"Can i shout out the most incredible man up there? It's not god it's Hayden whose office is up there" lol'd at that. Also waiting on the link for that soup 👀
I relate to the pressure of having a clean spotless house so much. I'm disabled and mentally ill living in a small apartment and I absolutely adore my apartment, but it will never be the perfect TikTok or Instagram place. I have mismatching bookshelves, it's messy, and I just have to remind myself that not everyone has the same circumstances as myself and if anything it makes me feel more comforted seeing other influencers and content creators be realistic about their living situation or cleanliness. It helps me feel less alone. I'm definitely getting better at cleaning than I used to be with the help of my partner and friends, but it's still not easy. I think it's also hard finding that balance between too much pressure on myself and having just enough pressure to get things done that I know will actually benefit my mental health by having a cleaner space
Your vlogs bring me so much energy and motivation whenever uni or work or life chores feel overwhelming, even when its a chill "didn't do much" vlog! Genuinely my favourite RUclipsr at this point!!
I've been thinking about watching Rivals and you've convinced me to give it a go. I definitely punish myself for weirdly specific things when I'm feeling depressed. Usually cooking, because my family expectations were around being self sufficient with food!
my depressive spirals are that I'm 25 and never had a job, and I feel super behind because my friends work and I'm studying still, I took two years off because of covid since my mom is immunodeficient and it didn't make sense to put her in danger when my parents do decent financially; and adding to that I struggle with the fact that I failed on getting a driver's license twice, I had a panic attack during my second exam, did an idiotic thing in the first also due to anxiety, and i just couldn't get my license bc of my anxiety, so yeah those two things are very difficult for me to deal with, I just feel so behind and like I'll never be able to catch up
My husband and I watched Rivals, we just randomly chose it.Hadn't heard anything about it and we both really enjoyed it! It's one of those shows where there are just so many unlikable characters and also likable ones making such terrible choices that it's that "love to hate them" thing. Plus also some people you're just begging them to make a terrible choice. It was very entertaining. We're already ready for season two 😂
I can understand the cat vet struggles.. my 11 year old Chloe has been having a rough time and they are thinking kidney infection or kidney disease…. So expensive & sad. But gotta be a strong cat mom 😂 old lady cost more than I do 🙃
On depression, I'll spiral with work. I'll feel that I'm not working hard enough and that make me work less, and that starts a cycle. So far only time is a real cure for this. Hope pepper heals without issue
"Can i shout out the most incredible man up there? It's not god it's Hayden whose office is up there" lol'd at that. Also waiting on the link for that soup 👀
I relate to the pressure of having a clean spotless house so much. I'm disabled and mentally ill living in a small apartment and I absolutely adore my apartment, but it will never be the perfect TikTok or Instagram place. I have mismatching bookshelves, it's messy, and I just have to remind myself that not everyone has the same circumstances as myself and if anything it makes me feel more comforted seeing other influencers and content creators be realistic about their living situation or cleanliness. It helps me feel less alone. I'm definitely getting better at cleaning than I used to be with the help of my partner and friends, but it's still not easy. I think it's also hard finding that balance between too much pressure on myself and having just enough pressure to get things done that I know will actually benefit my mental health by having a cleaner space
Your vlogs bring me so much energy and motivation whenever uni or work or life chores feel overwhelming, even when its a chill "didn't do much" vlog! Genuinely my favourite RUclipsr at this point!!
I've been thinking about watching Rivals and you've convinced me to give it a go. I definitely punish myself for weirdly specific things when I'm feeling depressed. Usually cooking, because my family expectations were around being self sufficient with food!
my depressive spirals are that I'm 25 and never had a job, and I feel super behind because my friends work and I'm studying still, I took two years off because of covid since my mom is immunodeficient and it didn't make sense to put her in danger when my parents do decent financially; and adding to that I struggle with the fact that I failed on getting a driver's license twice, I had a panic attack during my second exam, did an idiotic thing in the first also due to anxiety, and i just couldn't get my license bc of my anxiety, so yeah those two things are very difficult for me to deal with, I just feel so behind and like I'll never be able to catch up
My husband and I watched Rivals, we just randomly chose it.Hadn't heard anything about it and we both really enjoyed it! It's one of those shows where there are just so many unlikable characters and also likable ones making such terrible choices that it's that "love to hate them" thing. Plus also some people you're just begging them to make a terrible choice. It was very entertaining. We're already ready for season two 😂
I love seeing your videos so much!!!🥰🥰I got my period today and the cramps are cramping😅😢 at work so this video made my day ❤❤
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My depressive spiral is usually that I don’t own my own home…. The economy makes it impossible but then I feel like such a failure
I feel guilty for not having a clean home too, also not having my meals planned/prepped and being generally a bad cook/not enjoying cooking.
I can understand the cat vet struggles.. my 11 year old Chloe has been having a rough time and they are thinking kidney infection or kidney disease…. So expensive & sad. But gotta be a strong cat mom 😂 old lady cost more than I do 🙃
On depression, I'll spiral with work. I'll feel that I'm not working hard enough and that make me work less, and that starts a cycle. So far only time is a real cure for this. Hope pepper heals without issue
Listen, I would HIGHLY recommend “how to keep house while drowning” by KC Davis. It helped me so much!
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What is the name of the concealer stuff you use under your eyes?
natasha denona hyglam i believe!
Love your vlogs Chan 💓
what a coincidence, love yours too :)