You´re a great astropsychologist. "The point is the wake-up call" "Some of the most important people even though we don´t get to spend our lives together" Your saying that is great confirmation of exactly what I´ve been thinking/feeling. Makes it easier not having second guess myself for just rationalizing impossible situations.
sorry girl..I hated every second of what I went thru. from the beginning of fighting the attraction for years to actually going thru with giving in..desperate to get rid of the attraction once and for all. the end result was that I lost a friend. the emotions were terrible. despair,anger, but above all confusion. I literally put that relationship\fling into my "wtf?" chapter in my life. I learned nothing from it at all. I agree 100 with you on one thing. my advice to everyone is "dont act on them" . the end result is separation, depression and anger.
Omg thank you so much jewel for this video! My sis is going through this right this very moment. It's so difficult for her especially her not being a very plutonic person herself. I find myself giving her support and advice. I'm very plutonic myself so I describe to her the emotions that she is going through about this particular relationship. She said that it has made her wake up and feel. The way she described it to felt plutonic and everything you mentioned I told her. Thanks again Jewel! Love your work!
Thank you so much for this video, it confirms everything that I'm sensing in a male friends chart, and why this meeting happened. We will spiritual grow each other and make each other reconsider our life path even if we don't end up together as a couple. I've seen exactly what you expressed in our charts. thankfully I been respectful to myself, my values and I've used better judgment than I have in the past. It also helped me clarify my past issues in romantic relationships and I'm reevaluating my reaction to the potential of love. I'm learning not to control or deny my feelings, just observe in a calm way and trace feelings back to their psychological roots. I'm finding the balance between clinging to a partner or fleeing in fear of potential heartbreak. Im being observant, not obsessed. I've got a ton of 12th house transits and progressions in the year ahead, it time to finally make my brain a peaceful place again. Great video!
One of your more compassionate videos I have seen from your RUclips collection...you touched what can be a very painful topic with great sensitivity. I went through this when I was 37 and the Astrologer that I entrusted/enlisted to help me at that time was nowhere near as helpful. I wish I had found you at that time. Not in a relationship now, hasn't been for 4 years (Venus/12th house), but would love to get your read if ever lucky enough to find someone special again.
OMG thank you so much for this video and confirmation... living this since 2.5 years... it's so hard... wake up call indeed... turns your life around... you are awesome Jewel... big hug
Wow Jewel!! This has helped me so much! I am going through this now with someone i met 9 years ago when i was 34, and it is heavily Plutonian (mainly my Pluto aspecting their personal planets) also has that unrequited love thing (I've been having a hard time letting go). I recently told this person that all of this is for a reason. You mentioned Uranus being a key component..I am an Aries 1st house Sun and and Uranus is retrograde in Aries right now, Also my natal Uranus is in guess? LOL My 8th house in Libra along with 8th house Scorpio moon. Also Venus in 12th house Pisces. Oh and they literally just entered their second Saturn return. I sincerely thank you for this. It makes everything so much clearer now and perhaps a little easier for me to accept what I have learned and let go.
Girl, you have hit it right on the nose! My Cinderella abandonment shadow took me for a ride! Strangely enough my anxiety disorder healed by this lovely distraction! And it made me feel beautiful again! Thank you so much for making this! Super cool indeed!
+Dena Jaquillard Exactly what this type of experience was meant to do. You played right into the planets hands! Doesn't it feel good to be forced to grow when we didn't even know we needed to? And to feel seen again.....oh, that feels REALLY good, doesn't it? ❤️
I love your videos and you’re so insightful! Do you think these can never work out long term? If there are other aspects that suggest it does have longevity, what would those be?
Very great, Jewel. I'd extend that mid-life passage to the Chiron and Saturn returns in the early/mid 50s though. ;) Then the original wound can be re-exposed, properly healed, and overcome.
Hahah thanks you so much I am 37 and just had a man walk into my life wow did you explain this perfectly!! He is still Married so I know that’s not going to happen but I really feel like I can use the energy of I could possibly have in my life as a catalyst to be something better!! Like gym everyday being my authentic self etc. he has brought all these things up for me grateful🙏
I could not have described it better. Too late to warn me not to give in to the attraction, but I do look back at that person as my soulmate because I'm a totally different woman now: independent, calm, happy, fun-loving, and successful on my own.
Could this be when a twin flame situation develops as well? And what would be some pointers to know the difference between possible twin flame and just a sole catalyst as you explained in this video?
I watched the Uranus trine moon in comp. charts as I intuited that this was going to be a key aspect for my surprise love interest...and then this midlife romance video following ....pfffff, mind BLOWN... At 37 I have just had the most god awful initiation which forced me to finally put in the place the boundaries that as a holistic therapist I had yet to acknowledge are essential... and just when I realised I need to be alone and digest all of what I had been forced to dig deep and manifest I get a surprise soulmate turning up to bring me back to myself through laughter, movement and lightning-speed intimacy....I know it is not forever. I know it will be unforgettable. I know they came to buoy my ascension process and I hope that I have learnt enough from my initiation to show them how to be rather than talk them to death on the subject as was my previous M.O. I get to demonstrate to them all that I have become and all that I want to leave behind. I get to show by being the level of self-growth. The asked last night what they should tell someone if they ask - am I their girlfriend or just a friend... I responded that there should be less emphasis placed on what to call our union and that it would be better to focus on the use of our mutual attraction/fondness to help each other transform and push each other to greatness...Just being able to say this showed how much I have moved away from my need to be attached to someone, to control them, to control the outcome, to be someone's property, to be co-dependent. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. Absolutely brilliant!
I had 3 connection like this very recently. One was highly uranian, one very neptunian, and one very Plutonian. Threw me and my worldview for a loop. All were work relationships, but theRe was a lot confusion and intrigue. I am hoping it’s out of my system and I do not attract them later in life since I feel I have learned my lessons. My Venus sextiles Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, Saturn and my moon. I am hoping I have burnt off all my relationship karma. Trying to channel my inner ♎️ 🤞🙏
I'm my current girlfriends soul mate. I've been with her since her 39th birthday. I think she was experiencing her Uranus opposite Uranus. You absolutely nailed this video! Thank you so much.
Do you mean end the relationship with the midlife person? That’s typically how it goes. These things are psychological breakthroughs, not the end all be all of love.
Hi ! While watching this i can't help but cry.I am in my my mid 40's and i am experiencing this. I am deeply attracted,connected and in love with this man. We've been in the relationship for 2 yrs.Then we had a misunderstanding, he stopped communicating. I've been so down since Oct. I never felt this way even when i was married.I don't know how i can move on..Thanks for this video.
+Janna If you can determine what it is that you ultimately want from this elusive man then you can begin to provide that for yourself. Ask yourself what it is he was going to provide for you, what was it that you had hoped he would fulfill in you? This is a great opportunity to see what holes need to filled by your own lack of self attention. As you learn to turn your attention to how you can fulfill your own self, the aching for this man to bring you the happiness you are assuming would come from a connected relationship with him will go away naturally with no force on your part. You can leave it behind. There is a belief that someone outside of yourself is where you will the happiness you are lacking. This is a false belief. I will be making a video about this aspect of attraction soon.
On the line what Jewel have said, I think that the other person in such relationships usually gives (offers) something that you consciously or unconsciously desire and as intensely also not giving what you need. So something usually feels at least like an opposition and / or inconjunction. And then the lesson often lies in connecting to your real needs, setting the borders and the main thing not painting over the real image pulling the imaginary connection onto what might be very far from your dream. Another step usually is to cope with your emotions and do not linger in negativity and vicious circle which but rather just choose your chance for another much more joyful authetic love, to yourself and others.
I'm 38, and smack dab in the middle of my pluto square natal (Libra). Pluto is also in Retrograde 😩. I don't want to be with this person. I just want to satisfy a physical urge. 🤷🏾♀️
Omg, I am 35 , Gemini, met a Scorpio man, very plutonic, and I do not know, how to move on....we broke up on 31.12. and I am in tears....There was much sympathy, admiration, I am HSP and he was very hurt by his ex, so I do not know , if I was here only for his healing process or ...I was afraid of abusing.....and I do not know, what is true, and what not......somebody help me, please....I cannot stand that pain anymore....
Stanka hope you got it all resolved in a good way. For an HSP scorpio energy of course might feel both magnetic, enticing and overwhelming. Depending on your chart and and personal development, you have to try to find a way to see the situation at a distance, as id you get an advice from a wise less sensitive but kind good friend who wishes you best. 'Cause logics in such cases usually is overpowered by emotions and some kind of dreaming. It is hard to generalize without knowing a particular situation and both charts. But you can find your inner core and balance without playing the victim-prosecutor-judge game because those positions can flip easily.
I think we expect this connection to have the possibility to flourish. It's kinda sad though. Because out of the blueone meets a certain person and it kinda shake up ones emotions, life, changes the dynamic of relationship with others etc....so much... I find it kinda cruel.
Hi Jewel, I love your videos and how honest and realistic you are. Could we have a lot to learn from each other if his Pluto and descendant are the same sign as my Sun, mercury, Saturn and ascendant? We also have the same venus sign. This video was just beautiful to me. I appreciate you so much!
Thank you for this video--IT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE! I hit this at 33 (struck by love--I couldn't figure out why I had to experience it. What you said--is SOOOO TRUE!) & 36 (breakdown of my life: transiting Uranus opposed my moon & pluto--OUCH). I don't want any more. I have more to look forward to? (I have my 40's ahead of me). This video helps me be aware of potential future issues; and, now I can reflect on this video BEFORE I react to the situation(s). Thank you! I love your videos! :) They are wake up calls--fantastic! You're amazing! Have a fantastic moment!
Jewel, thank you for this very helpful tutorial. A question: What if, after "repressing awakened" feelings for "that" particular someone for many years, they resurface out of the blue and need to be dealt with all over again? I am so confused and conflicted about this situation and any advice would be deeply appreciated.
@Alena Ya how cruel to have everything predestined and yet thrown into circumstances which takes your whole identity and makes one go through something as painful as this. And one has to keep it all bottled up. Personally, I found it really cruel.
In the end were I am now... Is she is the prettiest woman in the world for me.. But I am now looking for that intimate emotional connection we had once before... And the relationship I have now needs to be intimate connection 1st then needs and wants for each other then physical beauty ....
so Jewel, typically for anyone going through this midlife experience or those who are having similar relationships before/after that point... what would you recommend is a better indicator to figure out if someone is a legitimate soulmate type, rather than just there for the lessons, mirroring then leaving? a good handful of aspects with less Pluto/Neptune/Uranus involved or..?
+NamiBurger You need to consider first the feasibility of the relationship and if engaging in it is damaging or healthy. Also, you must have a reciprocal attraction. The Synastry will show compatibility or not in all situations but these situations specifically require some real consideration before one leaps, if they do at all. Falling in love in midlife should happen naturally and hopefully between two available partners. This is when it's meant to be something you explore together because there Is hopefully not just good feelings but also good compatibility.
The weird thing, this happened to me at the age of 18 and I had venus square Uranus, moon square Uranus aspects in synastry, obviously I was the inner planet person in both aspects, that was the strongest relationship I’ve been through for my entire life and as u said I still remember him with a smile on my face regardless this relationship caused me a lot of pain and sorrow but it was surprising for me, it was one sided emotionally and we are not compatible. I thought he was the one and he caused a lot of mess in very short time, later because of the pain I’ve been through I knew that he wasn’t the One, and once I figured that out he disappeared from my life all of sudden like he wasn’t ever existed. My natal venus has T-Square aspect with Saturn in the 8th house and Jupiter in the 5th.
I totally disagree, if your soul mate/twin flame has been in your life for 23 years and you have a child with this person, at this point in history, the universe is begging us to share our love for each other, to find ourselves and therefore each other, and then to let our love flow outward.
You´re a great astropsychologist. "The point is the wake-up call" "Some of the most important people even though we don´t get to spend our lives together" Your saying that is great confirmation of exactly what I´ve been thinking/feeling. Makes it easier not having second guess myself for just rationalizing impossible situations.
sorry girl..I hated every second of what I went thru. from the beginning of fighting the attraction for years to actually going thru with giving in..desperate to get rid of the attraction once and for all. the end result was that I lost a friend. the emotions were terrible. despair,anger, but above all confusion. I literally put that relationship\fling into my "wtf?" chapter in my life. I learned nothing from it at all. I agree 100 with you on one thing. my advice to everyone is "dont act on them" . the end result is separation, depression and anger.
Omg thank you so much jewel for this video! My sis is going through this right this very moment. It's so difficult for her especially her not being a very plutonic person herself. I find myself giving her support and advice. I'm very plutonic myself so I describe to her the emotions that she is going through about this particular relationship. She said that it has made her wake up and feel. The way she described it to felt plutonic and everything you mentioned I told her. Thanks again Jewel! Love your work!
Thank you so much for this video, it confirms everything that I'm sensing in a male friends chart, and why this meeting happened. We will spiritual grow each other and make each other reconsider our life path even if we don't end up together as a couple.
I've seen exactly what you expressed in our charts. thankfully I been respectful to myself, my values and I've used better judgment than I have in the past. It also helped me clarify my past issues in romantic relationships and I'm reevaluating my reaction to the potential of love. I'm learning not to control or deny my feelings, just observe in a calm way and trace feelings back to their psychological roots. I'm finding the balance between clinging to a partner or fleeing in fear of potential heartbreak. Im being observant, not obsessed.
I've got a ton of 12th house transits and progressions in the year ahead, it time to finally make my brain a peaceful place again. Great video!
One of your more compassionate videos I have seen from your RUclips collection...you touched what can be a very painful topic with great sensitivity. I went through this when I was 37 and the Astrologer that I entrusted/enlisted to help me at that time was nowhere near as helpful. I wish I had found you at that time. Not in a relationship now, hasn't been for 4 years (Venus/12th house), but would love to get your read if ever lucky enough to find someone special again.
OMG thank you so much for this video and confirmation... living this since 2.5 years... it's so hard... wake up call indeed... turns your life around... you are awesome Jewel... big hug
+Sandy Bruder
My 💗to you, Friend. Hang in there! This is a tough situation.
Hugs and Kisses Jewel for the Midlife video!
+Jasmin Landars I got them!
Fantastic video Jewel thank you I'm passing this on to several people I know
Thank you so much for this video!!! It explains my situation right now exactly 🌈✨
This was helpful . Thanks a lot. God bless
Wow Jewel!! This has helped me so much! I am going through this now with someone i met 9 years ago when i was 34, and it is heavily Plutonian (mainly my Pluto aspecting their personal planets) also has that unrequited love thing (I've been having a hard time letting go). I recently told this person that all of this is for a reason. You mentioned Uranus being a key component..I am an Aries 1st house Sun and and Uranus is retrograde in Aries right now, Also my natal Uranus is in guess? LOL My 8th house in Libra along with 8th house Scorpio moon. Also Venus in 12th house Pisces. Oh and they literally just entered their second Saturn return. I sincerely thank you for this. It makes everything so much clearer now and perhaps a little easier for me to accept what I have learned and let go.
Biological clock is loud and ticking and hormonal changes, its intense. Thanks for making this video. Very grounded and sensitive perspective.
Great video as always, Jewel. And you look extra stunning in this one too. Just saying. Thanks for your insights. Peace.
Girl, you have hit it right on the nose! My Cinderella abandonment shadow took me for a ride! Strangely enough my anxiety disorder healed by this lovely distraction! And it made me feel beautiful again! Thank you so much for making this! Super cool indeed!
+Dena Jaquillard
Exactly what this type of experience was meant to do. You played right into the planets hands! Doesn't it feel good to be forced to grow when we didn't even know we needed to? And to feel seen again.....oh, that feels REALLY good, doesn't it? ❤️
thanks for the encouragement! Glad to be in sync with the universe! I so love this topic thanks for addressing it! Much love!
I love your videos and you’re so insightful! Do you think these can never work out long term? If there are other aspects that suggest it does have longevity, what would those be?
Fascinating.
Very great, Jewel. I'd extend that mid-life passage to the Chiron and Saturn returns in the early/mid 50s though. ;) Then the original wound can be re-exposed, properly healed, and overcome.
I just love your in depth breakdown
Hahah thanks you so much I am 37 and just had a man walk into my life wow did you explain this perfectly!! He is still Married so I know that’s not going to happen but I really feel like I can use the energy of I could possibly have in my life as a catalyst to be something better!! Like gym everyday being my authentic self etc. he has brought all these things up for me grateful🙏
I could not have described it better. Too late to warn me not to give in to the attraction, but I do look back at that person as my soulmate because I'm a totally different woman now: independent, calm, happy, fun-loving, and successful on my own.
great video like always thanx dear
Could this be when a twin flame situation develops as well? And what would be some pointers to know the difference between possible twin flame and just a sole catalyst as you explained in this video?
Extremely helpful!!! Thank you!
I like the clarity and the logic and it makes sense to me. Nice video :)
So helpful...Thanks Jewel
Going through this now...why is it sooo hard to leave him 😭
I watched the Uranus trine moon in comp. charts as I intuited that this was going to be a key aspect for my surprise love interest...and then this midlife romance video following ....pfffff, mind BLOWN... At 37 I have just had the most god awful initiation which forced me to finally put in the place the boundaries that as a holistic therapist I had yet to acknowledge are essential... and just when I realised I need to be alone and digest all of what I had been forced to dig deep and manifest I get a surprise soulmate turning up to bring me back to myself through laughter, movement and lightning-speed intimacy....I know it is not forever. I know it will be unforgettable. I know they came to buoy my ascension process and I hope that I have learnt enough from my initiation to show them how to be rather than talk them to death on the subject as was my previous M.O. I get to demonstrate to them all that I have become and all that I want to leave behind. I get to show by being the level of self-growth. The asked last night what they should tell someone if they ask - am I their girlfriend or just a friend... I responded that there should be less emphasis placed on what to call our union and that it would be better to focus on the use of our mutual attraction/fondness to help each other transform and push each other to greatness...Just being able to say this showed how much I have moved away from my need to be attached to someone, to control them, to control the outcome, to be someone's property, to be co-dependent. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. Absolutely brilliant!
I had 3 connection like this very recently. One was highly uranian, one very neptunian, and one very Plutonian. Threw me and my worldview for a loop. All were work relationships, but theRe was a lot confusion and intrigue. I am hoping it’s out of my system and I do not attract them later in life since I feel I have learned my lessons. My Venus sextiles Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, Saturn and my moon. I am hoping I have burnt off all my relationship karma. Trying to channel my inner ♎️ 🤞🙏
I'm my current girlfriends soul mate. I've been with her since her 39th birthday. I think she was experiencing her Uranus opposite Uranus. You absolutely nailed this video! Thank you so much.
This was the most accurate and true thing about midlife new relationships I heard!! My question is "is it possible to end with the midlife person?"
Do you mean end the relationship with the midlife person? That’s typically how it goes. These things are psychological breakthroughs, not the end all be all of love.
Hi ! While watching this i can't help but cry.I am in my my mid 40's and i am experiencing this. I am deeply attracted,connected and in love with this man. We've been in the relationship for 2 yrs.Then we had a misunderstanding, he stopped communicating. I've been so down since Oct. I never felt this way even when i was married.I don't know how i can move on..Thanks for this video.
+Janna If you can determine what it is that you ultimately want from this elusive man then you can begin to provide that for yourself. Ask yourself what it is he was going to provide for you, what was it that you had hoped he would fulfill in you? This is a great opportunity to see what holes need to filled by your own lack of self attention. As you learn to turn your attention to how you can fulfill your own self, the aching for this man to bring you the happiness you are assuming would come from a connected relationship with him will go away naturally with no force on your part. You can leave it behind. There is a belief that someone outside of yourself is where you will the happiness you are lacking. This is a false belief. I will be making a video about this aspect of attraction soon.
I messaged you privately.Thank you for responding.
On the line what Jewel have said, I think that the other person in such relationships usually gives (offers) something that you consciously or unconsciously desire and as intensely also not giving what you need. So something usually feels at least like an opposition and / or inconjunction. And then the lesson often lies in connecting to your real needs, setting the borders and the main thing not painting over the real image pulling the imaginary connection onto what might be very far from your dream. Another step usually is to cope with your emotions and do not linger in negativity and vicious circle which but rather just choose your chance for another much more joyful authetic love, to yourself and others.
I'm going to hit midlife soon.
But, no need to worry.
I never had any love relation and still single male.
Transit pluto trine pluto seems more difficult with dramatic unfolding.
Thank you👌🙏
I'm 38, and smack dab in the middle of my pluto square natal (Libra). Pluto is also in Retrograde 😩. I don't want to be with this person. I just want to satisfy a physical urge. 🤷🏾♀️
Lol... When u entered the screen in the beginning I was struck with BEAUTY straight away ... Lol call it midlife crisis.. Femininity in full .... :-)
Maybe that is what happened to me. I met someone and fell deeply in love, and he has suddenly died... Maybe I am supposed to learn from this
❤
Omg, I am 35 , Gemini, met a Scorpio man, very plutonic, and I do not know, how to move on....we broke up on 31.12. and I am in tears....There was much sympathy, admiration, I am HSP and he was very hurt by his ex, so I do not know , if I was here only for his healing process or ...I was afraid of abusing.....and I do not know, what is true, and what not......somebody help me, please....I cannot stand that pain anymore....
Stanka hope you got it all resolved in a good way. For an HSP scorpio energy of course might feel both magnetic, enticing and overwhelming. Depending on your chart and and personal development, you have to try to find a way to see the situation at a distance, as id you get an advice from a wise less sensitive but kind good friend who wishes you best. 'Cause logics in such cases usually is overpowered by emotions and some kind of dreaming. It is hard to generalize without knowing a particular situation and both charts. But you can find your inner core and balance without playing the victim-prosecutor-judge game because those positions can flip easily.
Very random comment. I watch all the videos. But you look very nice in this specific video
ΤHANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
I think we expect this connection to have the possibility to flourish. It's kinda sad though. Because out of the blueone meets a certain person and it kinda shake up ones emotions, life, changes the dynamic of relationship with others etc....so much... I find it kinda cruel.
Love this.
Hi Jewel, I love your videos and how honest and realistic you are. Could we have a lot to learn from each other if his Pluto and descendant are the same sign as my Sun, mercury, Saturn and ascendant? We also have the same venus sign. This video was just beautiful to me. I appreciate you so much!
Thank you for this video--IT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE! I hit this at 33 (struck by love--I couldn't figure out why I had to experience it. What you said--is SOOOO TRUE!) & 36 (breakdown of my life: transiting Uranus opposed my moon & pluto--OUCH). I don't want any more. I have more to look forward to? (I have my 40's ahead of me).
This video helps me be aware of potential future issues; and, now I can reflect on this video BEFORE I react to the situation(s).
Thank you! I love your videos! :) They are wake up calls--fantastic!
You're amazing! Have a fantastic moment!
Jewel, thank you for this very helpful tutorial. A question: What if, after "repressing awakened" feelings for "that" particular someone for many years, they resurface out of the blue and need to be dealt with all over again? I am so confused and conflicted about this situation and any advice would be deeply appreciated.
It makes sense!
my pluto square pluto was 18-29. Not 40🤔🤔
The relationships were a disastar I should say
Mid life is not 37 it’s 40s your still young in you’re 30s
So what's the point of this? I don't understand.
@Alena Ya how cruel to have everything predestined and yet thrown into circumstances which takes your whole identity and makes one go through something as painful as this. And one has to keep it all bottled up. Personally, I found it really cruel.
In the end were I am now... Is she is the prettiest woman in the world for me.. But I am now looking for that intimate emotional connection we had once before... And the relationship I have now needs to be intimate connection 1st then needs and wants for each other then physical beauty ....
When Mars Attacks!, Venus
🙏
so Jewel, typically for anyone going through this midlife experience or those who are having similar relationships before/after that point... what would you recommend is a better indicator to figure out if someone is a legitimate soulmate type, rather than just there for the lessons, mirroring then leaving? a good handful of aspects with less Pluto/Neptune/Uranus involved or..?
+NamiBurger
You need to consider first the feasibility of the relationship and if engaging in it is damaging or healthy. Also, you must have a reciprocal attraction. The Synastry will show compatibility or not in all situations but these situations specifically require some real consideration before one leaps, if they do at all.
Falling in love in midlife should happen naturally and hopefully between two available partners. This is when it's meant to be something you explore together because there Is hopefully not just good feelings but also good compatibility.
The weird thing, this happened to me at the age of 18 and I had venus square Uranus, moon square Uranus aspects in synastry, obviously I was the inner planet person in both aspects, that was the strongest relationship I’ve been through for my entire life and as u said I still remember him with a smile on my face regardless this relationship caused me a lot of pain and sorrow but it was surprising for me, it was one sided emotionally and we are not compatible. I thought he was the one and he caused a lot of mess in very short time, later because of the pain I’ve been through I knew that he wasn’t the One, and once I figured that out he disappeared from my life all of sudden like he wasn’t ever existed.
My natal venus has T-Square aspect with Saturn in the 8th house and Jupiter in the 5th.
I totally disagree, if your soul mate/twin flame has been in your life for 23 years and you have a child with this person, at this point in history, the universe is begging us to share our love for each other, to find ourselves and therefore each other, and then to let our love flow outward.
Oh.....I see. I sense a Venus/Neptune aspect in your chart.
wasn't the point of this "sudden" love/ Specifically in midlife?
@@JewelMayberry snap!