Ironically, it should be taken MORE SERIOUSLY, because men don't have a legal way to opt-out of unwanted parenthood like women do. Men end up in a situation of "victim must pay rapist" because of child support laws, which is slavery.
skkksks To be fair, if a man is raped he is forced to pay a liar and rapist for 18 years, if he comes out he will be made fun of, and could possibly lose his self confidence and become suicidal. Also judges and prosecutors will most likely believe in a woman over a man any day. While a women who is raped could abort the baby, gets comfort, and if she comes out the people on the internet will defend her without a scrap of evidence
Female on male rape does happen and I agree does need to be talked about, to many women have said women can't rape men, seen women argue this fact and get mad if you say other wise!!!! It's very sad and needs to be taken serious!!!!
It very much happens but the thing is with society men really have no voice nor can do they feel they can say anything. Men are taught to keep quite and be a man, rather than talk about our issues.
“When men are abused they are hurt twice, first by the abuser, second by society who tells them they are weak when they come out as a victim of assault.” -quote a random RUclips comment I saw
Please continue to speak out on male rape (female on male, and male on male.) It hurts my heart to think that so many men are ashamed to bring it up and get help. I was raped and I know how hard it was for me to cope, I can't imagine being a man. I admire your strength. 💪❤
“You’re a man. Toughen up.” “Why didn’t you fight back?” “Men don’t cry.” This is why men don’t speak up. Victim blaming using toxic masculinity. Kill it with fire, tell men it’s okay not to be okay. Tell men it’s okay to cry, the talk about their feelings, problems, etc. If we do that, a lot less men would commit suicide, a lot fewer rapists would get away with their crimes, and a lot more male victims would have a better quality of life.
I have seen a very horny woman was sucking her 1year old son's penis. After closing their apartment's door, I have heard loud screaming - ah ah ah..... . I don't know what she was doing with her son. But I felt very bad for that. That happened multiple times later.
I’m a man who was sexually assaulted by another male! It was in the eighth grade throughout the whole year, he told me if i told anyone he would kill me and my family, so when I told someone I called my mom screaming and crying that he’s coming for me and he’s gonna kill me, I remember the immense pain I had felt! I learned to accept what happened to me and to speak out against this incident that so few talk about.
Daniel Windham I am trying to set up a community service project about this and create awareness about this issue Do you have eney advice about doing a community service project like this because I don't know were to start I started one for a prow life program called life choice but with this I don't know how to start I am here if you need eney one you are vary Brave and strong don't forget that no one should have to go through that no one and it can happen to enenyone eney were and a lot of people pass it by or don't believe it can happen but it can I believe you and you have my up most respect
I my country fair complexion and good looks are consider to be a Curse. Either u hv to keep that son completely on guard or raise him as a combat fighter so that no one shall assault him sexually. Unfortunately I was given both the guards, I was kept on guard and was given training of how to operate guns and daggers. Never to be afraid of any thing. Once a guy bullied me when I was 8-10 yrs old, i told my father and my father beat him to his shit, broke his arm and shoulder for touching me , that guy is still afraid of me and never raise his eyes infront of me , now i am 40 and that guy is 50 .
I was molested two times when i was very young.I tried to tell my mom but she didnt care.Then I became very introverted and I always feared to talk to new people. I sometimes became violent if someone tried to talk to me fearing that they want to take advantage of me in some way. 6 years after I realised my I was suffering from my trauma and started trying to talk to my classmates.I now also go to boxing gym so I can become strong and protect myself and my loved ones.
I'm glad this topic of 'men being raped' is coming to light. Equality should be equal for both, and men have the right to open up about things we women are obliged to speak out about.
carlos blanco Plenty of mexicans being dehumanized by white men, cant say the same for white men who are always the main character of a movie, or president of a first world country. There used to be signs at denny's saying no mexicans allowed which included mexican americans, and I dont believe it ever said no white men allowed. That sign was put up by white men btw so go pick on someone your own size carlos, because you seem quite comfortable with people named carlos always being in the back of the white main actors mowing the lawn and not knowing a word of english. Here enjoy what dehumanizing means -> ruclips.net/video/Qei-szsrSGs/видео.html
@carlos blanco Umm you said why dont we dehumanize women as if the white man isnt the greatest dehumanizer on earth against blacks, native americans, etc. Sooo yeah it fits or do you think dehumanizing is only based on gender Carlos?
Im a girl and I believe we should stop telling men to toughen up. Just tell them that it’s okay to be scared or cry. They need support just as much as we do.
Its not okay to cry and scared , we should support everyone in henious injustice , if men are scared and cried who will help the crying ones , and if men scared and cried in everything iam 100% sure the world would'nt devolope this much
Jerjer B you are not alone if you ever need someone to talk to I am here you are brave for speaking up you may feel alone but you aren't there are people that care like me and there are people that have gone through the same thing I am sorry this happened to you but you being here shows that you are a strong and brave person
As a female survivor, it always bothered me how all the help-organisations for survivors are almost exclusively for girls or women. Boys are sometimes not even allowed in them. Perhaps that makes a little sense if the girls have been raped by a man/boy and need a safe space, but I would have felt less shitty about myself, had I heard more stories of all different kinds of people who made similar experiences to mine. I hate that femininity is often equated with victimhood.
Jakazu that’s usually not what happens and it doesn’t matter what gender , race ,sexuality you can still be a victim so wanting one person to go through it is messed up because if you were that person you would feel like you can’t tell anybody you would feel like you were nothing
@Jakazu So, I scheduled you 1 year of therapy, 10 years in a hetero prison and no right for you if you're ever going to be gay again (and who says r/wooooosh, her/his mother is a slut)
Hats off to him for opening up about this trauma and pointing out that it can happen to anybody. No one should ever hide this in fear of being judged. This is such a serious issue that must always be addressed, regardless of gender or sexuality. No matter where you are or what state you're in, no means NO.
For the deniers of male rape, bringing up male-on-male rape like this might be an easier way of bridging the gap for them to acknowledge female-on-male rape, too. Hopefully one day we can just all acknowledge that rape is RAPE, regardless of who you are.
Why? Calling it male rape gives more info on the victim. Calling it male rape informs people that he's going to be dealing with a slightly different set of problems than a female rape victim
@123fort andbree maybe but that's not the case for me *personally* because the guys I'm around always seem to hide their emotions so when they can't then you know it's deep.
At the camp I went to over summer everyone made fun of this poor kid who was crying because someone ripped his painting, I'm a guy and I'm 13 and hell I would've cried too if Someone ripped something I worked hard on
I.. was raped... when I was five by a older girl don’t know how old tho, yet no ones cares cuz I’m a guy 🙃🔫 But you know ig it taught me to be as respectful as possible when I feel like my gf might be uncomfortable I step back and make sure she’s ok and I’ll always make sure she’s alright with the sich so that’s a plus... ig
Swiftly sniper to be fair, when it comes to children, people either care a lot or just ignore it. But when it comes to guys people think it doesn’t exist. It’s horrible. I’m sorry that happened to you.
I know a boy who got raped when he was 5 by his mother (he’s in foster care now) and when he tried telling people so he didn’t have to live with her anymore they just told him he was lucky to have gotten “a shag at such a young age” I of course didn’t do this. I made sure he told a teacher about this and he did get removed from the house he was staying in with his mother. It breaks my heart that this is how boys and men who are raped are treated.
@A M. A.M. guess what. Guess what. GUESS WHAT, you misandristic piece of shit. In almost every county's law, it's impossible for a man to be raped. In literally every county's legal system, women win even when they're the perpetrator.
I knew a little boy who was raped by his mother. He told us one day when he was 9 and girls and the teacher said that doesn't happen to boys. He didn't really speak much after that.
A man in my neighborhood was accused of false rape got arrested 23 years When he got released he never spoke a word to anyone for 14 years I feel bad ☹️
I remember my friend telling me about she was talking with her best friend and they were telling story’s about funny stuff that had happened to them, and he said “one time when I was at a party I got super drunk and I was trying to go to bed but this girl kept trying to make moves on me and she ended up forcibly riding me” and he laughed like it was no big deal, but he was extremely concerned when he found out that something similar happened to one of his girl friends.
Finley Do you think Superheroes back down when someone is stronger then them?? I’m asking This cause you have an iron man profile picture I’m pretty sure a Male is not as strong as the Hulk. Also there is something called adrenaline it boosts your strength in the sense of danger
Finley but pretty much any woman can drug a man, hit a man, manipulate a man, tell them "you're not a real man if you don't do this" or "if you don't do this it means you don't love me", and that's still rape, and that still really fucks the victim up
I got raped by females because I was so Innocent and pure and it FUCKS with me bc when hugging a female relative(A female relative raped me) it is very confusing
Just hearing about secondhand brings such a feeling of anxiety. There aren't enough words I can say to in support of this man for having the guts to speak the words of his ordeal aloud
Even though I'm late, here is My story: As a boy in America, I've been conditioned to believe that "boys don't cry" or that I should "man up". I stood firm by that but one time on my birthday something happened. The day started off normal (cake, bday song, etc) but then, at the end of the day, it was time for everybody to leave (my bday party was at my house). Now keep in mind that at the time, I was nine. It was just me, my mom, my uncle Jerry, and my little sister. After the party, we didn't really have much so my mom was going to do some quick shopping. She left me, my little sister, and my uncle there alone. My uncle was very trusted, and was like a father figure to me almost. my little sister (who was a baby btw) was crying, so I put her to sleep. By then I was getting tired too, so I just started playing my game. That's when my uncle came in my room and closed the door. I didn't think anything of it because I played music while I played so I just thought it was so it wouldn't wake my sister. He started playing my game with me (Lego marvel superheros) and it was fun. After about 5 minutes, he started brushing up against me and I was feeling uncomfortable. He got up, and closed my blinds. Then he said "aren't you bored of playing these kitty games?" And I just said that I liked the Lego videogames. He said "why don't we play the games adults play". At that point, I was getting VERY nervous (because I was aware of what rape was and what manipulation was). I said "naw I'm fine" and then he grabbed my hand and placed it in his pants and made me feel his junk through his pants. At that point, I was pulling away because I knew what was happening. He told me, in his exact words "don't be a b!∆ch! Your a big man now!" I had rarely ever heard him cuss so I was really scared. He pulled down his pants, grabbed my head with both hands and raped me. It felt like it lasted forever. I was just crying and crying, but nothing. After, he gave me mouthwash and said "see, that wasn't so hard?" I just cried but I tried not to. My mom came home when I had the mouthwash and saw I was holding back tears. She asked what happened, and as I was about to speak, I choked, and my uncle gave me a smile that said "keep quiet", while looking right at me. Being scared, I said I was crying because I lost in my game. my uncle had his stuff and left, but before he did, he said "next time when we play the game, let's try something different". I was so scared, and having every male figure in my life saying that men don't cry, and that"men shouldn't be scared" made me silent. A few weeks later, we had another family get together. I begged my mom to let me stay home but she said no (since I was 9) At this family get together, it was the same with my uncle. But that time, he pulled down my basketball shorts, and proceeded to analy rape me. This pattern continued but then, he just started coming over our house, and said it was a "family check in". He came over just about a few times every other week. And every time, I was used as his "tool of satisfaction". I was so scared. I felt like if I said something, I would be told to "man up". So one time I had an idea to indirectly call for help. I would ask my mom to get cameras. Since I assumed people wouldn't believe me, I just thought "I should just get the cameras now". My mom was confused, but she still bought cameras anyway I think she knew that something about me was just... Off. she said I always looked as if I was about to just drop to floor. A few weeks pass of my uncle taking advantage of me, being a scared nine year old boy. and ever single time I just was thinking"this is it" "this is my life" "no end, no resolve" "what can I do to physically stop a grown man?" Those were just *_some_* of my constant thoughts. And at one point I just break out and tell my mom to check the cameras( I was starting to get extreme suicidal thoughts). She was horrified. She saw everything that happened and she called my dad first(even though he wasn't really in my life and my mom only had his number for child support I guess) and he was furious and disgusted. And sadly, Everytime my uncle tortured me with this cycle of rape, I was just frozen whenever it would happen. I was screaming on the inside. But nobody heard. I was broken. My mom took me to the police station and he is now serving 22 years to life. and since I went to my mom right after it happened, they had all the evidence they needed (dna, camera footage, etc) I'm sorry for this story being so long. But to all victims, male or female just remember this as I leave you with a parting message, these rapists, and predators all rely on your fear. They trust that fear will keep you shut, and keep them safe. So please, if you see this PLEASE just speak up. I just needed to get that off my chest. I am still recovering as I am 13 now.💔
When I was 6 there was this girl and I'm a girl too but anyways her name...let's call her Francis but anyways she was 12 I was 6 and basically what happened was she use to sexualize me and when I mean sexualize I mean she would "you know" but anyways I was young I didn't even know what was going on she did it multiple times she was my cousin but until one day she told me god would be angry at us but now I'm 13 and I know she did that so we won't get caught now me and her are cool but I will forgive her as she was young too but that was one story I know your probably gonna be like she should've got punished but tbh I'm okay with it now and another story same age I was six again and there was this teenager that was 17 and he thank god didn't do any moves yet but was going to and he use to impropriety touch me until one day he hugged me and touched my behind and I ran out and went to get mom I was always so uncomfortable now that I think of it I've been touched by multiple girls there was one time with the girl across the street another time were this girl use to be friends but started touching me and tbh I think I'm not to okay with it but it wasn't rape but touching a 6 year old that doesn't no nothing isn't okay but this message is a send out to you don't worry man your not alone I'm now 13 too but truly I wish men are seen as human beings like all of us more then providers your feeling matter you don't need to be this tough guy to suprise a girl be yourself you know I really wish society sees men in a more different way but if your reading this thank you and plz don't act tough for anyone they should love you regardless ☺️❤️
I’m two years too late but as a survivor you’re stronger than you’ll ever know. I’m sorry that you were taken advantage of. All of my brothers and my one sister have been victimized in this way and I know first hand how this can affect people. But your bravery and courage at such a young age is breathtaking. I pray that you can continue in this life, working to build up trust once again and that everyone who steps into your life shows you the love you deserve😊.
This brought tears to my eyes. So glad you are safe now. There is an extreme amount of rape and sexual assault that goes unreported. You are strong. I wish you the best.
I was molested by a 12 YO girl when I was 7 YO. I still have flashbacks to it, PTSD. When nurses had to touch me down there I freaked out/went into panic. I'm almost 46 still a virgin and too nervous to usually talk to a woman. American here. I still remember her smirk touching me.
@@Cacowninja No, at the time I thought I'd be in really serious trouble, she told me I would, too. Like spanked past what I could take, Afterward I was too embarassed. I blacked it out until recently remembering when it was passed the statute of limitations and she was almost 50. She's also a teacher now. I hope she isn't like that
@@tohellwithgoogle4261 Aw man that sucks, you sure you can't try to press charges, what country are you in now? I ask because of the legal requirement to persecute someone vary from country to country. I'm really sorry that happened, and the fact she's free and is a teacher disgusts me. She belongs behind bars.
As a representation of my big tado family at AFLAC that thinks their poop doesn't stink. They would tell you these kind of things don't happen because they are climbing the latter at the corporate office of AFLAC and you just don't count! I would never buy AFLAC insurance.
I was sexually abused by a very close female family member when I was very young. It created a lot of problems for me in my later life. I don't see women like normal men see. I don't trust them. I couldn't talk about it to anyone because she was a very close relative and also because no one wouldve believed me at that time because she was a very pious woman in the eyes of my family.
Wow. I mean I'm sorry that happened to you but now you don't see women normally? Do you understand how rare it is for a woman to take advantage of a male? Even if it did happen some women atleast take "no" for an answer. Whereas men are bigger and stronger and take advantage of people more easily. I'm disgusted by ur statement honestly. Just because a certain gender has done something to you doesn't mean you turn on all of them. Like really.
@@roenlly4648 you're stupid. If a woman says "i cant see men the same anymore because i was raped" you would feel sorry for them. He has gone through rape and you're saying that hes supposed to feel the same way that he did before?. Your statement is flat out wrong.
@@roenlly4648 i see woman everywhere with trust issues with all these problems who say that they dont trust men which is understandable as much as this one is. You're disgusting.
@@roenlly4648 Men get sexually assaulted (and raped) at an equal rate BY WOMEN(ABOUT 89% OF THE PERPETRATORS ARE FEMALE) in the US in the recent years. Here is the link to an OFFICIAL US GOVERNMENT WEBSITE - www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4062022/ Also here is an article from THE SCIENTIFIC AMERICAN WITH OFFICIAL 2019 DATA, In 2019, for example, this survey showed that equal numbers of men and women reported being forced into non-consensual sex (either raped or forced to penetrate someone else). Extrapolated to the US as a whole, this would represent 1.9 million victims among each sex during the preceding 12 month.NOW OBVIOUSLY IN THE OLDER DAYS WOMEN WERE RAPED MORE BUT NOW IT'S JUST EQUAL.ALSO MEN DON'T REPORT SO MUCH SEXUAL ASSAULT COMPARED TO WOMEN. IN THE US, Men are assaulted at the same rate as women by women. www.google.com/amp/s/digest.bps.org.uk/2017/07/11/sexual-offending-by-women-is-surprisingly-common-claims-us-study/amp/ amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/503492/ www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/ www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4062022/
@@roenlly4648 1. It's actually a lot more common than you think for female predators to sexually assault people... www.vice.com/en_us/article/kze8qn/the-hidden-epidemic-of-men-who-are-raped-by-women 2. If it was a female victim would you find her reluctance to hang with dudes be "bad" or understandable given the nature of the experience?
I am so proud of you for being so brave for talking about your awful experience. You are amazing and don't let anyone bring you down because you are strong. Keep fighting and keep being strong.
thank you for telling us your story, it is really hard to be open about such a sensitive subject but you are not only strong but a lot of people(abused or not) can look up to you as a sign of strength and that it is okay to talk about it.
i remember a documentaty about 20yrs back from the bbc I believe on male rape. For the life of me,I haven't been able to find it, but I remember the impact it had on me and the shame it caused the men who went through it. I distinctly remembering one saying "my body betrayed me", and my heart broke..
@@VibeinATLien do you think this is funny imagine somebody entering your body with force without your consent painfully forcing them in and out its disgusting.
It’s so important to understand that rape can happen to anyone. It’s purely horrific and disgraceful to EVER force yourself on to anyone. Thank you for sharing your story.
VallierKimora Anything discussing a serious topic always needs more views. It's sad how people prefer to not talk, hear, or think about serious topics like this.
cateyes221981 are you feminist or anti feminist? Claiming that females are weaker than men (untrue as not all men are strong and a lot of women are strong) let along 10x weaker, but then calling men stupid aswell? Everything you have said is complete bull and you need to research as a woman can easily rape a man without his consent
I’m a woman, I’ve read and watched about men being raped, I really want their story to be heard and this problem becomes as equal as women being raped. And because of that, I tried to write a story on wattpad about men being raped to raise awareness and to let more people know that this problem is real and need to be taken seriously.
I'm a woman and I'm so happy that finally someone realised that male rape is a thing sending love and warm to anyone that had to went through all of this
Yeah, that's tough stuff. I thought about that long time. Now I feel my heart rate goes up and the blood is bloating up my head. I'm almost shaking. I don't know if I'm doing right or wrong adding my post. About a year ago I have been drugged up and used all night without my consent. It's A MIRACLE that after 15 hours I eventually got out. Thank you BBC, now I'm considering to talk to someone who might understand me. REPLY
my cousin was a victim of rape and he told us. when he did, my aunt and my uncle said- you are weak for letting that happen. there is nothing to report, it was all your weakness. and my uncle called him the p word he is healthy right now and has a really nice boyfriend, i am proud of him for not giving up!
It’s sad that when we hear the word ‘rape’ it’s almost always interpreted as “the woman is the victim and the man is guilty”. Everyone has their own weaknesses, regardless of their gender, sex, age, etc. At the end of the day, we’re all living beings with emotions
As a representation of my big tado family at AFLAC that thinks their poop doesn't stink. They would tell you these kind of things don't happen because they are climbing the latter at the corporate office of AFLAC and you just don't count! I would never buy AFLAC insurance.
Whether the victim is a man or a woman, they deserve justice. But the sad thing is that social justice treats male victims and male rape as a joke, there was a man who was laughed at because he said he was raped. That's not right, rape is serious and such a horrible thing that nobody should endure
“Omg your a man why didn’t you fight back” 1: if he fought back people would call the guy abusive and 2 the only reason he didn’t speak up about it is because he would be called weak
Male rape won’t be looked at seriously by society for some time sadly. I’ve never went through it, but I feel horrible for those who have been raped (No matter what gender). I think this is because the older generations gave off the idea that men will ALWAYS enjoy sex no matter what, and young boys are lucky to be raped. The saddest part is, they will never get justice for what happened to them. Most don’t believe them or just don’t care enough, but when the female rapist is arrested she’ll only get about 2-3 years (compared to a man’s 10-20 sentence for the SAME crime). Both are horrible crimes, both should receive the same sentence. Men are horribly underprivileged in court.
This poor man is very brave and he did not deserve what was dished out to him. I hope he has good and kind family, and friends who will be there for him.
I remember when I went to the home of a church goer he offered me a drink.I said yes while watching T.V. I suddenly decided to look back and at that very moment I saw a pill resolve in the clear glass of Sprite.I left immediately. Then I recall a few years back at church I saw a young guy sitting next to this 30 something year old guy with a hardened look on his face, this guy was staring at the younger one's behind very hard for a very long time.So I gather it's not safe for men anymore either.I believe because of homosexuality male on male rape is rising. When you get raped a lot of shame comes with it even if it's not your fault I think it's because you are being forced to commit a sexual act which is somewhat a taboo still today (yet everyone forgets children come from unions and that is sacred and normal) and also because your right for consent is hijacked that is humiliating in itself. The element of surprise is also giving you a very strong psychological impact, element of surprise you did not expect someone would have such disregard for your rights. All these things are hard hitting at once, but they all have one thing in common IT'S ALL PSYCHOLOGICAL. Before the rapist attacks he made a decision to do it, then he acted it out. He decided to overpower, do with you what he pleased for a payoff. The payoff is that you will feel so insignificant compared to him that you will never rise up again or feel respectable anymore. The power to break free from such a massive physiological assault is understanding their intent. For one moment or for many nights they overpower your body, but your mind is still free. When a blind person accepts their condition, they resort to developing their hearing to compensate.So when you realize they mean it to break you permanently. You decide it was one moment only. I couldn't stop them they were too physically strong. My body is injured.But I can still break free. Focusing on their cruelty is the only way in my opinion to overcome. Fight for your dignity again realize it really isn't YOUR FAULT.They overpowered you that does not mean you are evil, they are the evil selfish ones or maybe even mentally ill. Many of them are born psychos some have been raped themselves and are acting out unresolved issues, others anti-social others had brain injuries that causes them not to have proper empathy so they are not well. Yes, they took advantage, yes it hurts like you can't believe, but they are not normal. Fight to get your normal back. It's all in your heart and head. Find good support. Defy them, their intention to destroy the rest of your life they can't do that, only you can let them. SAY YES YOU ARE STRONGER PHYSICALLY, BUT I AM STRONGER EMOTIONALLY PSYCHOLOGICALY I HAVE TRUE DIGNITY.Show them get a good life! When you speak out shame starts to diminish with good supporters.The more this is exposed the better. Change will happen.
I've been laughed at and heard EVERY rape cliche when I talk about my rapes and sexual assaults. I'll never forget the day after I was drugged then raped, I told my cousin and a few of his friends what happened, and got laughed at. When I got black out drunk -- ending up in the hospital -- I woke up to cops wanting to interview me over what happened because I must've been talking about it to a nurse or something, but just one glance at them I knew they were annoyed so I just sat there till they left. Then when I landed myself in a psycheward for trying to kill myself for the 3rd time a few months after the 2nd time I was raped, I had a therapist, infront of like 15 people, say I'll never get off meds or not need therapy because "my rape traumas are so extensive." Reported her to the psychiatrist, and they kept me in for another 2 weeks. I was cornered in the school bathroom during middle school, and was groped by 2 losers saying I'm the fag. I reported it to the school, and they brushed it under the rug. When I was 17 at a Halloween party, someone who never missed the opportunity to call me fag, said he was going to sexually assault me while he thought I was asleep in front of like 10 people. But, I of course, was the bad guy because I didn't see the humor in the "joke" and was a buzzkill. But turns out, he's gay. The 2nd time I was raped, I was held against my will, but at least I was able to say no. Didn't even bother trying to report it, because it happened in Provo, Utah and I didn't even know who he was. I told my friends, and one of them told me " I was just regretting sleeping with someone because guys can't be raped." Another time at a club, I was being cornered and groped screaming for him to stop and to move, then got glared at because I was ruining people's buzz. Only reason I even went, was because I got pestered all day because I was depressed and needed "to have fun." I still think I'm cursed. Because so much evil shit has happened to me. But fact of the matter is, when you're male, whether straight or gay and have been raped or sexually assaulted, majority of people either don't believe you, laugh at you, ridicule you, etc, and wonder why rape and sexual assaults are so under reported. As if there isn't enough shame over being forced to have sex with someone, unwanted sexual touching, and surviving a crime, you then have to deal with the stigma.
I can’t believed that happened to you. I am so sorry that must have been very traumatic. I wish you the best of life and hope you get help from someone. Just remember, some parts of society do care for this and want to help.
This poor guy, I was raped as a child, it's something that I will never let define me. You can get passed it, it's just not your fault in any way so why should I ever feel bad for somebody else's sickness. I could see the pain in this man. I just wanted to hug him and let him know you will be ok, and never feel you cannot talk about it. It really does help. Stay Safe and never EVER feel you are alone. There are still more good people out there than there are bad. x
Your last line is absolute bs. There are far more bad people than good, it's why this world's in a sorry state. It's also why I have a small circle. It's why my life was shaped the way it is. I can't agree to you meeting several good people and calling that the majority
There was a story on reddit about a man who was raped and he told it to her girlfriend who thought he was joking because “men can’t be raped, they do the raping” but it turns out the Redditor was actually raped. Then a few years later he told his gf another rape story but this time switched it to male raping female. The girl was like that’s disgusting.
That's what masculinity is for me, not being afraid to talk about hardships, traumas, emotions. He is a very strong man. I'm glad he found someone who makes him happy.
There was one teenage guy who would molest me and do bad things to me like being naked and wanted me to tease his body and god knows what when i was 5-6 y/o. i little knew that those things he used to do were bad and gross but i was so naive, young and confused. i got molested by not 1 not 2 but more than 5 grown up guys from my society till i was 14. i never shared those things with my family because i was so scared and though they would beat me. even tho i'm gay back then i had no idea but those things i suffered still hurts me and i cry alone because i had a terrible childhood. 😢😢😢
I am so sorry about this. It is such a horrible thing and should never happen to anyone. People who commit rape don't know and will never understand the impacts of what they have done. It can change you...I am just glad it hasn't changed you and you are talking about it❤
I was raped by a woman and beaten severely. Everybody said it was my fault that I should have done better and let it happen or she wouldn't've beat me that bad. I looked shit up online, called hotlines for help. Some of them laughed, some said I was lying, some just hang up. I found ONE that actually took it seriously, and it turns out there was nothing that could be done legally as she'd just accuse me of penetrating her and the courts'd gobble it up. My bruises and the damage to my already ruined eye could be used as evidence for her "defending herself against me" so I was advised to not do anything about it, else I end up falsely convicted. I did nothing about it and she did it to two more men that I'm aware of.
I was molested.. Age 4 by a woman in a foster home I was placed in.. she would force my head between her legs in the shower.. no one likes soap and water in their eyes but it’s all I can think about when it happens 24 years later. It was daily.. the family used to lock my brothers and I in a dog kennel in the basement.. it was complete hell.. I have children now and I’ve never talked about it. I feel like a coward.
dont ever feel like a coward. you are an amazing human being. what happened to you was terrible but it doesnt change what a brave man you are. be proud of yourself. that woman will burn in hell, trust me.
GlacierX No, that is not a fact. I’ve never EVER heard someone say that men being sexually assaulted doesn’t exist or is pathetic. You keep thinking that the entire world is about you, cause thats what you’ve been raised thinking subconciously. Everyone takes it serious.
habitzm8 the boss ikr acting as they don’t have any power when they have more as people believe them and see men as emotionless objects that have all the power
xBlue Wolf most of the comments saying that women are not strong enough/powerful enough are from other boys. No women is saying that. Why don’t you go through the RUclips comments and attempt to educate your fellow anti-women trolls instead of hating on women??
BookMilla a lot of feminists choose to deny that men get raped and they call male victims patronizing things and harass them and make them feel like they’re small
I’m a girl and I definitely feel man on man rape or women forcing themselves on men is not talked about seriously and I hope this raises awareness. It’s sad how this is not talked about seriously. I seriously deep down really do hope this changes somewhere in the future
Me to because there are some countries who don’t and possibly never will have rape as a gender neutral law and this woman’s rights group in India protested rape being made a gender neutral crime since they said men don’t suffer the same psychological issues as the female victims do
I am so sorry for what happened to you. It was not your fault and you didn't deserve it. I know it must have been hard to tell your story, but thank you, more men need to feel confident in reporting what happened to them so it becomes less taboo 🙏🏽
Bless you for speaking out. You're so strong for talking about this and you have encouraged many other men to do the same. May you take all your pain and make it your strength. And for all the guys here in the comment section: you have every right to speak out. You are not weak for doing so, but strong. I wish you all the best.
Dude. Just checked some comments sections of women who experienced sexual assault, and half of the comments say that they are lying and how they accuse man of rape.. In this case, where this guy got sexually abused, NO ONE says that he is lying or how he needs to have evidence in order to prove his story, while when a woman tells her story she needs to have evidence or otherwise she is lying.. Anyways, this guy is so brave for speaking up, because rape is taken less seriously when it comes to men. In my opinion, NO ONE should ever deny sexual assault. Unfortuenly, there are girls out there who falsely accuse man of rape, and I find this weird and disgusting. I also see that women are more open-minded when it comes tot his. As i said I didn't saw 1 comment saying that this guy is not telling the truth, while in other comments sections there are LOTS of men that deny rape. A lot of man also insult woman by telling them they are sluts and stuff. Just respect each other dude.. When a guy says how a woman belongs in the kitchen all man are agreeing (mostly joking but still), and if a girl said something like "man should go to work all day" or something like this, everyone would call her a feminist. There are a lot of problems in this world, sexism, man denying rape and blaming the victim, racism, girls who falsely accuse man of raping and also man could face more time in prison while woman can get away easier.
I was wondering the same thing. Where are all the victim blaming and minimizing comments? Like even on a video about child rape there was a comment trying to claim an 11 yo would consent to being drugged, beaten and raped by 22 men. If you never want to sleep again google chennai rape horror.
I also checked comment sections on women who experienced sexual assult and comments blaming the victim make from 1-2,5% of all comments. Meanwhile on video about Russian woman raping guy 9% of comments are minimazing this issue.
For every man who tells his story another man will report. Men I work with always say they felt more willing to speak when they heard another man had a similar experience. Thank you for sharing your story.
Year ago a kid, 6 years old, was raped by another male, who was around 17-18 at that time. This is small area, two villages were everyone knew one another. This didn't occure in my village it happened in another one. Basically it was around 8-9 pm when the kid was going back to his house from his grandma's place, house next to the house, at that moment rapist was walking by. He was drunk. He was known as a problematic kid ever since he was born. He's couple of years older than me. I went to the same school as he did. He would always bully this one kid from my class, kid would fight back but no use, sometimes principal and other stuff would get involved, they would call their parents but no use. One time that rapist threw a big rock at that kid's mom. Poor woman left home crying. We would always be aware of him. Back to the story he called that little kid to come over to his house. And kid did. He led him to his bedroom and you know what happened next, he raped him. Kid was in shock, he didn't know what happened to him. The worst part is that the rapist whole family was downstairs, they heard the noise, they knew what was happening but they didn't do anything. Police came arrested him. Over 50 doctors were doing check-ups on that kid. Kid's family moved into the city. Kid had a brother that is my age. We went to the school together. All of us were in pure shock. Rapist family didn't even try to apologise, his family stayed in the village while their rapist son was moved to bugger city into a prison. He was there for only 6 months then he was set free. His grandpa lives in that city so he's staying at his house. One day i get a call from my cousin saying that some guy is following her for a week. Later that day she sent me a pic, it's the rapist, i told her what he did and to be careful of him, told her to tell her other friends to also be aware. Her parents would follow her to her school even tho it was 5 minutes away. Parents complained about him following other kids. I don't know what happened to him. I wish i never see him again, and i wish that that doesn't happen to anyone, male or female. I'm scared of him, he knew me, one time he wanted to be like real close friend to be but i have always kept my distance because my gut was telling me to. Later that year my mom told me that rapist needed to drink pills and was going to the therapist from the young age, but his family didn't want to spend money on him so they stopped buying him needed pills. I'm glad that i trusted my gut. I'm mad at his family because they didn't reacted. And I'm sorry for that little kid who had to endure that from a such an early age, I'm sorry to anyone who had to endure this. I hope you get through this.
The more you speak out, the more men will be taken seriously about rape. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I hate it when people say "oh a man can't get raped" but I really hate how people think that a woman can't rape a man. I hope one day you can't forget that it ever happened,thank you for sharing your story.
The Pickle Of Destiny well in law women can’t rape men, as only penetration is rape and as far as I’m aware aware women would only get charged with sexual assault
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Sad fact :Rape is taken less seriously when it comes to men
Ironically, it should be taken MORE SERIOUSLY, because men don't have a legal way to opt-out of unwanted parenthood like women do. Men end up in a situation of "victim must pay rapist" because of child support laws, which is slavery.
@@carultch wtf no!
skkksks he didn’t say that
@@arjun-gf9mo yes he did
skkksks To be fair, if a man is raped he is forced to pay a liar and rapist for 18 years, if he comes out he will be made fun of, and could possibly lose his self confidence and become suicidal. Also judges and prosecutors will most likely believe in a woman over a man any day.
While a women who is raped could abort the baby, gets comfort, and if she comes out the people on the internet will defend her without a scrap of evidence
It isn't just male on male rape. Female on Male happens too and should be talked about
RenegadeRaida.
Yes!
its an issue of consent not gender
Female on male rape does happen and I agree does need to be talked about, to many women have said women can't rape men, seen women argue this fact and get mad if you say other wise!!!! It's very sad and needs to be taken serious!!!!
It very much happens but the thing is with society men really have no voice nor can do they feel they can say anything. Men are taught to keep quite and be a man, rather than talk about our issues.
That fat asian kid sad but true! Wish things could be different, I'm sorry that it's not!!!
“When men are abused they are hurt twice, first by the abuser, second by society who tells them they are weak when they come out as a victim of assault.” -quote a random RUclips comment I saw
So males keep quiet, slowly suffering from PTSD and depression, ultimately leading to suicide
so true
@@shaheema1110 Does me too include men, on average men report less than women.
@@shaheema1110 dude its super logical that men dont report as much as females do. You dont need proof for that. It is what it is
@@shaheema1110 go to the news and everything, they always say things about girls getting whatever, and boys almost never get on the news or somethin
Please continue to speak out on male rape (female on male, and male on male.) It hurts my heart to think that so many men are ashamed to bring it up and get help. I was raped and I know how hard it was for me to cope, I can't imagine being a man. I admire your strength. 💪❤
Allison Linner I totally agree with you.
female on male... cmon mate...
Bruce Wayne what?A female can rape a male.
I don't see how. I invite them to try.
A_xya B "And ummm you don't want a rapist to come over and "try.""
ummm yeah I do. They wont succeed. Unless its Cris Cyborg.
“You’re a man. Toughen up.”
“Why didn’t you fight back?”
“Men don’t cry.”
This is why men don’t speak up. Victim blaming using toxic masculinity. Kill it with fire, tell men it’s okay not to be okay. Tell men it’s okay to cry, the talk about their feelings, problems, etc.
If we do that, a lot less men would commit suicide, a lot fewer rapists would get away with their crimes, and a lot more male victims would have a better quality of life.
Kawaii Girl No, I just spoke my mind, the truth.
shut up men have feelings to
@@crackuhsnackuh your horrible!
@@crackuhsnackuh So it's the same for women then. If you don't say that it is I'm calling you a sexist and your opinion is invalid.
@naftali don't blame it on yourself, or anyone except the person responsible
Brave man. Glad he met someone who helped him on the road to recovery.
fuzzylumpkin49 not like hes taking herion
@@kylemoss1135 You're right it's even worse.
@illegit Drags the rest of who down?
I have seen a very horny woman was sucking her 1year old son's penis. After closing their apartment's door, I have heard loud screaming - ah ah ah..... . I don't know what she was doing with her son. But I felt very bad for that.
That happened multiple times later.
@@Matriarchy_Feminism WTF
Thank you for speaking up. You're very brave.
Agreed
Exactly
God bless
Rape can happen to everyone.All genders and sexualities
@@qwertymanova2652 yet this cruel society doesn't see that...
I’m a man who was sexually assaulted by another male! It was in the eighth grade throughout the whole year, he told me if i told anyone he would kill me and my family, so when I told someone I called my mom screaming and crying that he’s coming for me and he’s gonna kill me, I remember the immense pain I had felt! I learned to accept what happened to me and to speak out against this incident that so few talk about.
Daniel Windham You're brave for making this comment. I hope you feel better.
Daniel Windham . You're so brave to speak about it .
Daniel Windham I am trying to set up a community service project about this and create awareness about this issue Do you have eney advice about doing a community service project like this because I don't know were to start I started one for a prow life program called life choice but with this I don't know how to start I am here if you need eney one you are vary Brave and strong don't forget that no one should have to go through that no one and it can happen to enenyone eney were and a lot of people pass it by or don't believe it can happen but it can I believe you and you have my up most respect
Daniel Windham giggity
I my country fair complexion and good looks are consider to be a Curse. Either u hv to keep that son completely on guard or raise him as a combat fighter so that no one shall assault him sexually. Unfortunately I was given both the guards, I was kept on guard and was given training of how to operate guns and daggers. Never to be afraid of any thing. Once a guy bullied me when I was 8-10 yrs old, i told my father and my father beat him to his shit, broke his arm and shoulder for touching me , that guy is still afraid of me and never raise his eyes infront of me , now i am 40 and that guy is 50 .
I was molested two times when i was very young.I tried to tell my mom but she didnt care.Then I became very introverted and I always feared to talk to new people. I sometimes became violent if someone tried to talk to me fearing that they want to take advantage of me in some way. 6 years after I realised my I was suffering from my trauma and started trying to talk to my classmates.I now also go to boxing gym so I can become strong and protect myself and my loved ones.
TheLone Ranger you’re so brave i’m so proud of you
Good for you that you became stronger. That was pretty shitty of your mom to act that way
Am sorry about your mom you deserve better parents
I know how you feel
My mom even ask me to forgive him and just let him get away with it because he is a family member
U should beat the person who molested u ass
I'm glad this topic of 'men being raped' is coming to light.
Equality should be equal for both, and men have the right to open up about things we women are obliged to speak out about.
PC yeah, but at least this man was brave enough to share his story because not a lot of men open up to these kind of things
Nica Watt exactly
ikr
carlos blanco Plenty of mexicans being dehumanized by white men, cant say the same for white men who are always the main character of a movie, or president of a first world country. There used to be signs at denny's saying no mexicans allowed which included mexican americans, and I dont believe it ever said no white men allowed. That sign was put up by white men btw so go pick on someone your own size carlos, because you seem quite comfortable with people named carlos always being in the back of the white main actors mowing the lawn and not knowing a word of english. Here enjoy what dehumanizing means -> ruclips.net/video/Qei-szsrSGs/видео.html
@carlos blanco Umm you said why dont we dehumanize women as if the white man isnt the greatest dehumanizer on earth against blacks, native americans, etc. Sooo yeah it fits or do you think dehumanizing is only based on gender Carlos?
Such a brave, strong man. Well done for coming forward. Xxx
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On Jah #LLJ🕊️
@@spikeyplayzgamesyt1845 😔
Im a girl and I believe we should stop telling men to toughen up. Just tell them that it’s okay to be scared or cry. They need support just as much as we do.
And I Oop finally, a girl who is actually not focused on themselves.
@@oldenoughh in not even going to
Agreed trust me women can be sexist too and not just men towards women as everyone may feel 👍🏻
@@hsd287 facts as a women, these days woman are so sexist to men nobody says its sexist just because they are women.
Its not okay to cry and scared , we should support everyone in henious injustice , if men are scared and cried who will help the crying ones , and if men scared and cried in everything iam 100% sure the world would'nt devolope this much
As a survivor of male rape myself, I wish I'd heard this earlier
Jerjer B you are not alone if you ever need someone to talk to I am here you are brave for speaking up you may feel alone but you aren't there are people that care like me and there are people that have gone through the same thing I am sorry this happened to you but you being here shows that you are a strong and brave person
If its affecting you please do get help
As a female survivor, it always bothered me how all the help-organisations for survivors are almost exclusively for girls or women. Boys are sometimes not even allowed in them. Perhaps that makes a little sense if the girls have been raped by a man/boy and need a safe space, but I would have felt less shitty about myself, had I heard more stories of all different kinds of people who made similar experiences to mine. I hate that femininity is often equated with victimhood.
Stay strong❤️ Nobody deserves rape. Thank you for sharing your story.
Deserved 500 likes
Omg os and pho I watch your mff vids
Jakazu that’s usually not what happens and it doesn’t matter what gender , race ,sexuality you can still be a victim so wanting one person to go through it is messed up because if you were that person you would feel like you can’t tell anybody you would feel like you were nothing
@Jakazu r u joking
@Jakazu So, I scheduled you 1 year of therapy, 10 years in a hetero prison and no right for you if you're ever going to be gay again (and who says r/wooooosh, her/his mother is a slut)
Poor guy 😿😿😿nobody deserves that, I hope more people like him speak up, this makes me so sad...
@carlos blanco wtf
Jakazu you’re too young to be here
@@BlackPineNJ you are 2
@Jakazu You disgust me
i have no life I’m not taking an insult from somebody he uses 2 instead of just typing it out
(And it’s the wrong to)
Hats off to him for opening up about this trauma and pointing out that it can happen to anybody. No one should ever hide this in fear of being judged. This is such a serious issue that must always be addressed, regardless of gender or sexuality. No matter where you are or what state you're in, no means NO.
But that's not where the world is or where it's going. The legal system's already misandristic as is, feminism wants to make it even worse for men.
For the deniers of male rape, bringing up male-on-male rape like this might be an easier way of bridging the gap for them to acknowledge female-on-male rape, too. Hopefully one day we can just all acknowledge that rape is RAPE, regardless of who you are.
Do you always spew bullshit on a day to day basis?
blackham7 ?????
blackham7 ?????
Agreed rape isnt a gender.
blackham7 The fuck?
You are very brave for sharing your story. I hope it will inspire more men to come forward.
Uncon TROLLable what the fuck
duustin crawford It's in his name.
Men who come forward are often mocked, laughed at and feel emasculated and unmanly. However this comment section seems to be changing my mind.
I hate that we have to call it "male rape" as opposed to just "rape"
when someone says "rape" people most likely think of Male on female rape. because men dont speak up about their problems because "men dont cry"
Why? Calling it male rape gives more info on the victim. Calling it male rape informs people that he's going to be dealing with a slightly different set of problems than a female rape victim
I love how people are so ignorant to say that
“You probably enjoyed it”
No you muffinhead it’s so traumatising
@Freedom Ofspeech wow. that’s completely false. what’s even the logic there?
@Freedom Ofspeech Cuck.
finally bbc nice to see men’s problems represented as well
It had to be a gay man tho
Itsme BD so?
There are thousands of straight men who are being opressed by women but they are just being laughed at
@@itsmebd7422 yes they being laughed at by other men and it makes me sickk
@@shooklizard9039 And some women as well. They laugh too
I hate how some people think that men don't have feelings like personally it hurts me more to see a guy cry than a girl.
Same
@123fort andbree maybe but that's not the case for me *personally* because the guys I'm around always seem to hide their emotions so when they can't then you know it's deep.
At the camp I went to over summer everyone made fun of this poor kid who was crying because someone ripped his painting, I'm a guy and I'm 13 and hell I would've cried too if Someone ripped something I worked hard on
Natasha Kings Oh my I thought I was the only one you thinks that
CaramelDlux2013 Woman cry almost all the time when something terrible happens and the men are the tough guys who don't cry that much
I just wanna hug him... I'm so sorry..
@Don Espoleto lol stop being such a pussy, i'm not very tough but you are taking wussyness to a whole new level.
Alain Díaz he's right though. That qualifies as rape now
I.. was raped... when I was five by a older girl don’t know how old tho, yet no ones cares cuz I’m a guy 🙃🔫
But you know ig it taught me to be as respectful as possible when I feel like my gf might be uncomfortable I step back and make sure she’s ok and I’ll always make sure she’s alright with the sich so that’s a plus... ig
Swiftly sniper respect
Swiftly sniper to be fair, when it comes to children, people either care a lot or just ignore it. But when it comes to guys people think it doesn’t exist. It’s horrible. I’m sorry that happened to you.
Stay strong, brother. Nobody deserves this regardless of gender. Hope your doing well, now.
Im so sorry that happened i hope that in that future that people will treat rape as an action and not as a specific gender
Mad respect bro 👊👏👍
I know a boy who got raped when he was 5 by his mother (he’s in foster care now) and when he tried telling people so he didn’t have to live with her anymore they just told him he was lucky to have gotten “a shag at such a young age” I of course didn’t do this. I made sure he told a teacher about this and he did get removed from the house he was staying in with his mother. It breaks my heart that this is how boys and men who are raped are treated.
HE WAS A CHILD HOW CAN SOMEONE COULD'VE SAID THAT ;~;
@A M. A.M. guess what. Guess what. GUESS WHAT, you misandristic piece of shit. In almost every county's law, it's impossible for a man to be raped. In literally every county's legal system, women win even when they're the perpetrator.
I knew a little boy who was raped by his mother. He told us one day when he was 9 and girls and the teacher said that doesn't happen to boys. He didn't really speak much after that.
@@NameName-lv1ik Yup the law does not even agree it can happen in several countries.
mother？？？？wtf
A man in my neighborhood was accused of false rape got arrested 23 years
When he got released he never spoke a word to anyone for 14 years
I feel bad ☹️
@Richard Hayes US xD the country where money is the law come in france this never happen
@@mehdih8165 still happens in france lmao
They at least tried 😐
I remember my friend telling me about she was talking with her best friend and they were telling story’s about funny stuff that had happened to them, and he said “one time when I was at a party I got super drunk and I was trying to go to bed but this girl kept trying to make moves on me and she ended up forcibly riding me” and he laughed like it was no big deal, but he was extremely concerned when he found out that something similar happened to one of his girl friends.
Finley Do you think Superheroes back down when someone is stronger then them?? I’m asking
This cause you have an iron man profile picture I’m pretty sure a Male is not as strong as the Hulk. Also there is something called adrenaline it boosts your strength in the sense of danger
Finley Your being unnecessarily rude for me just asking you a logical question.
Finley Who the hell whould like your shitty, ignorant, insensitive comment?
Curse on your tongue that girk should be in jail
Finley but pretty much any woman can drug a man, hit a man, manipulate a man, tell them "you're not a real man if you don't do this" or "if you don't do this it means you don't love me", and that's still rape, and that still really fucks the victim up
This so brave. Rape is rape, and nobody deserves it.
Aiden McGuire How does that relate to school shootings?
People just assume men automatically want it from a woman or that they would have the physical capability to fight them off
I got raped by females because I was so Innocent and pure and it FUCKS with me bc when hugging a female relative(A female relative raped me) it is very confusing
@@darkshadowtext2654 Ah man, I’m sorry that happened to you. Have you told anyone?
@@joewhitehead3 No they probably wont believe me
Just hearing about secondhand brings such a feeling of anxiety. There aren't enough words I can say to in support of this man for having the guts to speak the words of his ordeal aloud
Even though I'm late, here is My story:
As a boy in America, I've been conditioned to believe that "boys don't cry" or that I should "man up". I stood firm by that but one time on my birthday something happened. The day started off normal (cake, bday song, etc) but then, at the end of the day, it was time for everybody to leave (my bday party was at my house). Now keep in mind that at the time, I was nine. It was just me, my mom, my uncle Jerry, and my little sister. After the party, we didn't really have much so my mom was going to do some quick shopping. She left me, my little sister, and my uncle there alone. My uncle was very trusted, and was like a father figure to me almost. my little sister (who was a baby btw) was crying, so I put her to sleep. By then I was getting tired too, so I just started playing my game. That's when my uncle came in my room and closed the door. I didn't think anything of it because I played music while I played so I just thought it was so it wouldn't wake my sister. He started playing my game with me (Lego marvel superheros) and it was fun. After about 5 minutes, he started brushing up against me and I was feeling uncomfortable. He got up, and closed my blinds. Then he said "aren't you bored of playing these kitty games?" And I just said that I liked the Lego videogames. He said "why don't we play the games adults play". At that point, I was getting VERY nervous (because I was aware of what rape was and what manipulation was). I said "naw I'm fine" and then he grabbed my hand and placed it in his pants and made me feel his junk through his pants. At that point, I was pulling away because I knew what was happening. He told me, in his exact words "don't be a b!∆ch! Your a big man now!" I had rarely ever heard him cuss so I was really scared. He pulled down his pants, grabbed my head with both hands and raped me. It felt like it lasted forever. I was just crying and crying, but nothing. After, he gave me mouthwash and said "see, that wasn't so hard?" I just cried but I tried not to. My mom came home when I had the mouthwash and saw I was holding back tears. She asked what happened, and as I was about to speak, I choked, and my uncle gave me a smile that said "keep quiet", while looking right at me. Being scared, I said I was crying because I lost in my game. my uncle had his stuff and left, but before he did, he said "next time when we play the game, let's try something different". I was so scared, and having every male figure in my life saying that men don't cry, and that"men shouldn't be scared" made me silent. A few weeks later, we had another family get together. I begged my mom to let me stay home but she said no (since I was 9) At this family get together, it was the same with my uncle. But that time, he pulled down my basketball shorts, and proceeded to analy rape me. This pattern continued but then, he just started coming over our house, and said it was a "family check in". He came over just about a few times every other week. And every time, I was used as his "tool of satisfaction". I was so scared. I felt like if I said something, I would be told to "man up". So one time I had an idea to indirectly call for help. I would ask my mom to get cameras. Since I assumed people wouldn't believe me, I just thought "I should just get the cameras now". My mom was confused, but she still bought cameras anyway I think she knew that something about me was just... Off. she said I always looked as if I was about to just drop to floor. A few weeks pass of my uncle taking advantage of me, being a scared nine year old boy. and ever single time I just was thinking"this is it" "this is my life" "no end, no resolve" "what can I do to physically stop a grown man?" Those were just *_some_* of my constant thoughts. And at one point I just break out and tell my mom to check the cameras( I was starting to get extreme suicidal thoughts). She was horrified. She saw everything that happened and she called my dad first(even though he wasn't really in my life and my mom only had his number for child support I guess) and he was furious and disgusted. And sadly, Everytime my uncle tortured me with this cycle of rape, I was just frozen whenever it would happen. I was screaming on the inside. But nobody heard. I was broken. My mom took me to the police station and he is now serving 22 years to life. and since I went to my mom right after it happened, they had all the evidence they needed (dna, camera footage, etc) I'm sorry for this story being so long. But to all victims, male or female just remember this as I leave you with a parting message, these rapists, and predators all rely on your fear. They trust that fear will keep you shut, and keep them safe. So please, if you see this PLEASE just speak up. I just needed to get that off my chest. I am still recovering as I am 13 now.💔
When I was 6 there was this girl and I'm a girl too but anyways her name...let's call her Francis but anyways she was 12 I was 6 and basically what happened was she use to sexualize me and when I mean sexualize I mean she would "you know" but anyways I was young I didn't even know what was going on she did it multiple times she was my cousin but until one day she told me god would be angry at us but now I'm 13 and I know she did that so we won't get caught now me and her are cool but I will forgive her as she was young too but that was one story I know your probably gonna be like she should've got punished but tbh I'm okay with it now and another story same age I was six again and there was this teenager that was 17 and he thank god didn't do any moves yet but was going to and he use to impropriety touch me until one day he hugged me and touched my behind and I ran out and went to get mom I was always so uncomfortable now that I think of it I've been touched by multiple girls there was one time with the girl across the street another time were this girl use to be friends but started touching me and tbh I think I'm not to okay with it but it wasn't rape but touching a 6 year old that doesn't no nothing isn't okay but this message is a send out to you don't worry man your not alone I'm now 13 too but truly I wish men are seen as human beings like all of us more then providers your feeling matter you don't need to be this tough guy to suprise a girl be yourself you know I really wish society sees men in a more different way but if your reading this thank you and plz don't act tough for anyone they should love you regardless ☺️❤️
You are extremely strong. Keep going, little man. You are awesome!
Omg I'm so sorry 🥺🥺you are so strong. Keep up the fighter in you. Proud of you.
I’m two years too late but as a survivor you’re stronger than you’ll ever know. I’m sorry that you were taken advantage of. All of my brothers and my one sister have been victimized in this way and I know first hand how this can affect people. But your bravery and courage at such a young age is breathtaking. I pray that you can continue in this life, working to build up trust once again and that everyone who steps into your life shows you the love you deserve😊.
This brought tears to my eyes. So glad you are safe now. There is an extreme amount of rape and sexual assault that goes unreported. You are strong. I wish you the best.
I was molested by a 12 YO girl when I was 7 YO. I still have flashbacks to it, PTSD. When nurses had to touch me down there I freaked out/went into panic. I'm almost 46 still a virgin and too nervous to usually talk to a woman. American here. I still remember her smirk touching me.
Sorry that happened to you. Did you tell anyone?
@@Cacowninja No, at the time I thought I'd be in really serious trouble, she told me I would, too. Like spanked past what I could take, Afterward I was too embarassed. I blacked it out until recently remembering when it was passed the statute of limitations and she was almost 50. She's also a teacher now. I hope she isn't like that
@@tohellwithgoogle4261 Aw man that sucks, you sure you can't try to press charges, what country are you in now?
I ask because of the legal requirement to persecute someone vary from country to country.
I'm really sorry that happened, and the fact she's free and is a teacher disgusts me.
She belongs behind bars.
@@Cacowninja The US, and certainly couldn't press charges against a 50+ year old woman for what she did when she was 12, except maybe murder.
You looked up the law?
As a survivor myself, I commend your voice. Nobody can ever take away your voice.
its been 15 years, yet after watching this, the painful and tragic situation, just like, hunts me again.
This makes me so so sad. I can’t even imagine how you’re feeling. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story
Bless his heart. This is sad. I’m sure this happens more than we know.
As a representation of my big tado family at AFLAC that thinks their poop doesn't stink. They would tell you these kind of things don't happen because they are climbing the latter at the corporate office of AFLAC and you just don't count! I would never buy AFLAC insurance.
It happened to me by my blood brother
I was sexually abused by a very close female family member when I was very young. It created a lot of problems for me in my later life. I don't see women like normal men see. I don't trust them. I couldn't talk about it to anyone because she was a very close relative and also because no one wouldve believed me at that time because she was a very pious woman in the eyes of my family.
Wow. I mean I'm sorry that happened to you but now you don't see women normally? Do you understand how rare it is for a woman to take advantage of a male? Even if it did happen some women atleast take "no" for an answer. Whereas men are bigger and stronger and take advantage of people more easily. I'm disgusted by ur statement honestly. Just because a certain gender has done something to you doesn't mean you turn on all of them. Like really.
@@roenlly4648 you're stupid. If a woman says "i cant see men the same anymore because i was raped" you would feel sorry for them. He has gone through rape and you're saying that hes supposed to feel the same way that he did before?. Your statement is flat out wrong.
@@roenlly4648 i see woman everywhere with trust issues with all these problems who say that they dont trust men which is understandable as much as this one is. You're disgusting.
@@roenlly4648 Men get sexually assaulted (and raped) at an equal rate BY WOMEN(ABOUT 89% OF THE PERPETRATORS ARE FEMALE) in the US in the recent years. Here is the link to an OFFICIAL US GOVERNMENT WEBSITE - www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4062022/
Also here is an article from THE SCIENTIFIC AMERICAN WITH OFFICIAL 2019 DATA,
In 2019, for example, this survey showed that equal numbers of men and women reported being forced into non-consensual sex (either raped or forced to penetrate someone else). Extrapolated to the US as a whole, this would represent 1.9 million victims among each sex during the preceding 12 month.NOW OBVIOUSLY IN THE OLDER DAYS WOMEN WERE RAPED MORE BUT NOW IT'S JUST EQUAL.ALSO MEN DON'T REPORT SO MUCH SEXUAL ASSAULT COMPARED TO WOMEN.
IN THE US, Men are assaulted at the same rate as women by women.
www.google.com/amp/s/digest.bps.org.uk/2017/07/11/sexual-offending-by-women-is-surprisingly-common-claims-us-study/amp/
amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/503492/
www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4062022/
@@roenlly4648 1. It's actually a lot more common than you think for female predators to sexually assault people...
www.vice.com/en_us/article/kze8qn/the-hidden-epidemic-of-men-who-are-raped-by-women
2. If it was a female victim would you find her reluctance to hang with dudes be "bad" or understandable given the nature of the experience?
Media: Why dont you fight back?
me: *Fights back*
Media: YOU JUST HIT A WOMEN OMG UR GOING TO JAIL
KillerDeku that’s not how it works but ok
@@oraandrip5266 facts
This is about a man raping another man you doughnut..
@@ancientmewtb But women can also take sexual advantage of a man. But in the case of the video, you're right.
@@oraandrip5266 now I know men rape men but a woman can simply not rape a man
Thank you! We all support and have love for you! You're stronger than most people!!!!! Never give up the courage!
Men have it more difficult to open up then women and it's really unfair
Blame patriarchy.
I am so proud of you for being so brave for talking about your awful experience. You are amazing and don't let anyone bring you down because you are strong. Keep fighting and keep being strong.
thank you for telling us your story, it is really hard to be open about such a sensitive subject but you are not only strong but a lot of people(abused or not) can look up to you as a sign of strength and that it is okay to talk about it.
i remember a documentaty about 20yrs back from the bbc I believe on male rape. For the life of me,I haven't been able to find it, but I remember the impact it had on me and the shame it caused the men who went through it. I distinctly remembering one saying "my body betrayed me", and my heart broke..
That's so deep
It happened to me as well, it was horribly painful.
I'll be more gentle
@@VibeinATLien do you think this is funny imagine somebody entering your body with force without your consent painfully forcing them in and out its disgusting.
@@VibeinATLien you are evil...
Hope you're better now
@@VibeinATLien stop
It’s so important to understand that rape can happen to anyone. It’s purely horrific and disgraceful to EVER force yourself on to anyone. Thank you for sharing your story.
This needs more views 🗣
VallierKimora Anything discussing a serious topic always needs more views. It's sad how people prefer to not talk, hear, or think about serious topics like this.
i was molested by my friend when i was 10 at a sleepover. im 27 now and ive never told anyone.
Tell somebody
@@Chinoblitz He did. He told the world. RUclips comments is a way of communication
What a very brave man to speak up!. I'm so glad you've met someone who you can share this kind of experience and problem.. Bless you
I came to this video thinking that perpetrator was an adult woman committing this act on an adult man [[without any devices]].
Tza Foxx same here titles mis leading
It can still happen though. It has before. Never discount it.
cateyes221981 are you feminist or anti feminist? Claiming that females are weaker than men (untrue as not all men are strong and a lot of women are strong) let along 10x weaker, but then calling men stupid aswell? Everything you have said is complete bull and you need to research as a woman can easily rape a man without his consent
Me too
CANDID PETS mix bunch of drug and alcohol then cuff em, even if the guy is strong with those combo he can be weak.
Anyone who says "Men don't get raped." deserves a painful punch in the head. As a gay man, I worry too about that for my own safety.
I agree with you. I'm Gay and I almost got rape twice and I'm a Top.
I’m a woman, I’ve read and watched about men being raped, I really want their story to be heard and this problem becomes as equal as women being raped. And because of that, I tried to write a story on wattpad about men being raped to raise awareness and to let more people know that this problem is real and need to be taken seriously.
I'm a woman and I'm so happy that finally someone realised that male rape is a thing
sending love and warm to anyone that had to went through all of this
Yeah, that's tough stuff. I thought about that long time. Now I feel my heart rate goes up and the blood is bloating up my head. I'm almost shaking. I don't know if I'm doing right or wrong adding my post. About a year ago I have been drugged up and used all night without my consent. It's A MIRACLE that after 15 hours I eventually got out. Thank you BBC, now I'm considering to talk to someone who might understand me.
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my cousin was a victim of rape and he told us. when he did, my aunt and my uncle said-
you are weak for letting that happen. there is nothing to report, it was all your weakness. and my uncle called him the p word
he is healthy right now and has a really nice boyfriend, i am proud of him for not giving up!
Took me a while to work out he was saying "stuff" instead of "sniff"
He was saying “sniff”!
That’s another word for drugs
Anthony ooooh ok, thank you for clarifying that !
It’s sad that when we hear the word ‘rape’ it’s almost always interpreted as “the woman is the victim and the man is guilty”. Everyone has their own weaknesses, regardless of their gender, sex, age, etc. At the end of the day, we’re all living beings with emotions
Pleasantly surprised about the likes ratio and comments.
As a representation of my big tado family at AFLAC that thinks their poop doesn't stink. They would tell you these kind of things don't happen because they are climbing the latter at the corporate office of AFLAC and you just don't count! I would never buy AFLAC insurance.
Whether the victim is a man or a woman, they deserve justice. But the sad thing is that social justice treats male victims and male rape as a joke, there was a man who was laughed at because he said he was raped. That's not right, rape is serious and such a horrible thing that nobody should endure
“Omg your a man why didn’t you fight back” 1: if he fought back people would call the guy abusive and 2 the only reason he didn’t speak up about it is because he would be called weak
Male rape won’t be looked at seriously by society for some time sadly. I’ve never went through it, but I feel horrible for those who have been raped (No matter what gender). I think this is because the older generations gave off the idea that men will ALWAYS enjoy sex no matter what, and young boys are lucky to be raped.
The saddest part is, they will never get justice for what happened to them. Most don’t believe them or just don’t care enough, but when the female rapist is arrested she’ll only get about 2-3 years (compared to a man’s 10-20 sentence for the SAME crime). Both are horrible crimes, both should receive the same sentence.
Men are horribly underprivileged in court.
Thank you for speaking about this and raising awareness.
This poor man is very brave and he did not deserve what was dished out to him. I hope he has good and kind family, and friends who will be there for him.
I remember when I went to the home of a church goer he offered me a drink.I said yes while watching T.V. I suddenly decided to look back and at that very moment I saw a pill resolve in the clear glass of Sprite.I left immediately.
Then I recall a few years back at church I saw a young guy sitting next to this 30 something year old guy with a hardened look on his face, this guy was staring at the younger one's behind very hard for a very long time.So I gather it's not safe for men anymore either.I believe because of homosexuality male on male rape is rising.
When you get raped a lot of shame comes with it even if it's not your fault I think it's because you are being forced to commit a sexual act which is somewhat a taboo still today (yet everyone forgets children come from unions and that is sacred and normal) and also because your right for consent is hijacked that is humiliating in itself. The element of surprise is also giving you a very strong psychological impact, element of surprise you did not expect someone would have such disregard for your rights. All these things are hard hitting at once, but they all have one thing in common IT'S ALL PSYCHOLOGICAL. Before the rapist attacks he made a decision to do it, then he acted it out. He decided to overpower, do with you what he pleased for a payoff. The payoff is that you will feel so insignificant compared to him that you will never rise up again or feel respectable anymore. The power to break free from such a massive physiological assault is understanding their intent. For one moment or for many nights they overpower your body, but your mind is still free. When a blind person accepts their condition, they resort to developing their hearing to compensate.So when you realize they mean it to break you permanently. You decide it was one moment only. I couldn't stop them they were too physically strong. My body is injured.But I can still break free. Focusing on their cruelty is the only way in my opinion to overcome. Fight for your dignity again realize it really isn't YOUR FAULT.They overpowered you that does not mean you are evil, they are the evil selfish ones or maybe even mentally ill.
Many of them are born psychos some have been raped themselves and are acting out unresolved issues, others anti-social others had brain injuries that causes them not to have proper empathy so they are not well. Yes, they took advantage, yes it hurts like you can't believe, but they are not normal. Fight to get your normal back. It's all in your heart and head. Find good support. Defy them, their intention to destroy the rest of your life they can't do that, only you can let them. SAY YES YOU ARE STRONGER PHYSICALLY, BUT I AM STRONGER EMOTIONALLY PSYCHOLOGICALY I HAVE TRUE DIGNITY.Show them get a good life!
When you speak out shame starts to diminish with good supporters.The more this is exposed the better. Change will happen.
HIGHLY IN DEMAND 7900 please tell me you went to the police or reported the man you tried to spike your drink so he couldn’t do it to others!!
HIGHLY IN DEMAND 7900 that’s gay
No one should get raped.....
I've been laughed at and heard EVERY rape cliche when I talk about my rapes and sexual assaults. I'll never forget the day after I was drugged then raped, I told my cousin and a few of his friends what happened, and got laughed at. When I got black out drunk -- ending up in the hospital -- I woke up to cops wanting to interview me over what happened because I must've been talking about it to a nurse or something, but just one glance at them I knew they were annoyed so I just sat there till they left. Then when I landed myself in a psycheward for trying to kill myself for the 3rd time a few months after the 2nd time I was raped, I had a therapist, infront of like 15 people, say I'll never get off meds or not need therapy because "my rape traumas are so extensive." Reported her to the psychiatrist, and they kept me in for another 2 weeks. I was cornered in the school bathroom during middle school, and was groped by 2 losers saying I'm the fag. I reported it to the school, and they brushed it under the rug. When I was 17 at a Halloween party, someone who never missed the opportunity to call me fag, said he was going to sexually assault me while he thought I was asleep in front of like 10 people. But, I of course, was the bad guy because I didn't see the humor in the "joke" and was a buzzkill. But turns out, he's gay. The 2nd time I was raped, I was held against my will, but at least I was able to say no. Didn't even bother trying to report it, because it happened in Provo, Utah and I didn't even know who he was. I told my friends, and one of them told me " I was just regretting sleeping with someone because guys can't be raped." Another time at a club, I was being cornered and groped screaming for him to stop and to move, then got glared at because I was ruining people's buzz. Only reason I even went, was because I got pestered all day because I was depressed and needed "to have fun." I still think I'm cursed. Because so much evil shit has happened to me. But fact of the matter is, when you're male, whether straight or gay and have been raped or sexually assaulted, majority of people either don't believe you, laugh at you, ridicule you, etc, and wonder why rape and sexual assaults are so under reported. As if there isn't enough shame over being forced to have sex with someone, unwanted sexual touching, and surviving a crime, you then have to deal with the stigma.
I can’t believed that happened to you. I am so sorry that must have been very traumatic. I wish you the best of life and hope you get help from someone. Just remember, some parts of society do care for this and want to help.
This poor guy, I was raped as a child, it's something that I will never let define me. You can get passed it, it's just not your fault in any way so why should I ever feel bad for somebody else's sickness.
I could see the pain in this man. I just wanted to hug him and let him know you will be ok, and never feel you cannot talk about it. It really does help.
Stay Safe and never EVER feel you are alone.
There are still more good people out there than there are bad.
x
Your last line is absolute bs. There are far more bad people than good, it's why this world's in a sorry state. It's also why I have a small circle. It's why my life was shaped the way it is. I can't agree to you meeting several good people and calling that the majority
You are a very brave and strong and intelligent man. I wish nothing but the very best for you.
he allowed someone else to penetrate him, how it that either brave or strong?
@@koffiecake no, he was a survivor, he overcame
I was raped when i was 8 years old and now m 24 and i have never spoken a word to anyone because of shame and yes m a man.
I’m so sorry.
It happened with me couple of times by my neighbour when I was a child. I'm 24 now and those incidents completely changed me forever.
Thats horrible.. Are you okay now?
@@ayuaa8944 Ya I'm good but those memories just can't be erased.
Hey king, you dropped this👑
There was a story on reddit about a man who was raped and he told it to her girlfriend who thought he was joking because “men can’t be raped, they do the raping” but it turns out the Redditor was actually raped. Then a few years later he told his gf another rape story but this time switched it to male raping female. The girl was like that’s disgusting.
That's what masculinity is for me, not being afraid to talk about hardships, traumas, emotions. He is a very strong man. I'm glad he found someone who makes him happy.
I'm so sorry that this happened to you. Thank you for speaking out.
There was one teenage guy who would molest me and do bad things to me like being naked and wanted me to tease his body and god knows what when i was 5-6 y/o. i little knew that those things he used to do were bad and gross but i was so naive, young and confused. i got molested by not 1 not 2 but more than 5 grown up guys from my society till i was 14. i never shared those things with my family because i was so scared and though they would beat me. even tho i'm gay back then i had no idea but those things i suffered still hurts me and i cry alone because i had a terrible childhood. 😢😢😢
Hope you're okay now
I hope the people who did that to you burn in hell.
I am so sorry about this. It is such a horrible thing and should never happen to anyone. People who commit rape don't know and will never understand the impacts of what they have done. It can change you...I am just glad it hasn't changed you and you are talking about it❤
I was raped by a woman and beaten severely. Everybody said it was my fault that I should have done better and let it happen or she wouldn't've beat me that bad. I looked shit up online, called hotlines for help. Some of them laughed, some said I was lying, some just hang up. I found ONE that actually took it seriously, and it turns out there was nothing that could be done legally as she'd just accuse me of penetrating her and the courts'd gobble it up. My bruises and the damage to my already ruined eye could be used as evidence for her "defending herself against me" so I was advised to not do anything about it, else I end up falsely convicted.
I did nothing about it and she did it to two more men that I'm aware of.
Was she stronger than you?
I feel so bad for you. I am soooo sooorrrryy that u went thru that.
Thank you for sharing. I feel your pain, but I'm proud of your strength.
I was molested.. Age 4 by a woman in a foster home I was placed in.. she would force my head between her legs in the shower.. no one likes soap and water in their eyes but it’s all I can think about when it happens 24 years later. It was daily.. the family used to lock my brothers and I in a dog kennel in the basement.. it was complete hell.. I have children now and I’ve never talked about it. I feel like a coward.
dont ever feel like a coward. you are an amazing human being. what happened to you was terrible but it doesnt change what a brave man you are. be proud of yourself. that woman will burn in hell, trust me.
Im sorry for you
Thank you for sharing your story, your extremely brave. Your giving a voice to all of those who don’t have one
Awww that was sad 😢
I salute to this man you are so brave !
I knew a male rape victim the boy was like 11/12 n the girl was 16/17 fukn disgusting
Descustang
NEVER_AGAIN ''Women privilege'' you've got to be kidding me. Disgusting pig
GlacierX No, that is not a fact. I’ve never EVER heard someone say that men being sexually assaulted doesn’t exist or is pathetic. You keep thinking that the entire world is about you, cause thats what you’ve been raised thinking subconciously. Everyone takes it serious.
Women are bullying men about this it's not fair
habitzm8 the boss ikr acting as they don’t have any power when they have more as people believe them and see men as emotionless objects that have all the power
xBlue Wolf most of the comments saying that women are not strong enough/powerful enough are from other boys. No women is saying that. Why don’t you go through the RUclips comments and attempt to educate your fellow anti-women trolls instead of hating on women??
CherieShrimpzzz Wave hating is different to stating they are diciecieved
literally no one is bullying men about it...?
BookMilla a lot of feminists choose to deny that men get raped and they call male victims patronizing things and harass them and make them feel like they’re small
When man cries while talking means he's dealing a critical pain and they're speak the truth
Your courage knows no limits
thank you for speaking up
Do remember, us humans are emotional creatures. Just because you can't see a man's emotions, does not mean they're not there.
I’m a girl and I definitely feel man on man rape or women forcing themselves on men is not talked about seriously and I hope this raises awareness.
It’s sad how this is not talked about seriously. I seriously deep down really do hope this changes somewhere in the future
Me to because there are some countries who don’t and possibly never will have rape as a gender neutral law and this woman’s rights group in India protested rape being made a gender neutral crime since they said men don’t suffer the same psychological issues as the female victims do
I agree too, it should be talked about more
Actually women on men rape is highger than than men on men.
@@michaelcollins2030 True.
@@nayab6129 no it’s not
Much respect to this man for speaking out a true hero ❤
I am so sorry for what happened to you. It was not your fault and you didn't deserve it. I know it must have been hard to tell your story, but thank you, more men need to feel confident in reporting what happened to them so it becomes less taboo 🙏🏽
Bless you for speaking out. You're so strong for talking about this and you have encouraged many other men to do the same. May you take all your pain and make it your strength. And for all the guys here in the comment section: you have every right to speak out. You are not weak for doing so, but strong. I wish you all the best.
Do a series brings such great awareness. I never knew it was to this magnitude. Such brave souls ❤️
I was raped last night. I am not gay. I search male rape for my sake. God bless you brother. I am so sorry about what happened. It is traumatic.
If I were you, I would’ve fought back.
Dude. Just checked some comments sections of women who experienced sexual assault, and half of the comments say that they are lying and how they accuse man of rape.. In this case, where this guy got sexually abused, NO ONE says that he is lying or how he needs to have evidence in order to prove his story, while when a woman tells her story she needs to have evidence or otherwise she is lying.. Anyways, this guy is so brave for speaking up, because rape is taken less seriously when it comes to men. In my opinion, NO ONE should ever deny sexual assault. Unfortuenly, there are girls out there who falsely accuse man of rape, and I find this weird and disgusting. I also see that women are more open-minded when it comes tot his. As i said I didn't saw 1 comment saying that this guy is not telling the truth, while in other comments sections there are LOTS of men that deny rape. A lot of man also insult woman by telling them they are sluts and stuff. Just respect each other dude.. When a guy says how a woman belongs in the kitchen all man are agreeing (mostly joking but still), and if a girl said something like "man should go to work all day" or something like this, everyone would call her a feminist. There are a lot of problems in this world, sexism, man denying rape and blaming the victim, racism, girls who falsely accuse man of raping and also man could face more time in prison while woman can get away easier.
I was wondering the same thing. Where are all the victim blaming and minimizing comments? Like even on a video about child rape there was a comment trying to claim an 11 yo would consent to being drugged, beaten and raped by 22 men. If you never want to sleep again google chennai rape horror.
Totally biased comment.
I also checked comment sections on women who experienced sexual assult and comments blaming the victim make from 1-2,5% of all comments. Meanwhile on video about Russian woman raping guy 9% of comments are minimazing this issue.
@@feeshac1974 How many comments are like that and how many likes they have?
So sad how people do stuff like that !! Thank you for speaking out
Thank you for coming forward and sharing your terrible encounter. Your courage and strength is admirable to me!!
For every man who tells his story another man will report. Men I work with always say they felt more willing to speak when they heard another man had a similar experience. Thank you for sharing your story.
Year ago a kid, 6 years old, was raped by another male, who was around 17-18 at that time. This is small area, two villages were everyone knew one another. This didn't occure in my village it happened in another one. Basically it was around 8-9 pm when the kid was going back to his house from his grandma's place, house next to the house, at that moment rapist was walking by. He was drunk. He was known as a problematic kid ever since he was born. He's couple of years older than me. I went to the same school as he did. He would always bully this one kid from my class, kid would fight back but no use, sometimes principal and other stuff would get involved, they would call their parents but no use. One time that rapist threw a big rock at that kid's mom. Poor woman left home crying. We would always be aware of him. Back to the story he called that little kid to come over to his house. And kid did. He led him to his bedroom and you know what happened next, he raped him. Kid was in shock, he didn't know what happened to him. The worst part is that the rapist whole family was downstairs, they heard the noise, they knew what was happening but they didn't do anything. Police came arrested him. Over 50 doctors were doing check-ups on that kid. Kid's family moved into the city. Kid had a brother that is my age. We went to the school together. All of us were in pure shock. Rapist family didn't even try to apologise, his family stayed in the village while their rapist son was moved to bugger city into a prison. He was there for only 6 months then he was set free. His grandpa lives in that city so he's staying at his house.
One day i get a call from my cousin saying that some guy is following her for a week. Later that day she sent me a pic, it's the rapist, i told her what he did and to be careful of him, told her to tell her other friends to also be aware.
Her parents would follow her to her school even tho it was 5 minutes away. Parents complained about him following other kids. I don't know what happened to him. I wish i never see him again, and i wish that that doesn't happen to anyone, male or female. I'm scared of him, he knew me, one time he wanted to be like real close friend to be but i have always kept my distance because my gut was telling me to.
Later that year my mom told me that rapist needed to drink pills and was going to the therapist from the young age, but his family didn't want to spend money on him so they stopped buying him needed pills.
I'm glad that i trusted my gut. I'm mad at his family because they didn't reacted. And I'm sorry for that little kid who had to endure that from a such an early age, I'm sorry to anyone who had to endure this. I hope you get through this.
So brave!
This reminds of the most horrific scene of Tyler in thirteen reasons why. ..
I'm so sorry for u. ..
The more you speak out, the more men will be taken seriously about rape. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I hate it when people say "oh a man can't get raped" but I really hate how people think that a woman can't rape a man. I hope one day you can't forget that it ever happened,thank you for sharing your story.
The Pickle Of Destiny well in law women can’t rape men, as only penetration is rape and as far as I’m aware aware women would only get charged with sexual assault
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, man. Prayers.