When I’m in my survival state I only think about personal gain. I street performed in vegas as a showgirl and would hustle men to their last dollar. So this is true. 🤷🏽♀️
I just heard about the ruling about not allowing the Afghani women to speak in public or be seen through windows. Nothing good can come from isolating women and telling men that they can’t control themselves. That is a powder keg.
I grew up in America but in a very conservative immigrant Nicaraguan household. For some context, Nicaragua is in the top ten for highest rates of grape in the world. I swear to you, growing up I also didn't understand why American women and girls loved men so much.
This is why I'm not mad at Shera Seven (Aside from her issues with Black natural hair). Some people have said she's contributing to the gender war, but she's just telling women how to not be dragged under by a man.
That's literally the main point of her content. Helping women understand our value & teaching women to put ourselves & our needs 1st when interacting with men AND exactly how to do it. They hate it & I love that for them.
The rnen (and pick me’s) HATE it when women start treating them the way they’ve always treated us and so they think they can shame us back into being compliant, submissive, kind and caring towards rnen if they accuse us of “contributing to the gender war” - even though only rnen can do this. Only the oppressors can start a gender war, and only the ones who start a gender war can “contribute” to a gender war, because if the oppressors wanted to end it then they would’ve looked inwards into how and why they started it and work on their shïtty personality instead of always respirating to blaming the victim, like a typical rnale.
@@BehindTheBush96seeing men as oppressors is the problem. If you're in a culture that's normalized casual sex, no need to develop one's own character, no nourishing relationship then what should we expect? History repeats itself. This has all happened before and some of the progress e.g. segghsual revolution, has helped lead us to see that we have not progressed but, in fact, regressed as a society.
One aspect of this is so key, and it's to ensure to keep exposing the ~uwu, I'm just an innocent baby~ HW*TE m *n who obfuscate about "their natures" versus others in order to source women from varied places in the world. Remember they are the prototype of c *vrt ab se + settler c *lni lism and I promise society will revolutionize itself.
We’ve long gotten beaten into the ground by mayles, so it’s only logical that we stop being loving, kind, and nurturing. I was the sweetest girl, but after dealing with mayles for decades and being punished for my kindness, I’ve turned into the narcs who’ve abewsed me. I’m incapable of love now; I feel nothing inside. I can’t even look at a guy without wondering what’s wrong with him and who he’s doing wrong right now. I’d only ever date for money, if I ever even bother to date again, and I will never let myself care for any mayle ever again. I’d only ever get married again if the mayle was rich and signed over half of his fortune to me prior to marriage. Otherwise, no deal.
Same. I used to be a sweetheart. Now, I reserve that for women & children ONLY! I have 0 interest in dating men. If they wanna be in my face they can pay me. Idgaf how they feel about it either. They can step up to these bills or step tf out my face! And they get 0 commitment either way!
Im still a kind person, but my kindness is for children, women and men who offer tangible help in that order. Yes, its amazing, i too look at the men with roving eyes and wonder which woman he is hurting.
lol what kind of channel am i on rn 😂 how did i get here. you sound like a mean person making excuses for why you behave that way. you attract everything in life through your own attitudes and behaviors. it’s not hard to get a loving and good man or woman as a partner. if you can’t do that it’s something within YOU that must be addressed. there’s a saying if everywhere you go smells like 💩, check your shoes!
My baba (Russian grandma) also finally told me that rnen ain’t shit, at the age of about 24/25. I’d already noticed from the age of 5 (maybe even younger) that my grandfather contributed notifying to the household (no, not even finances - he was lazy and refused to work, so she did EVERYTHING, from being the SOLE breadwinner to raising all her kids), and I could already see how unhappy life for women in relationships with rnen were. For the first time ever, when I was around my mid 20s, she asked me “do you have a boyfriend?” And when I said no, she replied with “good. Stay away from rnen.” Little did she know, I was already at that stage and had already formed a pretty strong opinion of how little they had to offer women 🙃
I also noticed that women in oppressive societies hate other women, even their own daughters and cling on to their sons. I Am from an East African region where women are under strict tribal patriarchal mixed with religion ruling systems (basically men in the tribe make social/legislative rules/laws for everyone) and my own mother hated her daughters and doted on my brothers and it was same with her mother.💁🏽♀️
It's because the baby son was the only male she had a bit of control over for a temporary period of time. So the mother gets overly attached to that social proof of social human value, which was birthing a son, but then the son grows up weird and enmeshed.
@@redsunflower8999 They learned that they can be all punished if the other women "misbehave". Because what a woman does "wrong" in a Patriarchy, means men will behave bad against all women so they don't have the same freedom to do what the other one did. It's also about envy of having the audacity to be more free than she who "banishes" the other one of same gender. Because she is opressed and the other one isn't and she feels like isn't fair, so she's the first one to opress her sister. Think as if you were working in a place where you do the same work as your colleage and they are paid more than you. What if you even do more work? It's unfair, but they don't take revenge on "the boss", wich is the Patriarchy group of men that stablished the unfair rules for them. They take revenge on other women, it's all they think they can do, they are too afraid to be "unemployed".
I always looked fown on Dating. I consider romantic relationships as the result of brainwash and a Symptom of a decaying society where people get more and more isolated but still need a Form of company. I think it's superiour to be Single with a few good friends and a deep connection to the community lives in. Humans are Group animals, not a couple sitting in Isolation staring at a screen animals.
That makes sense. Nothing creates narcissism quite like abuse. I have to remind myself sometimes that I live in Scandinavia. The thing is, I suffer with all women. It’s personal. Edit: wow. I just finished watching. I literally said/wrote this not too long ago: “This is going to backfire in the most glorious of ways-mark my words”. We’re manifesting it! 💪 Yeeeeee!
My parents set me up for failure growing up. They said I needed a high paying career so that I can pay half of bills with the man who I marry and also save my virginity only for him plus do all the house work. Can’t believe my parents devalued me like that
@@thekelderhouse in our culture. Trying to please and keeping a man is everything. My mom would always scare me and say “no one will marry you if you do XYZ” .
@@Pinkpearls555 - I just checked your RUclips channel. I was already a subscriber! All I can say is - Look at you go!! You know what, I'm going to go watch all of your videos. I'm going to like every single one of them. And I hope your channel grows to the point that you make so much money that you never again have to even think about being with another solitary person in this world unless you truly WANT to be. As for your culture, it seems to be like that in every single culture that I've encountered - some more low key than others, but it's all still there. I had the same thing growing up Catholic. I'm sure not to the same extent, but it does seem to be an epidemic in the world. I am SO PROUD of you for starting your channel and STOPPING the cycle! I hope you make MILLIONS!
@@Pinkpearls555 - Small suggestion: I think it would serve you well if you created a playlist. This way someone can discover your channel and then just play ALL of your videos at once.
My grandmother is on her fifth husband. All of her previous husbands died. I know she didn't take out two of them (cancer and self inflicted gun shot), but the other two definitely made me wonder.
My uncle married a “black widow,” and she kept him drugged up on 28 different medications to keep him basically asleep for 4 years whilst she cleaned out his bank accounts and sold all of his property and possessions. He was her 4th husband, although she’d lied and said he was her 2nd. When she’d completed the heist, she called the cops and said he’d uh-tacked her, and he was put into a nursing home until he had a heart attack a couple of months later. Then she pretended to be so upset and grieved like it was a movie performance at the funeral.
As someone who has rarely been treated like I have value in the patriarchy, I am already on the “FAFO” era though it usually comes down to keeping myself safe rather than getting a man. I don’t want any of them. I’m good making them feel that way too so there you go. 😂😂😅
I remember when I was a kid and first started seeing all the horror stories on the news of crimes committed against women and girls, and I told my mom that the worse off the women are treated, the worse off the country usually seemed. But where women were treated better, the country seemed to do better overall. It just makes me horribly sad that in 40 years, not only are women and girls still being treated horribly all over the world, but it's getting worse, again.
“Never Rely on anyone else to take care of you, least of all a man.” My mother ( silent generation)taught me this from the time I was a girl. My eyes were opened to the patriarchy from the time I was a child, always skeptical of men, and I grew to be fiercely independent and self-reliant. Child-free by choice and recently retired from a fulfilling career, I sometimes ( very rarely) think how I could have used my youth, intelligence, and good looks to follow Shera Seven’s advice to extract wealth from men 😉 A couple of other favored quotes also pop to mind: “Though meat calls for sharp knives” and also Malcom X’s admonition to pursue rights “by any means necessary.” 💥
My grandmother and mother, not without reason, kept following me around and telling me that I had to get an education and be financially independent. They forbade me from being dependent on anyone, but especially any man. I am grateful for this truth because I am convinced that financial independence + childfree is the best thing I could have chosen.
Is 30 too late to finesse an XY for some money? Ideally never sleeping with him, just promising it. How would you use your youth to empty a man's pockets?
I was reading somewhere that back in the day when divorce was impossible there are many cases of women confessing later in life in the unaliving of their husbands. So basically often in response to an abus!ve situation. (Via po!son!ng I assume). so men complain about how divorce rates have gone up nowadays. Apparently the women of yesteryear were just getting rid of their man completely instead, no need for a divorce when you’re widowed. 😅
I heard that after no fault divorce became a law. The number of husband's being unalived by their wives DRASTICALLY decreased. The number of men unaliving their wives..... decreased a wee bit. Mind you, those are the cases where it was KNOWN that the husband was intentionally unalived specifically by his wife....💅🏾
There was a story I read about a woman in Italy who was selling the poisons to unhappy wives. They would gradually poison the man in his food and drinks, so that it was a gradual decline. She would cry and pretend to be so sad. Finally he would die. There would be a big funeral and she would wear all black and cry. Then she would inherit everything. So many wives were doing this that they were eventually exposed and killed :(
If you go and look at the women who are in prison for murder even today, some are there for killing their husbands in self-defense. But the court ruled it murder. Some had no other way out.
About monkey branching - men don't always trade in their wives for a newer model, they also trade in for social /professional advancement. I personally know two women who worked all through their twenties to put their partner through school, or support his new business, and then when he was finally financially secure in his own right, he left her for a woman who had the same education/profession/business success as he had. These men talk about how they have more in common with the more successful woman. They were fine taking the first wife's money and time, and suddenly when he doesn't rely on her anymore, she's just not "the one".
@@AguanoMuldtord in her case, she was traded in for a newer model, the girl was 21 and a subordinate of his at work, not a financial/educational equal.
My narcissistic, ab*sive ex taught me a lot. I don’t deal with men anymore, but when I have to I pull the same cards. Or sometimes I’m just outright cruel 💅🏻
I also operate similarly thanks to a narcissistic ex who was also a sexual deviant. He was the one who opened my eyes, ultimately, to the true nature of 99% of men.
After I had somewhat healed from my (diagnosed) sociopath ex husband..I was ready to date. I was definitely more savage and I guess manipulative and selfish. I think I was just thinking that these were the real rules that when I didn't know before..I got used and taken advantage of. I still do have a negative view of people (men) but I still need love and affection..but need to keep myself safe emotionally and physically. I feel like most women are playing out love trying to be fair and most men are playing an unfair machaevelli game..women are becoming aware because we're traumatized.
We seriously need to start k wording men for being misogynistic because these kinds of men want to do that to women, even for non violent reasons. I am saying this as a male myself.
The truth of this video is so liberating that I laughed throughout it! It's so refreshing to watch and listen to something which hits the nail on the head.
This makes so much sense to me because: 1. The feminists protesting for things like the right to vote were the ones who threw themselves in front of racing horses and shit. And these were the middle class women, not even the lowest rung. They did not give a single shit 2. Aqua Tofana
Wow. I love this! I’m in the process of making a video about how I am not relationship/marriage material. Never have been. Mainly because of my upbringing and exposure. I grew up and was taught by my male cousins to treat men the way that they treat women -transactionally! And I’ve been doing just that since my 20s (I’m almost 50 now). I’ve been in & out of relationships trying to figure out why they “didn’t work,” when, subconsciously, they couldn’t/I didn’t want them to, merely because I don’t value them. From my grandmother to my mom to every woman in my family, no one was happy in their relationships. They were in them as a means to an end. My grandmother despised my grandfather. He’d cheated on her so much over the years & she ended up having to take care of him when he got cancer & had his leg amputated. He ended up passing away & my grandmother lived happily another 25 years before she passed. So, yeah. I can see the dark triad coming!
I'm in my 30's and I feel like I could have written this, except it was about my great grandmother. I really tried to make myself be in romantic partnerships and the whole time I felt like a bird trying to escape a cage.
I really felt that, but after the anger has subsided, I realize… we all lose with this method. As much as I believe my life will be better without a man, I can’t help but continue to yearn for the zest in life. Yes I love sleeping in, answering to no one and generally doing as I please and Ik I’m better off this way, at the same time though I yearn. Maybe it’s just always the want for what we don’t have but I still can’t shake wanting someone to be by my side and have them be by my side as well 🙁
@@FullShade I completely understand, especially at this time of year right. The mind should listen to the heart & heart should listen to the mind, it's the balancing of our yin & yang energy, we're learning & unlearning. Loving & trusting ourselves can be harder than loving & trusting someone else. I think it's true, that when you fully surrender & go with the flow, what is meant for you will flow to you. I wish all good things come flowing to you & all women x
@@FullShadeWhy yearn for something that doesn’t exist? Romantic love is fake. It is what nem do to get you into bed and to steal your resources and life force. Nem fake love to get what they want from you. Might as well just watch a Korean drama and enjoy the fantasy, because that is all that it is. And at least a movie won’t punch you in the face or get bored cheat on you.
Id be really interested to see different norms and "strategies" different classes or other groupings of women in the US "use" in relationships. Im sure there is definitely a correlation of financial security and more traditional cultures
It's interesting... But I need more information about it, I got my doubts. For now, this information really makes me wonder, if this is true in countries like Iran for example, or some places in India - where women so crazily oppressed by government... I personally doubt that women can turn someone's life into "living hell", if government punish her for every move disproportionately. But yeah, it's really sad that in general men who don't want to take responsibility for themselves ruining life for us all - all men and women who are actually trying to be good people and just live life. p.s. you grew up in USSR? That's crazy! 🤩 Do you still remember any slavic language, I'm just curious?
There are subtle means of manipulation. It's not all about making anyone's live "a living hell" and its not always gonna be against men. Other women are the biggest threat to their available resource (men). Have you watched Mean Girls? That subtle bullying is also a means of control. As is making 'requests' and subtle insults and pretending to be friendly and spreading rumors. The controlling governments ain't gonna know about every move evey women makes and they won't care about every individual. They will expect the husband's and fathers to control daughters and wives. Its a terrible environment to be in and I pity those who has to live there
thats the first thing I said when i read the title. And shoot! men dont even have to take her word for it either because they are already FAFOing over there in these other countries they're going to thinking its going to be so much easier to find the kind of women they want.
Maybe because in other countries mental help isn't as common? In my country you get mocked and ridiculed for getting therapy or taking any pills. It doesn't mean that we don't suffer. Male aaahhhh logic ☕
@anka6356 this doesn't track. Self-respect as I've been taught was adhering to my principles, not matching the ideals of my opposition. Would I respect myself more if I sacrificed my integrity for a leg up on the competition?
I see we both learned at our grandmothers knees , mother to daughter ! I am 75 and my grandparents battled like Eleanor and King Henry 2 , THE BATTLE ROYALE ! Both of them were hated each other but my grandfather had taken everything she had inherited and the things he did to her, a short story at his end, she refused to cook for him and for a reason, so my mother would go get the old devil and take him to breakfast, but she was not decieved , just involved , fnl and mnl , yikes ! So Jack had these old bedroom shoes and he kept throwing them out ,and Sadie would get them out of the trash and he would wake up and see them next to his bed, yes that kind of daily pettiness , can get to you and she was going to get him , so was dying in hospital and mother was there and he looked down and there were those moldy old smelly bedroom shoes, at that point he told mother , I think she hates me and mother said we all hate you !!! NOW YOU CAN DIE !!! WE REJOICED!!!!! SO THIS IS NOT NEW FOR WOMEN WHO ARE SO ANGRY AND TRAPPED , THEY WILL GO MAD AND PAY YOU BACK IF IT TAKES 60 FFFING YEARS AND IT DID FOR MY GRANDMOTHER , 60 YEARS OF MISTREATMENT!! My brothers and I would never go near them unless forced , when could not force us, we never went to her house, it was too scary and got scarier!!
When I’m in my survival state I only think about personal gain. I street performed in vegas as a showgirl and would hustle men to their last dollar. So this is true. 🤷🏽♀️
I just heard about the ruling about not allowing the Afghani women to speak in public or be seen through windows. Nothing good can come from isolating women and telling men that they can’t control themselves. That is a powder keg.
It’s going to come to a head eventually and even more horrible things are going to happen to those women.
Women are entering their unapologetic villain era and I’m loving it. 4B to the end, the very end.
I grew up in America but in a very conservative immigrant Nicaraguan household. For some context, Nicaragua is in the top ten for highest rates of grape in the world. I swear to you, growing up I also didn't understand why American women and girls loved men so much.
This is sad... 💔 I feel for you.
But I hope you in much better place now!
@@hannabio2770 please be smarter
This is why I'm not mad at Shera Seven (Aside from her issues with Black natural hair). Some people have said she's contributing to the gender war, but she's just telling women how to not be dragged under by a man.
That's literally the main point of her content. Helping women understand our value & teaching women to put ourselves & our needs 1st when interacting with men AND exactly how to do it.
They hate it & I love that for them.
The rnen (and pick me’s) HATE it when women start treating them the way they’ve always treated us and so they think they can shame us back into being compliant, submissive, kind and caring towards rnen if they accuse us of “contributing to the gender war” - even though only rnen can do this. Only the oppressors can start a gender war, and only the ones who start a gender war can “contribute” to a gender war, because if the oppressors wanted to end it then they would’ve looked inwards into how and why they started it and work on their shïtty personality instead of always respirating to blaming the victim, like a typical rnale.
@@BehindTheBush96seeing men as oppressors is the problem. If you're in a culture that's normalized casual sex, no need to develop one's own character, no nourishing relationship then what should we expect?
History repeats itself. This has all happened before and some of the progress e.g. segghsual revolution, has helped lead us to see that we have not progressed but, in fact, regressed as a society.
One aspect of this is so key, and it's to ensure to keep exposing the ~uwu, I'm just an innocent baby~ HW*TE m *n who obfuscate about "their natures" versus others in order to source women from varied places in the world. Remember they are the prototype of c *vrt ab se + settler c *lni lism and I promise society will revolutionize itself.
We’ve long gotten beaten into the ground by mayles, so it’s only logical that we stop being loving, kind, and nurturing. I was the sweetest girl, but after dealing with mayles for decades and being punished for my kindness, I’ve turned into the narcs who’ve abewsed me. I’m incapable of love now; I feel nothing inside. I can’t even look at a guy without wondering what’s wrong with him and who he’s doing wrong right now. I’d only ever date for money, if I ever even bother to date again, and I will never let myself care for any mayle ever again. I’d only ever get married again if the mayle was rich and signed over half of his fortune to me prior to marriage. Otherwise, no deal.
Sounds good lol
Same. I used to be a sweetheart. Now, I reserve that for women & children ONLY!
I have 0 interest in dating men. If they wanna be in my face they can pay me. Idgaf how they feel about it either. They can step up to these bills or step tf out my face! And they get 0 commitment either way!
Im still a kind person, but my kindness is for children, women and men who offer tangible help in that order. Yes, its amazing, i too look at the men with roving eyes and wonder which woman he is hurting.
lol what kind of channel am i on rn 😂 how did i get here. you sound like a mean person making excuses for why you behave that way. you attract everything in life through your own attitudes and behaviors. it’s not hard to get a loving and good man or woman as a partner. if you can’t do that it’s something within YOU that must be addressed. there’s a saying if everywhere you go smells like 💩, check your shoes!
@@lasantuzza777you are living in some serious denial
Victims copy the behaviour of their abusers.
🎯
Right on the mark.
This is what happens when people are forced into a state of survival
My baba (Russian grandma) also finally told me that rnen ain’t shit, at the age of about 24/25. I’d already noticed from the age of 5 (maybe even younger) that my grandfather contributed notifying to the household (no, not even finances - he was lazy and refused to work, so she did EVERYTHING, from being the SOLE breadwinner to raising all her kids), and I could already see how unhappy life for women in relationships with rnen were.
For the first time ever, when I was around my mid 20s, she asked me “do you have a boyfriend?” And when I said no, she replied with “good. Stay away from rnen.” Little did she know, I was already at that stage and had already formed a pretty strong opinion of how little they had to offer women 🙃
Воу! Горжусь вами.
I also noticed that women in oppressive societies hate other women, even their own daughters and cling on to their sons. I Am from an East African region where women are under strict tribal patriarchal mixed with religion ruling systems (basically men in the tribe make social/legislative rules/laws for everyone) and my own mother hated her daughters and doted on my brothers and it was same with her mother.💁🏽♀️
And those women always get screwed over by the men they worship. Stupidity won't go unpunished
It's because the baby son was the only male she had a bit of control over for a temporary period of time. So the mother gets overly attached to that social proof of social human value, which was birthing a son, but then the son grows up weird and enmeshed.
Its also trauma response.
But mostly what Iquey said. 💜
@@redsunflower8999 They learned that they can be all punished if the other women "misbehave". Because what a woman does "wrong" in a Patriarchy, means men will behave bad against all women so they don't have the same freedom to do what the other one did. It's also about envy of having the audacity to be more free than she who "banishes" the other one of same gender. Because she is opressed and the other one isn't and she feels like isn't fair, so she's the first one to opress her sister. Think as if you were working in a place where you do the same work as your colleage and they are paid more than you. What if you even do more work? It's unfair, but they don't take revenge on "the boss", wich is the Patriarchy group of men that stablished the unfair rules for them. They take revenge on other women, it's all they think they can do, they are too afraid to be "unemployed".
Im also from the same region, I'm so glad I am in the west. The preference for sons is astonishing.
I always was highly suspicious of men, but then, my mother was an immigrant and being aware of who men actually are was a survival strategy for her.
Were done being “good” and it’s amazing🔥
Sprinkle, Sprinkle 😂😅🤣💅
I always looked fown on Dating.
I consider romantic relationships as the result of brainwash and a Symptom of a decaying society where people get more and more isolated but still need a Form of company.
I think it's superiour to be Single with a few good friends and a deep connection to the community lives in.
Humans are Group animals, not a couple sitting in Isolation staring at a screen animals.
@@CordeliaWagner1999 are you a believer in our father all mighty?
Exactly
That makes sense. Nothing creates narcissism quite like abuse.
I have to remind myself sometimes that I live in Scandinavia. The thing is, I suffer with all women. It’s personal.
Edit: wow. I just finished watching. I literally said/wrote this not too long ago: “This is going to backfire in the most glorious of ways-mark my words”. We’re manifesting it! 💪 Yeeeeee!
My parents set me up for failure growing up. They said I needed a high paying career so that I can pay half of bills with the man who I marry and also save my virginity only for him plus do all the house work. Can’t believe my parents devalued me like that
I'm so sorry.
Wild. They couldn't decide which way to brainwash you so they chose the worst of both worlds? 😅
@@thekelderhouse in our culture. Trying to please and keeping a man is everything. My mom would always scare me and say “no one will marry you if you do XYZ” .
@@Pinkpearls555 - I just checked your RUclips channel. I was already a subscriber! All I can say is - Look at you go!! You know what, I'm going to go watch all of your videos. I'm going to like every single one of them. And I hope your channel grows to the point that you make so much money that you never again have to even think about being with another solitary person in this world unless you truly WANT to be.
As for your culture, it seems to be like that in every single culture that I've encountered - some more low key than others, but it's all still there. I had the same thing growing up Catholic. I'm sure not to the same extent, but it does seem to be an epidemic in the world.
I am SO PROUD of you for starting your channel and STOPPING the cycle! I hope you make MILLIONS!
@@Pinkpearls555 - Small suggestion: I think it would serve you well if you created a playlist. This way someone can discover your channel and then just play ALL of your videos at once.
My grandmom buried three husbands and there is a lot of speculation about how they died--to this day.
They prob choked on a chicken bone😊
Your granny's a queen💅
My grandmother is on her fifth husband. All of her previous husbands died. I know she didn't take out two of them (cancer and self inflicted gun shot), but the other two definitely made me wonder.
My uncle married a “black widow,” and she kept him drugged up on 28 different medications to keep him basically asleep for 4 years whilst she cleaned out his bank accounts and sold all of his property and possessions. He was her 4th husband, although she’d lied and said he was her 2nd. When she’d completed the heist, she called the cops and said he’d uh-tacked her, and he was put into a nursing home until he had a heart attack a couple of months later. Then she pretended to be so upset and grieved like it was a movie performance at the funeral.
Im hear for it 🎉. Bout time men remember who nature really values
💯💯💯
As someone who has rarely been treated like I have value in the patriarchy, I am already on the “FAFO” era though it usually comes down to keeping myself safe rather than getting a man. I don’t want any of them. I’m good making them feel that way too so there you go. 😂😂😅
I remember when I was a kid and first started seeing all the horror stories on the news of crimes committed against women and girls, and I told my mom that the worse off the women are treated, the worse off the country usually seemed. But where women were treated better, the country seemed to do better overall.
It just makes me horribly sad that in 40 years, not only are women and girls still being treated horribly all over the world, but it's getting worse, again.
I read somewhere that narcissism can be a defense mechanism. As society grows more harsh people tap into lower nature as a means to survive
But then it's terrible to live around all those Narcs - yeeeesh. I'm just going to build my own society.
@@XtineJohnes dunno, i only feel it towoards rnen so we'll be fine
@mirunacristina5639 😲
“Never Rely on anyone else to take care of you, least of all a man.” My mother ( silent generation)taught me this from the time I was a girl. My eyes were opened to the patriarchy from the time I was a child, always skeptical of men, and I grew to be fiercely independent and self-reliant. Child-free by choice and recently retired from a fulfilling career, I sometimes ( very rarely) think how I could have used my youth, intelligence, and good looks to follow Shera Seven’s advice to extract wealth from men 😉
A couple of other favored quotes also pop to mind:
“Though meat calls for sharp knives” and also Malcom X’s admonition to pursue rights “by any means necessary.” 💥
My grandmother and mother, not without reason, kept following me around and telling me that I had to get an education and be financially independent. They forbade me from being dependent on anyone, but especially any man. I am grateful for this truth because I am convinced that financial independence + childfree is the best thing I could have chosen.
Is 30 too late to finesse an XY for some money? Ideally never sleeping with him, just promising it. How would you use your youth to empty a man's pockets?
@@lightyear3429never too late.
I was reading somewhere that back in the day when divorce was impossible there are many cases of women confessing later in life in the unaliving of their husbands. So basically often in response to an abus!ve situation. (Via po!son!ng I assume). so men complain about how divorce rates have gone up nowadays. Apparently the women of yesteryear were just getting rid of their man completely instead, no need for a divorce when you’re widowed. 😅
I heard that after no fault divorce became a law. The number of husband's being unalived by their wives DRASTICALLY decreased. The number of men unaliving their wives..... decreased a wee bit.
Mind you, those are the cases where it was KNOWN that the husband was intentionally unalived specifically by his wife....💅🏾
Men change our laws based on vibes, not easily observed history or how similar laws have worked in other countries.
There was a story I read about a woman in Italy who was selling the poisons to unhappy wives. They would gradually poison the man in his food and drinks, so that it was a gradual decline. She would cry and pretend to be so sad. Finally he would die. There would be a big funeral and she would wear all black and cry. Then she would inherit everything. So many wives were doing this that they were eventually exposed and killed :(
If you go and look at the women who are in prison for murder even today, some are there for killing their husbands in self-defense. But the court ruled it murder. Some had no other way out.
I think it’s called an Italian divorce
About monkey branching - men don't always trade in their wives for a newer model, they also trade in for social /professional advancement. I personally know two women who worked all through their twenties to put their partner through school, or support his new business, and then when he was finally financially secure in his own right, he left her for a woman who had the same education/profession/business success as he had. These men talk about how they have more in common with the more successful woman. They were fine taking the first wife's money and time, and suddenly when he doesn't rely on her anymore, she's just not "the one".
There is nothing in their rhetoric that isn't projection. It's crazy if you study it.
Betty Broderick.
@@AguanoMuldtord in her case, she was traded in for a newer model, the girl was 21 and a subordinate of his at work, not a financial/educational equal.
The way rnen are just naturally machievellian no matter what 😂😅🥴💀☠️
My narcissistic, ab*sive ex taught me a lot. I don’t deal with men anymore, but when I have to I pull the same cards. Or sometimes I’m just outright cruel 💅🏻
I also operate similarly thanks to a narcissistic ex who was also a sexual deviant. He was the one who opened my eyes, ultimately, to the true nature of 99% of men.
Fact.
After I had somewhat healed from my (diagnosed) sociopath ex husband..I was ready to date. I was definitely more savage and I guess manipulative and selfish. I think I was just thinking that these were the real rules that when I didn't know before..I got used and taken advantage of. I still do have a negative view of people (men) but I still need love and affection..but need to keep myself safe emotionally and physically. I feel like most women are playing out love trying to be fair and most men are playing an unfair machaevelli game..women are becoming aware because we're traumatized.
We seriously need to start k wording men for being misogynistic because these kinds of men want to do that to women, even for non violent reasons. I am saying this as a male myself.
Had said this last year lol they really about to find out 😂
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The truth of this video is so liberating that I laughed throughout it! It's so refreshing to watch and listen to something which hits the nail on the head.
"less manipulative personality traits" did they meant survival contingencies?
Every word is true. I am Suisse now but I was born in Russia. I know what you are talking about 😊
PRINCELLA THE QUEEN MAKER.
SHE EXPLAINS ALOT OF THE WAY MEN ARE AND THEY DONT LOVE OR CARE.
The brother-scamming lesbian who thinks men ain't shit: shocker.
Queen? Royalty is a toxic concept.
Your videos are quite hard to listen to because of their content, but soo very accurate. Thank you
I don’t have a “hard” time listening at all. None.
Why can’t people just be nice to people? Demanding submission is silly.
You mean why cant men just be nice to people? Idk apparently its their nature to be machiavellian regardless of environment.
Because men are not nice, that is why
@@kiriki4558 well said
Men cannot be “nice” to other men nor to women, so…
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More Machiavellian Dark Triad traits? 😃 I’m down! LFG.
Thanks for bringing awareness to women everywhere 👏🏾
This makes so much sense to me because:
1. The feminists protesting for things like the right to vote were the ones who threw themselves in front of racing horses and shit. And these were the middle class women, not even the lowest rung. They did not give a single shit
2. Aqua Tofana
I've been nice before.
Wow. I love this! I’m in the process of making a video about how I am not relationship/marriage material. Never have been. Mainly because of my upbringing and exposure. I grew up and was taught by my male cousins to treat men the way that they treat women -transactionally! And I’ve been doing just that since my 20s (I’m almost 50 now). I’ve been in & out of relationships trying to figure out why they “didn’t work,” when, subconsciously, they couldn’t/I didn’t want them to, merely because I don’t value them. From my grandmother to my mom to every woman in my family, no one was happy in their relationships. They were in them as a means to an end. My grandmother despised my grandfather. He’d cheated on her so much over the years & she ended up having to take care of him when he got cancer & had his leg amputated. He ended up passing away & my grandmother lived happily another 25 years before she passed. So, yeah. I can see the dark triad coming!
I'm in my 30's and I feel like I could have written this, except it was about my great grandmother. I really tried to make myself be in romantic partnerships and the whole time I felt like a bird trying to escape a cage.
@ yeessss. Exactly!!!
@@PhetteHollins I feel like I’ve been in my dark triad for ages.
I'm going to grow an Aqua Tofana garden. So many lovely plants.
Game on
Freaky ... I just wrote that. We're all syncing.
I really felt that, but after the anger has subsided, I realize… we all lose with this method. As much as I believe my life will be better without a man, I can’t help but continue to yearn for the zest in life. Yes I love sleeping in, answering to no one and generally doing as I please and Ik I’m better off this way, at the same time though I yearn. Maybe it’s just always the want for what we don’t have but I still can’t shake wanting someone to be by my side and have them be by my side as well 🙁
@@FullShadeget a pet or a plant. Having someone by your side who won't do anything for you is worse than being alone.
@@FullShade I completely understand, especially at this time of year right. The mind should listen to the heart & heart should listen to the mind, it's the balancing of our yin & yang energy, we're learning & unlearning. Loving & trusting ourselves can be harder than loving & trusting someone else. I think it's true, that when you fully surrender & go with the flow, what is meant for you will flow to you. I wish all good things come flowing to you & all women x
@@FullShadeWhy yearn for something that doesn’t exist? Romantic love is fake. It is what nem do to get you into bed and to steal your resources and life force. Nem fake love to get what they want from you. Might as well just watch a Korean drama and enjoy the fantasy, because that is all that it is. And at least a movie won’t punch you in the face or get bored cheat on you.
Absolutely agreed
Same energy!!! FANTASTIC!
Wonder how this plays out in South Korea
4B started there. At least a portion of SK women are opting out altogether. It sounds like many women just get beaten down so much they give up.
It's not giving up zo reject marriage and motherhood. It's starting to live.
Id be really interested to see different norms and "strategies" different classes or other groupings of women in the US "use" in relationships. Im sure there is definitely a correlation of financial security and more traditional cultures
At minute 6.30 is the most perfect explanation. Thank you for your videos!
Solutions always needed hopefully things change for the better
They must want Tofana to come back.
Jokes on them, I have no money! 😅
i've smiled the whole video :) danger activated
Everything you say is true
Give it to them ladies
THAT PART!
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Very interesting.
By any chance, do you have a link to the article/study you’re referencing?
Civilization and it's discontents is a great book
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It's interesting... But I need more information about it, I got my doubts.
For now, this information really makes me wonder, if this is true in countries like Iran for example, or some places in India - where women so crazily oppressed by government... I personally doubt that women can turn someone's life into "living hell", if government punish her for every move disproportionately.
But yeah, it's really sad that in general men who don't want to take responsibility for themselves ruining life for us all - all men and women who are actually trying to be good people and just live life.
p.s. you grew up in USSR? That's crazy! 🤩 Do you still remember any slavic language, I'm just curious?
There are subtle means of manipulation. It's not all about making anyone's live "a living hell" and its not always gonna be against men. Other women are the biggest threat to their available resource (men). Have you watched Mean Girls? That subtle bullying is also a means of control. As is making 'requests' and subtle insults and pretending to be friendly and spreading rumors. The controlling governments ain't gonna know about every move evey women makes and they won't care about every individual. They will expect the husband's and fathers to control daughters and wives. Its a terrible environment to be in and I pity those who has to live there
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6:56 😂😂😂😂
This is obvious. 😂
thats the first thing I said when i read the title. And shoot! men dont even have to take her word for it either because they are already FAFOing over there in these other countries they're going to thinking its going to be so much easier to find the kind of women they want.
Nice
So true
OMG 1:46 IS SO SO TRUE
Muahahahaha!!!
Thats how it works money and looks
100%
They need better role models to break the bs cycle 🤔🤔
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Share seven?
Shera seven. She encourages women to only date for lifestyle instead of love
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Western women are the greatest users of antidepressants, even being more free than ever (LOL)
And men just off themselves 😊
Western women seek “help” more than western men, do, from therapists. So…
Maybe because in other countries mental help isn't as common?
In my country you get mocked and ridiculed for getting therapy or taking any pills. It doesn't mean that we don't suffer.
Male aaahhhh logic ☕
@@ivanaisasinot just themselves… their families and strangers as well.
@@ivanaisasi remember how the pipeline from domestic abusers to mass shooters is linked? Yeah.
I think you’re making a logical fallacy
Which one?
You mean the ever-so-popular & well known "you hurt my feelings" fallacy?
This seems.
Like even more justification for unjustified cruelty.
Like, what exactly is the intended outcome of this conflict?
Self respect
@anka6356 this doesn't track.
Self-respect as I've been taught was adhering to my principles, not matching the ideals of my opposition. Would I respect myself more if I sacrificed my integrity for a leg up on the competition?
Survival.
@@manifest2203Mostly to survive and avoid abuse.
“Unjustified”?
Best video on the topic I have seen. Ty yv edit 💜.
I see we both learned at our grandmothers knees , mother to daughter ! I am 75 and my grandparents battled like Eleanor and King Henry 2 , THE BATTLE ROYALE ! Both of them were hated each other but my grandfather had taken everything she had inherited and the things he did to her, a short story at his end, she refused to cook for him and for a reason, so my mother would go get the old devil and take him to breakfast, but she was not decieved , just involved , fnl and mnl , yikes ! So Jack had these old bedroom shoes and he kept throwing them out ,and Sadie would get them out of the trash and he would wake up and see them next to his bed, yes that kind of daily pettiness , can get to you and she was going to get him , so was dying in hospital and mother was there and he looked down and there were those moldy old smelly bedroom shoes, at that point he told mother , I think she hates me and mother said we all hate you !!! NOW YOU CAN DIE !!! WE REJOICED!!!!! SO THIS IS NOT NEW FOR WOMEN WHO ARE SO ANGRY AND TRAPPED , THEY WILL GO MAD AND PAY YOU BACK IF IT TAKES 60 FFFING YEARS AND IT DID FOR MY GRANDMOTHER , 60 YEARS OF MISTREATMENT!!
My brothers and I would never go near them unless forced , when could not force us, we never went to her house, it was too scary and got scarier!!
i love this channel so much literally please never stop making these videos 😭🤍 they feed my soul lol
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