Unseen: The Boy Victims of the Sex Trade
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- Опубликовано: 18 апр 2021
- Today, Jose Alfaro lives with his partner of nine years and is a hair stylist on Newbury Street. But years ago, he was a homeless 16-year-old whose father assaulted him for being gay, and he was looking for help. And he thought he found it in Jason Gandy, a man in his 30’s who empathized with him and offered him a place to live.
"It seemed like a dream, and at the time, not having anywhere to go," Alfaro says now.
But the dream quickly became a grim reality. Gandy told Alfaro he would have to work in the older man's "massage" business, which was a euphemism for prostitution.
Many young men have traveled the same path to homelessness and then to sexual exploitation - and young Black and brown men are disproportionately at risk.
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His father should've been jailed for assault. Just because a person is your child doesn't give you the right to beat that child up. This young man deserves a lot of credit for surviving the hell he was put through.
My mother thought her kids belonged to her, and I didn't know any better, how toxic!
She would have been sent to jail for her acts, and she acts like a normal person!
@@deputybadass1356 ôk
I’m glad you got your self together and I wish you the best journey in your new life God Bless
@@Kiro1802 øk
@@deputybadass1356 YOU ARE A TOXIC BIO RUBBISH, WHICH HAS TO BE UTILISED IN A CREMATORIUM
I am so proud of this young man for telling his story and raising awareness.
I never understood why gay people have to tell anyone they are gay. I am gay and its *no ones business what my sexuality is*
@@derekthompson6992 I'm not talking about him being gay. I am talking about male victims of sexual abuse. Many men have a hard time admitting it. And him telling how he got lured in by an older male is important as a warning for others. And yes you are right, it's no ones business what your sexuality is. :).
@@derekthompson6992 It is not all in the telling everyone they are "gay". They are "speaking out" in the hopes of helping others. At the time, I thought I was ALL ALONE, the ONLY ONE, and this tortured me, made me keep silent. I have a friend who was an only child in a devoutly religious family who committed suicide rather than be open about himself. His family maybe understood but only after it was too late. Yup, I have no particular wish to announce to the world I am gay but once in a while it may help someone see they are not the only one, not by themself. My friend may might still be alive if he had someone to talk to, someone who understood his situation, and accepted him. He was a good guy, cheery and pleasant to a fault. I have learned to spot them over the years, wonderfully polite, cheery, laughs a lot, but tears flowing behind the mask. No one should have to live like that.
he showed his face shamelessly for the whole internet to see?
How can get the guy number please
Wow! This story illustrates the importance of being a good parent. His father, like many ignorant parents, was enemy number 1.
His father was a bonafide A-Hole and unfortunately, the world is infested with so many of his kind. At least, at his core, this young man realized he deserved better and had the fortitude and value of self to break free of that monster.
There's a special place in hell for individuals that victimize their own families! Shame on you!
My spouse was kicked out of the house at 14 years old by his MOTHER. He slept in a ditch beside the road for a week until someone asked about him and came to pick him up. He stayed with some friends for a few months and then was taken back home to his parents after there was a question about a military benefit he was supposed to be receiving. The authorities wanted to know where he was and why he wasn't at home. It was only then he was allowed to come home. What an awful nightmare. A true "Cinderella" story.
Let's not be quick to judge the father. He could be homophobic due to his own personal traditional upbringing and possible traumas as well. It is just unfortunate that homosexuality is still a taboo is some families/culture.
@@noelmaranon2324 at the end of the day, we can always unpack the reasons for someone's horrific behavior, but that doesn't justify the behavior. His father was an adult, and his child never asked to be his son. He became responsible for his child the day he was born, and even if he had a poor upbringing, that isn't a way to justify child abuse. Pointing out his bad behavior isn't judging him, it's making an observation.
Yeah, this story is so typical of so many gay teens, it's so sad. I'm 58 years old now, but experienced something very similar when I was younger. Got raped by a "spiritual adviser" when I was only 15. He convinced me it was part of my spiritual or magical development. I was so naive back then that I believed him. Teachers at school rejected me. Classmates rejected me. My own family rejected me. I attempted suicide at 15. Things eventually got better, but the road was very, very difficult, and quite frankly I often wonder how much more I could have done with my life had my childhood and adolescent years had been more normal, more balanced, healthier. There are so many predators out there that love to prey upon confused young boys, especially young gay boys. It's a tragedy. And it's a waste. You never get those years back. Once those years are gone, they are gone forever.
Thank you Sir for sharing your experience and hope that you are living a happy life joyfully. I know such setbacks in the past just gather dust but never heal. However, still I give you a spatial hug.🤗
Buddy ; that has nothing to do with any type of spiritual awakening that story is insane omg . Sorry it happened to u
Oh boy , same here , 3 years ago
I've had similar experience. 😳
@@bsfbestshortfilmsonyoutube tell us your story
Parents whose reaction to their child’s sexuality changes their love for them or brings violence as truly repulsive. Taking time to understand or to get on board if your experiences are limited is one thing but if it stops love or safety being your number on thing as a parent you are the bottom dwellers of human existence. What a brave young man.
Exactly. Love SHOULD BE Unconditional
To choose a cult of belief over your living child is an ultimate betrayal. If they can make you turn your children, they have taken what little human decency you had left.
Let’s not sugarcoat this, your comment leads people to think that lesbians face as much violence in family and society than gay males do.
Comments like yours give society the false belief in a patriarchal society that violence is evenly split between gay men and women.
Totally agree with you here, a parent is supposed to feel unconditional love for their child. There are people in this world who should not be allowed to have children.
that's his father's right if he feels that behavior is wrong 🐉
As a gay man I've been fortunate. At 53 years old I've never had a problem with most family. I have a few relatives whom are predjudice. I avoid them. The worst descrimination is systematic.
Ah That’s so good for you!
My parents pretty much disowned me and my mother refuses to talk to me unless I "come to my senses" that was 6 years ago…
@@majelalover8837 I’m sorry to bother you but are male or female ?
@@chrisbedasee6293 I'm a dude
@김태형 🐻 please work on yourself and your self esteem brother you deserve better and you will be loved but love yourself first okay? Its up to you whether to take my words into consideration or not
Shows what a weak father he had. Luckily my father came to me and said, I know you're gay, and it doesn't change how much I love you
Wow u really are a lucky man, I'm 25 still to weak to speak about it publicly (fear of society) people will kill you here if they find out😐
That’s wonderful.
Your dad deserves a best dad award
Same for me, both parent’s treated me no differently. So for those in the comments using religion or beliefs as an excuse to abuse their child, it’s vile. Good parents exist who’s minds are not clouded by ancient beliefs that they’ve twisted to suit their hatred. It’s not an unreasonable want to have loving parents.
@loganklinkerman3225 His father had the strength to let Jose know he did not respect his promiscuity. Then, Jose LIED TO HIS FATHER and his father knew it. And maybe his father didn't love him so why should he lie and say he did? And if he did love him should he just so go ahead and let Jose take his mind off of his studies and possibly get an STD? Jose strikes me as one of those little guys who thinks they have the right to flaunt it despite how their family felt about it.
A parent’s love should be unconditional. Shame shame shame on the father for beating his son. It does not matter if he was or is gay. There is no shame on Jose. The father should feel the burden of harming his own child. Love is what matters.
Rainbows and unicorns .... what a silly fantasy.
Looks like his dad just wanted him to be honest. And he kept lying even tho they caught
@@chrisbedasee6293 Rubbish! You don't beat your child up! It's very simple.
@@criticalthinker8374 How is it a silly fantasy to expect your parents to love you unconditionally?
@@criticalthinker8374 shut up
I too grew up in a small town in Texas. I never came out to my dad, but I know without question that my dad would never hurt or abandon me. What happened to you is deplorable. Despite such treatment, you are an admirable man. It Is because of strong, resilient people such as yourself that this world is not only tolerable, but beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your courage.
Why didnt you come out then?
@@nflong1 because it's not that simple. Shame, not wanting to disappoint them, feeling like they will be humiliated in the community, extended family, friends, school etc . Many, many factors and a tough time as a young person.
@@nflong1none of their business, duh
As an older gay man, this story tears at my heart. I feel so sorry for these young men who are so innocent and vulnerable.
Sadly this is something some guys have to go through. It can make you stronger or it can kill you or both.
No should “have” to go through this
@@rolinti9146 I agree but sometimes people make a choice from limited options.
they are sinners
@@berta.9912 Even sinners deserve compassion.
Amazing bravery to tell his story. People need to know that Human Sex Trafficking is an enormous epidemic right here in the USA. Thank you for posting this video.
he is doing tiktok!
Most Americans trafficking in the U.S., are Americans trafficking other American's, not foreigners
Not only USA but the whole worlds...
@@eduardochavacano y ppl so desperate to trafficking
Since when did this world started caring about *Men?* All you ever did was *PUT* *SKUNKS* *ON* *PARADE.*
Well you got what you *WANTED.*
That's so sad his own parents- his father would hit him like that and be abusive. I can never imagine doing anything so violent like that to my own children. They are my life. For him to remain so strong and still so caring after what he suffered, I truly admire him.
You'd be surprised how many are cool with it. Look at the view count of this video. Less than 50k. 50comments. These days I think they've developed better strategies. They've essentially turned it into a pyramid scheme. At least I'm not a slave if I can bring in another one or two.
It's creepy as shit though. Like I've witnessed children saying things and knowing things that makes your stomach turn. As much as I disagree with Catholic idealogy. Isn't it kind of weird how most people have suddenly turned out to be at least sociopathic and COVID, Ukraine and Putin. The wealthy seeking out another planet to live on
I mean society is essentially totally complicit with this shit when in the past it was hated, maybe obeyed but the people were disgusted but now when they enjoy it, every month is another sign of how close we are to the end.
When in unity we built pyramids. Now we are excited to tear the whole planet down.
God love you if my husband hit our son like that I would kill him with my bare hands I think you are a amazing person to survive what you suffered through no fault of your own Ann Murphy Ireland
religions should be eradicated for such monstrosity they teach to people. THIS is not human. this is not how society should function at all, believing homosexuality as some abomination... abominate my ass
That's reality for women all over the world. Your parents betray you first
This was a brave story for this man to tell. I give him so much credit and I am glad he is safe and successful. I am glad he put that monster in prison.
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I second you on that. It is even a miracle that he is alive. Honestly many young people especially boys die painfully and silently in this ordeal. The worst part is that this decadence is indiscriminate of the kids' sexual orientation.
What about his dad? Who is the monster here? His family abandon a child to the street. They had to know what would happen to him. Truth is we only care about this stuff because abortion and birth control have reduce the number of excess children to a manageable amount. The kids that are left are ones that that the parents wanted. Restrict abortion and Medicaid contraception and our streets will be filled with child prostitutes in a couple years.
Ur so brave✨
Since when did this world started caring about *Men?* All you ever did was *PUT* *SKUNKS* *ON* *PARADE.*
Well you got what you *WANTED.*
You don’t hear very many stories of men being trafficked or even sexually abused and it’s definitely something that should be talked about more but I can also understand how we might not even know about them because some of them might feel ashamed etc it’s honestly really sad!
Mainly two reasons … one, the shame of being a male sexually abused victim. Second, they enjoy it without remorse. What man doesn’t like getting laid? Especially, gay men are into freaky stuff.
@henderman if it's not as reported as frequently how can you say it happens less frequently?
@henderman yet u don’t know if it’s less or not since boys don’t come forward since people only care when a female is the victim it can happen to anyone anywhere
@henderman and how do u know since u know every single victim lmao
Pretty fucked up how men aren't taken seriously when they admit to being sexually abused. I once read about a guy who admitted to his girlfriend that he was sexually abused as a kid but then she broke up with him because apparently, the thought of him being with another man (even against his will) made her "disappointed and sick." When you think about it, women are to blame for why we almost never open up to them or anyone
So sad when the dreams of a child are snatched away by their parents... the very people one would look to for support in flying true, high and free...
And also that man for taking advantage of a child.
@@kellharris2491 The man gave him a choice. He did not force him to do anything. It just seems that Jose rubbed him the wrong way.
I must have lead quite a sheltered existence growing up in Boston so sex-trafficking just seemed like an issue exclusive to movie themes or news reports on other parts of the country or world. Moving to Texas has opened my eyes that it is indeed a serious, ongoing social epidemic. Kudos to this young man for finding his self-worth and not allowing his past to define him. Best to him.
Iam from india will you adopt me
I love your picture, you my dear are very photogenic!
@@Henry-qy7eg You know, Lilbeth use to tell me the same thing when she’d invite me over for a game of Bridge, and a spot of tea and crumpets. God bless her soul.
I wish I could pinch your cheeks right now!
I certainly felt his pain. I am 73 and my hurt never goes away
Sorry to hear that, Chuck. Live long and always pursue your best life. Don't let the bastards win.
@@damemarthafalker6738 When I was a young adult, I was given a job and it later it became clear I would have to do “stuff” to keep the job. Don’t ask why I accepted, I was still broken from my childhood I guess. I realized later I got PTSD from both experiences. I’m a fighter now exactly like you said. I won’t let them win. But trauma makes it hard to think straight sometimes. Thanks for reading, I’ve never said this in public.
@@hirsch4155 Well…funny how time and strength make you better and able! Bless your heart and I truly thank you for sharing ♥️
@@damemarthafalker6738 thank you for this kindness I appreciate your words ♥️
@@chucklambooy8457 Thank you brother ! ❤️
Unfortunately if young people have nowhere else to go strangers that seem kind and loving are an easy answer. Please please just support your children, so nothing like this happens 🙏🏻
I was not accepted by my father either - he gave me such a hard time during my boyhood and teenage years. It was HORRIBLE. I relate to your story. I am now damaged goods and suffer depression, anxiety, etc... But working at the gym now and after a successful music career I am ok - but still have anxiety. You have done well and God bless you, my friend! XXXX
Keep your head up, Michael! Keep loving yourself, GOD loves you just the way you are.
As a victim of sexual assault this is something that will forever continue to affect one’s life It happened to me when I was 3 up till the age of 6 I’m turning 20 this year and still it feels like it happened yesterday 💔
😢 Big hug all the way from Germany ❣️
this is terrible. I hope you have told your parents and actions are taken
Big big but also from France.
Huge hug for you from the Philippines.
😭😭😭😭 My heart is breaking reading this 💔 I can't imagine how brave you are to tell us this. I hope you have gotten justice or will get justice one day. My heart goes out to you🫂
And this is why parents Need to understand that accepting your child is way more important than losing them; he didnt deserve that he had goals and dreams and had his childhood taken from him and an adult lifestyle forced on him, all because his parents couldn't accept him the way he is, I could Never forgive my parents for that trauma for nothing.
I am saddened to hear about your journey of discovery. I am glad that you found yourself after the trauma you endured. Thank you for sharing your story.
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These people forget that children are borrowed for you to nurture and guide them through life while underage. Parents already lived their lives. It is time to allow their offspring to experience and live theirs. Bravo Jose. Keep going💪🙏
So happy that Jose got the love and the life he deserves.
The bravery to come forward and tell this story to bring awareness and help other young vulnerable boys is so inspiring!!
_“The stronger that my body became, the stronger my mind became. And I slowly started to let go of the anxiety.”_
Powerful story Jose 🙏🏻 Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable story. Thank you GBH news for giving Jose this platform. A seriously overlooked issue experienced by boys, and who do they have to turn to? I hope they find the same courage and healing Jose did 🙏🏻
I’m alive and well and I have so much to be thankful for in my life. I have never not once blamed anyone for what I’ve gone through and have done work to move forward with my life. What people don’t understand is that these stories are edited and it isn’t the full story it’s pieces that are cut and pasted. I don’t need anyones validation, I know what I experienced and testified in trial with 3 other male survivors. My tears in this video were coming from a place of empathy for the younger me it wasn’t to make people feel sorry for me. My goal is to help others before this happens to them or to help them to stop blaming themselves for what happened to them and to start understanding, letting go and moving forward. I wish everyone healing and love in life.❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️ Looking forward to reading the memoir to get the entire, non-edited out version.
Touching story Jose. I'm sorry this happened to you
I almost stayed with Jason Gandy in Austin Texas in 2008 when I was eighteen years old. I experienced one of his massages as well and left immediately after. I'm so sorry for what you went through.
Amen to that Jose. You are 1 in a million, I know because I am a closeted older gay man and I have seen so much sadness, shame, blame and death. We humans need to learn to live with each other. We are 7 billion individuals... every one of us different from all others... And it will always be so.
do you have a release date/title of your bio? and please update here when its available/where.. it will help many of us - thank you
My parents did the same thing to me.. abandoned me and neglected me. I've struggled with depression and anxiety. I arranged a marriage with a 32 years old when I was 19 so I could scape home. He manipulated every aspect of my life. I'm still dealing with lots of trauma. But My New Husband of 5 years Loves me unconditionally 💕 and he teaches me is ok to love myself. I am sorry you went through this. I hope you heal and live a long life full of joy and health.
You are such a courageous, beautiful person Jose, and I hope you continue to build the life you want for yourself. I really admire how you have taken the trauma in your life and turned it into a positive message to share with others. It's a way of thinking about life I try to live as well. It's not easy, but so much better and healthier than becoming angry and bitter and letting those who have wounded you continue to have power over you. 🌻
OMG, what a powerful message! Jose... I hope you are now ok, living your life the way you want to live it and are happy. Loving someone whom you love and being loved as well. ❤
I am so happy for this young man. It makes me happy that he was able to break free and save his own life. Very proud of you and so great full you are in a good place. Continued happiness, love and prosperity.
How deeply touching! I congratulate you from the bottom of my heart for having carved out a life for yourself, and for extending a warm and caring heart to those in need of help. I am so deeply impressed! Thank you got sharing!!!
~ Each one Teach one!. Another moving and compelling story. Thank you, Jose for having the courage and the strength in coming forward as a survivor of this horrific incident. As a member of Law Enforcement in Canada we sometimes come across people in the exact situation, both male and female.
Luckily some were saved while few others were unfortunate. Please continue to advocate and share your story, it will help to give hope to others and perhaps in saving a life. Thank you!.
Amen brother! What horrible things you’ve been through but you came out of it and are doing well helping others and encouraging others to not give up.
What a brave young man...I find it so unbelievable that some "families" could treat their children so horribly when they come out. Absolutely disgusting...this young mans "dad" should have his butt sitting in a cell somewhere. How do you injure your own child? Sickening, thank you for uploading and sharing!
Thank you for your story, you are a wonderful person who will help many others who feel alone and underdeveloued to perhaps find the strength to speak out about this often not given the chance to find the strength to speak out. Many good thoughts to you and much love.
The courage and strength it took for you to come forward and be open about what happened you will help so many people avoid the same mistake you unknowingly were a victim of. I am honored to be able to listen to your story thank you for sharing
so many brave people in tiktok.
As someone who talks with foreign guys online, this was an eye-opener. I am also someone who seeks comfort from men quite older than me. I want someone who has a more stable mindset. I hope no one gets to experience this.
I had seen this story so many times in my feed but didn't want to see it because I thought it would make me cry. Well, it did. But that's humanity, right. Jose, if read comments, know that you made a great impression on me for hope. You persevered. I am especially inspired by how your body helped your mind and spirit. Thank you so much for being brave enough to participate in this documentary. I hope underage people who are in trouble with abusive adults find a way out like you did.
I'm an older black gay man and my heart goes out to you because we (people of color) live with much higher risks everyday. I highly encourage you to keep this helpful (outreach) information up. The truth is all humans need help because we are a societal species. We all have something worthy to share to each other. We can move from pain to power, if we pay it forward as part of our contributions to a better world, so hang in there young man and everyone else too.
thank god he survived, his father was not every bit right. and seeing him become successful is really big pay back to what he did to him
I am in my 70s and many of the same things happened to me. I am more proud of you than you could ever know.
Thank you SO MUCH for making this video. My best friend is gay and he's only dated men in their 40's or 50's while my best friend was only in his mid twenties. I kept asking my bestfriend why he dated such older men. Long story short after quite few abusive situations happened to him with older men, my bestfriend now only dates men closer to his own age.
Well, not every older man is abusive you know. When I was in my 20s, I only dated older men because to me, they had more stability than the younger ones (emotionally, financially; and weren't out partying/drugging up like those in my age range...or were already done with all that scene). But the story above is about older gay men dating and exploiting men under the age of 18. Big difference.
@@Mouse01011 older men are way sexier too, let's not lie...🤫
You're so brave. Thank you for sharing your story and giving someone out there the courage to overcome their suffering. You are the kind of person I respect and admire.
I love watching this video even the subject is confronting and sad. But videos such as these highlight issues that never see the light of day. Mr Jose Alfaro you're an amazing young man, thank you for sharing your story.
Well done for coming out and changing things. So awful you were coerced by that man, and his many ‘clients’. I’ve found your story very inspiring. 💖
Thank you for sharing Jose, I am so happy for you now that you have people around you who will always love you for whom you are & support you no matter what. My father was the same when I was a young twentysomething, we had problems & I it become very hard for me to live my dream of having monogamous relationship with a man who would be my last phone call each night & my first thought every morning. I am 60 & now recently discabled but I would still like to think I can have my dream. Wishing you all the best from the UK take care Bob.
Your journey is very sad to read about, but it is wonderful to learn that you now have a long term partner. He must be very proud of you and I hope, that you are proud of yourself too, Jose. It is so good to hear that you found happiness.
Hey Jose. You’re such a beautiful young man and such a beautiful soul, I hope life with your partner continues to be joyous forever. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story with the world. This is something that needs more coverage, it’s so heinous.
Hugs from Somerset, England xxx
Thank u beautiful Angel! U r so strong n a true guardian! Everywhere u turned u were attacked even if u didn't realize but slowly u pulled urself out of it n fought 4 ur dreams, ur life! Then u turned back n started fighting 4 all the poor young people who will so easily fall in2 the same trap as u, u r truly amazing n I am so glad that man got arrested n is in prison 4 30 yrs! I'm even more pleased that u r happy, loved n have ur sense of self that no1 can take from u! U really r this is where I started but not where I will end n I believe u have so much farther n greater 2 go! Ur heart is beautiful! Thank u young man!!!
My childhood had a very little happiness. At 7, I already stood up to protect my mom among the domestic violence. Confronting my dad who had the insane monster inside was a rough thing ever I did in my entire life for a 7 boy. Growing up in the chaos, I really needed someone who older to protect me as Jose does. 😢
Such a sad yet great story. I'm glad he made it & is a much better place in life.
And to think if his parents actually cared about him he wouldn't have ever been in that situation. Parents need to do what they are supposed to do: nurture, properly raise, and take care of your children in any & all possible ways.
I hope his father got or gets what's coming to him along with any other family members who let him be abused. They all deserve the worst especially if they could've helped, stopped, or aides him in some way before or after.
Thank you for sharing, glad you're in a much better place now and helping others🙏🏼
Thanks Jose for sharing. What's important is not to dwell on the bad experiences least we become bitter but put on a positive outlook. Moreover, let those unfortunate circumstances be a determinant to strive forward to achieve our goals set before us and don't forget to lend a hand to those in the same predicament 😃 Jose you're good, you're inspirational!
This was really heartbreaking to watch but had an uplifting ending. Such an important story to be told and I commend his willingness to share it.
Bless your heart. You are a brave and resilient young man. By telling your story and continuing to be a voice, you will undoubtedly save lives. Be well and safe. 🇨🇦
I had no idea whatsoever. Thanks for making this and informing me and so many others.
I’m so proud of you and your strength. Your voice matters and is educating so many.
Thanks for sharing. What a powerful message.
You are such a strong man and you deserve much admiration. Thank you for sharing your story, God bless you!
Wow! Thank you for sharing your story. I never realized this stuff was going on.
Thank you Jose for sharing this with us, it is brave of u and am so happy you made it through stronger and happier than before.
i had a similar coming out story to him. I still have trauma and developed anxiety and depression from it, but I am sober now and working each day for it to be better.
Very touching. I was briefly trafficked when I stayed in Birmingham and it began by my not having enough to pay my taxi bill though at the time I was not aware entirely that I was being sold around a family of men, all of whom were family men, some with children the age I was then. It was an adventure, one of many that I chalk down to the super rich tapestry of my extraordinary life. We human beings are mega resilient.
This is important! Thank you for sharing your story
It’s like this for a lot of gay boys, when it comes to meeting with older men. When I was 15 I had met with an older man and I stayed with him for a few months. We obviously had sexual interaction. It was never bad with him but I would be so anxious all the time. I left and I am doing well for myself now.
I don’t admire many people but this amazing man gets my admiration for overcoming a horrible start to his adulthood. He deserved far better but now it would seem he has the love and respect he has always deserved.
Shame on the parents for failing to protect their son and provide him with unconditional love. It doesn't matter who he loves. No child should be placed into the hands of a sexual predator and forced to into a life as a sex slave. I'm so happy this young man escaped and has been able to build a life for himself.
thank you Jose for sharing the journey and for seeing the light at the end of the dark tunnel emerging triumphant. What great role model for those abused battered assaulted that each can pick oneself up and walk tall. Tell your story Jose so the younger ones get inspired to push themselves out of darkness into the light
Proud of you Jose! I am so sorry that you had to go through this. With this experience, I think that you are going to turn tragedy into triumph and help so many other people in your lifetime.
Your amazing young man, I am happy you have found a place to feel safe with your partner, your job and your great clients !! Stay strong !! stay true to yourself !! be happy All the best from OZ
I respect you for sharing your story, not many do out of shame.
Jose Alfaro......you are an Inspiration and I thank you for sharing your story with the world. We need to bring awareness on this so people know what's happening around their neighborhoods! Much aloha to you from the Islands of Aloha-Hawai'i USA
Such a heartbreaking story but with a beautiful outcome of resilience and renewal! Thank you so much, shared for sure.
I loved this!!! Thank you for this post :) :) :)
Thank you for sharing. This is even a big issue in my country, nobody talks about! Sometimes young men just disappear and nobody in society cares! And very often it is about people who already went through hell.
You are such an amazing human being. You have a strong and beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing your struggle. Thank you for helping others.
The parents should have gone to jail as well
I am in love with your character, sensitivity and sense of justice, Jose!!! Oh my!!!
Thanks for sharing your story. Happy to hear you are doing so much better.
Hello. Not sure how long your video existed. I saw your story. So happy that your story is having a happy ending. Stay strong, stay happy, stay safe. May GOD be with you always.
Levi
Good story. Damn. That guy got 30 years in prison. Justice.
God Bless you for sharing your story to help others in need.
I am so proud of you José,
even though it was a rough start to your life at a very young stage
you took matter to your own hands and change them to your direction
wishing you healthy and happy life,
be strong in life and have love surrounding you💖
Happy to say I know this man. I haven't seen him in a long time but he was always very kind. I'm just very glad that his story is being shared and I hope he continues to thrive. ❤️
That's really cool! How did you know him? Do you still love in Texas?
This seems like a sad situation of going from a bad situation to a worse one. I'm glad for him that he made it out alive and hope he's able to heal
Thank you Jose. This is also happening to the immigrant community. Two Canadian men were looking for underage boys to import for sex work to Canada in exchange for passage and visa to Canada in European gay Ads. I turned down the offer cause I needed to run away.
Dearest Jose, you are such a beacon of light to this world. May all of your dreams be realized. I wish you so much success, good health and every bit of happiness
Jose - well done for coming forward. This video demonstrates how easy it is for younger people to seek safety in places and people that are anything but safe. It angers me too that parents can physically assault their children in this way.
Thank God this man Jason Gandy is now in jail and I hope his victims healing, peace, safe, love anything but good in life no matter how long it takes, I pray they will be healed and get nothing but happiness. 🙏
Your story brought tears to my eyes. So happy for you that your life is stable now and you are happy. xo
you're so brave and strong bro. so happy to see you back on your feet. Love and hugs from London, UK
💜THANK YOU FOR SHARING, I AM THAT I AM ETERNALLY GRATEFUL 💜
I’m so proud of him, hope that his future get more brighter and brighter and so does other boys who are going through this
That's terrible in this day and age that this still goes on. God bless you
You are my understanding of a role model and you should be celebrated as such. You have achieved more than most people and you can be sure of that. Be proud and let your celebrating audience applaud you. Well done very brave and I love that there are people like you in this world. Shame on your father he doesn't know what a beautiful son he has. Thank you
May G-d guide you further in your live. You are doing amazing, you are a role model for other people: do not give up, keep faith in your abilities, develop as a person with a strong, yet sensitive character! Thank you for your courage to share your experience with a wider audience!
When you look back on your life you realize that there is so much more value within yourself in helping someone than exploiting them.
Its also the same here in my country, the Philippines. Some families especially fathers when they knew that their child (boy) does not grew up as what they are (parents) expected him to be; he beat him, punch, others where even tried drowning their own kid. I’ve learned their stories from my own friends which are gay or trans. So sad that the home should be ur first thing to have love and protected u but instead turned out into a hell☹️