support.

[@dimpledarling55]

Thank you so much for talking about this!! I was in a toxic school that to this day I feel the effects of mentally but it does get better

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Thanks for watching Gaby 💛💛 I think going through things like this can be so hard but wow does it really open your eyes you know? Teaches you to REALLY be grateful when you find a good spot.

[@nana0787]

You’re a good teacher! Negativity spreads like a disease. Glad you dodged that bullet and that you’re in a good school now🙂

[@colleensedote1901]

I have been in your position, in a toxic environment. I even had an assistant who tried to get me fired. I ended up transferring to a school that I had to commute 45 minutes for. I later was at a school that I loved most of my teammates, but administration was highly toxic. They didn't renew my contract, even though I had been there 4 years. They kept someone who had been there less than a year. I am now in a school that has a great principal.

[@colleensedote1901]

If you are currently in a toxic environment, do not hesitate to get out of there. If it is toxic, in most cases, it will not be better.

[@Kbp4eva1]

So I work in insurance (I’m currently interviewing for a school job which is how I found you! Haha).
I had red flags during the interview where they asked personal questions. Now here we are a year later - I quit my job. My bosses belittled me, also passed on as jokes. They called me fat and other things. If I made one little mistake I would get screamed at. The last 5 months has been very high anxiety, issues, and I noticed the stress and depression made me sick a lot. I quit my job after one of my bosses made an awful comment about me. I don’t have a path right now, but I hope the interview with the school comes out great and I get it! But I totally forget your experiences. Different careers, but I settled for this job I feel like, and you did too because it was the only job calling back at the time! But now look you’re in a place that is SOOOOO much better

[@stronger7995]

Love your transparency, teaching is hard. Im a 2nd year teacher, grateful for the building Im at. That support means everything, especially in this new normal pandemic era. Best of luck in the coming years!

[@johnlopez3996]

People who are hurting inside hurt others. That is what was probably happening at your last school. I am sorry to hear how you were treated unprofessionally at your last school by your principal. People need to realize that a principal is a master teacher and not a master of teachers. No school is perfect, and it is always important to find the perfections within a school's imperfections. Before I started teaching back in 1992, I wrote a letter to my former third grade teacher. He said that when parents, colleagues, and principals make work difficult or challenging, try your best to focus on what went well during the day and not to dwell over what did not go well. Thank you for your honesty. Best wishes to you and have a happy New Year.

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Agree completely!!! The only thing that got me through last year was focusing on the good and what I could control. So hard sometimes but it is all you can do! Happy new year :)

[@opeobiri7570]

@@MrsCallsCampers I will pray for you

[@carriecarlson5993]

I just love you!!! I’m so glad that is all behind you! Things will all work out! You deserve happiness. We all do. I’m proud of you for not giving up!!

[@Sarahs.HappyLife]

So many people are jealous of people who give it their all and who love what they do! I dealt with that. Now I'm a stay at home mom. I wonder sometimes if I will ever try teaching again.

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Go you, mom!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@dogeared100]

Sorry you had to deal with that.

[@mrs_katie_in_elementary]

Thank you for sharing your heart!! You are the perfect blending of optimism and realness in all of your videos and you accurately reflect the struggle that teachers experience without getting hung up on the negatives! You remind us there is always hope and things will get better! Sometimes we just have to do what is best for us and make the best of situations we are in, and that’s hard, but it will be okay! 🤍

[@MrsCallsCampers]

You are absolutely right friend!! I appreciate you so much after all this time!

[@faith-randolph]

I’m so glad that you’re at a better school! Thank you for sharing with us! It definitely helps us remember that we’re not alone. I’m not a certified teacher, (I currently work with preschoolers) but I worked as a paraprofessional last year in a special education classroom. I loved the kids, but the team I worked with had a lot of toxic people in it. I too (along with my other coworker) was looked down upon for my age (I’m 22) and treated as less than and as less educated because I was 10-20 years younger than most of the people on the team. I left because it felt very toxic and there were days where I would come home and cry. I’m so glad to be in a better school (same district just a different school) with not only a supportive team, but also a supportive principal too!

[@MrsCallsCampers]

So glad you have a happy ending. Those feelings are so hard to sit with each day. Honestly. So heavy. And all we want as teachers is to teach our kids and be happy! Glad you are in a better place.

[@tamaragayle3993]

This video is so timely for me. 10 years ago I was in a toxic school and honestly I almost quit teaching completely because of it.I left there and ended up opening my own preschool because I do love teaching. I do love the kids. So I have been teaching preschool from my home. I have to move and I'm no longer in a position to do that., I start a new position actually teaching Headstart (it's my state's it's called eceap)and I'm concerned but this gives me hope that it'll be a better school and a better experience. 🤞🤞🤞
I've always been a one-woman show never had an assistant a para or a co-teacher. I will have a co-lead teacher time and I'm a little concerned about that.

[@Jessica-ox1fg]

I am so glad you found a school that is supportive and a great environment. This is my first year teaching and I somehow ended up in a district/school that checks many of the boxes for my ideal work environment. I am so lucky I found them and I am hanging onto this job as long as I can. That being said, I am also struggling with PTSD from a toxic school environment that I dealt with while student teaching (and I student taught for a full year instead of a semester). Thankfully I think I'm starting to put the past behind me and not letting it effect my growth as a teacher with my own classroom.

[@xXChristinexD]

Thank you for being so open and real. I’m going through a similar situation to a lesser extent and it’s so hard because I question what I’m doing wrong constantly even though I know it’s not my fault. I’m glad you’re at a school now where you feel welcome and supported!!

[@tavissherai8381]

Wow! I also worked for a charter school and this was my exact experience. I then found out I was expecting my first child and it caused me so much stress. The lack of support, organization, and chaos drove me crazy. Not to mention to lack of support for ELL students. I decided to leave after finding out the year and had my daughter. The best decision I ever made!

[@maricarmen3212]

I really understand your feelings. My first year teaching was horrible 😖 so I really understand you. But I am glad You are in a better place now💕

[@sashatello4009]

Thank you for being there for us as teachers and as PEOPLE. We need each other especially during these hard time 💛💛💛

[@kgaipo72]

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m in my 26th year of teaching and have definitely experienced toxic situations like you have. The school I am at now is by no means perfect but my admin team is awesome and we have a TLS (teaching and learning specialist) who are my lifelines. I don’t always see eye to eye with them but I’ve learned to do what I need to do for my kiddos and not worry about making them all happy. Also, do t worry about the tears I’m the same way. I always feel better after I let those tears out. Thank you again for sharing your story and I’m glad it didn’t turn you away from teaching.

[@ashleykofoed1646]

I think I needed to see your video. I taught at a REALLY toxic school for 2 1/2 years. I’m in a new area and school and am so nervous. Seeing that you came out to a better situation makes me feel sooo much better about this year! Thank you!

[@anitadally8991]

I had a student teaching experience like your first year. Luckily my next school was like a family but it took me awhile to come out of my shell….long story short - that school merged with another school because of enrollment and I am having excellent experiences now. Someone asked supportive principal or supportive team. I’ve had poor support from admin but great team and the team helps you get through the day to day. The only complaint about my current school is that our team is K-2. We only have one teacher or grade level. I spend a lot of time watching channels like yours as my “team”. Thank you for putting out your content. I have been teaching for 26 years and I really enjoy seeing what you are doing and your enthusiasm!

[@MrsCallsCampers]

I love that you can feel connected to a better team through our little corner of the internet. It honestly does make a difference! I think it's sad how many people have shared stories of a team that just struggles because of personalities or whatever it may be. Teams should always be there to support you! Whether you are friends or not!! Thanks for being here!

[@crystalriches]

I am so grateful that you found a school that fits your teaching philosophy! There is nothing better. On the opposite side, there's nothing worse than a school that doesn't match your teaching philosophy. I have been on both sides and it can make or break your teaching experience.

[@norisleidysuarez1312]

Thank you for being so transparent and honest about your experience. I am glad you found a school where you are loved and feel safe in. I just transferred to another school this year and I am so much happier as well. Wishing you all the best.

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Go us!!!! Thanks for being here friend!

[@Ripplesinthewaters]

I just left a toxic school where I worked for 9 1/2 years. I’m a 22 year veteran teacher. I even took my children to that school. I’ve often apologized to my kids for sending them to that school. I’m finally at a different school and it couldn’t be more different. I’m not stressed or hurt anymore. I have nothing kind to say about the last school or the staff. I’ve been at my new school for 3 weeks and the difference is wonderful. I’m glad you got into another school within a year. Hugs!!

[@missnewvillage]

I'm so glad I got to watch the premiere of this video. I actually found your channel the summer after your first year of teaching. It was the end of my 3rd year of teaching and I was switching grade levels and moving from 5th grade to 1st grade. But those first 3 years of teaching were so toxic and mentally taxing on me. There were so many days I wanted to quit, even as early as my second month of teaching. The end of my 3rd year of teaching was so draining and I was teaching 5th, 7th, and 8th grade science and reading and so miserable (especially because I knew middle school was not a good fit for me). My principal was retiring and I begged her to move me to a lower grade. But those past 3 years made my anxiety so high that even though I was excited to teach first grade I couldn't do it without ending up having a nervous breakdown. And I know that I could have survived a 4th year of teaching at that school, but I wouldn't be physically or mentally well. I ended up resigning on the third day of school. I gave 2 weeks notice and those 2 weeks were full of anxiety attacks and days of no appetite. I ended up part-time teaching remotely during the pandemic up until June 2021. But when I got into the classroom in November (I started late this year), the anxiety came back. I've realized that although I love working with students and I am a good teacher, teaching is not good for me at this moment. So I am taking a break and we'll see if I ever feel like I'm ready to go back. But watching your videos and hearing your encouraging words resonated so deeply with me. Even though it didn't work out for me, I am so glad that you are away from your toxic school and in a school that is so supportive. I look forward to your videos and updates on IG. My biggest advice to teachers in a toxic school is to take the plunge and look for a different school. You don't have to do what I did and stay at a school even though you're miserable just because it's a job. Also, it's so important to put your mental health first. And finally, find time to do the things that bring you joy. That's what helped me during that final year of full-time teaching

[@yeseniareads]

I would have never thought you’re a fairly new teacher! I have learned SO MUCH from you and I’ve been teaching for seven years!! No doubt teaching is your purpose and calling!! I’m so glad you stuck it through to be here (and there at your new school) today! 🥺😭❤️

[@hollowedhearts2200]

I just stumbled upon this video & I am so sorry for the horrible way that school treated you! I’m flabbergasted that grown adults working in education could act that way.
On a side note- I LOVE your name, so beautiful!

[@stinabobina2]

Girl I feel you, my first years teaching were hard... one year because of budget cuts I got a reduction in force pink slip, the next year I was possibly going to be displaced to another school due to low enrollment. I love my school and was lucky both times to get to stay. It's hard when you don't have the seniority! Fingers crossed for you!

[@brittneydavad3323]

Thank you for posting such an honest video. I just resigned in my third year from my kindergarten job at a private school. I’ve been watching your vids the last 3 years. You gave me so many classroom ideas and inspirations. It amazes me that even the best people can be treated poorly. I’m glad you’re in a better spot now 💖

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Hey that's so cool to hear thank you!! and I obviously don't know the story on why you resigned but I'm proud of you for putting you first. Thanks for being here Brittney 💛

[@jessicabarnett593]

My advice is to GET OUT! I moved to a new school and new grade when I was 9 months pregnant. Don’t stay. It’s not worth it. It will be hard, but staying in a toxic school is even worse.

[@jessicabarnett593]

Toxic schools must love hosting these meetings bc it was the same for me. Lol.

[@n.y.gemini4432]

She’s already out. This is her talking about her last school.

[@brittneyec8393]

This reminds me so much of my first school. I was only there for the 2nd half of the school year and only a parapro, it was right after college. But it was AWFUL. I completely understand what you felt and you are not alone. I am so glad you found a new school that you feel better in! I couldn’t imagine going back to that place!

[@PositivelyHealthyVibes]

I had a very very similar experience my first year as a head teacher. I had been an assistant teacher in that school for 2 yrs and when I got promoted I had no support and many of my coworkers felt like I didn't deserve it and while the environment had always been toxic it didn't really bother me because I had friends and if anyone was talking smack about me I was completely unaware vs once I got promoted I felt the shift in the energy with my coworkers and I knew there was stuff being said behind my back. I was absolutely miserable! I lasted 8 months before I realized my mental health was really taking a toll.

[@isabellaferritto954]

I am so sorry you had to go through this. Makes my heart so sad. You are so genuine and loving. I know your students will remember you for many years to come. Bless your beautiful heart. I am so happy you are in a good place. Teaching is so very hard, we need to have friends and a support system. It is so important. I have been blessed for 23 years to have GREAT and STRONG admin. Hugs sweetie and I wish you the best always. Keep shining and know that their behaviour is an indication of how immature and hateful they are. You are a joy and a positive light!

[@schampie99]

I’ve been teaching since 2003. Twice I’ve worked for charter schools and both times I was miserable! I don’t know what it is about charter schools, but both of my experiences were absolutely awful!!!

[@TraceySlaby-ks4sy]

First of all, you did not deserve that and I’m so very sorry that you had such a horrible experience. You are not alone. I have been teaching for 20 years and have seen this theme repeated far too often. at its base, it is ignorance and jealousy that motivates these petty behaviors. Good for you to keep trying because teaching is such an awesome profession. It’s wonderful that you’re in a much better, more professional school environment.

[@tracykeppy8646]

I would love nothing more then to work with you!!! I am so glad you have found where you belong and are appreciated. Thanks for letting us in on your experience. I work at a small K-8 school that we all get along , however there is definitely “clicks” and it is so hard some days to feel like you fit in or belong. Thanks again for sharing!

[@MrsCallsCampers]

funny how we think that we graduate high school to get away from cliques....ah, we were so wrong haha! Thanks for watching Tracy! Sending love!

[@jaceymartin4739]

My goodness, I feel for you! And you are such a great teacher, so please do not get gaslit to think otherwise.

[@emilyclark8772]

I’m sorry?? that “god” complex the principal has is SUCH a gross red flag. I’m glad you documented this experience so you can help the rest of us see what to watch out for and you can look back and be so thankful you made it out alive.

[@HotforTeaching]

I am so sorry you went through this. I was let go from my first two teaching jobs. That rejection stings no matter what type of school you are at. I am happy things are looking up. 😎

[@eileenaviles1305]

I admire your bravery for sharing your story. I went through a similar situation my first year of teaching, thankfully I am now in a much better school with admin and co workers that are supportive and KIND. But during that first year I felt so so alone and also kind of guilty for complaining or wanting to leave, it is so nice to hear you share your story and be able to relate.. it is so sad that this happened to you and so sad that it probably has happened to so many of us educators. But I am so happy for you that you found a better school with people that are kind and and let you be happy 😊

[@christinabautista8759]

I'm catching up on lots of things. It's been rough, but more so the last 2 years being in a toxic environment. I totally understand how you feel. I'm so sorry you went through that. There was nothing that I could do to make a difference and I felt belittled so much that it was killing my passion for teaching so I needed to leave to a better place.😢😔 I felt no support at all and it was an overload of unnecessary tasks. I found myself nodding on everything you said. I would love to be on your team because you embody what a passionate teacher is💗. I'm so glad that you are in a better and supportive school.

[@sheilahall5797]

OMG I am so sorry you went through that !!! I myself are going through a similar situation as well ! I am right now in survival mode to get to June so I can find a happy place with good people and support from administration! I am so happy you got out!!! Please take care !

[@Stephdym]

I worked at a charter school for 2.5 years and it was the worst experience of my life. I love my babies and I am still close with a lot of their families and some of my coworkers, but I left for health reasons and no one but my principal came to say goodbye. They were a bunch of bullies and I honestly thought I would never want to teach again. I am now going into another school and am hoping it is better.

[@lizbethcampos223]

You felt like you were being used, I was told I was being used. I’m in toxic school too, I can’t wait for the year to be over 😰

[@marindahey]

Good on you for not letting that experience ruin your perception of your career! You're such a strong and motivated person. You deserve to feel accepted, believed in, respected, and supported. The kids who walk through your door are so damn lucky and blessed to have a passionate, compassionate, loving teacher who is excited to teach them and nurture their growth. I've been watching your journey over a couple years and seeing you feel comfortable and happy just makes ME so happy. I hope you're having a great holiday season, Mayleen!

[@MrsCallsCampers]

This means a lot...thank you so much. I think that if it had been my first year teaching it would have been so discouraging, thankfully I had an idea of what a school is supposed to be like. That helped. Also having the support of people online helped a ton. Thank you for your sweet words! Happy new year!!

[@ClaudiaLopez-or1cf]

Coming from a terrible charter company, my friend told me that no matter how bad it was & how miserable I felt & how bad they treated us & students, I can always look back and know I experienced the worst. It also just makes me grateful for my now situation.
It’s not fair to have that mentality but really does feel good knowing that if i made it through that, I can make it through anything.

[@ClaudiaLopez-or1cf]

But also, thank you for sharing your story!!

[@KevSon29]

As a special needs student, I feel your pain. I have rough experience too. These students get a slap on their wrist and still attend to that school.

[@casebeth]

I worked at a school like that 😬
Now I'm a data analyst

[@fudgmonkeys34]

I had a similar experience my first year teaching. I took a year 3/4 class mid year. There had been 5 other teachers before me. The school could not keep staff. I ended up quitting the last term of my contract. I was absolutely miserable. Now I have been made permanent at my current school and love it.

[@MrsCallsCampers]

GO YOU FRIEND!

[@hartsheart]

I just found your channel recently so i am watching this video right now. Thank you for sharing this! I am starting my first year as a public school teacher after 20 years at Head Start. This past school year i worked at an after school program at the local elementary school. I had a very similar experience to you but on a much smaller level and i have been brooding over it, unable to let it go. After watching you teach and then hearing your story, i can now accept that sometimes we can be wonderful teachers who really care about our students and just get treated unfairly! (Just one example- i have a masters degree in 3 areas yet they wouldn't even give me an interview as a parapro! ... good thing because another school hired me as a SPED teacher and i am SO EXCITED!). I am excited to see some more recent videos post soon

[@renaydevastey7533]

You had me tearing up with you! So glad you’re around good people now!

[@cindyf.]

I’ve been teaching for 12 years and I would’ve love to have you as my teammate. I love your personality. Keep it up!

[@dreamcrone]

OMG you speak a thousand words a minute!!! Lol. I’m glad you are in a good space!

[@lotuslove6753]

Great video. She is 100% super responsive and helpful responding to DMs. You have a vibe that is like a long lost friend reunited.

[@MrsCallsCampers]

Thank you so much!!!

[@sarahledwig2701]

My first two years of teaching, I had a very similar experience. Last year when I moved into an amazing school, I felt the same way. I am grateful for the experiences, but it is traumatizing to relive.

[@MrsCallsCampers]

That's so hard that it was your first two years. Breaks my heart because that time is SO special. I'm very glad that you moved on and found something better, and I hope you know you deserve the best!!!

[@sarahledwig2701]

@@MrsCallsCampers You do too!

[@SangNguyen-wj5ch]

I went through a similar experience recently. It was awful. Hope to find a new school where I can teach with a smiling face. :)

[@laurahdez0309]

I subbed at a few schools where I felt left out i don’t know why but little things about it made it feel weird a few teachers definitely made it feel good but thank God I got a permanent position as an instructional assistant at a school I love! The teachers are great and the principal always shows he cares..I am so happy that you found a great supportive school for you!!

[@rachelsmith3895]

I had a very negative experience working for a private school my first couple years if teaching, and I truly thought that it was my fault until I got another teaching job (also at a private school). The school I'm at treats me so well, and even though they are small, they provide so much more support and resources than the previous school. The school you are at can really make or break your experience. I do really relate to what you said about the "PTSD" feeling.
What got me though was my faith and my family who believed in me and spoke truth to me. My advice would be to know your worth, and know that it's ok to move on.

[@debreale5236]

I’m so disappointed and angry that your colleagues were such mean people! You are so genuine and generous, and SO talented! You are amazing! I’m thrilled that you are happy now, and in a school where you are supported and APPRECIATED ❣️🙌❤️

[@matthewdunne9499]

I totally understand where you are coming from. I have just experienced a very negative experience in a Kinder/Year 1 class. The aide who has worked at the school for decades chose exactly what she would and wouldn’t do, which left me doing my job of teaching and writing the curriculum units( which my current school has been doing for 3 years) and her job workload including intervention with children. Suffice to say there was not enough hours in the day. Added to this I had an extremely challenging student who the aide managed to escalate their behaviour most days. Each day I went in with new strategies to support this student but nothing worked, When I spoke to admin about the conduct of the aide they said I would just have to manager her like other teachers had in the past. Not helpful or supportive. The PTSD of negative experiences stays with you for so long….continue to stay positive and put out content to share with other teachers to help build the, up.

[@nataliebullinger8330]

I appreciate you sharing this honest video. I am in a very similar toxic situation right now and it’s really tough. Your situation gives me hope that maybe next year I can get to a better place. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻