I’m that woman who met a man that was struggling, but I loved and supported that man and now he has a thriving six figure income and now we are happily married!!!
Shout out to Anthony. NEVER allow a woman that thought she could do better than you to come back. Most of these females do not want to build with a man.
This why I watched your show. I promise I know my ex’s know they f’d up. I was rock bottom all my life. And now… oh wow now…. is all I need to say .🦍🙌🏾✊🏾🔝🚀👑💯
When those kids get to the mouthy 17,18,19; the mother will never choose YOU over her children… Always trying to save them from correction or discipline..
They want a transactional relationship and also be the least cooperative and least submissive as possible.But they still want the benefits of every encounter.
She is still single 7 years later. Life showed her a valuable lesson. You can break up with someone and that person is not obligated is not to take you back.
I got 3 children for my ex wife....for 15 years I worked in the telecommunication industry, so I made really good money but as soon as my ex built her business she wanted out....smh....I was hurt but I got over it and my ex can never come back. Period.....and my kids will have a wealthy father by 2023.....The hurt fueled my ambition and drive 🤫
I learnt the lesson. The Street rat left and thought I would chase after ….. Wrong. She out there in the streets and getting ran through and pumped and dumped over n over. Repeating the same cycle. She reached out. I blocked.
This is literally my life...some of the women who I wanted in my teens and 20s are coming back to me in my 40s with kids, proclaiming their baby daddy is trash...some outright rejected me, saying it was them and that I was "too nice" ....well at this stage, I'm too comfortable....to deal with any of them.
I’ve been wronged for about 25 years. Never found a wife after all that stress and many different relationships. Now I just date younger women until they fumble and I get another. Accept things as they are. Adapt!
My biggest fear before taking the rp was going through just what you described. Now that I’ve awoken, life is beautiful and I’ll never have that fear again.
@@TADinish21 only thing sadder would be for him to commit to a woman and get used and discarded by her, you know, like he explained in his comment about being wronged for 25 years by various selfish harpies. No, pumping and dumping is a far better alternative to giving of yourself to a creature who has been bred and socially conditioned not to give back. You tried cupcake, here’s your cookie
My ex wife did nothing but complain when we were married, even though I moved her into my house and paid all the bills. I finally told her to move out, and see how she liked life when she had to be responsible for herself. I also told her that I was taking 50:50 custody of our daughter. She instantly filed for divorce. Years later when she's had to pay bills and plan things for herself she thought she could just slide back into a relationship. I made it clear that we were permanently done. If you can't appreciate me when you have me, you will not get a second chance.
Blue collar men's money (if managed correctly) is solid because THEY WORKED FOR IT. White collar money is conditional (meaning it depends on the market easy come easy go). A hedge fund manager is someone who just gambles with other people's money. Labor is true value, currency is only valuable if one will work (labor ) for it.......
Thanks D’Nieka. I had a ex years back that said “ you ain’t got nothing going for yourself”. Fast forward. Financial stable and she said she wish she would’ve never left me. She didn’t know what I had planned or building. Now she’s a single moms with a serial baby daddy. I wish her the best im not a hater.
I had a woman that I treated very well she left for a pookie and ray ray now she is a single mother when 2 baby daddies and I’m working a one of the big 3 consulting firm making big money she tried to come back I’m like go back to pookie and ray ray
In a word she, FUMBLED !! Showing what she was taught in failure school, all women have to do to succeed is look at what the other failing women are doing and don`t repeat it.
I was once one of those guys, willing to get with & try to build something with a single mother but after many lessons learned the hard way, never again!!! And I stand strong on that!!!
Guys DO NOT entertain or reward a single mother; until her’s are grown and gone or require she give her child to its father; When you go against your value, it’s a sign of lack, a poor man’s mindset. And KNOW, YOU ARE NOT a better than her child’s father. Guys respect your precious time…it’s short too..
I've been through that before with my ex-fiance, she also had child and broke up with me when I was not making it as much as I am now. Now she constantly trying to message me trying to start something up I'm not going BACKWARDS 💯
Wow. She tried to come back yearssssss later. Like WTF. Of course he didn’t want shit to do with her. What did she think. She was just gonna walk back in on his success on the back in? He already knows she’s been ran thru. He doesn’t want left overs.
She must be one of those delusional females who think they are "the prize" and the man will count himself lucky to have them back in his life (coz they are the prize). She was given a dose of reality.
Speak facts D'Nieka salute to you . Some sisters today do not know the difference between a good man and a bad one, !!! She is now unwanted unloved and lonely. she has no clue.
Hey, I felt the same as you. I decided to only let a woman like D in my life. It took me two years of real work and I finally found her. It is the most awesome relationship I have ever had. You will find yours too. Keep looking my friend. They are rare now but they are out there.
@@voiceofreason2743 not a problem my friend. At one time I believed that all women were like the modern woman and even questioned whether or not I was being reasonable in wanting a woman that is like the one I have. When I talked about my dream woman, other women would shame me for wanting a woman like that. Calling those type of women "pick me's", telling me that the only reason I would want one of those is because there is something wrong with me. I know this is how you feel and what you have also heard. Don't listen to it. Don't believe anything the modern woman says. You don't have to settle for misery. My woman meets me at the door every night with smile on her face. She keeps herself in top shape, physically mentally and emotionally.
My story is similar but her daughter was 4 n son was 1, he was 9 n she was 13 when I left our on n off relationships. I felt she was to disrespectful n combative. I told her she didn't believe in me. She moved a dude in a month after I left. Called to tell me she was engaged a yr later. I leveled up in every way. When I started a business we use to talk about together alone. She unblocked me n added me on snap. I just threw my success in her face every chance I got n kept leveling up without her engaged ass
The damn nerve. So she thought she was gonna be able to go back almost a decade later… WTF. She honestly thought he was gonna take her back. Nahhhhhhh. And she’s not even sorry either. I could see if it was 2 or 3 months later. Nawwwww she just went on with her life. She lived her life and that ish failed. Then she decided to come back around like she was doing him a favor.
Oh damn. I missed the engagement part. She was engaged to dude. So she walked away from a man that wanted to marry her and then tried to go back after she got ran thru and her plans fell thru. Damn. I can’t really believe she thought she was gonna be able to go back to a man she left who wanted to marry her? Of course he’s hurt. Bad. He don’t won’t shit else to do with her. That would be all men.
Lol here’s the problem. Women outnumber men. If you got a good man theirs other single women waiting for you to screw up. The sooner women figure this out and stop trying to devalue the men that they already have the better off they will be. I remember like three years ago i tried to get with this women and she told me her plan was to be a ho all year and she succeeded by having a baby by a guy that didn’t do anything for her. Then, she had the nerve to tell me don’t miss out on a good thing afterwards 😂. Some of your sisters be tripping 😂
If she ghosted you, thank her...because now you get back to your hustle. I appreciate any woman who does that to me. The games women play to get me to "chase" is laughable. Sad truth is any woman can take a homeless man who has a purpose, and love him up where he builds an empire. Women have that ability but choose not to use it.
Women DON’T have that ability. That’s where men mess up in believing that they do (something which women actively encourage men to believe). The only one capable of building an empire is men…with or without women. Women will make bets that a present bum will become a future mogul, but they prefer to simply give themselves over to a readymade mogul.
@@Kanfachan Mark Walberg was running the streets when he met his now wife. He had nothing. She believed in him, housed him, and financed him. These women ARE the 2%. It is possible, and they all have that ability to cater to a mans ego. I believe plain Jane women will be making a come back getting high value men. Factory made up women are only making the Jane's look mighty fine.
Factz. They habitually abuse their natural power to enhance and magnify the potential of a Man and in turn try to minimize and nullify a Man's natural calling to be the ruler over all he should survey. All out of fear and insecurities that if she would use her powers for good and assist that man in ascending, that man will abandon her. It is actually the contrary. It is prerequisite that a woman wants to see me shine, accomplish and achieve. That's the entry level admittance requirement for Men of purpose and destiny.
I came across a female with 2 kids she told me she don't date men with kids I told her that makes no since I can see if I say I don't date females with kids because I don't have any yet but you say something like that you have no room to talk if I say I don't date females with kids and I have kids females will look at me crazy tell me I make no since.
This reminds me of a time I dated a single mother and she told me I was too nice and it annoyed her… All I did was take her out a few times and treat her like a lady 😂 then she hmu a year later trying to get back with me. hell no!! Anyways I’m really loving your videos. 💯
This is much needed and comforting for me because many of us Men deal with this shit. It's blessings in disguise that we dodge these bullets, but it still can hurt immensely. Providence does look out for us though. Thank-you so very much for covering this, Madam, and speaking out on the Struggles that many Men go through. 🙏🙏🙏
Dealt with a woman like her. Had to cut her off because she looked down at me because I am rebuilding after an unplanned divorce that I didn't initiate. Had the nerve to open her mouth and insulted me & disrespected me. Had to put her in her place and cut her off. Then start talking to someone else & she called me yesterday & told me she pregnant by an ex. I am just going to focus on getting my bag up & be on my square. These women are on some BS. However, I Am also taking full responsibility for the fact that I keep picking these type of women. Time To Do Therapy and Get On My Square. Not Going To Lie That These Situations Really Hurt and Messes With Your Confidence As A Man. Specifically The Last Woman Because I Am In Love With Her & I realize that she didn't take me serious at all. Damn My Life Is A Mess Up Drama 🎥!
Eugene Steele was correct, these women lack patience, they also lack discipline, and knowledge of what delayed gratification is. This makes them a liability. She will drag you down and point the finger at you. I have never gotten to the point that I could actually entertain setting a goal with a woman. So the likely hood I will achieve one with a woman is low. This lowers my motivation to date. I have to much work ahead of me to allow myself to be distracted in this fashion. I wouldn't be able to point the finger back at her. Why? I know better already. That's why.
IM 58 years old father grandfather and a retired business owner out of Napa trust me when I say keep up the good work everything u said is so true I started at the bottom and worked to the top Vegas and retired but no woman because of just what u said no one wanted me what I was at the bottom but they dam sure want me now lol lol sorry should have stuck with me an worked with me
Real talk. A lot of people think construction workers are dusty. Yeah on the job...low-key plumbers, Electricians, welders, pipe fitters, and HVAC make more the $60/hr. More if you have your own business and depending on where you live. Damn right she fumbled the bag.
I came back from overeas in the USAF and within a week of dealing with these shiny object chasing Barracudas I wrote off all Western & American women. When you have finally been treated like a human, you cant go back, because you have been shown you are as worthy of common as you know you are. These heifahs dont want ride with you they want to ride on you while looking another bigger better deal. So f...... predictable.
I have a wife with three boys and I love all of them. But she's not understanding that I am tired of always being corrected when all I'm is expressing myself on how I feel. So I tried to explain that she don't know how the hell I'm feeling at that time.
A lot of women don't understand that high quality Men, most of the time already have a high quality Woman. We just look for low quality women to stfu and play their role as the side piece. We'll never commit to those types of women because of the positions we hold in our professions. Once you've had Steak and Lobster, it's hard to go back to beans and bologna everyday.
Truth hurts I'm sitting here listening to your video next to my girl with two kids that ain't mine and she like shut up bit** and ran out the room that's why I'm going to leave her ass . Come on Now she told me why don't I get my own place but we still stay together that's after I have giving her an engagement ring and we're supposed to be getting married she will see grass ain't greener on the other side!
Been watching these videos old and new since beginning on the year. This is solid game shes giving. Guys staying on our purpose is the best thing to do.
A great example of a 'Gold-Digging' woman! If they show you how they are ...please believe it! In most cases, what you do or think over here ...keep watching ...they will think it and do it over there!
That’s me don’t want married life or relationship life no more. Period. I love to love and be loved but being loved is just not happening no more for me I’ve been noticed years ago 🤷🏾♂️💯
Bishop Jakes said, God, forbid that anything happens to Lady Jakes, for me to try to move on, I wouldn't know the true intention of the next woman that approaches me. He said Lady Jakes was right there holding my hand back in the day when we stood in the window watching the repo man drag our only car down the street!!!
We broke up half a year ago she move on and I’m trying to keep it strong and leave it be. To came to find out she’s a single mother with two kids. And on top of that, she’s fooling around with someone else one of the assistant manager and came to find out, she’s six months pregnant. She broke my soul, my promises, and she broke my heart. I was over with it. Now, she has two baby daddies and three kids. It’s too late for me to go back with her. She leave me and played herself and embarrassed herself. It is what it is. I deserve better because I’m a king
Thank you D for mentioning the trust issues that men develop from bad experiences with women. I used to want a family more than anything in life. Now I’m trying to figure out what to do with my life because having a family is more of a fantasy than anything these days, just not realistic in my view. Keep blessing us with this amazing content! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Not worth it bro. Imo your purpose is more important. These BMT will find away to take your child away. Get your money bless ya ppls."BMT" baby momma terriost
Bro don't give up just stay on your grind and be open to the possibility after vetting, the older you get the broader your dating pool and the more your chances increase to find what you are looking for. As men age our opportunities increase
@Team Light HIGHER LEVEL Shii! the majority of content on the Internet makes it seem like they dont a d I get it, femism makes it worse, but some are out there that aren't with this current foolishness, stay on your grind and continue to be the best you possible. I can't promise anything but I can say the likely hood of attracting like minded people Increase with However you percieve life. I.e. If a girl is a femisnt and saying how all men are bad if your a good man and meet her, will you make your presense known or realistically give her a chance? You know what I mean?
It sucks loving them and them leaving for a local drug dealer. And they go on the deep end because if you can't reach them in their dispair they can't be held accountable for their actions.
I was ghosted because she must have felt that I wouldn’t help her when I was already doing many things for her, it hurts when a man is doing all that he can from his heart and appreciation isn’t present, only selfishness and want me to dismiss all of her baggage, which I did. I wished her the best finding whatever makes her happy
Redifining ones self is to ruin the lower nature that identify who we truly are as animals that is based on the irrational side of who we are. But the rational side of who you are is your higher self that is stable, selfless, patient, and focussed in all of your undertakings.
This is definitely a cautionary tale for us ladies and maybe some gentlemen too. I definitely read between the lines. It’s better to learn from other’s mistakes than to be out here making and dealing with the horrible consequences! great video D🤍💫
Right 💯 I never understand. That’s why it’s hard for me to accept a woman with kids. Not all of them but there are few that are selfish and it’s always about them and never about their child. That’s selfish to me, that’s why the next generation of kids will grow up to be lost and not have no guidance because of selfish women. A man with no kids can accept a woman with kids and gets treated like shit. “A single mother is not looking for love. She’s looking for help” don’t let that go across your head. They make it hard for the GOOD single mothers out there.
Yea I hope my X is regretting doing what her old ass did to me now. Because the get back is serious and im about to be up and she ain't coming with me.
My ex gf was CONVINCED she could do better too. Only problem, he was Married with two grown adult children. Yes, Karma bit her in the butt. He promptly 'pumped & dumper her sorry butt. No, I will never take her back. She's tried 7 times
Sometimes, people just get what they deserve. Took over a decade, but my ex wife started reaching out to me again (after she had several failed relationships since leaving me for "someone better"). The trust broken can never be repaired. The "when will she do that to me again" thought will always be in the back of the mind. Doesn't help her that I'm remarried with a couple of kids. "By the time you realize I was right for you, I'll be with the one that already knew."
I haven't even completed this video yet. I watched today's live first. This right here takes away my motivation to date. This girl would have pulled them both down.
I'm teaching my son the difference of our women. Wonder woman, nah woman woman. I laugh when my son says that, but he's right. I don't have to wonder about a woman because she is a reflection of what family is.
Didn't have to take her inn while am building my finances my major leaps! She needed me & still felt dat she can do better 😐 With kid not mines I chose my peace after 3 attempts 👌🏾
So she can do better but the kid proves she can't. This needs to be addressed. The nigga that got her pregnant was the better. The dude she had that was willing was the better and now she's back to the same type of nigga who got her pregnant lol. I'LL STAY SINGLE FOR LIFE THAN TO EVEN WASTE MY ENERGY.
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I’m that woman who met a man that was struggling, but I loved and supported that man and now he has a thriving six figure income and now we are happily married!!!
Glad that worked out for U...
What made u stay?
Shout out to Anthony. NEVER allow a woman that thought she could do better than you to come back. Most of these females do not want to build with a man.
@A.D facts
Absolutely, Brother!!! 👊👊👏👏🙏🙏 Then, they think they deserve or can just reap the benefits.
This why I watched your show. I promise I know my ex’s know they f’d up. I was rock bottom all my life. And now… oh wow now…. is all I need to say .🦍🙌🏾✊🏾🔝🚀👑💯
Omg this is a Man Code truth.
I needed to hear this fr
Dude dodged a bullet not staying with a single mother. Never play the step daddy. One child is one too many.
ONGODNEM
When those kids get to the mouthy 17,18,19; the mother will never choose YOU over her children…
Always trying to save them from correction or discipline..
@@polishedbrother I agree my brother, been there done that and had to divorce her.
Step dads are like substitute teachers just a fill in position.
NEVER EVER; NEVER
They want a transactional relationship and also be the least cooperative and least submissive as possible.But they still want the benefits of every encounter.
We gotta close our wallets and stop simping
One of my ex msg me, “I miss you, and I want to apologize for not giving my all in our relationship. I hate you moved away.”
She is still single 7 years later. Life showed her a valuable lesson. You can break up with someone and that person is not obligated is not to take you back.
You never take back such a woman that is toxic.
This black women is such a intellectual and vibrant spirit.
When Sheroes Ruled Zamal Tama Re
Nice itts too.
@@tubeslats a caveman amongst us
I wish all black women were like her. Or atleast close to it.
@@calicochris5469 grow your hair you'll get one... Big Krit- Serve this Royalty
I got 3 children for my ex wife....for 15 years I worked in the telecommunication industry, so I made really good money but as soon as my ex built her business she wanted out....smh....I was hurt but I got over it and my ex can never come back. Period.....and my kids will have a wealthy father by 2023.....The hurt fueled my ambition and drive 🤫
That’s right my brother. Never ever take a ex back
👍🏿prove that she made a big mistake leaving you.
Exactly turn that pain into fuel ⛽ & pour it into your passion
Bro have nothing to do with your ex after she raised so many red flags so forget about her & focus on your kids & your well beings.
I learnt the lesson. The Street rat left and thought I would chase after …..
Wrong. She out there in the streets and getting ran through and pumped and dumped over n over. Repeating the same cycle. She reached out. I blocked.
This is literally my life...some of the women who I wanted in my teens and 20s are coming back to me in my 40s with kids, proclaiming their baby daddy is trash...some outright rejected me, saying it was them and that I was "too nice" ....well at this stage, I'm too comfortable....to deal with any of them.
Preach bruh! I LOBE that! "You was too nice." Well now Im too comfortable! Bars! 😂
Yep. Don't allow them to disturb your comfort.
The trash took itself out. Avoid looking back unless you're looking forward to tripping. 💯
She thought she was "the prize". Learnt the hard way that she isn't.
I’ve been wronged for about 25 years. Never found a wife after all that stress and many different relationships. Now I just date younger women until they fumble and I get another. Accept things as they are. Adapt!
I feel ya Pain mos def.
That’s the path
My biggest fear before taking the rp was going through just what you described. Now that I’ve awoken, life is beautiful and I’ll never have that fear again.
Wow! What a sad existence! Can you say deadly std’s?
@@TADinish21 only thing sadder would be for him to commit to a woman and get used and discarded by her, you know, like he explained in his comment about being wronged for 25 years by various selfish harpies.
No, pumping and dumping is a far better alternative to giving of yourself to a creature who has been bred and socially conditioned not to give back.
You tried cupcake, here’s your cookie
My ex wife did nothing but complain when we were married, even though I moved her into my house and paid all the bills. I finally told her to move out, and see how she liked life when she had to be responsible for herself. I also told her that I was taking 50:50 custody of our daughter. She instantly filed for divorce. Years later when she's had to pay bills and plan things for herself she thought she could just slide back into a relationship. I made it clear that we were permanently done. If you can't appreciate me when you have me, you will not get a second chance.
The fact that she didn't prosper for her SELF and CHILD show me everything about her. She has no goals for herself, so why would he even bother.
Blue collar men make money...some even more than white collar desk jockiss
Very true
Fact 💯 I'm blue collar
Blue collar men's money (if managed correctly) is solid because THEY WORKED FOR IT. White collar money is conditional (meaning it depends on the market easy come easy go). A hedge fund manager is someone who just gambles with other people's money. Labor is true value, currency is only valuable if one will work (labor ) for it.......
🤚🏾I’m living proof!
Lordy! The Snitching Cheetahs! Swift with the negativity Information. About the Men they tried to use!
Thanks D’Nieka. I had a ex years back that said “ you ain’t got nothing going for yourself”. Fast forward. Financial stable and she said she wish she would’ve never left me. She didn’t know what I had planned or building. Now she’s a single moms with a serial baby daddy. I wish her the best im not a hater.
That's right no hater but haters aren't getting off the hook
You wouldn't be a hater if you didn't
They only feel like they can do better is with a good man. Pookie and Ray Ray they make excuses for
Factz
😂😂😂 pookie
"Back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot they all on me"
Mike Jones 🔥
The fact that her “truce” was to pay for lunch……..The narcissism.
S/O to the single fathers with the children in the home and the ones that are responsible for theirs as well.
💯✊🏾
I had a woman that I treated very well she left for a pookie and ray ray now she is a single mother when 2 baby daddies and I’m working a one of the big 3 consulting firm making big money she tried to come back I’m like go back to pookie and ray ray
I just be like, would these women want a woman to do that to their son, brother, cousin, etc?
No not at all .
Naa. The only time women can think clearly is when you ask "would you suggest your son do that??"
You were on point with this one.. Some women are always looking for the next best thing, not realizing they're with the best thing for them.
In a word she, FUMBLED !! Showing what she was taught in failure school, all women have to do to succeed is look at what the other failing women are doing and don`t repeat it.
But they DON'T look around them. They're too busy looking at themselves in the mirror and looking at their phones
@@PermanentHigh Perfectly stated !!
This quote is a jewel
I was once one of those guys, willing to get with & try to build something with a single mother but after many lessons learned the hard way, never again!!! And I stand strong on that!!!
Guys DO NOT entertain or reward a single mother; until her’s are grown and gone or require she give her child to its father; When you go against your value, it’s a sign of lack, a poor man’s mindset. And KNOW, YOU ARE NOT a better than her child’s father.
Guys respect your precious time…it’s short too..
I've been through that before with my ex-fiance, she also had child and broke up with me when I was not making it as much as I am now. Now she constantly trying to message me trying to start something up I'm not going BACKWARDS 💯
Wow. She tried to come back yearssssss later. Like WTF. Of course he didn’t want shit to do with her. What did she think. She was just gonna walk back in on his success on the back in? He already knows she’s been ran thru. He doesn’t want left overs.
She must be one of those delusional females who think they are "the prize" and the man will count himself lucky to have them back in his life (coz they are the prize). She was given a dose of reality.
Women like this reinforces the idea that women don’t genuinely care about men who are real and ready to start a family.
😂😂😂” you wasn’t with me shooting in the gym!!””😂😂😂
Speak facts D'Nieka salute to you . Some sisters today do not know the difference between a good man and a bad one, !!! She is now unwanted unloved and lonely. she has no clue.
Man I had so many females try and come back yrs and 4 kids later 🤣🤦🏾♂️✌🏾
It’s awesome being a man, knowing that you will never be loved for who you are, only for what you can do for them.
Hey, I felt the same as you. I decided to only let a woman like D in my life. It took me two years of real work and I finally found her. It is the most awesome relationship I have ever had. You will find yours too. Keep looking my friend. They are rare now but they are out there.
@@robchurch881 thanks for the words of encouragement. I really needed those kind words right now.
@@voiceofreason2743 not a problem my friend. At one time I believed that all women were like the modern woman and even questioned whether or not I was being reasonable in wanting a woman that is like the one I have. When I talked about my dream woman, other women would shame me for wanting a woman like that. Calling those type of women "pick me's", telling me that the only reason I would want one of those is because there is something wrong with me. I know this is how you feel and what you have also heard. Don't listen to it. Don't believe anything the modern woman says. You don't have to settle for misery. My woman meets me at the door every night with smile on her face. She keeps herself in top shape, physically mentally and emotionally.
What about the baby mamas that disrespect and devalue their baby daddies
My story is similar but her daughter was 4 n son was 1, he was 9 n she was 13 when I left our on n off relationships. I felt she was to disrespectful n combative. I told her she didn't believe in me. She moved a dude in a month after I left. Called to tell me she was engaged a yr later. I leveled up in every way. When I started a business we use to talk about together alone. She unblocked me n added me on snap. I just threw my success in her face every chance I got n kept leveling up without her engaged ass
😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭💀💀
That's the way you should have did it partner! Perfect in my cell voice
Bet she was already with the same dude before she moved him in. ✊
All comes back to what we always knew intuitively,women want ready made men.
The damn nerve. So she thought she was gonna be able to go back almost a decade later… WTF. She honestly thought he was gonna take her back. Nahhhhhhh. And she’s not even sorry either. I could see if it was 2 or 3 months later. Nawwwww she just went on with her life. She lived her life and that ish failed. Then she decided to come back around like she was doing him a favor.
You can recognize happiness by the sound it makes when it leaves.
She's sorry that her other option didn't come around and there's no going back because he knows better
That woman in the story is her own worst enemy.
Oh damn. I missed the engagement part. She was engaged to dude. So she walked away from a man that wanted to marry her and then tried to go back after she got ran thru and her plans fell thru. Damn. I can’t really believe she thought she was gonna be able to go back to a man she left who wanted to marry her? Of course he’s hurt. Bad. He don’t won’t shit else to do with her. That would be all men.
Lol here’s the problem. Women outnumber men. If you got a good man theirs other single women waiting for you to screw up. The sooner women figure this out and stop trying to devalue the men that they already have the better off they will be.
I remember like three years ago i tried to get with this women and she told me her plan was to be a ho all year and she succeeded by having a baby by a guy that didn’t do anything for her. Then, she had the nerve to tell me don’t miss out on a good thing afterwards 😂. Some of your sisters be tripping 😂
If she ghosted you, thank her...because now you get back to your hustle. I appreciate any woman who does that to me. The games women play to get me to "chase" is laughable.
Sad truth is any woman can take a homeless man who has a purpose, and love him up where he builds an empire. Women have that ability but choose not to use it.
Women DON’T have that ability. That’s where men mess up in believing that they do (something which women actively encourage men to believe). The only one capable of building an empire is men…with or without women. Women will make bets that a present bum will become a future mogul, but they prefer to simply give themselves over to a readymade mogul.
@@Kanfachan Mark Walberg was running the streets when he met his now wife. He had nothing. She believed in him, housed him, and financed him. These women ARE the 2%. It is possible, and they all have that ability to cater to a mans ego. I believe plain Jane women will be making a come back getting high value men. Factory made up women are only making the Jane's look mighty fine.
Factz. They habitually abuse their natural power to enhance and magnify the potential of a Man and in turn try to minimize and nullify a Man's natural calling to be the ruler over all he should survey. All out of fear and insecurities that if she would use her powers for good and assist that man in ascending, that man will abandon her. It is actually the contrary. It is prerequisite that a woman wants to see me shine, accomplish and achieve. That's the entry level admittance requirement for Men of purpose and destiny.
That's Cold 🥶
So true & any woman that ever ghosted me i,ll never want to see her again so cut her off.
FACTS!! She’s to embarrassed to even apologize or even hear my name.
I came across a female with 2 kids she told me she don't date men with kids I told her that makes no since I can see if I say I don't date females with kids because I don't have any yet but you say something like that you have no room to talk if I say I don't date females with kids and I have kids females will look at me crazy tell me I make no since.
just because he appears to be the horse out in front don't mean he going to win the race.
This reminds me of a time I dated a single mother and she told me I was too nice and it annoyed her… All I did was take her out a few times and treat her like a lady 😂 then she hmu a year later trying to get back with me. hell no!!
Anyways I’m really loving your videos. 💯
She was used too her children dad point blank
This is much needed and comforting for me because many of us Men deal with this shit. It's blessings in disguise that we dodge these bullets, but it still can hurt immensely. Providence does look out for us though. Thank-you so very much for covering this, Madam, and speaking out on the Struggles that many Men go through. 🙏🙏🙏
@Team Light HIGHER LEVEL Shii! Right on, Brother. Right on!
Dealt with a woman like her. Had to cut her off because she looked down at me because I am rebuilding after an unplanned divorce that I didn't initiate. Had the nerve to open her mouth and insulted me & disrespected me. Had to put her in her place and cut her off.
Then start talking to someone else & she called me yesterday & told me she pregnant by an ex.
I am just going to focus on getting my bag up & be on my square. These women are on some BS. However, I Am also taking full responsibility for the fact that I keep picking these type of women. Time To Do Therapy and Get On My Square. Not Going To Lie That These Situations Really Hurt and Messes With Your Confidence As A Man. Specifically The Last Woman Because I Am In Love With Her & I realize that she didn't take me serious at all.
Damn My Life Is A Mess Up Drama 🎥!
Eugene Steele was correct, these women lack patience, they also lack discipline, and knowledge of what delayed gratification is. This makes them a liability. She will drag you down and point the finger at you. I have never gotten to the point that I could actually entertain setting a goal with a woman. So the likely hood I will achieve one with a woman is low. This lowers my motivation to date. I have to much work ahead of me to allow myself to be distracted in this fashion. I wouldn't be able to point the finger back at her. Why? I know better already. That's why.
It's More than taking in a kid and her he was willing to marry her.
AMEN TO THE PART WHERE U SAID “WOMEN LIKE THAT ADD TO US MEN DISTRUSTING WOMEN THAT MOVE ON THAT TIME I CAN CONFESS TO THAT
IM 58 years old father grandfather and a retired business owner out of Napa trust me when I say keep up the good work everything u said is so true I started at the bottom and worked to the top Vegas and retired but no woman because of just what u said no one wanted me what I was at the bottom but they dam sure want me now lol lol sorry should have stuck with me an worked with me
Real talk. A lot of people think construction workers are dusty. Yeah on the job...low-key plumbers, Electricians, welders, pipe fitters, and HVAC make more the $60/hr. More if you have your own business and depending on where you live. Damn right she fumbled the bag.
Back at it with the facts. Respect to the sister for the honesty
I came back from overeas in the USAF and within a week of dealing with these shiny object chasing Barracudas I wrote off all Western & American women. When you have finally been treated like a human, you cant go back, because you have been shown you are as worthy of common as you know you are. These heifahs dont want ride with you they want to ride on you while looking another bigger better deal. So f...... predictable.
I'm in the Air Force too and I KNOW exactly what ur talking about. You cannot UNSEE it
I have a wife with three boys and I love all of them. But she's not understanding that I am tired of always being corrected when all I'm is expressing myself on how I feel. So I tried to explain that she don't know how the hell I'm feeling at that time.
put your foot down. She is in no position to tell you what to think or feel.
Every woman tries to do that.
Go check out Casey Zander please. Content creator. I found him when it was too late for me. Don't repeat my mistake
They don’t care about feelings unless it’s theirs homie OR THEIR GIRLFRIENDS
I can't believe how real this is. Salute to her and her team/family. I'll keep you all in mind on the come up.
As soon they have a child they start with this he ain't stttt
Treat her like Beyonce and say her name so the rest of us now to stay the hell away from her!
When she ended the relationship, it turned out to be a blessing for him and not for her the hypergamist.
Her deceit was his fertilizer - for my wife and her daughter thanks for making me the man I am TODAY - I AIN'T MAD AT YOU
A lot of women don't understand that high quality Men, most of the time already have a high quality Woman. We just look for low quality women to stfu and play their role as the side piece. We'll never commit to those types of women because of the positions we hold in our professions. Once you've had Steak and Lobster, it's hard to go back to beans and bologna everyday.
Truth hurts I'm sitting here listening to your video next to my girl with two kids that ain't mine and she like shut up bit** and ran out the room that's why I'm going to leave her ass . Come on Now she told me why don't I get my own place but we still stay together that's after I have giving her an engagement ring and we're supposed to be getting married she will see grass ain't greener on the other side!
🤨🤨 Take the rp and run bro
Tf you trying to play save a…for anyway when it’s plenty of women out here without kids🤷🏾♂️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Get that ring back and tell her and the bastards to kick rocks
RUNN NINJA RUUUUUUN ASAP N TAKE BACK THAT RING
Been watching these videos old and new since beginning on the year. This is solid game shes giving. Guys staying on our purpose is the best thing to do.
A great example of a 'Gold-Digging' woman! If they show you how they are ...please believe it! In most cases, what you do or think over here ...keep watching ...they will think it and do it over there!
That’s me don’t want married life or relationship life no more. Period. I love to love and be loved but being loved is just not happening no more for me I’ve been noticed years ago 🤷🏾♂️💯
Bishop Jakes said, God, forbid that anything happens to Lady Jakes, for me to try to move on, I wouldn't know the true intention of the next woman that approaches me. He said Lady Jakes was right there holding my hand back in the day when we stood in the window watching the repo man drag our only car down the street!!!
We broke up half a year ago she move on and I’m trying to keep it strong and leave it be. To came to find out she’s a single mother with two kids. And on top of that, she’s fooling around with someone else one of the assistant manager and came to find out, she’s six months pregnant. She broke my soul, my promises, and she broke my heart. I was over with it. Now, she has two baby daddies and three kids. It’s too late for me to go back with her. She leave me and played herself and embarrassed herself. It is what it is. I deserve better because I’m a king
I find it funny how for alot of women, it never crosses their mind that THEY, are the ones being settled on.
She is among growing company. The wall wont move, and its fast approaching
Thank you D for mentioning the trust issues that men develop from bad experiences with women. I used to want a family more than anything in life. Now I’m trying to figure out what to do with my life because having a family is more of a fantasy than anything these days, just not realistic in my view. Keep blessing us with this amazing content! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Not worth it bro. Imo your purpose is more important. These BMT will find away to take your child away. Get your money bless ya ppls."BMT" baby momma terriost
My sentiments exactly!!!
Bro don't give up just stay on your grind and be open to the possibility after vetting, the older you get the broader your dating pool and the more your chances increase to find what you are looking for. As men age our opportunities increase
@Team Light HIGHER LEVEL Shii! the majority of content on the Internet makes it seem like they dont a d I get it, femism makes it worse, but some are out there that aren't with this current foolishness, stay on your grind and continue to be the best you possible. I can't promise anything but I can say the likely hood of attracting like minded people Increase with However you percieve life. I.e. If a girl is a femisnt and saying how all men are bad if your a good man and meet her, will you make your presense known or realistically give her a chance? You know what I mean?
Based on a true story
It sucks loving them and them leaving for a local drug dealer. And they go on the deep end because if you can't reach them in their dispair they can't be held accountable for their actions.
I hope many others learn 'from her deepest" regerette.
Just because we were taught one way when we were growing up, doesn't mean that was the best or healthiest way to handle relationships.
"My Husband Is a Scorpio....GET OVER HERE!!! Whoopsies!" 😂😂😂😂 You are amazing and I LOVE your content. Thank you for helping me through my tough time.
I was ghosted because she must have felt that I wouldn’t help her when I was already doing many things for her, it hurts when a man is doing all that he can from his heart and appreciation isn’t present, only selfishness and want me to dismiss all of her baggage, which I did. I wished her the best finding whatever makes her happy
Redifining ones self is to ruin the lower nature that identify who we truly are as animals that is based on the irrational side of who we are. But the rational side of who you are is your higher self that is stable, selfless, patient, and focussed in all of your undertakings.
This is definitely a cautionary tale for us ladies and maybe some gentlemen too. I definitely read between the lines. It’s better to learn from other’s mistakes than to be out here making and dealing with the horrible consequences! great video D🤍💫
Wise woman
The real womenzzzz I’m crying yoooo.
Wooow, big up to the Aquarius dem!!! Feb 2nd here
Right 💯 I never understand. That’s why it’s hard for me to accept a woman with kids. Not all of them but there are few that are selfish and it’s always about them and never about their child. That’s selfish to me, that’s why the next generation of kids will grow up to be lost and not have no guidance because of selfish women. A man with no kids can accept a woman with kids and gets treated like shit.
“A single mother is not looking for love. She’s looking for help” don’t let that go across your head. They make it hard for the GOOD single mothers out there.
I love the compassion you show for the men in this and all videos. Appreciate you sis!
My name is Anthony and I was going through the same problem so I move on!!!
Yea I hope my X is regretting doing what her old ass did to me now. Because the get back is serious and im about to be up and she ain't coming with me.
My ex gf was CONVINCED she could do better too. Only problem, he was Married with two grown adult children. Yes, Karma bit her in the butt. He promptly 'pumped & dumper her sorry butt. No, I will never take her back. She's tried 7 times
The PROCESS!! There are no shortcuts to a SUCCESSFUL LIFESTYLE!! FR FR
Sometimes, people just get what they deserve.
Took over a decade, but my ex wife started reaching out to me again (after she had several failed relationships since leaving me for "someone better"). The trust broken can never be repaired. The "when will she do that to me again" thought will always be in the back of the mind.
Doesn't help her that I'm remarried with a couple of kids.
"By the time you realize I was right for you, I'll be with the one that already knew."
Great discussion Queen 👑👑👑👑🌟 Truth spoken ✊
WOMEN AND MEN MUST REALIZE THAT MONEY CANT BUY INTANGIBLES LIKE RESPECT,LOVE ,ETC. MONEY SITUATION CAN CHANGE BUT INTANGIBLES DON'T.
I haven't even completed this video yet. I watched today's live first. This right here takes away my motivation to date. This girl would have pulled them both down.
Ramses Seven brought up a great point. However, I got a lot of resentment from Single Moms. They all say I'm stealing their thunder.
I'm teaching my son the difference of our women. Wonder woman, nah woman woman. I laugh when my son says that, but he's right. I don't have to wonder about a woman because she is a reflection of what family is.
The grass is never green on the other side.
Didn't have to take her inn while am building my finances my major leaps!
She needed me & still felt dat she can do better 😐
With kid not mines
I chose my peace after 3 attempts 👌🏾
As a man, I dont have any kids or baby momas for future her to worry about
Never regret, if it's good it's beautiful, if it's bad, it's a experience.
So she can do better but the kid proves she can't. This needs to be addressed. The nigga that got her pregnant was the better. The dude she had that was willing was the better and now she's back to the same type of nigga who got her pregnant lol. I'LL STAY SINGLE FOR LIFE THAN TO EVEN WASTE MY ENERGY.
Divide and conquer is the devil's best weapon. However it's non effective to those that have sight.