Asking My Mom About My Love Life | Buhle Lupindo

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  • @ZeeXOnline
    @ZeeXOnline 2 года назад +229

    Buhle I - 🥺🥺 this was so precious! The part about abazalwane and your mom praying for you? Tears sana. Nothing beats a mothers love sana 🫶🏾

  • @ZolaJoka
    @ZolaJoka 2 года назад +238

    yoh your mom is literally the best person ever. so open minded and so supportive. she loves you soooo much and she will always be there for you no matter what ❤ you are so blessed sana

  • @naturalmom1375
    @naturalmom1375 2 года назад +373

    Guys can I say this… I PRAY THAT WE HAVE LEARNT A FEW THINGS FROM BUHLE’S MOM. Every mother should come watch this, hayi sesi Brenda you are an amazing mom

  • @fumanemokhomo4497
    @fumanemokhomo4497 2 года назад +61

    A mom who comforts you through a break up? I love it!!!

  • @tshepangbaikgaki9476
    @tshepangbaikgaki9476 Год назад +3

    Hei Buhle babes, I came back to this sit down with your mom...Gurl u are blessed.

  • @elihlepumane6415
    @elihlepumane6415 2 года назад +231

    LOL your Mom has a lot of “stories for another day.” We definitely need to have her back on the channel. 😂❤️

  • @tamarabethwana2622
    @tamarabethwana2622 2 года назад +34

    I wish my mom was this conscious about mental health. She committed suicide in 2010 and I miss her all the time. You guys have a beautiful relationship & we thank God for your life Buhle. You are fighting depression head on. The sun will shine again. Sis Brenda, you were heartwarming to watch, thank you for coming to jhb to take care of usana lwakho. Thank you for your views ❤️

    • @rare_aliment2
      @rare_aliment2 2 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry Tamara sending you the tightest virtual hug

  • @ncumisaliwela
    @ncumisaliwela 2 года назад +36

    Your mom is sooo cool Buhle, love the relationship you guys have 💚🥺Please ndicela uyenza photocopy of Mama B, every girl child deserves a Mama B in their lives❤️

  • @mbandazayoyolisa5849
    @mbandazayoyolisa5849 2 года назад +3

    I love your mom so much. I wish she was my mom. Buhle ndicela ubayi sister yakho I love y’all so much.

  • @Somangaye
    @Somangaye 2 года назад +101

    Your mom literally adores you, that “awusemhle marn” she gave you at the beginning 🥺🥺

  • @zenandem
    @zenandem 2 года назад +89

    Buhle sisi you're beyond blessed to have the mother you have. Walking around knowing that you're covered by your moms prayers is such a flex!!!

  • @hendrietankadimeng522
    @hendrietankadimeng522 2 года назад +146

    I enjoyed this conversation with Umama. You are blessed Buhle to have such an progressive, understanding and supportive mother. I'm so happy to see you laughing and all. And it's great to hear umama saying you are doing so better than you were. We can't as #ChozzaBozzas be there physically to carry you but it warms my heart that support is something you aren't short of. All the best in your studies as well. Love and light Hlehle ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @nelisilewriteous6068
    @nelisilewriteous6068 2 года назад +24

    I wouldn't have chosen a better mom for Buhle. She's amazing. When she said "I love her and I'm proud of her" I shed a tear cuz that's what every child needs to hear. You're so loved Buhle. Mama B, you are amazing. Uthixo akukhusele amaxesha onke❤

  • @mahlatsemasha2308
    @mahlatsemasha2308 2 года назад +31

    Pls I love her so much🥺
    She mentioned so many times that she is a child of God but I love the fact that she doesn’t impose her beliefs on Buhle. All she does is pray and allows her to express herself🥺❤️love that!

  • @mphoseshibe
    @mphoseshibe 2 года назад +67

    Your mum is so right when she said “it’s easier for a woman to submit when she is loved” and treated well💁🏽‍♀️❤️your mother is so smart Yooh😭😭we want more of her on this channel

  • @SerameAndBeyond
    @SerameAndBeyond 2 года назад +85

    You're blessed to have your mommy, a prayerful faith-filled woman. She reminds me so much of my mom, cant imagine how my life would have turned out if not her teachings and prayers. May the Holy Spirit continue to comfort you Buhle throughout this healing journey, may you receive your divine healing in Jesus Name 🙏🏾❤

  • @nozizwempungose7283
    @nozizwempungose7283 2 года назад +3

    Scela umama a host'e i Mother's Conference afundise abanye omama ukuba open minded😭❤️. I love how she's your mother and your friend as well, a thing most of us wish we had.

  • @khayoctober879
    @khayoctober879 2 года назад +4

    “It’s a lot of money chozas” 😭🤣❤️

  • @thandonkosi2941
    @thandonkosi2941 2 года назад +2

    Oh my word, Sis Brenda is a darling❤️. Ngim'thanda ngingamazi😍.
    Strongs to Buhle✨.

  • @oratilemashishi1164
    @oratilemashishi1164 2 года назад +112

    It's so good to see and hear that you're in a better space and you've got an understanding and loving support structure. I genuinely love this for you.🥺
    You carry and are capable of more than you're aware of. We're rooting for you mamas. Here's to growth & more blessings. 🥂♥️

  • @sangekanyisamadolo4072
    @sangekanyisamadolo4072 2 года назад +2

    I love the child of God so much 💗 Momza is really cool ni bleesed nyani

  • @mmaronamatshe5226
    @mmaronamatshe5226 2 года назад +3

    your mom sjoe🥺🥺🥺 'don't own it. you are suffering. you are not it.' that's such a beautiful thing

  • @zotandomtsana3994
    @zotandomtsana3994 2 года назад +2

    Ngu Mama we country klk silulutsha we claiming you. When you done ngo Buhle edolweni...uwe ngathi mzali sayidinga lomithandazo sizixakile okwethu......

  • @mphoentle_n
    @mphoentle_n 2 года назад +41

    I love how your mom relates everything back to the word of God ❤️❤️

  • @tema_swatii
    @tema_swatii 2 года назад +9

    😢 Not me sharing a tear. I love the relationship you have with your mom. I'm a last born at home, and my older sister suffers from bipolar, it's been a roller-coaster. Parents don't get it, they don't understand that mental health is becoming a huge set back in our lives, in most cases parents think when one acts out of character it's all because of boys.. Mama B, may God continue to bless you, enlarge your borders and protect you and your children. And B sweetheart, I wish I can give you a hug because I do understand imeko okuyo, but remember God has already fought the giant ahead of you. I love you and take care ❤️🤍💐

  • @dinimdingi5070
    @dinimdingi5070 2 года назад +5

    " Masingayi ngeni " and that's on purr!!! I love your Mom 🥺❤

  • @kholekilemotloi
    @kholekilemotloi 2 года назад +5

    Your mom is lovely and you can tell she loves you so much!

  • @LadyLebza
    @LadyLebza 2 года назад +24

    Buhle is her mother’s child through and through 🥺💕 the friendship and daughter/parent relationship is beautiful to watch

  • @mathebek659
    @mathebek659 2 года назад +6

    Mama is a vibe.....I wish my mom was still alive for this kind of relationship

  • @kagisongema9473
    @kagisongema9473 2 года назад +58

    loved when Mama B said “i’m a child of God so i’m privileged”❤️
    i really enjoyed this video😂❤️

  • @thandovee6544
    @thandovee6544 2 года назад +1

    “Let’s not even go there” 🤌🏾💪🏾😭🤧🥹 A SOLID QUEEN QUEEN!! I lover her so much. God bless her heart. ❤️

  • @GraciousGraced
    @GraciousGraced 2 года назад +27

    Buhle you're blessed to have your mom.i love the fact that Jesus is at the center of her everything.i Pray you find your peace,joy, happiness in Christ.

  • @WithHopeAndLove
    @WithHopeAndLove 2 года назад +1

    As much this life thing silwa nayo everyday what I know for sure is when you in a good or a bad space you will remember this part of journey and always smile. 😍❤️✨

  • @maipelon
    @maipelon 2 года назад +65

    The fact that your mom says you’re too relaxed and you say she’s a hothead, I would’ve never thought 😂😂😂
    She’s such a lovely woman ❤️❤️ mother of the Choza bozzas! 😂😂

  • @sinayemvumbi8520
    @sinayemvumbi8520 2 года назад +60

    I am also starting over. After always living with people when I came to CPT, I am moving on my own for the first time and I am 29 this year. I am completely broken but I am also looking forward to this chapter.
    So I relate so much. Thank you for being so relateble 💙

  • @mpumemhlongo3728
    @mpumemhlongo3728 2 года назад +5

    One thing about your mom🤣🤣🤣 She is a child of God!!!🥹🥹🥹 So beautiful man, sanithandi🫶🫶

  • @leepilemantjane8391
    @leepilemantjane8391 2 года назад +8

    One thing about a mother's prayers? They will carry you. Mam B is my favorite, for how firm she is with her Spirituality and just how open minded she is about it. We need her back 💚
    It's great to have you back in these streets Buhle, you are doing well💚💚💚

  • @zintlemofficial
    @zintlemofficial 2 года назад +43

    Mom is smart yoh. She noticed everything but kept quiet 😂😂

    • @mphoseshibe
      @mphoseshibe 2 года назад +1

      Literally EVERYTHING 🤣🤣❤️

  • @perfectmsira
    @perfectmsira 2 года назад +3

    It's your mom being born again for me! Love that for you guys! Uthi ndzoyibetha nge Tongues mna! Qondba ya nanku umntana ka God!

  • @glorymanyike1835
    @glorymanyike1835 2 года назад +9

    “Kanti behind the scenes, ndi busy nge tongues”🤣🤣uMama B is definitely like my mom! She’ll pray about everything and anything.
    Part 2 please!🥹

  • @Sindi-j1h
    @Sindi-j1h 2 года назад +2

    ohh man i just love your mom jonga Buhle you have the best mom in the whole wide world...i love you guys❤❤❤

  • @elihlepumane6415
    @elihlepumane6415 2 года назад +27

    Moms are all the same. 😂😂😂 that story about your mom shouting vs the calmer version of her is so relatable. 😭😭😂😂😂😂😭❤️

  • @dinewithladyd8793
    @dinewithladyd8793 2 года назад +2

    Maka Buhle❤️ eneneni isikhungo selungisa sinamadla futhi siyeyisa🙌
    Buhle you are blessed to have a mother who prays sweets 😍

  • @lwethuplussize
    @lwethuplussize 2 года назад +20

    I feel like our moms need to come and watch this. Maka Buhle really shares so much and she is so aware of her children. Ahhh man🥺🥺 I’m so glad Buhle is in a better space. Semhle ntombi❤️

  • @mamoisemabuza436
    @mamoisemabuza436 2 года назад +64

    Your mom was intentional about having children and it shows. They way she said “I’m going to leave work and be with my child sinwabe“ sounds small but it’s really not. This is heartwarming. 🤍

  • @ialutakes
    @ialutakes 2 года назад +2

    Thoroughly enjoyed this episode Buhle. Samthandi uMama B 🥺

  • @sabamasaya2064
    @sabamasaya2064 2 года назад +14

    My heart when I saw this notification?
    Si happy as Choza Bozzas 🥺❤️
    uMama and Buhle look beautiful.

  • @lehlabiled7097
    @lehlabiled7097 2 года назад +2

    The comment section has said a mouthful about your mom. You are beyond blessed to have this woman in your life, Buhle. She is phenomenal and I was so encouraged by her 🥹🙏🏾❤️

  • @mpholehobo6417
    @mpholehobo6417 2 года назад +1

    I really liked this video. I like your mom's warm spirit and support. I like how effortless your love seems

  • @asmakhalifa5325
    @asmakhalifa5325 2 года назад +3

    "and it bores me" 😂😂😂 love her so much

  • @nkosiyenzilelukhele7302
    @nkosiyenzilelukhele7302 2 года назад +10

    Love that mom is honest about how she feels but respects you❤️

  • @relebohiletsomela9354
    @relebohiletsomela9354 2 года назад +16

    Mama came prepared 😂. Love her !

  • @guchiisam
    @guchiisam 2 года назад +21

    This was an absolutely beautiful video. You’re mum reminds me of my late mum who was also my best friend that I lost to cancer. A Christian warrior always praying for myself and my little brothers. Love love to see mother and daughter sit downs like these. Stay blessed zithandwa 🙏🏼🧡

  • @kitapanell4973
    @kitapanell4973 2 года назад +5

    Umhle uMama, Buhle you are blessed 🥺❤️

  • @boitumelomphogo9921
    @boitumelomphogo9921 2 года назад +2

    Really love mom,she remains your greatest blessings 🥹❤️

  • @thabisalubambo9893
    @thabisalubambo9893 2 года назад +3

    Wish my mom was still here 😭😭😭😭 I believe she would have been nje ngoMam Brenda, Buhle you're very privileged and blessed to have this beautiful, courageous, independent,warm and blessed mother. I love you choozas 🥰❤️✨

  • @zanelengema7354
    @zanelengema7354 2 года назад +2

    Like the support your mom has and so open minded

  • @liviwe
    @liviwe 2 года назад +9

    Love your mom Man! She reminds me so much of my mom (she passed in 2018). In any situation she would say 'hayi, mntanam ndizothetha noThixo, sizobona'
    I'm so happy you're blessed to have your mom through this period of your life. Can't wait to see you grow to become a powerhouse in all you set your heart at. Awukho wedwa Buhle, silapho nawe 🥰❤❤❤❤❤

  • @malebelomaphutha6566
    @malebelomaphutha6566 2 года назад +1

    It's healing to see that there's still a mother out there in this world.

  • @kwanelechilixo
    @kwanelechilixo 2 года назад +7

    Hi Buhle, I love your mom and thank you for being strong, you not only doing it for yourself, I can promise you that you lifting your head up every morning, gives strength to others unknowingly. God keep you and heal you! You matter and are so loved. Keep on being creative! This video honestly speaks to the hearts of many! What a privilege you have, for a mom like yours. God bless you!

  • @yonelajafta547
    @yonelajafta547 2 года назад +2

    God bless Buhles's. Imithandazo yakho iyabonakala mama

  • @chantelm186
    @chantelm186 2 года назад +21

    That buhle's facial expression when mommy answering the questions...gem

  • @simphiwemili548
    @simphiwemili548 2 года назад +1

    Buhle, your mom is amazing! uThixo amgcine nawe akugcine sisi.

  • @okuhledinga6011
    @okuhledinga6011 2 года назад +4

    Mama coming with the files 🤣. Love the video bethuna. Xhosa moms are the best.
    Also starting over is not easy. But once you get used to your own space, it will be difficult to share it with other people.

  • @sinovuyomondliwa
    @sinovuyomondliwa 2 года назад +1

    Love you Buhle. oh but your mom! ndiyam loooover. Love her. Hugs

  • @Siithembs
    @Siithembs 2 года назад +6

    *_THE GRAPETIZER STORY IS A HIT and a CLASSIC WHEN IT COMES TO XHOSA MOMS!_* YHUUUUU SOZE BASIYEKHE SANA NGOMSINDO. Sibathanda njalo njeee futhi. Ohh oMama bethu. Bawo!

  • @lebogangjengece7658
    @lebogangjengece7658 2 года назад +1

    Oh Thixo wam . Mam Brenda i adore you. Thank you for all that you do for Buhle. Choza i love you. This video is so soothing. God bless you

  • @zolisekamaliti3111
    @zolisekamaliti3111 2 года назад +3

    Yhuuu I don't care yall say but me I'm for mama Bee.... Yho ndiyamthanda umamakho Buhle... Yey I forgot about the importance of prayer until mama Bee emphasized uhlala edolweni... You gave me and partner hope simply because we going through depression but after this episode sazi hleka uba we are not going to own this illness in Jesus name ayisoze Sana siynike endawo yohlala kuthi... ENKOSI mama Bee we appreciate you

  • @LoveandLessons_Cambles
    @LoveandLessons_Cambles 2 года назад +1

    Mama is very present! I love it, she relates to you and I believe tried to unlearn things that most black parents can traditionally accepted.

  • @tshidi9884
    @tshidi9884 2 года назад +16

    Your mom is such a blessing😍❤ She definitely needs to come back❤❤❤❤❤

  • @missngallery5079
    @missngallery5079 2 года назад +1

    Can we have more of umama please, can she come visit more often shes such a wise woman, she reminds me of my mom nge scriptures I'm definitely sure bakhonza kunye kwela Bhayi. LOL

  • @itumisengmampe1857
    @itumisengmampe1857 2 года назад +7

    You so beautiful and your mom is one honest and greatest woman ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sindisiweyonga1842
    @sindisiweyonga1842 2 года назад +2

    owww Mam'Brr i love you Mzali. Youre doing so well buhle, always so beautiful mntasekhaya

  • @busisiwebooi1455
    @busisiwebooi1455 2 года назад +3

    Me saying amen after every sentence mom says 🥺🙏❤️ siphila ngemithandazo yabazali bethu !

  • @AL___S
    @AL___S 2 года назад +2

    Hayini bethuna usweet umama ka Buhle, ndiyamthanda she is so observant and akananto enintsi sana. Unice qhaa

  • @leratonkosi7676
    @leratonkosi7676 2 года назад +5

    thank you for sharing your mom with us Choza Bozza, she's such a wonderful and strong woman. and you guys are practically twins. please bring her on more often.

  • @aviwezintle1526
    @aviwezintle1526 2 года назад +1

    Mamakho Buhle ndimqhelile mntase I don't know from where but suke yangathi andiqali umbona
    I love her tjoooh she's for Keeps💕💕💕

  • @unathinxonxociliwemema4383
    @unathinxonxociliwemema4383 2 года назад +26

    Ahhh Buhle, you’re blessed with such an amazing mother. Love this relationship and I wish that upon everyone watching this. My relationship with my mom is exactly like this.
    To Your mom: thank you for your prayers upon her life, the support and everything..and I hope you stay smiling reading these comments ❤️❤️

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 года назад +3

      I love their bond together too it's like they are sisters ❣️❣️❣️

  • @tumymusa9483
    @tumymusa9483 2 года назад +1

    Just the way she looks at you😍😍😍 You see how much she loves and adores you. This video made me smile throughout. And I love her voice.🤩

  • @zintlesotyatho5052
    @zintlesotyatho5052 2 года назад +5

    I love your mom so much, she is literally a mother.I also love her praying spirit. Your relationship with her looks very beautiful.

  • @asiphe_mdingi
    @asiphe_mdingi 2 года назад +2

    Love love love uMAMA haiboooooo!!!!!!!!!! She deserves her own channel... What a mother.

  • @vatiembangi3968
    @vatiembangi3968 2 года назад +5

    You are blessed and privileged mom because you are a God fearing woman... Love you Buhle ❤️

  • @somikaziqhole9941
    @somikaziqhole9941 2 года назад +1

    Yhooo I love umaka Buhle especially pha ekugqibeleni bayadika abantu who comment on other people's bodies yhoo. Please bring her back choza. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @masibulelemkhundlu1836
    @masibulelemkhundlu1836 2 года назад +4

    Never watched a video up until to the end, there’s something about your relationship. What a beautiful duo, 🥺🥺❤️❤️

  • @cocosidzamba440
    @cocosidzamba440 2 года назад +1

    Omw Cuzie I am having goose bumps😍Mama is so open-minded. I love the relationship you have with her ❤️ and Gugu is her replica sana ❤️

  • @siyamtandavuyelwa8884
    @siyamtandavuyelwa8884 2 года назад +10

    I honestly love how your mom is so open and loving. You're blessed Buhle. Your mother is great. I love this for you. I really love, love this kakhulu.

  • @siyandamagudulela4044
    @siyandamagudulela4044 2 года назад +1

    Loved Mama B!
    Part 2 please!
    Your relationship is goals!

  • @kgalalelolediga
    @kgalalelolediga 2 года назад +22

    I’m motivated to respond because your mom reads the comments.
    Your mom is amazing. I love how she’s bold about her salvation but doesn’t shove it down your throat. I like her praying approach to the challenges you’re facing. Keep going Hlehle, people are routing for you! 💕
    A part 2 with your mom would definitely be awesome!

  • @lithembantlantsana9488
    @lithembantlantsana9488 2 года назад +2

    Awww Buhle🥺. Mama is such a lovely woman man. Ndinithanda nobabini sana❤️

  • @sisanda_
    @sisanda_ 2 года назад +4

    Yhuu Buhle sana...Your mom is so wonderful, and she's the Vibe! ♥️💯
    May the good Lord keep, and Bless her.
    -would love to see her more on the videos.
    Love you Queen 👑 🌼

  • @ZamahlubiHlomendlini
    @ZamahlubiHlomendlini 2 года назад +1

    I love your mom mntase, ngase nowam abe clued up on depression and anxiety like her phi ke 😏.... You are blessed to have such a mother ❣️

  • @londiwemabona
    @londiwemabona 2 года назад +3

    You have such an amazing mom whose supportive, open minded and prayerful. You are blessed babes

  • @olonamnguni
    @olonamnguni 2 года назад +1

    Got so emotional watching this, usikelelwe ntombi ngoMama wakho. I think I cried when she spoke about praying for you and you not owning that mental health issue. Beautiful video, Love and light sis ❤🥺

  • @leratokgwete1173
    @leratokgwete1173 2 года назад +3

    I teared up watching this. Your relationship with your mom is so beautiful! I absolutely loved her answer about privilege ❤️
    May you continue to be blessed 🥲

  • @nyeletishingange3795
    @nyeletishingange3795 2 года назад +1

    Love the relationship you have with your mom. her support. found myself shedding some tears when she spoke😭

  • @oratilemashishi1164
    @oratilemashishi1164 2 года назад +19

    Also, I absolutely loved this video. Please take more sit-down videos with your mother before she leaves? Love her energy.🥺♥️

  • @phumeza_m
    @phumeza_m 2 года назад +2

    Sabaweli to have an understanding mom like Mam Bre🥺. Kuthiwa ungay’fisi into kamakhelwane wakho but this is beautiful. Most parents struggle with understanding oDepression and anxiety

  • @xoladani6300
    @xoladani6300 2 года назад +3

    “Holy Spirit pls comfort her” oww maan she’s the best mother!

  • @nthabisengmelato1873
    @nthabisengmelato1873 2 года назад +2

    This was a beautiful episode Hlehle🥺🥹❤️
    Samthandii uMamaBee😍😍please come back for another video🥹
    The power of a praying woman 😍🤌🏾🔥❤️

  • @OnEarthasitisinHeaven610
    @OnEarthasitisinHeaven610 2 года назад +6

    Yho when Buhle’s mom speaks you can tell she is full of the Holy Spirit! A woman of prayer! Buhle God has called you for a special purpose in the Body of Christ❤️