solo diaries ep. 005 | How to deal with being ALONE & feeling LONELY
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- Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
- #isolation #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #selfdiscovery #journeyofselfdiscovery #selfjourney #evolvingintoher #solodiaries #solitude
Hey y'all! Welcome to another episode of Solo Diaries.
Today I'm sharing a bit of my story and some advice on how to deal with being alone, feeling lonely, self sabotaging, old self versus new self, being uncomfortable with ourselves and so on and so forth.
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I Love when you make this type of content, it makes me not feel so alone on my journey so please don’t stop. 💚💚💚
Same friend ❤
I feel the same way when y’all comment 🥹🤣🤣 Y’all make me not feel alone too! It motivates me to keep speaking my truth so the content will continue coming 💚
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The same!! ❤
This was truly beautiful, I’m 47 years old woman and this blessed my soul today while working from home . This type of relaxing authentic content is what I enjoy. Keep going and being grateful that will take you so far and attract everything you desire!
🥹💚 Thank you so much as well, I am so grateful and I really, truly appreciate you!
Girl quit telling my business! This what in going being comfortable being with God in the name of Jesus. I love your diaries.
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God gives such PEACE!
I used to help everyone. I always tried to make my friends happy,my ex happy and my children. I had to learn to cut those so call friends off, get closer to The Most High and of course always be there for your children but allow them to grow and make good choices. And let that man go who wasn't good for me. Now I make myself happy!
Good for you 💚💚💚💚
💚 I spend time with God in the same way at minute 20:33 every single morning and evening. I go outside on my back deck and just thank God for everything I can remember at the time.
It is said that a rain drop on the face (especially if its on the cheek) is a kiss from an ancestor in Heaven.
"We aren't missing out on anything except the things we want most in life." That's deep. I'm gonna have to put that one with my sticky notes of quotes.
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What a nice video of being thankful, grateful and humble. 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
Thank you so much. I really appreciate you for watching 💚
Thank you for reminding me of the value that I truly possess. Without God I am nothing. Blessings queen.
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Oohhh I love the way you worded that! You’re very welcome Goddess, thank you for being here as well 💚
What a beautiful video/words spoken from a lovely young lady coming into her own. Distractions are everywhere for sure. The planet throws distractions at us all day long. Life can be a struggle for so many including myself. But I also love that there is so much beauty in the world we live in. Distractions are everywhere and beauty is everywhere. It's a choice what to focus on. I find that when I focus on myself and my inner peace that good people show up. Good people who care. It just takes time and wisdom to know who to keep in your life and who to leave behind and wish well. I am 55 and it's taken forever to get where I am now and I am always excited to learn more everyday.
Thank you so much! I agree 100% with everything you said too. Thank you for your advice and encouragement, I am truly grateful 💚💚💚
Thanks for reminding me to be intensely and intentionally thankful to God for everything!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You’re welcome 💚💚💚
Bravo love. You are on the right path. I’ve been where you are right now and am so happy I chose the life I live now. For me it all started when I choose to become plant based. I swear once I started down this path everything changed. My eyes were opened, like the Matrix. I have chenged my life every 20 years and it’s always been for the better. Remember to always trust your gut! I look forward to seeing your life unfold and get better for you and your children. Love you lil Sis. Peace and blessing for you and the children.
Peace and blessings to you too Goddess. Thank you so much 🥹 I love hearing stories like yours because it’s so true how one decision can make the most profound impacts on our lives! Thank you for being here 💚💚💚
Your words really resonate with me and are so eye-opening. You inspire me to embrace my season of isolation and to do the work. There is so much gold in here, that I have to relisten to this and take notes because I don't want to forget this.
Yesss! I love to hear that you are getting inspired. And that fact that you are like I need to take notes!!! 🥹 I am so grateful, thank you so much 💚💚💚💚
I’m a 34 year old woman struggling with the decision to have children or not. Some days I see friends and family with their children and wonder if it’s the right decision for me. Some times I sit and realize I love my peace and quiet and enjoy my child free life. A lot of the time I feel very lonely and confused and life my biological clock is ticking . This video really comforted my mind. You feel like a friend and I’m so thankful I came across your channel. ❤💚
If you're not in a healthy marriage don't have kids. Single motherhood is not a flex
@@yolandalcheek462 I am in a very healthy marriage 10 years together. We’re both extremely torn on having kids
@@daisygirrl1234 I don’t think ANYTHING is wrong with deciding NOT to have children EVEN if you are in a healthy relationship/marriage. I am the same age as you, 34… raising 3 children and parents are not able to safely discuss the downsides of parenthood without being shamed and society making them out to be a bad parent, ESPECIALLY MOTHERS! You and your husband are absolutely justified in being torn on if children are something you really want or not… because having children is like any other relationship- there will not always be good days, happy seasons and pleasant triggers! PLUS it’s a big responsibility, YOU WILL BE responsible and will HAVE to make sacrifices in order to parent well. You WILL also make mistakes because there is NO parenting bible DESPITE all the parenting books in the world 😂 NO ONE does it right each and every time. When you see your friends, know that you are only seeing one side of the coin and there is nothing wrong with enjoying your peace and quiet from a child free life. I really desire to talk about this in detail but I start thinking about what would people say and talk myself out of it but you may have just given me that push I needed. Just know if the two of you decide to have a child free life together that it is ok and if you decide to procreate, let it be your decision and not society’s normalized pressures convincing you too do so. Let it be because it’s what you want. And be careful, don’t glamorize parent either. YOU have a gift of being able to make this decision with maturity, wisdom and awareness so let the decision be yours! P.S. don’t focus on no biological clock either, women defy the “odds” every day! Just stay healthy and manage your womb wellness just in case be it 5 or 10 years from now you’re ready to commit to parenthood 💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ I have tears in my eyes reading this. I feel so heard and understood by you. You have honestly put SOOOOO much peace and content and realization in my heart and in my mind. You really just put so much into perspective for me to think about and opened my eyes. I am so grateful. God definitely made me stumble upon your channel for a reason. You are so wonderful! Please do follow your heart and talk about it in detail because I promise there are so many women SOOOOOO many women who are struggling like I am, and even women who already have children who probably feel extremely guilty or alone for feeling a certain way, and not being able to talk about it. Please know you have helped a woman so much today. 🩷
@@yolandalcheek462she did good ignoring your rude ssa comment!!! Nobody said it’s a flex but it is what it is!!! Life is NOT perfect and neither are ppl and it NEVER will be!!! Anybody can end up a single mother… ANYBODY!!! Even those with seemingly perfect marriages… So keeping your head up and pushing forward in the face of judge Judie’s like you absolutely IS a flex!!!
Loving the content thus far💚💚💚. You along with Ri Turner are by far my faves on YT. Keep it going, you got this!!! Your solitude season is very inspiring!
Oh my goodness, now that is a top tier comparison/compliment! I love her content too!! Thank you so much 💚💚💚 I will certainly keep it coming!
🦋 Golden advice sis. Please write all this down (your entire series) and publish it. I was on this journey a while ago (the journey to self). It's a rebirth and real discovery of self, God and purpose. Once you're busy with yourself and no longer feel lonely while alone, then you're in the next phase, purpose. So many will benefit from your reflections and experience so documenting it in writing would be great. Your children, grandchildren our children will benefit from what you're going through now for decades to come inshallah (God willing) 💐
I love how you worded that, “you’re in the next phase, purpose! Thank you for sharing that with me. And books will be in the future for sure 💚 it means a lot to me too the things you just said so thank you so very much!!!
I went through this for a whole year. I had to stop running from the feeling and figure out why I was feeling like that. What triggered it. And allow the feeling to come out acknowledge what was going on. Then I started Reiki that helped sooooo much along with me working on me. I total get you.
When we stop running from it burying our emotions and actions deal with them, give them the space to be and serve their purpose it’s so much easier to then let it go! I’ve always been curious about reiki too, might have to look into that one day. Thanks for being here 💚
You have no idea how much I needed this. Thank you ❤️
Aww 🥰 you’re welcome 💚
This was a must video for me to see. I love it. I'm 56 years old and going through this right now. I have never been along, but I see myself being along now. I think God has put me in this position to get to know me better and figure out my life. I so feel you in this video. I work plus work my business, so I have to interact with my business, but I do have to put in the work with being along to grow and do the shadow work on myself. To be the beautiful creative person that I am. I do journal I have cried. I have even started taking sound bowl classes and about to get into yoga. Again thank you
You are so very welcome 💚💚💚💚
Stay positive, stay out in nature. Found some grass, water and do some grounding. Release all that no longer serves you. Thank you for sharing.
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I haven’t been out in nature lately either 😖 thanks for the reminder 💚
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I love this for you. Definitely Goals🙏🏾. Love the intro too. Keep rising above. This was such a beautiful video.
Thank you so much and you are so welcome Goddess 💚💚💚
Real spill…great quote you composed. And continued strength on your endeavors of being your highest self!!! ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
You as well! 💚
Girl this is what i needed soooo badly! thank you so much ! you are GOD sent! much love ❤
You’re welcome 💚 Glad it was helpful!
I wish I had your your intelligence,your thinking when i was your age I could have saved myself a lot of heartache .What I was doing i knew was wrong,but I did not release that . I was not taking my self into the Lords teachings either if I had I would have been free back then ! Things are 100% better now I gave up the old self. I had to throw all my anxieties & issues upon him, because he cares about you” (1 Peter 5:7). This is one of the most inspirational Bible verses when your path of life feels lonely. Anxiety often accompanies loneliness for several reasons. This verse reminds us that God's love and care for us never take a vacation. You have so many talents ,not only your fashion sense ,but you can be an inspirational speaker to other young people ! Even listening to you speak now gives me food for thought on some other goals I want to change ! People need to hear you .Maybe speaking at a school or starting a group,or at a church ! If I only heard you when I was younger I could have saved my heart from breaking & I know there are others out there that have the same issues,but need to hear it from someone that has changed & how they to can change as well ! have a lovely day !
Aww Judy thank you so much! Truthfully, I appreciate you and everything you said soooo much! It’s confirmation of m own desires, you just don’t know. 🥹 Thank you 💚
I loovveddd this video. This is what I been working on the last two years. Always a work in progress. ❤❤
Thank you so much 🥹💚 Yes you are absolutely correct, always a work in progress!
Gurl I just stumbled across your videos just scrolling on u tube sun. 4-15 & l love everything you’re doing for yourself & those babies & u speak so well when talking about your life keep moving forward & may god continue to bless you & your babies ❤❤
Aww 🥹 Thank you so much 💚💚💚 I will!
Enjoyed the Solitude with you.... Loved the View around you,Enjoy yourself as you move forward on your journey
Thank you and you’re welcome too! 💚
Greetings Goddess great video this video is very helpful, this has been a long journey Keep going love these videos they all resonate with me Peace and Blessings 🖤 🔥
Peace and blessings Goddess, thank you so much! I appreciate you so much for always being here. Thank you 💚 I’m grateful you are enjoying the content
Thx God for another second chance...
Continue to do more videos like this it was soooo refreshing & relaxing.
I’m so glad you feel that way about it, thank you 💚💚💚💚💚
Motivational ❤ Now where's your Book (Audiobooks) and Seminars!!!??? GO GET IT!!!😊
🥹 Thank you! I’m going after all of that FOR SURE! 💚💚💚
I stumbled across your page at the perfect time in my life because I am going through it!!! Much love ❤❤❤
Awww 🥺 Well in that case I am very grateful you found me and I was able to help you in anyway. Thank you and much love to you too 💚
Loved this ❤❤❤
I’m so grateful 💚
You’re an amazing beautiful person and just love how you speak about GOD. I’m glad you’re posting your journey because it is helping so many people! GOD BLESS❤
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Wise words. Keep going, you are so worth it ❤
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This was powerful. This is my life also my journey. Thank you ❤
You are so welcomed 💚💚💚💚 Thank You
Ahhhhh! This was so good🙌🏾
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I needed to hear this!!❤
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Beautiful video my dear, subscribed for almost a month now, love your content and the strong woman you are, and thank you for promoting inspiration to ALL women on ALL levels - stay blessed! 🥰
Awww, thank you so much and you are very welcome 💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ You are welcome, I have shared your channel with others as well, so happy you are on this platform, take care
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Great day er body...replay
Thanks!
@@kentoler8763 KEN! OMG 🥹 Thank you so much 💚💚💚 You are too kind!!!
@_EvolvingIntoHER_ This is therapy and entertainment you provide to help the evolution, the meaning of life .
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Love your intro song ❤
Aww thank you, it’s not my song though it’s by Madison Ryann Ward called Higher 💚
Beautiful ❤
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Good info!
Glad you think so! 💚💚💚
I love your Solo Diaries💖 Have you ever thought about making this into a podcast?
Oohhhh no I have not thought about that but that would be so cool! Thank you for the idea 💚 I appreciate you soooo much 💚💚💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ you’re welcome. You have the voice for it, if…no WHEN you start one, I’ll support.
Love this! 💚
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I know exactly what you mean. I was like this until I finally submitted to Jesus. He has transformed my life. If I continued to try to control my life and give into the lusts of my heart I don't know where I'd be today. Once I believed Him and his Word, he did clean out my friend list, he removed my desire to smoke, fornicate and gave me purpose. Yes sister, finding the truth is a better way than how we were raised to think. Loved your sharing. Thank you.
Thank you 💚 I appreciate you sharing your experience with me!
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I knooooooowwwww! I am so grateful! I appreciate you! Thank you 💚
Roman's 7:14 - 25, and especially Roman's 8 :1 !!!, ❤❤❤, and verse 2.
Thank you for sharing that with me 💚
Hi - What's the name of the song (and artist) that you played in the beginning of your video?
Madison Ryann Ward "Higher"
Yes that’s the name of the song!!! Thank you Quaysha 💚💚💚
Sometimes, I use RUclips video's so I don't feel so lonely seems a little toxic
Awww 🥹 Well there could be worse things, so I think you’re doing alright! 💚
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