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  • @THX5000
    @THX5000 2 года назад +2385

    Remember: If she didn't want you in her PRIME...
    DO NOT wife her up in her DECLINE.

    • @inertia_oudrey7006
      @inertia_oudrey7006 2 года назад +16

      🙄

    • @whenpigsfly8178
      @whenpigsfly8178 2 года назад +185

      @@inertia_oudrey7006 He's right, you know. Especially since if she's an alpha widow, she'll monkey branch at the first opportunity.

    • @UnitedPacci
      @UnitedPacci 2 года назад +61

      @@inertia_oudrey7006 He is right, never look back there are plenty of other women especially when you go in your prime as a man.

    • @Chris-0113
      @Chris-0113 2 года назад +18

      @@THX5000 Bro, I agreed with your OP, but what does race have to do with it? Maybe I missed the point

    • @ronnykazadi352
      @ronnykazadi352 2 года назад +44

      pretty much sums up: "if she didn't want me when I had nothing, why should I want her when I have everything" (PS: this is not only a financial reference)

  • @cdrmt3229
    @cdrmt3229 2 года назад +414

    She started out saying “the ones who have no chance with you”. Now she wants to know why everyone stopped pursuing her. Could it be her entitled, solipsistic, demeaning “better than you” attitude? She crapped on good guys and Now she is part of the “where are all the good men” movement.

    • @cdrmt3229
      @cdrmt3229 2 года назад +31

      @Magic Man isn’t it interesting how they brought this on themselves yet blame everyone else.

    • @Nicolae_Mew
      @Nicolae_Mew 2 года назад +4

      You sound like a nice guy (tm)

    • @toade1583
      @toade1583 2 года назад +2

      @@Nicolae_Mew You sound like a spinster.

    • @toby-jeanne_almy
      @toby-jeanne_almy 2 года назад +3

      @@Nicolae_Mew definitely some nice guys in this thread lol

    • @Nicolae_Mew
      @Nicolae_Mew 2 года назад +2

      @@toby-jeanne_almy yeah you aint kidding lol

  • @PrinceRevolver
    @PrinceRevolver 2 года назад +1448

    I'm 32, I honestly don't wanna date women my age mainly because they still see themselves as a young 21 yr old that's still entitled.

    • @fjparasite1172
      @fjparasite1172 2 года назад +159

      A lot the older they get the more baggage.

    • @proosee
      @proosee 2 года назад +108

      There are exceptions, but in general they will compare their ex-boyfriends' best to you while attributing their ex-boyfriends' worst.

    • @DaemonJulian
      @DaemonJulian 2 года назад +115

      Yup, just date the actual 21 year old lol

    • @tylerdecker6994
      @tylerdecker6994 2 года назад +10

      Same

    • @AZzalor6632
      @AZzalor6632 2 года назад +108

      Exactly. Why would you get a 32 yo with the mindset of a 21yo if you can just get a 21 yo with the same mindset.

  • @GuppyPal
    @GuppyPal 2 года назад +278

    I had a good female friend in undergrad tell me her mom told her one time that you don't notice all the attention men give to you until they stop. Ouch. I think a lot of women can take it alright if they haven't based their identity on their looks alone. For the really attractive women who age out of their looks, it can be a brutal and crushing realization that they're no longer young and beautiful.

    • @maxn.7234
      @maxn.7234 2 года назад +31

      True. Women complain about male attention, until it goes away. Then they complain that they don't get any.

    • @BlaBla-jj6sh
      @BlaBla-jj6sh 2 года назад +17

      @@maxn.7234 Their real complaint is not getting attention from the _right_ kind of man - whether they're getting compliments in the first place or not.

    • @tanyajackson622
      @tanyajackson622 2 года назад +2

      are you saying that once we get to say 35 we are not attractive any longer, that all of sudden we are ugly? not worthwhile? insignificant? do I top myself now or shall i wait until im 35?

    • @maxn.7234
      @maxn.7234 2 года назад +24

      @@tanyajackson622 1) A woman over 30 is not as physically attractive as her 20 Y.O. self no matter what kind of happy talk her friends feed her. 2) A 30 Y.O. who is good looking will still get sexual attention from men her age, but her fertility has declined precipitously and therefore less likely to attract serious long term interest and committment from the same men. The biological clock is real, no matter how feminist propaganda wants to label it as misogynist. For example, every pregnancy over 35 is considered high risk.

    • @maxn.7234
      @maxn.7234 2 года назад +25

      @@tanyajackson622 You are also conflating sexual value with personal value. A woman's eggs have a shelf life and once they expire, her reproductive value also goes. Her personal value doesn't diminish because she can still do other things which are valuable to herself or society.

  • @_Adjei_
    @_Adjei_ 2 года назад +234

    6:00 "I like helping women, and yet ironically, I'm called the sexist, yet they're the ones using women as pawns in their social agenda." Spot on!

    • @bbqnpcs5514
      @bbqnpcs5514 2 года назад +8

      With great simpness comes great confusedness.

    • @ENIGMAXII2112
      @ENIGMAXII2112 2 года назад +2

      Well that is the far leftist mindset for you.
      Great contradictions, loaded with much hypocrisy.
      What a Bloody Mess...

    • @benjaminshiels1824
      @benjaminshiels1824 Год назад +1

      Pointing out their weaknesses make's them feel vulnerable so th obvious defence is retaliation!

  • @todaystomorrow2545
    @todaystomorrow2545 2 года назад +286

    As a women over the age you are absolutely correct! Luckily and thankfully I found my forever guy at 18, he was 27 - we were married 40 years. Now I’m just in the waiting room - waiting to be reunited with my first and only love!

    • @yihuda7459
      @yihuda7459 2 года назад +39

      40 years….wow amazing, majority of them new couples r divorcing after 4-5 years ….it’s complicated world out there.

    • @dwargonedragon794
      @dwargonedragon794 2 года назад +41

      Good girls are taken young.

    • @sethus458
      @sethus458 2 года назад +6

      i hope you have a happy married life

    • @Andylinx1
      @Andylinx1 2 года назад +9

      Respect

    • @johnnybravo3612
      @johnnybravo3612 2 года назад +27

      Sorry for your loss.

  • @DuaLeaD
    @DuaLeaD Год назад +53

    Women in their....
    20s "Don't talk to me!"
    30s "He talked to me?"
    40s "Hey! I'm talking to you..."
    50s "Here kitty, kitty..."

  • @AlanSilva-bu1kp
    @AlanSilva-bu1kp 2 года назад +351

    Honestly, I've dated awesome girls who weren't much beautiful, but were interesting, independent and contributing human beings. You realize that's better when you are talking to a gorgeous, stunning woman and she's dumb as a rock

    • @watamutha
      @watamutha 2 года назад +66

      Yep..and also dating a 5-7 girl who's way into you is much better than a 8-10 girl who's tolerating you.

    • @thenarrator1984
      @thenarrator1984 2 года назад +25

      Me too.
      I'm a very high quality male and I've had all sorts of women in my life.
      As I've gotten older I chase integrity and loyalty and honour......
      She has to be fit and take care of herself... But I don't care much about things she can't help. If she has a smile that lights up her face.. What else matters. As we age.. Our smile is what matters.. Shows our inner self.
      Although I do constantly date youth.

    • @thenarrator1984
      @thenarrator1984 2 года назад +4

      @@JACCO20082012 she ain't pretty. She just looks that way.

    • @lionheart4109
      @lionheart4109 2 года назад +11

      @@thenarrator1984 Exactly, make-up and plastic surgeries go a long way. No woman is actually as pretty as she looks.

    • @thenarrator1984
      @thenarrator1984 2 года назад +14

      @@lionheart4109 I don't date women
      -Who have tattoos
      -Peircings other than ears or the top of nose.
      -Who wear make up
      -Who show any entitlement.
      -Have plastic surgery
      List is much longer but you get the idea.
      I've been very happy with my. Choices. In women. Only once did I ignore the rules and I paid the price.

  • @garypalmer1122
    @garypalmer1122 2 года назад +185

    To all the young men out there, watch these kinds of programmes and be warned by older men such as me - born in the 1970s. It might be frustrating as a young man to get into relationships, as it was for me, but if you play a long game and work on yourself, to be the best version of yourself, by the time you hit your late 20s-early 30s, the situation will have completely turned around and YOU will be the ones doing the rejecting. Stay strong and believe in yourself.

    • @phazebeast7373
      @phazebeast7373 2 года назад +6

      Thanks for the advice!

    • @harrydowning2675
      @harrydowning2675 2 года назад +9

      The problem with that plan is,the one you may choose will have been run through for years. She will not be yours. It will just be your turn.

    • @dingfeldersmurfalot4560
      @dingfeldersmurfalot4560 2 года назад +7

      @@harrydowning2675 If she's your same age. But men with more options don't have to stick within their exact age bracket. I've known plenty of young women happy to date guys ten years or more older, and many who prefer them.

    • @sarahharris2729
      @sarahharris2729 2 года назад +4

      Some positive masculinity for once, so many trash opinions on here, also get a female friend and ask them for some tips. Men know other men, they don't know women. Ask a woman how to "spiff up a bit." I rejected a guy who never cleaned his room or washed his sheets. He genuinely didn't see the problem....and expected to get laid. Jordan Peterson wasn't half wrong about it...

    • @jamesmaddox1450
      @jamesmaddox1450 2 года назад

      So true. Hang in there

  • @artsimulation
    @artsimulation 2 года назад +73

    I also found it interesting that they recognised the fact that it was do do with their looks and not their personality.

  • @Anonymous-md2qp
    @Anonymous-md2qp 2 года назад +449

    You’re spot on. It wasn’t until I was in my late 20’s that I started to find dating easier.

    • @royzevisionneur2045
      @royzevisionneur2045 2 года назад +59

      The wall got our back

    • @arthurmorgan2906
      @arthurmorgan2906 2 года назад +39

      I didnt see this at all in my mid 20s. I did not date at all until I was like 23. Then it was mostly bad. I gave up on this shortly before I turned 27 which was 3 months ago. With this age thing the guy needs status, money etc. Average earning guys will have the same trouble in his 30s in my opinion (if he wants woman in her 20s). However it's logical that not everyone can have a lot of money or status/great career etc.

    • @Trinitas666
      @Trinitas666 2 года назад +23

      I didn't get much female attention until my late 20s, when I had uni degrees, a job and put on about 12 kg of muscle. As I approach my 30s, I can still date girls in their early 20s easily. Women have no such luxury.

    • @IffyEdem
      @IffyEdem 2 года назад +24

      @@arthurmorgan2906 go overseas as an average earner. 25k-45k per year is more than enough(especially if you live modestly in the US as a single man) to use overseas. Get in a car, take a drive to Mexico and through central Mexico. Fly to the Caribbean and Latin America. USA men are gods to them.

    • @arthurmorgan2906
      @arthurmorgan2906 2 года назад +5

      @@IffyEdem I have kind of a specific situation, but thanks for the advice

  • @infuglenn
    @infuglenn 2 года назад +204

    They atleast don't lead you on.
    I knew a girl and everytime we went out we kissed, hugged etc but each time i tried to escalate she stopped me.
    I thought no big deal i'm not going to push her especially when she told me she got raped in the past and needed time to open up.
    This kept up for months, each time she said i have to have patience wich i did.
    I didn't date anyone else even when i got the chance cause i was in "love" with her...
    Long story short, she met someone else, i learned she had sex with that dude in the first week of knowing each other and dropped me like i was nothing.
    She came back to me, i gave her another chance (stupid i know) and she tried the same thing again.
    I just walked away, wich hurted her (probably cause her validation/attention left)
    Never heard her since.
    Never waste your time guys, if things don't escalte after 2-3 dates just walk.

    • @gromswowguide7927
      @gromswowguide7927 2 года назад +49

      Also never date someone who have been raped, either she got massive mental problems which will pour into your life, or she's really crazy and made it up.

    • @infuglenn
      @infuglenn 2 года назад +23

      @@gromswowguide7927 Yea, i learned that the hard way unfortunately.

    • @jhonfamo8412
      @jhonfamo8412 2 года назад +8

      No but these women just admitted that they do have done for a long time. It's par for the course. Dude I'm a childless 46 year old man with a life partner flash woman for 16 years. My entire 20s were a drought unless I wanted to lay something from the abyss. The whole Sex in the City click is through period that Ultra third wave and now 4th wave feminism is coming full circle. And when these men actually demand to be treated fairly they're upset by it. No Auto pedestal for them. None of them are worth it. The best you can do in my opinion is find a partner that you can deal with on a daily basis. That's the way to go. This idea of the princess and the prince live happily ever after is nonsense spun out to get women to encourage men to spend.

    • @mouthpiece200
      @mouthpiece200 2 года назад +19

      Never value a woman more than she values you, unless you like getting suckered.

    • @bobbyscalchi4013
      @bobbyscalchi4013 2 года назад +7

      @@gromswowguide7927 Any woman who says they've been raped. Stay the F#ck
      away from them! They had mental issues already before it happened, and after. Unless they were flat out assaulted and raped by a random stranger in public. They either invited the situation by being loose, easy, inviting, flirtatious, and manipulating, or just making bad choices.
      I dated "got friend zoned" a girl all crazy f#cked up in the head from being raped by her ex fiance and being adopted. (Wasn't even a looker either. Started going from country bumpkin to butchie d#kish) Didn't appreciate all the good things what her adopted family did for her, raised her, took care of her, etc.. Wanted to know why people threw her away. Especially her parents. Well I found that one out the hard way. She used me for comfort while pining for another dude to come around. I took care of her in the sack twice, and she had the nerve to tell me after she got her jollies off really good twice. "Sorry. Closed for the season. No open no more." and left me high and dry. Then pulled the "look for every little excuse to be offended" and "I think I'm better than you" routine the next couple of times we hung. Told her she was bat$hit crazy, offended by everything, and a c$cktease. No wonder she had people coming and going in her life. Was toxic af and ran with those types. I moved onto another girl in the same day. That next girl turned into my ex wife 12 years later abd that's a whole other story to itself. They are all closet liberal social justice warrior non critical thinking emotional delusional bat$hit crazy emotional selfish solipcistic f3minist females. Its societal conditioning and nature being harnessed.

  • @bastidface
    @bastidface 2 года назад +224

    This must be the most difficult thing for a woman to deal with in life. I suppose peaking out would apply to anyone who has to depend on their looks for companionship with others. A man has to endure an awful lot of pain from rejection from women throughout his lifetime, but, unless he's a male model or escort, he doesn't necessarily have to contend with the same wall issues as women. In some cases, men can actually look better with age (at least to a certain point beyond when women peak out). So I guess I'd prefer the usual heartache of a little rejection over crying in front of a mirror because I saw a gray hair.

    • @oldaccount746
      @oldaccount746 2 года назад +24

      I'm 19 and I dread it every single day. I can't even imagine myself as a 30+ woman, my identity is too tied up in being cute that aging seems kafkaesque !! I wish I could just skip to the grandma phase, grandmas are sweet and kind... every middle aged woman I've met is bitter / in denial and I'm frightened of becoming that way, and I very easily could even if I did everything right, if the man that's going to be my husband fails me. I would have become a nun if my parents would have allowed it... (evade the attention evade its loss). I don't know if women my age have that foresight or not, but I think it'd be more than you'd think... people say things like "what will all these onlyfans girls do when they hit the wall, k❀ll themselves ?" and I wouldn't assume that isn't exactly the goal !! If everything is meaningless why not just take the money and attempt to live their dream lives for a few years ? Sometimes it almost makes me feel stupid for not doing it.

    • @di3486
      @di3486 2 года назад +3

      My looks peeked at 36 but I was already taken since I was uglier😝

    • @bastidface
      @bastidface 2 года назад +18

      @@oldaccount746 I think the key (and this applies to every gender) is to focus more on personality. Yes, you should always try to look as good as you can, but ultimately, it's a winning personality that will attract people to you. What makes middle aged women most unattractive isn't necessarily their looks, but their bitterness and scorn. I've seen many attractive, youthful middle-aged women who keep themselves fit and exude positive energy. So, you can still be a hot middle-aged woman if you stay fit, have a positive attitude, and offer genuine warmth to others. While you're young, avoid getting involved with guys who just want to use you for your looks. Get with someone who appreciates everything you bring to the table, and vice versa. Now is the time to start.

    • @maxn.7234
      @maxn.7234 2 года назад +15

      @@oldaccount746 Credit to you for being honest. I think most women know in their hearts that they primary agency is their beauty, but few will admit it. The problem with living your life for the moment is that you will definitely destroy any prospect of a future normal life if you become a sex worker (OF). I remember watching an interview of a former pornstar who used to make $20K each week. She said she would give up all that money today if she could just be a normal housewife. Unfortunately that type of past stays with you forever. The internet never forgets.

    • @bbqnpcs5514
      @bbqnpcs5514 2 года назад +3

      F**k dude, I am already nearly completely bald. I would give my right nut for a nice head of grey hair. It's not that I need it. I f***ing want it!

  • @psluxton
    @psluxton 2 года назад +58

    Mothers used to tell their young daughters to "not mess around" and find a "man with means".
    So the daughters would have "dalliances" with young men, but are looking to slightly OLDER (as minimally as possible!) men to catch their eye in the hopes of having HIS loyalty, his child(-ren), and being financially secure.
    Nowadays Mothers aren't the loudest, most important, voice for daughters... their peers are.
    Their teachers are. Their role models are.
    Their friends are. Social Media is.
    And THEY will tell the daughter whatever THEY want her to do, not what's in her best interests, and they'll do it with a smile, hug, and wink, as they deliberately ruin them for their own selfish reasons.
    Unfortunately, their young age makes them malleable and impressionable, and they mostly have little experience to tell them that they are being played FALSE.
    So they listen, do as they are told, and rage at the world (and ALL men) when it doesn't work out in the "happy forever" they pictured their future to be.
    Those daughters who see reality and through the lies and manipulation, they seek what they CAN for themselves even if it goes against the narratives they are fed.
    And they end up having the greatest chance of success in securing a "good, hot, s*xy, man" (yes, they do exist!) and a happy life.
    They just have to be mentally strong and stand against the brainwashing, they have to educate themselves on reality ALL BY THEMSELVES, and make as few long-lasting mistakes as possible (i.e. remain CHASTE until they find a partner they want to be with forever and feels likewise towards them).
    The young "pups" are fun, hot, and make them feel good when they're interested, but they have yet to find themselves and their career, yet to be ready to settle down, and young women are falling for THEIR promises and lies, giving them themselves utterly, and being cast aside as the best LOOKING guys have lots of other women they want to "try out".
    It's disgusting behaviour by men - I totally agree - but deluding yourself is never going to end well.
    That's the reason women are supposed to be "picky", not so they can end up pregnant with a man's child who wants nothing to do with her as he had his fun with her.
    Then they say "the fun times are over and I want a happy forever" and mostly the top-quality men aren't interested in taking on those burdens when they have single, "un-baggaged", thirsty women throwing themselves at them who are much more appealing for building a future with.
    That's REALITY.
    Any woman who doesn't understand that is likely in for a whole WORLD of hurt as they are looking for a partner whilst TOTALLY BLINDED and they will end up trying the WORST of men and regretting it.

    • @thenarrator1984
      @thenarrator1984 2 года назад +4

      The mothers encourage their kids now....
      Heck just by example...

    • @psluxton
      @psluxton 2 года назад +1

      @@JJ-hu4cm understandably so. Some women want YOUNGER men. But is a 20-27yo man THAT MUCH OLDER (or younger)?
      The question is: if you want a young man, will you step up to provide for yourself, that man, AND also any kids you might have?
      If they are just starting out in life they CAN'T provide for themselves, let alone also a wife AND possibly a child, on a starting salary or when they haven't even found their 1st job and have NO salary.
      Also those young men are more emotionally unstable - so will they or you defer any "bedroom fun" until you have both got established in careers?
      This deferral will probably take a couple of years - which means they ARE an "older man" by the time you have any s*x.
      Also will the man you chose stay loyal through a few years of closeness WITHOUT s*x?
      That's unlikely - though it does happen sometimes.
      These questions and more have to be answered for a relationship to survive the 1st few years.
      It's much easier to find a man 2-3 years older than you (if you are 18-25, that's not a lot older!) who has already started out on a career.
      Then you skip all the difficulties around financial support at the beginning of the relationship (though those difficulties ARE likely to appear at some point and test you both) and can go straight to having s*x (and kids if you want) as you both KNOW you can support that (so long as you've determined they will loyally stay with you - the old 'til d34th do we part' bit).
      This is why picking a partner to spend THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH is such a serious thing, and if you skip this step and go out and date/sleep/party with lots of different men it will be TOO LATE to find the right person - either because you have a fatherless child (or "baggage"), or because you threw away many good prospects in order to try more men in the bedroom and left it too long to get serious and find someone to settle down with.

  • @doranvee5944
    @doranvee5944 2 года назад +27

    I have met women that aren't considered the most beautiful, yet beauty is really only skin deep. A truly kind, accepting, and a beautiful person inside, becomes beautiful to their partner. Ladies focus on becoming a great partner.

    • @bbqnpcs5514
      @bbqnpcs5514 2 года назад +4

      Not everyone can be beautiful, but some basic femininity (or masculinity) is always achievable. As toxic as they now tell us those are, they are still quite attractive to the right people.

  • @markotb
    @markotb 2 года назад +405

    So true Alexander.
    Another thing woman needs to know is that when we as men find a young woman attractive and can get into a long term relationship with her, provided she stays sweet, kind an attentive, we will see her as the same beautiful young woman we fell in love with, even into the elderly years. Its almost like, in our eyes time froze, and she will be beautiful, as she was, forever.
    Ive had a long term relationship in the past (10 years) and she was as physically attractive to me the day we broke up as she was the day we met, even though she put on weight and got wrinkles.
    On the other hand I had stunningly beautiful girlfriends back in the day, and seeing them now 10 or 15 years later.......well I wouldnt have a piece of that fat wrinkly old cow, in fact I wondered what I was attracted to in them in the first place.
    Ladies, lock him down when you are young, stay faithful and plan to grow old together. And remember 30-35+ years old you are becoming invisible. a 50 year old guy can get a girl in her early to mid 20s, why would he go for your old, fat wrinkly ass? Think about.

    • @sandwerlot1998
      @sandwerlot1998 2 года назад +25

      No, 50 yo can't have under 30s.
      The rest is right said.

    • @TheBookOfHarper
      @TheBookOfHarper 2 года назад +62

      @@sandwerlot1998 yes they can. I see it all the time

    • @MrBrianpdj
      @MrBrianpdj 2 года назад +64

      @@sandwerlot1998 yes they can. I know a 63 yo Realtor dating a 26 year old. He’s a millionaire

    • @rymreaper
      @rymreaper 2 года назад +56

      @@sandwerlot1998 it may not a be a biological attraction but lot of 50 year old can get a below 30 woman if he is rich

    • @user-oj6wy5yz9w
      @user-oj6wy5yz9w 2 года назад +5

      You’re pissing in the wind, my friend. Women are the chaotic force of destruction, and now that they have been forcibly given power in our society they will destroy it just as they did when they brought about the fall of the Greek empire and the fall of the Roman empire and we are headed straight into Weimar territory. Unless we course correct immediately and change the divorce laws yesterday, I do not see a way out of this except the fall of western civilization. Which is probably what the communists want in the first place.

  • @erikbudrow1255
    @erikbudrow1255 Год назад +13

    I'm 32 and was dating a 19 yr old a few months ago. Despite the fact that she was mature for her age and one of the most self aware women I've ever known, I have pretty much resolved that I will never date anyone who isn't at least 25 ever again. Lol. The maturity gap was just too wide.

    • @aaronmicalowe
      @aaronmicalowe 10 месяцев назад

      My wife is 11 years older than me and there's still a maturity gap, so age is no guarantee.

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 10 месяцев назад

      @@aaronmicalowe How do you deal with that?

    • @aaronmicalowe
      @aaronmicalowe 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@erikbudrow1255 Frustration and never ending repeating myself. I guess I'm no teacher cause no matter how much I repeat myself in infinitely different ways, the message never gets across.

    • @erikbudrow1255
      @erikbudrow1255 10 месяцев назад

      @@aaronmicalowe sounds f*cked, my man... Best of luck to ya
      Wait, I just realized you said your wife is 11 years OLDER than you. Wtf? Lol Better get mature my dude

  • @lazar2949
    @lazar2949 2 года назад +44

    The main thing to remember is that womens desirability peak is pretty early in the life while ours comes much later. Its not just career and money, but also experience and LOOKS. Most men will look way better in their later years than in the 20s when you could barely grow a beard.

    • @chasehudson5881
      @chasehudson5881 2 года назад +9

      For sure there is many men who look their best in 30s and 40s but sadly you can't say the same for many women

    • @lazar2949
      @lazar2949 2 года назад +9

      @@chasehudson5881 Well yes, thats my point. Men shouldn't feel bad for the shitty dating life in their 20s, they should just use it for gaining experience. Chances that they will find the right women that early are super low.

    • @davidturner1641
      @davidturner1641 2 года назад +2

      I am 48
      And find 19 year olds are still occasionally interested....
      If i lost 20 lbs and bought a big truck i would have TONS of interest, actually

    • @x97s
      @x97s 2 года назад

      This is 100% true..

    • @animehitz2679
      @animehitz2679 2 года назад

      i had a full beard by 13 😅

  • @TheTarotCardGuy
    @TheTarotCardGuy 2 года назад +69

    Dating between 18 and 25 did suck. Once i was 25, super fit and confident, women started hitting on me left and right; and im average looking. Then once i got married.......getting hit on even more by women 20 to 25 yrs younger than me. Granted im not really interested at this point, but interesting none the less.

    • @GreenBroccoli100
      @GreenBroccoli100 2 года назад +3

      @Rudy O'Brien They always want what they can't have lol. Its funny, if you are single, lonely, well women don't want you. It's no wonder we have all these issues with cheating and affairs. I've even seen women try to steal men from other women, even seen women fight over a man. Its just disgusting.. no sense of morality, ethical conduct or loyalty in some of these women.

  • @TeeJay_757
    @TeeJay_757 2 года назад +63

    My seventeen-year-old daughter took me out to dinner about a week ago. Our waitress was probably around 19 or 20 and very flirty. My daughter even commented on it saying she was working hard for that tip and I shrugged it off as that. Nevertheless we had fun with it and I was overly flirty right back. At the end of the meal when she brought us our to-go boxes her contact info was written on the inside lid of mine. Also I'm 46.

    • @KaushikBala333
      @KaushikBala333 2 года назад +7

      The water just keeps getting murky. Even god would be confused

    • @aemmonia1150
      @aemmonia1150 2 года назад +7

      thats really weird

    • @seabreeze4559
      @seabreeze4559 2 года назад +1

      sure

    • @yihuda7459
      @yihuda7459 2 года назад +31

      She doesn’t want tip,she wants ur wallet …..have fun fool

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 2 года назад +19

      Im not sure, but there is a chance that she assumed that was your date not your daughter so her preselection was turned on.

  • @Dagrizzb
    @Dagrizzb 2 года назад +30

    Always happy when this channel post. I know I'm about to receive insight.

  • @Doofus171
    @Doofus171 2 года назад +25

    Every woman I knew and grew up with who waited to settle down or thought "its okay I'll marry when I'm 30" .... ended up never being able to marry. They are miserable. Bitter. Childless. Every woman I knew and grew up with who looked for her long term partner in their late teens and early 20's .... are still married and together with their partner decades later. Women get suckered into thinking men will wait to marry them in their 30's and 40's. lol. It always fails. If a woman hasnt hooked a quality man in her early 20's and is on the path to long term relationship, she's screwed.
    And I've learned over the many years that if I see a woman who is 30+ who is single, I know immediately shes got some major issues. She's got emotional, or psychological or sexual issues. She'll have a bad temper, lots of bouts of rage and emotional outbursts, is combative, doesnt know peace and calm.

    • @Nimbereth
      @Nimbereth 2 года назад

      Best comment!

    • @zakosist
      @zakosist 2 года назад

      Maybe true most of the time. But my mom actually makes the exception and found her current boyfriend in her late 40s. They both seem to genuinely love each other too, have been together for some years and I got the feeling this is the guy she will actually stay with for live (Im sure she would rather be single if she werent happy). And I also like this guy (not sexually or romantically of course, but were good friends)
      My dad also has a different partner than the one he got kids with who he has been with for years. Also a good relationship. I dont really hate the concept of single parents finding a new match, because for both of my parents that actually worked out great.
      But still nothing wrong with telling people most men prefer relatively young women, and most prefer them to not already have someone else's kids too. Thats just gonna be the case regardless and you cant change peoples whole biology

    • @VoiceOvaGuy
      @VoiceOvaGuy 2 года назад

      Don't forget there are always exceptions to the rule, but yes, in most cases, you're right.

    • @Doofus171
      @Doofus171 2 года назад +2

      @@VoiceOvaGuy The only exception to the rule are widows (women who got married early to a quality man then lost their husband due to accident or illness). But once again, if they carry no emotional or psychological damage from that loss (very rare) they will get scooped up real quick.

  • @FlyingcupNsourcer
    @FlyingcupNsourcer 2 года назад +66

    I'd have to disagree about taking it in good humour. It clearly bothers them more than they are letting on. But yeah, I bet it would suck losing value incrementally as they do, although there are alternatives to relying on youthful looks to provide value.

    • @arthurmorgan2906
      @arthurmorgan2906 2 года назад +2

      good name

    • @hardplans2366
      @hardplans2366 2 года назад +2

      I'm also suspecting that it could be the redpill going viral in the manosphere
      A lot of guys are no longer giving cards on valentines, or christmas
      It's the best way to flag yourself as a beyta bucks provider and be disrespected for years by entitled chad's free hoes

    • @nuclearpugg
      @nuclearpugg 2 года назад +2

      @@hardplans2366 Well the majority of men are single and lonelier than ever so eventually people are going to start asking questions or around when the platitudes don't work like they used to.

    • @twilightknight2333
      @twilightknight2333 2 года назад

      if they were God fearing, submissive, loyal, respectful, and housemaking girls they wouldn't have to fear their "looks" depreciating.

  • @brandsthatcreatelitter1648
    @brandsthatcreatelitter1648 2 года назад +9

    My experience of women changed seismically when I began to regard all women as being of zero value to me, however beautiful or attractive. Almost like flicking a switch, I have been chased ever since. The more I don’t give a @uc#, the more girls pursue me. Not interested in pairing up, but to all the guys who suffer emotionally thinking about how women don’t value them, not caring fixes everything and gives you the power.💪💪💪🥰♥️

  • @markotb
    @markotb 2 года назад +17

    Alexander, these days some of us just Go Our Own Way, being in the historical 60% who dont reproduce (no idea what the numbers are today, probably more like 70-80%) is quite likely a choice men made seeing the abundance of low quality woman out there, not to mention the massive risk a man takes on today even having casual relationships, they juice aint worth the squeeze and woman made it so.

  • @doomguy9049
    @doomguy9049 2 года назад +14

    LOL, it was usually some grown ass losers who would date the prettiest girls in my high school too. I had some much older women hit on me through my older 20s and I was kinda creeped out by it.

  • @Cornelius429
    @Cornelius429 2 года назад +11

    3:30 there's a lot of women that when hurt lash out at men and take no accountability when they themselves failed to take action or did something that worked against them.

  • @grayhalf1854
    @grayhalf1854 2 года назад +55

    I got chatted up by a 20yo girl on the street when I was 37 and we were together for about four years. Best relationship I've ever had tbh. Far better than the older women (35 - 40-ish) that I've dated since - no kids, no expectations, little baggage, just more fun.

    • @deagor4578
      @deagor4578 2 года назад

      Where do you live?

    • @darealberrygarcia
      @darealberrygarcia 2 года назад +2

      Yep I'm 37 and my last girlfriend was 19

    • @grayhalf1854
      @grayhalf1854 2 года назад +4

      @@deagor4578 England. She was Scandinavian though.

    • @bratty2987
      @bratty2987 2 года назад +5

      But why was she an ex? Why did you let go of it if it was the best?

    • @grayhalf1854
      @grayhalf1854 2 года назад +6

      @Ororo Munroe Your (incorrect) assumptions about me are doing a lot of heavy lifting there. If you want to ask me about my relationships then fine, we can talk about attachment styles and how they affect adult dating patterns. If you're going to just trigger yourself into making unfounded judgments about me then don't bother, it really doesn't advance the conversation.

  • @CharlieRogers50
    @CharlieRogers50 2 года назад +6

    It's like my grandpa always said: looks don't last, cookin' do.

  • @cruzmartinez2547
    @cruzmartinez2547 2 года назад +20

    Alexander you are so DAMN RIGHT all my life I have always kept my social life 19 to 24 years of age. DAMN it you are so right what I always and I do mean always at the age of 23 years they have always wanted run wild and only to find out exactly what you are saying. Unfortunately for them they've put mileage on their bodies and I have no desire to be bothered with them.

  • @jeffb.140
    @jeffb.140 2 года назад +57

    I'm in my mid-30s and the one and only group of women actually hitting on me is 18-22 year olds (on the street, grocery store, at uni, etc.). Why would I even date older when that would mean I'd have to put in effort on my own?

    • @UnitedPacci
      @UnitedPacci 2 года назад +14

      Bro stop the cap acting like you're Leonardo Di Caprio🤣🤣

    • @Skeetopunk01
      @Skeetopunk01 2 года назад +16

      @@UnitedPacci Happens to me too. Don’t be mad because you don’t have the looks.

    • @00dfm00
      @00dfm00 2 года назад +7

      Yes you need to have have serious game even being a specimen in your early 20s to pull the hotties. But the looks of a 8 or 9/10 guy in their 30s or 40s easily turns a women on much more than a 'good looking' guy their age. Focus on your game and career now so you can reap the benefits in 20 years and make cocky comments like this lol 😜

    • @gingerdude4133
      @gingerdude4133 2 года назад +3

      @@Skeetopunk01 Same. I'm actually in an LTR with a very feminine attractive woman and have been for many years. I'm in my early 30s and the attention I get from women, specifically women in their early 20s is eye opening. My girl has been good to me and I'm not an idiot to throw something good away for a "what if". But it is there for those of us who are considered attractive. Doubly so if you are taken by an attractive woman.
      I wouldn't even go as far as to say I'm an 8 in my current state like @Duane states. I'm probably an "adjustable 7" in the sense that gaining muscle and upping my clothes, jewelry, and whip game could put me into the major leagues. Personally, I'm just too focused on my business to care about that kinda status jockeying. Plus happily taken so it only serves to bring temptation.
      Plus Im a ginger, which a lot of men assume works against you. It does, if you are not attractive. If you are attractive you are exotic, and I have been told as much pretty much exactly by women.

    • @facelessandnameless
      @facelessandnameless 2 года назад +2

      @@UnitedPacci I’m 35 and I have young women flirting with me all the time. This is quite common…

  • @ClutchFirst
    @ClutchFirst 2 года назад +19

    It's great to see men stop simpin'. Too many every day average people think way too highly of themselves. This goes for both, men and women. Hopefully this brings some back down to earth.

    • @bbqnpcs5514
      @bbqnpcs5514 2 года назад +1

      Unsimp my Heart (unsimp my heart!)...

  • @robinfox4440
    @robinfox4440 2 года назад +42

    The game is rigged, gents. Just walk away.

    • @goddoesntexist9056
      @goddoesntexist9056 2 года назад

      It's rigged for women too, everyone should just walk away from dating.

  • @GeneralProfessor
    @GeneralProfessor 2 года назад +55

    Are these women even aware that every single orbiter is a potential ticking time-bomb that can snap at any time? Playing with desperate and lonely men is like playing with an agitated cat.

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 года назад +10

      Not really, most likely, they will get the message. If it was me, I would next the girl and move onto an other. I don't want to be a texting buddy lol

    • @Hun_bad_luck
      @Hun_bad_luck 2 года назад +13

      That’s just victim mentally. Don’t be a ticking time bomb (excluding if you really have some medical mental issue signed by a doctor then you need help not a woman), take responsibility for you own actions and life.

    • @whenpigsfly8178
      @whenpigsfly8178 2 года назад +10

      Well, it seems that onlyfans girls are having some of their dupes snap on them, resulting in horrific outcomes. Can't say I'm really broken up about it, for all that I'd never encourage either it or the OF exploitation in the first place. Play with reproductive fire and sometimes you get burned.

    • @nickanthropocene6502
      @nickanthropocene6502 2 года назад +6

      @@Hun_bad_luck Rule of thumb doesn't apply to those who don't follow rule of thumb. Some men are just unstable and dangerous, and fair or unfair women need to be aware of that danger.

    • @nestroit5010
      @nestroit5010 2 года назад +5

      @@nickanthropocene6502 ignorant and naive as ever, I doubt they realize the danger

  • @xantonify
    @xantonify 2 года назад +52

    Women in her 18-25 (lots of options): i'm strong and independent!, i just sleep around occasionally when i'm out clubbing other than that i don't need a boyfriend.
    Women in her 30-35 ( not many options): I want rich handsome men! I don't sleep around for nothing.
    Women in her 40+ (very low options): I'm a loser :( I want sex! Give me anything, i don't even care about money.

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude 2 года назад +24

      Nobody ever tells women they're losers and clowns.

    • @fjparasite1172
      @fjparasite1172 2 года назад +7

      @@edheldude but that's how they FEEL. Like a bad grown up.

    • @brunettezprettyr4296
      @brunettezprettyr4296 2 года назад +3

      Imagine thinking a woman in her 30s doesn't have many options lolol you don't know anything about women, do you?

    • @fjparasite1172
      @fjparasite1172 2 года назад +3

      @@brunettezprettyr4296 the issue is seeing her girl friends getting married and having kids while she's riding the CC. All the sudden all those tip top guys go for 20s and not her. Only the regular guys give them the time of day. They don't want to admit to their ego that they are average women.

    • @fjparasite1172
      @fjparasite1172 2 года назад +2

      @@brunettezprettyr4296 ruclips.net/video/yE4cvtWznd8/видео.html
      This video by sarah welles explains the struggles (physical and mental) of 30s women. Sarah Welles is now 35 and still single.

  • @aarteestmj4958
    @aarteestmj4958 2 года назад +7

    OOOOhh I know PLENTY of women that look better at 35, than at 22. Some look a lot better after shedding baby fat and their natural features make them more attractive. IMO

    • @livingdeadfitness1528
      @livingdeadfitness1528 2 года назад +4

      Ya, people act like 30 is 60 or something. We dont live in medieval times anymore! Of course, having easy access to a lot of food, booze, and drugs messes some people on society.

  • @intensivecarebear792
    @intensivecarebear792 2 года назад +4

    It's always a choice to stay in the friend zone. You don't have to. You can just leave.

  • @xyzcbafyp
    @xyzcbafyp 2 года назад +7

    just saw the girl i was dating in 2013. thank god i'm single rn

  • @udigproductions4677
    @udigproductions4677 2 года назад +4

    Sometimes it's not your looks that makes someone unattractive....it's their personality.

    • @jmlkhan5153
      @jmlkhan5153 Год назад

      Absolutely. Too bad women tend to reflect what they look like on the inside.

  • @timl9724
    @timl9724 2 года назад +5

    A lot of people just message every one of their contacts on holidays. When they get messages back, they keep them on the message list. Many of these ladies mistakenly believe these messages are coming from orbiters, and may think themselves above messaging back or simply maintain too little contact. Eventually people update their contact lists without the less responsive people included. In other words, I think much of this is self flattery rather than genuine orbiter interest, and reduction in these messages is mostly from their own neglect. As they lose interest in this perceived flattery, they naturally neglect these contacts, and by their own doing, the contacts drop away. Were they to treat the contacts they don't perceive as orbiters in the same way, those too would likely disappear. In truth, it's much more likely that their looks aren't at issue, but rather their interest in maintenance of less important relations has waned. This, highlights another common phenomenon, one where women often perceive male value as less as the women gain life experience or lose the simple emotional zest of youth. That, in turn, reduces the mutual interest. Thus, while "the wall" certainly has a physical attractiveness component, there is also an attitude component that in many cases is the larger issue.

  • @hawazennnnn
    @hawazennnnn 2 года назад +6

    lmao these comments are full of hurt men. Thank you for the laughs.

  • @redtom3022
    @redtom3022 2 года назад +4

    Women have a hard time dealing with reality... This is because they are born with their value, it is a given, and they see the world from that perspective, what they fail to realize is that, that beauty is a loan that you will have to pay, so use it while you have it.

  • @FaeridaeCrawford
    @FaeridaeCrawford 2 года назад +19

    Everyone wants a high quality woman, as everyone wants to be a rockstar or a movie star, sometimes dreams remain dreams

    • @fjparasite1172
      @fjparasite1172 2 года назад +5

      I have to somewhat disagree. A lot of guys understand where they are in the picking order and choose below average women.

    • @heavensea141
      @heavensea141 2 года назад +5

      Its a lie that an ugly-owerweight woman its easier to get- sleep with you or get into relationship then a pretty/ hot/ attractive '
      .if any believe this you have been fooled.
      Ugly unattraive its hard to get " attractive ones are easy.
      Times to wake up from the myth( unplug you'reself from the matrix)

    • @huynhyurivanvladamir7978
      @huynhyurivanvladamir7978 2 года назад +5

      @@heavensea141 i think both are hard ugly or attractive one

    • @facelessandnameless
      @facelessandnameless 2 года назад

      What’s the definition of high quality? If it’s just looks and looks only she’s isn’t actually high quality.

  • @davidjackson6475
    @davidjackson6475 2 года назад +14

    I think the guys stopped paying compliments to these women not because of fading looks but rather fading tolerance of just being used. If you're using guys as an ego boost you've got bigger problems than just aging out of your youth. If they weren't so egotistic I'd actually find them pretty attractive appearance wise.

  • @drsand3671
    @drsand3671 2 года назад +7

    It's weird how when confronted with the need to improve yourself people tend to look negatively upon that reality, I do understand that perspective because I've been there.
    But, why!
    Imagine yourself as the best version of what you can percieve, it's always better than what you are now and imagine being able to look back to see how far you've come, there's a real sense of awe to it and that feels great.
    It's for instance, I spent the majority 2021 blitzed and drunk and couldn't imagine being sober, yet now I can look back and say well I've been sober from weed for around 2 months and haven't touch alcohol for 24 days.
    In the process I've really started to eat healthier, and I've been meditating multiple times a day for around 21 days now, the heavy desire to take drugs like that is gone and there's a real sense of freedom to that.
    I suppose freedom coincides with self improvement, and it builds momentum.
    The point I'm trying to make is, one needs to look upon self improvement in a positive manner, and everything seems to fall in place, look upon it in a negative manner and everything you attempt to build will fall apart. Little schooling on the laws of entropy right there.

  • @velveetaslingshot
    @velveetaslingshot Год назад +1

    110% of my time and energy goes into my life's work. It is the primary reason I was put here on this earth and I am doing what I do best. There are no women around me. I am no longer chasing them as something I need to make me complete. Ive never been happier.

  • @neil_nice5252
    @neil_nice5252 2 года назад +4

    In college my friend was dating a girl, he was 21, his girlfriend was 21 but she also dated a 35 yr old who bought her a car.

  • @motherflange
    @motherflange 2 года назад +416

    My favourite years, as a man, were between the ages of 28 - 33 because I started to put the work in when I turned 27. My skin was immaculate, and my hair was razor sharp. I overhauled my wardrobe, and changed my diet to put on more weight (I was skinny). I had to brush up on my small-talk too, as women make terrible conservationists - as they possess zero sense of humour and don't like sport. They really are very different from us. I now realise why I received so little attention from 18 - 27. It wasn't just a case of me not possessing the guts to ask out women... it was the fact I was practically invisible to the opposite sex. I didn't even have a girlfriend at school. I'm now 42, and have already passed over my genes, so I know my family tree will continue. I'm still not ready to settle down because I'm still playing catch up for all the years I was side-lined. And although I'm not obnoxious, I will admit, there is no better feeling than refusing a woman's advances. And believe me, when they're over 35, they are thirsty as hell.

    • @JimmyStruthers1000
      @JimmyStruthers1000 2 года назад +57

      I just turned 28 in November and this post gives me so much hope and encouragement for the future. Thank you for this good sir. 🎩’s off to you

    • @nameohnezahlen
      @nameohnezahlen 2 года назад +27

      What stupid generalizations

    • @gamercatsz5441
      @gamercatsz5441 2 года назад +29

      Feeling good refusing a woman’s advances is not exactly the pinacle of healthy emotions. But I understand where it is comming from though. But concider this: if you reject a 25 year old woman, she would get over it real quick, it’s nothing special that an old woman aims higher than she realistically should, and gets shot down by you. Its hard to not be a little petty and enjoy it when you know she was super entiteled when she was younger. However it is not her fault, feminist society brainwashed her, instead of teaching her the truth like alex is doing

    • @davidcatlett4052
      @davidcatlett4052 2 года назад +55

      @@nameohnezahlen Too often those generalizations have occurred often enough they end up being true actually.

    • @FreakMeat74
      @FreakMeat74 2 года назад +54

      @@nameohnezahlen A lot of truth can be found in generalizations and stereotypes. One can't make it their entire life, it won't serve them, but neither will ignoring reality.

  • @RPMentorTokyoChannel
    @RPMentorTokyoChannel 2 года назад +6

    Patrick: I caught the ugly.

  • @daniel-qh4zq
    @daniel-qh4zq 2 года назад +4

    I'm 42, single and like it that way.
    Plus I AM SO tired of being hit on by younger women that I could of been changing their diaper. I non-politely say hmm you smell like pee your so young. Please go away...NEVER FAILS.

  • @AndyKirtland11
    @AndyKirtland11 2 года назад +8

    I’m going to be 36 in March and don’t want to date women around my age because they’ve either messed around and carry too much baggage or they still believe they’re between the ages of 18-25 that’s still entitled to free attention.
    The wall seems invisible to women until they start seeing the men they want go for much maturer young women who don’t carry much baggage.
    As a result, these former hotties end up going back to men they once turned down because they thought they were too good, but even they don’t want the messed up toxic women. These toxic women end up alone with kittens.

    • @oscaraurelio8869
      @oscaraurelio8869 2 года назад

      And yet, cats should know their worst and mortal archnemesises are what this category of women will become... The Karens 🙀!

  • @h2t26
    @h2t26 2 года назад +1

    I also had this awaking in my mid 20s. I was talking to this girl I got along well with in college. I was working on getting a date with her. Then she starts dating this lawyer who is like 15-20yrs older then her and taking her on expensive dinners and she losses her V-card to him. It pissed me off, I was mad and him and her. I thought this was some odd anomaly, but it slowly got to me that it wasn't. This was before Tinder and the only social media was MyPage. Now this has got to be a huge problem for young men. Being older now I'm definitely see why he did what he did and her as well. We really need to wake guys up. So much education and raising kids is about their happiness and things that aren't useful, we need to let them know things that really matter.

  • @willardtheband
    @willardtheband 2 года назад +1

    If they didn’t feel entitled, then they’re posting a public video bragging.

  • @kh-wg9bt
    @kh-wg9bt 2 года назад +5

    Dating in my 20s was pretty good. I think I'm probably better looking than I think I am

  • @infj4w511
    @infj4w511 Год назад +1

    4:00 As a young woman who only wants to date for marriage, I want to explain a female struggle with settling young. First, if the reason you like me is for my youth, you'll probably leave me before we marry. Second, as a woman, it's difficult to date young men for several reasons. 1. Most of them aren't taking dating that seriously yet; they're having fun. 2. We don't know what we're dealing with yet, because neither their character/maturity nor their financial stability has been established yet. So, how do you want me to choose a good man? Do I take the man who hasn't learned about communication, who doesn't even know how to live on his own yet & postpones all his responsibilities, who hates children, who spends all his money on his nerdy interest, or who is dropping out of his third study? All these men could become high quality men, but they might as well turn out to be broke jerks, and I don't like to gamble. Now you may tell me to date older men. However, those men aren't present in my social life, which does not just make it more difficult for me to meet them, but it also means that I don't have any idea on how to interact with them. Also, if I'm dating with such an age difference, I feel like it's a relationship like that of him as a caretaker & me as the child or patient. I don't want to be cared for by the man, to have them look down on me. I want an equal relationship in which we both equally earn money, pay, take responsibility, learn, communicate, develop, etc.

  • @davidapacjr1989
    @davidapacjr1989 2 года назад +2

    This used to frustrate me in my highschool days. Guys in their 20s were able to buy alcohol and knew where the fun spots were while I couldn’t legally get into any of them. Now that I’m 30 I like that it works that way. Whenever interacting with girls in their early 20s it’s like I’m the older kid on campus that knows what’s up. Especially since I’m an avid traveler. As a 32 year old I can’t see my self dating a woman my age. They often see me as younger than then and I see them as older. I guess it’s cause women my age are already having children.

  • @copetimusmaximus3363
    @copetimusmaximus3363 2 года назад +6

    Wdym young guys can afford to be patient?💩🙈
    They can't! They MUST looksmaxx to realize their looks potential as early as possible if they want to have a chance to become genuinely attractive to a woman.
    And if they "don't care" about women, they need to work as hard to get skills to support themselves in the future.
    Either way, they can't just "be patient" in their youth and waste it.

  • @agoogleuseranonymous2658
    @agoogleuseranonymous2658 2 года назад +6

    And again for men the top of the mountain is from 30 to 50. But for women, it is from 15-30. So both have about as much time. But the thing is that for women it happened much earlier. Like back in their mid-late teens this was when the bump was really going up for them. So even at that age they started to get showered in attention. 99.99% of the men couldn't say the same.

  • @scottb296
    @scottb296 Год назад

    "For how long have we been ugly?"
    Well, I'd have to see a time lapse video to come to that conclusion.

  • @dat2ra
    @dat2ra 2 года назад +3

    All through my life, I have dated older women...not exclusively,but frequently. When I was 20, I had a summer affair with. 54yo musician. She was one of the best things that ever happened to me. I learned so much from her. And hot? Oh my! No young girl ever knew what she did.

  • @TruckGuy88
    @TruckGuy88 2 года назад +11

    I’m a 32 year old man and I would never date a girl in there early 20’s. Me personally I feel like that is creepy. No matter how you look at it.

    • @fjparasite1172
      @fjparasite1172 2 года назад +9

      So you pick the ones with a ton of bagage entitlement and faded looks?

    • @FreakMeat74
      @FreakMeat74 2 года назад +8

      Get over the societal brainwash, be free

    • @RR3DS
      @RR3DS 2 года назад +6

      Don't think less for yourself.. Women love older men. And that's been proven so many times.

    • @TruckGuy88
      @TruckGuy88 2 года назад +3

      I think I’m just over women in general. Done, out of the game.

    • @x97s
      @x97s 2 года назад +2

      Its not creepy at all

  • @allynflinchbaugh4570
    @allynflinchbaugh4570 2 года назад +1

    The Wall is ruthless and always wins. They are laughing about it now, but I foresee a future of TV dinners, boxed wine, and cats.

  • @filetransfer9343
    @filetransfer9343 2 года назад +1

    They used critical thinking and have an understanding of where they stand now.

  • @anosh88
    @anosh88 2 года назад +9

    Hi Alex.
    I have to disagree with you about how normal it is for a 19 year old girl to find a 31 year old more attractive than guys her age. If that is the case, then it is in all likelihood an anomaly, and it could just be that she is intellectually and emotionally not only superior to the men her age, but also the women. I don't see how as a 33 year old, I would find it normal that a girl who is 19-20 would be interested in me. I find it a bit strange because the age gap is so significant, and it would make me wonder why she can't find guys her age.
    Oftentimes, such women are carrying emotional baggage that they think the older guy will fix for them. Once they use him as an emotional tampon, they eventually go back to being with guys their age. Also, not to mention that many women, especially today, have an overexaggerated sense of their worth and attractiveness due to social media. A girl is a 6 can right away think she is an 8 or 9 just because so many guys pay attention to her on social media. This would mean that she is going to raise her standards and expect a guy who is so far above her league without her putting in any work.
    I don't see how this is economically and emotionally viable, and to be quite honest it has all the ingredients of a toxic relationship, which we are already have plenty of, so why keep perpetuating this dark cycle? I think that's it's very rare that a girl who is that young who is GENUINELY interested in guys that much older than her. She's 19 and she likes "older guys" as in 3-4 years older? Makes perfect sense. Anytime she goes above that, and the more above that she goes, I would suspect she has psychological issues she needs to work on.

    • @miladkeshvari805
      @miladkeshvari805 2 года назад +3

      Well, that’s the crap that every redpill coach say, and their reference is always Leonardo Decaprio, because that’s a rare thing even among rich handsome famous celebrities!
      Most relationships between people of two different generations are mainly transactional. I can’t imagine deep conversations and mutual understandings for long term in such relationships

    • @anosh88
      @anosh88 2 года назад +4

      @@miladkeshvari805 I mean, I do think that Alex is correct in saying that, on a biological and instinctual level, men prefer women who are youthful and have a high rate of fertility. No one can deny that unless they are completely ignorant and/or delusional. In fact, Alex has cited multiple studies where men of ALL ages prefer women in their early 20s and possibly even in their late teens. A lot of people will look at this data and just call men creepy, but what they fail to understand is that this is a hardwired thing, not something that they have full control over.
      Here is where it gets tricky though. While Alex does a wonderful job of explaining things from a biopsychological perspective, he overemphasizes the biological tendencies and downplays the social factors. He does the opposite of what mainstream social science does, which is to overemphasize the social factors and neglect the biological ones, sometimes even rendering them completely irrelevant (as some radical social constructionists do).
      The other part is that having an instinct that directs you to like a 20 year old for mating purposes does not negate the fact that there is FAR more to love and relationships than just procreation and sexual satisfaction. Relationships require communication, emotional connection and intimacy, sharing bonds and experiences with one another and, as you mentioned, interesting and stimulating conversations.
      When we phrase it like that, most people who are 28 and above will not go for a girl who is 21 simply because 21 year olds, whether they are male or female, and especially in today's society, are vapid individuals who lack character despite having physical beauty. As a 33 year old, I don't have a hard time attracting a bit of attention from girls in that age range, and sometimes even much older than me (like in their 40s), but I am rational enough to understand that they only want one thing, and that is sex.
      It's almost impossible to find the perfect package in a 21 year old, unless you're the vapid type that only cares about sex, then I guess that's your business. But to me, I want a girl who is going to be my best friend and whom I can take seriously and have respect for, and who will show respect to me as well. This is not something that the average 21 year old has a good enough grasp on, so why on earth would I waste my time on such a bad investment? But I guess everyone has their own experiences?

    • @miladkeshvari805
      @miladkeshvari805 2 года назад +2

      @@anosh88 Well, I agree with most of what you said, but first let's clarify about male's preference for 21 yo females. That stat comes from OKcupid, but I heard other numbers such as 25 yo females being in highest demand in another app (PoF maybe, not sure). The bias however, can be just because there are more male users at that age group who swipe right on 21 yo women, leading to such result; or maybe because there is more girl at that age group; it can also be algorithmic bias, meaning that the app recommends the highest ranked girls- here 21 yo- more frequently, and consequently, they get more likes... Anyway, I do not disagree about biological aspects and that younger women, in general, are more sexually attractive. However, I think as we grow, our brain learns to filter out some potential mates (maybe based on our past experiences, wisdom, etc.) based on the characteristics that it considers to increase the chance of failure; in a similar way that many machine learning algorithms work. That is why that many so-called "high value men" may even avoid short term flings, let alone relationships, with younger girls, despite the fact that they can have them easily. I personally have been in a relationship with a beautiful nice girl 9 years younger than me, and I can tell you, there is no other decision that I regret more than that in my whole life, and she wasn't even a bad person...as a result, my dating strategy has been updated at the unconscious level! Such arrangements could work in the past where there was no big difference between generations, and also relationships were mainly transactional. Nowadays, shallow people who lack depth in their character may prefer this type of relationships since there will be a higher chance to find a partner at the same level of complexity, when dating with someone significantly younger. The same goes for people who are merely after sex...

    • @anosh88
      @anosh88 2 года назад +6

      @@miladkeshvari805 Bingo! You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, my dude! It actually is NOT hard for me at this age to attract college aged women as well. In fact, I get requests from them quite a bit on social media, and have even been sneakily prospected by them. However, like you said, if I was in my 21 year old brain at 33 now, I would fall for them really easily because hey, why not? Gotta have fun and YOLO you know what I mean?
      But this kind of mentality is adopted by emotionally underdeveloped and shallow people. The ones who cannot see beyond the surface because they themselves only have the surface to offer in the first place. A lot of people here in the West assume that a man's worth is measured by how many women he has in his life. WRONG. A man's social worth is based on the quality of the circle he has, not how many ratchety chicks he has orbiting him. Again, this is a mentality of losers because they don't have deep understanding, and so they settle for sex appeal.
      When you overdraw on your sex appeal, you have to deposit more into your account. But like an intelligent investor, instead of wasting your time investing in sex appeal and neglecting everything else in your personality, and diversifying your portfolio, you will find that it's actually quite easy to be high quality and desirable, but only to the right people. To the wrong people, you will actually become less and less attractive, but that's a trade-off I'm totally okay with.
      After all, I'd rather be single than to be miserable with someone. Of course I would best prefer to be with a high quality woman whom I can enjoy my life with. But the second best option is to be alone until I can find her. For most men and women? Nah. They're rather be miserable in a relationship than at peace alone. They can't be alone because they don't feel secure being alone. Hence they become shallow because it's temporarily easier to follow the herd mentality. Who cares about principles and morality when you haven't gotten laid in 6 months? *gasp*

    • @littlelily4
      @littlelily4 2 года назад

      I completely agree with you these young girls who date way older dudes must have some sort of trauma
      Plus I remember how I was at 19 I was so young ! You would litteraly have nothing in common (except sex maybe) you're at two different stages of your life

  • @penname5050
    @penname5050 2 года назад +7

    Tragicomedy.

  • @Big_Abomination
    @Big_Abomination 2 года назад +2

    We live in a culture where good-looking women, or even average, demand more than they give back.

  • @tdrive398
    @tdrive398 2 года назад +1

    Gentlemen- we've always known this, but here is evidence. Womyn NEED our attention. They feel entitled to it, and give us nothing in return.
    Notice what happens when we withhold it.
    We should withhold it because they they treat us with such disdain. We hold the power.

  • @DonReality
    @DonReality 2 года назад +6

    0:43 dem lines sister, dem lines!
    The Wall is undefeated. Should have taken your younger years much seriously. 😏

  • @bobleglob162
    @bobleglob162 2 года назад +4

    she's sad that guys "who have no chance" with her didn't send her a holiday text. Because that's all they're good for apparently. They're little ego-boosting NPC's.
    She deserves all the loneliness and misery she gets.

  • @moneylineparlay105
    @moneylineparlay105 2 года назад +3

    Wow, those girls are a 5 At best, and the entitlement is crazy

  • @lordilluminati5836
    @lordilluminati5836 Год назад

    I'm a male, 26, I've had a horrible time trying to date in the past and almost no success but now I'm taking things more seriously.

  • @saiyanape6015
    @saiyanape6015 2 года назад +4

    Sparta got it right . 20 year old Woman with 30 year old Man. That the norm

  • @alaricsoto1
    @alaricsoto1 2 года назад +1

    I have the exact amount of empathy for them that they have for men. For the struggling, it's a number not significantly different than zero.

  • @marcchun7240
    @marcchun7240 Год назад

    You know he has some extra salient point when he says "I want you guys to look at this graph..."

  • @littlestarling3005
    @littlestarling3005 2 года назад +3

    "No 35 yo woman looks as good as a 22 yo woman"
    Well, try to search Asian and you will find plenty of them😃

    • @darklight6921
      @darklight6921 2 года назад +1

      thats from a western perspective. asians consider them christmas cake.

    • @williamspears1627
      @williamspears1627 2 года назад

      If a woman takes care of her body of course she'll age well.
      But western females tend to favor putting makeup on and wearing tight clothes instead of relying on diet and exercise.

    • @littlestarling3005
      @littlestarling3005 2 года назад +1

      @@williamspears1627 It's the same in every part of thr world😅

    • @williamspears1627
      @williamspears1627 2 года назад

      @@littlestarling3005 But Westerners are in general are very Unhealthy.
      But Western Men are expected to do more physical labor and can't rely on makeup.

  • @BlackieNuff
    @BlackieNuff 2 года назад +1

    "Am I ugly?"
    ~ picky women who suddenly stop getting attention
    Only on the inside... but don't worry ; eventually, your looks catch up to match.

  • @GIboy1990
    @GIboy1990 Год назад

    I met my wife at age 24. When I was laid off, broke and had 10 years in prison hanging over my head.

  • @jbond5834
    @jbond5834 2 года назад +28

    looks are everything to both genders.

    • @VoiceOvaGuy
      @VoiceOvaGuy 2 года назад +1

      Nope, strongly disagree. Looks will give you that butterfly feeling in your stomach, and lust in the relationship, but that's about it. I personally would say no every time to the most beautiful woman in the world, if she had a piss poor personality, attitude problem, no morals or ethics, extreme drug reliance problems, cheating problems, etc. Looks get you into the door, and that's about it. And if you understand your own mind well enough, you can do without the neurotransmitters making your nether regions tingly via your visual stimulus.

  • @Floof_Factory
    @Floof_Factory 2 года назад +9

    Do you have any book recommendations?

    • @fjparasite1172
      @fjparasite1172 2 года назад +5

      100 shades of grey read by Gilbert Gottfried

    • @Floof_Factory
      @Floof_Factory 2 года назад +2

      @@fjparasite1172 50 shades of grey but the main guy is Gilbert gottfried

    • @JGJ505
      @JGJ505 2 года назад +7

      Rationnal male by Rollo Tomassi

  • @ucrjedi
    @ucrjedi 8 месяцев назад

    I love the biological and historical approach that you use to tackle this issue. It seems to me that modern day humans seem to forget that we're all animals, that there was a different reality before our generation, and that there will be further changes after we're gone.

  • @yitzharos
    @yitzharos Месяц назад

    I too am Coming to Terms to that I am A LOW VALUE man, with the moral standards, and willingness to be a provider like that of a High Value Man. As I spent the Majority of my years without a partner, without prospects, and chasing women...never been chased. I'm 34 years of age, and I am heartbroken that the stark reality that I can't just be a man with a stable job, and hope to get the woman I want. The only women i attract in this stage are 300lbs, and inundated with feminist man-hating.

  • @KazeMunashii
    @KazeMunashii 2 года назад +3

    Not ugly, just the men you knew moved on and are spending that energy on someone new they met. A lot of men don't have female friends because there's nothing to gain from knowing them.

  • @mommacat75
    @mommacat75 2 года назад +2

    This isn’t the full story. A woman who is attractive because she is simply young is a very different thing than her being attractive because she is beautiful. This is simplifying men to say they are only attracted to youth but beauty can transcend youth. At 46 I get more attention from men, mostly younger, now than I ever did in my 20’s. It’s because the older I get, the more I know what looks good on me and what I need to do to maintain my self to stay attractive for my husband of 25 years. Being young alone is enough to attract older men. That’s true. Being attractive is a VERY different thing than just being young though. These women may be realizing being young is no longer the ticket to receiving the attention they did before but I guarantee that with some self-assessment and beauty skills that work with their natural assets, they could get more attention than they ever did before.

    • @williamspears1627
      @williamspears1627 2 года назад +1

      Men have low physical standards though, especially younger men.
      This why women have their profiles blown up with hundreds of messages.
      Getting attention from young men doesn't mean much at all tbh.
      They're also more desperate now more then ever.

  • @kirk2767
    @kirk2767 2 года назад +1

    I still remember the movie "Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure," where one of the boy's fathers ended up marrying a cheerleader from his son's class.

  • @peterrfowler16
    @peterrfowler16 2 года назад +7

    Completely agree with this . This advice in any other walk of walk of life would never be so controversial or scrutinised.

  • @germanshepherddogs
    @germanshepherddogs 2 года назад +5

    Why would I want to date an old man? I would prefer youth and fertility in a man too. A younger man is stronger physically, more lively, more handsome, and more fertile than an older man. So a younger man is more attractive to me, right?
    FYI, I'm using these pathetic boys' logic back on them. I believe there is much more to a marriage than superficiality. This video is absolutely ridiculous.

  • @bery33
    @bery33 2 года назад +1

    I absolutely agree that women are most attractive in their early twenties, but boy oh boy, most people are stupid in early twenties, both men and women :))) I personally was also somewhat insecure, not aware of my qualities, not interested in long term and also nose inside my med books, I understand that the chances are the highest in your twenties but most people, women included don't know themselves or what they want at that point.

  • @bitcoinski
    @bitcoinski 2 года назад +1

    I honestly am not attracted to women my own age tbh...because they are so cynical, bitter, naggy and still gossip more than ever. Younger women(than me) have much, much less emotional baggage. I'm 50.

  • @cruzmartinez2547
    @cruzmartinez2547 2 года назад +2

    Additionally the graph you displayed is exactly my life style. Alexander I'm 74 and my age ranges are a "Parallelism" parallel exact.

  • @mj-rg9kp
    @mj-rg9kp 2 месяца назад

    All men and women are different, we all peak at a different age. Some peak in high school, some peak in their 20’s, and some peak in their 30’s. That includes both men and women.
    Many older ladies I’ve talked to have told me they would love to go back to their 30’s instead of 20’s. Bc it’s the age where we finally know who we are, what looks good on us, what we want to do and be in life and you start to attract quality guys. That was the case for me but then again I wasn’t sleeping around either so maybe that could be a reason. Girls who did get with a lot of guys seemed to corrupt themselves quickly and looked aged and tired much earlier before they even hit 30.

  • @rymreaper
    @rymreaper 2 года назад +8

    Money is a big issue for me. When I learned women are still hypergamous with money even they have the ability to earn enough to feed themselves. It just broke me into infinite pieces.
    Before when I was a teenager when I thought women are Angels it was very easy to grind for them. Now after learning about them it just got extremely difficult to do anything.
    Anything unfair isn't good for my BPD. So dating is one of them. Even if I win I hate it.
    I am giving up. I'm me I do me, I can't be a man then fine. I will live in a fantasy, that fantasy is enough to satisfy me.

  • @Afterhour420
    @Afterhour420 Год назад

    this video is a gem and is much more valuable then the title makes it seem

  • @joaquin67
    @joaquin67 Год назад

    What sucks is that when I was in my 20s, if a girl tried to secure me it wouldn’t have happened because I was deathly ignorant and afraid of escalating sexually. So it would have never happened

  • @DigitalAsshat
    @DigitalAsshat 2 года назад +42

    "He ages at a consistent level"
    What an incredible achievement, how does he do that?

    • @mohandasjung
      @mohandasjung 2 года назад +10

      Doong exercises, having a balanced diet and been filthy rich, I guess.

    • @thenarrator1984
      @thenarrator1984 2 года назад

      @@mohandasjung I think you miss the point

    • @mohandasjung
      @mohandasjung 2 года назад +6

      @@thenarrator1984 no, I didn't. Drugs, trash food and sedentarism makes you age faster.

    • @thenarrator1984
      @thenarrator1984 2 года назад +1

      @@mohandasjung.....
      No. You age via a number of years you've been I've in the planet.

    • @mohandasjung
      @mohandasjung 2 года назад +3

      @@thenarrator1984 To age is not necessarily counting days, it could also mean white hairs, wrinkles and stuff like that. Two people with the same AGE can be more or less young based on genetics and habits.

  • @matejmazur01
    @matejmazur01 2 года назад +1

    I had a boss like this she was the pretty go getter in her late 30s, when I ignored her advances she personally fired me. Very vindictive.

  • @johnconnor4040
    @johnconnor4040 2 года назад +1

    To the 1st ladies.......Welcome to the wall!!!

  • @SebiBubble
    @SebiBubble 2 года назад +7

    I would still argue that there is a good amount of women that age like fine wine and look better in their 30s and 40s than their 20s

  • @dataminer5549
    @dataminer5549 2 года назад +1

    The truth is more empowering than feminism ever will be. Ladies, stop waiting until you're 30+ to have kids. Stop getting divorced if you do. Marry an older man who gets it, because men your own age would rather squirt in you and run away at the first sign of changing a trash bag let alone a diaper--and trade your fertility for status like every generation of women before you.
    Trust me, you're getting the better half of the deal. Ask your grandma.

  • @TacitusR
    @TacitusR 2 года назад +1

    "A beautiful woman dies twice."

  • @AllKinaTing
    @AllKinaTing 2 года назад +4

    straight facts